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> 🙄	[ "🙄", ">\n\nYou’re grounded now", ">\n\nThe post above was someone getting electrocuted so this reply was very timely", ">\n\nThis news is shocking", ">\n\nIt definitely SPARKED my interest", ">\n\nAll of you guys need to leave, and not come back before learning how to conduct yourselves properly", ">\n\nUhhhh....... electricity", ">\n\nWell no, in the right context it is disrespectful. Rolling your eyes suggests that you're not taking the matter seriously or that you dont care which is a sign of disrespect towards whoever is speaking with you.", ">\n\nBut I can't control what I think. If I said \"man you're stupid and I don't care what you say\" thats disrespectful. I'm actually showing respect by not saying it.", ">\n\nI mean, actions speak louder than words, right?", ">\n\nIts not really an action tho its just an automatic response. Like gasping or yawning.", ">\n\nbullshit.\nSorry, it was an automatic response. Which is bullshit just like yours.", ">\n\nStill not the same thing. And they get on me for false analogies....", ">\n\nYou must be a teenager", ">\n\nLol how many times are you gonna post that. Dont you have an original thought of your own?", ">\n\nBruh I cant believe you make these posts. They're foolish", ">\n\nLaughing at someone can be disrespectful. Don't think so? Try laughing at someone's funeral.", ">\n\nThe disrespect comes from the one who told me a joke and made me laugh.", ">\n\nWhat about if no one said any joke? Because, you know, you are at a funeral.", ">\n\nSo someone's just there randomly laughing at shit? That sounds like a mental illness.", ">\n\nYou have never thought of something funny in your head to make yourself laugh? \nOr hell, maybe you didn't like the person who is buried and decided to laugh at them. You find it funny, so laughing must be appropriate, right?", ">\n\nWhy am I thinking about funny shit at a funeral.", ">\n\nBecause the universe likes to put us in uncomfortable positions sometimes.", ">\n\n“if its stupid or lame, you roll your eyes” - you found the disrespect", ">\n\nIm allowed to think whatever i want and its not disrespectful.", ">\n\nWhen you express contempt for something someone else said, it's disrespect.", ">\n\nWhat if what they said is contemptible?", ">\n\nSome people and comments deserve disrespect, still gonna be disrespect", ">\n\nLaughing, crying, and sneezing are all innate, involuntary reactions to certain types of stimuli. Rolling your eyes is a learned behavior. You can’t compare it to those other automatic responses because it’s not the same thing.", ">\n\nTake my upvote", ">\n\nOP rolled their eyes at someone and got chewed out for it.\nNow they're going online in an attempt to validate themselves.\n🙄", ">\n\nProbably got grounded.", ">\n\nPart of being a mature adult is to have self-control and not acting on every impulse and being respectful of people.", ">\n\n\nPart of being a mature adult\n\nYup but OP is clearly a teenager lol. They complain about being told off for doing chores wrong in another post…", ">\n\nEven a teenager should be able to have the fundamental basics of respect", ">\n\nOh I agree 100%", ">\n\nYou have poor self-control and poor self-awareness but the good news is that you can improve these things.", ">\n\n/r/wrongopinions", ">\n\nI feel like we need a new subreddit r/unpopularforareason", ">\n\nIt’s entire purpose is to be disrespectful. Nobody eyerolls something they respect. But how offensive it is depends on the context and how serious one is being.", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes\n\nYou rn: \"I'm not being disrespectful. I just thought what you said was stupid or lame.\"\n...", ">\n\nSaying its stupid could be disrespectful. A facial response is not.", ">\n\nLiterally every person in this thread agrees that it is.\nThis is your bad habit. Nobody else's responsibility but you.", ">\n\nThey can choose to not fly off the handle at what is just an innate reaction.", ">\n\nSo let me get this straight: you think you deserve to be able to disrespect whoever you like whenever you like but they can't as much as say you're being rude? Grow up.", ">\n\nFound the teenager.", ">\n\nMeh, I agree with that one. If you don't like how someone is doing something then do it yourself. There's a reason I live alone.", ">\n\nIt is a UNIVERSAL sign of disrespect. Globally. Deal with it.", ">\n\nLaughing can be disrespectuful too. If you cannot control your own reactions, well, what can I say, maybe you have not really grown up?", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s so it’s hard to control my own actions sometimes…", ">\n\nThank u I'm trying to explain how autism can make it hard to read not just others facial expressions but also ur own and it seems like no one has thought of the possibility that they acc don't realise it or csnt control it", ">\n\nWould you roll your eyes during a job interview if you thought a question was stupid or irrelevant? Do you think you’d get the job if you did?", ">\n\nPretty sure OP would think they were owed that job and they would think it’s ridiculous if they didn’t get it.\nOP is also a teenager going through their rebel phase though", ">\n\nYou're oddly specific here.", ">\n\nWhat was specific? Or rather oddly specific?", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a good way to fast track yourself to a divorce, if you want one.", ">\n\nI think OP needs the definition of respect before any further comment is made", ">\n\nOh I already know it, and I know it does not mean:\nDon't ever disagree with me\nDon't think bad thoughts about me\nDon't ever correct me when I'm blatantly wrong \nShine my boots with your tongue", ">\n\nSoooo this post isn’t about eye rolling is what I’m getting from this. You’ve got issues to work through with your parents or partner or something", ">\n\nSince when tf was eye rolling involuntary?", ">", ">\n\nYour lack of self control is not a justification for disrespect. I personally dont know anyone who reacts to anything by rolling their eyes. Just be mature and communicate.", ">\n\nAnd what if it's not stupid and someone rolls their eyes? Wouldn't it be disrespectful in that case?", ">\n\nIn the eye rollers opinion then it must have been. But you can't fault someone for thinking its stupid.", ">\n\nSo eyerolling is some kind of exceptional thing that is free from criticism? \nIf one has the freedom to eye roll, then someone else has the freedom to criticize the eye roller right? \nOr is it your opinion that besides that everyone who sees an eye roller has to just stfu", ">\n\nMeh, it is disrespectful. It's a way to be disrespectful without having to say That's the dumbest thing I've heard all month, and everyone else who heard it is also dumber for hearing it as well.", ">\n\nBut I didn't say it that's the point.", ">\n\nJust cuz you don’t use words doesn’t mean it’s not disrespectful. Walking away while someone is talking to you, rolling your eyes, slapping someone, and starting to play a game on your phone while someone is talking to you are all disrespectful. It doesn’t matter that you didn’t say anything, your lack of respect still showed.", ">\n\nespecially the way theyre responding to comments", ">\n\nYeah, a natural reaction if you’ve never learned to manage your emotions as opposed to letting them run your life. I’m not talking about being totally monotone rational, either. You need to learn a balance between rational and emotional…which includes healthy, appropriate, respectful expression of honest feelings. Eye rolling is absolutely disrespectful, belittling, and dismissive.", ">\n\nComments: OP is completely wrong and has attitude issues", ">\n\nWhat sounds like mental illness is you refusing to admit that rolling your eyes is simply not an unconditional response. Whether you want to believe it or not, you are doing it intentionally and you can control it. \nYou’re just to much of a b—— to do so.", ">\n\nSame to you", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a learned reaction. Not natural. I rarely of ever roll my eyes at anything.", ">", ">\n\nJust like raising your middle finger. Or vocalizing the sounds \"fuck you\". Or fingers typing the words fuck you OP. Nothing is disrespectful!", ">\n\nNice try but not the same thing at all. You're talking about thought out actions here. The eye roll is more like a reaction. Its quick, its automatic, no one has to think \"im rolling my eyes now\" it just happens. \nSort of like when telling a lie - no one decides to have their eyes dart around suspiciously, it just happens.", ">\n\nNo. Rolling your eyes is not involuntary. It can be controlled. You have a bad habit that you CAN stop. Much like a child learning not to suck their thumb, or biting your nails.", ">\n\nHow about you start with your hair scratching", ">\n\nYour opinion is a contradiction in itself. And, yeah. I disagree. Rolling your eyes is 100% to show lack of respect, and you have no intentions of showing it, even to reason, by rolling your eyes at something someone could believe is meaningful or important. Even if it is stupid.\nI get your point, we roll our eyes to express how we feel, but it is still a physical snare. You say rolling your eyes isn't disrespectful, while saying it's okay to roll your eyes because something is \" stupid or lame\", which in itself is disrespectful. You sound like a very young person in the middle of a learning moment, and you're trying to react with rebellion. It only shows that you lack maturity and are in need of growth. This might be a time for you to read these comments and reevaluate. There are healthier ways to react to things you disagree with, or lack interest in. If not, you can just accept that you roll your eyes to show lack of respect.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is much more deliberate than laughter, tears, or sneezing. It's a conscious action in response to a judgement you're making.", ">\n\nNah, dude it is disrespectful \nYou just have no self control and by the looks of it you don't want to build some", ">\n\nYour post made me roll my eyes very hard.", ">\n\n“No, officer, my wife - she MADE me hit her!”", ">\n\nIt's a natural reaction for a sooky kid but not an adult, if you do that as an adult you just manchild that wants everything their way", ">\n\npoor OP.... did you get in trouble after you rolled your eyes at something again? did you not prehaps learn from previous interactions? rolling your eyes at something \"stupid or lame\" is an intentional response that is disrespectful to whatever it is. mature people dont act that way.....", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes.\n\nSo it is disrespectful. \n\nIts like throwing pepper in someone's face an expecting them not to sneeze.\n\nNo it’s not. You can easily (edited in) refrain from rolling your eyes, while it’s much more difficult to refrain from sneezing. \nIt’s fine to think whatever you want, but you might want to refrain from rolling your eyes when you’re, say, interacting with your boss; aka someone that can make you unemployed for whatever reason they please.", ">\n\nThis isn't an opinion. It's just flat wrong. \nIt is disrespectful because it is a conscious signifier which clearly communicated that you think that the thing you are rolling your eyes at is not worthy of respect.", ">\n\nYou have to go out of your way to roll your eyes. It is NOT gutteral or instinctual", ">\n\nIf you annoy me, my arm whips out in a natural reaction and slaps you.", ">\n\nSorry, kiddo, it’s 100% disrespectful. Just own the shit and quit trying to lawyer around it.\nI say that after having rolled my eyes so hard at your post, I travelled back in time.", ">\n\nTell that to my family lol you get the belt", ">\n\nThis was made my a 15 year old who just got told off by their mom about rolling their eyes. Then in defense said, “I can’t control it”", ">\n\nMan it's getting so aggressive sometimes here 😂", ">\n\ni certainly hope you are embarrassed about this in a couple years when you grow up.", ">\n\nOP is a habitual eye roller 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄", ">\n\nI wish to God we could block people by age, no more edgy 13yo’s", ">\n\nSomebody just got their ps5 taken away for rolling their eyes", ">\n\nTell me you're 12 without telling me you're 12.", ">\n\nit’s the definition of disrespectful and a sign that you have literally nothing intelligent to say in return. \nwhich is why we outgrow it as adults.", ">\n\nYou can control it. It’s not an “automatic response” unless you’ve taught yourself to do it. I never roll my eyes. It’s just not something I have ever practiced doing. And yes…if I’m saying something too you and you dismiss it with an eye roll…it’s super disrespectful.", ">\n\nrolling your eyes is just as respectful as sticking your tongue out at someone or making a stupid face in reaction to something someone says", ">\n\nIf you can’t control your eye movement, you need to see a neurologist, dude 😆. As it stands, eye rolling isn’t a reflex or a “natural reaction” to anything. Habits aren’t the same as involuntary reactions.\nRolling your eyes at someone is disrespectful. It’s an outward sign that you think something about your interaction with them was stupid or wrong. There’s no one here that will agree with you, and you know that you’re in the vast minority with this opinion because you posted it on this sub. Now learn some humility and accept that your opinion is factually incorrect based on science." ]
> Are you like 14 and your mom got you in trouble cause you rolled your eyes at her? Lmao	[ "🙄", ">\n\nYou’re grounded now", ">\n\nThe post above was someone getting electrocuted so this reply was very timely", ">\n\nThis news is shocking", ">\n\nIt definitely SPARKED my interest", ">\n\nAll of you guys need to leave, and not come back before learning how to conduct yourselves properly", ">\n\nUhhhh....... electricity", ">\n\nWell no, in the right context it is disrespectful. Rolling your eyes suggests that you're not taking the matter seriously or that you dont care which is a sign of disrespect towards whoever is speaking with you.", ">\n\nBut I can't control what I think. If I said \"man you're stupid and I don't care what you say\" thats disrespectful. I'm actually showing respect by not saying it.", ">\n\nI mean, actions speak louder than words, right?", ">\n\nIts not really an action tho its just an automatic response. Like gasping or yawning.", ">\n\nbullshit.\nSorry, it was an automatic response. Which is bullshit just like yours.", ">\n\nStill not the same thing. And they get on me for false analogies....", ">\n\nYou must be a teenager", ">\n\nLol how many times are you gonna post that. Dont you have an original thought of your own?", ">\n\nBruh I cant believe you make these posts. They're foolish", ">\n\nLaughing at someone can be disrespectful. Don't think so? Try laughing at someone's funeral.", ">\n\nThe disrespect comes from the one who told me a joke and made me laugh.", ">\n\nWhat about if no one said any joke? Because, you know, you are at a funeral.", ">\n\nSo someone's just there randomly laughing at shit? That sounds like a mental illness.", ">\n\nYou have never thought of something funny in your head to make yourself laugh? \nOr hell, maybe you didn't like the person who is buried and decided to laugh at them. You find it funny, so laughing must be appropriate, right?", ">\n\nWhy am I thinking about funny shit at a funeral.", ">\n\nBecause the universe likes to put us in uncomfortable positions sometimes.", ">\n\n“if its stupid or lame, you roll your eyes” - you found the disrespect", ">\n\nIm allowed to think whatever i want and its not disrespectful.", ">\n\nWhen you express contempt for something someone else said, it's disrespect.", ">\n\nWhat if what they said is contemptible?", ">\n\nSome people and comments deserve disrespect, still gonna be disrespect", ">\n\nLaughing, crying, and sneezing are all innate, involuntary reactions to certain types of stimuli. Rolling your eyes is a learned behavior. You can’t compare it to those other automatic responses because it’s not the same thing.", ">\n\nTake my upvote", ">\n\nOP rolled their eyes at someone and got chewed out for it.\nNow they're going online in an attempt to validate themselves.\n🙄", ">\n\nProbably got grounded.", ">\n\nPart of being a mature adult is to have self-control and not acting on every impulse and being respectful of people.", ">\n\n\nPart of being a mature adult\n\nYup but OP is clearly a teenager lol. They complain about being told off for doing chores wrong in another post…", ">\n\nEven a teenager should be able to have the fundamental basics of respect", ">\n\nOh I agree 100%", ">\n\nYou have poor self-control and poor self-awareness but the good news is that you can improve these things.", ">\n\n/r/wrongopinions", ">\n\nI feel like we need a new subreddit r/unpopularforareason", ">\n\nIt’s entire purpose is to be disrespectful. Nobody eyerolls something they respect. But how offensive it is depends on the context and how serious one is being.", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes\n\nYou rn: \"I'm not being disrespectful. I just thought what you said was stupid or lame.\"\n...", ">\n\nSaying its stupid could be disrespectful. A facial response is not.", ">\n\nLiterally every person in this thread agrees that it is.\nThis is your bad habit. Nobody else's responsibility but you.", ">\n\nThey can choose to not fly off the handle at what is just an innate reaction.", ">\n\nSo let me get this straight: you think you deserve to be able to disrespect whoever you like whenever you like but they can't as much as say you're being rude? Grow up.", ">\n\nFound the teenager.", ">\n\nMeh, I agree with that one. If you don't like how someone is doing something then do it yourself. There's a reason I live alone.", ">\n\nIt is a UNIVERSAL sign of disrespect. Globally. Deal with it.", ">\n\nLaughing can be disrespectuful too. If you cannot control your own reactions, well, what can I say, maybe you have not really grown up?", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s so it’s hard to control my own actions sometimes…", ">\n\nThank u I'm trying to explain how autism can make it hard to read not just others facial expressions but also ur own and it seems like no one has thought of the possibility that they acc don't realise it or csnt control it", ">\n\nWould you roll your eyes during a job interview if you thought a question was stupid or irrelevant? Do you think you’d get the job if you did?", ">\n\nPretty sure OP would think they were owed that job and they would think it’s ridiculous if they didn’t get it.\nOP is also a teenager going through their rebel phase though", ">\n\nYou're oddly specific here.", ">\n\nWhat was specific? Or rather oddly specific?", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a good way to fast track yourself to a divorce, if you want one.", ">\n\nI think OP needs the definition of respect before any further comment is made", ">\n\nOh I already know it, and I know it does not mean:\nDon't ever disagree with me\nDon't think bad thoughts about me\nDon't ever correct me when I'm blatantly wrong \nShine my boots with your tongue", ">\n\nSoooo this post isn’t about eye rolling is what I’m getting from this. You’ve got issues to work through with your parents or partner or something", ">\n\nSince when tf was eye rolling involuntary?", ">", ">\n\nYour lack of self control is not a justification for disrespect. I personally dont know anyone who reacts to anything by rolling their eyes. Just be mature and communicate.", ">\n\nAnd what if it's not stupid and someone rolls their eyes? Wouldn't it be disrespectful in that case?", ">\n\nIn the eye rollers opinion then it must have been. But you can't fault someone for thinking its stupid.", ">\n\nSo eyerolling is some kind of exceptional thing that is free from criticism? \nIf one has the freedom to eye roll, then someone else has the freedom to criticize the eye roller right? \nOr is it your opinion that besides that everyone who sees an eye roller has to just stfu", ">\n\nMeh, it is disrespectful. It's a way to be disrespectful without having to say That's the dumbest thing I've heard all month, and everyone else who heard it is also dumber for hearing it as well.", ">\n\nBut I didn't say it that's the point.", ">\n\nJust cuz you don’t use words doesn’t mean it’s not disrespectful. Walking away while someone is talking to you, rolling your eyes, slapping someone, and starting to play a game on your phone while someone is talking to you are all disrespectful. It doesn’t matter that you didn’t say anything, your lack of respect still showed.", ">\n\nespecially the way theyre responding to comments", ">\n\nYeah, a natural reaction if you’ve never learned to manage your emotions as opposed to letting them run your life. I’m not talking about being totally monotone rational, either. You need to learn a balance between rational and emotional…which includes healthy, appropriate, respectful expression of honest feelings. Eye rolling is absolutely disrespectful, belittling, and dismissive.", ">\n\nComments: OP is completely wrong and has attitude issues", ">\n\nWhat sounds like mental illness is you refusing to admit that rolling your eyes is simply not an unconditional response. Whether you want to believe it or not, you are doing it intentionally and you can control it. \nYou’re just to much of a b—— to do so.", ">\n\nSame to you", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a learned reaction. Not natural. I rarely of ever roll my eyes at anything.", ">", ">\n\nJust like raising your middle finger. Or vocalizing the sounds \"fuck you\". Or fingers typing the words fuck you OP. Nothing is disrespectful!", ">\n\nNice try but not the same thing at all. You're talking about thought out actions here. The eye roll is more like a reaction. Its quick, its automatic, no one has to think \"im rolling my eyes now\" it just happens. \nSort of like when telling a lie - no one decides to have their eyes dart around suspiciously, it just happens.", ">\n\nNo. Rolling your eyes is not involuntary. It can be controlled. You have a bad habit that you CAN stop. Much like a child learning not to suck their thumb, or biting your nails.", ">\n\nHow about you start with your hair scratching", ">\n\nYour opinion is a contradiction in itself. And, yeah. I disagree. Rolling your eyes is 100% to show lack of respect, and you have no intentions of showing it, even to reason, by rolling your eyes at something someone could believe is meaningful or important. Even if it is stupid.\nI get your point, we roll our eyes to express how we feel, but it is still a physical snare. You say rolling your eyes isn't disrespectful, while saying it's okay to roll your eyes because something is \" stupid or lame\", which in itself is disrespectful. You sound like a very young person in the middle of a learning moment, and you're trying to react with rebellion. It only shows that you lack maturity and are in need of growth. This might be a time for you to read these comments and reevaluate. There are healthier ways to react to things you disagree with, or lack interest in. If not, you can just accept that you roll your eyes to show lack of respect.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is much more deliberate than laughter, tears, or sneezing. It's a conscious action in response to a judgement you're making.", ">\n\nNah, dude it is disrespectful \nYou just have no self control and by the looks of it you don't want to build some", ">\n\nYour post made me roll my eyes very hard.", ">\n\n“No, officer, my wife - she MADE me hit her!”", ">\n\nIt's a natural reaction for a sooky kid but not an adult, if you do that as an adult you just manchild that wants everything their way", ">\n\npoor OP.... did you get in trouble after you rolled your eyes at something again? did you not prehaps learn from previous interactions? rolling your eyes at something \"stupid or lame\" is an intentional response that is disrespectful to whatever it is. mature people dont act that way.....", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes.\n\nSo it is disrespectful. \n\nIts like throwing pepper in someone's face an expecting them not to sneeze.\n\nNo it’s not. You can easily (edited in) refrain from rolling your eyes, while it’s much more difficult to refrain from sneezing. \nIt’s fine to think whatever you want, but you might want to refrain from rolling your eyes when you’re, say, interacting with your boss; aka someone that can make you unemployed for whatever reason they please.", ">\n\nThis isn't an opinion. It's just flat wrong. \nIt is disrespectful because it is a conscious signifier which clearly communicated that you think that the thing you are rolling your eyes at is not worthy of respect.", ">\n\nYou have to go out of your way to roll your eyes. It is NOT gutteral or instinctual", ">\n\nIf you annoy me, my arm whips out in a natural reaction and slaps you.", ">\n\nSorry, kiddo, it’s 100% disrespectful. Just own the shit and quit trying to lawyer around it.\nI say that after having rolled my eyes so hard at your post, I travelled back in time.", ">\n\nTell that to my family lol you get the belt", ">\n\nThis was made my a 15 year old who just got told off by their mom about rolling their eyes. Then in defense said, “I can’t control it”", ">\n\nMan it's getting so aggressive sometimes here 😂", ">\n\ni certainly hope you are embarrassed about this in a couple years when you grow up.", ">\n\nOP is a habitual eye roller 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄", ">\n\nI wish to God we could block people by age, no more edgy 13yo’s", ">\n\nSomebody just got their ps5 taken away for rolling their eyes", ">\n\nTell me you're 12 without telling me you're 12.", ">\n\nit’s the definition of disrespectful and a sign that you have literally nothing intelligent to say in return. \nwhich is why we outgrow it as adults.", ">\n\nYou can control it. It’s not an “automatic response” unless you’ve taught yourself to do it. I never roll my eyes. It’s just not something I have ever practiced doing. And yes…if I’m saying something too you and you dismiss it with an eye roll…it’s super disrespectful.", ">\n\nrolling your eyes is just as respectful as sticking your tongue out at someone or making a stupid face in reaction to something someone says", ">\n\nIf you can’t control your eye movement, you need to see a neurologist, dude 😆. As it stands, eye rolling isn’t a reflex or a “natural reaction” to anything. Habits aren’t the same as involuntary reactions.\nRolling your eyes at someone is disrespectful. It’s an outward sign that you think something about your interaction with them was stupid or wrong. There’s no one here that will agree with you, and you know that you’re in the vast minority with this opinion because you posted it on this sub. Now learn some humility and accept that your opinion is factually incorrect based on science.", ">\n\n🙄" ]
> I’m gonna show your mom this and it’s going to be another week of being grounded, you little shit lol	[ "🙄", ">\n\nYou’re grounded now", ">\n\nThe post above was someone getting electrocuted so this reply was very timely", ">\n\nThis news is shocking", ">\n\nIt definitely SPARKED my interest", ">\n\nAll of you guys need to leave, and not come back before learning how to conduct yourselves properly", ">\n\nUhhhh....... electricity", ">\n\nWell no, in the right context it is disrespectful. Rolling your eyes suggests that you're not taking the matter seriously or that you dont care which is a sign of disrespect towards whoever is speaking with you.", ">\n\nBut I can't control what I think. If I said \"man you're stupid and I don't care what you say\" thats disrespectful. I'm actually showing respect by not saying it.", ">\n\nI mean, actions speak louder than words, right?", ">\n\nIts not really an action tho its just an automatic response. Like gasping or yawning.", ">\n\nbullshit.\nSorry, it was an automatic response. Which is bullshit just like yours.", ">\n\nStill not the same thing. And they get on me for false analogies....", ">\n\nYou must be a teenager", ">\n\nLol how many times are you gonna post that. Dont you have an original thought of your own?", ">\n\nBruh I cant believe you make these posts. They're foolish", ">\n\nLaughing at someone can be disrespectful. Don't think so? Try laughing at someone's funeral.", ">\n\nThe disrespect comes from the one who told me a joke and made me laugh.", ">\n\nWhat about if no one said any joke? Because, you know, you are at a funeral.", ">\n\nSo someone's just there randomly laughing at shit? That sounds like a mental illness.", ">\n\nYou have never thought of something funny in your head to make yourself laugh? \nOr hell, maybe you didn't like the person who is buried and decided to laugh at them. You find it funny, so laughing must be appropriate, right?", ">\n\nWhy am I thinking about funny shit at a funeral.", ">\n\nBecause the universe likes to put us in uncomfortable positions sometimes.", ">\n\n“if its stupid or lame, you roll your eyes” - you found the disrespect", ">\n\nIm allowed to think whatever i want and its not disrespectful.", ">\n\nWhen you express contempt for something someone else said, it's disrespect.", ">\n\nWhat if what they said is contemptible?", ">\n\nSome people and comments deserve disrespect, still gonna be disrespect", ">\n\nLaughing, crying, and sneezing are all innate, involuntary reactions to certain types of stimuli. Rolling your eyes is a learned behavior. You can’t compare it to those other automatic responses because it’s not the same thing.", ">\n\nTake my upvote", ">\n\nOP rolled their eyes at someone and got chewed out for it.\nNow they're going online in an attempt to validate themselves.\n🙄", ">\n\nProbably got grounded.", ">\n\nPart of being a mature adult is to have self-control and not acting on every impulse and being respectful of people.", ">\n\n\nPart of being a mature adult\n\nYup but OP is clearly a teenager lol. They complain about being told off for doing chores wrong in another post…", ">\n\nEven a teenager should be able to have the fundamental basics of respect", ">\n\nOh I agree 100%", ">\n\nYou have poor self-control and poor self-awareness but the good news is that you can improve these things.", ">\n\n/r/wrongopinions", ">\n\nI feel like we need a new subreddit r/unpopularforareason", ">\n\nIt’s entire purpose is to be disrespectful. Nobody eyerolls something they respect. But how offensive it is depends on the context and how serious one is being.", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes\n\nYou rn: \"I'm not being disrespectful. I just thought what you said was stupid or lame.\"\n...", ">\n\nSaying its stupid could be disrespectful. A facial response is not.", ">\n\nLiterally every person in this thread agrees that it is.\nThis is your bad habit. Nobody else's responsibility but you.", ">\n\nThey can choose to not fly off the handle at what is just an innate reaction.", ">\n\nSo let me get this straight: you think you deserve to be able to disrespect whoever you like whenever you like but they can't as much as say you're being rude? Grow up.", ">\n\nFound the teenager.", ">\n\nMeh, I agree with that one. If you don't like how someone is doing something then do it yourself. There's a reason I live alone.", ">\n\nIt is a UNIVERSAL sign of disrespect. Globally. Deal with it.", ">\n\nLaughing can be disrespectuful too. If you cannot control your own reactions, well, what can I say, maybe you have not really grown up?", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s so it’s hard to control my own actions sometimes…", ">\n\nThank u I'm trying to explain how autism can make it hard to read not just others facial expressions but also ur own and it seems like no one has thought of the possibility that they acc don't realise it or csnt control it", ">\n\nWould you roll your eyes during a job interview if you thought a question was stupid or irrelevant? Do you think you’d get the job if you did?", ">\n\nPretty sure OP would think they were owed that job and they would think it’s ridiculous if they didn’t get it.\nOP is also a teenager going through their rebel phase though", ">\n\nYou're oddly specific here.", ">\n\nWhat was specific? Or rather oddly specific?", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a good way to fast track yourself to a divorce, if you want one.", ">\n\nI think OP needs the definition of respect before any further comment is made", ">\n\nOh I already know it, and I know it does not mean:\nDon't ever disagree with me\nDon't think bad thoughts about me\nDon't ever correct me when I'm blatantly wrong \nShine my boots with your tongue", ">\n\nSoooo this post isn’t about eye rolling is what I’m getting from this. You’ve got issues to work through with your parents or partner or something", ">\n\nSince when tf was eye rolling involuntary?", ">", ">\n\nYour lack of self control is not a justification for disrespect. I personally dont know anyone who reacts to anything by rolling their eyes. Just be mature and communicate.", ">\n\nAnd what if it's not stupid and someone rolls their eyes? Wouldn't it be disrespectful in that case?", ">\n\nIn the eye rollers opinion then it must have been. But you can't fault someone for thinking its stupid.", ">\n\nSo eyerolling is some kind of exceptional thing that is free from criticism? \nIf one has the freedom to eye roll, then someone else has the freedom to criticize the eye roller right? \nOr is it your opinion that besides that everyone who sees an eye roller has to just stfu", ">\n\nMeh, it is disrespectful. It's a way to be disrespectful without having to say That's the dumbest thing I've heard all month, and everyone else who heard it is also dumber for hearing it as well.", ">\n\nBut I didn't say it that's the point.", ">\n\nJust cuz you don’t use words doesn’t mean it’s not disrespectful. Walking away while someone is talking to you, rolling your eyes, slapping someone, and starting to play a game on your phone while someone is talking to you are all disrespectful. It doesn’t matter that you didn’t say anything, your lack of respect still showed.", ">\n\nespecially the way theyre responding to comments", ">\n\nYeah, a natural reaction if you’ve never learned to manage your emotions as opposed to letting them run your life. I’m not talking about being totally monotone rational, either. You need to learn a balance between rational and emotional…which includes healthy, appropriate, respectful expression of honest feelings. Eye rolling is absolutely disrespectful, belittling, and dismissive.", ">\n\nComments: OP is completely wrong and has attitude issues", ">\n\nWhat sounds like mental illness is you refusing to admit that rolling your eyes is simply not an unconditional response. Whether you want to believe it or not, you are doing it intentionally and you can control it. \nYou’re just to much of a b—— to do so.", ">\n\nSame to you", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a learned reaction. Not natural. I rarely of ever roll my eyes at anything.", ">", ">\n\nJust like raising your middle finger. Or vocalizing the sounds \"fuck you\". Or fingers typing the words fuck you OP. Nothing is disrespectful!", ">\n\nNice try but not the same thing at all. You're talking about thought out actions here. The eye roll is more like a reaction. Its quick, its automatic, no one has to think \"im rolling my eyes now\" it just happens. \nSort of like when telling a lie - no one decides to have their eyes dart around suspiciously, it just happens.", ">\n\nNo. Rolling your eyes is not involuntary. It can be controlled. You have a bad habit that you CAN stop. Much like a child learning not to suck their thumb, or biting your nails.", ">\n\nHow about you start with your hair scratching", ">\n\nYour opinion is a contradiction in itself. And, yeah. I disagree. Rolling your eyes is 100% to show lack of respect, and you have no intentions of showing it, even to reason, by rolling your eyes at something someone could believe is meaningful or important. Even if it is stupid.\nI get your point, we roll our eyes to express how we feel, but it is still a physical snare. You say rolling your eyes isn't disrespectful, while saying it's okay to roll your eyes because something is \" stupid or lame\", which in itself is disrespectful. You sound like a very young person in the middle of a learning moment, and you're trying to react with rebellion. It only shows that you lack maturity and are in need of growth. This might be a time for you to read these comments and reevaluate. There are healthier ways to react to things you disagree with, or lack interest in. If not, you can just accept that you roll your eyes to show lack of respect.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is much more deliberate than laughter, tears, or sneezing. It's a conscious action in response to a judgement you're making.", ">\n\nNah, dude it is disrespectful \nYou just have no self control and by the looks of it you don't want to build some", ">\n\nYour post made me roll my eyes very hard.", ">\n\n“No, officer, my wife - she MADE me hit her!”", ">\n\nIt's a natural reaction for a sooky kid but not an adult, if you do that as an adult you just manchild that wants everything their way", ">\n\npoor OP.... did you get in trouble after you rolled your eyes at something again? did you not prehaps learn from previous interactions? rolling your eyes at something \"stupid or lame\" is an intentional response that is disrespectful to whatever it is. mature people dont act that way.....", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes.\n\nSo it is disrespectful. \n\nIts like throwing pepper in someone's face an expecting them not to sneeze.\n\nNo it’s not. You can easily (edited in) refrain from rolling your eyes, while it’s much more difficult to refrain from sneezing. \nIt’s fine to think whatever you want, but you might want to refrain from rolling your eyes when you’re, say, interacting with your boss; aka someone that can make you unemployed for whatever reason they please.", ">\n\nThis isn't an opinion. It's just flat wrong. \nIt is disrespectful because it is a conscious signifier which clearly communicated that you think that the thing you are rolling your eyes at is not worthy of respect.", ">\n\nYou have to go out of your way to roll your eyes. It is NOT gutteral or instinctual", ">\n\nIf you annoy me, my arm whips out in a natural reaction and slaps you.", ">\n\nSorry, kiddo, it’s 100% disrespectful. Just own the shit and quit trying to lawyer around it.\nI say that after having rolled my eyes so hard at your post, I travelled back in time.", ">\n\nTell that to my family lol you get the belt", ">\n\nThis was made my a 15 year old who just got told off by their mom about rolling their eyes. Then in defense said, “I can’t control it”", ">\n\nMan it's getting so aggressive sometimes here 😂", ">\n\ni certainly hope you are embarrassed about this in a couple years when you grow up.", ">\n\nOP is a habitual eye roller 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄", ">\n\nI wish to God we could block people by age, no more edgy 13yo’s", ">\n\nSomebody just got their ps5 taken away for rolling their eyes", ">\n\nTell me you're 12 without telling me you're 12.", ">\n\nit’s the definition of disrespectful and a sign that you have literally nothing intelligent to say in return. \nwhich is why we outgrow it as adults.", ">\n\nYou can control it. It’s not an “automatic response” unless you’ve taught yourself to do it. I never roll my eyes. It’s just not something I have ever practiced doing. And yes…if I’m saying something too you and you dismiss it with an eye roll…it’s super disrespectful.", ">\n\nrolling your eyes is just as respectful as sticking your tongue out at someone or making a stupid face in reaction to something someone says", ">\n\nIf you can’t control your eye movement, you need to see a neurologist, dude 😆. As it stands, eye rolling isn’t a reflex or a “natural reaction” to anything. Habits aren’t the same as involuntary reactions.\nRolling your eyes at someone is disrespectful. It’s an outward sign that you think something about your interaction with them was stupid or wrong. There’s no one here that will agree with you, and you know that you’re in the vast minority with this opinion because you posted it on this sub. Now learn some humility and accept that your opinion is factually incorrect based on science.", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nAre you like 14 and your mom got you in trouble cause you rolled your eyes at her? Lmao" ]
> Omfg 😂	[ "🙄", ">\n\nYou’re grounded now", ">\n\nThe post above was someone getting electrocuted so this reply was very timely", ">\n\nThis news is shocking", ">\n\nIt definitely SPARKED my interest", ">\n\nAll of you guys need to leave, and not come back before learning how to conduct yourselves properly", ">\n\nUhhhh....... electricity", ">\n\nWell no, in the right context it is disrespectful. Rolling your eyes suggests that you're not taking the matter seriously or that you dont care which is a sign of disrespect towards whoever is speaking with you.", ">\n\nBut I can't control what I think. If I said \"man you're stupid and I don't care what you say\" thats disrespectful. I'm actually showing respect by not saying it.", ">\n\nI mean, actions speak louder than words, right?", ">\n\nIts not really an action tho its just an automatic response. Like gasping or yawning.", ">\n\nbullshit.\nSorry, it was an automatic response. Which is bullshit just like yours.", ">\n\nStill not the same thing. And they get on me for false analogies....", ">\n\nYou must be a teenager", ">\n\nLol how many times are you gonna post that. Dont you have an original thought of your own?", ">\n\nBruh I cant believe you make these posts. They're foolish", ">\n\nLaughing at someone can be disrespectful. Don't think so? Try laughing at someone's funeral.", ">\n\nThe disrespect comes from the one who told me a joke and made me laugh.", ">\n\nWhat about if no one said any joke? Because, you know, you are at a funeral.", ">\n\nSo someone's just there randomly laughing at shit? That sounds like a mental illness.", ">\n\nYou have never thought of something funny in your head to make yourself laugh? \nOr hell, maybe you didn't like the person who is buried and decided to laugh at them. You find it funny, so laughing must be appropriate, right?", ">\n\nWhy am I thinking about funny shit at a funeral.", ">\n\nBecause the universe likes to put us in uncomfortable positions sometimes.", ">\n\n“if its stupid or lame, you roll your eyes” - you found the disrespect", ">\n\nIm allowed to think whatever i want and its not disrespectful.", ">\n\nWhen you express contempt for something someone else said, it's disrespect.", ">\n\nWhat if what they said is contemptible?", ">\n\nSome people and comments deserve disrespect, still gonna be disrespect", ">\n\nLaughing, crying, and sneezing are all innate, involuntary reactions to certain types of stimuli. Rolling your eyes is a learned behavior. You can’t compare it to those other automatic responses because it’s not the same thing.", ">\n\nTake my upvote", ">\n\nOP rolled their eyes at someone and got chewed out for it.\nNow they're going online in an attempt to validate themselves.\n🙄", ">\n\nProbably got grounded.", ">\n\nPart of being a mature adult is to have self-control and not acting on every impulse and being respectful of people.", ">\n\n\nPart of being a mature adult\n\nYup but OP is clearly a teenager lol. They complain about being told off for doing chores wrong in another post…", ">\n\nEven a teenager should be able to have the fundamental basics of respect", ">\n\nOh I agree 100%", ">\n\nYou have poor self-control and poor self-awareness but the good news is that you can improve these things.", ">\n\n/r/wrongopinions", ">\n\nI feel like we need a new subreddit r/unpopularforareason", ">\n\nIt’s entire purpose is to be disrespectful. Nobody eyerolls something they respect. But how offensive it is depends on the context and how serious one is being.", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes\n\nYou rn: \"I'm not being disrespectful. I just thought what you said was stupid or lame.\"\n...", ">\n\nSaying its stupid could be disrespectful. A facial response is not.", ">\n\nLiterally every person in this thread agrees that it is.\nThis is your bad habit. Nobody else's responsibility but you.", ">\n\nThey can choose to not fly off the handle at what is just an innate reaction.", ">\n\nSo let me get this straight: you think you deserve to be able to disrespect whoever you like whenever you like but they can't as much as say you're being rude? Grow up.", ">\n\nFound the teenager.", ">\n\nMeh, I agree with that one. If you don't like how someone is doing something then do it yourself. There's a reason I live alone.", ">\n\nIt is a UNIVERSAL sign of disrespect. Globally. Deal with it.", ">\n\nLaughing can be disrespectuful too. If you cannot control your own reactions, well, what can I say, maybe you have not really grown up?", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s so it’s hard to control my own actions sometimes…", ">\n\nThank u I'm trying to explain how autism can make it hard to read not just others facial expressions but also ur own and it seems like no one has thought of the possibility that they acc don't realise it or csnt control it", ">\n\nWould you roll your eyes during a job interview if you thought a question was stupid or irrelevant? Do you think you’d get the job if you did?", ">\n\nPretty sure OP would think they were owed that job and they would think it’s ridiculous if they didn’t get it.\nOP is also a teenager going through their rebel phase though", ">\n\nYou're oddly specific here.", ">\n\nWhat was specific? Or rather oddly specific?", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a good way to fast track yourself to a divorce, if you want one.", ">\n\nI think OP needs the definition of respect before any further comment is made", ">\n\nOh I already know it, and I know it does not mean:\nDon't ever disagree with me\nDon't think bad thoughts about me\nDon't ever correct me when I'm blatantly wrong \nShine my boots with your tongue", ">\n\nSoooo this post isn’t about eye rolling is what I’m getting from this. You’ve got issues to work through with your parents or partner or something", ">\n\nSince when tf was eye rolling involuntary?", ">", ">\n\nYour lack of self control is not a justification for disrespect. I personally dont know anyone who reacts to anything by rolling their eyes. Just be mature and communicate.", ">\n\nAnd what if it's not stupid and someone rolls their eyes? Wouldn't it be disrespectful in that case?", ">\n\nIn the eye rollers opinion then it must have been. But you can't fault someone for thinking its stupid.", ">\n\nSo eyerolling is some kind of exceptional thing that is free from criticism? \nIf one has the freedom to eye roll, then someone else has the freedom to criticize the eye roller right? \nOr is it your opinion that besides that everyone who sees an eye roller has to just stfu", ">\n\nMeh, it is disrespectful. It's a way to be disrespectful without having to say That's the dumbest thing I've heard all month, and everyone else who heard it is also dumber for hearing it as well.", ">\n\nBut I didn't say it that's the point.", ">\n\nJust cuz you don’t use words doesn’t mean it’s not disrespectful. Walking away while someone is talking to you, rolling your eyes, slapping someone, and starting to play a game on your phone while someone is talking to you are all disrespectful. It doesn’t matter that you didn’t say anything, your lack of respect still showed.", ">\n\nespecially the way theyre responding to comments", ">\n\nYeah, a natural reaction if you’ve never learned to manage your emotions as opposed to letting them run your life. I’m not talking about being totally monotone rational, either. You need to learn a balance between rational and emotional…which includes healthy, appropriate, respectful expression of honest feelings. Eye rolling is absolutely disrespectful, belittling, and dismissive.", ">\n\nComments: OP is completely wrong and has attitude issues", ">\n\nWhat sounds like mental illness is you refusing to admit that rolling your eyes is simply not an unconditional response. Whether you want to believe it or not, you are doing it intentionally and you can control it. \nYou’re just to much of a b—— to do so.", ">\n\nSame to you", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a learned reaction. Not natural. I rarely of ever roll my eyes at anything.", ">", ">\n\nJust like raising your middle finger. Or vocalizing the sounds \"fuck you\". Or fingers typing the words fuck you OP. Nothing is disrespectful!", ">\n\nNice try but not the same thing at all. You're talking about thought out actions here. The eye roll is more like a reaction. Its quick, its automatic, no one has to think \"im rolling my eyes now\" it just happens. \nSort of like when telling a lie - no one decides to have their eyes dart around suspiciously, it just happens.", ">\n\nNo. Rolling your eyes is not involuntary. It can be controlled. You have a bad habit that you CAN stop. Much like a child learning not to suck their thumb, or biting your nails.", ">\n\nHow about you start with your hair scratching", ">\n\nYour opinion is a contradiction in itself. And, yeah. I disagree. Rolling your eyes is 100% to show lack of respect, and you have no intentions of showing it, even to reason, by rolling your eyes at something someone could believe is meaningful or important. Even if it is stupid.\nI get your point, we roll our eyes to express how we feel, but it is still a physical snare. You say rolling your eyes isn't disrespectful, while saying it's okay to roll your eyes because something is \" stupid or lame\", which in itself is disrespectful. You sound like a very young person in the middle of a learning moment, and you're trying to react with rebellion. It only shows that you lack maturity and are in need of growth. This might be a time for you to read these comments and reevaluate. There are healthier ways to react to things you disagree with, or lack interest in. If not, you can just accept that you roll your eyes to show lack of respect.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is much more deliberate than laughter, tears, or sneezing. It's a conscious action in response to a judgement you're making.", ">\n\nNah, dude it is disrespectful \nYou just have no self control and by the looks of it you don't want to build some", ">\n\nYour post made me roll my eyes very hard.", ">\n\n“No, officer, my wife - she MADE me hit her!”", ">\n\nIt's a natural reaction for a sooky kid but not an adult, if you do that as an adult you just manchild that wants everything their way", ">\n\npoor OP.... did you get in trouble after you rolled your eyes at something again? did you not prehaps learn from previous interactions? rolling your eyes at something \"stupid or lame\" is an intentional response that is disrespectful to whatever it is. mature people dont act that way.....", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes.\n\nSo it is disrespectful. \n\nIts like throwing pepper in someone's face an expecting them not to sneeze.\n\nNo it’s not. You can easily (edited in) refrain from rolling your eyes, while it’s much more difficult to refrain from sneezing. \nIt’s fine to think whatever you want, but you might want to refrain from rolling your eyes when you’re, say, interacting with your boss; aka someone that can make you unemployed for whatever reason they please.", ">\n\nThis isn't an opinion. It's just flat wrong. \nIt is disrespectful because it is a conscious signifier which clearly communicated that you think that the thing you are rolling your eyes at is not worthy of respect.", ">\n\nYou have to go out of your way to roll your eyes. It is NOT gutteral or instinctual", ">\n\nIf you annoy me, my arm whips out in a natural reaction and slaps you.", ">\n\nSorry, kiddo, it’s 100% disrespectful. Just own the shit and quit trying to lawyer around it.\nI say that after having rolled my eyes so hard at your post, I travelled back in time.", ">\n\nTell that to my family lol you get the belt", ">\n\nThis was made my a 15 year old who just got told off by their mom about rolling their eyes. Then in defense said, “I can’t control it”", ">\n\nMan it's getting so aggressive sometimes here 😂", ">\n\ni certainly hope you are embarrassed about this in a couple years when you grow up.", ">\n\nOP is a habitual eye roller 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄", ">\n\nI wish to God we could block people by age, no more edgy 13yo’s", ">\n\nSomebody just got their ps5 taken away for rolling their eyes", ">\n\nTell me you're 12 without telling me you're 12.", ">\n\nit’s the definition of disrespectful and a sign that you have literally nothing intelligent to say in return. \nwhich is why we outgrow it as adults.", ">\n\nYou can control it. It’s not an “automatic response” unless you’ve taught yourself to do it. I never roll my eyes. It’s just not something I have ever practiced doing. And yes…if I’m saying something too you and you dismiss it with an eye roll…it’s super disrespectful.", ">\n\nrolling your eyes is just as respectful as sticking your tongue out at someone or making a stupid face in reaction to something someone says", ">\n\nIf you can’t control your eye movement, you need to see a neurologist, dude 😆. As it stands, eye rolling isn’t a reflex or a “natural reaction” to anything. Habits aren’t the same as involuntary reactions.\nRolling your eyes at someone is disrespectful. It’s an outward sign that you think something about your interaction with them was stupid or wrong. There’s no one here that will agree with you, and you know that you’re in the vast minority with this opinion because you posted it on this sub. Now learn some humility and accept that your opinion is factually incorrect based on science.", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nAre you like 14 and your mom got you in trouble cause you rolled your eyes at her? Lmao", ">\n\nI’m gonna show your mom this and it’s going to be another week of being grounded, you little shit lol" ]
> OP I have to ask. How old are you? How is your relationship with your parents? How do you view authority figures in your life?	[ "🙄", ">\n\nYou’re grounded now", ">\n\nThe post above was someone getting electrocuted so this reply was very timely", ">\n\nThis news is shocking", ">\n\nIt definitely SPARKED my interest", ">\n\nAll of you guys need to leave, and not come back before learning how to conduct yourselves properly", ">\n\nUhhhh....... electricity", ">\n\nWell no, in the right context it is disrespectful. Rolling your eyes suggests that you're not taking the matter seriously or that you dont care which is a sign of disrespect towards whoever is speaking with you.", ">\n\nBut I can't control what I think. If I said \"man you're stupid and I don't care what you say\" thats disrespectful. I'm actually showing respect by not saying it.", ">\n\nI mean, actions speak louder than words, right?", ">\n\nIts not really an action tho its just an automatic response. Like gasping or yawning.", ">\n\nbullshit.\nSorry, it was an automatic response. Which is bullshit just like yours.", ">\n\nStill not the same thing. And they get on me for false analogies....", ">\n\nYou must be a teenager", ">\n\nLol how many times are you gonna post that. Dont you have an original thought of your own?", ">\n\nBruh I cant believe you make these posts. They're foolish", ">\n\nLaughing at someone can be disrespectful. Don't think so? Try laughing at someone's funeral.", ">\n\nThe disrespect comes from the one who told me a joke and made me laugh.", ">\n\nWhat about if no one said any joke? Because, you know, you are at a funeral.", ">\n\nSo someone's just there randomly laughing at shit? That sounds like a mental illness.", ">\n\nYou have never thought of something funny in your head to make yourself laugh? \nOr hell, maybe you didn't like the person who is buried and decided to laugh at them. You find it funny, so laughing must be appropriate, right?", ">\n\nWhy am I thinking about funny shit at a funeral.", ">\n\nBecause the universe likes to put us in uncomfortable positions sometimes.", ">\n\n“if its stupid or lame, you roll your eyes” - you found the disrespect", ">\n\nIm allowed to think whatever i want and its not disrespectful.", ">\n\nWhen you express contempt for something someone else said, it's disrespect.", ">\n\nWhat if what they said is contemptible?", ">\n\nSome people and comments deserve disrespect, still gonna be disrespect", ">\n\nLaughing, crying, and sneezing are all innate, involuntary reactions to certain types of stimuli. Rolling your eyes is a learned behavior. You can’t compare it to those other automatic responses because it’s not the same thing.", ">\n\nTake my upvote", ">\n\nOP rolled their eyes at someone and got chewed out for it.\nNow they're going online in an attempt to validate themselves.\n🙄", ">\n\nProbably got grounded.", ">\n\nPart of being a mature adult is to have self-control and not acting on every impulse and being respectful of people.", ">\n\n\nPart of being a mature adult\n\nYup but OP is clearly a teenager lol. They complain about being told off for doing chores wrong in another post…", ">\n\nEven a teenager should be able to have the fundamental basics of respect", ">\n\nOh I agree 100%", ">\n\nYou have poor self-control and poor self-awareness but the good news is that you can improve these things.", ">\n\n/r/wrongopinions", ">\n\nI feel like we need a new subreddit r/unpopularforareason", ">\n\nIt’s entire purpose is to be disrespectful. Nobody eyerolls something they respect. But how offensive it is depends on the context and how serious one is being.", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes\n\nYou rn: \"I'm not being disrespectful. I just thought what you said was stupid or lame.\"\n...", ">\n\nSaying its stupid could be disrespectful. A facial response is not.", ">\n\nLiterally every person in this thread agrees that it is.\nThis is your bad habit. Nobody else's responsibility but you.", ">\n\nThey can choose to not fly off the handle at what is just an innate reaction.", ">\n\nSo let me get this straight: you think you deserve to be able to disrespect whoever you like whenever you like but they can't as much as say you're being rude? Grow up.", ">\n\nFound the teenager.", ">\n\nMeh, I agree with that one. If you don't like how someone is doing something then do it yourself. There's a reason I live alone.", ">\n\nIt is a UNIVERSAL sign of disrespect. Globally. Deal with it.", ">\n\nLaughing can be disrespectuful too. If you cannot control your own reactions, well, what can I say, maybe you have not really grown up?", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s so it’s hard to control my own actions sometimes…", ">\n\nThank u I'm trying to explain how autism can make it hard to read not just others facial expressions but also ur own and it seems like no one has thought of the possibility that they acc don't realise it or csnt control it", ">\n\nWould you roll your eyes during a job interview if you thought a question was stupid or irrelevant? Do you think you’d get the job if you did?", ">\n\nPretty sure OP would think they were owed that job and they would think it’s ridiculous if they didn’t get it.\nOP is also a teenager going through their rebel phase though", ">\n\nYou're oddly specific here.", ">\n\nWhat was specific? Or rather oddly specific?", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a good way to fast track yourself to a divorce, if you want one.", ">\n\nI think OP needs the definition of respect before any further comment is made", ">\n\nOh I already know it, and I know it does not mean:\nDon't ever disagree with me\nDon't think bad thoughts about me\nDon't ever correct me when I'm blatantly wrong \nShine my boots with your tongue", ">\n\nSoooo this post isn’t about eye rolling is what I’m getting from this. You’ve got issues to work through with your parents or partner or something", ">\n\nSince when tf was eye rolling involuntary?", ">", ">\n\nYour lack of self control is not a justification for disrespect. I personally dont know anyone who reacts to anything by rolling their eyes. Just be mature and communicate.", ">\n\nAnd what if it's not stupid and someone rolls their eyes? Wouldn't it be disrespectful in that case?", ">\n\nIn the eye rollers opinion then it must have been. But you can't fault someone for thinking its stupid.", ">\n\nSo eyerolling is some kind of exceptional thing that is free from criticism? \nIf one has the freedom to eye roll, then someone else has the freedom to criticize the eye roller right? \nOr is it your opinion that besides that everyone who sees an eye roller has to just stfu", ">\n\nMeh, it is disrespectful. It's a way to be disrespectful without having to say That's the dumbest thing I've heard all month, and everyone else who heard it is also dumber for hearing it as well.", ">\n\nBut I didn't say it that's the point.", ">\n\nJust cuz you don’t use words doesn’t mean it’s not disrespectful. Walking away while someone is talking to you, rolling your eyes, slapping someone, and starting to play a game on your phone while someone is talking to you are all disrespectful. It doesn’t matter that you didn’t say anything, your lack of respect still showed.", ">\n\nespecially the way theyre responding to comments", ">\n\nYeah, a natural reaction if you’ve never learned to manage your emotions as opposed to letting them run your life. I’m not talking about being totally monotone rational, either. You need to learn a balance between rational and emotional…which includes healthy, appropriate, respectful expression of honest feelings. Eye rolling is absolutely disrespectful, belittling, and dismissive.", ">\n\nComments: OP is completely wrong and has attitude issues", ">\n\nWhat sounds like mental illness is you refusing to admit that rolling your eyes is simply not an unconditional response. Whether you want to believe it or not, you are doing it intentionally and you can control it. \nYou’re just to much of a b—— to do so.", ">\n\nSame to you", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a learned reaction. Not natural. I rarely of ever roll my eyes at anything.", ">", ">\n\nJust like raising your middle finger. Or vocalizing the sounds \"fuck you\". Or fingers typing the words fuck you OP. Nothing is disrespectful!", ">\n\nNice try but not the same thing at all. You're talking about thought out actions here. The eye roll is more like a reaction. Its quick, its automatic, no one has to think \"im rolling my eyes now\" it just happens. \nSort of like when telling a lie - no one decides to have their eyes dart around suspiciously, it just happens.", ">\n\nNo. Rolling your eyes is not involuntary. It can be controlled. You have a bad habit that you CAN stop. Much like a child learning not to suck their thumb, or biting your nails.", ">\n\nHow about you start with your hair scratching", ">\n\nYour opinion is a contradiction in itself. And, yeah. I disagree. Rolling your eyes is 100% to show lack of respect, and you have no intentions of showing it, even to reason, by rolling your eyes at something someone could believe is meaningful or important. Even if it is stupid.\nI get your point, we roll our eyes to express how we feel, but it is still a physical snare. You say rolling your eyes isn't disrespectful, while saying it's okay to roll your eyes because something is \" stupid or lame\", which in itself is disrespectful. You sound like a very young person in the middle of a learning moment, and you're trying to react with rebellion. It only shows that you lack maturity and are in need of growth. This might be a time for you to read these comments and reevaluate. There are healthier ways to react to things you disagree with, or lack interest in. If not, you can just accept that you roll your eyes to show lack of respect.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is much more deliberate than laughter, tears, or sneezing. It's a conscious action in response to a judgement you're making.", ">\n\nNah, dude it is disrespectful \nYou just have no self control and by the looks of it you don't want to build some", ">\n\nYour post made me roll my eyes very hard.", ">\n\n“No, officer, my wife - she MADE me hit her!”", ">\n\nIt's a natural reaction for a sooky kid but not an adult, if you do that as an adult you just manchild that wants everything their way", ">\n\npoor OP.... did you get in trouble after you rolled your eyes at something again? did you not prehaps learn from previous interactions? rolling your eyes at something \"stupid or lame\" is an intentional response that is disrespectful to whatever it is. mature people dont act that way.....", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes.\n\nSo it is disrespectful. \n\nIts like throwing pepper in someone's face an expecting them not to sneeze.\n\nNo it’s not. You can easily (edited in) refrain from rolling your eyes, while it’s much more difficult to refrain from sneezing. \nIt’s fine to think whatever you want, but you might want to refrain from rolling your eyes when you’re, say, interacting with your boss; aka someone that can make you unemployed for whatever reason they please.", ">\n\nThis isn't an opinion. It's just flat wrong. \nIt is disrespectful because it is a conscious signifier which clearly communicated that you think that the thing you are rolling your eyes at is not worthy of respect.", ">\n\nYou have to go out of your way to roll your eyes. It is NOT gutteral or instinctual", ">\n\nIf you annoy me, my arm whips out in a natural reaction and slaps you.", ">\n\nSorry, kiddo, it’s 100% disrespectful. Just own the shit and quit trying to lawyer around it.\nI say that after having rolled my eyes so hard at your post, I travelled back in time.", ">\n\nTell that to my family lol you get the belt", ">\n\nThis was made my a 15 year old who just got told off by their mom about rolling their eyes. Then in defense said, “I can’t control it”", ">\n\nMan it's getting so aggressive sometimes here 😂", ">\n\ni certainly hope you are embarrassed about this in a couple years when you grow up.", ">\n\nOP is a habitual eye roller 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄", ">\n\nI wish to God we could block people by age, no more edgy 13yo’s", ">\n\nSomebody just got their ps5 taken away for rolling their eyes", ">\n\nTell me you're 12 without telling me you're 12.", ">\n\nit’s the definition of disrespectful and a sign that you have literally nothing intelligent to say in return. \nwhich is why we outgrow it as adults.", ">\n\nYou can control it. It’s not an “automatic response” unless you’ve taught yourself to do it. I never roll my eyes. It’s just not something I have ever practiced doing. And yes…if I’m saying something too you and you dismiss it with an eye roll…it’s super disrespectful.", ">\n\nrolling your eyes is just as respectful as sticking your tongue out at someone or making a stupid face in reaction to something someone says", ">\n\nIf you can’t control your eye movement, you need to see a neurologist, dude 😆. As it stands, eye rolling isn’t a reflex or a “natural reaction” to anything. Habits aren’t the same as involuntary reactions.\nRolling your eyes at someone is disrespectful. It’s an outward sign that you think something about your interaction with them was stupid or wrong. There’s no one here that will agree with you, and you know that you’re in the vast minority with this opinion because you posted it on this sub. Now learn some humility and accept that your opinion is factually incorrect based on science.", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nAre you like 14 and your mom got you in trouble cause you rolled your eyes at her? Lmao", ">\n\nI’m gonna show your mom this and it’s going to be another week of being grounded, you little shit lol", ">\n\nOmfg 😂" ]
> rolls eyes	[ "🙄", ">\n\nYou’re grounded now", ">\n\nThe post above was someone getting electrocuted so this reply was very timely", ">\n\nThis news is shocking", ">\n\nIt definitely SPARKED my interest", ">\n\nAll of you guys need to leave, and not come back before learning how to conduct yourselves properly", ">\n\nUhhhh....... electricity", ">\n\nWell no, in the right context it is disrespectful. Rolling your eyes suggests that you're not taking the matter seriously or that you dont care which is a sign of disrespect towards whoever is speaking with you.", ">\n\nBut I can't control what I think. If I said \"man you're stupid and I don't care what you say\" thats disrespectful. I'm actually showing respect by not saying it.", ">\n\nI mean, actions speak louder than words, right?", ">\n\nIts not really an action tho its just an automatic response. Like gasping or yawning.", ">\n\nbullshit.\nSorry, it was an automatic response. Which is bullshit just like yours.", ">\n\nStill not the same thing. And they get on me for false analogies....", ">\n\nYou must be a teenager", ">\n\nLol how many times are you gonna post that. Dont you have an original thought of your own?", ">\n\nBruh I cant believe you make these posts. They're foolish", ">\n\nLaughing at someone can be disrespectful. Don't think so? Try laughing at someone's funeral.", ">\n\nThe disrespect comes from the one who told me a joke and made me laugh.", ">\n\nWhat about if no one said any joke? Because, you know, you are at a funeral.", ">\n\nSo someone's just there randomly laughing at shit? That sounds like a mental illness.", ">\n\nYou have never thought of something funny in your head to make yourself laugh? \nOr hell, maybe you didn't like the person who is buried and decided to laugh at them. You find it funny, so laughing must be appropriate, right?", ">\n\nWhy am I thinking about funny shit at a funeral.", ">\n\nBecause the universe likes to put us in uncomfortable positions sometimes.", ">\n\n“if its stupid or lame, you roll your eyes” - you found the disrespect", ">\n\nIm allowed to think whatever i want and its not disrespectful.", ">\n\nWhen you express contempt for something someone else said, it's disrespect.", ">\n\nWhat if what they said is contemptible?", ">\n\nSome people and comments deserve disrespect, still gonna be disrespect", ">\n\nLaughing, crying, and sneezing are all innate, involuntary reactions to certain types of stimuli. Rolling your eyes is a learned behavior. You can’t compare it to those other automatic responses because it’s not the same thing.", ">\n\nTake my upvote", ">\n\nOP rolled their eyes at someone and got chewed out for it.\nNow they're going online in an attempt to validate themselves.\n🙄", ">\n\nProbably got grounded.", ">\n\nPart of being a mature adult is to have self-control and not acting on every impulse and being respectful of people.", ">\n\n\nPart of being a mature adult\n\nYup but OP is clearly a teenager lol. They complain about being told off for doing chores wrong in another post…", ">\n\nEven a teenager should be able to have the fundamental basics of respect", ">\n\nOh I agree 100%", ">\n\nYou have poor self-control and poor self-awareness but the good news is that you can improve these things.", ">\n\n/r/wrongopinions", ">\n\nI feel like we need a new subreddit r/unpopularforareason", ">\n\nIt’s entire purpose is to be disrespectful. Nobody eyerolls something they respect. But how offensive it is depends on the context and how serious one is being.", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes\n\nYou rn: \"I'm not being disrespectful. I just thought what you said was stupid or lame.\"\n...", ">\n\nSaying its stupid could be disrespectful. A facial response is not.", ">\n\nLiterally every person in this thread agrees that it is.\nThis is your bad habit. Nobody else's responsibility but you.", ">\n\nThey can choose to not fly off the handle at what is just an innate reaction.", ">\n\nSo let me get this straight: you think you deserve to be able to disrespect whoever you like whenever you like but they can't as much as say you're being rude? Grow up.", ">\n\nFound the teenager.", ">\n\nMeh, I agree with that one. If you don't like how someone is doing something then do it yourself. There's a reason I live alone.", ">\n\nIt is a UNIVERSAL sign of disrespect. Globally. Deal with it.", ">\n\nLaughing can be disrespectuful too. If you cannot control your own reactions, well, what can I say, maybe you have not really grown up?", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s so it’s hard to control my own actions sometimes…", ">\n\nThank u I'm trying to explain how autism can make it hard to read not just others facial expressions but also ur own and it seems like no one has thought of the possibility that they acc don't realise it or csnt control it", ">\n\nWould you roll your eyes during a job interview if you thought a question was stupid or irrelevant? Do you think you’d get the job if you did?", ">\n\nPretty sure OP would think they were owed that job and they would think it’s ridiculous if they didn’t get it.\nOP is also a teenager going through their rebel phase though", ">\n\nYou're oddly specific here.", ">\n\nWhat was specific? Or rather oddly specific?", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a good way to fast track yourself to a divorce, if you want one.", ">\n\nI think OP needs the definition of respect before any further comment is made", ">\n\nOh I already know it, and I know it does not mean:\nDon't ever disagree with me\nDon't think bad thoughts about me\nDon't ever correct me when I'm blatantly wrong \nShine my boots with your tongue", ">\n\nSoooo this post isn’t about eye rolling is what I’m getting from this. You’ve got issues to work through with your parents or partner or something", ">\n\nSince when tf was eye rolling involuntary?", ">", ">\n\nYour lack of self control is not a justification for disrespect. I personally dont know anyone who reacts to anything by rolling their eyes. Just be mature and communicate.", ">\n\nAnd what if it's not stupid and someone rolls their eyes? Wouldn't it be disrespectful in that case?", ">\n\nIn the eye rollers opinion then it must have been. But you can't fault someone for thinking its stupid.", ">\n\nSo eyerolling is some kind of exceptional thing that is free from criticism? \nIf one has the freedom to eye roll, then someone else has the freedom to criticize the eye roller right? \nOr is it your opinion that besides that everyone who sees an eye roller has to just stfu", ">\n\nMeh, it is disrespectful. It's a way to be disrespectful without having to say That's the dumbest thing I've heard all month, and everyone else who heard it is also dumber for hearing it as well.", ">\n\nBut I didn't say it that's the point.", ">\n\nJust cuz you don’t use words doesn’t mean it’s not disrespectful. Walking away while someone is talking to you, rolling your eyes, slapping someone, and starting to play a game on your phone while someone is talking to you are all disrespectful. It doesn’t matter that you didn’t say anything, your lack of respect still showed.", ">\n\nespecially the way theyre responding to comments", ">\n\nYeah, a natural reaction if you’ve never learned to manage your emotions as opposed to letting them run your life. I’m not talking about being totally monotone rational, either. You need to learn a balance between rational and emotional…which includes healthy, appropriate, respectful expression of honest feelings. Eye rolling is absolutely disrespectful, belittling, and dismissive.", ">\n\nComments: OP is completely wrong and has attitude issues", ">\n\nWhat sounds like mental illness is you refusing to admit that rolling your eyes is simply not an unconditional response. Whether you want to believe it or not, you are doing it intentionally and you can control it. \nYou’re just to much of a b—— to do so.", ">\n\nSame to you", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a learned reaction. Not natural. I rarely of ever roll my eyes at anything.", ">", ">\n\nJust like raising your middle finger. Or vocalizing the sounds \"fuck you\". Or fingers typing the words fuck you OP. Nothing is disrespectful!", ">\n\nNice try but not the same thing at all. You're talking about thought out actions here. The eye roll is more like a reaction. Its quick, its automatic, no one has to think \"im rolling my eyes now\" it just happens. \nSort of like when telling a lie - no one decides to have their eyes dart around suspiciously, it just happens.", ">\n\nNo. Rolling your eyes is not involuntary. It can be controlled. You have a bad habit that you CAN stop. Much like a child learning not to suck their thumb, or biting your nails.", ">\n\nHow about you start with your hair scratching", ">\n\nYour opinion is a contradiction in itself. And, yeah. I disagree. Rolling your eyes is 100% to show lack of respect, and you have no intentions of showing it, even to reason, by rolling your eyes at something someone could believe is meaningful or important. Even if it is stupid.\nI get your point, we roll our eyes to express how we feel, but it is still a physical snare. You say rolling your eyes isn't disrespectful, while saying it's okay to roll your eyes because something is \" stupid or lame\", which in itself is disrespectful. You sound like a very young person in the middle of a learning moment, and you're trying to react with rebellion. It only shows that you lack maturity and are in need of growth. This might be a time for you to read these comments and reevaluate. There are healthier ways to react to things you disagree with, or lack interest in. If not, you can just accept that you roll your eyes to show lack of respect.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is much more deliberate than laughter, tears, or sneezing. It's a conscious action in response to a judgement you're making.", ">\n\nNah, dude it is disrespectful \nYou just have no self control and by the looks of it you don't want to build some", ">\n\nYour post made me roll my eyes very hard.", ">\n\n“No, officer, my wife - she MADE me hit her!”", ">\n\nIt's a natural reaction for a sooky kid but not an adult, if you do that as an adult you just manchild that wants everything their way", ">\n\npoor OP.... did you get in trouble after you rolled your eyes at something again? did you not prehaps learn from previous interactions? rolling your eyes at something \"stupid or lame\" is an intentional response that is disrespectful to whatever it is. mature people dont act that way.....", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes.\n\nSo it is disrespectful. \n\nIts like throwing pepper in someone's face an expecting them not to sneeze.\n\nNo it’s not. You can easily (edited in) refrain from rolling your eyes, while it’s much more difficult to refrain from sneezing. \nIt’s fine to think whatever you want, but you might want to refrain from rolling your eyes when you’re, say, interacting with your boss; aka someone that can make you unemployed for whatever reason they please.", ">\n\nThis isn't an opinion. It's just flat wrong. \nIt is disrespectful because it is a conscious signifier which clearly communicated that you think that the thing you are rolling your eyes at is not worthy of respect.", ">\n\nYou have to go out of your way to roll your eyes. It is NOT gutteral or instinctual", ">\n\nIf you annoy me, my arm whips out in a natural reaction and slaps you.", ">\n\nSorry, kiddo, it’s 100% disrespectful. Just own the shit and quit trying to lawyer around it.\nI say that after having rolled my eyes so hard at your post, I travelled back in time.", ">\n\nTell that to my family lol you get the belt", ">\n\nThis was made my a 15 year old who just got told off by their mom about rolling their eyes. Then in defense said, “I can’t control it”", ">\n\nMan it's getting so aggressive sometimes here 😂", ">\n\ni certainly hope you are embarrassed about this in a couple years when you grow up.", ">\n\nOP is a habitual eye roller 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄", ">\n\nI wish to God we could block people by age, no more edgy 13yo’s", ">\n\nSomebody just got their ps5 taken away for rolling their eyes", ">\n\nTell me you're 12 without telling me you're 12.", ">\n\nit’s the definition of disrespectful and a sign that you have literally nothing intelligent to say in return. \nwhich is why we outgrow it as adults.", ">\n\nYou can control it. It’s not an “automatic response” unless you’ve taught yourself to do it. I never roll my eyes. It’s just not something I have ever practiced doing. And yes…if I’m saying something too you and you dismiss it with an eye roll…it’s super disrespectful.", ">\n\nrolling your eyes is just as respectful as sticking your tongue out at someone or making a stupid face in reaction to something someone says", ">\n\nIf you can’t control your eye movement, you need to see a neurologist, dude 😆. As it stands, eye rolling isn’t a reflex or a “natural reaction” to anything. Habits aren’t the same as involuntary reactions.\nRolling your eyes at someone is disrespectful. It’s an outward sign that you think something about your interaction with them was stupid or wrong. There’s no one here that will agree with you, and you know that you’re in the vast minority with this opinion because you posted it on this sub. Now learn some humility and accept that your opinion is factually incorrect based on science.", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nAre you like 14 and your mom got you in trouble cause you rolled your eyes at her? Lmao", ">\n\nI’m gonna show your mom this and it’s going to be another week of being grounded, you little shit lol", ">\n\nOmfg 😂", ">\n\nOP I have to ask.\n\n\nHow old are you?\n\n\nHow is your relationship with your parents?\n\n\nHow do you view authority figures in your life?" ]
> If you say or demand something stupid from me I will probably roll my eyes.	[ "🙄", ">\n\nYou’re grounded now", ">\n\nThe post above was someone getting electrocuted so this reply was very timely", ">\n\nThis news is shocking", ">\n\nIt definitely SPARKED my interest", ">\n\nAll of you guys need to leave, and not come back before learning how to conduct yourselves properly", ">\n\nUhhhh....... electricity", ">\n\nWell no, in the right context it is disrespectful. Rolling your eyes suggests that you're not taking the matter seriously or that you dont care which is a sign of disrespect towards whoever is speaking with you.", ">\n\nBut I can't control what I think. If I said \"man you're stupid and I don't care what you say\" thats disrespectful. I'm actually showing respect by not saying it.", ">\n\nI mean, actions speak louder than words, right?", ">\n\nIts not really an action tho its just an automatic response. Like gasping or yawning.", ">\n\nbullshit.\nSorry, it was an automatic response. Which is bullshit just like yours.", ">\n\nStill not the same thing. And they get on me for false analogies....", ">\n\nYou must be a teenager", ">\n\nLol how many times are you gonna post that. Dont you have an original thought of your own?", ">\n\nBruh I cant believe you make these posts. They're foolish", ">\n\nLaughing at someone can be disrespectful. Don't think so? Try laughing at someone's funeral.", ">\n\nThe disrespect comes from the one who told me a joke and made me laugh.", ">\n\nWhat about if no one said any joke? Because, you know, you are at a funeral.", ">\n\nSo someone's just there randomly laughing at shit? That sounds like a mental illness.", ">\n\nYou have never thought of something funny in your head to make yourself laugh? \nOr hell, maybe you didn't like the person who is buried and decided to laugh at them. You find it funny, so laughing must be appropriate, right?", ">\n\nWhy am I thinking about funny shit at a funeral.", ">\n\nBecause the universe likes to put us in uncomfortable positions sometimes.", ">\n\n“if its stupid or lame, you roll your eyes” - you found the disrespect", ">\n\nIm allowed to think whatever i want and its not disrespectful.", ">\n\nWhen you express contempt for something someone else said, it's disrespect.", ">\n\nWhat if what they said is contemptible?", ">\n\nSome people and comments deserve disrespect, still gonna be disrespect", ">\n\nLaughing, crying, and sneezing are all innate, involuntary reactions to certain types of stimuli. Rolling your eyes is a learned behavior. You can’t compare it to those other automatic responses because it’s not the same thing.", ">\n\nTake my upvote", ">\n\nOP rolled their eyes at someone and got chewed out for it.\nNow they're going online in an attempt to validate themselves.\n🙄", ">\n\nProbably got grounded.", ">\n\nPart of being a mature adult is to have self-control and not acting on every impulse and being respectful of people.", ">\n\n\nPart of being a mature adult\n\nYup but OP is clearly a teenager lol. They complain about being told off for doing chores wrong in another post…", ">\n\nEven a teenager should be able to have the fundamental basics of respect", ">\n\nOh I agree 100%", ">\n\nYou have poor self-control and poor self-awareness but the good news is that you can improve these things.", ">\n\n/r/wrongopinions", ">\n\nI feel like we need a new subreddit r/unpopularforareason", ">\n\nIt’s entire purpose is to be disrespectful. Nobody eyerolls something they respect. But how offensive it is depends on the context and how serious one is being.", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes\n\nYou rn: \"I'm not being disrespectful. I just thought what you said was stupid or lame.\"\n...", ">\n\nSaying its stupid could be disrespectful. A facial response is not.", ">\n\nLiterally every person in this thread agrees that it is.\nThis is your bad habit. Nobody else's responsibility but you.", ">\n\nThey can choose to not fly off the handle at what is just an innate reaction.", ">\n\nSo let me get this straight: you think you deserve to be able to disrespect whoever you like whenever you like but they can't as much as say you're being rude? Grow up.", ">\n\nFound the teenager.", ">\n\nMeh, I agree with that one. If you don't like how someone is doing something then do it yourself. There's a reason I live alone.", ">\n\nIt is a UNIVERSAL sign of disrespect. Globally. Deal with it.", ">\n\nLaughing can be disrespectuful too. If you cannot control your own reactions, well, what can I say, maybe you have not really grown up?", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s so it’s hard to control my own actions sometimes…", ">\n\nThank u I'm trying to explain how autism can make it hard to read not just others facial expressions but also ur own and it seems like no one has thought of the possibility that they acc don't realise it or csnt control it", ">\n\nWould you roll your eyes during a job interview if you thought a question was stupid or irrelevant? Do you think you’d get the job if you did?", ">\n\nPretty sure OP would think they were owed that job and they would think it’s ridiculous if they didn’t get it.\nOP is also a teenager going through their rebel phase though", ">\n\nYou're oddly specific here.", ">\n\nWhat was specific? Or rather oddly specific?", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a good way to fast track yourself to a divorce, if you want one.", ">\n\nI think OP needs the definition of respect before any further comment is made", ">\n\nOh I already know it, and I know it does not mean:\nDon't ever disagree with me\nDon't think bad thoughts about me\nDon't ever correct me when I'm blatantly wrong \nShine my boots with your tongue", ">\n\nSoooo this post isn’t about eye rolling is what I’m getting from this. You’ve got issues to work through with your parents or partner or something", ">\n\nSince when tf was eye rolling involuntary?", ">", ">\n\nYour lack of self control is not a justification for disrespect. I personally dont know anyone who reacts to anything by rolling their eyes. Just be mature and communicate.", ">\n\nAnd what if it's not stupid and someone rolls their eyes? Wouldn't it be disrespectful in that case?", ">\n\nIn the eye rollers opinion then it must have been. But you can't fault someone for thinking its stupid.", ">\n\nSo eyerolling is some kind of exceptional thing that is free from criticism? \nIf one has the freedom to eye roll, then someone else has the freedom to criticize the eye roller right? \nOr is it your opinion that besides that everyone who sees an eye roller has to just stfu", ">\n\nMeh, it is disrespectful. It's a way to be disrespectful without having to say That's the dumbest thing I've heard all month, and everyone else who heard it is also dumber for hearing it as well.", ">\n\nBut I didn't say it that's the point.", ">\n\nJust cuz you don’t use words doesn’t mean it’s not disrespectful. Walking away while someone is talking to you, rolling your eyes, slapping someone, and starting to play a game on your phone while someone is talking to you are all disrespectful. It doesn’t matter that you didn’t say anything, your lack of respect still showed.", ">\n\nespecially the way theyre responding to comments", ">\n\nYeah, a natural reaction if you’ve never learned to manage your emotions as opposed to letting them run your life. I’m not talking about being totally monotone rational, either. You need to learn a balance between rational and emotional…which includes healthy, appropriate, respectful expression of honest feelings. Eye rolling is absolutely disrespectful, belittling, and dismissive.", ">\n\nComments: OP is completely wrong and has attitude issues", ">\n\nWhat sounds like mental illness is you refusing to admit that rolling your eyes is simply not an unconditional response. Whether you want to believe it or not, you are doing it intentionally and you can control it. \nYou’re just to much of a b—— to do so.", ">\n\nSame to you", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a learned reaction. Not natural. I rarely of ever roll my eyes at anything.", ">", ">\n\nJust like raising your middle finger. Or vocalizing the sounds \"fuck you\". Or fingers typing the words fuck you OP. Nothing is disrespectful!", ">\n\nNice try but not the same thing at all. You're talking about thought out actions here. The eye roll is more like a reaction. Its quick, its automatic, no one has to think \"im rolling my eyes now\" it just happens. \nSort of like when telling a lie - no one decides to have their eyes dart around suspiciously, it just happens.", ">\n\nNo. Rolling your eyes is not involuntary. It can be controlled. You have a bad habit that you CAN stop. Much like a child learning not to suck their thumb, or biting your nails.", ">\n\nHow about you start with your hair scratching", ">\n\nYour opinion is a contradiction in itself. And, yeah. I disagree. Rolling your eyes is 100% to show lack of respect, and you have no intentions of showing it, even to reason, by rolling your eyes at something someone could believe is meaningful or important. Even if it is stupid.\nI get your point, we roll our eyes to express how we feel, but it is still a physical snare. You say rolling your eyes isn't disrespectful, while saying it's okay to roll your eyes because something is \" stupid or lame\", which in itself is disrespectful. You sound like a very young person in the middle of a learning moment, and you're trying to react with rebellion. It only shows that you lack maturity and are in need of growth. This might be a time for you to read these comments and reevaluate. There are healthier ways to react to things you disagree with, or lack interest in. If not, you can just accept that you roll your eyes to show lack of respect.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is much more deliberate than laughter, tears, or sneezing. It's a conscious action in response to a judgement you're making.", ">\n\nNah, dude it is disrespectful \nYou just have no self control and by the looks of it you don't want to build some", ">\n\nYour post made me roll my eyes very hard.", ">\n\n“No, officer, my wife - she MADE me hit her!”", ">\n\nIt's a natural reaction for a sooky kid but not an adult, if you do that as an adult you just manchild that wants everything their way", ">\n\npoor OP.... did you get in trouble after you rolled your eyes at something again? did you not prehaps learn from previous interactions? rolling your eyes at something \"stupid or lame\" is an intentional response that is disrespectful to whatever it is. mature people dont act that way.....", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes.\n\nSo it is disrespectful. \n\nIts like throwing pepper in someone's face an expecting them not to sneeze.\n\nNo it’s not. You can easily (edited in) refrain from rolling your eyes, while it’s much more difficult to refrain from sneezing. \nIt’s fine to think whatever you want, but you might want to refrain from rolling your eyes when you’re, say, interacting with your boss; aka someone that can make you unemployed for whatever reason they please.", ">\n\nThis isn't an opinion. It's just flat wrong. \nIt is disrespectful because it is a conscious signifier which clearly communicated that you think that the thing you are rolling your eyes at is not worthy of respect.", ">\n\nYou have to go out of your way to roll your eyes. It is NOT gutteral or instinctual", ">\n\nIf you annoy me, my arm whips out in a natural reaction and slaps you.", ">\n\nSorry, kiddo, it’s 100% disrespectful. Just own the shit and quit trying to lawyer around it.\nI say that after having rolled my eyes so hard at your post, I travelled back in time.", ">\n\nTell that to my family lol you get the belt", ">\n\nThis was made my a 15 year old who just got told off by their mom about rolling their eyes. Then in defense said, “I can’t control it”", ">\n\nMan it's getting so aggressive sometimes here 😂", ">\n\ni certainly hope you are embarrassed about this in a couple years when you grow up.", ">\n\nOP is a habitual eye roller 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄", ">\n\nI wish to God we could block people by age, no more edgy 13yo’s", ">\n\nSomebody just got their ps5 taken away for rolling their eyes", ">\n\nTell me you're 12 without telling me you're 12.", ">\n\nit’s the definition of disrespectful and a sign that you have literally nothing intelligent to say in return. \nwhich is why we outgrow it as adults.", ">\n\nYou can control it. It’s not an “automatic response” unless you’ve taught yourself to do it. I never roll my eyes. It’s just not something I have ever practiced doing. And yes…if I’m saying something too you and you dismiss it with an eye roll…it’s super disrespectful.", ">\n\nrolling your eyes is just as respectful as sticking your tongue out at someone or making a stupid face in reaction to something someone says", ">\n\nIf you can’t control your eye movement, you need to see a neurologist, dude 😆. As it stands, eye rolling isn’t a reflex or a “natural reaction” to anything. Habits aren’t the same as involuntary reactions.\nRolling your eyes at someone is disrespectful. It’s an outward sign that you think something about your interaction with them was stupid or wrong. There’s no one here that will agree with you, and you know that you’re in the vast minority with this opinion because you posted it on this sub. Now learn some humility and accept that your opinion is factually incorrect based on science.", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nAre you like 14 and your mom got you in trouble cause you rolled your eyes at her? Lmao", ">\n\nI’m gonna show your mom this and it’s going to be another week of being grounded, you little shit lol", ">\n\nOmfg 😂", ">\n\nOP I have to ask.\n\n\nHow old are you?\n\n\nHow is your relationship with your parents?\n\n\nHow do you view authority figures in your life?", ">\n\nrolls eyes" ]
> But it is	[ "🙄", ">\n\nYou’re grounded now", ">\n\nThe post above was someone getting electrocuted so this reply was very timely", ">\n\nThis news is shocking", ">\n\nIt definitely SPARKED my interest", ">\n\nAll of you guys need to leave, and not come back before learning how to conduct yourselves properly", ">\n\nUhhhh....... electricity", ">\n\nWell no, in the right context it is disrespectful. Rolling your eyes suggests that you're not taking the matter seriously or that you dont care which is a sign of disrespect towards whoever is speaking with you.", ">\n\nBut I can't control what I think. If I said \"man you're stupid and I don't care what you say\" thats disrespectful. I'm actually showing respect by not saying it.", ">\n\nI mean, actions speak louder than words, right?", ">\n\nIts not really an action tho its just an automatic response. Like gasping or yawning.", ">\n\nbullshit.\nSorry, it was an automatic response. Which is bullshit just like yours.", ">\n\nStill not the same thing. And they get on me for false analogies....", ">\n\nYou must be a teenager", ">\n\nLol how many times are you gonna post that. Dont you have an original thought of your own?", ">\n\nBruh I cant believe you make these posts. They're foolish", ">\n\nLaughing at someone can be disrespectful. Don't think so? Try laughing at someone's funeral.", ">\n\nThe disrespect comes from the one who told me a joke and made me laugh.", ">\n\nWhat about if no one said any joke? Because, you know, you are at a funeral.", ">\n\nSo someone's just there randomly laughing at shit? That sounds like a mental illness.", ">\n\nYou have never thought of something funny in your head to make yourself laugh? \nOr hell, maybe you didn't like the person who is buried and decided to laugh at them. You find it funny, so laughing must be appropriate, right?", ">\n\nWhy am I thinking about funny shit at a funeral.", ">\n\nBecause the universe likes to put us in uncomfortable positions sometimes.", ">\n\n“if its stupid or lame, you roll your eyes” - you found the disrespect", ">\n\nIm allowed to think whatever i want and its not disrespectful.", ">\n\nWhen you express contempt for something someone else said, it's disrespect.", ">\n\nWhat if what they said is contemptible?", ">\n\nSome people and comments deserve disrespect, still gonna be disrespect", ">\n\nLaughing, crying, and sneezing are all innate, involuntary reactions to certain types of stimuli. Rolling your eyes is a learned behavior. You can’t compare it to those other automatic responses because it’s not the same thing.", ">\n\nTake my upvote", ">\n\nOP rolled their eyes at someone and got chewed out for it.\nNow they're going online in an attempt to validate themselves.\n🙄", ">\n\nProbably got grounded.", ">\n\nPart of being a mature adult is to have self-control and not acting on every impulse and being respectful of people.", ">\n\n\nPart of being a mature adult\n\nYup but OP is clearly a teenager lol. They complain about being told off for doing chores wrong in another post…", ">\n\nEven a teenager should be able to have the fundamental basics of respect", ">\n\nOh I agree 100%", ">\n\nYou have poor self-control and poor self-awareness but the good news is that you can improve these things.", ">\n\n/r/wrongopinions", ">\n\nI feel like we need a new subreddit r/unpopularforareason", ">\n\nIt’s entire purpose is to be disrespectful. Nobody eyerolls something they respect. But how offensive it is depends on the context and how serious one is being.", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes\n\nYou rn: \"I'm not being disrespectful. I just thought what you said was stupid or lame.\"\n...", ">\n\nSaying its stupid could be disrespectful. A facial response is not.", ">\n\nLiterally every person in this thread agrees that it is.\nThis is your bad habit. Nobody else's responsibility but you.", ">\n\nThey can choose to not fly off the handle at what is just an innate reaction.", ">\n\nSo let me get this straight: you think you deserve to be able to disrespect whoever you like whenever you like but they can't as much as say you're being rude? Grow up.", ">\n\nFound the teenager.", ">\n\nMeh, I agree with that one. If you don't like how someone is doing something then do it yourself. There's a reason I live alone.", ">\n\nIt is a UNIVERSAL sign of disrespect. Globally. Deal with it.", ">\n\nLaughing can be disrespectuful too. If you cannot control your own reactions, well, what can I say, maybe you have not really grown up?", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s so it’s hard to control my own actions sometimes…", ">\n\nThank u I'm trying to explain how autism can make it hard to read not just others facial expressions but also ur own and it seems like no one has thought of the possibility that they acc don't realise it or csnt control it", ">\n\nWould you roll your eyes during a job interview if you thought a question was stupid or irrelevant? Do you think you’d get the job if you did?", ">\n\nPretty sure OP would think they were owed that job and they would think it’s ridiculous if they didn’t get it.\nOP is also a teenager going through their rebel phase though", ">\n\nYou're oddly specific here.", ">\n\nWhat was specific? Or rather oddly specific?", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a good way to fast track yourself to a divorce, if you want one.", ">\n\nI think OP needs the definition of respect before any further comment is made", ">\n\nOh I already know it, and I know it does not mean:\nDon't ever disagree with me\nDon't think bad thoughts about me\nDon't ever correct me when I'm blatantly wrong \nShine my boots with your tongue", ">\n\nSoooo this post isn’t about eye rolling is what I’m getting from this. You’ve got issues to work through with your parents or partner or something", ">\n\nSince when tf was eye rolling involuntary?", ">", ">\n\nYour lack of self control is not a justification for disrespect. I personally dont know anyone who reacts to anything by rolling their eyes. Just be mature and communicate.", ">\n\nAnd what if it's not stupid and someone rolls their eyes? Wouldn't it be disrespectful in that case?", ">\n\nIn the eye rollers opinion then it must have been. But you can't fault someone for thinking its stupid.", ">\n\nSo eyerolling is some kind of exceptional thing that is free from criticism? \nIf one has the freedom to eye roll, then someone else has the freedom to criticize the eye roller right? \nOr is it your opinion that besides that everyone who sees an eye roller has to just stfu", ">\n\nMeh, it is disrespectful. It's a way to be disrespectful without having to say That's the dumbest thing I've heard all month, and everyone else who heard it is also dumber for hearing it as well.", ">\n\nBut I didn't say it that's the point.", ">\n\nJust cuz you don’t use words doesn’t mean it’s not disrespectful. Walking away while someone is talking to you, rolling your eyes, slapping someone, and starting to play a game on your phone while someone is talking to you are all disrespectful. It doesn’t matter that you didn’t say anything, your lack of respect still showed.", ">\n\nespecially the way theyre responding to comments", ">\n\nYeah, a natural reaction if you’ve never learned to manage your emotions as opposed to letting them run your life. I’m not talking about being totally monotone rational, either. You need to learn a balance between rational and emotional…which includes healthy, appropriate, respectful expression of honest feelings. Eye rolling is absolutely disrespectful, belittling, and dismissive.", ">\n\nComments: OP is completely wrong and has attitude issues", ">\n\nWhat sounds like mental illness is you refusing to admit that rolling your eyes is simply not an unconditional response. Whether you want to believe it or not, you are doing it intentionally and you can control it. \nYou’re just to much of a b—— to do so.", ">\n\nSame to you", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a learned reaction. Not natural. I rarely of ever roll my eyes at anything.", ">", ">\n\nJust like raising your middle finger. Or vocalizing the sounds \"fuck you\". Or fingers typing the words fuck you OP. Nothing is disrespectful!", ">\n\nNice try but not the same thing at all. You're talking about thought out actions here. The eye roll is more like a reaction. Its quick, its automatic, no one has to think \"im rolling my eyes now\" it just happens. \nSort of like when telling a lie - no one decides to have their eyes dart around suspiciously, it just happens.", ">\n\nNo. Rolling your eyes is not involuntary. It can be controlled. You have a bad habit that you CAN stop. Much like a child learning not to suck their thumb, or biting your nails.", ">\n\nHow about you start with your hair scratching", ">\n\nYour opinion is a contradiction in itself. And, yeah. I disagree. Rolling your eyes is 100% to show lack of respect, and you have no intentions of showing it, even to reason, by rolling your eyes at something someone could believe is meaningful or important. Even if it is stupid.\nI get your point, we roll our eyes to express how we feel, but it is still a physical snare. You say rolling your eyes isn't disrespectful, while saying it's okay to roll your eyes because something is \" stupid or lame\", which in itself is disrespectful. You sound like a very young person in the middle of a learning moment, and you're trying to react with rebellion. It only shows that you lack maturity and are in need of growth. This might be a time for you to read these comments and reevaluate. There are healthier ways to react to things you disagree with, or lack interest in. If not, you can just accept that you roll your eyes to show lack of respect.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is much more deliberate than laughter, tears, or sneezing. It's a conscious action in response to a judgement you're making.", ">\n\nNah, dude it is disrespectful \nYou just have no self control and by the looks of it you don't want to build some", ">\n\nYour post made me roll my eyes very hard.", ">\n\n“No, officer, my wife - she MADE me hit her!”", ">\n\nIt's a natural reaction for a sooky kid but not an adult, if you do that as an adult you just manchild that wants everything their way", ">\n\npoor OP.... did you get in trouble after you rolled your eyes at something again? did you not prehaps learn from previous interactions? rolling your eyes at something \"stupid or lame\" is an intentional response that is disrespectful to whatever it is. mature people dont act that way.....", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes.\n\nSo it is disrespectful. \n\nIts like throwing pepper in someone's face an expecting them not to sneeze.\n\nNo it’s not. You can easily (edited in) refrain from rolling your eyes, while it’s much more difficult to refrain from sneezing. \nIt’s fine to think whatever you want, but you might want to refrain from rolling your eyes when you’re, say, interacting with your boss; aka someone that can make you unemployed for whatever reason they please.", ">\n\nThis isn't an opinion. It's just flat wrong. \nIt is disrespectful because it is a conscious signifier which clearly communicated that you think that the thing you are rolling your eyes at is not worthy of respect.", ">\n\nYou have to go out of your way to roll your eyes. It is NOT gutteral or instinctual", ">\n\nIf you annoy me, my arm whips out in a natural reaction and slaps you.", ">\n\nSorry, kiddo, it’s 100% disrespectful. Just own the shit and quit trying to lawyer around it.\nI say that after having rolled my eyes so hard at your post, I travelled back in time.", ">\n\nTell that to my family lol you get the belt", ">\n\nThis was made my a 15 year old who just got told off by their mom about rolling their eyes. Then in defense said, “I can’t control it”", ">\n\nMan it's getting so aggressive sometimes here 😂", ">\n\ni certainly hope you are embarrassed about this in a couple years when you grow up.", ">\n\nOP is a habitual eye roller 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄", ">\n\nI wish to God we could block people by age, no more edgy 13yo’s", ">\n\nSomebody just got their ps5 taken away for rolling their eyes", ">\n\nTell me you're 12 without telling me you're 12.", ">\n\nit’s the definition of disrespectful and a sign that you have literally nothing intelligent to say in return. \nwhich is why we outgrow it as adults.", ">\n\nYou can control it. It’s not an “automatic response” unless you’ve taught yourself to do it. I never roll my eyes. It’s just not something I have ever practiced doing. And yes…if I’m saying something too you and you dismiss it with an eye roll…it’s super disrespectful.", ">\n\nrolling your eyes is just as respectful as sticking your tongue out at someone or making a stupid face in reaction to something someone says", ">\n\nIf you can’t control your eye movement, you need to see a neurologist, dude 😆. As it stands, eye rolling isn’t a reflex or a “natural reaction” to anything. Habits aren’t the same as involuntary reactions.\nRolling your eyes at someone is disrespectful. It’s an outward sign that you think something about your interaction with them was stupid or wrong. There’s no one here that will agree with you, and you know that you’re in the vast minority with this opinion because you posted it on this sub. Now learn some humility and accept that your opinion is factually incorrect based on science.", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nAre you like 14 and your mom got you in trouble cause you rolled your eyes at her? Lmao", ">\n\nI’m gonna show your mom this and it’s going to be another week of being grounded, you little shit lol", ">\n\nOmfg 😂", ">\n\nOP I have to ask.\n\n\nHow old are you?\n\n\nHow is your relationship with your parents?\n\n\nHow do you view authority figures in your life?", ">\n\nrolls eyes", ">\n\nIf you say or demand something stupid from me I will probably roll my eyes." ]
