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Human: Any advice for writing a horror scene without jumpscares Hi. I'm writing a short film for a local film festival and I have chosen a mystery, thriller theme. I have a "monster" in the scene but is more like a folklore creature in my culture. I plan on showing just the silhouette or a shadow of it. Any advice on how I can make this scene more thrilling?
Assistant: This might not be what you're looking for, but there's this thing that is (in my opinion) full on horror, without any scares, jump or otherwise. It's the game "What Remains of Edith Finch", and I don't think I've seen anything like that anywhere else, regardless of medium.
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Human: Any advice for writing a horror scene without jumpscares Hi. I'm writing a short film for a local film festival and I have chosen a mystery, thriller theme. I have a "monster" in the scene but is more like a folklore creature in my culture. I plan on showing just the silhouette or a shadow of it. Any advice on how I can make this scene more thrilling?
Assistant: You should listen to “on the page podcast” episode 740, “a sense of dread”. Neal Marshall Steven’s is the guest and talks about how to write frightening scenes without jump scares.
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Human: Should I develop a pilot with a management company that doesn't seem to develop pilots? I'm looking for advice on whether I should trust a manager to help me develop and pitch my pilot when they don't seem to represent any clients or projects like mine. I have a relationship with a manager who I met through stand-up comedy, and I've known them for a couple of years. I'm not worried about the legit nature of their company, it's just their client list is full of actors, dancers and athletes. They haven't promised anything special, just that they might be able to help pitch my project to some of the places I'd like it to end up going. The closest thing they have is some reality tv show producer credits, and I don't want to doubt their ability if they are able to. I'm just nervous that for several years we've always been friendly, but I was never quite the right client to represent as a comedian, and now I have this pilot script, proof-of-concept, and stuff, and while they've continued the conversation about helping develop this show, there's really no talk about working "with me." Is this something I should be concerned about, and pursue other avenues, or is it possible this manager really does have at least enough to help me pitch my pilot so it's not being received "unsolicited"? It's a medieval sitcom, about stand-up comedy. Title: Jesters Logline: In a time of plague, war, and two drink minimums, three jesters are dying to get a laugh. I have a small teaser of my POC for reference. https://youtu.be/kvR4CJoecbs I just don't know if I should work with a company whose biggest client is a fisherman. But then again, I'm the new guy, and maybe I'm trying to beg and choose.
Assistant: Perhaps you should just ask the manager what his experience is in scripted development? The majority of projects people work on will never make it to IMDb. There’s a chance he is a baby manager looking to get a scripted department off the ground just like you are a baby writer looking to get a show off the ground. Just ask. And if this is someone who truly has zero experience in scripted, ask what the plan/strategy would be for your project.
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Human: Should I develop a pilot with a management company that doesn't seem to develop pilots? I'm looking for advice on whether I should trust a manager to help me develop and pitch my pilot when they don't seem to represent any clients or projects like mine. I have a relationship with a manager who I met through stand-up comedy, and I've known them for a couple of years. I'm not worried about the legit nature of their company, it's just their client list is full of actors, dancers and athletes. They haven't promised anything special, just that they might be able to help pitch my project to some of the places I'd like it to end up going. The closest thing they have is some reality tv show producer credits, and I don't want to doubt their ability if they are able to. I'm just nervous that for several years we've always been friendly, but I was never quite the right client to represent as a comedian, and now I have this pilot script, proof-of-concept, and stuff, and while they've continued the conversation about helping develop this show, there's really no talk about working "with me." Is this something I should be concerned about, and pursue other avenues, or is it possible this manager really does have at least enough to help me pitch my pilot so it's not being received "unsolicited"? It's a medieval sitcom, about stand-up comedy. Title: Jesters Logline: In a time of plague, war, and two drink minimums, three jesters are dying to get a laugh. I have a small teaser of my POC for reference. https://youtu.be/kvR4CJoecbs I just don't know if I should work with a company whose biggest client is a fisherman. But then again, I'm the new guy, and maybe I'm trying to beg and choose.
Assistant: It sounds like they might a manager in a different industry. It's not impossible that they have connections, but maybe they'd be able to get you in front of a management agency specifically for screenwriters.
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Human: I'm trying to write an 11 minute pilot... but unfortunately I"m close to the 11th page and I'm already within the first few minutes of the episode. What do I do?
Assistant: The rule “one page = one minute of screen time” isn’t always the case. You see this happen a lot with animated movies and TV shows. Try and maybe play out what you have written in your head and time it. If it’s too long, maybe find something to cut or even rethink the 11 minute idea
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Human: I'm trying to write an 11 minute pilot... but unfortunately I"m close to the 11th page and I'm already within the first few minutes of the episode. What do I do?
Assistant: If it's a first draft, there's space to go back and minimize. Look at the scenes you have and decide where you may be overwriting or where you can minimize dialogue or action.
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Human: I want to write animated scripts, but I'm a bad artist - advice? Background: I'm a rising college senior majoring in creative writing who recently (within the past year) decided I wanted to pursue screenwriting. I write scripts of all kinds, but I lean heavily towards children's movies and would ideally love to someday work on the story team for an animation studio! However, therein lies my problem: story development for animated films involves a LOT of storyboarding, and I'm not a great artist. I know you don't have to exactly be a pro artist to storyboard, but the fact remains that I'm a mediocre artist at best and lack the experience and skills that a lot of animation studios are looking for. Where do I start? Specific grad school programs? Drawing classes? Photoshop? Do I just give up and accept that I'll only ever write live-action films? Please help a girl out :) thanks!
Assistant: In the same situation and I’ve found some super helpful info when it comes to this subject! First, here is a podcast with two writers from Cartoon Network who discuss exactly what you asked: https://youtu.be/kP8f9MH1gYk Second, here is an incredibly useful living document they mentioned in the podcast above! https://docs.google.com/document/u/0/d/1DV030qteYcYmOIhn-VlD_N98kXJmMnM3stPVGD9emFI/mobilebasic Best of luck on your journey.
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Human: I want to write animated scripts, but I'm a bad artist - advice? Background: I'm a rising college senior majoring in creative writing who recently (within the past year) decided I wanted to pursue screenwriting. I write scripts of all kinds, but I lean heavily towards children's movies and would ideally love to someday work on the story team for an animation studio! However, therein lies my problem: story development for animated films involves a LOT of storyboarding, and I'm not a great artist. I know you don't have to exactly be a pro artist to storyboard, but the fact remains that I'm a mediocre artist at best and lack the experience and skills that a lot of animation studios are looking for. Where do I start? Specific grad school programs? Drawing classes? Photoshop? Do I just give up and accept that I'll only ever write live-action films? Please help a girl out :) thanks!
Assistant: This is free Storyboarder software. You can make animatics. Just draw stick figures if you want. Or you can turn sketches into 3D and find different camera angles. Record your voice and add dialogue or temp music, etc. https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&url=https://filmora.wondershare.com/video-editing-tips/filmmaking-software.html&ved=2ahUKEwig-4yTpdLvAhWWX80KHVnYB04QFjANegQIDRAC&usg=AOvVaw2p1wlUHCHWtPK6jRzmBAXD
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Human: People who’ve been at this a while - how do you stay consistent and positive? I think I’ve got a pretty good workflow. I try to do 4 hours of writing a day or minimum of 10 pages. With rewrites it leads to 2 - 3 projects a year. I do have a job where I’m a writer as well. But I stay consistent for the most part. What trips me up is being impatient. Wanting things to move faster and get those little validation hits which I realize is so dumb and detrimental to the work. I’m getting better with rejection and am trusting in the process. I do get a little tripped up if I’m hit with a bunch of rejections in one week. So I start to question myself, question my work. I feel like it COULD be good, but it’s still not 100% there yet. Which leads me to question if I have the chops. And yeah, I would say writing has gotten harder because of this. Does anybody know how they take themselves out of funks like this? How do you trust yourself as a writer? How do you quantify growth?
Assistant: 10 pages a day is pretty incredible. My goal is 3 pages/day, with 5 being an amazing day. In terms of optimism, I think it comes from being able to objectively analyze your works. If each script you write is showing progress and improvement then keep forging ahead. However, if your scripts are not improving then that is when some concern should take place. If this is the case, you need to assess which elements are holding you back then take steps to improve them.
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Human: People who’ve been at this a while - how do you stay consistent and positive? I think I’ve got a pretty good workflow. I try to do 4 hours of writing a day or minimum of 10 pages. With rewrites it leads to 2 - 3 projects a year. I do have a job where I’m a writer as well. But I stay consistent for the most part. What trips me up is being impatient. Wanting things to move faster and get those little validation hits which I realize is so dumb and detrimental to the work. I’m getting better with rejection and am trusting in the process. I do get a little tripped up if I’m hit with a bunch of rejections in one week. So I start to question myself, question my work. I feel like it COULD be good, but it’s still not 100% there yet. Which leads me to question if I have the chops. And yeah, I would say writing has gotten harder because of this. Does anybody know how they take themselves out of funks like this? How do you trust yourself as a writer? How do you quantify growth?
Assistant: Embrace it, comes and goes in waves, part of the life
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Human: A story with only one character I've been entertaining the idea of writing a screenplay for a short film about a singular character, with no other people appearing in the film. Obviously it would probably be about some inner conflict the character has, I'm just not sure how I could turn that into a compelling plot for a film. Any general ideas for the way I could pull that off?
Assistant: I’d check out Buried with Ryan Reynolds.
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Human: A story with only one character I've been entertaining the idea of writing a screenplay for a short film about a singular character, with no other people appearing in the film. Obviously it would probably be about some inner conflict the character has, I'm just not sure how I could turn that into a compelling plot for a film. Any general ideas for the way I could pull that off?
Assistant: I'd check out the original script for "Passengers". IMO the script is wayyy better than the movie, and while it does have multiple characters, a huge portion of the beginning follows just one and might give you inspiration.
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Human: Accidentally Uploaded Very Poorly Formatted Script to the Blacklist So I accidentally uploaded the wrong script to the Blacklist -- long story short is I copy/pasted from the PDF version to Final Draft (too long to explain why), and assumed that would be fine/didn't proof read how that affected the formatting. I submitted that script and got two evaluations, both of which had HEAVY (understandably) issues with formatting. This surprised me at first, because I'd never gotten formatting issues as a note on this script before, until I looked at what they were reading and saw the stinking pile of garbage they had to read through. I've since uploaded the properly formatted script, and have two reviews left with the correct formatting, but how will having two low scores (almost entirely, per the notes, due to the formatting issues), affect my script overall?
Assistant: **Pro tip:** Keep a dedicated separate folder for "Submission" copies of your scripts. This way you won't ever make the mistake of uploading/submitting the wrong copy because of brain reasons. Worst case would be you upload an old copy, but it should be publicly presentable at least.
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Human: Accidentally Uploaded Very Poorly Formatted Script to the Blacklist So I accidentally uploaded the wrong script to the Blacklist -- long story short is I copy/pasted from the PDF version to Final Draft (too long to explain why), and assumed that would be fine/didn't proof read how that affected the formatting. I submitted that script and got two evaluations, both of which had HEAVY (understandably) issues with formatting. This surprised me at first, because I'd never gotten formatting issues as a note on this script before, until I looked at what they were reading and saw the stinking pile of garbage they had to read through. I've since uploaded the properly formatted script, and have two reviews left with the correct formatting, but how will having two low scores (almost entirely, per the notes, due to the formatting issues), affect my script overall?
Assistant: There is a Start Fresh button that wipes all your evals but keeps your listing up.
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Human: Production company dilemma I have 2 different offers to develop a comedy show, and need to make call. 1. Well-respected TV studio with a major comedy hit under their belt – BUT they want to change the idea significantly 2. Lesser-known studio, had several films acquired by streamers, no scripted TV track record - BUT really believe in the original idea I've had conversations with some other major players who love the original concept, but can't take it on right now for one reason or another. Would you take Option 1 as a 'safe bet' for potential long-term gain, or gamble on the strength of the original concept with Option 2?
Assistant: Option 2 could easily turn into option 1. In that in order for them to set it up there will need to be significant changes. Go with 1.
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Human: Production company dilemma I have 2 different offers to develop a comedy show, and need to make call. 1. Well-respected TV studio with a major comedy hit under their belt – BUT they want to change the idea significantly 2. Lesser-known studio, had several films acquired by streamers, no scripted TV track record - BUT really believe in the original idea I've had conversations with some other major players who love the original concept, but can't take it on right now for one reason or another. Would you take Option 1 as a 'safe bet' for potential long-term gain, or gamble on the strength of the original concept with Option 2?
Assistant: I would go with option 1.
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Human: writing a hangout movie? one of my favorite sub genres is the so-called “hangout movie”. Films like Shampoo, The Last Detail, Car Wash, Dazed And Confused, Before Sunrise. I have an idea for one but I’m having trouble finding what makes these films work. They’re very light on plot and tend to not have a discernible structure. any tips?
Assistant: Read up on “A Hero’s Journey”
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Human: writing a hangout movie? one of my favorite sub genres is the so-called “hangout movie”. Films like Shampoo, The Last Detail, Car Wash, Dazed And Confused, Before Sunrise. I have an idea for one but I’m having trouble finding what makes these films work. They’re very light on plot and tend to not have a discernible structure. any tips?
Assistant: Emotion inducing dialogue.
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Human: What rights does a producer have who was not contracted to a project he read and gave a few notes on? Long story short, a friend of mine is a screenwriter who has an episodic pitch that he’s hopefully making an option deal on with an established producer. However, he’s become concerned after having a conversation with a no-name manager/producer who read the project and gave a couple of notes. They have no agreement, not implied or written, just purely a couple of conversations, but the manager/producer more or less implied he would have to be involved and compensated on any option that he takes elsewhere on the project. Has anyone dealt with this before? I’m a producer of film and would ethically never do something like that but I frankly have no idea if his position is valid or not. Want to help advise my friend here so curious if anyone has ever had a situation like this arise.
Assistant: They have absolutely zero rights in this. They were not creatively involved except in giving feedback. That is not enough to claim any share of ownership.
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Human: What rights does a producer have who was not contracted to a project he read and gave a few notes on? Long story short, a friend of mine is a screenwriter who has an episodic pitch that he’s hopefully making an option deal on with an established producer. However, he’s become concerned after having a conversation with a no-name manager/producer who read the project and gave a couple of notes. They have no agreement, not implied or written, just purely a couple of conversations, but the manager/producer more or less implied he would have to be involved and compensated on any option that he takes elsewhere on the project. Has anyone dealt with this before? I’m a producer of film and would ethically never do something like that but I frankly have no idea if his position is valid or not. Want to help advise my friend here so curious if anyone has ever had a situation like this arise.
Assistant: None.
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Human: Working/Repped Writers of r/Screenwriting, what would you tell your hungry/out-of-work self relentlessly working to "break-in" a year before you actually did? Assuming you've read all of the books, wrote a couple features/pilots, didn't win the competitions, went to YouTube University, consistently read screenplays, and spend every night in front of a keyboard whacking away at the tear-soaked keyboard contemplating your place (if any) in this rollercoaster of an industry. In other words, "I had the passion, creativity, skills, and drive; I just wish that I \_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_." Write on!
Assistant: Stay hungry, stay humble, and get ready to break in another five times. Eventually, you’ll turn around and realize you’ve got a resume.
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Human: Working/Repped Writers of r/Screenwriting, what would you tell your hungry/out-of-work self relentlessly working to "break-in" a year before you actually did? Assuming you've read all of the books, wrote a couple features/pilots, didn't win the competitions, went to YouTube University, consistently read screenplays, and spend every night in front of a keyboard whacking away at the tear-soaked keyboard contemplating your place (if any) in this rollercoaster of an industry. In other words, "I had the passion, creativity, skills, and drive; I just wish that I \_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_." Write on!
Assistant: I wish that I had listened to Episode 403 of Scriptnotes. It was like a gong went off, and I already had representation.
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Human: Should a British person focus on writing British stuff? As a British person, a lot of the TV I consume and enjoy is American - thinking of series like Dexter, Stranger Things, American Horror Story, and many more. I also tend to enjoy writing stuff that isn't British, for the reason that I find Britishness itself quite limiting when it comes to producing drama (social class will usually have to become involved, the settings are either country manors or worn-down estates, it will either be set in a Northern dump or in the middle of London, etc...) I understand these limitations are a bit self-imposed, but for me British drama is a very narrow outlet, especially for speculative fiction. I want to write about superheroes, high school vampires, zombies, religious cults, serial killers etc. and I feel a lot of these ideas would be ruined by being \*obviously\* British. I want to write about Alaskan wildernesses and small towns, not milkmen and corner shops. But I am also aware that writing scripts set in the USA can be very limiting in terms of my chances of success. Secondly, there are little nuances of American culture that I will almost definitely get wrong. So, what would your advice be regarding this? Should I write what I know and fight through the culture that I dislike, or is it foolhardy to write for another country's media?
Assistant: If you can’t think of anything interesting about life in the country you’re born then you probably shouldn’t be a writer.
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Human: Should a British person focus on writing British stuff? As a British person, a lot of the TV I consume and enjoy is American - thinking of series like Dexter, Stranger Things, American Horror Story, and many more. I also tend to enjoy writing stuff that isn't British, for the reason that I find Britishness itself quite limiting when it comes to producing drama (social class will usually have to become involved, the settings are either country manors or worn-down estates, it will either be set in a Northern dump or in the middle of London, etc...) I understand these limitations are a bit self-imposed, but for me British drama is a very narrow outlet, especially for speculative fiction. I want to write about superheroes, high school vampires, zombies, religious cults, serial killers etc. and I feel a lot of these ideas would be ruined by being \*obviously\* British. I want to write about Alaskan wildernesses and small towns, not milkmen and corner shops. But I am also aware that writing scripts set in the USA can be very limiting in terms of my chances of success. Secondly, there are little nuances of American culture that I will almost definitely get wrong. So, what would your advice be regarding this? Should I write what I know and fight through the culture that I dislike, or is it foolhardy to write for another country's media?
Assistant: I would say try a fusion. Invent the perfect hybrid world. Why do superheros, high school zombies and cults need to be confined to America? Attack The Block is massively improved because its specificity to British culture. Even British drama can be upended, go Ken Russell on it, burn down the aspects of the genre that bother you.
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Human: Script where the hero turns out to be "guilty" - can't be done? Hi all! One of the story ideas I'm playing around resolves around a person - our hero - suspected of a terrible crime, and he sets out to prove his innocence, and by the end of the movie it would turn out that he is indeed guilty (and what we generally call "insane"). But that at least 50% - 75% of the time the reader would have not yet come to that conclusion but would be following the hero along for the (ever increasingly confusing) ride. Trying to avoid Unreliable Narrator, but yeah there might be also some of that. I would assume I would mstly do this through a lot of lying, and limiting the story to the hero's perspective - not showing how the investigations are going. Anyone ever try write something like this? Experiences as to what kind of troubles you have run into? Or know of scripts/movies that have already pulled this off? Or strong opinions as to why this is a bad idea that shouldn't even be attempted?
Assistant: As mentioned all over the comments, it's been done to death. Charlie Kaufman's "Adaptation" even made fun of the trope and general hack concept.
