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Human: Mastering physics, although not as horrible as people make it out to be, is just not doing anything for me. Any recommendations for solving a lot of problems besides using a textbook? (I can't afford one right now) Assistant: You can go through OpenStax's free physics e-textbooks. They have problems with selected solutions.
Human: Mastering physics, although not as horrible as people make it out to be, is just not doing anything for me. Any recommendations for solving a lot of problems besides using a textbook? (I can't afford one right now) Assistant: Borrow a textbook from a library or buy a used textbook for like $5.
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Human: Defending my dissertation tomorrow! It's been a long and stressful 6 years and I am almost done. I'm a bit scared out of my wits, but my committee seems to be confident I will do well. I've received very little feedback on the dissertation itself, good or bad, but I am hoping no news is good news. Just gotta keep telling myself that they wouldn't let me defend if I wasn't ready. I will tell everyone how it went tomorrow!! Assistant: They wouldn't let you defend if you weren't ready. I hope you don't read this until you're done because you're getting rest and chocolate, right? But best of luck, not that you need it - you're the subject matter expert in that room :)
Human: Defending my dissertation tomorrow! It's been a long and stressful 6 years and I am almost done. I'm a bit scared out of my wits, but my committee seems to be confident I will do well. I've received very little feedback on the dissertation itself, good or bad, but I am hoping no news is good news. Just gotta keep telling myself that they wouldn't let me defend if I wasn't ready. I will tell everyone how it went tomorrow!! Assistant: Good luck! You will be great!
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Human: [Marvel/DC] If The Batman and The Joker were part of the Marvel universe how would their conflict play out against the backdrop of that particular universe's heroes and villains and politics? Assistant: Someone would’ve smoked Joker LONG ago. Batman, while he’d inevitably pout, would eventually get over it.
Human: [Marvel/DC] If The Batman and The Joker were part of the Marvel universe how would their conflict play out against the backdrop of that particular universe's heroes and villains and politics? Assistant: Punisher gives Joker a taste of hot lead. Batman tries to stop it, it's a fifty-fifty chance whoever survives. Batman has prep-time, sure, but Punisher is John Wick on steroids, and John Wick never loses.
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Human: Cookie Sheets- Do I go with non-stick, or regular and use parchment paper? So I have some cookie sheets that are about 7 years old and are losing their non-stickness. I am wondering on whether to replace them with more non-stick ones, or just go with a regular sheet and just always put parchment paper down when baking. I can't imagine that bakeries just throw out non-sticks constantly- what do they do? Is there a brand that is recommended for either type? Assistant: 1/2 sheet pans. Am I the only one who still greases a cookie sheet?
Human: Cookie Sheets- Do I go with non-stick, or regular and use parchment paper? So I have some cookie sheets that are about 7 years old and are losing their non-stickness. I am wondering on whether to replace them with more non-stick ones, or just go with a regular sheet and just always put parchment paper down when baking. I can't imagine that bakeries just throw out non-sticks constantly- what do they do? Is there a brand that is recommended for either type? Assistant: I use parchment for every cookie, and foil for breads, etc.
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Human: New fillings instead of chocolate or cinnamon/butter for rolls ?? I made a sweet dough initially for cinnamon rolls, but i wanted to make something different for the filling other than cinnamon or chocolate. Any suggestions? Assistant: I once had leftover lemon curd and used that as filling! It was incredible.
Human: New fillings instead of chocolate or cinnamon/butter for rolls ?? I made a sweet dough initially for cinnamon rolls, but i wanted to make something different for the filling other than cinnamon or chocolate. Any suggestions? Assistant: "Baklava rolls" with pistachios, honey, cardamom, vanilla and/or orange blossom water
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Human: [MCU] Why is Klaue hunting for Vibranium in Black Panther when he was made a billionare by Ultron? Assistant: He's not in it for the money, he's in it for the fun.
Human: [MCU] Why is Klaue hunting for Vibranium in Black Panther when he was made a billionare by Ultron? Assistant: To be a trillionaire
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Human: What unexpected items have rigorous engineering behind them? Surely all, or most, of the items we use everyday have some sort of engineering behind them. Are there any common or unexpected items that you know of that have rigorous(ish) engineering behind them that one wouldn't really think does and simply takes for granted? Assistant: The amount of rigorous testing in aircraft components is known yet still more rigorous than you think. My last project spent over $2M to test one of like 50 air valves that are on an engine alone. Temperatures ranged from -65F to 1000F. 40g vibration. 100k cycles.
Human: What unexpected items have rigorous engineering behind them? Surely all, or most, of the items we use everyday have some sort of engineering behind them. Are there any common or unexpected items that you know of that have rigorous(ish) engineering behind them that one wouldn't really think does and simply takes for granted? Assistant: Always relevant XKCD: https://xkcd.com/1741/
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Human: Lowered Cars and Speed Bumps? I see a substantial number of enthusiasts lowering their cars. Where I live there are large numbers of speedbumps that, to someone who's not modified a car before, would look like they'd bottom out your car as you go over them. Are speedbumps not a thing in the US or are they much lower instead? Things like this would surely be too short and high for most lowered cars? Assistant: Try not to drive over them. Take them at an angle if you must, but just avoiding places that have them is the best option.
Human: Lowered Cars and Speed Bumps? I see a substantial number of enthusiasts lowering their cars. Where I live there are large numbers of speedbumps that, to someone who's not modified a car before, would look like they'd bottom out your car as you go over them. Are speedbumps not a thing in the US or are they much lower instead? Things like this would surely be too short and high for most lowered cars? Assistant: The last few years, air ride has been increasingly popular and a few of my friends with the systems have a setting on their controller to raise the car up higher than they normally drive to clear bumps.
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Human: [Marvel Comics] Of all of the people who are worthy to wield Mjolnir, who would Thor personally choose to keep the hammer? Say Thor is writing the Asgardian equivalent of a will and testament, and must state who will take ownership of the hammer in the event he is gone, who would he want to have it? From Beta Ray Bill to Captain America to Jane Foster and so on, how would Thor rank each person in line of succession for the hammer? Who would be his top pick? Assistant: Beta ray bill probably. He was willing to let Bill walk with the hammer and that’s why Odin made stormbreaker. While Thor admires cap for what he does and who he is.. he’s still a different type of warrior.
Human: [Marvel Comics] Of all of the people who are worthy to wield Mjolnir, who would Thor personally choose to keep the hammer? Say Thor is writing the Asgardian equivalent of a will and testament, and must state who will take ownership of the hammer in the event he is gone, who would he want to have it? From Beta Ray Bill to Captain America to Jane Foster and so on, how would Thor rank each person in line of succession for the hammer? Who would be his top pick? Assistant: Either Cap or Beta Ray Bill.
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Human: What is your ALL TIME favorite American dessert? Hope this is the right sub for this but I'm curious what the general public opinion is on desserts. Since I'm from America what is your favorite American dessert. Feel free to comment what your fav is if it's not listed! 🍨🍰🍪 I tried to list what my impression is the most popular. View Poll Assistant: It is a crime against humanity that Brownies aren't listed.
Human: What is your ALL TIME favorite American dessert? Hope this is the right sub for this but I'm curious what the general public opinion is on desserts. Since I'm from America what is your favorite American dessert. Feel free to comment what your fav is if it's not listed! 🍨🍰🍪 I tried to list what my impression is the most popular. View Poll Assistant: Pecan pie, apple is gross imo. Im sure ill get downvoted for my harsh apple pies views but i gotta make a stand
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Human: I need a recommendation for a good icing to put on top of a chocolate zucchini cake. I was going to make this recipe, sans walnuts, for my brothers birthday. But I'm not sure of an icing or fondant I could make that would compliment the cake. Assistant: I bet a simple whipped chocolate ganache would be delicious! Never too much chocolate.
Human: I need a recommendation for a good icing to put on top of a chocolate zucchini cake. I was going to make this recipe, sans walnuts, for my brothers birthday. But I'm not sure of an icing or fondant I could make that would compliment the cake. Assistant: Cream cheese frosting! Adds prettiness and flavor without overloading the chocolate factor.
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Human: [MCU] How much Earth culture makes it to the rest of the galaxy? In GotG, Quill makes a remark saying that if you used a black light, the inside of his ship would look like a Jackson Pollock painting. Rocket then tells Peter that he has issues implying he knows who Jackson Pollock is and that he’s familiar with his work. How much more of Earth’s culture has made the galactic rounds to the point of aliens recognizing it? Assistant: I don’t think Rockets reaction implies he knows who Jackson Pollock is. He just knows what paintings are, and what black lights do.
Human: [MCU] How much Earth culture makes it to the rest of the galaxy? In GotG, Quill makes a remark saying that if you used a black light, the inside of his ship would look like a Jackson Pollock painting. Rocket then tells Peter that he has issues implying he knows who Jackson Pollock is and that he’s familiar with his work. How much more of Earth’s culture has made the galactic rounds to the point of aliens recognizing it? Assistant: Quill uses a translator implant. The translator merely translated "black light" and "Jackson Pollock" for the closest substitute.
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Human: [MT] I want to leave my job before my sign on bonus contract is up I want to leave my job for multiple reasons: physical, mental and financial. These have built up since I started but thought I would try tough it out. Sign on bonus was $5,000. I am 1.5 years into it, and the contract ends at 2 years. I received this at the start of my job and paid taxes on it through the first year. I cannot afford to pay this back. I do not have a job offer yet, I have only looked at jobs online. I do not want to approach my supervisor about this, since I don’t want my job in jeopardy. is it safe to approach HR? If not, what are my options? I would not leave this job until I have another job offer. Assistant: Honestly you'd be better off sticking it out for the remaining 6 months. I realize you are miserable but if you've made it this far, just try to tough it out for the last stretch. $5k is a lot of money. Plus you can look for jobs, brush up on resume, etc. So you are ready to go and put in your notice right on your two year date. Gives you something to look forward to so you can push through. A lot of times it takes a few months to get a job lined up anyways.
Human: [MT] I want to leave my job before my sign on bonus contract is up I want to leave my job for multiple reasons: physical, mental and financial. These have built up since I started but thought I would try tough it out. Sign on bonus was $5,000. I am 1.5 years into it, and the contract ends at 2 years. I received this at the start of my job and paid taxes on it through the first year. I cannot afford to pay this back. I do not have a job offer yet, I have only looked at jobs online. I do not want to approach my supervisor about this, since I don’t want my job in jeopardy. is it safe to approach HR? If not, what are my options? I would not leave this job until I have another job offer. Assistant: I broke my 2 year commitment after 6 months and had to pay back 75%. It depends on company (mine was healthcare in TX)...
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Human: How do we feel about technical presentations/take home assignments in the engineering job interview process? I've noticed these becoming increasingly popular for mid/senior level engineering positions that I have been interviewing for and I'm personally not a fan. I feel that an impromptu technical exercise during an interview is fair game. And jobs at say a product design firm that require a portfolio up front are fine. But anything that requires a candidate to do significant prep work between interviews (eg. slide deck, take home case study) is pushing it. Have you noticed this becoming more common? Assistant: Technical interview, fine. Free work? Nope. Doing your stupid homework assignment is work. I'm good.
Human: How do we feel about technical presentations/take home assignments in the engineering job interview process? I've noticed these becoming increasingly popular for mid/senior level engineering positions that I have been interviewing for and I'm personally not a fan. I feel that an impromptu technical exercise during an interview is fair game. And jobs at say a product design firm that require a portfolio up front are fine. But anything that requires a candidate to do significant prep work between interviews (eg. slide deck, take home case study) is pushing it. Have you noticed this becoming more common? Assistant: No. You want work, you pay for it.
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Human: Whenever I watch chefs cook I always see them touch raw meat and then use their hands to do things like grab the pepper grinder, pinch salt/spices directly out of containers or touch spice bottles, etc which seems really dirty. I don't understand how this is sanitary. When I cook I feel like I am constantly washing my hands between each step. But every time I watch chefs handle meat they are grabbing spices for seasoning, touching all their tools, spices, containers, grinders, etc. Let's take a simple example, an untrimmed steak. It seems to stay sanitary I would need to: tear open the package usually gets some blood on both my hands, wash hands, use one hand to hold meat while cutting, wash hands, use pepper grinder and pinch salt to season meat, grab steak to transfer to pan, wash hands again, etc. But every video I've seen of a chef doing the above with raw meat flies through all these steps without one hand wash and the chef is usually patting and pressing seasoning into the meat and has their hands going back and forth from meat to seasoning to tools. Am I missing something? I've always tried to minimize the hand washing by trying to always keep my dominant hand completely clean, but this is really slow and awkward for many tasks. Am I over obsessed with keeping everything in my kitchen clean? Are these chefs spraying their pepper grinders and stuff down with lysol after they're done? Assistant: Just a reminder that for food safety questions it's great to discuss proper procedures and techniques, but anecdotal "I've done it and it was fine" posts will be removed.
Human: Whenever I watch chefs cook I always see them touch raw meat and then use their hands to do things like grab the pepper grinder, pinch salt/spices directly out of containers or touch spice bottles, etc which seems really dirty. I don't understand how this is sanitary. When I cook I feel like I am constantly washing my hands between each step. But every time I watch chefs handle meat they are grabbing spices for seasoning, touching all their tools, spices, containers, grinders, etc. Let's take a simple example, an untrimmed steak. It seems to stay sanitary I would need to: tear open the package usually gets some blood on both my hands, wash hands, use one hand to hold meat while cutting, wash hands, use pepper grinder and pinch salt to season meat, grab steak to transfer to pan, wash hands again, etc. But every video I've seen of a chef doing the above with raw meat flies through all these steps without one hand wash and the chef is usually patting and pressing seasoning into the meat and has their hands going back and forth from meat to seasoning to tools. Am I missing something? I've always tried to minimize the hand washing by trying to always keep my dominant hand completely clean, but this is really slow and awkward for many tasks. Am I over obsessed with keeping everything in my kitchen clean? Are these chefs spraying their pepper grinders and stuff down with lysol after they're done? Assistant: Mise en Place. It's important.
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Human: Speed is the magnitude of velocity, but what is the magnitude of acceleration called? Assistant: It doesn't have a proper name, as far as I know.
Human: Speed is the magnitude of velocity, but what is the magnitude of acceleration called? Assistant: It does not have a particular name. The direction of the acceleration is very important to caracterize the movement. That is why we decompose it in the tangential and centripetal components, each one having a different role in the kinematics. The tangential component gives information on how much the speed changes and the centripetal on the curvature of the trajectory. The velocity, on the other hand, is always along the trajectory. The speed is the tangential component of the velocity.
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Human: Youtube channels for Mechanical Engineers? Hi does anybody have their favorite youtube channel on Mechanical Engineering? If you have some good stuff where we can learn things that we don't learn on college please post link here. Assistant: Thang010146 has cool animations/mechanisms
Human: Youtube channels for Mechanical Engineers? Hi does anybody have their favorite youtube channel on Mechanical Engineering? If you have some good stuff where we can learn things that we don't learn on college please post link here. Assistant: Machine thinking is a good one I stumbled across recently. The 1751 Machine that Made everything is a really good video by him
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Human: Just for fun, what's the least satisfying mechanical sound? Assistant: The slight *plop* a washer makes when it falls into a 300 gallon hydraulic oil tank.
Human: Just for fun, what's the least satisfying mechanical sound? Assistant: I've got an answer that can fit into both this thread and the other one: The sound you never want to hear when working on a turbine
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Human: What philosophy books and papers do you constantly return to and why? Assistant: Studies in pessimism and the World as Will by Arthur Schopenhauer.
Human: What philosophy books and papers do you constantly return to and why? Assistant: Thus Spoke Zarathustra. I feel like I discover something new in it every time I read it.
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Human: How to make only 2 or 3 cookies from a "regular" recipe? Over the years I have slowly accumulated multiple chocolate chip cookie recipes which i'd like to compare. I want to make only 2 or 3 cookies of each recipe, choose the best recipe(s) to keep, and get rid of the rest so they're no longer taking up room in my recipe binder. Is it just a matter of dividing the ingredients by the "expected yield", then multiplying that by the amount of cookies I want? Assistant: Most of the time, yes. Going too small can make them harder to make, though. E.g., it's easier to cream 1/2 cup of butter with sugar than 2 Tbsp. of butter. And you may struggle with some of the very small ingredients -- like dividing 5 grams of salt into, say, 8ths -- your scales usually are not that accurate.
