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Human: are there any guidelines for potatoes to flour ratio in making Gnocchi? tonight I just make my first gnocchi by Eye balling the recipe but next time i want to do it more proper way. Assistant: For gnocchi the ratio is easy: use as little flour as you can. Or more importantly do everything you can do to reduce moisture and so you can use as little flour as possible.
Human: are there any guidelines for potatoes to flour ratio in making Gnocchi? tonight I just make my first gnocchi by Eye balling the recipe but next time i want to do it more proper way. Assistant: I’m not gnocchi expert, indeed I’ve never made it, so speaking with a false sense of expertise I’m pretty sure that the best Gnocci is made by feeling out the amount of flour needed and only adding enough to hold the potato together rather than a precise amount. Every potato and every flour is different so it is best to use your sense rather than a precise recipe.
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Human: Do culinary students have dissertations? Is there a good place to read their work? Found a research paper on the effects of potato and rice flour in different recipes which sparked this question. I was wondering if any level of culinary school has students work on a written dissertation. A research paper where they dive deep into a technique or ingredient and write a thesis of some sort. If these do exist, is there anywhere online to read them. I imagine they would be very interesting. Assistant: Might want to look at phd dissertations in food sciences?
Human: Do culinary students have dissertations? Is there a good place to read their work? Found a research paper on the effects of potato and rice flour in different recipes which sparked this question. I was wondering if any level of culinary school has students work on a written dissertation. A research paper where they dive deep into a technique or ingredient and write a thesis of some sort. If these do exist, is there anywhere online to read them. I imagine they would be very interesting. Assistant: I don't know about culinary students but you might find what you are looking for in a food science journal.
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Human: What books can I read instead of going to culinary school? I'm currently working at a high-end restaurant in Chicago, and I've spoken to a few chefs about going to culinary school. They've basically told me it's a waste of time, but I know there's so much more I could be learning. Are there any books you recommend reading that can teach you a lot? Assistant: These have been influential on me. The French Laundry - Thomas Keller Larousse Gastronomique Momofuku - David Chang Zuni Cookbook - Judy Rogers Charcuterie - Ruhlman & Polcyn For magazines - Cooks Illustrated and Lucky Peach are both excellent in very different ways. I am interested in Myrvolds Modernist Cusine but I can't afford the $500 price tag.
Human: What books can I read instead of going to culinary school? I'm currently working at a high-end restaurant in Chicago, and I've spoken to a few chefs about going to culinary school. They've basically told me it's a waste of time, but I know there's so much more I could be learning. Are there any books you recommend reading that can teach you a lot? Assistant: On Cooking. It's the textbook my brother-in-law used at cooking school. We bought one, and it's now our most grease-stained, sauce-splattered cook book in the house.
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Human: Explain like I'm five years old: SpaceX, Crew Dragon, ISS Megathread! Please post all your questions about space, rockets, and the space station that may have been inspired by the recent SpaceX Crew Dragon launch. Remember some common questions have already been asked/answers Why does the ISS seem stationary as the Dragon approaches it Why do rockets curve Why an instantaneous launch window? All space, SpaceX, ISS, etc related questions posted outside of this thread will be removed (1730 Eastern Time) Assistant: Why are rockets built to go off in stages? what are the benefits?
Human: Explain like I'm five years old: SpaceX, Crew Dragon, ISS Megathread! Please post all your questions about space, rockets, and the space station that may have been inspired by the recent SpaceX Crew Dragon launch. Remember some common questions have already been asked/answers Why does the ISS seem stationary as the Dragon approaches it Why do rockets curve Why an instantaneous launch window? All space, SpaceX, ISS, etc related questions posted outside of this thread will be removed (1730 Eastern Time) Assistant: How can they stream such high quality footage from space?
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Human: What is the most cost effective method to make concrete slip resistant when wet? The motive behind this question is to reduce the number of injuries occurring beside the pool. Using anything different than concrete is impossible for several reasons. So I am bound to find a way to make concrete slip resistant when wet. The area I'm trying to cover next to the pool is not that big (about 20mx30m) but it gets really wet and extremely high traffic. I found on Google "Aqua tapes" but I'm not sure about these. What do you guys think? Assistant: Let it dry. Sorry. Dad joke.
Human: What is the most cost effective method to make concrete slip resistant when wet? The motive behind this question is to reduce the number of injuries occurring beside the pool. Using anything different than concrete is impossible for several reasons. So I am bound to find a way to make concrete slip resistant when wet. The area I'm trying to cover next to the pool is not that big (about 20mx30m) but it gets really wet and extremely high traffic. I found on Google "Aqua tapes" but I'm not sure about these. What do you guys think? Assistant: Sand blast it to add texture
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Human: How do I maintain productivity 8 hours a day?? As the question says, how do I remain productive 8 hours a day. I'm a fairly new grad, been working 2 years and I have a new job which I love. The thing is, all my coworkers seem to be productive 8 hours a day and I can only go like 2-3 hours of consistent work until I lose focus. I don't know if I have ADD, but I have plenty of work to do and I feel like it's impossible to focus for the entire day. I usually get sidetracked or want to check the news, etc. Anyone have tips on how to be consistently productive without burning myself out? Assistant: I don’t. I cannot full on straight do 8 hours of insane thinking. I take breaks. I read Reddit, have various assignments and I shift tasks. I balance my days as best I can between The different types of tasks. Heavy mental, heavy excel, heavy actual figuring out what we’re going to do (life in R&D), admin work, mentoring, training, going to the lab and making sure there is no blood (they’re going to kill each other one if these days). I take walks. I have stress balls and bounce them on the wall.
Human: How do I maintain productivity 8 hours a day?? As the question says, how do I remain productive 8 hours a day. I'm a fairly new grad, been working 2 years and I have a new job which I love. The thing is, all my coworkers seem to be productive 8 hours a day and I can only go like 2-3 hours of consistent work until I lose focus. I don't know if I have ADD, but I have plenty of work to do and I feel like it's impossible to focus for the entire day. I usually get sidetracked or want to check the news, etc. Anyone have tips on how to be consistently productive without burning myself out? Assistant: Pretty much nobody is productive for all 8 hours of the day unless deadlines are super tight. Break your day up into bite size pieces, often I just get overwhelmed with a big long task and it is hard to focus. Try the Pomodoro technique: https://www.themuse.com/advice/take-it-from-someone-who-hates-productivity-hacksthe-pomodoro-technique-actually-works#:\~:text=What%20Is%20the%20Pomodoro%20Technique,are%20referred%20to%20as%20pomodoros..
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Human: How do Korean restaurants make their chicken so juicy? I swear to god it's like I'm eating a chicken thigh cooked rare, or a chicken-flavored fruit. How do they do it? Precise temperature management? Brining? Assistant: I know that in some Korean chicken dishes, they marinate the chicken in milk.
Human: How do Korean restaurants make their chicken so juicy? I swear to god it's like I'm eating a chicken thigh cooked rare, or a chicken-flavored fruit. How do they do it? Precise temperature management? Brining? Assistant: Any dish in particular you're referencing?
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Human: [Final Update] Our fake landlord USED to be the landlord, the guy taking the money is pretending to represent him. [Chicago] **TLDR:** A bank owns the building, we're all squatting, our lawyer is very friendly, and the potential new apartment allows us to have a cat So the property was foreclosed several months before we moved in. When the other tenants moved out, it wasn't because their lease was up or anything; they were squatting in a foreclosed building. He never told us this at any point, and still hasn't told us. Our neighbors used some real estate connections they had through their parents to find out everything about the foreclosure, including the bank that owns the property. The bank that has no idea anyone is living here. The guy who is claiming to be the landlord USED to own the place before it got foreclosed. Now he's renting out rooms to people and trying to get the money in cash from the "tenants" without the permission of the owner. The only reason that the police believed he was the current landlord was because the bank hasn't changed the locks on the front door. He proved he was the landlord to them by using his key on the front door (which is apparently enough, even without ID, even when 911 is called because this man is disguising himself and attempting to break in?). We got a really good lawyer downtown who's helping us properly break lease just to cover any possible shred of legality that the situation holds, then taking us to court. He's a friend of my roommate's dad who is doing this at a very low rate as a favor, he's extremely generous and we're so thankful for him. I understand how sketchy it all sounds, I even find myself questioning what's going on. That's why we started recording it. We just finished sitting through 17 minutes of footage of them in our apartment tearing through our things. After letting it sit for a day, the footage is all the more insane. Last night, I couldn't sleep because I was so fucking terrified that they would just come back again. Our female roommate spent the night at a friend's apartment out of fear. We took all of the advice in the comments with a grain of salt. This is the internet, after all. One person defended me perfectly, saying: > I thought the whole thing with legaladvice is that all posts must be treated as real, no matter how ridiculous they sound because some people really are that thick. Well, we are that thick. We are incredibly, incredibly stupid and the severity of this situation is partly our fault. We let this continue on for too long. We got intimidated by this man early on and were too confused and afraid to do anything about it. Besides, we didn't know any better. We're all out-of-towners renting our first apartment. We've learned our lesson, believe me. **CONCERNING PROOF** We lawyered up, and he's having us restrict what we share with other people. Especially online. I really want to provide some video clips so you guys can see the insanity that took place, but I want to clear it with him first. I'll call him tomorrow when I get back from the court. I also have months of insane texts and voicemails saved that I want to share at this point, but again I don't know if I should until I ask him. However I've already posted pictures of the state of disrepair in the apartment, a photo of the rat from the surveillance footage, our plumbing issues, and his car parked outside our apartment right before he pushed his way in to our place. I can't post his name or any photos of him so I know that it makes it harder to believe because of that. The biggest issue with it sounding sketchy is because IT IS SKETCHY. These men are constantly lying and changing their stories on us faster than we can keep up with. They behave in extremely suspicious manners and are illegally renting the place out. They're just trying to cover their own tracks on this, and that includes changing their story constantly and trying to limit our information. They still claim to have videos and photos of us dealing drugs out of our apartment, which is absolutely baseless. That's the one thing they keep bringing up though, it's really strange. The previous tenants were the gangbangers in the neighborhood, however there's no resemblance whatsoever. So we're moving out and into a much nicer, slightly larger place in Lakeview. Turns out you can live there for the same price as in a rat infested, foreclosed slum. We'll be out hopefully by the end of the week. So thank you for the advice for those of you who honestly tried to help. And if you still don't believe it happened, I don't know how to prove it to you and I'm sorry. But I know it's real, and I know that this experience is going to leave a long-lasting effect on me as a person. Besides, what am I getting out of this if it's fake? Attention? Seriously? It's a low-profile post on a niche sub under a throwaway account Assistant: > We took all of the advice in the comments with a grain of salt. This is the internet, after all. Ha! This is way too true, basically on this sub don't trust to anyone who isn't stared. Even me, especially me...
Human: [Final Update] Our fake landlord USED to be the landlord, the guy taking the money is pretending to represent him. [Chicago] **TLDR:** A bank owns the building, we're all squatting, our lawyer is very friendly, and the potential new apartment allows us to have a cat So the property was foreclosed several months before we moved in. When the other tenants moved out, it wasn't because their lease was up or anything; they were squatting in a foreclosed building. He never told us this at any point, and still hasn't told us. Our neighbors used some real estate connections they had through their parents to find out everything about the foreclosure, including the bank that owns the property. The bank that has no idea anyone is living here. The guy who is claiming to be the landlord USED to own the place before it got foreclosed. Now he's renting out rooms to people and trying to get the money in cash from the "tenants" without the permission of the owner. The only reason that the police believed he was the current landlord was because the bank hasn't changed the locks on the front door. He proved he was the landlord to them by using his key on the front door (which is apparently enough, even without ID, even when 911 is called because this man is disguising himself and attempting to break in?). We got a really good lawyer downtown who's helping us properly break lease just to cover any possible shred of legality that the situation holds, then taking us to court. He's a friend of my roommate's dad who is doing this at a very low rate as a favor, he's extremely generous and we're so thankful for him. I understand how sketchy it all sounds, I even find myself questioning what's going on. That's why we started recording it. We just finished sitting through 17 minutes of footage of them in our apartment tearing through our things. After letting it sit for a day, the footage is all the more insane. Last night, I couldn't sleep because I was so fucking terrified that they would just come back again. Our female roommate spent the night at a friend's apartment out of fear. We took all of the advice in the comments with a grain of salt. This is the internet, after all. One person defended me perfectly, saying: > I thought the whole thing with legaladvice is that all posts must be treated as real, no matter how ridiculous they sound because some people really are that thick. Well, we are that thick. We are incredibly, incredibly stupid and the severity of this situation is partly our fault. We let this continue on for too long. We got intimidated by this man early on and were too confused and afraid to do anything about it. Besides, we didn't know any better. We're all out-of-towners renting our first apartment. We've learned our lesson, believe me. **CONCERNING PROOF** We lawyered up, and he's having us restrict what we share with other people. Especially online. I really want to provide some video clips so you guys can see the insanity that took place, but I want to clear it with him first. I'll call him tomorrow when I get back from the court. I also have months of insane texts and voicemails saved that I want to share at this point, but again I don't know if I should until I ask him. However I've already posted pictures of the state of disrepair in the apartment, a photo of the rat from the surveillance footage, our plumbing issues, and his car parked outside our apartment right before he pushed his way in to our place. I can't post his name or any photos of him so I know that it makes it harder to believe because of that. The biggest issue with it sounding sketchy is because IT IS SKETCHY. These men are constantly lying and changing their stories on us faster than we can keep up with. They behave in extremely suspicious manners and are illegally renting the place out. They're just trying to cover their own tracks on this, and that includes changing their story constantly and trying to limit our information. They still claim to have videos and photos of us dealing drugs out of our apartment, which is absolutely baseless. That's the one thing they keep bringing up though, it's really strange. The previous tenants were the gangbangers in the neighborhood, however there's no resemblance whatsoever. So we're moving out and into a much nicer, slightly larger place in Lakeview. Turns out you can live there for the same price as in a rat infested, foreclosed slum. We'll be out hopefully by the end of the week. So thank you for the advice for those of you who honestly tried to help. And if you still don't believe it happened, I don't know how to prove it to you and I'm sorry. But I know it's real, and I know that this experience is going to leave a long-lasting effect on me as a person. Besides, what am I getting out of this if it's fake? Attention? Seriously? It's a low-profile post on a niche sub under a throwaway account Assistant: Oh yes, please upload a video if your lawyer thinks this is ok
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Human: Rookie mistake. Greased my angel food cake pan I'm 6 months pregnant. I was on autopilot and have been so forgetful and thoughtless lately. I greased my angel food cake pan and it's already in the oven so too late to turn back now what's going to happen? I didn't stir it the full 60 seconds either. Idk why I treated it like regular yellow cake mix just completely thoughtless. Didn't think about it until it was in the oven. I know it won't rise, but will that effect the flavor? Will it cook all the way through? I have some strawberries that are about to go bad and some leftover homemade whipping cream I just thought I'd make a simple strawberry cake with the ingredients I had on hand. Just eating it at home so presentation doesn't matter to me. Just hope the cake cooks all the way through. 😅 Assistant: It's a good chance to make.... shortcake parfaits! Or a layered up trifle!
Human: Rookie mistake. Greased my angel food cake pan I'm 6 months pregnant. I was on autopilot and have been so forgetful and thoughtless lately. I greased my angel food cake pan and it's already in the oven so too late to turn back now what's going to happen? I didn't stir it the full 60 seconds either. Idk why I treated it like regular yellow cake mix just completely thoughtless. Didn't think about it until it was in the oven. I know it won't rise, but will that effect the flavor? Will it cook all the way through? I have some strawberries that are about to go bad and some leftover homemade whipping cream I just thought I'd make a simple strawberry cake with the ingredients I had on hand. Just eating it at home so presentation doesn't matter to me. Just hope the cake cooks all the way through. 😅 Assistant: If it’s unbearably dense you can totally make cake pops!
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Human: What other philosophers would appeal to me if i mostly agree with Nietzche? Who's a classic philosopher in line with him, and a modern one. Assistant: I find Derrida and Foucault are often mentioned, although I haven't read them myself. I know there are a lot of users in here who have, though, so I'll appeal to their knowledge in this regard. EDIT/UPDATE: While Derrida is indeed mentioned, it might be that Deleuze was the better selection here.
Human: What other philosophers would appeal to me if i mostly agree with Nietzche? Who's a classic philosopher in line with him, and a modern one. Assistant: Ralph Waldo Emerson hasn't been mentioned yet, but definitely him. Nietzsche mentioned him by name as someone he admired.
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Human: My parents did not have me vaccinated. Felt too guilty to look into it when I got older [M/25]. What do I need? I live in America and I have no insurance, but I am willing to pay for what I need and someone told me they think you can get them at a pharmacy? I'm a 25 year old male. What shots do I need? I've had a tetanus shot in the last 6 years, that's about it :/. Assistant: This should help: Guidance for Catch-Up of a Vaccine Series in Adults You won't need many of the routine childhood vaccines, like Hib, Prevnar, and rotavirus, but do still need MMR, hepatitis B, etc. Have you ever had chicken pox? How many tetanus shots did you get? Was it Tdap?
Human: My parents did not have me vaccinated. Felt too guilty to look into it when I got older [M/25]. What do I need? I live in America and I have no insurance, but I am willing to pay for what I need and someone told me they think you can get them at a pharmacy? I'm a 25 year old male. What shots do I need? I've had a tetanus shot in the last 6 years, that's about it :/. Assistant: This depends very much on your state. You can always ask a local pharmacist. Your best bet would be to look for a free clinic and ask for catch up vaccinations.
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Human: [META/Announcement] How AskScienceFiction AMAs will work. So, because it's turned out to be a popular thing, the moderators have decided to allow people to do AMAs for fictional universes. Not for real life universes, purely fictional. Due to concerns, any AMAs involving religions or real life people, living or dead, will be denied. Even if it's a fictional representation of something, such as The Bully Pulpit's Thomas Edison. This comes with some stipulations, largely revolving around scheduling. You *must* schedule your AMA with the mods beforehand. Any AMA that goes up before this announcement will be grandfathered in, but any unsanctioned AMAs that go up after will be removed. The schedule is in the sidebar. Each AMA will receive a **three day sticky**. No more unless nothing comes up to replace it. If you do not have your AMA set up by midnight EST of the first day you're scheduled for, your reserve will be removed. If you flake on three different occasions, you will be barred from doing any future AMAs. If you give us a heads-up, however, and tell the mod team that you cannot do your post as scheduled, we can handle that with no strikes against you. We will arrange AMAs on a first come, first serve basis. That means that if two users come to us wanting to do AMAs, the person that messaged us first will receive the first scheduling. The person that messaged us second will receive the second open slot. If you have any questions, please ask. Assistant: I'd love to do an Honor Harrington one, I need to reread the series.