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Human: Script where the hero turns out to be "guilty" - can't be done? Hi all! One of the story ideas I'm playing around resolves around a person - our hero - suspected of a terrible crime, and he sets out to prove his innocence, and by the end of the movie it would turn out that he is indeed guilty (and what we generally call "insane"). But that at least 50% - 75% of the time the reader would have not yet come to that conclusion but would be following the hero along for the (ever increasingly confusing) ride. Trying to avoid Unreliable Narrator, but yeah there might be also some of that. I would assume I would mstly do this through a lot of lying, and limiting the story to the hero's perspective - not showing how the investigations are going. Anyone ever try write something like this? Experiences as to what kind of troubles you have run into? Or know of scripts/movies that have already pulled this off? Or strong opinions as to why this is a bad idea that shouldn't even be attempted?
Assistant: No Way Out, Shutter Island, Memento, probably many others.
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Human: Learning to sew my own clothes Hi all, I started sewing classes right before the pandemic and now I have a baby and am self-isolating as much as possible. Are there any good online resources, free or otherwise, to help me become skilled at sewing my own clothes? I would appreciate recommendations thanks!
Assistant: I loved the videos here. https://sewoverit.com/start-sewing-with-us/ Really high quality and helpful. My clothes turned out sooooo much better after their tutorials. They also have a YouTube channel with sewalongs.
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Human: Learning to sew my own clothes Hi all, I started sewing classes right before the pandemic and now I have a baby and am self-isolating as much as possible. Are there any good online resources, free or otherwise, to help me become skilled at sewing my own clothes? I would appreciate recommendations thanks!
Assistant: A lot of patterns from Love Notions are very beginner-friendly, and they have sew-along tutorials on YouTube. They also have a huge Facebook group to help you with anything you get stuck on.
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Human: I’m new to sewing but not to knitting. When I first began knitting, I ended up buying stuff I never used. So my question is, what are tools and supplies that you ACTUALLY use and recommend to have on hand? What stuff did you think you’d need but never actually use?
Assistant: don't go nuts on presser feet. Most you'll need is straight/zigzag foot, zipper foot and maybe a buttonhole. If you're going to quilt, a 1/4" foot would be good, as would a walking foot, but most others can easily be replaced with a little time and effort on your part.
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Human: I’m new to sewing but not to knitting. When I first began knitting, I ended up buying stuff I never used. So my question is, what are tools and supplies that you ACTUALLY use and recommend to have on hand? What stuff did you think you’d need but never actually use?
Assistant: A good light, a dedicated pair of scissors, a seam ripper or three, and black, white and grey thread.
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Human: how to cut straight? I'm a novice sewer who really wants to learn to sew properly. I'm starting with simple things like cushion covers and handkerchiefs and was wondering if anyone have tips to cut material on a straight line? I have some issues with shaky hands - not bad enough to massively effect my life but enough that there are noticeable issues with shapes I cut out - and it's been one of the barriers to getting deeper into sewing :P Any advice or suggestions for equipment that could be of help would be appreciated 😊
Assistant: Just because I didn't see it stated explicitly: when you cut fabric, the scissors should remain in contact with the cutting surface, sliding along the table top snipping as you go. I only rip fabrics that are medium weight or heavier. Fine or delicate fabrics like silk or rayon you can really distort the fabric terribly ripping it.
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Human: how to cut straight? I'm a novice sewer who really wants to learn to sew properly. I'm starting with simple things like cushion covers and handkerchiefs and was wondering if anyone have tips to cut material on a straight line? I have some issues with shaky hands - not bad enough to massively effect my life but enough that there are noticeable issues with shapes I cut out - and it's been one of the barriers to getting deeper into sewing :P Any advice or suggestions for equipment that could be of help would be appreciated 😊
Assistant: My girlfriend and I rip as many things as we can. For anything we can rip we make a little snip at the edge of the fabric and rip along the grain and it'll be straight. This may mean having to square up your fabric before ripping because fabric can be pulled out of square over time for different reasons. My favorite is going to one of the better fabric stores in town and having them rip our cuts rather than cutting. It's faster and I don't have to worry about sloppy cutting.
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Human: Question for those who own a dress form / mannequin: is it a worthwhile investment? I’m considering buying one, so curious how much people actually use them vs trying garments on for fit. If you have one, what do you mainly use it for (type of project, fitting issue etc)? Thanks in advance!
Assistant: Have you considered sewing one? Bootstrap has a custom pattern where you enter your measurements so it’s very close to your body. If you search this forum you’ll see quite a few examples
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Human: Question for those who own a dress form / mannequin: is it a worthwhile investment? I’m considering buying one, so curious how much people actually use them vs trying garments on for fit. If you have one, what do you mainly use it for (type of project, fitting issue etc)? Thanks in advance!
Assistant: I bought a beautiful 1950's fully adjustable dress form at a swap meet for $40, it matches my body shape, even taking into account my long torso unlike modern mannequins that you can only make 3 measurement adjustments. I love leaving the half finished garment on it so I am inspired to complete it, when I put half finished things away, I forget about them.
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Human: Has anyone had good luck using self made dress form from duct tape?, sewing forms are very expensive and I am not a full time sewer just want to dabble, I am also plus sized and the pattern sizes are nothing like pre-made, so I thought of having a form to work with would help when fitting
Assistant: I made one but haven't used it yet as I'm planning to cut a pattern out of it and sew a proper one from sturdy and tightly weaved cotton canvas.
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Human: Has anyone had good luck using self made dress form from duct tape?, sewing forms are very expensive and I am not a full time sewer just want to dabble, I am also plus sized and the pattern sizes are nothing like pre-made, so I thought of having a form to work with would help when fitting
Assistant: I did one with water activated packing tape (brown paper tape that has adhesive like the lick and stick envelopes) over an old tshirt, and it worked well, because you can pin into it. It’s just really hard to find that kind of tape anymore.
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Human: I'm looking for a good fabric marking pencil. I've had some tayors chalk that barely shows up on cotton. Just bought some marking pencils that don't seem to show up on any fabric! I don't know how i could possibly be messing up drawing a line so i have to assume I'm just buying poor quality marking impliments (from Joanne's). I'm looking for a quality marking pencil/chalk/or otherwise that will work. Preferrably washable but at this point I'll take any suggestions. Do y'all have any preferred types or brands?
Assistant: I use Pilot that disappears with heat.
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Human: I'm looking for a good fabric marking pencil. I've had some tayors chalk that barely shows up on cotton. Just bought some marking pencils that don't seem to show up on any fabric! I don't know how i could possibly be messing up drawing a line so i have to assume I'm just buying poor quality marking impliments (from Joanne's). I'm looking for a quality marking pencil/chalk/or otherwise that will work. Preferrably washable but at this point I'll take any suggestions. Do y'all have any preferred types or brands?
Assistant: I like "Madam Sew Chalk Fabric Marker" that I ordered from Amazon. It's a rolling chalk marker.
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Human: How do you store your patterns I know this has been asked before but its always nice to see what new answers and I'm in desperate need of a new system. I've got a few billion patterns and I rarely use them but can't get rid of them in case I do need them later. So what creative ways are yours put away and how are they organized.
Assistant: I above everything (pieces, envelope, instructions) into gallon size Ziploc bags and write the pattern company/number on the bag. then they get shoved into a plastic storage bin. I also have a stack of digital printed patterns that I've yet to cut out and tape together that's totally sorted and organized..
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Human: How do you store your patterns I know this has been asked before but its always nice to see what new answers and I'm in desperate need of a new system. I've got a few billion patterns and I rarely use them but can't get rid of them in case I do need them later. So what creative ways are yours put away and how are they organized.
Assistant: Right now I have a wine box with all the patterns grouped by type and labeled with post it's (sticking up a few inches). In the future I will be purchasing comic book storage solutions... Edit: pictures of my method and the comic book one
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Human: Are there any tips you wished you had known when you began sewing? I’m a newbie who’d like to learn how to sew, so I was wondering if there was any advice experienced sewers could share that I and others can take note of! Thanks in advance :D
Assistant: Iron everything. You may not want to, or you don't think it matters. Just do it. Every time you sew a seam or hem or apply biases. It makes for exponentially better sewing and finished pieces.
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Human: Are there any tips you wished you had known when you began sewing? I’m a newbie who’d like to learn how to sew, so I was wondering if there was any advice experienced sewers could share that I and others can take note of! Thanks in advance :D
Assistant: I only just found out that you can use carbon copy paper and a poky rolly tool to trace your patterns onto your fabric and it was has improved my efficiency and happiness more than I can express. Frequently check your needle. Change it if it's dull. Don't burn your fabric with your iron. You'll be sad about the fabric and the sticky crap left on the iron.
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Human: Hello sewing friends! Do you listen to music or Podcast while sewing? Hello, Whene I’m sewing or knitting, there is always some music or sportscast. It’s makes me calm, evan if I have to start over and over the project! 😅 Do you listen to music?Can you recommend some? ☺️ Have a nice weekend!
Assistant: Rockabilly and rockin blues! I make my machine dance with me!!!! Chuck Berry takes me to the Promised Land and Phil Alvin Helps Me Dream!!! I have a vintage play list so only my favourites come on. I have had violent thoughts when Anne Murray or Madonna came on the radio so I learned to protect my machine. Some day I will come into the 21st century, but no rush!
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Human: Hello sewing friends! Do you listen to music or Podcast while sewing? Hello, Whene I’m sewing or knitting, there is always some music or sportscast. It’s makes me calm, evan if I have to start over and over the project! 😅 Do you listen to music?Can you recommend some? ☺️ Have a nice weekend!
Assistant: I listen to podcasts (I love the Something was Wrong podcast or The Unofficial Expert( or youtube videos that are informative or storytelling so that I dont have to look up too much! I also loveeee listening to ASMR videos when im doing the quite parts of sewing
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Human: Hey I'm a newbie and just started looking at this new hobby. Want to answer my question? Basically I have been looking up questions on Google about the hobby and found it is not cheaper to make your own clothes but I was wondering if making them yourself makes them last longer. Longer than the stores so that if the answer is yes it might give me motivation. Also if any of you would like to give me tips, advice or anything else you are welcome to comment.
Assistant: Clothes you make yourself will last longer because you generally take more care and finish them well. (Although I've got a skirt that has had a safety pin in the hem for about 12 years. I keep forgetting to fix it.) You can use better quality fabric and trims. You can use unique buttons and embellishments. You won't meet someone wearing the same clothes as yourself. You can fit the garment properly so it looks better on you. You will have the satisfaction of knowing you made it yourself.
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Human: Hey I'm a newbie and just started looking at this new hobby. Want to answer my question? Basically I have been looking up questions on Google about the hobby and found it is not cheaper to make your own clothes but I was wondering if making them yourself makes them last longer. Longer than the stores so that if the answer is yes it might give me motivation. Also if any of you would like to give me tips, advice or anything else you are welcome to comment.
Assistant: Fancier you make it the more money you save. And it'll definitely last longer.
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Human: Serious. Remodeling a 20' x 24' room with 10' ceilings into a sewing room for my wife. Can you please share storage ideas, and must have or often forgotten things? Thank you in advance. My wife has been sewing for 25 years. Has many machines and good ergonomic desk and chairs. Has a body form and things like that. Mostly looking for storage or ideas that require more room. I really want to make this nice for my sweetheart.
Assistant: Peg boards, place to hang current patterns. Rolling cart(s) how sweet of this to do this for your wife.
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Human: Serious. Remodeling a 20' x 24' room with 10' ceilings into a sewing room for my wife. Can you please share storage ideas, and must have or often forgotten things? Thank you in advance. My wife has been sewing for 25 years. Has many machines and good ergonomic desk and chairs. Has a body form and things like that. Mostly looking for storage or ideas that require more room. I really want to make this nice for my sweetheart.
Assistant: Built in drawers/shelves the size for the way she stores her fabric. She may want a small closet in there for mostly finished pieces. Definitely something that can fold out for a larger working surface that can be put away when she’s done.
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Human: HELP Finding a YouTube Channel with Instructions on Sewing I had started watching a YouTube series that was basically a course in sewing. Iirc it had episode titles like something-101 etc. It seemed really comprehensive. I watched many episodes of it. Well, I finally got a machine for Christmas and I went to watch and sew my way through the course and I can't find it anywhere! What I had watched covered different types of seams and stuff like making bias. This is the type of stuff I want to learn but I can't find this channel or any similar videos. Anyone have any suggestions for a series to watch? I don't care about making things I just want to learn about seams and sewing techniques. (What I'm looking for might be considered very dry/boring to other people, I would really like to stay away from anything that starts "hey guys welcome to my channel" hah)
Assistant: Check 'Made to Sew' she has a beginner sewing series
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Human: HELP Finding a YouTube Channel with Instructions on Sewing I had started watching a YouTube series that was basically a course in sewing. Iirc it had episode titles like something-101 etc. It seemed really comprehensive. I watched many episodes of it. Well, I finally got a machine for Christmas and I went to watch and sew my way through the course and I can't find it anywhere! What I had watched covered different types of seams and stuff like making bias. This is the type of stuff I want to learn but I can't find this channel or any similar videos. Anyone have any suggestions for a series to watch? I don't care about making things I just want to learn about seams and sewing techniques. (What I'm looking for might be considered very dry/boring to other people, I would really like to stay away from anything that starts "hey guys welcome to my channel" hah)
Assistant: I really enjoy Evelyn Wood's videos. She has more informational videos about sewing techniques than follow along projects. However, she also has something called 'Vintage Sewing School' which you have to pay to have access to. I think that might be more follow along type projects (I'm not 100% sure as I only watch her free stuff).
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Human: Help! Sewing Machines as Carry On Item? Hi! I've just spent an hour on hold with Air Canada and no closer to an answer so I'm hoping someone here might have one! Has anyone ever tried bringing their sewing machine as a carry on item? I don't want to check it, I'm concerned it will get ruined. It fits the dimension limits and weight restrictions but I'm worried about the whole pointy things angle. Any ideas? Anyone tried this?
Assistant: Yes! Tsa has guidance for sewing machines (just take out the needle!) I moved across the country with my sewing machine in a backpack that i handled very carefully. Depending on the tsa officer they might tag your machine as it goes through the x-ray because they don't know what it is. I had a funny moment where mine got tagged by one tsa person and the next rolled her eyes so hard because she knew it was a sewing machine. https://www.tsa.gov/travel/security-screening/whatcanibring/items/sewing-machine
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Human: Help! Sewing Machines as Carry On Item? Hi! I've just spent an hour on hold with Air Canada and no closer to an answer so I'm hoping someone here might have one! Has anyone ever tried bringing their sewing machine as a carry on item? I don't want to check it, I'm concerned it will get ruined. It fits the dimension limits and weight restrictions but I'm worried about the whole pointy things angle. Any ideas? Anyone tried this?
Assistant: Should be no problem. Don't bring anything sharp into the cabin though. Lots of folks at Pattern Review mention it in discussions so use their search function if you want users' experiences.
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Human: What am I doing wrong? Every time I sew, something goes wrong... For example, today, I had to sew a quarter circle skirt (looks simple, right?). I took my measurements at least three times to make sure I didn't measure wrong (each time got the same result), looked into multiple calculators online (+ doing my own calculation by hand) to get the radius, they were all coherent. I did my mock-up: everything was wrong, starting with it didn't fit me at all (way too big). I trimmed the perimeter of the skirt to finally find something that fit... I had to remove 26 cm in total... Every time I do a circle skirt (which is supposed to be a beginner project), I never get it right (it's always too big). I thought maybe it was my fault, because I tend to look at YouTube videos in English, which isn't my native language... Maybe I didn't understand something correctly. But the videos in my native language explain the process the same way the English ones did. Good thing to know my English is as good as I think it is. But the problem arises in every project, whether they're beginner-friendly or much more complex. There is always something that is cut wrong, something that ends up shorter than its neighbour (which is supposed to be the same length). I know I'm not the best at being attentive (got worse after I got the 2020 Plague... Love working in healthcare), but this is getting out of hand. I tend to avoid sewing for that reason. My first thought when I think about doing a project is that I'm going to mess something up. I see many patterns that look fantastic, I've many project ideas, but even beginner ones, I'm starting to think they're out of my reach. I know it's surely because I'm getting less confident every time with my skills due to the constant little failures in each project. My first instinct is to say "F\*\*k it, just sell your sewing machine and just go watch Netflix, that you can do". But I don't want to. I started sewing because nothing fits me in stores, and I like the process of it, but not how bad it makes me feel with each failure. I know it's part of learning, but I feel those failures don't teach me anything, since I can't figure out what I'm doing wrong. I've done complicated projects before without problem, but more and more, even beginner projects are a daunting task. Did this happened to anyone? How did you get out of it?
Assistant: I have been sewing for decades and still have screwups even on east projects. For me, avoiding them is really about being attentive. As much as I wish that some of it would come on auto-pilot, it doesn't. One common place I goof up is when the fabric has no obvious "wrong" side. If I'm not careful I put a right side to a wrong side, then things don't line up or are the wrong shape. Now I put a small piece of masking tape or safety pin on the right side of each piece.
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Human: What am I doing wrong? Every time I sew, something goes wrong... For example, today, I had to sew a quarter circle skirt (looks simple, right?). I took my measurements at least three times to make sure I didn't measure wrong (each time got the same result), looked into multiple calculators online (+ doing my own calculation by hand) to get the radius, they were all coherent. I did my mock-up: everything was wrong, starting with it didn't fit me at all (way too big). I trimmed the perimeter of the skirt to finally find something that fit... I had to remove 26 cm in total... Every time I do a circle skirt (which is supposed to be a beginner project), I never get it right (it's always too big). I thought maybe it was my fault, because I tend to look at YouTube videos in English, which isn't my native language... Maybe I didn't understand something correctly. But the videos in my native language explain the process the same way the English ones did. Good thing to know my English is as good as I think it is. But the problem arises in every project, whether they're beginner-friendly or much more complex. There is always something that is cut wrong, something that ends up shorter than its neighbour (which is supposed to be the same length). I know I'm not the best at being attentive (got worse after I got the 2020 Plague... Love working in healthcare), but this is getting out of hand. I tend to avoid sewing for that reason. My first thought when I think about doing a project is that I'm going to mess something up. I see many patterns that look fantastic, I've many project ideas, but even beginner ones, I'm starting to think they're out of my reach. I know it's surely because I'm getting less confident every time with my skills due to the constant little failures in each project. My first instinct is to say "F\*\*k it, just sell your sewing machine and just go watch Netflix, that you can do". But I don't want to. I started sewing because nothing fits me in stores, and I like the process of it, but not how bad it makes me feel with each failure. I know it's part of learning, but I feel those failures don't teach me anything, since I can't figure out what I'm doing wrong. I've done complicated projects before without problem, but more and more, even beginner projects are a daunting task. Did this happened to anyone? How did you get out of it?
Assistant: Everyone makes mistakes, even experienced sewers. Don't beat yourself up. Where are you cutting? Do you have a cutting mat or table? Do you use a rotary cutter or scissors? Did you make a pattern and try it on as best you could, then cut it out? Do you mark your seam allowances etc? Take your time, measure again (even whilst pinning the pattern if you need). You'll do it I am sure!