Human: How to make only 2 or 3 cookies from a "regular" recipe? Over the years I have slowly accumulated multiple chocolate chip cookie recipes which i'd like to compare. I want to make only 2 or 3 cookies of each recipe, choose the best recipe(s) to keep, and get rid of the rest so they're no longer taking up room in my recipe binder. Is it just a matter of dividing the ingredients by the "expected yield", then multiplying that by the amount of cookies I want? Assistant: You can do that up to a point but when you start getting down to 1 egg, then that’s where you gotta draw the line. That is unless you have weighted ingredients. You may be able to then go with even less.
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Human: Do you think Engineers are treated well in the US for the most part? Might be a strange question. But I'm just curious how engineers view their quality of life in the US. I work in Texas and I think my quality of life is good for the most part. I'm curious how you guys feel. I would also be very curious if any of you guys worked as an engineer in other countries as well as the US. Would love to hear the similarities and differences between living as an engineer in another country and the US. Assistant: All I know is that engineers in Germany get wayyyy more vacation and better benefits.
Human: Do you think Engineers are treated well in the US for the most part? Might be a strange question. But I'm just curious how engineers view their quality of life in the US. I work in Texas and I think my quality of life is good for the most part. I'm curious how you guys feel. I would also be very curious if any of you guys worked as an engineer in other countries as well as the US. Would love to hear the similarities and differences between living as an engineer in another country and the US. Assistant: To me it depends on who you work for. There are some good employers and some bad employers.
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Human: What is the spring constant for a ballsack? I had this thought a while ago and google wasn’t able to provide an answer for me. A ballsack has elastic properties. When stretched, it exerts a force to restore itself into its state of equilibrium. So it must have a spring constant. I think it would be a different value than the spring constant for skin elsewhere on the body because it’s for a specialized area. Also, I understand that it probably wouldn’t be some flat numerical value across the board due to different people having different skin properties. There’s also the factors of temperature to consider, a warm ballsack is more elastic than a cold one. Does anyone have any idea where I could find the ballpark range of where this would sit? I’m really curious to know and I’m definitely not going to hang weights from my own balls to experimentally calculate it. Assistant: Is this what maths majors think about when they masturbate?
Human: What is the spring constant for a ballsack? I had this thought a while ago and google wasn’t able to provide an answer for me. A ballsack has elastic properties. When stretched, it exerts a force to restore itself into its state of equilibrium. So it must have a spring constant. I think it would be a different value than the spring constant for skin elsewhere on the body because it’s for a specialized area. Also, I understand that it probably wouldn’t be some flat numerical value across the board due to different people having different skin properties. There’s also the factors of temperature to consider, a warm ballsack is more elastic than a cold one. Does anyone have any idea where I could find the ballpark range of where this would sit? I’m really curious to know and I’m definitely not going to hang weights from my own balls to experimentally calculate it. Assistant: >So it must have a spring constant. In the sense that we usually talk about spring constants, this statement is only true if the restoring force is linear in the displacement. I'd definitely expect this to be a case where the restoring force is nonlinear and probably very complicated.
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Human: My homemade turkey stock is completely gelatinous So I made stock with the leftover turkey carcass from Thanksgiving. Basically stripped the bones as well I could, roasted them at 425 for 20-25 min, broke them open so the marrow could get out, then simmered with onion, celery, carrot, herbs, and about 6 cups of water for about 5 hours. The result was totally delicious, but after straining it and putting it in the fridge it's become completely gelatinous - no liquid at all. The two onions that were in there pretty much totally dissolved during the simmer - there were almost no traces that there had been onion in there at all after cooking everything - so I'm thinking that may be partially to blame. Don't get me wrong - I'm still going to use it, I'm just wondering what happened? Assistant: You made great stock. Nice job. Slap it to show off the jiggle.
Human: My homemade turkey stock is completely gelatinous So I made stock with the leftover turkey carcass from Thanksgiving. Basically stripped the bones as well I could, roasted them at 425 for 20-25 min, broke them open so the marrow could get out, then simmered with onion, celery, carrot, herbs, and about 6 cups of water for about 5 hours. The result was totally delicious, but after straining it and putting it in the fridge it's become completely gelatinous - no liquid at all. The two onions that were in there pretty much totally dissolved during the simmer - there were almost no traces that there had been onion in there at all after cooking everything - so I'm thinking that may be partially to blame. Don't get me wrong - I'm still going to use it, I'm just wondering what happened? Assistant: You solubilized collagen into gelatin. As others have said, a gelled stock is the good stuff.
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Human: [FL] Coworker wants me schedule my FMLA around her and others’ vacations I’m going to be having corrective jaw surgery (for sleep apnea and other problems - not cosmetic. It is covered by my medical insurance) in the next couple of months, hopefully January. I will be taking 12 weeks of FMLA as I work in a physically demanding job assisting cesarean sections and doing bedside patient care. I work a typical hospital clinical schedule, 3 twelve hour shifts a week. I have two coworkers that I coordinate coverage with, one works 2-3 shifts a week and the other works 1-2. They both already have multiple approved PTO scheduled in the upcoming months. One of these coworkers thinks I should schedule my surgery around their vacation so they will better be able to cover for me while I’m out. As far as I know I am entitled to FMLA, so my question is… is it possible for FMLA to be denied because some employees will be on vacation? I feel silly even asking this because it seems preposterous to me. This certain coworker has been here for a long, long time and has used bullying and intimidation to get their way with the schedule in the past (making up “rules”, guilt tripping others into picking up extra, blah blah). She is very close with one of the charge nurses and has heavy influence on her, who is also known to lie and manipulate made up rules for scheduling. I want to be prepared with information should they try to intimidate me. Assistant: The right surgeon for you could be booked up for months. You should work around your surgeon’s availability, not your coworkers.
Human: [FL] Coworker wants me schedule my FMLA around her and others’ vacations I’m going to be having corrective jaw surgery (for sleep apnea and other problems - not cosmetic. It is covered by my medical insurance) in the next couple of months, hopefully January. I will be taking 12 weeks of FMLA as I work in a physically demanding job assisting cesarean sections and doing bedside patient care. I work a typical hospital clinical schedule, 3 twelve hour shifts a week. I have two coworkers that I coordinate coverage with, one works 2-3 shifts a week and the other works 1-2. They both already have multiple approved PTO scheduled in the upcoming months. One of these coworkers thinks I should schedule my surgery around their vacation so they will better be able to cover for me while I’m out. As far as I know I am entitled to FMLA, so my question is… is it possible for FMLA to be denied because some employees will be on vacation? I feel silly even asking this because it seems preposterous to me. This certain coworker has been here for a long, long time and has used bullying and intimidation to get their way with the schedule in the past (making up “rules”, guilt tripping others into picking up extra, blah blah). She is very close with one of the charge nurses and has heavy influence on her, who is also known to lie and manipulate made up rules for scheduling. I want to be prepared with information should they try to intimidate me. Assistant: Op is going to be out months. These people will complain she's not there taking three shifts to their one-two every week no matter what, because they will be asked to work more shifts, is my guess, vs management bringing in floaters or a temp. Seems like a no-win no matter when op tries to schedule their surgery. When the approvals come in and the surgeon can book it...thats when it happens. Op can't control that, you get what they have available when one maybe 2 docs can fix you.
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Human: [Star Trek] When a starship's phaser fires and misses its target, how dangerous is that free sailing phaser beam should it strike a habitable planet? I've always been a fan of Star Trek's starship engagements but following the Dominion War storyline, phaser fire became much more wild. In the Kelvin Timeline movies and Discovery, phasers sometimes fire at random and scattershot from multiple points on a ship. This development has had me thinking for years about the danger an errant phaser shot represents. Let's say the Enterprise fires its phasers, misses its target and sails off, accidentally striking an inhabitated planet. What level of carnage are we talking here? Like if Paris was struck by a starship phaser... What happens? Assistant: Considering how empty space is its probably unlikely to hit anything before the beam makes it out of the galaxy at which point if it still has any power left it will eventually vanish due to inverse square law.
Human: [Star Trek] When a starship's phaser fires and misses its target, how dangerous is that free sailing phaser beam should it strike a habitable planet? I've always been a fan of Star Trek's starship engagements but following the Dominion War storyline, phaser fire became much more wild. In the Kelvin Timeline movies and Discovery, phasers sometimes fire at random and scattershot from multiple points on a ship. This development has had me thinking for years about the danger an errant phaser shot represents. Let's say the Enterprise fires its phasers, misses its target and sails off, accidentally striking an inhabitated planet. What level of carnage are we talking here? Like if Paris was struck by a starship phaser... What happens? Assistant: I love Reddit
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Human: [DC] Has Clark Kent ever gone to the doctor or done a health-check? I imagine it'd be pretty hard for him to disguise his powers when needles can't even pierce his skin Assistant: The Kents had a doctor who was in on Clark's secret in Smallville. Modern-day Clark can get a health check faked by one of any number of superhero doctors or the doctor associates of other superheroes; Mister Terrific, Dr. Midnight, Leslie Thompkins, etc. There's definitely an established process for hiding invulnerability in the medical field.
Human: [DC] Has Clark Kent ever gone to the doctor or done a health-check? I imagine it'd be pretty hard for him to disguise his powers when needles can't even pierce his skin Assistant: What would he need to go to a doctor for?
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Human: When am I a Dr? I passed my thesis defence last week! When can I use Dr as a title? Or PhD after my name? (uk) Assistant: Technically? I suppose not until the degree is conferred. But you should definitely revel in your mom and proud supervisor and others calling you doctor in the interim.
Human: When am I a Dr? I passed my thesis defence last week! When can I use Dr as a title? Or PhD after my name? (uk) Assistant: so I passed my defense more than two weeks ago and was explicitly told I cannot yet use the title (in fact, it was mentioned three times at the end of my defense) so imma wait impatiently ahhhhh bottom line: it depends, did they tell you something? and contrary to what some people mentioned, some unis like mine to have (sadly) the doctor police 😅
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Human: CMV: Religion has no place in the modern world and steps must be taken to eradicate it Now, this idea has been troubling me for a long time. The frustrating part is that it is the only strong view of mine that I feel is not justified by reason and my core values. I have a sort of irrational, almost instinctual distaste to religion as a concept, which is quite ironic since the opposite of being a part of a dogmatic religion should be open-mindedness. That's why I would like to ask you to either give me reasons to make peace with religion or be comfortable with this view of mine. Below are some thoughts I had about this. First, religions are restrictive by nature. It is not a problem in itself, as laws are also restrictive, but the authority of the laws in religions lie not within utilitarian circumstances or human free will, but within an unreachable deity (or deities) and their sacred teachings, which cannot be questioned or revised. This makes the teachings of religion absolute for all circumstances, times and people, which is problematic as these tend to change. It is possible to avoid this by avoiding change, but I cannot accept it as change and progress is one of my values (besides, there is an argument to be made that change is unavoidable). I believe that currents are taking us to reality when the teachings (maybe not all, but many) of most religions will be obsolete and even harmful, so that is one reason to wish to remove religion from humanity's path. Second, and this may be on the more "irrational" side, I find the metaphysics of religions problematic. Religions tend to have descriptions of reality, phenomena and truths of existence which are mystical in nature. Most religions have something to say about creation, the mechanisms of the Universe and what happens after death. This knowledge is not substantial in my opinion, as again it is derived from authority of a deity and sacred texts, and valid only if faith is present. In all fairness, science is not guaranteed to bring us to the truth either. Causality itself is an assumption which is true only as long as it is continuously verified, and there is nothing inherently certain about knowledge gained from evidence. Even so, I personally choose to believe in the assumptions of science and especially that evidence leads to the truth, and not to believe in the religious knowledge in sacred texts given by God (or deities in general). Epistemologically speaking, I don't think that one is necessarily better than the other, but personally I am biased towards science and against religion when it comes to knowledge about reality. The reason is that science brings consistent (and frankly satisfying) results and serves to improve our lives, while the knowledge from religion doesn't have practical utility and often even hampers education and advances in science. On a personal side, the knowledge about the reality in religions feels unsatisfying and against reason and common sense. I don't know whether it is just me, or whether everyone is a little frustrated with it, but I think it is better for us to have a knowledge base that is not being rejected by our reason. Third, and this is very subjective and I feel will raise the most objections, religions serve no useful purpose. Of course they don't really have to (some principles must be enforced in all cases - whether they bring harm or good), but my impression is that most religions are constructed so that it is implied they should bring happiness and good things to those who follow them. And I think they don't bring much good - not anymore at least. They might have been essential for building societies bigger than a family-tribe, but in modern world we have mechanisms that ensure successful cooperation without the same religion - or with no religion at all. We are tied first of all economically - we cannot live a modern lifestyle without all of humanity working together - fruits of globalism. Furthermore, many societies are deeply secular, and they are successful like that. The questions of moral nature are being taken care of by the law, based on the will of the people. So religion is not necessary for a society to thrive, in general. What about just useful? Also no, reasons as in the first argument above, plus they create unnecessary divisions. What about useful for the individuals? This is more tricky, as no one can vouch for all the individuals' experiences, but I will go ahead and say that even in that dimension religions are not that useful. Some people cope with stress through religion, enhance their emotional state and health, some are encouraged to do good through the teachings of religion, which I believe is important and impactful, and some derive sense of meaning in their existence. This all is true, and this all is very good for people, I agree. But I don't think that the source of it all is necessarily the religion itself. In fact, I think religion acts like a catalyst that unlocks people's potential to these positive things, but it is not unique and it is not indispensable for this purpose. People can be mentally healthy, motivated to do good and see meaning in their lives without religion. And my argument is that it will be even easier without it. I think people are more content when things fall into their places under their willful, controlled effort much more than when they do due to higher authority they cannot question. What I am trying to say, in religion life is not as reliant on an individual's action, so merit for good things also isn't felt as strongly as one's own, and that dulls the good things' intensity also. I will leave this thought at that, as I haven't developed it fully yet, but please let me know if I am making sense or if I am wrong somewhere. About the "steps must be taken to eradicate it" part, I think above reasons are good enough to reach this conclusion. By getting rid of religion we (a) don't loose anything positive that we cannot do without, and (b) we eliminate all the negatives of the religion. I know this goes against free will and people's right to live as they want, and it is the main point of conflict for me, but for the sake of argument let's say this actually is worth it in utilitarian sense, and in the end will lead to more open-minded and free society. This is one last "old-time" measure to get rid of the "old-time" way of life. Of course the way it is done is important as well, so no coercion, no punishment for practicing, no violence, only subtle and soft methods. In the end, the process of abandoning religions is already ongoing due to many reasons. What I am proposing is to accelerate this process by enforcing and multiplying those reasons. Those were some of my arguments why to disagree with religion. Are they good enough reasons to want religion gone completely? Help me tone down that passionate voice inside, please. Thank you. Assistant: religion and science are totally different things and the constant modern insistence that they're somehow inherently at odds is bizarre, based pretty much solely on the behavior of Christian authorities in Europe who had their own, politically-motivated reasons to halt progress. science doesn't offer ritual, regularity, and a sense of belonging in a community, and it isn't meant to do so - that's what religious belief is for.