Human: [META/Announcement] How AskScienceFiction AMAs will work. So, because it's turned out to be a popular thing, the moderators have decided to allow people to do AMAs for fictional universes. Not for real life universes, purely fictional. Due to concerns, any AMAs involving religions or real life people, living or dead, will be denied. Even if it's a fictional representation of something, such as The Bully Pulpit's Thomas Edison. This comes with some stipulations, largely revolving around scheduling. You *must* schedule your AMA with the mods beforehand. Any AMA that goes up before this announcement will be grandfathered in, but any unsanctioned AMAs that go up after will be removed. The schedule is in the sidebar. Each AMA will receive a **three day sticky**. No more unless nothing comes up to replace it. If you do not have your AMA set up by midnight EST of the first day you're scheduled for, your reserve will be removed. If you flake on three different occasions, you will be barred from doing any future AMAs. If you give us a heads-up, however, and tell the mod team that you cannot do your post as scheduled, we can handle that with no strikes against you. We will arrange AMAs on a first come, first serve basis. That means that if two users come to us wanting to do AMAs, the person that messaged us first will receive the first scheduling. The person that messaged us second will receive the second open slot. If you have any questions, please ask. Assistant: Fantastic! I hope we see a bunch more!
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Human: My defence is in just under 4 weeks and I'm very anxious. Any tips? My slides are ready, I'm just practicing and thinking of possible questions. Every minute I'm not working on them or the questions is racked with guilt/anxiety for "not studying". Any tips on how to prepare? Thank you in advance. Assistant: You are the expert and you are ready. Enjoy it:)
Human: My defence is in just under 4 weeks and I'm very anxious. Any tips? My slides are ready, I'm just practicing and thinking of possible questions. Every minute I'm not working on them or the questions is racked with guilt/anxiety for "not studying". Any tips on how to prepare? Thank you in advance. Assistant: After having seen several poor defenses and people passing anyway I was not very concerned anymore.
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Human: [NJ] Employee reported me to HR over a list of tasks with a deadline Our team recently received a bit more work than usual and in order to divide up the new amount of work, I requested that the whole team send in a updated list with the projects they're working on along with any issues they were having. One associate who works from home, has been offline for most of the time during a regular work shift and always has excuses. We had to remind him to submit his project list a day later when everyone else submitted theirs asap as requested. We gave him a deadline of 4pm. He attempted to call however, we were in a important client call and asked him to please send us an email or contact x. He did neither. At 3:50 we received an email with his project list and found out the project assigned over 2 months ago had not been touched and the other projects hes been working on had not been worked on in weeks. We then sent out an email to him with expectations: we wanted him to follow up on his outstanding projects via a simple email and then start working on his latest one while ccing us on them as all other members of the team are required to do this. He went to HR claiming unfair work treatment.. more stressed than worried. Don't think we did anything wrong here, just made him accountable for the lack of work he's done. Assistant: So he outed his lack of performance to HR? Probably not the best strategy.
Human: [NJ] Employee reported me to HR over a list of tasks with a deadline Our team recently received a bit more work than usual and in order to divide up the new amount of work, I requested that the whole team send in a updated list with the projects they're working on along with any issues they were having. One associate who works from home, has been offline for most of the time during a regular work shift and always has excuses. We had to remind him to submit his project list a day later when everyone else submitted theirs asap as requested. We gave him a deadline of 4pm. He attempted to call however, we were in a important client call and asked him to please send us an email or contact x. He did neither. At 3:50 we received an email with his project list and found out the project assigned over 2 months ago had not been touched and the other projects hes been working on had not been worked on in weeks. We then sent out an email to him with expectations: we wanted him to follow up on his outstanding projects via a simple email and then start working on his latest one while ccing us on them as all other members of the team are required to do this. He went to HR claiming unfair work treatment.. more stressed than worried. Don't think we did anything wrong here, just made him accountable for the lack of work he's done. Assistant: Who is his supervisor?
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Human: update] (PA) Just moved in to a new house. Police officers are using (and blocking) my driveway to shoot radar. I asked them politely to move so I could use my driveway. They refused, said they had permission from the landlord. Howdy everyone, I've had lots of interest in an update on my [situation, but to TL;DR the situation first: Moved in to a new place June 1, and a couple days after coming back there was a cop using my driveway as a speed trap, and refused to let me use my driveway. I was peeved, parked somewhere else, and until a couple days later he was parked in my driveway as I needed to leave to go to class, and didn't move when I asked. I missed the class. He said that he had "permission from the landowner" to use the driveway. I had trouble contacting the landlord, etc... I'm happy to report this has a really good and easy ending, although there wasnt a "swift justice" ending to this as there is to a lot of other stories here. I got a security camera, and installed it, but didn't need to use it. On thursday, I went to the police headquarters or whatever it's called and asked to speak to the superior of the officer who's badge number I'd received. I was very nice and didn't make it sound like I had a complaint, and was informed that the person I needed to speak with was not in at the moment, so the person I was speaking with gave me a business card and told me to call the supervisor tomorrow. A little later on thursday my landlady finally got in contact with me and apologized profusely for missing my calls. She played the "little old lady (which she is) who cant use her cellphone" card. i'm not sure how accurate this is but she explained that she had given an officer form our local police department who was friends with her deceased cop husband permission to use the driveway while the house was being renovated (was renovated before i moved in) and there had been a misunderstanding, and she would sort it out. On friday morning (before I had a chance to call the supervisor who's card I had received) the officer in question and landlord showed up at my door to apologize. He was very nice and explained himself. During and after our first interaction he was still under the impression that the house was being renovated (there still is a dumpster on the property) and didn't believe that I lived there. He *had* asked for my ID, and I had been unable to use it as proof that I lived there as I'd just moved in and hadnt done the change of address stuff yet, which is my bad (I have now). So he continued to use the driveway. I should point out that my place has a garage that I park in, so there is never a car in the driveway, it's always hidden. The second time we interacted my car was still in the garage so he couldn't see it and thought the house was still being renovated. he says he watched me go in to my house and after realizing that my landlady must have forgotten to inform him that she was renting the property again, he left. After bring frustrated about missing my class I immedeatly just went back to sleep (i'd had a rough night previously) so If I take him for his word he was only there for a couple minutes after our second interaction. He again apologized and gave me his card saying "if I ever needed anything" to give him a ring. He then asked if he could continue to use the driveway if he moved out of my way, and I respectfully declined, which he seemed understanding of, and that was that. I KNOW: There will be people here who think that I should still go speak with this guys supervisor, and I understand the reasoning, but for right now I am going to take his word for it that he wont be back, because I have no video of him being there from the first two encounters, so it's his word against mine. IF he does come back I'll have video and you bet your ass I'll be right in to his supervisors office with the footage. Although the second part of his explanation does seem a bit fabricated I am not trying to make a big issue out of this because he did very sincerely apologize. My landlady is giving me a month of free rent (I have it in writing) for the trouble and to reimburse me for the parking, missed class, and so on. Hoping I never have to be bothered with something as idiotic as this again but if I do now I have a camera and know what to do. I made a shitty diagram explaining my property layout some because people were wondering why he couldnt be bothered to move or other questions. I have neighbors with fences on either side and my house goes further back (but that is irrelevant), and in the front there is just a sidewalk and then the road. Assistant: You handled the situation correctly. Sometimes reason works.
Human: update] (PA) Just moved in to a new house. Police officers are using (and blocking) my driveway to shoot radar. I asked them politely to move so I could use my driveway. They refused, said they had permission from the landlord. Howdy everyone, I've had lots of interest in an update on my [situation, but to TL;DR the situation first: Moved in to a new place June 1, and a couple days after coming back there was a cop using my driveway as a speed trap, and refused to let me use my driveway. I was peeved, parked somewhere else, and until a couple days later he was parked in my driveway as I needed to leave to go to class, and didn't move when I asked. I missed the class. He said that he had "permission from the landowner" to use the driveway. I had trouble contacting the landlord, etc... I'm happy to report this has a really good and easy ending, although there wasnt a "swift justice" ending to this as there is to a lot of other stories here. I got a security camera, and installed it, but didn't need to use it. On thursday, I went to the police headquarters or whatever it's called and asked to speak to the superior of the officer who's badge number I'd received. I was very nice and didn't make it sound like I had a complaint, and was informed that the person I needed to speak with was not in at the moment, so the person I was speaking with gave me a business card and told me to call the supervisor tomorrow. A little later on thursday my landlady finally got in contact with me and apologized profusely for missing my calls. She played the "little old lady (which she is) who cant use her cellphone" card. i'm not sure how accurate this is but she explained that she had given an officer form our local police department who was friends with her deceased cop husband permission to use the driveway while the house was being renovated (was renovated before i moved in) and there had been a misunderstanding, and she would sort it out. On friday morning (before I had a chance to call the supervisor who's card I had received) the officer in question and landlord showed up at my door to apologize. He was very nice and explained himself. During and after our first interaction he was still under the impression that the house was being renovated (there still is a dumpster on the property) and didn't believe that I lived there. He *had* asked for my ID, and I had been unable to use it as proof that I lived there as I'd just moved in and hadnt done the change of address stuff yet, which is my bad (I have now). So he continued to use the driveway. I should point out that my place has a garage that I park in, so there is never a car in the driveway, it's always hidden. The second time we interacted my car was still in the garage so he couldn't see it and thought the house was still being renovated. he says he watched me go in to my house and after realizing that my landlady must have forgotten to inform him that she was renting the property again, he left. After bring frustrated about missing my class I immedeatly just went back to sleep (i'd had a rough night previously) so If I take him for his word he was only there for a couple minutes after our second interaction. He again apologized and gave me his card saying "if I ever needed anything" to give him a ring. He then asked if he could continue to use the driveway if he moved out of my way, and I respectfully declined, which he seemed understanding of, and that was that. I KNOW: There will be people here who think that I should still go speak with this guys supervisor, and I understand the reasoning, but for right now I am going to take his word for it that he wont be back, because I have no video of him being there from the first two encounters, so it's his word against mine. IF he does come back I'll have video and you bet your ass I'll be right in to his supervisors office with the footage. Although the second part of his explanation does seem a bit fabricated I am not trying to make a big issue out of this because he did very sincerely apologize. My landlady is giving me a month of free rent (I have it in writing) for the trouble and to reimburse me for the parking, missed class, and so on. Hoping I never have to be bothered with something as idiotic as this again but if I do now I have a camera and know what to do. I made a shitty diagram explaining my property layout some because people were wondering why he couldnt be bothered to move or other questions. I have neighbors with fences on either side and my house goes further back (but that is irrelevant), and in the front there is just a sidewalk and then the road. Assistant: A free month's rent? Hell yeah op way to go!
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Human: [ATLA/LOK] Mud bending seems to be an ability that can be done by both water benders and earth benders. In theory, what other special abilities can be done by two different bending styles? Assistant: Cloudbending is doable by air and water.
Human: [ATLA/LOK] Mud bending seems to be an ability that can be done by both water benders and earth benders. In theory, what other special abilities can be done by two different bending styles? Assistant: The combination with fire are the most difficult ones, other combination can be easily done with proper mixing. Earth-Water: mud Earth-Air: Dust or sand Air-Water: Mist, maybe soda? Earth-Fire: Ember or ash, since lavabend is earthbend technique. Air-Fire: Smoke, Air Plasma (ionized air) Water-Fire: uhhh... oxyhydro flame?
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Human: Foster Dog Mom has 5 5 day old puppies, she keeps carrying the same pup to the door every five minutes or so and then brings him back to the pool. Could there be something wrong with the puppy? Berry (Mama) always brings the same exact puppy to the door every five minutes or so. They are kept in my spare bedroom in a pool. I have a camera in there to keep an eye on them. Every time she carries the puppy he whines so much, but she keeps doing it. I’m just worried there’s something wrong with the puppy because she keeps carrying him around. The mom is a terrier mix, father of the puppies unknown. The puppy seems to be eating normally and is gaining weight. He is not the smallest in the litter. The only difference between him and the other pups is his color, he is white while the others are dark brindle and black. I do not see evidence of a cleft palate. Any advice or thoughts? Assistant: If you’re fostering, please call your shelter or rescue who can most readily advise you and connect you with a veterinary professional as needed.
Human: Foster Dog Mom has 5 5 day old puppies, she keeps carrying the same pup to the door every five minutes or so and then brings him back to the pool. Could there be something wrong with the puppy? Berry (Mama) always brings the same exact puppy to the door every five minutes or so. They are kept in my spare bedroom in a pool. I have a camera in there to keep an eye on them. Every time she carries the puppy he whines so much, but she keeps doing it. I’m just worried there’s something wrong with the puppy because she keeps carrying him around. The mom is a terrier mix, father of the puppies unknown. The puppy seems to be eating normally and is gaining weight. He is not the smallest in the litter. The only difference between him and the other pups is his color, he is white while the others are dark brindle and black. I do not see evidence of a cleft palate. Any advice or thoughts? Assistant: Without a vet’s analysis, what can we tell you? Most answers on this sub are “See your vet immediately” anyway.
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Human: How would YOU make a fried mashed potato and gravy ball? So I have a group of friends who thought it would be cool to have a fried ball of mashed potato with gravy that oozes from the center. Kind of like a fried cheese ball. ​ General idea of how to is 1: make a gravy and freeze it into cubes (kind of like you do for soup dumplings) 2: Make mashed potatoes 3: season mashed potatoes to liking 4: Cool mashed potatoes for handling 5: Put frozen gravy cube in a small portion of cooled mashed potatoes and form a ball 6: Coat the exterior for some crunch 7: fry up 8: ENJOY ​ Now the questions are these: Gelatin or no gelatin to help freeze the gravy and give it a better shape and less melt ability when doing step 5? What kind of potatoes? Just bread crumbs on the outside or egg and bread crumbs? ​ Any ideas on this would be greatly appreciated. Assistant: Use stuffing for the outside frying layer.
Human: How would YOU make a fried mashed potato and gravy ball? So I have a group of friends who thought it would be cool to have a fried ball of mashed potato with gravy that oozes from the center. Kind of like a fried cheese ball. ​ General idea of how to is 1: make a gravy and freeze it into cubes (kind of like you do for soup dumplings) 2: Make mashed potatoes 3: season mashed potatoes to liking 4: Cool mashed potatoes for handling 5: Put frozen gravy cube in a small portion of cooled mashed potatoes and form a ball 6: Coat the exterior for some crunch 7: fry up 8: ENJOY ​ Now the questions are these: Gelatin or no gelatin to help freeze the gravy and give it a better shape and less melt ability when doing step 5? What kind of potatoes? Just bread crumbs on the outside or egg and bread crumbs? ​ Any ideas on this would be greatly appreciated. Assistant: I would also dredge them in flour to help bind the crunch.
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Human: [Scooby Doo] Has there ever been a time when Mystery Inc stopped running and put up their fists? Just any time when they decided to kick the monsters ass instead of fleeing. Assistant: In Zombie Island Fred just rips a guy’s head off.
Human: [Scooby Doo] Has there ever been a time when Mystery Inc stopped running and put up their fists? Just any time when they decided to kick the monsters ass instead of fleeing. Assistant: The Supernatural/Scooby-Doo crossover episode of Supernatural has the gang ready to go full hunter.
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Human: Tips on cooking broccoli? Trying to copy steakhouse broccoli at home So I went to a steakhouse a few weeks ago, I got a 12 Oz steak and broccoli. Steak was average but the broccoli was delicious. Like TO DIE FOR it wasn't salty or greasy just bright green and easy to chew, a little crunchy and didn't have that $1 steamed bag taste I've been experimenting in my kitchen the last few days trying to replicate the recipe but it always comes out sub par Any ideas? I've tried to blanch and then toss in a little butter, which gets me close but it's still EH the stems are hard to chew I've also tried to blanch for like 5 min wich is good but not there yet and everywhere I look says to only blanch for like 30s to a min Assistant: We blanch for 1 minutes, shock in ice to stop the cooking. ​ Then toss in garlic oil, salt and toasted peppercorns that have been ground. Grill for 2-3 minutes, then finish in the convection oven for 2 minutes.
Human: Tips on cooking broccoli? Trying to copy steakhouse broccoli at home So I went to a steakhouse a few weeks ago, I got a 12 Oz steak and broccoli. Steak was average but the broccoli was delicious. Like TO DIE FOR it wasn't salty or greasy just bright green and easy to chew, a little crunchy and didn't have that $1 steamed bag taste I've been experimenting in my kitchen the last few days trying to replicate the recipe but it always comes out sub par Any ideas? I've tried to blanch and then toss in a little butter, which gets me close but it's still EH the stems are hard to chew I've also tried to blanch for like 5 min wich is good but not there yet and everywhere I look says to only blanch for like 30s to a min Assistant: Boil in salted water until nearly finish, rinse in cold water to stop the cooking process, pat dry, pan seer in some butter, garlic, salt pepper. Plate n squirt alil fresh lemon. Cheddar cheese sauce optional! (Cheddar cheese sauce - Melted butter, add flour, lightly brown the rue, add half and half, drop heat, shredded cheddar, american cheese slice, drip of mustard, pinch of salt, crack of pep)
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Human: How does an immigrant Engineer gets a work in USA? Good day everyone. My family recently immigrated to the states running away from our country. My dad is a Civil Engineer specialized in bridge construction (when he says it sounds better ha!). He is brilliant, graduated in a reputable university in the capital of my country, and has 29 years experience being manager on big projects. But that was back home. Now we are here. He got a job designing ship pieces in AutoCad for a small business. But they treat him like crap. They give him more and more responsibility, he draws the pieces, has a control-sheet on Excel to keep track of costs, projects, workers, always solves problems that come out of nowhere, so he is doing a manager's job but can't delegate or freely organize himself. And they always blame every single thing on him, and scream at my old man. The thing is, he doesn't speak academic English. He never thought he would need it, in fact, he thought he would need to learn Portuguese because he worked with a lot of Brazilians (before the big scandal of ODEBRECH that is). So I wonder, is there any hope for him to get another job with all the experience he has, although he doesn't speak english, and doesn't have a degree in the eyes of USA? Sorry if this is not the right place to ask this! Assistant: He needs to be able to speak english, no way around it. I know some brilliant engineers that just have a strong accent and they have to work 3 times as hard just to break even, and these are fluent English speakers. He should consider working in an area that is predominantly Spanish speaking, he doesn't necessarily need to live there permanently, plenty of engineers work on a project contract at a time basis. Doing anything else without learning English is going to be really, really, really hard.