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Human: How can I learn how to sew? I am 23 years old, my only knowledge of sewing was from a class I took in high school. We just learned how to sew pj pants and mittens but I’ve desperately wanted to learn how to sew/make clothes. It does look very difficult to me but I really would like to learn. Would anybody know where or how I could gain more knowledge and become more confident in sewing? I just wanna learn.. I do have a sewing machine for practice as well. Thanks in advance.
Assistant: See if there are any classes in your area. I had a machine but no clue how to use it. The tips you'll learn from the teacher and classmates will be invaluable.
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Human: How can I learn how to sew? I am 23 years old, my only knowledge of sewing was from a class I took in high school. We just learned how to sew pj pants and mittens but I’ve desperately wanted to learn how to sew/make clothes. It does look very difficult to me but I really would like to learn. Would anybody know where or how I could gain more knowledge and become more confident in sewing? I just wanna learn.. I do have a sewing machine for practice as well. Thanks in advance.
Assistant: Sewing is very much a trial and error game. Every project you do will get better
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Human: Gift for someone learning to sew My friend recently began sewing. He got a Brother sewing machine and is starting by learning how to sew his own face mask. His birthday is coming up. What are some good gifts for a novice sewer? Less than $50 would be ideal
Assistant: A good pair of fabric scissors.
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Human: Gift for someone learning to sew My friend recently began sewing. He got a Brother sewing machine and is starting by learning how to sew his own face mask. His birthday is coming up. What are some good gifts for a novice sewer? Less than $50 would be ideal
Assistant: A rotary cutter and mat would be useful! You could also do basic notions like pin and bobbins and marking pencils.
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Human: I'm a woodworker, looking for gift ideas for my sewing friend Title kind of says it all. I work with wood, she works with fabric, and I'd like to make something useful for her I was thinking about some sort of storage box or bobbin holder? Is that something people use? Is there another item that I may not think of because sewing isn't a hobby of mine? I really appreciate any suggestions - thank you!
Assistant: Just to get some ideas flowing, I have a few questions for you to think about. What sort of woodworking do you usually do? How involved of a project are you looking for? There is a big difference between a rough tiny wooden caddy that holds a few pairs of scissors, and a four sided spinning shelf that holds 100 spools of thread. Also, I have seen pictures of a really cute stool, with a button for the seat. Which isn't really a useful sewing thing, but definitely a sewing themed woodworking project.
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Human: I'm a woodworker, looking for gift ideas for my sewing friend Title kind of says it all. I work with wood, she works with fabric, and I'd like to make something useful for her I was thinking about some sort of storage box or bobbin holder? Is that something people use? Is there another item that I may not think of because sewing isn't a hobby of mine? I really appreciate any suggestions - thank you!
Assistant: Iirc, this Youtuber, Evelyn Wood, had a friend make this GLORIOUS wooden, collapsible, vintage-y sewing box with her name inlaid on it. Not sure the exact video where one sees it, but here's her channel: https://www.youtube.com/c/EvelynWoodTV
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Human: What is the best iron for sewing? I’m looking at steam irons, stations, everything. What’s the best?
Assistant: I love my mom’s Rowenta iron. Heats up super quickly and it feels very lightweight despite being pretty large
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Human: What is the best iron for sewing? I’m looking at steam irons, stations, everything. What’s the best?
Assistant: I am having a passionate love affair with my Oliso Pro. Seriously, cannot say enough good about it. Never worry about putting it down. Steams linen with aplomb. Doesn't turn itself off until 30 minutes have passed. Big water tank. Nice front point. I had even invested in an expensive gravity feed iron to help me cope with large lengths of linen. I got rid of it. (Not affiliated, just a fan)
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Human: Looking for a wedding dress, thinking of having someone make it for me? Hi All! I had originally posted about this in the r/DIYweddings and someone suggested i post in here for better advice! I'm having a really hard time finding a dress that is unique enough and in my price range. I know I shouldn't put so much energy on finding the "perfect dress" and that in the long run, it doesn't really matter, but it just seems like I find something wrong in every wedding dress I see. I have found some dresses that I like, but they are just a lot more theatrical/more niche dresses that are not wedding dresses and very colorful. I'm thinking that I could maybe hire a seamstress (tailor? not sure of the specific terminology) to recreate a dress that I find that I like into an actual wedding dress. Does anyone have any experience with having someone make their own dress/any recommendations? any help is appreciated. Some more information: My max budget is around $1000. I believe in paying people for their work and wouldn't want to pay anyone less than their worth so I'm not sure if hiring someone is even feasibly possible. Styles i am particularly interested (for reference because i got a lot of questions about this): I really like dresses with bishop sleeves, tight sweetheart/or deep v- neckline, tulle, beading (i know this is expensive), and lace. I love vintage styles, medieval-inspired, and I'm planning for a fall fairy-garden themed wedding so i really want a very light flowy dress that fits me right, doesn't break the bank, and is also something that i actually like. Thanks for all your help!
Assistant: I’d try and make like a Pintrest board of various looks and elements you like to present to a designer. It sounds like you have a pretty specific look in mind and visuals are super helpful.
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Human: Looking for a wedding dress, thinking of having someone make it for me? Hi All! I had originally posted about this in the r/DIYweddings and someone suggested i post in here for better advice! I'm having a really hard time finding a dress that is unique enough and in my price range. I know I shouldn't put so much energy on finding the "perfect dress" and that in the long run, it doesn't really matter, but it just seems like I find something wrong in every wedding dress I see. I have found some dresses that I like, but they are just a lot more theatrical/more niche dresses that are not wedding dresses and very colorful. I'm thinking that I could maybe hire a seamstress (tailor? not sure of the specific terminology) to recreate a dress that I find that I like into an actual wedding dress. Does anyone have any experience with having someone make their own dress/any recommendations? any help is appreciated. Some more information: My max budget is around $1000. I believe in paying people for their work and wouldn't want to pay anyone less than their worth so I'm not sure if hiring someone is even feasibly possible. Styles i am particularly interested (for reference because i got a lot of questions about this): I really like dresses with bishop sleeves, tight sweetheart/or deep v- neckline, tulle, beading (i know this is expensive), and lace. I love vintage styles, medieval-inspired, and I'm planning for a fall fairy-garden themed wedding so i really want a very light flowy dress that fits me right, doesn't break the bank, and is also something that i actually like. Thanks for all your help!
Assistant: Try looking at designers that are local to you on Facebook or google or something. Then you can get immersed in the design process and add that to your memories :) congrats!!!
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Human: Where to find a dress form in an unusual size Hi! I want to start draping to make patterns but I have been unable to find a dress form that is anywhere close to my body size/shape. I am a really small person and I’m a post top surgery trans man so my body shape is a little different from the standard proportions that dress model manufacturers seem to use. I need q dress form that’s around 30”-25”29” with (more or less) adult male proportions. The closest thing I’ve been able to find is a child sized one and the measurements are close enough but the torso is way too short and doesn’t really look like my body shape. Does the thing I am looking for exist anywhere or will I have to try and make one myself?
Assistant: You might be able to make one yourself with the Bootstrap Fashion DIY Dress form. I haven't seen any reviews for the men's version but you can find lots of video reviews of construction. https://patterns.bootstrapfashion.com/diy-dress-form-sewing-pattern/made-to-measure-modern-fit-mens-jacket-sewing-pattern-mens-dress-form.html
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Human: Where to find a dress form in an unusual size Hi! I want to start draping to make patterns but I have been unable to find a dress form that is anywhere close to my body size/shape. I am a really small person and I’m a post top surgery trans man so my body shape is a little different from the standard proportions that dress model manufacturers seem to use. I need q dress form that’s around 30”-25”29” with (more or less) adult male proportions. The closest thing I’ve been able to find is a child sized one and the measurements are close enough but the torso is way too short and doesn’t really look like my body shape. Does the thing I am looking for exist anywhere or will I have to try and make one myself?
Assistant: I had a look around, and I think your best bet would be to either make it yourself (with friends to help) OR buying a custom dress-form from a company like this: https://beatriceforms.com/ A third option might be to buy a thinner (than your size) dress form, and purchase a "padding system" like: https://www.fabulousfit.com/ Congratulations on your post-top surgery! And happy sewing!
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Human: Question: My girlfriend loves Sewing and I need Christmas ideas My girlfriend loves sewing, mostly smaller projects like repairs, sometimes she makes dresses and stuff but not too often. I wanna ask her what kind of things she needs/wants for sewing but I want it to be a surprise and she's a smart cookie so if I ask she'll catch onto me. I know basically nothing about sewing, I know she has a sewing machine and like a separate hand sewing kit. Are there any cool gizmos or gadgets that would make her sewing life easier? Thanks
Assistant: If she is a sewer with basic skills, I suggest sewing lessons to up her game. This was a great gift for me nearly 50 years ago as it connected me with other sewing enthusiasts and really put me on a path to love sewing. I learned everything from what my machine could actually do to altering commercial patterns to drafting new patterns. I turned my hobby into a business when my children were young. All of this success was because my Mom and Dad saw my passion and gave me lessons as a gift when I was 17.
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Human: Question: My girlfriend loves Sewing and I need Christmas ideas My girlfriend loves sewing, mostly smaller projects like repairs, sometimes she makes dresses and stuff but not too often. I wanna ask her what kind of things she needs/wants for sewing but I want it to be a surprise and she's a smart cookie so if I ask she'll catch onto me. I know basically nothing about sewing, I know she has a sewing machine and like a separate hand sewing kit. Are there any cool gizmos or gadgets that would make her sewing life easier? Thanks
Assistant: Why don’t you put together a customized gift basket with things she likes to use, stalk her Amazon wish list if you can, maybe there’s a fabric she’s been eyeing, get her about 4 yards of it
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Human: What is the smallest hand sewing needle possible? I have a size 12 or 10 needle at the moment trying to bead some 11/0 beads onto a garment and the beads keep breaking due to the eye in the needle being too large.
Assistant: There are special needles for beads that are really thin.
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Human: What is the smallest hand sewing needle possible? I have a size 12 or 10 needle at the moment trying to bead some 11/0 beads onto a garment and the beads keep breaking due to the eye in the needle being too large.
Assistant: Idea: snip off the eye and superglue the thread to the cut needle?
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Human: Is it worth investing into a plotter for pattern printing? So our old not-so-trusted printer has bit the dust. I am the only one at home ever printing stuff for leisure, and it's usually to print out sewing patterns in A4 and then spend hours gluing pages together... So I've bee wondering... Would it make sense to invest into a plotter? Can I convert any pdf pattern into whatever file type plotters use to have my patterns printed and cut? Or am I better off just getting a regular printer and stick to my hated pass-time of assembling pages?
Assistant: You can even cut directly onto fabric with a projector. Here’s me cutting out a t shirt front with projector
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Human: Is it worth investing into a plotter for pattern printing? So our old not-so-trusted printer has bit the dust. I am the only one at home ever printing stuff for leisure, and it's usually to print out sewing patterns in A4 and then spend hours gluing pages together... So I've bee wondering... Would it make sense to invest into a plotter? Can I convert any pdf pattern into whatever file type plotters use to have my patterns printed and cut? Or am I better off just getting a regular printer and stick to my hated pass-time of assembling pages?
Assistant: If you are in the US you might want to look at Office Depot or Staples or Costco for poster printing services (and there might be others online). If you can afford the wait for delivery it might ultimately be less of a hassle/expense than owning a large printer.
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Human: Want to Buy Some Shears for My Wife...Advice Please Hello there. My wife is big into sewing. For her birthday I was thinking about buying her a new pair of fabric shears. The fancy knife store that specialized in Japanese knives in my town has a pair of Japanese carbon steel fabric shears that look solid and they rave about (Hidekane No. 501). They cost around $100CDN and I was wondering if that would be money well spent or if there is something better I might look into? Any advice would be much appreciated. Thanks.
Assistant: KAI scissors are my fav. You will find them in independent sewing stores.
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Human: Want to Buy Some Shears for My Wife...Advice Please Hello there. My wife is big into sewing. For her birthday I was thinking about buying her a new pair of fabric shears. The fancy knife store that specialized in Japanese knives in my town has a pair of Japanese carbon steel fabric shears that look solid and they rave about (Hidekane No. 501). They cost around $100CDN and I was wondering if that would be money well spent or if there is something better I might look into? Any advice would be much appreciated. Thanks.
Assistant: It's important that the handles fit your wife's hand. She may prefer a shorter blade or longer, so why not take her along? If you buy without her, make sure they are returnable/exchangeable. My hubby spent $ on a set but unfortunately my hands would not fit, and I have medium hands.
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Human: I am thinking of pinning these tags to my quilts when selling them at craft fairs. I would love your thoughts, opinions, and critique: good or bad. I have been thinking about adding something like this for a long time to my handmade quilts when selling them to people I know and at craft shows. I feel like the types of people who buy quilts aren't the types who also *make* them, so they often don't know what goes into making them and think they are being overcharged. And on the flip-side, when selling to friends/family, I have fallen victim to the unfortunate feeling like they just don't understand what goes into sewing them things and then take them for granted / expect a lower price / never use them. This is my solution to that. http://imgur.com/efBo9vu Thoughts? Do you like the concept? Do you like the design? Do you like the way it's worded? Please don't hold back.
Assistant: You don't need to share how much you spent and your hourly wage with people. "When you buy a handmade quilt you are investing in more than just pretty bedding. You are acquiring a piece of art with many hours of thought and love stitched straight into the seams. I hope you love it as much as I loved making it, Erin"
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Human: I am thinking of pinning these tags to my quilts when selling them at craft fairs. I would love your thoughts, opinions, and critique: good or bad. I have been thinking about adding something like this for a long time to my handmade quilts when selling them to people I know and at craft shows. I feel like the types of people who buy quilts aren't the types who also *make* them, so they often don't know what goes into making them and think they are being overcharged. And on the flip-side, when selling to friends/family, I have fallen victim to the unfortunate feeling like they just don't understand what goes into sewing them things and then take them for granted / expect a lower price / never use them. This is my solution to that. http://imgur.com/efBo9vu Thoughts? Do you like the concept? Do you like the design? Do you like the way it's worded? Please don't hold back.
Assistant: Im not crazy about the formatting/style; it looks like a government form.
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Human: does sewing ever make you feel stupid? I am a relatively new sewist and I sometimes find myself staring at patterns and completely confused. I'll research the pattern on the internet and the reviews will say things like, " such an easy pattern I whipped it up in an afternoon." Meanwhile I'm on day two and scratching my head. I usually do figure it out in the end, but there are times where I feel very dense. I was just curious if anyone else gets this?
Assistant: It makes me feel incredibly stupid and useless sometimes. I have literally come down from my office/craft room near tears after ripping out seams for like 1/2 the time I sewed lamenting to my husband how bad I feel for not being better already. It just takes practice.
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Human: does sewing ever make you feel stupid? I am a relatively new sewist and I sometimes find myself staring at patterns and completely confused. I'll research the pattern on the internet and the reviews will say things like, " such an easy pattern I whipped it up in an afternoon." Meanwhile I'm on day two and scratching my head. I usually do figure it out in the end, but there are times where I feel very dense. I was just curious if anyone else gets this?
Assistant: Every single pattern makes me feel like the stupidest person on earth. I’m not! I just have a very bad visual imagination. I have to remind myself that if I just follow the written steps, it’ll be fine. And mostly it is. But each project brings the pit of doom in my stomach. I have the same thing with knitting, and I’ve been knitting a lot longer. Sometimes I just have to trust the pattern will work.
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Human: Is there a website or program where I can input my measurements & it'll spit out a draft silhouette? Hope my title makes sense, characters were limited. Basically, I'm sick of every single fashion plate or fashion sketch looking like the pattern's intended wearer should be eight feet tall and with legs like that are six times the length of the torso. I'm sure there are some people out there with these body proportions but that is absolutely not me. Gorgeous long flowy skirts and dresses that look ethereal and sensual on a fashion concept sketch just make me look like Mrs Potatohead wreathed in tulle. Is there a website or program where I could input my body measurements - height, bust/waist/hips etc - and get an approximation of what that looks like as a sketch or silhouette? Then I could sketch my ideas over the sketch. This would be really helpful to visualise what a pattern might look like on my body, and I could print out or save the image so that I could use it over and over again instead of having to sketch it out each time. I've heard of bodyvisualiser.net but that creates a 3D model... I more mean like creating a flat 2D sketch, sort of like this except maybe without so much detail. Just to give a rough idea.
Assistant: Wear black tights and a tight black t-shirt. Stand in front of a white wall or door. Take (or have someone else take) photos from the front and the side. Print out the photos, put a sheet of plain paper over the top and trace the outline of your body. Take a photo of your tracing and you have your own personal outline.
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Human: Is there a website or program where I can input my measurements & it'll spit out a draft silhouette? Hope my title makes sense, characters were limited. Basically, I'm sick of every single fashion plate or fashion sketch looking like the pattern's intended wearer should be eight feet tall and with legs like that are six times the length of the torso. I'm sure there are some people out there with these body proportions but that is absolutely not me. Gorgeous long flowy skirts and dresses that look ethereal and sensual on a fashion concept sketch just make me look like Mrs Potatohead wreathed in tulle. Is there a website or program where I could input my body measurements - height, bust/waist/hips etc - and get an approximation of what that looks like as a sketch or silhouette? Then I could sketch my ideas over the sketch. This would be really helpful to visualise what a pattern might look like on my body, and I could print out or save the image so that I could use it over and over again instead of having to sketch it out each time. I've heard of bodyvisualiser.net but that creates a 3D model... I more mean like creating a flat 2D sketch, sort of like this except maybe without so much detail. Just to give a rough idea.
Assistant: There is https://www.sewist.com/editor/mix who can generate a pattern with your measurement, if that helps
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Human: Best way to take in leggings for a tall skinny 10 year old? My ten year old is one of those leggy, skinny types. She loves to wear skirts (probably because pants don't fit right), so we're good there, but leggings are a constant issue. Currently I'm buying her size 14 leggings for the length, but width wise she could still be wearing a 7/8. Since they're mostly under dresses and skirts, I've just been doing a quick ugly fix and taking in the waistband on each side seam. It doesn't bother her and they do fit when I'm done, but if she decides to wear the leggings alone (or ever wants to wear pants) then they're all bunchy on the sides and just look goofy. For her pajama pants I usually cut slits and add a drawstring, but that's also not great for regular wear. Is there a better way to go about this?
Assistant: If you take them in along the waist band and sew from the waist all the way to the hem, then trim off the excess fabric, you won't have any bunching left. Using a serger would really help too because it cleanly finishes a stretch seam and the elastic But I'm also on board with the suggestion to just make them yourself. Your daughter will feel special being able to pick out her own fabrics rather than feeling bad about herself for not fitting into ready-to-wear sizes
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Human: Best way to take in leggings for a tall skinny 10 year old? My ten year old is one of those leggy, skinny types. She loves to wear skirts (probably because pants don't fit right), so we're good there, but leggings are a constant issue. Currently I'm buying her size 14 leggings for the length, but width wise she could still be wearing a 7/8. Since they're mostly under dresses and skirts, I've just been doing a quick ugly fix and taking in the waistband on each side seam. It doesn't bother her and they do fit when I'm done, but if she decides to wear the leggings alone (or ever wants to wear pants) then they're all bunchy on the sides and just look goofy. For her pajama pants I usually cut slits and add a drawstring, but that's also not great for regular wear. Is there a better way to go about this?