Human: CMV: Religion has no place in the modern world and steps must be taken to eradicate it Now, this idea has been troubling me for a long time. The frustrating part is that it is the only strong view of mine that I feel is not justified by reason and my core values. I have a sort of irrational, almost instinctual distaste to religion as a concept, which is quite ironic since the opposite of being a part of a dogmatic religion should be open-mindedness. That's why I would like to ask you to either give me reasons to make peace with religion or be comfortable with this view of mine. Below are some thoughts I had about this. First, religions are restrictive by nature. It is not a problem in itself, as laws are also restrictive, but the authority of the laws in religions lie not within utilitarian circumstances or human free will, but within an unreachable deity (or deities) and their sacred teachings, which cannot be questioned or revised. This makes the teachings of religion absolute for all circumstances, times and people, which is problematic as these tend to change. It is possible to avoid this by avoiding change, but I cannot accept it as change and progress is one of my values (besides, there is an argument to be made that change is unavoidable). I believe that currents are taking us to reality when the teachings (maybe not all, but many) of most religions will be obsolete and even harmful, so that is one reason to wish to remove religion from humanity's path. Second, and this may be on the more "irrational" side, I find the metaphysics of religions problematic. Religions tend to have descriptions of reality, phenomena and truths of existence which are mystical in nature. Most religions have something to say about creation, the mechanisms of the Universe and what happens after death. This knowledge is not substantial in my opinion, as again it is derived from authority of a deity and sacred texts, and valid only if faith is present. In all fairness, science is not guaranteed to bring us to the truth either. Causality itself is an assumption which is true only as long as it is continuously verified, and there is nothing inherently certain about knowledge gained from evidence. Even so, I personally choose to believe in the assumptions of science and especially that evidence leads to the truth, and not to believe in the religious knowledge in sacred texts given by God (or deities in general). Epistemologically speaking, I don't think that one is necessarily better than the other, but personally I am biased towards science and against religion when it comes to knowledge about reality. The reason is that science brings consistent (and frankly satisfying) results and serves to improve our lives, while the knowledge from religion doesn't have practical utility and often even hampers education and advances in science. On a personal side, the knowledge about the reality in religions feels unsatisfying and against reason and common sense. I don't know whether it is just me, or whether everyone is a little frustrated with it, but I think it is better for us to have a knowledge base that is not being rejected by our reason. Third, and this is very subjective and I feel will raise the most objections, religions serve no useful purpose. Of course they don't really have to (some principles must be enforced in all cases - whether they bring harm or good), but my impression is that most religions are constructed so that it is implied they should bring happiness and good things to those who follow them. And I think they don't bring much good - not anymore at least. They might have been essential for building societies bigger than a family-tribe, but in modern world we have mechanisms that ensure successful cooperation without the same religion - or with no religion at all. We are tied first of all economically - we cannot live a modern lifestyle without all of humanity working together - fruits of globalism. Furthermore, many societies are deeply secular, and they are successful like that. The questions of moral nature are being taken care of by the law, based on the will of the people. So religion is not necessary for a society to thrive, in general. What about just useful? Also no, reasons as in the first argument above, plus they create unnecessary divisions. What about useful for the individuals? This is more tricky, as no one can vouch for all the individuals' experiences, but I will go ahead and say that even in that dimension religions are not that useful. Some people cope with stress through religion, enhance their emotional state and health, some are encouraged to do good through the teachings of religion, which I believe is important and impactful, and some derive sense of meaning in their existence. This all is true, and this all is very good for people, I agree. But I don't think that the source of it all is necessarily the religion itself. In fact, I think religion acts like a catalyst that unlocks people's potential to these positive things, but it is not unique and it is not indispensable for this purpose. People can be mentally healthy, motivated to do good and see meaning in their lives without religion. And my argument is that it will be even easier without it. I think people are more content when things fall into their places under their willful, controlled effort much more than when they do due to higher authority they cannot question. What I am trying to say, in religion life is not as reliant on an individual's action, so merit for good things also isn't felt as strongly as one's own, and that dulls the good things' intensity also. I will leave this thought at that, as I haven't developed it fully yet, but please let me know if I am making sense or if I am wrong somewhere. About the "steps must be taken to eradicate it" part, I think above reasons are good enough to reach this conclusion. By getting rid of religion we (a) don't loose anything positive that we cannot do without, and (b) we eliminate all the negatives of the religion. I know this goes against free will and people's right to live as they want, and it is the main point of conflict for me, but for the sake of argument let's say this actually is worth it in utilitarian sense, and in the end will lead to more open-minded and free society. This is one last "old-time" measure to get rid of the "old-time" way of life. Of course the way it is done is important as well, so no coercion, no punishment for practicing, no violence, only subtle and soft methods. In the end, the process of abandoning religions is already ongoing due to many reasons. What I am proposing is to accelerate this process by enforcing and multiplying those reasons. Those were some of my arguments why to disagree with religion. Are they good enough reasons to want religion gone completely? Help me tone down that passionate voice inside, please. Thank you. Assistant: > "steps must be taken to eradicate it" You don't have to take any steps or do anything to eradicate it. Religion is already dying on it's own. All you need to do is promote basic education around the world.
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Human: [Vampires]If I invite a vampire into my house, can I then revoke the invitation once they're inside? If so, what happens to the vampire once I do? Assistant: They get shooed out by an invisible roomba or something.
Human: [Vampires]If I invite a vampire into my house, can I then revoke the invitation once they're inside? If so, what happens to the vampire once I do? Assistant: Depends on the specific universe and its rules. In the Buffyverse, for example, it's possible, but requires reciting an incantation, hanging a cross in the home, and sprinkling holy water. In others, it may be as simple as simply verbally retracting the invitation, while in still others it can be altogether impossible once the invitation is given.
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Human: My son is in a medically induced coma after smoking synthetic marijuana (FINAL UPDATE) Thank you all for your support. Sorry I haven't posted an update before now. My son is home, and pretty much fully recovered. He was in the rehabilitation hospital for approximately 4 weeks. His trach wound has healed completely. There seems to be no lasting damage to his brain or eyes. His personality is intact. His memory is mostly intact (except for the day of the overdose). He still doesn't have all of his strenth back, but he is going back to work tomorrow. It has been a terrible 3 months, but it is amazing to me that he has fully recovered. So many days in the ICU wondering if he would live, or if he did how damaged he would be. My first conversation with him was more emotional than the day he was born. He was very heavy into drugs and this near death experience has knocked him down a few pegs and brought him back to reality. It has brought us closer together, and he seems to appreciate the life he has. Once again, I want to thank this community. You are all amazing. TLDR: Don't smoke synthetic marijuana. My son was lucky, Most aren't as lucky. Links to previous posts: https://www.reddit.com/r/AskDocs/comments/67mccn/my_son_is_in_a_medically_induced_coma_after/ https://www.reddit.com/r/AskDocs/comments/6b0trm/my_son_is_in_a_medically_induced_coma_after/ Assistant: Synthetic marijuana is bad stuff and addictive. Tried it and almost went into a seizure and I have no history of them, never touched that crap again
Human: My son is in a medically induced coma after smoking synthetic marijuana (FINAL UPDATE) Thank you all for your support. Sorry I haven't posted an update before now. My son is home, and pretty much fully recovered. He was in the rehabilitation hospital for approximately 4 weeks. His trach wound has healed completely. There seems to be no lasting damage to his brain or eyes. His personality is intact. His memory is mostly intact (except for the day of the overdose). He still doesn't have all of his strenth back, but he is going back to work tomorrow. It has been a terrible 3 months, but it is amazing to me that he has fully recovered. So many days in the ICU wondering if he would live, or if he did how damaged he would be. My first conversation with him was more emotional than the day he was born. He was very heavy into drugs and this near death experience has knocked him down a few pegs and brought him back to reality. It has brought us closer together, and he seems to appreciate the life he has. Once again, I want to thank this community. You are all amazing. TLDR: Don't smoke synthetic marijuana. My son was lucky, Most aren't as lucky. Links to previous posts: https://www.reddit.com/r/AskDocs/comments/67mccn/my_son_is_in_a_medically_induced_coma_after/ https://www.reddit.com/r/AskDocs/comments/6b0trm/my_son_is_in_a_medically_induced_coma_after/ Assistant: Normal weed doesn't do that. Whats in spice that does this?
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Human: Someone added themselves as an author to my publication on research gate Has this happened to anyone before?? I don't see an option to remove them as an author or dispute this. Assistant: SHE DOESN'T EVEN GO HERE!!
Human: Someone added themselves as an author to my publication on research gate Has this happened to anyone before?? I don't see an option to remove them as an author or dispute this. Assistant: If they are placed as co-authors in the said article, researchgate automatically detects RG members to check their authorship and let them tag themselves.
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Human: Winter driving? I wanna get the 2020 challenger rt (stick) I live in Canada so the winters here can get rough, is this a smart idea lol, winter tires of course, rwd? Awd? Assistant: Get some decent snow tires, put some sandbags in the trunk, leave traction control on unless you get stuck. You'll be fine.
Human: Winter driving? I wanna get the 2020 challenger rt (stick) I live in Canada so the winters here can get rough, is this a smart idea lol, winter tires of course, rwd? Awd? Assistant: Hahaha. Nothing like a RWD muscle car in the snow. Obviously FWD cars drive better in the snow than RWD cars. And AWD cars drive better than FWD cars. But good tires and good driving are better than either and FWIW, most cops drive RWD cars (at least Stateside). It's kind of your call. ;) Do you have a place to store the tires when they're out of season?
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Human: [MA] Got let go after I purchased flights with my personal card, employer asking for the refund I purchased flights for a conference on my personal card and expensed them at the instruction of my employer, several weeks later I was let go. The company has now requested I send the full amount in the form of a check back to HQ. I was able to get a proper refund of $60 on the baggage fees, which I intend to return to the company. But the cost of the flight tickets was non-refundable, and I was only allowed to cancel the flight for travel credits. My question to the community is, what’s the correct way to proceed here? Can the company realistically force me to send a check for the full amount even though the only refund available to me for the cost of the tickets was travel credits (that I have no use for)? Thank you in advance. Assistant: Say no. This is the cost of doing business for them. You can keep it simple and say "I'm sorry, but this ticket was nonrefundable so I wasn't able to get a refund that I can pass back along to you."
Human: [MA] Got let go after I purchased flights with my personal card, employer asking for the refund I purchased flights for a conference on my personal card and expensed them at the instruction of my employer, several weeks later I was let go. The company has now requested I send the full amount in the form of a check back to HQ. I was able to get a proper refund of $60 on the baggage fees, which I intend to return to the company. But the cost of the flight tickets was non-refundable, and I was only allowed to cancel the flight for travel credits. My question to the community is, what’s the correct way to proceed here? Can the company realistically force me to send a check for the full amount even though the only refund available to me for the cost of the tickets was travel credits (that I have no use for)? Thank you in advance. Assistant: New phone, who dis?
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Human: All right engineers! I need your help in the COVID crisis. I’m a failed engineer (BME) turned pharmacist. I know a lot of people here are EE and such and this may not apply but you’re all smart. My pharmacy is closing down our doors to protect patients during this covid crisis. Might last a month at least. In the meantime, we’ve set up a curbside pickup system for meds to take care of our community. The problem is that all of our medications and work is done in the back of the building while we have to bring it to the front of the building for patients. We do as many as 700 prescriptions a day and I can’t have my staff only running back in forth the entire time. Is there any way to at least partially automate or make it easier to move prescriptions to the front of the store without spending a ton of money? As a reminder, the store is closed to customers so it doesn’t have to be a pretty solution. Thanks I’m advance! Assistant: What about a model train? Setup a track around the store.
Human: All right engineers! I need your help in the COVID crisis. I’m a failed engineer (BME) turned pharmacist. I know a lot of people here are EE and such and this may not apply but you’re all smart. My pharmacy is closing down our doors to protect patients during this covid crisis. Might last a month at least. In the meantime, we’ve set up a curbside pickup system for meds to take care of our community. The problem is that all of our medications and work is done in the back of the building while we have to bring it to the front of the building for patients. We do as many as 700 prescriptions a day and I can’t have my staff only running back in forth the entire time. Is there any way to at least partially automate or make it easier to move prescriptions to the front of the store without spending a ton of money? As a reminder, the store is closed to customers so it doesn’t have to be a pretty solution. Thanks I’m advance! Assistant: A drive thru window is really just a hole in the wall.
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Human: Does anyone know if mile king tire are any good? Assistant: Made in China. My .02? DO NOT BUY TIRES MADE IN CHINA. Yeah they *might* be OK for you, but I'd much MUCH rather spend a few extra bucks on name brand tires with the brand history you can trust.
Human: Does anyone know if mile king tire are any good? Assistant: They are better than walking. Any model in particular? Passenger car? Light Truck?
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Human: Which Dry White Wine Is Best To Use For Bolognese? I’m getting out of my comfort zone and making a Bolognese this weekend. I’m going to use Marcella Hazan’s Bolognese recipe but it calls for dry white wine. Now, I know next to nothing about alcohol, let alone wine so I’ll need help in choosing one. Assistant: Sauvignon Blanc or pino Grigio are both pretty standard for cooking with. Don’t get the absolute cheapest stuff, but don’t spend more than 15 bucks on wine to cook with
Human: Which Dry White Wine Is Best To Use For Bolognese? I’m getting out of my comfort zone and making a Bolognese this weekend. I’m going to use Marcella Hazan’s Bolognese recipe but it calls for dry white wine. Now, I know next to nothing about alcohol, let alone wine so I’ll need help in choosing one. Assistant: Just look for a Sauvignon Blanc. That should suffice!
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Human: What makes train engines so big, i.e. the size of an entire train car? Assistant: Need lots of torque to move a train. And there's no replacement for displacement.
Human: What makes train engines so big, i.e. the size of an entire train car? Assistant: Trains are heavy. It takes a lot of power to accelerate that mass at an acceptable rate. There's a limit on how much power you can make for a given displacement. Therefore to move a big train, you need a big engine.
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Human: Can I use watered down heavy cream instead of whole milk? So heavy cream is 36% fat and whole milk is 3.25%. For example, if I needed 11 oz of whole milk in a recipe, could I just use 1 oz heavy cream and 10 oz of water? Assistant: I’ve done this many times. Unless it’s a really fussy baking recipe it will work. I’ve done it in things like muffins and biscuits. I’ve even done it for cereal!
Human: Can I use watered down heavy cream instead of whole milk? So heavy cream is 36% fat and whole milk is 3.25%. For example, if I needed 11 oz of whole milk in a recipe, could I just use 1 oz heavy cream and 10 oz of water? Assistant: I usually dilute by 2 parts water to 1 part cream to substitute for whole milk.
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Human: (Ex)Roommate wants a restraining order against me because I got COVID? My ex-roommate wants to file a restraining order against me because I got COVID. For reference, I tested right before I came back to school (which was negative). My symptoms started in the later half of the first week of school. I told them as soon as I started feeling sickly and as soon as I tested positive. I came back from quarantine (I did half at school and half at my friend's apartment off campus) and the room was totally empty. I just found out she moved to the room right next door to mine. Apparently she doesn't feel comfortable being so close to me (?) and wants to file a restraining order against me. Is there any basis for a restraining order? She is trying to say that I "threatened her livelyhood." I was in quarantine for 10 days and my university as well as the CDC said that it can show in my system for up to three months after I got sick. She is trying to say that I did that because she is high-risk (I am high risk as well). She was also on a trip to Mexico and is blaming me for bringing COVID around her? Please help, kind of freaking out as I want to work in education. Also forgot to mention we live in dorms on campus. ​ Assistant: She's an idiot
Human: (Ex)Roommate wants a restraining order against me because I got COVID? My ex-roommate wants to file a restraining order against me because I got COVID. For reference, I tested right before I came back to school (which was negative). My symptoms started in the later half of the first week of school. I told them as soon as I started feeling sickly and as soon as I tested positive. I came back from quarantine (I did half at school and half at my friend's apartment off campus) and the room was totally empty. I just found out she moved to the room right next door to mine. Apparently she doesn't feel comfortable being so close to me (?) and wants to file a restraining order against me. Is there any basis for a restraining order? She is trying to say that I "threatened her livelyhood." I was in quarantine for 10 days and my university as well as the CDC said that it can show in my system for up to three months after I got sick. She is trying to say that I did that because she is high-risk (I am high risk as well). She was also on a trip to Mexico and is blaming me for bringing COVID around her? Please help, kind of freaking out as I want to work in education. Also forgot to mention we live in dorms on campus. ​ Assistant: > Is there any basis for a restraining order? No.