Human: How does an immigrant Engineer gets a work in USA? Good day everyone. My family recently immigrated to the states running away from our country. My dad is a Civil Engineer specialized in bridge construction (when he says it sounds better ha!). He is brilliant, graduated in a reputable university in the capital of my country, and has 29 years experience being manager on big projects. But that was back home. Now we are here. He got a job designing ship pieces in AutoCad for a small business. But they treat him like crap. They give him more and more responsibility, he draws the pieces, has a control-sheet on Excel to keep track of costs, projects, workers, always solves problems that come out of nowhere, so he is doing a manager's job but can't delegate or freely organize himself. And they always blame every single thing on him, and scream at my old man. The thing is, he doesn't speak academic English. He never thought he would need it, in fact, he thought he would need to learn Portuguese because he worked with a lot of Brazilians (before the big scandal of ODEBRECH that is). So I wonder, is there any hope for him to get another job with all the experience he has, although he doesn't speak english, and doesn't have a degree in the eyes of USA? Sorry if this is not the right place to ask this! Assistant: What language does your dad speak?
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Human: Is it a bad idea to stab Chicken Strips to cook faster in a deep fryer? Currently my girlfriend is working a new job at a fancy Pub at a country club! I'm excited for her but today her manager who is a questionable cook asked her to stop stabbing chicken strips as the oil gets inside and ruins the chicken. My girlfriend saids she not only does this to cook them faster, but that it also cooks and gets the chicken tender in her opinion. She tends to stab the chicken during the cooking process, while it's sitting in the basket. Should she stop doing this? Or is her questionable manager just wrong? One of his reasons for not doing this is so that they have consistent chicken strips coming out of the kitchen. What should she do as she takes pride in being a good cook? To stab or not to stab? Assistant: Your GF is wrong, her manager is correct. Natural juices are now leaving the chicken and oil is taking it's place.
Human: Is it a bad idea to stab Chicken Strips to cook faster in a deep fryer? Currently my girlfriend is working a new job at a fancy Pub at a country club! I'm excited for her but today her manager who is a questionable cook asked her to stop stabbing chicken strips as the oil gets inside and ruins the chicken. My girlfriend saids she not only does this to cook them faster, but that it also cooks and gets the chicken tender in her opinion. She tends to stab the chicken during the cooking process, while it's sitting in the basket. Should she stop doing this? Or is her questionable manager just wrong? One of his reasons for not doing this is so that they have consistent chicken strips coming out of the kitchen. What should she do as she takes pride in being a good cook? To stab or not to stab? Assistant: Unanimous decision, do not stab a already dead chicken
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Human: [Rogue One] Why would anyone be blind in a universe with cybernetic prosthetics? Assistant: He is a monk on a backwater planet in a crappy little town. Either he can't afford it, doesn't have access to it, or has otherwise decided not to pursue it. It is clear that he is mostly unhindered by it, so maybe he *sees* no need.
Human: [Rogue One] Why would anyone be blind in a universe with cybernetic prosthetics? Assistant: For some reason, there is MASSIVE income and resource inequality in the Star Wars galaxy.
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Human: Why do I (F22) never feel hungry, but instead get nauseous? Sex: F Age: 22 Height: 5’9” Weight: 140lbs Race: Caucasian For as long as I can remember, I very rarely feel hunger. I never sit and think “oh wow I’m hungry i need to eat”. I just eat automatically on a fairly regular schedule. But because of this, if I’m busy or distracted I often forget to eat and instead of getting hungry I just feel very nauseous and then don’t want to eat. Once in a while it makes me throw up but not normally. Why would this be happening? Why do I only feel nauseous and not hungry? No existing medical issues at all other than low iron and lactose intolerant. Assistant: Not a doctor and this is my issue. It’s horrible.
Human: Why do I (F22) never feel hungry, but instead get nauseous? Sex: F Age: 22 Height: 5’9” Weight: 140lbs Race: Caucasian For as long as I can remember, I very rarely feel hunger. I never sit and think “oh wow I’m hungry i need to eat”. I just eat automatically on a fairly regular schedule. But because of this, if I’m busy or distracted I often forget to eat and instead of getting hungry I just feel very nauseous and then don’t want to eat. Once in a while it makes me throw up but not normally. Why would this be happening? Why do I only feel nauseous and not hungry? No existing medical issues at all other than low iron and lactose intolerant. Assistant: Not a doctor I have this and mine is caused from stress.
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Human: Update:(Texas,US)Husbands ex-wife wants access to my bank accounts. My original post: http://www.reddit.com/r/legaladvice/comments/2tn9n8/texasushusbands_exwife_wants_access_to_my_bank/ We ended up going to court. She got nothing. She wanted debit cards and credit cards and all she got was embarrassment. It was the same judge that they had during their divorce(it's a small county), he even remembered them. All of the financial records from before and during their divorce had to be shown, it turns out that she owes my husband $5,000. Assistant: Nice. Did either of you have lawyers? Did she seem surprised at her loss?
Human: Update:(Texas,US)Husbands ex-wife wants access to my bank accounts. My original post: http://www.reddit.com/r/legaladvice/comments/2tn9n8/texasushusbands_exwife_wants_access_to_my_bank/ We ended up going to court. She got nothing. She wanted debit cards and credit cards and all she got was embarrassment. It was the same judge that they had during their divorce(it's a small county), he even remembered them. All of the financial records from before and during their divorce had to be shown, it turns out that she owes my husband $5,000. Assistant: The funniest thing in the original post was the ex trying to get a clause in the divorce that he could never get re married. That would never hold up in any court
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Human: Can hitting a pothole damage your car ? Assistant: Only if your car runs it over.
Human: Can hitting a pothole damage your car ? Assistant: Depends on a lot of factors but yes. Theoretically the faster you go the better chance you have to not damage your car shown in this sim game video but I wouldn't recommend speeding up for small potholes.
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Human: ( Employer is making me pay $3,000 for damages that occurred while on the job. ) Can anyone give me any legal advice on this matter? Please! I’m 19 and I recently started work for this tire company where I deliver tires to dealerships in LA and San Diego. I drive a truck as big as a U-Haul and when I deliver tires and sometimes its hard to back out & such since its such a tight space at most dealerships. I recently hit a wall at a Lexus dealership and the damage was said to be $3,000. And my employer is making me sign a contract to deduct a certain amount till I pay back that $3,000. Would I have to pay the amount that my employer is saying I have to? Especially if I was on the job using a company truck as well. I’m not sure if it would fall under Labor laws in CA or that if my employer is supposed to cover that damage that happened while on the job. Any advice would help! Assistant: They own a profitable business. They take risks and reap the rewards. You are there to make a fixed hourly pay. Nothing can be deducted from your pay. Accidents are part of the risk that comes out of their profits. Don't agree to pay. If they fire you, go find a better place to work. The job market is hot right now. If they chose not to pay for the right insurance, they took on more risk in their business.
Human: ( Employer is making me pay $3,000 for damages that occurred while on the job. ) Can anyone give me any legal advice on this matter? Please! I’m 19 and I recently started work for this tire company where I deliver tires to dealerships in LA and San Diego. I drive a truck as big as a U-Haul and when I deliver tires and sometimes its hard to back out & such since its such a tight space at most dealerships. I recently hit a wall at a Lexus dealership and the damage was said to be $3,000. And my employer is making me sign a contract to deduct a certain amount till I pay back that $3,000. Would I have to pay the amount that my employer is saying I have to? Especially if I was on the job using a company truck as well. I’m not sure if it would fall under Labor laws in CA or that if my employer is supposed to cover that damage that happened while on the job. Any advice would help! Assistant: Not legal to make you pay, legal to fire you for it though.
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Human: What are some growing fields in engineering? Wondering what fields will have jobs in 5-6 years Assistant: Horticultural engineering is a growing field.........
Human: What are some growing fields in engineering? Wondering what fields will have jobs in 5-6 years Assistant: ai and self driving car tech is going through a huge hiring cycle right now. The engineers that develop and support it will be growing for the next few years. Also UAV space is growing.
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Human: [Spider-Man] If Peter Parker is injured and goes to a hospital, would doctors immediately recognize that he was part spider during their diagnostic testing? Title Assistant: They're recognize he's a mutate but, hey, so what? Plenty of people are mutates in the marvel universe. This is an unexpected boon for secret identities- proving someone is not fully human doesn't actually narrow down their being a superhero.
Human: [Spider-Man] If Peter Parker is injured and goes to a hospital, would doctors immediately recognize that he was part spider during their diagnostic testing? Title Assistant: No, because he isn't part spider
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Human: UPDATE #2] My wife was assaulted by my step-mother and captured it on video. Step-mother stole the phone, deleted the video and lied that she hit first, but I was able to recover the video and show the police before they left. (Colorado) [OP UPDATE #1 This will be short and sweet. This letter came in the mail the other day, and the charges against my wife have been officially dropped! To say it was a big sigh of relief is an understatement. It feels great to not have to think about this anymore. Thanks for all the advice you've given, its been really great. If I ever need to post here again I hope it is under lighter circumstances! Assistant: How old are you wife and step mother?
Human: UPDATE #2] My wife was assaulted by my step-mother and captured it on video. Step-mother stole the phone, deleted the video and lied that she hit first, but I was able to recover the video and show the police before they left. (Colorado) [OP UPDATE #1 This will be short and sweet. This letter came in the mail the other day, and the charges against my wife have been officially dropped! To say it was a big sigh of relief is an understatement. It feels great to not have to think about this anymore. Thanks for all the advice you've given, its been really great. If I ever need to post here again I hope it is under lighter circumstances! Assistant: I'm just catching up to this. I'm curious what type of phone you used and the software. Hopefully you have a pin code on your phones now, as well as data backups running. Easier to do on android, but still, worth it.
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Human: What can I make with few ingredients Hello! So I'm in the mood for baking, but i currently have no way of getting to a store. I've got flour, eggs, milk, sugar, oil, and butter. Can anyone think of what i can do with that? Thanks! Assistant: It’s been 7 hours, what did you make?
Human: What can I make with few ingredients Hello! So I'm in the mood for baking, but i currently have no way of getting to a store. I've got flour, eggs, milk, sugar, oil, and butter. Can anyone think of what i can do with that? Thanks! Assistant: Popovers/Yorkshire pudding!
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Human: CMV: George Floyd wasn’t a hero so much as he was a symbol. I feel as though a hero is defined by acts of heroism, and as far as I can tell, the only thing he did that made him so well-known is get killed by a racist police officer. The way I see it, he is not seen as a hero, or hardly even a person, but rather as a symbol for police brutality across the country. Now, I’m not defending the police, I don’t think George deserved that at all, I’m just having a hard time understanding how exactly he can be considered a hero. Because the way I see it, if that were any other black guy, it would have had the same affect on America. I know this opinion is probably really controversial, but I just feel like I am missing something here. Assistant: To me he was the straw that broke the camels back, at least for a little while.
Human: CMV: George Floyd wasn’t a hero so much as he was a symbol. I feel as though a hero is defined by acts of heroism, and as far as I can tell, the only thing he did that made him so well-known is get killed by a racist police officer. The way I see it, he is not seen as a hero, or hardly even a person, but rather as a symbol for police brutality across the country. Now, I’m not defending the police, I don’t think George deserved that at all, I’m just having a hard time understanding how exactly he can be considered a hero. Because the way I see it, if that were any other black guy, it would have had the same affect on America. I know this opinion is probably really controversial, but I just feel like I am missing something here. Assistant: No, he was a murder victim
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Human: [CA] On my resume, I hastily put that I had been on the deans list for 2 years, but after some research I realized that it was not true. I have been offered a position but first need to pass a background check which is asking for my school information. This is embarrassing, but after many interviews I was told that I was selected to move on with the hiring process above everyone else, and I just had to fill out an application for employment. I had just recently started to look for a full time job after 2 internships, and hastily put together a resume. On that resume, I had said that I had been on the deans list for 2 years, thinking that meant I had a *cumulative* gpa 3.5+ which is true. Unfortunately, the deans list in my school was given to students with a gpa 3.5 only for that semester. I am not sure how this will affect my hiring proccess, and I am scared that it will mean outright cancellation of my future employment. I am not sure whether to tell my HR, or just let it slide as my grades are not my biggest selling point. I have 2 years of experience so I don't think that gpa should really matter too much, and my overall gpa is 3.49, just .1 lower than a the deans list requirement of 3.5. Any advice would be greatly appreciated thanks in advance! Assistant: I really wouldn't worry. I would just fix it for other applications. Trust me, as you go about your career there will be bigger things you want to hide.
Human: [CA] On my resume, I hastily put that I had been on the deans list for 2 years, but after some research I realized that it was not true. I have been offered a position but first need to pass a background check which is asking for my school information. This is embarrassing, but after many interviews I was told that I was selected to move on with the hiring process above everyone else, and I just had to fill out an application for employment. I had just recently started to look for a full time job after 2 internships, and hastily put together a resume. On that resume, I had said that I had been on the deans list for 2 years, thinking that meant I had a *cumulative* gpa 3.5+ which is true. Unfortunately, the deans list in my school was given to students with a gpa 3.5 only for that semester. I am not sure how this will affect my hiring proccess, and I am scared that it will mean outright cancellation of my future employment. I am not sure whether to tell my HR, or just let it slide as my grades are not my biggest selling point. I have 2 years of experience so I don't think that gpa should really matter too much, and my overall gpa is 3.49, just .1 lower than a the deans list requirement of 3.5. Any advice would be greatly appreciated thanks in advance! Assistant: They are never going to verify if you were on the dean's list, but just that you have the degree that you said that you have.
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Human: [Star Wars] Alderaanian here. A new moon just appeared in the sky out of nowhere. As an astrology buff, how will this affect my horoscope? Exciting times. Assistant: I suggest a rapid transfer of skills from astrology to astronomy, or piloting
Human: [Star Wars] Alderaanian here. A new moon just appeared in the sky out of nowhere. As an astrology buff, how will this affect my horoscope? Exciting times. Assistant: That's no moon...
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Human: What is the best berry to bake with? I like raspberries, huckleberries, and blackberries. Assistant: Cranberries are underrated in baking, imo. That tart bite in a sweet quickbread or a bundt? Yes, please.
Human: What is the best berry to bake with? I like raspberries, huckleberries, and blackberries. Assistant: The ones that are fresh, local and in season
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Human: CMV: There’s nothing wrong with masturbating in private to memories or social media of people you know and are attracted to, provided you keep it to yourself TL;DR: I think that there is nothing wrong with getting off to thoughts, memories, or social media pictures of people you know, provided that you do not tell anybody and ensure that they do not know that you get off to them. In my view, I’m only referring to adults. I think viewing children or animals in a sexual manner is intrinsically wrong, and I don’t want to humor views to the contrary. Don’t try to change my view on that. Some objections to my view that I can anticipate are that it is icky or wrong, or that it is a violation of privacy, or that it violates the person’s consent. For the former, I don’t think there is anything wrong with being sexually attracted to someone, provided that they are a human adult. For the privacy violation argument, I think that using memories you would already have from ordinary interactions, plus whatever embellishments your imagination can create, as well as social media content that you’d be able to access as an ordinary follower or friend does not violate privacy. I think invasive things such as spying from a drone, secret cameras, or being a peeping tom would absolutely be a violation of privacy. I am not referring to using such means in my view. Regarding consent: I think there is no need for consent because the only person involved is you. Any memories or media being looked at is ultimately a memory, and those are ours to use as we wish. There’s no need to get permission to have or use thoughts to get oneself off. I don’t see much difference between using a memory of seeing a social media post and looking at the social media post itself durkng the act, so I don’t see any role for consent there, either. I do think it’s crucial that you keep your masturbation habits to yourself and do not share with anybody, because if there is any chance the person you are getting off to finds out, then you are involving them and violating their consent. Assistant: >. I think viewing children or animals in a sexual manner is intrinsically wrong, and I don’t want to humor views to the contrary. What's the distinction? If a man masturbates in the woods and no one hears a thing what does the content matter? If you are saying some subject matter affects your behavior but not others why? This is a core part of your view I don't think we can ignore this.
Human: CMV: There’s nothing wrong with masturbating in private to memories or social media of people you know and are attracted to, provided you keep it to yourself TL;DR: I think that there is nothing wrong with getting off to thoughts, memories, or social media pictures of people you know, provided that you do not tell anybody and ensure that they do not know that you get off to them. In my view, I’m only referring to adults. I think viewing children or animals in a sexual manner is intrinsically wrong, and I don’t want to humor views to the contrary. Don’t try to change my view on that. Some objections to my view that I can anticipate are that it is icky or wrong, or that it is a violation of privacy, or that it violates the person’s consent. For the former, I don’t think there is anything wrong with being sexually attracted to someone, provided that they are a human adult. For the privacy violation argument, I think that using memories you would already have from ordinary interactions, plus whatever embellishments your imagination can create, as well as social media content that you’d be able to access as an ordinary follower or friend does not violate privacy. I think invasive things such as spying from a drone, secret cameras, or being a peeping tom would absolutely be a violation of privacy. I am not referring to using such means in my view. Regarding consent: I think there is no need for consent because the only person involved is you. Any memories or media being looked at is ultimately a memory, and those are ours to use as we wish. There’s no need to get permission to have or use thoughts to get oneself off. I don’t see much difference between using a memory of seeing a social media post and looking at the social media post itself durkng the act, so I don’t see any role for consent there, either. I do think it’s crucial that you keep your masturbation habits to yourself and do not share with anybody, because if there is any chance the person you are getting off to finds out, then you are involving them and violating their consent. Assistant: The primary danger is that you will come to view those people as objects instead of people with actual goals, feelings, and thoughts.
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Human: What is the one thing about someone's car that makes you say "wow, this person actually cares about their car"? Assistant: No dealer tags/badges/stickers. So many people just don't even care.
Human: What is the one thing about someone's car that makes you say "wow, this person actually cares about their car"? Assistant: A good brand of tyres instead of the cheapo alternatives. Wheels without kerb damage. Quality window wipers, like Bosch, that are in good condition. Clean, clear windows.