> Just like rolling your eyes is an innate response, so are other people's responses to you rolling your eyes.	[ "🙄", ">\n\nYou’re grounded now", ">\n\nThe post above was someone getting electrocuted so this reply was very timely", ">\n\nThis news is shocking", ">\n\nIt definitely SPARKED my interest", ">\n\nAll of you guys need to leave, and not come back before learning how to conduct yourselves properly", ">\n\nUhhhh....... electricity", ">\n\nWell no, in the right context it is disrespectful. Rolling your eyes suggests that you're not taking the matter seriously or that you dont care which is a sign of disrespect towards whoever is speaking with you.", ">\n\nBut I can't control what I think. If I said \"man you're stupid and I don't care what you say\" thats disrespectful. I'm actually showing respect by not saying it.", ">\n\nI mean, actions speak louder than words, right?", ">\n\nIts not really an action tho its just an automatic response. Like gasping or yawning.", ">\n\nbullshit.\nSorry, it was an automatic response. Which is bullshit just like yours.", ">\n\nStill not the same thing. And they get on me for false analogies....", ">\n\nYou must be a teenager", ">\n\nLol how many times are you gonna post that. Dont you have an original thought of your own?", ">\n\nBruh I cant believe you make these posts. They're foolish", ">\n\nLaughing at someone can be disrespectful. Don't think so? Try laughing at someone's funeral.", ">\n\nThe disrespect comes from the one who told me a joke and made me laugh.", ">\n\nWhat about if no one said any joke? Because, you know, you are at a funeral.", ">\n\nSo someone's just there randomly laughing at shit? That sounds like a mental illness.", ">\n\nYou have never thought of something funny in your head to make yourself laugh? \nOr hell, maybe you didn't like the person who is buried and decided to laugh at them. You find it funny, so laughing must be appropriate, right?", ">\n\nWhy am I thinking about funny shit at a funeral.", ">\n\nBecause the universe likes to put us in uncomfortable positions sometimes.", ">\n\n“if its stupid or lame, you roll your eyes” - you found the disrespect", ">\n\nIm allowed to think whatever i want and its not disrespectful.", ">\n\nWhen you express contempt for something someone else said, it's disrespect.", ">\n\nWhat if what they said is contemptible?", ">\n\nSome people and comments deserve disrespect, still gonna be disrespect", ">\n\nLaughing, crying, and sneezing are all innate, involuntary reactions to certain types of stimuli. Rolling your eyes is a learned behavior. You can’t compare it to those other automatic responses because it’s not the same thing.", ">\n\nTake my upvote", ">\n\nOP rolled their eyes at someone and got chewed out for it.\nNow they're going online in an attempt to validate themselves.\n🙄", ">\n\nProbably got grounded.", ">\n\nPart of being a mature adult is to have self-control and not acting on every impulse and being respectful of people.", ">\n\n\nPart of being a mature adult\n\nYup but OP is clearly a teenager lol. They complain about being told off for doing chores wrong in another post…", ">\n\nEven a teenager should be able to have the fundamental basics of respect", ">\n\nOh I agree 100%", ">\n\nYou have poor self-control and poor self-awareness but the good news is that you can improve these things.", ">\n\n/r/wrongopinions", ">\n\nI feel like we need a new subreddit r/unpopularforareason", ">\n\nIt’s entire purpose is to be disrespectful. Nobody eyerolls something they respect. But how offensive it is depends on the context and how serious one is being.", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes\n\nYou rn: \"I'm not being disrespectful. I just thought what you said was stupid or lame.\"\n...", ">\n\nSaying its stupid could be disrespectful. A facial response is not.", ">\n\nLiterally every person in this thread agrees that it is.\nThis is your bad habit. Nobody else's responsibility but you.", ">\n\nThey can choose to not fly off the handle at what is just an innate reaction.", ">\n\nSo let me get this straight: you think you deserve to be able to disrespect whoever you like whenever you like but they can't as much as say you're being rude? Grow up.", ">\n\nFound the teenager.", ">\n\nMeh, I agree with that one. If you don't like how someone is doing something then do it yourself. There's a reason I live alone.", ">\n\nIt is a UNIVERSAL sign of disrespect. Globally. Deal with it.", ">\n\nLaughing can be disrespectuful too. If you cannot control your own reactions, well, what can I say, maybe you have not really grown up?", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s so it’s hard to control my own actions sometimes…", ">\n\nThank u I'm trying to explain how autism can make it hard to read not just others facial expressions but also ur own and it seems like no one has thought of the possibility that they acc don't realise it or csnt control it", ">\n\nWould you roll your eyes during a job interview if you thought a question was stupid or irrelevant? Do you think you’d get the job if you did?", ">\n\nPretty sure OP would think they were owed that job and they would think it’s ridiculous if they didn’t get it.\nOP is also a teenager going through their rebel phase though", ">\n\nYou're oddly specific here.", ">\n\nWhat was specific? Or rather oddly specific?", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a good way to fast track yourself to a divorce, if you want one.", ">\n\nI think OP needs the definition of respect before any further comment is made", ">\n\nOh I already know it, and I know it does not mean:\nDon't ever disagree with me\nDon't think bad thoughts about me\nDon't ever correct me when I'm blatantly wrong \nShine my boots with your tongue", ">\n\nSoooo this post isn’t about eye rolling is what I’m getting from this. You’ve got issues to work through with your parents or partner or something", ">\n\nSince when tf was eye rolling involuntary?", ">", ">\n\nYour lack of self control is not a justification for disrespect. I personally dont know anyone who reacts to anything by rolling their eyes. Just be mature and communicate.", ">\n\nAnd what if it's not stupid and someone rolls their eyes? Wouldn't it be disrespectful in that case?", ">\n\nIn the eye rollers opinion then it must have been. But you can't fault someone for thinking its stupid.", ">\n\nSo eyerolling is some kind of exceptional thing that is free from criticism? \nIf one has the freedom to eye roll, then someone else has the freedom to criticize the eye roller right? \nOr is it your opinion that besides that everyone who sees an eye roller has to just stfu", ">\n\nMeh, it is disrespectful. It's a way to be disrespectful without having to say That's the dumbest thing I've heard all month, and everyone else who heard it is also dumber for hearing it as well.", ">\n\nBut I didn't say it that's the point.", ">\n\nJust cuz you don’t use words doesn’t mean it’s not disrespectful. Walking away while someone is talking to you, rolling your eyes, slapping someone, and starting to play a game on your phone while someone is talking to you are all disrespectful. It doesn’t matter that you didn’t say anything, your lack of respect still showed.", ">\n\nespecially the way theyre responding to comments", ">\n\nYeah, a natural reaction if you’ve never learned to manage your emotions as opposed to letting them run your life. I’m not talking about being totally monotone rational, either. You need to learn a balance between rational and emotional…which includes healthy, appropriate, respectful expression of honest feelings. Eye rolling is absolutely disrespectful, belittling, and dismissive.", ">\n\nComments: OP is completely wrong and has attitude issues", ">\n\nWhat sounds like mental illness is you refusing to admit that rolling your eyes is simply not an unconditional response. Whether you want to believe it or not, you are doing it intentionally and you can control it. \nYou’re just to much of a b—— to do so.", ">\n\nSame to you", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a learned reaction. Not natural. I rarely of ever roll my eyes at anything.", ">", ">\n\nJust like raising your middle finger. Or vocalizing the sounds \"fuck you\". Or fingers typing the words fuck you OP. Nothing is disrespectful!", ">\n\nNice try but not the same thing at all. You're talking about thought out actions here. The eye roll is more like a reaction. Its quick, its automatic, no one has to think \"im rolling my eyes now\" it just happens. \nSort of like when telling a lie - no one decides to have their eyes dart around suspiciously, it just happens.", ">\n\nNo. Rolling your eyes is not involuntary. It can be controlled. You have a bad habit that you CAN stop. Much like a child learning not to suck their thumb, or biting your nails.", ">\n\nHow about you start with your hair scratching", ">\n\nYour opinion is a contradiction in itself. And, yeah. I disagree. Rolling your eyes is 100% to show lack of respect, and you have no intentions of showing it, even to reason, by rolling your eyes at something someone could believe is meaningful or important. Even if it is stupid.\nI get your point, we roll our eyes to express how we feel, but it is still a physical snare. You say rolling your eyes isn't disrespectful, while saying it's okay to roll your eyes because something is \" stupid or lame\", which in itself is disrespectful. You sound like a very young person in the middle of a learning moment, and you're trying to react with rebellion. It only shows that you lack maturity and are in need of growth. This might be a time for you to read these comments and reevaluate. There are healthier ways to react to things you disagree with, or lack interest in. If not, you can just accept that you roll your eyes to show lack of respect.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is much more deliberate than laughter, tears, or sneezing. It's a conscious action in response to a judgement you're making.", ">\n\nNah, dude it is disrespectful \nYou just have no self control and by the looks of it you don't want to build some", ">\n\nYour post made me roll my eyes very hard.", ">\n\n“No, officer, my wife - she MADE me hit her!”", ">\n\nIt's a natural reaction for a sooky kid but not an adult, if you do that as an adult you just manchild that wants everything their way", ">\n\npoor OP.... did you get in trouble after you rolled your eyes at something again? did you not prehaps learn from previous interactions? rolling your eyes at something \"stupid or lame\" is an intentional response that is disrespectful to whatever it is. mature people dont act that way.....", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes.\n\nSo it is disrespectful. \n\nIts like throwing pepper in someone's face an expecting them not to sneeze.\n\nNo it’s not. You can easily (edited in) refrain from rolling your eyes, while it’s much more difficult to refrain from sneezing. \nIt’s fine to think whatever you want, but you might want to refrain from rolling your eyes when you’re, say, interacting with your boss; aka someone that can make you unemployed for whatever reason they please.", ">\n\nThis isn't an opinion. It's just flat wrong. \nIt is disrespectful because it is a conscious signifier which clearly communicated that you think that the thing you are rolling your eyes at is not worthy of respect.", ">\n\nYou have to go out of your way to roll your eyes. It is NOT gutteral or instinctual", ">\n\nIf you annoy me, my arm whips out in a natural reaction and slaps you.", ">\n\nSorry, kiddo, it’s 100% disrespectful. Just own the shit and quit trying to lawyer around it.\nI say that after having rolled my eyes so hard at your post, I travelled back in time.", ">\n\nTell that to my family lol you get the belt", ">\n\nThis was made my a 15 year old who just got told off by their mom about rolling their eyes. Then in defense said, “I can’t control it”", ">\n\nMan it's getting so aggressive sometimes here 😂", ">\n\ni certainly hope you are embarrassed about this in a couple years when you grow up.", ">\n\nOP is a habitual eye roller 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄", ">\n\nI wish to God we could block people by age, no more edgy 13yo’s", ">\n\nSomebody just got their ps5 taken away for rolling their eyes", ">\n\nTell me you're 12 without telling me you're 12.", ">\n\nit’s the definition of disrespectful and a sign that you have literally nothing intelligent to say in return. \nwhich is why we outgrow it as adults.", ">\n\nYou can control it. It’s not an “automatic response” unless you’ve taught yourself to do it. I never roll my eyes. It’s just not something I have ever practiced doing. And yes…if I’m saying something too you and you dismiss it with an eye roll…it’s super disrespectful.", ">\n\nrolling your eyes is just as respectful as sticking your tongue out at someone or making a stupid face in reaction to something someone says", ">\n\nIf you can’t control your eye movement, you need to see a neurologist, dude 😆. As it stands, eye rolling isn’t a reflex or a “natural reaction” to anything. Habits aren’t the same as involuntary reactions.\nRolling your eyes at someone is disrespectful. It’s an outward sign that you think something about your interaction with them was stupid or wrong. There’s no one here that will agree with you, and you know that you’re in the vast minority with this opinion because you posted it on this sub. Now learn some humility and accept that your opinion is factually incorrect based on science.", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nAre you like 14 and your mom got you in trouble cause you rolled your eyes at her? Lmao", ">\n\nI’m gonna show your mom this and it’s going to be another week of being grounded, you little shit lol", ">\n\nOmfg 😂", ">\n\nOP I have to ask.\n\n\nHow old are you?\n\n\nHow is your relationship with your parents?\n\n\nHow do you view authority figures in your life?", ">\n\nrolls eyes", ">\n\nIf you say or demand something stupid from me I will probably roll my eyes.", ">\n\nBut it is" ]
> Sometimes being respectful requires hiding your subjective opinion on whether something is stupid or lame.	[ "🙄", ">\n\nYou’re grounded now", ">\n\nThe post above was someone getting electrocuted so this reply was very timely", ">\n\nThis news is shocking", ">\n\nIt definitely SPARKED my interest", ">\n\nAll of you guys need to leave, and not come back before learning how to conduct yourselves properly", ">\n\nUhhhh....... electricity", ">\n\nWell no, in the right context it is disrespectful. Rolling your eyes suggests that you're not taking the matter seriously or that you dont care which is a sign of disrespect towards whoever is speaking with you.", ">\n\nBut I can't control what I think. If I said \"man you're stupid and I don't care what you say\" thats disrespectful. I'm actually showing respect by not saying it.", ">\n\nI mean, actions speak louder than words, right?", ">\n\nIts not really an action tho its just an automatic response. Like gasping or yawning.", ">\n\nbullshit.\nSorry, it was an automatic response. Which is bullshit just like yours.", ">\n\nStill not the same thing. And they get on me for false analogies....", ">\n\nYou must be a teenager", ">\n\nLol how many times are you gonna post that. Dont you have an original thought of your own?", ">\n\nBruh I cant believe you make these posts. They're foolish", ">\n\nLaughing at someone can be disrespectful. Don't think so? Try laughing at someone's funeral.", ">\n\nThe disrespect comes from the one who told me a joke and made me laugh.", ">\n\nWhat about if no one said any joke? Because, you know, you are at a funeral.", ">\n\nSo someone's just there randomly laughing at shit? That sounds like a mental illness.", ">\n\nYou have never thought of something funny in your head to make yourself laugh? \nOr hell, maybe you didn't like the person who is buried and decided to laugh at them. You find it funny, so laughing must be appropriate, right?", ">\n\nWhy am I thinking about funny shit at a funeral.", ">\n\nBecause the universe likes to put us in uncomfortable positions sometimes.", ">\n\n“if its stupid or lame, you roll your eyes” - you found the disrespect", ">\n\nIm allowed to think whatever i want and its not disrespectful.", ">\n\nWhen you express contempt for something someone else said, it's disrespect.", ">\n\nWhat if what they said is contemptible?", ">\n\nSome people and comments deserve disrespect, still gonna be disrespect", ">\n\nLaughing, crying, and sneezing are all innate, involuntary reactions to certain types of stimuli. Rolling your eyes is a learned behavior. You can’t compare it to those other automatic responses because it’s not the same thing.", ">\n\nTake my upvote", ">\n\nOP rolled their eyes at someone and got chewed out for it.\nNow they're going online in an attempt to validate themselves.\n🙄", ">\n\nProbably got grounded.", ">\n\nPart of being a mature adult is to have self-control and not acting on every impulse and being respectful of people.", ">\n\n\nPart of being a mature adult\n\nYup but OP is clearly a teenager lol. They complain about being told off for doing chores wrong in another post…", ">\n\nEven a teenager should be able to have the fundamental basics of respect", ">\n\nOh I agree 100%", ">\n\nYou have poor self-control and poor self-awareness but the good news is that you can improve these things.", ">\n\n/r/wrongopinions", ">\n\nI feel like we need a new subreddit r/unpopularforareason", ">\n\nIt’s entire purpose is to be disrespectful. Nobody eyerolls something they respect. But how offensive it is depends on the context and how serious one is being.", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes\n\nYou rn: \"I'm not being disrespectful. I just thought what you said was stupid or lame.\"\n...", ">\n\nSaying its stupid could be disrespectful. A facial response is not.", ">\n\nLiterally every person in this thread agrees that it is.\nThis is your bad habit. Nobody else's responsibility but you.", ">\n\nThey can choose to not fly off the handle at what is just an innate reaction.", ">\n\nSo let me get this straight: you think you deserve to be able to disrespect whoever you like whenever you like but they can't as much as say you're being rude? Grow up.", ">\n\nFound the teenager.", ">\n\nMeh, I agree with that one. If you don't like how someone is doing something then do it yourself. There's a reason I live alone.", ">\n\nIt is a UNIVERSAL sign of disrespect. Globally. Deal with it.", ">\n\nLaughing can be disrespectuful too. If you cannot control your own reactions, well, what can I say, maybe you have not really grown up?", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s so it’s hard to control my own actions sometimes…", ">\n\nThank u I'm trying to explain how autism can make it hard to read not just others facial expressions but also ur own and it seems like no one has thought of the possibility that they acc don't realise it or csnt control it", ">\n\nWould you roll your eyes during a job interview if you thought a question was stupid or irrelevant? Do you think you’d get the job if you did?", ">\n\nPretty sure OP would think they were owed that job and they would think it’s ridiculous if they didn’t get it.\nOP is also a teenager going through their rebel phase though", ">\n\nYou're oddly specific here.", ">\n\nWhat was specific? Or rather oddly specific?", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a good way to fast track yourself to a divorce, if you want one.", ">\n\nI think OP needs the definition of respect before any further comment is made", ">\n\nOh I already know it, and I know it does not mean:\nDon't ever disagree with me\nDon't think bad thoughts about me\nDon't ever correct me when I'm blatantly wrong \nShine my boots with your tongue", ">\n\nSoooo this post isn’t about eye rolling is what I’m getting from this. You’ve got issues to work through with your parents or partner or something", ">\n\nSince when tf was eye rolling involuntary?", ">", ">\n\nYour lack of self control is not a justification for disrespect. I personally dont know anyone who reacts to anything by rolling their eyes. Just be mature and communicate.", ">\n\nAnd what if it's not stupid and someone rolls their eyes? Wouldn't it be disrespectful in that case?", ">\n\nIn the eye rollers opinion then it must have been. But you can't fault someone for thinking its stupid.", ">\n\nSo eyerolling is some kind of exceptional thing that is free from criticism? \nIf one has the freedom to eye roll, then someone else has the freedom to criticize the eye roller right? \nOr is it your opinion that besides that everyone who sees an eye roller has to just stfu", ">\n\nMeh, it is disrespectful. It's a way to be disrespectful without having to say That's the dumbest thing I've heard all month, and everyone else who heard it is also dumber for hearing it as well.", ">\n\nBut I didn't say it that's the point.", ">\n\nJust cuz you don’t use words doesn’t mean it’s not disrespectful. Walking away while someone is talking to you, rolling your eyes, slapping someone, and starting to play a game on your phone while someone is talking to you are all disrespectful. It doesn’t matter that you didn’t say anything, your lack of respect still showed.", ">\n\nespecially the way theyre responding to comments", ">\n\nYeah, a natural reaction if you’ve never learned to manage your emotions as opposed to letting them run your life. I’m not talking about being totally monotone rational, either. You need to learn a balance between rational and emotional…which includes healthy, appropriate, respectful expression of honest feelings. Eye rolling is absolutely disrespectful, belittling, and dismissive.", ">\n\nComments: OP is completely wrong and has attitude issues", ">\n\nWhat sounds like mental illness is you refusing to admit that rolling your eyes is simply not an unconditional response. Whether you want to believe it or not, you are doing it intentionally and you can control it. \nYou’re just to much of a b—— to do so.", ">\n\nSame to you", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a learned reaction. Not natural. I rarely of ever roll my eyes at anything.", ">", ">\n\nJust like raising your middle finger. Or vocalizing the sounds \"fuck you\". Or fingers typing the words fuck you OP. Nothing is disrespectful!", ">\n\nNice try but not the same thing at all. You're talking about thought out actions here. The eye roll is more like a reaction. Its quick, its automatic, no one has to think \"im rolling my eyes now\" it just happens. \nSort of like when telling a lie - no one decides to have their eyes dart around suspiciously, it just happens.", ">\n\nNo. Rolling your eyes is not involuntary. It can be controlled. You have a bad habit that you CAN stop. Much like a child learning not to suck their thumb, or biting your nails.", ">\n\nHow about you start with your hair scratching", ">\n\nYour opinion is a contradiction in itself. And, yeah. I disagree. Rolling your eyes is 100% to show lack of respect, and you have no intentions of showing it, even to reason, by rolling your eyes at something someone could believe is meaningful or important. Even if it is stupid.\nI get your point, we roll our eyes to express how we feel, but it is still a physical snare. You say rolling your eyes isn't disrespectful, while saying it's okay to roll your eyes because something is \" stupid or lame\", which in itself is disrespectful. You sound like a very young person in the middle of a learning moment, and you're trying to react with rebellion. It only shows that you lack maturity and are in need of growth. This might be a time for you to read these comments and reevaluate. There are healthier ways to react to things you disagree with, or lack interest in. If not, you can just accept that you roll your eyes to show lack of respect.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is much more deliberate than laughter, tears, or sneezing. It's a conscious action in response to a judgement you're making.", ">\n\nNah, dude it is disrespectful \nYou just have no self control and by the looks of it you don't want to build some", ">\n\nYour post made me roll my eyes very hard.", ">\n\n“No, officer, my wife - she MADE me hit her!”", ">\n\nIt's a natural reaction for a sooky kid but not an adult, if you do that as an adult you just manchild that wants everything their way", ">\n\npoor OP.... did you get in trouble after you rolled your eyes at something again? did you not prehaps learn from previous interactions? rolling your eyes at something \"stupid or lame\" is an intentional response that is disrespectful to whatever it is. mature people dont act that way.....", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes.\n\nSo it is disrespectful. \n\nIts like throwing pepper in someone's face an expecting them not to sneeze.\n\nNo it’s not. You can easily (edited in) refrain from rolling your eyes, while it’s much more difficult to refrain from sneezing. \nIt’s fine to think whatever you want, but you might want to refrain from rolling your eyes when you’re, say, interacting with your boss; aka someone that can make you unemployed for whatever reason they please.", ">\n\nThis isn't an opinion. It's just flat wrong. \nIt is disrespectful because it is a conscious signifier which clearly communicated that you think that the thing you are rolling your eyes at is not worthy of respect.", ">\n\nYou have to go out of your way to roll your eyes. It is NOT gutteral or instinctual", ">\n\nIf you annoy me, my arm whips out in a natural reaction and slaps you.", ">\n\nSorry, kiddo, it’s 100% disrespectful. Just own the shit and quit trying to lawyer around it.\nI say that after having rolled my eyes so hard at your post, I travelled back in time.", ">\n\nTell that to my family lol you get the belt", ">\n\nThis was made my a 15 year old who just got told off by their mom about rolling their eyes. Then in defense said, “I can’t control it”", ">\n\nMan it's getting so aggressive sometimes here 😂", ">\n\ni certainly hope you are embarrassed about this in a couple years when you grow up.", ">\n\nOP is a habitual eye roller 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄", ">\n\nI wish to God we could block people by age, no more edgy 13yo’s", ">\n\nSomebody just got their ps5 taken away for rolling their eyes", ">\n\nTell me you're 12 without telling me you're 12.", ">\n\nit’s the definition of disrespectful and a sign that you have literally nothing intelligent to say in return. \nwhich is why we outgrow it as adults.", ">\n\nYou can control it. It’s not an “automatic response” unless you’ve taught yourself to do it. I never roll my eyes. It’s just not something I have ever practiced doing. And yes…if I’m saying something too you and you dismiss it with an eye roll…it’s super disrespectful.", ">\n\nrolling your eyes is just as respectful as sticking your tongue out at someone or making a stupid face in reaction to something someone says", ">\n\nIf you can’t control your eye movement, you need to see a neurologist, dude 😆. As it stands, eye rolling isn’t a reflex or a “natural reaction” to anything. Habits aren’t the same as involuntary reactions.\nRolling your eyes at someone is disrespectful. It’s an outward sign that you think something about your interaction with them was stupid or wrong. There’s no one here that will agree with you, and you know that you’re in the vast minority with this opinion because you posted it on this sub. Now learn some humility and accept that your opinion is factually incorrect based on science.", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nAre you like 14 and your mom got you in trouble cause you rolled your eyes at her? Lmao", ">\n\nI’m gonna show your mom this and it’s going to be another week of being grounded, you little shit lol", ">\n\nOmfg 😂", ">\n\nOP I have to ask.\n\n\nHow old are you?\n\n\nHow is your relationship with your parents?\n\n\nHow do you view authority figures in your life?", ">\n\nrolls eyes", ">\n\nIf you say or demand something stupid from me I will probably roll my eyes.", ">\n\nBut it is", ">\n\nJust like rolling your eyes is an innate response, so are other people's responses to you rolling your eyes." ]
> I wouldn’t say eye rolling is as involuntary as laughing or crying tho. It’s more of a choice.	[ "🙄", ">\n\nYou’re grounded now", ">\n\nThe post above was someone getting electrocuted so this reply was very timely", ">\n\nThis news is shocking", ">\n\nIt definitely SPARKED my interest", ">\n\nAll of you guys need to leave, and not come back before learning how to conduct yourselves properly", ">\n\nUhhhh....... electricity", ">\n\nWell no, in the right context it is disrespectful. Rolling your eyes suggests that you're not taking the matter seriously or that you dont care which is a sign of disrespect towards whoever is speaking with you.", ">\n\nBut I can't control what I think. If I said \"man you're stupid and I don't care what you say\" thats disrespectful. I'm actually showing respect by not saying it.", ">\n\nI mean, actions speak louder than words, right?", ">\n\nIts not really an action tho its just an automatic response. Like gasping or yawning.", ">\n\nbullshit.\nSorry, it was an automatic response. Which is bullshit just like yours.", ">\n\nStill not the same thing. And they get on me for false analogies....", ">\n\nYou must be a teenager", ">\n\nLol how many times are you gonna post that. Dont you have an original thought of your own?", ">\n\nBruh I cant believe you make these posts. They're foolish", ">\n\nLaughing at someone can be disrespectful. Don't think so? Try laughing at someone's funeral.", ">\n\nThe disrespect comes from the one who told me a joke and made me laugh.", ">\n\nWhat about if no one said any joke? Because, you know, you are at a funeral.", ">\n\nSo someone's just there randomly laughing at shit? That sounds like a mental illness.", ">\n\nYou have never thought of something funny in your head to make yourself laugh? \nOr hell, maybe you didn't like the person who is buried and decided to laugh at them. You find it funny, so laughing must be appropriate, right?", ">\n\nWhy am I thinking about funny shit at a funeral.", ">\n\nBecause the universe likes to put us in uncomfortable positions sometimes.", ">\n\n“if its stupid or lame, you roll your eyes” - you found the disrespect", ">\n\nIm allowed to think whatever i want and its not disrespectful.", ">\n\nWhen you express contempt for something someone else said, it's disrespect.", ">\n\nWhat if what they said is contemptible?", ">\n\nSome people and comments deserve disrespect, still gonna be disrespect", ">\n\nLaughing, crying, and sneezing are all innate, involuntary reactions to certain types of stimuli. Rolling your eyes is a learned behavior. You can’t compare it to those other automatic responses because it’s not the same thing.", ">\n\nTake my upvote", ">\n\nOP rolled their eyes at someone and got chewed out for it.\nNow they're going online in an attempt to validate themselves.\n🙄", ">\n\nProbably got grounded.", ">\n\nPart of being a mature adult is to have self-control and not acting on every impulse and being respectful of people.", ">\n\n\nPart of being a mature adult\n\nYup but OP is clearly a teenager lol. They complain about being told off for doing chores wrong in another post…", ">\n\nEven a teenager should be able to have the fundamental basics of respect", ">\n\nOh I agree 100%", ">\n\nYou have poor self-control and poor self-awareness but the good news is that you can improve these things.", ">\n\n/r/wrongopinions", ">\n\nI feel like we need a new subreddit r/unpopularforareason", ">\n\nIt’s entire purpose is to be disrespectful. Nobody eyerolls something they respect. But how offensive it is depends on the context and how serious one is being.", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes\n\nYou rn: \"I'm not being disrespectful. I just thought what you said was stupid or lame.\"\n...", ">\n\nSaying its stupid could be disrespectful. A facial response is not.", ">\n\nLiterally every person in this thread agrees that it is.\nThis is your bad habit. Nobody else's responsibility but you.", ">\n\nThey can choose to not fly off the handle at what is just an innate reaction.", ">\n\nSo let me get this straight: you think you deserve to be able to disrespect whoever you like whenever you like but they can't as much as say you're being rude? Grow up.", ">\n\nFound the teenager.", ">\n\nMeh, I agree with that one. If you don't like how someone is doing something then do it yourself. There's a reason I live alone.", ">\n\nIt is a UNIVERSAL sign of disrespect. Globally. Deal with it.", ">\n\nLaughing can be disrespectuful too. If you cannot control your own reactions, well, what can I say, maybe you have not really grown up?", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s so it’s hard to control my own actions sometimes…", ">\n\nThank u I'm trying to explain how autism can make it hard to read not just others facial expressions but also ur own and it seems like no one has thought of the possibility that they acc don't realise it or csnt control it", ">\n\nWould you roll your eyes during a job interview if you thought a question was stupid or irrelevant? Do you think you’d get the job if you did?", ">\n\nPretty sure OP would think they were owed that job and they would think it’s ridiculous if they didn’t get it.\nOP is also a teenager going through their rebel phase though", ">\n\nYou're oddly specific here.", ">\n\nWhat was specific? Or rather oddly specific?", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a good way to fast track yourself to a divorce, if you want one.", ">\n\nI think OP needs the definition of respect before any further comment is made", ">\n\nOh I already know it, and I know it does not mean:\nDon't ever disagree with me\nDon't think bad thoughts about me\nDon't ever correct me when I'm blatantly wrong \nShine my boots with your tongue", ">\n\nSoooo this post isn’t about eye rolling is what I’m getting from this. You’ve got issues to work through with your parents or partner or something", ">\n\nSince when tf was eye rolling involuntary?", ">", ">\n\nYour lack of self control is not a justification for disrespect. I personally dont know anyone who reacts to anything by rolling their eyes. Just be mature and communicate.", ">\n\nAnd what if it's not stupid and someone rolls their eyes? Wouldn't it be disrespectful in that case?", ">\n\nIn the eye rollers opinion then it must have been. But you can't fault someone for thinking its stupid.", ">\n\nSo eyerolling is some kind of exceptional thing that is free from criticism? \nIf one has the freedom to eye roll, then someone else has the freedom to criticize the eye roller right? \nOr is it your opinion that besides that everyone who sees an eye roller has to just stfu", ">\n\nMeh, it is disrespectful. It's a way to be disrespectful without having to say That's the dumbest thing I've heard all month, and everyone else who heard it is also dumber for hearing it as well.", ">\n\nBut I didn't say it that's the point.", ">\n\nJust cuz you don’t use words doesn’t mean it’s not disrespectful. Walking away while someone is talking to you, rolling your eyes, slapping someone, and starting to play a game on your phone while someone is talking to you are all disrespectful. It doesn’t matter that you didn’t say anything, your lack of respect still showed.", ">\n\nespecially the way theyre responding to comments", ">\n\nYeah, a natural reaction if you’ve never learned to manage your emotions as opposed to letting them run your life. I’m not talking about being totally monotone rational, either. You need to learn a balance between rational and emotional…which includes healthy, appropriate, respectful expression of honest feelings. Eye rolling is absolutely disrespectful, belittling, and dismissive.", ">\n\nComments: OP is completely wrong and has attitude issues", ">\n\nWhat sounds like mental illness is you refusing to admit that rolling your eyes is simply not an unconditional response. Whether you want to believe it or not, you are doing it intentionally and you can control it. \nYou’re just to much of a b—— to do so.", ">\n\nSame to you", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a learned reaction. Not natural. I rarely of ever roll my eyes at anything.", ">", ">\n\nJust like raising your middle finger. Or vocalizing the sounds \"fuck you\". Or fingers typing the words fuck you OP. Nothing is disrespectful!", ">\n\nNice try but not the same thing at all. You're talking about thought out actions here. The eye roll is more like a reaction. Its quick, its automatic, no one has to think \"im rolling my eyes now\" it just happens. \nSort of like when telling a lie - no one decides to have their eyes dart around suspiciously, it just happens.", ">\n\nNo. Rolling your eyes is not involuntary. It can be controlled. You have a bad habit that you CAN stop. Much like a child learning not to suck their thumb, or biting your nails.", ">\n\nHow about you start with your hair scratching", ">\n\nYour opinion is a contradiction in itself. And, yeah. I disagree. Rolling your eyes is 100% to show lack of respect, and you have no intentions of showing it, even to reason, by rolling your eyes at something someone could believe is meaningful or important. Even if it is stupid.\nI get your point, we roll our eyes to express how we feel, but it is still a physical snare. You say rolling your eyes isn't disrespectful, while saying it's okay to roll your eyes because something is \" stupid or lame\", which in itself is disrespectful. You sound like a very young person in the middle of a learning moment, and you're trying to react with rebellion. It only shows that you lack maturity and are in need of growth. This might be a time for you to read these comments and reevaluate. There are healthier ways to react to things you disagree with, or lack interest in. If not, you can just accept that you roll your eyes to show lack of respect.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is much more deliberate than laughter, tears, or sneezing. It's a conscious action in response to a judgement you're making.", ">\n\nNah, dude it is disrespectful \nYou just have no self control and by the looks of it you don't want to build some", ">\n\nYour post made me roll my eyes very hard.", ">\n\n“No, officer, my wife - she MADE me hit her!”", ">\n\nIt's a natural reaction for a sooky kid but not an adult, if you do that as an adult you just manchild that wants everything their way", ">\n\npoor OP.... did you get in trouble after you rolled your eyes at something again? did you not prehaps learn from previous interactions? rolling your eyes at something \"stupid or lame\" is an intentional response that is disrespectful to whatever it is. mature people dont act that way.....", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes.\n\nSo it is disrespectful. \n\nIts like throwing pepper in someone's face an expecting them not to sneeze.\n\nNo it’s not. You can easily (edited in) refrain from rolling your eyes, while it’s much more difficult to refrain from sneezing. \nIt’s fine to think whatever you want, but you might want to refrain from rolling your eyes when you’re, say, interacting with your boss; aka someone that can make you unemployed for whatever reason they please.", ">\n\nThis isn't an opinion. It's just flat wrong. \nIt is disrespectful because it is a conscious signifier which clearly communicated that you think that the thing you are rolling your eyes at is not worthy of respect.", ">\n\nYou have to go out of your way to roll your eyes. It is NOT gutteral or instinctual", ">\n\nIf you annoy me, my arm whips out in a natural reaction and slaps you.", ">\n\nSorry, kiddo, it’s 100% disrespectful. Just own the shit and quit trying to lawyer around it.\nI say that after having rolled my eyes so hard at your post, I travelled back in time.", ">\n\nTell that to my family lol you get the belt", ">\n\nThis was made my a 15 year old who just got told off by their mom about rolling their eyes. Then in defense said, “I can’t control it”", ">\n\nMan it's getting so aggressive sometimes here 😂", ">\n\ni certainly hope you are embarrassed about this in a couple years when you grow up.", ">\n\nOP is a habitual eye roller 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄", ">\n\nI wish to God we could block people by age, no more edgy 13yo’s", ">\n\nSomebody just got their ps5 taken away for rolling their eyes", ">\n\nTell me you're 12 without telling me you're 12.", ">\n\nit’s the definition of disrespectful and a sign that you have literally nothing intelligent to say in return. \nwhich is why we outgrow it as adults.", ">\n\nYou can control it. It’s not an “automatic response” unless you’ve taught yourself to do it. I never roll my eyes. It’s just not something I have ever practiced doing. And yes…if I’m saying something too you and you dismiss it with an eye roll…it’s super disrespectful.", ">\n\nrolling your eyes is just as respectful as sticking your tongue out at someone or making a stupid face in reaction to something someone says", ">\n\nIf you can’t control your eye movement, you need to see a neurologist, dude 😆. As it stands, eye rolling isn’t a reflex or a “natural reaction” to anything. Habits aren’t the same as involuntary reactions.\nRolling your eyes at someone is disrespectful. It’s an outward sign that you think something about your interaction with them was stupid or wrong. There’s no one here that will agree with you, and you know that you’re in the vast minority with this opinion because you posted it on this sub. Now learn some humility and accept that your opinion is factually incorrect based on science.", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nAre you like 14 and your mom got you in trouble cause you rolled your eyes at her? Lmao", ">\n\nI’m gonna show your mom this and it’s going to be another week of being grounded, you little shit lol", ">\n\nOmfg 😂", ">\n\nOP I have to ask.\n\n\nHow old are you?\n\n\nHow is your relationship with your parents?\n\n\nHow do you view authority figures in your life?", ">\n\nrolls eyes", ">\n\nIf you say or demand something stupid from me I will probably roll my eyes.", ">\n\nBut it is", ">\n\nJust like rolling your eyes is an innate response, so are other people's responses to you rolling your eyes.", ">\n\nSometimes being respectful requires hiding your subjective opinion on whether something is stupid or lame." ]
> If someone rolls their eyes then I feel disrespected it’s a natural reaction.	[ "🙄", ">\n\nYou’re grounded now", ">\n\nThe post above was someone getting electrocuted so this reply was very timely", ">\n\nThis news is shocking", ">\n\nIt definitely SPARKED my interest", ">\n\nAll of you guys need to leave, and not come back before learning how to conduct yourselves properly", ">\n\nUhhhh....... electricity", ">\n\nWell no, in the right context it is disrespectful. Rolling your eyes suggests that you're not taking the matter seriously or that you dont care which is a sign of disrespect towards whoever is speaking with you.", ">\n\nBut I can't control what I think. If I said \"man you're stupid and I don't care what you say\" thats disrespectful. I'm actually showing respect by not saying it.", ">\n\nI mean, actions speak louder than words, right?", ">\n\nIts not really an action tho its just an automatic response. Like gasping or yawning.", ">\n\nbullshit.\nSorry, it was an automatic response. Which is bullshit just like yours.", ">\n\nStill not the same thing. And they get on me for false analogies....", ">\n\nYou must be a teenager", ">\n\nLol how many times are you gonna post that. Dont you have an original thought of your own?", ">\n\nBruh I cant believe you make these posts. They're foolish", ">\n\nLaughing at someone can be disrespectful. Don't think so? Try laughing at someone's funeral.", ">\n\nThe disrespect comes from the one who told me a joke and made me laugh.", ">\n\nWhat about if no one said any joke? Because, you know, you are at a funeral.", ">\n\nSo someone's just there randomly laughing at shit? That sounds like a mental illness.", ">\n\nYou have never thought of something funny in your head to make yourself laugh? \nOr hell, maybe you didn't like the person who is buried and decided to laugh at them. You find it funny, so laughing must be appropriate, right?", ">\n\nWhy am I thinking about funny shit at a funeral.", ">\n\nBecause the universe likes to put us in uncomfortable positions sometimes.", ">\n\n“if its stupid or lame, you roll your eyes” - you found the disrespect", ">\n\nIm allowed to think whatever i want and its not disrespectful.", ">\n\nWhen you express contempt for something someone else said, it's disrespect.", ">\n\nWhat if what they said is contemptible?", ">\n\nSome people and comments deserve disrespect, still gonna be disrespect", ">\n\nLaughing, crying, and sneezing are all innate, involuntary reactions to certain types of stimuli. Rolling your eyes is a learned behavior. You can’t compare it to those other automatic responses because it’s not the same thing.", ">\n\nTake my upvote", ">\n\nOP rolled their eyes at someone and got chewed out for it.\nNow they're going online in an attempt to validate themselves.\n🙄", ">\n\nProbably got grounded.", ">\n\nPart of being a mature adult is to have self-control and not acting on every impulse and being respectful of people.", ">\n\n\nPart of being a mature adult\n\nYup but OP is clearly a teenager lol. They complain about being told off for doing chores wrong in another post…", ">\n\nEven a teenager should be able to have the fundamental basics of respect", ">\n\nOh I agree 100%", ">\n\nYou have poor self-control and poor self-awareness but the good news is that you can improve these things.", ">\n\n/r/wrongopinions", ">\n\nI feel like we need a new subreddit r/unpopularforareason", ">\n\nIt’s entire purpose is to be disrespectful. Nobody eyerolls something they respect. But how offensive it is depends on the context and how serious one is being.", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes\n\nYou rn: \"I'm not being disrespectful. I just thought what you said was stupid or lame.\"\n...", ">\n\nSaying its stupid could be disrespectful. A facial response is not.", ">\n\nLiterally every person in this thread agrees that it is.\nThis is your bad habit. Nobody else's responsibility but you.", ">\n\nThey can choose to not fly off the handle at what is just an innate reaction.", ">\n\nSo let me get this straight: you think you deserve to be able to disrespect whoever you like whenever you like but they can't as much as say you're being rude? Grow up.", ">\n\nFound the teenager.", ">\n\nMeh, I agree with that one. If you don't like how someone is doing something then do it yourself. There's a reason I live alone.", ">\n\nIt is a UNIVERSAL sign of disrespect. Globally. Deal with it.", ">\n\nLaughing can be disrespectuful too. If you cannot control your own reactions, well, what can I say, maybe you have not really grown up?", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s so it’s hard to control my own actions sometimes…", ">\n\nThank u I'm trying to explain how autism can make it hard to read not just others facial expressions but also ur own and it seems like no one has thought of the possibility that they acc don't realise it or csnt control it", ">\n\nWould you roll your eyes during a job interview if you thought a question was stupid or irrelevant? Do you think you’d get the job if you did?", ">\n\nPretty sure OP would think they were owed that job and they would think it’s ridiculous if they didn’t get it.\nOP is also a teenager going through their rebel phase though", ">\n\nYou're oddly specific here.", ">\n\nWhat was specific? Or rather oddly specific?", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a good way to fast track yourself to a divorce, if you want one.", ">\n\nI think OP needs the definition of respect before any further comment is made", ">\n\nOh I already know it, and I know it does not mean:\nDon't ever disagree with me\nDon't think bad thoughts about me\nDon't ever correct me when I'm blatantly wrong \nShine my boots with your tongue", ">\n\nSoooo this post isn’t about eye rolling is what I’m getting from this. You’ve got issues to work through with your parents or partner or something", ">\n\nSince when tf was eye rolling involuntary?", ">", ">\n\nYour lack of self control is not a justification for disrespect. I personally dont know anyone who reacts to anything by rolling their eyes. Just be mature and communicate.", ">\n\nAnd what if it's not stupid and someone rolls their eyes? Wouldn't it be disrespectful in that case?", ">\n\nIn the eye rollers opinion then it must have been. But you can't fault someone for thinking its stupid.", ">\n\nSo eyerolling is some kind of exceptional thing that is free from criticism? \nIf one has the freedom to eye roll, then someone else has the freedom to criticize the eye roller right? \nOr is it your opinion that besides that everyone who sees an eye roller has to just stfu", ">\n\nMeh, it is disrespectful. It's a way to be disrespectful without having to say That's the dumbest thing I've heard all month, and everyone else who heard it is also dumber for hearing it as well.", ">\n\nBut I didn't say it that's the point.", ">\n\nJust cuz you don’t use words doesn’t mean it’s not disrespectful. Walking away while someone is talking to you, rolling your eyes, slapping someone, and starting to play a game on your phone while someone is talking to you are all disrespectful. It doesn’t matter that you didn’t say anything, your lack of respect still showed.", ">\n\nespecially the way theyre responding to comments", ">\n\nYeah, a natural reaction if you’ve never learned to manage your emotions as opposed to letting them run your life. I’m not talking about being totally monotone rational, either. You need to learn a balance between rational and emotional…which includes healthy, appropriate, respectful expression of honest feelings. Eye rolling is absolutely disrespectful, belittling, and dismissive.", ">\n\nComments: OP is completely wrong and has attitude issues", ">\n\nWhat sounds like mental illness is you refusing to admit that rolling your eyes is simply not an unconditional response. Whether you want to believe it or not, you are doing it intentionally and you can control it. \nYou’re just to much of a b—— to do so.", ">\n\nSame to you", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a learned reaction. Not natural. I rarely of ever roll my eyes at anything.", ">", ">\n\nJust like raising your middle finger. Or vocalizing the sounds \"fuck you\". Or fingers typing the words fuck you OP. Nothing is disrespectful!", ">\n\nNice try but not the same thing at all. You're talking about thought out actions here. The eye roll is more like a reaction. Its quick, its automatic, no one has to think \"im rolling my eyes now\" it just happens. \nSort of like when telling a lie - no one decides to have their eyes dart around suspiciously, it just happens.", ">\n\nNo. Rolling your eyes is not involuntary. It can be controlled. You have a bad habit that you CAN stop. Much like a child learning not to suck their thumb, or biting your nails.", ">\n\nHow about you start with your hair scratching", ">\n\nYour opinion is a contradiction in itself. And, yeah. I disagree. Rolling your eyes is 100% to show lack of respect, and you have no intentions of showing it, even to reason, by rolling your eyes at something someone could believe is meaningful or important. Even if it is stupid.\nI get your point, we roll our eyes to express how we feel, but it is still a physical snare. You say rolling your eyes isn't disrespectful, while saying it's okay to roll your eyes because something is \" stupid or lame\", which in itself is disrespectful. You sound like a very young person in the middle of a learning moment, and you're trying to react with rebellion. It only shows that you lack maturity and are in need of growth. This might be a time for you to read these comments and reevaluate. There are healthier ways to react to things you disagree with, or lack interest in. If not, you can just accept that you roll your eyes to show lack of respect.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is much more deliberate than laughter, tears, or sneezing. It's a conscious action in response to a judgement you're making.", ">\n\nNah, dude it is disrespectful \nYou just have no self control and by the looks of it you don't want to build some", ">\n\nYour post made me roll my eyes very hard.", ">\n\n“No, officer, my wife - she MADE me hit her!”", ">\n\nIt's a natural reaction for a sooky kid but not an adult, if you do that as an adult you just manchild that wants everything their way", ">\n\npoor OP.... did you get in trouble after you rolled your eyes at something again? did you not prehaps learn from previous interactions? rolling your eyes at something \"stupid or lame\" is an intentional response that is disrespectful to whatever it is. mature people dont act that way.....", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes.\n\nSo it is disrespectful. \n\nIts like throwing pepper in someone's face an expecting them not to sneeze.\n\nNo it’s not. You can easily (edited in) refrain from rolling your eyes, while it’s much more difficult to refrain from sneezing. \nIt’s fine to think whatever you want, but you might want to refrain from rolling your eyes when you’re, say, interacting with your boss; aka someone that can make you unemployed for whatever reason they please.", ">\n\nThis isn't an opinion. It's just flat wrong. \nIt is disrespectful because it is a conscious signifier which clearly communicated that you think that the thing you are rolling your eyes at is not worthy of respect.", ">\n\nYou have to go out of your way to roll your eyes. It is NOT gutteral or instinctual", ">\n\nIf you annoy me, my arm whips out in a natural reaction and slaps you.", ">\n\nSorry, kiddo, it’s 100% disrespectful. Just own the shit and quit trying to lawyer around it.\nI say that after having rolled my eyes so hard at your post, I travelled back in time.", ">\n\nTell that to my family lol you get the belt", ">\n\nThis was made my a 15 year old who just got told off by their mom about rolling their eyes. Then in defense said, “I can’t control it”", ">\n\nMan it's getting so aggressive sometimes here 😂", ">\n\ni certainly hope you are embarrassed about this in a couple years when you grow up.", ">\n\nOP is a habitual eye roller 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄", ">\n\nI wish to God we could block people by age, no more edgy 13yo’s", ">\n\nSomebody just got their ps5 taken away for rolling their eyes", ">\n\nTell me you're 12 without telling me you're 12.", ">\n\nit’s the definition of disrespectful and a sign that you have literally nothing intelligent to say in return. \nwhich is why we outgrow it as adults.", ">\n\nYou can control it. It’s not an “automatic response” unless you’ve taught yourself to do it. I never roll my eyes. It’s just not something I have ever practiced doing. And yes…if I’m saying something too you and you dismiss it with an eye roll…it’s super disrespectful.", ">\n\nrolling your eyes is just as respectful as sticking your tongue out at someone or making a stupid face in reaction to something someone says", ">\n\nIf you can’t control your eye movement, you need to see a neurologist, dude 😆. As it stands, eye rolling isn’t a reflex or a “natural reaction” to anything. Habits aren’t the same as involuntary reactions.\nRolling your eyes at someone is disrespectful. It’s an outward sign that you think something about your interaction with them was stupid or wrong. There’s no one here that will agree with you, and you know that you’re in the vast minority with this opinion because you posted it on this sub. Now learn some humility and accept that your opinion is factually incorrect based on science.", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nAre you like 14 and your mom got you in trouble cause you rolled your eyes at her? Lmao", ">\n\nI’m gonna show your mom this and it’s going to be another week of being grounded, you little shit lol", ">\n\nOmfg 😂", ">\n\nOP I have to ask.\n\n\nHow old are you?\n\n\nHow is your relationship with your parents?\n\n\nHow do you view authority figures in your life?", ">\n\nrolls eyes", ">\n\nIf you say or demand something stupid from me I will probably roll my eyes.", ">\n\nBut it is", ">\n\nJust like rolling your eyes is an innate response, so are other people's responses to you rolling your eyes.", ">\n\nSometimes being respectful requires hiding your subjective opinion on whether something is stupid or lame.", ">\n\nI wouldn’t say eye rolling is as involuntary as laughing or crying tho. It’s more of a choice." ]
> tell me you're a teenager without telling me you're a teenager	[ "🙄", ">\n\nYou’re grounded now", ">\n\nThe post above was someone getting electrocuted so this reply was very timely", ">\n\nThis news is shocking", ">\n\nIt definitely SPARKED my interest", ">\n\nAll of you guys need to leave, and not come back before learning how to conduct yourselves properly", ">\n\nUhhhh....... electricity", ">\n\nWell no, in the right context it is disrespectful. Rolling your eyes suggests that you're not taking the matter seriously or that you dont care which is a sign of disrespect towards whoever is speaking with you.", ">\n\nBut I can't control what I think. If I said \"man you're stupid and I don't care what you say\" thats disrespectful. I'm actually showing respect by not saying it.", ">\n\nI mean, actions speak louder than words, right?", ">\n\nIts not really an action tho its just an automatic response. Like gasping or yawning.", ">\n\nbullshit.\nSorry, it was an automatic response. Which is bullshit just like yours.", ">\n\nStill not the same thing. And they get on me for false analogies....", ">\n\nYou must be a teenager", ">\n\nLol how many times are you gonna post that. Dont you have an original thought of your own?", ">\n\nBruh I cant believe you make these posts. They're foolish", ">\n\nLaughing at someone can be disrespectful. Don't think so? Try laughing at someone's funeral.", ">\n\nThe disrespect comes from the one who told me a joke and made me laugh.", ">\n\nWhat about if no one said any joke? Because, you know, you are at a funeral.", ">\n\nSo someone's just there randomly laughing at shit? That sounds like a mental illness.", ">\n\nYou have never thought of something funny in your head to make yourself laugh? \nOr hell, maybe you didn't like the person who is buried and decided to laugh at them. You find it funny, so laughing must be appropriate, right?", ">\n\nWhy am I thinking about funny shit at a funeral.", ">\n\nBecause the universe likes to put us in uncomfortable positions sometimes.", ">\n\n“if its stupid or lame, you roll your eyes” - you found the disrespect", ">\n\nIm allowed to think whatever i want and its not disrespectful.", ">\n\nWhen you express contempt for something someone else said, it's disrespect.", ">\n\nWhat if what they said is contemptible?", ">\n\nSome people and comments deserve disrespect, still gonna be disrespect", ">\n\nLaughing, crying, and sneezing are all innate, involuntary reactions to certain types of stimuli. Rolling your eyes is a learned behavior. You can’t compare it to those other automatic responses because it’s not the same thing.", ">\n\nTake my upvote", ">\n\nOP rolled their eyes at someone and got chewed out for it.\nNow they're going online in an attempt to validate themselves.\n🙄", ">\n\nProbably got grounded.", ">\n\nPart of being a mature adult is to have self-control and not acting on every impulse and being respectful of people.", ">\n\n\nPart of being a mature adult\n\nYup but OP is clearly a teenager lol. They complain about being told off for doing chores wrong in another post…", ">\n\nEven a teenager should be able to have the fundamental basics of respect", ">\n\nOh I agree 100%", ">\n\nYou have poor self-control and poor self-awareness but the good news is that you can improve these things.", ">\n\n/r/wrongopinions", ">\n\nI feel like we need a new subreddit r/unpopularforareason", ">\n\nIt’s entire purpose is to be disrespectful. Nobody eyerolls something they respect. But how offensive it is depends on the context and how serious one is being.", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes\n\nYou rn: \"I'm not being disrespectful. I just thought what you said was stupid or lame.\"\n...", ">\n\nSaying its stupid could be disrespectful. A facial response is not.", ">\n\nLiterally every person in this thread agrees that it is.\nThis is your bad habit. Nobody else's responsibility but you.", ">\n\nThey can choose to not fly off the handle at what is just an innate reaction.", ">\n\nSo let me get this straight: you think you deserve to be able to disrespect whoever you like whenever you like but they can't as much as say you're being rude? Grow up.", ">\n\nFound the teenager.", ">\n\nMeh, I agree with that one. If you don't like how someone is doing something then do it yourself. There's a reason I live alone.", ">\n\nIt is a UNIVERSAL sign of disrespect. Globally. Deal with it.", ">\n\nLaughing can be disrespectuful too. If you cannot control your own reactions, well, what can I say, maybe you have not really grown up?", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s so it’s hard to control my own actions sometimes…", ">\n\nThank u I'm trying to explain how autism can make it hard to read not just others facial expressions but also ur own and it seems like no one has thought of the possibility that they acc don't realise it or csnt control it", ">\n\nWould you roll your eyes during a job interview if you thought a question was stupid or irrelevant? Do you think you’d get the job if you did?", ">\n\nPretty sure OP would think they were owed that job and they would think it’s ridiculous if they didn’t get it.\nOP is also a teenager going through their rebel phase though", ">\n\nYou're oddly specific here.", ">\n\nWhat was specific? Or rather oddly specific?", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a good way to fast track yourself to a divorce, if you want one.", ">\n\nI think OP needs the definition of respect before any further comment is made", ">\n\nOh I already know it, and I know it does not mean:\nDon't ever disagree with me\nDon't think bad thoughts about me\nDon't ever correct me when I'm blatantly wrong \nShine my boots with your tongue", ">\n\nSoooo this post isn’t about eye rolling is what I’m getting from this. You’ve got issues to work through with your parents or partner or something", ">\n\nSince when tf was eye rolling involuntary?", ">", ">\n\nYour lack of self control is not a justification for disrespect. I personally dont know anyone who reacts to anything by rolling their eyes. Just be mature and communicate.", ">\n\nAnd what if it's not stupid and someone rolls their eyes? Wouldn't it be disrespectful in that case?", ">\n\nIn the eye rollers opinion then it must have been. But you can't fault someone for thinking its stupid.", ">\n\nSo eyerolling is some kind of exceptional thing that is free from criticism? \nIf one has the freedom to eye roll, then someone else has the freedom to criticize the eye roller right? \nOr is it your opinion that besides that everyone who sees an eye roller has to just stfu", ">\n\nMeh, it is disrespectful. It's a way to be disrespectful without having to say That's the dumbest thing I've heard all month, and everyone else who heard it is also dumber for hearing it as well.", ">\n\nBut I didn't say it that's the point.", ">\n\nJust cuz you don’t use words doesn’t mean it’s not disrespectful. Walking away while someone is talking to you, rolling your eyes, slapping someone, and starting to play a game on your phone while someone is talking to you are all disrespectful. It doesn’t matter that you didn’t say anything, your lack of respect still showed.", ">\n\nespecially the way theyre responding to comments", ">\n\nYeah, a natural reaction if you’ve never learned to manage your emotions as opposed to letting them run your life. I’m not talking about being totally monotone rational, either. You need to learn a balance between rational and emotional…which includes healthy, appropriate, respectful expression of honest feelings. Eye rolling is absolutely disrespectful, belittling, and dismissive.", ">\n\nComments: OP is completely wrong and has attitude issues", ">\n\nWhat sounds like mental illness is you refusing to admit that rolling your eyes is simply not an unconditional response. Whether you want to believe it or not, you are doing it intentionally and you can control it. \nYou’re just to much of a b—— to do so.", ">\n\nSame to you", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a learned reaction. Not natural. I rarely of ever roll my eyes at anything.", ">", ">\n\nJust like raising your middle finger. Or vocalizing the sounds \"fuck you\". Or fingers typing the words fuck you OP. Nothing is disrespectful!", ">\n\nNice try but not the same thing at all. You're talking about thought out actions here. The eye roll is more like a reaction. Its quick, its automatic, no one has to think \"im rolling my eyes now\" it just happens. \nSort of like when telling a lie - no one decides to have their eyes dart around suspiciously, it just happens.", ">\n\nNo. Rolling your eyes is not involuntary. It can be controlled. You have a bad habit that you CAN stop. Much like a child learning not to suck their thumb, or biting your nails.", ">\n\nHow about you start with your hair scratching", ">\n\nYour opinion is a contradiction in itself. And, yeah. I disagree. Rolling your eyes is 100% to show lack of respect, and you have no intentions of showing it, even to reason, by rolling your eyes at something someone could believe is meaningful or important. Even if it is stupid.\nI get your point, we roll our eyes to express how we feel, but it is still a physical snare. You say rolling your eyes isn't disrespectful, while saying it's okay to roll your eyes because something is \" stupid or lame\", which in itself is disrespectful. You sound like a very young person in the middle of a learning moment, and you're trying to react with rebellion. It only shows that you lack maturity and are in need of growth. This might be a time for you to read these comments and reevaluate. There are healthier ways to react to things you disagree with, or lack interest in. If not, you can just accept that you roll your eyes to show lack of respect.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is much more deliberate than laughter, tears, or sneezing. It's a conscious action in response to a judgement you're making.", ">\n\nNah, dude it is disrespectful \nYou just have no self control and by the looks of it you don't want to build some", ">\n\nYour post made me roll my eyes very hard.", ">\n\n“No, officer, my wife - she MADE me hit her!”", ">\n\nIt's a natural reaction for a sooky kid but not an adult, if you do that as an adult you just manchild that wants everything their way", ">\n\npoor OP.... did you get in trouble after you rolled your eyes at something again? did you not prehaps learn from previous interactions? rolling your eyes at something \"stupid or lame\" is an intentional response that is disrespectful to whatever it is. mature people dont act that way.....", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes.\n\nSo it is disrespectful. \n\nIts like throwing pepper in someone's face an expecting them not to sneeze.\n\nNo it’s not. You can easily (edited in) refrain from rolling your eyes, while it’s much more difficult to refrain from sneezing. \nIt’s fine to think whatever you want, but you might want to refrain from rolling your eyes when you’re, say, interacting with your boss; aka someone that can make you unemployed for whatever reason they please.", ">\n\nThis isn't an opinion. It's just flat wrong. \nIt is disrespectful because it is a conscious signifier which clearly communicated that you think that the thing you are rolling your eyes at is not worthy of respect.", ">\n\nYou have to go out of your way to roll your eyes. It is NOT gutteral or instinctual", ">\n\nIf you annoy me, my arm whips out in a natural reaction and slaps you.", ">\n\nSorry, kiddo, it’s 100% disrespectful. Just own the shit and quit trying to lawyer around it.\nI say that after having rolled my eyes so hard at your post, I travelled back in time.", ">\n\nTell that to my family lol you get the belt", ">\n\nThis was made my a 15 year old who just got told off by their mom about rolling their eyes. Then in defense said, “I can’t control it”", ">\n\nMan it's getting so aggressive sometimes here 😂", ">\n\ni certainly hope you are embarrassed about this in a couple years when you grow up.", ">\n\nOP is a habitual eye roller 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄", ">\n\nI wish to God we could block people by age, no more edgy 13yo’s", ">\n\nSomebody just got their ps5 taken away for rolling their eyes", ">\n\nTell me you're 12 without telling me you're 12.", ">\n\nit’s the definition of disrespectful and a sign that you have literally nothing intelligent to say in return. \nwhich is why we outgrow it as adults.", ">\n\nYou can control it. It’s not an “automatic response” unless you’ve taught yourself to do it. I never roll my eyes. It’s just not something I have ever practiced doing. And yes…if I’m saying something too you and you dismiss it with an eye roll…it’s super disrespectful.", ">\n\nrolling your eyes is just as respectful as sticking your tongue out at someone or making a stupid face in reaction to something someone says", ">\n\nIf you can’t control your eye movement, you need to see a neurologist, dude 😆. As it stands, eye rolling isn’t a reflex or a “natural reaction” to anything. Habits aren’t the same as involuntary reactions.\nRolling your eyes at someone is disrespectful. It’s an outward sign that you think something about your interaction with them was stupid or wrong. There’s no one here that will agree with you, and you know that you’re in the vast minority with this opinion because you posted it on this sub. Now learn some humility and accept that your opinion is factually incorrect based on science.", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nAre you like 14 and your mom got you in trouble cause you rolled your eyes at her? Lmao", ">\n\nI’m gonna show your mom this and it’s going to be another week of being grounded, you little shit lol", ">\n\nOmfg 😂", ">\n\nOP I have to ask.\n\n\nHow old are you?\n\n\nHow is your relationship with your parents?\n\n\nHow do you view authority figures in your life?", ">\n\nrolls eyes", ">\n\nIf you say or demand something stupid from me I will probably roll my eyes.", ">\n\nBut it is", ">\n\nJust like rolling your eyes is an innate response, so are other people's responses to you rolling your eyes.", ">\n\nSometimes being respectful requires hiding your subjective opinion on whether something is stupid or lame.", ">\n\nI wouldn’t say eye rolling is as involuntary as laughing or crying tho. It’s more of a choice.", ">\n\nIf someone rolls their eyes then I feel disrespected it’s a natural reaction." ]
> I'm rolling my eyes at this post. And I definitely mean it disrespectfully.	[ "🙄", ">\n\nYou’re grounded now", ">\n\nThe post above was someone getting electrocuted so this reply was very timely", ">\n\nThis news is shocking", ">\n\nIt definitely SPARKED my interest", ">\n\nAll of you guys need to leave, and not come back before learning how to conduct yourselves properly", ">\n\nUhhhh....... electricity", ">\n\nWell no, in the right context it is disrespectful. Rolling your eyes suggests that you're not taking the matter seriously or that you dont care which is a sign of disrespect towards whoever is speaking with you.", ">\n\nBut I can't control what I think. If I said \"man you're stupid and I don't care what you say\" thats disrespectful. I'm actually showing respect by not saying it.", ">\n\nI mean, actions speak louder than words, right?", ">\n\nIts not really an action tho its just an automatic response. Like gasping or yawning.", ">\n\nbullshit.\nSorry, it was an automatic response. Which is bullshit just like yours.", ">\n\nStill not the same thing. And they get on me for false analogies....", ">\n\nYou must be a teenager", ">\n\nLol how many times are you gonna post that. Dont you have an original thought of your own?", ">\n\nBruh I cant believe you make these posts. They're foolish", ">\n\nLaughing at someone can be disrespectful. Don't think so? Try laughing at someone's funeral.", ">\n\nThe disrespect comes from the one who told me a joke and made me laugh.", ">\n\nWhat about if no one said any joke? Because, you know, you are at a funeral.", ">\n\nSo someone's just there randomly laughing at shit? That sounds like a mental illness.", ">\n\nYou have never thought of something funny in your head to make yourself laugh? \nOr hell, maybe you didn't like the person who is buried and decided to laugh at them. You find it funny, so laughing must be appropriate, right?", ">\n\nWhy am I thinking about funny shit at a funeral.", ">\n\nBecause the universe likes to put us in uncomfortable positions sometimes.", ">\n\n“if its stupid or lame, you roll your eyes” - you found the disrespect", ">\n\nIm allowed to think whatever i want and its not disrespectful.", ">\n\nWhen you express contempt for something someone else said, it's disrespect.", ">\n\nWhat if what they said is contemptible?", ">\n\nSome people and comments deserve disrespect, still gonna be disrespect", ">\n\nLaughing, crying, and sneezing are all innate, involuntary reactions to certain types of stimuli. Rolling your eyes is a learned behavior. You can’t compare it to those other automatic responses because it’s not the same thing.", ">\n\nTake my upvote", ">\n\nOP rolled their eyes at someone and got chewed out for it.\nNow they're going online in an attempt to validate themselves.\n🙄", ">\n\nProbably got grounded.", ">\n\nPart of being a mature adult is to have self-control and not acting on every impulse and being respectful of people.", ">\n\n\nPart of being a mature adult\n\nYup but OP is clearly a teenager lol. They complain about being told off for doing chores wrong in another post…", ">\n\nEven a teenager should be able to have the fundamental basics of respect", ">\n\nOh I agree 100%", ">\n\nYou have poor self-control and poor self-awareness but the good news is that you can improve these things.", ">\n\n/r/wrongopinions", ">\n\nI feel like we need a new subreddit r/unpopularforareason", ">\n\nIt’s entire purpose is to be disrespectful. Nobody eyerolls something they respect. But how offensive it is depends on the context and how serious one is being.", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes\n\nYou rn: \"I'm not being disrespectful. I just thought what you said was stupid or lame.\"\n...", ">\n\nSaying its stupid could be disrespectful. A facial response is not.", ">\n\nLiterally every person in this thread agrees that it is.\nThis is your bad habit. Nobody else's responsibility but you.", ">\n\nThey can choose to not fly off the handle at what is just an innate reaction.", ">\n\nSo let me get this straight: you think you deserve to be able to disrespect whoever you like whenever you like but they can't as much as say you're being rude? Grow up.", ">\n\nFound the teenager.", ">\n\nMeh, I agree with that one. If you don't like how someone is doing something then do it yourself. There's a reason I live alone.", ">\n\nIt is a UNIVERSAL sign of disrespect. Globally. Deal with it.", ">\n\nLaughing can be disrespectuful too. If you cannot control your own reactions, well, what can I say, maybe you have not really grown up?", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s so it’s hard to control my own actions sometimes…", ">\n\nThank u I'm trying to explain how autism can make it hard to read not just others facial expressions but also ur own and it seems like no one has thought of the possibility that they acc don't realise it or csnt control it", ">\n\nWould you roll your eyes during a job interview if you thought a question was stupid or irrelevant? Do you think you’d get the job if you did?", ">\n\nPretty sure OP would think they were owed that job and they would think it’s ridiculous if they didn’t get it.\nOP is also a teenager going through their rebel phase though", ">\n\nYou're oddly specific here.", ">\n\nWhat was specific? Or rather oddly specific?", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a good way to fast track yourself to a divorce, if you want one.", ">\n\nI think OP needs the definition of respect before any further comment is made", ">\n\nOh I already know it, and I know it does not mean:\nDon't ever disagree with me\nDon't think bad thoughts about me\nDon't ever correct me when I'm blatantly wrong \nShine my boots with your tongue", ">\n\nSoooo this post isn’t about eye rolling is what I’m getting from this. You’ve got issues to work through with your parents or partner or something", ">\n\nSince when tf was eye rolling involuntary?", ">", ">\n\nYour lack of self control is not a justification for disrespect. I personally dont know anyone who reacts to anything by rolling their eyes. Just be mature and communicate.", ">\n\nAnd what if it's not stupid and someone rolls their eyes? Wouldn't it be disrespectful in that case?", ">\n\nIn the eye rollers opinion then it must have been. But you can't fault someone for thinking its stupid.", ">\n\nSo eyerolling is some kind of exceptional thing that is free from criticism? \nIf one has the freedom to eye roll, then someone else has the freedom to criticize the eye roller right? \nOr is it your opinion that besides that everyone who sees an eye roller has to just stfu", ">\n\nMeh, it is disrespectful. It's a way to be disrespectful without having to say That's the dumbest thing I've heard all month, and everyone else who heard it is also dumber for hearing it as well.", ">\n\nBut I didn't say it that's the point.", ">\n\nJust cuz you don’t use words doesn’t mean it’s not disrespectful. Walking away while someone is talking to you, rolling your eyes, slapping someone, and starting to play a game on your phone while someone is talking to you are all disrespectful. It doesn’t matter that you didn’t say anything, your lack of respect still showed.", ">\n\nespecially the way theyre responding to comments", ">\n\nYeah, a natural reaction if you’ve never learned to manage your emotions as opposed to letting them run your life. I’m not talking about being totally monotone rational, either. You need to learn a balance between rational and emotional…which includes healthy, appropriate, respectful expression of honest feelings. Eye rolling is absolutely disrespectful, belittling, and dismissive.", ">\n\nComments: OP is completely wrong and has attitude issues", ">\n\nWhat sounds like mental illness is you refusing to admit that rolling your eyes is simply not an unconditional response. Whether you want to believe it or not, you are doing it intentionally and you can control it. \nYou’re just to much of a b—— to do so.", ">\n\nSame to you", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a learned reaction. Not natural. I rarely of ever roll my eyes at anything.", ">", ">\n\nJust like raising your middle finger. Or vocalizing the sounds \"fuck you\". Or fingers typing the words fuck you OP. Nothing is disrespectful!", ">\n\nNice try but not the same thing at all. You're talking about thought out actions here. The eye roll is more like a reaction. Its quick, its automatic, no one has to think \"im rolling my eyes now\" it just happens. \nSort of like when telling a lie - no one decides to have their eyes dart around suspiciously, it just happens.", ">\n\nNo. Rolling your eyes is not involuntary. It can be controlled. You have a bad habit that you CAN stop. Much like a child learning not to suck their thumb, or biting your nails.", ">\n\nHow about you start with your hair scratching", ">\n\nYour opinion is a contradiction in itself. And, yeah. I disagree. Rolling your eyes is 100% to show lack of respect, and you have no intentions of showing it, even to reason, by rolling your eyes at something someone could believe is meaningful or important. Even if it is stupid.\nI get your point, we roll our eyes to express how we feel, but it is still a physical snare. You say rolling your eyes isn't disrespectful, while saying it's okay to roll your eyes because something is \" stupid or lame\", which in itself is disrespectful. You sound like a very young person in the middle of a learning moment, and you're trying to react with rebellion. It only shows that you lack maturity and are in need of growth. This might be a time for you to read these comments and reevaluate. There are healthier ways to react to things you disagree with, or lack interest in. If not, you can just accept that you roll your eyes to show lack of respect.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is much more deliberate than laughter, tears, or sneezing. It's a conscious action in response to a judgement you're making.", ">\n\nNah, dude it is disrespectful \nYou just have no self control and by the looks of it you don't want to build some", ">\n\nYour post made me roll my eyes very hard.", ">\n\n“No, officer, my wife - she MADE me hit her!”", ">\n\nIt's a natural reaction for a sooky kid but not an adult, if you do that as an adult you just manchild that wants everything their way", ">\n\npoor OP.... did you get in trouble after you rolled your eyes at something again? did you not prehaps learn from previous interactions? rolling your eyes at something \"stupid or lame\" is an intentional response that is disrespectful to whatever it is. mature people dont act that way.....", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes.\n\nSo it is disrespectful. \n\nIts like throwing pepper in someone's face an expecting them not to sneeze.\n\nNo it’s not. You can easily (edited in) refrain from rolling your eyes, while it’s much more difficult to refrain from sneezing. \nIt’s fine to think whatever you want, but you might want to refrain from rolling your eyes when you’re, say, interacting with your boss; aka someone that can make you unemployed for whatever reason they please.", ">\n\nThis isn't an opinion. It's just flat wrong. \nIt is disrespectful because it is a conscious signifier which clearly communicated that you think that the thing you are rolling your eyes at is not worthy of respect.", ">\n\nYou have to go out of your way to roll your eyes. It is NOT gutteral or instinctual", ">\n\nIf you annoy me, my arm whips out in a natural reaction and slaps you.", ">\n\nSorry, kiddo, it’s 100% disrespectful. Just own the shit and quit trying to lawyer around it.\nI say that after having rolled my eyes so hard at your post, I travelled back in time.", ">\n\nTell that to my family lol you get the belt", ">\n\nThis was made my a 15 year old who just got told off by their mom about rolling their eyes. Then in defense said, “I can’t control it”", ">\n\nMan it's getting so aggressive sometimes here 😂", ">\n\ni certainly hope you are embarrassed about this in a couple years when you grow up.", ">\n\nOP is a habitual eye roller 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄", ">\n\nI wish to God we could block people by age, no more edgy 13yo’s", ">\n\nSomebody just got their ps5 taken away for rolling their eyes", ">\n\nTell me you're 12 without telling me you're 12.", ">\n\nit’s the definition of disrespectful and a sign that you have literally nothing intelligent to say in return. \nwhich is why we outgrow it as adults.", ">\n\nYou can control it. It’s not an “automatic response” unless you’ve taught yourself to do it. I never roll my eyes. It’s just not something I have ever practiced doing. And yes…if I’m saying something too you and you dismiss it with an eye roll…it’s super disrespectful.", ">\n\nrolling your eyes is just as respectful as sticking your tongue out at someone or making a stupid face in reaction to something someone says", ">\n\nIf you can’t control your eye movement, you need to see a neurologist, dude 😆. As it stands, eye rolling isn’t a reflex or a “natural reaction” to anything. Habits aren’t the same as involuntary reactions.\nRolling your eyes at someone is disrespectful. It’s an outward sign that you think something about your interaction with them was stupid or wrong. There’s no one here that will agree with you, and you know that you’re in the vast minority with this opinion because you posted it on this sub. Now learn some humility and accept that your opinion is factually incorrect based on science.", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nAre you like 14 and your mom got you in trouble cause you rolled your eyes at her? Lmao", ">\n\nI’m gonna show your mom this and it’s going to be another week of being grounded, you little shit lol", ">\n\nOmfg 😂", ">\n\nOP I have to ask.\n\n\nHow old are you?\n\n\nHow is your relationship with your parents?\n\n\nHow do you view authority figures in your life?", ">\n\nrolls eyes", ">\n\nIf you say or demand something stupid from me I will probably roll my eyes.", ">\n\nBut it is", ">\n\nJust like rolling your eyes is an innate response, so are other people's responses to you rolling your eyes.", ">\n\nSometimes being respectful requires hiding your subjective opinion on whether something is stupid or lame.", ">\n\nI wouldn’t say eye rolling is as involuntary as laughing or crying tho. It’s more of a choice.", ">\n\nIf someone rolls their eyes then I feel disrespected it’s a natural reaction.", ">\n\ntell me you're a teenager without telling me you're a teenager" ]
> Lmao this kid had an argument with his parent(s) or teacher and is venting on Reddit.	[ "🙄", ">\n\nYou’re grounded now", ">\n\nThe post above was someone getting electrocuted so this reply was very timely", ">\n\nThis news is shocking", ">\n\nIt definitely SPARKED my interest", ">\n\nAll of you guys need to leave, and not come back before learning how to conduct yourselves properly", ">\n\nUhhhh....... electricity", ">\n\nWell no, in the right context it is disrespectful. Rolling your eyes suggests that you're not taking the matter seriously or that you dont care which is a sign of disrespect towards whoever is speaking with you.", ">\n\nBut I can't control what I think. If I said \"man you're stupid and I don't care what you say\" thats disrespectful. I'm actually showing respect by not saying it.", ">\n\nI mean, actions speak louder than words, right?", ">\n\nIts not really an action tho its just an automatic response. Like gasping or yawning.", ">\n\nbullshit.\nSorry, it was an automatic response. Which is bullshit just like yours.", ">\n\nStill not the same thing. And they get on me for false analogies....", ">\n\nYou must be a teenager", ">\n\nLol how many times are you gonna post that. Dont you have an original thought of your own?", ">\n\nBruh I cant believe you make these posts. They're foolish", ">\n\nLaughing at someone can be disrespectful. Don't think so? Try laughing at someone's funeral.", ">\n\nThe disrespect comes from the one who told me a joke and made me laugh.", ">\n\nWhat about if no one said any joke? Because, you know, you are at a funeral.", ">\n\nSo someone's just there randomly laughing at shit? That sounds like a mental illness.", ">\n\nYou have never thought of something funny in your head to make yourself laugh? \nOr hell, maybe you didn't like the person who is buried and decided to laugh at them. You find it funny, so laughing must be appropriate, right?", ">\n\nWhy am I thinking about funny shit at a funeral.", ">\n\nBecause the universe likes to put us in uncomfortable positions sometimes.", ">\n\n“if its stupid or lame, you roll your eyes” - you found the disrespect", ">\n\nIm allowed to think whatever i want and its not disrespectful.", ">\n\nWhen you express contempt for something someone else said, it's disrespect.", ">\n\nWhat if what they said is contemptible?", ">\n\nSome people and comments deserve disrespect, still gonna be disrespect", ">\n\nLaughing, crying, and sneezing are all innate, involuntary reactions to certain types of stimuli. Rolling your eyes is a learned behavior. You can’t compare it to those other automatic responses because it’s not the same thing.", ">\n\nTake my upvote", ">\n\nOP rolled their eyes at someone and got chewed out for it.\nNow they're going online in an attempt to validate themselves.\n🙄", ">\n\nProbably got grounded.", ">\n\nPart of being a mature adult is to have self-control and not acting on every impulse and being respectful of people.", ">\n\n\nPart of being a mature adult\n\nYup but OP is clearly a teenager lol. They complain about being told off for doing chores wrong in another post…", ">\n\nEven a teenager should be able to have the fundamental basics of respect", ">\n\nOh I agree 100%", ">\n\nYou have poor self-control and poor self-awareness but the good news is that you can improve these things.", ">\n\n/r/wrongopinions", ">\n\nI feel like we need a new subreddit r/unpopularforareason", ">\n\nIt’s entire purpose is to be disrespectful. Nobody eyerolls something they respect. But how offensive it is depends on the context and how serious one is being.", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes\n\nYou rn: \"I'm not being disrespectful. I just thought what you said was stupid or lame.\"\n...", ">\n\nSaying its stupid could be disrespectful. A facial response is not.", ">\n\nLiterally every person in this thread agrees that it is.\nThis is your bad habit. Nobody else's responsibility but you.", ">\n\nThey can choose to not fly off the handle at what is just an innate reaction.", ">\n\nSo let me get this straight: you think you deserve to be able to disrespect whoever you like whenever you like but they can't as much as say you're being rude? Grow up.", ">\n\nFound the teenager.", ">\n\nMeh, I agree with that one. If you don't like how someone is doing something then do it yourself. There's a reason I live alone.", ">\n\nIt is a UNIVERSAL sign of disrespect. Globally. Deal with it.", ">\n\nLaughing can be disrespectuful too. If you cannot control your own reactions, well, what can I say, maybe you have not really grown up?", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s so it’s hard to control my own actions sometimes…", ">\n\nThank u I'm trying to explain how autism can make it hard to read not just others facial expressions but also ur own and it seems like no one has thought of the possibility that they acc don't realise it or csnt control it", ">\n\nWould you roll your eyes during a job interview if you thought a question was stupid or irrelevant? Do you think you’d get the job if you did?", ">\n\nPretty sure OP would think they were owed that job and they would think it’s ridiculous if they didn’t get it.\nOP is also a teenager going through their rebel phase though", ">\n\nYou're oddly specific here.", ">\n\nWhat was specific? Or rather oddly specific?", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a good way to fast track yourself to a divorce, if you want one.", ">\n\nI think OP needs the definition of respect before any further comment is made", ">\n\nOh I already know it, and I know it does not mean:\nDon't ever disagree with me\nDon't think bad thoughts about me\nDon't ever correct me when I'm blatantly wrong \nShine my boots with your tongue", ">\n\nSoooo this post isn’t about eye rolling is what I’m getting from this. You’ve got issues to work through with your parents or partner or something", ">\n\nSince when tf was eye rolling involuntary?", ">", ">\n\nYour lack of self control is not a justification for disrespect. I personally dont know anyone who reacts to anything by rolling their eyes. Just be mature and communicate.", ">\n\nAnd what if it's not stupid and someone rolls their eyes? Wouldn't it be disrespectful in that case?", ">\n\nIn the eye rollers opinion then it must have been. But you can't fault someone for thinking its stupid.", ">\n\nSo eyerolling is some kind of exceptional thing that is free from criticism? \nIf one has the freedom to eye roll, then someone else has the freedom to criticize the eye roller right? \nOr is it your opinion that besides that everyone who sees an eye roller has to just stfu", ">\n\nMeh, it is disrespectful. It's a way to be disrespectful without having to say That's the dumbest thing I've heard all month, and everyone else who heard it is also dumber for hearing it as well.", ">\n\nBut I didn't say it that's the point.", ">\n\nJust cuz you don’t use words doesn’t mean it’s not disrespectful. Walking away while someone is talking to you, rolling your eyes, slapping someone, and starting to play a game on your phone while someone is talking to you are all disrespectful. It doesn’t matter that you didn’t say anything, your lack of respect still showed.", ">\n\nespecially the way theyre responding to comments", ">\n\nYeah, a natural reaction if you’ve never learned to manage your emotions as opposed to letting them run your life. I’m not talking about being totally monotone rational, either. You need to learn a balance between rational and emotional…which includes healthy, appropriate, respectful expression of honest feelings. Eye rolling is absolutely disrespectful, belittling, and dismissive.", ">\n\nComments: OP is completely wrong and has attitude issues", ">\n\nWhat sounds like mental illness is you refusing to admit that rolling your eyes is simply not an unconditional response. Whether you want to believe it or not, you are doing it intentionally and you can control it. \nYou’re just to much of a b—— to do so.", ">\n\nSame to you", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a learned reaction. Not natural. I rarely of ever roll my eyes at anything.", ">", ">\n\nJust like raising your middle finger. Or vocalizing the sounds \"fuck you\". Or fingers typing the words fuck you OP. Nothing is disrespectful!", ">\n\nNice try but not the same thing at all. You're talking about thought out actions here. The eye roll is more like a reaction. Its quick, its automatic, no one has to think \"im rolling my eyes now\" it just happens. \nSort of like when telling a lie - no one decides to have their eyes dart around suspiciously, it just happens.", ">\n\nNo. Rolling your eyes is not involuntary. It can be controlled. You have a bad habit that you CAN stop. Much like a child learning not to suck their thumb, or biting your nails.", ">\n\nHow about you start with your hair scratching", ">\n\nYour opinion is a contradiction in itself. And, yeah. I disagree. Rolling your eyes is 100% to show lack of respect, and you have no intentions of showing it, even to reason, by rolling your eyes at something someone could believe is meaningful or important. Even if it is stupid.\nI get your point, we roll our eyes to express how we feel, but it is still a physical snare. You say rolling your eyes isn't disrespectful, while saying it's okay to roll your eyes because something is \" stupid or lame\", which in itself is disrespectful. You sound like a very young person in the middle of a learning moment, and you're trying to react with rebellion. It only shows that you lack maturity and are in need of growth. This might be a time for you to read these comments and reevaluate. There are healthier ways to react to things you disagree with, or lack interest in. If not, you can just accept that you roll your eyes to show lack of respect.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is much more deliberate than laughter, tears, or sneezing. It's a conscious action in response to a judgement you're making.", ">\n\nNah, dude it is disrespectful \nYou just have no self control and by the looks of it you don't want to build some", ">\n\nYour post made me roll my eyes very hard.", ">\n\n“No, officer, my wife - she MADE me hit her!”", ">\n\nIt's a natural reaction for a sooky kid but not an adult, if you do that as an adult you just manchild that wants everything their way", ">\n\npoor OP.... did you get in trouble after you rolled your eyes at something again? did you not prehaps learn from previous interactions? rolling your eyes at something \"stupid or lame\" is an intentional response that is disrespectful to whatever it is. mature people dont act that way.....", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes.\n\nSo it is disrespectful. \n\nIts like throwing pepper in someone's face an expecting them not to sneeze.\n\nNo it’s not. You can easily (edited in) refrain from rolling your eyes, while it’s much more difficult to refrain from sneezing. \nIt’s fine to think whatever you want, but you might want to refrain from rolling your eyes when you’re, say, interacting with your boss; aka someone that can make you unemployed for whatever reason they please.", ">\n\nThis isn't an opinion. It's just flat wrong. \nIt is disrespectful because it is a conscious signifier which clearly communicated that you think that the thing you are rolling your eyes at is not worthy of respect.", ">\n\nYou have to go out of your way to roll your eyes. It is NOT gutteral or instinctual", ">\n\nIf you annoy me, my arm whips out in a natural reaction and slaps you.", ">\n\nSorry, kiddo, it’s 100% disrespectful. Just own the shit and quit trying to lawyer around it.\nI say that after having rolled my eyes so hard at your post, I travelled back in time.", ">\n\nTell that to my family lol you get the belt", ">\n\nThis was made my a 15 year old who just got told off by their mom about rolling their eyes. Then in defense said, “I can’t control it”", ">\n\nMan it's getting so aggressive sometimes here 😂", ">\n\ni certainly hope you are embarrassed about this in a couple years when you grow up.", ">\n\nOP is a habitual eye roller 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄", ">\n\nI wish to God we could block people by age, no more edgy 13yo’s", ">\n\nSomebody just got their ps5 taken away for rolling their eyes", ">\n\nTell me you're 12 without telling me you're 12.", ">\n\nit’s the definition of disrespectful and a sign that you have literally nothing intelligent to say in return. \nwhich is why we outgrow it as adults.", ">\n\nYou can control it. It’s not an “automatic response” unless you’ve taught yourself to do it. I never roll my eyes. It’s just not something I have ever practiced doing. And yes…if I’m saying something too you and you dismiss it with an eye roll…it’s super disrespectful.", ">\n\nrolling your eyes is just as respectful as sticking your tongue out at someone or making a stupid face in reaction to something someone says", ">\n\nIf you can’t control your eye movement, you need to see a neurologist, dude 😆. As it stands, eye rolling isn’t a reflex or a “natural reaction” to anything. Habits aren’t the same as involuntary reactions.\nRolling your eyes at someone is disrespectful. It’s an outward sign that you think something about your interaction with them was stupid or wrong. There’s no one here that will agree with you, and you know that you’re in the vast minority with this opinion because you posted it on this sub. Now learn some humility and accept that your opinion is factually incorrect based on science.", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nAre you like 14 and your mom got you in trouble cause you rolled your eyes at her? Lmao", ">\n\nI’m gonna show your mom this and it’s going to be another week of being grounded, you little shit lol", ">\n\nOmfg 😂", ">\n\nOP I have to ask.\n\n\nHow old are you?\n\n\nHow is your relationship with your parents?\n\n\nHow do you view authority figures in your life?", ">\n\nrolls eyes", ">\n\nIf you say or demand something stupid from me I will probably roll my eyes.", ">\n\nBut it is", ">\n\nJust like rolling your eyes is an innate response, so are other people's responses to you rolling your eyes.", ">\n\nSometimes being respectful requires hiding your subjective opinion on whether something is stupid or lame.", ">\n\nI wouldn’t say eye rolling is as involuntary as laughing or crying tho. It’s more of a choice.", ">\n\nIf someone rolls their eyes then I feel disrespected it’s a natural reaction.", ">\n\ntell me you're a teenager without telling me you're a teenager", ">\n\nI'm rolling my eyes at this post. And I definitely mean it disrespectfully." ]