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Human: Brag a little.. why is your industry or career choice better than mines Assistant: I work in defense as a systems engineer. I get paid to use PowerPoint and a little bit of Excel nearly all day, nobody bothers me as long as I get my work done, and I can hang out with my dog. I make $98k base salary with 1.5 years total experience.
Human: Brag a little.. why is your industry or career choice better than mines Assistant: I get to go home as scheduled.
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Human: I have been gifted 2.5 pounds of parsley What do I even do with this. I asked for a small amount so I wouldn’t waste and it seems they just gave me a box full. I have a pretty equipped kitchen. Assistant: You can freeze parsley.
Human: I have been gifted 2.5 pounds of parsley What do I even do with this. I asked for a small amount so I wouldn’t waste and it seems they just gave me a box full. I have a pretty equipped kitchen. Assistant: Zhoug.
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Human: What’s the coolest Christmas gift you have received? Doesn’t have to be engineering related necessarily, but all the engineers I know love cool, nerdy, mechanical objects. Figured we’d switch up the regular career advice and see everyone’s cool toys! Assistant: Something called a “Power Meter” for my bike (I’m a cyclist). It measured exactly how many watts you are producing, which allows you to do very accurate training and get a very accurate calorie count post workout :)
Human: What’s the coolest Christmas gift you have received? Doesn’t have to be engineering related necessarily, but all the engineers I know love cool, nerdy, mechanical objects. Figured we’d switch up the regular career advice and see everyone’s cool toys! Assistant: Hmm. I think Powerwheels back in the day may have been #1 on my all time list.
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Human: Email After a Job Interview I had I just had an interview with a company and they sent me this and I don't know what to think of it. I just spoke with the team and wanted to provide a quick update: The overall feedback is positive, however, we did just have another new grad start yesterday.  The team wants to assess what we have with that person, before making a decision on this next hire. So, overall it’s positive, but we're in a holding pattern for a little bit. We’d like to keep in touch with you and understand how your interview process goes with other companies.  If anything gets to a potential offer stage or you anticipate a company is close to making a decision, please let us know so I can circle up with the team and see where we are at? I look forward to keeping in touch, and we hope to know more within the next month or so. Assistant: Wow what a perfect opportunity. Get a an offer from elsewhere and see if you can get these guys to give you an even better one. Sounds to me like they just showed their hand.
Human: Email After a Job Interview I had I just had an interview with a company and they sent me this and I don't know what to think of it. I just spoke with the team and wanted to provide a quick update: The overall feedback is positive, however, we did just have another new grad start yesterday.  The team wants to assess what we have with that person, before making a decision on this next hire. So, overall it’s positive, but we're in a holding pattern for a little bit. We’d like to keep in touch with you and understand how your interview process goes with other companies.  If anything gets to a potential offer stage or you anticipate a company is close to making a decision, please let us know so I can circle up with the team and see where we are at? I look forward to keeping in touch, and we hope to know more within the next month or so. Assistant: Ultimately its a maybe Apply to other jobs
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Human: [DC] Are there any activities that Bruce Wayne is consistently bad at? I don't mean stuff like "just kill the Joker". Are there any games, stuff like juggling or sleight of hand, or writing prose/poetry, that Bruce Wayne demonstrated little to no skill at when he attempted them on more than one occasion? Assistant: He's consistently been fairly bad at cooking. It's not so bad that he'd cause food poisoning, but that's about all I can say for Bruce Wayne's ability to do anything more complex than putting protein powder in a blender while he's in the kitchen.
Human: [DC] Are there any activities that Bruce Wayne is consistently bad at? I don't mean stuff like "just kill the Joker". Are there any games, stuff like juggling or sleight of hand, or writing prose/poetry, that Bruce Wayne demonstrated little to no skill at when he attempted them on more than one occasion? Assistant: Using healthy coping methods to deal with trauma
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Human: Suggested reading for and against school vouchers? I'm looking for evidence-based work from people with credentials to take seriously, not entertainment pundits and propaganda. Not sure if this is a better fit for asksocialscience or ask_politics? Assistant: For Against In the name of answering your question in balance, I will stop there.
Human: Suggested reading for and against school vouchers? I'm looking for evidence-based work from people with credentials to take seriously, not entertainment pundits and propaganda. Not sure if this is a better fit for asksocialscience or ask_politics? Assistant: No child left behind by abernathy
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Human: can you add a little bit of turmeric to vanilla cake batter to give it a deeper colour would adding it affect the taste at all? Assistant: If you blend it with a fat first, like a small amount of softened butter, it'll blend more evenly into your batter. You can use the same trick for any powdered color or flavor additive.
Human: can you add a little bit of turmeric to vanilla cake batter to give it a deeper colour would adding it affect the taste at all? Assistant: If you have access to a Korean market near you, you can use 치자 (chija, or dried gardenia flowers/cape jasmine flowers) and it’s very mild in flavor but vivid in color. It’ll either be in the tea section or the dried foods section, and will probably be more suitable in flavor than turmeric for a cake.
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Human: Is there a website where I could find technical drawings of parts with all the rules applied? I’m an aerospace engineering student and I’ve been looking for some technical drawings to get familiarized with but I can’t find any “base” on the Internet to cull from. The drawings would have to be congruent with all the official rules and include things like tolerance, coarseness etc. Assistant: You're best off taking a technical drawing class to get this info. Check your community college.
Human: Is there a website where I could find technical drawings of parts with all the rules applied? I’m an aerospace engineering student and I’ve been looking for some technical drawings to get familiarized with but I can’t find any “base” on the Internet to cull from. The drawings would have to be congruent with all the official rules and include things like tolerance, coarseness etc. Assistant: This is a really good resource that I’ve shared with my team in the past: Make drawings machinist will love
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Human: Company laid me off, now wants me to bail them out because too many people are quitting. So I got laid off about a year ago. Morale was already shit and I know it only went downhill. People were reading the writing on the wall, knowing the good days were over, so if you thought you might be on the cutting block you were looking and if you were a good employee you wanted off the sinking ship. Even got a PPP loan. Money want the issue they just didn't have much work. Fast forward to today and now after multiple rounds of layoffs and many people quitting and multiple raises in an attempt to stop the bleed they call me. They want me to do some contract work for a couple months (require travel). So not even a full time offer. I know they are going to hope I come back for my old rate but that's not happening. A big portion of my comp was bonuses which I assume I wouldn't be getting, as well as health insurance, vacation and 401k matches. It's a medium size company (couple hundred people) so they won't just blindly approve paying absurd rates but I'm not bailing them out on a short term basis unless it's a good deal for me too, especially after being laid off. Any suggestions on how much to quote them (I'm not asking, I have no problem walking)? I'm thinking around 2.5x. I'll need to cover health insurance and self employment taxes but not stuff like computer or software. Trying to be high enough that they know I'm pissed and have them over a barrel but not so high that it's just a rediculous middle finger. Assistant: Honestly, it sounds like you're not mentally ready for this. I don't blame you, I was a fucking mess for a year after being laid off and I still have trust issues with employers, BUT, I think going back to work on a contractual basis is going to set you up with a nasty case of the "fuck it's" and it will only hurt you. Decline, tell them why, and keep moving forward.
Human: Company laid me off, now wants me to bail them out because too many people are quitting. So I got laid off about a year ago. Morale was already shit and I know it only went downhill. People were reading the writing on the wall, knowing the good days were over, so if you thought you might be on the cutting block you were looking and if you were a good employee you wanted off the sinking ship. Even got a PPP loan. Money want the issue they just didn't have much work. Fast forward to today and now after multiple rounds of layoffs and many people quitting and multiple raises in an attempt to stop the bleed they call me. They want me to do some contract work for a couple months (require travel). So not even a full time offer. I know they are going to hope I come back for my old rate but that's not happening. A big portion of my comp was bonuses which I assume I wouldn't be getting, as well as health insurance, vacation and 401k matches. It's a medium size company (couple hundred people) so they won't just blindly approve paying absurd rates but I'm not bailing them out on a short term basis unless it's a good deal for me too, especially after being laid off. Any suggestions on how much to quote them (I'm not asking, I have no problem walking)? I'm thinking around 2.5x. I'll need to cover health insurance and self employment taxes but not stuff like computer or software. Trying to be high enough that they know I'm pissed and have them over a barrel but not so high that it's just a rediculous middle finger. Assistant: > Trying to be high enough that they know I'm pissed Being unprofessional is never a winning strategy.
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Human: Received TWO barrel aged maple syrups for xmas, not sure how to best to use them without overshadowing the flavor One is whiskey barrel aged, the other is 'double apple brandy barrel aged'. I'm not typically a big fan of sweet things or desserts, though these are both delicious when sampling a little bit straight. I've tried adding some to a nice cup of coffee and it was barely noticeable; a little on top of my usual oatmeal breakfast at work was a decent addition but that's the best I've come up with so far. Canadians, come to my aid! How does one best make use of this stuff? Assistant: Personally, I would not use fine, barrel-aged maple syrup in a recipe. That's the territory for C-grade (dark, strong flavored) maple syrup. The aged stuff should be used solo, as the main event (IMHO). Cooking a recipe using that maple syrup would be like using a 2009 Saint Emilion Bordeaux to make coq au vin. Its subtleties would be lost/wasted.
Human: Received TWO barrel aged maple syrups for xmas, not sure how to best to use them without overshadowing the flavor One is whiskey barrel aged, the other is 'double apple brandy barrel aged'. I'm not typically a big fan of sweet things or desserts, though these are both delicious when sampling a little bit straight. I've tried adding some to a nice cup of coffee and it was barely noticeable; a little on top of my usual oatmeal breakfast at work was a decent addition but that's the best I've come up with so far. Canadians, come to my aid! How does one best make use of this stuff? Assistant: I make an ordinary pot de creme with flaky salt and a thin layer of whiskey barrel aged maple syrup on top. I think most people in here are missing the barrel quality and a lot of the methods will weaken that.
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Human: Punched in the eye by my dog I’m am a 22F, 5’3” 145lbs. About an hour ago my dog hit me in the eye with his nail making direct contact with my eyeball (he’s an 85lb german shepherd). Immediately after I was in a a good amount of pain and my eye was very red and watery. I also immediately after had blurred vision in that eye. I flushed the eye two times for about 30 second with saline solution. The pain has subsided now to an irritation when blinking. My vision is still blurry and very small scratches can be seen on my eye. I am not seeing any floaters or anything like that. I am wondering if this is something that I need to be seen immediately for, or if it can wait until morning. Thanks in advance. Assistant: You definitely need an ophthalmologist.
Human: Punched in the eye by my dog I’m am a 22F, 5’3” 145lbs. About an hour ago my dog hit me in the eye with his nail making direct contact with my eyeball (he’s an 85lb german shepherd). Immediately after I was in a a good amount of pain and my eye was very red and watery. I also immediately after had blurred vision in that eye. I flushed the eye two times for about 30 second with saline solution. The pain has subsided now to an irritation when blinking. My vision is still blurry and very small scratches can be seen on my eye. I am not seeing any floaters or anything like that. I am wondering if this is something that I need to be seen immediately for, or if it can wait until morning. Thanks in advance. Assistant: You definitely need to be checked by an ophthalmologist.
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Human: I own a house in Florida and I want to sell it but my husband does not want to. It’s only in my name. Does he have any rights or can I just sell it. He says he can lawyer up and block me from selling. Assistant: If your husband says he'll lawyer up, you have a deeper problem in the relationship than just this house. Contact a family lawyer
Human: I own a house in Florida and I want to sell it but my husband does not want to. It’s only in my name. Does he have any rights or can I just sell it. He says he can lawyer up and block me from selling. Assistant: You need an attorney. Generally in Florida any property bought after marriage (including a car, house, etc) is marital property even if it is only in one spouse's name. Unless you bought the house with funds acquired before the marriage or have a written marital agreement your husband has rights to the property even if he didn't buy it and isn't on the deed. It does not mean he is entitled to half of the house, but it does mean he is likely going to have to sign off on a sale.
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Human: [Marvel/DC] Steve Rogers was born on July 4th. If other superheroes/villains had thematically appropriate birthdays, when would they be? Assistant: Otto Octavius/Doctor Octopus: Either August (eighth month of the current Gregorian calendar and the preceding Julian calendar; named after Augustus Caesar, who was born as Gaius Octavius) or October (eighth month of the ancient Roman calendar, named after its position there; changed to the tenth month in the Julian calendar, and stayed there in the Gregorian calendar) 8th.
Human: [Marvel/DC] Steve Rogers was born on July 4th. If other superheroes/villains had thematically appropriate birthdays, when would they be? Assistant: Vision: Any day, as long as it's this year (2020 Vision)
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Human: What determines correct torque for bolt I’ve recently started doing some amateur mechanical work on my bicycles and a lot of bolts have a specified torque. Say I have one OEM bolt that specifies 10 N-m, and I replace with an aftermarket bolt that specifies 12 N-m. Do I use the new torque or the old torque? Does the threaded receiver not have anything to do with the correct torque and only the bolt torque matters? I guess my goal is that I want to preserve the bicycle’s frame threads for as long as possible so I don’t want to over or under torque bolts and damage the threads. Assistant: Navy uses "spot torque" and "blue torque." Spot torque = torque it until you see spots. Blue torque = torque it until you turn blue. Don't recommend with WalMart bicycle.
Human: What determines correct torque for bolt I’ve recently started doing some amateur mechanical work on my bicycles and a lot of bolts have a specified torque. Say I have one OEM bolt that specifies 10 N-m, and I replace with an aftermarket bolt that specifies 12 N-m. Do I use the new torque or the old torque? Does the threaded receiver not have anything to do with the correct torque and only the bolt torque matters? I guess my goal is that I want to preserve the bicycle’s frame threads for as long as possible so I don’t want to over or under torque bolts and damage the threads. Assistant: Torque it to 11n-m and call it a day.
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Human: [Hungary] My laboratory supervisor wants to throw a house party to celebrate one of our labmember's paper getting published, and also to celebrate him getting a new house. How should I behave? Act? How can I respectfully leave when I get overwhelmed? I'm part of a rather small theoretical/computational chemistry laboratory - there's the professor, a PhD student and myself (BSc 3rd yr). We finally got all calculations done, finished final draft and submitted the manuscript. We expect it to get thru with revisions, so prof wants to celebrate (and he conveniently has new house and covid restrictions are getting lifted). Is this a Hungarian thing to do? If not, what should I expect? How should I behave? And - I tend to get overwhelmed from socialisation/noise due to congenital stuff, how do I back out once it's too much without offending him? To note: Ages - Prof 57, PhD Cand. 27, myself 24. Assistant: My dad was a lab head and dept chair, and I grew up with most of our socializing being at his technicians house, we had barbecues with his students at least once a year. I also went to my post doc advisors house twice a year. So yes, this happens. Nervous students don't have to stay long, and everyone is on their best manners. No hook ups, only have 1-2 drinks, etc.
Human: [Hungary] My laboratory supervisor wants to throw a house party to celebrate one of our labmember's paper getting published, and also to celebrate him getting a new house. How should I behave? Act? How can I respectfully leave when I get overwhelmed? I'm part of a rather small theoretical/computational chemistry laboratory - there's the professor, a PhD student and myself (BSc 3rd yr). We finally got all calculations done, finished final draft and submitted the manuscript. We expect it to get thru with revisions, so prof wants to celebrate (and he conveniently has new house and covid restrictions are getting lifted). Is this a Hungarian thing to do? If not, what should I expect? How should I behave? And - I tend to get overwhelmed from socialisation/noise due to congenital stuff, how do I back out once it's too much without offending him? To note: Ages - Prof 57, PhD Cand. 27, myself 24. Assistant: Cat on fire? Or feed animals at home, Early morning meeting/situation
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Human: Does anybody know how/if a sphere can be rotated off axis, fixed in place on a flat surface? Hi guys, I'm not sure if this is the correct place to ask, but I'm trying to find out if anybody has found a way to make a sphere rotate off a 90 degree axis and stay in one place? I have attached a diagram here: https://i.imgur.com/bwp1ZBN.jpg of what I mean. Obviously sphere A is easy as it can just spin in place on a single point, only issue would be stability, however sphere B would only work if it could roll along the surface since its axis is not 90 degrees. I'm wondering if anyone before has looked at this before, how its possible to make it rotate like this but stay in a single place. I'm currently trying using magnets and nesting one sphere inside another, as I feel the friction from the rotation would be to hard to combat unless I had some ultra smooth/lubricated surfaces. Assistant: You mean like this?