Assistant: Everyone in my family goes through a leggy phase. Buy 2 pairs of pants. Cut one into shorts and use that fabric to extend the pants. Sometimes I cut the pants at the knee, add the length, then add the original ankle. This is great for lengthening pants that have a hole in the knee but are otherwise in good shape (and you need pants more than you need shorts)
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Human: Any books you'd recommend to a beginner? I am quite the newbie when it comes to sewing, I use a singer heavy duty machine(but as far as most say it's nowhere close to genuine heavy duty machines). Does anyone here have a manual/guide in mind that would help me understand the importance of fabric stretch, what kind of stitches are good for certain fabrics, which fabrics are good for certain garments, the difference between working with light/med/heavyweight fabrics and the use of certain types of thread etc.) \[this is a crosspost from r/Fabrics btw\]
Assistant: I'd recommend the Tilly and the Button books - they are pattern books and teach technique but they also have lots of info about fabric, machine settings, etc. The Love at First Stitch covers woven and Stretch! covers... stretch/knit fabrics. I still refer back to them now and then - the Stretch! book is particularly useful for the fabric care and sewing tips.
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Human: Any books you'd recommend to a beginner? I am quite the newbie when it comes to sewing, I use a singer heavy duty machine(but as far as most say it's nowhere close to genuine heavy duty machines). Does anyone here have a manual/guide in mind that would help me understand the importance of fabric stretch, what kind of stitches are good for certain fabrics, which fabrics are good for certain garments, the difference between working with light/med/heavyweight fabrics and the use of certain types of thread etc.) \[this is a crosspost from r/Fabrics btw\]
Assistant: Books to check out (library or look for used or older editions at Abe Books, Thriftbooks.com ) : Claire Shaeffer's Fabric Sewing Guide Fabric Savvy - Sandra Betzina (and more)
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Human: Online sewing classes? I used to sew a lot when I was younger but got frustrated at the lack of patterns for stuff I would actually wear. I've been inspired by the sewists of reddit and instagram and want to get back into it but definitely want to build up some serious skills so I will actually like and wear the items I make. Does anyone have any suggestions (or reviews) of online sewing classes? It looks they're all about the same price (somewhere between 10 and 20/month) so thats not a big deal. I just want to make sure I'm getting the best experience for my money. Thanks y'all!
Assistant: online tutorial/ classes are great. I would suggest if you can take a least 2 classroom classes with a experienced teacher the feed back with someone standing next to you is invaluable and they will be on hand to explain step by step projects.. good luck
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Human: Online sewing classes? I used to sew a lot when I was younger but got frustrated at the lack of patterns for stuff I would actually wear. I've been inspired by the sewists of reddit and instagram and want to get back into it but definitely want to build up some serious skills so I will actually like and wear the items I make. Does anyone have any suggestions (or reviews) of online sewing classes? It looks they're all about the same price (somewhere between 10 and 20/month) so thats not a big deal. I just want to make sure I'm getting the best experience for my money. Thanks y'all!
Assistant: I’d try hunting for beginners sewing on YouTube. You can bypass anything you already know. Then you can concentrate on what you really want to brush up on. Then you can figure out what you really need to pay for.
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Human: Help with wedding dress after tailor did something he wasn't supposed to + questions about sewing some side-poof increasing garments (what're they called now?) and hoop skirts Hello everyone. I just tried on my wedding gown today at the tailors and I was super disappointed. His English is very poor and I guess I didn't understand what he was saying, or he didn't understand what I was saying. I wanted him to add a bustle to my gown. He said it was too heavy, but if he removed \~12" or so at the end, it would be lighter and he could bustle it then. It was my understanding he would pin up the proposed reduction for me to try on and see. This is the dress before alterations. https://preview.redd.it/9y6cr8xtnik11.jpg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&v=enabled&s=c65ee67a1801e4835edc6e4ae98055c1783eb06b So I arrive today, and he removed the 12" or so from the satin later, but not the tulle layer, and pinned those to show it. And the worst part is is that he said it's too heavy to bustle now. I'm so upset. If he couldn't bustle it I would not have wanted him to touch the length at all. It was such a beautiful train. I ended up bawling in the shop for about half an hour trying to make him understand why I was upset. He said he needed to cut the satin off so he would have fabric to reline the interior of the bodice after taking it in. I don't get that at all, if he's taking it in, why would he need extra fabric? https://preview.redd.it/svnq71wvnik11.jpg?width=2268&format=pjpg&auto=webp&v=enabled&s=aa40b8765e3dba6f54912a106419bffea26070c7 Anyhow, I think it looks stupid tghat the tulle layers (7 of them!) have no satin underneath them. So I feel like I am forced to have the tulle shortened now too. Do you guys think he could re-add some satin fabric to recreate the area he cut off? Would the seam be very visible through the 7 layers of tulle? Also, I am wearing a hoop skirt in these photos. I was hoping there might a way to sew a tube of stuffed fabric that I would tie around my waist right where the corset transitions to the hoop skirt, and I think historically this is something that was done but can't recall what they're called. I would like for the poof to start as illustrated below in this other dress I tried on. https://preview.redd.it/3se6pip5oik11.jpg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&v=enabled&s=cf30cf315f41af51fe8578c3979054373ca12bbc https://preview.redd.it/9m3i7s38oik11.jpg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&v=enabled&s=9044126c9eb77c7586de223cad2ab300ca00b3dd Also is there a way to sew in a way to increase the butt poof? Thank you all for your time. My wedding is in 2 weeks and I am pretty distraught, hoping for some last minute guidance. I hope this is an okay subreddit. If not please let me know - thank you!
Assistant: Iam sorry dear. The tailor should be ashamed. Who does sth like that?! But- it’s not too tight, it’s not full of tomato sauce, it’s not pink. You shouldn’t cut the tulle! You wanted it like that and the length is awesome. Someone ELSE has to reattach a piece of satin again. The seam won’t be visible, I promise. There is always sth that goes wrong regarding a wedding. That was your bump. The rest will be perfect.
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Human: Help with wedding dress after tailor did something he wasn't supposed to + questions about sewing some side-poof increasing garments (what're they called now?) and hoop skirts Hello everyone. I just tried on my wedding gown today at the tailors and I was super disappointed. His English is very poor and I guess I didn't understand what he was saying, or he didn't understand what I was saying. I wanted him to add a bustle to my gown. He said it was too heavy, but if he removed \~12" or so at the end, it would be lighter and he could bustle it then. It was my understanding he would pin up the proposed reduction for me to try on and see. This is the dress before alterations. https://preview.redd.it/9y6cr8xtnik11.jpg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&v=enabled&s=c65ee67a1801e4835edc6e4ae98055c1783eb06b So I arrive today, and he removed the 12" or so from the satin later, but not the tulle layer, and pinned those to show it. And the worst part is is that he said it's too heavy to bustle now. I'm so upset. If he couldn't bustle it I would not have wanted him to touch the length at all. It was such a beautiful train. I ended up bawling in the shop for about half an hour trying to make him understand why I was upset. He said he needed to cut the satin off so he would have fabric to reline the interior of the bodice after taking it in. I don't get that at all, if he's taking it in, why would he need extra fabric? https://preview.redd.it/svnq71wvnik11.jpg?width=2268&format=pjpg&auto=webp&v=enabled&s=aa40b8765e3dba6f54912a106419bffea26070c7 Anyhow, I think it looks stupid tghat the tulle layers (7 of them!) have no satin underneath them. So I feel like I am forced to have the tulle shortened now too. Do you guys think he could re-add some satin fabric to recreate the area he cut off? Would the seam be very visible through the 7 layers of tulle? Also, I am wearing a hoop skirt in these photos. I was hoping there might a way to sew a tube of stuffed fabric that I would tie around my waist right where the corset transitions to the hoop skirt, and I think historically this is something that was done but can't recall what they're called. I would like for the poof to start as illustrated below in this other dress I tried on. https://preview.redd.it/3se6pip5oik11.jpg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&v=enabled&s=cf30cf315f41af51fe8578c3979054373ca12bbc https://preview.redd.it/9m3i7s38oik11.jpg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&v=enabled&s=9044126c9eb77c7586de223cad2ab300ca00b3dd Also is there a way to sew in a way to increase the butt poof? Thank you all for your time. My wedding is in 2 weeks and I am pretty distraught, hoping for some last minute guidance. I hope this is an okay subreddit. If not please let me know - thank you!
Assistant: Omg I'm SO sorry that happened to you. I absolutely think the satin can be sewed back and not be incredibly visible. That's a lot of tulle. It should be opaque enough to disguise the satin patchwork if it's well sewn and pressed very well. Another option is to add the satin back to that layer AND add a new layer of satin at the that length over the fixed layer and under the tulle. That way it's completely covered. However with that option, another layer adds more weight. Everything will workout!🙂
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Human: Would it be possible to shorten the back of a bra? My partner is struggling to find bras, she has a small chest and very large cup size, which is the absolute worst combination for bras because the cup sizing scales with back size. As time has gone on her cup size has slowly increased and now she's a 34KK and can only buy from really specialist sites and they're very expensive, and she finds it very stressful. I'm pretty handy but haven't done sewing since I was younger. Did lots of hand sewing with my grandmother but never used a machine, but I'm always happy to learn a new skill. I was wondering if it would be possible to get a bra with a larger back and shorten the strap by cutting it and re-attaching it? Would I need a machine or would it be reasonable to so hand-stitching?
Assistant: Yeah I think it would to a certain degree but remember as you size down on back you size up on cup size. For example a 32C and a 34B are similar but a 32C would catch more breast tissue in the armpit for those with a smaller back so would be technically a better fit. So just have some caution about the cup size when buying a bra to alter, likely will make your job finding an appropriate bra easier/more available at least! But I think you'd need your partner present to find the best cup size.
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Human: Would it be possible to shorten the back of a bra? My partner is struggling to find bras, she has a small chest and very large cup size, which is the absolute worst combination for bras because the cup sizing scales with back size. As time has gone on her cup size has slowly increased and now she's a 34KK and can only buy from really specialist sites and they're very expensive, and she finds it very stressful. I'm pretty handy but haven't done sewing since I was younger. Did lots of hand sewing with my grandmother but never used a machine, but I'm always happy to learn a new skill. I was wondering if it would be possible to get a bra with a larger back and shorten the strap by cutting it and re-attaching it? Would I need a machine or would it be reasonable to so hand-stitching?
Assistant: You might want to work toward being able to sew bras. That way you could completely customize size and the cups and straps would be placed properly for her body and band size. A lot of people love the Black Beauty bra for their first try at bra-making.
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Human: Weekly r/Sewing Simple Questions Thread, October 24 - October 30, 2021 This thread is here for any and all simple questions related to sewing! If you want to introduce yourself, get machine trouble-shooting tips, or ask any other basic question, this is the place to do it! Our more experienced users will hang around and answer any questions they can. Resources to check out: * Frequently asked questions * Buying a sewing machine * Where to find sewing patterns * Recommended book list Photos can be shared in this thread by uploading them to a neutral hosting site like Imgur or posting them to your profile feed, then adding the link in a comment. Questions about costuming/cosplay or other Halloween projects can be asked HERE.
Assistant: I bought a used machine a few months back. The store put these annoying stickers with their logos on two spots on the machine. I attempted to take one off and no matter what couldn’t get the sticky layer off all the way. I tried goo gone as well as a damp towel with soap. Any suggestions to get this off? The store has been exceedingly rude to me and my SO so seeing their logo every time I sew is not ideal.
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Human: Weekly r/Sewing Simple Questions Thread, October 24 - October 30, 2021 This thread is here for any and all simple questions related to sewing! If you want to introduce yourself, get machine trouble-shooting tips, or ask any other basic question, this is the place to do it! Our more experienced users will hang around and answer any questions they can. Resources to check out: * Frequently asked questions * Buying a sewing machine * Where to find sewing patterns * Recommended book list Photos can be shared in this thread by uploading them to a neutral hosting site like Imgur or posting them to your profile feed, then adding the link in a comment. Questions about costuming/cosplay or other Halloween projects can be asked HERE.
Assistant: Sewing to get a better fit than off the rack. Store bought pattern resulted in the same fit issues as off the rack items. What should be my next steps? Dress form? Book on garment construction? Feeling a bit discouraged and lacking direction. Edit: off the rack issues vary and are numerous depending on the garment but for this last project (simple dress with sleeves) too tight in the chest, irritation in the arm pits. If I size up, the entire garment is too large and doesn’t fit.
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Human: Weekly r/Sewing Simple Questions Thread - October 04, 2020 This thread is here for any and all simple questions related to sewing! If you want to introduce yourself, ask about what tools to buy, or ask any other basic question, this is the place to do it! Our more experienced users will hang around and answer any questions they can. Sewing machine questions can be asked in our weekly Machine Monday Thread!
Assistant: Any recommendations for YouTube channels or blogs for a mom that want to start making princess dresses (with pockets obviously) for her kid? She’s super in to all things princess but all the Disney stuff is expensive AF and the fabric is cheap and will quickly be destroyed by my active, dirt loving kiddo. I have quilting experience and do a decent amount of mending by hand on existing garments but I’ve never made anything wearable.
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Human: Weekly r/Sewing Simple Questions Thread - October 04, 2020 This thread is here for any and all simple questions related to sewing! If you want to introduce yourself, ask about what tools to buy, or ask any other basic question, this is the place to do it! Our more experienced users will hang around and answer any questions they can. Sewing machine questions can be asked in our weekly Machine Monday Thread!
Assistant: Is anyone familiar with the All Well Cardigan Coat? The instructions don’t tell you how to cut out the neck and I am so confused.
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Human: Weekly r/sewing Simple Questions thread! - October 21, 2018 This thread is here for any and all simple questions related to sewing! If you want to introduce yourself, ask about what tools to buy, or ask any other basic question, this is the place to do it! Our more experienced users will hang around and answer any questions they can. This thread will be set as Suggested Sort - New, so that the most recent questions get attention, too.
Assistant: Where is the best place to find rare fabrics? I’m looking for a realistic night sky fabric where the stars are a thinner fabric than the sky part and any light shining would only shine through the thinner fabric and thus, illuminate it (or make it appear to illuminate anyways.) Planning to create canopy curtains with the best calm-sleep feel, and that is my vision! Please help!
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Human: Weekly r/sewing Simple Questions thread! - October 21, 2018 This thread is here for any and all simple questions related to sewing! If you want to introduce yourself, ask about what tools to buy, or ask any other basic question, this is the place to do it! Our more experienced users will hang around and answer any questions they can. This thread will be set as Suggested Sort - New, so that the most recent questions get attention, too.
Assistant: Hi! I am working on a little sheer shrug and I've never made anything like this before. Does anyone have any suggestions about how to finish the edges? TYIA!! Pic of Shrug
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Human: Weekly r/sewing Simple Questions thread! - June 09, 2019 This thread is here for any and all simple questions related to sewing! If you want to introduce yourself, ask about what tools to buy, or ask any other basic question, this is the place to do it! Our more experienced users will hang around and answer any questions they can. This thread will be set as Suggested Sort - New, so that the most recent questions get attention, too.
Assistant: Hiya /r/sewing! New here, mainly joined just to ask this question. I'm a big guy (aka phat phuck) and I have a tiny dog. I'd like to have several matching outfits made for us, because I'm so edgy! Can't seem to find anyone to make tiny bespoke outfits. Any suggestions on where to look? I'd pretty much just buy a 2nd shirt to what I'm wearing and then just need it cut down and made into a shirt for him.
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Human: Weekly r/sewing Simple Questions thread! - June 09, 2019 This thread is here for any and all simple questions related to sewing! If you want to introduce yourself, ask about what tools to buy, or ask any other basic question, this is the place to do it! Our more experienced users will hang around and answer any questions they can. This thread will be set as Suggested Sort - New, so that the most recent questions get attention, too.
Assistant: I have been practicing (totally self-taught) making lined zipper pouches and pinch purses. I find that when sew them together, trim the edges and push the lining in, the corners are all funky. Sort of like the topstitching is getting caught or preventing the lining from laying flat. Do I just not topstitch all the way to the end to prevent this issue? Or what am I missing?
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Human: Weekly r/sewing Simple Questions thread! - November 3, 2019 This thread is here for any and all simple questions related to sewing! If you want to introduce yourself, ask about what tools to buy, or ask any other basic question, this is the place to do it! Our more experienced users will hang around and answer any questions they can. This thread will be set as Suggested Sort - New, so that the most recent questions get attention, too.
Assistant: how many pins do you put per cm when you're tailoring. i feel like the idea of tailoring is really easy, but i am having such a hard time keeping the shirt symmetrical. Also what setting do you guys use for a zig zag stitch on the bottom of the shirt? Thanks
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Human: Weekly r/sewing Simple Questions thread! - November 3, 2019 This thread is here for any and all simple questions related to sewing! If you want to introduce yourself, ask about what tools to buy, or ask any other basic question, this is the place to do it! Our more experienced users will hang around and answer any questions they can. This thread will be set as Suggested Sort - New, so that the most recent questions get attention, too.
Assistant: I have a vintage sewing machine addiction... now I have a bunch of old machines and some need parts. What are some resources for replacement parts at reasonable prices? Also, a good source for industrial machines and parts would be appreciated I'm mostly looking for bobbin cover plates and things like that, but I need a V-belt and an oil pan gasket for an Singer 251-2 industrial from the 40s. Thanks in advance
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Human: Simple Sewing Questions Thread, August 14 - August 20, 2022 This thread is here for any and all simple questions related to sewing, including sewing machines! If you want to introduce yourself or ask any other basic question about learning to sew, patterns, fabrics, this is the place to do it! Our more experienced users will hang around and answer any questions they can. Resources to check out: * Frequently asked questions * Buying a sewing machine * Where to find sewing patterns * Recommended book list Photos can be shared in this thread by uploading them to a neutral hosting site like Imgur or posting them to your profile feed, then adding the link in a comment.
Assistant: So not a question but I wasn't sure if I was allowed to make a post dedicated to saying that Humble Bundle currently has an e-book bundle that includes several sewing books included in it.
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Human: Simple Sewing Questions Thread, August 14 - August 20, 2022 This thread is here for any and all simple questions related to sewing, including sewing machines! If you want to introduce yourself or ask any other basic question about learning to sew, patterns, fabrics, this is the place to do it! Our more experienced users will hang around and answer any questions they can. Resources to check out: * Frequently asked questions * Buying a sewing machine * Where to find sewing patterns * Recommended book list Photos can be shared in this thread by uploading them to a neutral hosting site like Imgur or posting them to your profile feed, then adding the link in a comment.
Assistant: Would anyone know if there is a pattern like this dress from P.U.G? They’re discontinuing it so it’s not in my size or a colour I’d like, and I’d love it for a wedding coming up!
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Human: Weekly r/sewing Simple Questions thread! - June 17, 2018 This thread is here for any and all simple questions related to sewing! If you want to introduce yourself, ask about what tools to buy, or ask any other basic question, this is the place to do it! Our more experienced users will hang around and answer any questions they can. This thread will be set as Suggested Sort - New, so that the most recent questions get attention, too.