> You sound like an eye rolling arsehole	[ "🙄", ">\n\nYou’re grounded now", ">\n\nThe post above was someone getting electrocuted so this reply was very timely", ">\n\nThis news is shocking", ">\n\nIt definitely SPARKED my interest", ">\n\nAll of you guys need to leave, and not come back before learning how to conduct yourselves properly", ">\n\nUhhhh....... electricity", ">\n\nWell no, in the right context it is disrespectful. Rolling your eyes suggests that you're not taking the matter seriously or that you dont care which is a sign of disrespect towards whoever is speaking with you.", ">\n\nBut I can't control what I think. If I said \"man you're stupid and I don't care what you say\" thats disrespectful. I'm actually showing respect by not saying it.", ">\n\nI mean, actions speak louder than words, right?", ">\n\nIts not really an action tho its just an automatic response. Like gasping or yawning.", ">\n\nbullshit.\nSorry, it was an automatic response. Which is bullshit just like yours.", ">\n\nStill not the same thing. And they get on me for false analogies....", ">\n\nYou must be a teenager", ">\n\nLol how many times are you gonna post that. Dont you have an original thought of your own?", ">\n\nBruh I cant believe you make these posts. They're foolish", ">\n\nLaughing at someone can be disrespectful. Don't think so? Try laughing at someone's funeral.", ">\n\nThe disrespect comes from the one who told me a joke and made me laugh.", ">\n\nWhat about if no one said any joke? Because, you know, you are at a funeral.", ">\n\nSo someone's just there randomly laughing at shit? That sounds like a mental illness.", ">\n\nYou have never thought of something funny in your head to make yourself laugh? \nOr hell, maybe you didn't like the person who is buried and decided to laugh at them. You find it funny, so laughing must be appropriate, right?", ">\n\nWhy am I thinking about funny shit at a funeral.", ">\n\nBecause the universe likes to put us in uncomfortable positions sometimes.", ">\n\n“if its stupid or lame, you roll your eyes” - you found the disrespect", ">\n\nIm allowed to think whatever i want and its not disrespectful.", ">\n\nWhen you express contempt for something someone else said, it's disrespect.", ">\n\nWhat if what they said is contemptible?", ">\n\nSome people and comments deserve disrespect, still gonna be disrespect", ">\n\nLaughing, crying, and sneezing are all innate, involuntary reactions to certain types of stimuli. Rolling your eyes is a learned behavior. You can’t compare it to those other automatic responses because it’s not the same thing.", ">\n\nTake my upvote", ">\n\nOP rolled their eyes at someone and got chewed out for it.\nNow they're going online in an attempt to validate themselves.\n🙄", ">\n\nProbably got grounded.", ">\n\nPart of being a mature adult is to have self-control and not acting on every impulse and being respectful of people.", ">\n\n\nPart of being a mature adult\n\nYup but OP is clearly a teenager lol. They complain about being told off for doing chores wrong in another post…", ">\n\nEven a teenager should be able to have the fundamental basics of respect", ">\n\nOh I agree 100%", ">\n\nYou have poor self-control and poor self-awareness but the good news is that you can improve these things.", ">\n\n/r/wrongopinions", ">\n\nI feel like we need a new subreddit r/unpopularforareason", ">\n\nIt’s entire purpose is to be disrespectful. Nobody eyerolls something they respect. But how offensive it is depends on the context and how serious one is being.", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes\n\nYou rn: \"I'm not being disrespectful. I just thought what you said was stupid or lame.\"\n...", ">\n\nSaying its stupid could be disrespectful. A facial response is not.", ">\n\nLiterally every person in this thread agrees that it is.\nThis is your bad habit. Nobody else's responsibility but you.", ">\n\nThey can choose to not fly off the handle at what is just an innate reaction.", ">\n\nSo let me get this straight: you think you deserve to be able to disrespect whoever you like whenever you like but they can't as much as say you're being rude? Grow up.", ">\n\nFound the teenager.", ">\n\nMeh, I agree with that one. If you don't like how someone is doing something then do it yourself. There's a reason I live alone.", ">\n\nIt is a UNIVERSAL sign of disrespect. Globally. Deal with it.", ">\n\nLaughing can be disrespectuful too. If you cannot control your own reactions, well, what can I say, maybe you have not really grown up?", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s so it’s hard to control my own actions sometimes…", ">\n\nThank u I'm trying to explain how autism can make it hard to read not just others facial expressions but also ur own and it seems like no one has thought of the possibility that they acc don't realise it or csnt control it", ">\n\nWould you roll your eyes during a job interview if you thought a question was stupid or irrelevant? Do you think you’d get the job if you did?", ">\n\nPretty sure OP would think they were owed that job and they would think it’s ridiculous if they didn’t get it.\nOP is also a teenager going through their rebel phase though", ">\n\nYou're oddly specific here.", ">\n\nWhat was specific? Or rather oddly specific?", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a good way to fast track yourself to a divorce, if you want one.", ">\n\nI think OP needs the definition of respect before any further comment is made", ">\n\nOh I already know it, and I know it does not mean:\nDon't ever disagree with me\nDon't think bad thoughts about me\nDon't ever correct me when I'm blatantly wrong \nShine my boots with your tongue", ">\n\nSoooo this post isn’t about eye rolling is what I’m getting from this. You’ve got issues to work through with your parents or partner or something", ">\n\nSince when tf was eye rolling involuntary?", ">", ">\n\nYour lack of self control is not a justification for disrespect. I personally dont know anyone who reacts to anything by rolling their eyes. Just be mature and communicate.", ">\n\nAnd what if it's not stupid and someone rolls their eyes? Wouldn't it be disrespectful in that case?", ">\n\nIn the eye rollers opinion then it must have been. But you can't fault someone for thinking its stupid.", ">\n\nSo eyerolling is some kind of exceptional thing that is free from criticism? \nIf one has the freedom to eye roll, then someone else has the freedom to criticize the eye roller right? \nOr is it your opinion that besides that everyone who sees an eye roller has to just stfu", ">\n\nMeh, it is disrespectful. It's a way to be disrespectful without having to say That's the dumbest thing I've heard all month, and everyone else who heard it is also dumber for hearing it as well.", ">\n\nBut I didn't say it that's the point.", ">\n\nJust cuz you don’t use words doesn’t mean it’s not disrespectful. Walking away while someone is talking to you, rolling your eyes, slapping someone, and starting to play a game on your phone while someone is talking to you are all disrespectful. It doesn’t matter that you didn’t say anything, your lack of respect still showed.", ">\n\nespecially the way theyre responding to comments", ">\n\nYeah, a natural reaction if you’ve never learned to manage your emotions as opposed to letting them run your life. I’m not talking about being totally monotone rational, either. You need to learn a balance between rational and emotional…which includes healthy, appropriate, respectful expression of honest feelings. Eye rolling is absolutely disrespectful, belittling, and dismissive.", ">\n\nComments: OP is completely wrong and has attitude issues", ">\n\nWhat sounds like mental illness is you refusing to admit that rolling your eyes is simply not an unconditional response. Whether you want to believe it or not, you are doing it intentionally and you can control it. \nYou’re just to much of a b—— to do so.", ">\n\nSame to you", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a learned reaction. Not natural. I rarely of ever roll my eyes at anything.", ">", ">\n\nJust like raising your middle finger. Or vocalizing the sounds \"fuck you\". Or fingers typing the words fuck you OP. Nothing is disrespectful!", ">\n\nNice try but not the same thing at all. You're talking about thought out actions here. The eye roll is more like a reaction. Its quick, its automatic, no one has to think \"im rolling my eyes now\" it just happens. \nSort of like when telling a lie - no one decides to have their eyes dart around suspiciously, it just happens.", ">\n\nNo. Rolling your eyes is not involuntary. It can be controlled. You have a bad habit that you CAN stop. Much like a child learning not to suck their thumb, or biting your nails.", ">\n\nHow about you start with your hair scratching", ">\n\nYour opinion is a contradiction in itself. And, yeah. I disagree. Rolling your eyes is 100% to show lack of respect, and you have no intentions of showing it, even to reason, by rolling your eyes at something someone could believe is meaningful or important. Even if it is stupid.\nI get your point, we roll our eyes to express how we feel, but it is still a physical snare. You say rolling your eyes isn't disrespectful, while saying it's okay to roll your eyes because something is \" stupid or lame\", which in itself is disrespectful. You sound like a very young person in the middle of a learning moment, and you're trying to react with rebellion. It only shows that you lack maturity and are in need of growth. This might be a time for you to read these comments and reevaluate. There are healthier ways to react to things you disagree with, or lack interest in. If not, you can just accept that you roll your eyes to show lack of respect.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is much more deliberate than laughter, tears, or sneezing. It's a conscious action in response to a judgement you're making.", ">\n\nNah, dude it is disrespectful \nYou just have no self control and by the looks of it you don't want to build some", ">\n\nYour post made me roll my eyes very hard.", ">\n\n“No, officer, my wife - she MADE me hit her!”", ">\n\nIt's a natural reaction for a sooky kid but not an adult, if you do that as an adult you just manchild that wants everything their way", ">\n\npoor OP.... did you get in trouble after you rolled your eyes at something again? did you not prehaps learn from previous interactions? rolling your eyes at something \"stupid or lame\" is an intentional response that is disrespectful to whatever it is. mature people dont act that way.....", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes.\n\nSo it is disrespectful. \n\nIts like throwing pepper in someone's face an expecting them not to sneeze.\n\nNo it’s not. You can easily (edited in) refrain from rolling your eyes, while it’s much more difficult to refrain from sneezing. \nIt’s fine to think whatever you want, but you might want to refrain from rolling your eyes when you’re, say, interacting with your boss; aka someone that can make you unemployed for whatever reason they please.", ">\n\nThis isn't an opinion. It's just flat wrong. \nIt is disrespectful because it is a conscious signifier which clearly communicated that you think that the thing you are rolling your eyes at is not worthy of respect.", ">\n\nYou have to go out of your way to roll your eyes. It is NOT gutteral or instinctual", ">\n\nIf you annoy me, my arm whips out in a natural reaction and slaps you.", ">\n\nSorry, kiddo, it’s 100% disrespectful. Just own the shit and quit trying to lawyer around it.\nI say that after having rolled my eyes so hard at your post, I travelled back in time.", ">\n\nTell that to my family lol you get the belt", ">\n\nThis was made my a 15 year old who just got told off by their mom about rolling their eyes. Then in defense said, “I can’t control it”", ">\n\nMan it's getting so aggressive sometimes here 😂", ">\n\ni certainly hope you are embarrassed about this in a couple years when you grow up.", ">\n\nOP is a habitual eye roller 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄", ">\n\nI wish to God we could block people by age, no more edgy 13yo’s", ">\n\nSomebody just got their ps5 taken away for rolling their eyes", ">\n\nTell me you're 12 without telling me you're 12.", ">\n\nit’s the definition of disrespectful and a sign that you have literally nothing intelligent to say in return. \nwhich is why we outgrow it as adults.", ">\n\nYou can control it. It’s not an “automatic response” unless you’ve taught yourself to do it. I never roll my eyes. It’s just not something I have ever practiced doing. And yes…if I’m saying something too you and you dismiss it with an eye roll…it’s super disrespectful.", ">\n\nrolling your eyes is just as respectful as sticking your tongue out at someone or making a stupid face in reaction to something someone says", ">\n\nIf you can’t control your eye movement, you need to see a neurologist, dude 😆. As it stands, eye rolling isn’t a reflex or a “natural reaction” to anything. Habits aren’t the same as involuntary reactions.\nRolling your eyes at someone is disrespectful. It’s an outward sign that you think something about your interaction with them was stupid or wrong. There’s no one here that will agree with you, and you know that you’re in the vast minority with this opinion because you posted it on this sub. Now learn some humility and accept that your opinion is factually incorrect based on science.", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nAre you like 14 and your mom got you in trouble cause you rolled your eyes at her? Lmao", ">\n\nI’m gonna show your mom this and it’s going to be another week of being grounded, you little shit lol", ">\n\nOmfg 😂", ">\n\nOP I have to ask.\n\n\nHow old are you?\n\n\nHow is your relationship with your parents?\n\n\nHow do you view authority figures in your life?", ">\n\nrolls eyes", ">\n\nIf you say or demand something stupid from me I will probably roll my eyes.", ">\n\nBut it is", ">\n\nJust like rolling your eyes is an innate response, so are other people's responses to you rolling your eyes.", ">\n\nSometimes being respectful requires hiding your subjective opinion on whether something is stupid or lame.", ">\n\nI wouldn’t say eye rolling is as involuntary as laughing or crying tho. It’s more of a choice.", ">\n\nIf someone rolls their eyes then I feel disrespected it’s a natural reaction.", ">\n\ntell me you're a teenager without telling me you're a teenager", ">\n\nI'm rolling my eyes at this post. And I definitely mean it disrespectfully.", ">\n\nLmao this kid had an argument with his parent(s) or teacher and is venting on Reddit." ]
> i have never had an as a nonvoulentary action, it requires very explicit movement of you eye. this is like saying “when i dont like people, i punch them in the head, thats my natural reaction i cant control it” i have never once legitimately rolled my eyes at something, i think you might be an asshole	[ "🙄", ">\n\nYou’re grounded now", ">\n\nThe post above was someone getting electrocuted so this reply was very timely", ">\n\nThis news is shocking", ">\n\nIt definitely SPARKED my interest", ">\n\nAll of you guys need to leave, and not come back before learning how to conduct yourselves properly", ">\n\nUhhhh....... electricity", ">\n\nWell no, in the right context it is disrespectful. Rolling your eyes suggests that you're not taking the matter seriously or that you dont care which is a sign of disrespect towards whoever is speaking with you.", ">\n\nBut I can't control what I think. If I said \"man you're stupid and I don't care what you say\" thats disrespectful. I'm actually showing respect by not saying it.", ">\n\nI mean, actions speak louder than words, right?", ">\n\nIts not really an action tho its just an automatic response. Like gasping or yawning.", ">\n\nbullshit.\nSorry, it was an automatic response. Which is bullshit just like yours.", ">\n\nStill not the same thing. And they get on me for false analogies....", ">\n\nYou must be a teenager", ">\n\nLol how many times are you gonna post that. Dont you have an original thought of your own?", ">\n\nBruh I cant believe you make these posts. They're foolish", ">\n\nLaughing at someone can be disrespectful. Don't think so? Try laughing at someone's funeral.", ">\n\nThe disrespect comes from the one who told me a joke and made me laugh.", ">\n\nWhat about if no one said any joke? Because, you know, you are at a funeral.", ">\n\nSo someone's just there randomly laughing at shit? That sounds like a mental illness.", ">\n\nYou have never thought of something funny in your head to make yourself laugh? \nOr hell, maybe you didn't like the person who is buried and decided to laugh at them. You find it funny, so laughing must be appropriate, right?", ">\n\nWhy am I thinking about funny shit at a funeral.", ">\n\nBecause the universe likes to put us in uncomfortable positions sometimes.", ">\n\n“if its stupid or lame, you roll your eyes” - you found the disrespect", ">\n\nIm allowed to think whatever i want and its not disrespectful.", ">\n\nWhen you express contempt for something someone else said, it's disrespect.", ">\n\nWhat if what they said is contemptible?", ">\n\nSome people and comments deserve disrespect, still gonna be disrespect", ">\n\nLaughing, crying, and sneezing are all innate, involuntary reactions to certain types of stimuli. Rolling your eyes is a learned behavior. You can’t compare it to those other automatic responses because it’s not the same thing.", ">\n\nTake my upvote", ">\n\nOP rolled their eyes at someone and got chewed out for it.\nNow they're going online in an attempt to validate themselves.\n🙄", ">\n\nProbably got grounded.", ">\n\nPart of being a mature adult is to have self-control and not acting on every impulse and being respectful of people.", ">\n\n\nPart of being a mature adult\n\nYup but OP is clearly a teenager lol. They complain about being told off for doing chores wrong in another post…", ">\n\nEven a teenager should be able to have the fundamental basics of respect", ">\n\nOh I agree 100%", ">\n\nYou have poor self-control and poor self-awareness but the good news is that you can improve these things.", ">\n\n/r/wrongopinions", ">\n\nI feel like we need a new subreddit r/unpopularforareason", ">\n\nIt’s entire purpose is to be disrespectful. Nobody eyerolls something they respect. But how offensive it is depends on the context and how serious one is being.", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes\n\nYou rn: \"I'm not being disrespectful. I just thought what you said was stupid or lame.\"\n...", ">\n\nSaying its stupid could be disrespectful. A facial response is not.", ">\n\nLiterally every person in this thread agrees that it is.\nThis is your bad habit. Nobody else's responsibility but you.", ">\n\nThey can choose to not fly off the handle at what is just an innate reaction.", ">\n\nSo let me get this straight: you think you deserve to be able to disrespect whoever you like whenever you like but they can't as much as say you're being rude? Grow up.", ">\n\nFound the teenager.", ">\n\nMeh, I agree with that one. If you don't like how someone is doing something then do it yourself. There's a reason I live alone.", ">\n\nIt is a UNIVERSAL sign of disrespect. Globally. Deal with it.", ">\n\nLaughing can be disrespectuful too. If you cannot control your own reactions, well, what can I say, maybe you have not really grown up?", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s so it’s hard to control my own actions sometimes…", ">\n\nThank u I'm trying to explain how autism can make it hard to read not just others facial expressions but also ur own and it seems like no one has thought of the possibility that they acc don't realise it or csnt control it", ">\n\nWould you roll your eyes during a job interview if you thought a question was stupid or irrelevant? Do you think you’d get the job if you did?", ">\n\nPretty sure OP would think they were owed that job and they would think it’s ridiculous if they didn’t get it.\nOP is also a teenager going through their rebel phase though", ">\n\nYou're oddly specific here.", ">\n\nWhat was specific? Or rather oddly specific?", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a good way to fast track yourself to a divorce, if you want one.", ">\n\nI think OP needs the definition of respect before any further comment is made", ">\n\nOh I already know it, and I know it does not mean:\nDon't ever disagree with me\nDon't think bad thoughts about me\nDon't ever correct me when I'm blatantly wrong \nShine my boots with your tongue", ">\n\nSoooo this post isn’t about eye rolling is what I’m getting from this. You’ve got issues to work through with your parents or partner or something", ">\n\nSince when tf was eye rolling involuntary?", ">", ">\n\nYour lack of self control is not a justification for disrespect. I personally dont know anyone who reacts to anything by rolling their eyes. Just be mature and communicate.", ">\n\nAnd what if it's not stupid and someone rolls their eyes? Wouldn't it be disrespectful in that case?", ">\n\nIn the eye rollers opinion then it must have been. But you can't fault someone for thinking its stupid.", ">\n\nSo eyerolling is some kind of exceptional thing that is free from criticism? \nIf one has the freedom to eye roll, then someone else has the freedom to criticize the eye roller right? \nOr is it your opinion that besides that everyone who sees an eye roller has to just stfu", ">\n\nMeh, it is disrespectful. It's a way to be disrespectful without having to say That's the dumbest thing I've heard all month, and everyone else who heard it is also dumber for hearing it as well.", ">\n\nBut I didn't say it that's the point.", ">\n\nJust cuz you don’t use words doesn’t mean it’s not disrespectful. Walking away while someone is talking to you, rolling your eyes, slapping someone, and starting to play a game on your phone while someone is talking to you are all disrespectful. It doesn’t matter that you didn’t say anything, your lack of respect still showed.", ">\n\nespecially the way theyre responding to comments", ">\n\nYeah, a natural reaction if you’ve never learned to manage your emotions as opposed to letting them run your life. I’m not talking about being totally monotone rational, either. You need to learn a balance between rational and emotional…which includes healthy, appropriate, respectful expression of honest feelings. Eye rolling is absolutely disrespectful, belittling, and dismissive.", ">\n\nComments: OP is completely wrong and has attitude issues", ">\n\nWhat sounds like mental illness is you refusing to admit that rolling your eyes is simply not an unconditional response. Whether you want to believe it or not, you are doing it intentionally and you can control it. \nYou’re just to much of a b—— to do so.", ">\n\nSame to you", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a learned reaction. Not natural. I rarely of ever roll my eyes at anything.", ">", ">\n\nJust like raising your middle finger. Or vocalizing the sounds \"fuck you\". Or fingers typing the words fuck you OP. Nothing is disrespectful!", ">\n\nNice try but not the same thing at all. You're talking about thought out actions here. The eye roll is more like a reaction. Its quick, its automatic, no one has to think \"im rolling my eyes now\" it just happens. \nSort of like when telling a lie - no one decides to have their eyes dart around suspiciously, it just happens.", ">\n\nNo. Rolling your eyes is not involuntary. It can be controlled. You have a bad habit that you CAN stop. Much like a child learning not to suck their thumb, or biting your nails.", ">\n\nHow about you start with your hair scratching", ">\n\nYour opinion is a contradiction in itself. And, yeah. I disagree. Rolling your eyes is 100% to show lack of respect, and you have no intentions of showing it, even to reason, by rolling your eyes at something someone could believe is meaningful or important. Even if it is stupid.\nI get your point, we roll our eyes to express how we feel, but it is still a physical snare. You say rolling your eyes isn't disrespectful, while saying it's okay to roll your eyes because something is \" stupid or lame\", which in itself is disrespectful. You sound like a very young person in the middle of a learning moment, and you're trying to react with rebellion. It only shows that you lack maturity and are in need of growth. This might be a time for you to read these comments and reevaluate. There are healthier ways to react to things you disagree with, or lack interest in. If not, you can just accept that you roll your eyes to show lack of respect.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is much more deliberate than laughter, tears, or sneezing. It's a conscious action in response to a judgement you're making.", ">\n\nNah, dude it is disrespectful \nYou just have no self control and by the looks of it you don't want to build some", ">\n\nYour post made me roll my eyes very hard.", ">\n\n“No, officer, my wife - she MADE me hit her!”", ">\n\nIt's a natural reaction for a sooky kid but not an adult, if you do that as an adult you just manchild that wants everything their way", ">\n\npoor OP.... did you get in trouble after you rolled your eyes at something again? did you not prehaps learn from previous interactions? rolling your eyes at something \"stupid or lame\" is an intentional response that is disrespectful to whatever it is. mature people dont act that way.....", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes.\n\nSo it is disrespectful. \n\nIts like throwing pepper in someone's face an expecting them not to sneeze.\n\nNo it’s not. You can easily (edited in) refrain from rolling your eyes, while it’s much more difficult to refrain from sneezing. \nIt’s fine to think whatever you want, but you might want to refrain from rolling your eyes when you’re, say, interacting with your boss; aka someone that can make you unemployed for whatever reason they please.", ">\n\nThis isn't an opinion. It's just flat wrong. \nIt is disrespectful because it is a conscious signifier which clearly communicated that you think that the thing you are rolling your eyes at is not worthy of respect.", ">\n\nYou have to go out of your way to roll your eyes. It is NOT gutteral or instinctual", ">\n\nIf you annoy me, my arm whips out in a natural reaction and slaps you.", ">\n\nSorry, kiddo, it’s 100% disrespectful. Just own the shit and quit trying to lawyer around it.\nI say that after having rolled my eyes so hard at your post, I travelled back in time.", ">\n\nTell that to my family lol you get the belt", ">\n\nThis was made my a 15 year old who just got told off by their mom about rolling their eyes. Then in defense said, “I can’t control it”", ">\n\nMan it's getting so aggressive sometimes here 😂", ">\n\ni certainly hope you are embarrassed about this in a couple years when you grow up.", ">\n\nOP is a habitual eye roller 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄", ">\n\nI wish to God we could block people by age, no more edgy 13yo’s", ">\n\nSomebody just got their ps5 taken away for rolling their eyes", ">\n\nTell me you're 12 without telling me you're 12.", ">\n\nit’s the definition of disrespectful and a sign that you have literally nothing intelligent to say in return. \nwhich is why we outgrow it as adults.", ">\n\nYou can control it. It’s not an “automatic response” unless you’ve taught yourself to do it. I never roll my eyes. It’s just not something I have ever practiced doing. And yes…if I’m saying something too you and you dismiss it with an eye roll…it’s super disrespectful.", ">\n\nrolling your eyes is just as respectful as sticking your tongue out at someone or making a stupid face in reaction to something someone says", ">\n\nIf you can’t control your eye movement, you need to see a neurologist, dude 😆. As it stands, eye rolling isn’t a reflex or a “natural reaction” to anything. Habits aren’t the same as involuntary reactions.\nRolling your eyes at someone is disrespectful. It’s an outward sign that you think something about your interaction with them was stupid or wrong. There’s no one here that will agree with you, and you know that you’re in the vast minority with this opinion because you posted it on this sub. Now learn some humility and accept that your opinion is factually incorrect based on science.", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nAre you like 14 and your mom got you in trouble cause you rolled your eyes at her? Lmao", ">\n\nI’m gonna show your mom this and it’s going to be another week of being grounded, you little shit lol", ">\n\nOmfg 😂", ">\n\nOP I have to ask.\n\n\nHow old are you?\n\n\nHow is your relationship with your parents?\n\n\nHow do you view authority figures in your life?", ">\n\nrolls eyes", ">\n\nIf you say or demand something stupid from me I will probably roll my eyes.", ">\n\nBut it is", ">\n\nJust like rolling your eyes is an innate response, so are other people's responses to you rolling your eyes.", ">\n\nSometimes being respectful requires hiding your subjective opinion on whether something is stupid or lame.", ">\n\nI wouldn’t say eye rolling is as involuntary as laughing or crying tho. It’s more of a choice.", ">\n\nIf someone rolls their eyes then I feel disrespected it’s a natural reaction.", ">\n\ntell me you're a teenager without telling me you're a teenager", ">\n\nI'm rolling my eyes at this post. And I definitely mean it disrespectfully.", ">\n\nLmao this kid had an argument with his parent(s) or teacher and is venting on Reddit.", ">\n\nYou sound like an eye rolling arsehole" ]
> Me smacking your face is also an innate uncontrollable response to you rolling your eyes. I'm only human. What can I do? 🙄	[ "🙄", ">\n\nYou’re grounded now", ">\n\nThe post above was someone getting electrocuted so this reply was very timely", ">\n\nThis news is shocking", ">\n\nIt definitely SPARKED my interest", ">\n\nAll of you guys need to leave, and not come back before learning how to conduct yourselves properly", ">\n\nUhhhh....... electricity", ">\n\nWell no, in the right context it is disrespectful. Rolling your eyes suggests that you're not taking the matter seriously or that you dont care which is a sign of disrespect towards whoever is speaking with you.", ">\n\nBut I can't control what I think. If I said \"man you're stupid and I don't care what you say\" thats disrespectful. I'm actually showing respect by not saying it.", ">\n\nI mean, actions speak louder than words, right?", ">\n\nIts not really an action tho its just an automatic response. Like gasping or yawning.", ">\n\nbullshit.\nSorry, it was an automatic response. Which is bullshit just like yours.", ">\n\nStill not the same thing. And they get on me for false analogies....", ">\n\nYou must be a teenager", ">\n\nLol how many times are you gonna post that. Dont you have an original thought of your own?", ">\n\nBruh I cant believe you make these posts. They're foolish", ">\n\nLaughing at someone can be disrespectful. Don't think so? Try laughing at someone's funeral.", ">\n\nThe disrespect comes from the one who told me a joke and made me laugh.", ">\n\nWhat about if no one said any joke? Because, you know, you are at a funeral.", ">\n\nSo someone's just there randomly laughing at shit? That sounds like a mental illness.", ">\n\nYou have never thought of something funny in your head to make yourself laugh? \nOr hell, maybe you didn't like the person who is buried and decided to laugh at them. You find it funny, so laughing must be appropriate, right?", ">\n\nWhy am I thinking about funny shit at a funeral.", ">\n\nBecause the universe likes to put us in uncomfortable positions sometimes.", ">\n\n“if its stupid or lame, you roll your eyes” - you found the disrespect", ">\n\nIm allowed to think whatever i want and its not disrespectful.", ">\n\nWhen you express contempt for something someone else said, it's disrespect.", ">\n\nWhat if what they said is contemptible?", ">\n\nSome people and comments deserve disrespect, still gonna be disrespect", ">\n\nLaughing, crying, and sneezing are all innate, involuntary reactions to certain types of stimuli. Rolling your eyes is a learned behavior. You can’t compare it to those other automatic responses because it’s not the same thing.", ">\n\nTake my upvote", ">\n\nOP rolled their eyes at someone and got chewed out for it.\nNow they're going online in an attempt to validate themselves.\n🙄", ">\n\nProbably got grounded.", ">\n\nPart of being a mature adult is to have self-control and not acting on every impulse and being respectful of people.", ">\n\n\nPart of being a mature adult\n\nYup but OP is clearly a teenager lol. They complain about being told off for doing chores wrong in another post…", ">\n\nEven a teenager should be able to have the fundamental basics of respect", ">\n\nOh I agree 100%", ">\n\nYou have poor self-control and poor self-awareness but the good news is that you can improve these things.", ">\n\n/r/wrongopinions", ">\n\nI feel like we need a new subreddit r/unpopularforareason", ">\n\nIt’s entire purpose is to be disrespectful. Nobody eyerolls something they respect. But how offensive it is depends on the context and how serious one is being.", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes\n\nYou rn: \"I'm not being disrespectful. I just thought what you said was stupid or lame.\"\n...", ">\n\nSaying its stupid could be disrespectful. A facial response is not.", ">\n\nLiterally every person in this thread agrees that it is.\nThis is your bad habit. Nobody else's responsibility but you.", ">\n\nThey can choose to not fly off the handle at what is just an innate reaction.", ">\n\nSo let me get this straight: you think you deserve to be able to disrespect whoever you like whenever you like but they can't as much as say you're being rude? Grow up.", ">\n\nFound the teenager.", ">\n\nMeh, I agree with that one. If you don't like how someone is doing something then do it yourself. There's a reason I live alone.", ">\n\nIt is a UNIVERSAL sign of disrespect. Globally. Deal with it.", ">\n\nLaughing can be disrespectuful too. If you cannot control your own reactions, well, what can I say, maybe you have not really grown up?", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s so it’s hard to control my own actions sometimes…", ">\n\nThank u I'm trying to explain how autism can make it hard to read not just others facial expressions but also ur own and it seems like no one has thought of the possibility that they acc don't realise it or csnt control it", ">\n\nWould you roll your eyes during a job interview if you thought a question was stupid or irrelevant? Do you think you’d get the job if you did?", ">\n\nPretty sure OP would think they were owed that job and they would think it’s ridiculous if they didn’t get it.\nOP is also a teenager going through their rebel phase though", ">\n\nYou're oddly specific here.", ">\n\nWhat was specific? Or rather oddly specific?", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a good way to fast track yourself to a divorce, if you want one.", ">\n\nI think OP needs the definition of respect before any further comment is made", ">\n\nOh I already know it, and I know it does not mean:\nDon't ever disagree with me\nDon't think bad thoughts about me\nDon't ever correct me when I'm blatantly wrong \nShine my boots with your tongue", ">\n\nSoooo this post isn’t about eye rolling is what I’m getting from this. You’ve got issues to work through with your parents or partner or something", ">\n\nSince when tf was eye rolling involuntary?", ">", ">\n\nYour lack of self control is not a justification for disrespect. I personally dont know anyone who reacts to anything by rolling their eyes. Just be mature and communicate.", ">\n\nAnd what if it's not stupid and someone rolls their eyes? Wouldn't it be disrespectful in that case?", ">\n\nIn the eye rollers opinion then it must have been. But you can't fault someone for thinking its stupid.", ">\n\nSo eyerolling is some kind of exceptional thing that is free from criticism? \nIf one has the freedom to eye roll, then someone else has the freedom to criticize the eye roller right? \nOr is it your opinion that besides that everyone who sees an eye roller has to just stfu", ">\n\nMeh, it is disrespectful. It's a way to be disrespectful without having to say That's the dumbest thing I've heard all month, and everyone else who heard it is also dumber for hearing it as well.", ">\n\nBut I didn't say it that's the point.", ">\n\nJust cuz you don’t use words doesn’t mean it’s not disrespectful. Walking away while someone is talking to you, rolling your eyes, slapping someone, and starting to play a game on your phone while someone is talking to you are all disrespectful. It doesn’t matter that you didn’t say anything, your lack of respect still showed.", ">\n\nespecially the way theyre responding to comments", ">\n\nYeah, a natural reaction if you’ve never learned to manage your emotions as opposed to letting them run your life. I’m not talking about being totally monotone rational, either. You need to learn a balance between rational and emotional…which includes healthy, appropriate, respectful expression of honest feelings. Eye rolling is absolutely disrespectful, belittling, and dismissive.", ">\n\nComments: OP is completely wrong and has attitude issues", ">\n\nWhat sounds like mental illness is you refusing to admit that rolling your eyes is simply not an unconditional response. Whether you want to believe it or not, you are doing it intentionally and you can control it. \nYou’re just to much of a b—— to do so.", ">\n\nSame to you", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a learned reaction. Not natural. I rarely of ever roll my eyes at anything.", ">", ">\n\nJust like raising your middle finger. Or vocalizing the sounds \"fuck you\". Or fingers typing the words fuck you OP. Nothing is disrespectful!", ">\n\nNice try but not the same thing at all. You're talking about thought out actions here. The eye roll is more like a reaction. Its quick, its automatic, no one has to think \"im rolling my eyes now\" it just happens. \nSort of like when telling a lie - no one decides to have their eyes dart around suspiciously, it just happens.", ">\n\nNo. Rolling your eyes is not involuntary. It can be controlled. You have a bad habit that you CAN stop. Much like a child learning not to suck their thumb, or biting your nails.", ">\n\nHow about you start with your hair scratching", ">\n\nYour opinion is a contradiction in itself. And, yeah. I disagree. Rolling your eyes is 100% to show lack of respect, and you have no intentions of showing it, even to reason, by rolling your eyes at something someone could believe is meaningful or important. Even if it is stupid.\nI get your point, we roll our eyes to express how we feel, but it is still a physical snare. You say rolling your eyes isn't disrespectful, while saying it's okay to roll your eyes because something is \" stupid or lame\", which in itself is disrespectful. You sound like a very young person in the middle of a learning moment, and you're trying to react with rebellion. It only shows that you lack maturity and are in need of growth. This might be a time for you to read these comments and reevaluate. There are healthier ways to react to things you disagree with, or lack interest in. If not, you can just accept that you roll your eyes to show lack of respect.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is much more deliberate than laughter, tears, or sneezing. It's a conscious action in response to a judgement you're making.", ">\n\nNah, dude it is disrespectful \nYou just have no self control and by the looks of it you don't want to build some", ">\n\nYour post made me roll my eyes very hard.", ">\n\n“No, officer, my wife - she MADE me hit her!”", ">\n\nIt's a natural reaction for a sooky kid but not an adult, if you do that as an adult you just manchild that wants everything their way", ">\n\npoor OP.... did you get in trouble after you rolled your eyes at something again? did you not prehaps learn from previous interactions? rolling your eyes at something \"stupid or lame\" is an intentional response that is disrespectful to whatever it is. mature people dont act that way.....", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes.\n\nSo it is disrespectful. \n\nIts like throwing pepper in someone's face an expecting them not to sneeze.\n\nNo it’s not. You can easily (edited in) refrain from rolling your eyes, while it’s much more difficult to refrain from sneezing. \nIt’s fine to think whatever you want, but you might want to refrain from rolling your eyes when you’re, say, interacting with your boss; aka someone that can make you unemployed for whatever reason they please.", ">\n\nThis isn't an opinion. It's just flat wrong. \nIt is disrespectful because it is a conscious signifier which clearly communicated that you think that the thing you are rolling your eyes at is not worthy of respect.", ">\n\nYou have to go out of your way to roll your eyes. It is NOT gutteral or instinctual", ">\n\nIf you annoy me, my arm whips out in a natural reaction and slaps you.", ">\n\nSorry, kiddo, it’s 100% disrespectful. Just own the shit and quit trying to lawyer around it.\nI say that after having rolled my eyes so hard at your post, I travelled back in time.", ">\n\nTell that to my family lol you get the belt", ">\n\nThis was made my a 15 year old who just got told off by their mom about rolling their eyes. Then in defense said, “I can’t control it”", ">\n\nMan it's getting so aggressive sometimes here 😂", ">\n\ni certainly hope you are embarrassed about this in a couple years when you grow up.", ">\n\nOP is a habitual eye roller 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄", ">\n\nI wish to God we could block people by age, no more edgy 13yo’s", ">\n\nSomebody just got their ps5 taken away for rolling their eyes", ">\n\nTell me you're 12 without telling me you're 12.", ">\n\nit’s the definition of disrespectful and a sign that you have literally nothing intelligent to say in return. \nwhich is why we outgrow it as adults.", ">\n\nYou can control it. It’s not an “automatic response” unless you’ve taught yourself to do it. I never roll my eyes. It’s just not something I have ever practiced doing. And yes…if I’m saying something too you and you dismiss it with an eye roll…it’s super disrespectful.", ">\n\nrolling your eyes is just as respectful as sticking your tongue out at someone or making a stupid face in reaction to something someone says", ">\n\nIf you can’t control your eye movement, you need to see a neurologist, dude 😆. As it stands, eye rolling isn’t a reflex or a “natural reaction” to anything. Habits aren’t the same as involuntary reactions.\nRolling your eyes at someone is disrespectful. It’s an outward sign that you think something about your interaction with them was stupid or wrong. There’s no one here that will agree with you, and you know that you’re in the vast minority with this opinion because you posted it on this sub. Now learn some humility and accept that your opinion is factually incorrect based on science.", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nAre you like 14 and your mom got you in trouble cause you rolled your eyes at her? Lmao", ">\n\nI’m gonna show your mom this and it’s going to be another week of being grounded, you little shit lol", ">\n\nOmfg 😂", ">\n\nOP I have to ask.\n\n\nHow old are you?\n\n\nHow is your relationship with your parents?\n\n\nHow do you view authority figures in your life?", ">\n\nrolls eyes", ">\n\nIf you say or demand something stupid from me I will probably roll my eyes.", ">\n\nBut it is", ">\n\nJust like rolling your eyes is an innate response, so are other people's responses to you rolling your eyes.", ">\n\nSometimes being respectful requires hiding your subjective opinion on whether something is stupid or lame.", ">\n\nI wouldn’t say eye rolling is as involuntary as laughing or crying tho. It’s more of a choice.", ">\n\nIf someone rolls their eyes then I feel disrespected it’s a natural reaction.", ">\n\ntell me you're a teenager without telling me you're a teenager", ">\n\nI'm rolling my eyes at this post. And I definitely mean it disrespectfully.", ">\n\nLmao this kid had an argument with his parent(s) or teacher and is venting on Reddit.", ">\n\nYou sound like an eye rolling arsehole", ">\n\ni have never had an as a nonvoulentary action, it requires very explicit movement of you eye. this is like saying “when i dont like people, i punch them in the head, thats my natural reaction i cant control it”\ni have never once legitimately rolled my eyes at something, i think you might be an asshole" ]
> I disagree. also there are a billion other ways to express something being stupid or lame than rolling ur eyes	[ "🙄", ">\n\nYou’re grounded now", ">\n\nThe post above was someone getting electrocuted so this reply was very timely", ">\n\nThis news is shocking", ">\n\nIt definitely SPARKED my interest", ">\n\nAll of you guys need to leave, and not come back before learning how to conduct yourselves properly", ">\n\nUhhhh....... electricity", ">\n\nWell no, in the right context it is disrespectful. Rolling your eyes suggests that you're not taking the matter seriously or that you dont care which is a sign of disrespect towards whoever is speaking with you.", ">\n\nBut I can't control what I think. If I said \"man you're stupid and I don't care what you say\" thats disrespectful. I'm actually showing respect by not saying it.", ">\n\nI mean, actions speak louder than words, right?", ">\n\nIts not really an action tho its just an automatic response. Like gasping or yawning.", ">\n\nbullshit.\nSorry, it was an automatic response. Which is bullshit just like yours.", ">\n\nStill not the same thing. And they get on me for false analogies....", ">\n\nYou must be a teenager", ">\n\nLol how many times are you gonna post that. Dont you have an original thought of your own?", ">\n\nBruh I cant believe you make these posts. They're foolish", ">\n\nLaughing at someone can be disrespectful. Don't think so? Try laughing at someone's funeral.", ">\n\nThe disrespect comes from the one who told me a joke and made me laugh.", ">\n\nWhat about if no one said any joke? Because, you know, you are at a funeral.", ">\n\nSo someone's just there randomly laughing at shit? That sounds like a mental illness.", ">\n\nYou have never thought of something funny in your head to make yourself laugh? \nOr hell, maybe you didn't like the person who is buried and decided to laugh at them. You find it funny, so laughing must be appropriate, right?", ">\n\nWhy am I thinking about funny shit at a funeral.", ">\n\nBecause the universe likes to put us in uncomfortable positions sometimes.", ">\n\n“if its stupid or lame, you roll your eyes” - you found the disrespect", ">\n\nIm allowed to think whatever i want and its not disrespectful.", ">\n\nWhen you express contempt for something someone else said, it's disrespect.", ">\n\nWhat if what they said is contemptible?", ">\n\nSome people and comments deserve disrespect, still gonna be disrespect", ">\n\nLaughing, crying, and sneezing are all innate, involuntary reactions to certain types of stimuli. Rolling your eyes is a learned behavior. You can’t compare it to those other automatic responses because it’s not the same thing.", ">\n\nTake my upvote", ">\n\nOP rolled their eyes at someone and got chewed out for it.\nNow they're going online in an attempt to validate themselves.\n🙄", ">\n\nProbably got grounded.", ">\n\nPart of being a mature adult is to have self-control and not acting on every impulse and being respectful of people.", ">\n\n\nPart of being a mature adult\n\nYup but OP is clearly a teenager lol. They complain about being told off for doing chores wrong in another post…", ">\n\nEven a teenager should be able to have the fundamental basics of respect", ">\n\nOh I agree 100%", ">\n\nYou have poor self-control and poor self-awareness but the good news is that you can improve these things.", ">\n\n/r/wrongopinions", ">\n\nI feel like we need a new subreddit r/unpopularforareason", ">\n\nIt’s entire purpose is to be disrespectful. Nobody eyerolls something they respect. But how offensive it is depends on the context and how serious one is being.", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes\n\nYou rn: \"I'm not being disrespectful. I just thought what you said was stupid or lame.\"\n...", ">\n\nSaying its stupid could be disrespectful. A facial response is not.", ">\n\nLiterally every person in this thread agrees that it is.\nThis is your bad habit. Nobody else's responsibility but you.", ">\n\nThey can choose to not fly off the handle at what is just an innate reaction.", ">\n\nSo let me get this straight: you think you deserve to be able to disrespect whoever you like whenever you like but they can't as much as say you're being rude? Grow up.", ">\n\nFound the teenager.", ">\n\nMeh, I agree with that one. If you don't like how someone is doing something then do it yourself. There's a reason I live alone.", ">\n\nIt is a UNIVERSAL sign of disrespect. Globally. Deal with it.", ">\n\nLaughing can be disrespectuful too. If you cannot control your own reactions, well, what can I say, maybe you have not really grown up?", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s so it’s hard to control my own actions sometimes…", ">\n\nThank u I'm trying to explain how autism can make it hard to read not just others facial expressions but also ur own and it seems like no one has thought of the possibility that they acc don't realise it or csnt control it", ">\n\nWould you roll your eyes during a job interview if you thought a question was stupid or irrelevant? Do you think you’d get the job if you did?", ">\n\nPretty sure OP would think they were owed that job and they would think it’s ridiculous if they didn’t get it.\nOP is also a teenager going through their rebel phase though", ">\n\nYou're oddly specific here.", ">\n\nWhat was specific? Or rather oddly specific?", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a good way to fast track yourself to a divorce, if you want one.", ">\n\nI think OP needs the definition of respect before any further comment is made", ">\n\nOh I already know it, and I know it does not mean:\nDon't ever disagree with me\nDon't think bad thoughts about me\nDon't ever correct me when I'm blatantly wrong \nShine my boots with your tongue", ">\n\nSoooo this post isn’t about eye rolling is what I’m getting from this. You’ve got issues to work through with your parents or partner or something", ">\n\nSince when tf was eye rolling involuntary?", ">", ">\n\nYour lack of self control is not a justification for disrespect. I personally dont know anyone who reacts to anything by rolling their eyes. Just be mature and communicate.", ">\n\nAnd what if it's not stupid and someone rolls their eyes? Wouldn't it be disrespectful in that case?", ">\n\nIn the eye rollers opinion then it must have been. But you can't fault someone for thinking its stupid.", ">\n\nSo eyerolling is some kind of exceptional thing that is free from criticism? \nIf one has the freedom to eye roll, then someone else has the freedom to criticize the eye roller right? \nOr is it your opinion that besides that everyone who sees an eye roller has to just stfu", ">\n\nMeh, it is disrespectful. It's a way to be disrespectful without having to say That's the dumbest thing I've heard all month, and everyone else who heard it is also dumber for hearing it as well.", ">\n\nBut I didn't say it that's the point.", ">\n\nJust cuz you don’t use words doesn’t mean it’s not disrespectful. Walking away while someone is talking to you, rolling your eyes, slapping someone, and starting to play a game on your phone while someone is talking to you are all disrespectful. It doesn’t matter that you didn’t say anything, your lack of respect still showed.", ">\n\nespecially the way theyre responding to comments", ">\n\nYeah, a natural reaction if you’ve never learned to manage your emotions as opposed to letting them run your life. I’m not talking about being totally monotone rational, either. You need to learn a balance between rational and emotional…which includes healthy, appropriate, respectful expression of honest feelings. Eye rolling is absolutely disrespectful, belittling, and dismissive.", ">\n\nComments: OP is completely wrong and has attitude issues", ">\n\nWhat sounds like mental illness is you refusing to admit that rolling your eyes is simply not an unconditional response. Whether you want to believe it or not, you are doing it intentionally and you can control it. \nYou’re just to much of a b—— to do so.", ">\n\nSame to you", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a learned reaction. Not natural. I rarely of ever roll my eyes at anything.", ">", ">\n\nJust like raising your middle finger. Or vocalizing the sounds \"fuck you\". Or fingers typing the words fuck you OP. Nothing is disrespectful!", ">\n\nNice try but not the same thing at all. You're talking about thought out actions here. The eye roll is more like a reaction. Its quick, its automatic, no one has to think \"im rolling my eyes now\" it just happens. \nSort of like when telling a lie - no one decides to have their eyes dart around suspiciously, it just happens.", ">\n\nNo. Rolling your eyes is not involuntary. It can be controlled. You have a bad habit that you CAN stop. Much like a child learning not to suck their thumb, or biting your nails.", ">\n\nHow about you start with your hair scratching", ">\n\nYour opinion is a contradiction in itself. And, yeah. I disagree. Rolling your eyes is 100% to show lack of respect, and you have no intentions of showing it, even to reason, by rolling your eyes at something someone could believe is meaningful or important. Even if it is stupid.\nI get your point, we roll our eyes to express how we feel, but it is still a physical snare. You say rolling your eyes isn't disrespectful, while saying it's okay to roll your eyes because something is \" stupid or lame\", which in itself is disrespectful. You sound like a very young person in the middle of a learning moment, and you're trying to react with rebellion. It only shows that you lack maturity and are in need of growth. This might be a time for you to read these comments and reevaluate. There are healthier ways to react to things you disagree with, or lack interest in. If not, you can just accept that you roll your eyes to show lack of respect.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is much more deliberate than laughter, tears, or sneezing. It's a conscious action in response to a judgement you're making.", ">\n\nNah, dude it is disrespectful \nYou just have no self control and by the looks of it you don't want to build some", ">\n\nYour post made me roll my eyes very hard.", ">\n\n“No, officer, my wife - she MADE me hit her!”", ">\n\nIt's a natural reaction for a sooky kid but not an adult, if you do that as an adult you just manchild that wants everything their way", ">\n\npoor OP.... did you get in trouble after you rolled your eyes at something again? did you not prehaps learn from previous interactions? rolling your eyes at something \"stupid or lame\" is an intentional response that is disrespectful to whatever it is. mature people dont act that way.....", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes.\n\nSo it is disrespectful. \n\nIts like throwing pepper in someone's face an expecting them not to sneeze.\n\nNo it’s not. You can easily (edited in) refrain from rolling your eyes, while it’s much more difficult to refrain from sneezing. \nIt’s fine to think whatever you want, but you might want to refrain from rolling your eyes when you’re, say, interacting with your boss; aka someone that can make you unemployed for whatever reason they please.", ">\n\nThis isn't an opinion. It's just flat wrong. \nIt is disrespectful because it is a conscious signifier which clearly communicated that you think that the thing you are rolling your eyes at is not worthy of respect.", ">\n\nYou have to go out of your way to roll your eyes. It is NOT gutteral or instinctual", ">\n\nIf you annoy me, my arm whips out in a natural reaction and slaps you.", ">\n\nSorry, kiddo, it’s 100% disrespectful. Just own the shit and quit trying to lawyer around it.\nI say that after having rolled my eyes so hard at your post, I travelled back in time.", ">\n\nTell that to my family lol you get the belt", ">\n\nThis was made my a 15 year old who just got told off by their mom about rolling their eyes. Then in defense said, “I can’t control it”", ">\n\nMan it's getting so aggressive sometimes here 😂", ">\n\ni certainly hope you are embarrassed about this in a couple years when you grow up.", ">\n\nOP is a habitual eye roller 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄", ">\n\nI wish to God we could block people by age, no more edgy 13yo’s", ">\n\nSomebody just got their ps5 taken away for rolling their eyes", ">\n\nTell me you're 12 without telling me you're 12.", ">\n\nit’s the definition of disrespectful and a sign that you have literally nothing intelligent to say in return. \nwhich is why we outgrow it as adults.", ">\n\nYou can control it. It’s not an “automatic response” unless you’ve taught yourself to do it. I never roll my eyes. It’s just not something I have ever practiced doing. And yes…if I’m saying something too you and you dismiss it with an eye roll…it’s super disrespectful.", ">\n\nrolling your eyes is just as respectful as sticking your tongue out at someone or making a stupid face in reaction to something someone says", ">\n\nIf you can’t control your eye movement, you need to see a neurologist, dude 😆. As it stands, eye rolling isn’t a reflex or a “natural reaction” to anything. Habits aren’t the same as involuntary reactions.\nRolling your eyes at someone is disrespectful. It’s an outward sign that you think something about your interaction with them was stupid or wrong. There’s no one here that will agree with you, and you know that you’re in the vast minority with this opinion because you posted it on this sub. Now learn some humility and accept that your opinion is factually incorrect based on science.", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nAre you like 14 and your mom got you in trouble cause you rolled your eyes at her? Lmao", ">\n\nI’m gonna show your mom this and it’s going to be another week of being grounded, you little shit lol", ">\n\nOmfg 😂", ">\n\nOP I have to ask.\n\n\nHow old are you?\n\n\nHow is your relationship with your parents?\n\n\nHow do you view authority figures in your life?", ">\n\nrolls eyes", ">\n\nIf you say or demand something stupid from me I will probably roll my eyes.", ">\n\nBut it is", ">\n\nJust like rolling your eyes is an innate response, so are other people's responses to you rolling your eyes.", ">\n\nSometimes being respectful requires hiding your subjective opinion on whether something is stupid or lame.", ">\n\nI wouldn’t say eye rolling is as involuntary as laughing or crying tho. It’s more of a choice.", ">\n\nIf someone rolls their eyes then I feel disrespected it’s a natural reaction.", ">\n\ntell me you're a teenager without telling me you're a teenager", ">\n\nI'm rolling my eyes at this post. And I definitely mean it disrespectfully.", ">\n\nLmao this kid had an argument with his parent(s) or teacher and is venting on Reddit.", ">\n\nYou sound like an eye rolling arsehole", ">\n\ni have never had an as a nonvoulentary action, it requires very explicit movement of you eye. this is like saying “when i dont like people, i punch them in the head, thats my natural reaction i cant control it”\ni have never once legitimately rolled my eyes at something, i think you might be an asshole", ">\n\nMe smacking your face is also an innate uncontrollable response to you rolling your eyes. I'm only human. What can I do? 🙄" ]
> Stop downvoting, this is ACTUALLY a very unpopular opinion and I love to see it tbh. Voice your disagreement in the comments but don't downvote the post. This post is hilarious.	[ "🙄", ">\n\nYou’re grounded now", ">\n\nThe post above was someone getting electrocuted so this reply was very timely", ">\n\nThis news is shocking", ">\n\nIt definitely SPARKED my interest", ">\n\nAll of you guys need to leave, and not come back before learning how to conduct yourselves properly", ">\n\nUhhhh....... electricity", ">\n\nWell no, in the right context it is disrespectful. Rolling your eyes suggests that you're not taking the matter seriously or that you dont care which is a sign of disrespect towards whoever is speaking with you.", ">\n\nBut I can't control what I think. If I said \"man you're stupid and I don't care what you say\" thats disrespectful. I'm actually showing respect by not saying it.", ">\n\nI mean, actions speak louder than words, right?", ">\n\nIts not really an action tho its just an automatic response. Like gasping or yawning.", ">\n\nbullshit.\nSorry, it was an automatic response. Which is bullshit just like yours.", ">\n\nStill not the same thing. And they get on me for false analogies....", ">\n\nYou must be a teenager", ">\n\nLol how many times are you gonna post that. Dont you have an original thought of your own?", ">\n\nBruh I cant believe you make these posts. They're foolish", ">\n\nLaughing at someone can be disrespectful. Don't think so? Try laughing at someone's funeral.", ">\n\nThe disrespect comes from the one who told me a joke and made me laugh.", ">\n\nWhat about if no one said any joke? Because, you know, you are at a funeral.", ">\n\nSo someone's just there randomly laughing at shit? That sounds like a mental illness.", ">\n\nYou have never thought of something funny in your head to make yourself laugh? \nOr hell, maybe you didn't like the person who is buried and decided to laugh at them. You find it funny, so laughing must be appropriate, right?", ">\n\nWhy am I thinking about funny shit at a funeral.", ">\n\nBecause the universe likes to put us in uncomfortable positions sometimes.", ">\n\n“if its stupid or lame, you roll your eyes” - you found the disrespect", ">\n\nIm allowed to think whatever i want and its not disrespectful.", ">\n\nWhen you express contempt for something someone else said, it's disrespect.", ">\n\nWhat if what they said is contemptible?", ">\n\nSome people and comments deserve disrespect, still gonna be disrespect", ">\n\nLaughing, crying, and sneezing are all innate, involuntary reactions to certain types of stimuli. Rolling your eyes is a learned behavior. You can’t compare it to those other automatic responses because it’s not the same thing.", ">\n\nTake my upvote", ">\n\nOP rolled their eyes at someone and got chewed out for it.\nNow they're going online in an attempt to validate themselves.\n🙄", ">\n\nProbably got grounded.", ">\n\nPart of being a mature adult is to have self-control and not acting on every impulse and being respectful of people.", ">\n\n\nPart of being a mature adult\n\nYup but OP is clearly a teenager lol. They complain about being told off for doing chores wrong in another post…", ">\n\nEven a teenager should be able to have the fundamental basics of respect", ">\n\nOh I agree 100%", ">\n\nYou have poor self-control and poor self-awareness but the good news is that you can improve these things.", ">\n\n/r/wrongopinions", ">\n\nI feel like we need a new subreddit r/unpopularforareason", ">\n\nIt’s entire purpose is to be disrespectful. Nobody eyerolls something they respect. But how offensive it is depends on the context and how serious one is being.", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes\n\nYou rn: \"I'm not being disrespectful. I just thought what you said was stupid or lame.\"\n...", ">\n\nSaying its stupid could be disrespectful. A facial response is not.", ">\n\nLiterally every person in this thread agrees that it is.\nThis is your bad habit. Nobody else's responsibility but you.", ">\n\nThey can choose to not fly off the handle at what is just an innate reaction.", ">\n\nSo let me get this straight: you think you deserve to be able to disrespect whoever you like whenever you like but they can't as much as say you're being rude? Grow up.", ">\n\nFound the teenager.", ">\n\nMeh, I agree with that one. If you don't like how someone is doing something then do it yourself. There's a reason I live alone.", ">\n\nIt is a UNIVERSAL sign of disrespect. Globally. Deal with it.", ">\n\nLaughing can be disrespectuful too. If you cannot control your own reactions, well, what can I say, maybe you have not really grown up?", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s so it’s hard to control my own actions sometimes…", ">\n\nThank u I'm trying to explain how autism can make it hard to read not just others facial expressions but also ur own and it seems like no one has thought of the possibility that they acc don't realise it or csnt control it", ">\n\nWould you roll your eyes during a job interview if you thought a question was stupid or irrelevant? Do you think you’d get the job if you did?", ">\n\nPretty sure OP would think they were owed that job and they would think it’s ridiculous if they didn’t get it.\nOP is also a teenager going through their rebel phase though", ">\n\nYou're oddly specific here.", ">\n\nWhat was specific? Or rather oddly specific?", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a good way to fast track yourself to a divorce, if you want one.", ">\n\nI think OP needs the definition of respect before any further comment is made", ">\n\nOh I already know it, and I know it does not mean:\nDon't ever disagree with me\nDon't think bad thoughts about me\nDon't ever correct me when I'm blatantly wrong \nShine my boots with your tongue", ">\n\nSoooo this post isn’t about eye rolling is what I’m getting from this. You’ve got issues to work through with your parents or partner or something", ">\n\nSince when tf was eye rolling involuntary?", ">", ">\n\nYour lack of self control is not a justification for disrespect. I personally dont know anyone who reacts to anything by rolling their eyes. Just be mature and communicate.", ">\n\nAnd what if it's not stupid and someone rolls their eyes? Wouldn't it be disrespectful in that case?", ">\n\nIn the eye rollers opinion then it must have been. But you can't fault someone for thinking its stupid.", ">\n\nSo eyerolling is some kind of exceptional thing that is free from criticism? \nIf one has the freedom to eye roll, then someone else has the freedom to criticize the eye roller right? \nOr is it your opinion that besides that everyone who sees an eye roller has to just stfu", ">\n\nMeh, it is disrespectful. It's a way to be disrespectful without having to say That's the dumbest thing I've heard all month, and everyone else who heard it is also dumber for hearing it as well.", ">\n\nBut I didn't say it that's the point.", ">\n\nJust cuz you don’t use words doesn’t mean it’s not disrespectful. Walking away while someone is talking to you, rolling your eyes, slapping someone, and starting to play a game on your phone while someone is talking to you are all disrespectful. It doesn’t matter that you didn’t say anything, your lack of respect still showed.", ">\n\nespecially the way theyre responding to comments", ">\n\nYeah, a natural reaction if you’ve never learned to manage your emotions as opposed to letting them run your life. I’m not talking about being totally monotone rational, either. You need to learn a balance between rational and emotional…which includes healthy, appropriate, respectful expression of honest feelings. Eye rolling is absolutely disrespectful, belittling, and dismissive.", ">\n\nComments: OP is completely wrong and has attitude issues", ">\n\nWhat sounds like mental illness is you refusing to admit that rolling your eyes is simply not an unconditional response. Whether you want to believe it or not, you are doing it intentionally and you can control it. \nYou’re just to much of a b—— to do so.", ">\n\nSame to you", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a learned reaction. Not natural. I rarely of ever roll my eyes at anything.", ">", ">\n\nJust like raising your middle finger. Or vocalizing the sounds \"fuck you\". Or fingers typing the words fuck you OP. Nothing is disrespectful!", ">\n\nNice try but not the same thing at all. You're talking about thought out actions here. The eye roll is more like a reaction. Its quick, its automatic, no one has to think \"im rolling my eyes now\" it just happens. \nSort of like when telling a lie - no one decides to have their eyes dart around suspiciously, it just happens.", ">\n\nNo. Rolling your eyes is not involuntary. It can be controlled. You have a bad habit that you CAN stop. Much like a child learning not to suck their thumb, or biting your nails.", ">\n\nHow about you start with your hair scratching", ">\n\nYour opinion is a contradiction in itself. And, yeah. I disagree. Rolling your eyes is 100% to show lack of respect, and you have no intentions of showing it, even to reason, by rolling your eyes at something someone could believe is meaningful or important. Even if it is stupid.\nI get your point, we roll our eyes to express how we feel, but it is still a physical snare. You say rolling your eyes isn't disrespectful, while saying it's okay to roll your eyes because something is \" stupid or lame\", which in itself is disrespectful. You sound like a very young person in the middle of a learning moment, and you're trying to react with rebellion. It only shows that you lack maturity and are in need of growth. This might be a time for you to read these comments and reevaluate. There are healthier ways to react to things you disagree with, or lack interest in. If not, you can just accept that you roll your eyes to show lack of respect.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is much more deliberate than laughter, tears, or sneezing. It's a conscious action in response to a judgement you're making.", ">\n\nNah, dude it is disrespectful \nYou just have no self control and by the looks of it you don't want to build some", ">\n\nYour post made me roll my eyes very hard.", ">\n\n“No, officer, my wife - she MADE me hit her!”", ">\n\nIt's a natural reaction for a sooky kid but not an adult, if you do that as an adult you just manchild that wants everything their way", ">\n\npoor OP.... did you get in trouble after you rolled your eyes at something again? did you not prehaps learn from previous interactions? rolling your eyes at something \"stupid or lame\" is an intentional response that is disrespectful to whatever it is. mature people dont act that way.....", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes.\n\nSo it is disrespectful. \n\nIts like throwing pepper in someone's face an expecting them not to sneeze.\n\nNo it’s not. You can easily (edited in) refrain from rolling your eyes, while it’s much more difficult to refrain from sneezing. \nIt’s fine to think whatever you want, but you might want to refrain from rolling your eyes when you’re, say, interacting with your boss; aka someone that can make you unemployed for whatever reason they please.", ">\n\nThis isn't an opinion. It's just flat wrong. \nIt is disrespectful because it is a conscious signifier which clearly communicated that you think that the thing you are rolling your eyes at is not worthy of respect.", ">\n\nYou have to go out of your way to roll your eyes. It is NOT gutteral or instinctual", ">\n\nIf you annoy me, my arm whips out in a natural reaction and slaps you.", ">\n\nSorry, kiddo, it’s 100% disrespectful. Just own the shit and quit trying to lawyer around it.\nI say that after having rolled my eyes so hard at your post, I travelled back in time.", ">\n\nTell that to my family lol you get the belt", ">\n\nThis was made my a 15 year old who just got told off by their mom about rolling their eyes. Then in defense said, “I can’t control it”", ">\n\nMan it's getting so aggressive sometimes here 😂", ">\n\ni certainly hope you are embarrassed about this in a couple years when you grow up.", ">\n\nOP is a habitual eye roller 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄", ">\n\nI wish to God we could block people by age, no more edgy 13yo’s", ">\n\nSomebody just got their ps5 taken away for rolling their eyes", ">\n\nTell me you're 12 without telling me you're 12.", ">\n\nit’s the definition of disrespectful and a sign that you have literally nothing intelligent to say in return. \nwhich is why we outgrow it as adults.", ">\n\nYou can control it. It’s not an “automatic response” unless you’ve taught yourself to do it. I never roll my eyes. It’s just not something I have ever practiced doing. And yes…if I’m saying something too you and you dismiss it with an eye roll…it’s super disrespectful.", ">\n\nrolling your eyes is just as respectful as sticking your tongue out at someone or making a stupid face in reaction to something someone says", ">\n\nIf you can’t control your eye movement, you need to see a neurologist, dude 😆. As it stands, eye rolling isn’t a reflex or a “natural reaction” to anything. Habits aren’t the same as involuntary reactions.\nRolling your eyes at someone is disrespectful. It’s an outward sign that you think something about your interaction with them was stupid or wrong. There’s no one here that will agree with you, and you know that you’re in the vast minority with this opinion because you posted it on this sub. Now learn some humility and accept that your opinion is factually incorrect based on science.", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nAre you like 14 and your mom got you in trouble cause you rolled your eyes at her? Lmao", ">\n\nI’m gonna show your mom this and it’s going to be another week of being grounded, you little shit lol", ">\n\nOmfg 😂", ">\n\nOP I have to ask.\n\n\nHow old are you?\n\n\nHow is your relationship with your parents?\n\n\nHow do you view authority figures in your life?", ">\n\nrolls eyes", ">\n\nIf you say or demand something stupid from me I will probably roll my eyes.", ">\n\nBut it is", ">\n\nJust like rolling your eyes is an innate response, so are other people's responses to you rolling your eyes.", ">\n\nSometimes being respectful requires hiding your subjective opinion on whether something is stupid or lame.", ">\n\nI wouldn’t say eye rolling is as involuntary as laughing or crying tho. It’s more of a choice.", ">\n\nIf someone rolls their eyes then I feel disrespected it’s a natural reaction.", ">\n\ntell me you're a teenager without telling me you're a teenager", ">\n\nI'm rolling my eyes at this post. And I definitely mean it disrespectfully.", ">\n\nLmao this kid had an argument with his parent(s) or teacher and is venting on Reddit.", ">\n\nYou sound like an eye rolling arsehole", ">\n\ni have never had an as a nonvoulentary action, it requires very explicit movement of you eye. this is like saying “when i dont like people, i punch them in the head, thats my natural reaction i cant control it”\ni have never once legitimately rolled my eyes at something, i think you might be an asshole", ">\n\nMe smacking your face is also an innate uncontrollable response to you rolling your eyes. I'm only human. What can I do? 🙄", ">\n\nI disagree. also there are a billion other ways to express something being stupid or lame than rolling ur eyes" ]
> This is something you’ve learned to do. It’s entirely in your control if you do it or not.	[ "🙄", ">\n\nYou’re grounded now", ">\n\nThe post above was someone getting electrocuted so this reply was very timely", ">\n\nThis news is shocking", ">\n\nIt definitely SPARKED my interest", ">\n\nAll of you guys need to leave, and not come back before learning how to conduct yourselves properly", ">\n\nUhhhh....... electricity", ">\n\nWell no, in the right context it is disrespectful. Rolling your eyes suggests that you're not taking the matter seriously or that you dont care which is a sign of disrespect towards whoever is speaking with you.", ">\n\nBut I can't control what I think. If I said \"man you're stupid and I don't care what you say\" thats disrespectful. I'm actually showing respect by not saying it.", ">\n\nI mean, actions speak louder than words, right?", ">\n\nIts not really an action tho its just an automatic response. Like gasping or yawning.", ">\n\nbullshit.\nSorry, it was an automatic response. Which is bullshit just like yours.", ">\n\nStill not the same thing. And they get on me for false analogies....", ">\n\nYou must be a teenager", ">\n\nLol how many times are you gonna post that. Dont you have an original thought of your own?", ">\n\nBruh I cant believe you make these posts. They're foolish", ">\n\nLaughing at someone can be disrespectful. Don't think so? Try laughing at someone's funeral.", ">\n\nThe disrespect comes from the one who told me a joke and made me laugh.", ">\n\nWhat about if no one said any joke? Because, you know, you are at a funeral.", ">\n\nSo someone's just there randomly laughing at shit? That sounds like a mental illness.", ">\n\nYou have never thought of something funny in your head to make yourself laugh? \nOr hell, maybe you didn't like the person who is buried and decided to laugh at them. You find it funny, so laughing must be appropriate, right?", ">\n\nWhy am I thinking about funny shit at a funeral.", ">\n\nBecause the universe likes to put us in uncomfortable positions sometimes.", ">\n\n“if its stupid or lame, you roll your eyes” - you found the disrespect", ">\n\nIm allowed to think whatever i want and its not disrespectful.", ">\n\nWhen you express contempt for something someone else said, it's disrespect.", ">\n\nWhat if what they said is contemptible?", ">\n\nSome people and comments deserve disrespect, still gonna be disrespect", ">\n\nLaughing, crying, and sneezing are all innate, involuntary reactions to certain types of stimuli. Rolling your eyes is a learned behavior. You can’t compare it to those other automatic responses because it’s not the same thing.", ">\n\nTake my upvote", ">\n\nOP rolled their eyes at someone and got chewed out for it.\nNow they're going online in an attempt to validate themselves.\n🙄", ">\n\nProbably got grounded.", ">\n\nPart of being a mature adult is to have self-control and not acting on every impulse and being respectful of people.", ">\n\n\nPart of being a mature adult\n\nYup but OP is clearly a teenager lol. They complain about being told off for doing chores wrong in another post…", ">\n\nEven a teenager should be able to have the fundamental basics of respect", ">\n\nOh I agree 100%", ">\n\nYou have poor self-control and poor self-awareness but the good news is that you can improve these things.", ">\n\n/r/wrongopinions", ">\n\nI feel like we need a new subreddit r/unpopularforareason", ">\n\nIt’s entire purpose is to be disrespectful. Nobody eyerolls something they respect. But how offensive it is depends on the context and how serious one is being.", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes\n\nYou rn: \"I'm not being disrespectful. I just thought what you said was stupid or lame.\"\n...", ">\n\nSaying its stupid could be disrespectful. A facial response is not.", ">\n\nLiterally every person in this thread agrees that it is.\nThis is your bad habit. Nobody else's responsibility but you.", ">\n\nThey can choose to not fly off the handle at what is just an innate reaction.", ">\n\nSo let me get this straight: you think you deserve to be able to disrespect whoever you like whenever you like but they can't as much as say you're being rude? Grow up.", ">\n\nFound the teenager.", ">\n\nMeh, I agree with that one. If you don't like how someone is doing something then do it yourself. There's a reason I live alone.", ">\n\nIt is a UNIVERSAL sign of disrespect. Globally. Deal with it.", ">\n\nLaughing can be disrespectuful too. If you cannot control your own reactions, well, what can I say, maybe you have not really grown up?", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s so it’s hard to control my own actions sometimes…", ">\n\nThank u I'm trying to explain how autism can make it hard to read not just others facial expressions but also ur own and it seems like no one has thought of the possibility that they acc don't realise it or csnt control it", ">\n\nWould you roll your eyes during a job interview if you thought a question was stupid or irrelevant? Do you think you’d get the job if you did?", ">\n\nPretty sure OP would think they were owed that job and they would think it’s ridiculous if they didn’t get it.\nOP is also a teenager going through their rebel phase though", ">\n\nYou're oddly specific here.", ">\n\nWhat was specific? Or rather oddly specific?", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a good way to fast track yourself to a divorce, if you want one.", ">\n\nI think OP needs the definition of respect before any further comment is made", ">\n\nOh I already know it, and I know it does not mean:\nDon't ever disagree with me\nDon't think bad thoughts about me\nDon't ever correct me when I'm blatantly wrong \nShine my boots with your tongue", ">\n\nSoooo this post isn’t about eye rolling is what I’m getting from this. You’ve got issues to work through with your parents or partner or something", ">\n\nSince when tf was eye rolling involuntary?", ">", ">\n\nYour lack of self control is not a justification for disrespect. I personally dont know anyone who reacts to anything by rolling their eyes. Just be mature and communicate.", ">\n\nAnd what if it's not stupid and someone rolls their eyes? Wouldn't it be disrespectful in that case?", ">\n\nIn the eye rollers opinion then it must have been. But you can't fault someone for thinking its stupid.", ">\n\nSo eyerolling is some kind of exceptional thing that is free from criticism? \nIf one has the freedom to eye roll, then someone else has the freedom to criticize the eye roller right? \nOr is it your opinion that besides that everyone who sees an eye roller has to just stfu", ">\n\nMeh, it is disrespectful. It's a way to be disrespectful without having to say That's the dumbest thing I've heard all month, and everyone else who heard it is also dumber for hearing it as well.", ">\n\nBut I didn't say it that's the point.", ">\n\nJust cuz you don’t use words doesn’t mean it’s not disrespectful. Walking away while someone is talking to you, rolling your eyes, slapping someone, and starting to play a game on your phone while someone is talking to you are all disrespectful. It doesn’t matter that you didn’t say anything, your lack of respect still showed.", ">\n\nespecially the way theyre responding to comments", ">\n\nYeah, a natural reaction if you’ve never learned to manage your emotions as opposed to letting them run your life. I’m not talking about being totally monotone rational, either. You need to learn a balance between rational and emotional…which includes healthy, appropriate, respectful expression of honest feelings. Eye rolling is absolutely disrespectful, belittling, and dismissive.", ">\n\nComments: OP is completely wrong and has attitude issues", ">\n\nWhat sounds like mental illness is you refusing to admit that rolling your eyes is simply not an unconditional response. Whether you want to believe it or not, you are doing it intentionally and you can control it. \nYou’re just to much of a b—— to do so.", ">\n\nSame to you", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a learned reaction. Not natural. I rarely of ever roll my eyes at anything.", ">", ">\n\nJust like raising your middle finger. Or vocalizing the sounds \"fuck you\". Or fingers typing the words fuck you OP. Nothing is disrespectful!", ">\n\nNice try but not the same thing at all. You're talking about thought out actions here. The eye roll is more like a reaction. Its quick, its automatic, no one has to think \"im rolling my eyes now\" it just happens. \nSort of like when telling a lie - no one decides to have their eyes dart around suspiciously, it just happens.", ">\n\nNo. Rolling your eyes is not involuntary. It can be controlled. You have a bad habit that you CAN stop. Much like a child learning not to suck their thumb, or biting your nails.", ">\n\nHow about you start with your hair scratching", ">\n\nYour opinion is a contradiction in itself. And, yeah. I disagree. Rolling your eyes is 100% to show lack of respect, and you have no intentions of showing it, even to reason, by rolling your eyes at something someone could believe is meaningful or important. Even if it is stupid.\nI get your point, we roll our eyes to express how we feel, but it is still a physical snare. You say rolling your eyes isn't disrespectful, while saying it's okay to roll your eyes because something is \" stupid or lame\", which in itself is disrespectful. You sound like a very young person in the middle of a learning moment, and you're trying to react with rebellion. It only shows that you lack maturity and are in need of growth. This might be a time for you to read these comments and reevaluate. There are healthier ways to react to things you disagree with, or lack interest in. If not, you can just accept that you roll your eyes to show lack of respect.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is much more deliberate than laughter, tears, or sneezing. It's a conscious action in response to a judgement you're making.", ">\n\nNah, dude it is disrespectful \nYou just have no self control and by the looks of it you don't want to build some", ">\n\nYour post made me roll my eyes very hard.", ">\n\n“No, officer, my wife - she MADE me hit her!”", ">\n\nIt's a natural reaction for a sooky kid but not an adult, if you do that as an adult you just manchild that wants everything their way", ">\n\npoor OP.... did you get in trouble after you rolled your eyes at something again? did you not prehaps learn from previous interactions? rolling your eyes at something \"stupid or lame\" is an intentional response that is disrespectful to whatever it is. mature people dont act that way.....", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes.\n\nSo it is disrespectful. \n\nIts like throwing pepper in someone's face an expecting them not to sneeze.\n\nNo it’s not. You can easily (edited in) refrain from rolling your eyes, while it’s much more difficult to refrain from sneezing. \nIt’s fine to think whatever you want, but you might want to refrain from rolling your eyes when you’re, say, interacting with your boss; aka someone that can make you unemployed for whatever reason they please.", ">\n\nThis isn't an opinion. It's just flat wrong. \nIt is disrespectful because it is a conscious signifier which clearly communicated that you think that the thing you are rolling your eyes at is not worthy of respect.", ">\n\nYou have to go out of your way to roll your eyes. It is NOT gutteral or instinctual", ">\n\nIf you annoy me, my arm whips out in a natural reaction and slaps you.", ">\n\nSorry, kiddo, it’s 100% disrespectful. Just own the shit and quit trying to lawyer around it.\nI say that after having rolled my eyes so hard at your post, I travelled back in time.", ">\n\nTell that to my family lol you get the belt", ">\n\nThis was made my a 15 year old who just got told off by their mom about rolling their eyes. Then in defense said, “I can’t control it”", ">\n\nMan it's getting so aggressive sometimes here 😂", ">\n\ni certainly hope you are embarrassed about this in a couple years when you grow up.", ">\n\nOP is a habitual eye roller 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄", ">\n\nI wish to God we could block people by age, no more edgy 13yo’s", ">\n\nSomebody just got their ps5 taken away for rolling their eyes", ">\n\nTell me you're 12 without telling me you're 12.", ">\n\nit’s the definition of disrespectful and a sign that you have literally nothing intelligent to say in return. \nwhich is why we outgrow it as adults.", ">\n\nYou can control it. It’s not an “automatic response” unless you’ve taught yourself to do it. I never roll my eyes. It’s just not something I have ever practiced doing. And yes…if I’m saying something too you and you dismiss it with an eye roll…it’s super disrespectful.", ">\n\nrolling your eyes is just as respectful as sticking your tongue out at someone or making a stupid face in reaction to something someone says", ">\n\nIf you can’t control your eye movement, you need to see a neurologist, dude 😆. As it stands, eye rolling isn’t a reflex or a “natural reaction” to anything. Habits aren’t the same as involuntary reactions.\nRolling your eyes at someone is disrespectful. It’s an outward sign that you think something about your interaction with them was stupid or wrong. There’s no one here that will agree with you, and you know that you’re in the vast minority with this opinion because you posted it on this sub. Now learn some humility and accept that your opinion is factually incorrect based on science.", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nAre you like 14 and your mom got you in trouble cause you rolled your eyes at her? Lmao", ">\n\nI’m gonna show your mom this and it’s going to be another week of being grounded, you little shit lol", ">\n\nOmfg 😂", ">\n\nOP I have to ask.\n\n\nHow old are you?\n\n\nHow is your relationship with your parents?\n\n\nHow do you view authority figures in your life?", ">\n\nrolls eyes", ">\n\nIf you say or demand something stupid from me I will probably roll my eyes.", ">\n\nBut it is", ">\n\nJust like rolling your eyes is an innate response, so are other people's responses to you rolling your eyes.", ">\n\nSometimes being respectful requires hiding your subjective opinion on whether something is stupid or lame.", ">\n\nI wouldn’t say eye rolling is as involuntary as laughing or crying tho. It’s more of a choice.", ">\n\nIf someone rolls their eyes then I feel disrespected it’s a natural reaction.", ">\n\ntell me you're a teenager without telling me you're a teenager", ">\n\nI'm rolling my eyes at this post. And I definitely mean it disrespectfully.", ">\n\nLmao this kid had an argument with his parent(s) or teacher and is venting on Reddit.", ">\n\nYou sound like an eye rolling arsehole", ">\n\ni have never had an as a nonvoulentary action, it requires very explicit movement of you eye. this is like saying “when i dont like people, i punch them in the head, thats my natural reaction i cant control it”\ni have never once legitimately rolled my eyes at something, i think you might be an asshole", ">\n\nMe smacking your face is also an innate uncontrollable response to you rolling your eyes. I'm only human. What can I do? 🙄", ">\n\nI disagree. also there are a billion other ways to express something being stupid or lame than rolling ur eyes", ">\n\nStop downvoting, this is ACTUALLY a very unpopular opinion and I love to see it tbh. Voice your disagreement in the comments but don't downvote the post. This post is hilarious." ]
> I once got a detention for rolling my eyes at a teacher in 4th grade. I agree with you, though. The only other person I've ever really rolled my eyes at was my mother, and she deserved it, every single time.	[ "🙄", ">\n\nYou’re grounded now", ">\n\nThe post above was someone getting electrocuted so this reply was very timely", ">\n\nThis news is shocking", ">\n\nIt definitely SPARKED my interest", ">\n\nAll of you guys need to leave, and not come back before learning how to conduct yourselves properly", ">\n\nUhhhh....... electricity", ">\n\nWell no, in the right context it is disrespectful. Rolling your eyes suggests that you're not taking the matter seriously or that you dont care which is a sign of disrespect towards whoever is speaking with you.", ">\n\nBut I can't control what I think. If I said \"man you're stupid and I don't care what you say\" thats disrespectful. I'm actually showing respect by not saying it.", ">\n\nI mean, actions speak louder than words, right?", ">\n\nIts not really an action tho its just an automatic response. Like gasping or yawning.", ">\n\nbullshit.\nSorry, it was an automatic response. Which is bullshit just like yours.", ">\n\nStill not the same thing. And they get on me for false analogies....", ">\n\nYou must be a teenager", ">\n\nLol how many times are you gonna post that. Dont you have an original thought of your own?", ">\n\nBruh I cant believe you make these posts. They're foolish", ">\n\nLaughing at someone can be disrespectful. Don't think so? Try laughing at someone's funeral.", ">\n\nThe disrespect comes from the one who told me a joke and made me laugh.", ">\n\nWhat about if no one said any joke? Because, you know, you are at a funeral.", ">\n\nSo someone's just there randomly laughing at shit? That sounds like a mental illness.", ">\n\nYou have never thought of something funny in your head to make yourself laugh? \nOr hell, maybe you didn't like the person who is buried and decided to laugh at them. You find it funny, so laughing must be appropriate, right?", ">\n\nWhy am I thinking about funny shit at a funeral.", ">\n\nBecause the universe likes to put us in uncomfortable positions sometimes.", ">\n\n“if its stupid or lame, you roll your eyes” - you found the disrespect", ">\n\nIm allowed to think whatever i want and its not disrespectful.", ">\n\nWhen you express contempt for something someone else said, it's disrespect.", ">\n\nWhat if what they said is contemptible?", ">\n\nSome people and comments deserve disrespect, still gonna be disrespect", ">\n\nLaughing, crying, and sneezing are all innate, involuntary reactions to certain types of stimuli. Rolling your eyes is a learned behavior. You can’t compare it to those other automatic responses because it’s not the same thing.", ">\n\nTake my upvote", ">\n\nOP rolled their eyes at someone and got chewed out for it.\nNow they're going online in an attempt to validate themselves.\n🙄", ">\n\nProbably got grounded.", ">\n\nPart of being a mature adult is to have self-control and not acting on every impulse and being respectful of people.", ">\n\n\nPart of being a mature adult\n\nYup but OP is clearly a teenager lol. They complain about being told off for doing chores wrong in another post…", ">\n\nEven a teenager should be able to have the fundamental basics of respect", ">\n\nOh I agree 100%", ">\n\nYou have poor self-control and poor self-awareness but the good news is that you can improve these things.", ">\n\n/r/wrongopinions", ">\n\nI feel like we need a new subreddit r/unpopularforareason", ">\n\nIt’s entire purpose is to be disrespectful. Nobody eyerolls something they respect. But how offensive it is depends on the context and how serious one is being.", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes\n\nYou rn: \"I'm not being disrespectful. I just thought what you said was stupid or lame.\"\n...", ">\n\nSaying its stupid could be disrespectful. A facial response is not.", ">\n\nLiterally every person in this thread agrees that it is.\nThis is your bad habit. Nobody else's responsibility but you.", ">\n\nThey can choose to not fly off the handle at what is just an innate reaction.", ">\n\nSo let me get this straight: you think you deserve to be able to disrespect whoever you like whenever you like but they can't as much as say you're being rude? Grow up.", ">\n\nFound the teenager.", ">\n\nMeh, I agree with that one. If you don't like how someone is doing something then do it yourself. There's a reason I live alone.", ">\n\nIt is a UNIVERSAL sign of disrespect. Globally. Deal with it.", ">\n\nLaughing can be disrespectuful too. If you cannot control your own reactions, well, what can I say, maybe you have not really grown up?", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s so it’s hard to control my own actions sometimes…", ">\n\nThank u I'm trying to explain how autism can make it hard to read not just others facial expressions but also ur own and it seems like no one has thought of the possibility that they acc don't realise it or csnt control it", ">\n\nWould you roll your eyes during a job interview if you thought a question was stupid or irrelevant? Do you think you’d get the job if you did?", ">\n\nPretty sure OP would think they were owed that job and they would think it’s ridiculous if they didn’t get it.\nOP is also a teenager going through their rebel phase though", ">\n\nYou're oddly specific here.", ">\n\nWhat was specific? Or rather oddly specific?", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a good way to fast track yourself to a divorce, if you want one.", ">\n\nI think OP needs the definition of respect before any further comment is made", ">\n\nOh I already know it, and I know it does not mean:\nDon't ever disagree with me\nDon't think bad thoughts about me\nDon't ever correct me when I'm blatantly wrong \nShine my boots with your tongue", ">\n\nSoooo this post isn’t about eye rolling is what I’m getting from this. You’ve got issues to work through with your parents or partner or something", ">\n\nSince when tf was eye rolling involuntary?", ">", ">\n\nYour lack of self control is not a justification for disrespect. I personally dont know anyone who reacts to anything by rolling their eyes. Just be mature and communicate.", ">\n\nAnd what if it's not stupid and someone rolls their eyes? Wouldn't it be disrespectful in that case?", ">\n\nIn the eye rollers opinion then it must have been. But you can't fault someone for thinking its stupid.", ">\n\nSo eyerolling is some kind of exceptional thing that is free from criticism? \nIf one has the freedom to eye roll, then someone else has the freedom to criticize the eye roller right? \nOr is it your opinion that besides that everyone who sees an eye roller has to just stfu", ">\n\nMeh, it is disrespectful. It's a way to be disrespectful without having to say That's the dumbest thing I've heard all month, and everyone else who heard it is also dumber for hearing it as well.", ">\n\nBut I didn't say it that's the point.", ">\n\nJust cuz you don’t use words doesn’t mean it’s not disrespectful. Walking away while someone is talking to you, rolling your eyes, slapping someone, and starting to play a game on your phone while someone is talking to you are all disrespectful. It doesn’t matter that you didn’t say anything, your lack of respect still showed.", ">\n\nespecially the way theyre responding to comments", ">\n\nYeah, a natural reaction if you’ve never learned to manage your emotions as opposed to letting them run your life. I’m not talking about being totally monotone rational, either. You need to learn a balance between rational and emotional…which includes healthy, appropriate, respectful expression of honest feelings. Eye rolling is absolutely disrespectful, belittling, and dismissive.", ">\n\nComments: OP is completely wrong and has attitude issues", ">\n\nWhat sounds like mental illness is you refusing to admit that rolling your eyes is simply not an unconditional response. Whether you want to believe it or not, you are doing it intentionally and you can control it. \nYou’re just to much of a b—— to do so.", ">\n\nSame to you", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a learned reaction. Not natural. I rarely of ever roll my eyes at anything.", ">", ">\n\nJust like raising your middle finger. Or vocalizing the sounds \"fuck you\". Or fingers typing the words fuck you OP. Nothing is disrespectful!", ">\n\nNice try but not the same thing at all. You're talking about thought out actions here. The eye roll is more like a reaction. Its quick, its automatic, no one has to think \"im rolling my eyes now\" it just happens. \nSort of like when telling a lie - no one decides to have their eyes dart around suspiciously, it just happens.", ">\n\nNo. Rolling your eyes is not involuntary. It can be controlled. You have a bad habit that you CAN stop. Much like a child learning not to suck their thumb, or biting your nails.", ">\n\nHow about you start with your hair scratching", ">\n\nYour opinion is a contradiction in itself. And, yeah. I disagree. Rolling your eyes is 100% to show lack of respect, and you have no intentions of showing it, even to reason, by rolling your eyes at something someone could believe is meaningful or important. Even if it is stupid.\nI get your point, we roll our eyes to express how we feel, but it is still a physical snare. You say rolling your eyes isn't disrespectful, while saying it's okay to roll your eyes because something is \" stupid or lame\", which in itself is disrespectful. You sound like a very young person in the middle of a learning moment, and you're trying to react with rebellion. It only shows that you lack maturity and are in need of growth. This might be a time for you to read these comments and reevaluate. There are healthier ways to react to things you disagree with, or lack interest in. If not, you can just accept that you roll your eyes to show lack of respect.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is much more deliberate than laughter, tears, or sneezing. It's a conscious action in response to a judgement you're making.", ">\n\nNah, dude it is disrespectful \nYou just have no self control and by the looks of it you don't want to build some", ">\n\nYour post made me roll my eyes very hard.", ">\n\n“No, officer, my wife - she MADE me hit her!”", ">\n\nIt's a natural reaction for a sooky kid but not an adult, if you do that as an adult you just manchild that wants everything their way", ">\n\npoor OP.... did you get in trouble after you rolled your eyes at something again? did you not prehaps learn from previous interactions? rolling your eyes at something \"stupid or lame\" is an intentional response that is disrespectful to whatever it is. mature people dont act that way.....", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes.\n\nSo it is disrespectful. \n\nIts like throwing pepper in someone's face an expecting them not to sneeze.\n\nNo it’s not. You can easily (edited in) refrain from rolling your eyes, while it’s much more difficult to refrain from sneezing. \nIt’s fine to think whatever you want, but you might want to refrain from rolling your eyes when you’re, say, interacting with your boss; aka someone that can make you unemployed for whatever reason they please.", ">\n\nThis isn't an opinion. It's just flat wrong. \nIt is disrespectful because it is a conscious signifier which clearly communicated that you think that the thing you are rolling your eyes at is not worthy of respect.", ">\n\nYou have to go out of your way to roll your eyes. It is NOT gutteral or instinctual", ">\n\nIf you annoy me, my arm whips out in a natural reaction and slaps you.", ">\n\nSorry, kiddo, it’s 100% disrespectful. Just own the shit and quit trying to lawyer around it.\nI say that after having rolled my eyes so hard at your post, I travelled back in time.", ">\n\nTell that to my family lol you get the belt", ">\n\nThis was made my a 15 year old who just got told off by their mom about rolling their eyes. Then in defense said, “I can’t control it”", ">\n\nMan it's getting so aggressive sometimes here 😂", ">\n\ni certainly hope you are embarrassed about this in a couple years when you grow up.", ">\n\nOP is a habitual eye roller 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄", ">\n\nI wish to God we could block people by age, no more edgy 13yo’s", ">\n\nSomebody just got their ps5 taken away for rolling their eyes", ">\n\nTell me you're 12 without telling me you're 12.", ">\n\nit’s the definition of disrespectful and a sign that you have literally nothing intelligent to say in return. \nwhich is why we outgrow it as adults.", ">\n\nYou can control it. It’s not an “automatic response” unless you’ve taught yourself to do it. I never roll my eyes. It’s just not something I have ever practiced doing. And yes…if I’m saying something too you and you dismiss it with an eye roll…it’s super disrespectful.", ">\n\nrolling your eyes is just as respectful as sticking your tongue out at someone or making a stupid face in reaction to something someone says", ">\n\nIf you can’t control your eye movement, you need to see a neurologist, dude 😆. As it stands, eye rolling isn’t a reflex or a “natural reaction” to anything. Habits aren’t the same as involuntary reactions.\nRolling your eyes at someone is disrespectful. It’s an outward sign that you think something about your interaction with them was stupid or wrong. There’s no one here that will agree with you, and you know that you’re in the vast minority with this opinion because you posted it on this sub. Now learn some humility and accept that your opinion is factually incorrect based on science.", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nAre you like 14 and your mom got you in trouble cause you rolled your eyes at her? Lmao", ">\n\nI’m gonna show your mom this and it’s going to be another week of being grounded, you little shit lol", ">\n\nOmfg 😂", ">\n\nOP I have to ask.\n\n\nHow old are you?\n\n\nHow is your relationship with your parents?\n\n\nHow do you view authority figures in your life?", ">\n\nrolls eyes", ">\n\nIf you say or demand something stupid from me I will probably roll my eyes.", ">\n\nBut it is", ">\n\nJust like rolling your eyes is an innate response, so are other people's responses to you rolling your eyes.", ">\n\nSometimes being respectful requires hiding your subjective opinion on whether something is stupid or lame.", ">\n\nI wouldn’t say eye rolling is as involuntary as laughing or crying tho. It’s more of a choice.", ">\n\nIf someone rolls their eyes then I feel disrespected it’s a natural reaction.", ">\n\ntell me you're a teenager without telling me you're a teenager", ">\n\nI'm rolling my eyes at this post. And I definitely mean it disrespectfully.", ">\n\nLmao this kid had an argument with his parent(s) or teacher and is venting on Reddit.", ">\n\nYou sound like an eye rolling arsehole", ">\n\ni have never had an as a nonvoulentary action, it requires very explicit movement of you eye. this is like saying “when i dont like people, i punch them in the head, thats my natural reaction i cant control it”\ni have never once legitimately rolled my eyes at something, i think you might be an asshole", ">\n\nMe smacking your face is also an innate uncontrollable response to you rolling your eyes. I'm only human. What can I do? 🙄", ">\n\nI disagree. also there are a billion other ways to express something being stupid or lame than rolling ur eyes", ">\n\nStop downvoting, this is ACTUALLY a very unpopular opinion and I love to see it tbh. Voice your disagreement in the comments but don't downvote the post. This post is hilarious.", ">\n\nThis is something you’ve learned to do. It’s entirely in your control if you do it or not." ]