Human: Does anybody know how/if a sphere can be rotated off axis, fixed in place on a flat surface? Hi guys, I'm not sure if this is the correct place to ask, but I'm trying to find out if anybody has found a way to make a sphere rotate off a 90 degree axis and stay in one place? I have attached a diagram here: https://i.imgur.com/bwp1ZBN.jpg of what I mean. Obviously sphere A is easy as it can just spin in place on a single point, only issue would be stability, however sphere B would only work if it could roll along the surface since its axis is not 90 degrees. I'm wondering if anyone before has looked at this before, how its possible to make it rotate like this but stay in a single place. I'm currently trying using magnets and nesting one sphere inside another, as I feel the friction from the rotation would be to hard to combat unless I had some ultra smooth/lubricated surfaces. Assistant: Does the surface below need to be there? I will assume yes because otherwise I don't see what would be the difference between A and B Yes you can, but you will need to 1. Hold the axis in place and 2. Put enough force on the rotation. Because like you say the friction between the two sirfaces will create a braking force If only you could space 1 mm of room so the surface is not pressed against the sphere and as such there would not be any contact area
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Human: Physics YouTube channels that actually explain the math? Almost all physics channels only explain the concepts while leaving the math as an exercise to the reader. I watch a video, I think I understand the concept and therefore able to understand the math, but then one look and I have completely no idea if what they explained is even related to the math. After that I get lost in a maze of Wikipedia articles about stuff that wasn't mentioned. The only channel I found that actually covers some math is The Science Asylum. Doesn't have to be a YT channel, any good resource will do. Thanks! Assistant: Viascience has made some great video series, mainly covering relativity, quantum physics and thermodynamics.
Human: Physics YouTube channels that actually explain the math? Almost all physics channels only explain the concepts while leaving the math as an exercise to the reader. I watch a video, I think I understand the concept and therefore able to understand the math, but then one look and I have completely no idea if what they explained is even related to the math. After that I get lost in a maze of Wikipedia articles about stuff that wasn't mentioned. The only channel I found that actually covers some math is The Science Asylum. Doesn't have to be a YT channel, any good resource will do. Thanks! Assistant: This is not a video, but it is a really fantastic book on beginning quantum field theory. https://www.amazon.com/No-Nonsense-Quantum-Field-Theory-Student-Friendly/dp/3948763011 Very well written and he even shows the math step-by-step, with explanations on many of the steps. It makes it much easier to understand the math involved.
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Human: is 4-6 weeks notice enough? I've been more or less a postdoc in one lab for about 6 years and am now a key member of the lab. I cover for my boss when he is away, train grad students and RAs on protocols and technical SOPs, and run experiments, analyze data, mentor grad students, etc. This sounds like a lot, but my productivity as far as papers has not been much and TT is not in my future. I've been able to stay by jumping on projects as they come by but this is not sustainable and the stress of always worrying about funding is getting to me. The bulk of my funding is coming to an end this summer. I found a position in another department that I'm actually excited about in a research support role where I don't have to worry about funding or papers being the markers of success/value. My boss is panicking by my leaving and making passive aggressive comments and I just want to make sure I'm being fair. I've given him 4 weeks notice plus 2 weeks 50/50 time with the two positions to ensure a smooth transition. I can't promise that I'm going to be able to wrap up everything I need to wrap up/hand off, but to be honest I feel like a huge weight has been lifted off me and I want to be sure that my relief at finding more stable ground (and a 40% increase in pay) is not me dumping all my commitments and burning bridges. Assistant: Sometimes you just have to put yourself first. I'm in the same boat because I got recruited to apply for a job that would be a huge step forward in my career. I will also have only 4-6 weeks notice and I found out my boss is going to be gone for the next 2 weeks. But he's also retiring at the end of the year, so I don't think he can give me shit for not seeing things through. A postdoc is not meant to run the lab, and your PI didn't seem to consider your career choices
Human: is 4-6 weeks notice enough? I've been more or less a postdoc in one lab for about 6 years and am now a key member of the lab. I cover for my boss when he is away, train grad students and RAs on protocols and technical SOPs, and run experiments, analyze data, mentor grad students, etc. This sounds like a lot, but my productivity as far as papers has not been much and TT is not in my future. I've been able to stay by jumping on projects as they come by but this is not sustainable and the stress of always worrying about funding is getting to me. The bulk of my funding is coming to an end this summer. I found a position in another department that I'm actually excited about in a research support role where I don't have to worry about funding or papers being the markers of success/value. My boss is panicking by my leaving and making passive aggressive comments and I just want to make sure I'm being fair. I've given him 4 weeks notice plus 2 weeks 50/50 time with the two positions to ensure a smooth transition. I can't promise that I'm going to be able to wrap up everything I need to wrap up/hand off, but to be honest I feel like a huge weight has been lifted off me and I want to be sure that my relief at finding more stable ground (and a 40% increase in pay) is not me dumping all my commitments and burning bridges. Assistant: whatever is in your contract as notice period is enough
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Human: How would you solve the Suez Canal problem? It’s getting pretty clear to see that the ship that’s stuck in the Suez isn’t getting out any time soon. With engineers out there trying to come up with a solution, What would you suggest if you were on the team trying to get that ship out? Besides blow it up. Assistant: I would drill deep holes into the soil, matching the shape of the vessel, and place explosives in them. Upon detonation, a solid block of earth and the ship will fall through the flat earth into outer space.
Human: How would you solve the Suez Canal problem? It’s getting pretty clear to see that the ship that’s stuck in the Suez isn’t getting out any time soon. With engineers out there trying to come up with a solution, What would you suggest if you were on the team trying to get that ship out? Besides blow it up. Assistant: Just start digging a bypass around it and turn the stuck ship into a museum.
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Human: I need some brutal honesty. 70 yo Caucasian female. 3 weeks post covid 19. 11 months post large pulmonary embolism after a severe ankle sprain. Overweight, sedentary. History of high blood pressure , asthmatic, chronic bronchitis. Pre-diabetic. 1st covid vaccine given 1 week ago. Only medications at this time is a cholesterol medication. I believe all blood thinners were discontinued. Patent is my mother. Wet cough began Wednesday. Refused urgent care. Collapsed this afternoon. 911 called. Patient coded in ambulance. Successfully recesitated. Intubation done at hospital. Coded a second time successfully recesitated. X-rays show widespread pneumonia in both lungs. Ultrasound results indicate at least one blood clot. Currently sedated and restrained. Right eye reactive to light. Left eye non responsive. High fever. Both kidneys are non functional. Patient is undergoing procedure to lower body temperature for 24 hours due to fever and possible TBI. Currently full COR. I need complete honesty, I'm support staff in a medical setting so I know how bad things can get and how quickly. I need no sugar coating. I've worked in geriatrics for 20 years. If any one would be willing to give me the honest truth about the most likely outcome I would be grateful. I have a difficult time saying out loud my suspicion that my mother has run out of time. That this was a domino effect that started with the covid diagnosis. My father is convinced she'll be home in a few weeks. My gut instinct says no. I just need to hear it from someone else. Thank you, stay safe, warm, and healthy. Assistant: Even with an out of hospital, witnessed resuscitation survival to discharge is pretty low (~36%), plus another one in the hospital to boot. The non-reactive to light and multi organ system failure means it is likely her time. Please don’t let her linger out of selfishness - it’s better to go a day early than a day too late.
Human: I need some brutal honesty. 70 yo Caucasian female. 3 weeks post covid 19. 11 months post large pulmonary embolism after a severe ankle sprain. Overweight, sedentary. History of high blood pressure , asthmatic, chronic bronchitis. Pre-diabetic. 1st covid vaccine given 1 week ago. Only medications at this time is a cholesterol medication. I believe all blood thinners were discontinued. Patent is my mother. Wet cough began Wednesday. Refused urgent care. Collapsed this afternoon. 911 called. Patient coded in ambulance. Successfully recesitated. Intubation done at hospital. Coded a second time successfully recesitated. X-rays show widespread pneumonia in both lungs. Ultrasound results indicate at least one blood clot. Currently sedated and restrained. Right eye reactive to light. Left eye non responsive. High fever. Both kidneys are non functional. Patient is undergoing procedure to lower body temperature for 24 hours due to fever and possible TBI. Currently full COR. I need complete honesty, I'm support staff in a medical setting so I know how bad things can get and how quickly. I need no sugar coating. I've worked in geriatrics for 20 years. If any one would be willing to give me the honest truth about the most likely outcome I would be grateful. I have a difficult time saying out loud my suspicion that my mother has run out of time. That this was a domino effect that started with the covid diagnosis. My father is convinced she'll be home in a few weeks. My gut instinct says no. I just need to hear it from someone else. Thank you, stay safe, warm, and healthy. Assistant: I’m not a doctor but i hope for a speedy recovery — if not, then i wish you the best in healing. Stay safe and healthy ❤️
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Human: What Does Vanilla Extract Actually Do? Hello everyone. I’ve literally seen dozens of recipes that asks for vanilla extract and some recipes don’t (for the same pastry). I’m very much curious what does it actually do because when a recipe calls for vanilla extract it’s usually in really small amounts like a “pinch of salt” Usually around 1/2 tsp or 1g. What does vanilla extract actually do when the amounts are really small? Thank you very much everyone and stay safe! Assistant: It adds one of the most complex flavors available, giving depth to anything it touches. Garlic is the moon while vanilla is the entire milky way
Human: What Does Vanilla Extract Actually Do? Hello everyone. I’ve literally seen dozens of recipes that asks for vanilla extract and some recipes don’t (for the same pastry). I’m very much curious what does it actually do because when a recipe calls for vanilla extract it’s usually in really small amounts like a “pinch of salt” Usually around 1/2 tsp or 1g. What does vanilla extract actually do when the amounts are really small? Thank you very much everyone and stay safe! Assistant: It was explained to me that it helps cancel out the egg flavour from adding an egg to baked goods as a binder.
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Human: Help! We don't have golden castor sugar in Australia and I need it for a recipe. Can I swap it for half white castor and half brown sugar? Suggestions please? Google has only suggested other sugars unavailable in my supermarket or plain castor sugar Assistant: CSR does a raw caster sugar, which should be the same as golden caster. Can get it in coles and woollies.
Human: Help! We don't have golden castor sugar in Australia and I need it for a recipe. Can I swap it for half white castor and half brown sugar? Suggestions please? Google has only suggested other sugars unavailable in my supermarket or plain castor sugar Assistant: I always sub white castor sugar. If you think the flavour would be impacted try the raw castor sugar as someone else suggested - I think that would be the local equivalent here.
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Human: Do you cut off the hard bit on garlic cloves? I always do but I never see famous chefs doing it Assistant: I misunderstood your question. If its sharp and quite hard I remove it, but most my garlic releases pretty easily with out being that hard. I thought you were talking about the part that connects it to the rest of the head.
Human: Do you cut off the hard bit on garlic cloves? I always do but I never see famous chefs doing it Assistant: I used to but realized it was a waste of time.
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Human: Engine cranks but won't start after changing valve cover gasket? Hi guys, I recently changed the valve cover gasket on my 2004 Honda CRV. When reattaching the valve cover I accidentally over-torqued one of the valve cover nuts and stripped the camshaft holder bolt. So replaced the bolt and torqued it to the proper specs. After bolting everything back down, my engine will crank but engine wont start. The battery is fine. Any suggestions? Thanks Assistant: Don't discount the power of coincidence. Been there more than once. spent hours trying to find what I did wrong, only to find it was something unrelated.
Human: Engine cranks but won't start after changing valve cover gasket? Hi guys, I recently changed the valve cover gasket on my 2004 Honda CRV. When reattaching the valve cover I accidentally over-torqued one of the valve cover nuts and stripped the camshaft holder bolt. So replaced the bolt and torqued it to the proper specs. After bolting everything back down, my engine will crank but engine wont start. The battery is fine. Any suggestions? Thanks Assistant: The kick starter or the fuel pump fuse relay got defective. Check both.
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Human: Why didn't my mozarella melt? I tried to make an Italian spin on Knafeh by using mozarella as the cheese base for the Knafeh dessert. But it didn't work. Instead of melting, the mozzarella simply oozed a lot of water, and any cheese solid left was like trying to eat a rubber tire. It was chewy, rubbery, and was robbed of any flavor. Like eating gum - yuck! I was using 18% fresh mozzarella balls I got from the grocery store. I expected it to be a beautiful stretchy melt like with pizza, but I got a rubbery, wet mess. Why? Assistant: Fresh mozzarella does not really melt the same way some other cheeses do. If it cooks for too long, all it does is squeeze water out. It really only needs a few minutes. I would consider monitoring it and right as it starts to melt, pull it from the heat.But in general, I do not consider fresh mozzarella to be an exceptional melting cheese.
Human: Why didn't my mozarella melt? I tried to make an Italian spin on Knafeh by using mozarella as the cheese base for the Knafeh dessert. But it didn't work. Instead of melting, the mozzarella simply oozed a lot of water, and any cheese solid left was like trying to eat a rubber tire. It was chewy, rubbery, and was robbed of any flavor. Like eating gum - yuck! I was using 18% fresh mozzarella balls I got from the grocery store. I expected it to be a beautiful stretchy melt like with pizza, but I got a rubbery, wet mess. Why? Assistant: Unsalted Akawi cheese works best for knafeh. We add just a handful of pre-packaged shredded mozzarella on top of the Akawi cheese to get that nice cheese pull. Oh I just need to mention that the best and most traditional cheese to use is ‘white Palestinian sheep- milk cheese’ (that’s the literal translation from Arabic) but it’s hard to find since it’s pretty seasonal. Unsalted Akawi is the second best option. Good luck! -Palestinian here
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Human: What are some good resources for learning QM quickly? I have Griffith's QM textbook in my (long) todo list. But right now, I'm looking for a way to satisfy my curiosity without having to go through a long textbook. Basically, I want to gain an accurate, non-simplified high-level conceptual understanding without having to go through a lot of tedious math. Of course, maybe this is not possible. Assistant: So you want to learn something without learning it?
Human: What are some good resources for learning QM quickly? I have Griffith's QM textbook in my (long) todo list. But right now, I'm looking for a way to satisfy my curiosity without having to go through a long textbook. Basically, I want to gain an accurate, non-simplified high-level conceptual understanding without having to go through a lot of tedious math. Of course, maybe this is not possible. Assistant: Learn linear algebra first.