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Human: [META] [AskHistorians at the AHA] Hello everyone! From everyone on the team who attended the AHA, I would like to extend a hearty THANK YOU to everyone who helped us fund our trip, met up with us, or who watched us! Hello there! First, a video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gskPiUfHv7s&feature=youtu.be I would like to take a moment to extend another giant thank you to everyone who helped us get to the AHA and who helped us make the most of the experience there! To give you an idea of raw numbers--around 200 people watched our speech, ~30 live (which is about average for a major panel on the first day of a conference) and ~170 on our Periscope, which includes many of you here, and many of our twitter followers. Additionally, we organized to attend receptions every single night we were there-- Twitterstorians, Public Historians, the Farewell Breakfast and the World History Association Receptions. During those receptions, and over the course of the conference, we gave away *lots* of business cards and made quite a lot of contacts between the seven of us that were present. We also got to meet a few flairs in person, so hello to each and every one of you! In addition, we received great advice on how to expand and edit our podcast, how to reach a wider audience, and other great advice we will take to heart to improve your experience here. Speaking of the podcast... I took a recording of the speeches, as well as the questions. The audio file will make its way to /u/400-rabbits for an extra-special edition of our podcast! As promised, we have rough transcripts of the five speeches that we gave at the AHA. https://docs.google.com/document/d/1orBlhqfBd_Bk-_sIf1zTYdsd82HTPyFBWunokXopEfc/edit?usp=sharing (/u/Celebreth uploaded his paper with the edits we made in our critique sessions--there is a link in there, or you can click here: https://drive.google.com/file/d/0B9nqQulCLkiZMXlzV3lkX044V3c/view?usp=sharing) Let me or any of the other attendees know if you have questions! Assistant: This was amazing, and I loved getting to meet you all. I had a fantastic time getting to know you all, and thank you for encouraging me to get back into answering questions here!
Human: [META] [AskHistorians at the AHA] Hello everyone! From everyone on the team who attended the AHA, I would like to extend a hearty THANK YOU to everyone who helped us fund our trip, met up with us, or who watched us! Hello there! First, a video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gskPiUfHv7s&feature=youtu.be I would like to take a moment to extend another giant thank you to everyone who helped us get to the AHA and who helped us make the most of the experience there! To give you an idea of raw numbers--around 200 people watched our speech, ~30 live (which is about average for a major panel on the first day of a conference) and ~170 on our Periscope, which includes many of you here, and many of our twitter followers. Additionally, we organized to attend receptions every single night we were there-- Twitterstorians, Public Historians, the Farewell Breakfast and the World History Association Receptions. During those receptions, and over the course of the conference, we gave away *lots* of business cards and made quite a lot of contacts between the seven of us that were present. We also got to meet a few flairs in person, so hello to each and every one of you! In addition, we received great advice on how to expand and edit our podcast, how to reach a wider audience, and other great advice we will take to heart to improve your experience here. Speaking of the podcast... I took a recording of the speeches, as well as the questions. The audio file will make its way to /u/400-rabbits for an extra-special edition of our podcast! As promised, we have rough transcripts of the five speeches that we gave at the AHA. https://docs.google.com/document/d/1orBlhqfBd_Bk-_sIf1zTYdsd82HTPyFBWunokXopEfc/edit?usp=sharing (/u/Celebreth uploaded his paper with the edits we made in our critique sessions--there is a link in there, or you can click here: https://drive.google.com/file/d/0B9nqQulCLkiZMXlzV3lkX044V3c/view?usp=sharing) Let me or any of the other attendees know if you have questions! Assistant: Congrats guys, sounds like it was really well received!
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Human: [Doctor who]aside from two hearts and regeneration, what about timelord physiology is different from human? Assistant: They seem to be able to remember everything that ever happened to them.
Human: [Doctor who]aside from two hearts and regeneration, what about timelord physiology is different from human? Assistant: Timelords are also low level psychics. Able to transfer memories and thoughts telepathically.
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Human: My dog is 16, his back legs are really bad, so much that every time he tries to poop, his legs give out and he falls into it. Any options to help aid him? I've looked at dog wheels but I can't afford $400+ on wheels, when I know the poor guy is so old, he might not get much use. He mostly sleeps all day. Doesn't go out because he can't do the stairs, and he just prefers to be indoors now. We use puppy pads, but he keeps falling in his poop, then he has a hard time getting up and smashes it all over the floor and all over his body. He needs constant baths, and he's afraid of water, which makes it hard. Any other ideas for aiding him during his bowl movements? Or are the wheels my last choice? I wasn't sure how they worked either for when dogs go potty. Assistant: Lots of suggestions for hip slings. While you wait for one, a towel can also double as one temporarily.
Human: My dog is 16, his back legs are really bad, so much that every time he tries to poop, his legs give out and he falls into it. Any options to help aid him? I've looked at dog wheels but I can't afford $400+ on wheels, when I know the poor guy is so old, he might not get much use. He mostly sleeps all day. Doesn't go out because he can't do the stairs, and he just prefers to be indoors now. We use puppy pads, but he keeps falling in his poop, then he has a hard time getting up and smashes it all over the floor and all over his body. He needs constant baths, and he's afraid of water, which makes it hard. Any other ideas for aiding him during his bowl movements? Or are the wheels my last choice? I wasn't sure how they worked either for when dogs go potty. Assistant: Is he on any arthritis medication ?
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Human: would you still use this cream cheese? I've had a busy week, but was trying to bake a cheesecake. I took out three bricks to soften for the morning, without getting time to bake. So back in fridge they went. Until next day, same issue. Would any one still use the cheese after a few hours out, 2 days in a row? Assistant: Technically it should be thrown out after 4 hours at room temp. That would be a mandatory rule in a commercial kitchen. That said. In practice at home I've left sealed cream cheese out for more than 12 hours and used it. I use common sense and a smell test. If it was so warm that it weeped or melted, it's more dangerous than if it sat at a cool 65⁰F.
Human: would you still use this cream cheese? I've had a busy week, but was trying to bake a cheesecake. I took out three bricks to soften for the morning, without getting time to bake. So back in fridge they went. Until next day, same issue. Would any one still use the cheese after a few hours out, 2 days in a row? Assistant: Yeah no problem. Some cream cheeses aren't even sold refrigerated where I am.
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Human: What surprising material would cause the most problems if it suddenly became unavailable? Obviously necessities like water, petroleum, steel, concrete or fertilizer would cause major upheaval if the supply was greatly reduced. But what unexpected substances would cause significant hardship if they were suddenly difficult or expensive to produce? Assistant: helium has tons of uses and a habit of floating away from the earth
Human: What surprising material would cause the most problems if it suddenly became unavailable? Obviously necessities like water, petroleum, steel, concrete or fertilizer would cause major upheaval if the supply was greatly reduced. But what unexpected substances would cause significant hardship if they were suddenly difficult or expensive to produce? Assistant: Inert gasses. Welding would be come much harder.
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Human: What's your favorite patent drawing of all time? I'm thinking about getting one of those blueprint wall hangers. Assistant: The Epipen Patent. If they're going to gouge people then they could at least pay for a drafter
Human: What's your favorite patent drawing of all time? I'm thinking about getting one of those blueprint wall hangers. Assistant: Comestible wrap product and method of making the same Taco Bell got a patent for the Crunchwrap Supreme.
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Human: The Physics of Double Jumping (Attempt #2) So, I was trying to figure out the exact physics behind the video game mechanic known as "Double Jumping," which, for those who don't know, consists of the character jumping into the air and then, somehow, jumping again, apparently jumping off the air itself. Now, while this is physically impossible to do for a normal human, we're not talking about normal people. We're talking about superhuman fictional characters. ​ Now, last time I attempted this, in my previous post on here, I suggested the possibility that maybe one could pull of a Double Jump by pressing one's feat down on the air with such Force and Pressure that it became solid Nitrogen, which they could then leap off of. Thanks to the replies I received, I realized a variety of issues with that idea, but the most notable was that even if such a platform could be made, it would not be braced against anything, and thus wouldn't be something one could leap off of regardless. Thankfully, there were alternative methods of lift that were suggested by those who made comments on my last post, some of which I considered. I looked at the physics of Rockets, but unfortunately, without you throwing a sizable amount of matter downwards, you could not Double Jump with that method. Similarly, next I looked at the physics of how birds fly, but once again it couldn't really be applied in this circumstance, as it seems birds achieve lift through a specific method of abusing the laws of physics, specifically through using a specific wing shape called an "air foil," or something like that, which doesn't seem applicable in our theoretical situation of a human jumping off of the air. ​ So, following that up, I came up with a second attempt at approaching this, and I would love to hear some feedback on it. In our theoretical Double Jump, suppose that the human in question kicked downwards with such force that it created a shockwave, and this shockwave then moved towards the ground, bounced off it, and then the returning shockwave pressed up against the person's feat and carried them upwards. From what I understand of shockwaves, they just require one to put a large amount of energy into the air in a short period of time, and in addition those waves can be more than strong enough to lift a person. ​ I actually ran the numbers already, and given a person weighing 62 kg, gravity would be pressing them downwards with a Force of 608.22 Newtons. Assuming the soles of their feet, together, have an area of about 0.044 m², that would mean the shockwave would have to be exerting pressure of about 13823.182 Pascals in order to match the Force of Gravity. Supposing that, after the first jump, they are 4.572 meters in the air, that would mean the shockwave would have to travel 4.572 meters to the ground and then 4.572 meters back up to the person. For the purposes of this, assuming the energy was completely conserved after reflecting off of the ground, that would mean the shockwave will have traveled a total distance of 9.144 meters. Using the inverse square law (which I'm assuming is still applicable in this circumstance), combined with the handy Alex Wellerstein NUKEMAP calculator, I found that, in order to create such a shockwave, the person would have to be kicking out with 8368000 Joules of Energy, which is approximately equivalent to 8.4 Dynamite Sticks exploding simultaneously. ​ Now, aside from the idea that the shockwave would reflect off the ground without any loss of energy, which I would adjust for provided that this method is reasonable, does this sound like a solid explanation for this "Double Jump" in terms of the physics? And yes, I understand that no human could ever produce this sort of Energy with a jump. I just want to know, if they WERE to pull off a Double Jump, if this explanation seems like the most likely and/or the most feasible. So if you see any flaws in my explanation/regarding the physics involved with this, or if there's some major oversight I missed, or if you've got your own ideas or explanations for how the physics of a Double Jump could work, please let me know! This makes sense to me, and it seems to be more physically sound than turning the Nitrogen into a platform, but I still want to hear what you smart people think. Thank you for your assistance in this thought experiment! Assistant: This is the quality content we need.
Human: The Physics of Double Jumping (Attempt #2) So, I was trying to figure out the exact physics behind the video game mechanic known as "Double Jumping," which, for those who don't know, consists of the character jumping into the air and then, somehow, jumping again, apparently jumping off the air itself. Now, while this is physically impossible to do for a normal human, we're not talking about normal people. We're talking about superhuman fictional characters. ​ Now, last time I attempted this, in my previous post on here, I suggested the possibility that maybe one could pull of a Double Jump by pressing one's feat down on the air with such Force and Pressure that it became solid Nitrogen, which they could then leap off of. Thanks to the replies I received, I realized a variety of issues with that idea, but the most notable was that even if such a platform could be made, it would not be braced against anything, and thus wouldn't be something one could leap off of regardless. Thankfully, there were alternative methods of lift that were suggested by those who made comments on my last post, some of which I considered. I looked at the physics of Rockets, but unfortunately, without you throwing a sizable amount of matter downwards, you could not Double Jump with that method. Similarly, next I looked at the physics of how birds fly, but once again it couldn't really be applied in this circumstance, as it seems birds achieve lift through a specific method of abusing the laws of physics, specifically through using a specific wing shape called an "air foil," or something like that, which doesn't seem applicable in our theoretical situation of a human jumping off of the air. ​ So, following that up, I came up with a second attempt at approaching this, and I would love to hear some feedback on it. In our theoretical Double Jump, suppose that the human in question kicked downwards with such force that it created a shockwave, and this shockwave then moved towards the ground, bounced off it, and then the returning shockwave pressed up against the person's feat and carried them upwards. From what I understand of shockwaves, they just require one to put a large amount of energy into the air in a short period of time, and in addition those waves can be more than strong enough to lift a person. ​ I actually ran the numbers already, and given a person weighing 62 kg, gravity would be pressing them downwards with a Force of 608.22 Newtons. Assuming the soles of their feet, together, have an area of about 0.044 m², that would mean the shockwave would have to be exerting pressure of about 13823.182 Pascals in order to match the Force of Gravity. Supposing that, after the first jump, they are 4.572 meters in the air, that would mean the shockwave would have to travel 4.572 meters to the ground and then 4.572 meters back up to the person. For the purposes of this, assuming the energy was completely conserved after reflecting off of the ground, that would mean the shockwave will have traveled a total distance of 9.144 meters. Using the inverse square law (which I'm assuming is still applicable in this circumstance), combined with the handy Alex Wellerstein NUKEMAP calculator, I found that, in order to create such a shockwave, the person would have to be kicking out with 8368000 Joules of Energy, which is approximately equivalent to 8.4 Dynamite Sticks exploding simultaneously. ​ Now, aside from the idea that the shockwave would reflect off the ground without any loss of energy, which I would adjust for provided that this method is reasonable, does this sound like a solid explanation for this "Double Jump" in terms of the physics? And yes, I understand that no human could ever produce this sort of Energy with a jump. I just want to know, if they WERE to pull off a Double Jump, if this explanation seems like the most likely and/or the most feasible. So if you see any flaws in my explanation/regarding the physics involved with this, or if there's some major oversight I missed, or if you've got your own ideas or explanations for how the physics of a Double Jump could work, please let me know! This makes sense to me, and it seems to be more physically sound than turning the Nitrogen into a platform, but I still want to hear what you smart people think. Thank you for your assistance in this thought experiment! Assistant: This sounds like a lost page from Randall Monroe’s book “What If?” After you brought up the shockwave idea, all I can think about is someone trying to hover via screaming toward the ground. Thank you for sharing, even if it is silly.
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Human: Stop limiting yourself and selling yourself short. Many times I see "I know this is silly" or "Apologies for the stupid question." You are doing yourself a disservice. None of us know until we investigate, ask and are taught. If you think that a question isn't worth asking sometimes you'll feel embarrassed to ask and you will never know the truth. You are not dumb, your questions are not stupid and the pursuit of knowledge should not be shamed. Assistant: I feel like there's a weird intelligence fetishization to blame for this.
Human: Stop limiting yourself and selling yourself short. Many times I see "I know this is silly" or "Apologies for the stupid question." You are doing yourself a disservice. None of us know until we investigate, ask and are taught. If you think that a question isn't worth asking sometimes you'll feel embarrassed to ask and you will never know the truth. You are not dumb, your questions are not stupid and the pursuit of knowledge should not be shamed. Assistant: The fact those people are already posting on r/AskPhysics already shows strength.
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Human: Meatloaf: onions cooked before or nah? Growing up we didn’t eat many onions because my dad couldn’t have them. Now, I put them in anything I can. They’re so good. Now, I’ve got my mom’s meatloaf recipe but it obviously doesn’t include onions (used green peppers instead). If I wanted to add them, should I mix them in raw or should I cook them on the stove first? Will it make a difference in flavor? Assistant: i make it three ways, depending on what flavor profile i’m going for. grated raw, chopped raw, and chopped caramelized. grated raw is great for more of a “kebab” flavor profile. chopped raw is good for an italian or bbq flavor profile. caramelized is also good for bbq, but my favorite is swedish meatball flavor profile.
Human: Meatloaf: onions cooked before or nah? Growing up we didn’t eat many onions because my dad couldn’t have them. Now, I put them in anything I can. They’re so good. Now, I’ve got my mom’s meatloaf recipe but it obviously doesn’t include onions (used green peppers instead). If I wanted to add them, should I mix them in raw or should I cook them on the stove first? Will it make a difference in flavor? Assistant: Caramelize them, then deglaze your pan with a shot of whiskey. Game changer.
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Human: I think my baby girl is close to death and I am helpless As I am writing this tears are streaming down my face. I've had my 12 yr old chihuahua since she was 3wks old. She has been my constant companion best friend and has given me the most love and emotional support I have ever experienced from any being. She was diagnosed in late August with a heart murmur, MVD, pulmunary edema and CHF. She's been on the typical meds Lasix, Enalapril, Vetemedin, and Spiractolon since her diagnosis. I noticed her breathing very fast and loud since Sunday and it has continued. However she still has an excellent appetite and loves to run and play. Please tell me what this means and what I can do to help her. Assistant: Yup get her into the vet see if they can do anything.
Human: I think my baby girl is close to death and I am helpless As I am writing this tears are streaming down my face. I've had my 12 yr old chihuahua since she was 3wks old. She has been my constant companion best friend and has given me the most love and emotional support I have ever experienced from any being. She was diagnosed in late August with a heart murmur, MVD, pulmunary edema and CHF. She's been on the typical meds Lasix, Enalapril, Vetemedin, and Spiractolon since her diagnosis. I noticed her breathing very fast and loud since Sunday and it has continued. However she still has an excellent appetite and loves to run and play. Please tell me what this means and what I can do to help her. Assistant: Based on your description you need to take your dog to the vet today.
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Human: Why is salting food before tasting it frowned upon, yet black pepper is okay? Assistant: Salt is something that a good chef should have the correct amount of in the dish. A perfectly salted dish is something a cook can be proud of, so if you salt it right off the bat you are kind of saying you don't trust the cook. You might like more salt then normal so you can add it after tasting. Pepper is much more dependent on personal preference so you can add it by sight usually.
Human: Why is salting food before tasting it frowned upon, yet black pepper is okay? Assistant: It might also be because you can see if pepper has been added?