> I get your point. I absolutely purposefully roll my eyes sometimes and whoever I'm doing it to would be valid for getting mad. But as someone who can't hide any emotion on their face (literally any, I'm the definition of an open book) there have been plenty of times where people blew up at me or laughed because I rolled my eyes when I didn't even realize I had done it. Feel like the people disagreeing with you haven't experienced this problem.	[ "🙄", ">\n\nYou’re grounded now", ">\n\nThe post above was someone getting electrocuted so this reply was very timely", ">\n\nThis news is shocking", ">\n\nIt definitely SPARKED my interest", ">\n\nAll of you guys need to leave, and not come back before learning how to conduct yourselves properly", ">\n\nUhhhh....... electricity", ">\n\nWell no, in the right context it is disrespectful. Rolling your eyes suggests that you're not taking the matter seriously or that you dont care which is a sign of disrespect towards whoever is speaking with you.", ">\n\nBut I can't control what I think. If I said \"man you're stupid and I don't care what you say\" thats disrespectful. I'm actually showing respect by not saying it.", ">\n\nI mean, actions speak louder than words, right?", ">\n\nIts not really an action tho its just an automatic response. Like gasping or yawning.", ">\n\nbullshit.\nSorry, it was an automatic response. Which is bullshit just like yours.", ">\n\nStill not the same thing. And they get on me for false analogies....", ">\n\nYou must be a teenager", ">\n\nLol how many times are you gonna post that. Dont you have an original thought of your own?", ">\n\nBruh I cant believe you make these posts. They're foolish", ">\n\nLaughing at someone can be disrespectful. Don't think so? Try laughing at someone's funeral.", ">\n\nThe disrespect comes from the one who told me a joke and made me laugh.", ">\n\nWhat about if no one said any joke? Because, you know, you are at a funeral.", ">\n\nSo someone's just there randomly laughing at shit? That sounds like a mental illness.", ">\n\nYou have never thought of something funny in your head to make yourself laugh? \nOr hell, maybe you didn't like the person who is buried and decided to laugh at them. You find it funny, so laughing must be appropriate, right?", ">\n\nWhy am I thinking about funny shit at a funeral.", ">\n\nBecause the universe likes to put us in uncomfortable positions sometimes.", ">\n\n“if its stupid or lame, you roll your eyes” - you found the disrespect", ">\n\nIm allowed to think whatever i want and its not disrespectful.", ">\n\nWhen you express contempt for something someone else said, it's disrespect.", ">\n\nWhat if what they said is contemptible?", ">\n\nSome people and comments deserve disrespect, still gonna be disrespect", ">\n\nLaughing, crying, and sneezing are all innate, involuntary reactions to certain types of stimuli. Rolling your eyes is a learned behavior. You can’t compare it to those other automatic responses because it’s not the same thing.", ">\n\nTake my upvote", ">\n\nOP rolled their eyes at someone and got chewed out for it.\nNow they're going online in an attempt to validate themselves.\n🙄", ">\n\nProbably got grounded.", ">\n\nPart of being a mature adult is to have self-control and not acting on every impulse and being respectful of people.", ">\n\n\nPart of being a mature adult\n\nYup but OP is clearly a teenager lol. They complain about being told off for doing chores wrong in another post…", ">\n\nEven a teenager should be able to have the fundamental basics of respect", ">\n\nOh I agree 100%", ">\n\nYou have poor self-control and poor self-awareness but the good news is that you can improve these things.", ">\n\n/r/wrongopinions", ">\n\nI feel like we need a new subreddit r/unpopularforareason", ">\n\nIt’s entire purpose is to be disrespectful. Nobody eyerolls something they respect. But how offensive it is depends on the context and how serious one is being.", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes\n\nYou rn: \"I'm not being disrespectful. I just thought what you said was stupid or lame.\"\n...", ">\n\nSaying its stupid could be disrespectful. A facial response is not.", ">\n\nLiterally every person in this thread agrees that it is.\nThis is your bad habit. Nobody else's responsibility but you.", ">\n\nThey can choose to not fly off the handle at what is just an innate reaction.", ">\n\nSo let me get this straight: you think you deserve to be able to disrespect whoever you like whenever you like but they can't as much as say you're being rude? Grow up.", ">\n\nFound the teenager.", ">\n\nMeh, I agree with that one. If you don't like how someone is doing something then do it yourself. There's a reason I live alone.", ">\n\nIt is a UNIVERSAL sign of disrespect. Globally. Deal with it.", ">\n\nLaughing can be disrespectuful too. If you cannot control your own reactions, well, what can I say, maybe you have not really grown up?", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s so it’s hard to control my own actions sometimes…", ">\n\nThank u I'm trying to explain how autism can make it hard to read not just others facial expressions but also ur own and it seems like no one has thought of the possibility that they acc don't realise it or csnt control it", ">\n\nWould you roll your eyes during a job interview if you thought a question was stupid or irrelevant? Do you think you’d get the job if you did?", ">\n\nPretty sure OP would think they were owed that job and they would think it’s ridiculous if they didn’t get it.\nOP is also a teenager going through their rebel phase though", ">\n\nYou're oddly specific here.", ">\n\nWhat was specific? Or rather oddly specific?", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a good way to fast track yourself to a divorce, if you want one.", ">\n\nI think OP needs the definition of respect before any further comment is made", ">\n\nOh I already know it, and I know it does not mean:\nDon't ever disagree with me\nDon't think bad thoughts about me\nDon't ever correct me when I'm blatantly wrong \nShine my boots with your tongue", ">\n\nSoooo this post isn’t about eye rolling is what I’m getting from this. You’ve got issues to work through with your parents or partner or something", ">\n\nSince when tf was eye rolling involuntary?", ">", ">\n\nYour lack of self control is not a justification for disrespect. I personally dont know anyone who reacts to anything by rolling their eyes. Just be mature and communicate.", ">\n\nAnd what if it's not stupid and someone rolls their eyes? Wouldn't it be disrespectful in that case?", ">\n\nIn the eye rollers opinion then it must have been. But you can't fault someone for thinking its stupid.", ">\n\nSo eyerolling is some kind of exceptional thing that is free from criticism? \nIf one has the freedom to eye roll, then someone else has the freedom to criticize the eye roller right? \nOr is it your opinion that besides that everyone who sees an eye roller has to just stfu", ">\n\nMeh, it is disrespectful. It's a way to be disrespectful without having to say That's the dumbest thing I've heard all month, and everyone else who heard it is also dumber for hearing it as well.", ">\n\nBut I didn't say it that's the point.", ">\n\nJust cuz you don’t use words doesn’t mean it’s not disrespectful. Walking away while someone is talking to you, rolling your eyes, slapping someone, and starting to play a game on your phone while someone is talking to you are all disrespectful. It doesn’t matter that you didn’t say anything, your lack of respect still showed.", ">\n\nespecially the way theyre responding to comments", ">\n\nYeah, a natural reaction if you’ve never learned to manage your emotions as opposed to letting them run your life. I’m not talking about being totally monotone rational, either. You need to learn a balance between rational and emotional…which includes healthy, appropriate, respectful expression of honest feelings. Eye rolling is absolutely disrespectful, belittling, and dismissive.", ">\n\nComments: OP is completely wrong and has attitude issues", ">\n\nWhat sounds like mental illness is you refusing to admit that rolling your eyes is simply not an unconditional response. Whether you want to believe it or not, you are doing it intentionally and you can control it. \nYou’re just to much of a b—— to do so.", ">\n\nSame to you", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a learned reaction. Not natural. I rarely of ever roll my eyes at anything.", ">", ">\n\nJust like raising your middle finger. Or vocalizing the sounds \"fuck you\". Or fingers typing the words fuck you OP. Nothing is disrespectful!", ">\n\nNice try but not the same thing at all. You're talking about thought out actions here. The eye roll is more like a reaction. Its quick, its automatic, no one has to think \"im rolling my eyes now\" it just happens. \nSort of like when telling a lie - no one decides to have their eyes dart around suspiciously, it just happens.", ">\n\nNo. Rolling your eyes is not involuntary. It can be controlled. You have a bad habit that you CAN stop. Much like a child learning not to suck their thumb, or biting your nails.", ">\n\nHow about you start with your hair scratching", ">\n\nYour opinion is a contradiction in itself. And, yeah. I disagree. Rolling your eyes is 100% to show lack of respect, and you have no intentions of showing it, even to reason, by rolling your eyes at something someone could believe is meaningful or important. Even if it is stupid.\nI get your point, we roll our eyes to express how we feel, but it is still a physical snare. You say rolling your eyes isn't disrespectful, while saying it's okay to roll your eyes because something is \" stupid or lame\", which in itself is disrespectful. You sound like a very young person in the middle of a learning moment, and you're trying to react with rebellion. It only shows that you lack maturity and are in need of growth. This might be a time for you to read these comments and reevaluate. There are healthier ways to react to things you disagree with, or lack interest in. If not, you can just accept that you roll your eyes to show lack of respect.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is much more deliberate than laughter, tears, or sneezing. It's a conscious action in response to a judgement you're making.", ">\n\nNah, dude it is disrespectful \nYou just have no self control and by the looks of it you don't want to build some", ">\n\nYour post made me roll my eyes very hard.", ">\n\n“No, officer, my wife - she MADE me hit her!”", ">\n\nIt's a natural reaction for a sooky kid but not an adult, if you do that as an adult you just manchild that wants everything their way", ">\n\npoor OP.... did you get in trouble after you rolled your eyes at something again? did you not prehaps learn from previous interactions? rolling your eyes at something \"stupid or lame\" is an intentional response that is disrespectful to whatever it is. mature people dont act that way.....", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes.\n\nSo it is disrespectful. \n\nIts like throwing pepper in someone's face an expecting them not to sneeze.\n\nNo it’s not. You can easily (edited in) refrain from rolling your eyes, while it’s much more difficult to refrain from sneezing. \nIt’s fine to think whatever you want, but you might want to refrain from rolling your eyes when you’re, say, interacting with your boss; aka someone that can make you unemployed for whatever reason they please.", ">\n\nThis isn't an opinion. It's just flat wrong. \nIt is disrespectful because it is a conscious signifier which clearly communicated that you think that the thing you are rolling your eyes at is not worthy of respect.", ">\n\nYou have to go out of your way to roll your eyes. It is NOT gutteral or instinctual", ">\n\nIf you annoy me, my arm whips out in a natural reaction and slaps you.", ">\n\nSorry, kiddo, it’s 100% disrespectful. Just own the shit and quit trying to lawyer around it.\nI say that after having rolled my eyes so hard at your post, I travelled back in time.", ">\n\nTell that to my family lol you get the belt", ">\n\nThis was made my a 15 year old who just got told off by their mom about rolling their eyes. Then in defense said, “I can’t control it”", ">\n\nMan it's getting so aggressive sometimes here 😂", ">\n\ni certainly hope you are embarrassed about this in a couple years when you grow up.", ">\n\nOP is a habitual eye roller 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄", ">\n\nI wish to God we could block people by age, no more edgy 13yo’s", ">\n\nSomebody just got their ps5 taken away for rolling their eyes", ">\n\nTell me you're 12 without telling me you're 12.", ">\n\nit’s the definition of disrespectful and a sign that you have literally nothing intelligent to say in return. \nwhich is why we outgrow it as adults.", ">\n\nYou can control it. It’s not an “automatic response” unless you’ve taught yourself to do it. I never roll my eyes. It’s just not something I have ever practiced doing. And yes…if I’m saying something too you and you dismiss it with an eye roll…it’s super disrespectful.", ">\n\nrolling your eyes is just as respectful as sticking your tongue out at someone or making a stupid face in reaction to something someone says", ">\n\nIf you can’t control your eye movement, you need to see a neurologist, dude 😆. As it stands, eye rolling isn’t a reflex or a “natural reaction” to anything. Habits aren’t the same as involuntary reactions.\nRolling your eyes at someone is disrespectful. It’s an outward sign that you think something about your interaction with them was stupid or wrong. There’s no one here that will agree with you, and you know that you’re in the vast minority with this opinion because you posted it on this sub. Now learn some humility and accept that your opinion is factually incorrect based on science.", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nAre you like 14 and your mom got you in trouble cause you rolled your eyes at her? Lmao", ">\n\nI’m gonna show your mom this and it’s going to be another week of being grounded, you little shit lol", ">\n\nOmfg 😂", ">\n\nOP I have to ask.\n\n\nHow old are you?\n\n\nHow is your relationship with your parents?\n\n\nHow do you view authority figures in your life?", ">\n\nrolls eyes", ">\n\nIf you say or demand something stupid from me I will probably roll my eyes.", ">\n\nBut it is", ">\n\nJust like rolling your eyes is an innate response, so are other people's responses to you rolling your eyes.", ">\n\nSometimes being respectful requires hiding your subjective opinion on whether something is stupid or lame.", ">\n\nI wouldn’t say eye rolling is as involuntary as laughing or crying tho. It’s more of a choice.", ">\n\nIf someone rolls their eyes then I feel disrespected it’s a natural reaction.", ">\n\ntell me you're a teenager without telling me you're a teenager", ">\n\nI'm rolling my eyes at this post. And I definitely mean it disrespectfully.", ">\n\nLmao this kid had an argument with his parent(s) or teacher and is venting on Reddit.", ">\n\nYou sound like an eye rolling arsehole", ">\n\ni have never had an as a nonvoulentary action, it requires very explicit movement of you eye. this is like saying “when i dont like people, i punch them in the head, thats my natural reaction i cant control it”\ni have never once legitimately rolled my eyes at something, i think you might be an asshole", ">\n\nMe smacking your face is also an innate uncontrollable response to you rolling your eyes. I'm only human. What can I do? 🙄", ">\n\nI disagree. also there are a billion other ways to express something being stupid or lame than rolling ur eyes", ">\n\nStop downvoting, this is ACTUALLY a very unpopular opinion and I love to see it tbh. Voice your disagreement in the comments but don't downvote the post. This post is hilarious.", ">\n\nThis is something you’ve learned to do. It’s entirely in your control if you do it or not.", ">\n\nI once got a detention for rolling my eyes at a teacher in 4th grade.\nI agree with you, though. The only other person I've ever really rolled my eyes at was my mother, and she deserved it, every single time." ]
> What you've done is cultivate a bad habit and then blamed it on everyone else when you repeat your own bad habit unintentionally. This is entirely your fault.	[ "🙄", ">\n\nYou’re grounded now", ">\n\nThe post above was someone getting electrocuted so this reply was very timely", ">\n\nThis news is shocking", ">\n\nIt definitely SPARKED my interest", ">\n\nAll of you guys need to leave, and not come back before learning how to conduct yourselves properly", ">\n\nUhhhh....... electricity", ">\n\nWell no, in the right context it is disrespectful. Rolling your eyes suggests that you're not taking the matter seriously or that you dont care which is a sign of disrespect towards whoever is speaking with you.", ">\n\nBut I can't control what I think. If I said \"man you're stupid and I don't care what you say\" thats disrespectful. I'm actually showing respect by not saying it.", ">\n\nI mean, actions speak louder than words, right?", ">\n\nIts not really an action tho its just an automatic response. Like gasping or yawning.", ">\n\nbullshit.\nSorry, it was an automatic response. Which is bullshit just like yours.", ">\n\nStill not the same thing. And they get on me for false analogies....", ">\n\nYou must be a teenager", ">\n\nLol how many times are you gonna post that. Dont you have an original thought of your own?", ">\n\nBruh I cant believe you make these posts. They're foolish", ">\n\nLaughing at someone can be disrespectful. Don't think so? Try laughing at someone's funeral.", ">\n\nThe disrespect comes from the one who told me a joke and made me laugh.", ">\n\nWhat about if no one said any joke? Because, you know, you are at a funeral.", ">\n\nSo someone's just there randomly laughing at shit? That sounds like a mental illness.", ">\n\nYou have never thought of something funny in your head to make yourself laugh? \nOr hell, maybe you didn't like the person who is buried and decided to laugh at them. You find it funny, so laughing must be appropriate, right?", ">\n\nWhy am I thinking about funny shit at a funeral.", ">\n\nBecause the universe likes to put us in uncomfortable positions sometimes.", ">\n\n“if its stupid or lame, you roll your eyes” - you found the disrespect", ">\n\nIm allowed to think whatever i want and its not disrespectful.", ">\n\nWhen you express contempt for something someone else said, it's disrespect.", ">\n\nWhat if what they said is contemptible?", ">\n\nSome people and comments deserve disrespect, still gonna be disrespect", ">\n\nLaughing, crying, and sneezing are all innate, involuntary reactions to certain types of stimuli. Rolling your eyes is a learned behavior. You can’t compare it to those other automatic responses because it’s not the same thing.", ">\n\nTake my upvote", ">\n\nOP rolled their eyes at someone and got chewed out for it.\nNow they're going online in an attempt to validate themselves.\n🙄", ">\n\nProbably got grounded.", ">\n\nPart of being a mature adult is to have self-control and not acting on every impulse and being respectful of people.", ">\n\n\nPart of being a mature adult\n\nYup but OP is clearly a teenager lol. They complain about being told off for doing chores wrong in another post…", ">\n\nEven a teenager should be able to have the fundamental basics of respect", ">\n\nOh I agree 100%", ">\n\nYou have poor self-control and poor self-awareness but the good news is that you can improve these things.", ">\n\n/r/wrongopinions", ">\n\nI feel like we need a new subreddit r/unpopularforareason", ">\n\nIt’s entire purpose is to be disrespectful. Nobody eyerolls something they respect. But how offensive it is depends on the context and how serious one is being.", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes\n\nYou rn: \"I'm not being disrespectful. I just thought what you said was stupid or lame.\"\n...", ">\n\nSaying its stupid could be disrespectful. A facial response is not.", ">\n\nLiterally every person in this thread agrees that it is.\nThis is your bad habit. Nobody else's responsibility but you.", ">\n\nThey can choose to not fly off the handle at what is just an innate reaction.", ">\n\nSo let me get this straight: you think you deserve to be able to disrespect whoever you like whenever you like but they can't as much as say you're being rude? Grow up.", ">\n\nFound the teenager.", ">\n\nMeh, I agree with that one. If you don't like how someone is doing something then do it yourself. There's a reason I live alone.", ">\n\nIt is a UNIVERSAL sign of disrespect. Globally. Deal with it.", ">\n\nLaughing can be disrespectuful too. If you cannot control your own reactions, well, what can I say, maybe you have not really grown up?", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s so it’s hard to control my own actions sometimes…", ">\n\nThank u I'm trying to explain how autism can make it hard to read not just others facial expressions but also ur own and it seems like no one has thought of the possibility that they acc don't realise it or csnt control it", ">\n\nWould you roll your eyes during a job interview if you thought a question was stupid or irrelevant? Do you think you’d get the job if you did?", ">\n\nPretty sure OP would think they were owed that job and they would think it’s ridiculous if they didn’t get it.\nOP is also a teenager going through their rebel phase though", ">\n\nYou're oddly specific here.", ">\n\nWhat was specific? Or rather oddly specific?", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a good way to fast track yourself to a divorce, if you want one.", ">\n\nI think OP needs the definition of respect before any further comment is made", ">\n\nOh I already know it, and I know it does not mean:\nDon't ever disagree with me\nDon't think bad thoughts about me\nDon't ever correct me when I'm blatantly wrong \nShine my boots with your tongue", ">\n\nSoooo this post isn’t about eye rolling is what I’m getting from this. You’ve got issues to work through with your parents or partner or something", ">\n\nSince when tf was eye rolling involuntary?", ">", ">\n\nYour lack of self control is not a justification for disrespect. I personally dont know anyone who reacts to anything by rolling their eyes. Just be mature and communicate.", ">\n\nAnd what if it's not stupid and someone rolls their eyes? Wouldn't it be disrespectful in that case?", ">\n\nIn the eye rollers opinion then it must have been. But you can't fault someone for thinking its stupid.", ">\n\nSo eyerolling is some kind of exceptional thing that is free from criticism? \nIf one has the freedom to eye roll, then someone else has the freedom to criticize the eye roller right? \nOr is it your opinion that besides that everyone who sees an eye roller has to just stfu", ">\n\nMeh, it is disrespectful. It's a way to be disrespectful without having to say That's the dumbest thing I've heard all month, and everyone else who heard it is also dumber for hearing it as well.", ">\n\nBut I didn't say it that's the point.", ">\n\nJust cuz you don’t use words doesn’t mean it’s not disrespectful. Walking away while someone is talking to you, rolling your eyes, slapping someone, and starting to play a game on your phone while someone is talking to you are all disrespectful. It doesn’t matter that you didn’t say anything, your lack of respect still showed.", ">\n\nespecially the way theyre responding to comments", ">\n\nYeah, a natural reaction if you’ve never learned to manage your emotions as opposed to letting them run your life. I’m not talking about being totally monotone rational, either. You need to learn a balance between rational and emotional…which includes healthy, appropriate, respectful expression of honest feelings. Eye rolling is absolutely disrespectful, belittling, and dismissive.", ">\n\nComments: OP is completely wrong and has attitude issues", ">\n\nWhat sounds like mental illness is you refusing to admit that rolling your eyes is simply not an unconditional response. Whether you want to believe it or not, you are doing it intentionally and you can control it. \nYou’re just to much of a b—— to do so.", ">\n\nSame to you", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a learned reaction. Not natural. I rarely of ever roll my eyes at anything.", ">", ">\n\nJust like raising your middle finger. Or vocalizing the sounds \"fuck you\". Or fingers typing the words fuck you OP. Nothing is disrespectful!", ">\n\nNice try but not the same thing at all. You're talking about thought out actions here. The eye roll is more like a reaction. Its quick, its automatic, no one has to think \"im rolling my eyes now\" it just happens. \nSort of like when telling a lie - no one decides to have their eyes dart around suspiciously, it just happens.", ">\n\nNo. Rolling your eyes is not involuntary. It can be controlled. You have a bad habit that you CAN stop. Much like a child learning not to suck their thumb, or biting your nails.", ">\n\nHow about you start with your hair scratching", ">\n\nYour opinion is a contradiction in itself. And, yeah. I disagree. Rolling your eyes is 100% to show lack of respect, and you have no intentions of showing it, even to reason, by rolling your eyes at something someone could believe is meaningful or important. Even if it is stupid.\nI get your point, we roll our eyes to express how we feel, but it is still a physical snare. You say rolling your eyes isn't disrespectful, while saying it's okay to roll your eyes because something is \" stupid or lame\", which in itself is disrespectful. You sound like a very young person in the middle of a learning moment, and you're trying to react with rebellion. It only shows that you lack maturity and are in need of growth. This might be a time for you to read these comments and reevaluate. There are healthier ways to react to things you disagree with, or lack interest in. If not, you can just accept that you roll your eyes to show lack of respect.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is much more deliberate than laughter, tears, or sneezing. It's a conscious action in response to a judgement you're making.", ">\n\nNah, dude it is disrespectful \nYou just have no self control and by the looks of it you don't want to build some", ">\n\nYour post made me roll my eyes very hard.", ">\n\n“No, officer, my wife - she MADE me hit her!”", ">\n\nIt's a natural reaction for a sooky kid but not an adult, if you do that as an adult you just manchild that wants everything their way", ">\n\npoor OP.... did you get in trouble after you rolled your eyes at something again? did you not prehaps learn from previous interactions? rolling your eyes at something \"stupid or lame\" is an intentional response that is disrespectful to whatever it is. mature people dont act that way.....", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes.\n\nSo it is disrespectful. \n\nIts like throwing pepper in someone's face an expecting them not to sneeze.\n\nNo it’s not. You can easily (edited in) refrain from rolling your eyes, while it’s much more difficult to refrain from sneezing. \nIt’s fine to think whatever you want, but you might want to refrain from rolling your eyes when you’re, say, interacting with your boss; aka someone that can make you unemployed for whatever reason they please.", ">\n\nThis isn't an opinion. It's just flat wrong. \nIt is disrespectful because it is a conscious signifier which clearly communicated that you think that the thing you are rolling your eyes at is not worthy of respect.", ">\n\nYou have to go out of your way to roll your eyes. It is NOT gutteral or instinctual", ">\n\nIf you annoy me, my arm whips out in a natural reaction and slaps you.", ">\n\nSorry, kiddo, it’s 100% disrespectful. Just own the shit and quit trying to lawyer around it.\nI say that after having rolled my eyes so hard at your post, I travelled back in time.", ">\n\nTell that to my family lol you get the belt", ">\n\nThis was made my a 15 year old who just got told off by their mom about rolling their eyes. Then in defense said, “I can’t control it”", ">\n\nMan it's getting so aggressive sometimes here 😂", ">\n\ni certainly hope you are embarrassed about this in a couple years when you grow up.", ">\n\nOP is a habitual eye roller 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄", ">\n\nI wish to God we could block people by age, no more edgy 13yo’s", ">\n\nSomebody just got their ps5 taken away for rolling their eyes", ">\n\nTell me you're 12 without telling me you're 12.", ">\n\nit’s the definition of disrespectful and a sign that you have literally nothing intelligent to say in return. \nwhich is why we outgrow it as adults.", ">\n\nYou can control it. It’s not an “automatic response” unless you’ve taught yourself to do it. I never roll my eyes. It’s just not something I have ever practiced doing. And yes…if I’m saying something too you and you dismiss it with an eye roll…it’s super disrespectful.", ">\n\nrolling your eyes is just as respectful as sticking your tongue out at someone or making a stupid face in reaction to something someone says", ">\n\nIf you can’t control your eye movement, you need to see a neurologist, dude 😆. As it stands, eye rolling isn’t a reflex or a “natural reaction” to anything. Habits aren’t the same as involuntary reactions.\nRolling your eyes at someone is disrespectful. It’s an outward sign that you think something about your interaction with them was stupid or wrong. There’s no one here that will agree with you, and you know that you’re in the vast minority with this opinion because you posted it on this sub. Now learn some humility and accept that your opinion is factually incorrect based on science.", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nAre you like 14 and your mom got you in trouble cause you rolled your eyes at her? Lmao", ">\n\nI’m gonna show your mom this and it’s going to be another week of being grounded, you little shit lol", ">\n\nOmfg 😂", ">\n\nOP I have to ask.\n\n\nHow old are you?\n\n\nHow is your relationship with your parents?\n\n\nHow do you view authority figures in your life?", ">\n\nrolls eyes", ">\n\nIf you say or demand something stupid from me I will probably roll my eyes.", ">\n\nBut it is", ">\n\nJust like rolling your eyes is an innate response, so are other people's responses to you rolling your eyes.", ">\n\nSometimes being respectful requires hiding your subjective opinion on whether something is stupid or lame.", ">\n\nI wouldn’t say eye rolling is as involuntary as laughing or crying tho. It’s more of a choice.", ">\n\nIf someone rolls their eyes then I feel disrespected it’s a natural reaction.", ">\n\ntell me you're a teenager without telling me you're a teenager", ">\n\nI'm rolling my eyes at this post. And I definitely mean it disrespectfully.", ">\n\nLmao this kid had an argument with his parent(s) or teacher and is venting on Reddit.", ">\n\nYou sound like an eye rolling arsehole", ">\n\ni have never had an as a nonvoulentary action, it requires very explicit movement of you eye. this is like saying “when i dont like people, i punch them in the head, thats my natural reaction i cant control it”\ni have never once legitimately rolled my eyes at something, i think you might be an asshole", ">\n\nMe smacking your face is also an innate uncontrollable response to you rolling your eyes. I'm only human. What can I do? 🙄", ">\n\nI disagree. also there are a billion other ways to express something being stupid or lame than rolling ur eyes", ">\n\nStop downvoting, this is ACTUALLY a very unpopular opinion and I love to see it tbh. Voice your disagreement in the comments but don't downvote the post. This post is hilarious.", ">\n\nThis is something you’ve learned to do. It’s entirely in your control if you do it or not.", ">\n\nI once got a detention for rolling my eyes at a teacher in 4th grade.\nI agree with you, though. The only other person I've ever really rolled my eyes at was my mother, and she deserved it, every single time.", ">\n\nI get your point. I absolutely purposefully roll my eyes sometimes and whoever I'm doing it to would be valid for getting mad. \nBut as someone who can't hide any emotion on their face (literally any, I'm the definition of an open book) there have been plenty of times where people blew up at me or laughed because I rolled my eyes when I didn't even realize I had done it. Feel like the people disagreeing with you haven't experienced this problem." ]
> Only on Reddit would someone so boldly declare something like this to a stranger. I'm on the spectrum so that might have to do with my not being able to hide any emotion (I truly mean that, people can basically read my thoughts just by looking at me, good and bad). I think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave. Consider working on that.	[ "🙄", ">\n\nYou’re grounded now", ">\n\nThe post above was someone getting electrocuted so this reply was very timely", ">\n\nThis news is shocking", ">\n\nIt definitely SPARKED my interest", ">\n\nAll of you guys need to leave, and not come back before learning how to conduct yourselves properly", ">\n\nUhhhh....... electricity", ">\n\nWell no, in the right context it is disrespectful. Rolling your eyes suggests that you're not taking the matter seriously or that you dont care which is a sign of disrespect towards whoever is speaking with you.", ">\n\nBut I can't control what I think. If I said \"man you're stupid and I don't care what you say\" thats disrespectful. I'm actually showing respect by not saying it.", ">\n\nI mean, actions speak louder than words, right?", ">\n\nIts not really an action tho its just an automatic response. Like gasping or yawning.", ">\n\nbullshit.\nSorry, it was an automatic response. Which is bullshit just like yours.", ">\n\nStill not the same thing. And they get on me for false analogies....", ">\n\nYou must be a teenager", ">\n\nLol how many times are you gonna post that. Dont you have an original thought of your own?", ">\n\nBruh I cant believe you make these posts. They're foolish", ">\n\nLaughing at someone can be disrespectful. Don't think so? Try laughing at someone's funeral.", ">\n\nThe disrespect comes from the one who told me a joke and made me laugh.", ">\n\nWhat about if no one said any joke? Because, you know, you are at a funeral.", ">\n\nSo someone's just there randomly laughing at shit? That sounds like a mental illness.", ">\n\nYou have never thought of something funny in your head to make yourself laugh? \nOr hell, maybe you didn't like the person who is buried and decided to laugh at them. You find it funny, so laughing must be appropriate, right?", ">\n\nWhy am I thinking about funny shit at a funeral.", ">\n\nBecause the universe likes to put us in uncomfortable positions sometimes.", ">\n\n“if its stupid or lame, you roll your eyes” - you found the disrespect", ">\n\nIm allowed to think whatever i want and its not disrespectful.", ">\n\nWhen you express contempt for something someone else said, it's disrespect.", ">\n\nWhat if what they said is contemptible?", ">\n\nSome people and comments deserve disrespect, still gonna be disrespect", ">\n\nLaughing, crying, and sneezing are all innate, involuntary reactions to certain types of stimuli. Rolling your eyes is a learned behavior. You can’t compare it to those other automatic responses because it’s not the same thing.", ">\n\nTake my upvote", ">\n\nOP rolled their eyes at someone and got chewed out for it.\nNow they're going online in an attempt to validate themselves.\n🙄", ">\n\nProbably got grounded.", ">\n\nPart of being a mature adult is to have self-control and not acting on every impulse and being respectful of people.", ">\n\n\nPart of being a mature adult\n\nYup but OP is clearly a teenager lol. They complain about being told off for doing chores wrong in another post…", ">\n\nEven a teenager should be able to have the fundamental basics of respect", ">\n\nOh I agree 100%", ">\n\nYou have poor self-control and poor self-awareness but the good news is that you can improve these things.", ">\n\n/r/wrongopinions", ">\n\nI feel like we need a new subreddit r/unpopularforareason", ">\n\nIt’s entire purpose is to be disrespectful. Nobody eyerolls something they respect. But how offensive it is depends on the context and how serious one is being.", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes\n\nYou rn: \"I'm not being disrespectful. I just thought what you said was stupid or lame.\"\n...", ">\n\nSaying its stupid could be disrespectful. A facial response is not.", ">\n\nLiterally every person in this thread agrees that it is.\nThis is your bad habit. Nobody else's responsibility but you.", ">\n\nThey can choose to not fly off the handle at what is just an innate reaction.", ">\n\nSo let me get this straight: you think you deserve to be able to disrespect whoever you like whenever you like but they can't as much as say you're being rude? Grow up.", ">\n\nFound the teenager.", ">\n\nMeh, I agree with that one. If you don't like how someone is doing something then do it yourself. There's a reason I live alone.", ">\n\nIt is a UNIVERSAL sign of disrespect. Globally. Deal with it.", ">\n\nLaughing can be disrespectuful too. If you cannot control your own reactions, well, what can I say, maybe you have not really grown up?", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s so it’s hard to control my own actions sometimes…", ">\n\nThank u I'm trying to explain how autism can make it hard to read not just others facial expressions but also ur own and it seems like no one has thought of the possibility that they acc don't realise it or csnt control it", ">\n\nWould you roll your eyes during a job interview if you thought a question was stupid or irrelevant? Do you think you’d get the job if you did?", ">\n\nPretty sure OP would think they were owed that job and they would think it’s ridiculous if they didn’t get it.\nOP is also a teenager going through their rebel phase though", ">\n\nYou're oddly specific here.", ">\n\nWhat was specific? Or rather oddly specific?", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a good way to fast track yourself to a divorce, if you want one.", ">\n\nI think OP needs the definition of respect before any further comment is made", ">\n\nOh I already know it, and I know it does not mean:\nDon't ever disagree with me\nDon't think bad thoughts about me\nDon't ever correct me when I'm blatantly wrong \nShine my boots with your tongue", ">\n\nSoooo this post isn’t about eye rolling is what I’m getting from this. You’ve got issues to work through with your parents or partner or something", ">\n\nSince when tf was eye rolling involuntary?", ">", ">\n\nYour lack of self control is not a justification for disrespect. I personally dont know anyone who reacts to anything by rolling their eyes. Just be mature and communicate.", ">\n\nAnd what if it's not stupid and someone rolls their eyes? Wouldn't it be disrespectful in that case?", ">\n\nIn the eye rollers opinion then it must have been. But you can't fault someone for thinking its stupid.", ">\n\nSo eyerolling is some kind of exceptional thing that is free from criticism? \nIf one has the freedom to eye roll, then someone else has the freedom to criticize the eye roller right? \nOr is it your opinion that besides that everyone who sees an eye roller has to just stfu", ">\n\nMeh, it is disrespectful. It's a way to be disrespectful without having to say That's the dumbest thing I've heard all month, and everyone else who heard it is also dumber for hearing it as well.", ">\n\nBut I didn't say it that's the point.", ">\n\nJust cuz you don’t use words doesn’t mean it’s not disrespectful. Walking away while someone is talking to you, rolling your eyes, slapping someone, and starting to play a game on your phone while someone is talking to you are all disrespectful. It doesn’t matter that you didn’t say anything, your lack of respect still showed.", ">\n\nespecially the way theyre responding to comments", ">\n\nYeah, a natural reaction if you’ve never learned to manage your emotions as opposed to letting them run your life. I’m not talking about being totally monotone rational, either. You need to learn a balance between rational and emotional…which includes healthy, appropriate, respectful expression of honest feelings. Eye rolling is absolutely disrespectful, belittling, and dismissive.", ">\n\nComments: OP is completely wrong and has attitude issues", ">\n\nWhat sounds like mental illness is you refusing to admit that rolling your eyes is simply not an unconditional response. Whether you want to believe it or not, you are doing it intentionally and you can control it. \nYou’re just to much of a b—— to do so.", ">\n\nSame to you", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a learned reaction. Not natural. I rarely of ever roll my eyes at anything.", ">", ">\n\nJust like raising your middle finger. Or vocalizing the sounds \"fuck you\". Or fingers typing the words fuck you OP. Nothing is disrespectful!", ">\n\nNice try but not the same thing at all. You're talking about thought out actions here. The eye roll is more like a reaction. Its quick, its automatic, no one has to think \"im rolling my eyes now\" it just happens. \nSort of like when telling a lie - no one decides to have their eyes dart around suspiciously, it just happens.", ">\n\nNo. Rolling your eyes is not involuntary. It can be controlled. You have a bad habit that you CAN stop. Much like a child learning not to suck their thumb, or biting your nails.", ">\n\nHow about you start with your hair scratching", ">\n\nYour opinion is a contradiction in itself. And, yeah. I disagree. Rolling your eyes is 100% to show lack of respect, and you have no intentions of showing it, even to reason, by rolling your eyes at something someone could believe is meaningful or important. Even if it is stupid.\nI get your point, we roll our eyes to express how we feel, but it is still a physical snare. You say rolling your eyes isn't disrespectful, while saying it's okay to roll your eyes because something is \" stupid or lame\", which in itself is disrespectful. You sound like a very young person in the middle of a learning moment, and you're trying to react with rebellion. It only shows that you lack maturity and are in need of growth. This might be a time for you to read these comments and reevaluate. There are healthier ways to react to things you disagree with, or lack interest in. If not, you can just accept that you roll your eyes to show lack of respect.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is much more deliberate than laughter, tears, or sneezing. It's a conscious action in response to a judgement you're making.", ">\n\nNah, dude it is disrespectful \nYou just have no self control and by the looks of it you don't want to build some", ">\n\nYour post made me roll my eyes very hard.", ">\n\n“No, officer, my wife - she MADE me hit her!”", ">\n\nIt's a natural reaction for a sooky kid but not an adult, if you do that as an adult you just manchild that wants everything their way", ">\n\npoor OP.... did you get in trouble after you rolled your eyes at something again? did you not prehaps learn from previous interactions? rolling your eyes at something \"stupid or lame\" is an intentional response that is disrespectful to whatever it is. mature people dont act that way.....", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes.\n\nSo it is disrespectful. \n\nIts like throwing pepper in someone's face an expecting them not to sneeze.\n\nNo it’s not. You can easily (edited in) refrain from rolling your eyes, while it’s much more difficult to refrain from sneezing. \nIt’s fine to think whatever you want, but you might want to refrain from rolling your eyes when you’re, say, interacting with your boss; aka someone that can make you unemployed for whatever reason they please.", ">\n\nThis isn't an opinion. It's just flat wrong. \nIt is disrespectful because it is a conscious signifier which clearly communicated that you think that the thing you are rolling your eyes at is not worthy of respect.", ">\n\nYou have to go out of your way to roll your eyes. It is NOT gutteral or instinctual", ">\n\nIf you annoy me, my arm whips out in a natural reaction and slaps you.", ">\n\nSorry, kiddo, it’s 100% disrespectful. Just own the shit and quit trying to lawyer around it.\nI say that after having rolled my eyes so hard at your post, I travelled back in time.", ">\n\nTell that to my family lol you get the belt", ">\n\nThis was made my a 15 year old who just got told off by their mom about rolling their eyes. Then in defense said, “I can’t control it”", ">\n\nMan it's getting so aggressive sometimes here 😂", ">\n\ni certainly hope you are embarrassed about this in a couple years when you grow up.", ">\n\nOP is a habitual eye roller 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄", ">\n\nI wish to God we could block people by age, no more edgy 13yo’s", ">\n\nSomebody just got their ps5 taken away for rolling their eyes", ">\n\nTell me you're 12 without telling me you're 12.", ">\n\nit’s the definition of disrespectful and a sign that you have literally nothing intelligent to say in return. \nwhich is why we outgrow it as adults.", ">\n\nYou can control it. It’s not an “automatic response” unless you’ve taught yourself to do it. I never roll my eyes. It’s just not something I have ever practiced doing. And yes…if I’m saying something too you and you dismiss it with an eye roll…it’s super disrespectful.", ">\n\nrolling your eyes is just as respectful as sticking your tongue out at someone or making a stupid face in reaction to something someone says", ">\n\nIf you can’t control your eye movement, you need to see a neurologist, dude 😆. As it stands, eye rolling isn’t a reflex or a “natural reaction” to anything. Habits aren’t the same as involuntary reactions.\nRolling your eyes at someone is disrespectful. It’s an outward sign that you think something about your interaction with them was stupid or wrong. There’s no one here that will agree with you, and you know that you’re in the vast minority with this opinion because you posted it on this sub. Now learn some humility and accept that your opinion is factually incorrect based on science.", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nAre you like 14 and your mom got you in trouble cause you rolled your eyes at her? Lmao", ">\n\nI’m gonna show your mom this and it’s going to be another week of being grounded, you little shit lol", ">\n\nOmfg 😂", ">\n\nOP I have to ask.\n\n\nHow old are you?\n\n\nHow is your relationship with your parents?\n\n\nHow do you view authority figures in your life?", ">\n\nrolls eyes", ">\n\nIf you say or demand something stupid from me I will probably roll my eyes.", ">\n\nBut it is", ">\n\nJust like rolling your eyes is an innate response, so are other people's responses to you rolling your eyes.", ">\n\nSometimes being respectful requires hiding your subjective opinion on whether something is stupid or lame.", ">\n\nI wouldn’t say eye rolling is as involuntary as laughing or crying tho. It’s more of a choice.", ">\n\nIf someone rolls their eyes then I feel disrespected it’s a natural reaction.", ">\n\ntell me you're a teenager without telling me you're a teenager", ">\n\nI'm rolling my eyes at this post. And I definitely mean it disrespectfully.", ">\n\nLmao this kid had an argument with his parent(s) or teacher and is venting on Reddit.", ">\n\nYou sound like an eye rolling arsehole", ">\n\ni have never had an as a nonvoulentary action, it requires very explicit movement of you eye. this is like saying “when i dont like people, i punch them in the head, thats my natural reaction i cant control it”\ni have never once legitimately rolled my eyes at something, i think you might be an asshole", ">\n\nMe smacking your face is also an innate uncontrollable response to you rolling your eyes. I'm only human. What can I do? 🙄", ">\n\nI disagree. also there are a billion other ways to express something being stupid or lame than rolling ur eyes", ">\n\nStop downvoting, this is ACTUALLY a very unpopular opinion and I love to see it tbh. Voice your disagreement in the comments but don't downvote the post. This post is hilarious.", ">\n\nThis is something you’ve learned to do. It’s entirely in your control if you do it or not.", ">\n\nI once got a detention for rolling my eyes at a teacher in 4th grade.\nI agree with you, though. The only other person I've ever really rolled my eyes at was my mother, and she deserved it, every single time.", ">\n\nI get your point. I absolutely purposefully roll my eyes sometimes and whoever I'm doing it to would be valid for getting mad. \nBut as someone who can't hide any emotion on their face (literally any, I'm the definition of an open book) there have been plenty of times where people blew up at me or laughed because I rolled my eyes when I didn't even realize I had done it. Feel like the people disagreeing with you haven't experienced this problem.", ">\n\nWhat you've done is cultivate a bad habit and then blamed it on everyone else when you repeat your own bad habit unintentionally.\nThis is entirely your fault." ]
> So they point out you’re cultivating a bad habit and blaming other people so you then, blame them? It’s a little spot on don’t you think?	[ "🙄", ">\n\nYou’re grounded now", ">\n\nThe post above was someone getting electrocuted so this reply was very timely", ">\n\nThis news is shocking", ">\n\nIt definitely SPARKED my interest", ">\n\nAll of you guys need to leave, and not come back before learning how to conduct yourselves properly", ">\n\nUhhhh....... electricity", ">\n\nWell no, in the right context it is disrespectful. Rolling your eyes suggests that you're not taking the matter seriously or that you dont care which is a sign of disrespect towards whoever is speaking with you.", ">\n\nBut I can't control what I think. If I said \"man you're stupid and I don't care what you say\" thats disrespectful. I'm actually showing respect by not saying it.", ">\n\nI mean, actions speak louder than words, right?", ">\n\nIts not really an action tho its just an automatic response. Like gasping or yawning.", ">\n\nbullshit.\nSorry, it was an automatic response. Which is bullshit just like yours.", ">\n\nStill not the same thing. And they get on me for false analogies....", ">\n\nYou must be a teenager", ">\n\nLol how many times are you gonna post that. Dont you have an original thought of your own?", ">\n\nBruh I cant believe you make these posts. They're foolish", ">\n\nLaughing at someone can be disrespectful. Don't think so? Try laughing at someone's funeral.", ">\n\nThe disrespect comes from the one who told me a joke and made me laugh.", ">\n\nWhat about if no one said any joke? Because, you know, you are at a funeral.", ">\n\nSo someone's just there randomly laughing at shit? That sounds like a mental illness.", ">\n\nYou have never thought of something funny in your head to make yourself laugh? \nOr hell, maybe you didn't like the person who is buried and decided to laugh at them. You find it funny, so laughing must be appropriate, right?", ">\n\nWhy am I thinking about funny shit at a funeral.", ">\n\nBecause the universe likes to put us in uncomfortable positions sometimes.", ">\n\n“if its stupid or lame, you roll your eyes” - you found the disrespect", ">\n\nIm allowed to think whatever i want and its not disrespectful.", ">\n\nWhen you express contempt for something someone else said, it's disrespect.", ">\n\nWhat if what they said is contemptible?", ">\n\nSome people and comments deserve disrespect, still gonna be disrespect", ">\n\nLaughing, crying, and sneezing are all innate, involuntary reactions to certain types of stimuli. Rolling your eyes is a learned behavior. You can’t compare it to those other automatic responses because it’s not the same thing.", ">\n\nTake my upvote", ">\n\nOP rolled their eyes at someone and got chewed out for it.\nNow they're going online in an attempt to validate themselves.\n🙄", ">\n\nProbably got grounded.", ">\n\nPart of being a mature adult is to have self-control and not acting on every impulse and being respectful of people.", ">\n\n\nPart of being a mature adult\n\nYup but OP is clearly a teenager lol. They complain about being told off for doing chores wrong in another post…", ">\n\nEven a teenager should be able to have the fundamental basics of respect", ">\n\nOh I agree 100%", ">\n\nYou have poor self-control and poor self-awareness but the good news is that you can improve these things.", ">\n\n/r/wrongopinions", ">\n\nI feel like we need a new subreddit r/unpopularforareason", ">\n\nIt’s entire purpose is to be disrespectful. Nobody eyerolls something they respect. But how offensive it is depends on the context and how serious one is being.", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes\n\nYou rn: \"I'm not being disrespectful. I just thought what you said was stupid or lame.\"\n...", ">\n\nSaying its stupid could be disrespectful. A facial response is not.", ">\n\nLiterally every person in this thread agrees that it is.\nThis is your bad habit. Nobody else's responsibility but you.", ">\n\nThey can choose to not fly off the handle at what is just an innate reaction.", ">\n\nSo let me get this straight: you think you deserve to be able to disrespect whoever you like whenever you like but they can't as much as say you're being rude? Grow up.", ">\n\nFound the teenager.", ">\n\nMeh, I agree with that one. If you don't like how someone is doing something then do it yourself. There's a reason I live alone.", ">\n\nIt is a UNIVERSAL sign of disrespect. Globally. Deal with it.", ">\n\nLaughing can be disrespectuful too. If you cannot control your own reactions, well, what can I say, maybe you have not really grown up?", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s so it’s hard to control my own actions sometimes…", ">\n\nThank u I'm trying to explain how autism can make it hard to read not just others facial expressions but also ur own and it seems like no one has thought of the possibility that they acc don't realise it or csnt control it", ">\n\nWould you roll your eyes during a job interview if you thought a question was stupid or irrelevant? Do you think you’d get the job if you did?", ">\n\nPretty sure OP would think they were owed that job and they would think it’s ridiculous if they didn’t get it.\nOP is also a teenager going through their rebel phase though", ">\n\nYou're oddly specific here.", ">\n\nWhat was specific? Or rather oddly specific?", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a good way to fast track yourself to a divorce, if you want one.", ">\n\nI think OP needs the definition of respect before any further comment is made", ">\n\nOh I already know it, and I know it does not mean:\nDon't ever disagree with me\nDon't think bad thoughts about me\nDon't ever correct me when I'm blatantly wrong \nShine my boots with your tongue", ">\n\nSoooo this post isn’t about eye rolling is what I’m getting from this. You’ve got issues to work through with your parents or partner or something", ">\n\nSince when tf was eye rolling involuntary?", ">", ">\n\nYour lack of self control is not a justification for disrespect. I personally dont know anyone who reacts to anything by rolling their eyes. Just be mature and communicate.", ">\n\nAnd what if it's not stupid and someone rolls their eyes? Wouldn't it be disrespectful in that case?", ">\n\nIn the eye rollers opinion then it must have been. But you can't fault someone for thinking its stupid.", ">\n\nSo eyerolling is some kind of exceptional thing that is free from criticism? \nIf one has the freedom to eye roll, then someone else has the freedom to criticize the eye roller right? \nOr is it your opinion that besides that everyone who sees an eye roller has to just stfu", ">\n\nMeh, it is disrespectful. It's a way to be disrespectful without having to say That's the dumbest thing I've heard all month, and everyone else who heard it is also dumber for hearing it as well.", ">\n\nBut I didn't say it that's the point.", ">\n\nJust cuz you don’t use words doesn’t mean it’s not disrespectful. Walking away while someone is talking to you, rolling your eyes, slapping someone, and starting to play a game on your phone while someone is talking to you are all disrespectful. It doesn’t matter that you didn’t say anything, your lack of respect still showed.", ">\n\nespecially the way theyre responding to comments", ">\n\nYeah, a natural reaction if you’ve never learned to manage your emotions as opposed to letting them run your life. I’m not talking about being totally monotone rational, either. You need to learn a balance between rational and emotional…which includes healthy, appropriate, respectful expression of honest feelings. Eye rolling is absolutely disrespectful, belittling, and dismissive.", ">\n\nComments: OP is completely wrong and has attitude issues", ">\n\nWhat sounds like mental illness is you refusing to admit that rolling your eyes is simply not an unconditional response. Whether you want to believe it or not, you are doing it intentionally and you can control it. \nYou’re just to much of a b—— to do so.", ">\n\nSame to you", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a learned reaction. Not natural. I rarely of ever roll my eyes at anything.", ">", ">\n\nJust like raising your middle finger. Or vocalizing the sounds \"fuck you\". Or fingers typing the words fuck you OP. Nothing is disrespectful!", ">\n\nNice try but not the same thing at all. You're talking about thought out actions here. The eye roll is more like a reaction. Its quick, its automatic, no one has to think \"im rolling my eyes now\" it just happens. \nSort of like when telling a lie - no one decides to have their eyes dart around suspiciously, it just happens.", ">\n\nNo. Rolling your eyes is not involuntary. It can be controlled. You have a bad habit that you CAN stop. Much like a child learning not to suck their thumb, or biting your nails.", ">\n\nHow about you start with your hair scratching", ">\n\nYour opinion is a contradiction in itself. And, yeah. I disagree. Rolling your eyes is 100% to show lack of respect, and you have no intentions of showing it, even to reason, by rolling your eyes at something someone could believe is meaningful or important. Even if it is stupid.\nI get your point, we roll our eyes to express how we feel, but it is still a physical snare. You say rolling your eyes isn't disrespectful, while saying it's okay to roll your eyes because something is \" stupid or lame\", which in itself is disrespectful. You sound like a very young person in the middle of a learning moment, and you're trying to react with rebellion. It only shows that you lack maturity and are in need of growth. This might be a time for you to read these comments and reevaluate. There are healthier ways to react to things you disagree with, or lack interest in. If not, you can just accept that you roll your eyes to show lack of respect.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is much more deliberate than laughter, tears, or sneezing. It's a conscious action in response to a judgement you're making.", ">\n\nNah, dude it is disrespectful \nYou just have no self control and by the looks of it you don't want to build some", ">\n\nYour post made me roll my eyes very hard.", ">\n\n“No, officer, my wife - she MADE me hit her!”", ">\n\nIt's a natural reaction for a sooky kid but not an adult, if you do that as an adult you just manchild that wants everything their way", ">\n\npoor OP.... did you get in trouble after you rolled your eyes at something again? did you not prehaps learn from previous interactions? rolling your eyes at something \"stupid or lame\" is an intentional response that is disrespectful to whatever it is. mature people dont act that way.....", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes.\n\nSo it is disrespectful. \n\nIts like throwing pepper in someone's face an expecting them not to sneeze.\n\nNo it’s not. You can easily (edited in) refrain from rolling your eyes, while it’s much more difficult to refrain from sneezing. \nIt’s fine to think whatever you want, but you might want to refrain from rolling your eyes when you’re, say, interacting with your boss; aka someone that can make you unemployed for whatever reason they please.", ">\n\nThis isn't an opinion. It's just flat wrong. \nIt is disrespectful because it is a conscious signifier which clearly communicated that you think that the thing you are rolling your eyes at is not worthy of respect.", ">\n\nYou have to go out of your way to roll your eyes. It is NOT gutteral or instinctual", ">\n\nIf you annoy me, my arm whips out in a natural reaction and slaps you.", ">\n\nSorry, kiddo, it’s 100% disrespectful. Just own the shit and quit trying to lawyer around it.\nI say that after having rolled my eyes so hard at your post, I travelled back in time.", ">\n\nTell that to my family lol you get the belt", ">\n\nThis was made my a 15 year old who just got told off by their mom about rolling their eyes. Then in defense said, “I can’t control it”", ">\n\nMan it's getting so aggressive sometimes here 😂", ">\n\ni certainly hope you are embarrassed about this in a couple years when you grow up.", ">\n\nOP is a habitual eye roller 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄", ">\n\nI wish to God we could block people by age, no more edgy 13yo’s", ">\n\nSomebody just got their ps5 taken away for rolling their eyes", ">\n\nTell me you're 12 without telling me you're 12.", ">\n\nit’s the definition of disrespectful and a sign that you have literally nothing intelligent to say in return. \nwhich is why we outgrow it as adults.", ">\n\nYou can control it. It’s not an “automatic response” unless you’ve taught yourself to do it. I never roll my eyes. It’s just not something I have ever practiced doing. And yes…if I’m saying something too you and you dismiss it with an eye roll…it’s super disrespectful.", ">\n\nrolling your eyes is just as respectful as sticking your tongue out at someone or making a stupid face in reaction to something someone says", ">\n\nIf you can’t control your eye movement, you need to see a neurologist, dude 😆. As it stands, eye rolling isn’t a reflex or a “natural reaction” to anything. Habits aren’t the same as involuntary reactions.\nRolling your eyes at someone is disrespectful. It’s an outward sign that you think something about your interaction with them was stupid or wrong. There’s no one here that will agree with you, and you know that you’re in the vast minority with this opinion because you posted it on this sub. Now learn some humility and accept that your opinion is factually incorrect based on science.", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nAre you like 14 and your mom got you in trouble cause you rolled your eyes at her? Lmao", ">\n\nI’m gonna show your mom this and it’s going to be another week of being grounded, you little shit lol", ">\n\nOmfg 😂", ">\n\nOP I have to ask.\n\n\nHow old are you?\n\n\nHow is your relationship with your parents?\n\n\nHow do you view authority figures in your life?", ">\n\nrolls eyes", ">\n\nIf you say or demand something stupid from me I will probably roll my eyes.", ">\n\nBut it is", ">\n\nJust like rolling your eyes is an innate response, so are other people's responses to you rolling your eyes.", ">\n\nSometimes being respectful requires hiding your subjective opinion on whether something is stupid or lame.", ">\n\nI wouldn’t say eye rolling is as involuntary as laughing or crying tho. It’s more of a choice.", ">\n\nIf someone rolls their eyes then I feel disrespected it’s a natural reaction.", ">\n\ntell me you're a teenager without telling me you're a teenager", ">\n\nI'm rolling my eyes at this post. And I definitely mean it disrespectfully.", ">\n\nLmao this kid had an argument with his parent(s) or teacher and is venting on Reddit.", ">\n\nYou sound like an eye rolling arsehole", ">\n\ni have never had an as a nonvoulentary action, it requires very explicit movement of you eye. this is like saying “when i dont like people, i punch them in the head, thats my natural reaction i cant control it”\ni have never once legitimately rolled my eyes at something, i think you might be an asshole", ">\n\nMe smacking your face is also an innate uncontrollable response to you rolling your eyes. I'm only human. What can I do? 🙄", ">\n\nI disagree. also there are a billion other ways to express something being stupid or lame than rolling ur eyes", ">\n\nStop downvoting, this is ACTUALLY a very unpopular opinion and I love to see it tbh. Voice your disagreement in the comments but don't downvote the post. This post is hilarious.", ">\n\nThis is something you’ve learned to do. It’s entirely in your control if you do it or not.", ">\n\nI once got a detention for rolling my eyes at a teacher in 4th grade.\nI agree with you, though. The only other person I've ever really rolled my eyes at was my mother, and she deserved it, every single time.", ">\n\nI get your point. I absolutely purposefully roll my eyes sometimes and whoever I'm doing it to would be valid for getting mad. \nBut as someone who can't hide any emotion on their face (literally any, I'm the definition of an open book) there have been plenty of times where people blew up at me or laughed because I rolled my eyes when I didn't even realize I had done it. Feel like the people disagreeing with you haven't experienced this problem.", ">\n\nWhat you've done is cultivate a bad habit and then blamed it on everyone else when you repeat your own bad habit unintentionally.\nThis is entirely your fault.", ">\n\nOnly on Reddit would someone so boldly declare something like this to a stranger. I'm on the spectrum so that might have to do with my not being able to hide any emotion (I truly mean that, people can basically read my thoughts just by looking at me, good and bad). \nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave. Consider working on that." ]
> When did i blame them for my own actions? Could you quote me? I was just pointing out how weird it was that they made such a strong assumption of my character off a causal comment I left when they themselves were ironically being unnecessarily rude in the process. I don't know how you got so lost?	[ "🙄", ">\n\nYou’re grounded now", ">\n\nThe post above was someone getting electrocuted so this reply was very timely", ">\n\nThis news is shocking", ">\n\nIt definitely SPARKED my interest", ">\n\nAll of you guys need to leave, and not come back before learning how to conduct yourselves properly", ">\n\nUhhhh....... electricity", ">\n\nWell no, in the right context it is disrespectful. Rolling your eyes suggests that you're not taking the matter seriously or that you dont care which is a sign of disrespect towards whoever is speaking with you.", ">\n\nBut I can't control what I think. If I said \"man you're stupid and I don't care what you say\" thats disrespectful. I'm actually showing respect by not saying it.", ">\n\nI mean, actions speak louder than words, right?", ">\n\nIts not really an action tho its just an automatic response. Like gasping or yawning.", ">\n\nbullshit.\nSorry, it was an automatic response. Which is bullshit just like yours.", ">\n\nStill not the same thing. And they get on me for false analogies....", ">\n\nYou must be a teenager", ">\n\nLol how many times are you gonna post that. Dont you have an original thought of your own?", ">\n\nBruh I cant believe you make these posts. They're foolish", ">\n\nLaughing at someone can be disrespectful. Don't think so? Try laughing at someone's funeral.", ">\n\nThe disrespect comes from the one who told me a joke and made me laugh.", ">\n\nWhat about if no one said any joke? Because, you know, you are at a funeral.", ">\n\nSo someone's just there randomly laughing at shit? That sounds like a mental illness.", ">\n\nYou have never thought of something funny in your head to make yourself laugh? \nOr hell, maybe you didn't like the person who is buried and decided to laugh at them. You find it funny, so laughing must be appropriate, right?", ">\n\nWhy am I thinking about funny shit at a funeral.", ">\n\nBecause the universe likes to put us in uncomfortable positions sometimes.", ">\n\n“if its stupid or lame, you roll your eyes” - you found the disrespect", ">\n\nIm allowed to think whatever i want and its not disrespectful.", ">\n\nWhen you express contempt for something someone else said, it's disrespect.", ">\n\nWhat if what they said is contemptible?", ">\n\nSome people and comments deserve disrespect, still gonna be disrespect", ">\n\nLaughing, crying, and sneezing are all innate, involuntary reactions to certain types of stimuli. Rolling your eyes is a learned behavior. You can’t compare it to those other automatic responses because it’s not the same thing.", ">\n\nTake my upvote", ">\n\nOP rolled their eyes at someone and got chewed out for it.\nNow they're going online in an attempt to validate themselves.\n🙄", ">\n\nProbably got grounded.", ">\n\nPart of being a mature adult is to have self-control and not acting on every impulse and being respectful of people.", ">\n\n\nPart of being a mature adult\n\nYup but OP is clearly a teenager lol. They complain about being told off for doing chores wrong in another post…", ">\n\nEven a teenager should be able to have the fundamental basics of respect", ">\n\nOh I agree 100%", ">\n\nYou have poor self-control and poor self-awareness but the good news is that you can improve these things.", ">\n\n/r/wrongopinions", ">\n\nI feel like we need a new subreddit r/unpopularforareason", ">\n\nIt’s entire purpose is to be disrespectful. Nobody eyerolls something they respect. But how offensive it is depends on the context and how serious one is being.", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes\n\nYou rn: \"I'm not being disrespectful. I just thought what you said was stupid or lame.\"\n...", ">\n\nSaying its stupid could be disrespectful. A facial response is not.", ">\n\nLiterally every person in this thread agrees that it is.\nThis is your bad habit. Nobody else's responsibility but you.", ">\n\nThey can choose to not fly off the handle at what is just an innate reaction.", ">\n\nSo let me get this straight: you think you deserve to be able to disrespect whoever you like whenever you like but they can't as much as say you're being rude? Grow up.", ">\n\nFound the teenager.", ">\n\nMeh, I agree with that one. If you don't like how someone is doing something then do it yourself. There's a reason I live alone.", ">\n\nIt is a UNIVERSAL sign of disrespect. Globally. Deal with it.", ">\n\nLaughing can be disrespectuful too. If you cannot control your own reactions, well, what can I say, maybe you have not really grown up?", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s so it’s hard to control my own actions sometimes…", ">\n\nThank u I'm trying to explain how autism can make it hard to read not just others facial expressions but also ur own and it seems like no one has thought of the possibility that they acc don't realise it or csnt control it", ">\n\nWould you roll your eyes during a job interview if you thought a question was stupid or irrelevant? Do you think you’d get the job if you did?", ">\n\nPretty sure OP would think they were owed that job and they would think it’s ridiculous if they didn’t get it.\nOP is also a teenager going through their rebel phase though", ">\n\nYou're oddly specific here.", ">\n\nWhat was specific? Or rather oddly specific?", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a good way to fast track yourself to a divorce, if you want one.", ">\n\nI think OP needs the definition of respect before any further comment is made", ">\n\nOh I already know it, and I know it does not mean:\nDon't ever disagree with me\nDon't think bad thoughts about me\nDon't ever correct me when I'm blatantly wrong \nShine my boots with your tongue", ">\n\nSoooo this post isn’t about eye rolling is what I’m getting from this. You’ve got issues to work through with your parents or partner or something", ">\n\nSince when tf was eye rolling involuntary?", ">", ">\n\nYour lack of self control is not a justification for disrespect. I personally dont know anyone who reacts to anything by rolling their eyes. Just be mature and communicate.", ">\n\nAnd what if it's not stupid and someone rolls their eyes? Wouldn't it be disrespectful in that case?", ">\n\nIn the eye rollers opinion then it must have been. But you can't fault someone for thinking its stupid.", ">\n\nSo eyerolling is some kind of exceptional thing that is free from criticism? \nIf one has the freedom to eye roll, then someone else has the freedom to criticize the eye roller right? \nOr is it your opinion that besides that everyone who sees an eye roller has to just stfu", ">\n\nMeh, it is disrespectful. It's a way to be disrespectful without having to say That's the dumbest thing I've heard all month, and everyone else who heard it is also dumber for hearing it as well.", ">\n\nBut I didn't say it that's the point.", ">\n\nJust cuz you don’t use words doesn’t mean it’s not disrespectful. Walking away while someone is talking to you, rolling your eyes, slapping someone, and starting to play a game on your phone while someone is talking to you are all disrespectful. It doesn’t matter that you didn’t say anything, your lack of respect still showed.", ">\n\nespecially the way theyre responding to comments", ">\n\nYeah, a natural reaction if you’ve never learned to manage your emotions as opposed to letting them run your life. I’m not talking about being totally monotone rational, either. You need to learn a balance between rational and emotional…which includes healthy, appropriate, respectful expression of honest feelings. Eye rolling is absolutely disrespectful, belittling, and dismissive.", ">\n\nComments: OP is completely wrong and has attitude issues", ">\n\nWhat sounds like mental illness is you refusing to admit that rolling your eyes is simply not an unconditional response. Whether you want to believe it or not, you are doing it intentionally and you can control it. \nYou’re just to much of a b—— to do so.", ">\n\nSame to you", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a learned reaction. Not natural. I rarely of ever roll my eyes at anything.", ">", ">\n\nJust like raising your middle finger. Or vocalizing the sounds \"fuck you\". Or fingers typing the words fuck you OP. Nothing is disrespectful!", ">\n\nNice try but not the same thing at all. You're talking about thought out actions here. The eye roll is more like a reaction. Its quick, its automatic, no one has to think \"im rolling my eyes now\" it just happens. \nSort of like when telling a lie - no one decides to have their eyes dart around suspiciously, it just happens.", ">\n\nNo. Rolling your eyes is not involuntary. It can be controlled. You have a bad habit that you CAN stop. Much like a child learning not to suck their thumb, or biting your nails.", ">\n\nHow about you start with your hair scratching", ">\n\nYour opinion is a contradiction in itself. And, yeah. I disagree. Rolling your eyes is 100% to show lack of respect, and you have no intentions of showing it, even to reason, by rolling your eyes at something someone could believe is meaningful or important. Even if it is stupid.\nI get your point, we roll our eyes to express how we feel, but it is still a physical snare. You say rolling your eyes isn't disrespectful, while saying it's okay to roll your eyes because something is \" stupid or lame\", which in itself is disrespectful. You sound like a very young person in the middle of a learning moment, and you're trying to react with rebellion. It only shows that you lack maturity and are in need of growth. This might be a time for you to read these comments and reevaluate. There are healthier ways to react to things you disagree with, or lack interest in. If not, you can just accept that you roll your eyes to show lack of respect.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is much more deliberate than laughter, tears, or sneezing. It's a conscious action in response to a judgement you're making.", ">\n\nNah, dude it is disrespectful \nYou just have no self control and by the looks of it you don't want to build some", ">\n\nYour post made me roll my eyes very hard.", ">\n\n“No, officer, my wife - she MADE me hit her!”", ">\n\nIt's a natural reaction for a sooky kid but not an adult, if you do that as an adult you just manchild that wants everything their way", ">\n\npoor OP.... did you get in trouble after you rolled your eyes at something again? did you not prehaps learn from previous interactions? rolling your eyes at something \"stupid or lame\" is an intentional response that is disrespectful to whatever it is. mature people dont act that way.....", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes.\n\nSo it is disrespectful. \n\nIts like throwing pepper in someone's face an expecting them not to sneeze.\n\nNo it’s not. You can easily (edited in) refrain from rolling your eyes, while it’s much more difficult to refrain from sneezing. \nIt’s fine to think whatever you want, but you might want to refrain from rolling your eyes when you’re, say, interacting with your boss; aka someone that can make you unemployed for whatever reason they please.", ">\n\nThis isn't an opinion. It's just flat wrong. \nIt is disrespectful because it is a conscious signifier which clearly communicated that you think that the thing you are rolling your eyes at is not worthy of respect.", ">\n\nYou have to go out of your way to roll your eyes. It is NOT gutteral or instinctual", ">\n\nIf you annoy me, my arm whips out in a natural reaction and slaps you.", ">\n\nSorry, kiddo, it’s 100% disrespectful. Just own the shit and quit trying to lawyer around it.\nI say that after having rolled my eyes so hard at your post, I travelled back in time.", ">\n\nTell that to my family lol you get the belt", ">\n\nThis was made my a 15 year old who just got told off by their mom about rolling their eyes. Then in defense said, “I can’t control it”", ">\n\nMan it's getting so aggressive sometimes here 😂", ">\n\ni certainly hope you are embarrassed about this in a couple years when you grow up.", ">\n\nOP is a habitual eye roller 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄", ">\n\nI wish to God we could block people by age, no more edgy 13yo’s", ">\n\nSomebody just got their ps5 taken away for rolling their eyes", ">\n\nTell me you're 12 without telling me you're 12.", ">\n\nit’s the definition of disrespectful and a sign that you have literally nothing intelligent to say in return. \nwhich is why we outgrow it as adults.", ">\n\nYou can control it. It’s not an “automatic response” unless you’ve taught yourself to do it. I never roll my eyes. It’s just not something I have ever practiced doing. And yes…if I’m saying something too you and you dismiss it with an eye roll…it’s super disrespectful.", ">\n\nrolling your eyes is just as respectful as sticking your tongue out at someone or making a stupid face in reaction to something someone says", ">\n\nIf you can’t control your eye movement, you need to see a neurologist, dude 😆. As it stands, eye rolling isn’t a reflex or a “natural reaction” to anything. Habits aren’t the same as involuntary reactions.\nRolling your eyes at someone is disrespectful. It’s an outward sign that you think something about your interaction with them was stupid or wrong. There’s no one here that will agree with you, and you know that you’re in the vast minority with this opinion because you posted it on this sub. Now learn some humility and accept that your opinion is factually incorrect based on science.", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nAre you like 14 and your mom got you in trouble cause you rolled your eyes at her? Lmao", ">\n\nI’m gonna show your mom this and it’s going to be another week of being grounded, you little shit lol", ">\n\nOmfg 😂", ">\n\nOP I have to ask.\n\n\nHow old are you?\n\n\nHow is your relationship with your parents?\n\n\nHow do you view authority figures in your life?", ">\n\nrolls eyes", ">\n\nIf you say or demand something stupid from me I will probably roll my eyes.", ">\n\nBut it is", ">\n\nJust like rolling your eyes is an innate response, so are other people's responses to you rolling your eyes.", ">\n\nSometimes being respectful requires hiding your subjective opinion on whether something is stupid or lame.", ">\n\nI wouldn’t say eye rolling is as involuntary as laughing or crying tho. It’s more of a choice.", ">\n\nIf someone rolls their eyes then I feel disrespected it’s a natural reaction.", ">\n\ntell me you're a teenager without telling me you're a teenager", ">\n\nI'm rolling my eyes at this post. And I definitely mean it disrespectfully.", ">\n\nLmao this kid had an argument with his parent(s) or teacher and is venting on Reddit.", ">\n\nYou sound like an eye rolling arsehole", ">\n\ni have never had an as a nonvoulentary action, it requires very explicit movement of you eye. this is like saying “when i dont like people, i punch them in the head, thats my natural reaction i cant control it”\ni have never once legitimately rolled my eyes at something, i think you might be an asshole", ">\n\nMe smacking your face is also an innate uncontrollable response to you rolling your eyes. I'm only human. What can I do? 🙄", ">\n\nI disagree. also there are a billion other ways to express something being stupid or lame than rolling ur eyes", ">\n\nStop downvoting, this is ACTUALLY a very unpopular opinion and I love to see it tbh. Voice your disagreement in the comments but don't downvote the post. This post is hilarious.", ">\n\nThis is something you’ve learned to do. It’s entirely in your control if you do it or not.", ">\n\nI once got a detention for rolling my eyes at a teacher in 4th grade.\nI agree with you, though. The only other person I've ever really rolled my eyes at was my mother, and she deserved it, every single time.", ">\n\nI get your point. I absolutely purposefully roll my eyes sometimes and whoever I'm doing it to would be valid for getting mad. \nBut as someone who can't hide any emotion on their face (literally any, I'm the definition of an open book) there have been plenty of times where people blew up at me or laughed because I rolled my eyes when I didn't even realize I had done it. Feel like the people disagreeing with you haven't experienced this problem.", ">\n\nWhat you've done is cultivate a bad habit and then blamed it on everyone else when you repeat your own bad habit unintentionally.\nThis is entirely your fault.", ">\n\nOnly on Reddit would someone so boldly declare something like this to a stranger. I'm on the spectrum so that might have to do with my not being able to hide any emotion (I truly mean that, people can basically read my thoughts just by looking at me, good and bad). \nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave. Consider working on that.", ">\n\nSo they point out you’re cultivating a bad habit and blaming other people so you then, blame them? It’s a little spot on don’t you think?" ]
> I think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave. Classic deflection and implication that they’re the one with the problem, not you	[ "🙄", ">\n\nYou’re grounded now", ">\n\nThe post above was someone getting electrocuted so this reply was very timely", ">\n\nThis news is shocking", ">\n\nIt definitely SPARKED my interest", ">\n\nAll of you guys need to leave, and not come back before learning how to conduct yourselves properly", ">\n\nUhhhh....... electricity", ">\n\nWell no, in the right context it is disrespectful. Rolling your eyes suggests that you're not taking the matter seriously or that you dont care which is a sign of disrespect towards whoever is speaking with you.", ">\n\nBut I can't control what I think. If I said \"man you're stupid and I don't care what you say\" thats disrespectful. I'm actually showing respect by not saying it.", ">\n\nI mean, actions speak louder than words, right?", ">\n\nIts not really an action tho its just an automatic response. Like gasping or yawning.", ">\n\nbullshit.\nSorry, it was an automatic response. Which is bullshit just like yours.", ">\n\nStill not the same thing. And they get on me for false analogies....", ">\n\nYou must be a teenager", ">\n\nLol how many times are you gonna post that. Dont you have an original thought of your own?", ">\n\nBruh I cant believe you make these posts. They're foolish", ">\n\nLaughing at someone can be disrespectful. Don't think so? Try laughing at someone's funeral.", ">\n\nThe disrespect comes from the one who told me a joke and made me laugh.", ">\n\nWhat about if no one said any joke? Because, you know, you are at a funeral.", ">\n\nSo someone's just there randomly laughing at shit? That sounds like a mental illness.", ">\n\nYou have never thought of something funny in your head to make yourself laugh? \nOr hell, maybe you didn't like the person who is buried and decided to laugh at them. You find it funny, so laughing must be appropriate, right?", ">\n\nWhy am I thinking about funny shit at a funeral.", ">\n\nBecause the universe likes to put us in uncomfortable positions sometimes.", ">\n\n“if its stupid or lame, you roll your eyes” - you found the disrespect", ">\n\nIm allowed to think whatever i want and its not disrespectful.", ">\n\nWhen you express contempt for something someone else said, it's disrespect.", ">\n\nWhat if what they said is contemptible?", ">\n\nSome people and comments deserve disrespect, still gonna be disrespect", ">\n\nLaughing, crying, and sneezing are all innate, involuntary reactions to certain types of stimuli. Rolling your eyes is a learned behavior. You can’t compare it to those other automatic responses because it’s not the same thing.", ">\n\nTake my upvote", ">\n\nOP rolled their eyes at someone and got chewed out for it.\nNow they're going online in an attempt to validate themselves.\n🙄", ">\n\nProbably got grounded.", ">\n\nPart of being a mature adult is to have self-control and not acting on every impulse and being respectful of people.", ">\n\n\nPart of being a mature adult\n\nYup but OP is clearly a teenager lol. They complain about being told off for doing chores wrong in another post…", ">\n\nEven a teenager should be able to have the fundamental basics of respect", ">\n\nOh I agree 100%", ">\n\nYou have poor self-control and poor self-awareness but the good news is that you can improve these things.", ">\n\n/r/wrongopinions", ">\n\nI feel like we need a new subreddit r/unpopularforareason", ">\n\nIt’s entire purpose is to be disrespectful. Nobody eyerolls something they respect. But how offensive it is depends on the context and how serious one is being.", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes\n\nYou rn: \"I'm not being disrespectful. I just thought what you said was stupid or lame.\"\n...", ">\n\nSaying its stupid could be disrespectful. A facial response is not.", ">\n\nLiterally every person in this thread agrees that it is.\nThis is your bad habit. Nobody else's responsibility but you.", ">\n\nThey can choose to not fly off the handle at what is just an innate reaction.", ">\n\nSo let me get this straight: you think you deserve to be able to disrespect whoever you like whenever you like but they can't as much as say you're being rude? Grow up.", ">\n\nFound the teenager.", ">\n\nMeh, I agree with that one. If you don't like how someone is doing something then do it yourself. There's a reason I live alone.", ">\n\nIt is a UNIVERSAL sign of disrespect. Globally. Deal with it.", ">\n\nLaughing can be disrespectuful too. If you cannot control your own reactions, well, what can I say, maybe you have not really grown up?", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s so it’s hard to control my own actions sometimes…", ">\n\nThank u I'm trying to explain how autism can make it hard to read not just others facial expressions but also ur own and it seems like no one has thought of the possibility that they acc don't realise it or csnt control it", ">\n\nWould you roll your eyes during a job interview if you thought a question was stupid or irrelevant? Do you think you’d get the job if you did?", ">\n\nPretty sure OP would think they were owed that job and they would think it’s ridiculous if they didn’t get it.\nOP is also a teenager going through their rebel phase though", ">\n\nYou're oddly specific here.", ">\n\nWhat was specific? Or rather oddly specific?", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a good way to fast track yourself to a divorce, if you want one.", ">\n\nI think OP needs the definition of respect before any further comment is made", ">\n\nOh I already know it, and I know it does not mean:\nDon't ever disagree with me\nDon't think bad thoughts about me\nDon't ever correct me when I'm blatantly wrong \nShine my boots with your tongue", ">\n\nSoooo this post isn’t about eye rolling is what I’m getting from this. You’ve got issues to work through with your parents or partner or something", ">\n\nSince when tf was eye rolling involuntary?", ">", ">\n\nYour lack of self control is not a justification for disrespect. I personally dont know anyone who reacts to anything by rolling their eyes. Just be mature and communicate.", ">\n\nAnd what if it's not stupid and someone rolls their eyes? Wouldn't it be disrespectful in that case?", ">\n\nIn the eye rollers opinion then it must have been. But you can't fault someone for thinking its stupid.", ">\n\nSo eyerolling is some kind of exceptional thing that is free from criticism? \nIf one has the freedom to eye roll, then someone else has the freedom to criticize the eye roller right? \nOr is it your opinion that besides that everyone who sees an eye roller has to just stfu", ">\n\nMeh, it is disrespectful. It's a way to be disrespectful without having to say That's the dumbest thing I've heard all month, and everyone else who heard it is also dumber for hearing it as well.", ">\n\nBut I didn't say it that's the point.", ">\n\nJust cuz you don’t use words doesn’t mean it’s not disrespectful. Walking away while someone is talking to you, rolling your eyes, slapping someone, and starting to play a game on your phone while someone is talking to you are all disrespectful. It doesn’t matter that you didn’t say anything, your lack of respect still showed.", ">\n\nespecially the way theyre responding to comments", ">\n\nYeah, a natural reaction if you’ve never learned to manage your emotions as opposed to letting them run your life. I’m not talking about being totally monotone rational, either. You need to learn a balance between rational and emotional…which includes healthy, appropriate, respectful expression of honest feelings. Eye rolling is absolutely disrespectful, belittling, and dismissive.", ">\n\nComments: OP is completely wrong and has attitude issues", ">\n\nWhat sounds like mental illness is you refusing to admit that rolling your eyes is simply not an unconditional response. Whether you want to believe it or not, you are doing it intentionally and you can control it. \nYou’re just to much of a b—— to do so.", ">\n\nSame to you", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a learned reaction. Not natural. I rarely of ever roll my eyes at anything.", ">", ">\n\nJust like raising your middle finger. Or vocalizing the sounds \"fuck you\". Or fingers typing the words fuck you OP. Nothing is disrespectful!", ">\n\nNice try but not the same thing at all. You're talking about thought out actions here. The eye roll is more like a reaction. Its quick, its automatic, no one has to think \"im rolling my eyes now\" it just happens. \nSort of like when telling a lie - no one decides to have their eyes dart around suspiciously, it just happens.", ">\n\nNo. Rolling your eyes is not involuntary. It can be controlled. You have a bad habit that you CAN stop. Much like a child learning not to suck their thumb, or biting your nails.", ">\n\nHow about you start with your hair scratching", ">\n\nYour opinion is a contradiction in itself. And, yeah. I disagree. Rolling your eyes is 100% to show lack of respect, and you have no intentions of showing it, even to reason, by rolling your eyes at something someone could believe is meaningful or important. Even if it is stupid.\nI get your point, we roll our eyes to express how we feel, but it is still a physical snare. You say rolling your eyes isn't disrespectful, while saying it's okay to roll your eyes because something is \" stupid or lame\", which in itself is disrespectful. You sound like a very young person in the middle of a learning moment, and you're trying to react with rebellion. It only shows that you lack maturity and are in need of growth. This might be a time for you to read these comments and reevaluate. There are healthier ways to react to things you disagree with, or lack interest in. If not, you can just accept that you roll your eyes to show lack of respect.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is much more deliberate than laughter, tears, or sneezing. It's a conscious action in response to a judgement you're making.", ">\n\nNah, dude it is disrespectful \nYou just have no self control and by the looks of it you don't want to build some", ">\n\nYour post made me roll my eyes very hard.", ">\n\n“No, officer, my wife - she MADE me hit her!”", ">\n\nIt's a natural reaction for a sooky kid but not an adult, if you do that as an adult you just manchild that wants everything their way", ">\n\npoor OP.... did you get in trouble after you rolled your eyes at something again? did you not prehaps learn from previous interactions? rolling your eyes at something \"stupid or lame\" is an intentional response that is disrespectful to whatever it is. mature people dont act that way.....", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes.\n\nSo it is disrespectful. \n\nIts like throwing pepper in someone's face an expecting them not to sneeze.\n\nNo it’s not. You can easily (edited in) refrain from rolling your eyes, while it’s much more difficult to refrain from sneezing. \nIt’s fine to think whatever you want, but you might want to refrain from rolling your eyes when you’re, say, interacting with your boss; aka someone that can make you unemployed for whatever reason they please.", ">\n\nThis isn't an opinion. It's just flat wrong. \nIt is disrespectful because it is a conscious signifier which clearly communicated that you think that the thing you are rolling your eyes at is not worthy of respect.", ">\n\nYou have to go out of your way to roll your eyes. It is NOT gutteral or instinctual", ">\n\nIf you annoy me, my arm whips out in a natural reaction and slaps you.", ">\n\nSorry, kiddo, it’s 100% disrespectful. Just own the shit and quit trying to lawyer around it.\nI say that after having rolled my eyes so hard at your post, I travelled back in time.", ">\n\nTell that to my family lol you get the belt", ">\n\nThis was made my a 15 year old who just got told off by their mom about rolling their eyes. Then in defense said, “I can’t control it”", ">\n\nMan it's getting so aggressive sometimes here 😂", ">\n\ni certainly hope you are embarrassed about this in a couple years when you grow up.", ">\n\nOP is a habitual eye roller 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄", ">\n\nI wish to God we could block people by age, no more edgy 13yo’s", ">\n\nSomebody just got their ps5 taken away for rolling their eyes", ">\n\nTell me you're 12 without telling me you're 12.", ">\n\nit’s the definition of disrespectful and a sign that you have literally nothing intelligent to say in return. \nwhich is why we outgrow it as adults.", ">\n\nYou can control it. It’s not an “automatic response” unless you’ve taught yourself to do it. I never roll my eyes. It’s just not something I have ever practiced doing. And yes…if I’m saying something too you and you dismiss it with an eye roll…it’s super disrespectful.", ">\n\nrolling your eyes is just as respectful as sticking your tongue out at someone or making a stupid face in reaction to something someone says", ">\n\nIf you can’t control your eye movement, you need to see a neurologist, dude 😆. As it stands, eye rolling isn’t a reflex or a “natural reaction” to anything. Habits aren’t the same as involuntary reactions.\nRolling your eyes at someone is disrespectful. It’s an outward sign that you think something about your interaction with them was stupid or wrong. There’s no one here that will agree with you, and you know that you’re in the vast minority with this opinion because you posted it on this sub. Now learn some humility and accept that your opinion is factually incorrect based on science.", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nAre you like 14 and your mom got you in trouble cause you rolled your eyes at her? Lmao", ">\n\nI’m gonna show your mom this and it’s going to be another week of being grounded, you little shit lol", ">\n\nOmfg 😂", ">\n\nOP I have to ask.\n\n\nHow old are you?\n\n\nHow is your relationship with your parents?\n\n\nHow do you view authority figures in your life?", ">\n\nrolls eyes", ">\n\nIf you say or demand something stupid from me I will probably roll my eyes.", ">\n\nBut it is", ">\n\nJust like rolling your eyes is an innate response, so are other people's responses to you rolling your eyes.", ">\n\nSometimes being respectful requires hiding your subjective opinion on whether something is stupid or lame.", ">\n\nI wouldn’t say eye rolling is as involuntary as laughing or crying tho. It’s more of a choice.", ">\n\nIf someone rolls their eyes then I feel disrespected it’s a natural reaction.", ">\n\ntell me you're a teenager without telling me you're a teenager", ">\n\nI'm rolling my eyes at this post. And I definitely mean it disrespectfully.", ">\n\nLmao this kid had an argument with his parent(s) or teacher and is venting on Reddit.", ">\n\nYou sound like an eye rolling arsehole", ">\n\ni have never had an as a nonvoulentary action, it requires very explicit movement of you eye. this is like saying “when i dont like people, i punch them in the head, thats my natural reaction i cant control it”\ni have never once legitimately rolled my eyes at something, i think you might be an asshole", ">\n\nMe smacking your face is also an innate uncontrollable response to you rolling your eyes. I'm only human. What can I do? 🙄", ">\n\nI disagree. also there are a billion other ways to express something being stupid or lame than rolling ur eyes", ">\n\nStop downvoting, this is ACTUALLY a very unpopular opinion and I love to see it tbh. Voice your disagreement in the comments but don't downvote the post. This post is hilarious.", ">\n\nThis is something you’ve learned to do. It’s entirely in your control if you do it or not.", ">\n\nI once got a detention for rolling my eyes at a teacher in 4th grade.\nI agree with you, though. The only other person I've ever really rolled my eyes at was my mother, and she deserved it, every single time.", ">\n\nI get your point. I absolutely purposefully roll my eyes sometimes and whoever I'm doing it to would be valid for getting mad. \nBut as someone who can't hide any emotion on their face (literally any, I'm the definition of an open book) there have been plenty of times where people blew up at me or laughed because I rolled my eyes when I didn't even realize I had done it. Feel like the people disagreeing with you haven't experienced this problem.", ">\n\nWhat you've done is cultivate a bad habit and then blamed it on everyone else when you repeat your own bad habit unintentionally.\nThis is entirely your fault.", ">\n\nOnly on Reddit would someone so boldly declare something like this to a stranger. I'm on the spectrum so that might have to do with my not being able to hide any emotion (I truly mean that, people can basically read my thoughts just by looking at me, good and bad). \nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave. Consider working on that.", ">\n\nSo they point out you’re cultivating a bad habit and blaming other people so you then, blame them? It’s a little spot on don’t you think?", ">\n\nWhen did i blame them for my own actions? Could you quote me? I was just pointing out how weird it was that they made such a strong assumption of my character off a causal comment I left when they themselves were ironically being unnecessarily rude in the process. \nI don't know how you got so lost?" ]
> First its not automatic. I almost never rolled my eyes. Its much easier to control than laughing crying or sneezing. So you just dont make the effort. Its actually a way to express your feeling. You should know that, its your personnality not a human instinctive reaction. And yes not respecting something is disrespectful. Its not that hard to understand. Anyway if i see you.. i dont know having a breakdown after being fired and dumped and start to laugh you'd like that ? If im sad because something good happens to you and show it to you, you would like that ? Honestly you are just trying to justify being a bit of a jerk. I dont blame you or anything we all are jerks sometime but its what you are doing right now.	[ "🙄", ">\n\nYou’re grounded now", ">\n\nThe post above was someone getting electrocuted so this reply was very timely", ">\n\nThis news is shocking", ">\n\nIt definitely SPARKED my interest", ">\n\nAll of you guys need to leave, and not come back before learning how to conduct yourselves properly", ">\n\nUhhhh....... electricity", ">\n\nWell no, in the right context it is disrespectful. Rolling your eyes suggests that you're not taking the matter seriously or that you dont care which is a sign of disrespect towards whoever is speaking with you.", ">\n\nBut I can't control what I think. If I said \"man you're stupid and I don't care what you say\" thats disrespectful. I'm actually showing respect by not saying it.", ">\n\nI mean, actions speak louder than words, right?", ">\n\nIts not really an action tho its just an automatic response. Like gasping or yawning.", ">\n\nbullshit.\nSorry, it was an automatic response. Which is bullshit just like yours.", ">\n\nStill not the same thing. And they get on me for false analogies....", ">\n\nYou must be a teenager", ">\n\nLol how many times are you gonna post that. Dont you have an original thought of your own?", ">\n\nBruh I cant believe you make these posts. They're foolish", ">\n\nLaughing at someone can be disrespectful. Don't think so? Try laughing at someone's funeral.", ">\n\nThe disrespect comes from the one who told me a joke and made me laugh.", ">\n\nWhat about if no one said any joke? Because, you know, you are at a funeral.", ">\n\nSo someone's just there randomly laughing at shit? That sounds like a mental illness.", ">\n\nYou have never thought of something funny in your head to make yourself laugh? \nOr hell, maybe you didn't like the person who is buried and decided to laugh at them. You find it funny, so laughing must be appropriate, right?", ">\n\nWhy am I thinking about funny shit at a funeral.", ">\n\nBecause the universe likes to put us in uncomfortable positions sometimes.", ">\n\n“if its stupid or lame, you roll your eyes” - you found the disrespect", ">\n\nIm allowed to think whatever i want and its not disrespectful.", ">\n\nWhen you express contempt for something someone else said, it's disrespect.", ">\n\nWhat if what they said is contemptible?", ">\n\nSome people and comments deserve disrespect, still gonna be disrespect", ">\n\nLaughing, crying, and sneezing are all innate, involuntary reactions to certain types of stimuli. Rolling your eyes is a learned behavior. You can’t compare it to those other automatic responses because it’s not the same thing.", ">\n\nTake my upvote", ">\n\nOP rolled their eyes at someone and got chewed out for it.\nNow they're going online in an attempt to validate themselves.\n🙄", ">\n\nProbably got grounded.", ">\n\nPart of being a mature adult is to have self-control and not acting on every impulse and being respectful of people.", ">\n\n\nPart of being a mature adult\n\nYup but OP is clearly a teenager lol. They complain about being told off for doing chores wrong in another post…", ">\n\nEven a teenager should be able to have the fundamental basics of respect", ">\n\nOh I agree 100%", ">\n\nYou have poor self-control and poor self-awareness but the good news is that you can improve these things.", ">\n\n/r/wrongopinions", ">\n\nI feel like we need a new subreddit r/unpopularforareason", ">\n\nIt’s entire purpose is to be disrespectful. Nobody eyerolls something they respect. But how offensive it is depends on the context and how serious one is being.", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes\n\nYou rn: \"I'm not being disrespectful. I just thought what you said was stupid or lame.\"\n...", ">\n\nSaying its stupid could be disrespectful. A facial response is not.", ">\n\nLiterally every person in this thread agrees that it is.\nThis is your bad habit. Nobody else's responsibility but you.", ">\n\nThey can choose to not fly off the handle at what is just an innate reaction.", ">\n\nSo let me get this straight: you think you deserve to be able to disrespect whoever you like whenever you like but they can't as much as say you're being rude? Grow up.", ">\n\nFound the teenager.", ">\n\nMeh, I agree with that one. If you don't like how someone is doing something then do it yourself. There's a reason I live alone.", ">\n\nIt is a UNIVERSAL sign of disrespect. Globally. Deal with it.", ">\n\nLaughing can be disrespectuful too. If you cannot control your own reactions, well, what can I say, maybe you have not really grown up?", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s so it’s hard to control my own actions sometimes…", ">\n\nThank u I'm trying to explain how autism can make it hard to read not just others facial expressions but also ur own and it seems like no one has thought of the possibility that they acc don't realise it or csnt control it", ">\n\nWould you roll your eyes during a job interview if you thought a question was stupid or irrelevant? Do you think you’d get the job if you did?", ">\n\nPretty sure OP would think they were owed that job and they would think it’s ridiculous if they didn’t get it.\nOP is also a teenager going through their rebel phase though", ">\n\nYou're oddly specific here.", ">\n\nWhat was specific? Or rather oddly specific?", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a good way to fast track yourself to a divorce, if you want one.", ">\n\nI think OP needs the definition of respect before any further comment is made", ">\n\nOh I already know it, and I know it does not mean:\nDon't ever disagree with me\nDon't think bad thoughts about me\nDon't ever correct me when I'm blatantly wrong \nShine my boots with your tongue", ">\n\nSoooo this post isn’t about eye rolling is what I’m getting from this. You’ve got issues to work through with your parents or partner or something", ">\n\nSince when tf was eye rolling involuntary?", ">", ">\n\nYour lack of self control is not a justification for disrespect. I personally dont know anyone who reacts to anything by rolling their eyes. Just be mature and communicate.", ">\n\nAnd what if it's not stupid and someone rolls their eyes? Wouldn't it be disrespectful in that case?", ">\n\nIn the eye rollers opinion then it must have been. But you can't fault someone for thinking its stupid.", ">\n\nSo eyerolling is some kind of exceptional thing that is free from criticism? \nIf one has the freedom to eye roll, then someone else has the freedom to criticize the eye roller right? \nOr is it your opinion that besides that everyone who sees an eye roller has to just stfu", ">\n\nMeh, it is disrespectful. It's a way to be disrespectful without having to say That's the dumbest thing I've heard all month, and everyone else who heard it is also dumber for hearing it as well.", ">\n\nBut I didn't say it that's the point.", ">\n\nJust cuz you don’t use words doesn’t mean it’s not disrespectful. Walking away while someone is talking to you, rolling your eyes, slapping someone, and starting to play a game on your phone while someone is talking to you are all disrespectful. It doesn’t matter that you didn’t say anything, your lack of respect still showed.", ">\n\nespecially the way theyre responding to comments", ">\n\nYeah, a natural reaction if you’ve never learned to manage your emotions as opposed to letting them run your life. I’m not talking about being totally monotone rational, either. You need to learn a balance between rational and emotional…which includes healthy, appropriate, respectful expression of honest feelings. Eye rolling is absolutely disrespectful, belittling, and dismissive.", ">\n\nComments: OP is completely wrong and has attitude issues", ">\n\nWhat sounds like mental illness is you refusing to admit that rolling your eyes is simply not an unconditional response. Whether you want to believe it or not, you are doing it intentionally and you can control it. \nYou’re just to much of a b—— to do so.", ">\n\nSame to you", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a learned reaction. Not natural. I rarely of ever roll my eyes at anything.", ">", ">\n\nJust like raising your middle finger. Or vocalizing the sounds \"fuck you\". Or fingers typing the words fuck you OP. Nothing is disrespectful!", ">\n\nNice try but not the same thing at all. You're talking about thought out actions here. The eye roll is more like a reaction. Its quick, its automatic, no one has to think \"im rolling my eyes now\" it just happens. \nSort of like when telling a lie - no one decides to have their eyes dart around suspiciously, it just happens.", ">\n\nNo. Rolling your eyes is not involuntary. It can be controlled. You have a bad habit that you CAN stop. Much like a child learning not to suck their thumb, or biting your nails.", ">\n\nHow about you start with your hair scratching", ">\n\nYour opinion is a contradiction in itself. And, yeah. I disagree. Rolling your eyes is 100% to show lack of respect, and you have no intentions of showing it, even to reason, by rolling your eyes at something someone could believe is meaningful or important. Even if it is stupid.\nI get your point, we roll our eyes to express how we feel, but it is still a physical snare. You say rolling your eyes isn't disrespectful, while saying it's okay to roll your eyes because something is \" stupid or lame\", which in itself is disrespectful. You sound like a very young person in the middle of a learning moment, and you're trying to react with rebellion. It only shows that you lack maturity and are in need of growth. This might be a time for you to read these comments and reevaluate. There are healthier ways to react to things you disagree with, or lack interest in. If not, you can just accept that you roll your eyes to show lack of respect.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is much more deliberate than laughter, tears, or sneezing. It's a conscious action in response to a judgement you're making.", ">\n\nNah, dude it is disrespectful \nYou just have no self control and by the looks of it you don't want to build some", ">\n\nYour post made me roll my eyes very hard.", ">\n\n“No, officer, my wife - she MADE me hit her!”", ">\n\nIt's a natural reaction for a sooky kid but not an adult, if you do that as an adult you just manchild that wants everything their way", ">\n\npoor OP.... did you get in trouble after you rolled your eyes at something again? did you not prehaps learn from previous interactions? rolling your eyes at something \"stupid or lame\" is an intentional response that is disrespectful to whatever it is. mature people dont act that way.....", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes.\n\nSo it is disrespectful. \n\nIts like throwing pepper in someone's face an expecting them not to sneeze.\n\nNo it’s not. You can easily (edited in) refrain from rolling your eyes, while it’s much more difficult to refrain from sneezing. \nIt’s fine to think whatever you want, but you might want to refrain from rolling your eyes when you’re, say, interacting with your boss; aka someone that can make you unemployed for whatever reason they please.", ">\n\nThis isn't an opinion. It's just flat wrong. \nIt is disrespectful because it is a conscious signifier which clearly communicated that you think that the thing you are rolling your eyes at is not worthy of respect.", ">\n\nYou have to go out of your way to roll your eyes. It is NOT gutteral or instinctual", ">\n\nIf you annoy me, my arm whips out in a natural reaction and slaps you.", ">\n\nSorry, kiddo, it’s 100% disrespectful. Just own the shit and quit trying to lawyer around it.\nI say that after having rolled my eyes so hard at your post, I travelled back in time.", ">\n\nTell that to my family lol you get the belt", ">\n\nThis was made my a 15 year old who just got told off by their mom about rolling their eyes. Then in defense said, “I can’t control it”", ">\n\nMan it's getting so aggressive sometimes here 😂", ">\n\ni certainly hope you are embarrassed about this in a couple years when you grow up.", ">\n\nOP is a habitual eye roller 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄", ">\n\nI wish to God we could block people by age, no more edgy 13yo’s", ">\n\nSomebody just got their ps5 taken away for rolling their eyes", ">\n\nTell me you're 12 without telling me you're 12.", ">\n\nit’s the definition of disrespectful and a sign that you have literally nothing intelligent to say in return. \nwhich is why we outgrow it as adults.", ">\n\nYou can control it. It’s not an “automatic response” unless you’ve taught yourself to do it. I never roll my eyes. It’s just not something I have ever practiced doing. And yes…if I’m saying something too you and you dismiss it with an eye roll…it’s super disrespectful.", ">\n\nrolling your eyes is just as respectful as sticking your tongue out at someone or making a stupid face in reaction to something someone says", ">\n\nIf you can’t control your eye movement, you need to see a neurologist, dude 😆. As it stands, eye rolling isn’t a reflex or a “natural reaction” to anything. Habits aren’t the same as involuntary reactions.\nRolling your eyes at someone is disrespectful. It’s an outward sign that you think something about your interaction with them was stupid or wrong. There’s no one here that will agree with you, and you know that you’re in the vast minority with this opinion because you posted it on this sub. Now learn some humility and accept that your opinion is factually incorrect based on science.", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nAre you like 14 and your mom got you in trouble cause you rolled your eyes at her? Lmao", ">\n\nI’m gonna show your mom this and it’s going to be another week of being grounded, you little shit lol", ">\n\nOmfg 😂", ">\n\nOP I have to ask.\n\n\nHow old are you?\n\n\nHow is your relationship with your parents?\n\n\nHow do you view authority figures in your life?", ">\n\nrolls eyes", ">\n\nIf you say or demand something stupid from me I will probably roll my eyes.", ">\n\nBut it is", ">\n\nJust like rolling your eyes is an innate response, so are other people's responses to you rolling your eyes.", ">\n\nSometimes being respectful requires hiding your subjective opinion on whether something is stupid or lame.", ">\n\nI wouldn’t say eye rolling is as involuntary as laughing or crying tho. It’s more of a choice.", ">\n\nIf someone rolls their eyes then I feel disrespected it’s a natural reaction.", ">\n\ntell me you're a teenager without telling me you're a teenager", ">\n\nI'm rolling my eyes at this post. And I definitely mean it disrespectfully.", ">\n\nLmao this kid had an argument with his parent(s) or teacher and is venting on Reddit.", ">\n\nYou sound like an eye rolling arsehole", ">\n\ni have never had an as a nonvoulentary action, it requires very explicit movement of you eye. this is like saying “when i dont like people, i punch them in the head, thats my natural reaction i cant control it”\ni have never once legitimately rolled my eyes at something, i think you might be an asshole", ">\n\nMe smacking your face is also an innate uncontrollable response to you rolling your eyes. I'm only human. What can I do? 🙄", ">\n\nI disagree. also there are a billion other ways to express something being stupid or lame than rolling ur eyes", ">\n\nStop downvoting, this is ACTUALLY a very unpopular opinion and I love to see it tbh. Voice your disagreement in the comments but don't downvote the post. This post is hilarious.", ">\n\nThis is something you’ve learned to do. It’s entirely in your control if you do it or not.", ">\n\nI once got a detention for rolling my eyes at a teacher in 4th grade.\nI agree with you, though. The only other person I've ever really rolled my eyes at was my mother, and she deserved it, every single time.", ">\n\nI get your point. I absolutely purposefully roll my eyes sometimes and whoever I'm doing it to would be valid for getting mad. \nBut as someone who can't hide any emotion on their face (literally any, I'm the definition of an open book) there have been plenty of times where people blew up at me or laughed because I rolled my eyes when I didn't even realize I had done it. Feel like the people disagreeing with you haven't experienced this problem.", ">\n\nWhat you've done is cultivate a bad habit and then blamed it on everyone else when you repeat your own bad habit unintentionally.\nThis is entirely your fault.", ">\n\nOnly on Reddit would someone so boldly declare something like this to a stranger. I'm on the spectrum so that might have to do with my not being able to hide any emotion (I truly mean that, people can basically read my thoughts just by looking at me, good and bad). \nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave. Consider working on that.", ">\n\nSo they point out you’re cultivating a bad habit and blaming other people so you then, blame them? It’s a little spot on don’t you think?", ">\n\nWhen did i blame them for my own actions? Could you quote me? I was just pointing out how weird it was that they made such a strong assumption of my character off a causal comment I left when they themselves were ironically being unnecessarily rude in the process. \nI don't know how you got so lost?", ">\n\n\nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave.\n\nClassic deflection and implication that they’re the one with the problem, not you" ]