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Human: Please help me. Embarrassing issue involving male ejaculation. Long story short I can't masturbate due to crippling pain when I ejaculate. I first ejaculated when I was 12 and I spent 30 minutes laying on the bathroom floor crying. It was a sharp and burning pain that lingered a few minutes after the release. My stomach then hurt and I felt like throwing up. I'm 23 now and I have never purposely ejaculated since. Every time I have a wet dream or whatever it's called I'm woken up from the pain. I've been to the urologist 2 times but only recently becuase it's an embarrassing issue. They couldn't tell me what was wrong expect for inflammation in my pancreas which is supposedly temporary. I don't see that lasting all these years. The problem now is a little more complicated. This is the embarrassing part: So for the past year I have been "edging". I bring myself close to ejaculation and I stop immediately. I do this becuase of small amount of pleasure I get from doing it. There have been times where I've accidentally gone too far and I've actually ejaculated. It hurt. Bad. Lately I have been doing it a lot less close to release so I don't have to worry about it. 4 nights ago for whatever reason I was a lot more sensitive than usual so I accidentally went to the point where I felt it was about to release. I stopped myself but this feeling that it is about to come out lasted an hour. I was in hell and crying because I was so scared. It went away and I was relieved. It came back but it came in waves. I eventually fell asleep on my back too afraid to move. I woke up and it was gone but that night it came back. It's been coming in waves ever since and tonight is the worst yet. I've urinated many times since then and I looked up blue balls and people say it goes away and "resets" after a few hours. This isn't blue balls obviously. I don't know what the hell it is. It gets more intense when I move my legs a certain way while sitting down. I know this is a problem for a urologist but can anyone tell me what this might be? I'm in agonizing mental pain right now because I've spent the past 4 days knowing that at any second the worst pain I've ever felt can come out of nowhere. Assistant: You need to go to a doctor in person, my friend. This is not one that’s gonna be fixable over Reddit
Human: Please help me. Embarrassing issue involving male ejaculation. Long story short I can't masturbate due to crippling pain when I ejaculate. I first ejaculated when I was 12 and I spent 30 minutes laying on the bathroom floor crying. It was a sharp and burning pain that lingered a few minutes after the release. My stomach then hurt and I felt like throwing up. I'm 23 now and I have never purposely ejaculated since. Every time I have a wet dream or whatever it's called I'm woken up from the pain. I've been to the urologist 2 times but only recently becuase it's an embarrassing issue. They couldn't tell me what was wrong expect for inflammation in my pancreas which is supposedly temporary. I don't see that lasting all these years. The problem now is a little more complicated. This is the embarrassing part: So for the past year I have been "edging". I bring myself close to ejaculation and I stop immediately. I do this becuase of small amount of pleasure I get from doing it. There have been times where I've accidentally gone too far and I've actually ejaculated. It hurt. Bad. Lately I have been doing it a lot less close to release so I don't have to worry about it. 4 nights ago for whatever reason I was a lot more sensitive than usual so I accidentally went to the point where I felt it was about to release. I stopped myself but this feeling that it is about to come out lasted an hour. I was in hell and crying because I was so scared. It went away and I was relieved. It came back but it came in waves. I eventually fell asleep on my back too afraid to move. I woke up and it was gone but that night it came back. It's been coming in waves ever since and tonight is the worst yet. I've urinated many times since then and I looked up blue balls and people say it goes away and "resets" after a few hours. This isn't blue balls obviously. I don't know what the hell it is. It gets more intense when I move my legs a certain way while sitting down. I know this is a problem for a urologist but can anyone tell me what this might be? I'm in agonizing mental pain right now because I've spent the past 4 days knowing that at any second the worst pain I've ever felt can come out of nowhere. Assistant: 100% need to see a doctor in person
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Human: What are some of your favorite flavor combinations for cake, the filling, and the frosting/topping? I've recently become quite enthusiastic about baking, specifically cupcakes. I would like to explore a wider range of flavors. Thank you Assistant: I love lemon with blueberry filling and a lemon cream cheese frosting.
Human: What are some of your favorite flavor combinations for cake, the filling, and the frosting/topping? I've recently become quite enthusiastic about baking, specifically cupcakes. I would like to explore a wider range of flavors. Thank you Assistant: Strawberry cake/lemon filling. The more sour swert the better. Yum.
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Human: Consulting: As a young employee, coworker says I need to "pay my dues" now. At the same time, boss preaches that I will have to "make many more sacrifices" as I get further into my career. This is not the lifestyle I want, do I need to jump ship and switch careers? I (26 M) have been working for a public consulting engineering firm for about a year now. Honestly, the job is not what I expected. Although I get to do some chemE related design work, the majority of my hours are traveling to job sites and making sure plans specs are followed. At first it was just 9-5 weekdays, but now I am being asked to sacrifice well in advanced planned vacation time for a project that isn’t too groundbreaking. After talking with an employee about 10 years older than me, he kept talking about how us young guys need to pay our dues while we’re young and how we are going to need to make sacrifices for the work to get done. Meanwhile, my boss comes over this morning and is bragging about how much he has had to sacrifice (missing family events, missing holidays etc.) for his work and how the sacrifices only increase as you progress into your career. This sent off red flags in my head because this is not what I signed up for. I’m basically being told that I’ll need to make sacrifices at all times in my life for this career. I get a sinking feeling in my stomach because I worked VERY hard during school to get my degree and I sacrificed a social life for good grades and good extracurriculars. Now that I have my job, I feel like I’ll keep getting asked to make these “sacrifices”. This not the work-life balance I need. I want my career to be an aspect of my life, I don’t want my life to revolve around my career. Maybe I am in the wrong field. I just wanted my hard work in school to pay off and now it seems like I am expected to make many more sacrifices in my life. Assistant: Sounds like a shitty employer. Get a new one.
Human: Consulting: As a young employee, coworker says I need to "pay my dues" now. At the same time, boss preaches that I will have to "make many more sacrifices" as I get further into my career. This is not the lifestyle I want, do I need to jump ship and switch careers? I (26 M) have been working for a public consulting engineering firm for about a year now. Honestly, the job is not what I expected. Although I get to do some chemE related design work, the majority of my hours are traveling to job sites and making sure plans specs are followed. At first it was just 9-5 weekdays, but now I am being asked to sacrifice well in advanced planned vacation time for a project that isn’t too groundbreaking. After talking with an employee about 10 years older than me, he kept talking about how us young guys need to pay our dues while we’re young and how we are going to need to make sacrifices for the work to get done. Meanwhile, my boss comes over this morning and is bragging about how much he has had to sacrifice (missing family events, missing holidays etc.) for his work and how the sacrifices only increase as you progress into your career. This sent off red flags in my head because this is not what I signed up for. I’m basically being told that I’ll need to make sacrifices at all times in my life for this career. I get a sinking feeling in my stomach because I worked VERY hard during school to get my degree and I sacrificed a social life for good grades and good extracurriculars. Now that I have my job, I feel like I’ll keep getting asked to make these “sacrifices”. This not the work-life balance I need. I want my career to be an aspect of my life, I don’t want my life to revolve around my career. Maybe I am in the wrong field. I just wanted my hard work in school to pay off and now it seems like I am expected to make many more sacrifices in my life. Assistant: Does engineering consulting even pay much more than a 40 hour a week place would? From what I’ve heard, it doesn’t.
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Human: CMV: Companies should not be allowed to ask for your Name, DOB, Gender, Race, or any other personally identifying information before the hiring decision has been made. ## Introduction and Reasoning: There is political discussion from various different factions about discriminatory hiring practices, but I think it's safe to say that discriminatory hiring practices (that is, hiring one person over another for any reason other than pure merit) hurts everyone. The most obvious accusation is that companies can employ racist, sexist, homophobic, or otherwise discriminatory hiring practices, even if the hiring managers are doing it subconsciously. I remember seeing a study about how people who apply for jobs with, "black sounding," names were less likely to be hired. There are also things such as affirmative action or minority quotas, which have been criticized for being racist practices. There are other types of discrimination though, which aren't talked about as much. Political discrimination is a good example, I have seen TikToks and posts on other sites where hiring managers or recruiters talk about how they scan their potential employees' Social Media pages, and choose not to hire them based on political beliefs. This creates a society that is hostile towards anyone with political beliefs that aren't in line with what corporations expect, and it goes against the principals of free speech and democracy. To be clear, I'm not talking about free speech *the law*, I mean free speech *the idea*. The first amendment is great, but there are many ways that it falls short in the modern age, and it could totally be expanded to include more types of speech, and speech in different mediums. ## Implementation: With my reasoning being laid out, let's talk about the implementation of this idea. The most obvious weakness that I think others would point out with this idea is that when a company does in-person interviews, they would obviously be able to see the person. My solution to that is what I think will be the most controversial aspect of this idea: With companies collecting personally identifiable information being outlawed before the hiring decision has been made, that would also make in person, face-to-face interviews illegal. Now, I get that in person, face-to-face interviews are a big part of the hiring process for most companies, however, I'm confident that alternatives which replicate many of the benefits of this could be used instead. Obviously the internet could be used; an interview could be conducted via messaging or voice chat, for example. With the resources of hundreds of massive companies combined, however, I'm sure they could come up with an even more creative solution that still respects privacy and the new restrictions imposed. Some detail/information that hiring managers get from an in person interview would, of course, be sacrificed. That's definitely a sacrifice that's worth it though, because on one hand, they might get slightly less information in the hiring process, but on the other hand, it would eliminate hiring discrimination almost in it's entirety, which is a societal benefit that greatly outweighs the cost. Of course questions about things such as background checks can be brought up as well. My solution to that is a multi-step hiring process. Once companies have decided to hire someone, if a background check is needed, that person can be passed to phase-2. At this point, the only reason that the company is allowed to reverse their hiring decision would be if their background check comes back, and turns out they have a criminal record that makes them a bad fit for the job. Another weakness with this idea is that the company might fire someone for a discriminatory reason after that person has been hired. The solution to this is to have stronger laws against wrongful termination with much more steep penalties. Unions would also be a great defense against this, if we could get rid of some of those pesky laws that prevent workplace organization. ## Conclusion: I could continue to list details about the implementation, but then the post would become even longer than it already is. It also reduces the amount of things that can be discussed in the comments, which is no fun. The whole point is for other people to poke holes in this idea, so that I can either strengthen it and create a more concrete basis for it, or scrap it as a bad idea and go back to the drawing board. I've had this idea for a long time, and I just think about it every time I hear about discriminatory hiring practices, so I'm excited to discuss it regardless of the outcome, whether it gets absolutely destroyed, or if I end up believing in it even stronger than I did initially. Assistant: What a huge potential for wasted time for everyone. I could be offered a job and then find out I’m missing some key qualification required and it gets rescinded? No way for a company to weed out unqualified applicants before an interview is crazy. If a brewery post a good paying job with the title “Beer Taster” they going to have to interview hundreds of unqualified people
Human: CMV: Companies should not be allowed to ask for your Name, DOB, Gender, Race, or any other personally identifying information before the hiring decision has been made. ## Introduction and Reasoning: There is political discussion from various different factions about discriminatory hiring practices, but I think it's safe to say that discriminatory hiring practices (that is, hiring one person over another for any reason other than pure merit) hurts everyone. The most obvious accusation is that companies can employ racist, sexist, homophobic, or otherwise discriminatory hiring practices, even if the hiring managers are doing it subconsciously. I remember seeing a study about how people who apply for jobs with, "black sounding," names were less likely to be hired. There are also things such as affirmative action or minority quotas, which have been criticized for being racist practices. There are other types of discrimination though, which aren't talked about as much. Political discrimination is a good example, I have seen TikToks and posts on other sites where hiring managers or recruiters talk about how they scan their potential employees' Social Media pages, and choose not to hire them based on political beliefs. This creates a society that is hostile towards anyone with political beliefs that aren't in line with what corporations expect, and it goes against the principals of free speech and democracy. To be clear, I'm not talking about free speech *the law*, I mean free speech *the idea*. The first amendment is great, but there are many ways that it falls short in the modern age, and it could totally be expanded to include more types of speech, and speech in different mediums. ## Implementation: With my reasoning being laid out, let's talk about the implementation of this idea. The most obvious weakness that I think others would point out with this idea is that when a company does in-person interviews, they would obviously be able to see the person. My solution to that is what I think will be the most controversial aspect of this idea: With companies collecting personally identifiable information being outlawed before the hiring decision has been made, that would also make in person, face-to-face interviews illegal. Now, I get that in person, face-to-face interviews are a big part of the hiring process for most companies, however, I'm confident that alternatives which replicate many of the benefits of this could be used instead. Obviously the internet could be used; an interview could be conducted via messaging or voice chat, for example. With the resources of hundreds of massive companies combined, however, I'm sure they could come up with an even more creative solution that still respects privacy and the new restrictions imposed. Some detail/information that hiring managers get from an in person interview would, of course, be sacrificed. That's definitely a sacrifice that's worth it though, because on one hand, they might get slightly less information in the hiring process, but on the other hand, it would eliminate hiring discrimination almost in it's entirety, which is a societal benefit that greatly outweighs the cost. Of course questions about things such as background checks can be brought up as well. My solution to that is a multi-step hiring process. Once companies have decided to hire someone, if a background check is needed, that person can be passed to phase-2. At this point, the only reason that the company is allowed to reverse their hiring decision would be if their background check comes back, and turns out they have a criminal record that makes them a bad fit for the job. Another weakness with this idea is that the company might fire someone for a discriminatory reason after that person has been hired. The solution to this is to have stronger laws against wrongful termination with much more steep penalties. Unions would also be a great defense against this, if we could get rid of some of those pesky laws that prevent workplace organization. ## Conclusion: I could continue to list details about the implementation, but then the post would become even longer than it already is. It also reduces the amount of things that can be discussed in the comments, which is no fun. The whole point is for other people to poke holes in this idea, so that I can either strengthen it and create a more concrete basis for it, or scrap it as a bad idea and go back to the drawing board. I've had this idea for a long time, and I just think about it every time I hear about discriminatory hiring practices, so I'm excited to discuss it regardless of the outcome, whether it gets absolutely destroyed, or if I end up believing in it even stronger than I did initially. Assistant: This probably just makes life difficult for the employer with negligible benefit for employees.
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Human: My employer wants to cut my wages by half, and I want to see what actions I can take. Good morning. I'm a long-time church musician who recently moved to a bigger church with more music budget. Unfortunately, due to the mismanagement of funds, lack of financial support, and the departure of the music director, the pastor reached out to me and frankly said that they'll have to stop doing weekly rehearsals and reduce my work hours and reduce my annual salary down by half, which won't be enough for me to financially support myself. Apparently, they found someone as an intermittent music director without telling me or the other musicians whom I rehearse with. This would be utterly devastating, for multiple reasons. I already submitted my offer letter with the original salary, and I don't know what grounds that they have to decimate my salary. Furthermore, I left my old church of 7 years because of the competitive salary, and at this point, I would not be able to go back, since they already found someone. I feel pretty sick to my stomach, because they told me that they still appreciate my musicianship, and told me all sorts of saccharine bullshit about how this has nothing to do with my skills, but has the audacity to pull this. I personally don't expect that there can be anything legally done, but what are some actions I can take? In the meantime, I'm looking for other church musician jobs in the area. The other musicians whom I work and rehearse with me don't know this yet. I could go salted earth route and tell them what has happened, and maybe some of them will depart from the church. Or I don't know. Speak to the media. Thank you. Assistant: File for under employment. It’s like unemployment but handles significant cuts in wages. The media won’t care about this.
Human: My employer wants to cut my wages by half, and I want to see what actions I can take. Good morning. I'm a long-time church musician who recently moved to a bigger church with more music budget. Unfortunately, due to the mismanagement of funds, lack of financial support, and the departure of the music director, the pastor reached out to me and frankly said that they'll have to stop doing weekly rehearsals and reduce my work hours and reduce my annual salary down by half, which won't be enough for me to financially support myself. Apparently, they found someone as an intermittent music director without telling me or the other musicians whom I rehearse with. This would be utterly devastating, for multiple reasons. I already submitted my offer letter with the original salary, and I don't know what grounds that they have to decimate my salary. Furthermore, I left my old church of 7 years because of the competitive salary, and at this point, I would not be able to go back, since they already found someone. I feel pretty sick to my stomach, because they told me that they still appreciate my musicianship, and told me all sorts of saccharine bullshit about how this has nothing to do with my skills, but has the audacity to pull this. I personally don't expect that there can be anything legally done, but what are some actions I can take? In the meantime, I'm looking for other church musician jobs in the area. The other musicians whom I work and rehearse with me don't know this yet. I could go salted earth route and tell them what has happened, and maybe some of them will depart from the church. Or I don't know. Speak to the media. Thank you. Assistant: There's a lot of speculation about whether church employees are covered by unemployment, but I found the actual answers online. In DC, "service performed in the employ of a church" is "exempt from coverage under District of Columbia unemployment insurance law." In MD, "employment is not covered employment if it is performed for a church." I'm sorry about your situation and I hope you find a new job soon.
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Human: My company wants to send me to training for learning on how to troubleshoot electrical circuits. What organizations/workshops would you guys recommend? They will pay for travel. Need to become more familiar with current, voltage, transformers, how to use a multimeter, etc. in an industrial manufacturing setting. What training organizations do you guys recommend? The company is willing to pay for travel. Thanks! Assistant: Do you use a specific vendor for a lot of your machinery? See if they have anything?