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Human: How can you tell the difference between “someone trying to sound deep” and someone who’s genuinely trying to express a complicated thought? Assistant: Ask a critical question, see if they can elaborate or switch topic/change their standpoint
Human: How can you tell the difference between “someone trying to sound deep” and someone who’s genuinely trying to express a complicated thought? Assistant: Ask questions on a given topic
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Human: [TX] Fully vested in FMLA, and just disclosed my pregnancy at 20 weeks last week. Now I’m getting “laid off.” Two weeks ago I had an informal review with my boss and boss’s boss, was told how much of an integral part of the team I am, how well I’m doing, and given a huge new project which I was to tackle alone. They talked about how our division is severely short staffed and how I have been going “above and beyond” lately and how much they appreciated it. Because there has been some attrition among my fellow analysts of late, they asked me to let them know if I need anything and give them the opportunity to “make my situation better” if I ever get an offer elsewhere. It seemed like they were making sure that I was somewhat happy and didn’t have any plans to go anywhere else. Last week on Tuesday I officially disclosed my pregnancy with my boss at 20 weeks. I was congratulated, asked if I planned to return after baby (I was) and what my childcare arrangement would look like. I stated that we will have in-home care through my mother in law who lives down the street. They asked if I needed any formal accommodations (I didn’t, except for the occasional dr appointment which I’m exempt so I just work around it), clarified how long my leave would be (12 weeks), and sent me all of the paperwork to get FMLA started with the third party HR company (we don’t have in-house HR). This morning, I was informed that “due to business needs” my job is being eliminated and I will be laid off as of 5pm Friday with severance, but I have to sign paperwork. Between now and Friday I am to finish the project I was given two weeks ago (impossible- the due date was originally July 15th, it’s May 10th), and write out SOPs for everything I do. I have not signed yet, I told her I would need some time to read through the paperwork. I’m very suspicious. I have been with the company nearly five years, been promoted twice, and have had 7 highly-rated reviews. Also, in light of the conversation two weeks ago it sounded like they needed me and were enticing me to stay. The only thing that’s changed between then and now is that they know I’m pregnant. Additionally, no one else is getting laid off, only me. We are extremely short staffed and the only analytic department at the company, our duties aren’t something they can absorb to another division. Job postings are still currently out to replace the three analysts who recently left. It doesn’t make sense. In fact, as I wrote this a fourth posting was just posted for my department with a slightly different job title as mine, but all of the same duties. If this were a real lay off, more people would be let go and they would be removing postings, not adding one right? I was under the impression that companies could not let someone for being pregnant. I understand they’re saying it’s a lay-off due to business needs and that IS allowed, but if they’re already hiring for my position and the other three open positions, obviously they have business needs. Also, I’m not a low performer nor has my pregnancy impacted my performance whatsoever. Obviously, being pregnant and so far along severely impacts me from getting a new job and I likely wouldn’t get another job before baby is born. From an HR standpoint, would this fly in your companies? Does this fit the criteria for discrimination? Should I sign the separation agreement? Never thought I would be in this situation... TLDR: despite high performance and being severely short-staffed, my company has laid me off at 20 weeks pregnant due to “business needs.” They posted an open position with my exact duties 2 hours later. Can they do this? Should I sign the severance agreement? Assistant: you really need to seek legal counsel before signing any paperwork. And if you look at my postings, I rarely suggest someone do so. But if what you are saying is true on the timing, it looks very suspicious.
Human: [TX] Fully vested in FMLA, and just disclosed my pregnancy at 20 weeks last week. Now I’m getting “laid off.” Two weeks ago I had an informal review with my boss and boss’s boss, was told how much of an integral part of the team I am, how well I’m doing, and given a huge new project which I was to tackle alone. They talked about how our division is severely short staffed and how I have been going “above and beyond” lately and how much they appreciated it. Because there has been some attrition among my fellow analysts of late, they asked me to let them know if I need anything and give them the opportunity to “make my situation better” if I ever get an offer elsewhere. It seemed like they were making sure that I was somewhat happy and didn’t have any plans to go anywhere else. Last week on Tuesday I officially disclosed my pregnancy with my boss at 20 weeks. I was congratulated, asked if I planned to return after baby (I was) and what my childcare arrangement would look like. I stated that we will have in-home care through my mother in law who lives down the street. They asked if I needed any formal accommodations (I didn’t, except for the occasional dr appointment which I’m exempt so I just work around it), clarified how long my leave would be (12 weeks), and sent me all of the paperwork to get FMLA started with the third party HR company (we don’t have in-house HR). This morning, I was informed that “due to business needs” my job is being eliminated and I will be laid off as of 5pm Friday with severance, but I have to sign paperwork. Between now and Friday I am to finish the project I was given two weeks ago (impossible- the due date was originally July 15th, it’s May 10th), and write out SOPs for everything I do. I have not signed yet, I told her I would need some time to read through the paperwork. I’m very suspicious. I have been with the company nearly five years, been promoted twice, and have had 7 highly-rated reviews. Also, in light of the conversation two weeks ago it sounded like they needed me and were enticing me to stay. The only thing that’s changed between then and now is that they know I’m pregnant. Additionally, no one else is getting laid off, only me. We are extremely short staffed and the only analytic department at the company, our duties aren’t something they can absorb to another division. Job postings are still currently out to replace the three analysts who recently left. It doesn’t make sense. In fact, as I wrote this a fourth posting was just posted for my department with a slightly different job title as mine, but all of the same duties. If this were a real lay off, more people would be let go and they would be removing postings, not adding one right? I was under the impression that companies could not let someone for being pregnant. I understand they’re saying it’s a lay-off due to business needs and that IS allowed, but if they’re already hiring for my position and the other three open positions, obviously they have business needs. Also, I’m not a low performer nor has my pregnancy impacted my performance whatsoever. Obviously, being pregnant and so far along severely impacts me from getting a new job and I likely wouldn’t get another job before baby is born. From an HR standpoint, would this fly in your companies? Does this fit the criteria for discrimination? Should I sign the separation agreement? Never thought I would be in this situation... TLDR: despite high performance and being severely short-staffed, my company has laid me off at 20 weeks pregnant due to “business needs.” They posted an open position with my exact duties 2 hours later. Can they do this? Should I sign the severance agreement? Assistant: Get an attorney, your employer sadly sounds like many of my clients. Employment at will doesn’t protect an employer for terminating an employee due to a pregnancy, even if it was an undue hardship for them they need to go through the ADA reasonable accommodation best practices. It infuriates me when some manager has a power trip like this with the bad excuse of “employment at will”, “right to work state” “layoff due to business needs”
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Human: Do you enjoy your job? If not why are you staying? I have worked for two defense contractors over the course of 5 years and both the jobs have been rather disappointing. I wonder to myself if engineering jobs are all just tedious boring jobs. My background is in physics and computer science. The technology I primarily work on are the foot note professors glanced over saying the technology is too focus on as modern technology implements it in much more efficient methods. I work in El segundo and while the pay is decent, it is nothing to write home to. I can afford a decent apartment and perhaps a house if I save up for 15 years. The work I do doesn't really require a college education... perhaps those jobs that do are left to the PhDs? I suppose I am jaded over my failed idealized vision of what an engineer did. It seems like being an engineer (at least in defense) is more about who can endure the marathon of tedious boring work the longest. I understand defense is not all the same, but defense in communication technology appears to be except for the few working on quantum communications or advanced cognitive radio. Assistant: 1. No 2. Because it pays well
Human: Do you enjoy your job? If not why are you staying? I have worked for two defense contractors over the course of 5 years and both the jobs have been rather disappointing. I wonder to myself if engineering jobs are all just tedious boring jobs. My background is in physics and computer science. The technology I primarily work on are the foot note professors glanced over saying the technology is too focus on as modern technology implements it in much more efficient methods. I work in El segundo and while the pay is decent, it is nothing to write home to. I can afford a decent apartment and perhaps a house if I save up for 15 years. The work I do doesn't really require a college education... perhaps those jobs that do are left to the PhDs? I suppose I am jaded over my failed idealized vision of what an engineer did. It seems like being an engineer (at least in defense) is more about who can endure the marathon of tedious boring work the longest. I understand defense is not all the same, but defense in communication technology appears to be except for the few working on quantum communications or advanced cognitive radio. Assistant: Yeah I'm enjoying the heck out of it but I guess working at a startup with a cool team kinda helps
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Human: [Follow up] How do you explain your engineering terms that have crept into everyday vocabulary? My wife and I were reading over the terms you guys posted yesterday. Really nerdy fun! I didn't realize how much I used many of those words. I had to explain several of them to her and found myself using analogies and examples. I explained my word, "non-zero" with commercial flight statistics. "There is a non-zero chance my flight to Taipei will crash." "Huh?!" "It's technically possible, but statistically IMPROBABLE. Its non-zero." She didn't like my example... So, engineers, how do you explain your terms? Assistant: When people are asking me for things or to do something sometimes I will say "Is that a requirement, or a desirement?". Not super technical but sometimes it does need an explanation
Human: [Follow up] How do you explain your engineering terms that have crept into everyday vocabulary? My wife and I were reading over the terms you guys posted yesterday. Really nerdy fun! I didn't realize how much I used many of those words. I had to explain several of them to her and found myself using analogies and examples. I explained my word, "non-zero" with commercial flight statistics. "There is a non-zero chance my flight to Taipei will crash." "Huh?!" "It's technically possible, but statistically IMPROBABLE. Its non-zero." She didn't like my example... So, engineers, how do you explain your terms? Assistant: I borrowed the term “activation energy” from chemical kinetics; it’s very useful in situations where there may be a good reward but it takes a lot of effort to get the project moving and the stakeholders engaged. ___ My brain gets confused now when someone offers me some “positive feedback.” NO FUCK NO WE DON’T WANT POSITIVE FEE... oh right that’s not what you mean—ok go ahead I’m listening.”
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Human: How would you go about getting the ship blocking the Suez Canal freed up? Was just chatting about this at work and we couldn’t come to a consensus. Top ideas are using one of the ships behind to pull it backwards or using the tugs to fluidise the sand so that it can move again. We clearly have no realistic inputs and there are many flaws with our ideas. How would you go about it? Assistant: Dump the cargo
Human: How would you go about getting the ship blocking the Suez Canal freed up? Was just chatting about this at work and we couldn’t come to a consensus. Top ideas are using one of the ships behind to pull it backwards or using the tugs to fluidise the sand so that it can move again. We clearly have no realistic inputs and there are many flaws with our ideas. How would you go about it? Assistant: I think most people haven't seen a ship this size.... I work with computer models of one of these almost every day... It takes a modern harbour with automatic cranes like RWG Rotterdam, 3 to 5 days to unload one of these, working with 3 cranes...In the best of circumstances... Any big ship that could help would be stuck in the queue on either side.... Only option is remove sand and hope for the best (tide)
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Human: “Paid a $2,000 deposit to a contractor who afterwards texted me sexual texts, memes, and pictures. I (32F, single mom) don’t feel safe with him in my house. He is now refusing to refund my money and is threatening to publicly embarrass me unless I agree to not give him bad reviews.” Asking for my sister who doesn’t have Reddit. What are her legal options? Assistant: Call the police, blackmail is illegal
Human: “Paid a $2,000 deposit to a contractor who afterwards texted me sexual texts, memes, and pictures. I (32F, single mom) don’t feel safe with him in my house. He is now refusing to refund my money and is threatening to publicly embarrass me unless I agree to not give him bad reviews.” Asking for my sister who doesn’t have Reddit. What are her legal options? Assistant: What does the contract/or agreement say?
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Human: [NY] I've received a number of emails in response to job ads posted on Linkedin, always from Gmail addresses not official company email servers and I find it a bit suspicious not to mention off-putting. Is this a scam? Am I alone in feeling this way? Is this just a part of the new normal with COVID? Dear Applicant, Thank you for your application for the Graphic Designer (REMOTE) position at REDACTED After reviewing your application, our online recruitment team has recommended you for the open position and you're among the candidates shortlisted for a virtual screening test/interview session with a Senior Development Director at REDACTED. This virtual screening test/interview is online through Email correspondence and Google Hangout. The window for this screening test/interview is TUESDAY 05/11/2021 10am You are to immediately contact the Senior Development Director Mr REDACTED his email (REDACTED) to acknowledge the receipt of this email and to confirm your availability and to schedule your interview. You should also add him on Google Hangouts with the same email address. The goal of this interview is for us to get to know you better, and for you to ask any questions you may have. We want to make sure that your skills, goals and ambitions match our company’s culture and the position. NOTE: It is imperative that you send email to the Senior Development Director Mr REDACTED to proceed with the screening process. The email again for the interview is[ ](mailto:matthewchappelle.christman@gmail.com)REDACTED. Accept the assurance of our best wishes and please do stay safe during this COVID-19 pandemic. Best Regards Assistant: >Accept the assurance of our best wishes and please do stay safe d Have you ever heard/read this phrasing before? Along with this and the other red flags, sounds like a scam
Human: [NY] I've received a number of emails in response to job ads posted on Linkedin, always from Gmail addresses not official company email servers and I find it a bit suspicious not to mention off-putting. Is this a scam? Am I alone in feeling this way? Is this just a part of the new normal with COVID? Dear Applicant, Thank you for your application for the Graphic Designer (REMOTE) position at REDACTED After reviewing your application, our online recruitment team has recommended you for the open position and you're among the candidates shortlisted for a virtual screening test/interview session with a Senior Development Director at REDACTED. This virtual screening test/interview is online through Email correspondence and Google Hangout. The window for this screening test/interview is TUESDAY 05/11/2021 10am You are to immediately contact the Senior Development Director Mr REDACTED his email (REDACTED) to acknowledge the receipt of this email and to confirm your availability and to schedule your interview. You should also add him on Google Hangouts with the same email address. The goal of this interview is for us to get to know you better, and for you to ask any questions you may have. We want to make sure that your skills, goals and ambitions match our company’s culture and the position. NOTE: It is imperative that you send email to the Senior Development Director Mr REDACTED to proceed with the screening process. The email again for the interview is[ ](mailto:matthewchappelle.christman@gmail.com)REDACTED. Accept the assurance of our best wishes and please do stay safe during this COVID-19 pandemic. Best Regards Assistant: You know it’s a scam.
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Human: My cat has these breathing fits every so often. Should I be concerned? Video attached. https://streamable.com/853dan ​ I've seen it about 4/5 times since I adopted her in August, and as far as I can tell for no rhyme or reason. She's about 11. I don't know anything about her medical history. Assistant: Your kitty is coughing, which can happen for a variety of reasons. Reduce all possible airway irritants (smoke, fragrances, essential oils, etc) and see your vet.
Human: My cat has these breathing fits every so often. Should I be concerned? Video attached. https://streamable.com/853dan ​ I've seen it about 4/5 times since I adopted her in August, and as far as I can tell for no rhyme or reason. She's about 11. I don't know anything about her medical history. Assistant: Yes. Take it to the vet.
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Human: Would it be ok to make roux with rendered chicken fat or is butter mandatory for a japanese curry? As the title says Just asking about fat choice Assistant: I think you can pretty much use any fat for a roux. Duck fat is one of my favorites, but chicken fat would be great as well.
Human: Would it be ok to make roux with rendered chicken fat or is butter mandatory for a japanese curry? As the title says Just asking about fat choice Assistant: Try it. This is where the "art" part comes in.
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Human: Is a body of water considered an impervious surface? For stormwater management calculations. Assistant: Usually impervious because the stormwater doesn't infiltrate.
Human: Is a body of water considered an impervious surface? For stormwater management calculations. Assistant: For stromwater runoff calculations it is
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Human: My (48F) mother died from a reaction to liquid gold injections in 1982 aged 29. I've recently been diagnosed with the same disease, Ankylosing Spondylitis. How are today's DMards similar and/or different from liquid gold? I'm afraid but need to treat this debilitating, disfiguring disease. Obviously, losing my mom at age 11 has left some scars on my mind. I want to better understand what went so catastrophically wrong with my mom's treatment. I was diagnosed with AS recently and am seriously considering taking some sort of biologic. Given my family's experience, most of them are against me taking something with risky side effects. I must balance their concerns against the hope that I might be able to live with less pain. I could really use some advice. Assistant: There are many very safe biologics on the market now.
Human: My (48F) mother died from a reaction to liquid gold injections in 1982 aged 29. I've recently been diagnosed with the same disease, Ankylosing Spondylitis. How are today's DMards similar and/or different from liquid gold? I'm afraid but need to treat this debilitating, disfiguring disease. Obviously, losing my mom at age 11 has left some scars on my mind. I want to better understand what went so catastrophically wrong with my mom's treatment. I was diagnosed with AS recently and am seriously considering taking some sort of biologic. Given my family's experience, most of them are against me taking something with risky side effects. I must balance their concerns against the hope that I might be able to live with less pain. I could really use some advice. Assistant: Join an AS facebook page. It was really helpful to me.
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Human: Feeling depressed about 9-5. So a little background. I recently graduated with an engineering degree (industrial engineering and management) and while it was tough finding a job during the pandemic I ended up getting a really good one as a junior consultant one month ago. The job seems interesting so far, the people are great, and the general atmosphere and work life balance is good to. Despite this, I can’t help but feel extremely anxious and depressed. The thought of working 5 days a week until I retire scares the shit out of me. I hated having nothing to do when searching for jobs during this autumn, but now all I can think about is waking up without an alarm and being able to do what I want. I miss studying, despite the deadlines and the tests. Small things like getting an assignment where I have to do things I know I don’t want to work with in the future gives me anxiety that I chose the wrong job. Honestly, I know this is just me being a bitch and complaining about things everyone goes through, but at the same time I don’t know how I would be able to cope with feeling like this for the next 40 years. Has anyone had similar feelings when starting their first job after years of studying and how did you work through it? Assistant: Nobody enjoys the 9-5 grind. We do it for the paycheck so we can provide for our families and afford to do the things we actually enjoy.
Human: Feeling depressed about 9-5. So a little background. I recently graduated with an engineering degree (industrial engineering and management) and while it was tough finding a job during the pandemic I ended up getting a really good one as a junior consultant one month ago. The job seems interesting so far, the people are great, and the general atmosphere and work life balance is good to. Despite this, I can’t help but feel extremely anxious and depressed. The thought of working 5 days a week until I retire scares the shit out of me. I hated having nothing to do when searching for jobs during this autumn, but now all I can think about is waking up without an alarm and being able to do what I want. I miss studying, despite the deadlines and the tests. Small things like getting an assignment where I have to do things I know I don’t want to work with in the future gives me anxiety that I chose the wrong job. Honestly, I know this is just me being a bitch and complaining about things everyone goes through, but at the same time I don’t know how I would be able to cope with feeling like this for the next 40 years. Has anyone had similar feelings when starting their first job after years of studying and how did you work through it? Assistant: The fabled 9-5? Lucky devil.
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Human: [TX] My sister's boss has covid, refuses to stay home. My sister works in a small repair shop, and her boss just tested positive for coronavirus. He refuses to stay home, and she is terrified of losing her job, since she really needs this job to get by and it is tough to find another in our town. Does she have any rights? This is a small business with no HR department, and the boss kind of rules the roost. Assistant: You should look up your local county health department or state health department for the guidance provided for these situations.