> I have to refocus my eyes and most of the time blinking doesn’t cut it. I have a lazy eye and when I look at someone for a long time it unfocuses, so moving the muscle is the only way to reset it. If I don’t, people start moving their heads/ bodies trying to focus on my lazy eye. It gets awkward.	[ "🙄", ">\n\nYou’re grounded now", ">\n\nThe post above was someone getting electrocuted so this reply was very timely", ">\n\nThis news is shocking", ">\n\nIt definitely SPARKED my interest", ">\n\nAll of you guys need to leave, and not come back before learning how to conduct yourselves properly", ">\n\nUhhhh....... electricity", ">\n\nWell no, in the right context it is disrespectful. Rolling your eyes suggests that you're not taking the matter seriously or that you dont care which is a sign of disrespect towards whoever is speaking with you.", ">\n\nBut I can't control what I think. If I said \"man you're stupid and I don't care what you say\" thats disrespectful. I'm actually showing respect by not saying it.", ">\n\nI mean, actions speak louder than words, right?", ">\n\nIts not really an action tho its just an automatic response. Like gasping or yawning.", ">\n\nbullshit.\nSorry, it was an automatic response. Which is bullshit just like yours.", ">\n\nStill not the same thing. And they get on me for false analogies....", ">\n\nYou must be a teenager", ">\n\nLol how many times are you gonna post that. Dont you have an original thought of your own?", ">\n\nBruh I cant believe you make these posts. They're foolish", ">\n\nLaughing at someone can be disrespectful. Don't think so? Try laughing at someone's funeral.", ">\n\nThe disrespect comes from the one who told me a joke and made me laugh.", ">\n\nWhat about if no one said any joke? Because, you know, you are at a funeral.", ">\n\nSo someone's just there randomly laughing at shit? That sounds like a mental illness.", ">\n\nYou have never thought of something funny in your head to make yourself laugh? \nOr hell, maybe you didn't like the person who is buried and decided to laugh at them. You find it funny, so laughing must be appropriate, right?", ">\n\nWhy am I thinking about funny shit at a funeral.", ">\n\nBecause the universe likes to put us in uncomfortable positions sometimes.", ">\n\n“if its stupid or lame, you roll your eyes” - you found the disrespect", ">\n\nIm allowed to think whatever i want and its not disrespectful.", ">\n\nWhen you express contempt for something someone else said, it's disrespect.", ">\n\nWhat if what they said is contemptible?", ">\n\nSome people and comments deserve disrespect, still gonna be disrespect", ">\n\nLaughing, crying, and sneezing are all innate, involuntary reactions to certain types of stimuli. Rolling your eyes is a learned behavior. You can’t compare it to those other automatic responses because it’s not the same thing.", ">\n\nTake my upvote", ">\n\nOP rolled their eyes at someone and got chewed out for it.\nNow they're going online in an attempt to validate themselves.\n🙄", ">\n\nProbably got grounded.", ">\n\nPart of being a mature adult is to have self-control and not acting on every impulse and being respectful of people.", ">\n\n\nPart of being a mature adult\n\nYup but OP is clearly a teenager lol. They complain about being told off for doing chores wrong in another post…", ">\n\nEven a teenager should be able to have the fundamental basics of respect", ">\n\nOh I agree 100%", ">\n\nYou have poor self-control and poor self-awareness but the good news is that you can improve these things.", ">\n\n/r/wrongopinions", ">\n\nI feel like we need a new subreddit r/unpopularforareason", ">\n\nIt’s entire purpose is to be disrespectful. Nobody eyerolls something they respect. But how offensive it is depends on the context and how serious one is being.", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes\n\nYou rn: \"I'm not being disrespectful. I just thought what you said was stupid or lame.\"\n...", ">\n\nSaying its stupid could be disrespectful. A facial response is not.", ">\n\nLiterally every person in this thread agrees that it is.\nThis is your bad habit. Nobody else's responsibility but you.", ">\n\nThey can choose to not fly off the handle at what is just an innate reaction.", ">\n\nSo let me get this straight: you think you deserve to be able to disrespect whoever you like whenever you like but they can't as much as say you're being rude? Grow up.", ">\n\nFound the teenager.", ">\n\nMeh, I agree with that one. If you don't like how someone is doing something then do it yourself. There's a reason I live alone.", ">\n\nIt is a UNIVERSAL sign of disrespect. Globally. Deal with it.", ">\n\nLaughing can be disrespectuful too. If you cannot control your own reactions, well, what can I say, maybe you have not really grown up?", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s so it’s hard to control my own actions sometimes…", ">\n\nThank u I'm trying to explain how autism can make it hard to read not just others facial expressions but also ur own and it seems like no one has thought of the possibility that they acc don't realise it or csnt control it", ">\n\nWould you roll your eyes during a job interview if you thought a question was stupid or irrelevant? Do you think you’d get the job if you did?", ">\n\nPretty sure OP would think they were owed that job and they would think it’s ridiculous if they didn’t get it.\nOP is also a teenager going through their rebel phase though", ">\n\nYou're oddly specific here.", ">\n\nWhat was specific? Or rather oddly specific?", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a good way to fast track yourself to a divorce, if you want one.", ">\n\nI think OP needs the definition of respect before any further comment is made", ">\n\nOh I already know it, and I know it does not mean:\nDon't ever disagree with me\nDon't think bad thoughts about me\nDon't ever correct me when I'm blatantly wrong \nShine my boots with your tongue", ">\n\nSoooo this post isn’t about eye rolling is what I’m getting from this. You’ve got issues to work through with your parents or partner or something", ">\n\nSince when tf was eye rolling involuntary?", ">", ">\n\nYour lack of self control is not a justification for disrespect. I personally dont know anyone who reacts to anything by rolling their eyes. Just be mature and communicate.", ">\n\nAnd what if it's not stupid and someone rolls their eyes? Wouldn't it be disrespectful in that case?", ">\n\nIn the eye rollers opinion then it must have been. But you can't fault someone for thinking its stupid.", ">\n\nSo eyerolling is some kind of exceptional thing that is free from criticism? \nIf one has the freedom to eye roll, then someone else has the freedom to criticize the eye roller right? \nOr is it your opinion that besides that everyone who sees an eye roller has to just stfu", ">\n\nMeh, it is disrespectful. It's a way to be disrespectful without having to say That's the dumbest thing I've heard all month, and everyone else who heard it is also dumber for hearing it as well.", ">\n\nBut I didn't say it that's the point.", ">\n\nJust cuz you don’t use words doesn’t mean it’s not disrespectful. Walking away while someone is talking to you, rolling your eyes, slapping someone, and starting to play a game on your phone while someone is talking to you are all disrespectful. It doesn’t matter that you didn’t say anything, your lack of respect still showed.", ">\n\nespecially the way theyre responding to comments", ">\n\nYeah, a natural reaction if you’ve never learned to manage your emotions as opposed to letting them run your life. I’m not talking about being totally monotone rational, either. You need to learn a balance between rational and emotional…which includes healthy, appropriate, respectful expression of honest feelings. Eye rolling is absolutely disrespectful, belittling, and dismissive.", ">\n\nComments: OP is completely wrong and has attitude issues", ">\n\nWhat sounds like mental illness is you refusing to admit that rolling your eyes is simply not an unconditional response. Whether you want to believe it or not, you are doing it intentionally and you can control it. \nYou’re just to much of a b—— to do so.", ">\n\nSame to you", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a learned reaction. Not natural. I rarely of ever roll my eyes at anything.", ">", ">\n\nJust like raising your middle finger. Or vocalizing the sounds \"fuck you\". Or fingers typing the words fuck you OP. Nothing is disrespectful!", ">\n\nNice try but not the same thing at all. You're talking about thought out actions here. The eye roll is more like a reaction. Its quick, its automatic, no one has to think \"im rolling my eyes now\" it just happens. \nSort of like when telling a lie - no one decides to have their eyes dart around suspiciously, it just happens.", ">\n\nNo. Rolling your eyes is not involuntary. It can be controlled. You have a bad habit that you CAN stop. Much like a child learning not to suck their thumb, or biting your nails.", ">\n\nHow about you start with your hair scratching", ">\n\nYour opinion is a contradiction in itself. And, yeah. I disagree. Rolling your eyes is 100% to show lack of respect, and you have no intentions of showing it, even to reason, by rolling your eyes at something someone could believe is meaningful or important. Even if it is stupid.\nI get your point, we roll our eyes to express how we feel, but it is still a physical snare. You say rolling your eyes isn't disrespectful, while saying it's okay to roll your eyes because something is \" stupid or lame\", which in itself is disrespectful. You sound like a very young person in the middle of a learning moment, and you're trying to react with rebellion. It only shows that you lack maturity and are in need of growth. This might be a time for you to read these comments and reevaluate. There are healthier ways to react to things you disagree with, or lack interest in. If not, you can just accept that you roll your eyes to show lack of respect.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is much more deliberate than laughter, tears, or sneezing. It's a conscious action in response to a judgement you're making.", ">\n\nNah, dude it is disrespectful \nYou just have no self control and by the looks of it you don't want to build some", ">\n\nYour post made me roll my eyes very hard.", ">\n\n“No, officer, my wife - she MADE me hit her!”", ">\n\nIt's a natural reaction for a sooky kid but not an adult, if you do that as an adult you just manchild that wants everything their way", ">\n\npoor OP.... did you get in trouble after you rolled your eyes at something again? did you not prehaps learn from previous interactions? rolling your eyes at something \"stupid or lame\" is an intentional response that is disrespectful to whatever it is. mature people dont act that way.....", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes.\n\nSo it is disrespectful. \n\nIts like throwing pepper in someone's face an expecting them not to sneeze.\n\nNo it’s not. You can easily (edited in) refrain from rolling your eyes, while it’s much more difficult to refrain from sneezing. \nIt’s fine to think whatever you want, but you might want to refrain from rolling your eyes when you’re, say, interacting with your boss; aka someone that can make you unemployed for whatever reason they please.", ">\n\nThis isn't an opinion. It's just flat wrong. \nIt is disrespectful because it is a conscious signifier which clearly communicated that you think that the thing you are rolling your eyes at is not worthy of respect.", ">\n\nYou have to go out of your way to roll your eyes. It is NOT gutteral or instinctual", ">\n\nIf you annoy me, my arm whips out in a natural reaction and slaps you.", ">\n\nSorry, kiddo, it’s 100% disrespectful. Just own the shit and quit trying to lawyer around it.\nI say that after having rolled my eyes so hard at your post, I travelled back in time.", ">\n\nTell that to my family lol you get the belt", ">\n\nThis was made my a 15 year old who just got told off by their mom about rolling their eyes. Then in defense said, “I can’t control it”", ">\n\nMan it's getting so aggressive sometimes here 😂", ">\n\ni certainly hope you are embarrassed about this in a couple years when you grow up.", ">\n\nOP is a habitual eye roller 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄", ">\n\nI wish to God we could block people by age, no more edgy 13yo’s", ">\n\nSomebody just got their ps5 taken away for rolling their eyes", ">\n\nTell me you're 12 without telling me you're 12.", ">\n\nit’s the definition of disrespectful and a sign that you have literally nothing intelligent to say in return. \nwhich is why we outgrow it as adults.", ">\n\nYou can control it. It’s not an “automatic response” unless you’ve taught yourself to do it. I never roll my eyes. It’s just not something I have ever practiced doing. And yes…if I’m saying something too you and you dismiss it with an eye roll…it’s super disrespectful.", ">\n\nrolling your eyes is just as respectful as sticking your tongue out at someone or making a stupid face in reaction to something someone says", ">\n\nIf you can’t control your eye movement, you need to see a neurologist, dude 😆. As it stands, eye rolling isn’t a reflex or a “natural reaction” to anything. Habits aren’t the same as involuntary reactions.\nRolling your eyes at someone is disrespectful. It’s an outward sign that you think something about your interaction with them was stupid or wrong. There’s no one here that will agree with you, and you know that you’re in the vast minority with this opinion because you posted it on this sub. Now learn some humility and accept that your opinion is factually incorrect based on science.", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nAre you like 14 and your mom got you in trouble cause you rolled your eyes at her? Lmao", ">\n\nI’m gonna show your mom this and it’s going to be another week of being grounded, you little shit lol", ">\n\nOmfg 😂", ">\n\nOP I have to ask.\n\n\nHow old are you?\n\n\nHow is your relationship with your parents?\n\n\nHow do you view authority figures in your life?", ">\n\nrolls eyes", ">\n\nIf you say or demand something stupid from me I will probably roll my eyes.", ">\n\nBut it is", ">\n\nJust like rolling your eyes is an innate response, so are other people's responses to you rolling your eyes.", ">\n\nSometimes being respectful requires hiding your subjective opinion on whether something is stupid or lame.", ">\n\nI wouldn’t say eye rolling is as involuntary as laughing or crying tho. It’s more of a choice.", ">\n\nIf someone rolls their eyes then I feel disrespected it’s a natural reaction.", ">\n\ntell me you're a teenager without telling me you're a teenager", ">\n\nI'm rolling my eyes at this post. And I definitely mean it disrespectfully.", ">\n\nLmao this kid had an argument with his parent(s) or teacher and is venting on Reddit.", ">\n\nYou sound like an eye rolling arsehole", ">\n\ni have never had an as a nonvoulentary action, it requires very explicit movement of you eye. this is like saying “when i dont like people, i punch them in the head, thats my natural reaction i cant control it”\ni have never once legitimately rolled my eyes at something, i think you might be an asshole", ">\n\nMe smacking your face is also an innate uncontrollable response to you rolling your eyes. I'm only human. What can I do? 🙄", ">\n\nI disagree. also there are a billion other ways to express something being stupid or lame than rolling ur eyes", ">\n\nStop downvoting, this is ACTUALLY a very unpopular opinion and I love to see it tbh. Voice your disagreement in the comments but don't downvote the post. This post is hilarious.", ">\n\nThis is something you’ve learned to do. It’s entirely in your control if you do it or not.", ">\n\nI once got a detention for rolling my eyes at a teacher in 4th grade.\nI agree with you, though. The only other person I've ever really rolled my eyes at was my mother, and she deserved it, every single time.", ">\n\nI get your point. I absolutely purposefully roll my eyes sometimes and whoever I'm doing it to would be valid for getting mad. \nBut as someone who can't hide any emotion on their face (literally any, I'm the definition of an open book) there have been plenty of times where people blew up at me or laughed because I rolled my eyes when I didn't even realize I had done it. Feel like the people disagreeing with you haven't experienced this problem.", ">\n\nWhat you've done is cultivate a bad habit and then blamed it on everyone else when you repeat your own bad habit unintentionally.\nThis is entirely your fault.", ">\n\nOnly on Reddit would someone so boldly declare something like this to a stranger. I'm on the spectrum so that might have to do with my not being able to hide any emotion (I truly mean that, people can basically read my thoughts just by looking at me, good and bad). \nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave. Consider working on that.", ">\n\nSo they point out you’re cultivating a bad habit and blaming other people so you then, blame them? It’s a little spot on don’t you think?", ">\n\nWhen did i blame them for my own actions? Could you quote me? I was just pointing out how weird it was that they made such a strong assumption of my character off a causal comment I left when they themselves were ironically being unnecessarily rude in the process. \nI don't know how you got so lost?", ">\n\n\nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave.\n\nClassic deflection and implication that they’re the one with the problem, not you", ">\n\nFirst its not automatic. I almost never rolled my eyes. Its much easier to control than laughing crying or sneezing. So you just dont make the effort. Its actually a way to express your feeling. You should know that, its your personnality not a human instinctive reaction. \nAnd yes not respecting something is disrespectful. Its not that hard to understand. \nAnyway if i see you.. i dont know having a breakdown after being fired and dumped and start to laugh you'd like that ? \nIf im sad because something good happens to you and show it to you, you would like that ? \nHonestly you are just trying to justify being a bit of a jerk. \nI dont blame you or anything we all are jerks sometime but its what you are doing right now." ]
> This is where I go to my training as a kid. What others think of you is none of your business.	[ "🙄", ">\n\nYou’re grounded now", ">\n\nThe post above was someone getting electrocuted so this reply was very timely", ">\n\nThis news is shocking", ">\n\nIt definitely SPARKED my interest", ">\n\nAll of you guys need to leave, and not come back before learning how to conduct yourselves properly", ">\n\nUhhhh....... electricity", ">\n\nWell no, in the right context it is disrespectful. Rolling your eyes suggests that you're not taking the matter seriously or that you dont care which is a sign of disrespect towards whoever is speaking with you.", ">\n\nBut I can't control what I think. If I said \"man you're stupid and I don't care what you say\" thats disrespectful. I'm actually showing respect by not saying it.", ">\n\nI mean, actions speak louder than words, right?", ">\n\nIts not really an action tho its just an automatic response. Like gasping or yawning.", ">\n\nbullshit.\nSorry, it was an automatic response. Which is bullshit just like yours.", ">\n\nStill not the same thing. And they get on me for false analogies....", ">\n\nYou must be a teenager", ">\n\nLol how many times are you gonna post that. Dont you have an original thought of your own?", ">\n\nBruh I cant believe you make these posts. They're foolish", ">\n\nLaughing at someone can be disrespectful. Don't think so? Try laughing at someone's funeral.", ">\n\nThe disrespect comes from the one who told me a joke and made me laugh.", ">\n\nWhat about if no one said any joke? Because, you know, you are at a funeral.", ">\n\nSo someone's just there randomly laughing at shit? That sounds like a mental illness.", ">\n\nYou have never thought of something funny in your head to make yourself laugh? \nOr hell, maybe you didn't like the person who is buried and decided to laugh at them. You find it funny, so laughing must be appropriate, right?", ">\n\nWhy am I thinking about funny shit at a funeral.", ">\n\nBecause the universe likes to put us in uncomfortable positions sometimes.", ">\n\n“if its stupid or lame, you roll your eyes” - you found the disrespect", ">\n\nIm allowed to think whatever i want and its not disrespectful.", ">\n\nWhen you express contempt for something someone else said, it's disrespect.", ">\n\nWhat if what they said is contemptible?", ">\n\nSome people and comments deserve disrespect, still gonna be disrespect", ">\n\nLaughing, crying, and sneezing are all innate, involuntary reactions to certain types of stimuli. Rolling your eyes is a learned behavior. You can’t compare it to those other automatic responses because it’s not the same thing.", ">\n\nTake my upvote", ">\n\nOP rolled their eyes at someone and got chewed out for it.\nNow they're going online in an attempt to validate themselves.\n🙄", ">\n\nProbably got grounded.", ">\n\nPart of being a mature adult is to have self-control and not acting on every impulse and being respectful of people.", ">\n\n\nPart of being a mature adult\n\nYup but OP is clearly a teenager lol. They complain about being told off for doing chores wrong in another post…", ">\n\nEven a teenager should be able to have the fundamental basics of respect", ">\n\nOh I agree 100%", ">\n\nYou have poor self-control and poor self-awareness but the good news is that you can improve these things.", ">\n\n/r/wrongopinions", ">\n\nI feel like we need a new subreddit r/unpopularforareason", ">\n\nIt’s entire purpose is to be disrespectful. Nobody eyerolls something they respect. But how offensive it is depends on the context and how serious one is being.", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes\n\nYou rn: \"I'm not being disrespectful. I just thought what you said was stupid or lame.\"\n...", ">\n\nSaying its stupid could be disrespectful. A facial response is not.", ">\n\nLiterally every person in this thread agrees that it is.\nThis is your bad habit. Nobody else's responsibility but you.", ">\n\nThey can choose to not fly off the handle at what is just an innate reaction.", ">\n\nSo let me get this straight: you think you deserve to be able to disrespect whoever you like whenever you like but they can't as much as say you're being rude? Grow up.", ">\n\nFound the teenager.", ">\n\nMeh, I agree with that one. If you don't like how someone is doing something then do it yourself. There's a reason I live alone.", ">\n\nIt is a UNIVERSAL sign of disrespect. Globally. Deal with it.", ">\n\nLaughing can be disrespectuful too. If you cannot control your own reactions, well, what can I say, maybe you have not really grown up?", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s so it’s hard to control my own actions sometimes…", ">\n\nThank u I'm trying to explain how autism can make it hard to read not just others facial expressions but also ur own and it seems like no one has thought of the possibility that they acc don't realise it or csnt control it", ">\n\nWould you roll your eyes during a job interview if you thought a question was stupid or irrelevant? Do you think you’d get the job if you did?", ">\n\nPretty sure OP would think they were owed that job and they would think it’s ridiculous if they didn’t get it.\nOP is also a teenager going through their rebel phase though", ">\n\nYou're oddly specific here.", ">\n\nWhat was specific? Or rather oddly specific?", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a good way to fast track yourself to a divorce, if you want one.", ">\n\nI think OP needs the definition of respect before any further comment is made", ">\n\nOh I already know it, and I know it does not mean:\nDon't ever disagree with me\nDon't think bad thoughts about me\nDon't ever correct me when I'm blatantly wrong \nShine my boots with your tongue", ">\n\nSoooo this post isn’t about eye rolling is what I’m getting from this. You’ve got issues to work through with your parents or partner or something", ">\n\nSince when tf was eye rolling involuntary?", ">", ">\n\nYour lack of self control is not a justification for disrespect. I personally dont know anyone who reacts to anything by rolling their eyes. Just be mature and communicate.", ">\n\nAnd what if it's not stupid and someone rolls their eyes? Wouldn't it be disrespectful in that case?", ">\n\nIn the eye rollers opinion then it must have been. But you can't fault someone for thinking its stupid.", ">\n\nSo eyerolling is some kind of exceptional thing that is free from criticism? \nIf one has the freedom to eye roll, then someone else has the freedom to criticize the eye roller right? \nOr is it your opinion that besides that everyone who sees an eye roller has to just stfu", ">\n\nMeh, it is disrespectful. It's a way to be disrespectful without having to say That's the dumbest thing I've heard all month, and everyone else who heard it is also dumber for hearing it as well.", ">\n\nBut I didn't say it that's the point.", ">\n\nJust cuz you don’t use words doesn’t mean it’s not disrespectful. Walking away while someone is talking to you, rolling your eyes, slapping someone, and starting to play a game on your phone while someone is talking to you are all disrespectful. It doesn’t matter that you didn’t say anything, your lack of respect still showed.", ">\n\nespecially the way theyre responding to comments", ">\n\nYeah, a natural reaction if you’ve never learned to manage your emotions as opposed to letting them run your life. I’m not talking about being totally monotone rational, either. You need to learn a balance between rational and emotional…which includes healthy, appropriate, respectful expression of honest feelings. Eye rolling is absolutely disrespectful, belittling, and dismissive.", ">\n\nComments: OP is completely wrong and has attitude issues", ">\n\nWhat sounds like mental illness is you refusing to admit that rolling your eyes is simply not an unconditional response. Whether you want to believe it or not, you are doing it intentionally and you can control it. \nYou’re just to much of a b—— to do so.", ">\n\nSame to you", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a learned reaction. Not natural. I rarely of ever roll my eyes at anything.", ">", ">\n\nJust like raising your middle finger. Or vocalizing the sounds \"fuck you\". Or fingers typing the words fuck you OP. Nothing is disrespectful!", ">\n\nNice try but not the same thing at all. You're talking about thought out actions here. The eye roll is more like a reaction. Its quick, its automatic, no one has to think \"im rolling my eyes now\" it just happens. \nSort of like when telling a lie - no one decides to have their eyes dart around suspiciously, it just happens.", ">\n\nNo. Rolling your eyes is not involuntary. It can be controlled. You have a bad habit that you CAN stop. Much like a child learning not to suck their thumb, or biting your nails.", ">\n\nHow about you start with your hair scratching", ">\n\nYour opinion is a contradiction in itself. And, yeah. I disagree. Rolling your eyes is 100% to show lack of respect, and you have no intentions of showing it, even to reason, by rolling your eyes at something someone could believe is meaningful or important. Even if it is stupid.\nI get your point, we roll our eyes to express how we feel, but it is still a physical snare. You say rolling your eyes isn't disrespectful, while saying it's okay to roll your eyes because something is \" stupid or lame\", which in itself is disrespectful. You sound like a very young person in the middle of a learning moment, and you're trying to react with rebellion. It only shows that you lack maturity and are in need of growth. This might be a time for you to read these comments and reevaluate. There are healthier ways to react to things you disagree with, or lack interest in. If not, you can just accept that you roll your eyes to show lack of respect.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is much more deliberate than laughter, tears, or sneezing. It's a conscious action in response to a judgement you're making.", ">\n\nNah, dude it is disrespectful \nYou just have no self control and by the looks of it you don't want to build some", ">\n\nYour post made me roll my eyes very hard.", ">\n\n“No, officer, my wife - she MADE me hit her!”", ">\n\nIt's a natural reaction for a sooky kid but not an adult, if you do that as an adult you just manchild that wants everything their way", ">\n\npoor OP.... did you get in trouble after you rolled your eyes at something again? did you not prehaps learn from previous interactions? rolling your eyes at something \"stupid or lame\" is an intentional response that is disrespectful to whatever it is. mature people dont act that way.....", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes.\n\nSo it is disrespectful. \n\nIts like throwing pepper in someone's face an expecting them not to sneeze.\n\nNo it’s not. You can easily (edited in) refrain from rolling your eyes, while it’s much more difficult to refrain from sneezing. \nIt’s fine to think whatever you want, but you might want to refrain from rolling your eyes when you’re, say, interacting with your boss; aka someone that can make you unemployed for whatever reason they please.", ">\n\nThis isn't an opinion. It's just flat wrong. \nIt is disrespectful because it is a conscious signifier which clearly communicated that you think that the thing you are rolling your eyes at is not worthy of respect.", ">\n\nYou have to go out of your way to roll your eyes. It is NOT gutteral or instinctual", ">\n\nIf you annoy me, my arm whips out in a natural reaction and slaps you.", ">\n\nSorry, kiddo, it’s 100% disrespectful. Just own the shit and quit trying to lawyer around it.\nI say that after having rolled my eyes so hard at your post, I travelled back in time.", ">\n\nTell that to my family lol you get the belt", ">\n\nThis was made my a 15 year old who just got told off by their mom about rolling their eyes. Then in defense said, “I can’t control it”", ">\n\nMan it's getting so aggressive sometimes here 😂", ">\n\ni certainly hope you are embarrassed about this in a couple years when you grow up.", ">\n\nOP is a habitual eye roller 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄", ">\n\nI wish to God we could block people by age, no more edgy 13yo’s", ">\n\nSomebody just got their ps5 taken away for rolling their eyes", ">\n\nTell me you're 12 without telling me you're 12.", ">\n\nit’s the definition of disrespectful and a sign that you have literally nothing intelligent to say in return. \nwhich is why we outgrow it as adults.", ">\n\nYou can control it. It’s not an “automatic response” unless you’ve taught yourself to do it. I never roll my eyes. It’s just not something I have ever practiced doing. And yes…if I’m saying something too you and you dismiss it with an eye roll…it’s super disrespectful.", ">\n\nrolling your eyes is just as respectful as sticking your tongue out at someone or making a stupid face in reaction to something someone says", ">\n\nIf you can’t control your eye movement, you need to see a neurologist, dude 😆. As it stands, eye rolling isn’t a reflex or a “natural reaction” to anything. Habits aren’t the same as involuntary reactions.\nRolling your eyes at someone is disrespectful. It’s an outward sign that you think something about your interaction with them was stupid or wrong. There’s no one here that will agree with you, and you know that you’re in the vast minority with this opinion because you posted it on this sub. Now learn some humility and accept that your opinion is factually incorrect based on science.", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nAre you like 14 and your mom got you in trouble cause you rolled your eyes at her? Lmao", ">\n\nI’m gonna show your mom this and it’s going to be another week of being grounded, you little shit lol", ">\n\nOmfg 😂", ">\n\nOP I have to ask.\n\n\nHow old are you?\n\n\nHow is your relationship with your parents?\n\n\nHow do you view authority figures in your life?", ">\n\nrolls eyes", ">\n\nIf you say or demand something stupid from me I will probably roll my eyes.", ">\n\nBut it is", ">\n\nJust like rolling your eyes is an innate response, so are other people's responses to you rolling your eyes.", ">\n\nSometimes being respectful requires hiding your subjective opinion on whether something is stupid or lame.", ">\n\nI wouldn’t say eye rolling is as involuntary as laughing or crying tho. It’s more of a choice.", ">\n\nIf someone rolls their eyes then I feel disrespected it’s a natural reaction.", ">\n\ntell me you're a teenager without telling me you're a teenager", ">\n\nI'm rolling my eyes at this post. And I definitely mean it disrespectfully.", ">\n\nLmao this kid had an argument with his parent(s) or teacher and is venting on Reddit.", ">\n\nYou sound like an eye rolling arsehole", ">\n\ni have never had an as a nonvoulentary action, it requires very explicit movement of you eye. this is like saying “when i dont like people, i punch them in the head, thats my natural reaction i cant control it”\ni have never once legitimately rolled my eyes at something, i think you might be an asshole", ">\n\nMe smacking your face is also an innate uncontrollable response to you rolling your eyes. I'm only human. What can I do? 🙄", ">\n\nI disagree. also there are a billion other ways to express something being stupid or lame than rolling ur eyes", ">\n\nStop downvoting, this is ACTUALLY a very unpopular opinion and I love to see it tbh. Voice your disagreement in the comments but don't downvote the post. This post is hilarious.", ">\n\nThis is something you’ve learned to do. It’s entirely in your control if you do it or not.", ">\n\nI once got a detention for rolling my eyes at a teacher in 4th grade.\nI agree with you, though. The only other person I've ever really rolled my eyes at was my mother, and she deserved it, every single time.", ">\n\nI get your point. I absolutely purposefully roll my eyes sometimes and whoever I'm doing it to would be valid for getting mad. \nBut as someone who can't hide any emotion on their face (literally any, I'm the definition of an open book) there have been plenty of times where people blew up at me or laughed because I rolled my eyes when I didn't even realize I had done it. Feel like the people disagreeing with you haven't experienced this problem.", ">\n\nWhat you've done is cultivate a bad habit and then blamed it on everyone else when you repeat your own bad habit unintentionally.\nThis is entirely your fault.", ">\n\nOnly on Reddit would someone so boldly declare something like this to a stranger. I'm on the spectrum so that might have to do with my not being able to hide any emotion (I truly mean that, people can basically read my thoughts just by looking at me, good and bad). \nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave. Consider working on that.", ">\n\nSo they point out you’re cultivating a bad habit and blaming other people so you then, blame them? It’s a little spot on don’t you think?", ">\n\nWhen did i blame them for my own actions? Could you quote me? I was just pointing out how weird it was that they made such a strong assumption of my character off a causal comment I left when they themselves were ironically being unnecessarily rude in the process. \nI don't know how you got so lost?", ">\n\n\nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave.\n\nClassic deflection and implication that they’re the one with the problem, not you", ">\n\nFirst its not automatic. I almost never rolled my eyes. Its much easier to control than laughing crying or sneezing. So you just dont make the effort. Its actually a way to express your feeling. You should know that, its your personnality not a human instinctive reaction. \nAnd yes not respecting something is disrespectful. Its not that hard to understand. \nAnyway if i see you.. i dont know having a breakdown after being fired and dumped and start to laugh you'd like that ? \nIf im sad because something good happens to you and show it to you, you would like that ? \nHonestly you are just trying to justify being a bit of a jerk. \nI dont blame you or anything we all are jerks sometime but its what you are doing right now.", ">\n\nI have to refocus my eyes and most of the time blinking doesn’t cut it. I have a lazy eye and when I look at someone for a long time it unfocuses, so moving the muscle is the only way to reset it. If I don’t, people start moving their heads/ bodies trying to focus on my lazy eye. It gets awkward." ]
> Unless you have a tick or something like Tourette’s syndrome, then it’s not an involuntary response. Part of living in a society and not being considered rude is managing your body language. Let me put it this way. “Rudeness” in itself is a social concept. That means it’s decided by the perception of the masses, what we generally agree upon in terms of our symbols of communication, our customs, our beliefs, our values, etc. For you to say that rolling your eyes isn’t disrespectful is not objectively wrong. But according to the society you live in, it is wrong. In layman’s terms, the hill you’re dying on here is completely arbitrary, neither side will ever be truly correct but as long as you live in a society which feels this way then you will be beholden to it anyways.	[ "🙄", ">\n\nYou’re grounded now", ">\n\nThe post above was someone getting electrocuted so this reply was very timely", ">\n\nThis news is shocking", ">\n\nIt definitely SPARKED my interest", ">\n\nAll of you guys need to leave, and not come back before learning how to conduct yourselves properly", ">\n\nUhhhh....... electricity", ">\n\nWell no, in the right context it is disrespectful. Rolling your eyes suggests that you're not taking the matter seriously or that you dont care which is a sign of disrespect towards whoever is speaking with you.", ">\n\nBut I can't control what I think. If I said \"man you're stupid and I don't care what you say\" thats disrespectful. I'm actually showing respect by not saying it.", ">\n\nI mean, actions speak louder than words, right?", ">\n\nIts not really an action tho its just an automatic response. Like gasping or yawning.", ">\n\nbullshit.\nSorry, it was an automatic response. Which is bullshit just like yours.", ">\n\nStill not the same thing. And they get on me for false analogies....", ">\n\nYou must be a teenager", ">\n\nLol how many times are you gonna post that. Dont you have an original thought of your own?", ">\n\nBruh I cant believe you make these posts. They're foolish", ">\n\nLaughing at someone can be disrespectful. Don't think so? Try laughing at someone's funeral.", ">\n\nThe disrespect comes from the one who told me a joke and made me laugh.", ">\n\nWhat about if no one said any joke? Because, you know, you are at a funeral.", ">\n\nSo someone's just there randomly laughing at shit? That sounds like a mental illness.", ">\n\nYou have never thought of something funny in your head to make yourself laugh? \nOr hell, maybe you didn't like the person who is buried and decided to laugh at them. You find it funny, so laughing must be appropriate, right?", ">\n\nWhy am I thinking about funny shit at a funeral.", ">\n\nBecause the universe likes to put us in uncomfortable positions sometimes.", ">\n\n“if its stupid or lame, you roll your eyes” - you found the disrespect", ">\n\nIm allowed to think whatever i want and its not disrespectful.", ">\n\nWhen you express contempt for something someone else said, it's disrespect.", ">\n\nWhat if what they said is contemptible?", ">\n\nSome people and comments deserve disrespect, still gonna be disrespect", ">\n\nLaughing, crying, and sneezing are all innate, involuntary reactions to certain types of stimuli. Rolling your eyes is a learned behavior. You can’t compare it to those other automatic responses because it’s not the same thing.", ">\n\nTake my upvote", ">\n\nOP rolled their eyes at someone and got chewed out for it.\nNow they're going online in an attempt to validate themselves.\n🙄", ">\n\nProbably got grounded.", ">\n\nPart of being a mature adult is to have self-control and not acting on every impulse and being respectful of people.", ">\n\n\nPart of being a mature adult\n\nYup but OP is clearly a teenager lol. They complain about being told off for doing chores wrong in another post…", ">\n\nEven a teenager should be able to have the fundamental basics of respect", ">\n\nOh I agree 100%", ">\n\nYou have poor self-control and poor self-awareness but the good news is that you can improve these things.", ">\n\n/r/wrongopinions", ">\n\nI feel like we need a new subreddit r/unpopularforareason", ">\n\nIt’s entire purpose is to be disrespectful. Nobody eyerolls something they respect. But how offensive it is depends on the context and how serious one is being.", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes\n\nYou rn: \"I'm not being disrespectful. I just thought what you said was stupid or lame.\"\n...", ">\n\nSaying its stupid could be disrespectful. A facial response is not.", ">\n\nLiterally every person in this thread agrees that it is.\nThis is your bad habit. Nobody else's responsibility but you.", ">\n\nThey can choose to not fly off the handle at what is just an innate reaction.", ">\n\nSo let me get this straight: you think you deserve to be able to disrespect whoever you like whenever you like but they can't as much as say you're being rude? Grow up.", ">\n\nFound the teenager.", ">\n\nMeh, I agree with that one. If you don't like how someone is doing something then do it yourself. There's a reason I live alone.", ">\n\nIt is a UNIVERSAL sign of disrespect. Globally. Deal with it.", ">\n\nLaughing can be disrespectuful too. If you cannot control your own reactions, well, what can I say, maybe you have not really grown up?", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s so it’s hard to control my own actions sometimes…", ">\n\nThank u I'm trying to explain how autism can make it hard to read not just others facial expressions but also ur own and it seems like no one has thought of the possibility that they acc don't realise it or csnt control it", ">\n\nWould you roll your eyes during a job interview if you thought a question was stupid or irrelevant? Do you think you’d get the job if you did?", ">\n\nPretty sure OP would think they were owed that job and they would think it’s ridiculous if they didn’t get it.\nOP is also a teenager going through their rebel phase though", ">\n\nYou're oddly specific here.", ">\n\nWhat was specific? Or rather oddly specific?", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a good way to fast track yourself to a divorce, if you want one.", ">\n\nI think OP needs the definition of respect before any further comment is made", ">\n\nOh I already know it, and I know it does not mean:\nDon't ever disagree with me\nDon't think bad thoughts about me\nDon't ever correct me when I'm blatantly wrong \nShine my boots with your tongue", ">\n\nSoooo this post isn’t about eye rolling is what I’m getting from this. You’ve got issues to work through with your parents or partner or something", ">\n\nSince when tf was eye rolling involuntary?", ">", ">\n\nYour lack of self control is not a justification for disrespect. I personally dont know anyone who reacts to anything by rolling their eyes. Just be mature and communicate.", ">\n\nAnd what if it's not stupid and someone rolls their eyes? Wouldn't it be disrespectful in that case?", ">\n\nIn the eye rollers opinion then it must have been. But you can't fault someone for thinking its stupid.", ">\n\nSo eyerolling is some kind of exceptional thing that is free from criticism? \nIf one has the freedom to eye roll, then someone else has the freedom to criticize the eye roller right? \nOr is it your opinion that besides that everyone who sees an eye roller has to just stfu", ">\n\nMeh, it is disrespectful. It's a way to be disrespectful without having to say That's the dumbest thing I've heard all month, and everyone else who heard it is also dumber for hearing it as well.", ">\n\nBut I didn't say it that's the point.", ">\n\nJust cuz you don’t use words doesn’t mean it’s not disrespectful. Walking away while someone is talking to you, rolling your eyes, slapping someone, and starting to play a game on your phone while someone is talking to you are all disrespectful. It doesn’t matter that you didn’t say anything, your lack of respect still showed.", ">\n\nespecially the way theyre responding to comments", ">\n\nYeah, a natural reaction if you’ve never learned to manage your emotions as opposed to letting them run your life. I’m not talking about being totally monotone rational, either. You need to learn a balance between rational and emotional…which includes healthy, appropriate, respectful expression of honest feelings. Eye rolling is absolutely disrespectful, belittling, and dismissive.", ">\n\nComments: OP is completely wrong and has attitude issues", ">\n\nWhat sounds like mental illness is you refusing to admit that rolling your eyes is simply not an unconditional response. Whether you want to believe it or not, you are doing it intentionally and you can control it. \nYou’re just to much of a b—— to do so.", ">\n\nSame to you", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a learned reaction. Not natural. I rarely of ever roll my eyes at anything.", ">", ">\n\nJust like raising your middle finger. Or vocalizing the sounds \"fuck you\". Or fingers typing the words fuck you OP. Nothing is disrespectful!", ">\n\nNice try but not the same thing at all. You're talking about thought out actions here. The eye roll is more like a reaction. Its quick, its automatic, no one has to think \"im rolling my eyes now\" it just happens. \nSort of like when telling a lie - no one decides to have their eyes dart around suspiciously, it just happens.", ">\n\nNo. Rolling your eyes is not involuntary. It can be controlled. You have a bad habit that you CAN stop. Much like a child learning not to suck their thumb, or biting your nails.", ">\n\nHow about you start with your hair scratching", ">\n\nYour opinion is a contradiction in itself. And, yeah. I disagree. Rolling your eyes is 100% to show lack of respect, and you have no intentions of showing it, even to reason, by rolling your eyes at something someone could believe is meaningful or important. Even if it is stupid.\nI get your point, we roll our eyes to express how we feel, but it is still a physical snare. You say rolling your eyes isn't disrespectful, while saying it's okay to roll your eyes because something is \" stupid or lame\", which in itself is disrespectful. You sound like a very young person in the middle of a learning moment, and you're trying to react with rebellion. It only shows that you lack maturity and are in need of growth. This might be a time for you to read these comments and reevaluate. There are healthier ways to react to things you disagree with, or lack interest in. If not, you can just accept that you roll your eyes to show lack of respect.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is much more deliberate than laughter, tears, or sneezing. It's a conscious action in response to a judgement you're making.", ">\n\nNah, dude it is disrespectful \nYou just have no self control and by the looks of it you don't want to build some", ">\n\nYour post made me roll my eyes very hard.", ">\n\n“No, officer, my wife - she MADE me hit her!”", ">\n\nIt's a natural reaction for a sooky kid but not an adult, if you do that as an adult you just manchild that wants everything their way", ">\n\npoor OP.... did you get in trouble after you rolled your eyes at something again? did you not prehaps learn from previous interactions? rolling your eyes at something \"stupid or lame\" is an intentional response that is disrespectful to whatever it is. mature people dont act that way.....", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes.\n\nSo it is disrespectful. \n\nIts like throwing pepper in someone's face an expecting them not to sneeze.\n\nNo it’s not. You can easily (edited in) refrain from rolling your eyes, while it’s much more difficult to refrain from sneezing. \nIt’s fine to think whatever you want, but you might want to refrain from rolling your eyes when you’re, say, interacting with your boss; aka someone that can make you unemployed for whatever reason they please.", ">\n\nThis isn't an opinion. It's just flat wrong. \nIt is disrespectful because it is a conscious signifier which clearly communicated that you think that the thing you are rolling your eyes at is not worthy of respect.", ">\n\nYou have to go out of your way to roll your eyes. It is NOT gutteral or instinctual", ">\n\nIf you annoy me, my arm whips out in a natural reaction and slaps you.", ">\n\nSorry, kiddo, it’s 100% disrespectful. Just own the shit and quit trying to lawyer around it.\nI say that after having rolled my eyes so hard at your post, I travelled back in time.", ">\n\nTell that to my family lol you get the belt", ">\n\nThis was made my a 15 year old who just got told off by their mom about rolling their eyes. Then in defense said, “I can’t control it”", ">\n\nMan it's getting so aggressive sometimes here 😂", ">\n\ni certainly hope you are embarrassed about this in a couple years when you grow up.", ">\n\nOP is a habitual eye roller 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄", ">\n\nI wish to God we could block people by age, no more edgy 13yo’s", ">\n\nSomebody just got their ps5 taken away for rolling their eyes", ">\n\nTell me you're 12 without telling me you're 12.", ">\n\nit’s the definition of disrespectful and a sign that you have literally nothing intelligent to say in return. \nwhich is why we outgrow it as adults.", ">\n\nYou can control it. It’s not an “automatic response” unless you’ve taught yourself to do it. I never roll my eyes. It’s just not something I have ever practiced doing. And yes…if I’m saying something too you and you dismiss it with an eye roll…it’s super disrespectful.", ">\n\nrolling your eyes is just as respectful as sticking your tongue out at someone or making a stupid face in reaction to something someone says", ">\n\nIf you can’t control your eye movement, you need to see a neurologist, dude 😆. As it stands, eye rolling isn’t a reflex or a “natural reaction” to anything. Habits aren’t the same as involuntary reactions.\nRolling your eyes at someone is disrespectful. It’s an outward sign that you think something about your interaction with them was stupid or wrong. There’s no one here that will agree with you, and you know that you’re in the vast minority with this opinion because you posted it on this sub. Now learn some humility and accept that your opinion is factually incorrect based on science.", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nAre you like 14 and your mom got you in trouble cause you rolled your eyes at her? Lmao", ">\n\nI’m gonna show your mom this and it’s going to be another week of being grounded, you little shit lol", ">\n\nOmfg 😂", ">\n\nOP I have to ask.\n\n\nHow old are you?\n\n\nHow is your relationship with your parents?\n\n\nHow do you view authority figures in your life?", ">\n\nrolls eyes", ">\n\nIf you say or demand something stupid from me I will probably roll my eyes.", ">\n\nBut it is", ">\n\nJust like rolling your eyes is an innate response, so are other people's responses to you rolling your eyes.", ">\n\nSometimes being respectful requires hiding your subjective opinion on whether something is stupid or lame.", ">\n\nI wouldn’t say eye rolling is as involuntary as laughing or crying tho. It’s more of a choice.", ">\n\nIf someone rolls their eyes then I feel disrespected it’s a natural reaction.", ">\n\ntell me you're a teenager without telling me you're a teenager", ">\n\nI'm rolling my eyes at this post. And I definitely mean it disrespectfully.", ">\n\nLmao this kid had an argument with his parent(s) or teacher and is venting on Reddit.", ">\n\nYou sound like an eye rolling arsehole", ">\n\ni have never had an as a nonvoulentary action, it requires very explicit movement of you eye. this is like saying “when i dont like people, i punch them in the head, thats my natural reaction i cant control it”\ni have never once legitimately rolled my eyes at something, i think you might be an asshole", ">\n\nMe smacking your face is also an innate uncontrollable response to you rolling your eyes. I'm only human. What can I do? 🙄", ">\n\nI disagree. also there are a billion other ways to express something being stupid or lame than rolling ur eyes", ">\n\nStop downvoting, this is ACTUALLY a very unpopular opinion and I love to see it tbh. Voice your disagreement in the comments but don't downvote the post. This post is hilarious.", ">\n\nThis is something you’ve learned to do. It’s entirely in your control if you do it or not.", ">\n\nI once got a detention for rolling my eyes at a teacher in 4th grade.\nI agree with you, though. The only other person I've ever really rolled my eyes at was my mother, and she deserved it, every single time.", ">\n\nI get your point. I absolutely purposefully roll my eyes sometimes and whoever I'm doing it to would be valid for getting mad. \nBut as someone who can't hide any emotion on their face (literally any, I'm the definition of an open book) there have been plenty of times where people blew up at me or laughed because I rolled my eyes when I didn't even realize I had done it. Feel like the people disagreeing with you haven't experienced this problem.", ">\n\nWhat you've done is cultivate a bad habit and then blamed it on everyone else when you repeat your own bad habit unintentionally.\nThis is entirely your fault.", ">\n\nOnly on Reddit would someone so boldly declare something like this to a stranger. I'm on the spectrum so that might have to do with my not being able to hide any emotion (I truly mean that, people can basically read my thoughts just by looking at me, good and bad). \nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave. Consider working on that.", ">\n\nSo they point out you’re cultivating a bad habit and blaming other people so you then, blame them? It’s a little spot on don’t you think?", ">\n\nWhen did i blame them for my own actions? Could you quote me? I was just pointing out how weird it was that they made such a strong assumption of my character off a causal comment I left when they themselves were ironically being unnecessarily rude in the process. \nI don't know how you got so lost?", ">\n\n\nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave.\n\nClassic deflection and implication that they’re the one with the problem, not you", ">\n\nFirst its not automatic. I almost never rolled my eyes. Its much easier to control than laughing crying or sneezing. So you just dont make the effort. Its actually a way to express your feeling. You should know that, its your personnality not a human instinctive reaction. \nAnd yes not respecting something is disrespectful. Its not that hard to understand. \nAnyway if i see you.. i dont know having a breakdown after being fired and dumped and start to laugh you'd like that ? \nIf im sad because something good happens to you and show it to you, you would like that ? \nHonestly you are just trying to justify being a bit of a jerk. \nI dont blame you or anything we all are jerks sometime but its what you are doing right now.", ">\n\nI have to refocus my eyes and most of the time blinking doesn’t cut it. I have a lazy eye and when I look at someone for a long time it unfocuses, so moving the muscle is the only way to reset it. If I don’t, people start moving their heads/ bodies trying to focus on my lazy eye. It gets awkward.", ">\n\nThis is where I go to my training as a kid. What others think of you is none of your business." ]
> To be fair, if your thinking its stupid or lame, then that is dis-respect. I'd agree with this if it was worded like 'More people need to say what they truly think', but I think you sort of missed the mark, OP.	[ "🙄", ">\n\nYou’re grounded now", ">\n\nThe post above was someone getting electrocuted so this reply was very timely", ">\n\nThis news is shocking", ">\n\nIt definitely SPARKED my interest", ">\n\nAll of you guys need to leave, and not come back before learning how to conduct yourselves properly", ">\n\nUhhhh....... electricity", ">\n\nWell no, in the right context it is disrespectful. Rolling your eyes suggests that you're not taking the matter seriously or that you dont care which is a sign of disrespect towards whoever is speaking with you.", ">\n\nBut I can't control what I think. If I said \"man you're stupid and I don't care what you say\" thats disrespectful. I'm actually showing respect by not saying it.", ">\n\nI mean, actions speak louder than words, right?", ">\n\nIts not really an action tho its just an automatic response. Like gasping or yawning.", ">\n\nbullshit.\nSorry, it was an automatic response. Which is bullshit just like yours.", ">\n\nStill not the same thing. And they get on me for false analogies....", ">\n\nYou must be a teenager", ">\n\nLol how many times are you gonna post that. Dont you have an original thought of your own?", ">\n\nBruh I cant believe you make these posts. They're foolish", ">\n\nLaughing at someone can be disrespectful. Don't think so? Try laughing at someone's funeral.", ">\n\nThe disrespect comes from the one who told me a joke and made me laugh.", ">\n\nWhat about if no one said any joke? Because, you know, you are at a funeral.", ">\n\nSo someone's just there randomly laughing at shit? That sounds like a mental illness.", ">\n\nYou have never thought of something funny in your head to make yourself laugh? \nOr hell, maybe you didn't like the person who is buried and decided to laugh at them. You find it funny, so laughing must be appropriate, right?", ">\n\nWhy am I thinking about funny shit at a funeral.", ">\n\nBecause the universe likes to put us in uncomfortable positions sometimes.", ">\n\n“if its stupid or lame, you roll your eyes” - you found the disrespect", ">\n\nIm allowed to think whatever i want and its not disrespectful.", ">\n\nWhen you express contempt for something someone else said, it's disrespect.", ">\n\nWhat if what they said is contemptible?", ">\n\nSome people and comments deserve disrespect, still gonna be disrespect", ">\n\nLaughing, crying, and sneezing are all innate, involuntary reactions to certain types of stimuli. Rolling your eyes is a learned behavior. You can’t compare it to those other automatic responses because it’s not the same thing.", ">\n\nTake my upvote", ">\n\nOP rolled their eyes at someone and got chewed out for it.\nNow they're going online in an attempt to validate themselves.\n🙄", ">\n\nProbably got grounded.", ">\n\nPart of being a mature adult is to have self-control and not acting on every impulse and being respectful of people.", ">\n\n\nPart of being a mature adult\n\nYup but OP is clearly a teenager lol. They complain about being told off for doing chores wrong in another post…", ">\n\nEven a teenager should be able to have the fundamental basics of respect", ">\n\nOh I agree 100%", ">\n\nYou have poor self-control and poor self-awareness but the good news is that you can improve these things.", ">\n\n/r/wrongopinions", ">\n\nI feel like we need a new subreddit r/unpopularforareason", ">\n\nIt’s entire purpose is to be disrespectful. Nobody eyerolls something they respect. But how offensive it is depends on the context and how serious one is being.", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes\n\nYou rn: \"I'm not being disrespectful. I just thought what you said was stupid or lame.\"\n...", ">\n\nSaying its stupid could be disrespectful. A facial response is not.", ">\n\nLiterally every person in this thread agrees that it is.\nThis is your bad habit. Nobody else's responsibility but you.", ">\n\nThey can choose to not fly off the handle at what is just an innate reaction.", ">\n\nSo let me get this straight: you think you deserve to be able to disrespect whoever you like whenever you like but they can't as much as say you're being rude? Grow up.", ">\n\nFound the teenager.", ">\n\nMeh, I agree with that one. If you don't like how someone is doing something then do it yourself. There's a reason I live alone.", ">\n\nIt is a UNIVERSAL sign of disrespect. Globally. Deal with it.", ">\n\nLaughing can be disrespectuful too. If you cannot control your own reactions, well, what can I say, maybe you have not really grown up?", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s so it’s hard to control my own actions sometimes…", ">\n\nThank u I'm trying to explain how autism can make it hard to read not just others facial expressions but also ur own and it seems like no one has thought of the possibility that they acc don't realise it or csnt control it", ">\n\nWould you roll your eyes during a job interview if you thought a question was stupid or irrelevant? Do you think you’d get the job if you did?", ">\n\nPretty sure OP would think they were owed that job and they would think it’s ridiculous if they didn’t get it.\nOP is also a teenager going through their rebel phase though", ">\n\nYou're oddly specific here.", ">\n\nWhat was specific? Or rather oddly specific?", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a good way to fast track yourself to a divorce, if you want one.", ">\n\nI think OP needs the definition of respect before any further comment is made", ">\n\nOh I already know it, and I know it does not mean:\nDon't ever disagree with me\nDon't think bad thoughts about me\nDon't ever correct me when I'm blatantly wrong \nShine my boots with your tongue", ">\n\nSoooo this post isn’t about eye rolling is what I’m getting from this. You’ve got issues to work through with your parents or partner or something", ">\n\nSince when tf was eye rolling involuntary?", ">", ">\n\nYour lack of self control is not a justification for disrespect. I personally dont know anyone who reacts to anything by rolling their eyes. Just be mature and communicate.", ">\n\nAnd what if it's not stupid and someone rolls their eyes? Wouldn't it be disrespectful in that case?", ">\n\nIn the eye rollers opinion then it must have been. But you can't fault someone for thinking its stupid.", ">\n\nSo eyerolling is some kind of exceptional thing that is free from criticism? \nIf one has the freedom to eye roll, then someone else has the freedom to criticize the eye roller right? \nOr is it your opinion that besides that everyone who sees an eye roller has to just stfu", ">\n\nMeh, it is disrespectful. It's a way to be disrespectful without having to say That's the dumbest thing I've heard all month, and everyone else who heard it is also dumber for hearing it as well.", ">\n\nBut I didn't say it that's the point.", ">\n\nJust cuz you don’t use words doesn’t mean it’s not disrespectful. Walking away while someone is talking to you, rolling your eyes, slapping someone, and starting to play a game on your phone while someone is talking to you are all disrespectful. It doesn’t matter that you didn’t say anything, your lack of respect still showed.", ">\n\nespecially the way theyre responding to comments", ">\n\nYeah, a natural reaction if you’ve never learned to manage your emotions as opposed to letting them run your life. I’m not talking about being totally monotone rational, either. You need to learn a balance between rational and emotional…which includes healthy, appropriate, respectful expression of honest feelings. Eye rolling is absolutely disrespectful, belittling, and dismissive.", ">\n\nComments: OP is completely wrong and has attitude issues", ">\n\nWhat sounds like mental illness is you refusing to admit that rolling your eyes is simply not an unconditional response. Whether you want to believe it or not, you are doing it intentionally and you can control it. \nYou’re just to much of a b—— to do so.", ">\n\nSame to you", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a learned reaction. Not natural. I rarely of ever roll my eyes at anything.", ">", ">\n\nJust like raising your middle finger. Or vocalizing the sounds \"fuck you\". Or fingers typing the words fuck you OP. Nothing is disrespectful!", ">\n\nNice try but not the same thing at all. You're talking about thought out actions here. The eye roll is more like a reaction. Its quick, its automatic, no one has to think \"im rolling my eyes now\" it just happens. \nSort of like when telling a lie - no one decides to have their eyes dart around suspiciously, it just happens.", ">\n\nNo. Rolling your eyes is not involuntary. It can be controlled. You have a bad habit that you CAN stop. Much like a child learning not to suck their thumb, or biting your nails.", ">\n\nHow about you start with your hair scratching", ">\n\nYour opinion is a contradiction in itself. And, yeah. I disagree. Rolling your eyes is 100% to show lack of respect, and you have no intentions of showing it, even to reason, by rolling your eyes at something someone could believe is meaningful or important. Even if it is stupid.\nI get your point, we roll our eyes to express how we feel, but it is still a physical snare. You say rolling your eyes isn't disrespectful, while saying it's okay to roll your eyes because something is \" stupid or lame\", which in itself is disrespectful. You sound like a very young person in the middle of a learning moment, and you're trying to react with rebellion. It only shows that you lack maturity and are in need of growth. This might be a time for you to read these comments and reevaluate. There are healthier ways to react to things you disagree with, or lack interest in. If not, you can just accept that you roll your eyes to show lack of respect.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is much more deliberate than laughter, tears, or sneezing. It's a conscious action in response to a judgement you're making.", ">\n\nNah, dude it is disrespectful \nYou just have no self control and by the looks of it you don't want to build some", ">\n\nYour post made me roll my eyes very hard.", ">\n\n“No, officer, my wife - she MADE me hit her!”", ">\n\nIt's a natural reaction for a sooky kid but not an adult, if you do that as an adult you just manchild that wants everything their way", ">\n\npoor OP.... did you get in trouble after you rolled your eyes at something again? did you not prehaps learn from previous interactions? rolling your eyes at something \"stupid or lame\" is an intentional response that is disrespectful to whatever it is. mature people dont act that way.....", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes.\n\nSo it is disrespectful. \n\nIts like throwing pepper in someone's face an expecting them not to sneeze.\n\nNo it’s not. You can easily (edited in) refrain from rolling your eyes, while it’s much more difficult to refrain from sneezing. \nIt’s fine to think whatever you want, but you might want to refrain from rolling your eyes when you’re, say, interacting with your boss; aka someone that can make you unemployed for whatever reason they please.", ">\n\nThis isn't an opinion. It's just flat wrong. \nIt is disrespectful because it is a conscious signifier which clearly communicated that you think that the thing you are rolling your eyes at is not worthy of respect.", ">\n\nYou have to go out of your way to roll your eyes. It is NOT gutteral or instinctual", ">\n\nIf you annoy me, my arm whips out in a natural reaction and slaps you.", ">\n\nSorry, kiddo, it’s 100% disrespectful. Just own the shit and quit trying to lawyer around it.\nI say that after having rolled my eyes so hard at your post, I travelled back in time.", ">\n\nTell that to my family lol you get the belt", ">\n\nThis was made my a 15 year old who just got told off by their mom about rolling their eyes. Then in defense said, “I can’t control it”", ">\n\nMan it's getting so aggressive sometimes here 😂", ">\n\ni certainly hope you are embarrassed about this in a couple years when you grow up.", ">\n\nOP is a habitual eye roller 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄", ">\n\nI wish to God we could block people by age, no more edgy 13yo’s", ">\n\nSomebody just got their ps5 taken away for rolling their eyes", ">\n\nTell me you're 12 without telling me you're 12.", ">\n\nit’s the definition of disrespectful and a sign that you have literally nothing intelligent to say in return. \nwhich is why we outgrow it as adults.", ">\n\nYou can control it. It’s not an “automatic response” unless you’ve taught yourself to do it. I never roll my eyes. It’s just not something I have ever practiced doing. And yes…if I’m saying something too you and you dismiss it with an eye roll…it’s super disrespectful.", ">\n\nrolling your eyes is just as respectful as sticking your tongue out at someone or making a stupid face in reaction to something someone says", ">\n\nIf you can’t control your eye movement, you need to see a neurologist, dude 😆. As it stands, eye rolling isn’t a reflex or a “natural reaction” to anything. Habits aren’t the same as involuntary reactions.\nRolling your eyes at someone is disrespectful. It’s an outward sign that you think something about your interaction with them was stupid or wrong. There’s no one here that will agree with you, and you know that you’re in the vast minority with this opinion because you posted it on this sub. Now learn some humility and accept that your opinion is factually incorrect based on science.", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nAre you like 14 and your mom got you in trouble cause you rolled your eyes at her? Lmao", ">\n\nI’m gonna show your mom this and it’s going to be another week of being grounded, you little shit lol", ">\n\nOmfg 😂", ">\n\nOP I have to ask.\n\n\nHow old are you?\n\n\nHow is your relationship with your parents?\n\n\nHow do you view authority figures in your life?", ">\n\nrolls eyes", ">\n\nIf you say or demand something stupid from me I will probably roll my eyes.", ">\n\nBut it is", ">\n\nJust like rolling your eyes is an innate response, so are other people's responses to you rolling your eyes.", ">\n\nSometimes being respectful requires hiding your subjective opinion on whether something is stupid or lame.", ">\n\nI wouldn’t say eye rolling is as involuntary as laughing or crying tho. It’s more of a choice.", ">\n\nIf someone rolls their eyes then I feel disrespected it’s a natural reaction.", ">\n\ntell me you're a teenager without telling me you're a teenager", ">\n\nI'm rolling my eyes at this post. And I definitely mean it disrespectfully.", ">\n\nLmao this kid had an argument with his parent(s) or teacher and is venting on Reddit.", ">\n\nYou sound like an eye rolling arsehole", ">\n\ni have never had an as a nonvoulentary action, it requires very explicit movement of you eye. this is like saying “when i dont like people, i punch them in the head, thats my natural reaction i cant control it”\ni have never once legitimately rolled my eyes at something, i think you might be an asshole", ">\n\nMe smacking your face is also an innate uncontrollable response to you rolling your eyes. I'm only human. What can I do? 🙄", ">\n\nI disagree. also there are a billion other ways to express something being stupid or lame than rolling ur eyes", ">\n\nStop downvoting, this is ACTUALLY a very unpopular opinion and I love to see it tbh. Voice your disagreement in the comments but don't downvote the post. This post is hilarious.", ">\n\nThis is something you’ve learned to do. It’s entirely in your control if you do it or not.", ">\n\nI once got a detention for rolling my eyes at a teacher in 4th grade.\nI agree with you, though. The only other person I've ever really rolled my eyes at was my mother, and she deserved it, every single time.", ">\n\nI get your point. I absolutely purposefully roll my eyes sometimes and whoever I'm doing it to would be valid for getting mad. \nBut as someone who can't hide any emotion on their face (literally any, I'm the definition of an open book) there have been plenty of times where people blew up at me or laughed because I rolled my eyes when I didn't even realize I had done it. Feel like the people disagreeing with you haven't experienced this problem.", ">\n\nWhat you've done is cultivate a bad habit and then blamed it on everyone else when you repeat your own bad habit unintentionally.\nThis is entirely your fault.", ">\n\nOnly on Reddit would someone so boldly declare something like this to a stranger. I'm on the spectrum so that might have to do with my not being able to hide any emotion (I truly mean that, people can basically read my thoughts just by looking at me, good and bad). \nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave. Consider working on that.", ">\n\nSo they point out you’re cultivating a bad habit and blaming other people so you then, blame them? It’s a little spot on don’t you think?", ">\n\nWhen did i blame them for my own actions? Could you quote me? I was just pointing out how weird it was that they made such a strong assumption of my character off a causal comment I left when they themselves were ironically being unnecessarily rude in the process. \nI don't know how you got so lost?", ">\n\n\nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave.\n\nClassic deflection and implication that they’re the one with the problem, not you", ">\n\nFirst its not automatic. I almost never rolled my eyes. Its much easier to control than laughing crying or sneezing. So you just dont make the effort. Its actually a way to express your feeling. You should know that, its your personnality not a human instinctive reaction. \nAnd yes not respecting something is disrespectful. Its not that hard to understand. \nAnyway if i see you.. i dont know having a breakdown after being fired and dumped and start to laugh you'd like that ? \nIf im sad because something good happens to you and show it to you, you would like that ? \nHonestly you are just trying to justify being a bit of a jerk. \nI dont blame you or anything we all are jerks sometime but its what you are doing right now.", ">\n\nI have to refocus my eyes and most of the time blinking doesn’t cut it. I have a lazy eye and when I look at someone for a long time it unfocuses, so moving the muscle is the only way to reset it. If I don’t, people start moving their heads/ bodies trying to focus on my lazy eye. It gets awkward.", ">\n\nThis is where I go to my training as a kid. What others think of you is none of your business.", ">\n\nUnless you have a tick or something like Tourette’s syndrome, then it’s not an involuntary response. Part of living in a society and not being considered rude is managing your body language.\nLet me put it this way. “Rudeness” in itself is a social concept. That means it’s decided by the perception of the masses, what we generally agree upon in terms of our symbols of communication, our customs, our beliefs, our values, etc. For you to say that rolling your eyes isn’t disrespectful is not objectively wrong. But according to the society you live in, it is wrong. In layman’s terms, the hill you’re dying on here is completely arbitrary, neither side will ever be truly correct but as long as you live in a society which feels this way then you will be beholden to it anyways." ]
> I am equally annoyed when folks rapidly blink and look away mid conversation or drop their arm dead against their thigh. It’s like you’ve given up an effort to even keep your body vertical and engaged while I’m talking to you.	[ "🙄", ">\n\nYou’re grounded now", ">\n\nThe post above was someone getting electrocuted so this reply was very timely", ">\n\nThis news is shocking", ">\n\nIt definitely SPARKED my interest", ">\n\nAll of you guys need to leave, and not come back before learning how to conduct yourselves properly", ">\n\nUhhhh....... electricity", ">\n\nWell no, in the right context it is disrespectful. Rolling your eyes suggests that you're not taking the matter seriously or that you dont care which is a sign of disrespect towards whoever is speaking with you.", ">\n\nBut I can't control what I think. If I said \"man you're stupid and I don't care what you say\" thats disrespectful. I'm actually showing respect by not saying it.", ">\n\nI mean, actions speak louder than words, right?", ">\n\nIts not really an action tho its just an automatic response. Like gasping or yawning.", ">\n\nbullshit.\nSorry, it was an automatic response. Which is bullshit just like yours.", ">\n\nStill not the same thing. And they get on me for false analogies....", ">\n\nYou must be a teenager", ">\n\nLol how many times are you gonna post that. Dont you have an original thought of your own?", ">\n\nBruh I cant believe you make these posts. They're foolish", ">\n\nLaughing at someone can be disrespectful. Don't think so? Try laughing at someone's funeral.", ">\n\nThe disrespect comes from the one who told me a joke and made me laugh.", ">\n\nWhat about if no one said any joke? Because, you know, you are at a funeral.", ">\n\nSo someone's just there randomly laughing at shit? That sounds like a mental illness.", ">\n\nYou have never thought of something funny in your head to make yourself laugh? \nOr hell, maybe you didn't like the person who is buried and decided to laugh at them. You find it funny, so laughing must be appropriate, right?", ">\n\nWhy am I thinking about funny shit at a funeral.", ">\n\nBecause the universe likes to put us in uncomfortable positions sometimes.", ">\n\n“if its stupid or lame, you roll your eyes” - you found the disrespect", ">\n\nIm allowed to think whatever i want and its not disrespectful.", ">\n\nWhen you express contempt for something someone else said, it's disrespect.", ">\n\nWhat if what they said is contemptible?", ">\n\nSome people and comments deserve disrespect, still gonna be disrespect", ">\n\nLaughing, crying, and sneezing are all innate, involuntary reactions to certain types of stimuli. Rolling your eyes is a learned behavior. You can’t compare it to those other automatic responses because it’s not the same thing.", ">\n\nTake my upvote", ">\n\nOP rolled their eyes at someone and got chewed out for it.\nNow they're going online in an attempt to validate themselves.\n🙄", ">\n\nProbably got grounded.", ">\n\nPart of being a mature adult is to have self-control and not acting on every impulse and being respectful of people.", ">\n\n\nPart of being a mature adult\n\nYup but OP is clearly a teenager lol. They complain about being told off for doing chores wrong in another post…", ">\n\nEven a teenager should be able to have the fundamental basics of respect", ">\n\nOh I agree 100%", ">\n\nYou have poor self-control and poor self-awareness but the good news is that you can improve these things.", ">\n\n/r/wrongopinions", ">\n\nI feel like we need a new subreddit r/unpopularforareason", ">\n\nIt’s entire purpose is to be disrespectful. Nobody eyerolls something they respect. But how offensive it is depends on the context and how serious one is being.", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes\n\nYou rn: \"I'm not being disrespectful. I just thought what you said was stupid or lame.\"\n...", ">\n\nSaying its stupid could be disrespectful. A facial response is not.", ">\n\nLiterally every person in this thread agrees that it is.\nThis is your bad habit. Nobody else's responsibility but you.", ">\n\nThey can choose to not fly off the handle at what is just an innate reaction.", ">\n\nSo let me get this straight: you think you deserve to be able to disrespect whoever you like whenever you like but they can't as much as say you're being rude? Grow up.", ">\n\nFound the teenager.", ">\n\nMeh, I agree with that one. If you don't like how someone is doing something then do it yourself. There's a reason I live alone.", ">\n\nIt is a UNIVERSAL sign of disrespect. Globally. Deal with it.", ">\n\nLaughing can be disrespectuful too. If you cannot control your own reactions, well, what can I say, maybe you have not really grown up?", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s so it’s hard to control my own actions sometimes…", ">\n\nThank u I'm trying to explain how autism can make it hard to read not just others facial expressions but also ur own and it seems like no one has thought of the possibility that they acc don't realise it or csnt control it", ">\n\nWould you roll your eyes during a job interview if you thought a question was stupid or irrelevant? Do you think you’d get the job if you did?", ">\n\nPretty sure OP would think they were owed that job and they would think it’s ridiculous if they didn’t get it.\nOP is also a teenager going through their rebel phase though", ">\n\nYou're oddly specific here.", ">\n\nWhat was specific? Or rather oddly specific?", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a good way to fast track yourself to a divorce, if you want one.", ">\n\nI think OP needs the definition of respect before any further comment is made", ">\n\nOh I already know it, and I know it does not mean:\nDon't ever disagree with me\nDon't think bad thoughts about me\nDon't ever correct me when I'm blatantly wrong \nShine my boots with your tongue", ">\n\nSoooo this post isn’t about eye rolling is what I’m getting from this. You’ve got issues to work through with your parents or partner or something", ">\n\nSince when tf was eye rolling involuntary?", ">", ">\n\nYour lack of self control is not a justification for disrespect. I personally dont know anyone who reacts to anything by rolling their eyes. Just be mature and communicate.", ">\n\nAnd what if it's not stupid and someone rolls their eyes? Wouldn't it be disrespectful in that case?", ">\n\nIn the eye rollers opinion then it must have been. But you can't fault someone for thinking its stupid.", ">\n\nSo eyerolling is some kind of exceptional thing that is free from criticism? \nIf one has the freedom to eye roll, then someone else has the freedom to criticize the eye roller right? \nOr is it your opinion that besides that everyone who sees an eye roller has to just stfu", ">\n\nMeh, it is disrespectful. It's a way to be disrespectful without having to say That's the dumbest thing I've heard all month, and everyone else who heard it is also dumber for hearing it as well.", ">\n\nBut I didn't say it that's the point.", ">\n\nJust cuz you don’t use words doesn’t mean it’s not disrespectful. Walking away while someone is talking to you, rolling your eyes, slapping someone, and starting to play a game on your phone while someone is talking to you are all disrespectful. It doesn’t matter that you didn’t say anything, your lack of respect still showed.", ">\n\nespecially the way theyre responding to comments", ">\n\nYeah, a natural reaction if you’ve never learned to manage your emotions as opposed to letting them run your life. I’m not talking about being totally monotone rational, either. You need to learn a balance between rational and emotional…which includes healthy, appropriate, respectful expression of honest feelings. Eye rolling is absolutely disrespectful, belittling, and dismissive.", ">\n\nComments: OP is completely wrong and has attitude issues", ">\n\nWhat sounds like mental illness is you refusing to admit that rolling your eyes is simply not an unconditional response. Whether you want to believe it or not, you are doing it intentionally and you can control it. \nYou’re just to much of a b—— to do so.", ">\n\nSame to you", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a learned reaction. Not natural. I rarely of ever roll my eyes at anything.", ">", ">\n\nJust like raising your middle finger. Or vocalizing the sounds \"fuck you\". Or fingers typing the words fuck you OP. Nothing is disrespectful!", ">\n\nNice try but not the same thing at all. You're talking about thought out actions here. The eye roll is more like a reaction. Its quick, its automatic, no one has to think \"im rolling my eyes now\" it just happens. \nSort of like when telling a lie - no one decides to have their eyes dart around suspiciously, it just happens.", ">\n\nNo. Rolling your eyes is not involuntary. It can be controlled. You have a bad habit that you CAN stop. Much like a child learning not to suck their thumb, or biting your nails.", ">\n\nHow about you start with your hair scratching", ">\n\nYour opinion is a contradiction in itself. And, yeah. I disagree. Rolling your eyes is 100% to show lack of respect, and you have no intentions of showing it, even to reason, by rolling your eyes at something someone could believe is meaningful or important. Even if it is stupid.\nI get your point, we roll our eyes to express how we feel, but it is still a physical snare. You say rolling your eyes isn't disrespectful, while saying it's okay to roll your eyes because something is \" stupid or lame\", which in itself is disrespectful. You sound like a very young person in the middle of a learning moment, and you're trying to react with rebellion. It only shows that you lack maturity and are in need of growth. This might be a time for you to read these comments and reevaluate. There are healthier ways to react to things you disagree with, or lack interest in. If not, you can just accept that you roll your eyes to show lack of respect.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is much more deliberate than laughter, tears, or sneezing. It's a conscious action in response to a judgement you're making.", ">\n\nNah, dude it is disrespectful \nYou just have no self control and by the looks of it you don't want to build some", ">\n\nYour post made me roll my eyes very hard.", ">\n\n“No, officer, my wife - she MADE me hit her!”", ">\n\nIt's a natural reaction for a sooky kid but not an adult, if you do that as an adult you just manchild that wants everything their way", ">\n\npoor OP.... did you get in trouble after you rolled your eyes at something again? did you not prehaps learn from previous interactions? rolling your eyes at something \"stupid or lame\" is an intentional response that is disrespectful to whatever it is. mature people dont act that way.....", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes.\n\nSo it is disrespectful. \n\nIts like throwing pepper in someone's face an expecting them not to sneeze.\n\nNo it’s not. You can easily (edited in) refrain from rolling your eyes, while it’s much more difficult to refrain from sneezing. \nIt’s fine to think whatever you want, but you might want to refrain from rolling your eyes when you’re, say, interacting with your boss; aka someone that can make you unemployed for whatever reason they please.", ">\n\nThis isn't an opinion. It's just flat wrong. \nIt is disrespectful because it is a conscious signifier which clearly communicated that you think that the thing you are rolling your eyes at is not worthy of respect.", ">\n\nYou have to go out of your way to roll your eyes. It is NOT gutteral or instinctual", ">\n\nIf you annoy me, my arm whips out in a natural reaction and slaps you.", ">\n\nSorry, kiddo, it’s 100% disrespectful. Just own the shit and quit trying to lawyer around it.\nI say that after having rolled my eyes so hard at your post, I travelled back in time.", ">\n\nTell that to my family lol you get the belt", ">\n\nThis was made my a 15 year old who just got told off by their mom about rolling their eyes. Then in defense said, “I can’t control it”", ">\n\nMan it's getting so aggressive sometimes here 😂", ">\n\ni certainly hope you are embarrassed about this in a couple years when you grow up.", ">\n\nOP is a habitual eye roller 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄", ">\n\nI wish to God we could block people by age, no more edgy 13yo’s", ">\n\nSomebody just got their ps5 taken away for rolling their eyes", ">\n\nTell me you're 12 without telling me you're 12.", ">\n\nit’s the definition of disrespectful and a sign that you have literally nothing intelligent to say in return. \nwhich is why we outgrow it as adults.", ">\n\nYou can control it. It’s not an “automatic response” unless you’ve taught yourself to do it. I never roll my eyes. It’s just not something I have ever practiced doing. And yes…if I’m saying something too you and you dismiss it with an eye roll…it’s super disrespectful.", ">\n\nrolling your eyes is just as respectful as sticking your tongue out at someone or making a stupid face in reaction to something someone says", ">\n\nIf you can’t control your eye movement, you need to see a neurologist, dude 😆. As it stands, eye rolling isn’t a reflex or a “natural reaction” to anything. Habits aren’t the same as involuntary reactions.\nRolling your eyes at someone is disrespectful. It’s an outward sign that you think something about your interaction with them was stupid or wrong. There’s no one here that will agree with you, and you know that you’re in the vast minority with this opinion because you posted it on this sub. Now learn some humility and accept that your opinion is factually incorrect based on science.", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nAre you like 14 and your mom got you in trouble cause you rolled your eyes at her? Lmao", ">\n\nI’m gonna show your mom this and it’s going to be another week of being grounded, you little shit lol", ">\n\nOmfg 😂", ">\n\nOP I have to ask.\n\n\nHow old are you?\n\n\nHow is your relationship with your parents?\n\n\nHow do you view authority figures in your life?", ">\n\nrolls eyes", ">\n\nIf you say or demand something stupid from me I will probably roll my eyes.", ">\n\nBut it is", ">\n\nJust like rolling your eyes is an innate response, so are other people's responses to you rolling your eyes.", ">\n\nSometimes being respectful requires hiding your subjective opinion on whether something is stupid or lame.", ">\n\nI wouldn’t say eye rolling is as involuntary as laughing or crying tho. It’s more of a choice.", ">\n\nIf someone rolls their eyes then I feel disrespected it’s a natural reaction.", ">\n\ntell me you're a teenager without telling me you're a teenager", ">\n\nI'm rolling my eyes at this post. And I definitely mean it disrespectfully.", ">\n\nLmao this kid had an argument with his parent(s) or teacher and is venting on Reddit.", ">\n\nYou sound like an eye rolling arsehole", ">\n\ni have never had an as a nonvoulentary action, it requires very explicit movement of you eye. this is like saying “when i dont like people, i punch them in the head, thats my natural reaction i cant control it”\ni have never once legitimately rolled my eyes at something, i think you might be an asshole", ">\n\nMe smacking your face is also an innate uncontrollable response to you rolling your eyes. I'm only human. What can I do? 🙄", ">\n\nI disagree. also there are a billion other ways to express something being stupid or lame than rolling ur eyes", ">\n\nStop downvoting, this is ACTUALLY a very unpopular opinion and I love to see it tbh. Voice your disagreement in the comments but don't downvote the post. This post is hilarious.", ">\n\nThis is something you’ve learned to do. It’s entirely in your control if you do it or not.", ">\n\nI once got a detention for rolling my eyes at a teacher in 4th grade.\nI agree with you, though. The only other person I've ever really rolled my eyes at was my mother, and she deserved it, every single time.", ">\n\nI get your point. I absolutely purposefully roll my eyes sometimes and whoever I'm doing it to would be valid for getting mad. \nBut as someone who can't hide any emotion on their face (literally any, I'm the definition of an open book) there have been plenty of times where people blew up at me or laughed because I rolled my eyes when I didn't even realize I had done it. Feel like the people disagreeing with you haven't experienced this problem.", ">\n\nWhat you've done is cultivate a bad habit and then blamed it on everyone else when you repeat your own bad habit unintentionally.\nThis is entirely your fault.", ">\n\nOnly on Reddit would someone so boldly declare something like this to a stranger. I'm on the spectrum so that might have to do with my not being able to hide any emotion (I truly mean that, people can basically read my thoughts just by looking at me, good and bad). \nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave. Consider working on that.", ">\n\nSo they point out you’re cultivating a bad habit and blaming other people so you then, blame them? It’s a little spot on don’t you think?", ">\n\nWhen did i blame them for my own actions? Could you quote me? I was just pointing out how weird it was that they made such a strong assumption of my character off a causal comment I left when they themselves were ironically being unnecessarily rude in the process. \nI don't know how you got so lost?", ">\n\n\nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave.\n\nClassic deflection and implication that they’re the one with the problem, not you", ">\n\nFirst its not automatic. I almost never rolled my eyes. Its much easier to control than laughing crying or sneezing. So you just dont make the effort. Its actually a way to express your feeling. You should know that, its your personnality not a human instinctive reaction. \nAnd yes not respecting something is disrespectful. Its not that hard to understand. \nAnyway if i see you.. i dont know having a breakdown after being fired and dumped and start to laugh you'd like that ? \nIf im sad because something good happens to you and show it to you, you would like that ? \nHonestly you are just trying to justify being a bit of a jerk. \nI dont blame you or anything we all are jerks sometime but its what you are doing right now.", ">\n\nI have to refocus my eyes and most of the time blinking doesn’t cut it. I have a lazy eye and when I look at someone for a long time it unfocuses, so moving the muscle is the only way to reset it. If I don’t, people start moving their heads/ bodies trying to focus on my lazy eye. It gets awkward.", ">\n\nThis is where I go to my training as a kid. What others think of you is none of your business.", ">\n\nUnless you have a tick or something like Tourette’s syndrome, then it’s not an involuntary response. Part of living in a society and not being considered rude is managing your body language.\nLet me put it this way. “Rudeness” in itself is a social concept. That means it’s decided by the perception of the masses, what we generally agree upon in terms of our symbols of communication, our customs, our beliefs, our values, etc. For you to say that rolling your eyes isn’t disrespectful is not objectively wrong. But according to the society you live in, it is wrong. In layman’s terms, the hill you’re dying on here is completely arbitrary, neither side will ever be truly correct but as long as you live in a society which feels this way then you will be beholden to it anyways.", ">\n\nTo be fair, if your thinking its stupid or lame, then that is dis-respect. I'd agree with this if it was worded like 'More people need to say what they truly think', but I think you sort of missed the mark, OP." ]