Human: My company wants to send me to training for learning on how to troubleshoot electrical circuits. What organizations/workshops would you guys recommend? They will pay for travel. Need to become more familiar with current, voltage, transformers, how to use a multimeter, etc. in an industrial manufacturing setting. What training organizations do you guys recommend? The company is willing to pay for travel. Thanks! Assistant: Man I need this 2! Im a calibration engineer
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Human: What is your strategy to read and digest academic literature? Relevant link: http://www.sciencemag.org/careers/2016/03/how-seriously-read-scientific-paper This article got me curious about the methods that the r/AskAcademia community uses to read, record, and digest whatever they've read - whether it be a study, review/meta-analysis, or case study. I usually skim the intro, then look at the characteristics of the sample, and jump straight into the results. I refer to the methods when I don't understand something. I read discussions when its a topic I don't know well enough. I also keep an excel file organised by: Author; Article name; Keywords (related to my research qn to help with organising what articles are closely related); Study design; Background; Variable definitions; Findings; Notes on cool info *Edit: formatting. Assistant: I think it definitely varies by field. As an academic in theatre, the totality of a piece of academic literature is vital. I’ll read the whole thing from beginning to end, then review the introduction and conclusion before considering each piece of the body separately, usually making notes or paraphrases of important pieces of evidence. Fortunately, writers in theatre are usually good storytellers so it isn’t difficult to wade through.
Human: What is your strategy to read and digest academic literature? Relevant link: http://www.sciencemag.org/careers/2016/03/how-seriously-read-scientific-paper This article got me curious about the methods that the r/AskAcademia community uses to read, record, and digest whatever they've read - whether it be a study, review/meta-analysis, or case study. I usually skim the intro, then look at the characteristics of the sample, and jump straight into the results. I refer to the methods when I don't understand something. I read discussions when its a topic I don't know well enough. I also keep an excel file organised by: Author; Article name; Keywords (related to my research qn to help with organising what articles are closely related); Study design; Background; Variable definitions; Findings; Notes on cool info *Edit: formatting. Assistant: You might enjoy Zotero.
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Human: People who give out cookies for Christmas: When in the month do you usually give them out? Do you give them at the beginning of December? Somewhere in the middle? or the closest to Christmas day? Assistant: I work for a school, so usually the week before we go off for break.
Human: People who give out cookies for Christmas: When in the month do you usually give them out? Do you give them at the beginning of December? Somewhere in the middle? or the closest to Christmas day? Assistant: What my mom did: For family I'm going to see at the holiday, on the day or week of. For people like customers, around mid month.
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Human: I am a lawyer who specializes in intellectual property (except patents). AMA! I practice in the United States and have focused on intellectual property for most of my career. There is often a disconnect between how people view intellectual property and how it is treated under the law. Feel free to blast away with any questions about copyrights, trademarks, and the myriad of other forms of intellectual property. Assistant: Thanks for setting up this post. What would you say are the most common misconceptions about Intellectual Property?
Human: I am a lawyer who specializes in intellectual property (except patents). AMA! I practice in the United States and have focused on intellectual property for most of my career. There is often a disconnect between how people view intellectual property and how it is treated under the law. Feel free to blast away with any questions about copyrights, trademarks, and the myriad of other forms of intellectual property. Assistant: John Doe have this awesome idea > for some random reason decides to share it with some stranger on the internet via email messages > this angel 'friend' actually executes the idea before the poor John say "oh *uck". What this average John can do with only his e-mail records go get his well deserved slice of that delicious business?
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Human: I made a batch of homemade fishcakes that turned out great! I want to make more but freeze them - is it best to freeze before or after the baking/frying process please? Assistant: I would parcook, mostly because I'm cooking for one these days and in my limited experience, it's much easier to put the finishing touches on something than it is to cook it altogether. Simplicity, you know? The more complicated it is to cook once frozen, the less likely it is that I will use that recipe/technique again.
Human: I made a batch of homemade fishcakes that turned out great! I want to make more but freeze them - is it best to freeze before or after the baking/frying process please? Assistant: Would you mind sharing your recipe?
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Human: Freezing baked goods for Christmas question! Hello everyone! I usually do beautiful Christmas dessert trays with anywhere from 20-30 different varieties. We just added another baby to our family this year so I officially am a mom of three small kids. I need to start my Christmas baking super early so I can spread it out. I’ve read mixed things on google so thought I would try Reddit. How long can I freeZe treats that were baked? How long can I freeze dough? Can I freeze dough, bake the cookies and then freeze again? Any advice appreciated!! Assistant: I’ve definitely eaten frozen Christmas in November of the following year…….. Dry, but still cookies!
Human: Freezing baked goods for Christmas question! Hello everyone! I usually do beautiful Christmas dessert trays with anywhere from 20-30 different varieties. We just added another baby to our family this year so I officially am a mom of three small kids. I need to start my Christmas baking super early so I can spread it out. I’ve read mixed things on google so thought I would try Reddit. How long can I freeZe treats that were baked? How long can I freeze dough? Can I freeze dough, bake the cookies and then freeze again? Any advice appreciated!! Assistant: Mine always end up smelling and tasting like freezer odor. I do wrap them in multiple layers.
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Human: Broke my food processor with my pizza crust I was making pizza dough the other day. I put all the ingredients in my food processor to pulse and mix together. I have a kitchen aid food processor. My food processor ended up breaking. It won’t turn in anymore, I think I blew a breaker. I have warranty on it so I’ll get a new one. I have made pizza dough 3 times before and never broke it. Just looking for advice if I should be looking at a different food processor or I just pushed it to it’s limits. Assistant: You'd be better off using a stand mixer with a dough hook tbh.
Human: Broke my food processor with my pizza crust I was making pizza dough the other day. I put all the ingredients in my food processor to pulse and mix together. I have a kitchen aid food processor. My food processor ended up breaking. It won’t turn in anymore, I think I blew a breaker. I have warranty on it so I’ll get a new one. I have made pizza dough 3 times before and never broke it. Just looking for advice if I should be looking at a different food processor or I just pushed it to it’s limits. Assistant: I do mine in a kitchen aid mixer. It’s enough dough for two 12” pizzas
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Human: How can I get the flavor from chipotle chiles without too much of the heat? I love the flavor and smokiness from chipotles (I use a lot of chipotles in adobo cans), but for health reasons I can’t have eat a lot of hot peppers. Is there anything I could do to get a lot of the flavor with little heat? Assistant: Chipotle is just smoked, ripe (red), jalapenos. Being ripe they are sweeter. Take any red pepper, like a Marconi, they are nice and sweet, smoke it if you got a smoker, if not roast it in the oven at like 325 for 45 mins, then broil for a couple mins to get some char on it. At this point, you can puree it up into a sweet smoky pepper sauce.
Human: How can I get the flavor from chipotle chiles without too much of the heat? I love the flavor and smokiness from chipotles (I use a lot of chipotles in adobo cans), but for health reasons I can’t have eat a lot of hot peppers. Is there anything I could do to get a lot of the flavor with little heat? Assistant: If you buy the dried chipotles instead it will be a lot easier to remove the seeds and ribs, which are the source of the heat.
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Human: Graduated with B.S in EE, but feel that I have no real skills, how do I find a job? I had to work 40 hours a week and was in an extremely abusive relationship throughout my 4 years in school. Because of this I basically just regurgitated the info given to me and never developed any real design experience, which it seems most EE jobs want. I had a job as a test engineer straight out of college but due to corporate stuff, was layed off 3 days in but at that point in the summer all the new college grad jobs were swallowed up. I currently have been working 12 hour night shifts as a maintenance tech in the semiconductor industry. It pays well for the area (60k) year, but I feel the work is not only below me as I went to school for 4 years for a job that doesn't require much schooling, but the nights are ruining my emotionally after 6 months. After a bad interview at another job, I realized I just don't have the design experience to be a classic EE and get that job and I feel stuck. I know there are test, equipment, process, quality engineers that need an EE degree that could work but so far there are none in my area. ​ The longer I go without a role in my degree I also fear my skills will dwindle. The nights are ruining my mental health and social life and this all just sucks. Any advice? ​ Edit: I also have 5 years worth of IT and hardware repair under my belt if this helps at all. Maybe there's an EE job that kinda uses this? Assistant: \> none in my area Well, that may be a hint that it's time to find a new area.
Human: Graduated with B.S in EE, but feel that I have no real skills, how do I find a job? I had to work 40 hours a week and was in an extremely abusive relationship throughout my 4 years in school. Because of this I basically just regurgitated the info given to me and never developed any real design experience, which it seems most EE jobs want. I had a job as a test engineer straight out of college but due to corporate stuff, was layed off 3 days in but at that point in the summer all the new college grad jobs were swallowed up. I currently have been working 12 hour night shifts as a maintenance tech in the semiconductor industry. It pays well for the area (60k) year, but I feel the work is not only below me as I went to school for 4 years for a job that doesn't require much schooling, but the nights are ruining my emotionally after 6 months. After a bad interview at another job, I realized I just don't have the design experience to be a classic EE and get that job and I feel stuck. I know there are test, equipment, process, quality engineers that need an EE degree that could work but so far there are none in my area. ​ The longer I go without a role in my degree I also fear my skills will dwindle. The nights are ruining my mental health and social life and this all just sucks. Any advice? ​ Edit: I also have 5 years worth of IT and hardware repair under my belt if this helps at all. Maybe there's an EE job that kinda uses this? Assistant: Well dude. You have your base. No get the work experience. You learn the juicy stuff at your job
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Human: [Marvel] What happens if Bruce Banner wears adamantium pants and he transforms into the hulk? Assistant: He would transform and look like Johnny Bravo
Human: [Marvel] What happens if Bruce Banner wears adamantium pants and he transforms into the hulk? Assistant: Sounds like someone's been *smoking* some "Bruce Banner"...
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Human: Best authentic Mexican cookbooks for beginners? One third of my family is Mexican, and so growing up when I'd visit them we'd eat tacos, rice and beans, homemade salsas, chicken soups, tostadas, ect. But they never really dived deep into Mexican cuisine like how I saw Rick Bayless and other cooks do on the television. I'm now in culinary school, and one of our upcoming lessons for the final unit is Mexican Cuisine, but there's not really much there - just the same old same old. I need something better than that in my repertoire as a Chef. Assistant: I like Diana Kennedy's books, but that being said, she does not like Norteno cooking. If your family is from Northern Mexico, her cook books really don't cover it at all. I think she has a couple recipes she couldn't avoid. Like, you can't have a menudo recipe without talking to some Sonorans. I think she has a good red pork tamale recipe that's northern style. Also, UT SA has a huge collection of digitized antique cookbooks from Mexico that might be worth playing with.
Human: Best authentic Mexican cookbooks for beginners? One third of my family is Mexican, and so growing up when I'd visit them we'd eat tacos, rice and beans, homemade salsas, chicken soups, tostadas, ect. But they never really dived deep into Mexican cuisine like how I saw Rick Bayless and other cooks do on the television. I'm now in culinary school, and one of our upcoming lessons for the final unit is Mexican Cuisine, but there's not really much there - just the same old same old. I need something better than that in my repertoire as a Chef. Assistant: He doesn’t have a book yet, but Rick Martinez’s recipes are amazing!
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Human: [AZ]. Will "Decline to Answer" in the invitation to self identify hurt my chances of getting hired? I'm employed but looking for a new job. At the end of nearly all applications is an invitation to self identify. Four questions: Race, Gender, Military, & Disability I feel likey race & gender may be held against me, so I'm marking "choose not to answer". I'm ok answering the military & disability questions. As an HR professional on the front end of the interview process, when you see this declination, does that make you less likely to move the candidate forward in the process? Assistant: No it’s makes no difference whatsoever and neither does answering them.
Human: [AZ]. Will "Decline to Answer" in the invitation to self identify hurt my chances of getting hired? I'm employed but looking for a new job. At the end of nearly all applications is an invitation to self identify. Four questions: Race, Gender, Military, & Disability I feel likey race & gender may be held against me, so I'm marking "choose not to answer". I'm ok answering the military & disability questions. As an HR professional on the front end of the interview process, when you see this declination, does that make you less likely to move the candidate forward in the process? Assistant: It's only used for gov't reporting. Recruiters don't even have access to the info. Or any way to know if you completed it or not. Your issues are not because of this
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Human: Would a small tattoo behind my ear be unprofessional? I’m half deaf and want a muted speaker I know face, neck, and hand tattoos are bad news. I was seeking input if this functional tattoo would be an exception or not Assistant: Main problem with this is you'll get people saying 'oh what's that?' straight into your deaf ear. Opinions on tattoos are a generational and regional thing. Works with plenty of professionals with tattoos in London with a younger average age. None in the provinces.
Human: Would a small tattoo behind my ear be unprofessional? I’m half deaf and want a muted speaker I know face, neck, and hand tattoos are bad news. I was seeking input if this functional tattoo would be an exception or not Assistant: Na I got a sleeve. Engineers don’t care
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Human: MATLAB use in industry? So I'm just curious about the comparison between MATLAB and Python. I prefer Python, but I have more experience in and understand MATLAB way better. I've heard that MATLAB doesn't have a lot of use in industry, though, given the cost of a license. Is this true, and if so, should I scramble to really learn Python? Assistant: I use MATLAB daily at my job. I do a lot of testing and MATLAB is very easy to write scripts to automate things (there probably is other better languages/tools, but I prefer MATLAB). Most industries will let you pick whatever you want to use if it’s from scratch, but most engineers have touched or used MATLAB so it’s common. Also working in the aerospace and defense industry.
Human: MATLAB use in industry? So I'm just curious about the comparison between MATLAB and Python. I prefer Python, but I have more experience in and understand MATLAB way better. I've heard that MATLAB doesn't have a lot of use in industry, though, given the cost of a license. Is this true, and if so, should I scramble to really learn Python? Assistant: Wow, where do you guys all work? In all my jobs, we use excel first, then python. Some specialty software, like hysis or comsol to solve specific problems or model. If I need matlab, I’ll use the free GNU version called Octave.
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Human: [Superheroes General] Are there ANY heroes that lack both super powers AND billions of dollars? Or, to rephrase, is Green Arrow seriously the most realistic superhero? (Batman doesn't count, he's a super genius and that's a power. Fuck you, fight me.) The closest I can think of is Daredevil, but he still has that echolocation thing going on and I can't remember if that's a skill he learned or a byproduct of his chemical exposure. Assistant: Wild Dog. He has money but not billionaire money. I always thought of him as Batman if his parents were middle class. Wild Dog couldn't hire martial arts masters to train him, he went into the Marines. He buys his gear at Walmart.
Human: [Superheroes General] Are there ANY heroes that lack both super powers AND billions of dollars? Or, to rephrase, is Green Arrow seriously the most realistic superhero? (Batman doesn't count, he's a super genius and that's a power. Fuck you, fight me.) The closest I can think of is Daredevil, but he still has that echolocation thing going on and I can't remember if that's a skill he learned or a byproduct of his chemical exposure. Assistant: The original Atom, Al Pratt; also Wildcat Both started out as simple boxers
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Human: Should I leave my job my “engineering” job? I graduated last December with a BS in engineering from Ohio state and couldn’t find a real job until this August despite having had 2 internships and decent grades. I was skeptical of the company I work at and rejected the job offer initially but then decided I should try it. I’ve been working here for 2 months now and haven’t received any training. Most day I just wander around until they tell me to do some bs like feeding cords through a fixture, or screw in some plates. The working conditions are terrible too. I’ve gotten arc flash a few times due to negligence and a sore throat from inhaling grinding dust and welding fumes. They don’t use a fume hood or anything like that. It feels like I’m being used and at this point I think it might be detrimental to my career. I haven’t looked at anything engineering related at all. If a recruiter from a different company asked me about my experience I’m not sure I could even stretch the truth to make it sound like I did something meaningful. Should I leave? Assistant: Contact osha
Human: Should I leave my job my “engineering” job? I graduated last December with a BS in engineering from Ohio state and couldn’t find a real job until this August despite having had 2 internships and decent grades. I was skeptical of the company I work at and rejected the job offer initially but then decided I should try it. I’ve been working here for 2 months now and haven’t received any training. Most day I just wander around until they tell me to do some bs like feeding cords through a fixture, or screw in some plates. The working conditions are terrible too. I’ve gotten arc flash a few times due to negligence and a sore throat from inhaling grinding dust and welding fumes. They don’t use a fume hood or anything like that. It feels like I’m being used and at this point I think it might be detrimental to my career. I haven’t looked at anything engineering related at all. If a recruiter from a different company asked me about my experience I’m not sure I could even stretch the truth to make it sound like I did something meaningful. Should I leave? Assistant: You can file an anonymous osha complaint. If the working conditions are unsafe the company would be fined and forced to improve them. Edit: fined, not fine.