Human: [TX] My sister's boss has covid, refuses to stay home. My sister works in a small repair shop, and her boss just tested positive for coronavirus. He refuses to stay home, and she is terrified of losing her job, since she really needs this job to get by and it is tough to find another in our town. Does she have any rights? This is a small business with no HR department, and the boss kind of rules the roost. Assistant: https://www.dshs.texas.gov/coronavirus/default.aspx#contact
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Human: How have we taken the gravitational acceleration of the earth as 9.81 when the earth's gravity is not the same at all places? Can we calculate it for different places around the earth? Assistant: You mean to tell me I can lose weight just by moving somewhere else on the planet? 😏
Human: How have we taken the gravitational acceleration of the earth as 9.81 when the earth's gravity is not the same at all places? Can we calculate it for different places around the earth? Assistant: G is a very small number so and it dominates over the distances.
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Human: Why is Saudi Arabia's 'The Line' a line? Is there any actual engineering or logistics reason that this megastructure is planned to be so long rather than a broader, shorter design, or even circular? It seems like it would be a logistical nightmare for construction and transportation. Also I can only assume there will be very minimal natural light at the ground floor in the centre of the two walls. Have they mentioned any solutions for this? Assistant: Because everything has to be straight over there
Human: Why is Saudi Arabia's 'The Line' a line? Is there any actual engineering or logistics reason that this megastructure is planned to be so long rather than a broader, shorter design, or even circular? It seems like it would be a logistical nightmare for construction and transportation. Also I can only assume there will be very minimal natural light at the ground floor in the centre of the two walls. Have they mentioned any solutions for this? Assistant: It's really stupid to make it 0.2 km wide and 170 km long. It has an area of 34 km^2. If it is built in a circle then the farthest apart anything could be would be 3.29 km. Instead the farthest distance anything could be is 170 km. Am I missing anything here? Is there something that makes this a good idea? edit. Correction. The farthest apart anything would be is 6.58 km. 3.29 km is the radius of the circle, not the diameter.
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Human: Apart from standard ice cream bases, what are all the things you can put in an ice cream maker and get a good result? for example - can you put just plain greek yogurt in it, or does it have to be mixed with something first? Assistant: Here are a couple ratios/recipes I've used with good results: 2:1 ratio of coconut milk to simple syrup (and whatever other flavoring you like). 1:2:1 ratio of sugar to water to fruit purée (mango, passion fruit, papaya all work well) for a light sorbet. Saveur also has a really good recipe for olive oil gelato here: http://www.saveur.com/article/Recipes/Olive-Oil-Gelato
Human: Apart from standard ice cream bases, what are all the things you can put in an ice cream maker and get a good result? for example - can you put just plain greek yogurt in it, or does it have to be mixed with something first? Assistant: I've always wanted to try eggnog.
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Human: Access denied to the last version of a paper when I am first co-author I worked in a lab with a toxic PI until the end of 2020 and we try now to publish a paper with my work. We wrote the manuscript and at one point, the PI deleted the Dropbox we used and send me a pdf version of the article saying that the submission will come very soon and that there are some formatting issues to address but he will manage it alone. I received few months later the notification from the journal to accept that I am a co-author of the paper. I accepted (but I didnot have access to the version submitted). Now we have the comments of the reviewers and the PI ask me to answer to the comments but, despite my request, he is denying me access to the version that was submitted. Do we agree that it is illegal and unethical ? My suspicion is that he tries to hide the fact that he changed the positions of my authorship (from co-first author to second author) but I have no proof of that. What can I do ? Many thanks for your advices. Assistant: How are you supposed to address their concerns if you don't have a copy?
Human: Access denied to the last version of a paper when I am first co-author I worked in a lab with a toxic PI until the end of 2020 and we try now to publish a paper with my work. We wrote the manuscript and at one point, the PI deleted the Dropbox we used and send me a pdf version of the article saying that the submission will come very soon and that there are some formatting issues to address but he will manage it alone. I received few months later the notification from the journal to accept that I am a co-author of the paper. I accepted (but I didnot have access to the version submitted). Now we have the comments of the reviewers and the PI ask me to answer to the comments but, despite my request, he is denying me access to the version that was submitted. Do we agree that it is illegal and unethical ? My suspicion is that he tries to hide the fact that he changed the positions of my authorship (from co-first author to second author) but I have no proof of that. What can I do ? Many thanks for your advices. Assistant: Raise a concern with your research integrity office, if your institute has one. In Australia this would be considered a potential breach regarding authorship. Best to deal with prior to publication. Much harder after publication.
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Human: Cmv: voter ID laws aren't racist People keep saying that. But identification is really easy to get. Not only that, but you have to have an ID for most things. And if you ask most minorities, they have id. You have to have an ID for most things anyway! Buying booze, buying weed, buying cigs. getting a job, investing. All of it requires ID. You need an Id to do most things. And getting a birth certificate is like 25 bucks, it's really not hard at all to get one. You drop into a registry, pay a fee and get an ID. If a person doesn't work or contribute to the economy by buying products, or is too lazy to get an ID, why should they be able to vote? And if large swaths of people of a specific racial group doesn't have I'd when they do have easy access to it. Doesn't that point out a fundamental problem with their culture more then racist policies? Or maybe it's because I'm not American and your system is backwards as hell? I honestly don't think that people without proper education should be allowed to vote at all, no matter the race. But that's just my opinion with the fundamental problems with democracy more then anything else. I'm literally considered lower class, if it wasn't for living with 3 roommates I'd literally be living on the streets. I live in a ghetto, and I can literally walk for 20 minutes to go to the registry and get an id for 25 dollars. I'm just saying their is a fundamental problem with black culture in the united states. It's a culture of perpetual victimhood. I mean, you can't blame them for it. They were taken from their ancestral homeland and forced to destroy their own culture. So they had to build it from the ground up. At least other oppressed minorities had that sort of cultural background to hold on to. Like asians and natives. African Americans literally had nothing. But if you see the way that many people who subscribe to the "mainstream gangsta" (I'm saying that with BIG AIRQUOTES here because many if not most black people don't) act. It's centered around materialism, victimhood, and objectification of woman. You cannot deny that it's a huge issue the black community has. Then you take a look at people like: Madam C.J. Walker and Mary Ellen Pleasant. Who were born literally as slaves, and died millionaires. Showing that even when america was at it's worst, a black person could still reach great heights with the proper attitude, working smart (not hard) and understanding their strengths. To be frank, the only real way to solve poverty is economic education and getting rid of the victim culture that plagues many communities. Because no matter how much you help them. If the people don't have the mindset of success, then they will never succeed. Assistant: It's weird that you relate being a consumer and buying products to the right to vote.
Human: Cmv: voter ID laws aren't racist People keep saying that. But identification is really easy to get. Not only that, but you have to have an ID for most things. And if you ask most minorities, they have id. You have to have an ID for most things anyway! Buying booze, buying weed, buying cigs. getting a job, investing. All of it requires ID. You need an Id to do most things. And getting a birth certificate is like 25 bucks, it's really not hard at all to get one. You drop into a registry, pay a fee and get an ID. If a person doesn't work or contribute to the economy by buying products, or is too lazy to get an ID, why should they be able to vote? And if large swaths of people of a specific racial group doesn't have I'd when they do have easy access to it. Doesn't that point out a fundamental problem with their culture more then racist policies? Or maybe it's because I'm not American and your system is backwards as hell? I honestly don't think that people without proper education should be allowed to vote at all, no matter the race. But that's just my opinion with the fundamental problems with democracy more then anything else. I'm literally considered lower class, if it wasn't for living with 3 roommates I'd literally be living on the streets. I live in a ghetto, and I can literally walk for 20 minutes to go to the registry and get an id for 25 dollars. I'm just saying their is a fundamental problem with black culture in the united states. It's a culture of perpetual victimhood. I mean, you can't blame them for it. They were taken from their ancestral homeland and forced to destroy their own culture. So they had to build it from the ground up. At least other oppressed minorities had that sort of cultural background to hold on to. Like asians and natives. African Americans literally had nothing. But if you see the way that many people who subscribe to the "mainstream gangsta" (I'm saying that with BIG AIRQUOTES here because many if not most black people don't) act. It's centered around materialism, victimhood, and objectification of woman. You cannot deny that it's a huge issue the black community has. Then you take a look at people like: Madam C.J. Walker and Mary Ellen Pleasant. Who were born literally as slaves, and died millionaires. Showing that even when america was at it's worst, a black person could still reach great heights with the proper attitude, working smart (not hard) and understanding their strengths. To be frank, the only real way to solve poverty is economic education and getting rid of the victim culture that plagues many communities. Because no matter how much you help them. If the people don't have the mindset of success, then they will never succeed. Assistant: This topic has come up many times in this subreddit before. It might be helpful for you to take a look at some of those older discussions.
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Human: [Halo] How do Elites, who are big on honor in combat, justify using cloaking? Stabbing someone in the back who can't even see you doesn't seem very honorable to me. Assistant: Cloaking technology is not equally distributed amongst Elites. Only proven warriors are trusted with the technology, which they use to battle the greatest enemies of the Covenant. At that level of expertise, you are already a warrior with numerous 'honorable kills' on their resume. You are just employing a powerful piece of technology like any other piece of military hardware.
Human: [Halo] How do Elites, who are big on honor in combat, justify using cloaking? Stabbing someone in the back who can't even see you doesn't seem very honorable to me. Assistant: "Honorable" human societies regularly lie, backstab, ambush and so forth in actual battle. Ritual combat is one thing, but it takes a *very* strong commitment to honor to give your opponent a fair chance at literally murdering you. Most people don't have it. Apparently aliens are no different.
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Human: Posted from /r/bestof: Textbook publishing / selling is definitely a racket, but this post (linked) sounds like total bullshit to me. Has *anyone* ever heard of this kind of experience from a legitimate source? https://np.reddit.com/r/books/comments/5w0ecd/education_publisher_pearson_reports_biggest_loss/de722g9/?sh=81cc2366&st=IZXKRC7K Some choice quotes: >Two weeks in and department heads and a PEARSON rep corner him mid lecture, and try to humiliate him in front of the class by saying he's failing us for not giving us proper study materials and how badly it'll hurt our careers later on. He held his ground. Announced to the class that the university as a whole has a deal with Pearson, and each department must sign off on how much cash they pledge to make. I'm not sure what the benefits were to the school, but basically professors were told that if a student couldn't afford the materials, they can't afford to take the class. They threatened him, but he laughed at them. Department heads *and* a Pearson rep cornering a professor in the middle of class. Uh-huh. >After that, they would occasionally sit in on our class with a clipboard. One day I was able to sneak a peak, it was just a list of "mistakes". Bullshit mistakes too. "Swore when pen fell." Or "coughed, possibly faked to distract." The Pearson rep was the worst. She would literally just sit in our class and condescendingly ask "and how are they gonna study that at home? What materials? Don't you think homework would help?" Seriously? I can only *maybe* imagine a much less sensationalized version of this happening with a for-profit, bargain basement, student loan-funded ripoff machine fly by night "college." Assistant: I saw it earlier too. This story would be more appropriate for /r/thathappened
Human: Posted from /r/bestof: Textbook publishing / selling is definitely a racket, but this post (linked) sounds like total bullshit to me. Has *anyone* ever heard of this kind of experience from a legitimate source? https://np.reddit.com/r/books/comments/5w0ecd/education_publisher_pearson_reports_biggest_loss/de722g9/?sh=81cc2366&st=IZXKRC7K Some choice quotes: >Two weeks in and department heads and a PEARSON rep corner him mid lecture, and try to humiliate him in front of the class by saying he's failing us for not giving us proper study materials and how badly it'll hurt our careers later on. He held his ground. Announced to the class that the university as a whole has a deal with Pearson, and each department must sign off on how much cash they pledge to make. I'm not sure what the benefits were to the school, but basically professors were told that if a student couldn't afford the materials, they can't afford to take the class. They threatened him, but he laughed at them. Department heads *and* a Pearson rep cornering a professor in the middle of class. Uh-huh. >After that, they would occasionally sit in on our class with a clipboard. One day I was able to sneak a peak, it was just a list of "mistakes". Bullshit mistakes too. "Swore when pen fell." Or "coughed, possibly faked to distract." The Pearson rep was the worst. She would literally just sit in our class and condescendingly ask "and how are they gonna study that at home? What materials? Don't you think homework would help?" Seriously? I can only *maybe* imagine a much less sensationalized version of this happening with a for-profit, bargain basement, student loan-funded ripoff machine fly by night "college." Assistant: I find this completely unbelievable as well.
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Human: What's with all the male biology professors and their long hair?? It might just be my own experience, but I did notice that most of my biology professors that are men (i.e. neurobiology, embryology, microbiology, etc.) had long hair. And I mean long enough to make a pony tail. My chemistry and physics teachers all had the usual short hair thing going on. So why is this so specific to the biology department? I'm not judging or poking fun, hell every single one of them rocked that lion's mane as far as I'm concerned, but it did raised my curiosity. Assistant: I am a biologist and know of a handful, but it’s certainly not the norm in my bubble.
Human: What's with all the male biology professors and their long hair?? It might just be my own experience, but I did notice that most of my biology professors that are men (i.e. neurobiology, embryology, microbiology, etc.) had long hair. And I mean long enough to make a pony tail. My chemistry and physics teachers all had the usual short hair thing going on. So why is this so specific to the biology department? I'm not judging or poking fun, hell every single one of them rocked that lion's mane as far as I'm concerned, but it did raised my curiosity. Assistant: I’ve noticed the same thing! If anyone knows the answer please let us know
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Human: Would putting fresh whipped cream on a sweet pastry case go soggy overnight? It would be eaten the next day but would need to last till the end of the day. The cream would be fresh double cream whipped with sugar, vanilla & a bit of cornstarch to stabilise. It would then be topped with fruit & chocolate. I know pastry cream etc would be better but on this occasion I don’t have the time to buy other ingredients or try do anything else now as this is for Eid tomorrow with lots of other food jobs to get done! Assistant: In my case, I brush the pastry with apricot jam before baking, it kind of creates a layer that prevents the crust from getting soggy. I like that method because it doesn't add any extra flavor.
Human: Would putting fresh whipped cream on a sweet pastry case go soggy overnight? It would be eaten the next day but would need to last till the end of the day. The cream would be fresh double cream whipped with sugar, vanilla & a bit of cornstarch to stabilise. It would then be topped with fruit & chocolate. I know pastry cream etc would be better but on this occasion I don’t have the time to buy other ingredients or try do anything else now as this is for Eid tomorrow with lots of other food jobs to get done! Assistant: Stabilize the whipped cream with plain gelatin.
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Human: I don’t know how to treat this pic I’m 18 years old male, and in the U.S. Navy. I went to medical to get a mole checked out, since it was being weird. It started feeling like a scab, and got a little bigger. Well, let’s just say that medical in the navy, or at least on my base, isn’t amazing. They said it showed all of the signs of being cancerous, but they couldn’t be sure so they wanted to send a sample in to a lab to get it verified. So the procedure they did was numb the area, put iodine on it, and take a razor blade and slice off the top layer of skin where the mole was, and then put silver nitrate in the wound. They cut pretty deep, and took quite a bit of skin. They gave me no bandages or anything, just said to apply Vaseline and a bandaid once or twice a day. That was yesterday morning. Since then it’s turned a weird grayish brown, and hasn’t stopped stinging. The surrounding area is stained from the iodine, that’s why it’s brown. It hurts all the way down to my wrist. I have no idea if it will heal, or if this silver nitrate is still in there and needs to be washed out or something, and it’s becoming very concerning to me. Any advice is much appreciated. Assistant: Sounds like a standard shave biopsy. for a pigmented lesion you want to get some depth and remove the entire lesion. using silver nitrate to cauterize is pretty weird. usually they use aluminium chloride solution or less often Monsel's.
Human: I don’t know how to treat this pic I’m 18 years old male, and in the U.S. Navy. I went to medical to get a mole checked out, since it was being weird. It started feeling like a scab, and got a little bigger. Well, let’s just say that medical in the navy, or at least on my base, isn’t amazing. They said it showed all of the signs of being cancerous, but they couldn’t be sure so they wanted to send a sample in to a lab to get it verified. So the procedure they did was numb the area, put iodine on it, and take a razor blade and slice off the top layer of skin where the mole was, and then put silver nitrate in the wound. They cut pretty deep, and took quite a bit of skin. They gave me no bandages or anything, just said to apply Vaseline and a bandaid once or twice a day. That was yesterday morning. Since then it’s turned a weird grayish brown, and hasn’t stopped stinging. The surrounding area is stained from the iodine, that’s why it’s brown. It hurts all the way down to my wrist. I have no idea if it will heal, or if this silver nitrate is still in there and needs to be washed out or something, and it’s becoming very concerning to me. Any advice is much appreciated. Assistant: I'm sorry that you're dealing with this situation. Let us know how you're feeling tomorrow.
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Human: I am starting a new business and wondering if car guys would like these engine block keychains? I have a 3D printer and got the idea to print some miniature engine blocks and turn them into keychains. I made a website and now have a store, but I dont know if or which car guys would actually want my products. Do you guys have any suggestions? https://sandscreations.company.site/ Assistant: Forget selling to end-customers! You should get together a presentation and pitch it to Summit / Atech Motorsports. They are the guys to buy in bulk. Also talk to places like Turn14 and Jegs. They are large. They look great BTW.
Human: I am starting a new business and wondering if car guys would like these engine block keychains? I have a 3D printer and got the idea to print some miniature engine blocks and turn them into keychains. I made a website and now have a store, but I dont know if or which car guys would actually want my products. Do you guys have any suggestions? https://sandscreations.company.site/ Assistant: Start making Ferrari / Porsche / Mercedes engines & quadruple your pricing
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Human: [The Terminator] If the Terminator could kill people with his bare hands, why did he use noisy guns on the first two Sarah Conners who obviously weren’t any immediate threat? Assistant: Becasue Skynet wasn't actually that clever. It's only strategy was brute force and blunt widespread attacks. All of its weapons and Terminators seem to be based on pre existing designs. It's even implied that the time machine is based on human research. Skynet may have been a powerful AI, but it was limited in its ability to actually create or think.. It used guns because it may simply not have considered any other ideas.
Human: [The Terminator] If the Terminator could kill people with his bare hands, why did he use noisy guns on the first two Sarah Conners who obviously weren’t any immediate threat? Assistant: A shooting with a firearm is less newsworthy than a smashing with a robot.