Assistant: Hi. So my weight is fluctuating like crazy lately, which is really frustrating on many levels, but most of all with clothing. I'm looking for some easy patterns for wrap dresses or skirts or any other suggestions, please!
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Human: Weekly r/sewing Simple Questions thread! - June 17, 2018 This thread is here for any and all simple questions related to sewing! If you want to introduce yourself, ask about what tools to buy, or ask any other basic question, this is the place to do it! Our more experienced users will hang around and answer any questions they can. This thread will be set as Suggested Sort - New, so that the most recent questions get attention, too.
Assistant: Newbie here, if I do a sloping shoulder adjustment of 3cm do I need to adjust the sleeve or armscye at all? I know it effectively shortened the armscye length by 6cm but it didn't feel too tight when I tried it on sans-sleeve. So would that just mean I need to do more ease gathering in the sleeve cap before setting it in, or do I need to actually adjust the sleeve cap pattern somehow?
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Human: Weekly r/sewing Simple Questions thread! - April 30, 2017 This thread is here for any and all simple questions related to sewing! If you want to introduce yourself, ask about what tools to buy, or ask any other basic question, this is the place to do it! Our more experienced users will hang around and answer any questions they can. This thread will be set as Suggested Sort - New, so that the most recent questions get attention, too.
Assistant: Seriously, where do all y'all get your awesome garment fabric???
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Human: Weekly r/sewing Simple Questions thread! - April 30, 2017 This thread is here for any and all simple questions related to sewing! If you want to introduce yourself, ask about what tools to buy, or ask any other basic question, this is the place to do it! Our more experienced users will hang around and answer any questions they can. This thread will be set as Suggested Sort - New, so that the most recent questions get attention, too.
Assistant: I can never really find jeans that fit me, I have a wide waist and short legs. Getting the hems raised is expensive, it's always felt like I should be able to do it myself. But when I've mentioned it, I've always heard it takes a special machine/needle to do it. Is this true?
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Human: Need some advice and hard talk about finance situation My company started doing business about 10 months ago. We are now pulling in about 30,000/month and starting next month we will be pulling in 45,000 thanks to a new client. We offer services(not selling products or anything). With all this being said we've never had any financial problems with our company till recently. I was stupid enough to put most of my big clients on a net 45 when I should have been strong and keep it lower or raise prices. I didn't think it was an issue because almost all my clients payed the week I invoiced them until recently. It seems they will all wait till the end of the net payment. A huge majority of our revenue (about $24,000/month) comes from 3 clients. Starting next month 39,000/month will be from only 4 clients. If one or two didn't pay immediately it was ok. But all 3 are not going to pay till the last minute We pay weekly to our employees and it's about 3500/week we pay out. I've never seen our business account dip below 21,000 however we now only have about $7000 left in the account after taxes, employees, and buying a vehicle for the new site that starts next month. What am I doing wrong? I shouldn't be this low and praying that a client or two will make a payment in the next 2 weeks or else we run out of money. I started this company with about $3,000 to my name, no loans or anything like that(probably a mistake)
Assistant: Read “scaling up” by Verne harnish - especially the cashflow levers chapter. There are 7 was in increase your cashflow. Pull the ones that make sense and you should be fine. Good luck!
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Human: Need some advice and hard talk about finance situation My company started doing business about 10 months ago. We are now pulling in about 30,000/month and starting next month we will be pulling in 45,000 thanks to a new client. We offer services(not selling products or anything). With all this being said we've never had any financial problems with our company till recently. I was stupid enough to put most of my big clients on a net 45 when I should have been strong and keep it lower or raise prices. I didn't think it was an issue because almost all my clients payed the week I invoiced them until recently. It seems they will all wait till the end of the net payment. A huge majority of our revenue (about $24,000/month) comes from 3 clients. Starting next month 39,000/month will be from only 4 clients. If one or two didn't pay immediately it was ok. But all 3 are not going to pay till the last minute We pay weekly to our employees and it's about 3500/week we pay out. I've never seen our business account dip below 21,000 however we now only have about $7000 left in the account after taxes, employees, and buying a vehicle for the new site that starts next month. What am I doing wrong? I shouldn't be this low and praying that a client or two will make a payment in the next 2 weeks or else we run out of money. I started this company with about $3,000 to my name, no loans or anything like that(probably a mistake)
Assistant: All new customers need to be net 30. Maybe you can offer an incentive to get the old ones back to net 30
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Human: Small business marketing help I just opened a remote bookkeeping and payroll business. I’m struggling with how/ where to advertise. I have a website, and started a Facebook business page. Several of the groups I joined on fb require me to be on Facebook for over a month before being allowed to post. Please let me know if you have any ideas on how to market effectively or what has worked best for you! Thank you!!
Assistant: If you are in US join local Chamber of Commerce(s) especially if they have leads groups. You should also check into BNI or Leads Club. I'm in three such groups that meet weekly. You have to approach these as if they are a regular weekly sales call. You might also join trade association as a service provider to the members. Referral groups tend to produce the best business. People refer those who they like, know, and trust.
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Human: Small business marketing help I just opened a remote bookkeeping and payroll business. I’m struggling with how/ where to advertise. I have a website, and started a Facebook business page. Several of the groups I joined on fb require me to be on Facebook for over a month before being allowed to post. Please let me know if you have any ideas on how to market effectively or what has worked best for you! Thank you!!
Assistant: I have something for you. Which is an amazing tool that will work as a social media manager for you.
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Human: Customer asking to buy back stock we sold 6 months ago - need some advice We had a customer purchase 10000 units in Fall of 2020. They approached us this week to buy back 3000 ($7500 wholesale) of the pieces which they have in excess inventory and are making overtures that more orders and more business is coming. The original order was a huge rush and we incurred extra labor in order to meet the deadline. The order also depleted our inventory of key items at the time and I'm sure cost us online sales etc. Which at the time we were happy to do - but now it feels a little bit like an empty victory. Here's a few questions..... Do you buy back the inventory? If no - how do we word it? If yes - for full value? a percentage? Do you charge a restock fee? If you decide to refund all or part - do you give them a check? Issue a credit memo? The buyer is a fairly prestigious company - about 150+ employees and 25 million in revenue. We are a much smaller company 4 employees and about 750,000 in revenue. Thanks for your insight.
Assistant: Yes to restocking fee. Yes to vendor credit. DO NOT GIVE THEM CASH. Big business loves to bully small business because they can. Don’t let them
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Human: Customer asking to buy back stock we sold 6 months ago - need some advice We had a customer purchase 10000 units in Fall of 2020. They approached us this week to buy back 3000 ($7500 wholesale) of the pieces which they have in excess inventory and are making overtures that more orders and more business is coming. The original order was a huge rush and we incurred extra labor in order to meet the deadline. The order also depleted our inventory of key items at the time and I'm sure cost us online sales etc. Which at the time we were happy to do - but now it feels a little bit like an empty victory. Here's a few questions..... Do you buy back the inventory? If no - how do we word it? If yes - for full value? a percentage? Do you charge a restock fee? If you decide to refund all or part - do you give them a check? Issue a credit memo? The buyer is a fairly prestigious company - about 150+ employees and 25 million in revenue. We are a much smaller company 4 employees and about 750,000 in revenue. Thanks for your insight.
Assistant: Just my two cents, my company charges a 20% restocking fee. Might wanna apply that.
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Human: Advice from a copywriter: get to the point. Advice from a copywriter: If you're not getting to the point immediately, you lose your customer. People want to know what you're offering IMMEDIATELY. So get as CLEAR as possible about your marketing. Offer the most value, in the shortest way you can. Consider these 2 headlines for an organic coffee brand: 1. Organic, fair trade coffee with award winning flavor. 2. Our coffee is organic, and always fresh. We strive for excellence with every cup, and are Roast Magazine’s Roaster of the Year in 2021. The 1st line addresses exactly what their target customer is coming to them looking for: organic, delicious, and ethically sourced. The 2nd gives too much information that the customer will need to sift through to understand the SAME info that the 1st line gave. EXCEPT, they lost a good chunk of their readers by taking too much time and being too dense. Ask yourself, when was the last time YOU took the time to read a clunky headline, email, product description, etc. People are looking for the most amount of value in the easiest way possible. So if you’re wondering if you need to shorten your copy, the answer is probably yes, my friends.
Assistant: I agree the fifteen second attention span is a problem. But what if the business has no 'point,' doesn't understand what the customer wants, and is basically flailing away trying to get lucky? Seems to me your advice would destroy the content generation industry. Keyboard monkeys gotta eat.
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Human: Advice from a copywriter: get to the point. Advice from a copywriter: If you're not getting to the point immediately, you lose your customer. People want to know what you're offering IMMEDIATELY. So get as CLEAR as possible about your marketing. Offer the most value, in the shortest way you can. Consider these 2 headlines for an organic coffee brand: 1. Organic, fair trade coffee with award winning flavor. 2. Our coffee is organic, and always fresh. We strive for excellence with every cup, and are Roast Magazine’s Roaster of the Year in 2021. The 1st line addresses exactly what their target customer is coming to them looking for: organic, delicious, and ethically sourced. The 2nd gives too much information that the customer will need to sift through to understand the SAME info that the 1st line gave. EXCEPT, they lost a good chunk of their readers by taking too much time and being too dense. Ask yourself, when was the last time YOU took the time to read a clunky headline, email, product description, etc. People are looking for the most amount of value in the easiest way possible. So if you’re wondering if you need to shorten your copy, the answer is probably yes, my friends.
Assistant: Poor punctuation. Poor punctuation everywhere!
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Human: Advice: your employees CANNOT give you 100% every day Workers are human. Workers are people. And people can't give 100% every day. People can give it their best every day, but their best isn't 100% every day. I've been seeing too many posts where a business manager or owner is trying to find ways to punish their employees for their own management mistakes. So when you see a situation where you want to blame an employee for a business goal that isn't being met... Take a couple steps back and reevaluate your management strategy. As an example, you rely on one person to open your store, and they show up 30 minutes before the store opens. There is a list of tasks that should get completed before the store opens, and if they don't get done, it hinders tasks later in the day. Maybe the store is a coffee shop, and new beans need to be loaded into the machines or something. And this task isn't getting done early enough. It's preventing you from selling your premium coffees and fru fru drinks right when the store opens. The first thought is that the one employee you have on the clock 30 minutes before opening isn't doing enough and this task not getting done is their failure. But here's the thing, it's not just their failure. It's your failure too. A failure to plan for failures, is a plan to fail. YOU need to accept responsibility for that. If you think it's a very important thing to sell your fru fru drinks right when the store opens then you're going to need to adjust your plan to match your goals. 1. Review the process. Does opening the store take a long time? How much? Are there any special skills required? 2. Schedule appropriately. Plan leads and lags accordingly. If opening at a set time is critical. Like 7:30am for fru fru drinks, then maybe you should schedule people early enough to ensure you can ALWAYS do that. The less time you give to prep tasks, the more likely you aren't going to be ready in time. 3. Plan fail-safes and alternatives/ improve your bus factor. If one person underperforming or worse, quitting, kills your business, you have a bad business. Double up people on tasks Oh and remember fair labor laws people. I know it depends on the country, but I can't believe how many times I've seen people say "show up 15 minutes early" and expect someone to not get paid for it. If you show up to your work place ready to work, you are working. If you're paying someone ONLY for 8 hours of work and you tell them to show up at 8:45, there is no way they should be working til 5 unless you're paying overtime. There are employees who can be exempt from FLSA... Okay technicalities aside the point is to understand when you ask an employee to do something for work, as a requirement of their work, and they do it... they are working. You want a higher quality business? Pay employees more, hire more employees, or improve your business model. Hopefully, you can do all these things.
Assistant: Great post. To add something, pitch up 30 minutes before your first employee comes in. I saw something on this sub yesterday where someone had an issue with an employee who came in at 8:30, but the owner only came in at 9:00. If you’re going to nitpick as the owner you should come in and 8:00 so you’re ready for your staff when they get in and can help out if there’s some sort of curve ball.
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Human: Advice: your employees CANNOT give you 100% every day Workers are human. Workers are people. And people can't give 100% every day. People can give it their best every day, but their best isn't 100% every day. I've been seeing too many posts where a business manager or owner is trying to find ways to punish their employees for their own management mistakes. So when you see a situation where you want to blame an employee for a business goal that isn't being met... Take a couple steps back and reevaluate your management strategy. As an example, you rely on one person to open your store, and they show up 30 minutes before the store opens. There is a list of tasks that should get completed before the store opens, and if they don't get done, it hinders tasks later in the day. Maybe the store is a coffee shop, and new beans need to be loaded into the machines or something. And this task isn't getting done early enough. It's preventing you from selling your premium coffees and fru fru drinks right when the store opens. The first thought is that the one employee you have on the clock 30 minutes before opening isn't doing enough and this task not getting done is their failure. But here's the thing, it's not just their failure. It's your failure too. A failure to plan for failures, is a plan to fail. YOU need to accept responsibility for that. If you think it's a very important thing to sell your fru fru drinks right when the store opens then you're going to need to adjust your plan to match your goals. 1. Review the process. Does opening the store take a long time? How much? Are there any special skills required? 2. Schedule appropriately. Plan leads and lags accordingly. If opening at a set time is critical. Like 7:30am for fru fru drinks, then maybe you should schedule people early enough to ensure you can ALWAYS do that. The less time you give to prep tasks, the more likely you aren't going to be ready in time. 3. Plan fail-safes and alternatives/ improve your bus factor. If one person underperforming or worse, quitting, kills your business, you have a bad business. Double up people on tasks Oh and remember fair labor laws people. I know it depends on the country, but I can't believe how many times I've seen people say "show up 15 minutes early" and expect someone to not get paid for it. If you show up to your work place ready to work, you are working. If you're paying someone ONLY for 8 hours of work and you tell them to show up at 8:45, there is no way they should be working til 5 unless you're paying overtime. There are employees who can be exempt from FLSA... Okay technicalities aside the point is to understand when you ask an employee to do something for work, as a requirement of their work, and they do it... they are working. You want a higher quality business? Pay employees more, hire more employees, or improve your business model. Hopefully, you can do all these things.
Assistant: What is wrong with some employers?! If you red line an engine for too long what happens? Take care of the people who do work for you who you see more often then friends.
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Human: Bear hug from Coke. Need some advice! Bought a coke machine from a local vending supplier 3 years ago to put in my hardware store. It’s not a huge money maker but I think of it like my piggy bank. Pocket cash when I go on a trip or whatever. Stock it with soda from Sams Club or the grocery store and things have been great. A coke rep popped into the store last week and threatened to confiscate it because it’s property of Coke. He was upset because I was selling several different types of soda not all owned by coke. Here is his solution: He will bring me a Brand new machine with a cc reader and all the bells and whistles. He takes the old one away. Here’s the catch, I don’t get the money from the machine!! I told him get bent. He left with the promise to be back. You guys have any advice? Would love to hear what you guys have to say.
Assistant: We went through this with Coke as well. Bought a reach in fridge from an auction house and sold all kinds of things in it - including coke. Coke came and said we’d have to buy coke from them if we wanted to keep it. I showed then the receipt from my purchase and told them to take it up with the place we bought it from. Never heard from them again after that.
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Human: Bear hug from Coke. Need some advice! Bought a coke machine from a local vending supplier 3 years ago to put in my hardware store. It’s not a huge money maker but I think of it like my piggy bank. Pocket cash when I go on a trip or whatever. Stock it with soda from Sams Club or the grocery store and things have been great. A coke rep popped into the store last week and threatened to confiscate it because it’s property of Coke. He was upset because I was selling several different types of soda not all owned by coke. Here is his solution: He will bring me a Brand new machine with a cc reader and all the bells and whistles. He takes the old one away. Here’s the catch, I don’t get the money from the machine!! I told him get bent. He left with the promise to be back. You guys have any advice? Would love to hear what you guys have to say.
Assistant: Dude is full of shit. Tell him he's not allowed in the store again. If he comes back, call the cops.
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Human: Contract wording help for people that micro manage Is there a way to word in a contract when a client constantly changing their mind about how they want something done? I recently had a client who didn’t give me any insight of how they want a project done and even when I did exactly what they wanted they would change their mind or not tell me until later down the road and I’d have to go back and redo my work. I just wanna keep myself safe from people that try to be micromanage-y
Assistant: Bill them hard for alterations. Maybe 1 revist depending on your industry but nothing makes a crapy client complain less than knowing it will cost them.
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Human: Contract wording help for people that micro manage Is there a way to word in a contract when a client constantly changing their mind about how they want something done? I recently had a client who didn’t give me any insight of how they want a project done and even when I did exactly what they wanted they would change their mind or not tell me until later down the road and I’d have to go back and redo my work. I just wanna keep myself safe from people that try to be micromanage-y
Assistant: I have a whole section that discusses how the details need to be finalized before beginning except for anything unpredictable. Then have an open section that the details are written
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Human: Business blew up overnight, need help with shipping! Hey guys! I started a wood company about 8 months ago where I make specialized wood products for military members. About a week ago, my business started gaining traction, and now I have 20+ orders over $200 each. I also have a big military supplier looking to buy pieces by bulk (which is a lot, especially when you're making each and everything individually). I need help, bad. I wasn't expecting this. I have never shipped one of these products before, and i don't know how much shipping will be. I went to the post office, and took a standard product that i sell to them and got a quote of about $20 (but this was without any packing at all). Can I order custom boxes? Do I tape a box frankenstein style? The average size of my products are about 40" x 11" x 1". I really need all the help and guidance that i can get on this, so any help or comment is much appreciated. Thank you so so much. also, do I just keep telling my customers that I will charge them when i get a quote for shipping? is quickbooks good for sending out an invoice? I need a lot of help, y'all. Like a lot
Assistant: Just to pick one of your questions. The benefit of QuickBooks goes waaay beyond just sending invoices. Done right it will help you track everything on the back end. But it has a learning curve so I would HIGHLY recommend coughing up a bit getting some help with set up and maintenance. Especially with how busy you will be MAKING the orders.
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Human: Business blew up overnight, need help with shipping! Hey guys! I started a wood company about 8 months ago where I make specialized wood products for military members. About a week ago, my business started gaining traction, and now I have 20+ orders over $200 each. I also have a big military supplier looking to buy pieces by bulk (which is a lot, especially when you're making each and everything individually). I need help, bad. I wasn't expecting this. I have never shipped one of these products before, and i don't know how much shipping will be. I went to the post office, and took a standard product that i sell to them and got a quote of about $20 (but this was without any packing at all). Can I order custom boxes? Do I tape a box frankenstein style? The average size of my products are about 40" x 11" x 1". I really need all the help and guidance that i can get on this, so any help or comment is much appreciated. Thank you so so much. also, do I just keep telling my customers that I will charge them when i get a quote for shipping? is quickbooks good for sending out an invoice? I need a lot of help, y'all. Like a lot
Assistant: I use shipstation dot com and it saves me so much money! Great rates!
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Human: Need help picking a small business checking account I want to go with something or someone local, but What should I look for? Any tips?