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Human: What is your favorite musical instrument from an engineering perspective? For example I really like the kalimba. Structurally it is the epitome of simplicity and yet it is extremely efficient acoustically. Assistant: Trombone. A completely variable instrument whose pitch is continuously adjustable by the player. No frets, no valves, no keys, a single stimulus (mouthpiece) rather than N strings, The natural and obvious generalization of a bugle.
Human: What is your favorite musical instrument from an engineering perspective? For example I really like the kalimba. Structurally it is the epitome of simplicity and yet it is extremely efficient acoustically. Assistant: The Theremin!
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Human: [Among Us] Why do the crewmates vote to eject someone instead of putting them in a brig for example? Assistant: Asking questions like this is super sus...
Human: [Among Us] Why do the crewmates vote to eject someone instead of putting them in a brig for example? Assistant: Like it’s been said, there’s no brig on any of the maps. The next logical choice would be to lock them in a room somewhere, but most rooms have a vent leading somewhere else. The Skeld just wasn’t built with a brig in mind, Mira isn’t exactly a prison either, and Polus is clearly meant to be more of a temporary research station, so there isn’t much need for a jail.
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Human: I exert a 2lb force on a block, it moves. The block exerts the same 2lb force on me, why don't i move? Thanks. Assistant: The *ground* exerts 2lbs of static friction on you (due to your mass, shoes, etc). This cancels out the 2lbs of force exerted on you by the block, so you don’t move. The ground exerts *less than* 2lbs of frictional force on the block (it’s s block with less mass, no rubber shoes, etc), so it doesn’t cancel out all of the 2lbs of force, and because there’s some leftover force, the block moves.
Human: I exert a 2lb force on a block, it moves. The block exerts the same 2lb force on me, why don't i move? Thanks. Assistant: You have more static friction because you have more mass.
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Human: What's the best way to freeze cake layers? Long story short, I baked a couple cake layers yesterday to frost and eat today, but my mental health has other plans for me. As such, I want to freeze them to frost another day. Assistant: Wrap each layer tightly in plastic wrap. Then cover with aluminum foil. Freeze them each on a level surface with nothing on top.
Human: What's the best way to freeze cake layers? Long story short, I baked a couple cake layers yesterday to frost and eat today, but my mental health has other plans for me. As such, I want to freeze them to frost another day. Assistant: ^ what they said. Make sure they’re completely cooled and not super damp when you wrap otherwise they could stick to the plastic and break off in large layers!
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Human: [The Duck Song] Why is the duck such an asshole? The Man Running the Stand is just trying to do conflict resolution but the duck just keeps fucking with him. Assistant: It’s a matchmaking duck. The sequels reveal that he was simultaneously bothering a woman working at the nearby store, and this was a long con to get the two humans to meet and fall in love. He might be a benevolent trickster spirit or god of some sort: He will annoy and bother humans, but he has their best interest and happiness in mind.
Human: [The Duck Song] Why is the duck such an asshole? The Man Running the Stand is just trying to do conflict resolution but the duck just keeps fucking with him. Assistant: The duck DID sound young, so maybe he's just being an immature idiot.
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Human: I graduated in May 2020 with a BSME and am still struggling to find a job-any advice on finally getting that first job? Firstly, I have barely gotten any interviews, but when I do the feedback has been positive. The companies just decide to go with a more qualified candidate. I’ll be the first to admit my resume is fairly weak since I did not intern during my 4 years of school and did not minor in anything. All I have right now is a B.S. in Mechanical and a 3.3 GPA. A degree in engineering is something to be proud of, but it definitely seems to not be enough to secure a job in the field. Do you have any advice as to maybe a masters program or certification that would help build my experience? Assistant: Network, network, network. You need to have somebody introduce you. A wingman, of sorts. Send in a resume to an online portal and you're an anonymous name on a page. Have someone walk your resume in and put in a good word for you, and you're 1000x more attractive as a candidate.
Human: I graduated in May 2020 with a BSME and am still struggling to find a job-any advice on finally getting that first job? Firstly, I have barely gotten any interviews, but when I do the feedback has been positive. The companies just decide to go with a more qualified candidate. I’ll be the first to admit my resume is fairly weak since I did not intern during my 4 years of school and did not minor in anything. All I have right now is a B.S. in Mechanical and a 3.3 GPA. A degree in engineering is something to be proud of, but it definitely seems to not be enough to secure a job in the field. Do you have any advice as to maybe a masters program or certification that would help build my experience? Assistant: Where are you located? I assume US? What industries are you applying into?
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Human: Explain like I'm five years old: To English Redditors: Why do members of the house of Parliament cheer, grumble, and even boo when a recognized speaker is speaking? We only see that very occasionally in either house of the US Congress. Assistant: It's tradition. US Congress used to behave this way too (it's one of the more entertaining aspects of the film Lincoln, if you haven't seen it). Hooting, hollering, and trading outright insults on the floor. As for how it evolved from that to the more polite, reserved tone that we see today (while England, Canada, etc, retain the more direct and honest dialogue), you might want to ask /r/AskHistorians. I've done a little bit of research myself and can't find any succinct or satisfying answer.
Human: Explain like I'm five years old: To English Redditors: Why do members of the house of Parliament cheer, grumble, and even boo when a recognized speaker is speaking? We only see that very occasionally in either house of the US Congress. Assistant: Its all down to tradition, which is why you will hear them call each other "Honourable friend"
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Human: Can I calculate the hole size needed to reduce a 5 gallon air tank from 100psi to 70psi in 5 minutes? I suspect there's a lot more to the air flow rate than simple hole size, but I just need a ballpark of what size nozzles I can support. Assistant: This will be choked flow so it is calculatable. Look up orrifice discharge coefficients.
Human: Can I calculate the hole size needed to reduce a 5 gallon air tank from 100psi to 70psi in 5 minutes? I suspect there's a lot more to the air flow rate than simple hole size, but I just need a ballpark of what size nozzles I can support. Assistant: Mighty small! The outgoing airflow speed would diminish with time due to the diminished psi. I'd guess (not calculate) less than a millimeter hole. https://www.workaci.com/content/calculating-cfm https://www.omnicalculator.com/conversion/psi-to-gpm
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Human: [Star Wars] Despite having anti-grav, why do so many spaceships have wings, and what do moveable wings add?(Like Imperial shuttles, X-Wings, U-Wings, etc) Assistant: Imperial shuttles have folding wings because they're more space efficient when landed. If you're packing dozens if not hundreds of these things into Star Destroyers, how much room they take up is important.
Human: [Star Wars] Despite having anti-grav, why do so many spaceships have wings, and what do moveable wings add?(Like Imperial shuttles, X-Wings, U-Wings, etc) Assistant: I imagine that once you have your anti-grav engines blown off or malfunction you'd want wings or something
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Human: Discussion: Veritasium's newest YouTube video on simulating quantum mechanics with oil droplets! Over the past ten years, scientists have been exploring a system in which an oil droplet bounces on a vibrating bath as an analogy for quantum mechanics - check out Veritasium's new Youtube video on it! The system can reproduce many of the key quantum mechanical phenomena including single and double slit interference, tunneling, quantization, and multi-modal statistics. These experiments draw attention to pilot wave theories like those of de Broglie and Bohm that postulate the existence of a guiding wave accompanying every particle. It is an open question whether dynamics similar to those seen in the oil droplet experiments underly the statistical theory of quantum mechanics. Derek (/u/Veritasium) will be around to answer questions, as well as Prof. John Bush (/u/ProfJohnBush), a fluid dynamicist from MIT. Assistant: Is it possible to reproduce the entanglement phenomenon with the oil droplets?
Human: Discussion: Veritasium's newest YouTube video on simulating quantum mechanics with oil droplets! Over the past ten years, scientists have been exploring a system in which an oil droplet bounces on a vibrating bath as an analogy for quantum mechanics - check out Veritasium's new Youtube video on it! The system can reproduce many of the key quantum mechanical phenomena including single and double slit interference, tunneling, quantization, and multi-modal statistics. These experiments draw attention to pilot wave theories like those of de Broglie and Bohm that postulate the existence of a guiding wave accompanying every particle. It is an open question whether dynamics similar to those seen in the oil droplet experiments underly the statistical theory of quantum mechanics. Derek (/u/Veritasium) will be around to answer questions, as well as Prof. John Bush (/u/ProfJohnBush), a fluid dynamicist from MIT. Assistant: How does Pilot wave theory deal with the quantum eraser class of experiments? Obviously the droplets don't recreate the loss of interference pattern but can the theory?
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Human: How to think like an engineer??? Hello, I would love to know how an engineer is supposed to think, or what kind of mindset an engineer must have to get the best results. Feel free to discuss other points of view that you have encounteredthe, such as a point of view of a kid or people that are none engineers on this topic. 😊 thnx. Assistant: Don't get attached to your ideas - be willing to change your mind based on new data.
Human: How to think like an engineer??? Hello, I would love to know how an engineer is supposed to think, or what kind of mindset an engineer must have to get the best results. Feel free to discuss other points of view that you have encounteredthe, such as a point of view of a kid or people that are none engineers on this topic. 😊 thnx. Assistant: Always question, never blindly assume (if you do assume make it an educated assumption and document it).
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Human: physics podcasts for non-academics Hi, are there any good physics podcasts out there? I took one physics class in high school almost 15 years ago, so I need some beginner content. Thank you! Assistant: Related: are there physics podcasts *for* academics?
Human: physics podcasts for non-academics Hi, are there any good physics podcasts out there? I took one physics class in high school almost 15 years ago, so I need some beginner content. Thank you! Assistant: Daniel and Jorge Explain the Universe They touch on astrophysics, high energy particle physics, cosmology, and astronomy. Love them
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Human: My former landlord just contacted me saying that he did found an old rent check that he allowed to go stale. He was unable to deposit it because it was written over 2 years ago. He wants me to write him another check. Am I required to do so? (Oregon, USA) I lived in that house for about 2 years on a month to month basis. I paid my rent monthly in the form a personal check made out to my landlord. He usually deposited them within one month, however he somehow forgot or neglected to deposit a check from 2015, and just noticed it this week. I never noticed that he didn't deposit the check. My former landlord sent me a photo of the check, so I have proof that I wrote it. He informed me that the bank would not honor the check because of its age, and that he'd like me to write another. I checked my bank statements, and I know that the check was not deposited. I would guess that there's some law saying what my obligation is here, but I couldn't find it. All I found was that banks generally don't honor checks that are over 6 months old, however I could not find anything regarding whether or not I still legally owe him money. I feel that I upheld my end of the deal by writing the check and it's his fault that he didn't deposit it. Am I required to write another check? Can someone hold onto a check indefinitely to deposit whenever they wish, or does the debt "expire" after some time? Thanks for your help. Assistant: Have him send you the old cheque back and write him a new one if you left on good terms.
Human: My former landlord just contacted me saying that he did found an old rent check that he allowed to go stale. He was unable to deposit it because it was written over 2 years ago. He wants me to write him another check. Am I required to do so? (Oregon, USA) I lived in that house for about 2 years on a month to month basis. I paid my rent monthly in the form a personal check made out to my landlord. He usually deposited them within one month, however he somehow forgot or neglected to deposit a check from 2015, and just noticed it this week. I never noticed that he didn't deposit the check. My former landlord sent me a photo of the check, so I have proof that I wrote it. He informed me that the bank would not honor the check because of its age, and that he'd like me to write another. I checked my bank statements, and I know that the check was not deposited. I would guess that there's some law saying what my obligation is here, but I couldn't find it. All I found was that banks generally don't honor checks that are over 6 months old, however I could not find anything regarding whether or not I still legally owe him money. I feel that I upheld my end of the deal by writing the check and it's his fault that he didn't deposit it. Am I required to write another check? Can someone hold onto a check indefinitely to deposit whenever they wish, or does the debt "expire" after some time? Thanks for your help. Assistant: In addition to the other advice in this thread, definitely DON'T just ignore anything sent to you that relates to the situation simply because you have the legal upper hand. For example, if LL did file a lawsuit and you did not respond to the complaint or show up at the hearing, a default judgement could be entered against you and then you would be obligated to pay. That could be appealed but, imo, not worth the hassle of not reading your mail. Best of luck if LL escalates.
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Human: Update - new charges - My wife lied to police, under oath in court and in civil court about the neighbors dog attacking her. What happens now? Part 1 is here Originally my wife was charged with 3 misdemeanors (trespassing, animal cruelty and filing a false report with the police) and a felony (perjury). An additional charge of making a threat (a felony) followed soon after and now she has been charged with destruction of property and intending to poison our neighbors dog (sorry I am not sure of the exact wording yet). The police have informed me that she could also face drug charges depending on the class of drugs she procured. I think both of these new charges are also felonies and the drug charge would be too. As I said in my first post I don't condone at all what she did and I don't defend her actions in any way. I love her and want to support her but I won't claim she's innocent here. We haven't had any money, marriage or family problems or illnesses, my wife had recently had an MRI on her head and blood work and an annual physical showed nothing. This came out of left field. I know I could be perceived as being in denial about her being mentally ill but what she has done has shocked everyone we know and no one I have spoken to can believe it. She will be having a mental health assessment by a jail psychiatrist soon. Right now I am trying to work through my confusion and doing my best to make this as easy for my children as possible. I am dealing with getting her a lawyer and trying to find a solution to the counter suit to the civil suit my wife had filed. Understandably our neighbor is extremely upset, her dog was injured and the vet bills will be quite expensive I imagine and as well there is the emotional and property damage. My children and I are staying with other family for now. Thank-you to everyone who has offered support and kind messages. None of this has been easy and there is a long road ahead. With these new charges does anyone have any idea of what kind of penalties my wife is now facing? Assistant: There is no easy advice we can give except listen to your lawyers
Human: Update - new charges - My wife lied to police, under oath in court and in civil court about the neighbors dog attacking her. What happens now? Part 1 is here Originally my wife was charged with 3 misdemeanors (trespassing, animal cruelty and filing a false report with the police) and a felony (perjury). An additional charge of making a threat (a felony) followed soon after and now she has been charged with destruction of property and intending to poison our neighbors dog (sorry I am not sure of the exact wording yet). The police have informed me that she could also face drug charges depending on the class of drugs she procured. I think both of these new charges are also felonies and the drug charge would be too. As I said in my first post I don't condone at all what she did and I don't defend her actions in any way. I love her and want to support her but I won't claim she's innocent here. We haven't had any money, marriage or family problems or illnesses, my wife had recently had an MRI on her head and blood work and an annual physical showed nothing. This came out of left field. I know I could be perceived as being in denial about her being mentally ill but what she has done has shocked everyone we know and no one I have spoken to can believe it. She will be having a mental health assessment by a jail psychiatrist soon. Right now I am trying to work through my confusion and doing my best to make this as easy for my children as possible. I am dealing with getting her a lawyer and trying to find a solution to the counter suit to the civil suit my wife had filed. Understandably our neighbor is extremely upset, her dog was injured and the vet bills will be quite expensive I imagine and as well there is the emotional and property damage. My children and I are staying with other family for now. Thank-you to everyone who has offered support and kind messages. None of this has been easy and there is a long road ahead. With these new charges does anyone have any idea of what kind of penalties my wife is now facing? Assistant: > what she has done has shocked everyone we know When your wife first declared that your children should have a right to trespass onto your neighbor's property, did that not raise any red flags for you?
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