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Human: Thought I Interviewed For A Higher Level Role, Now Being Asked to Apply to Lower Level. Help? Hey All, A recruiter at a large engineering firm floated my resume by a few teams and one came back stating they wanted to interview me. Prior to the interview, I was given a job ID and description for a Level 3 role requiring 5+ years of experience. Though I had not put in an application for this job at all during this process. I will have 4.5 years of experience once I begin the job. After interviewing, I just learned from the recruiter that I got the job but they now want me to apply formally in the system. However I am being asked to apply to a Level 2 job (2+ years of exp) rather than the Level 3 role I was sent for my interview and which I thought I was interviewing for. This seems a bit odd and honestly I would be looking for that Level 3 role after about a year into this firm anyway so I don't see why I couldn't just come in as the Level 3 now. Is the 5 years of experience really that hard set? Am I being unreasonable in rounding up my experience considering I would be at 5 years of experience 6 months into this role? I plan to bring this up with my recruiter but any thoughts, advice, and insight from similar experiences would be greatly appreciated. Thanks! Assistant: Rounding up experience is fine, but descriptions are also just guidelines. My guess is when they did initial look they said we have interest in this candidate but for whatever reason not at that role but this other role. Now the recruiter is steering you that way instead of putting you forward for something they’ve already filtered you out of so you don’t waste your time. Edit: fix typo
Human: Thought I Interviewed For A Higher Level Role, Now Being Asked to Apply to Lower Level. Help? Hey All, A recruiter at a large engineering firm floated my resume by a few teams and one came back stating they wanted to interview me. Prior to the interview, I was given a job ID and description for a Level 3 role requiring 5+ years of experience. Though I had not put in an application for this job at all during this process. I will have 4.5 years of experience once I begin the job. After interviewing, I just learned from the recruiter that I got the job but they now want me to apply formally in the system. However I am being asked to apply to a Level 2 job (2+ years of exp) rather than the Level 3 role I was sent for my interview and which I thought I was interviewing for. This seems a bit odd and honestly I would be looking for that Level 3 role after about a year into this firm anyway so I don't see why I couldn't just come in as the Level 3 now. Is the 5 years of experience really that hard set? Am I being unreasonable in rounding up my experience considering I would be at 5 years of experience 6 months into this role? I plan to bring this up with my recruiter but any thoughts, advice, and insight from similar experiences would be greatly appreciated. Thanks! Assistant: They want to pay you a lower rate.
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Human: [TX] Is it illegal or frowned upon to take screenshots of remote interviewees to later use to confirm they are the person we interviewed when they come for their first day? Over the past 18 months we have had a few incidents where when we interview someone, and when they come for their first day on the job, it's not the same person. Apparently this is a known scam that has been in the news. There are services out there for candidates to use to hire "professional" interviewers to nail the job interview. I can see for large companies where maybe the interviewing team isn't necessarily the same team that will be working with this individual that this scam can work longer term too. This scam has really increased now that remote working is a common place and where maybe some companies don't require people to have their camera on. This said, we do require the camera to be on for remote interviews and if they are having technical difficulties we reschedule. All this said, we still need a way to verify that the individual who interviewed is the same person who shows up remotely or in the office on day one. What are we really allowed to do? My company is based in TX but we do hire outside of TX for remote positions. Are we allowed to take a screenshot of the person in their interview to validate against the person who shows up on day 1? Assistant: I'm really curious about how often this scam is happening. I've seen talk about it too but I've never seen anyone say it actually happened to them.
Human: [TX] Is it illegal or frowned upon to take screenshots of remote interviewees to later use to confirm they are the person we interviewed when they come for their first day? Over the past 18 months we have had a few incidents where when we interview someone, and when they come for their first day on the job, it's not the same person. Apparently this is a known scam that has been in the news. There are services out there for candidates to use to hire "professional" interviewers to nail the job interview. I can see for large companies where maybe the interviewing team isn't necessarily the same team that will be working with this individual that this scam can work longer term too. This scam has really increased now that remote working is a common place and where maybe some companies don't require people to have their camera on. This said, we do require the camera to be on for remote interviews and if they are having technical difficulties we reschedule. All this said, we still need a way to verify that the individual who interviewed is the same person who shows up remotely or in the office on day one. What are we really allowed to do? My company is based in TX but we do hire outside of TX for remote positions. Are we allowed to take a screenshot of the person in their interview to validate against the person who shows up on day 1? Assistant: I suppose you could ask them to hold their ID up to the camera during their interview but don’t disclose it prior, otherwise they could fake that too. I would not take photos.
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Human: How to measure fresh ground black pepper? I would guess most of us eyeball the measurement for dishes. That’s what I do. But often I’ll need an exact amount for a spice mix, like 2 tsp. Any cool tips on how to do this… besides grinding into a cup and scooping out? Assistant: Figure out how many grams a teaspoon is and grind onto a scale?
Human: How to measure fresh ground black pepper? I would guess most of us eyeball the measurement for dishes. That’s what I do. But often I’ll need an exact amount for a spice mix, like 2 tsp. Any cool tips on how to do this… besides grinding into a cup and scooping out? Assistant: I have a 1oz graduated measuring cup that perfectly fits on the end of my mill so I just grind directly into it.
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Human: Why does my chicken pot pie always separate, in the sauce I used water, chicken bullion, milk, flour and spices? It looks like it's curdled and has like a clear liquid in it but it's like the creamy sauce I made in the pot has been replaced by yellowish water and white bits? What am I doing wrong? Assistant: You need fat. You gotta start with a bechamel or a roux.
Human: Why does my chicken pot pie always separate, in the sauce I used water, chicken bullion, milk, flour and spices? It looks like it's curdled and has like a clear liquid in it but it's like the creamy sauce I made in the pot has been replaced by yellowish water and white bits? What am I doing wrong? Assistant: The white bits sounds like your milk separated.. I'm a pastry chef, but when it comes to chicken pot pie I always go back to my mom's recipe when I'm at home.. instead of making cream of chicken she would make chicken stock and add cream of chicken and cream of celery soup from cans.. it gave it a lot more body but kept more of the fresh taste since it's being cut with homemade chicken stock
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Human: What calculator do you use? Assistant: I use the Windows calculator (programmer mode) daily. More complicated stuff ends up in Excel or Python.
Human: What calculator do you use? Assistant: Ti-36x pro, the one used on the PE. I also have a ti 89 but I never put new batteries in it. Mainly excel and mathcad though
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Human: What do you think is the most detrimental mindset/perspective that is common in academia? Having not completed a postgraduate degree yet, I was talking to friends about our experience of undergraduate study and we agreed that for undergrads one of the worst but most common viewpoints shared across our cohort was the mentality that your grades were only good if others did worse. This we believe stems from the exam grading system for secondary school in the UK, the idea that the top *x*% of candidates get grade *Y*, and grade boundaries shift accordingly. Then when these students go to uni many seem to think collaborating and supporting their fellow classmates somehow makes them worse off when final marks are given, which results in petty sharing of knowledge and in my opinion a less effective higher education system when it happens. What do you think? Do you agree? Does this extend to higher levels of academic work like post-doc positions and PhDs? Assistant: Quantity > quality
Human: What do you think is the most detrimental mindset/perspective that is common in academia? Having not completed a postgraduate degree yet, I was talking to friends about our experience of undergraduate study and we agreed that for undergrads one of the worst but most common viewpoints shared across our cohort was the mentality that your grades were only good if others did worse. This we believe stems from the exam grading system for secondary school in the UK, the idea that the top *x*% of candidates get grade *Y*, and grade boundaries shift accordingly. Then when these students go to uni many seem to think collaborating and supporting their fellow classmates somehow makes them worse off when final marks are given, which results in petty sharing of knowledge and in my opinion a less effective higher education system when it happens. What do you think? Do you agree? Does this extend to higher levels of academic work like post-doc positions and PhDs? Assistant: The ‘if you’re not working 80 hours a week you’re lazy mentality’. Everyone likes to brag about how much they have to do and how little free time they have but in my experience most of the time is spent bullshitting. I have colleagues who work a solid 40 hours a week and get more done because they are efficient and driven. Also the ‘only papers matter, everything else is a waste of time’.
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Human: Why do tomatoes taste better with mayo? Assistant: Because Mayo is food lube.
Human: Why do tomatoes taste better with mayo? Assistant: Great, now I desire a BLT. Room service will nail me for $20 plus tip.
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Human: Baking for Farmer's Market! Hey guys! I got accepted to be a vendor at a farmers market today and I AM SO EXCITED. I started making a list of ideas and things I want to sell but I thought what better people to ask and get ideas from than you guys!? So TELL ME, what would be an item you would buy at a farmers market in a heart beat? Assistant: Have a full table, label your products, have a list for people to easily see on a dry erase or chalkboard as well as pricing. Take credit cards. Bring single items wrapped such as cookies, brownies for people to buy impulsively. Get some sandbags, or some thing heavy to weigh down the tent in case of wind. Make a list of other items such as bags, change, banner to bring.
Human: Baking for Farmer's Market! Hey guys! I got accepted to be a vendor at a farmers market today and I AM SO EXCITED. I started making a list of ideas and things I want to sell but I thought what better people to ask and get ideas from than you guys!? So TELL ME, what would be an item you would buy at a farmers market in a heart beat? Assistant: Cinnamon rolls with lots of icing.
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Human: Is there an alternative technique to blotting moisture from veggies like eggplants and zucchinis prior to use that doesn't involve wasting millions of paper towels? Hyperbole aside, is there an oven setting or something that'll do the same trick? The recipe I'm currently making (Linguine with shrimp, zucchini, and red pepper) asks for the zucchini to be blotted dry prior to sauteing. Specifically: "1. Trim the ends from the zucchini and quarter them lengthwise. Lay the pieces on paper towels, sprinkle with salt and set aside for at least 10 minutes. This will draw out excess moisture and keep the zucchini firm when sautéed. 2. Blot the moisture from the zucchini using additional paper towels and cut them into small cubes." The only thing with using the oven to dry them is that the recipe intends for you to saute them after, so it seems a little overkill on the cooking side of things. I've had a similar concern when making eggplant sandwiches. For those, moisture was a definite concern because I do weekly meal prep and soggy sandwiches makes for a depressing lunch. Assistant: Flour sack towels. They're cheap and lint free. Great for anything paper towels are used for and even such things as rolling out dough on a floured towel.
Human: Is there an alternative technique to blotting moisture from veggies like eggplants and zucchinis prior to use that doesn't involve wasting millions of paper towels? Hyperbole aside, is there an oven setting or something that'll do the same trick? The recipe I'm currently making (Linguine with shrimp, zucchini, and red pepper) asks for the zucchini to be blotted dry prior to sauteing. Specifically: "1. Trim the ends from the zucchini and quarter them lengthwise. Lay the pieces on paper towels, sprinkle with salt and set aside for at least 10 minutes. This will draw out excess moisture and keep the zucchini firm when sautéed. 2. Blot the moisture from the zucchini using additional paper towels and cut them into small cubes." The only thing with using the oven to dry them is that the recipe intends for you to saute them after, so it seems a little overkill on the cooking side of things. I've had a similar concern when making eggplant sandwiches. For those, moisture was a definite concern because I do weekly meal prep and soggy sandwiches makes for a depressing lunch. Assistant: I've used a salad spinner for this with great results
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Human: I'm roasting a chicken tonight but can't really be bothered to make stock afterwards as it's quite late already, can I put the carcass in the fridge overnight and make the stock tomorrow? The title covers it mostly I think. Assistant: Yes. You can even freeze it and make stock much later.
Human: I'm roasting a chicken tonight but can't really be bothered to make stock afterwards as it's quite late already, can I put the carcass in the fridge overnight and make the stock tomorrow? The title covers it mostly I think. Assistant: I save all chicken bones in a gallon Ziploc bag kept in the freezer. When it's full I make bone broth... about once a month.
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Human: Do you pronounce it neanderTHALL or neanderTALL? Which is correct, and why is there a difference? Assistant: Hill to die on. No th.
Human: Do you pronounce it neanderTHALL or neanderTALL? Which is correct, and why is there a difference? Assistant: Its Neanderthal, the difference comes from a change in german spelling (neanderthals are named after the neander valley, which in german is called neandertal, however in the past/ at the time when the neanderthals were discovered it wouldve been spelt neanderthal with th).
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Human: Thoughts on unpaid, expected overtime I want to know what your thoughts are. I work at an engineering firm in the UK as a junior design tech (I do zero actual design work) and my line manager complains that I don't stay later than 5 every night. But, I do 40 hours a week and get paid no overtime so I'm worried about the money I'm, in my eyes, losing and the work life balance. The other week he told me that he stays an extra hour each night, also unpaid and also does work at the weekends. Is it just me that finds it a little odd? Assistant: Here's a workchronicle exactly for your question, OP: "I work long hours, you should too!"
Human: Thoughts on unpaid, expected overtime I want to know what your thoughts are. I work at an engineering firm in the UK as a junior design tech (I do zero actual design work) and my line manager complains that I don't stay later than 5 every night. But, I do 40 hours a week and get paid no overtime so I'm worried about the money I'm, in my eyes, losing and the work life balance. The other week he told me that he stays an extra hour each night, also unpaid and also does work at the weekends. Is it just me that finds it a little odd? Assistant: Red flag.
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Human: What advise would you give to a young/aspiring academic? If you could give one piece of advice to a young academic, what would it be? Anything from career advice, research resources, things you wish you'd known etc. I'm currently finishing a masters and about to start PhD and I'm very eager to hear what people have to say (I'm studying a humanities subject in the UK, if that makes any difference). Thanks! Assistant: This is all good advice. I would add: it’s a depressing truth that a PhD in the humanities, perhaps in all fields, is in some sense a multi-year long job interview. Even tho the job market in uk humanities is impossibly bleak, it’s possible to make it worse. If you work well with your supervisor, respond to feedback, engage with your dept. - basically don’t be a pain - then people will be much more willing to bat for you. And that’s important.
Human: What advise would you give to a young/aspiring academic? If you could give one piece of advice to a young academic, what would it be? Anything from career advice, research resources, things you wish you'd known etc. I'm currently finishing a masters and about to start PhD and I'm very eager to hear what people have to say (I'm studying a humanities subject in the UK, if that makes any difference). Thanks! Assistant: Run the opposite direction lol, good luck.
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Human: [Many movies, shows and games]As we all know, hackers always wear a hoodie or a hooded sweatshirt when hunched over a keyboard and Hacking Away. Even when they are in their own homes or secret crime lairs. Why do they do this? It would not seem necessary to hide their faces when they are alone. Assistant: Have you never worn a hoodie? I swear once you try them you'll get it
Human: [Many movies, shows and games]As we all know, hackers always wear a hoodie or a hooded sweatshirt when hunched over a keyboard and Hacking Away. Even when they are in their own homes or secret crime lairs. Why do they do this? It would not seem necessary to hide their faces when they are alone. Assistant: Probably because there might be hidden cameras in their room
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Human: How to get a moist cake? What batter ingredients can keep my cake from becoming dry? Any tips? I’m struggling to find successful sponge cake recipes that aren’t dry. Assistant: Using oil is better than butter for moisture
Human: How to get a moist cake? What batter ingredients can keep my cake from becoming dry? Any tips? I’m struggling to find successful sponge cake recipes that aren’t dry. Assistant: Add mayonnaise
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Human: CMV: Fallout 3 was the last good RPG by Bethesda After seeing Starfields gameplay reveal and being disappointed in how boring and bland it looks imo it got me thinking about their older games and how much better they used to be stuff like morrowind, oblivion and fallout 3, like yeah Fo3 will never be as good as NV but Fo3 feels like Bethesda generally tried making a good rpg as most games after Fo3 like Skyrim and fo4 didn’t feel like a rpg at all (still good games imo gameplay wise) and didn’t have many memorable areas like Fo3 and Oblivion had, hopefully Starfield proves me wrong but I don’t think it will personally, what do you guys think?,also btw this is all just my opinion in the end. Assistant: What “role” did you feel like you were “playing” in Fallout 3. Genuinely curious.
Human: CMV: Fallout 3 was the last good RPG by Bethesda After seeing Starfields gameplay reveal and being disappointed in how boring and bland it looks imo it got me thinking about their older games and how much better they used to be stuff like morrowind, oblivion and fallout 3, like yeah Fo3 will never be as good as NV but Fo3 feels like Bethesda generally tried making a good rpg as most games after Fo3 like Skyrim and fo4 didn’t feel like a rpg at all (still good games imo gameplay wise) and didn’t have many memorable areas like Fo3 and Oblivion had, hopefully Starfield proves me wrong but I don’t think it will personally, what do you guys think?,also btw this is all just my opinion in the end. Assistant: Have you watched the YouTube video "Fallout 4 Is Better Than You Think" by Many a True Nerd? 92 minutes of changing your mind right there :) Hey, I'm not going to say FO4 is better than FO3, but saying it doesn't qualify as a "good" game I think is wrong. It's not great, but it is good. Now FO76, that game was straight up trash.
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Human: if engineers would be thrown away into an uninhabited island, which of the type of engineer would have the best chance of survival? is it a: aerospace engineer architectural and building engineer biomedical engineer chemical engineer electrical engineer industrial engineer mechatronics engineer mechanical engineer mettalurgical and materials engineer software engineer? Assistant: Software engineer dies first lol
Human: if engineers would be thrown away into an uninhabited island, which of the type of engineer would have the best chance of survival? is it a: aerospace engineer architectural and building engineer biomedical engineer chemical engineer electrical engineer industrial engineer mechatronics engineer mechanical engineer mettalurgical and materials engineer software engineer? Assistant: Probably the ME who is actually a veteran on the GI bill.
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Human: eli5: Why do news reporters at the end of a report always state their name and news channel ( for example: …they will continue fighting. John Doe, XYZ news) Assistant: Same reasons a band frontman tells you the name of the band and the names of the band members at the end of the gig. **Brand recognition**.
Human: eli5: Why do news reporters at the end of a report always state their name and news channel ( for example: …they will continue fighting. John Doe, XYZ news) Assistant: So you know who made the report and for which news network. Same reasons authors put their names on books they write, or bands put their name on albums they make.
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Human: CMV: Woke people are religious zealots without religion Conservatives cornered the market on authoritarian know-it-alls until religion fell out of fashion. With each passing decade, fewer people were as connected to the church, yet they needed an outlet for their desire to judge people. Enter the world of the woke. People who would have told you to burn your Elvis record in 1965 are telling you to defund the police in 2022. There will always be a subsegment of people who have an innate need to impose their views on others. The main differences between religious beliefs and woke beliefs is that it’s nearly impossible to stay on top of what the woke folks demand of you. Unlike the Bible, the expectations and standards espoused by the woke are constantly in flux. Assistant: religion is not based in fact
Human: CMV: Woke people are religious zealots without religion Conservatives cornered the market on authoritarian know-it-alls until religion fell out of fashion. With each passing decade, fewer people were as connected to the church, yet they needed an outlet for their desire to judge people. Enter the world of the woke. People who would have told you to burn your Elvis record in 1965 are telling you to defund the police in 2022. There will always be a subsegment of people who have an innate need to impose their views on others. The main differences between religious beliefs and woke beliefs is that it’s nearly impossible to stay on top of what the woke folks demand of you. Unlike the Bible, the expectations and standards espoused by the woke are constantly in flux. Assistant: Conservatives were the ones largely burning/smashing records in the past, lol. Look at Disco Demolition Night - disco was largely associated with gay people and black people and conservatives hated that. The Dixie Chicks were "cancelled" by conservatives and had their CDs trashed by them for speaking against the president. This is historical revisionism. Conservatives act like zealots and have been way longer than ""woke"" people.