Assistant: Most local credit unions don’t do business accounts. US Bank was easy to set up a small business account with for free.
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Human: Need help picking a small business checking account I want to go with something or someone local, but What should I look for? Any tips?
Assistant: I like free. I have a business with very few transactions so the basic level accounts that give me 200 transactions a month and then charge a fee per transaction work well. Most months I don't pay anything for my basic business checking account.
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Human: PSA: If you have a logo or graphic designed, keep ALL the files the designer gives you, even the ones you don't know what they are or don't have an immediate use for. I run a print shop and constantly have issues with trying to get high resolution or vector artwork out of people for their projects. They say they had their logo professionally design a few years ago, but all they have now is a 100kb png from their website. They then have to pay use to recreate their logo so it will print decently for their project. If you are going to pay for a graphic designer to make your logo, keep EVERYTHING they send you. Your final logo package will probably have files in you cannot open (.eps .ai, etc) and those are the ones printshops and such want. Keep several backups of that file. Keep in in a location you can find it.
Assistant: If you use a proper designer and not just some random person on fivrr/99designs or such, you can probably also contact them to hear if they might have the files. I am pretty sure I have the files for every logo I have created at least 10 years back, maybe 15, but I had a disk crash in 2007 or so where I lost my archive :( not that I want to act as a library or such for every old client, but if they ask I might be able to help them.
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Human: PSA: If you have a logo or graphic designed, keep ALL the files the designer gives you, even the ones you don't know what they are or don't have an immediate use for. I run a print shop and constantly have issues with trying to get high resolution or vector artwork out of people for their projects. They say they had their logo professionally design a few years ago, but all they have now is a 100kb png from their website. They then have to pay use to recreate their logo so it will print decently for their project. If you are going to pay for a graphic designer to make your logo, keep EVERYTHING they send you. Your final logo package will probably have files in you cannot open (.eps .ai, etc) and those are the ones printshops and such want. Keep several backups of that file. Keep in in a location you can find it.
Assistant: Print shop owner. YUP
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Human: If you could go back to the day you started your business, what piece of advice would you give yourself? Question in the title :)
Assistant: - fire shitty clients. Your gut will know. - don’t overextend, stick to your core competencies. - get an assistant
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Human: If you could go back to the day you started your business, what piece of advice would you give yourself? Question in the title :)
Assistant: Maybe ask someone if you should be paying those quarterly estimated taxes. I had no idea I was supposed to be doing that my first year. Wrote a big-ass check that April.
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Human: At what point do you just say f—- it and quit your day job and go full time on your own? I absolutely fucking hate my job and just want to bake full time. I’m limited to weekends and evenings to get all my shit done and I’m miserable, and the time constraints are holding me back. My fiancé is not 100% on board with it bc I’ll lose my guaranteed income and benefits, which honestly my income is kind of a joke. At what point do you just say fuck it and take the plunge?
Assistant: I did it with no real income from the new business and 2 kids under 2 living in London with a mortgage and girlfriend on maternity leave. I'm still standing a year and a half later. Sometimes you have to just pull the trigger win lose or draw because you have to. Disclaimer - probably the hardest thing I've ever done. Best case scenario is to try and drop/phase out your job slowly over time if at all possible.
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Human: At what point do you just say f—- it and quit your day job and go full time on your own? I absolutely fucking hate my job and just want to bake full time. I’m limited to weekends and evenings to get all my shit done and I’m miserable, and the time constraints are holding me back. My fiancé is not 100% on board with it bc I’ll lose my guaranteed income and benefits, which honestly my income is kind of a joke. At what point do you just say fuck it and take the plunge?
Assistant: The time is now! Take a few months and get things squared away…finances in order, equipment you will need, getting the business registered with your state, etc.
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Human: Those who have gone from a career to running a successful small business, what skills from your career have been most useful? Would love to hear any skills that have helped the success of your business. Cheers.
Assistant: I went from teaching to business owner. I can smell a bullshitter from a mile away and won’t take a bit of it. I’m very good at conveying information clearly and effectively, and I am pretty good at de-escalating when people get upset. I’d say these are the biggest assets I brought from my career.
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Human: Those who have gone from a career to running a successful small business, what skills from your career have been most useful? Would love to hear any skills that have helped the success of your business. Cheers.
Assistant: Stay focused on what you know you are good at. If it’s working, keep going. If it’s losing strength, go back and find where you lost focus of your skill set.
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Human: How would one go about selling a business that’s a sole proprietorship and based on my personal skills? I’m actually just starting up and nowhere near needing to do this but part of writing my business plan includes defining an exit strategy. My business is carbon fiber repair of bicycles. My ability to get work and referrals is based a lot on my experience, my reputation and my education as an engineer. I imagine that I won’t want to do this forever but if I get to the point of having a well known business it would be great to be able to sell it and let someone else take the reins. The work isn’t super hard but it is pretty specialized so it’s likely I’d have to train someone else to do it. But, it seems nearly impossible to find someone to take on to train who would also have the means to buy. I fully accept I might be looking at this all wrong. I just want to be ready for the day if it ever comes.
Assistant: You don't have a business, you have a job. The most common exit strategy is for you to train your replacement and then sell them business to him with some sort of seller financing deal (usually a percentage of sales for a set period).
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Human: How would one go about selling a business that’s a sole proprietorship and based on my personal skills? I’m actually just starting up and nowhere near needing to do this but part of writing my business plan includes defining an exit strategy. My business is carbon fiber repair of bicycles. My ability to get work and referrals is based a lot on my experience, my reputation and my education as an engineer. I imagine that I won’t want to do this forever but if I get to the point of having a well known business it would be great to be able to sell it and let someone else take the reins. The work isn’t super hard but it is pretty specialized so it’s likely I’d have to train someone else to do it. But, it seems nearly impossible to find someone to take on to train who would also have the means to buy. I fully accept I might be looking at this all wrong. I just want to be ready for the day if it ever comes.
Assistant: Easier to sell a business. Inc in one one way or another. But as you said, you'd have to train the person buying it.
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Human: What are my chances on making it as a graphic designer (I design logos, thumbnails, flyers, business cards etc. Hello, I M47 live in Greece and I used to work in construction, I am currently looking for a job since the company I used to work in closed down. I am pretty good at making logos and I wanted to know, what are my chances of making this an actual business. Also, if you have any advice on how I can find some clients please tell me, I don't really have any experience with marketing.
Assistant: I’m gonna be straight up with you. There are AI logo generators that produce hundreds of options for free.. so you need to differentiate and demonstrate your skill a customization at a high degree. Get your portfolio up front and center. Get customer referrals You have a long hard road ahead of you.
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Human: What are my chances on making it as a graphic designer (I design logos, thumbnails, flyers, business cards etc. Hello, I M47 live in Greece and I used to work in construction, I am currently looking for a job since the company I used to work in closed down. I am pretty good at making logos and I wanted to know, what are my chances of making this an actual business. Also, if you have any advice on how I can find some clients please tell me, I don't really have any experience with marketing.
Assistant: You sound like an ideal candidate for a job with a signage company. When I had a sign business I would get lots of people asking for design jobs, what I really needed was somebody who could go up a ladder without being terrified. Then come back to the office and some computer work.
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Human: What are your thoughts on responding to reviews? I haven't responded to any of the reviews I've had on Google and I'm wondering if I should. I only have five star reviews right now. The reason I haven't is my temperament. I'm a fairly cynical person and I usually roll my eyes when I see a company respond to reviews on Google maps. If they respond to positive reviews it makes me feel like the review is fake and it's just an employer responding to the review their employee wrote about the business. If it's negative I hate with a passion seeing "Sorry about your negative experience. We strive to provide the best customer service possible. Please call us to give us more details." That always comes off as canned to me. It just makes me think of empty damage control. I also don't care if the business appreciates the good reviews. I read reviews looking for patterns to see if the business will suit whatever need I have at that time. But maybe I'm wrong. Maybe replying to good reviews actually makes customers who read the reviews think more positively of the business. What are your thoughts on replying to reviews? Also how long back would you go in replying to old reviews?
Assistant: I like it when I see a review and the company responds to it, good or bad. If they have time to respond to a review then they have time for me as a new customer.
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Human: What are your thoughts on responding to reviews? I haven't responded to any of the reviews I've had on Google and I'm wondering if I should. I only have five star reviews right now. The reason I haven't is my temperament. I'm a fairly cynical person and I usually roll my eyes when I see a company respond to reviews on Google maps. If they respond to positive reviews it makes me feel like the review is fake and it's just an employer responding to the review their employee wrote about the business. If it's negative I hate with a passion seeing "Sorry about your negative experience. We strive to provide the best customer service possible. Please call us to give us more details." That always comes off as canned to me. It just makes me think of empty damage control. I also don't care if the business appreciates the good reviews. I read reviews looking for patterns to see if the business will suit whatever need I have at that time. But maybe I'm wrong. Maybe replying to good reviews actually makes customers who read the reviews think more positively of the business. What are your thoughts on replying to reviews? Also how long back would you go in replying to old reviews?
Assistant: We feel responding to reviews is a matter of etiquette and reciprocity. If a person is willing to communicate in-person, active listening is the best practice routine. Why should digital communication be exempt from active listening or similar best practices of professional courtesy?
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Human: can I ask my landlord to lower my rent? or should I just sell my business? It's been 9 months since we opened and the 2nd location of my restaurant business is embarrassingly horrible. I made a huge costly mistake by not assessing that location thoroughly and now I'm dealing with the consequences. Our original location is still doing consistently fine but the expenses of the 2nd spot is dragging us down! That location is an old street filled with very small mom & pop stores. A laundromat, a bunch of hair salons and smaller restaurants that are not very busy at all. My business caters to the younger gen z/millenial crowd while the neighboring businesses cater to 50+ retired people! I dont know what I was thinking when I picked that spot! NOW, we signed onto a new lease when we took over because the landlord had just bought the building and HE thought that location was prime too so he bumped up the rent. Do you guys think it's worth a shot to talk to him and explain to him how bad the location is? Do you think he'd have a heart and lower the rent? or should I straight up just tell him I want to sell the store?
Assistant: The landlord is your biggest business partner. If they are a true partner they will work with you. You should discuss exit strategies and try to avoid legal action.
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Human: can I ask my landlord to lower my rent? or should I just sell my business? It's been 9 months since we opened and the 2nd location of my restaurant business is embarrassingly horrible. I made a huge costly mistake by not assessing that location thoroughly and now I'm dealing with the consequences. Our original location is still doing consistently fine but the expenses of the 2nd spot is dragging us down! That location is an old street filled with very small mom & pop stores. A laundromat, a bunch of hair salons and smaller restaurants that are not very busy at all. My business caters to the younger gen z/millenial crowd while the neighboring businesses cater to 50+ retired people! I dont know what I was thinking when I picked that spot! NOW, we signed onto a new lease when we took over because the landlord had just bought the building and HE thought that location was prime too so he bumped up the rent. Do you guys think it's worth a shot to talk to him and explain to him how bad the location is? Do you think he'd have a heart and lower the rent? or should I straight up just tell him I want to sell the store?
Assistant: You can certainly ask, but is the rent amount really the thing keeping the place from making money? I'd just close it down and rip that bandaid off.
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Human: Any alternative to QuickBooks? Hey y'all! I have a one man band of a consulting business and I'm currently using QB. It works OK but it seems a bit disconnected between the apps like timesheets and mileage tracking isn't always working. I'd like to find a better solution for my needs: * time recording and exporting timesheets * mileage tracking and exporting Assuming everything else is included: expenses, invoicing, customers, services. No real need for inventory tracking or sales. Preferably less expensive than QB. Can anybody help me here por favor?
Assistant: I mean, it was good enough for Sam Bankman-Fried… 🤣
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Human: Any alternative to QuickBooks? Hey y'all! I have a one man band of a consulting business and I'm currently using QB. It works OK but it seems a bit disconnected between the apps like timesheets and mileage tracking isn't always working. I'd like to find a better solution for my needs: * time recording and exporting timesheets * mileage tracking and exporting Assuming everything else is included: expenses, invoicing, customers, services. No real need for inventory tracking or sales. Preferably less expensive than QB. Can anybody help me here por favor?
Assistant: I use Zoho Books with Zoho Expense for tracking mileage etc. I have no experience with QB to compare it with, but I am happy with Zoho. It integrates nicely with Zoho Analytics so all my management reporting is automated through it.
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Human: How do you handle customers using you for sizing purposes so they can buy online? My parents own a store that specializes in dancewear/gym wear/skates/fitness wear; a large percentage of sales are of dance and cheer shoes. These items are nearly impossible to buy online, unless you’re buying an item as an identical replacement - some shoes fit smaller than street shoe size, some fit bigger. Lately, we’ve noticed an increase in the number of people coming in to be sized in a certain shoe, with the intention of purchasing them online after they know what they need. Some of them indicate that this is their intention, but most try to hide it (poorly and with little success). While some shoes only take 5-10 minutes to fit, others can take up to an hour (professional figure skates and pointe shoes, mostly). I’m wondering if anyone has any advice on what to say to people who do this? We’ve been shut down three times in the past 18 months because of COVID, so we’re really can’t afford to lose these sales to an online “bargain,” but we also don’t want to piss off the people who shop with us. One of our supplier reps said that some businesses charge $20 to come in for a fitting if your intent is just to be sized, and then they put that $20 towards the shoes if the customer comes back to purchase them. I just can’t imagine that going over particularly well, especially since it’s a small family business with only one location - it’s not like it’s a large company who can’t really be hurt by bad press (so-to-speak). Another option that’s been thrown around is trying to hide the sizes of the shoes being tried on, but that’s just too messy….boxes/packaging would have to be concealed, some shoes have the sizes printed on them somewhere, and when it’s swamped, the staff should be focused on the customer and not hiding a number. Should we be honest? If someone comes in and says they just want to be sized before they purchase online, or if we get the feeling that’s happening, should we say that because of the pandemic and an increased number of people using us, our services and time, that we need to charge a small fee to fit shoes that won’t be purchased from us? Any advice would be much appreciated ☺️
Assistant: Former dancer here, always was charged $10 for a fitting (years ago) and then applied toward my shoe purchase. Myself and my mom were fine with it. If I didn’t need a new fitting I’d just order the shoes where they were cheapest but if I did I was happy to spend an hour with my fav shoe fitter.
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Human: How do you handle customers using you for sizing purposes so they can buy online? My parents own a store that specializes in dancewear/gym wear/skates/fitness wear; a large percentage of sales are of dance and cheer shoes. These items are nearly impossible to buy online, unless you’re buying an item as an identical replacement - some shoes fit smaller than street shoe size, some fit bigger. Lately, we’ve noticed an increase in the number of people coming in to be sized in a certain shoe, with the intention of purchasing them online after they know what they need. Some of them indicate that this is their intention, but most try to hide it (poorly and with little success). While some shoes only take 5-10 minutes to fit, others can take up to an hour (professional figure skates and pointe shoes, mostly). I’m wondering if anyone has any advice on what to say to people who do this? We’ve been shut down three times in the past 18 months because of COVID, so we’re really can’t afford to lose these sales to an online “bargain,” but we also don’t want to piss off the people who shop with us. One of our supplier reps said that some businesses charge $20 to come in for a fitting if your intent is just to be sized, and then they put that $20 towards the shoes if the customer comes back to purchase them. I just can’t imagine that going over particularly well, especially since it’s a small family business with only one location - it’s not like it’s a large company who can’t really be hurt by bad press (so-to-speak). Another option that’s been thrown around is trying to hide the sizes of the shoes being tried on, but that’s just too messy….boxes/packaging would have to be concealed, some shoes have the sizes printed on them somewhere, and when it’s swamped, the staff should be focused on the customer and not hiding a number. Should we be honest? If someone comes in and says they just want to be sized before they purchase online, or if we get the feeling that’s happening, should we say that because of the pandemic and an increased number of people using us, our services and time, that we need to charge a small fee to fit shoes that won’t be purchased from us? Any advice would be much appreciated ☺️
Assistant: I bought dance shoes from a local store that charged a $15 fee about 15 years ago. I had originally thought about buying online, but because of the fee, I just chose a pair that I liked in the store and bought them. They explained why the fee was put in place and it made sense and made me actually think about their situation. I think awareness of the struggles that local businesses face has increased a lot since then, too, so I wouldn't worry about people not responding well to a fee.
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Human: I’m in the in-home senior care industry, and need to figure out what marketing agencies my competitors are using. How should I go about doing that? I’m located in San Diego, California.
Assistant: Any decent marketing agency is not going to work with 2 direct competitors at the same time.
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Human: I’m in the in-home senior care industry, and need to figure out what marketing agencies my competitors are using. How should I go about doing that? I’m located in San Diego, California.
Assistant: Many times agencies will list their clients on their website or even show off some of the work they’ve done for the client. You could Google the competitors name and “marketing” or “advertising.” You could also Google their name and “marketing awards”. Even just the competitors name followed by “agency” could get you on the right path.
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Human: Can I use my business funds to pay off my house? Let me preface this by saying that I don't really use reddit too much, so I'm very sorry if my formatting is wrong or this is the wrong place to ask! I'm kind of at a loss here as my tax lady has been a bit evasive and just generally doesn't like when I ask too in-depth questions (I know, an issue, we're trying to find someone else), and we don't have a lot of financial services around my area (very underserviced, rural area). I'm also very, very un-educated on all things financial; I went to school for biology, and now run an art-based business, so money matters just really aren't my forte', and unfortunately not my husband's either. I'll try to explain things as clearly as I can though! I run a very small business out of my home where I employ myself, my husband, and my mother. I am sole owner of the business (my husband has no ownership or anything), and was the only employee for years before I hired my two other employees. We have separate business and personal finances, and I pay myself and my employees a paycheck each month out of the business account. This year we officially became an S-Corp after being a sole proprietorship for the first couple of years, if that's relevant. My question is this: We have generated enough funds to completely pay our house off and then some (which is flipping amazing imo; I never thought I'd be in this position and am so thankful). I want to know if I can pay my house off with funds from my business account. I would transfer those funds from the business account to my own personal account, either via direct transfer or a check. I wouldn't be paying the mortgage out of the business account. We would still have enough money in the business account to continue operating for months, even if we didn't get a single sale (which is very unlikely to happen), plus my husband has a side-job that pays enough to cover our monthly bills even if my business fails, so aside from just seeing such a big chunk come out of the account, we should be okay financially. I would obviously not try to take that payment off of my business taxes/deem it a business expense or anything of that nature. There are no issues among my husband or my mother, they both think it's a good idea, so there's nothing personally holding me back from doing this. What I'm unsure about is 1) if this is a good idea just in the first place. I feel that it is because... What do we work for other than paying our bills off? If we pay this house off, then that's our largest expense gone and we'll be essentially debt free (I've already paid off our student loans and cars with my paycheck over the years), plus we'll have nothing but equity in our home. I'd like to pay this house off and then begin saving to maybe build one day. I can't see much downside other than losing a huge chunk of funds all at once which, while scary, would still leave us with more emergency funds/funds for incidentals/etc. than I've ever had before in my life, so... And 2) I don't know if this is legal/okay? I'm not sure if there's something legally barring me from accessing my business funds for personal use? If there were other owners/a committee/board/whatever, I would think that would not be something that I would be okay to do. But I think as the sole owner of the business, I'm allowed to do this as like a bonus/shareholder distribution or something? But again, I'm sorely uninformed on these matters. Sorry for the long-winded post, and for being kind of ignorant! I never thought I'd be in a position to even consider this.