> OP getting downvoted AF & keeps commenting. Gotta love it.	[ "🙄", ">\n\nYou’re grounded now", ">\n\nThe post above was someone getting electrocuted so this reply was very timely", ">\n\nThis news is shocking", ">\n\nIt definitely SPARKED my interest", ">\n\nAll of you guys need to leave, and not come back before learning how to conduct yourselves properly", ">\n\nUhhhh....... electricity", ">\n\nWell no, in the right context it is disrespectful. Rolling your eyes suggests that you're not taking the matter seriously or that you dont care which is a sign of disrespect towards whoever is speaking with you.", ">\n\nBut I can't control what I think. If I said \"man you're stupid and I don't care what you say\" thats disrespectful. I'm actually showing respect by not saying it.", ">\n\nI mean, actions speak louder than words, right?", ">\n\nIts not really an action tho its just an automatic response. Like gasping or yawning.", ">\n\nbullshit.\nSorry, it was an automatic response. Which is bullshit just like yours.", ">\n\nStill not the same thing. And they get on me for false analogies....", ">\n\nYou must be a teenager", ">\n\nLol how many times are you gonna post that. Dont you have an original thought of your own?", ">\n\nBruh I cant believe you make these posts. They're foolish", ">\n\nLaughing at someone can be disrespectful. Don't think so? Try laughing at someone's funeral.", ">\n\nThe disrespect comes from the one who told me a joke and made me laugh.", ">\n\nWhat about if no one said any joke? Because, you know, you are at a funeral.", ">\n\nSo someone's just there randomly laughing at shit? That sounds like a mental illness.", ">\n\nYou have never thought of something funny in your head to make yourself laugh? \nOr hell, maybe you didn't like the person who is buried and decided to laugh at them. You find it funny, so laughing must be appropriate, right?", ">\n\nWhy am I thinking about funny shit at a funeral.", ">\n\nBecause the universe likes to put us in uncomfortable positions sometimes.", ">\n\n“if its stupid or lame, you roll your eyes” - you found the disrespect", ">\n\nIm allowed to think whatever i want and its not disrespectful.", ">\n\nWhen you express contempt for something someone else said, it's disrespect.", ">\n\nWhat if what they said is contemptible?", ">\n\nSome people and comments deserve disrespect, still gonna be disrespect", ">\n\nLaughing, crying, and sneezing are all innate, involuntary reactions to certain types of stimuli. Rolling your eyes is a learned behavior. You can’t compare it to those other automatic responses because it’s not the same thing.", ">\n\nTake my upvote", ">\n\nOP rolled their eyes at someone and got chewed out for it.\nNow they're going online in an attempt to validate themselves.\n🙄", ">\n\nProbably got grounded.", ">\n\nPart of being a mature adult is to have self-control and not acting on every impulse and being respectful of people.", ">\n\n\nPart of being a mature adult\n\nYup but OP is clearly a teenager lol. They complain about being told off for doing chores wrong in another post…", ">\n\nEven a teenager should be able to have the fundamental basics of respect", ">\n\nOh I agree 100%", ">\n\nYou have poor self-control and poor self-awareness but the good news is that you can improve these things.", ">\n\n/r/wrongopinions", ">\n\nI feel like we need a new subreddit r/unpopularforareason", ">\n\nIt’s entire purpose is to be disrespectful. Nobody eyerolls something they respect. But how offensive it is depends on the context and how serious one is being.", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes\n\nYou rn: \"I'm not being disrespectful. I just thought what you said was stupid or lame.\"\n...", ">\n\nSaying its stupid could be disrespectful. A facial response is not.", ">\n\nLiterally every person in this thread agrees that it is.\nThis is your bad habit. Nobody else's responsibility but you.", ">\n\nThey can choose to not fly off the handle at what is just an innate reaction.", ">\n\nSo let me get this straight: you think you deserve to be able to disrespect whoever you like whenever you like but they can't as much as say you're being rude? Grow up.", ">\n\nFound the teenager.", ">\n\nMeh, I agree with that one. If you don't like how someone is doing something then do it yourself. There's a reason I live alone.", ">\n\nIt is a UNIVERSAL sign of disrespect. Globally. Deal with it.", ">\n\nLaughing can be disrespectuful too. If you cannot control your own reactions, well, what can I say, maybe you have not really grown up?", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s so it’s hard to control my own actions sometimes…", ">\n\nThank u I'm trying to explain how autism can make it hard to read not just others facial expressions but also ur own and it seems like no one has thought of the possibility that they acc don't realise it or csnt control it", ">\n\nWould you roll your eyes during a job interview if you thought a question was stupid or irrelevant? Do you think you’d get the job if you did?", ">\n\nPretty sure OP would think they were owed that job and they would think it’s ridiculous if they didn’t get it.\nOP is also a teenager going through their rebel phase though", ">\n\nYou're oddly specific here.", ">\n\nWhat was specific? Or rather oddly specific?", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a good way to fast track yourself to a divorce, if you want one.", ">\n\nI think OP needs the definition of respect before any further comment is made", ">\n\nOh I already know it, and I know it does not mean:\nDon't ever disagree with me\nDon't think bad thoughts about me\nDon't ever correct me when I'm blatantly wrong \nShine my boots with your tongue", ">\n\nSoooo this post isn’t about eye rolling is what I’m getting from this. You’ve got issues to work through with your parents or partner or something", ">\n\nSince when tf was eye rolling involuntary?", ">", ">\n\nYour lack of self control is not a justification for disrespect. I personally dont know anyone who reacts to anything by rolling their eyes. Just be mature and communicate.", ">\n\nAnd what if it's not stupid and someone rolls their eyes? Wouldn't it be disrespectful in that case?", ">\n\nIn the eye rollers opinion then it must have been. But you can't fault someone for thinking its stupid.", ">\n\nSo eyerolling is some kind of exceptional thing that is free from criticism? \nIf one has the freedom to eye roll, then someone else has the freedom to criticize the eye roller right? \nOr is it your opinion that besides that everyone who sees an eye roller has to just stfu", ">\n\nMeh, it is disrespectful. It's a way to be disrespectful without having to say That's the dumbest thing I've heard all month, and everyone else who heard it is also dumber for hearing it as well.", ">\n\nBut I didn't say it that's the point.", ">\n\nJust cuz you don’t use words doesn’t mean it’s not disrespectful. Walking away while someone is talking to you, rolling your eyes, slapping someone, and starting to play a game on your phone while someone is talking to you are all disrespectful. It doesn’t matter that you didn’t say anything, your lack of respect still showed.", ">\n\nespecially the way theyre responding to comments", ">\n\nYeah, a natural reaction if you’ve never learned to manage your emotions as opposed to letting them run your life. I’m not talking about being totally monotone rational, either. You need to learn a balance between rational and emotional…which includes healthy, appropriate, respectful expression of honest feelings. Eye rolling is absolutely disrespectful, belittling, and dismissive.", ">\n\nComments: OP is completely wrong and has attitude issues", ">\n\nWhat sounds like mental illness is you refusing to admit that rolling your eyes is simply not an unconditional response. Whether you want to believe it or not, you are doing it intentionally and you can control it. \nYou’re just to much of a b—— to do so.", ">\n\nSame to you", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a learned reaction. Not natural. I rarely of ever roll my eyes at anything.", ">", ">\n\nJust like raising your middle finger. Or vocalizing the sounds \"fuck you\". Or fingers typing the words fuck you OP. Nothing is disrespectful!", ">\n\nNice try but not the same thing at all. You're talking about thought out actions here. The eye roll is more like a reaction. Its quick, its automatic, no one has to think \"im rolling my eyes now\" it just happens. \nSort of like when telling a lie - no one decides to have their eyes dart around suspiciously, it just happens.", ">\n\nNo. Rolling your eyes is not involuntary. It can be controlled. You have a bad habit that you CAN stop. Much like a child learning not to suck their thumb, or biting your nails.", ">\n\nHow about you start with your hair scratching", ">\n\nYour opinion is a contradiction in itself. And, yeah. I disagree. Rolling your eyes is 100% to show lack of respect, and you have no intentions of showing it, even to reason, by rolling your eyes at something someone could believe is meaningful or important. Even if it is stupid.\nI get your point, we roll our eyes to express how we feel, but it is still a physical snare. You say rolling your eyes isn't disrespectful, while saying it's okay to roll your eyes because something is \" stupid or lame\", which in itself is disrespectful. You sound like a very young person in the middle of a learning moment, and you're trying to react with rebellion. It only shows that you lack maturity and are in need of growth. This might be a time for you to read these comments and reevaluate. There are healthier ways to react to things you disagree with, or lack interest in. If not, you can just accept that you roll your eyes to show lack of respect.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is much more deliberate than laughter, tears, or sneezing. It's a conscious action in response to a judgement you're making.", ">\n\nNah, dude it is disrespectful \nYou just have no self control and by the looks of it you don't want to build some", ">\n\nYour post made me roll my eyes very hard.", ">\n\n“No, officer, my wife - she MADE me hit her!”", ">\n\nIt's a natural reaction for a sooky kid but not an adult, if you do that as an adult you just manchild that wants everything their way", ">\n\npoor OP.... did you get in trouble after you rolled your eyes at something again? did you not prehaps learn from previous interactions? rolling your eyes at something \"stupid or lame\" is an intentional response that is disrespectful to whatever it is. mature people dont act that way.....", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes.\n\nSo it is disrespectful. \n\nIts like throwing pepper in someone's face an expecting them not to sneeze.\n\nNo it’s not. You can easily (edited in) refrain from rolling your eyes, while it’s much more difficult to refrain from sneezing. \nIt’s fine to think whatever you want, but you might want to refrain from rolling your eyes when you’re, say, interacting with your boss; aka someone that can make you unemployed for whatever reason they please.", ">\n\nThis isn't an opinion. It's just flat wrong. \nIt is disrespectful because it is a conscious signifier which clearly communicated that you think that the thing you are rolling your eyes at is not worthy of respect.", ">\n\nYou have to go out of your way to roll your eyes. It is NOT gutteral or instinctual", ">\n\nIf you annoy me, my arm whips out in a natural reaction and slaps you.", ">\n\nSorry, kiddo, it’s 100% disrespectful. Just own the shit and quit trying to lawyer around it.\nI say that after having rolled my eyes so hard at your post, I travelled back in time.", ">\n\nTell that to my family lol you get the belt", ">\n\nThis was made my a 15 year old who just got told off by their mom about rolling their eyes. Then in defense said, “I can’t control it”", ">\n\nMan it's getting so aggressive sometimes here 😂", ">\n\ni certainly hope you are embarrassed about this in a couple years when you grow up.", ">\n\nOP is a habitual eye roller 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄", ">\n\nI wish to God we could block people by age, no more edgy 13yo’s", ">\n\nSomebody just got their ps5 taken away for rolling their eyes", ">\n\nTell me you're 12 without telling me you're 12.", ">\n\nit’s the definition of disrespectful and a sign that you have literally nothing intelligent to say in return. \nwhich is why we outgrow it as adults.", ">\n\nYou can control it. It’s not an “automatic response” unless you’ve taught yourself to do it. I never roll my eyes. It’s just not something I have ever practiced doing. And yes…if I’m saying something too you and you dismiss it with an eye roll…it’s super disrespectful.", ">\n\nrolling your eyes is just as respectful as sticking your tongue out at someone or making a stupid face in reaction to something someone says", ">\n\nIf you can’t control your eye movement, you need to see a neurologist, dude 😆. As it stands, eye rolling isn’t a reflex or a “natural reaction” to anything. Habits aren’t the same as involuntary reactions.\nRolling your eyes at someone is disrespectful. It’s an outward sign that you think something about your interaction with them was stupid or wrong. There’s no one here that will agree with you, and you know that you’re in the vast minority with this opinion because you posted it on this sub. Now learn some humility and accept that your opinion is factually incorrect based on science.", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nAre you like 14 and your mom got you in trouble cause you rolled your eyes at her? Lmao", ">\n\nI’m gonna show your mom this and it’s going to be another week of being grounded, you little shit lol", ">\n\nOmfg 😂", ">\n\nOP I have to ask.\n\n\nHow old are you?\n\n\nHow is your relationship with your parents?\n\n\nHow do you view authority figures in your life?", ">\n\nrolls eyes", ">\n\nIf you say or demand something stupid from me I will probably roll my eyes.", ">\n\nBut it is", ">\n\nJust like rolling your eyes is an innate response, so are other people's responses to you rolling your eyes.", ">\n\nSometimes being respectful requires hiding your subjective opinion on whether something is stupid or lame.", ">\n\nI wouldn’t say eye rolling is as involuntary as laughing or crying tho. It’s more of a choice.", ">\n\nIf someone rolls their eyes then I feel disrespected it’s a natural reaction.", ">\n\ntell me you're a teenager without telling me you're a teenager", ">\n\nI'm rolling my eyes at this post. And I definitely mean it disrespectfully.", ">\n\nLmao this kid had an argument with his parent(s) or teacher and is venting on Reddit.", ">\n\nYou sound like an eye rolling arsehole", ">\n\ni have never had an as a nonvoulentary action, it requires very explicit movement of you eye. this is like saying “when i dont like people, i punch them in the head, thats my natural reaction i cant control it”\ni have never once legitimately rolled my eyes at something, i think you might be an asshole", ">\n\nMe smacking your face is also an innate uncontrollable response to you rolling your eyes. I'm only human. What can I do? 🙄", ">\n\nI disagree. also there are a billion other ways to express something being stupid or lame than rolling ur eyes", ">\n\nStop downvoting, this is ACTUALLY a very unpopular opinion and I love to see it tbh. Voice your disagreement in the comments but don't downvote the post. This post is hilarious.", ">\n\nThis is something you’ve learned to do. It’s entirely in your control if you do it or not.", ">\n\nI once got a detention for rolling my eyes at a teacher in 4th grade.\nI agree with you, though. The only other person I've ever really rolled my eyes at was my mother, and she deserved it, every single time.", ">\n\nI get your point. I absolutely purposefully roll my eyes sometimes and whoever I'm doing it to would be valid for getting mad. \nBut as someone who can't hide any emotion on their face (literally any, I'm the definition of an open book) there have been plenty of times where people blew up at me or laughed because I rolled my eyes when I didn't even realize I had done it. Feel like the people disagreeing with you haven't experienced this problem.", ">\n\nWhat you've done is cultivate a bad habit and then blamed it on everyone else when you repeat your own bad habit unintentionally.\nThis is entirely your fault.", ">\n\nOnly on Reddit would someone so boldly declare something like this to a stranger. I'm on the spectrum so that might have to do with my not being able to hide any emotion (I truly mean that, people can basically read my thoughts just by looking at me, good and bad). \nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave. Consider working on that.", ">\n\nSo they point out you’re cultivating a bad habit and blaming other people so you then, blame them? It’s a little spot on don’t you think?", ">\n\nWhen did i blame them for my own actions? Could you quote me? I was just pointing out how weird it was that they made such a strong assumption of my character off a causal comment I left when they themselves were ironically being unnecessarily rude in the process. \nI don't know how you got so lost?", ">\n\n\nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave.\n\nClassic deflection and implication that they’re the one with the problem, not you", ">\n\nFirst its not automatic. I almost never rolled my eyes. Its much easier to control than laughing crying or sneezing. So you just dont make the effort. Its actually a way to express your feeling. You should know that, its your personnality not a human instinctive reaction. \nAnd yes not respecting something is disrespectful. Its not that hard to understand. \nAnyway if i see you.. i dont know having a breakdown after being fired and dumped and start to laugh you'd like that ? \nIf im sad because something good happens to you and show it to you, you would like that ? \nHonestly you are just trying to justify being a bit of a jerk. \nI dont blame you or anything we all are jerks sometime but its what you are doing right now.", ">\n\nI have to refocus my eyes and most of the time blinking doesn’t cut it. I have a lazy eye and when I look at someone for a long time it unfocuses, so moving the muscle is the only way to reset it. If I don’t, people start moving their heads/ bodies trying to focus on my lazy eye. It gets awkward.", ">\n\nThis is where I go to my training as a kid. What others think of you is none of your business.", ">\n\nUnless you have a tick or something like Tourette’s syndrome, then it’s not an involuntary response. Part of living in a society and not being considered rude is managing your body language.\nLet me put it this way. “Rudeness” in itself is a social concept. That means it’s decided by the perception of the masses, what we generally agree upon in terms of our symbols of communication, our customs, our beliefs, our values, etc. For you to say that rolling your eyes isn’t disrespectful is not objectively wrong. But according to the society you live in, it is wrong. In layman’s terms, the hill you’re dying on here is completely arbitrary, neither side will ever be truly correct but as long as you live in a society which feels this way then you will be beholden to it anyways.", ">\n\nTo be fair, if your thinking its stupid or lame, then that is dis-respect. I'd agree with this if it was worded like 'More people need to say what they truly think', but I think you sort of missed the mark, OP.", ">\n\nI am equally annoyed when folks rapidly blink and look away mid conversation or drop their arm dead against their thigh. It’s like you’ve given up an effort to even keep your body vertical and engaged while I’m talking to you." ]
> It is shown as a sign of disrespect and it shows weakness. I can’t imagine Gandhi, the queen of England or Einstein roll their eyes in front of random people. The reason why they were respected is because they didn’t play any superiority game on front of… inferiors or ignorant people. If something is stupid, get the patience and find enough love within yourself to treat the other ones right. If you roll your eyes in front of a child because his question is “stupid”, what parent does it make you ? If you roll your eyes in front of a bad question because you are an expert in a subject, then it is not your modesty that speaks but your ego. For proof : Even if someone you hate said something intelligent, you might want to roll your eyes just to flatter your ego.	[ "🙄", ">\n\nYou’re grounded now", ">\n\nThe post above was someone getting electrocuted so this reply was very timely", ">\n\nThis news is shocking", ">\n\nIt definitely SPARKED my interest", ">\n\nAll of you guys need to leave, and not come back before learning how to conduct yourselves properly", ">\n\nUhhhh....... electricity", ">\n\nWell no, in the right context it is disrespectful. Rolling your eyes suggests that you're not taking the matter seriously or that you dont care which is a sign of disrespect towards whoever is speaking with you.", ">\n\nBut I can't control what I think. If I said \"man you're stupid and I don't care what you say\" thats disrespectful. I'm actually showing respect by not saying it.", ">\n\nI mean, actions speak louder than words, right?", ">\n\nIts not really an action tho its just an automatic response. Like gasping or yawning.", ">\n\nbullshit.\nSorry, it was an automatic response. Which is bullshit just like yours.", ">\n\nStill not the same thing. And they get on me for false analogies....", ">\n\nYou must be a teenager", ">\n\nLol how many times are you gonna post that. Dont you have an original thought of your own?", ">\n\nBruh I cant believe you make these posts. They're foolish", ">\n\nLaughing at someone can be disrespectful. Don't think so? Try laughing at someone's funeral.", ">\n\nThe disrespect comes from the one who told me a joke and made me laugh.", ">\n\nWhat about if no one said any joke? Because, you know, you are at a funeral.", ">\n\nSo someone's just there randomly laughing at shit? That sounds like a mental illness.", ">\n\nYou have never thought of something funny in your head to make yourself laugh? \nOr hell, maybe you didn't like the person who is buried and decided to laugh at them. You find it funny, so laughing must be appropriate, right?", ">\n\nWhy am I thinking about funny shit at a funeral.", ">\n\nBecause the universe likes to put us in uncomfortable positions sometimes.", ">\n\n“if its stupid or lame, you roll your eyes” - you found the disrespect", ">\n\nIm allowed to think whatever i want and its not disrespectful.", ">\n\nWhen you express contempt for something someone else said, it's disrespect.", ">\n\nWhat if what they said is contemptible?", ">\n\nSome people and comments deserve disrespect, still gonna be disrespect", ">\n\nLaughing, crying, and sneezing are all innate, involuntary reactions to certain types of stimuli. Rolling your eyes is a learned behavior. You can’t compare it to those other automatic responses because it’s not the same thing.", ">\n\nTake my upvote", ">\n\nOP rolled their eyes at someone and got chewed out for it.\nNow they're going online in an attempt to validate themselves.\n🙄", ">\n\nProbably got grounded.", ">\n\nPart of being a mature adult is to have self-control and not acting on every impulse and being respectful of people.", ">\n\n\nPart of being a mature adult\n\nYup but OP is clearly a teenager lol. They complain about being told off for doing chores wrong in another post…", ">\n\nEven a teenager should be able to have the fundamental basics of respect", ">\n\nOh I agree 100%", ">\n\nYou have poor self-control and poor self-awareness but the good news is that you can improve these things.", ">\n\n/r/wrongopinions", ">\n\nI feel like we need a new subreddit r/unpopularforareason", ">\n\nIt’s entire purpose is to be disrespectful. Nobody eyerolls something they respect. But how offensive it is depends on the context and how serious one is being.", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes\n\nYou rn: \"I'm not being disrespectful. I just thought what you said was stupid or lame.\"\n...", ">\n\nSaying its stupid could be disrespectful. A facial response is not.", ">\n\nLiterally every person in this thread agrees that it is.\nThis is your bad habit. Nobody else's responsibility but you.", ">\n\nThey can choose to not fly off the handle at what is just an innate reaction.", ">\n\nSo let me get this straight: you think you deserve to be able to disrespect whoever you like whenever you like but they can't as much as say you're being rude? Grow up.", ">\n\nFound the teenager.", ">\n\nMeh, I agree with that one. If you don't like how someone is doing something then do it yourself. There's a reason I live alone.", ">\n\nIt is a UNIVERSAL sign of disrespect. Globally. Deal with it.", ">\n\nLaughing can be disrespectuful too. If you cannot control your own reactions, well, what can I say, maybe you have not really grown up?", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s so it’s hard to control my own actions sometimes…", ">\n\nThank u I'm trying to explain how autism can make it hard to read not just others facial expressions but also ur own and it seems like no one has thought of the possibility that they acc don't realise it or csnt control it", ">\n\nWould you roll your eyes during a job interview if you thought a question was stupid or irrelevant? Do you think you’d get the job if you did?", ">\n\nPretty sure OP would think they were owed that job and they would think it’s ridiculous if they didn’t get it.\nOP is also a teenager going through their rebel phase though", ">\n\nYou're oddly specific here.", ">\n\nWhat was specific? Or rather oddly specific?", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a good way to fast track yourself to a divorce, if you want one.", ">\n\nI think OP needs the definition of respect before any further comment is made", ">\n\nOh I already know it, and I know it does not mean:\nDon't ever disagree with me\nDon't think bad thoughts about me\nDon't ever correct me when I'm blatantly wrong \nShine my boots with your tongue", ">\n\nSoooo this post isn’t about eye rolling is what I’m getting from this. You’ve got issues to work through with your parents or partner or something", ">\n\nSince when tf was eye rolling involuntary?", ">", ">\n\nYour lack of self control is not a justification for disrespect. I personally dont know anyone who reacts to anything by rolling their eyes. Just be mature and communicate.", ">\n\nAnd what if it's not stupid and someone rolls their eyes? Wouldn't it be disrespectful in that case?", ">\n\nIn the eye rollers opinion then it must have been. But you can't fault someone for thinking its stupid.", ">\n\nSo eyerolling is some kind of exceptional thing that is free from criticism? \nIf one has the freedom to eye roll, then someone else has the freedom to criticize the eye roller right? \nOr is it your opinion that besides that everyone who sees an eye roller has to just stfu", ">\n\nMeh, it is disrespectful. It's a way to be disrespectful without having to say That's the dumbest thing I've heard all month, and everyone else who heard it is also dumber for hearing it as well.", ">\n\nBut I didn't say it that's the point.", ">\n\nJust cuz you don’t use words doesn’t mean it’s not disrespectful. Walking away while someone is talking to you, rolling your eyes, slapping someone, and starting to play a game on your phone while someone is talking to you are all disrespectful. It doesn’t matter that you didn’t say anything, your lack of respect still showed.", ">\n\nespecially the way theyre responding to comments", ">\n\nYeah, a natural reaction if you’ve never learned to manage your emotions as opposed to letting them run your life. I’m not talking about being totally monotone rational, either. You need to learn a balance between rational and emotional…which includes healthy, appropriate, respectful expression of honest feelings. Eye rolling is absolutely disrespectful, belittling, and dismissive.", ">\n\nComments: OP is completely wrong and has attitude issues", ">\n\nWhat sounds like mental illness is you refusing to admit that rolling your eyes is simply not an unconditional response. Whether you want to believe it or not, you are doing it intentionally and you can control it. \nYou’re just to much of a b—— to do so.", ">\n\nSame to you", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a learned reaction. Not natural. I rarely of ever roll my eyes at anything.", ">", ">\n\nJust like raising your middle finger. Or vocalizing the sounds \"fuck you\". Or fingers typing the words fuck you OP. Nothing is disrespectful!", ">\n\nNice try but not the same thing at all. You're talking about thought out actions here. The eye roll is more like a reaction. Its quick, its automatic, no one has to think \"im rolling my eyes now\" it just happens. \nSort of like when telling a lie - no one decides to have their eyes dart around suspiciously, it just happens.", ">\n\nNo. Rolling your eyes is not involuntary. It can be controlled. You have a bad habit that you CAN stop. Much like a child learning not to suck their thumb, or biting your nails.", ">\n\nHow about you start with your hair scratching", ">\n\nYour opinion is a contradiction in itself. And, yeah. I disagree. Rolling your eyes is 100% to show lack of respect, and you have no intentions of showing it, even to reason, by rolling your eyes at something someone could believe is meaningful or important. Even if it is stupid.\nI get your point, we roll our eyes to express how we feel, but it is still a physical snare. You say rolling your eyes isn't disrespectful, while saying it's okay to roll your eyes because something is \" stupid or lame\", which in itself is disrespectful. You sound like a very young person in the middle of a learning moment, and you're trying to react with rebellion. It only shows that you lack maturity and are in need of growth. This might be a time for you to read these comments and reevaluate. There are healthier ways to react to things you disagree with, or lack interest in. If not, you can just accept that you roll your eyes to show lack of respect.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is much more deliberate than laughter, tears, or sneezing. It's a conscious action in response to a judgement you're making.", ">\n\nNah, dude it is disrespectful \nYou just have no self control and by the looks of it you don't want to build some", ">\n\nYour post made me roll my eyes very hard.", ">\n\n“No, officer, my wife - she MADE me hit her!”", ">\n\nIt's a natural reaction for a sooky kid but not an adult, if you do that as an adult you just manchild that wants everything their way", ">\n\npoor OP.... did you get in trouble after you rolled your eyes at something again? did you not prehaps learn from previous interactions? rolling your eyes at something \"stupid or lame\" is an intentional response that is disrespectful to whatever it is. mature people dont act that way.....", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes.\n\nSo it is disrespectful. \n\nIts like throwing pepper in someone's face an expecting them not to sneeze.\n\nNo it’s not. You can easily (edited in) refrain from rolling your eyes, while it’s much more difficult to refrain from sneezing. \nIt’s fine to think whatever you want, but you might want to refrain from rolling your eyes when you’re, say, interacting with your boss; aka someone that can make you unemployed for whatever reason they please.", ">\n\nThis isn't an opinion. It's just flat wrong. \nIt is disrespectful because it is a conscious signifier which clearly communicated that you think that the thing you are rolling your eyes at is not worthy of respect.", ">\n\nYou have to go out of your way to roll your eyes. It is NOT gutteral or instinctual", ">\n\nIf you annoy me, my arm whips out in a natural reaction and slaps you.", ">\n\nSorry, kiddo, it’s 100% disrespectful. Just own the shit and quit trying to lawyer around it.\nI say that after having rolled my eyes so hard at your post, I travelled back in time.", ">\n\nTell that to my family lol you get the belt", ">\n\nThis was made my a 15 year old who just got told off by their mom about rolling their eyes. Then in defense said, “I can’t control it”", ">\n\nMan it's getting so aggressive sometimes here 😂", ">\n\ni certainly hope you are embarrassed about this in a couple years when you grow up.", ">\n\nOP is a habitual eye roller 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄", ">\n\nI wish to God we could block people by age, no more edgy 13yo’s", ">\n\nSomebody just got their ps5 taken away for rolling their eyes", ">\n\nTell me you're 12 without telling me you're 12.", ">\n\nit’s the definition of disrespectful and a sign that you have literally nothing intelligent to say in return. \nwhich is why we outgrow it as adults.", ">\n\nYou can control it. It’s not an “automatic response” unless you’ve taught yourself to do it. I never roll my eyes. It’s just not something I have ever practiced doing. And yes…if I’m saying something too you and you dismiss it with an eye roll…it’s super disrespectful.", ">\n\nrolling your eyes is just as respectful as sticking your tongue out at someone or making a stupid face in reaction to something someone says", ">\n\nIf you can’t control your eye movement, you need to see a neurologist, dude 😆. As it stands, eye rolling isn’t a reflex or a “natural reaction” to anything. Habits aren’t the same as involuntary reactions.\nRolling your eyes at someone is disrespectful. It’s an outward sign that you think something about your interaction with them was stupid or wrong. There’s no one here that will agree with you, and you know that you’re in the vast minority with this opinion because you posted it on this sub. Now learn some humility and accept that your opinion is factually incorrect based on science.", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nAre you like 14 and your mom got you in trouble cause you rolled your eyes at her? Lmao", ">\n\nI’m gonna show your mom this and it’s going to be another week of being grounded, you little shit lol", ">\n\nOmfg 😂", ">\n\nOP I have to ask.\n\n\nHow old are you?\n\n\nHow is your relationship with your parents?\n\n\nHow do you view authority figures in your life?", ">\n\nrolls eyes", ">\n\nIf you say or demand something stupid from me I will probably roll my eyes.", ">\n\nBut it is", ">\n\nJust like rolling your eyes is an innate response, so are other people's responses to you rolling your eyes.", ">\n\nSometimes being respectful requires hiding your subjective opinion on whether something is stupid or lame.", ">\n\nI wouldn’t say eye rolling is as involuntary as laughing or crying tho. It’s more of a choice.", ">\n\nIf someone rolls their eyes then I feel disrespected it’s a natural reaction.", ">\n\ntell me you're a teenager without telling me you're a teenager", ">\n\nI'm rolling my eyes at this post. And I definitely mean it disrespectfully.", ">\n\nLmao this kid had an argument with his parent(s) or teacher and is venting on Reddit.", ">\n\nYou sound like an eye rolling arsehole", ">\n\ni have never had an as a nonvoulentary action, it requires very explicit movement of you eye. this is like saying “when i dont like people, i punch them in the head, thats my natural reaction i cant control it”\ni have never once legitimately rolled my eyes at something, i think you might be an asshole", ">\n\nMe smacking your face is also an innate uncontrollable response to you rolling your eyes. I'm only human. What can I do? 🙄", ">\n\nI disagree. also there are a billion other ways to express something being stupid or lame than rolling ur eyes", ">\n\nStop downvoting, this is ACTUALLY a very unpopular opinion and I love to see it tbh. Voice your disagreement in the comments but don't downvote the post. This post is hilarious.", ">\n\nThis is something you’ve learned to do. It’s entirely in your control if you do it or not.", ">\n\nI once got a detention for rolling my eyes at a teacher in 4th grade.\nI agree with you, though. The only other person I've ever really rolled my eyes at was my mother, and she deserved it, every single time.", ">\n\nI get your point. I absolutely purposefully roll my eyes sometimes and whoever I'm doing it to would be valid for getting mad. \nBut as someone who can't hide any emotion on their face (literally any, I'm the definition of an open book) there have been plenty of times where people blew up at me or laughed because I rolled my eyes when I didn't even realize I had done it. Feel like the people disagreeing with you haven't experienced this problem.", ">\n\nWhat you've done is cultivate a bad habit and then blamed it on everyone else when you repeat your own bad habit unintentionally.\nThis is entirely your fault.", ">\n\nOnly on Reddit would someone so boldly declare something like this to a stranger. I'm on the spectrum so that might have to do with my not being able to hide any emotion (I truly mean that, people can basically read my thoughts just by looking at me, good and bad). \nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave. Consider working on that.", ">\n\nSo they point out you’re cultivating a bad habit and blaming other people so you then, blame them? It’s a little spot on don’t you think?", ">\n\nWhen did i blame them for my own actions? Could you quote me? I was just pointing out how weird it was that they made such a strong assumption of my character off a causal comment I left when they themselves were ironically being unnecessarily rude in the process. \nI don't know how you got so lost?", ">\n\n\nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave.\n\nClassic deflection and implication that they’re the one with the problem, not you", ">\n\nFirst its not automatic. I almost never rolled my eyes. Its much easier to control than laughing crying or sneezing. So you just dont make the effort. Its actually a way to express your feeling. You should know that, its your personnality not a human instinctive reaction. \nAnd yes not respecting something is disrespectful. Its not that hard to understand. \nAnyway if i see you.. i dont know having a breakdown after being fired and dumped and start to laugh you'd like that ? \nIf im sad because something good happens to you and show it to you, you would like that ? \nHonestly you are just trying to justify being a bit of a jerk. \nI dont blame you or anything we all are jerks sometime but its what you are doing right now.", ">\n\nI have to refocus my eyes and most of the time blinking doesn’t cut it. I have a lazy eye and when I look at someone for a long time it unfocuses, so moving the muscle is the only way to reset it. If I don’t, people start moving their heads/ bodies trying to focus on my lazy eye. It gets awkward.", ">\n\nThis is where I go to my training as a kid. What others think of you is none of your business.", ">\n\nUnless you have a tick or something like Tourette’s syndrome, then it’s not an involuntary response. Part of living in a society and not being considered rude is managing your body language.\nLet me put it this way. “Rudeness” in itself is a social concept. That means it’s decided by the perception of the masses, what we generally agree upon in terms of our symbols of communication, our customs, our beliefs, our values, etc. For you to say that rolling your eyes isn’t disrespectful is not objectively wrong. But according to the society you live in, it is wrong. In layman’s terms, the hill you’re dying on here is completely arbitrary, neither side will ever be truly correct but as long as you live in a society which feels this way then you will be beholden to it anyways.", ">\n\nTo be fair, if your thinking its stupid or lame, then that is dis-respect. I'd agree with this if it was worded like 'More people need to say what they truly think', but I think you sort of missed the mark, OP.", ">\n\nI am equally annoyed when folks rapidly blink and look away mid conversation or drop their arm dead against their thigh. It’s like you’ve given up an effort to even keep your body vertical and engaged while I’m talking to you.", ">\n\nOP getting downvoted AF & keeps commenting. Gotta love it." ]
> It's seen as disrespectful BECAUSE it's inadvertently telling them you think they're irritating/annoying.	[ "🙄", ">\n\nYou’re grounded now", ">\n\nThe post above was someone getting electrocuted so this reply was very timely", ">\n\nThis news is shocking", ">\n\nIt definitely SPARKED my interest", ">\n\nAll of you guys need to leave, and not come back before learning how to conduct yourselves properly", ">\n\nUhhhh....... electricity", ">\n\nWell no, in the right context it is disrespectful. Rolling your eyes suggests that you're not taking the matter seriously or that you dont care which is a sign of disrespect towards whoever is speaking with you.", ">\n\nBut I can't control what I think. If I said \"man you're stupid and I don't care what you say\" thats disrespectful. I'm actually showing respect by not saying it.", ">\n\nI mean, actions speak louder than words, right?", ">\n\nIts not really an action tho its just an automatic response. Like gasping or yawning.", ">\n\nbullshit.\nSorry, it was an automatic response. Which is bullshit just like yours.", ">\n\nStill not the same thing. And they get on me for false analogies....", ">\n\nYou must be a teenager", ">\n\nLol how many times are you gonna post that. Dont you have an original thought of your own?", ">\n\nBruh I cant believe you make these posts. They're foolish", ">\n\nLaughing at someone can be disrespectful. Don't think so? Try laughing at someone's funeral.", ">\n\nThe disrespect comes from the one who told me a joke and made me laugh.", ">\n\nWhat about if no one said any joke? Because, you know, you are at a funeral.", ">\n\nSo someone's just there randomly laughing at shit? That sounds like a mental illness.", ">\n\nYou have never thought of something funny in your head to make yourself laugh? \nOr hell, maybe you didn't like the person who is buried and decided to laugh at them. You find it funny, so laughing must be appropriate, right?", ">\n\nWhy am I thinking about funny shit at a funeral.", ">\n\nBecause the universe likes to put us in uncomfortable positions sometimes.", ">\n\n“if its stupid or lame, you roll your eyes” - you found the disrespect", ">\n\nIm allowed to think whatever i want and its not disrespectful.", ">\n\nWhen you express contempt for something someone else said, it's disrespect.", ">\n\nWhat if what they said is contemptible?", ">\n\nSome people and comments deserve disrespect, still gonna be disrespect", ">\n\nLaughing, crying, and sneezing are all innate, involuntary reactions to certain types of stimuli. Rolling your eyes is a learned behavior. You can’t compare it to those other automatic responses because it’s not the same thing.", ">\n\nTake my upvote", ">\n\nOP rolled their eyes at someone and got chewed out for it.\nNow they're going online in an attempt to validate themselves.\n🙄", ">\n\nProbably got grounded.", ">\n\nPart of being a mature adult is to have self-control and not acting on every impulse and being respectful of people.", ">\n\n\nPart of being a mature adult\n\nYup but OP is clearly a teenager lol. They complain about being told off for doing chores wrong in another post…", ">\n\nEven a teenager should be able to have the fundamental basics of respect", ">\n\nOh I agree 100%", ">\n\nYou have poor self-control and poor self-awareness but the good news is that you can improve these things.", ">\n\n/r/wrongopinions", ">\n\nI feel like we need a new subreddit r/unpopularforareason", ">\n\nIt’s entire purpose is to be disrespectful. Nobody eyerolls something they respect. But how offensive it is depends on the context and how serious one is being.", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes\n\nYou rn: \"I'm not being disrespectful. I just thought what you said was stupid or lame.\"\n...", ">\n\nSaying its stupid could be disrespectful. A facial response is not.", ">\n\nLiterally every person in this thread agrees that it is.\nThis is your bad habit. Nobody else's responsibility but you.", ">\n\nThey can choose to not fly off the handle at what is just an innate reaction.", ">\n\nSo let me get this straight: you think you deserve to be able to disrespect whoever you like whenever you like but they can't as much as say you're being rude? Grow up.", ">\n\nFound the teenager.", ">\n\nMeh, I agree with that one. If you don't like how someone is doing something then do it yourself. There's a reason I live alone.", ">\n\nIt is a UNIVERSAL sign of disrespect. Globally. Deal with it.", ">\n\nLaughing can be disrespectuful too. If you cannot control your own reactions, well, what can I say, maybe you have not really grown up?", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s so it’s hard to control my own actions sometimes…", ">\n\nThank u I'm trying to explain how autism can make it hard to read not just others facial expressions but also ur own and it seems like no one has thought of the possibility that they acc don't realise it or csnt control it", ">\n\nWould you roll your eyes during a job interview if you thought a question was stupid or irrelevant? Do you think you’d get the job if you did?", ">\n\nPretty sure OP would think they were owed that job and they would think it’s ridiculous if they didn’t get it.\nOP is also a teenager going through their rebel phase though", ">\n\nYou're oddly specific here.", ">\n\nWhat was specific? Or rather oddly specific?", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a good way to fast track yourself to a divorce, if you want one.", ">\n\nI think OP needs the definition of respect before any further comment is made", ">\n\nOh I already know it, and I know it does not mean:\nDon't ever disagree with me\nDon't think bad thoughts about me\nDon't ever correct me when I'm blatantly wrong \nShine my boots with your tongue", ">\n\nSoooo this post isn’t about eye rolling is what I’m getting from this. You’ve got issues to work through with your parents or partner or something", ">\n\nSince when tf was eye rolling involuntary?", ">", ">\n\nYour lack of self control is not a justification for disrespect. I personally dont know anyone who reacts to anything by rolling their eyes. Just be mature and communicate.", ">\n\nAnd what if it's not stupid and someone rolls their eyes? Wouldn't it be disrespectful in that case?", ">\n\nIn the eye rollers opinion then it must have been. But you can't fault someone for thinking its stupid.", ">\n\nSo eyerolling is some kind of exceptional thing that is free from criticism? \nIf one has the freedom to eye roll, then someone else has the freedom to criticize the eye roller right? \nOr is it your opinion that besides that everyone who sees an eye roller has to just stfu", ">\n\nMeh, it is disrespectful. It's a way to be disrespectful without having to say That's the dumbest thing I've heard all month, and everyone else who heard it is also dumber for hearing it as well.", ">\n\nBut I didn't say it that's the point.", ">\n\nJust cuz you don’t use words doesn’t mean it’s not disrespectful. Walking away while someone is talking to you, rolling your eyes, slapping someone, and starting to play a game on your phone while someone is talking to you are all disrespectful. It doesn’t matter that you didn’t say anything, your lack of respect still showed.", ">\n\nespecially the way theyre responding to comments", ">\n\nYeah, a natural reaction if you’ve never learned to manage your emotions as opposed to letting them run your life. I’m not talking about being totally monotone rational, either. You need to learn a balance between rational and emotional…which includes healthy, appropriate, respectful expression of honest feelings. Eye rolling is absolutely disrespectful, belittling, and dismissive.", ">\n\nComments: OP is completely wrong and has attitude issues", ">\n\nWhat sounds like mental illness is you refusing to admit that rolling your eyes is simply not an unconditional response. Whether you want to believe it or not, you are doing it intentionally and you can control it. \nYou’re just to much of a b—— to do so.", ">\n\nSame to you", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a learned reaction. Not natural. I rarely of ever roll my eyes at anything.", ">", ">\n\nJust like raising your middle finger. Or vocalizing the sounds \"fuck you\". Or fingers typing the words fuck you OP. Nothing is disrespectful!", ">\n\nNice try but not the same thing at all. You're talking about thought out actions here. The eye roll is more like a reaction. Its quick, its automatic, no one has to think \"im rolling my eyes now\" it just happens. \nSort of like when telling a lie - no one decides to have their eyes dart around suspiciously, it just happens.", ">\n\nNo. Rolling your eyes is not involuntary. It can be controlled. You have a bad habit that you CAN stop. Much like a child learning not to suck their thumb, or biting your nails.", ">\n\nHow about you start with your hair scratching", ">\n\nYour opinion is a contradiction in itself. And, yeah. I disagree. Rolling your eyes is 100% to show lack of respect, and you have no intentions of showing it, even to reason, by rolling your eyes at something someone could believe is meaningful or important. Even if it is stupid.\nI get your point, we roll our eyes to express how we feel, but it is still a physical snare. You say rolling your eyes isn't disrespectful, while saying it's okay to roll your eyes because something is \" stupid or lame\", which in itself is disrespectful. You sound like a very young person in the middle of a learning moment, and you're trying to react with rebellion. It only shows that you lack maturity and are in need of growth. This might be a time for you to read these comments and reevaluate. There are healthier ways to react to things you disagree with, or lack interest in. If not, you can just accept that you roll your eyes to show lack of respect.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is much more deliberate than laughter, tears, or sneezing. It's a conscious action in response to a judgement you're making.", ">\n\nNah, dude it is disrespectful \nYou just have no self control and by the looks of it you don't want to build some", ">\n\nYour post made me roll my eyes very hard.", ">\n\n“No, officer, my wife - she MADE me hit her!”", ">\n\nIt's a natural reaction for a sooky kid but not an adult, if you do that as an adult you just manchild that wants everything their way", ">\n\npoor OP.... did you get in trouble after you rolled your eyes at something again? did you not prehaps learn from previous interactions? rolling your eyes at something \"stupid or lame\" is an intentional response that is disrespectful to whatever it is. mature people dont act that way.....", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes.\n\nSo it is disrespectful. \n\nIts like throwing pepper in someone's face an expecting them not to sneeze.\n\nNo it’s not. You can easily (edited in) refrain from rolling your eyes, while it’s much more difficult to refrain from sneezing. \nIt’s fine to think whatever you want, but you might want to refrain from rolling your eyes when you’re, say, interacting with your boss; aka someone that can make you unemployed for whatever reason they please.", ">\n\nThis isn't an opinion. It's just flat wrong. \nIt is disrespectful because it is a conscious signifier which clearly communicated that you think that the thing you are rolling your eyes at is not worthy of respect.", ">\n\nYou have to go out of your way to roll your eyes. It is NOT gutteral or instinctual", ">\n\nIf you annoy me, my arm whips out in a natural reaction and slaps you.", ">\n\nSorry, kiddo, it’s 100% disrespectful. Just own the shit and quit trying to lawyer around it.\nI say that after having rolled my eyes so hard at your post, I travelled back in time.", ">\n\nTell that to my family lol you get the belt", ">\n\nThis was made my a 15 year old who just got told off by their mom about rolling their eyes. Then in defense said, “I can’t control it”", ">\n\nMan it's getting so aggressive sometimes here 😂", ">\n\ni certainly hope you are embarrassed about this in a couple years when you grow up.", ">\n\nOP is a habitual eye roller 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄", ">\n\nI wish to God we could block people by age, no more edgy 13yo’s", ">\n\nSomebody just got their ps5 taken away for rolling their eyes", ">\n\nTell me you're 12 without telling me you're 12.", ">\n\nit’s the definition of disrespectful and a sign that you have literally nothing intelligent to say in return. \nwhich is why we outgrow it as adults.", ">\n\nYou can control it. It’s not an “automatic response” unless you’ve taught yourself to do it. I never roll my eyes. It’s just not something I have ever practiced doing. And yes…if I’m saying something too you and you dismiss it with an eye roll…it’s super disrespectful.", ">\n\nrolling your eyes is just as respectful as sticking your tongue out at someone or making a stupid face in reaction to something someone says", ">\n\nIf you can’t control your eye movement, you need to see a neurologist, dude 😆. As it stands, eye rolling isn’t a reflex or a “natural reaction” to anything. Habits aren’t the same as involuntary reactions.\nRolling your eyes at someone is disrespectful. It’s an outward sign that you think something about your interaction with them was stupid or wrong. There’s no one here that will agree with you, and you know that you’re in the vast minority with this opinion because you posted it on this sub. Now learn some humility and accept that your opinion is factually incorrect based on science.", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nAre you like 14 and your mom got you in trouble cause you rolled your eyes at her? Lmao", ">\n\nI’m gonna show your mom this and it’s going to be another week of being grounded, you little shit lol", ">\n\nOmfg 😂", ">\n\nOP I have to ask.\n\n\nHow old are you?\n\n\nHow is your relationship with your parents?\n\n\nHow do you view authority figures in your life?", ">\n\nrolls eyes", ">\n\nIf you say or demand something stupid from me I will probably roll my eyes.", ">\n\nBut it is", ">\n\nJust like rolling your eyes is an innate response, so are other people's responses to you rolling your eyes.", ">\n\nSometimes being respectful requires hiding your subjective opinion on whether something is stupid or lame.", ">\n\nI wouldn’t say eye rolling is as involuntary as laughing or crying tho. It’s more of a choice.", ">\n\nIf someone rolls their eyes then I feel disrespected it’s a natural reaction.", ">\n\ntell me you're a teenager without telling me you're a teenager", ">\n\nI'm rolling my eyes at this post. And I definitely mean it disrespectfully.", ">\n\nLmao this kid had an argument with his parent(s) or teacher and is venting on Reddit.", ">\n\nYou sound like an eye rolling arsehole", ">\n\ni have never had an as a nonvoulentary action, it requires very explicit movement of you eye. this is like saying “when i dont like people, i punch them in the head, thats my natural reaction i cant control it”\ni have never once legitimately rolled my eyes at something, i think you might be an asshole", ">\n\nMe smacking your face is also an innate uncontrollable response to you rolling your eyes. I'm only human. What can I do? 🙄", ">\n\nI disagree. also there are a billion other ways to express something being stupid or lame than rolling ur eyes", ">\n\nStop downvoting, this is ACTUALLY a very unpopular opinion and I love to see it tbh. Voice your disagreement in the comments but don't downvote the post. This post is hilarious.", ">\n\nThis is something you’ve learned to do. It’s entirely in your control if you do it or not.", ">\n\nI once got a detention for rolling my eyes at a teacher in 4th grade.\nI agree with you, though. The only other person I've ever really rolled my eyes at was my mother, and she deserved it, every single time.", ">\n\nI get your point. I absolutely purposefully roll my eyes sometimes and whoever I'm doing it to would be valid for getting mad. \nBut as someone who can't hide any emotion on their face (literally any, I'm the definition of an open book) there have been plenty of times where people blew up at me or laughed because I rolled my eyes when I didn't even realize I had done it. Feel like the people disagreeing with you haven't experienced this problem.", ">\n\nWhat you've done is cultivate a bad habit and then blamed it on everyone else when you repeat your own bad habit unintentionally.\nThis is entirely your fault.", ">\n\nOnly on Reddit would someone so boldly declare something like this to a stranger. I'm on the spectrum so that might have to do with my not being able to hide any emotion (I truly mean that, people can basically read my thoughts just by looking at me, good and bad). \nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave. Consider working on that.", ">\n\nSo they point out you’re cultivating a bad habit and blaming other people so you then, blame them? It’s a little spot on don’t you think?", ">\n\nWhen did i blame them for my own actions? Could you quote me? I was just pointing out how weird it was that they made such a strong assumption of my character off a causal comment I left when they themselves were ironically being unnecessarily rude in the process. \nI don't know how you got so lost?", ">\n\n\nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave.\n\nClassic deflection and implication that they’re the one with the problem, not you", ">\n\nFirst its not automatic. I almost never rolled my eyes. Its much easier to control than laughing crying or sneezing. So you just dont make the effort. Its actually a way to express your feeling. You should know that, its your personnality not a human instinctive reaction. \nAnd yes not respecting something is disrespectful. Its not that hard to understand. \nAnyway if i see you.. i dont know having a breakdown after being fired and dumped and start to laugh you'd like that ? \nIf im sad because something good happens to you and show it to you, you would like that ? \nHonestly you are just trying to justify being a bit of a jerk. \nI dont blame you or anything we all are jerks sometime but its what you are doing right now.", ">\n\nI have to refocus my eyes and most of the time blinking doesn’t cut it. I have a lazy eye and when I look at someone for a long time it unfocuses, so moving the muscle is the only way to reset it. If I don’t, people start moving their heads/ bodies trying to focus on my lazy eye. It gets awkward.", ">\n\nThis is where I go to my training as a kid. What others think of you is none of your business.", ">\n\nUnless you have a tick or something like Tourette’s syndrome, then it’s not an involuntary response. Part of living in a society and not being considered rude is managing your body language.\nLet me put it this way. “Rudeness” in itself is a social concept. That means it’s decided by the perception of the masses, what we generally agree upon in terms of our symbols of communication, our customs, our beliefs, our values, etc. For you to say that rolling your eyes isn’t disrespectful is not objectively wrong. But according to the society you live in, it is wrong. In layman’s terms, the hill you’re dying on here is completely arbitrary, neither side will ever be truly correct but as long as you live in a society which feels this way then you will be beholden to it anyways.", ">\n\nTo be fair, if your thinking its stupid or lame, then that is dis-respect. I'd agree with this if it was worded like 'More people need to say what they truly think', but I think you sort of missed the mark, OP.", ">\n\nI am equally annoyed when folks rapidly blink and look away mid conversation or drop their arm dead against their thigh. It’s like you’ve given up an effort to even keep your body vertical and engaged while I’m talking to you.", ">\n\nOP getting downvoted AF & keeps commenting. Gotta love it.", ">\n\nIt is shown as a sign of disrespect and it shows weakness. I can’t imagine Gandhi, the queen of England or Einstein roll their eyes in front of random people. The reason why they were respected is because they didn’t play any superiority game on front of… inferiors or ignorant people. If something is stupid, get the patience and find enough love within yourself to treat the other ones right. \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a child because his question is “stupid”, what parent does it make you ? \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a bad question because you are an expert in a subject, then it is not your modesty that speaks but your ego. For proof : Even if someone you hate said something intelligent, you might want to roll your eyes just to flatter your ego." ]
> I never roll my eyes? Is that something people do naturally?	[ "🙄", ">\n\nYou’re grounded now", ">\n\nThe post above was someone getting electrocuted so this reply was very timely", ">\n\nThis news is shocking", ">\n\nIt definitely SPARKED my interest", ">\n\nAll of you guys need to leave, and not come back before learning how to conduct yourselves properly", ">\n\nUhhhh....... electricity", ">\n\nWell no, in the right context it is disrespectful. Rolling your eyes suggests that you're not taking the matter seriously or that you dont care which is a sign of disrespect towards whoever is speaking with you.", ">\n\nBut I can't control what I think. If I said \"man you're stupid and I don't care what you say\" thats disrespectful. I'm actually showing respect by not saying it.", ">\n\nI mean, actions speak louder than words, right?", ">\n\nIts not really an action tho its just an automatic response. Like gasping or yawning.", ">\n\nbullshit.\nSorry, it was an automatic response. Which is bullshit just like yours.", ">\n\nStill not the same thing. And they get on me for false analogies....", ">\n\nYou must be a teenager", ">\n\nLol how many times are you gonna post that. Dont you have an original thought of your own?", ">\n\nBruh I cant believe you make these posts. They're foolish", ">\n\nLaughing at someone can be disrespectful. Don't think so? Try laughing at someone's funeral.", ">\n\nThe disrespect comes from the one who told me a joke and made me laugh.", ">\n\nWhat about if no one said any joke? Because, you know, you are at a funeral.", ">\n\nSo someone's just there randomly laughing at shit? That sounds like a mental illness.", ">\n\nYou have never thought of something funny in your head to make yourself laugh? \nOr hell, maybe you didn't like the person who is buried and decided to laugh at them. You find it funny, so laughing must be appropriate, right?", ">\n\nWhy am I thinking about funny shit at a funeral.", ">\n\nBecause the universe likes to put us in uncomfortable positions sometimes.", ">\n\n“if its stupid or lame, you roll your eyes” - you found the disrespect", ">\n\nIm allowed to think whatever i want and its not disrespectful.", ">\n\nWhen you express contempt for something someone else said, it's disrespect.", ">\n\nWhat if what they said is contemptible?", ">\n\nSome people and comments deserve disrespect, still gonna be disrespect", ">\n\nLaughing, crying, and sneezing are all innate, involuntary reactions to certain types of stimuli. Rolling your eyes is a learned behavior. You can’t compare it to those other automatic responses because it’s not the same thing.", ">\n\nTake my upvote", ">\n\nOP rolled their eyes at someone and got chewed out for it.\nNow they're going online in an attempt to validate themselves.\n🙄", ">\n\nProbably got grounded.", ">\n\nPart of being a mature adult is to have self-control and not acting on every impulse and being respectful of people.", ">\n\n\nPart of being a mature adult\n\nYup but OP is clearly a teenager lol. They complain about being told off for doing chores wrong in another post…", ">\n\nEven a teenager should be able to have the fundamental basics of respect", ">\n\nOh I agree 100%", ">\n\nYou have poor self-control and poor self-awareness but the good news is that you can improve these things.", ">\n\n/r/wrongopinions", ">\n\nI feel like we need a new subreddit r/unpopularforareason", ">\n\nIt’s entire purpose is to be disrespectful. Nobody eyerolls something they respect. But how offensive it is depends on the context and how serious one is being.", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes\n\nYou rn: \"I'm not being disrespectful. I just thought what you said was stupid or lame.\"\n...", ">\n\nSaying its stupid could be disrespectful. A facial response is not.", ">\n\nLiterally every person in this thread agrees that it is.\nThis is your bad habit. Nobody else's responsibility but you.", ">\n\nThey can choose to not fly off the handle at what is just an innate reaction.", ">\n\nSo let me get this straight: you think you deserve to be able to disrespect whoever you like whenever you like but they can't as much as say you're being rude? Grow up.", ">\n\nFound the teenager.", ">\n\nMeh, I agree with that one. If you don't like how someone is doing something then do it yourself. There's a reason I live alone.", ">\n\nIt is a UNIVERSAL sign of disrespect. Globally. Deal with it.", ">\n\nLaughing can be disrespectuful too. If you cannot control your own reactions, well, what can I say, maybe you have not really grown up?", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s so it’s hard to control my own actions sometimes…", ">\n\nThank u I'm trying to explain how autism can make it hard to read not just others facial expressions but also ur own and it seems like no one has thought of the possibility that they acc don't realise it or csnt control it", ">\n\nWould you roll your eyes during a job interview if you thought a question was stupid or irrelevant? Do you think you’d get the job if you did?", ">\n\nPretty sure OP would think they were owed that job and they would think it’s ridiculous if they didn’t get it.\nOP is also a teenager going through their rebel phase though", ">\n\nYou're oddly specific here.", ">\n\nWhat was specific? Or rather oddly specific?", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a good way to fast track yourself to a divorce, if you want one.", ">\n\nI think OP needs the definition of respect before any further comment is made", ">\n\nOh I already know it, and I know it does not mean:\nDon't ever disagree with me\nDon't think bad thoughts about me\nDon't ever correct me when I'm blatantly wrong \nShine my boots with your tongue", ">\n\nSoooo this post isn’t about eye rolling is what I’m getting from this. You’ve got issues to work through with your parents or partner or something", ">\n\nSince when tf was eye rolling involuntary?", ">", ">\n\nYour lack of self control is not a justification for disrespect. I personally dont know anyone who reacts to anything by rolling their eyes. Just be mature and communicate.", ">\n\nAnd what if it's not stupid and someone rolls their eyes? Wouldn't it be disrespectful in that case?", ">\n\nIn the eye rollers opinion then it must have been. But you can't fault someone for thinking its stupid.", ">\n\nSo eyerolling is some kind of exceptional thing that is free from criticism? \nIf one has the freedom to eye roll, then someone else has the freedom to criticize the eye roller right? \nOr is it your opinion that besides that everyone who sees an eye roller has to just stfu", ">\n\nMeh, it is disrespectful. It's a way to be disrespectful without having to say That's the dumbest thing I've heard all month, and everyone else who heard it is also dumber for hearing it as well.", ">\n\nBut I didn't say it that's the point.", ">\n\nJust cuz you don’t use words doesn’t mean it’s not disrespectful. Walking away while someone is talking to you, rolling your eyes, slapping someone, and starting to play a game on your phone while someone is talking to you are all disrespectful. It doesn’t matter that you didn’t say anything, your lack of respect still showed.", ">\n\nespecially the way theyre responding to comments", ">\n\nYeah, a natural reaction if you’ve never learned to manage your emotions as opposed to letting them run your life. I’m not talking about being totally monotone rational, either. You need to learn a balance between rational and emotional…which includes healthy, appropriate, respectful expression of honest feelings. Eye rolling is absolutely disrespectful, belittling, and dismissive.", ">\n\nComments: OP is completely wrong and has attitude issues", ">\n\nWhat sounds like mental illness is you refusing to admit that rolling your eyes is simply not an unconditional response. Whether you want to believe it or not, you are doing it intentionally and you can control it. \nYou’re just to much of a b—— to do so.", ">\n\nSame to you", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a learned reaction. Not natural. I rarely of ever roll my eyes at anything.", ">", ">\n\nJust like raising your middle finger. Or vocalizing the sounds \"fuck you\". Or fingers typing the words fuck you OP. Nothing is disrespectful!", ">\n\nNice try but not the same thing at all. You're talking about thought out actions here. The eye roll is more like a reaction. Its quick, its automatic, no one has to think \"im rolling my eyes now\" it just happens. \nSort of like when telling a lie - no one decides to have their eyes dart around suspiciously, it just happens.", ">\n\nNo. Rolling your eyes is not involuntary. It can be controlled. You have a bad habit that you CAN stop. Much like a child learning not to suck their thumb, or biting your nails.", ">\n\nHow about you start with your hair scratching", ">\n\nYour opinion is a contradiction in itself. And, yeah. I disagree. Rolling your eyes is 100% to show lack of respect, and you have no intentions of showing it, even to reason, by rolling your eyes at something someone could believe is meaningful or important. Even if it is stupid.\nI get your point, we roll our eyes to express how we feel, but it is still a physical snare. You say rolling your eyes isn't disrespectful, while saying it's okay to roll your eyes because something is \" stupid or lame\", which in itself is disrespectful. You sound like a very young person in the middle of a learning moment, and you're trying to react with rebellion. It only shows that you lack maturity and are in need of growth. This might be a time for you to read these comments and reevaluate. There are healthier ways to react to things you disagree with, or lack interest in. If not, you can just accept that you roll your eyes to show lack of respect.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is much more deliberate than laughter, tears, or sneezing. It's a conscious action in response to a judgement you're making.", ">\n\nNah, dude it is disrespectful \nYou just have no self control and by the looks of it you don't want to build some", ">\n\nYour post made me roll my eyes very hard.", ">\n\n“No, officer, my wife - she MADE me hit her!”", ">\n\nIt's a natural reaction for a sooky kid but not an adult, if you do that as an adult you just manchild that wants everything their way", ">\n\npoor OP.... did you get in trouble after you rolled your eyes at something again? did you not prehaps learn from previous interactions? rolling your eyes at something \"stupid or lame\" is an intentional response that is disrespectful to whatever it is. mature people dont act that way.....", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes.\n\nSo it is disrespectful. \n\nIts like throwing pepper in someone's face an expecting them not to sneeze.\n\nNo it’s not. You can easily (edited in) refrain from rolling your eyes, while it’s much more difficult to refrain from sneezing. \nIt’s fine to think whatever you want, but you might want to refrain from rolling your eyes when you’re, say, interacting with your boss; aka someone that can make you unemployed for whatever reason they please.", ">\n\nThis isn't an opinion. It's just flat wrong. \nIt is disrespectful because it is a conscious signifier which clearly communicated that you think that the thing you are rolling your eyes at is not worthy of respect.", ">\n\nYou have to go out of your way to roll your eyes. It is NOT gutteral or instinctual", ">\n\nIf you annoy me, my arm whips out in a natural reaction and slaps you.", ">\n\nSorry, kiddo, it’s 100% disrespectful. Just own the shit and quit trying to lawyer around it.\nI say that after having rolled my eyes so hard at your post, I travelled back in time.", ">\n\nTell that to my family lol you get the belt", ">\n\nThis was made my a 15 year old who just got told off by their mom about rolling their eyes. Then in defense said, “I can’t control it”", ">\n\nMan it's getting so aggressive sometimes here 😂", ">\n\ni certainly hope you are embarrassed about this in a couple years when you grow up.", ">\n\nOP is a habitual eye roller 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄", ">\n\nI wish to God we could block people by age, no more edgy 13yo’s", ">\n\nSomebody just got their ps5 taken away for rolling their eyes", ">\n\nTell me you're 12 without telling me you're 12.", ">\n\nit’s the definition of disrespectful and a sign that you have literally nothing intelligent to say in return. \nwhich is why we outgrow it as adults.", ">\n\nYou can control it. It’s not an “automatic response” unless you’ve taught yourself to do it. I never roll my eyes. It’s just not something I have ever practiced doing. And yes…if I’m saying something too you and you dismiss it with an eye roll…it’s super disrespectful.", ">\n\nrolling your eyes is just as respectful as sticking your tongue out at someone or making a stupid face in reaction to something someone says", ">\n\nIf you can’t control your eye movement, you need to see a neurologist, dude 😆. As it stands, eye rolling isn’t a reflex or a “natural reaction” to anything. Habits aren’t the same as involuntary reactions.\nRolling your eyes at someone is disrespectful. It’s an outward sign that you think something about your interaction with them was stupid or wrong. There’s no one here that will agree with you, and you know that you’re in the vast minority with this opinion because you posted it on this sub. Now learn some humility and accept that your opinion is factually incorrect based on science.", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nAre you like 14 and your mom got you in trouble cause you rolled your eyes at her? Lmao", ">\n\nI’m gonna show your mom this and it’s going to be another week of being grounded, you little shit lol", ">\n\nOmfg 😂", ">\n\nOP I have to ask.\n\n\nHow old are you?\n\n\nHow is your relationship with your parents?\n\n\nHow do you view authority figures in your life?", ">\n\nrolls eyes", ">\n\nIf you say or demand something stupid from me I will probably roll my eyes.", ">\n\nBut it is", ">\n\nJust like rolling your eyes is an innate response, so are other people's responses to you rolling your eyes.", ">\n\nSometimes being respectful requires hiding your subjective opinion on whether something is stupid or lame.", ">\n\nI wouldn’t say eye rolling is as involuntary as laughing or crying tho. It’s more of a choice.", ">\n\nIf someone rolls their eyes then I feel disrespected it’s a natural reaction.", ">\n\ntell me you're a teenager without telling me you're a teenager", ">\n\nI'm rolling my eyes at this post. And I definitely mean it disrespectfully.", ">\n\nLmao this kid had an argument with his parent(s) or teacher and is venting on Reddit.", ">\n\nYou sound like an eye rolling arsehole", ">\n\ni have never had an as a nonvoulentary action, it requires very explicit movement of you eye. this is like saying “when i dont like people, i punch them in the head, thats my natural reaction i cant control it”\ni have never once legitimately rolled my eyes at something, i think you might be an asshole", ">\n\nMe smacking your face is also an innate uncontrollable response to you rolling your eyes. I'm only human. What can I do? 🙄", ">\n\nI disagree. also there are a billion other ways to express something being stupid or lame than rolling ur eyes", ">\n\nStop downvoting, this is ACTUALLY a very unpopular opinion and I love to see it tbh. Voice your disagreement in the comments but don't downvote the post. This post is hilarious.", ">\n\nThis is something you’ve learned to do. It’s entirely in your control if you do it or not.", ">\n\nI once got a detention for rolling my eyes at a teacher in 4th grade.\nI agree with you, though. The only other person I've ever really rolled my eyes at was my mother, and she deserved it, every single time.", ">\n\nI get your point. I absolutely purposefully roll my eyes sometimes and whoever I'm doing it to would be valid for getting mad. \nBut as someone who can't hide any emotion on their face (literally any, I'm the definition of an open book) there have been plenty of times where people blew up at me or laughed because I rolled my eyes when I didn't even realize I had done it. Feel like the people disagreeing with you haven't experienced this problem.", ">\n\nWhat you've done is cultivate a bad habit and then blamed it on everyone else when you repeat your own bad habit unintentionally.\nThis is entirely your fault.", ">\n\nOnly on Reddit would someone so boldly declare something like this to a stranger. I'm on the spectrum so that might have to do with my not being able to hide any emotion (I truly mean that, people can basically read my thoughts just by looking at me, good and bad). \nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave. Consider working on that.", ">\n\nSo they point out you’re cultivating a bad habit and blaming other people so you then, blame them? It’s a little spot on don’t you think?", ">\n\nWhen did i blame them for my own actions? Could you quote me? I was just pointing out how weird it was that they made such a strong assumption of my character off a causal comment I left when they themselves were ironically being unnecessarily rude in the process. \nI don't know how you got so lost?", ">\n\n\nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave.\n\nClassic deflection and implication that they’re the one with the problem, not you", ">\n\nFirst its not automatic. I almost never rolled my eyes. Its much easier to control than laughing crying or sneezing. So you just dont make the effort. Its actually a way to express your feeling. You should know that, its your personnality not a human instinctive reaction. \nAnd yes not respecting something is disrespectful. Its not that hard to understand. \nAnyway if i see you.. i dont know having a breakdown after being fired and dumped and start to laugh you'd like that ? \nIf im sad because something good happens to you and show it to you, you would like that ? \nHonestly you are just trying to justify being a bit of a jerk. \nI dont blame you or anything we all are jerks sometime but its what you are doing right now.", ">\n\nI have to refocus my eyes and most of the time blinking doesn’t cut it. I have a lazy eye and when I look at someone for a long time it unfocuses, so moving the muscle is the only way to reset it. If I don’t, people start moving their heads/ bodies trying to focus on my lazy eye. It gets awkward.", ">\n\nThis is where I go to my training as a kid. What others think of you is none of your business.", ">\n\nUnless you have a tick or something like Tourette’s syndrome, then it’s not an involuntary response. Part of living in a society and not being considered rude is managing your body language.\nLet me put it this way. “Rudeness” in itself is a social concept. That means it’s decided by the perception of the masses, what we generally agree upon in terms of our symbols of communication, our customs, our beliefs, our values, etc. For you to say that rolling your eyes isn’t disrespectful is not objectively wrong. But according to the society you live in, it is wrong. In layman’s terms, the hill you’re dying on here is completely arbitrary, neither side will ever be truly correct but as long as you live in a society which feels this way then you will be beholden to it anyways.", ">\n\nTo be fair, if your thinking its stupid or lame, then that is dis-respect. I'd agree with this if it was worded like 'More people need to say what they truly think', but I think you sort of missed the mark, OP.", ">\n\nI am equally annoyed when folks rapidly blink and look away mid conversation or drop their arm dead against their thigh. It’s like you’ve given up an effort to even keep your body vertical and engaged while I’m talking to you.", ">\n\nOP getting downvoted AF & keeps commenting. Gotta love it.", ">\n\nIt is shown as a sign of disrespect and it shows weakness. I can’t imagine Gandhi, the queen of England or Einstein roll their eyes in front of random people. The reason why they were respected is because they didn’t play any superiority game on front of… inferiors or ignorant people. If something is stupid, get the patience and find enough love within yourself to treat the other ones right. \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a child because his question is “stupid”, what parent does it make you ? \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a bad question because you are an expert in a subject, then it is not your modesty that speaks but your ego. For proof : Even if someone you hate said something intelligent, you might want to roll your eyes just to flatter your ego.", ">\n\nIt's seen as disrespectful BECAUSE it's inadvertently telling them you think they're irritating/annoying." ]
> All depends on the context of what is going on.	[ "🙄", ">\n\nYou’re grounded now", ">\n\nThe post above was someone getting electrocuted so this reply was very timely", ">\n\nThis news is shocking", ">\n\nIt definitely SPARKED my interest", ">\n\nAll of you guys need to leave, and not come back before learning how to conduct yourselves properly", ">\n\nUhhhh....... electricity", ">\n\nWell no, in the right context it is disrespectful. Rolling your eyes suggests that you're not taking the matter seriously or that you dont care which is a sign of disrespect towards whoever is speaking with you.", ">\n\nBut I can't control what I think. If I said \"man you're stupid and I don't care what you say\" thats disrespectful. I'm actually showing respect by not saying it.", ">\n\nI mean, actions speak louder than words, right?", ">\n\nIts not really an action tho its just an automatic response. Like gasping or yawning.", ">\n\nbullshit.\nSorry, it was an automatic response. Which is bullshit just like yours.", ">\n\nStill not the same thing. And they get on me for false analogies....", ">\n\nYou must be a teenager", ">\n\nLol how many times are you gonna post that. Dont you have an original thought of your own?", ">\n\nBruh I cant believe you make these posts. They're foolish", ">\n\nLaughing at someone can be disrespectful. Don't think so? Try laughing at someone's funeral.", ">\n\nThe disrespect comes from the one who told me a joke and made me laugh.", ">\n\nWhat about if no one said any joke? Because, you know, you are at a funeral.", ">\n\nSo someone's just there randomly laughing at shit? That sounds like a mental illness.", ">\n\nYou have never thought of something funny in your head to make yourself laugh? \nOr hell, maybe you didn't like the person who is buried and decided to laugh at them. You find it funny, so laughing must be appropriate, right?", ">\n\nWhy am I thinking about funny shit at a funeral.", ">\n\nBecause the universe likes to put us in uncomfortable positions sometimes.", ">\n\n“if its stupid or lame, you roll your eyes” - you found the disrespect", ">\n\nIm allowed to think whatever i want and its not disrespectful.", ">\n\nWhen you express contempt for something someone else said, it's disrespect.", ">\n\nWhat if what they said is contemptible?", ">\n\nSome people and comments deserve disrespect, still gonna be disrespect", ">\n\nLaughing, crying, and sneezing are all innate, involuntary reactions to certain types of stimuli. Rolling your eyes is a learned behavior. You can’t compare it to those other automatic responses because it’s not the same thing.", ">\n\nTake my upvote", ">\n\nOP rolled their eyes at someone and got chewed out for it.\nNow they're going online in an attempt to validate themselves.\n🙄", ">\n\nProbably got grounded.", ">\n\nPart of being a mature adult is to have self-control and not acting on every impulse and being respectful of people.", ">\n\n\nPart of being a mature adult\n\nYup but OP is clearly a teenager lol. They complain about being told off for doing chores wrong in another post…", ">\n\nEven a teenager should be able to have the fundamental basics of respect", ">\n\nOh I agree 100%", ">\n\nYou have poor self-control and poor self-awareness but the good news is that you can improve these things.", ">\n\n/r/wrongopinions", ">\n\nI feel like we need a new subreddit r/unpopularforareason", ">\n\nIt’s entire purpose is to be disrespectful. Nobody eyerolls something they respect. But how offensive it is depends on the context and how serious one is being.", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes\n\nYou rn: \"I'm not being disrespectful. I just thought what you said was stupid or lame.\"\n...", ">\n\nSaying its stupid could be disrespectful. A facial response is not.", ">\n\nLiterally every person in this thread agrees that it is.\nThis is your bad habit. Nobody else's responsibility but you.", ">\n\nThey can choose to not fly off the handle at what is just an innate reaction.", ">\n\nSo let me get this straight: you think you deserve to be able to disrespect whoever you like whenever you like but they can't as much as say you're being rude? Grow up.", ">\n\nFound the teenager.", ">\n\nMeh, I agree with that one. If you don't like how someone is doing something then do it yourself. There's a reason I live alone.", ">\n\nIt is a UNIVERSAL sign of disrespect. Globally. Deal with it.", ">\n\nLaughing can be disrespectuful too. If you cannot control your own reactions, well, what can I say, maybe you have not really grown up?", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s so it’s hard to control my own actions sometimes…", ">\n\nThank u I'm trying to explain how autism can make it hard to read not just others facial expressions but also ur own and it seems like no one has thought of the possibility that they acc don't realise it or csnt control it", ">\n\nWould you roll your eyes during a job interview if you thought a question was stupid or irrelevant? Do you think you’d get the job if you did?", ">\n\nPretty sure OP would think they were owed that job and they would think it’s ridiculous if they didn’t get it.\nOP is also a teenager going through their rebel phase though", ">\n\nYou're oddly specific here.", ">\n\nWhat was specific? Or rather oddly specific?", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a good way to fast track yourself to a divorce, if you want one.", ">\n\nI think OP needs the definition of respect before any further comment is made", ">\n\nOh I already know it, and I know it does not mean:\nDon't ever disagree with me\nDon't think bad thoughts about me\nDon't ever correct me when I'm blatantly wrong \nShine my boots with your tongue", ">\n\nSoooo this post isn’t about eye rolling is what I’m getting from this. You’ve got issues to work through with your parents or partner or something", ">\n\nSince when tf was eye rolling involuntary?", ">", ">\n\nYour lack of self control is not a justification for disrespect. I personally dont know anyone who reacts to anything by rolling their eyes. Just be mature and communicate.", ">\n\nAnd what if it's not stupid and someone rolls their eyes? Wouldn't it be disrespectful in that case?", ">\n\nIn the eye rollers opinion then it must have been. But you can't fault someone for thinking its stupid.", ">\n\nSo eyerolling is some kind of exceptional thing that is free from criticism? \nIf one has the freedom to eye roll, then someone else has the freedom to criticize the eye roller right? \nOr is it your opinion that besides that everyone who sees an eye roller has to just stfu", ">\n\nMeh, it is disrespectful. It's a way to be disrespectful without having to say That's the dumbest thing I've heard all month, and everyone else who heard it is also dumber for hearing it as well.", ">\n\nBut I didn't say it that's the point.", ">\n\nJust cuz you don’t use words doesn’t mean it’s not disrespectful. Walking away while someone is talking to you, rolling your eyes, slapping someone, and starting to play a game on your phone while someone is talking to you are all disrespectful. It doesn’t matter that you didn’t say anything, your lack of respect still showed.", ">\n\nespecially the way theyre responding to comments", ">\n\nYeah, a natural reaction if you’ve never learned to manage your emotions as opposed to letting them run your life. I’m not talking about being totally monotone rational, either. You need to learn a balance between rational and emotional…which includes healthy, appropriate, respectful expression of honest feelings. Eye rolling is absolutely disrespectful, belittling, and dismissive.", ">\n\nComments: OP is completely wrong and has attitude issues", ">\n\nWhat sounds like mental illness is you refusing to admit that rolling your eyes is simply not an unconditional response. Whether you want to believe it or not, you are doing it intentionally and you can control it. \nYou’re just to much of a b—— to do so.", ">\n\nSame to you", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a learned reaction. Not natural. I rarely of ever roll my eyes at anything.", ">", ">\n\nJust like raising your middle finger. Or vocalizing the sounds \"fuck you\". Or fingers typing the words fuck you OP. Nothing is disrespectful!", ">\n\nNice try but not the same thing at all. You're talking about thought out actions here. The eye roll is more like a reaction. Its quick, its automatic, no one has to think \"im rolling my eyes now\" it just happens. \nSort of like when telling a lie - no one decides to have their eyes dart around suspiciously, it just happens.", ">\n\nNo. Rolling your eyes is not involuntary. It can be controlled. You have a bad habit that you CAN stop. Much like a child learning not to suck their thumb, or biting your nails.", ">\n\nHow about you start with your hair scratching", ">\n\nYour opinion is a contradiction in itself. And, yeah. I disagree. Rolling your eyes is 100% to show lack of respect, and you have no intentions of showing it, even to reason, by rolling your eyes at something someone could believe is meaningful or important. Even if it is stupid.\nI get your point, we roll our eyes to express how we feel, but it is still a physical snare. You say rolling your eyes isn't disrespectful, while saying it's okay to roll your eyes because something is \" stupid or lame\", which in itself is disrespectful. You sound like a very young person in the middle of a learning moment, and you're trying to react with rebellion. It only shows that you lack maturity and are in need of growth. This might be a time for you to read these comments and reevaluate. There are healthier ways to react to things you disagree with, or lack interest in. If not, you can just accept that you roll your eyes to show lack of respect.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is much more deliberate than laughter, tears, or sneezing. It's a conscious action in response to a judgement you're making.", ">\n\nNah, dude it is disrespectful \nYou just have no self control and by the looks of it you don't want to build some", ">\n\nYour post made me roll my eyes very hard.", ">\n\n“No, officer, my wife - she MADE me hit her!”", ">\n\nIt's a natural reaction for a sooky kid but not an adult, if you do that as an adult you just manchild that wants everything their way", ">\n\npoor OP.... did you get in trouble after you rolled your eyes at something again? did you not prehaps learn from previous interactions? rolling your eyes at something \"stupid or lame\" is an intentional response that is disrespectful to whatever it is. mature people dont act that way.....", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes.\n\nSo it is disrespectful. \n\nIts like throwing pepper in someone's face an expecting them not to sneeze.\n\nNo it’s not. You can easily (edited in) refrain from rolling your eyes, while it’s much more difficult to refrain from sneezing. \nIt’s fine to think whatever you want, but you might want to refrain from rolling your eyes when you’re, say, interacting with your boss; aka someone that can make you unemployed for whatever reason they please.", ">\n\nThis isn't an opinion. It's just flat wrong. \nIt is disrespectful because it is a conscious signifier which clearly communicated that you think that the thing you are rolling your eyes at is not worthy of respect.", ">\n\nYou have to go out of your way to roll your eyes. It is NOT gutteral or instinctual", ">\n\nIf you annoy me, my arm whips out in a natural reaction and slaps you.", ">\n\nSorry, kiddo, it’s 100% disrespectful. Just own the shit and quit trying to lawyer around it.\nI say that after having rolled my eyes so hard at your post, I travelled back in time.", ">\n\nTell that to my family lol you get the belt", ">\n\nThis was made my a 15 year old who just got told off by their mom about rolling their eyes. Then in defense said, “I can’t control it”", ">\n\nMan it's getting so aggressive sometimes here 😂", ">\n\ni certainly hope you are embarrassed about this in a couple years when you grow up.", ">\n\nOP is a habitual eye roller 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄", ">\n\nI wish to God we could block people by age, no more edgy 13yo’s", ">\n\nSomebody just got their ps5 taken away for rolling their eyes", ">\n\nTell me you're 12 without telling me you're 12.", ">\n\nit’s the definition of disrespectful and a sign that you have literally nothing intelligent to say in return. \nwhich is why we outgrow it as adults.", ">\n\nYou can control it. It’s not an “automatic response” unless you’ve taught yourself to do it. I never roll my eyes. It’s just not something I have ever practiced doing. And yes…if I’m saying something too you and you dismiss it with an eye roll…it’s super disrespectful.", ">\n\nrolling your eyes is just as respectful as sticking your tongue out at someone or making a stupid face in reaction to something someone says", ">\n\nIf you can’t control your eye movement, you need to see a neurologist, dude 😆. As it stands, eye rolling isn’t a reflex or a “natural reaction” to anything. Habits aren’t the same as involuntary reactions.\nRolling your eyes at someone is disrespectful. It’s an outward sign that you think something about your interaction with them was stupid or wrong. There’s no one here that will agree with you, and you know that you’re in the vast minority with this opinion because you posted it on this sub. Now learn some humility and accept that your opinion is factually incorrect based on science.", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nAre you like 14 and your mom got you in trouble cause you rolled your eyes at her? Lmao", ">\n\nI’m gonna show your mom this and it’s going to be another week of being grounded, you little shit lol", ">\n\nOmfg 😂", ">\n\nOP I have to ask.\n\n\nHow old are you?\n\n\nHow is your relationship with your parents?\n\n\nHow do you view authority figures in your life?", ">\n\nrolls eyes", ">\n\nIf you say or demand something stupid from me I will probably roll my eyes.", ">\n\nBut it is", ">\n\nJust like rolling your eyes is an innate response, so are other people's responses to you rolling your eyes.", ">\n\nSometimes being respectful requires hiding your subjective opinion on whether something is stupid or lame.", ">\n\nI wouldn’t say eye rolling is as involuntary as laughing or crying tho. It’s more of a choice.", ">\n\nIf someone rolls their eyes then I feel disrespected it’s a natural reaction.", ">\n\ntell me you're a teenager without telling me you're a teenager", ">\n\nI'm rolling my eyes at this post. And I definitely mean it disrespectfully.", ">\n\nLmao this kid had an argument with his parent(s) or teacher and is venting on Reddit.", ">\n\nYou sound like an eye rolling arsehole", ">\n\ni have never had an as a nonvoulentary action, it requires very explicit movement of you eye. this is like saying “when i dont like people, i punch them in the head, thats my natural reaction i cant control it”\ni have never once legitimately rolled my eyes at something, i think you might be an asshole", ">\n\nMe smacking your face is also an innate uncontrollable response to you rolling your eyes. I'm only human. What can I do? 🙄", ">\n\nI disagree. also there are a billion other ways to express something being stupid or lame than rolling ur eyes", ">\n\nStop downvoting, this is ACTUALLY a very unpopular opinion and I love to see it tbh. Voice your disagreement in the comments but don't downvote the post. This post is hilarious.", ">\n\nThis is something you’ve learned to do. It’s entirely in your control if you do it or not.", ">\n\nI once got a detention for rolling my eyes at a teacher in 4th grade.\nI agree with you, though. The only other person I've ever really rolled my eyes at was my mother, and she deserved it, every single time.", ">\n\nI get your point. I absolutely purposefully roll my eyes sometimes and whoever I'm doing it to would be valid for getting mad. \nBut as someone who can't hide any emotion on their face (literally any, I'm the definition of an open book) there have been plenty of times where people blew up at me or laughed because I rolled my eyes when I didn't even realize I had done it. Feel like the people disagreeing with you haven't experienced this problem.", ">\n\nWhat you've done is cultivate a bad habit and then blamed it on everyone else when you repeat your own bad habit unintentionally.\nThis is entirely your fault.", ">\n\nOnly on Reddit would someone so boldly declare something like this to a stranger. I'm on the spectrum so that might have to do with my not being able to hide any emotion (I truly mean that, people can basically read my thoughts just by looking at me, good and bad). \nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave. Consider working on that.", ">\n\nSo they point out you’re cultivating a bad habit and blaming other people so you then, blame them? It’s a little spot on don’t you think?", ">\n\nWhen did i blame them for my own actions? Could you quote me? I was just pointing out how weird it was that they made such a strong assumption of my character off a causal comment I left when they themselves were ironically being unnecessarily rude in the process. \nI don't know how you got so lost?", ">\n\n\nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave.\n\nClassic deflection and implication that they’re the one with the problem, not you", ">\n\nFirst its not automatic. I almost never rolled my eyes. Its much easier to control than laughing crying or sneezing. So you just dont make the effort. Its actually a way to express your feeling. You should know that, its your personnality not a human instinctive reaction. \nAnd yes not respecting something is disrespectful. Its not that hard to understand. \nAnyway if i see you.. i dont know having a breakdown after being fired and dumped and start to laugh you'd like that ? \nIf im sad because something good happens to you and show it to you, you would like that ? \nHonestly you are just trying to justify being a bit of a jerk. \nI dont blame you or anything we all are jerks sometime but its what you are doing right now.", ">\n\nI have to refocus my eyes and most of the time blinking doesn’t cut it. I have a lazy eye and when I look at someone for a long time it unfocuses, so moving the muscle is the only way to reset it. If I don’t, people start moving their heads/ bodies trying to focus on my lazy eye. It gets awkward.", ">\n\nThis is where I go to my training as a kid. What others think of you is none of your business.", ">\n\nUnless you have a tick or something like Tourette’s syndrome, then it’s not an involuntary response. Part of living in a society and not being considered rude is managing your body language.\nLet me put it this way. “Rudeness” in itself is a social concept. That means it’s decided by the perception of the masses, what we generally agree upon in terms of our symbols of communication, our customs, our beliefs, our values, etc. For you to say that rolling your eyes isn’t disrespectful is not objectively wrong. But according to the society you live in, it is wrong. In layman’s terms, the hill you’re dying on here is completely arbitrary, neither side will ever be truly correct but as long as you live in a society which feels this way then you will be beholden to it anyways.", ">\n\nTo be fair, if your thinking its stupid or lame, then that is dis-respect. I'd agree with this if it was worded like 'More people need to say what they truly think', but I think you sort of missed the mark, OP.", ">\n\nI am equally annoyed when folks rapidly blink and look away mid conversation or drop their arm dead against their thigh. It’s like you’ve given up an effort to even keep your body vertical and engaged while I’m talking to you.", ">\n\nOP getting downvoted AF & keeps commenting. Gotta love it.", ">\n\nIt is shown as a sign of disrespect and it shows weakness. I can’t imagine Gandhi, the queen of England or Einstein roll their eyes in front of random people. The reason why they were respected is because they didn’t play any superiority game on front of… inferiors or ignorant people. If something is stupid, get the patience and find enough love within yourself to treat the other ones right. \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a child because his question is “stupid”, what parent does it make you ? \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a bad question because you are an expert in a subject, then it is not your modesty that speaks but your ego. For proof : Even if someone you hate said something intelligent, you might want to roll your eyes just to flatter your ego.", ">\n\nIt's seen as disrespectful BECAUSE it's inadvertently telling them you think they're irritating/annoying.", ">\n\nI never roll my eyes? Is that something people do naturally?" ]
> Rolling your eyes is not a natural reaction?	[ "🙄", ">\n\nYou’re grounded now", ">\n\nThe post above was someone getting electrocuted so this reply was very timely", ">\n\nThis news is shocking", ">\n\nIt definitely SPARKED my interest", ">\n\nAll of you guys need to leave, and not come back before learning how to conduct yourselves properly", ">\n\nUhhhh....... electricity", ">\n\nWell no, in the right context it is disrespectful. Rolling your eyes suggests that you're not taking the matter seriously or that you dont care which is a sign of disrespect towards whoever is speaking with you.", ">\n\nBut I can't control what I think. If I said \"man you're stupid and I don't care what you say\" thats disrespectful. I'm actually showing respect by not saying it.", ">\n\nI mean, actions speak louder than words, right?", ">\n\nIts not really an action tho its just an automatic response. Like gasping or yawning.", ">\n\nbullshit.\nSorry, it was an automatic response. Which is bullshit just like yours.", ">\n\nStill not the same thing. And they get on me for false analogies....", ">\n\nYou must be a teenager", ">\n\nLol how many times are you gonna post that. Dont you have an original thought of your own?", ">\n\nBruh I cant believe you make these posts. They're foolish", ">\n\nLaughing at someone can be disrespectful. Don't think so? Try laughing at someone's funeral.", ">\n\nThe disrespect comes from the one who told me a joke and made me laugh.", ">\n\nWhat about if no one said any joke? Because, you know, you are at a funeral.", ">\n\nSo someone's just there randomly laughing at shit? That sounds like a mental illness.", ">\n\nYou have never thought of something funny in your head to make yourself laugh? \nOr hell, maybe you didn't like the person who is buried and decided to laugh at them. You find it funny, so laughing must be appropriate, right?", ">\n\nWhy am I thinking about funny shit at a funeral.", ">\n\nBecause the universe likes to put us in uncomfortable positions sometimes.", ">\n\n“if its stupid or lame, you roll your eyes” - you found the disrespect", ">\n\nIm allowed to think whatever i want and its not disrespectful.", ">\n\nWhen you express contempt for something someone else said, it's disrespect.", ">\n\nWhat if what they said is contemptible?", ">\n\nSome people and comments deserve disrespect, still gonna be disrespect", ">\n\nLaughing, crying, and sneezing are all innate, involuntary reactions to certain types of stimuli. Rolling your eyes is a learned behavior. You can’t compare it to those other automatic responses because it’s not the same thing.", ">\n\nTake my upvote", ">\n\nOP rolled their eyes at someone and got chewed out for it.\nNow they're going online in an attempt to validate themselves.\n🙄", ">\n\nProbably got grounded.", ">\n\nPart of being a mature adult is to have self-control and not acting on every impulse and being respectful of people.", ">\n\n\nPart of being a mature adult\n\nYup but OP is clearly a teenager lol. They complain about being told off for doing chores wrong in another post…", ">\n\nEven a teenager should be able to have the fundamental basics of respect", ">\n\nOh I agree 100%", ">\n\nYou have poor self-control and poor self-awareness but the good news is that you can improve these things.", ">\n\n/r/wrongopinions", ">\n\nI feel like we need a new subreddit r/unpopularforareason", ">\n\nIt’s entire purpose is to be disrespectful. Nobody eyerolls something they respect. But how offensive it is depends on the context and how serious one is being.", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes\n\nYou rn: \"I'm not being disrespectful. I just thought what you said was stupid or lame.\"\n...", ">\n\nSaying its stupid could be disrespectful. A facial response is not.", ">\n\nLiterally every person in this thread agrees that it is.\nThis is your bad habit. Nobody else's responsibility but you.", ">\n\nThey can choose to not fly off the handle at what is just an innate reaction.", ">\n\nSo let me get this straight: you think you deserve to be able to disrespect whoever you like whenever you like but they can't as much as say you're being rude? Grow up.", ">\n\nFound the teenager.", ">\n\nMeh, I agree with that one. If you don't like how someone is doing something then do it yourself. There's a reason I live alone.", ">\n\nIt is a UNIVERSAL sign of disrespect. Globally. Deal with it.", ">\n\nLaughing can be disrespectuful too. If you cannot control your own reactions, well, what can I say, maybe you have not really grown up?", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s so it’s hard to control my own actions sometimes…", ">\n\nThank u I'm trying to explain how autism can make it hard to read not just others facial expressions but also ur own and it seems like no one has thought of the possibility that they acc don't realise it or csnt control it", ">\n\nWould you roll your eyes during a job interview if you thought a question was stupid or irrelevant? Do you think you’d get the job if you did?", ">\n\nPretty sure OP would think they were owed that job and they would think it’s ridiculous if they didn’t get it.\nOP is also a teenager going through their rebel phase though", ">\n\nYou're oddly specific here.", ">\n\nWhat was specific? Or rather oddly specific?", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a good way to fast track yourself to a divorce, if you want one.", ">\n\nI think OP needs the definition of respect before any further comment is made", ">\n\nOh I already know it, and I know it does not mean:\nDon't ever disagree with me\nDon't think bad thoughts about me\nDon't ever correct me when I'm blatantly wrong \nShine my boots with your tongue", ">\n\nSoooo this post isn’t about eye rolling is what I’m getting from this. You’ve got issues to work through with your parents or partner or something", ">\n\nSince when tf was eye rolling involuntary?", ">", ">\n\nYour lack of self control is not a justification for disrespect. I personally dont know anyone who reacts to anything by rolling their eyes. Just be mature and communicate.", ">\n\nAnd what if it's not stupid and someone rolls their eyes? Wouldn't it be disrespectful in that case?", ">\n\nIn the eye rollers opinion then it must have been. But you can't fault someone for thinking its stupid.", ">\n\nSo eyerolling is some kind of exceptional thing that is free from criticism? \nIf one has the freedom to eye roll, then someone else has the freedom to criticize the eye roller right? \nOr is it your opinion that besides that everyone who sees an eye roller has to just stfu", ">\n\nMeh, it is disrespectful. It's a way to be disrespectful without having to say That's the dumbest thing I've heard all month, and everyone else who heard it is also dumber for hearing it as well.", ">\n\nBut I didn't say it that's the point.", ">\n\nJust cuz you don’t use words doesn’t mean it’s not disrespectful. Walking away while someone is talking to you, rolling your eyes, slapping someone, and starting to play a game on your phone while someone is talking to you are all disrespectful. It doesn’t matter that you didn’t say anything, your lack of respect still showed.", ">\n\nespecially the way theyre responding to comments", ">\n\nYeah, a natural reaction if you’ve never learned to manage your emotions as opposed to letting them run your life. I’m not talking about being totally monotone rational, either. You need to learn a balance between rational and emotional…which includes healthy, appropriate, respectful expression of honest feelings. Eye rolling is absolutely disrespectful, belittling, and dismissive.", ">\n\nComments: OP is completely wrong and has attitude issues", ">\n\nWhat sounds like mental illness is you refusing to admit that rolling your eyes is simply not an unconditional response. Whether you want to believe it or not, you are doing it intentionally and you can control it. \nYou’re just to much of a b—— to do so.", ">\n\nSame to you", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a learned reaction. Not natural. I rarely of ever roll my eyes at anything.", ">", ">\n\nJust like raising your middle finger. Or vocalizing the sounds \"fuck you\". Or fingers typing the words fuck you OP. Nothing is disrespectful!", ">\n\nNice try but not the same thing at all. You're talking about thought out actions here. The eye roll is more like a reaction. Its quick, its automatic, no one has to think \"im rolling my eyes now\" it just happens. \nSort of like when telling a lie - no one decides to have their eyes dart around suspiciously, it just happens.", ">\n\nNo. Rolling your eyes is not involuntary. It can be controlled. You have a bad habit that you CAN stop. Much like a child learning not to suck their thumb, or biting your nails.", ">\n\nHow about you start with your hair scratching", ">\n\nYour opinion is a contradiction in itself. And, yeah. I disagree. Rolling your eyes is 100% to show lack of respect, and you have no intentions of showing it, even to reason, by rolling your eyes at something someone could believe is meaningful or important. Even if it is stupid.\nI get your point, we roll our eyes to express how we feel, but it is still a physical snare. You say rolling your eyes isn't disrespectful, while saying it's okay to roll your eyes because something is \" stupid or lame\", which in itself is disrespectful. You sound like a very young person in the middle of a learning moment, and you're trying to react with rebellion. It only shows that you lack maturity and are in need of growth. This might be a time for you to read these comments and reevaluate. There are healthier ways to react to things you disagree with, or lack interest in. If not, you can just accept that you roll your eyes to show lack of respect.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is much more deliberate than laughter, tears, or sneezing. It's a conscious action in response to a judgement you're making.", ">\n\nNah, dude it is disrespectful \nYou just have no self control and by the looks of it you don't want to build some", ">\n\nYour post made me roll my eyes very hard.", ">\n\n“No, officer, my wife - she MADE me hit her!”", ">\n\nIt's a natural reaction for a sooky kid but not an adult, if you do that as an adult you just manchild that wants everything their way", ">\n\npoor OP.... did you get in trouble after you rolled your eyes at something again? did you not prehaps learn from previous interactions? rolling your eyes at something \"stupid or lame\" is an intentional response that is disrespectful to whatever it is. mature people dont act that way.....", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes.\n\nSo it is disrespectful. \n\nIts like throwing pepper in someone's face an expecting them not to sneeze.\n\nNo it’s not. You can easily (edited in) refrain from rolling your eyes, while it’s much more difficult to refrain from sneezing. \nIt’s fine to think whatever you want, but you might want to refrain from rolling your eyes when you’re, say, interacting with your boss; aka someone that can make you unemployed for whatever reason they please.", ">\n\nThis isn't an opinion. It's just flat wrong. \nIt is disrespectful because it is a conscious signifier which clearly communicated that you think that the thing you are rolling your eyes at is not worthy of respect.", ">\n\nYou have to go out of your way to roll your eyes. It is NOT gutteral or instinctual", ">\n\nIf you annoy me, my arm whips out in a natural reaction and slaps you.", ">\n\nSorry, kiddo, it’s 100% disrespectful. Just own the shit and quit trying to lawyer around it.\nI say that after having rolled my eyes so hard at your post, I travelled back in time.", ">\n\nTell that to my family lol you get the belt", ">\n\nThis was made my a 15 year old who just got told off by their mom about rolling their eyes. Then in defense said, “I can’t control it”", ">\n\nMan it's getting so aggressive sometimes here 😂", ">\n\ni certainly hope you are embarrassed about this in a couple years when you grow up.", ">\n\nOP is a habitual eye roller 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄", ">\n\nI wish to God we could block people by age, no more edgy 13yo’s", ">\n\nSomebody just got their ps5 taken away for rolling their eyes", ">\n\nTell me you're 12 without telling me you're 12.", ">\n\nit’s the definition of disrespectful and a sign that you have literally nothing intelligent to say in return. \nwhich is why we outgrow it as adults.", ">\n\nYou can control it. It’s not an “automatic response” unless you’ve taught yourself to do it. I never roll my eyes. It’s just not something I have ever practiced doing. And yes…if I’m saying something too you and you dismiss it with an eye roll…it’s super disrespectful.", ">\n\nrolling your eyes is just as respectful as sticking your tongue out at someone or making a stupid face in reaction to something someone says", ">\n\nIf you can’t control your eye movement, you need to see a neurologist, dude 😆. As it stands, eye rolling isn’t a reflex or a “natural reaction” to anything. Habits aren’t the same as involuntary reactions.\nRolling your eyes at someone is disrespectful. It’s an outward sign that you think something about your interaction with them was stupid or wrong. There’s no one here that will agree with you, and you know that you’re in the vast minority with this opinion because you posted it on this sub. Now learn some humility and accept that your opinion is factually incorrect based on science.", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nAre you like 14 and your mom got you in trouble cause you rolled your eyes at her? Lmao", ">\n\nI’m gonna show your mom this and it’s going to be another week of being grounded, you little shit lol", ">\n\nOmfg 😂", ">\n\nOP I have to ask.\n\n\nHow old are you?\n\n\nHow is your relationship with your parents?\n\n\nHow do you view authority figures in your life?", ">\n\nrolls eyes", ">\n\nIf you say or demand something stupid from me I will probably roll my eyes.", ">\n\nBut it is", ">\n\nJust like rolling your eyes is an innate response, so are other people's responses to you rolling your eyes.", ">\n\nSometimes being respectful requires hiding your subjective opinion on whether something is stupid or lame.", ">\n\nI wouldn’t say eye rolling is as involuntary as laughing or crying tho. It’s more of a choice.", ">\n\nIf someone rolls their eyes then I feel disrespected it’s a natural reaction.", ">\n\ntell me you're a teenager without telling me you're a teenager", ">\n\nI'm rolling my eyes at this post. And I definitely mean it disrespectfully.", ">\n\nLmao this kid had an argument with his parent(s) or teacher and is venting on Reddit.", ">\n\nYou sound like an eye rolling arsehole", ">\n\ni have never had an as a nonvoulentary action, it requires very explicit movement of you eye. this is like saying “when i dont like people, i punch them in the head, thats my natural reaction i cant control it”\ni have never once legitimately rolled my eyes at something, i think you might be an asshole", ">\n\nMe smacking your face is also an innate uncontrollable response to you rolling your eyes. I'm only human. What can I do? 🙄", ">\n\nI disagree. also there are a billion other ways to express something being stupid or lame than rolling ur eyes", ">\n\nStop downvoting, this is ACTUALLY a very unpopular opinion and I love to see it tbh. Voice your disagreement in the comments but don't downvote the post. This post is hilarious.", ">\n\nThis is something you’ve learned to do. It’s entirely in your control if you do it or not.", ">\n\nI once got a detention for rolling my eyes at a teacher in 4th grade.\nI agree with you, though. The only other person I've ever really rolled my eyes at was my mother, and she deserved it, every single time.", ">\n\nI get your point. I absolutely purposefully roll my eyes sometimes and whoever I'm doing it to would be valid for getting mad. \nBut as someone who can't hide any emotion on their face (literally any, I'm the definition of an open book) there have been plenty of times where people blew up at me or laughed because I rolled my eyes when I didn't even realize I had done it. Feel like the people disagreeing with you haven't experienced this problem.", ">\n\nWhat you've done is cultivate a bad habit and then blamed it on everyone else when you repeat your own bad habit unintentionally.\nThis is entirely your fault.", ">\n\nOnly on Reddit would someone so boldly declare something like this to a stranger. I'm on the spectrum so that might have to do with my not being able to hide any emotion (I truly mean that, people can basically read my thoughts just by looking at me, good and bad). \nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave. Consider working on that.", ">\n\nSo they point out you’re cultivating a bad habit and blaming other people so you then, blame them? It’s a little spot on don’t you think?", ">\n\nWhen did i blame them for my own actions? Could you quote me? I was just pointing out how weird it was that they made such a strong assumption of my character off a causal comment I left when they themselves were ironically being unnecessarily rude in the process. \nI don't know how you got so lost?", ">\n\n\nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave.\n\nClassic deflection and implication that they’re the one with the problem, not you", ">\n\nFirst its not automatic. I almost never rolled my eyes. Its much easier to control than laughing crying or sneezing. So you just dont make the effort. Its actually a way to express your feeling. You should know that, its your personnality not a human instinctive reaction. \nAnd yes not respecting something is disrespectful. Its not that hard to understand. \nAnyway if i see you.. i dont know having a breakdown after being fired and dumped and start to laugh you'd like that ? \nIf im sad because something good happens to you and show it to you, you would like that ? \nHonestly you are just trying to justify being a bit of a jerk. \nI dont blame you or anything we all are jerks sometime but its what you are doing right now.", ">\n\nI have to refocus my eyes and most of the time blinking doesn’t cut it. I have a lazy eye and when I look at someone for a long time it unfocuses, so moving the muscle is the only way to reset it. If I don’t, people start moving their heads/ bodies trying to focus on my lazy eye. It gets awkward.", ">\n\nThis is where I go to my training as a kid. What others think of you is none of your business.", ">\n\nUnless you have a tick or something like Tourette’s syndrome, then it’s not an involuntary response. Part of living in a society and not being considered rude is managing your body language.\nLet me put it this way. “Rudeness” in itself is a social concept. That means it’s decided by the perception of the masses, what we generally agree upon in terms of our symbols of communication, our customs, our beliefs, our values, etc. For you to say that rolling your eyes isn’t disrespectful is not objectively wrong. But according to the society you live in, it is wrong. In layman’s terms, the hill you’re dying on here is completely arbitrary, neither side will ever be truly correct but as long as you live in a society which feels this way then you will be beholden to it anyways.", ">\n\nTo be fair, if your thinking its stupid or lame, then that is dis-respect. I'd agree with this if it was worded like 'More people need to say what they truly think', but I think you sort of missed the mark, OP.", ">\n\nI am equally annoyed when folks rapidly blink and look away mid conversation or drop their arm dead against their thigh. It’s like you’ve given up an effort to even keep your body vertical and engaged while I’m talking to you.", ">\n\nOP getting downvoted AF & keeps commenting. Gotta love it.", ">\n\nIt is shown as a sign of disrespect and it shows weakness. I can’t imagine Gandhi, the queen of England or Einstein roll their eyes in front of random people. The reason why they were respected is because they didn’t play any superiority game on front of… inferiors or ignorant people. If something is stupid, get the patience and find enough love within yourself to treat the other ones right. \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a child because his question is “stupid”, what parent does it make you ? \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a bad question because you are an expert in a subject, then it is not your modesty that speaks but your ego. For proof : Even if someone you hate said something intelligent, you might want to roll your eyes just to flatter your ego.", ">\n\nIt's seen as disrespectful BECAUSE it's inadvertently telling them you think they're irritating/annoying.", ">\n\nI never roll my eyes? Is that something people do naturally?", ">\n\nAll depends on the context of what is going on." ]