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Human: What can I use a bacon vinaigrette for besides as a salad dressing? Assistant: Saute potatoes and add the bacon vinaigrette at the end.
Human: What can I use a bacon vinaigrette for besides as a salad dressing? Assistant: Boiled red poatoes with fresh celery, red onion, bacon vinegrette, and a few spices make a good savory potatoe salad
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Human: Best resources for becoming a better baker So I consider myself a relatively competent home baker, in that if I see a recipe I like I'm usually pretty confident I can follow it (to a point). But I want to get better, improve my technique and knowledge and become a more confident baker. I know the obvious answer is to 'keep baking' but it feels inefficient to just crack away at random recipes I like the look of and slowly pick things up. I'd like a more structured program of things to bake that will cover all of the bases, as well as explain the reasons behind things. Of course there's a lot of stuff out there to bake and there'll never be a completely comprehensive guide. But is there anything that comes close? Like a baking textbook or bible that covers most of the fundamentals. I would welcome any suggestions for books or online resources. Thanks. Assistant: I like "Baking with Julia" and "Tartine Bread"
Human: Best resources for becoming a better baker So I consider myself a relatively competent home baker, in that if I see a recipe I like I'm usually pretty confident I can follow it (to a point). But I want to get better, improve my technique and knowledge and become a more confident baker. I know the obvious answer is to 'keep baking' but it feels inefficient to just crack away at random recipes I like the look of and slowly pick things up. I'd like a more structured program of things to bake that will cover all of the bases, as well as explain the reasons behind things. Of course there's a lot of stuff out there to bake and there'll never be a completely comprehensive guide. But is there anything that comes close? Like a baking textbook or bible that covers most of the fundamentals. I would welcome any suggestions for books or online resources. Thanks. Assistant: Baking with Julia taught me a lot… highly recommended. Starts off with basic doughs and uses them along the book.
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Human: If someone claimed to be an expert in your field, what question would you ask to determine if they're lying? Assistant: I'd ask them: "If someone claimed to be an expert in your field, what question would you ask to determine if they're lying?"
Human: If someone claimed to be an expert in your field, what question would you ask to determine if they're lying? Assistant: What's the difference between validation and verification. Everyone just says V&V together, but they're different operations.
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Human: CMV: News coverage is now so poor that following the news will actually make you less informed about reality than ignoring it. In the last year, I've found myself very reluctantly coming to the conclusion that there is no longer any point whatsoever in attempting to stay informed by watching, reading or listening to any mainstream news sources no matter its position on the political spectrum. While occasional examples of good journalism or rare investigative articles can be found from nearly any source, I believe that any relevant information you can learn from these rare cases is massively outweighed by the sheer quantity of misinformation and propaganda that you are exposed to in discovering them. My core points are the following: * The introduction of social media and click-driven internet traffic have created a perverse environment where good journalism is punished and bad journalism heavily rewarded. * The increased competition and pressure on the media from the above has resulted in the downsizing of traditional news rooms. Unfortunately, the first positions to be lost were specialist technical and expert positions, meaning most journalists are no longer knowledgeable on the fields they are assigned to report on. * Governments and politicians have learned increasingly effective methods of propaganda in the last decade which news sources either have no interest in counteracting or no ability to counteract. The truth is now indistinguishable from lies. * Even if, somehow, you manage to spend enough time and energy extracting the truth from the lies, you will be shouted over by the many more people who believe the lie and believe it firmly. Politics has become so polarized that the truth is irrelevant. That's the brief summary. To clarify in more depth the reasons why I believe the above: ​ **The Internet is a perverse environment** Clickbait is the best example of the perverse incentives created by the way news media is now funded. It appears abundantly clear to me that the media will report stories and articles they know to be misleading or downright false simply because they know they generate outrage and traffic. This has always been true to some extent or another, throughout history newspapers have been making money from peddling outrage. However, until recent years there was a genuine effort by "respectable" news sources not to lower themselves to this kind of coverage. I can no longer find any news sources which still seem to make this effort. The economics of the internet mean that news sources can no longer survive at all without publishing false stories and clickbait in an effort to drive traffic to their website. **Expertise is dead** As part and parcel of the contraction of the media, all news companies have been forced to downsize and the first places to suffer staffing and budget cuts have been the least profitable and more niche departments. Media companies are no longer willing to pay high salaries to journalists with strong expertise in specific areas. This is a longer term trend which has been happening for decades even before the internet completely eclipsed paper journalism; the cumulative effect of it over time is that nearly every news article is produced by someone with no specialist knowledge or experience whatsoever. Errors and complete ignorance of an article's topic are commonplace and chances are any article you read on a technical topic is either lifted wholesale from a press release or published by someone with no further knowledge or understanding than any random member of the public. **Propaganda** This is such a broad topic and with so much written on it that I don't feel that I have the space to go into it here. For the sake of simplicity, I'll stick to one propaganda strategy by way of an example: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Firehose\_of\_falsehood I believe that the firehose of falsehood has become an incredibly widespread tool within politics, both national and international. I also believe that there has been a complete and utter failure by the media to counteract it and it may be completely impossible for any media source to counteract this strategy. The proliferation of this propaganda strategy is one of the key reasons I believe that it is not worth trying to stay informed any more - the more you expose yourself to journalism as it currently stands, the more vulnerable you are to manipulation using this strategy. **Polarization** Humans are poor at separating a convenient lie from an inconvenient truth at the best of times. We are exceptionally good at choosing to believe what we would prefer to believe rather than what the evidence shows to be true. This has been true since the dawn of time, but the increased polarization arising from the internet driving us into bubbles has destroyed the only countermeasure to this - regular exposure to people we disagree with. The effect of this is that even if I somehow manage to discover the truth behind the falsehoods, it's a useless truth. It can't be spread to anyone other than the people who are already inclined to believe it because the majority of people now openly reject even objective facts which contradict their political position. I'll also add that on this point I won't be convinced by the "What if everyone thought that way?" argument as I have no control what other people think. To quote Catch 22: "But, Yossarian, suppose everyone felt that way." "Then," said Yossarian, "I'd certainly be a damned fool to feel any other way, wouldn't I?” ​ I can elaborate on these views further if need be. On a personal level, I myself was always someone who tried very hard to recognize the truth behind media sources, despite the problems with journalism and reporting that have always existed. My previous belief was that even if falsehoods were widespread, it was possible to slowly change peoples minds as long as you have a good understanding of the facts and could give people information without being judgmental or overly zealous. It's only fairly recently that I've come to the depressing conclusion that it's now futile to try this and it's better to completely give up on trying to cut through the wall of bullshit produced by the media. The only hope I currently hold for this is that as older generations who are unfamiliar with the internet die off, newer generations will be much more prepared for and capable of adjusting their thinking to avoid being mislead by false information. However this is only a hope and I can see no evidence that younger generations are less prone to being mislead than older generations. Assistant: I respectfully disagree. News has always been this poor. Look at the turn of the last century with the rise of yellow journalism and the spanish american war. There is a great book written just after ww1 called Falsehood in Wartime. Worth a read. The only thing we have now is more of all of it. It, being, the same partisan hacky schlocky bullshit we call the news media. :/
Human: CMV: News coverage is now so poor that following the news will actually make you less informed about reality than ignoring it. In the last year, I've found myself very reluctantly coming to the conclusion that there is no longer any point whatsoever in attempting to stay informed by watching, reading or listening to any mainstream news sources no matter its position on the political spectrum. While occasional examples of good journalism or rare investigative articles can be found from nearly any source, I believe that any relevant information you can learn from these rare cases is massively outweighed by the sheer quantity of misinformation and propaganda that you are exposed to in discovering them. My core points are the following: * The introduction of social media and click-driven internet traffic have created a perverse environment where good journalism is punished and bad journalism heavily rewarded. * The increased competition and pressure on the media from the above has resulted in the downsizing of traditional news rooms. Unfortunately, the first positions to be lost were specialist technical and expert positions, meaning most journalists are no longer knowledgeable on the fields they are assigned to report on. * Governments and politicians have learned increasingly effective methods of propaganda in the last decade which news sources either have no interest in counteracting or no ability to counteract. The truth is now indistinguishable from lies. * Even if, somehow, you manage to spend enough time and energy extracting the truth from the lies, you will be shouted over by the many more people who believe the lie and believe it firmly. Politics has become so polarized that the truth is irrelevant. That's the brief summary. To clarify in more depth the reasons why I believe the above: ​ **The Internet is a perverse environment** Clickbait is the best example of the perverse incentives created by the way news media is now funded. It appears abundantly clear to me that the media will report stories and articles they know to be misleading or downright false simply because they know they generate outrage and traffic. This has always been true to some extent or another, throughout history newspapers have been making money from peddling outrage. However, until recent years there was a genuine effort by "respectable" news sources not to lower themselves to this kind of coverage. I can no longer find any news sources which still seem to make this effort. The economics of the internet mean that news sources can no longer survive at all without publishing false stories and clickbait in an effort to drive traffic to their website. **Expertise is dead** As part and parcel of the contraction of the media, all news companies have been forced to downsize and the first places to suffer staffing and budget cuts have been the least profitable and more niche departments. Media companies are no longer willing to pay high salaries to journalists with strong expertise in specific areas. This is a longer term trend which has been happening for decades even before the internet completely eclipsed paper journalism; the cumulative effect of it over time is that nearly every news article is produced by someone with no specialist knowledge or experience whatsoever. Errors and complete ignorance of an article's topic are commonplace and chances are any article you read on a technical topic is either lifted wholesale from a press release or published by someone with no further knowledge or understanding than any random member of the public. **Propaganda** This is such a broad topic and with so much written on it that I don't feel that I have the space to go into it here. For the sake of simplicity, I'll stick to one propaganda strategy by way of an example: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Firehose\_of\_falsehood I believe that the firehose of falsehood has become an incredibly widespread tool within politics, both national and international. I also believe that there has been a complete and utter failure by the media to counteract it and it may be completely impossible for any media source to counteract this strategy. The proliferation of this propaganda strategy is one of the key reasons I believe that it is not worth trying to stay informed any more - the more you expose yourself to journalism as it currently stands, the more vulnerable you are to manipulation using this strategy. **Polarization** Humans are poor at separating a convenient lie from an inconvenient truth at the best of times. We are exceptionally good at choosing to believe what we would prefer to believe rather than what the evidence shows to be true. This has been true since the dawn of time, but the increased polarization arising from the internet driving us into bubbles has destroyed the only countermeasure to this - regular exposure to people we disagree with. The effect of this is that even if I somehow manage to discover the truth behind the falsehoods, it's a useless truth. It can't be spread to anyone other than the people who are already inclined to believe it because the majority of people now openly reject even objective facts which contradict their political position. I'll also add that on this point I won't be convinced by the "What if everyone thought that way?" argument as I have no control what other people think. To quote Catch 22: "But, Yossarian, suppose everyone felt that way." "Then," said Yossarian, "I'd certainly be a damned fool to feel any other way, wouldn't I?” ​ I can elaborate on these views further if need be. On a personal level, I myself was always someone who tried very hard to recognize the truth behind media sources, despite the problems with journalism and reporting that have always existed. My previous belief was that even if falsehoods were widespread, it was possible to slowly change peoples minds as long as you have a good understanding of the facts and could give people information without being judgmental or overly zealous. It's only fairly recently that I've come to the depressing conclusion that it's now futile to try this and it's better to completely give up on trying to cut through the wall of bullshit produced by the media. The only hope I currently hold for this is that as older generations who are unfamiliar with the internet die off, newer generations will be much more prepared for and capable of adjusting their thinking to avoid being mislead by false information. However this is only a hope and I can see no evidence that younger generations are less prone to being mislead than older generations. Assistant: When was it good? Can you cite and compare?
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Human: What's my best 1 for 1 replacement for Rice? I'm alergic and are looking for a similar texture and carbohydrate I know it's a pretty blanket statement but for things like Asian fried rice, I like the recipe I just can't eat the carb. Peperika Chicken and cream cheese gravy over rice. Pretty much house hold foods I eat with rice I need to replace . Any suggestions on similar carbs or veggie replacements? Assistant: I use riced cauliflower. I really like the taste and texture. The only drawback is that it doesn't soak up sauces well like rice does. So, things like curry can tend to get soupy, if that bothers you.
Human: What's my best 1 for 1 replacement for Rice? I'm alergic and are looking for a similar texture and carbohydrate I know it's a pretty blanket statement but for things like Asian fried rice, I like the recipe I just can't eat the carb. Peperika Chicken and cream cheese gravy over rice. Pretty much house hold foods I eat with rice I need to replace . Any suggestions on similar carbs or veggie replacements? Assistant: Farro or barley. Bulgur is good too.
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Human: Could I have recovered my mashed potatoes? I made the worst mashed potatoes of my life on Saturday. The taste was fine; well seasoned, added pepper, a little bit of brie, and some chives. But they were gluey pasty mess, barely edible. Here's what I did and where I think things went horribly wrong. My plan was to try using baked potatoes for the mashed. But because of some holiday bazaar gift buying events, I needed to get the potatoes prepped ahead of time. So I baked the potatoes in the morning, let them cool and fridged 'em until later. Several hours later I tried peeling the (now) chilled baked potatoes by cutting in half and using a spoon to scoop out the cooked potato flesh. That ended up being a horror show and didn't work. Next I tried putting the baked potato chunks through my ricer and that didn't work either; potatoes were too hard to push through all them tiny holes. At this point I'm slightly panicking because everything else is done and I just need some damn potatoes. Next I put all the potatoes in a food processor and just chopped them up as much as I could, followed by trying to whip them up with an electric hand mixer and then transferred to a pot on the stove. Added melted butter and then warmed cream slowly and kept trying to whip, kept adding butter and milk hoping that it would cause the mash to loosen up. No luck, just gluey lump awfulness that tasted actually pretty all right, but worst texture ever, basically inedible. I'm assuming that my biggest mistake was letting the baked potatoes cool before scooping the flesh, but was that really my mistake? And was there any point in this process that I could have done something differently and saved this whole mess? Assistant: If the chilled potatoes were too hard to go through your potato ricer there's something horribly wrong. Either they're super undercooked or you're using the finest holes in a ricer imaginable. As others have said food processor plus whipping is the gluey part...once that happens you just start over.
Human: Could I have recovered my mashed potatoes? I made the worst mashed potatoes of my life on Saturday. The taste was fine; well seasoned, added pepper, a little bit of brie, and some chives. But they were gluey pasty mess, barely edible. Here's what I did and where I think things went horribly wrong. My plan was to try using baked potatoes for the mashed. But because of some holiday bazaar gift buying events, I needed to get the potatoes prepped ahead of time. So I baked the potatoes in the morning, let them cool and fridged 'em until later. Several hours later I tried peeling the (now) chilled baked potatoes by cutting in half and using a spoon to scoop out the cooked potato flesh. That ended up being a horror show and didn't work. Next I tried putting the baked potato chunks through my ricer and that didn't work either; potatoes were too hard to push through all them tiny holes. At this point I'm slightly panicking because everything else is done and I just need some damn potatoes. Next I put all the potatoes in a food processor and just chopped them up as much as I could, followed by trying to whip them up with an electric hand mixer and then transferred to a pot on the stove. Added melted butter and then warmed cream slowly and kept trying to whip, kept adding butter and milk hoping that it would cause the mash to loosen up. No luck, just gluey lump awfulness that tasted actually pretty all right, but worst texture ever, basically inedible. I'm assuming that my biggest mistake was letting the baked potatoes cool before scooping the flesh, but was that really my mistake? And was there any point in this process that I could have done something differently and saved this whole mess? Assistant: The food processor is the cause.
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Human: [LOTR] What would have happened it Frodo swallowed the ring? He wouldn’t be wearing it and Gollum would have a much tougher time stealing it in the night. Unless he timed his bowel movements very well he’d likely have had to take a dump into Mt Doom as well which would obviously have been a significant dramatic improvement. Assistant: I can only imagine that the power of the ring would make going for a dump, very interesting. Fire craps, wraith craps, precious craps..... Who knows??
Human: [LOTR] What would have happened it Frodo swallowed the ring? He wouldn’t be wearing it and Gollum would have a much tougher time stealing it in the night. Unless he timed his bowel movements very well he’d likely have had to take a dump into Mt Doom as well which would obviously have been a significant dramatic improvement. Assistant: What would have happened if Frodo had put the ring on his tinkler?
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Human: CMV: It is never worth stating a deadline as 00:00. When writing deadlines in this way, this can only lead to confusion about whether the day before or the day after is meant, whilst 23:59 or 00:01 make it clear which day is intended. Furthermore, most things that have a deadline of 00:00 don't really need to be read at that time, only afterwards. A deadline of 08:00 is not only far more clear, but far more flexible for night owls; and if the company itself has night owls, why not move it a minute forwards/back to ensure clarity in the time? Wasting a minute affects no-one. Assistant: i agree that setting a deadline to 00:00 is more confusing than 23:59 because you’re more likely to get it wrong 00:00 on 9th February is almost the same as 23:59 on 8th February, but it makes it clear that you have to submit by the end of the 8th meaning you don’t have any time on the 9th to complete the work however for that same reason i think 00:01 is equally as bad as 00:00 as you can’t get anything done in the 1 minute on the 9th so it’s a waste of time to be given that extra minute
Human: CMV: It is never worth stating a deadline as 00:00. When writing deadlines in this way, this can only lead to confusion about whether the day before or the day after is meant, whilst 23:59 or 00:01 make it clear which day is intended. Furthermore, most things that have a deadline of 00:00 don't really need to be read at that time, only afterwards. A deadline of 08:00 is not only far more clear, but far more flexible for night owls; and if the company itself has night owls, why not move it a minute forwards/back to ensure clarity in the time? Wasting a minute affects no-one. Assistant: 00:00, is the "next" day. For example Wednesday starts at 00:00:00.
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