Assistant: Can't help but just want to say congrats on the success of your business 🥳
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Human: Can I use my business funds to pay off my house? Let me preface this by saying that I don't really use reddit too much, so I'm very sorry if my formatting is wrong or this is the wrong place to ask! I'm kind of at a loss here as my tax lady has been a bit evasive and just generally doesn't like when I ask too in-depth questions (I know, an issue, we're trying to find someone else), and we don't have a lot of financial services around my area (very underserviced, rural area). I'm also very, very un-educated on all things financial; I went to school for biology, and now run an art-based business, so money matters just really aren't my forte', and unfortunately not my husband's either. I'll try to explain things as clearly as I can though! I run a very small business out of my home where I employ myself, my husband, and my mother. I am sole owner of the business (my husband has no ownership or anything), and was the only employee for years before I hired my two other employees. We have separate business and personal finances, and I pay myself and my employees a paycheck each month out of the business account. This year we officially became an S-Corp after being a sole proprietorship for the first couple of years, if that's relevant. My question is this: We have generated enough funds to completely pay our house off and then some (which is flipping amazing imo; I never thought I'd be in this position and am so thankful). I want to know if I can pay my house off with funds from my business account. I would transfer those funds from the business account to my own personal account, either via direct transfer or a check. I wouldn't be paying the mortgage out of the business account. We would still have enough money in the business account to continue operating for months, even if we didn't get a single sale (which is very unlikely to happen), plus my husband has a side-job that pays enough to cover our monthly bills even if my business fails, so aside from just seeing such a big chunk come out of the account, we should be okay financially. I would obviously not try to take that payment off of my business taxes/deem it a business expense or anything of that nature. There are no issues among my husband or my mother, they both think it's a good idea, so there's nothing personally holding me back from doing this. What I'm unsure about is 1) if this is a good idea just in the first place. I feel that it is because... What do we work for other than paying our bills off? If we pay this house off, then that's our largest expense gone and we'll be essentially debt free (I've already paid off our student loans and cars with my paycheck over the years), plus we'll have nothing but equity in our home. I'd like to pay this house off and then begin saving to maybe build one day. I can't see much downside other than losing a huge chunk of funds all at once which, while scary, would still leave us with more emergency funds/funds for incidentals/etc. than I've ever had before in my life, so... And 2) I don't know if this is legal/okay? I'm not sure if there's something legally barring me from accessing my business funds for personal use? If there were other owners/a committee/board/whatever, I would think that would not be something that I would be okay to do. But I think as the sole owner of the business, I'm allowed to do this as like a bonus/shareholder distribution or something? But again, I'm sorely uninformed on these matters. Sorry for the long-winded post, and for being kind of ignorant! I never thought I'd be in a position to even consider this.
Assistant: Are you an actual S-Corp or an LLC with an S-Corp election? The latter saves a ton of extra work. My CPA took care of all that, yours should too.
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Human: What’s the best way to give an order/instruction to an employee without sounding like a douchebag? Im socially anxious, so I don’t really know the most politely way to give someone an order without them thinking I’ve been rude or a douchebag. I wouldn’t like to sound that passive neither. Any advise?
Assistant: To quote McCartney, "indicate precisely what you mean to say"
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Human: What’s the best way to give an order/instruction to an employee without sounding like a douchebag? Im socially anxious, so I don’t really know the most politely way to give someone an order without them thinking I’ve been rude or a douchebag. I wouldn’t like to sound that passive neither. Any advise?
Assistant: Very occasionally you'll need to give orders bc something so urgent or dangerous or exact needs to happen NOW. with most bizes, if that happens often, as a manager you're doing something wrong. Explaining the purpose, function, process, and telling someone their part goes a long way to getting buy in so you don't need to give orders.
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Human: Those that built their business from scratch with no financial help from anyone, how did you do it? Im interested in all your journeys to success because I want to start one just don't think I have what it takes.
Assistant: Started with spending $5K on a credit card for initial production run. When that sold out and it looked promising, then took out line of credit on the house and invested $40K into it. Have sold about $20M in product in the last 17 years. It was a bit scary with a 6 month old at home, had some issues early on, but we made it. 6 month old is now 18 years old.
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Human: Those that built their business from scratch with no financial help from anyone, how did you do it? Im interested in all your journeys to success because I want to start one just don't think I have what it takes.
Assistant: I started a pet sitting biz from scratch. Always had cards on me, walked dogs in nice neighborhoods and talked to other dog owners, small website with landing page, google and Yelp reviews. Took 2 years to start making decent money. Now have 2 part time staffers and growing fast! I also chose this field bc of low overhead(just my car basically.) I do everything from my phone or laptop.
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Human: Do you have to file federal taxes for an LLC you neither spent nor made any money on? I live in Louisiana, the only state with laws based on the Napoleonic Code. I am in a "usufruct" situation with my parents. I own their rental units technically, but they are still operating this business and are lawfully entitled to the money made from the apartments. I made an LLC in 2021 following Hurricane Ida (long story), but the LLC does not technically own the properties. I didn't put the business down for my federal taxes last year, because I neither spent nor made any money from them. My parents are elderly and because of their low income, they have not filed in a decade because their deductions are greater than their income. I'm just so lost and I don't know where to turn. I just want to do everything legally but I also don't want to screw myself, because I'm not exactly a high earner either. I'm self-employed and already pay a lot in taxes.
Assistant: Generally the company has to file from an administrative point of view. Even if the numbers are zero, you need to file them or can be subject to penalties. But, talk to a CPA.
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Human: Do you have to file federal taxes for an LLC you neither spent nor made any money on? I live in Louisiana, the only state with laws based on the Napoleonic Code. I am in a "usufruct" situation with my parents. I own their rental units technically, but they are still operating this business and are lawfully entitled to the money made from the apartments. I made an LLC in 2021 following Hurricane Ida (long story), but the LLC does not technically own the properties. I didn't put the business down for my federal taxes last year, because I neither spent nor made any money from them. My parents are elderly and because of their low income, they have not filed in a decade because their deductions are greater than their income. I'm just so lost and I don't know where to turn. I just want to do everything legally but I also don't want to screw myself, because I'm not exactly a high earner either. I'm self-employed and already pay a lot in taxes.
Assistant: Talk to a CPA.
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Human: How can I help a slow mattress store? It’s a family business Hi, my mom runs an eco friendly mattress store but it is not doing very well. I’m not sure how I can help at 19. Does anyone have any marketing advice? The products are more expensive/high-end, so I am not sure how to expand the audience and make us more well-known. I thought I might dance in a sloth costume outside like one of those sign holders lol. Maybe that would generate some attention? (Or would that seem unprofessional)
Assistant: Sponsor some local onlyfans celebs
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Human: How can I help a slow mattress store? It’s a family business Hi, my mom runs an eco friendly mattress store but it is not doing very well. I’m not sure how I can help at 19. Does anyone have any marketing advice? The products are more expensive/high-end, so I am not sure how to expand the audience and make us more well-known. I thought I might dance in a sloth costume outside like one of those sign holders lol. Maybe that would generate some attention? (Or would that seem unprofessional)
Assistant: Do you make the mattresses or just resell?
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Human: What were the most unexpected costs of starting/running your business? I'll go first. I own a small coffee place that I bought as is, so no start-up experience as such. I'd say there are two main things that I didn't account for in my budget. One is that things break. In the short period of four months, I've had to fix the wiring, fix a couple of cabinets, a shelve, replace the main lock, half a dozen glasses, two display cases, a pitcher, and a security camera. Doesn't sound like much, but the margins are quite thin. The other thing is the cost of developing new menu items. On average, it takes about $50 per menu item (the cost of wasted ingredients), but could be a lot more if the item requires new equipment (anything from plastic containers to milk frothers to industrial mixers). Don't get me wrong, I knew these things cost money, I just didn't expect them to cost as much as consistently, to the point where I have to make them a permanent part of my budget.
Assistant: Legal fees. Who the fuck knew I would have to defend myself in court because someone didn't understand my company is in the US and not operating under a different name in Singapore?
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Human: What were the most unexpected costs of starting/running your business? I'll go first. I own a small coffee place that I bought as is, so no start-up experience as such. I'd say there are two main things that I didn't account for in my budget. One is that things break. In the short period of four months, I've had to fix the wiring, fix a couple of cabinets, a shelve, replace the main lock, half a dozen glasses, two display cases, a pitcher, and a security camera. Doesn't sound like much, but the margins are quite thin. The other thing is the cost of developing new menu items. On average, it takes about $50 per menu item (the cost of wasted ingredients), but could be a lot more if the item requires new equipment (anything from plastic containers to milk frothers to industrial mixers). Don't get me wrong, I knew these things cost money, I just didn't expect them to cost as much as consistently, to the point where I have to make them a permanent part of my budget.
Assistant: The fact that inventory is basically counted as cash in the bank. We had really long lead times on inventory when starting up, so we oftentimes had several hundred thousand dollars of inventory sitting in the warehouse. The fact that the IRS counts that inventory as an asset and required taxes to be paid on it forced us to take out loans simply to pay the taxes.
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Human: What is your time off policy? I am having a huge issue with my staff asking off incredible amounts of time for vacations. We had a new hire that needed off 32 out of 60 days. I have never had to make a policy before and would like to get ideas on how other small businesses handle this. Also, how do you handle call outs? I have always been super lenient and my staff is just abusing the situation.
Assistant: My last two companies were unlimited pto + entire company shut down for one week a year. Is rarely took more than a week a few times, but I’ll never work for a company with any other policy. The autonomy and recognition that our lives aren’t tied to our work is too important.
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Human: What is your time off policy? I am having a huge issue with my staff asking off incredible amounts of time for vacations. We had a new hire that needed off 32 out of 60 days. I have never had to make a policy before and would like to get ideas on how other small businesses handle this. Also, how do you handle call outs? I have always been super lenient and my staff is just abusing the situation.
Assistant: Are they paid for their time off?
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Human: How do you handle senior employees when you have to raise your starting wages? Curious what people's thoughts are on this. Say you have someone been working for you 10 years, has gotten decent wages and is making $28/hour. With the current environment you have to offer $30 to new employees to get anyone interested. How much raise would you give to your senior employe? I have a friend in this situation and they bumped him to $31. Personally I think that's low, 10 years experience and now only being paid a $1 more than the newest guy?
Assistant: Try to give raises large enough and frequently enough to stay at or ahead of the market. When a new hire needs paid more than a long time employee you’ve fallen behind. As far as how much to pay the longtime employee, I would just determine what a new hire costs plus what the experience is worth. The value of experience depends on the position.
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Human: How do you handle senior employees when you have to raise your starting wages? Curious what people's thoughts are on this. Say you have someone been working for you 10 years, has gotten decent wages and is making $28/hour. With the current environment you have to offer $30 to new employees to get anyone interested. How much raise would you give to your senior employe? I have a friend in this situation and they bumped him to $31. Personally I think that's low, 10 years experience and now only being paid a $1 more than the newest guy?
Assistant: This is the main reason you should never stay in a job longer than 2-3 years.
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Human: Unable to ship my product due to customs saying it contains batteries, when my product does not use any batteries and requires a power cord. Am I missing something? I run a small business that sells LED panels electronic products. However, I’ve recently had a bunch of products that I shipped to the U.S. a few days ago returned to me with no refund. They never even left my country’s airport. Their reason was that my products contained “batteries (DG)”. But my product definitely does not. My product uses power supplies, so you must plug in the power cord in order to use it. Without it plugged in, there’s no power. They didn’t even bother to open the box and check inside the actual product. Am I in the wrong? Do I have to stick labels or something on my box saying specifically that this item does NOT contain lithium batteries? Or are the people at customs wrong? What should I do? This shipment cost me a lot. I’ve been contacting my local post office, but it’s getting so bureaucratic, they’re just the middle man for the shipping company. They give me very blank and useless replies.
Assistant: The customs are not wrong if the label on the shipping box says that it has batteries. However, if the actual product does not use batteries or does not even require batteries, then this is a problem. You should take the matter up with the shipping company. The customs at the airport may have made a mistake. If you want to figure out why your merchandise was rejected, you should contact the customs department so you can resolve this matter. This is something you should take up with your shipping provider.
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Human: Unable to ship my product due to customs saying it contains batteries, when my product does not use any batteries and requires a power cord. Am I missing something? I run a small business that sells LED panels electronic products. However, I’ve recently had a bunch of products that I shipped to the U.S. a few days ago returned to me with no refund. They never even left my country’s airport. Their reason was that my products contained “batteries (DG)”. But my product definitely does not. My product uses power supplies, so you must plug in the power cord in order to use it. Without it plugged in, there’s no power. They didn’t even bother to open the box and check inside the actual product. Am I in the wrong? Do I have to stick labels or something on my box saying specifically that this item does NOT contain lithium batteries? Or are the people at customs wrong? What should I do? This shipment cost me a lot. I’ve been contacting my local post office, but it’s getting so bureaucratic, they’re just the middle man for the shipping company. They give me very blank and useless replies.
Assistant: Reading your replies, there is no customs paperwork, I'm not surprised it never left your country.
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Human: Am I fit to be a leader? I feel like I give give give to my team, I take the steps to set high expectations, and still I often get pushback and bare minimum I'll try to keep this short. I'm just wondering if there are other business people out there who have figured out how to get their team to play at their best, give the best customer service and take pride in their work. I'm 31, I own a shop with people who are almost all older than I am. Through COVID I stepped up into leadership a lot more and hired several new people, while keeping a few experienced people. We have big goals. I bonus the team based on weekly business performance. But tonight I get a message from a client who showed up at 5:19pm, and was told he will have to come back another time, because we close at 5:30. Thing is, I pay the staff until 6 for exactly that reason, to handle the people who come in a bit late. We do custom work so there is some consultation time with each client that generally takes between 15 and 30 minutes. The customer is furious, probably overreacting, but I just can't get it out of my head. Why am I so loyal and get so little back some times? Why am I always the one who goes the extra mile and rarely get it in return? Why do I even pay out a bonus if people will turn away business that's right in front of them? It's hard to be the boss, I am used to being friendly. But I try to strike that balance, I give the team a lot of trust to handle their work. I don't micro manage. I do set expectations, I do coach and train, I always give doctors appointments and other needs to them freely. What am I missing?
Assistant: Some people call me the boss... my taxes say I'm the owner... I like to consider myself the guy who can eat the most shit in a day.
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Human: Am I fit to be a leader? I feel like I give give give to my team, I take the steps to set high expectations, and still I often get pushback and bare minimum I'll try to keep this short. I'm just wondering if there are other business people out there who have figured out how to get their team to play at their best, give the best customer service and take pride in their work. I'm 31, I own a shop with people who are almost all older than I am. Through COVID I stepped up into leadership a lot more and hired several new people, while keeping a few experienced people. We have big goals. I bonus the team based on weekly business performance. But tonight I get a message from a client who showed up at 5:19pm, and was told he will have to come back another time, because we close at 5:30. Thing is, I pay the staff until 6 for exactly that reason, to handle the people who come in a bit late. We do custom work so there is some consultation time with each client that generally takes between 15 and 30 minutes. The customer is furious, probably overreacting, but I just can't get it out of my head. Why am I so loyal and get so little back some times? Why am I always the one who goes the extra mile and rarely get it in return? Why do I even pay out a bonus if people will turn away business that's right in front of them? It's hard to be the boss, I am used to being friendly. But I try to strike that balance, I give the team a lot of trust to handle their work. I don't micro manage. I do set expectations, I do coach and train, I always give doctors appointments and other needs to them freely. What am I missing?
Assistant: If someone turned someone away like that I'd have to decide whether this employee has a future or whether it is better to train up a replacement.
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Human: Why Is There So Much Gatekeeping Of Information In Business? When I first started as an entrepreneur running my SEO business I was like many others where I thought I knew a lot but ultimately I knew nothing and was running blindly at a goal that had many steps in between I was unaware of. Now often times when I missed a step or hit a wall I would look to other successful people in my industry and while some would help others were very vague in their responses and oftentimes gave me no help whatsoever. I understand I'm not entitled to anybody's time or words of wisdom and luckily I've overcome this hump to create a successful business but even the Youtube videos I find online often leave out information on purposes just so others can't connect the dots properly it's a little frustrating seeing as most will rationalize this by saying something stupid like "Bro competition" but in reality what are the odds we are always going after the same clients or even the same industry.
Assistant: I mean, imagine if you struggled your whole life to get where you are, and I came along and asked you to teach me to do exactly what you do for free? And then went out and stole all your clients? People work their whole lives to run their business so naturally it's their baby and they want to protect it.
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Human: Why Is There So Much Gatekeeping Of Information In Business? When I first started as an entrepreneur running my SEO business I was like many others where I thought I knew a lot but ultimately I knew nothing and was running blindly at a goal that had many steps in between I was unaware of. Now often times when I missed a step or hit a wall I would look to other successful people in my industry and while some would help others were very vague in their responses and oftentimes gave me no help whatsoever. I understand I'm not entitled to anybody's time or words of wisdom and luckily I've overcome this hump to create a successful business but even the Youtube videos I find online often leave out information on purposes just so others can't connect the dots properly it's a little frustrating seeing as most will rationalize this by saying something stupid like "Bro competition" but in reality what are the odds we are always going after the same clients or even the same industry.
Assistant: Because so much of business is information. They give you just enough for you to make a decision to pay them for it, such as hiring them, contracting them, selling to them, etc. Especially with modern corporate culture it's not about what you're capable of, it's about what information you have.
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Human: How to deal with negative Google reviews? Hi there, I just received a 2 stars Google review. Normally I handle the negative reviews quite well by contacting the client directly and correcting the issues and then the client adjust their reviews but this 2 stars is quite annoying because there's nothing I can do about it. The client (which I don't even have ANY record in my database) left a review saying: *I used to do business with them but now they have moved.* First, we never did business. 2nd, we moved because we needed something bigger to keep inventory and we moved like 7km from there. Any tips on how to deal with this kind of stuff?
Assistant: Respond to all your reviews. This will differentiate you from all but 1% of the competition. In this case, I'd say something like "We can't find any records of ever doing business with you. We did recently move to accommodate our growing business. Please reach out to us via "email" or "phone number" so we can address any concerns you might have." Responding to negative reviews in a neutral tone and offering to resolve the issue offline is the best approach to take. Hope this helps.
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Human: How to deal with negative Google reviews? Hi there, I just received a 2 stars Google review. Normally I handle the negative reviews quite well by contacting the client directly and correcting the issues and then the client adjust their reviews but this 2 stars is quite annoying because there's nothing I can do about it. The client (which I don't even have ANY record in my database) left a review saying: *I used to do business with them but now they have moved.* First, we never did business. 2nd, we moved because we needed something bigger to keep inventory and we moved like 7km from there. Any tips on how to deal with this kind of stuff?