> Not maintaining basic self control is disrespectful. It's the same reason we don't defecate in public, sneeze on people, or stand in the way of foot traffic.	[ "🙄", ">\n\nYou’re grounded now", ">\n\nThe post above was someone getting electrocuted so this reply was very timely", ">\n\nThis news is shocking", ">\n\nIt definitely SPARKED my interest", ">\n\nAll of you guys need to leave, and not come back before learning how to conduct yourselves properly", ">\n\nUhhhh....... electricity", ">\n\nWell no, in the right context it is disrespectful. Rolling your eyes suggests that you're not taking the matter seriously or that you dont care which is a sign of disrespect towards whoever is speaking with you.", ">\n\nBut I can't control what I think. If I said \"man you're stupid and I don't care what you say\" thats disrespectful. I'm actually showing respect by not saying it.", ">\n\nI mean, actions speak louder than words, right?", ">\n\nIts not really an action tho its just an automatic response. Like gasping or yawning.", ">\n\nbullshit.\nSorry, it was an automatic response. Which is bullshit just like yours.", ">\n\nStill not the same thing. And they get on me for false analogies....", ">\n\nYou must be a teenager", ">\n\nLol how many times are you gonna post that. Dont you have an original thought of your own?", ">\n\nBruh I cant believe you make these posts. They're foolish", ">\n\nLaughing at someone can be disrespectful. Don't think so? Try laughing at someone's funeral.", ">\n\nThe disrespect comes from the one who told me a joke and made me laugh.", ">\n\nWhat about if no one said any joke? Because, you know, you are at a funeral.", ">\n\nSo someone's just there randomly laughing at shit? That sounds like a mental illness.", ">\n\nYou have never thought of something funny in your head to make yourself laugh? \nOr hell, maybe you didn't like the person who is buried and decided to laugh at them. You find it funny, so laughing must be appropriate, right?", ">\n\nWhy am I thinking about funny shit at a funeral.", ">\n\nBecause the universe likes to put us in uncomfortable positions sometimes.", ">\n\n“if its stupid or lame, you roll your eyes” - you found the disrespect", ">\n\nIm allowed to think whatever i want and its not disrespectful.", ">\n\nWhen you express contempt for something someone else said, it's disrespect.", ">\n\nWhat if what they said is contemptible?", ">\n\nSome people and comments deserve disrespect, still gonna be disrespect", ">\n\nLaughing, crying, and sneezing are all innate, involuntary reactions to certain types of stimuli. Rolling your eyes is a learned behavior. You can’t compare it to those other automatic responses because it’s not the same thing.", ">\n\nTake my upvote", ">\n\nOP rolled their eyes at someone and got chewed out for it.\nNow they're going online in an attempt to validate themselves.\n🙄", ">\n\nProbably got grounded.", ">\n\nPart of being a mature adult is to have self-control and not acting on every impulse and being respectful of people.", ">\n\n\nPart of being a mature adult\n\nYup but OP is clearly a teenager lol. They complain about being told off for doing chores wrong in another post…", ">\n\nEven a teenager should be able to have the fundamental basics of respect", ">\n\nOh I agree 100%", ">\n\nYou have poor self-control and poor self-awareness but the good news is that you can improve these things.", ">\n\n/r/wrongopinions", ">\n\nI feel like we need a new subreddit r/unpopularforareason", ">\n\nIt’s entire purpose is to be disrespectful. Nobody eyerolls something they respect. But how offensive it is depends on the context and how serious one is being.", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes\n\nYou rn: \"I'm not being disrespectful. I just thought what you said was stupid or lame.\"\n...", ">\n\nSaying its stupid could be disrespectful. A facial response is not.", ">\n\nLiterally every person in this thread agrees that it is.\nThis is your bad habit. Nobody else's responsibility but you.", ">\n\nThey can choose to not fly off the handle at what is just an innate reaction.", ">\n\nSo let me get this straight: you think you deserve to be able to disrespect whoever you like whenever you like but they can't as much as say you're being rude? Grow up.", ">\n\nFound the teenager.", ">\n\nMeh, I agree with that one. If you don't like how someone is doing something then do it yourself. There's a reason I live alone.", ">\n\nIt is a UNIVERSAL sign of disrespect. Globally. Deal with it.", ">\n\nLaughing can be disrespectuful too. If you cannot control your own reactions, well, what can I say, maybe you have not really grown up?", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s so it’s hard to control my own actions sometimes…", ">\n\nThank u I'm trying to explain how autism can make it hard to read not just others facial expressions but also ur own and it seems like no one has thought of the possibility that they acc don't realise it or csnt control it", ">\n\nWould you roll your eyes during a job interview if you thought a question was stupid or irrelevant? Do you think you’d get the job if you did?", ">\n\nPretty sure OP would think they were owed that job and they would think it’s ridiculous if they didn’t get it.\nOP is also a teenager going through their rebel phase though", ">\n\nYou're oddly specific here.", ">\n\nWhat was specific? Or rather oddly specific?", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a good way to fast track yourself to a divorce, if you want one.", ">\n\nI think OP needs the definition of respect before any further comment is made", ">\n\nOh I already know it, and I know it does not mean:\nDon't ever disagree with me\nDon't think bad thoughts about me\nDon't ever correct me when I'm blatantly wrong \nShine my boots with your tongue", ">\n\nSoooo this post isn’t about eye rolling is what I’m getting from this. You’ve got issues to work through with your parents or partner or something", ">\n\nSince when tf was eye rolling involuntary?", ">", ">\n\nYour lack of self control is not a justification for disrespect. I personally dont know anyone who reacts to anything by rolling their eyes. Just be mature and communicate.", ">\n\nAnd what if it's not stupid and someone rolls their eyes? Wouldn't it be disrespectful in that case?", ">\n\nIn the eye rollers opinion then it must have been. But you can't fault someone for thinking its stupid.", ">\n\nSo eyerolling is some kind of exceptional thing that is free from criticism? \nIf one has the freedom to eye roll, then someone else has the freedom to criticize the eye roller right? \nOr is it your opinion that besides that everyone who sees an eye roller has to just stfu", ">\n\nMeh, it is disrespectful. It's a way to be disrespectful without having to say That's the dumbest thing I've heard all month, and everyone else who heard it is also dumber for hearing it as well.", ">\n\nBut I didn't say it that's the point.", ">\n\nJust cuz you don’t use words doesn’t mean it’s not disrespectful. Walking away while someone is talking to you, rolling your eyes, slapping someone, and starting to play a game on your phone while someone is talking to you are all disrespectful. It doesn’t matter that you didn’t say anything, your lack of respect still showed.", ">\n\nespecially the way theyre responding to comments", ">\n\nYeah, a natural reaction if you’ve never learned to manage your emotions as opposed to letting them run your life. I’m not talking about being totally monotone rational, either. You need to learn a balance between rational and emotional…which includes healthy, appropriate, respectful expression of honest feelings. Eye rolling is absolutely disrespectful, belittling, and dismissive.", ">\n\nComments: OP is completely wrong and has attitude issues", ">\n\nWhat sounds like mental illness is you refusing to admit that rolling your eyes is simply not an unconditional response. Whether you want to believe it or not, you are doing it intentionally and you can control it. \nYou’re just to much of a b—— to do so.", ">\n\nSame to you", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a learned reaction. Not natural. I rarely of ever roll my eyes at anything.", ">", ">\n\nJust like raising your middle finger. Or vocalizing the sounds \"fuck you\". Or fingers typing the words fuck you OP. Nothing is disrespectful!", ">\n\nNice try but not the same thing at all. You're talking about thought out actions here. The eye roll is more like a reaction. Its quick, its automatic, no one has to think \"im rolling my eyes now\" it just happens. \nSort of like when telling a lie - no one decides to have their eyes dart around suspiciously, it just happens.", ">\n\nNo. Rolling your eyes is not involuntary. It can be controlled. You have a bad habit that you CAN stop. Much like a child learning not to suck their thumb, or biting your nails.", ">\n\nHow about you start with your hair scratching", ">\n\nYour opinion is a contradiction in itself. And, yeah. I disagree. Rolling your eyes is 100% to show lack of respect, and you have no intentions of showing it, even to reason, by rolling your eyes at something someone could believe is meaningful or important. Even if it is stupid.\nI get your point, we roll our eyes to express how we feel, but it is still a physical snare. You say rolling your eyes isn't disrespectful, while saying it's okay to roll your eyes because something is \" stupid or lame\", which in itself is disrespectful. You sound like a very young person in the middle of a learning moment, and you're trying to react with rebellion. It only shows that you lack maturity and are in need of growth. This might be a time for you to read these comments and reevaluate. There are healthier ways to react to things you disagree with, or lack interest in. If not, you can just accept that you roll your eyes to show lack of respect.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is much more deliberate than laughter, tears, or sneezing. It's a conscious action in response to a judgement you're making.", ">\n\nNah, dude it is disrespectful \nYou just have no self control and by the looks of it you don't want to build some", ">\n\nYour post made me roll my eyes very hard.", ">\n\n“No, officer, my wife - she MADE me hit her!”", ">\n\nIt's a natural reaction for a sooky kid but not an adult, if you do that as an adult you just manchild that wants everything their way", ">\n\npoor OP.... did you get in trouble after you rolled your eyes at something again? did you not prehaps learn from previous interactions? rolling your eyes at something \"stupid or lame\" is an intentional response that is disrespectful to whatever it is. mature people dont act that way.....", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes.\n\nSo it is disrespectful. \n\nIts like throwing pepper in someone's face an expecting them not to sneeze.\n\nNo it’s not. You can easily (edited in) refrain from rolling your eyes, while it’s much more difficult to refrain from sneezing. \nIt’s fine to think whatever you want, but you might want to refrain from rolling your eyes when you’re, say, interacting with your boss; aka someone that can make you unemployed for whatever reason they please.", ">\n\nThis isn't an opinion. It's just flat wrong. \nIt is disrespectful because it is a conscious signifier which clearly communicated that you think that the thing you are rolling your eyes at is not worthy of respect.", ">\n\nYou have to go out of your way to roll your eyes. It is NOT gutteral or instinctual", ">\n\nIf you annoy me, my arm whips out in a natural reaction and slaps you.", ">\n\nSorry, kiddo, it’s 100% disrespectful. Just own the shit and quit trying to lawyer around it.\nI say that after having rolled my eyes so hard at your post, I travelled back in time.", ">\n\nTell that to my family lol you get the belt", ">\n\nThis was made my a 15 year old who just got told off by their mom about rolling their eyes. Then in defense said, “I can’t control it”", ">\n\nMan it's getting so aggressive sometimes here 😂", ">\n\ni certainly hope you are embarrassed about this in a couple years when you grow up.", ">\n\nOP is a habitual eye roller 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄", ">\n\nI wish to God we could block people by age, no more edgy 13yo’s", ">\n\nSomebody just got their ps5 taken away for rolling their eyes", ">\n\nTell me you're 12 without telling me you're 12.", ">\n\nit’s the definition of disrespectful and a sign that you have literally nothing intelligent to say in return. \nwhich is why we outgrow it as adults.", ">\n\nYou can control it. It’s not an “automatic response” unless you’ve taught yourself to do it. I never roll my eyes. It’s just not something I have ever practiced doing. And yes…if I’m saying something too you and you dismiss it with an eye roll…it’s super disrespectful.", ">\n\nrolling your eyes is just as respectful as sticking your tongue out at someone or making a stupid face in reaction to something someone says", ">\n\nIf you can’t control your eye movement, you need to see a neurologist, dude 😆. As it stands, eye rolling isn’t a reflex or a “natural reaction” to anything. Habits aren’t the same as involuntary reactions.\nRolling your eyes at someone is disrespectful. It’s an outward sign that you think something about your interaction with them was stupid or wrong. There’s no one here that will agree with you, and you know that you’re in the vast minority with this opinion because you posted it on this sub. Now learn some humility and accept that your opinion is factually incorrect based on science.", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nAre you like 14 and your mom got you in trouble cause you rolled your eyes at her? Lmao", ">\n\nI’m gonna show your mom this and it’s going to be another week of being grounded, you little shit lol", ">\n\nOmfg 😂", ">\n\nOP I have to ask.\n\n\nHow old are you?\n\n\nHow is your relationship with your parents?\n\n\nHow do you view authority figures in your life?", ">\n\nrolls eyes", ">\n\nIf you say or demand something stupid from me I will probably roll my eyes.", ">\n\nBut it is", ">\n\nJust like rolling your eyes is an innate response, so are other people's responses to you rolling your eyes.", ">\n\nSometimes being respectful requires hiding your subjective opinion on whether something is stupid or lame.", ">\n\nI wouldn’t say eye rolling is as involuntary as laughing or crying tho. It’s more of a choice.", ">\n\nIf someone rolls their eyes then I feel disrespected it’s a natural reaction.", ">\n\ntell me you're a teenager without telling me you're a teenager", ">\n\nI'm rolling my eyes at this post. And I definitely mean it disrespectfully.", ">\n\nLmao this kid had an argument with his parent(s) or teacher and is venting on Reddit.", ">\n\nYou sound like an eye rolling arsehole", ">\n\ni have never had an as a nonvoulentary action, it requires very explicit movement of you eye. this is like saying “when i dont like people, i punch them in the head, thats my natural reaction i cant control it”\ni have never once legitimately rolled my eyes at something, i think you might be an asshole", ">\n\nMe smacking your face is also an innate uncontrollable response to you rolling your eyes. I'm only human. What can I do? 🙄", ">\n\nI disagree. also there are a billion other ways to express something being stupid or lame than rolling ur eyes", ">\n\nStop downvoting, this is ACTUALLY a very unpopular opinion and I love to see it tbh. Voice your disagreement in the comments but don't downvote the post. This post is hilarious.", ">\n\nThis is something you’ve learned to do. It’s entirely in your control if you do it or not.", ">\n\nI once got a detention for rolling my eyes at a teacher in 4th grade.\nI agree with you, though. The only other person I've ever really rolled my eyes at was my mother, and she deserved it, every single time.", ">\n\nI get your point. I absolutely purposefully roll my eyes sometimes and whoever I'm doing it to would be valid for getting mad. \nBut as someone who can't hide any emotion on their face (literally any, I'm the definition of an open book) there have been plenty of times where people blew up at me or laughed because I rolled my eyes when I didn't even realize I had done it. Feel like the people disagreeing with you haven't experienced this problem.", ">\n\nWhat you've done is cultivate a bad habit and then blamed it on everyone else when you repeat your own bad habit unintentionally.\nThis is entirely your fault.", ">\n\nOnly on Reddit would someone so boldly declare something like this to a stranger. I'm on the spectrum so that might have to do with my not being able to hide any emotion (I truly mean that, people can basically read my thoughts just by looking at me, good and bad). \nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave. Consider working on that.", ">\n\nSo they point out you’re cultivating a bad habit and blaming other people so you then, blame them? It’s a little spot on don’t you think?", ">\n\nWhen did i blame them for my own actions? Could you quote me? I was just pointing out how weird it was that they made such a strong assumption of my character off a causal comment I left when they themselves were ironically being unnecessarily rude in the process. \nI don't know how you got so lost?", ">\n\n\nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave.\n\nClassic deflection and implication that they’re the one with the problem, not you", ">\n\nFirst its not automatic. I almost never rolled my eyes. Its much easier to control than laughing crying or sneezing. So you just dont make the effort. Its actually a way to express your feeling. You should know that, its your personnality not a human instinctive reaction. \nAnd yes not respecting something is disrespectful. Its not that hard to understand. \nAnyway if i see you.. i dont know having a breakdown after being fired and dumped and start to laugh you'd like that ? \nIf im sad because something good happens to you and show it to you, you would like that ? \nHonestly you are just trying to justify being a bit of a jerk. \nI dont blame you or anything we all are jerks sometime but its what you are doing right now.", ">\n\nI have to refocus my eyes and most of the time blinking doesn’t cut it. I have a lazy eye and when I look at someone for a long time it unfocuses, so moving the muscle is the only way to reset it. If I don’t, people start moving their heads/ bodies trying to focus on my lazy eye. It gets awkward.", ">\n\nThis is where I go to my training as a kid. What others think of you is none of your business.", ">\n\nUnless you have a tick or something like Tourette’s syndrome, then it’s not an involuntary response. Part of living in a society and not being considered rude is managing your body language.\nLet me put it this way. “Rudeness” in itself is a social concept. That means it’s decided by the perception of the masses, what we generally agree upon in terms of our symbols of communication, our customs, our beliefs, our values, etc. For you to say that rolling your eyes isn’t disrespectful is not objectively wrong. But according to the society you live in, it is wrong. In layman’s terms, the hill you’re dying on here is completely arbitrary, neither side will ever be truly correct but as long as you live in a society which feels this way then you will be beholden to it anyways.", ">\n\nTo be fair, if your thinking its stupid or lame, then that is dis-respect. I'd agree with this if it was worded like 'More people need to say what they truly think', but I think you sort of missed the mark, OP.", ">\n\nI am equally annoyed when folks rapidly blink and look away mid conversation or drop their arm dead against their thigh. It’s like you’ve given up an effort to even keep your body vertical and engaged while I’m talking to you.", ">\n\nOP getting downvoted AF & keeps commenting. Gotta love it.", ">\n\nIt is shown as a sign of disrespect and it shows weakness. I can’t imagine Gandhi, the queen of England or Einstein roll their eyes in front of random people. The reason why they were respected is because they didn’t play any superiority game on front of… inferiors or ignorant people. If something is stupid, get the patience and find enough love within yourself to treat the other ones right. \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a child because his question is “stupid”, what parent does it make you ? \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a bad question because you are an expert in a subject, then it is not your modesty that speaks but your ego. For proof : Even if someone you hate said something intelligent, you might want to roll your eyes just to flatter your ego.", ">\n\nIt's seen as disrespectful BECAUSE it's inadvertently telling them you think they're irritating/annoying.", ">\n\nI never roll my eyes? Is that something people do naturally?", ">\n\nAll depends on the context of what is going on.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is not a natural reaction?" ]
> I have Tourette’s and one of my tics is eye rolling	[ "🙄", ">\n\nYou’re grounded now", ">\n\nThe post above was someone getting electrocuted so this reply was very timely", ">\n\nThis news is shocking", ">\n\nIt definitely SPARKED my interest", ">\n\nAll of you guys need to leave, and not come back before learning how to conduct yourselves properly", ">\n\nUhhhh....... electricity", ">\n\nWell no, in the right context it is disrespectful. Rolling your eyes suggests that you're not taking the matter seriously or that you dont care which is a sign of disrespect towards whoever is speaking with you.", ">\n\nBut I can't control what I think. If I said \"man you're stupid and I don't care what you say\" thats disrespectful. I'm actually showing respect by not saying it.", ">\n\nI mean, actions speak louder than words, right?", ">\n\nIts not really an action tho its just an automatic response. Like gasping or yawning.", ">\n\nbullshit.\nSorry, it was an automatic response. Which is bullshit just like yours.", ">\n\nStill not the same thing. And they get on me for false analogies....", ">\n\nYou must be a teenager", ">\n\nLol how many times are you gonna post that. Dont you have an original thought of your own?", ">\n\nBruh I cant believe you make these posts. They're foolish", ">\n\nLaughing at someone can be disrespectful. Don't think so? Try laughing at someone's funeral.", ">\n\nThe disrespect comes from the one who told me a joke and made me laugh.", ">\n\nWhat about if no one said any joke? Because, you know, you are at a funeral.", ">\n\nSo someone's just there randomly laughing at shit? That sounds like a mental illness.", ">\n\nYou have never thought of something funny in your head to make yourself laugh? \nOr hell, maybe you didn't like the person who is buried and decided to laugh at them. You find it funny, so laughing must be appropriate, right?", ">\n\nWhy am I thinking about funny shit at a funeral.", ">\n\nBecause the universe likes to put us in uncomfortable positions sometimes.", ">\n\n“if its stupid or lame, you roll your eyes” - you found the disrespect", ">\n\nIm allowed to think whatever i want and its not disrespectful.", ">\n\nWhen you express contempt for something someone else said, it's disrespect.", ">\n\nWhat if what they said is contemptible?", ">\n\nSome people and comments deserve disrespect, still gonna be disrespect", ">\n\nLaughing, crying, and sneezing are all innate, involuntary reactions to certain types of stimuli. Rolling your eyes is a learned behavior. You can’t compare it to those other automatic responses because it’s not the same thing.", ">\n\nTake my upvote", ">\n\nOP rolled their eyes at someone and got chewed out for it.\nNow they're going online in an attempt to validate themselves.\n🙄", ">\n\nProbably got grounded.", ">\n\nPart of being a mature adult is to have self-control and not acting on every impulse and being respectful of people.", ">\n\n\nPart of being a mature adult\n\nYup but OP is clearly a teenager lol. They complain about being told off for doing chores wrong in another post…", ">\n\nEven a teenager should be able to have the fundamental basics of respect", ">\n\nOh I agree 100%", ">\n\nYou have poor self-control and poor self-awareness but the good news is that you can improve these things.", ">\n\n/r/wrongopinions", ">\n\nI feel like we need a new subreddit r/unpopularforareason", ">\n\nIt’s entire purpose is to be disrespectful. Nobody eyerolls something they respect. But how offensive it is depends on the context and how serious one is being.", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes\n\nYou rn: \"I'm not being disrespectful. I just thought what you said was stupid or lame.\"\n...", ">\n\nSaying its stupid could be disrespectful. A facial response is not.", ">\n\nLiterally every person in this thread agrees that it is.\nThis is your bad habit. Nobody else's responsibility but you.", ">\n\nThey can choose to not fly off the handle at what is just an innate reaction.", ">\n\nSo let me get this straight: you think you deserve to be able to disrespect whoever you like whenever you like but they can't as much as say you're being rude? Grow up.", ">\n\nFound the teenager.", ">\n\nMeh, I agree with that one. If you don't like how someone is doing something then do it yourself. There's a reason I live alone.", ">\n\nIt is a UNIVERSAL sign of disrespect. Globally. Deal with it.", ">\n\nLaughing can be disrespectuful too. If you cannot control your own reactions, well, what can I say, maybe you have not really grown up?", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s so it’s hard to control my own actions sometimes…", ">\n\nThank u I'm trying to explain how autism can make it hard to read not just others facial expressions but also ur own and it seems like no one has thought of the possibility that they acc don't realise it or csnt control it", ">\n\nWould you roll your eyes during a job interview if you thought a question was stupid or irrelevant? Do you think you’d get the job if you did?", ">\n\nPretty sure OP would think they were owed that job and they would think it’s ridiculous if they didn’t get it.\nOP is also a teenager going through their rebel phase though", ">\n\nYou're oddly specific here.", ">\n\nWhat was specific? Or rather oddly specific?", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a good way to fast track yourself to a divorce, if you want one.", ">\n\nI think OP needs the definition of respect before any further comment is made", ">\n\nOh I already know it, and I know it does not mean:\nDon't ever disagree with me\nDon't think bad thoughts about me\nDon't ever correct me when I'm blatantly wrong \nShine my boots with your tongue", ">\n\nSoooo this post isn’t about eye rolling is what I’m getting from this. You’ve got issues to work through with your parents or partner or something", ">\n\nSince when tf was eye rolling involuntary?", ">", ">\n\nYour lack of self control is not a justification for disrespect. I personally dont know anyone who reacts to anything by rolling their eyes. Just be mature and communicate.", ">\n\nAnd what if it's not stupid and someone rolls their eyes? Wouldn't it be disrespectful in that case?", ">\n\nIn the eye rollers opinion then it must have been. But you can't fault someone for thinking its stupid.", ">\n\nSo eyerolling is some kind of exceptional thing that is free from criticism? \nIf one has the freedom to eye roll, then someone else has the freedom to criticize the eye roller right? \nOr is it your opinion that besides that everyone who sees an eye roller has to just stfu", ">\n\nMeh, it is disrespectful. It's a way to be disrespectful without having to say That's the dumbest thing I've heard all month, and everyone else who heard it is also dumber for hearing it as well.", ">\n\nBut I didn't say it that's the point.", ">\n\nJust cuz you don’t use words doesn’t mean it’s not disrespectful. Walking away while someone is talking to you, rolling your eyes, slapping someone, and starting to play a game on your phone while someone is talking to you are all disrespectful. It doesn’t matter that you didn’t say anything, your lack of respect still showed.", ">\n\nespecially the way theyre responding to comments", ">\n\nYeah, a natural reaction if you’ve never learned to manage your emotions as opposed to letting them run your life. I’m not talking about being totally monotone rational, either. You need to learn a balance between rational and emotional…which includes healthy, appropriate, respectful expression of honest feelings. Eye rolling is absolutely disrespectful, belittling, and dismissive.", ">\n\nComments: OP is completely wrong and has attitude issues", ">\n\nWhat sounds like mental illness is you refusing to admit that rolling your eyes is simply not an unconditional response. Whether you want to believe it or not, you are doing it intentionally and you can control it. \nYou’re just to much of a b—— to do so.", ">\n\nSame to you", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a learned reaction. Not natural. I rarely of ever roll my eyes at anything.", ">", ">\n\nJust like raising your middle finger. Or vocalizing the sounds \"fuck you\". Or fingers typing the words fuck you OP. Nothing is disrespectful!", ">\n\nNice try but not the same thing at all. You're talking about thought out actions here. The eye roll is more like a reaction. Its quick, its automatic, no one has to think \"im rolling my eyes now\" it just happens. \nSort of like when telling a lie - no one decides to have their eyes dart around suspiciously, it just happens.", ">\n\nNo. Rolling your eyes is not involuntary. It can be controlled. You have a bad habit that you CAN stop. Much like a child learning not to suck their thumb, or biting your nails.", ">\n\nHow about you start with your hair scratching", ">\n\nYour opinion is a contradiction in itself. And, yeah. I disagree. Rolling your eyes is 100% to show lack of respect, and you have no intentions of showing it, even to reason, by rolling your eyes at something someone could believe is meaningful or important. Even if it is stupid.\nI get your point, we roll our eyes to express how we feel, but it is still a physical snare. You say rolling your eyes isn't disrespectful, while saying it's okay to roll your eyes because something is \" stupid or lame\", which in itself is disrespectful. You sound like a very young person in the middle of a learning moment, and you're trying to react with rebellion. It only shows that you lack maturity and are in need of growth. This might be a time for you to read these comments and reevaluate. There are healthier ways to react to things you disagree with, or lack interest in. If not, you can just accept that you roll your eyes to show lack of respect.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is much more deliberate than laughter, tears, or sneezing. It's a conscious action in response to a judgement you're making.", ">\n\nNah, dude it is disrespectful \nYou just have no self control and by the looks of it you don't want to build some", ">\n\nYour post made me roll my eyes very hard.", ">\n\n“No, officer, my wife - she MADE me hit her!”", ">\n\nIt's a natural reaction for a sooky kid but not an adult, if you do that as an adult you just manchild that wants everything their way", ">\n\npoor OP.... did you get in trouble after you rolled your eyes at something again? did you not prehaps learn from previous interactions? rolling your eyes at something \"stupid or lame\" is an intentional response that is disrespectful to whatever it is. mature people dont act that way.....", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes.\n\nSo it is disrespectful. \n\nIts like throwing pepper in someone's face an expecting them not to sneeze.\n\nNo it’s not. You can easily (edited in) refrain from rolling your eyes, while it’s much more difficult to refrain from sneezing. \nIt’s fine to think whatever you want, but you might want to refrain from rolling your eyes when you’re, say, interacting with your boss; aka someone that can make you unemployed for whatever reason they please.", ">\n\nThis isn't an opinion. It's just flat wrong. \nIt is disrespectful because it is a conscious signifier which clearly communicated that you think that the thing you are rolling your eyes at is not worthy of respect.", ">\n\nYou have to go out of your way to roll your eyes. It is NOT gutteral or instinctual", ">\n\nIf you annoy me, my arm whips out in a natural reaction and slaps you.", ">\n\nSorry, kiddo, it’s 100% disrespectful. Just own the shit and quit trying to lawyer around it.\nI say that after having rolled my eyes so hard at your post, I travelled back in time.", ">\n\nTell that to my family lol you get the belt", ">\n\nThis was made my a 15 year old who just got told off by their mom about rolling their eyes. Then in defense said, “I can’t control it”", ">\n\nMan it's getting so aggressive sometimes here 😂", ">\n\ni certainly hope you are embarrassed about this in a couple years when you grow up.", ">\n\nOP is a habitual eye roller 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄", ">\n\nI wish to God we could block people by age, no more edgy 13yo’s", ">\n\nSomebody just got their ps5 taken away for rolling their eyes", ">\n\nTell me you're 12 without telling me you're 12.", ">\n\nit’s the definition of disrespectful and a sign that you have literally nothing intelligent to say in return. \nwhich is why we outgrow it as adults.", ">\n\nYou can control it. It’s not an “automatic response” unless you’ve taught yourself to do it. I never roll my eyes. It’s just not something I have ever practiced doing. And yes…if I’m saying something too you and you dismiss it with an eye roll…it’s super disrespectful.", ">\n\nrolling your eyes is just as respectful as sticking your tongue out at someone or making a stupid face in reaction to something someone says", ">\n\nIf you can’t control your eye movement, you need to see a neurologist, dude 😆. As it stands, eye rolling isn’t a reflex or a “natural reaction” to anything. Habits aren’t the same as involuntary reactions.\nRolling your eyes at someone is disrespectful. It’s an outward sign that you think something about your interaction with them was stupid or wrong. There’s no one here that will agree with you, and you know that you’re in the vast minority with this opinion because you posted it on this sub. Now learn some humility and accept that your opinion is factually incorrect based on science.", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nAre you like 14 and your mom got you in trouble cause you rolled your eyes at her? Lmao", ">\n\nI’m gonna show your mom this and it’s going to be another week of being grounded, you little shit lol", ">\n\nOmfg 😂", ">\n\nOP I have to ask.\n\n\nHow old are you?\n\n\nHow is your relationship with your parents?\n\n\nHow do you view authority figures in your life?", ">\n\nrolls eyes", ">\n\nIf you say or demand something stupid from me I will probably roll my eyes.", ">\n\nBut it is", ">\n\nJust like rolling your eyes is an innate response, so are other people's responses to you rolling your eyes.", ">\n\nSometimes being respectful requires hiding your subjective opinion on whether something is stupid or lame.", ">\n\nI wouldn’t say eye rolling is as involuntary as laughing or crying tho. It’s more of a choice.", ">\n\nIf someone rolls their eyes then I feel disrespected it’s a natural reaction.", ">\n\ntell me you're a teenager without telling me you're a teenager", ">\n\nI'm rolling my eyes at this post. And I definitely mean it disrespectfully.", ">\n\nLmao this kid had an argument with his parent(s) or teacher and is venting on Reddit.", ">\n\nYou sound like an eye rolling arsehole", ">\n\ni have never had an as a nonvoulentary action, it requires very explicit movement of you eye. this is like saying “when i dont like people, i punch them in the head, thats my natural reaction i cant control it”\ni have never once legitimately rolled my eyes at something, i think you might be an asshole", ">\n\nMe smacking your face is also an innate uncontrollable response to you rolling your eyes. I'm only human. What can I do? 🙄", ">\n\nI disagree. also there are a billion other ways to express something being stupid or lame than rolling ur eyes", ">\n\nStop downvoting, this is ACTUALLY a very unpopular opinion and I love to see it tbh. Voice your disagreement in the comments but don't downvote the post. This post is hilarious.", ">\n\nThis is something you’ve learned to do. It’s entirely in your control if you do it or not.", ">\n\nI once got a detention for rolling my eyes at a teacher in 4th grade.\nI agree with you, though. The only other person I've ever really rolled my eyes at was my mother, and she deserved it, every single time.", ">\n\nI get your point. I absolutely purposefully roll my eyes sometimes and whoever I'm doing it to would be valid for getting mad. \nBut as someone who can't hide any emotion on their face (literally any, I'm the definition of an open book) there have been plenty of times where people blew up at me or laughed because I rolled my eyes when I didn't even realize I had done it. Feel like the people disagreeing with you haven't experienced this problem.", ">\n\nWhat you've done is cultivate a bad habit and then blamed it on everyone else when you repeat your own bad habit unintentionally.\nThis is entirely your fault.", ">\n\nOnly on Reddit would someone so boldly declare something like this to a stranger. I'm on the spectrum so that might have to do with my not being able to hide any emotion (I truly mean that, people can basically read my thoughts just by looking at me, good and bad). \nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave. Consider working on that.", ">\n\nSo they point out you’re cultivating a bad habit and blaming other people so you then, blame them? It’s a little spot on don’t you think?", ">\n\nWhen did i blame them for my own actions? Could you quote me? I was just pointing out how weird it was that they made such a strong assumption of my character off a causal comment I left when they themselves were ironically being unnecessarily rude in the process. \nI don't know how you got so lost?", ">\n\n\nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave.\n\nClassic deflection and implication that they’re the one with the problem, not you", ">\n\nFirst its not automatic. I almost never rolled my eyes. Its much easier to control than laughing crying or sneezing. So you just dont make the effort. Its actually a way to express your feeling. You should know that, its your personnality not a human instinctive reaction. \nAnd yes not respecting something is disrespectful. Its not that hard to understand. \nAnyway if i see you.. i dont know having a breakdown after being fired and dumped and start to laugh you'd like that ? \nIf im sad because something good happens to you and show it to you, you would like that ? \nHonestly you are just trying to justify being a bit of a jerk. \nI dont blame you or anything we all are jerks sometime but its what you are doing right now.", ">\n\nI have to refocus my eyes and most of the time blinking doesn’t cut it. I have a lazy eye and when I look at someone for a long time it unfocuses, so moving the muscle is the only way to reset it. If I don’t, people start moving their heads/ bodies trying to focus on my lazy eye. It gets awkward.", ">\n\nThis is where I go to my training as a kid. What others think of you is none of your business.", ">\n\nUnless you have a tick or something like Tourette’s syndrome, then it’s not an involuntary response. Part of living in a society and not being considered rude is managing your body language.\nLet me put it this way. “Rudeness” in itself is a social concept. That means it’s decided by the perception of the masses, what we generally agree upon in terms of our symbols of communication, our customs, our beliefs, our values, etc. For you to say that rolling your eyes isn’t disrespectful is not objectively wrong. But according to the society you live in, it is wrong. In layman’s terms, the hill you’re dying on here is completely arbitrary, neither side will ever be truly correct but as long as you live in a society which feels this way then you will be beholden to it anyways.", ">\n\nTo be fair, if your thinking its stupid or lame, then that is dis-respect. I'd agree with this if it was worded like 'More people need to say what they truly think', but I think you sort of missed the mark, OP.", ">\n\nI am equally annoyed when folks rapidly blink and look away mid conversation or drop their arm dead against their thigh. It’s like you’ve given up an effort to even keep your body vertical and engaged while I’m talking to you.", ">\n\nOP getting downvoted AF & keeps commenting. Gotta love it.", ">\n\nIt is shown as a sign of disrespect and it shows weakness. I can’t imagine Gandhi, the queen of England or Einstein roll their eyes in front of random people. The reason why they were respected is because they didn’t play any superiority game on front of… inferiors or ignorant people. If something is stupid, get the patience and find enough love within yourself to treat the other ones right. \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a child because his question is “stupid”, what parent does it make you ? \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a bad question because you are an expert in a subject, then it is not your modesty that speaks but your ego. For proof : Even if someone you hate said something intelligent, you might want to roll your eyes just to flatter your ego.", ">\n\nIt's seen as disrespectful BECAUSE it's inadvertently telling them you think they're irritating/annoying.", ">\n\nI never roll my eyes? Is that something people do naturally?", ">\n\nAll depends on the context of what is going on.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is not a natural reaction?", ">\n\nNot maintaining basic self control is disrespectful. It's the same reason we don't defecate in public, sneeze on people, or stand in the way of foot traffic." ]
> K	[ "🙄", ">\n\nYou’re grounded now", ">\n\nThe post above was someone getting electrocuted so this reply was very timely", ">\n\nThis news is shocking", ">\n\nIt definitely SPARKED my interest", ">\n\nAll of you guys need to leave, and not come back before learning how to conduct yourselves properly", ">\n\nUhhhh....... electricity", ">\n\nWell no, in the right context it is disrespectful. Rolling your eyes suggests that you're not taking the matter seriously or that you dont care which is a sign of disrespect towards whoever is speaking with you.", ">\n\nBut I can't control what I think. If I said \"man you're stupid and I don't care what you say\" thats disrespectful. I'm actually showing respect by not saying it.", ">\n\nI mean, actions speak louder than words, right?", ">\n\nIts not really an action tho its just an automatic response. Like gasping or yawning.", ">\n\nbullshit.\nSorry, it was an automatic response. Which is bullshit just like yours.", ">\n\nStill not the same thing. And they get on me for false analogies....", ">\n\nYou must be a teenager", ">\n\nLol how many times are you gonna post that. Dont you have an original thought of your own?", ">\n\nBruh I cant believe you make these posts. They're foolish", ">\n\nLaughing at someone can be disrespectful. Don't think so? Try laughing at someone's funeral.", ">\n\nThe disrespect comes from the one who told me a joke and made me laugh.", ">\n\nWhat about if no one said any joke? Because, you know, you are at a funeral.", ">\n\nSo someone's just there randomly laughing at shit? That sounds like a mental illness.", ">\n\nYou have never thought of something funny in your head to make yourself laugh? \nOr hell, maybe you didn't like the person who is buried and decided to laugh at them. You find it funny, so laughing must be appropriate, right?", ">\n\nWhy am I thinking about funny shit at a funeral.", ">\n\nBecause the universe likes to put us in uncomfortable positions sometimes.", ">\n\n“if its stupid or lame, you roll your eyes” - you found the disrespect", ">\n\nIm allowed to think whatever i want and its not disrespectful.", ">\n\nWhen you express contempt for something someone else said, it's disrespect.", ">\n\nWhat if what they said is contemptible?", ">\n\nSome people and comments deserve disrespect, still gonna be disrespect", ">\n\nLaughing, crying, and sneezing are all innate, involuntary reactions to certain types of stimuli. Rolling your eyes is a learned behavior. You can’t compare it to those other automatic responses because it’s not the same thing.", ">\n\nTake my upvote", ">\n\nOP rolled their eyes at someone and got chewed out for it.\nNow they're going online in an attempt to validate themselves.\n🙄", ">\n\nProbably got grounded.", ">\n\nPart of being a mature adult is to have self-control and not acting on every impulse and being respectful of people.", ">\n\n\nPart of being a mature adult\n\nYup but OP is clearly a teenager lol. They complain about being told off for doing chores wrong in another post…", ">\n\nEven a teenager should be able to have the fundamental basics of respect", ">\n\nOh I agree 100%", ">\n\nYou have poor self-control and poor self-awareness but the good news is that you can improve these things.", ">\n\n/r/wrongopinions", ">\n\nI feel like we need a new subreddit r/unpopularforareason", ">\n\nIt’s entire purpose is to be disrespectful. Nobody eyerolls something they respect. But how offensive it is depends on the context and how serious one is being.", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes\n\nYou rn: \"I'm not being disrespectful. I just thought what you said was stupid or lame.\"\n...", ">\n\nSaying its stupid could be disrespectful. A facial response is not.", ">\n\nLiterally every person in this thread agrees that it is.\nThis is your bad habit. Nobody else's responsibility but you.", ">\n\nThey can choose to not fly off the handle at what is just an innate reaction.", ">\n\nSo let me get this straight: you think you deserve to be able to disrespect whoever you like whenever you like but they can't as much as say you're being rude? Grow up.", ">\n\nFound the teenager.", ">\n\nMeh, I agree with that one. If you don't like how someone is doing something then do it yourself. There's a reason I live alone.", ">\n\nIt is a UNIVERSAL sign of disrespect. Globally. Deal with it.", ">\n\nLaughing can be disrespectuful too. If you cannot control your own reactions, well, what can I say, maybe you have not really grown up?", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s so it’s hard to control my own actions sometimes…", ">\n\nThank u I'm trying to explain how autism can make it hard to read not just others facial expressions but also ur own and it seems like no one has thought of the possibility that they acc don't realise it or csnt control it", ">\n\nWould you roll your eyes during a job interview if you thought a question was stupid or irrelevant? Do you think you’d get the job if you did?", ">\n\nPretty sure OP would think they were owed that job and they would think it’s ridiculous if they didn’t get it.\nOP is also a teenager going through their rebel phase though", ">\n\nYou're oddly specific here.", ">\n\nWhat was specific? Or rather oddly specific?", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a good way to fast track yourself to a divorce, if you want one.", ">\n\nI think OP needs the definition of respect before any further comment is made", ">\n\nOh I already know it, and I know it does not mean:\nDon't ever disagree with me\nDon't think bad thoughts about me\nDon't ever correct me when I'm blatantly wrong \nShine my boots with your tongue", ">\n\nSoooo this post isn’t about eye rolling is what I’m getting from this. You’ve got issues to work through with your parents or partner or something", ">\n\nSince when tf was eye rolling involuntary?", ">", ">\n\nYour lack of self control is not a justification for disrespect. I personally dont know anyone who reacts to anything by rolling their eyes. Just be mature and communicate.", ">\n\nAnd what if it's not stupid and someone rolls their eyes? Wouldn't it be disrespectful in that case?", ">\n\nIn the eye rollers opinion then it must have been. But you can't fault someone for thinking its stupid.", ">\n\nSo eyerolling is some kind of exceptional thing that is free from criticism? \nIf one has the freedom to eye roll, then someone else has the freedom to criticize the eye roller right? \nOr is it your opinion that besides that everyone who sees an eye roller has to just stfu", ">\n\nMeh, it is disrespectful. It's a way to be disrespectful without having to say That's the dumbest thing I've heard all month, and everyone else who heard it is also dumber for hearing it as well.", ">\n\nBut I didn't say it that's the point.", ">\n\nJust cuz you don’t use words doesn’t mean it’s not disrespectful. Walking away while someone is talking to you, rolling your eyes, slapping someone, and starting to play a game on your phone while someone is talking to you are all disrespectful. It doesn’t matter that you didn’t say anything, your lack of respect still showed.", ">\n\nespecially the way theyre responding to comments", ">\n\nYeah, a natural reaction if you’ve never learned to manage your emotions as opposed to letting them run your life. I’m not talking about being totally monotone rational, either. You need to learn a balance between rational and emotional…which includes healthy, appropriate, respectful expression of honest feelings. Eye rolling is absolutely disrespectful, belittling, and dismissive.", ">\n\nComments: OP is completely wrong and has attitude issues", ">\n\nWhat sounds like mental illness is you refusing to admit that rolling your eyes is simply not an unconditional response. Whether you want to believe it or not, you are doing it intentionally and you can control it. \nYou’re just to much of a b—— to do so.", ">\n\nSame to you", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a learned reaction. Not natural. I rarely of ever roll my eyes at anything.", ">", ">\n\nJust like raising your middle finger. Or vocalizing the sounds \"fuck you\". Or fingers typing the words fuck you OP. Nothing is disrespectful!", ">\n\nNice try but not the same thing at all. You're talking about thought out actions here. The eye roll is more like a reaction. Its quick, its automatic, no one has to think \"im rolling my eyes now\" it just happens. \nSort of like when telling a lie - no one decides to have their eyes dart around suspiciously, it just happens.", ">\n\nNo. Rolling your eyes is not involuntary. It can be controlled. You have a bad habit that you CAN stop. Much like a child learning not to suck their thumb, or biting your nails.", ">\n\nHow about you start with your hair scratching", ">\n\nYour opinion is a contradiction in itself. And, yeah. I disagree. Rolling your eyes is 100% to show lack of respect, and you have no intentions of showing it, even to reason, by rolling your eyes at something someone could believe is meaningful or important. Even if it is stupid.\nI get your point, we roll our eyes to express how we feel, but it is still a physical snare. You say rolling your eyes isn't disrespectful, while saying it's okay to roll your eyes because something is \" stupid or lame\", which in itself is disrespectful. You sound like a very young person in the middle of a learning moment, and you're trying to react with rebellion. It only shows that you lack maturity and are in need of growth. This might be a time for you to read these comments and reevaluate. There are healthier ways to react to things you disagree with, or lack interest in. If not, you can just accept that you roll your eyes to show lack of respect.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is much more deliberate than laughter, tears, or sneezing. It's a conscious action in response to a judgement you're making.", ">\n\nNah, dude it is disrespectful \nYou just have no self control and by the looks of it you don't want to build some", ">\n\nYour post made me roll my eyes very hard.", ">\n\n“No, officer, my wife - she MADE me hit her!”", ">\n\nIt's a natural reaction for a sooky kid but not an adult, if you do that as an adult you just manchild that wants everything their way", ">\n\npoor OP.... did you get in trouble after you rolled your eyes at something again? did you not prehaps learn from previous interactions? rolling your eyes at something \"stupid or lame\" is an intentional response that is disrespectful to whatever it is. mature people dont act that way.....", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes.\n\nSo it is disrespectful. \n\nIts like throwing pepper in someone's face an expecting them not to sneeze.\n\nNo it’s not. You can easily (edited in) refrain from rolling your eyes, while it’s much more difficult to refrain from sneezing. \nIt’s fine to think whatever you want, but you might want to refrain from rolling your eyes when you’re, say, interacting with your boss; aka someone that can make you unemployed for whatever reason they please.", ">\n\nThis isn't an opinion. It's just flat wrong. \nIt is disrespectful because it is a conscious signifier which clearly communicated that you think that the thing you are rolling your eyes at is not worthy of respect.", ">\n\nYou have to go out of your way to roll your eyes. It is NOT gutteral or instinctual", ">\n\nIf you annoy me, my arm whips out in a natural reaction and slaps you.", ">\n\nSorry, kiddo, it’s 100% disrespectful. Just own the shit and quit trying to lawyer around it.\nI say that after having rolled my eyes so hard at your post, I travelled back in time.", ">\n\nTell that to my family lol you get the belt", ">\n\nThis was made my a 15 year old who just got told off by their mom about rolling their eyes. Then in defense said, “I can’t control it”", ">\n\nMan it's getting so aggressive sometimes here 😂", ">\n\ni certainly hope you are embarrassed about this in a couple years when you grow up.", ">\n\nOP is a habitual eye roller 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄", ">\n\nI wish to God we could block people by age, no more edgy 13yo’s", ">\n\nSomebody just got their ps5 taken away for rolling their eyes", ">\n\nTell me you're 12 without telling me you're 12.", ">\n\nit’s the definition of disrespectful and a sign that you have literally nothing intelligent to say in return. \nwhich is why we outgrow it as adults.", ">\n\nYou can control it. It’s not an “automatic response” unless you’ve taught yourself to do it. I never roll my eyes. It’s just not something I have ever practiced doing. And yes…if I’m saying something too you and you dismiss it with an eye roll…it’s super disrespectful.", ">\n\nrolling your eyes is just as respectful as sticking your tongue out at someone or making a stupid face in reaction to something someone says", ">\n\nIf you can’t control your eye movement, you need to see a neurologist, dude 😆. As it stands, eye rolling isn’t a reflex or a “natural reaction” to anything. Habits aren’t the same as involuntary reactions.\nRolling your eyes at someone is disrespectful. It’s an outward sign that you think something about your interaction with them was stupid or wrong. There’s no one here that will agree with you, and you know that you’re in the vast minority with this opinion because you posted it on this sub. Now learn some humility and accept that your opinion is factually incorrect based on science.", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nAre you like 14 and your mom got you in trouble cause you rolled your eyes at her? Lmao", ">\n\nI’m gonna show your mom this and it’s going to be another week of being grounded, you little shit lol", ">\n\nOmfg 😂", ">\n\nOP I have to ask.\n\n\nHow old are you?\n\n\nHow is your relationship with your parents?\n\n\nHow do you view authority figures in your life?", ">\n\nrolls eyes", ">\n\nIf you say or demand something stupid from me I will probably roll my eyes.", ">\n\nBut it is", ">\n\nJust like rolling your eyes is an innate response, so are other people's responses to you rolling your eyes.", ">\n\nSometimes being respectful requires hiding your subjective opinion on whether something is stupid or lame.", ">\n\nI wouldn’t say eye rolling is as involuntary as laughing or crying tho. It’s more of a choice.", ">\n\nIf someone rolls their eyes then I feel disrespected it’s a natural reaction.", ">\n\ntell me you're a teenager without telling me you're a teenager", ">\n\nI'm rolling my eyes at this post. And I definitely mean it disrespectfully.", ">\n\nLmao this kid had an argument with his parent(s) or teacher and is venting on Reddit.", ">\n\nYou sound like an eye rolling arsehole", ">\n\ni have never had an as a nonvoulentary action, it requires very explicit movement of you eye. this is like saying “when i dont like people, i punch them in the head, thats my natural reaction i cant control it”\ni have never once legitimately rolled my eyes at something, i think you might be an asshole", ">\n\nMe smacking your face is also an innate uncontrollable response to you rolling your eyes. I'm only human. What can I do? 🙄", ">\n\nI disagree. also there are a billion other ways to express something being stupid or lame than rolling ur eyes", ">\n\nStop downvoting, this is ACTUALLY a very unpopular opinion and I love to see it tbh. Voice your disagreement in the comments but don't downvote the post. This post is hilarious.", ">\n\nThis is something you’ve learned to do. It’s entirely in your control if you do it or not.", ">\n\nI once got a detention for rolling my eyes at a teacher in 4th grade.\nI agree with you, though. The only other person I've ever really rolled my eyes at was my mother, and she deserved it, every single time.", ">\n\nI get your point. I absolutely purposefully roll my eyes sometimes and whoever I'm doing it to would be valid for getting mad. \nBut as someone who can't hide any emotion on their face (literally any, I'm the definition of an open book) there have been plenty of times where people blew up at me or laughed because I rolled my eyes when I didn't even realize I had done it. Feel like the people disagreeing with you haven't experienced this problem.", ">\n\nWhat you've done is cultivate a bad habit and then blamed it on everyone else when you repeat your own bad habit unintentionally.\nThis is entirely your fault.", ">\n\nOnly on Reddit would someone so boldly declare something like this to a stranger. I'm on the spectrum so that might have to do with my not being able to hide any emotion (I truly mean that, people can basically read my thoughts just by looking at me, good and bad). \nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave. Consider working on that.", ">\n\nSo they point out you’re cultivating a bad habit and blaming other people so you then, blame them? It’s a little spot on don’t you think?", ">\n\nWhen did i blame them for my own actions? Could you quote me? I was just pointing out how weird it was that they made such a strong assumption of my character off a causal comment I left when they themselves were ironically being unnecessarily rude in the process. \nI don't know how you got so lost?", ">\n\n\nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave.\n\nClassic deflection and implication that they’re the one with the problem, not you", ">\n\nFirst its not automatic. I almost never rolled my eyes. Its much easier to control than laughing crying or sneezing. So you just dont make the effort. Its actually a way to express your feeling. You should know that, its your personnality not a human instinctive reaction. \nAnd yes not respecting something is disrespectful. Its not that hard to understand. \nAnyway if i see you.. i dont know having a breakdown after being fired and dumped and start to laugh you'd like that ? \nIf im sad because something good happens to you and show it to you, you would like that ? \nHonestly you are just trying to justify being a bit of a jerk. \nI dont blame you or anything we all are jerks sometime but its what you are doing right now.", ">\n\nI have to refocus my eyes and most of the time blinking doesn’t cut it. I have a lazy eye and when I look at someone for a long time it unfocuses, so moving the muscle is the only way to reset it. If I don’t, people start moving their heads/ bodies trying to focus on my lazy eye. It gets awkward.", ">\n\nThis is where I go to my training as a kid. What others think of you is none of your business.", ">\n\nUnless you have a tick or something like Tourette’s syndrome, then it’s not an involuntary response. Part of living in a society and not being considered rude is managing your body language.\nLet me put it this way. “Rudeness” in itself is a social concept. That means it’s decided by the perception of the masses, what we generally agree upon in terms of our symbols of communication, our customs, our beliefs, our values, etc. For you to say that rolling your eyes isn’t disrespectful is not objectively wrong. But according to the society you live in, it is wrong. In layman’s terms, the hill you’re dying on here is completely arbitrary, neither side will ever be truly correct but as long as you live in a society which feels this way then you will be beholden to it anyways.", ">\n\nTo be fair, if your thinking its stupid or lame, then that is dis-respect. I'd agree with this if it was worded like 'More people need to say what they truly think', but I think you sort of missed the mark, OP.", ">\n\nI am equally annoyed when folks rapidly blink and look away mid conversation or drop their arm dead against their thigh. It’s like you’ve given up an effort to even keep your body vertical and engaged while I’m talking to you.", ">\n\nOP getting downvoted AF & keeps commenting. Gotta love it.", ">\n\nIt is shown as a sign of disrespect and it shows weakness. I can’t imagine Gandhi, the queen of England or Einstein roll their eyes in front of random people. The reason why they were respected is because they didn’t play any superiority game on front of… inferiors or ignorant people. If something is stupid, get the patience and find enough love within yourself to treat the other ones right. \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a child because his question is “stupid”, what parent does it make you ? \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a bad question because you are an expert in a subject, then it is not your modesty that speaks but your ego. For proof : Even if someone you hate said something intelligent, you might want to roll your eyes just to flatter your ego.", ">\n\nIt's seen as disrespectful BECAUSE it's inadvertently telling them you think they're irritating/annoying.", ">\n\nI never roll my eyes? Is that something people do naturally?", ">\n\nAll depends on the context of what is going on.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is not a natural reaction?", ">\n\nNot maintaining basic self control is disrespectful. It's the same reason we don't defecate in public, sneeze on people, or stand in the way of foot traffic.", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s and one of my tics is eye rolling" ]
> I accidentally roll my eyes at people sometimes when I'm not even trying to	[ "🙄", ">\n\nYou’re grounded now", ">\n\nThe post above was someone getting electrocuted so this reply was very timely", ">\n\nThis news is shocking", ">\n\nIt definitely SPARKED my interest", ">\n\nAll of you guys need to leave, and not come back before learning how to conduct yourselves properly", ">\n\nUhhhh....... electricity", ">\n\nWell no, in the right context it is disrespectful. Rolling your eyes suggests that you're not taking the matter seriously or that you dont care which is a sign of disrespect towards whoever is speaking with you.", ">\n\nBut I can't control what I think. If I said \"man you're stupid and I don't care what you say\" thats disrespectful. I'm actually showing respect by not saying it.", ">\n\nI mean, actions speak louder than words, right?", ">\n\nIts not really an action tho its just an automatic response. Like gasping or yawning.", ">\n\nbullshit.\nSorry, it was an automatic response. Which is bullshit just like yours.", ">\n\nStill not the same thing. And they get on me for false analogies....", ">\n\nYou must be a teenager", ">\n\nLol how many times are you gonna post that. Dont you have an original thought of your own?", ">\n\nBruh I cant believe you make these posts. They're foolish", ">\n\nLaughing at someone can be disrespectful. Don't think so? Try laughing at someone's funeral.", ">\n\nThe disrespect comes from the one who told me a joke and made me laugh.", ">\n\nWhat about if no one said any joke? Because, you know, you are at a funeral.", ">\n\nSo someone's just there randomly laughing at shit? That sounds like a mental illness.", ">\n\nYou have never thought of something funny in your head to make yourself laugh? \nOr hell, maybe you didn't like the person who is buried and decided to laugh at them. You find it funny, so laughing must be appropriate, right?", ">\n\nWhy am I thinking about funny shit at a funeral.", ">\n\nBecause the universe likes to put us in uncomfortable positions sometimes.", ">\n\n“if its stupid or lame, you roll your eyes” - you found the disrespect", ">\n\nIm allowed to think whatever i want and its not disrespectful.", ">\n\nWhen you express contempt for something someone else said, it's disrespect.", ">\n\nWhat if what they said is contemptible?", ">\n\nSome people and comments deserve disrespect, still gonna be disrespect", ">\n\nLaughing, crying, and sneezing are all innate, involuntary reactions to certain types of stimuli. Rolling your eyes is a learned behavior. You can’t compare it to those other automatic responses because it’s not the same thing.", ">\n\nTake my upvote", ">\n\nOP rolled their eyes at someone and got chewed out for it.\nNow they're going online in an attempt to validate themselves.\n🙄", ">\n\nProbably got grounded.", ">\n\nPart of being a mature adult is to have self-control and not acting on every impulse and being respectful of people.", ">\n\n\nPart of being a mature adult\n\nYup but OP is clearly a teenager lol. They complain about being told off for doing chores wrong in another post…", ">\n\nEven a teenager should be able to have the fundamental basics of respect", ">\n\nOh I agree 100%", ">\n\nYou have poor self-control and poor self-awareness but the good news is that you can improve these things.", ">\n\n/r/wrongopinions", ">\n\nI feel like we need a new subreddit r/unpopularforareason", ">\n\nIt’s entire purpose is to be disrespectful. Nobody eyerolls something they respect. But how offensive it is depends on the context and how serious one is being.", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes\n\nYou rn: \"I'm not being disrespectful. I just thought what you said was stupid or lame.\"\n...", ">\n\nSaying its stupid could be disrespectful. A facial response is not.", ">\n\nLiterally every person in this thread agrees that it is.\nThis is your bad habit. Nobody else's responsibility but you.", ">\n\nThey can choose to not fly off the handle at what is just an innate reaction.", ">\n\nSo let me get this straight: you think you deserve to be able to disrespect whoever you like whenever you like but they can't as much as say you're being rude? Grow up.", ">\n\nFound the teenager.", ">\n\nMeh, I agree with that one. If you don't like how someone is doing something then do it yourself. There's a reason I live alone.", ">\n\nIt is a UNIVERSAL sign of disrespect. Globally. Deal with it.", ">\n\nLaughing can be disrespectuful too. If you cannot control your own reactions, well, what can I say, maybe you have not really grown up?", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s so it’s hard to control my own actions sometimes…", ">\n\nThank u I'm trying to explain how autism can make it hard to read not just others facial expressions but also ur own and it seems like no one has thought of the possibility that they acc don't realise it or csnt control it", ">\n\nWould you roll your eyes during a job interview if you thought a question was stupid or irrelevant? Do you think you’d get the job if you did?", ">\n\nPretty sure OP would think they were owed that job and they would think it’s ridiculous if they didn’t get it.\nOP is also a teenager going through their rebel phase though", ">\n\nYou're oddly specific here.", ">\n\nWhat was specific? Or rather oddly specific?", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a good way to fast track yourself to a divorce, if you want one.", ">\n\nI think OP needs the definition of respect before any further comment is made", ">\n\nOh I already know it, and I know it does not mean:\nDon't ever disagree with me\nDon't think bad thoughts about me\nDon't ever correct me when I'm blatantly wrong \nShine my boots with your tongue", ">\n\nSoooo this post isn’t about eye rolling is what I’m getting from this. You’ve got issues to work through with your parents or partner or something", ">\n\nSince when tf was eye rolling involuntary?", ">", ">\n\nYour lack of self control is not a justification for disrespect. I personally dont know anyone who reacts to anything by rolling their eyes. Just be mature and communicate.", ">\n\nAnd what if it's not stupid and someone rolls their eyes? Wouldn't it be disrespectful in that case?", ">\n\nIn the eye rollers opinion then it must have been. But you can't fault someone for thinking its stupid.", ">\n\nSo eyerolling is some kind of exceptional thing that is free from criticism? \nIf one has the freedom to eye roll, then someone else has the freedom to criticize the eye roller right? \nOr is it your opinion that besides that everyone who sees an eye roller has to just stfu", ">\n\nMeh, it is disrespectful. It's a way to be disrespectful without having to say That's the dumbest thing I've heard all month, and everyone else who heard it is also dumber for hearing it as well.", ">\n\nBut I didn't say it that's the point.", ">\n\nJust cuz you don’t use words doesn’t mean it’s not disrespectful. Walking away while someone is talking to you, rolling your eyes, slapping someone, and starting to play a game on your phone while someone is talking to you are all disrespectful. It doesn’t matter that you didn’t say anything, your lack of respect still showed.", ">\n\nespecially the way theyre responding to comments", ">\n\nYeah, a natural reaction if you’ve never learned to manage your emotions as opposed to letting them run your life. I’m not talking about being totally monotone rational, either. You need to learn a balance between rational and emotional…which includes healthy, appropriate, respectful expression of honest feelings. Eye rolling is absolutely disrespectful, belittling, and dismissive.", ">\n\nComments: OP is completely wrong and has attitude issues", ">\n\nWhat sounds like mental illness is you refusing to admit that rolling your eyes is simply not an unconditional response. Whether you want to believe it or not, you are doing it intentionally and you can control it. \nYou’re just to much of a b—— to do so.", ">\n\nSame to you", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a learned reaction. Not natural. I rarely of ever roll my eyes at anything.", ">", ">\n\nJust like raising your middle finger. Or vocalizing the sounds \"fuck you\". Or fingers typing the words fuck you OP. Nothing is disrespectful!", ">\n\nNice try but not the same thing at all. You're talking about thought out actions here. The eye roll is more like a reaction. Its quick, its automatic, no one has to think \"im rolling my eyes now\" it just happens. \nSort of like when telling a lie - no one decides to have their eyes dart around suspiciously, it just happens.", ">\n\nNo. Rolling your eyes is not involuntary. It can be controlled. You have a bad habit that you CAN stop. Much like a child learning not to suck their thumb, or biting your nails.", ">\n\nHow about you start with your hair scratching", ">\n\nYour opinion is a contradiction in itself. And, yeah. I disagree. Rolling your eyes is 100% to show lack of respect, and you have no intentions of showing it, even to reason, by rolling your eyes at something someone could believe is meaningful or important. Even if it is stupid.\nI get your point, we roll our eyes to express how we feel, but it is still a physical snare. You say rolling your eyes isn't disrespectful, while saying it's okay to roll your eyes because something is \" stupid or lame\", which in itself is disrespectful. You sound like a very young person in the middle of a learning moment, and you're trying to react with rebellion. It only shows that you lack maturity and are in need of growth. This might be a time for you to read these comments and reevaluate. There are healthier ways to react to things you disagree with, or lack interest in. If not, you can just accept that you roll your eyes to show lack of respect.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is much more deliberate than laughter, tears, or sneezing. It's a conscious action in response to a judgement you're making.", ">\n\nNah, dude it is disrespectful \nYou just have no self control and by the looks of it you don't want to build some", ">\n\nYour post made me roll my eyes very hard.", ">\n\n“No, officer, my wife - she MADE me hit her!”", ">\n\nIt's a natural reaction for a sooky kid but not an adult, if you do that as an adult you just manchild that wants everything their way", ">\n\npoor OP.... did you get in trouble after you rolled your eyes at something again? did you not prehaps learn from previous interactions? rolling your eyes at something \"stupid or lame\" is an intentional response that is disrespectful to whatever it is. mature people dont act that way.....", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes.\n\nSo it is disrespectful. \n\nIts like throwing pepper in someone's face an expecting them not to sneeze.\n\nNo it’s not. You can easily (edited in) refrain from rolling your eyes, while it’s much more difficult to refrain from sneezing. \nIt’s fine to think whatever you want, but you might want to refrain from rolling your eyes when you’re, say, interacting with your boss; aka someone that can make you unemployed for whatever reason they please.", ">\n\nThis isn't an opinion. It's just flat wrong. \nIt is disrespectful because it is a conscious signifier which clearly communicated that you think that the thing you are rolling your eyes at is not worthy of respect.", ">\n\nYou have to go out of your way to roll your eyes. It is NOT gutteral or instinctual", ">\n\nIf you annoy me, my arm whips out in a natural reaction and slaps you.", ">\n\nSorry, kiddo, it’s 100% disrespectful. Just own the shit and quit trying to lawyer around it.\nI say that after having rolled my eyes so hard at your post, I travelled back in time.", ">\n\nTell that to my family lol you get the belt", ">\n\nThis was made my a 15 year old who just got told off by their mom about rolling their eyes. Then in defense said, “I can’t control it”", ">\n\nMan it's getting so aggressive sometimes here 😂", ">\n\ni certainly hope you are embarrassed about this in a couple years when you grow up.", ">\n\nOP is a habitual eye roller 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄", ">\n\nI wish to God we could block people by age, no more edgy 13yo’s", ">\n\nSomebody just got their ps5 taken away for rolling their eyes", ">\n\nTell me you're 12 without telling me you're 12.", ">\n\nit’s the definition of disrespectful and a sign that you have literally nothing intelligent to say in return. \nwhich is why we outgrow it as adults.", ">\n\nYou can control it. It’s not an “automatic response” unless you’ve taught yourself to do it. I never roll my eyes. It’s just not something I have ever practiced doing. And yes…if I’m saying something too you and you dismiss it with an eye roll…it’s super disrespectful.", ">\n\nrolling your eyes is just as respectful as sticking your tongue out at someone or making a stupid face in reaction to something someone says", ">\n\nIf you can’t control your eye movement, you need to see a neurologist, dude 😆. As it stands, eye rolling isn’t a reflex or a “natural reaction” to anything. Habits aren’t the same as involuntary reactions.\nRolling your eyes at someone is disrespectful. It’s an outward sign that you think something about your interaction with them was stupid or wrong. There’s no one here that will agree with you, and you know that you’re in the vast minority with this opinion because you posted it on this sub. Now learn some humility and accept that your opinion is factually incorrect based on science.", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nAre you like 14 and your mom got you in trouble cause you rolled your eyes at her? Lmao", ">\n\nI’m gonna show your mom this and it’s going to be another week of being grounded, you little shit lol", ">\n\nOmfg 😂", ">\n\nOP I have to ask.\n\n\nHow old are you?\n\n\nHow is your relationship with your parents?\n\n\nHow do you view authority figures in your life?", ">\n\nrolls eyes", ">\n\nIf you say or demand something stupid from me I will probably roll my eyes.", ">\n\nBut it is", ">\n\nJust like rolling your eyes is an innate response, so are other people's responses to you rolling your eyes.", ">\n\nSometimes being respectful requires hiding your subjective opinion on whether something is stupid or lame.", ">\n\nI wouldn’t say eye rolling is as involuntary as laughing or crying tho. It’s more of a choice.", ">\n\nIf someone rolls their eyes then I feel disrespected it’s a natural reaction.", ">\n\ntell me you're a teenager without telling me you're a teenager", ">\n\nI'm rolling my eyes at this post. And I definitely mean it disrespectfully.", ">\n\nLmao this kid had an argument with his parent(s) or teacher and is venting on Reddit.", ">\n\nYou sound like an eye rolling arsehole", ">\n\ni have never had an as a nonvoulentary action, it requires very explicit movement of you eye. this is like saying “when i dont like people, i punch them in the head, thats my natural reaction i cant control it”\ni have never once legitimately rolled my eyes at something, i think you might be an asshole", ">\n\nMe smacking your face is also an innate uncontrollable response to you rolling your eyes. I'm only human. What can I do? 🙄", ">\n\nI disagree. also there are a billion other ways to express something being stupid or lame than rolling ur eyes", ">\n\nStop downvoting, this is ACTUALLY a very unpopular opinion and I love to see it tbh. Voice your disagreement in the comments but don't downvote the post. This post is hilarious.", ">\n\nThis is something you’ve learned to do. It’s entirely in your control if you do it or not.", ">\n\nI once got a detention for rolling my eyes at a teacher in 4th grade.\nI agree with you, though. The only other person I've ever really rolled my eyes at was my mother, and she deserved it, every single time.", ">\n\nI get your point. I absolutely purposefully roll my eyes sometimes and whoever I'm doing it to would be valid for getting mad. \nBut as someone who can't hide any emotion on their face (literally any, I'm the definition of an open book) there have been plenty of times where people blew up at me or laughed because I rolled my eyes when I didn't even realize I had done it. Feel like the people disagreeing with you haven't experienced this problem.", ">\n\nWhat you've done is cultivate a bad habit and then blamed it on everyone else when you repeat your own bad habit unintentionally.\nThis is entirely your fault.", ">\n\nOnly on Reddit would someone so boldly declare something like this to a stranger. I'm on the spectrum so that might have to do with my not being able to hide any emotion (I truly mean that, people can basically read my thoughts just by looking at me, good and bad). \nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave. Consider working on that.", ">\n\nSo they point out you’re cultivating a bad habit and blaming other people so you then, blame them? It’s a little spot on don’t you think?", ">\n\nWhen did i blame them for my own actions? Could you quote me? I was just pointing out how weird it was that they made such a strong assumption of my character off a causal comment I left when they themselves were ironically being unnecessarily rude in the process. \nI don't know how you got so lost?", ">\n\n\nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave.\n\nClassic deflection and implication that they’re the one with the problem, not you", ">\n\nFirst its not automatic. I almost never rolled my eyes. Its much easier to control than laughing crying or sneezing. So you just dont make the effort. Its actually a way to express your feeling. You should know that, its your personnality not a human instinctive reaction. \nAnd yes not respecting something is disrespectful. Its not that hard to understand. \nAnyway if i see you.. i dont know having a breakdown after being fired and dumped and start to laugh you'd like that ? \nIf im sad because something good happens to you and show it to you, you would like that ? \nHonestly you are just trying to justify being a bit of a jerk. \nI dont blame you or anything we all are jerks sometime but its what you are doing right now.", ">\n\nI have to refocus my eyes and most of the time blinking doesn’t cut it. I have a lazy eye and when I look at someone for a long time it unfocuses, so moving the muscle is the only way to reset it. If I don’t, people start moving their heads/ bodies trying to focus on my lazy eye. It gets awkward.", ">\n\nThis is where I go to my training as a kid. What others think of you is none of your business.", ">\n\nUnless you have a tick or something like Tourette’s syndrome, then it’s not an involuntary response. Part of living in a society and not being considered rude is managing your body language.\nLet me put it this way. “Rudeness” in itself is a social concept. That means it’s decided by the perception of the masses, what we generally agree upon in terms of our symbols of communication, our customs, our beliefs, our values, etc. For you to say that rolling your eyes isn’t disrespectful is not objectively wrong. But according to the society you live in, it is wrong. In layman’s terms, the hill you’re dying on here is completely arbitrary, neither side will ever be truly correct but as long as you live in a society which feels this way then you will be beholden to it anyways.", ">\n\nTo be fair, if your thinking its stupid or lame, then that is dis-respect. I'd agree with this if it was worded like 'More people need to say what they truly think', but I think you sort of missed the mark, OP.", ">\n\nI am equally annoyed when folks rapidly blink and look away mid conversation or drop their arm dead against their thigh. It’s like you’ve given up an effort to even keep your body vertical and engaged while I’m talking to you.", ">\n\nOP getting downvoted AF & keeps commenting. Gotta love it.", ">\n\nIt is shown as a sign of disrespect and it shows weakness. I can’t imagine Gandhi, the queen of England or Einstein roll their eyes in front of random people. The reason why they were respected is because they didn’t play any superiority game on front of… inferiors or ignorant people. If something is stupid, get the patience and find enough love within yourself to treat the other ones right. \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a child because his question is “stupid”, what parent does it make you ? \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a bad question because you are an expert in a subject, then it is not your modesty that speaks but your ego. For proof : Even if someone you hate said something intelligent, you might want to roll your eyes just to flatter your ego.", ">\n\nIt's seen as disrespectful BECAUSE it's inadvertently telling them you think they're irritating/annoying.", ">\n\nI never roll my eyes? Is that something people do naturally?", ">\n\nAll depends on the context of what is going on.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is not a natural reaction?", ">\n\nNot maintaining basic self control is disrespectful. It's the same reason we don't defecate in public, sneeze on people, or stand in the way of foot traffic.", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s and one of my tics is eye rolling", ">\n\nK" ]
> The sign of a true unpopular opinion: Nobody upvoting it, but everybody commenting to say how they disagree. If you disagree, then give it an upvote. That's the point of this sub.	[ "🙄", ">\n\nYou’re grounded now", ">\n\nThe post above was someone getting electrocuted so this reply was very timely", ">\n\nThis news is shocking", ">\n\nIt definitely SPARKED my interest", ">\n\nAll of you guys need to leave, and not come back before learning how to conduct yourselves properly", ">\n\nUhhhh....... electricity", ">\n\nWell no, in the right context it is disrespectful. Rolling your eyes suggests that you're not taking the matter seriously or that you dont care which is a sign of disrespect towards whoever is speaking with you.", ">\n\nBut I can't control what I think. If I said \"man you're stupid and I don't care what you say\" thats disrespectful. I'm actually showing respect by not saying it.", ">\n\nI mean, actions speak louder than words, right?", ">\n\nIts not really an action tho its just an automatic response. Like gasping or yawning.", ">\n\nbullshit.\nSorry, it was an automatic response. Which is bullshit just like yours.", ">\n\nStill not the same thing. And they get on me for false analogies....", ">\n\nYou must be a teenager", ">\n\nLol how many times are you gonna post that. Dont you have an original thought of your own?", ">\n\nBruh I cant believe you make these posts. They're foolish", ">\n\nLaughing at someone can be disrespectful. Don't think so? Try laughing at someone's funeral.", ">\n\nThe disrespect comes from the one who told me a joke and made me laugh.", ">\n\nWhat about if no one said any joke? Because, you know, you are at a funeral.", ">\n\nSo someone's just there randomly laughing at shit? That sounds like a mental illness.", ">\n\nYou have never thought of something funny in your head to make yourself laugh? \nOr hell, maybe you didn't like the person who is buried and decided to laugh at them. You find it funny, so laughing must be appropriate, right?", ">\n\nWhy am I thinking about funny shit at a funeral.", ">\n\nBecause the universe likes to put us in uncomfortable positions sometimes.", ">\n\n“if its stupid or lame, you roll your eyes” - you found the disrespect", ">\n\nIm allowed to think whatever i want and its not disrespectful.", ">\n\nWhen you express contempt for something someone else said, it's disrespect.", ">\n\nWhat if what they said is contemptible?", ">\n\nSome people and comments deserve disrespect, still gonna be disrespect", ">\n\nLaughing, crying, and sneezing are all innate, involuntary reactions to certain types of stimuli. Rolling your eyes is a learned behavior. You can’t compare it to those other automatic responses because it’s not the same thing.", ">\n\nTake my upvote", ">\n\nOP rolled their eyes at someone and got chewed out for it.\nNow they're going online in an attempt to validate themselves.\n🙄", ">\n\nProbably got grounded.", ">\n\nPart of being a mature adult is to have self-control and not acting on every impulse and being respectful of people.", ">\n\n\nPart of being a mature adult\n\nYup but OP is clearly a teenager lol. They complain about being told off for doing chores wrong in another post…", ">\n\nEven a teenager should be able to have the fundamental basics of respect", ">\n\nOh I agree 100%", ">\n\nYou have poor self-control and poor self-awareness but the good news is that you can improve these things.", ">\n\n/r/wrongopinions", ">\n\nI feel like we need a new subreddit r/unpopularforareason", ">\n\nIt’s entire purpose is to be disrespectful. Nobody eyerolls something they respect. But how offensive it is depends on the context and how serious one is being.", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes\n\nYou rn: \"I'm not being disrespectful. I just thought what you said was stupid or lame.\"\n...", ">\n\nSaying its stupid could be disrespectful. A facial response is not.", ">\n\nLiterally every person in this thread agrees that it is.\nThis is your bad habit. Nobody else's responsibility but you.", ">\n\nThey can choose to not fly off the handle at what is just an innate reaction.", ">\n\nSo let me get this straight: you think you deserve to be able to disrespect whoever you like whenever you like but they can't as much as say you're being rude? Grow up.", ">\n\nFound the teenager.", ">\n\nMeh, I agree with that one. If you don't like how someone is doing something then do it yourself. There's a reason I live alone.", ">\n\nIt is a UNIVERSAL sign of disrespect. Globally. Deal with it.", ">\n\nLaughing can be disrespectuful too. If you cannot control your own reactions, well, what can I say, maybe you have not really grown up?", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s so it’s hard to control my own actions sometimes…", ">\n\nThank u I'm trying to explain how autism can make it hard to read not just others facial expressions but also ur own and it seems like no one has thought of the possibility that they acc don't realise it or csnt control it", ">\n\nWould you roll your eyes during a job interview if you thought a question was stupid or irrelevant? Do you think you’d get the job if you did?", ">\n\nPretty sure OP would think they were owed that job and they would think it’s ridiculous if they didn’t get it.\nOP is also a teenager going through their rebel phase though", ">\n\nYou're oddly specific here.", ">\n\nWhat was specific? Or rather oddly specific?", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a good way to fast track yourself to a divorce, if you want one.", ">\n\nI think OP needs the definition of respect before any further comment is made", ">\n\nOh I already know it, and I know it does not mean:\nDon't ever disagree with me\nDon't think bad thoughts about me\nDon't ever correct me when I'm blatantly wrong \nShine my boots with your tongue", ">\n\nSoooo this post isn’t about eye rolling is what I’m getting from this. You’ve got issues to work through with your parents or partner or something", ">\n\nSince when tf was eye rolling involuntary?", ">", ">\n\nYour lack of self control is not a justification for disrespect. I personally dont know anyone who reacts to anything by rolling their eyes. Just be mature and communicate.", ">\n\nAnd what if it's not stupid and someone rolls their eyes? Wouldn't it be disrespectful in that case?", ">\n\nIn the eye rollers opinion then it must have been. But you can't fault someone for thinking its stupid.", ">\n\nSo eyerolling is some kind of exceptional thing that is free from criticism? \nIf one has the freedom to eye roll, then someone else has the freedom to criticize the eye roller right? \nOr is it your opinion that besides that everyone who sees an eye roller has to just stfu", ">\n\nMeh, it is disrespectful. It's a way to be disrespectful without having to say That's the dumbest thing I've heard all month, and everyone else who heard it is also dumber for hearing it as well.", ">\n\nBut I didn't say it that's the point.", ">\n\nJust cuz you don’t use words doesn’t mean it’s not disrespectful. Walking away while someone is talking to you, rolling your eyes, slapping someone, and starting to play a game on your phone while someone is talking to you are all disrespectful. It doesn’t matter that you didn’t say anything, your lack of respect still showed.", ">\n\nespecially the way theyre responding to comments", ">\n\nYeah, a natural reaction if you’ve never learned to manage your emotions as opposed to letting them run your life. I’m not talking about being totally monotone rational, either. You need to learn a balance between rational and emotional…which includes healthy, appropriate, respectful expression of honest feelings. Eye rolling is absolutely disrespectful, belittling, and dismissive.", ">\n\nComments: OP is completely wrong and has attitude issues", ">\n\nWhat sounds like mental illness is you refusing to admit that rolling your eyes is simply not an unconditional response. Whether you want to believe it or not, you are doing it intentionally and you can control it. \nYou’re just to much of a b—— to do so.", ">\n\nSame to you", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a learned reaction. Not natural. I rarely of ever roll my eyes at anything.", ">", ">\n\nJust like raising your middle finger. Or vocalizing the sounds \"fuck you\". Or fingers typing the words fuck you OP. Nothing is disrespectful!", ">\n\nNice try but not the same thing at all. You're talking about thought out actions here. The eye roll is more like a reaction. Its quick, its automatic, no one has to think \"im rolling my eyes now\" it just happens. \nSort of like when telling a lie - no one decides to have their eyes dart around suspiciously, it just happens.", ">\n\nNo. Rolling your eyes is not involuntary. It can be controlled. You have a bad habit that you CAN stop. Much like a child learning not to suck their thumb, or biting your nails.", ">\n\nHow about you start with your hair scratching", ">\n\nYour opinion is a contradiction in itself. And, yeah. I disagree. Rolling your eyes is 100% to show lack of respect, and you have no intentions of showing it, even to reason, by rolling your eyes at something someone could believe is meaningful or important. Even if it is stupid.\nI get your point, we roll our eyes to express how we feel, but it is still a physical snare. You say rolling your eyes isn't disrespectful, while saying it's okay to roll your eyes because something is \" stupid or lame\", which in itself is disrespectful. You sound like a very young person in the middle of a learning moment, and you're trying to react with rebellion. It only shows that you lack maturity and are in need of growth. This might be a time for you to read these comments and reevaluate. There are healthier ways to react to things you disagree with, or lack interest in. If not, you can just accept that you roll your eyes to show lack of respect.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is much more deliberate than laughter, tears, or sneezing. It's a conscious action in response to a judgement you're making.", ">\n\nNah, dude it is disrespectful \nYou just have no self control and by the looks of it you don't want to build some", ">\n\nYour post made me roll my eyes very hard.", ">\n\n“No, officer, my wife - she MADE me hit her!”", ">\n\nIt's a natural reaction for a sooky kid but not an adult, if you do that as an adult you just manchild that wants everything their way", ">\n\npoor OP.... did you get in trouble after you rolled your eyes at something again? did you not prehaps learn from previous interactions? rolling your eyes at something \"stupid or lame\" is an intentional response that is disrespectful to whatever it is. mature people dont act that way.....", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes.\n\nSo it is disrespectful. \n\nIts like throwing pepper in someone's face an expecting them not to sneeze.\n\nNo it’s not. You can easily (edited in) refrain from rolling your eyes, while it’s much more difficult to refrain from sneezing. \nIt’s fine to think whatever you want, but you might want to refrain from rolling your eyes when you’re, say, interacting with your boss; aka someone that can make you unemployed for whatever reason they please.", ">\n\nThis isn't an opinion. It's just flat wrong. \nIt is disrespectful because it is a conscious signifier which clearly communicated that you think that the thing you are rolling your eyes at is not worthy of respect.", ">\n\nYou have to go out of your way to roll your eyes. It is NOT gutteral or instinctual", ">\n\nIf you annoy me, my arm whips out in a natural reaction and slaps you.", ">\n\nSorry, kiddo, it’s 100% disrespectful. Just own the shit and quit trying to lawyer around it.\nI say that after having rolled my eyes so hard at your post, I travelled back in time.", ">\n\nTell that to my family lol you get the belt", ">\n\nThis was made my a 15 year old who just got told off by their mom about rolling their eyes. Then in defense said, “I can’t control it”", ">\n\nMan it's getting so aggressive sometimes here 😂", ">\n\ni certainly hope you are embarrassed about this in a couple years when you grow up.", ">\n\nOP is a habitual eye roller 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄", ">\n\nI wish to God we could block people by age, no more edgy 13yo’s", ">\n\nSomebody just got their ps5 taken away for rolling their eyes", ">\n\nTell me you're 12 without telling me you're 12.", ">\n\nit’s the definition of disrespectful and a sign that you have literally nothing intelligent to say in return. \nwhich is why we outgrow it as adults.", ">\n\nYou can control it. It’s not an “automatic response” unless you’ve taught yourself to do it. I never roll my eyes. It’s just not something I have ever practiced doing. And yes…if I’m saying something too you and you dismiss it with an eye roll…it’s super disrespectful.", ">\n\nrolling your eyes is just as respectful as sticking your tongue out at someone or making a stupid face in reaction to something someone says", ">\n\nIf you can’t control your eye movement, you need to see a neurologist, dude 😆. As it stands, eye rolling isn’t a reflex or a “natural reaction” to anything. Habits aren’t the same as involuntary reactions.\nRolling your eyes at someone is disrespectful. It’s an outward sign that you think something about your interaction with them was stupid or wrong. There’s no one here that will agree with you, and you know that you’re in the vast minority with this opinion because you posted it on this sub. Now learn some humility and accept that your opinion is factually incorrect based on science.", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nAre you like 14 and your mom got you in trouble cause you rolled your eyes at her? Lmao", ">\n\nI’m gonna show your mom this and it’s going to be another week of being grounded, you little shit lol", ">\n\nOmfg 😂", ">\n\nOP I have to ask.\n\n\nHow old are you?\n\n\nHow is your relationship with your parents?\n\n\nHow do you view authority figures in your life?", ">\n\nrolls eyes", ">\n\nIf you say or demand something stupid from me I will probably roll my eyes.", ">\n\nBut it is", ">\n\nJust like rolling your eyes is an innate response, so are other people's responses to you rolling your eyes.", ">\n\nSometimes being respectful requires hiding your subjective opinion on whether something is stupid or lame.", ">\n\nI wouldn’t say eye rolling is as involuntary as laughing or crying tho. It’s more of a choice.", ">\n\nIf someone rolls their eyes then I feel disrespected it’s a natural reaction.", ">\n\ntell me you're a teenager without telling me you're a teenager", ">\n\nI'm rolling my eyes at this post. And I definitely mean it disrespectfully.", ">\n\nLmao this kid had an argument with his parent(s) or teacher and is venting on Reddit.", ">\n\nYou sound like an eye rolling arsehole", ">\n\ni have never had an as a nonvoulentary action, it requires very explicit movement of you eye. this is like saying “when i dont like people, i punch them in the head, thats my natural reaction i cant control it”\ni have never once legitimately rolled my eyes at something, i think you might be an asshole", ">\n\nMe smacking your face is also an innate uncontrollable response to you rolling your eyes. I'm only human. What can I do? 🙄", ">\n\nI disagree. also there are a billion other ways to express something being stupid or lame than rolling ur eyes", ">\n\nStop downvoting, this is ACTUALLY a very unpopular opinion and I love to see it tbh. Voice your disagreement in the comments but don't downvote the post. This post is hilarious.", ">\n\nThis is something you’ve learned to do. It’s entirely in your control if you do it or not.", ">\n\nI once got a detention for rolling my eyes at a teacher in 4th grade.\nI agree with you, though. The only other person I've ever really rolled my eyes at was my mother, and she deserved it, every single time.", ">\n\nI get your point. I absolutely purposefully roll my eyes sometimes and whoever I'm doing it to would be valid for getting mad. \nBut as someone who can't hide any emotion on their face (literally any, I'm the definition of an open book) there have been plenty of times where people blew up at me or laughed because I rolled my eyes when I didn't even realize I had done it. Feel like the people disagreeing with you haven't experienced this problem.", ">\n\nWhat you've done is cultivate a bad habit and then blamed it on everyone else when you repeat your own bad habit unintentionally.\nThis is entirely your fault.", ">\n\nOnly on Reddit would someone so boldly declare something like this to a stranger. I'm on the spectrum so that might have to do with my not being able to hide any emotion (I truly mean that, people can basically read my thoughts just by looking at me, good and bad). \nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave. Consider working on that.", ">\n\nSo they point out you’re cultivating a bad habit and blaming other people so you then, blame them? It’s a little spot on don’t you think?", ">\n\nWhen did i blame them for my own actions? Could you quote me? I was just pointing out how weird it was that they made such a strong assumption of my character off a causal comment I left when they themselves were ironically being unnecessarily rude in the process. \nI don't know how you got so lost?", ">\n\n\nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave.\n\nClassic deflection and implication that they’re the one with the problem, not you", ">\n\nFirst its not automatic. I almost never rolled my eyes. Its much easier to control than laughing crying or sneezing. So you just dont make the effort. Its actually a way to express your feeling. You should know that, its your personnality not a human instinctive reaction. \nAnd yes not respecting something is disrespectful. Its not that hard to understand. \nAnyway if i see you.. i dont know having a breakdown after being fired and dumped and start to laugh you'd like that ? \nIf im sad because something good happens to you and show it to you, you would like that ? \nHonestly you are just trying to justify being a bit of a jerk. \nI dont blame you or anything we all are jerks sometime but its what you are doing right now.", ">\n\nI have to refocus my eyes and most of the time blinking doesn’t cut it. I have a lazy eye and when I look at someone for a long time it unfocuses, so moving the muscle is the only way to reset it. If I don’t, people start moving their heads/ bodies trying to focus on my lazy eye. It gets awkward.", ">\n\nThis is where I go to my training as a kid. What others think of you is none of your business.", ">\n\nUnless you have a tick or something like Tourette’s syndrome, then it’s not an involuntary response. Part of living in a society and not being considered rude is managing your body language.\nLet me put it this way. “Rudeness” in itself is a social concept. That means it’s decided by the perception of the masses, what we generally agree upon in terms of our symbols of communication, our customs, our beliefs, our values, etc. For you to say that rolling your eyes isn’t disrespectful is not objectively wrong. But according to the society you live in, it is wrong. In layman’s terms, the hill you’re dying on here is completely arbitrary, neither side will ever be truly correct but as long as you live in a society which feels this way then you will be beholden to it anyways.", ">\n\nTo be fair, if your thinking its stupid or lame, then that is dis-respect. I'd agree with this if it was worded like 'More people need to say what they truly think', but I think you sort of missed the mark, OP.", ">\n\nI am equally annoyed when folks rapidly blink and look away mid conversation or drop their arm dead against their thigh. It’s like you’ve given up an effort to even keep your body vertical and engaged while I’m talking to you.", ">\n\nOP getting downvoted AF & keeps commenting. Gotta love it.", ">\n\nIt is shown as a sign of disrespect and it shows weakness. I can’t imagine Gandhi, the queen of England or Einstein roll their eyes in front of random people. The reason why they were respected is because they didn’t play any superiority game on front of… inferiors or ignorant people. If something is stupid, get the patience and find enough love within yourself to treat the other ones right. \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a child because his question is “stupid”, what parent does it make you ? \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a bad question because you are an expert in a subject, then it is not your modesty that speaks but your ego. For proof : Even if someone you hate said something intelligent, you might want to roll your eyes just to flatter your ego.", ">\n\nIt's seen as disrespectful BECAUSE it's inadvertently telling them you think they're irritating/annoying.", ">\n\nI never roll my eyes? Is that something people do naturally?", ">\n\nAll depends on the context of what is going on.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is not a natural reaction?", ">\n\nNot maintaining basic self control is disrespectful. It's the same reason we don't defecate in public, sneeze on people, or stand in the way of foot traffic.", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s and one of my tics is eye rolling", ">\n\nK", ">\n\nI accidentally roll my eyes at people sometimes when I'm not even trying to" ]