Assistant: A negative review isn’t necessarily bad, I will go through and look for the negative review, shows it’s a real business. I would reply that this is true we moved to a bigger and better location and are disappointed with your review and that we are unable to help you in this case.
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Human: How do wholesalers deal with resale tax exemption? For those who sell wholesale to retailers, how do resale tax exemptions work? I can't find good info on the process. * I just started selling wholesale. * I'm based in one state and a retail store in another state is ordering my product. * They sent me their sales tax ID. * Do I have them fill out a tax resale exemption certificate for their state? * Do I file it with my monthly/quarterly sales tax? * Do I file it with my state or their state? * Do you preemptively ask retailers if they have a certificate, or do you automatically charge them for tax if they don't mention it?
Assistant: Sales tax is not kept - has to be submitted to the state it was charged for. You have a resale license?
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Human: How do wholesalers deal with resale tax exemption? For those who sell wholesale to retailers, how do resale tax exemptions work? I can't find good info on the process. * I just started selling wholesale. * I'm based in one state and a retail store in another state is ordering my product. * They sent me their sales tax ID. * Do I have them fill out a tax resale exemption certificate for their state? * Do I file it with my monthly/quarterly sales tax? * Do I file it with my state or their state? * Do you preemptively ask retailers if they have a certificate, or do you automatically charge them for tax if they don't mention it?
Assistant: you pretty much have to hire a service
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Human: Is it just me or is “gaming the system” more infuriating than “scamming”? When you sell handmade products on Etsy or eBay, you’ve always got the notion that you’re vulnerable to scammers. Yeah, that weakens you further to scammers but you feel that because you’re AWARE of it, you’ll see it coming. Because you anticipate it, you feel that you’re unfoolable and obviously that isn’t the case. Get scammed, take the loss, life goes on. Isn’t it 20x more annoying when somebody gets a product that they paid for to their specification, and then decides to leave a bad review to extort you. Furthermore on “small business-friendly marketplaces” (not so much eBay, more on Etsy) if their extortion isn’t successful, they’re likely to get a refund but still get to keep the product? Like, using the system in the way that it’s intended and built to be used, and yet in a way that’s abusive to both the system and the seller and getting away with it just has an inherent smugness and imperviousness that is just so much more infuriating than simply taking a loss. In that case, you take the money and then have it stolen right back off of you with no recourse? It’s such a load of bollocks. Thoughts?
Assistant: This is why I'm a huge advocate for creating your own site. There are a lot of easy tools and YouTube videos out there to help you sell products on your own. It's absolutely worth the easy of mind knowing you have control. And honestly, you can blast on the bad reviews and not worry about scammers. *Online marketplaces have become the modern day 'I'm leaving a report on the BBB'. Don't leave yourself open to extortion, by customers or by the marketplace.*
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Human: Is it just me or is “gaming the system” more infuriating than “scamming”? When you sell handmade products on Etsy or eBay, you’ve always got the notion that you’re vulnerable to scammers. Yeah, that weakens you further to scammers but you feel that because you’re AWARE of it, you’ll see it coming. Because you anticipate it, you feel that you’re unfoolable and obviously that isn’t the case. Get scammed, take the loss, life goes on. Isn’t it 20x more annoying when somebody gets a product that they paid for to their specification, and then decides to leave a bad review to extort you. Furthermore on “small business-friendly marketplaces” (not so much eBay, more on Etsy) if their extortion isn’t successful, they’re likely to get a refund but still get to keep the product? Like, using the system in the way that it’s intended and built to be used, and yet in a way that’s abusive to both the system and the seller and getting away with it just has an inherent smugness and imperviousness that is just so much more infuriating than simply taking a loss. In that case, you take the money and then have it stolen right back off of you with no recourse? It’s such a load of bollocks. Thoughts?
Assistant: Yeah, when I was selling on eBay a lot, I just made my policy that I'd always accept any return (and account for that in the budget, etc.) so I'd at least not end up having neither the product nor the money.
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Human: How do you deal with the – once again – rising healthcare costs? The major U.S. health insurers report big profits for 2020 but yet the premiums for 2021 go up by 10%. Our premiums went up by 45% over the last 4 years. The healthcare and retirement system in the U.S. is in poor health and voters and politicians are too ignorant to do something about it. 1,000+ small businesses need to come together and setup their own health insurance plan! So, how do you deal with it in 2021?
Assistant: Step one, keep pushing for single payer, so it isn't the problem of small businesses to provide mediocre at best insurance.
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Human: How do you deal with the – once again – rising healthcare costs? The major U.S. health insurers report big profits for 2020 but yet the premiums for 2021 go up by 10%. Our premiums went up by 45% over the last 4 years. The healthcare and retirement system in the U.S. is in poor health and voters and politicians are too ignorant to do something about it. 1,000+ small businesses need to come together and setup their own health insurance plan! So, how do you deal with it in 2021?
Assistant: >voters and politicians are too ignorant to do something about it. Not sure if this is worded for the purpose of diplomacy... but I'd say about half the country is aware and actively trying to do many things about it.
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Human: What can I do to make my products sell? I started a candle business and was outside trying to sell them for 4 hours with no luck. No one bought them, and two said they would come back but never did. The quality of them is really good, they are natural and made with essential oils. Many, if not over a hundred people looked at my sign, but no luck. What can I do?
Assistant: Perhaps find some relevant local businesses to have them sell on consignment.
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Human: What can I do to make my products sell? I started a candle business and was outside trying to sell them for 4 hours with no luck. No one bought them, and two said they would come back but never did. The quality of them is really good, they are natural and made with essential oils. Many, if not over a hundred people looked at my sign, but no luck. What can I do?
Assistant: Can you do shipping or advertise your website on social media such as Facebook groups or even tiktoks of your creations? I'm trying that with chocolates and people do ask after a while, especially with the promote option if you're willing to pay a bit for the promotion
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Human: How is Yelp still in business It blows my mind. My family business is a very large, reputable and well known construction company by pretty much everyone that lives in our city. Excellent word to mouth, over 35k customers, have won multiple small business of the year awards.. We have 530 google reviews at a 4.6 rating. A+ BBB with 4.5 rating and so on. They’re all consistent.. except yelp. 1.5 rating .. negative reviews by people literally posting “don’t like their advertising” and insulting reviews that we have no where else (even the negative reviews anywhere else aren’t even close to how bad the yelp ones are). There’s not one positive review. We have like 70+ positive reviews all hidden because of suspicious content lol. I’m completely aware of how yelp works and the giant scam they pull on businesses that don’t pay them. A ton of people know about yelp but they are still a top review page on google and tied in with apple. When i start type in our company name in the safari search bar, it even pops up.. smh
Assistant: Only way to change the corruption both Google and Yelp have been doing towards small businesses is a class action lawsuit involving everyone they’ve screwed over. I know I’d join in if it ever got going. There is just blatant market manipulation going on from both entities.
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Human: How is Yelp still in business It blows my mind. My family business is a very large, reputable and well known construction company by pretty much everyone that lives in our city. Excellent word to mouth, over 35k customers, have won multiple small business of the year awards.. We have 530 google reviews at a 4.6 rating. A+ BBB with 4.5 rating and so on. They’re all consistent.. except yelp. 1.5 rating .. negative reviews by people literally posting “don’t like their advertising” and insulting reviews that we have no where else (even the negative reviews anywhere else aren’t even close to how bad the yelp ones are). There’s not one positive review. We have like 70+ positive reviews all hidden because of suspicious content lol. I’m completely aware of how yelp works and the giant scam they pull on businesses that don’t pay them. A ton of people know about yelp but they are still a top review page on google and tied in with apple. When i start type in our company name in the safari search bar, it even pops up.. smh
Assistant: YELP actually contacted our business, asking us to pay a premium for some type of extra advertising and ability to “boost” good reviews or something. Sketchy business. I’ve got a 4.7 star business on google for 12 years now, and it’s been consistent but on YELP it’s around 3 stars.
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Human: Does anyone else get tons of judgement for being a solo traveler? I make solo travel a priority of mine. I save my money up for it. Bills come first, but travel comes after that-before shopping and buying things like boats or motorcycles. Of course I know there is nothing wrong with buying those things! It’s fun too! But I feel like so many people talk me down for choosing to travel. My family sometimes acts like it’s selfish of me. But the whole reason I started going solo is because when I’d ask people to go with me they always would say things like “wow! I’d love to go to Italy someday!” But then make no initiative to save or get the ball rolling. I’m just curious if anyone else experiences this too!
Assistant: Yeah. Everybody acts like they're ready to go till you start making plans.
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Human: Does anyone else get tons of judgement for being a solo traveler? I make solo travel a priority of mine. I save my money up for it. Bills come first, but travel comes after that-before shopping and buying things like boats or motorcycles. Of course I know there is nothing wrong with buying those things! It’s fun too! But I feel like so many people talk me down for choosing to travel. My family sometimes acts like it’s selfish of me. But the whole reason I started going solo is because when I’d ask people to go with me they always would say things like “wow! I’d love to go to Italy someday!” But then make no initiative to save or get the ball rolling. I’m just curious if anyone else experiences this too!
Assistant: Yes, I have received judgment from time to time. I usually just nod my head and file unwanted comments in the proverbial circular file (rubbish bin). I don't usually give other people's comments the power to change what I want to do.
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Human: Has anyone been solo travelling and felt lonely seeing other people in couples and with friends? How do you get around this feeling? For context I’m nearly 50, though I know I look around 40. I don’t have many friends, let alone to travel with, as I lost many friends when I got struck down with a serious illness, which I’m nearly over now. Travelling alone reminds me of how quite empty my life now is. Thankfully I don’t need to work anymore but that also increases the loneliness as I don’t have the work camaraderie etc. So I try and travel while I still can to expand my horizons, but it can be tough when you’re reminded of how alone you are. No one to tell when you experience something cool on a trip etc. Also being an older guy it seems it’s a bit harder to meet people now. I’m unable to do the hostel thing too as I am a very light sleeper. I used to be a good looking younger gay guy but as I’m older now I don’t attract attention as much which makes it harder to meet people. Anyone relate or have any ideas on how to help with this?
Assistant: I am in my late 40's and imagine what it must sounds like trying to plan something. Odds are someone is compromising somewhere or everywhere. Don't get me wrong, traveling with the right (perfect?) someone else sounds great. The odds of that happening are to low for me to ever try it.
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Human: Has anyone been solo travelling and felt lonely seeing other people in couples and with friends? How do you get around this feeling? For context I’m nearly 50, though I know I look around 40. I don’t have many friends, let alone to travel with, as I lost many friends when I got struck down with a serious illness, which I’m nearly over now. Travelling alone reminds me of how quite empty my life now is. Thankfully I don’t need to work anymore but that also increases the loneliness as I don’t have the work camaraderie etc. So I try and travel while I still can to expand my horizons, but it can be tough when you’re reminded of how alone you are. No one to tell when you experience something cool on a trip etc. Also being an older guy it seems it’s a bit harder to meet people now. I’m unable to do the hostel thing too as I am a very light sleeper. I used to be a good looking younger gay guy but as I’m older now I don’t attract attention as much which makes it harder to meet people. Anyone relate or have any ideas on how to help with this?
Assistant: Yes, I am married but solo travel quite a bit. My wife's work keeps her close to home, and my usual companion is my camera
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Human: Do you ever get tired of travelling? Hey, I'm a brazilian in France and as i only will be living this year in Europe i use most of my free time solotravelling. Last week i was in Poland and this week I'm going to Greece (Athens + Meteora) for a week before getting back. For this trip I have this feeling of "i dont wanna go" cause i know i'll be walking around the city alone, meeting a few travellers and then leaving them again. It's like this in all cities i visit (im not saying its bad, but it got repetititve tbh). Do you guys ever feel like this? If there are some tips to avoid this feeling in Greece too (and some fun things to do there)
Assistant: Yes I do. I was in Europe (with no time limit) and after 3 weeks I decided I had enough living out of a suitcase and checking into hotels. I needed a vacation from my vacation.
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Human: Do you ever get tired of travelling? Hey, I'm a brazilian in France and as i only will be living this year in Europe i use most of my free time solotravelling. Last week i was in Poland and this week I'm going to Greece (Athens + Meteora) for a week before getting back. For this trip I have this feeling of "i dont wanna go" cause i know i'll be walking around the city alone, meeting a few travellers and then leaving them again. It's like this in all cities i visit (im not saying its bad, but it got repetititve tbh). Do you guys ever feel like this? If there are some tips to avoid this feeling in Greece too (and some fun things to do there)
Assistant: Slow down, you're living in transit. Cut your cities visited in half or less. You'll enjoy it so much more.
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Human: What are some mundane things you enjoy whilst solo travelling? We all know the joys solo travelling can bring. Some truly magical experiences where we brave new adventures and try out things we may never had had the courage to do in the past. However, I'm interested in knowing what people enjoy doing abroad that would be considered relatively arbitrary and mundane by most others. For me personally, I love going to the supermarket in foreign countries! I genuinely find it enjoyable to look around and see what they have in terms of fruit & vegetables, staple cupboard items, frozen produce etc. It's always interesting to learn what are considered regular groceries in different places around the world, as well as the varying price differences. Interested to hear others perspectives!
Assistant: I feel bad for saying it, but I love going to McDonald's in foreign countries. I think it's a cool litmus test for a culture to see how McDonald's adapts itself to them (like there was a vegetable soup at one in Portugal, and that blew my mind!). It's also an easy home comfort
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Human: What are some mundane things you enjoy whilst solo travelling? We all know the joys solo travelling can bring. Some truly magical experiences where we brave new adventures and try out things we may never had had the courage to do in the past. However, I'm interested in knowing what people enjoy doing abroad that would be considered relatively arbitrary and mundane by most others. For me personally, I love going to the supermarket in foreign countries! I genuinely find it enjoyable to look around and see what they have in terms of fruit & vegetables, staple cupboard items, frozen produce etc. It's always interesting to learn what are considered regular groceries in different places around the world, as well as the varying price differences. Interested to hear others perspectives!
Assistant: I read a book. I'll spend a day or two just in a park and read a book. I could easily read at home, but reading while travelling always feels so indulgent.
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Human: What are some popular countries that don't interest you but seem to be recommended a lot? I was planning a trip to South America and for some reason Bolivia just doesn't seem that interesting to me, even though it's right between Chile and Peru, which are countries I DO want to visit. The salt flats looks cool but other than that, meh.
Assistant: Dubai... seems to just be a shopping mall in a desert where the only thing to do is spend money.
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Human: What are some popular countries that don't interest you but seem to be recommended a lot? I was planning a trip to South America and for some reason Bolivia just doesn't seem that interesting to me, even though it's right between Chile and Peru, which are countries I DO want to visit. The salt flats looks cool but other than that, meh.
Assistant: France. Specifically Paris. I've always heard that Paris isn't worth it. That it's just a "one-day thing." On a whim, I bought a ticket to go since it was pretty cheap and ended up spending about 8 days there. I fell in love. It was a beautiful city, the people were nice, the food was great. I never wanted to leave. There has to be a lesson in there somewhere.
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Human: For solo female travelers, what is a country or city you would never go solo in? Or places you wouldn’t go solo in again.
Assistant: 75+ counties here as a solo woman and Tanzania I was assaulted so that’s on another level. Sri Lanka was the worst I’ve seen besides that where in the 9 days I was there, THREE men masterbated publicity in front of me. Not one, nor two, but THREE.
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Human: For solo female travelers, what is a country or city you would never go solo in? Or places you wouldn’t go solo in again.
Assistant: New Delhi... I've been to cities all around the world but I felt the most vulnerable and helpless there.
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Human: What to do in the evenings as a solo traveller? In the daytime I’m perfectly comfortable going to museums, shops, cafes etc. solo but these types of places tend to close come evening and nightlife such as bars and clubs generally seems geared towards groups. If you can’t or don’t want to link up with other solo travellers on a night out what do you do in the evenings? Thanks!
Assistant: Count me as another late night tour and/or performance person. I love classical music, and the theater, so I try and hit up a show in the big theater rather than going on a tour. Or I’ll go to the observatory tour after sunset. Then I book it home (I’m part of the “get home quickly and safely” female demographic).
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Human: What to do in the evenings as a solo traveller? In the daytime I’m perfectly comfortable going to museums, shops, cafes etc. solo but these types of places tend to close come evening and nightlife such as bars and clubs generally seems geared towards groups. If you can’t or don’t want to link up with other solo travellers on a night out what do you do in the evenings? Thanks!
Assistant: Depending where you are, I check local Groupon or Eventbrite websites to see what the city had to offer, also FB events. I usually like finding some sort of live music or show. I also don’t mind grabbing some dinner and having an early night especially if I have a busy day for tomorrow
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Human: What is the most beautiful city you've been to? For me it has to be Cape Town it just absolutely blew me away how beautiful it was. I can't wait to go back there in the future. I never really had that feeling with any other city before.
Assistant: Granada. I solo traveled through Spain in 2017, and I nearly cried when I first made it up to the Mirador San Nicolas and looked out over the Alhambra and Generalife at dusk. There was a flamenco guitarist, and not too many tourists, surprisingly. It was breathtaking
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Human: What is the most beautiful city you've been to? For me it has to be Cape Town it just absolutely blew me away how beautiful it was. I can't wait to go back there in the future. I never really had that feeling with any other city before.
Assistant: Madrid
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Human: Solo travelers that are also vloggers, how do you not get shy when talking to the camera while traveling? I get bummed out when I try to talk to my camera while documenting my trips. People look at me and I feel they find me weird talking to myself. I know we shouldn't mind because most of the time they don't care at all however it always comes into my mind that they think of me otherwise. How to become more confident like you?
Assistant: Just came back from a trip to Morocco and literally everyone was staring at my while talking to my little gopro. I must admit it was difficult because very often they even interrupted me or asked random questions. On the other hand, i got 3 new subscriber lol. Anyway, the trick is to simply think that people dont care. They will mind you for one second or two, then they will carry out with their busy lives. Simple as that.
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Human: Solo travelers that are also vloggers, how do you not get shy when talking to the camera while traveling? I get bummed out when I try to talk to my camera while documenting my trips. People look at me and I feel they find me weird talking to myself. I know we shouldn't mind because most of the time they don't care at all however it always comes into my mind that they think of me otherwise. How to become more confident like you?
Assistant: Most people don't care, they have their own concerns and worries to deal with.
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Human: How old are you guys, and how has your age affected/changed your solo travel experience? Just curious for a general survey of the reddit community. Last time I solo traveled I was 24, and I’ll be 34 next time I can really have a go at it. I’m wondering how different of an experience I can expect at that age, especially with how others will perceive and interact with me.
Assistant: In my 70’s, still doing solo travel internationally and I don’t do groups. No issues.last trip was India and Middle East. People are almost always friendly in any country. Just need to be aware of each culture’s expectations and be respectful, cautious but confident.
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Human: How old are you guys, and how has your age affected/changed your solo travel experience? Just curious for a general survey of the reddit community. Last time I solo traveled I was 24, and I’ll be 34 next time I can really have a go at it. I’m wondering how different of an experience I can expect at that age, especially with how others will perceive and interact with me.
Assistant: The only difference is my threshold for comfort. I’m 35 now and I need a quiet hotel room.
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