> I think it depends.	[ "🙄", ">\n\nYou’re grounded now", ">\n\nThe post above was someone getting electrocuted so this reply was very timely", ">\n\nThis news is shocking", ">\n\nIt definitely SPARKED my interest", ">\n\nAll of you guys need to leave, and not come back before learning how to conduct yourselves properly", ">\n\nUhhhh....... electricity", ">\n\nWell no, in the right context it is disrespectful. Rolling your eyes suggests that you're not taking the matter seriously or that you dont care which is a sign of disrespect towards whoever is speaking with you.", ">\n\nBut I can't control what I think. If I said \"man you're stupid and I don't care what you say\" thats disrespectful. I'm actually showing respect by not saying it.", ">\n\nI mean, actions speak louder than words, right?", ">\n\nIts not really an action tho its just an automatic response. Like gasping or yawning.", ">\n\nbullshit.\nSorry, it was an automatic response. Which is bullshit just like yours.", ">\n\nStill not the same thing. And they get on me for false analogies....", ">\n\nYou must be a teenager", ">\n\nLol how many times are you gonna post that. Dont you have an original thought of your own?", ">\n\nBruh I cant believe you make these posts. They're foolish", ">\n\nLaughing at someone can be disrespectful. Don't think so? Try laughing at someone's funeral.", ">\n\nThe disrespect comes from the one who told me a joke and made me laugh.", ">\n\nWhat about if no one said any joke? Because, you know, you are at a funeral.", ">\n\nSo someone's just there randomly laughing at shit? That sounds like a mental illness.", ">\n\nYou have never thought of something funny in your head to make yourself laugh? \nOr hell, maybe you didn't like the person who is buried and decided to laugh at them. You find it funny, so laughing must be appropriate, right?", ">\n\nWhy am I thinking about funny shit at a funeral.", ">\n\nBecause the universe likes to put us in uncomfortable positions sometimes.", ">\n\n“if its stupid or lame, you roll your eyes” - you found the disrespect", ">\n\nIm allowed to think whatever i want and its not disrespectful.", ">\n\nWhen you express contempt for something someone else said, it's disrespect.", ">\n\nWhat if what they said is contemptible?", ">\n\nSome people and comments deserve disrespect, still gonna be disrespect", ">\n\nLaughing, crying, and sneezing are all innate, involuntary reactions to certain types of stimuli. Rolling your eyes is a learned behavior. You can’t compare it to those other automatic responses because it’s not the same thing.", ">\n\nTake my upvote", ">\n\nOP rolled their eyes at someone and got chewed out for it.\nNow they're going online in an attempt to validate themselves.\n🙄", ">\n\nProbably got grounded.", ">\n\nPart of being a mature adult is to have self-control and not acting on every impulse and being respectful of people.", ">\n\n\nPart of being a mature adult\n\nYup but OP is clearly a teenager lol. They complain about being told off for doing chores wrong in another post…", ">\n\nEven a teenager should be able to have the fundamental basics of respect", ">\n\nOh I agree 100%", ">\n\nYou have poor self-control and poor self-awareness but the good news is that you can improve these things.", ">\n\n/r/wrongopinions", ">\n\nI feel like we need a new subreddit r/unpopularforareason", ">\n\nIt’s entire purpose is to be disrespectful. Nobody eyerolls something they respect. But how offensive it is depends on the context and how serious one is being.", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes\n\nYou rn: \"I'm not being disrespectful. I just thought what you said was stupid or lame.\"\n...", ">\n\nSaying its stupid could be disrespectful. A facial response is not.", ">\n\nLiterally every person in this thread agrees that it is.\nThis is your bad habit. Nobody else's responsibility but you.", ">\n\nThey can choose to not fly off the handle at what is just an innate reaction.", ">\n\nSo let me get this straight: you think you deserve to be able to disrespect whoever you like whenever you like but they can't as much as say you're being rude? Grow up.", ">\n\nFound the teenager.", ">\n\nMeh, I agree with that one. If you don't like how someone is doing something then do it yourself. There's a reason I live alone.", ">\n\nIt is a UNIVERSAL sign of disrespect. Globally. Deal with it.", ">\n\nLaughing can be disrespectuful too. If you cannot control your own reactions, well, what can I say, maybe you have not really grown up?", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s so it’s hard to control my own actions sometimes…", ">\n\nThank u I'm trying to explain how autism can make it hard to read not just others facial expressions but also ur own and it seems like no one has thought of the possibility that they acc don't realise it or csnt control it", ">\n\nWould you roll your eyes during a job interview if you thought a question was stupid or irrelevant? Do you think you’d get the job if you did?", ">\n\nPretty sure OP would think they were owed that job and they would think it’s ridiculous if they didn’t get it.\nOP is also a teenager going through their rebel phase though", ">\n\nYou're oddly specific here.", ">\n\nWhat was specific? Or rather oddly specific?", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a good way to fast track yourself to a divorce, if you want one.", ">\n\nI think OP needs the definition of respect before any further comment is made", ">\n\nOh I already know it, and I know it does not mean:\nDon't ever disagree with me\nDon't think bad thoughts about me\nDon't ever correct me when I'm blatantly wrong \nShine my boots with your tongue", ">\n\nSoooo this post isn’t about eye rolling is what I’m getting from this. You’ve got issues to work through with your parents or partner or something", ">\n\nSince when tf was eye rolling involuntary?", ">", ">\n\nYour lack of self control is not a justification for disrespect. I personally dont know anyone who reacts to anything by rolling their eyes. Just be mature and communicate.", ">\n\nAnd what if it's not stupid and someone rolls their eyes? Wouldn't it be disrespectful in that case?", ">\n\nIn the eye rollers opinion then it must have been. But you can't fault someone for thinking its stupid.", ">\n\nSo eyerolling is some kind of exceptional thing that is free from criticism? \nIf one has the freedom to eye roll, then someone else has the freedom to criticize the eye roller right? \nOr is it your opinion that besides that everyone who sees an eye roller has to just stfu", ">\n\nMeh, it is disrespectful. It's a way to be disrespectful without having to say That's the dumbest thing I've heard all month, and everyone else who heard it is also dumber for hearing it as well.", ">\n\nBut I didn't say it that's the point.", ">\n\nJust cuz you don’t use words doesn’t mean it’s not disrespectful. Walking away while someone is talking to you, rolling your eyes, slapping someone, and starting to play a game on your phone while someone is talking to you are all disrespectful. It doesn’t matter that you didn’t say anything, your lack of respect still showed.", ">\n\nespecially the way theyre responding to comments", ">\n\nYeah, a natural reaction if you’ve never learned to manage your emotions as opposed to letting them run your life. I’m not talking about being totally monotone rational, either. You need to learn a balance between rational and emotional…which includes healthy, appropriate, respectful expression of honest feelings. Eye rolling is absolutely disrespectful, belittling, and dismissive.", ">\n\nComments: OP is completely wrong and has attitude issues", ">\n\nWhat sounds like mental illness is you refusing to admit that rolling your eyes is simply not an unconditional response. Whether you want to believe it or not, you are doing it intentionally and you can control it. \nYou’re just to much of a b—— to do so.", ">\n\nSame to you", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a learned reaction. Not natural. I rarely of ever roll my eyes at anything.", ">", ">\n\nJust like raising your middle finger. Or vocalizing the sounds \"fuck you\". Or fingers typing the words fuck you OP. Nothing is disrespectful!", ">\n\nNice try but not the same thing at all. You're talking about thought out actions here. The eye roll is more like a reaction. Its quick, its automatic, no one has to think \"im rolling my eyes now\" it just happens. \nSort of like when telling a lie - no one decides to have their eyes dart around suspiciously, it just happens.", ">\n\nNo. Rolling your eyes is not involuntary. It can be controlled. You have a bad habit that you CAN stop. Much like a child learning not to suck their thumb, or biting your nails.", ">\n\nHow about you start with your hair scratching", ">\n\nYour opinion is a contradiction in itself. And, yeah. I disagree. Rolling your eyes is 100% to show lack of respect, and you have no intentions of showing it, even to reason, by rolling your eyes at something someone could believe is meaningful or important. Even if it is stupid.\nI get your point, we roll our eyes to express how we feel, but it is still a physical snare. You say rolling your eyes isn't disrespectful, while saying it's okay to roll your eyes because something is \" stupid or lame\", which in itself is disrespectful. You sound like a very young person in the middle of a learning moment, and you're trying to react with rebellion. It only shows that you lack maturity and are in need of growth. This might be a time for you to read these comments and reevaluate. There are healthier ways to react to things you disagree with, or lack interest in. If not, you can just accept that you roll your eyes to show lack of respect.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is much more deliberate than laughter, tears, or sneezing. It's a conscious action in response to a judgement you're making.", ">\n\nNah, dude it is disrespectful \nYou just have no self control and by the looks of it you don't want to build some", ">\n\nYour post made me roll my eyes very hard.", ">\n\n“No, officer, my wife - she MADE me hit her!”", ">\n\nIt's a natural reaction for a sooky kid but not an adult, if you do that as an adult you just manchild that wants everything their way", ">\n\npoor OP.... did you get in trouble after you rolled your eyes at something again? did you not prehaps learn from previous interactions? rolling your eyes at something \"stupid or lame\" is an intentional response that is disrespectful to whatever it is. mature people dont act that way.....", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes.\n\nSo it is disrespectful. \n\nIts like throwing pepper in someone's face an expecting them not to sneeze.\n\nNo it’s not. You can easily (edited in) refrain from rolling your eyes, while it’s much more difficult to refrain from sneezing. \nIt’s fine to think whatever you want, but you might want to refrain from rolling your eyes when you’re, say, interacting with your boss; aka someone that can make you unemployed for whatever reason they please.", ">\n\nThis isn't an opinion. It's just flat wrong. \nIt is disrespectful because it is a conscious signifier which clearly communicated that you think that the thing you are rolling your eyes at is not worthy of respect.", ">\n\nYou have to go out of your way to roll your eyes. It is NOT gutteral or instinctual", ">\n\nIf you annoy me, my arm whips out in a natural reaction and slaps you.", ">\n\nSorry, kiddo, it’s 100% disrespectful. Just own the shit and quit trying to lawyer around it.\nI say that after having rolled my eyes so hard at your post, I travelled back in time.", ">\n\nTell that to my family lol you get the belt", ">\n\nThis was made my a 15 year old who just got told off by their mom about rolling their eyes. Then in defense said, “I can’t control it”", ">\n\nMan it's getting so aggressive sometimes here 😂", ">\n\ni certainly hope you are embarrassed about this in a couple years when you grow up.", ">\n\nOP is a habitual eye roller 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄", ">\n\nI wish to God we could block people by age, no more edgy 13yo’s", ">\n\nSomebody just got their ps5 taken away for rolling their eyes", ">\n\nTell me you're 12 without telling me you're 12.", ">\n\nit’s the definition of disrespectful and a sign that you have literally nothing intelligent to say in return. \nwhich is why we outgrow it as adults.", ">\n\nYou can control it. It’s not an “automatic response” unless you’ve taught yourself to do it. I never roll my eyes. It’s just not something I have ever practiced doing. And yes…if I’m saying something too you and you dismiss it with an eye roll…it’s super disrespectful.", ">\n\nrolling your eyes is just as respectful as sticking your tongue out at someone or making a stupid face in reaction to something someone says", ">\n\nIf you can’t control your eye movement, you need to see a neurologist, dude 😆. As it stands, eye rolling isn’t a reflex or a “natural reaction” to anything. Habits aren’t the same as involuntary reactions.\nRolling your eyes at someone is disrespectful. It’s an outward sign that you think something about your interaction with them was stupid or wrong. There’s no one here that will agree with you, and you know that you’re in the vast minority with this opinion because you posted it on this sub. Now learn some humility and accept that your opinion is factually incorrect based on science.", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nAre you like 14 and your mom got you in trouble cause you rolled your eyes at her? Lmao", ">\n\nI’m gonna show your mom this and it’s going to be another week of being grounded, you little shit lol", ">\n\nOmfg 😂", ">\n\nOP I have to ask.\n\n\nHow old are you?\n\n\nHow is your relationship with your parents?\n\n\nHow do you view authority figures in your life?", ">\n\nrolls eyes", ">\n\nIf you say or demand something stupid from me I will probably roll my eyes.", ">\n\nBut it is", ">\n\nJust like rolling your eyes is an innate response, so are other people's responses to you rolling your eyes.", ">\n\nSometimes being respectful requires hiding your subjective opinion on whether something is stupid or lame.", ">\n\nI wouldn’t say eye rolling is as involuntary as laughing or crying tho. It’s more of a choice.", ">\n\nIf someone rolls their eyes then I feel disrespected it’s a natural reaction.", ">\n\ntell me you're a teenager without telling me you're a teenager", ">\n\nI'm rolling my eyes at this post. And I definitely mean it disrespectfully.", ">\n\nLmao this kid had an argument with his parent(s) or teacher and is venting on Reddit.", ">\n\nYou sound like an eye rolling arsehole", ">\n\ni have never had an as a nonvoulentary action, it requires very explicit movement of you eye. this is like saying “when i dont like people, i punch them in the head, thats my natural reaction i cant control it”\ni have never once legitimately rolled my eyes at something, i think you might be an asshole", ">\n\nMe smacking your face is also an innate uncontrollable response to you rolling your eyes. I'm only human. What can I do? 🙄", ">\n\nI disagree. also there are a billion other ways to express something being stupid or lame than rolling ur eyes", ">\n\nStop downvoting, this is ACTUALLY a very unpopular opinion and I love to see it tbh. Voice your disagreement in the comments but don't downvote the post. This post is hilarious.", ">\n\nThis is something you’ve learned to do. It’s entirely in your control if you do it or not.", ">\n\nI once got a detention for rolling my eyes at a teacher in 4th grade.\nI agree with you, though. The only other person I've ever really rolled my eyes at was my mother, and she deserved it, every single time.", ">\n\nI get your point. I absolutely purposefully roll my eyes sometimes and whoever I'm doing it to would be valid for getting mad. \nBut as someone who can't hide any emotion on their face (literally any, I'm the definition of an open book) there have been plenty of times where people blew up at me or laughed because I rolled my eyes when I didn't even realize I had done it. Feel like the people disagreeing with you haven't experienced this problem.", ">\n\nWhat you've done is cultivate a bad habit and then blamed it on everyone else when you repeat your own bad habit unintentionally.\nThis is entirely your fault.", ">\n\nOnly on Reddit would someone so boldly declare something like this to a stranger. I'm on the spectrum so that might have to do with my not being able to hide any emotion (I truly mean that, people can basically read my thoughts just by looking at me, good and bad). \nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave. Consider working on that.", ">\n\nSo they point out you’re cultivating a bad habit and blaming other people so you then, blame them? It’s a little spot on don’t you think?", ">\n\nWhen did i blame them for my own actions? Could you quote me? I was just pointing out how weird it was that they made such a strong assumption of my character off a causal comment I left when they themselves were ironically being unnecessarily rude in the process. \nI don't know how you got so lost?", ">\n\n\nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave.\n\nClassic deflection and implication that they’re the one with the problem, not you", ">\n\nFirst its not automatic. I almost never rolled my eyes. Its much easier to control than laughing crying or sneezing. So you just dont make the effort. Its actually a way to express your feeling. You should know that, its your personnality not a human instinctive reaction. \nAnd yes not respecting something is disrespectful. Its not that hard to understand. \nAnyway if i see you.. i dont know having a breakdown after being fired and dumped and start to laugh you'd like that ? \nIf im sad because something good happens to you and show it to you, you would like that ? \nHonestly you are just trying to justify being a bit of a jerk. \nI dont blame you or anything we all are jerks sometime but its what you are doing right now.", ">\n\nI have to refocus my eyes and most of the time blinking doesn’t cut it. I have a lazy eye and when I look at someone for a long time it unfocuses, so moving the muscle is the only way to reset it. If I don’t, people start moving their heads/ bodies trying to focus on my lazy eye. It gets awkward.", ">\n\nThis is where I go to my training as a kid. What others think of you is none of your business.", ">\n\nUnless you have a tick or something like Tourette’s syndrome, then it’s not an involuntary response. Part of living in a society and not being considered rude is managing your body language.\nLet me put it this way. “Rudeness” in itself is a social concept. That means it’s decided by the perception of the masses, what we generally agree upon in terms of our symbols of communication, our customs, our beliefs, our values, etc. For you to say that rolling your eyes isn’t disrespectful is not objectively wrong. But according to the society you live in, it is wrong. In layman’s terms, the hill you’re dying on here is completely arbitrary, neither side will ever be truly correct but as long as you live in a society which feels this way then you will be beholden to it anyways.", ">\n\nTo be fair, if your thinking its stupid or lame, then that is dis-respect. I'd agree with this if it was worded like 'More people need to say what they truly think', but I think you sort of missed the mark, OP.", ">\n\nI am equally annoyed when folks rapidly blink and look away mid conversation or drop their arm dead against their thigh. It’s like you’ve given up an effort to even keep your body vertical and engaged while I’m talking to you.", ">\n\nOP getting downvoted AF & keeps commenting. Gotta love it.", ">\n\nIt is shown as a sign of disrespect and it shows weakness. I can’t imagine Gandhi, the queen of England or Einstein roll their eyes in front of random people. The reason why they were respected is because they didn’t play any superiority game on front of… inferiors or ignorant people. If something is stupid, get the patience and find enough love within yourself to treat the other ones right. \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a child because his question is “stupid”, what parent does it make you ? \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a bad question because you are an expert in a subject, then it is not your modesty that speaks but your ego. For proof : Even if someone you hate said something intelligent, you might want to roll your eyes just to flatter your ego.", ">\n\nIt's seen as disrespectful BECAUSE it's inadvertently telling them you think they're irritating/annoying.", ">\n\nI never roll my eyes? Is that something people do naturally?", ">\n\nAll depends on the context of what is going on.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is not a natural reaction?", ">\n\nNot maintaining basic self control is disrespectful. It's the same reason we don't defecate in public, sneeze on people, or stand in the way of foot traffic.", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s and one of my tics is eye rolling", ">\n\nK", ">\n\nI accidentally roll my eyes at people sometimes when I'm not even trying to", ">\n\nThe sign of a true unpopular opinion: Nobody upvoting it, but everybody commenting to say how they disagree. If you disagree, then give it an upvote. That's the point of this sub." ]
> This had to be written by someone under the age of 25	[ "🙄", ">\n\nYou’re grounded now", ">\n\nThe post above was someone getting electrocuted so this reply was very timely", ">\n\nThis news is shocking", ">\n\nIt definitely SPARKED my interest", ">\n\nAll of you guys need to leave, and not come back before learning how to conduct yourselves properly", ">\n\nUhhhh....... electricity", ">\n\nWell no, in the right context it is disrespectful. Rolling your eyes suggests that you're not taking the matter seriously or that you dont care which is a sign of disrespect towards whoever is speaking with you.", ">\n\nBut I can't control what I think. If I said \"man you're stupid and I don't care what you say\" thats disrespectful. I'm actually showing respect by not saying it.", ">\n\nI mean, actions speak louder than words, right?", ">\n\nIts not really an action tho its just an automatic response. Like gasping or yawning.", ">\n\nbullshit.\nSorry, it was an automatic response. Which is bullshit just like yours.", ">\n\nStill not the same thing. And they get on me for false analogies....", ">\n\nYou must be a teenager", ">\n\nLol how many times are you gonna post that. Dont you have an original thought of your own?", ">\n\nBruh I cant believe you make these posts. They're foolish", ">\n\nLaughing at someone can be disrespectful. Don't think so? Try laughing at someone's funeral.", ">\n\nThe disrespect comes from the one who told me a joke and made me laugh.", ">\n\nWhat about if no one said any joke? Because, you know, you are at a funeral.", ">\n\nSo someone's just there randomly laughing at shit? That sounds like a mental illness.", ">\n\nYou have never thought of something funny in your head to make yourself laugh? \nOr hell, maybe you didn't like the person who is buried and decided to laugh at them. You find it funny, so laughing must be appropriate, right?", ">\n\nWhy am I thinking about funny shit at a funeral.", ">\n\nBecause the universe likes to put us in uncomfortable positions sometimes.", ">\n\n“if its stupid or lame, you roll your eyes” - you found the disrespect", ">\n\nIm allowed to think whatever i want and its not disrespectful.", ">\n\nWhen you express contempt for something someone else said, it's disrespect.", ">\n\nWhat if what they said is contemptible?", ">\n\nSome people and comments deserve disrespect, still gonna be disrespect", ">\n\nLaughing, crying, and sneezing are all innate, involuntary reactions to certain types of stimuli. Rolling your eyes is a learned behavior. You can’t compare it to those other automatic responses because it’s not the same thing.", ">\n\nTake my upvote", ">\n\nOP rolled their eyes at someone and got chewed out for it.\nNow they're going online in an attempt to validate themselves.\n🙄", ">\n\nProbably got grounded.", ">\n\nPart of being a mature adult is to have self-control and not acting on every impulse and being respectful of people.", ">\n\n\nPart of being a mature adult\n\nYup but OP is clearly a teenager lol. They complain about being told off for doing chores wrong in another post…", ">\n\nEven a teenager should be able to have the fundamental basics of respect", ">\n\nOh I agree 100%", ">\n\nYou have poor self-control and poor self-awareness but the good news is that you can improve these things.", ">\n\n/r/wrongopinions", ">\n\nI feel like we need a new subreddit r/unpopularforareason", ">\n\nIt’s entire purpose is to be disrespectful. Nobody eyerolls something they respect. But how offensive it is depends on the context and how serious one is being.", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes\n\nYou rn: \"I'm not being disrespectful. I just thought what you said was stupid or lame.\"\n...", ">\n\nSaying its stupid could be disrespectful. A facial response is not.", ">\n\nLiterally every person in this thread agrees that it is.\nThis is your bad habit. Nobody else's responsibility but you.", ">\n\nThey can choose to not fly off the handle at what is just an innate reaction.", ">\n\nSo let me get this straight: you think you deserve to be able to disrespect whoever you like whenever you like but they can't as much as say you're being rude? Grow up.", ">\n\nFound the teenager.", ">\n\nMeh, I agree with that one. If you don't like how someone is doing something then do it yourself. There's a reason I live alone.", ">\n\nIt is a UNIVERSAL sign of disrespect. Globally. Deal with it.", ">\n\nLaughing can be disrespectuful too. If you cannot control your own reactions, well, what can I say, maybe you have not really grown up?", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s so it’s hard to control my own actions sometimes…", ">\n\nThank u I'm trying to explain how autism can make it hard to read not just others facial expressions but also ur own and it seems like no one has thought of the possibility that they acc don't realise it or csnt control it", ">\n\nWould you roll your eyes during a job interview if you thought a question was stupid or irrelevant? Do you think you’d get the job if you did?", ">\n\nPretty sure OP would think they were owed that job and they would think it’s ridiculous if they didn’t get it.\nOP is also a teenager going through their rebel phase though", ">\n\nYou're oddly specific here.", ">\n\nWhat was specific? Or rather oddly specific?", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a good way to fast track yourself to a divorce, if you want one.", ">\n\nI think OP needs the definition of respect before any further comment is made", ">\n\nOh I already know it, and I know it does not mean:\nDon't ever disagree with me\nDon't think bad thoughts about me\nDon't ever correct me when I'm blatantly wrong \nShine my boots with your tongue", ">\n\nSoooo this post isn’t about eye rolling is what I’m getting from this. You’ve got issues to work through with your parents or partner or something", ">\n\nSince when tf was eye rolling involuntary?", ">", ">\n\nYour lack of self control is not a justification for disrespect. I personally dont know anyone who reacts to anything by rolling their eyes. Just be mature and communicate.", ">\n\nAnd what if it's not stupid and someone rolls their eyes? Wouldn't it be disrespectful in that case?", ">\n\nIn the eye rollers opinion then it must have been. But you can't fault someone for thinking its stupid.", ">\n\nSo eyerolling is some kind of exceptional thing that is free from criticism? \nIf one has the freedom to eye roll, then someone else has the freedom to criticize the eye roller right? \nOr is it your opinion that besides that everyone who sees an eye roller has to just stfu", ">\n\nMeh, it is disrespectful. It's a way to be disrespectful without having to say That's the dumbest thing I've heard all month, and everyone else who heard it is also dumber for hearing it as well.", ">\n\nBut I didn't say it that's the point.", ">\n\nJust cuz you don’t use words doesn’t mean it’s not disrespectful. Walking away while someone is talking to you, rolling your eyes, slapping someone, and starting to play a game on your phone while someone is talking to you are all disrespectful. It doesn’t matter that you didn’t say anything, your lack of respect still showed.", ">\n\nespecially the way theyre responding to comments", ">\n\nYeah, a natural reaction if you’ve never learned to manage your emotions as opposed to letting them run your life. I’m not talking about being totally monotone rational, either. You need to learn a balance between rational and emotional…which includes healthy, appropriate, respectful expression of honest feelings. Eye rolling is absolutely disrespectful, belittling, and dismissive.", ">\n\nComments: OP is completely wrong and has attitude issues", ">\n\nWhat sounds like mental illness is you refusing to admit that rolling your eyes is simply not an unconditional response. Whether you want to believe it or not, you are doing it intentionally and you can control it. \nYou’re just to much of a b—— to do so.", ">\n\nSame to you", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a learned reaction. Not natural. I rarely of ever roll my eyes at anything.", ">", ">\n\nJust like raising your middle finger. Or vocalizing the sounds \"fuck you\". Or fingers typing the words fuck you OP. Nothing is disrespectful!", ">\n\nNice try but not the same thing at all. You're talking about thought out actions here. The eye roll is more like a reaction. Its quick, its automatic, no one has to think \"im rolling my eyes now\" it just happens. \nSort of like when telling a lie - no one decides to have their eyes dart around suspiciously, it just happens.", ">\n\nNo. Rolling your eyes is not involuntary. It can be controlled. You have a bad habit that you CAN stop. Much like a child learning not to suck their thumb, or biting your nails.", ">\n\nHow about you start with your hair scratching", ">\n\nYour opinion is a contradiction in itself. And, yeah. I disagree. Rolling your eyes is 100% to show lack of respect, and you have no intentions of showing it, even to reason, by rolling your eyes at something someone could believe is meaningful or important. Even if it is stupid.\nI get your point, we roll our eyes to express how we feel, but it is still a physical snare. You say rolling your eyes isn't disrespectful, while saying it's okay to roll your eyes because something is \" stupid or lame\", which in itself is disrespectful. You sound like a very young person in the middle of a learning moment, and you're trying to react with rebellion. It only shows that you lack maturity and are in need of growth. This might be a time for you to read these comments and reevaluate. There are healthier ways to react to things you disagree with, or lack interest in. If not, you can just accept that you roll your eyes to show lack of respect.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is much more deliberate than laughter, tears, or sneezing. It's a conscious action in response to a judgement you're making.", ">\n\nNah, dude it is disrespectful \nYou just have no self control and by the looks of it you don't want to build some", ">\n\nYour post made me roll my eyes very hard.", ">\n\n“No, officer, my wife - she MADE me hit her!”", ">\n\nIt's a natural reaction for a sooky kid but not an adult, if you do that as an adult you just manchild that wants everything their way", ">\n\npoor OP.... did you get in trouble after you rolled your eyes at something again? did you not prehaps learn from previous interactions? rolling your eyes at something \"stupid or lame\" is an intentional response that is disrespectful to whatever it is. mature people dont act that way.....", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes.\n\nSo it is disrespectful. \n\nIts like throwing pepper in someone's face an expecting them not to sneeze.\n\nNo it’s not. You can easily (edited in) refrain from rolling your eyes, while it’s much more difficult to refrain from sneezing. \nIt’s fine to think whatever you want, but you might want to refrain from rolling your eyes when you’re, say, interacting with your boss; aka someone that can make you unemployed for whatever reason they please.", ">\n\nThis isn't an opinion. It's just flat wrong. \nIt is disrespectful because it is a conscious signifier which clearly communicated that you think that the thing you are rolling your eyes at is not worthy of respect.", ">\n\nYou have to go out of your way to roll your eyes. It is NOT gutteral or instinctual", ">\n\nIf you annoy me, my arm whips out in a natural reaction and slaps you.", ">\n\nSorry, kiddo, it’s 100% disrespectful. Just own the shit and quit trying to lawyer around it.\nI say that after having rolled my eyes so hard at your post, I travelled back in time.", ">\n\nTell that to my family lol you get the belt", ">\n\nThis was made my a 15 year old who just got told off by their mom about rolling their eyes. Then in defense said, “I can’t control it”", ">\n\nMan it's getting so aggressive sometimes here 😂", ">\n\ni certainly hope you are embarrassed about this in a couple years when you grow up.", ">\n\nOP is a habitual eye roller 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄", ">\n\nI wish to God we could block people by age, no more edgy 13yo’s", ">\n\nSomebody just got their ps5 taken away for rolling their eyes", ">\n\nTell me you're 12 without telling me you're 12.", ">\n\nit’s the definition of disrespectful and a sign that you have literally nothing intelligent to say in return. \nwhich is why we outgrow it as adults.", ">\n\nYou can control it. It’s not an “automatic response” unless you’ve taught yourself to do it. I never roll my eyes. It’s just not something I have ever practiced doing. And yes…if I’m saying something too you and you dismiss it with an eye roll…it’s super disrespectful.", ">\n\nrolling your eyes is just as respectful as sticking your tongue out at someone or making a stupid face in reaction to something someone says", ">\n\nIf you can’t control your eye movement, you need to see a neurologist, dude 😆. As it stands, eye rolling isn’t a reflex or a “natural reaction” to anything. Habits aren’t the same as involuntary reactions.\nRolling your eyes at someone is disrespectful. It’s an outward sign that you think something about your interaction with them was stupid or wrong. There’s no one here that will agree with you, and you know that you’re in the vast minority with this opinion because you posted it on this sub. Now learn some humility and accept that your opinion is factually incorrect based on science.", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nAre you like 14 and your mom got you in trouble cause you rolled your eyes at her? Lmao", ">\n\nI’m gonna show your mom this and it’s going to be another week of being grounded, you little shit lol", ">\n\nOmfg 😂", ">\n\nOP I have to ask.\n\n\nHow old are you?\n\n\nHow is your relationship with your parents?\n\n\nHow do you view authority figures in your life?", ">\n\nrolls eyes", ">\n\nIf you say or demand something stupid from me I will probably roll my eyes.", ">\n\nBut it is", ">\n\nJust like rolling your eyes is an innate response, so are other people's responses to you rolling your eyes.", ">\n\nSometimes being respectful requires hiding your subjective opinion on whether something is stupid or lame.", ">\n\nI wouldn’t say eye rolling is as involuntary as laughing or crying tho. It’s more of a choice.", ">\n\nIf someone rolls their eyes then I feel disrespected it’s a natural reaction.", ">\n\ntell me you're a teenager without telling me you're a teenager", ">\n\nI'm rolling my eyes at this post. And I definitely mean it disrespectfully.", ">\n\nLmao this kid had an argument with his parent(s) or teacher and is venting on Reddit.", ">\n\nYou sound like an eye rolling arsehole", ">\n\ni have never had an as a nonvoulentary action, it requires very explicit movement of you eye. this is like saying “when i dont like people, i punch them in the head, thats my natural reaction i cant control it”\ni have never once legitimately rolled my eyes at something, i think you might be an asshole", ">\n\nMe smacking your face is also an innate uncontrollable response to you rolling your eyes. I'm only human. What can I do? 🙄", ">\n\nI disagree. also there are a billion other ways to express something being stupid or lame than rolling ur eyes", ">\n\nStop downvoting, this is ACTUALLY a very unpopular opinion and I love to see it tbh. Voice your disagreement in the comments but don't downvote the post. This post is hilarious.", ">\n\nThis is something you’ve learned to do. It’s entirely in your control if you do it or not.", ">\n\nI once got a detention for rolling my eyes at a teacher in 4th grade.\nI agree with you, though. The only other person I've ever really rolled my eyes at was my mother, and she deserved it, every single time.", ">\n\nI get your point. I absolutely purposefully roll my eyes sometimes and whoever I'm doing it to would be valid for getting mad. \nBut as someone who can't hide any emotion on their face (literally any, I'm the definition of an open book) there have been plenty of times where people blew up at me or laughed because I rolled my eyes when I didn't even realize I had done it. Feel like the people disagreeing with you haven't experienced this problem.", ">\n\nWhat you've done is cultivate a bad habit and then blamed it on everyone else when you repeat your own bad habit unintentionally.\nThis is entirely your fault.", ">\n\nOnly on Reddit would someone so boldly declare something like this to a stranger. I'm on the spectrum so that might have to do with my not being able to hide any emotion (I truly mean that, people can basically read my thoughts just by looking at me, good and bad). \nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave. Consider working on that.", ">\n\nSo they point out you’re cultivating a bad habit and blaming other people so you then, blame them? It’s a little spot on don’t you think?", ">\n\nWhen did i blame them for my own actions? Could you quote me? I was just pointing out how weird it was that they made such a strong assumption of my character off a causal comment I left when they themselves were ironically being unnecessarily rude in the process. \nI don't know how you got so lost?", ">\n\n\nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave.\n\nClassic deflection and implication that they’re the one with the problem, not you", ">\n\nFirst its not automatic. I almost never rolled my eyes. Its much easier to control than laughing crying or sneezing. So you just dont make the effort. Its actually a way to express your feeling. You should know that, its your personnality not a human instinctive reaction. \nAnd yes not respecting something is disrespectful. Its not that hard to understand. \nAnyway if i see you.. i dont know having a breakdown after being fired and dumped and start to laugh you'd like that ? \nIf im sad because something good happens to you and show it to you, you would like that ? \nHonestly you are just trying to justify being a bit of a jerk. \nI dont blame you or anything we all are jerks sometime but its what you are doing right now.", ">\n\nI have to refocus my eyes and most of the time blinking doesn’t cut it. I have a lazy eye and when I look at someone for a long time it unfocuses, so moving the muscle is the only way to reset it. If I don’t, people start moving their heads/ bodies trying to focus on my lazy eye. It gets awkward.", ">\n\nThis is where I go to my training as a kid. What others think of you is none of your business.", ">\n\nUnless you have a tick or something like Tourette’s syndrome, then it’s not an involuntary response. Part of living in a society and not being considered rude is managing your body language.\nLet me put it this way. “Rudeness” in itself is a social concept. That means it’s decided by the perception of the masses, what we generally agree upon in terms of our symbols of communication, our customs, our beliefs, our values, etc. For you to say that rolling your eyes isn’t disrespectful is not objectively wrong. But according to the society you live in, it is wrong. In layman’s terms, the hill you’re dying on here is completely arbitrary, neither side will ever be truly correct but as long as you live in a society which feels this way then you will be beholden to it anyways.", ">\n\nTo be fair, if your thinking its stupid or lame, then that is dis-respect. I'd agree with this if it was worded like 'More people need to say what they truly think', but I think you sort of missed the mark, OP.", ">\n\nI am equally annoyed when folks rapidly blink and look away mid conversation or drop their arm dead against their thigh. It’s like you’ve given up an effort to even keep your body vertical and engaged while I’m talking to you.", ">\n\nOP getting downvoted AF & keeps commenting. Gotta love it.", ">\n\nIt is shown as a sign of disrespect and it shows weakness. I can’t imagine Gandhi, the queen of England or Einstein roll their eyes in front of random people. The reason why they were respected is because they didn’t play any superiority game on front of… inferiors or ignorant people. If something is stupid, get the patience and find enough love within yourself to treat the other ones right. \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a child because his question is “stupid”, what parent does it make you ? \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a bad question because you are an expert in a subject, then it is not your modesty that speaks but your ego. For proof : Even if someone you hate said something intelligent, you might want to roll your eyes just to flatter your ego.", ">\n\nIt's seen as disrespectful BECAUSE it's inadvertently telling them you think they're irritating/annoying.", ">\n\nI never roll my eyes? Is that something people do naturally?", ">\n\nAll depends on the context of what is going on.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is not a natural reaction?", ">\n\nNot maintaining basic self control is disrespectful. It's the same reason we don't defecate in public, sneeze on people, or stand in the way of foot traffic.", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s and one of my tics is eye rolling", ">\n\nK", ">\n\nI accidentally roll my eyes at people sometimes when I'm not even trying to", ">\n\nThe sign of a true unpopular opinion: Nobody upvoting it, but everybody commenting to say how they disagree. If you disagree, then give it an upvote. That's the point of this sub.", ">\n\nI think it depends." ]
> Rolling your eyes isn’t natural though. It’s cultural or socially learned if that makes sense. Like if you rolled your eyes at a tribe that is disconnected from society they wouldn’t understand that you’re annoyed. So you cant really compare it to laughing.	[ "🙄", ">\n\nYou’re grounded now", ">\n\nThe post above was someone getting electrocuted so this reply was very timely", ">\n\nThis news is shocking", ">\n\nIt definitely SPARKED my interest", ">\n\nAll of you guys need to leave, and not come back before learning how to conduct yourselves properly", ">\n\nUhhhh....... electricity", ">\n\nWell no, in the right context it is disrespectful. Rolling your eyes suggests that you're not taking the matter seriously or that you dont care which is a sign of disrespect towards whoever is speaking with you.", ">\n\nBut I can't control what I think. If I said \"man you're stupid and I don't care what you say\" thats disrespectful. I'm actually showing respect by not saying it.", ">\n\nI mean, actions speak louder than words, right?", ">\n\nIts not really an action tho its just an automatic response. Like gasping or yawning.", ">\n\nbullshit.\nSorry, it was an automatic response. Which is bullshit just like yours.", ">\n\nStill not the same thing. And they get on me for false analogies....", ">\n\nYou must be a teenager", ">\n\nLol how many times are you gonna post that. Dont you have an original thought of your own?", ">\n\nBruh I cant believe you make these posts. They're foolish", ">\n\nLaughing at someone can be disrespectful. Don't think so? Try laughing at someone's funeral.", ">\n\nThe disrespect comes from the one who told me a joke and made me laugh.", ">\n\nWhat about if no one said any joke? Because, you know, you are at a funeral.", ">\n\nSo someone's just there randomly laughing at shit? That sounds like a mental illness.", ">\n\nYou have never thought of something funny in your head to make yourself laugh? \nOr hell, maybe you didn't like the person who is buried and decided to laugh at them. You find it funny, so laughing must be appropriate, right?", ">\n\nWhy am I thinking about funny shit at a funeral.", ">\n\nBecause the universe likes to put us in uncomfortable positions sometimes.", ">\n\n“if its stupid or lame, you roll your eyes” - you found the disrespect", ">\n\nIm allowed to think whatever i want and its not disrespectful.", ">\n\nWhen you express contempt for something someone else said, it's disrespect.", ">\n\nWhat if what they said is contemptible?", ">\n\nSome people and comments deserve disrespect, still gonna be disrespect", ">\n\nLaughing, crying, and sneezing are all innate, involuntary reactions to certain types of stimuli. Rolling your eyes is a learned behavior. You can’t compare it to those other automatic responses because it’s not the same thing.", ">\n\nTake my upvote", ">\n\nOP rolled their eyes at someone and got chewed out for it.\nNow they're going online in an attempt to validate themselves.\n🙄", ">\n\nProbably got grounded.", ">\n\nPart of being a mature adult is to have self-control and not acting on every impulse and being respectful of people.", ">\n\n\nPart of being a mature adult\n\nYup but OP is clearly a teenager lol. They complain about being told off for doing chores wrong in another post…", ">\n\nEven a teenager should be able to have the fundamental basics of respect", ">\n\nOh I agree 100%", ">\n\nYou have poor self-control and poor self-awareness but the good news is that you can improve these things.", ">\n\n/r/wrongopinions", ">\n\nI feel like we need a new subreddit r/unpopularforareason", ">\n\nIt’s entire purpose is to be disrespectful. Nobody eyerolls something they respect. But how offensive it is depends on the context and how serious one is being.", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes\n\nYou rn: \"I'm not being disrespectful. I just thought what you said was stupid or lame.\"\n...", ">\n\nSaying its stupid could be disrespectful. A facial response is not.", ">\n\nLiterally every person in this thread agrees that it is.\nThis is your bad habit. Nobody else's responsibility but you.", ">\n\nThey can choose to not fly off the handle at what is just an innate reaction.", ">\n\nSo let me get this straight: you think you deserve to be able to disrespect whoever you like whenever you like but they can't as much as say you're being rude? Grow up.", ">\n\nFound the teenager.", ">\n\nMeh, I agree with that one. If you don't like how someone is doing something then do it yourself. There's a reason I live alone.", ">\n\nIt is a UNIVERSAL sign of disrespect. Globally. Deal with it.", ">\n\nLaughing can be disrespectuful too. If you cannot control your own reactions, well, what can I say, maybe you have not really grown up?", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s so it’s hard to control my own actions sometimes…", ">\n\nThank u I'm trying to explain how autism can make it hard to read not just others facial expressions but also ur own and it seems like no one has thought of the possibility that they acc don't realise it or csnt control it", ">\n\nWould you roll your eyes during a job interview if you thought a question was stupid or irrelevant? Do you think you’d get the job if you did?", ">\n\nPretty sure OP would think they were owed that job and they would think it’s ridiculous if they didn’t get it.\nOP is also a teenager going through their rebel phase though", ">\n\nYou're oddly specific here.", ">\n\nWhat was specific? Or rather oddly specific?", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a good way to fast track yourself to a divorce, if you want one.", ">\n\nI think OP needs the definition of respect before any further comment is made", ">\n\nOh I already know it, and I know it does not mean:\nDon't ever disagree with me\nDon't think bad thoughts about me\nDon't ever correct me when I'm blatantly wrong \nShine my boots with your tongue", ">\n\nSoooo this post isn’t about eye rolling is what I’m getting from this. You’ve got issues to work through with your parents or partner or something", ">\n\nSince when tf was eye rolling involuntary?", ">", ">\n\nYour lack of self control is not a justification for disrespect. I personally dont know anyone who reacts to anything by rolling their eyes. Just be mature and communicate.", ">\n\nAnd what if it's not stupid and someone rolls their eyes? Wouldn't it be disrespectful in that case?", ">\n\nIn the eye rollers opinion then it must have been. But you can't fault someone for thinking its stupid.", ">\n\nSo eyerolling is some kind of exceptional thing that is free from criticism? \nIf one has the freedom to eye roll, then someone else has the freedom to criticize the eye roller right? \nOr is it your opinion that besides that everyone who sees an eye roller has to just stfu", ">\n\nMeh, it is disrespectful. It's a way to be disrespectful without having to say That's the dumbest thing I've heard all month, and everyone else who heard it is also dumber for hearing it as well.", ">\n\nBut I didn't say it that's the point.", ">\n\nJust cuz you don’t use words doesn’t mean it’s not disrespectful. Walking away while someone is talking to you, rolling your eyes, slapping someone, and starting to play a game on your phone while someone is talking to you are all disrespectful. It doesn’t matter that you didn’t say anything, your lack of respect still showed.", ">\n\nespecially the way theyre responding to comments", ">\n\nYeah, a natural reaction if you’ve never learned to manage your emotions as opposed to letting them run your life. I’m not talking about being totally monotone rational, either. You need to learn a balance between rational and emotional…which includes healthy, appropriate, respectful expression of honest feelings. Eye rolling is absolutely disrespectful, belittling, and dismissive.", ">\n\nComments: OP is completely wrong and has attitude issues", ">\n\nWhat sounds like mental illness is you refusing to admit that rolling your eyes is simply not an unconditional response. Whether you want to believe it or not, you are doing it intentionally and you can control it. \nYou’re just to much of a b—— to do so.", ">\n\nSame to you", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a learned reaction. Not natural. I rarely of ever roll my eyes at anything.", ">", ">\n\nJust like raising your middle finger. Or vocalizing the sounds \"fuck you\". Or fingers typing the words fuck you OP. Nothing is disrespectful!", ">\n\nNice try but not the same thing at all. You're talking about thought out actions here. The eye roll is more like a reaction. Its quick, its automatic, no one has to think \"im rolling my eyes now\" it just happens. \nSort of like when telling a lie - no one decides to have their eyes dart around suspiciously, it just happens.", ">\n\nNo. Rolling your eyes is not involuntary. It can be controlled. You have a bad habit that you CAN stop. Much like a child learning not to suck their thumb, or biting your nails.", ">\n\nHow about you start with your hair scratching", ">\n\nYour opinion is a contradiction in itself. And, yeah. I disagree. Rolling your eyes is 100% to show lack of respect, and you have no intentions of showing it, even to reason, by rolling your eyes at something someone could believe is meaningful or important. Even if it is stupid.\nI get your point, we roll our eyes to express how we feel, but it is still a physical snare. You say rolling your eyes isn't disrespectful, while saying it's okay to roll your eyes because something is \" stupid or lame\", which in itself is disrespectful. You sound like a very young person in the middle of a learning moment, and you're trying to react with rebellion. It only shows that you lack maturity and are in need of growth. This might be a time for you to read these comments and reevaluate. There are healthier ways to react to things you disagree with, or lack interest in. If not, you can just accept that you roll your eyes to show lack of respect.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is much more deliberate than laughter, tears, or sneezing. It's a conscious action in response to a judgement you're making.", ">\n\nNah, dude it is disrespectful \nYou just have no self control and by the looks of it you don't want to build some", ">\n\nYour post made me roll my eyes very hard.", ">\n\n“No, officer, my wife - she MADE me hit her!”", ">\n\nIt's a natural reaction for a sooky kid but not an adult, if you do that as an adult you just manchild that wants everything their way", ">\n\npoor OP.... did you get in trouble after you rolled your eyes at something again? did you not prehaps learn from previous interactions? rolling your eyes at something \"stupid or lame\" is an intentional response that is disrespectful to whatever it is. mature people dont act that way.....", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes.\n\nSo it is disrespectful. \n\nIts like throwing pepper in someone's face an expecting them not to sneeze.\n\nNo it’s not. You can easily (edited in) refrain from rolling your eyes, while it’s much more difficult to refrain from sneezing. \nIt’s fine to think whatever you want, but you might want to refrain from rolling your eyes when you’re, say, interacting with your boss; aka someone that can make you unemployed for whatever reason they please.", ">\n\nThis isn't an opinion. It's just flat wrong. \nIt is disrespectful because it is a conscious signifier which clearly communicated that you think that the thing you are rolling your eyes at is not worthy of respect.", ">\n\nYou have to go out of your way to roll your eyes. It is NOT gutteral or instinctual", ">\n\nIf you annoy me, my arm whips out in a natural reaction and slaps you.", ">\n\nSorry, kiddo, it’s 100% disrespectful. Just own the shit and quit trying to lawyer around it.\nI say that after having rolled my eyes so hard at your post, I travelled back in time.", ">\n\nTell that to my family lol you get the belt", ">\n\nThis was made my a 15 year old who just got told off by their mom about rolling their eyes. Then in defense said, “I can’t control it”", ">\n\nMan it's getting so aggressive sometimes here 😂", ">\n\ni certainly hope you are embarrassed about this in a couple years when you grow up.", ">\n\nOP is a habitual eye roller 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄", ">\n\nI wish to God we could block people by age, no more edgy 13yo’s", ">\n\nSomebody just got their ps5 taken away for rolling their eyes", ">\n\nTell me you're 12 without telling me you're 12.", ">\n\nit’s the definition of disrespectful and a sign that you have literally nothing intelligent to say in return. \nwhich is why we outgrow it as adults.", ">\n\nYou can control it. It’s not an “automatic response” unless you’ve taught yourself to do it. I never roll my eyes. It’s just not something I have ever practiced doing. And yes…if I’m saying something too you and you dismiss it with an eye roll…it’s super disrespectful.", ">\n\nrolling your eyes is just as respectful as sticking your tongue out at someone or making a stupid face in reaction to something someone says", ">\n\nIf you can’t control your eye movement, you need to see a neurologist, dude 😆. As it stands, eye rolling isn’t a reflex or a “natural reaction” to anything. Habits aren’t the same as involuntary reactions.\nRolling your eyes at someone is disrespectful. It’s an outward sign that you think something about your interaction with them was stupid or wrong. There’s no one here that will agree with you, and you know that you’re in the vast minority with this opinion because you posted it on this sub. Now learn some humility and accept that your opinion is factually incorrect based on science.", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nAre you like 14 and your mom got you in trouble cause you rolled your eyes at her? Lmao", ">\n\nI’m gonna show your mom this and it’s going to be another week of being grounded, you little shit lol", ">\n\nOmfg 😂", ">\n\nOP I have to ask.\n\n\nHow old are you?\n\n\nHow is your relationship with your parents?\n\n\nHow do you view authority figures in your life?", ">\n\nrolls eyes", ">\n\nIf you say or demand something stupid from me I will probably roll my eyes.", ">\n\nBut it is", ">\n\nJust like rolling your eyes is an innate response, so are other people's responses to you rolling your eyes.", ">\n\nSometimes being respectful requires hiding your subjective opinion on whether something is stupid or lame.", ">\n\nI wouldn’t say eye rolling is as involuntary as laughing or crying tho. It’s more of a choice.", ">\n\nIf someone rolls their eyes then I feel disrespected it’s a natural reaction.", ">\n\ntell me you're a teenager without telling me you're a teenager", ">\n\nI'm rolling my eyes at this post. And I definitely mean it disrespectfully.", ">\n\nLmao this kid had an argument with his parent(s) or teacher and is venting on Reddit.", ">\n\nYou sound like an eye rolling arsehole", ">\n\ni have never had an as a nonvoulentary action, it requires very explicit movement of you eye. this is like saying “when i dont like people, i punch them in the head, thats my natural reaction i cant control it”\ni have never once legitimately rolled my eyes at something, i think you might be an asshole", ">\n\nMe smacking your face is also an innate uncontrollable response to you rolling your eyes. I'm only human. What can I do? 🙄", ">\n\nI disagree. also there are a billion other ways to express something being stupid or lame than rolling ur eyes", ">\n\nStop downvoting, this is ACTUALLY a very unpopular opinion and I love to see it tbh. Voice your disagreement in the comments but don't downvote the post. This post is hilarious.", ">\n\nThis is something you’ve learned to do. It’s entirely in your control if you do it or not.", ">\n\nI once got a detention for rolling my eyes at a teacher in 4th grade.\nI agree with you, though. The only other person I've ever really rolled my eyes at was my mother, and she deserved it, every single time.", ">\n\nI get your point. I absolutely purposefully roll my eyes sometimes and whoever I'm doing it to would be valid for getting mad. \nBut as someone who can't hide any emotion on their face (literally any, I'm the definition of an open book) there have been plenty of times where people blew up at me or laughed because I rolled my eyes when I didn't even realize I had done it. Feel like the people disagreeing with you haven't experienced this problem.", ">\n\nWhat you've done is cultivate a bad habit and then blamed it on everyone else when you repeat your own bad habit unintentionally.\nThis is entirely your fault.", ">\n\nOnly on Reddit would someone so boldly declare something like this to a stranger. I'm on the spectrum so that might have to do with my not being able to hide any emotion (I truly mean that, people can basically read my thoughts just by looking at me, good and bad). \nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave. Consider working on that.", ">\n\nSo they point out you’re cultivating a bad habit and blaming other people so you then, blame them? It’s a little spot on don’t you think?", ">\n\nWhen did i blame them for my own actions? Could you quote me? I was just pointing out how weird it was that they made such a strong assumption of my character off a causal comment I left when they themselves were ironically being unnecessarily rude in the process. \nI don't know how you got so lost?", ">\n\n\nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave.\n\nClassic deflection and implication that they’re the one with the problem, not you", ">\n\nFirst its not automatic. I almost never rolled my eyes. Its much easier to control than laughing crying or sneezing. So you just dont make the effort. Its actually a way to express your feeling. You should know that, its your personnality not a human instinctive reaction. \nAnd yes not respecting something is disrespectful. Its not that hard to understand. \nAnyway if i see you.. i dont know having a breakdown after being fired and dumped and start to laugh you'd like that ? \nIf im sad because something good happens to you and show it to you, you would like that ? \nHonestly you are just trying to justify being a bit of a jerk. \nI dont blame you or anything we all are jerks sometime but its what you are doing right now.", ">\n\nI have to refocus my eyes and most of the time blinking doesn’t cut it. I have a lazy eye and when I look at someone for a long time it unfocuses, so moving the muscle is the only way to reset it. If I don’t, people start moving their heads/ bodies trying to focus on my lazy eye. It gets awkward.", ">\n\nThis is where I go to my training as a kid. What others think of you is none of your business.", ">\n\nUnless you have a tick or something like Tourette’s syndrome, then it’s not an involuntary response. Part of living in a society and not being considered rude is managing your body language.\nLet me put it this way. “Rudeness” in itself is a social concept. That means it’s decided by the perception of the masses, what we generally agree upon in terms of our symbols of communication, our customs, our beliefs, our values, etc. For you to say that rolling your eyes isn’t disrespectful is not objectively wrong. But according to the society you live in, it is wrong. In layman’s terms, the hill you’re dying on here is completely arbitrary, neither side will ever be truly correct but as long as you live in a society which feels this way then you will be beholden to it anyways.", ">\n\nTo be fair, if your thinking its stupid or lame, then that is dis-respect. I'd agree with this if it was worded like 'More people need to say what they truly think', but I think you sort of missed the mark, OP.", ">\n\nI am equally annoyed when folks rapidly blink and look away mid conversation or drop their arm dead against their thigh. It’s like you’ve given up an effort to even keep your body vertical and engaged while I’m talking to you.", ">\n\nOP getting downvoted AF & keeps commenting. Gotta love it.", ">\n\nIt is shown as a sign of disrespect and it shows weakness. I can’t imagine Gandhi, the queen of England or Einstein roll their eyes in front of random people. The reason why they were respected is because they didn’t play any superiority game on front of… inferiors or ignorant people. If something is stupid, get the patience and find enough love within yourself to treat the other ones right. \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a child because his question is “stupid”, what parent does it make you ? \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a bad question because you are an expert in a subject, then it is not your modesty that speaks but your ego. For proof : Even if someone you hate said something intelligent, you might want to roll your eyes just to flatter your ego.", ">\n\nIt's seen as disrespectful BECAUSE it's inadvertently telling them you think they're irritating/annoying.", ">\n\nI never roll my eyes? Is that something people do naturally?", ">\n\nAll depends on the context of what is going on.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is not a natural reaction?", ">\n\nNot maintaining basic self control is disrespectful. It's the same reason we don't defecate in public, sneeze on people, or stand in the way of foot traffic.", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s and one of my tics is eye rolling", ">\n\nK", ">\n\nI accidentally roll my eyes at people sometimes when I'm not even trying to", ">\n\nThe sign of a true unpopular opinion: Nobody upvoting it, but everybody commenting to say how they disagree. If you disagree, then give it an upvote. That's the point of this sub.", ">\n\nI think it depends.", ">\n\nThis had to be written by someone under the age of 25" ]
> I'm kind of curious if this is true though. Are you assuming this, or do you have some kind of study proving this? I'd actually like to see if your hypothesis is true, or if remote tribes also use this facial gesture.	[ "🙄", ">\n\nYou’re grounded now", ">\n\nThe post above was someone getting electrocuted so this reply was very timely", ">\n\nThis news is shocking", ">\n\nIt definitely SPARKED my interest", ">\n\nAll of you guys need to leave, and not come back before learning how to conduct yourselves properly", ">\n\nUhhhh....... electricity", ">\n\nWell no, in the right context it is disrespectful. Rolling your eyes suggests that you're not taking the matter seriously or that you dont care which is a sign of disrespect towards whoever is speaking with you.", ">\n\nBut I can't control what I think. If I said \"man you're stupid and I don't care what you say\" thats disrespectful. I'm actually showing respect by not saying it.", ">\n\nI mean, actions speak louder than words, right?", ">\n\nIts not really an action tho its just an automatic response. Like gasping or yawning.", ">\n\nbullshit.\nSorry, it was an automatic response. Which is bullshit just like yours.", ">\n\nStill not the same thing. And they get on me for false analogies....", ">\n\nYou must be a teenager", ">\n\nLol how many times are you gonna post that. Dont you have an original thought of your own?", ">\n\nBruh I cant believe you make these posts. They're foolish", ">\n\nLaughing at someone can be disrespectful. Don't think so? Try laughing at someone's funeral.", ">\n\nThe disrespect comes from the one who told me a joke and made me laugh.", ">\n\nWhat about if no one said any joke? Because, you know, you are at a funeral.", ">\n\nSo someone's just there randomly laughing at shit? That sounds like a mental illness.", ">\n\nYou have never thought of something funny in your head to make yourself laugh? \nOr hell, maybe you didn't like the person who is buried and decided to laugh at them. You find it funny, so laughing must be appropriate, right?", ">\n\nWhy am I thinking about funny shit at a funeral.", ">\n\nBecause the universe likes to put us in uncomfortable positions sometimes.", ">\n\n“if its stupid or lame, you roll your eyes” - you found the disrespect", ">\n\nIm allowed to think whatever i want and its not disrespectful.", ">\n\nWhen you express contempt for something someone else said, it's disrespect.", ">\n\nWhat if what they said is contemptible?", ">\n\nSome people and comments deserve disrespect, still gonna be disrespect", ">\n\nLaughing, crying, and sneezing are all innate, involuntary reactions to certain types of stimuli. Rolling your eyes is a learned behavior. You can’t compare it to those other automatic responses because it’s not the same thing.", ">\n\nTake my upvote", ">\n\nOP rolled their eyes at someone and got chewed out for it.\nNow they're going online in an attempt to validate themselves.\n🙄", ">\n\nProbably got grounded.", ">\n\nPart of being a mature adult is to have self-control and not acting on every impulse and being respectful of people.", ">\n\n\nPart of being a mature adult\n\nYup but OP is clearly a teenager lol. They complain about being told off for doing chores wrong in another post…", ">\n\nEven a teenager should be able to have the fundamental basics of respect", ">\n\nOh I agree 100%", ">\n\nYou have poor self-control and poor self-awareness but the good news is that you can improve these things.", ">\n\n/r/wrongopinions", ">\n\nI feel like we need a new subreddit r/unpopularforareason", ">\n\nIt’s entire purpose is to be disrespectful. Nobody eyerolls something they respect. But how offensive it is depends on the context and how serious one is being.", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes\n\nYou rn: \"I'm not being disrespectful. I just thought what you said was stupid or lame.\"\n...", ">\n\nSaying its stupid could be disrespectful. A facial response is not.", ">\n\nLiterally every person in this thread agrees that it is.\nThis is your bad habit. Nobody else's responsibility but you.", ">\n\nThey can choose to not fly off the handle at what is just an innate reaction.", ">\n\nSo let me get this straight: you think you deserve to be able to disrespect whoever you like whenever you like but they can't as much as say you're being rude? Grow up.", ">\n\nFound the teenager.", ">\n\nMeh, I agree with that one. If you don't like how someone is doing something then do it yourself. There's a reason I live alone.", ">\n\nIt is a UNIVERSAL sign of disrespect. Globally. Deal with it.", ">\n\nLaughing can be disrespectuful too. If you cannot control your own reactions, well, what can I say, maybe you have not really grown up?", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s so it’s hard to control my own actions sometimes…", ">\n\nThank u I'm trying to explain how autism can make it hard to read not just others facial expressions but also ur own and it seems like no one has thought of the possibility that they acc don't realise it or csnt control it", ">\n\nWould you roll your eyes during a job interview if you thought a question was stupid or irrelevant? Do you think you’d get the job if you did?", ">\n\nPretty sure OP would think they were owed that job and they would think it’s ridiculous if they didn’t get it.\nOP is also a teenager going through their rebel phase though", ">\n\nYou're oddly specific here.", ">\n\nWhat was specific? Or rather oddly specific?", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a good way to fast track yourself to a divorce, if you want one.", ">\n\nI think OP needs the definition of respect before any further comment is made", ">\n\nOh I already know it, and I know it does not mean:\nDon't ever disagree with me\nDon't think bad thoughts about me\nDon't ever correct me when I'm blatantly wrong \nShine my boots with your tongue", ">\n\nSoooo this post isn’t about eye rolling is what I’m getting from this. You’ve got issues to work through with your parents or partner or something", ">\n\nSince when tf was eye rolling involuntary?", ">", ">\n\nYour lack of self control is not a justification for disrespect. I personally dont know anyone who reacts to anything by rolling their eyes. Just be mature and communicate.", ">\n\nAnd what if it's not stupid and someone rolls their eyes? Wouldn't it be disrespectful in that case?", ">\n\nIn the eye rollers opinion then it must have been. But you can't fault someone for thinking its stupid.", ">\n\nSo eyerolling is some kind of exceptional thing that is free from criticism? \nIf one has the freedom to eye roll, then someone else has the freedom to criticize the eye roller right? \nOr is it your opinion that besides that everyone who sees an eye roller has to just stfu", ">\n\nMeh, it is disrespectful. It's a way to be disrespectful without having to say That's the dumbest thing I've heard all month, and everyone else who heard it is also dumber for hearing it as well.", ">\n\nBut I didn't say it that's the point.", ">\n\nJust cuz you don’t use words doesn’t mean it’s not disrespectful. Walking away while someone is talking to you, rolling your eyes, slapping someone, and starting to play a game on your phone while someone is talking to you are all disrespectful. It doesn’t matter that you didn’t say anything, your lack of respect still showed.", ">\n\nespecially the way theyre responding to comments", ">\n\nYeah, a natural reaction if you’ve never learned to manage your emotions as opposed to letting them run your life. I’m not talking about being totally monotone rational, either. You need to learn a balance between rational and emotional…which includes healthy, appropriate, respectful expression of honest feelings. Eye rolling is absolutely disrespectful, belittling, and dismissive.", ">\n\nComments: OP is completely wrong and has attitude issues", ">\n\nWhat sounds like mental illness is you refusing to admit that rolling your eyes is simply not an unconditional response. Whether you want to believe it or not, you are doing it intentionally and you can control it. \nYou’re just to much of a b—— to do so.", ">\n\nSame to you", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a learned reaction. Not natural. I rarely of ever roll my eyes at anything.", ">", ">\n\nJust like raising your middle finger. Or vocalizing the sounds \"fuck you\". Or fingers typing the words fuck you OP. Nothing is disrespectful!", ">\n\nNice try but not the same thing at all. You're talking about thought out actions here. The eye roll is more like a reaction. Its quick, its automatic, no one has to think \"im rolling my eyes now\" it just happens. \nSort of like when telling a lie - no one decides to have their eyes dart around suspiciously, it just happens.", ">\n\nNo. Rolling your eyes is not involuntary. It can be controlled. You have a bad habit that you CAN stop. Much like a child learning not to suck their thumb, or biting your nails.", ">\n\nHow about you start with your hair scratching", ">\n\nYour opinion is a contradiction in itself. And, yeah. I disagree. Rolling your eyes is 100% to show lack of respect, and you have no intentions of showing it, even to reason, by rolling your eyes at something someone could believe is meaningful or important. Even if it is stupid.\nI get your point, we roll our eyes to express how we feel, but it is still a physical snare. You say rolling your eyes isn't disrespectful, while saying it's okay to roll your eyes because something is \" stupid or lame\", which in itself is disrespectful. You sound like a very young person in the middle of a learning moment, and you're trying to react with rebellion. It only shows that you lack maturity and are in need of growth. This might be a time for you to read these comments and reevaluate. There are healthier ways to react to things you disagree with, or lack interest in. If not, you can just accept that you roll your eyes to show lack of respect.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is much more deliberate than laughter, tears, or sneezing. It's a conscious action in response to a judgement you're making.", ">\n\nNah, dude it is disrespectful \nYou just have no self control and by the looks of it you don't want to build some", ">\n\nYour post made me roll my eyes very hard.", ">\n\n“No, officer, my wife - she MADE me hit her!”", ">\n\nIt's a natural reaction for a sooky kid but not an adult, if you do that as an adult you just manchild that wants everything their way", ">\n\npoor OP.... did you get in trouble after you rolled your eyes at something again? did you not prehaps learn from previous interactions? rolling your eyes at something \"stupid or lame\" is an intentional response that is disrespectful to whatever it is. mature people dont act that way.....", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes.\n\nSo it is disrespectful. \n\nIts like throwing pepper in someone's face an expecting them not to sneeze.\n\nNo it’s not. You can easily (edited in) refrain from rolling your eyes, while it’s much more difficult to refrain from sneezing. \nIt’s fine to think whatever you want, but you might want to refrain from rolling your eyes when you’re, say, interacting with your boss; aka someone that can make you unemployed for whatever reason they please.", ">\n\nThis isn't an opinion. It's just flat wrong. \nIt is disrespectful because it is a conscious signifier which clearly communicated that you think that the thing you are rolling your eyes at is not worthy of respect.", ">\n\nYou have to go out of your way to roll your eyes. It is NOT gutteral or instinctual", ">\n\nIf you annoy me, my arm whips out in a natural reaction and slaps you.", ">\n\nSorry, kiddo, it’s 100% disrespectful. Just own the shit and quit trying to lawyer around it.\nI say that after having rolled my eyes so hard at your post, I travelled back in time.", ">\n\nTell that to my family lol you get the belt", ">\n\nThis was made my a 15 year old who just got told off by their mom about rolling their eyes. Then in defense said, “I can’t control it”", ">\n\nMan it's getting so aggressive sometimes here 😂", ">\n\ni certainly hope you are embarrassed about this in a couple years when you grow up.", ">\n\nOP is a habitual eye roller 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄", ">\n\nI wish to God we could block people by age, no more edgy 13yo’s", ">\n\nSomebody just got their ps5 taken away for rolling their eyes", ">\n\nTell me you're 12 without telling me you're 12.", ">\n\nit’s the definition of disrespectful and a sign that you have literally nothing intelligent to say in return. \nwhich is why we outgrow it as adults.", ">\n\nYou can control it. It’s not an “automatic response” unless you’ve taught yourself to do it. I never roll my eyes. It’s just not something I have ever practiced doing. And yes…if I’m saying something too you and you dismiss it with an eye roll…it’s super disrespectful.", ">\n\nrolling your eyes is just as respectful as sticking your tongue out at someone or making a stupid face in reaction to something someone says", ">\n\nIf you can’t control your eye movement, you need to see a neurologist, dude 😆. As it stands, eye rolling isn’t a reflex or a “natural reaction” to anything. Habits aren’t the same as involuntary reactions.\nRolling your eyes at someone is disrespectful. It’s an outward sign that you think something about your interaction with them was stupid or wrong. There’s no one here that will agree with you, and you know that you’re in the vast minority with this opinion because you posted it on this sub. Now learn some humility and accept that your opinion is factually incorrect based on science.", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nAre you like 14 and your mom got you in trouble cause you rolled your eyes at her? Lmao", ">\n\nI’m gonna show your mom this and it’s going to be another week of being grounded, you little shit lol", ">\n\nOmfg 😂", ">\n\nOP I have to ask.\n\n\nHow old are you?\n\n\nHow is your relationship with your parents?\n\n\nHow do you view authority figures in your life?", ">\n\nrolls eyes", ">\n\nIf you say or demand something stupid from me I will probably roll my eyes.", ">\n\nBut it is", ">\n\nJust like rolling your eyes is an innate response, so are other people's responses to you rolling your eyes.", ">\n\nSometimes being respectful requires hiding your subjective opinion on whether something is stupid or lame.", ">\n\nI wouldn’t say eye rolling is as involuntary as laughing or crying tho. It’s more of a choice.", ">\n\nIf someone rolls their eyes then I feel disrespected it’s a natural reaction.", ">\n\ntell me you're a teenager without telling me you're a teenager", ">\n\nI'm rolling my eyes at this post. And I definitely mean it disrespectfully.", ">\n\nLmao this kid had an argument with his parent(s) or teacher and is venting on Reddit.", ">\n\nYou sound like an eye rolling arsehole", ">\n\ni have never had an as a nonvoulentary action, it requires very explicit movement of you eye. this is like saying “when i dont like people, i punch them in the head, thats my natural reaction i cant control it”\ni have never once legitimately rolled my eyes at something, i think you might be an asshole", ">\n\nMe smacking your face is also an innate uncontrollable response to you rolling your eyes. I'm only human. What can I do? 🙄", ">\n\nI disagree. also there are a billion other ways to express something being stupid or lame than rolling ur eyes", ">\n\nStop downvoting, this is ACTUALLY a very unpopular opinion and I love to see it tbh. Voice your disagreement in the comments but don't downvote the post. This post is hilarious.", ">\n\nThis is something you’ve learned to do. It’s entirely in your control if you do it or not.", ">\n\nI once got a detention for rolling my eyes at a teacher in 4th grade.\nI agree with you, though. The only other person I've ever really rolled my eyes at was my mother, and she deserved it, every single time.", ">\n\nI get your point. I absolutely purposefully roll my eyes sometimes and whoever I'm doing it to would be valid for getting mad. \nBut as someone who can't hide any emotion on their face (literally any, I'm the definition of an open book) there have been plenty of times where people blew up at me or laughed because I rolled my eyes when I didn't even realize I had done it. Feel like the people disagreeing with you haven't experienced this problem.", ">\n\nWhat you've done is cultivate a bad habit and then blamed it on everyone else when you repeat your own bad habit unintentionally.\nThis is entirely your fault.", ">\n\nOnly on Reddit would someone so boldly declare something like this to a stranger. I'm on the spectrum so that might have to do with my not being able to hide any emotion (I truly mean that, people can basically read my thoughts just by looking at me, good and bad). \nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave. Consider working on that.", ">\n\nSo they point out you’re cultivating a bad habit and blaming other people so you then, blame them? It’s a little spot on don’t you think?", ">\n\nWhen did i blame them for my own actions? Could you quote me? I was just pointing out how weird it was that they made such a strong assumption of my character off a causal comment I left when they themselves were ironically being unnecessarily rude in the process. \nI don't know how you got so lost?", ">\n\n\nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave.\n\nClassic deflection and implication that they’re the one with the problem, not you", ">\n\nFirst its not automatic. I almost never rolled my eyes. Its much easier to control than laughing crying or sneezing. So you just dont make the effort. Its actually a way to express your feeling. You should know that, its your personnality not a human instinctive reaction. \nAnd yes not respecting something is disrespectful. Its not that hard to understand. \nAnyway if i see you.. i dont know having a breakdown after being fired and dumped and start to laugh you'd like that ? \nIf im sad because something good happens to you and show it to you, you would like that ? \nHonestly you are just trying to justify being a bit of a jerk. \nI dont blame you or anything we all are jerks sometime but its what you are doing right now.", ">\n\nI have to refocus my eyes and most of the time blinking doesn’t cut it. I have a lazy eye and when I look at someone for a long time it unfocuses, so moving the muscle is the only way to reset it. If I don’t, people start moving their heads/ bodies trying to focus on my lazy eye. It gets awkward.", ">\n\nThis is where I go to my training as a kid. What others think of you is none of your business.", ">\n\nUnless you have a tick or something like Tourette’s syndrome, then it’s not an involuntary response. Part of living in a society and not being considered rude is managing your body language.\nLet me put it this way. “Rudeness” in itself is a social concept. That means it’s decided by the perception of the masses, what we generally agree upon in terms of our symbols of communication, our customs, our beliefs, our values, etc. For you to say that rolling your eyes isn’t disrespectful is not objectively wrong. But according to the society you live in, it is wrong. In layman’s terms, the hill you’re dying on here is completely arbitrary, neither side will ever be truly correct but as long as you live in a society which feels this way then you will be beholden to it anyways.", ">\n\nTo be fair, if your thinking its stupid or lame, then that is dis-respect. I'd agree with this if it was worded like 'More people need to say what they truly think', but I think you sort of missed the mark, OP.", ">\n\nI am equally annoyed when folks rapidly blink and look away mid conversation or drop their arm dead against their thigh. It’s like you’ve given up an effort to even keep your body vertical and engaged while I’m talking to you.", ">\n\nOP getting downvoted AF & keeps commenting. Gotta love it.", ">\n\nIt is shown as a sign of disrespect and it shows weakness. I can’t imagine Gandhi, the queen of England or Einstein roll their eyes in front of random people. The reason why they were respected is because they didn’t play any superiority game on front of… inferiors or ignorant people. If something is stupid, get the patience and find enough love within yourself to treat the other ones right. \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a child because his question is “stupid”, what parent does it make you ? \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a bad question because you are an expert in a subject, then it is not your modesty that speaks but your ego. For proof : Even if someone you hate said something intelligent, you might want to roll your eyes just to flatter your ego.", ">\n\nIt's seen as disrespectful BECAUSE it's inadvertently telling them you think they're irritating/annoying.", ">\n\nI never roll my eyes? Is that something people do naturally?", ">\n\nAll depends on the context of what is going on.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is not a natural reaction?", ">\n\nNot maintaining basic self control is disrespectful. It's the same reason we don't defecate in public, sneeze on people, or stand in the way of foot traffic.", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s and one of my tics is eye rolling", ">\n\nK", ">\n\nI accidentally roll my eyes at people sometimes when I'm not even trying to", ">\n\nThe sign of a true unpopular opinion: Nobody upvoting it, but everybody commenting to say how they disagree. If you disagree, then give it an upvote. That's the point of this sub.", ">\n\nI think it depends.", ">\n\nThis had to be written by someone under the age of 25", ">\n\nRolling your eyes isn’t natural though. It’s cultural or socially learned if that makes sense. Like if you rolled your eyes at a tribe that is disconnected from society they wouldn’t understand that you’re annoyed. So you cant really compare it to laughing." ]
> I’m assuming it. Back in my country Turkey if you rolled your eyes at my grandparents they would be confused and wonder what you were doing and what it meant.	[ "🙄", ">\n\nYou’re grounded now", ">\n\nThe post above was someone getting electrocuted so this reply was very timely", ">\n\nThis news is shocking", ">\n\nIt definitely SPARKED my interest", ">\n\nAll of you guys need to leave, and not come back before learning how to conduct yourselves properly", ">\n\nUhhhh....... electricity", ">\n\nWell no, in the right context it is disrespectful. Rolling your eyes suggests that you're not taking the matter seriously or that you dont care which is a sign of disrespect towards whoever is speaking with you.", ">\n\nBut I can't control what I think. If I said \"man you're stupid and I don't care what you say\" thats disrespectful. I'm actually showing respect by not saying it.", ">\n\nI mean, actions speak louder than words, right?", ">\n\nIts not really an action tho its just an automatic response. Like gasping or yawning.", ">\n\nbullshit.\nSorry, it was an automatic response. Which is bullshit just like yours.", ">\n\nStill not the same thing. And they get on me for false analogies....", ">\n\nYou must be a teenager", ">\n\nLol how many times are you gonna post that. Dont you have an original thought of your own?", ">\n\nBruh I cant believe you make these posts. They're foolish", ">\n\nLaughing at someone can be disrespectful. Don't think so? Try laughing at someone's funeral.", ">\n\nThe disrespect comes from the one who told me a joke and made me laugh.", ">\n\nWhat about if no one said any joke? Because, you know, you are at a funeral.", ">\n\nSo someone's just there randomly laughing at shit? That sounds like a mental illness.", ">\n\nYou have never thought of something funny in your head to make yourself laugh? \nOr hell, maybe you didn't like the person who is buried and decided to laugh at them. You find it funny, so laughing must be appropriate, right?", ">\n\nWhy am I thinking about funny shit at a funeral.", ">\n\nBecause the universe likes to put us in uncomfortable positions sometimes.", ">\n\n“if its stupid or lame, you roll your eyes” - you found the disrespect", ">\n\nIm allowed to think whatever i want and its not disrespectful.", ">\n\nWhen you express contempt for something someone else said, it's disrespect.", ">\n\nWhat if what they said is contemptible?", ">\n\nSome people and comments deserve disrespect, still gonna be disrespect", ">\n\nLaughing, crying, and sneezing are all innate, involuntary reactions to certain types of stimuli. Rolling your eyes is a learned behavior. You can’t compare it to those other automatic responses because it’s not the same thing.", ">\n\nTake my upvote", ">\n\nOP rolled their eyes at someone and got chewed out for it.\nNow they're going online in an attempt to validate themselves.\n🙄", ">\n\nProbably got grounded.", ">\n\nPart of being a mature adult is to have self-control and not acting on every impulse and being respectful of people.", ">\n\n\nPart of being a mature adult\n\nYup but OP is clearly a teenager lol. They complain about being told off for doing chores wrong in another post…", ">\n\nEven a teenager should be able to have the fundamental basics of respect", ">\n\nOh I agree 100%", ">\n\nYou have poor self-control and poor self-awareness but the good news is that you can improve these things.", ">\n\n/r/wrongopinions", ">\n\nI feel like we need a new subreddit r/unpopularforareason", ">\n\nIt’s entire purpose is to be disrespectful. Nobody eyerolls something they respect. But how offensive it is depends on the context and how serious one is being.", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes\n\nYou rn: \"I'm not being disrespectful. I just thought what you said was stupid or lame.\"\n...", ">\n\nSaying its stupid could be disrespectful. A facial response is not.", ">\n\nLiterally every person in this thread agrees that it is.\nThis is your bad habit. Nobody else's responsibility but you.", ">\n\nThey can choose to not fly off the handle at what is just an innate reaction.", ">\n\nSo let me get this straight: you think you deserve to be able to disrespect whoever you like whenever you like but they can't as much as say you're being rude? Grow up.", ">\n\nFound the teenager.", ">\n\nMeh, I agree with that one. If you don't like how someone is doing something then do it yourself. There's a reason I live alone.", ">\n\nIt is a UNIVERSAL sign of disrespect. Globally. Deal with it.", ">\n\nLaughing can be disrespectuful too. If you cannot control your own reactions, well, what can I say, maybe you have not really grown up?", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s so it’s hard to control my own actions sometimes…", ">\n\nThank u I'm trying to explain how autism can make it hard to read not just others facial expressions but also ur own and it seems like no one has thought of the possibility that they acc don't realise it or csnt control it", ">\n\nWould you roll your eyes during a job interview if you thought a question was stupid or irrelevant? Do you think you’d get the job if you did?", ">\n\nPretty sure OP would think they were owed that job and they would think it’s ridiculous if they didn’t get it.\nOP is also a teenager going through their rebel phase though", ">\n\nYou're oddly specific here.", ">\n\nWhat was specific? Or rather oddly specific?", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a good way to fast track yourself to a divorce, if you want one.", ">\n\nI think OP needs the definition of respect before any further comment is made", ">\n\nOh I already know it, and I know it does not mean:\nDon't ever disagree with me\nDon't think bad thoughts about me\nDon't ever correct me when I'm blatantly wrong \nShine my boots with your tongue", ">\n\nSoooo this post isn’t about eye rolling is what I’m getting from this. You’ve got issues to work through with your parents or partner or something", ">\n\nSince when tf was eye rolling involuntary?", ">", ">\n\nYour lack of self control is not a justification for disrespect. I personally dont know anyone who reacts to anything by rolling their eyes. Just be mature and communicate.", ">\n\nAnd what if it's not stupid and someone rolls their eyes? Wouldn't it be disrespectful in that case?", ">\n\nIn the eye rollers opinion then it must have been. But you can't fault someone for thinking its stupid.", ">\n\nSo eyerolling is some kind of exceptional thing that is free from criticism? \nIf one has the freedom to eye roll, then someone else has the freedom to criticize the eye roller right? \nOr is it your opinion that besides that everyone who sees an eye roller has to just stfu", ">\n\nMeh, it is disrespectful. It's a way to be disrespectful without having to say That's the dumbest thing I've heard all month, and everyone else who heard it is also dumber for hearing it as well.", ">\n\nBut I didn't say it that's the point.", ">\n\nJust cuz you don’t use words doesn’t mean it’s not disrespectful. Walking away while someone is talking to you, rolling your eyes, slapping someone, and starting to play a game on your phone while someone is talking to you are all disrespectful. It doesn’t matter that you didn’t say anything, your lack of respect still showed.", ">\n\nespecially the way theyre responding to comments", ">\n\nYeah, a natural reaction if you’ve never learned to manage your emotions as opposed to letting them run your life. I’m not talking about being totally monotone rational, either. You need to learn a balance between rational and emotional…which includes healthy, appropriate, respectful expression of honest feelings. Eye rolling is absolutely disrespectful, belittling, and dismissive.", ">\n\nComments: OP is completely wrong and has attitude issues", ">\n\nWhat sounds like mental illness is you refusing to admit that rolling your eyes is simply not an unconditional response. Whether you want to believe it or not, you are doing it intentionally and you can control it. \nYou’re just to much of a b—— to do so.", ">\n\nSame to you", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a learned reaction. Not natural. I rarely of ever roll my eyes at anything.", ">", ">\n\nJust like raising your middle finger. Or vocalizing the sounds \"fuck you\". Or fingers typing the words fuck you OP. Nothing is disrespectful!", ">\n\nNice try but not the same thing at all. You're talking about thought out actions here. The eye roll is more like a reaction. Its quick, its automatic, no one has to think \"im rolling my eyes now\" it just happens. \nSort of like when telling a lie - no one decides to have their eyes dart around suspiciously, it just happens.", ">\n\nNo. Rolling your eyes is not involuntary. It can be controlled. You have a bad habit that you CAN stop. Much like a child learning not to suck their thumb, or biting your nails.", ">\n\nHow about you start with your hair scratching", ">\n\nYour opinion is a contradiction in itself. And, yeah. I disagree. Rolling your eyes is 100% to show lack of respect, and you have no intentions of showing it, even to reason, by rolling your eyes at something someone could believe is meaningful or important. Even if it is stupid.\nI get your point, we roll our eyes to express how we feel, but it is still a physical snare. You say rolling your eyes isn't disrespectful, while saying it's okay to roll your eyes because something is \" stupid or lame\", which in itself is disrespectful. You sound like a very young person in the middle of a learning moment, and you're trying to react with rebellion. It only shows that you lack maturity and are in need of growth. This might be a time for you to read these comments and reevaluate. There are healthier ways to react to things you disagree with, or lack interest in. If not, you can just accept that you roll your eyes to show lack of respect.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is much more deliberate than laughter, tears, or sneezing. It's a conscious action in response to a judgement you're making.", ">\n\nNah, dude it is disrespectful \nYou just have no self control and by the looks of it you don't want to build some", ">\n\nYour post made me roll my eyes very hard.", ">\n\n“No, officer, my wife - she MADE me hit her!”", ">\n\nIt's a natural reaction for a sooky kid but not an adult, if you do that as an adult you just manchild that wants everything their way", ">\n\npoor OP.... did you get in trouble after you rolled your eyes at something again? did you not prehaps learn from previous interactions? rolling your eyes at something \"stupid or lame\" is an intentional response that is disrespectful to whatever it is. mature people dont act that way.....", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes.\n\nSo it is disrespectful. \n\nIts like throwing pepper in someone's face an expecting them not to sneeze.\n\nNo it’s not. You can easily (edited in) refrain from rolling your eyes, while it’s much more difficult to refrain from sneezing. \nIt’s fine to think whatever you want, but you might want to refrain from rolling your eyes when you’re, say, interacting with your boss; aka someone that can make you unemployed for whatever reason they please.", ">\n\nThis isn't an opinion. It's just flat wrong. \nIt is disrespectful because it is a conscious signifier which clearly communicated that you think that the thing you are rolling your eyes at is not worthy of respect.", ">\n\nYou have to go out of your way to roll your eyes. It is NOT gutteral or instinctual", ">\n\nIf you annoy me, my arm whips out in a natural reaction and slaps you.", ">\n\nSorry, kiddo, it’s 100% disrespectful. Just own the shit and quit trying to lawyer around it.\nI say that after having rolled my eyes so hard at your post, I travelled back in time.", ">\n\nTell that to my family lol you get the belt", ">\n\nThis was made my a 15 year old who just got told off by their mom about rolling their eyes. Then in defense said, “I can’t control it”", ">\n\nMan it's getting so aggressive sometimes here 😂", ">\n\ni certainly hope you are embarrassed about this in a couple years when you grow up.", ">\n\nOP is a habitual eye roller 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄", ">\n\nI wish to God we could block people by age, no more edgy 13yo’s", ">\n\nSomebody just got their ps5 taken away for rolling their eyes", ">\n\nTell me you're 12 without telling me you're 12.", ">\n\nit’s the definition of disrespectful and a sign that you have literally nothing intelligent to say in return. \nwhich is why we outgrow it as adults.", ">\n\nYou can control it. It’s not an “automatic response” unless you’ve taught yourself to do it. I never roll my eyes. It’s just not something I have ever practiced doing. And yes…if I’m saying something too you and you dismiss it with an eye roll…it’s super disrespectful.", ">\n\nrolling your eyes is just as respectful as sticking your tongue out at someone or making a stupid face in reaction to something someone says", ">\n\nIf you can’t control your eye movement, you need to see a neurologist, dude 😆. As it stands, eye rolling isn’t a reflex or a “natural reaction” to anything. Habits aren’t the same as involuntary reactions.\nRolling your eyes at someone is disrespectful. It’s an outward sign that you think something about your interaction with them was stupid or wrong. There’s no one here that will agree with you, and you know that you’re in the vast minority with this opinion because you posted it on this sub. Now learn some humility and accept that your opinion is factually incorrect based on science.", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nAre you like 14 and your mom got you in trouble cause you rolled your eyes at her? Lmao", ">\n\nI’m gonna show your mom this and it’s going to be another week of being grounded, you little shit lol", ">\n\nOmfg 😂", ">\n\nOP I have to ask.\n\n\nHow old are you?\n\n\nHow is your relationship with your parents?\n\n\nHow do you view authority figures in your life?", ">\n\nrolls eyes", ">\n\nIf you say or demand something stupid from me I will probably roll my eyes.", ">\n\nBut it is", ">\n\nJust like rolling your eyes is an innate response, so are other people's responses to you rolling your eyes.", ">\n\nSometimes being respectful requires hiding your subjective opinion on whether something is stupid or lame.", ">\n\nI wouldn’t say eye rolling is as involuntary as laughing or crying tho. It’s more of a choice.", ">\n\nIf someone rolls their eyes then I feel disrespected it’s a natural reaction.", ">\n\ntell me you're a teenager without telling me you're a teenager", ">\n\nI'm rolling my eyes at this post. And I definitely mean it disrespectfully.", ">\n\nLmao this kid had an argument with his parent(s) or teacher and is venting on Reddit.", ">\n\nYou sound like an eye rolling arsehole", ">\n\ni have never had an as a nonvoulentary action, it requires very explicit movement of you eye. this is like saying “when i dont like people, i punch them in the head, thats my natural reaction i cant control it”\ni have never once legitimately rolled my eyes at something, i think you might be an asshole", ">\n\nMe smacking your face is also an innate uncontrollable response to you rolling your eyes. I'm only human. What can I do? 🙄", ">\n\nI disagree. also there are a billion other ways to express something being stupid or lame than rolling ur eyes", ">\n\nStop downvoting, this is ACTUALLY a very unpopular opinion and I love to see it tbh. Voice your disagreement in the comments but don't downvote the post. This post is hilarious.", ">\n\nThis is something you’ve learned to do. It’s entirely in your control if you do it or not.", ">\n\nI once got a detention for rolling my eyes at a teacher in 4th grade.\nI agree with you, though. The only other person I've ever really rolled my eyes at was my mother, and she deserved it, every single time.", ">\n\nI get your point. I absolutely purposefully roll my eyes sometimes and whoever I'm doing it to would be valid for getting mad. \nBut as someone who can't hide any emotion on their face (literally any, I'm the definition of an open book) there have been plenty of times where people blew up at me or laughed because I rolled my eyes when I didn't even realize I had done it. Feel like the people disagreeing with you haven't experienced this problem.", ">\n\nWhat you've done is cultivate a bad habit and then blamed it on everyone else when you repeat your own bad habit unintentionally.\nThis is entirely your fault.", ">\n\nOnly on Reddit would someone so boldly declare something like this to a stranger. I'm on the spectrum so that might have to do with my not being able to hide any emotion (I truly mean that, people can basically read my thoughts just by looking at me, good and bad). \nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave. Consider working on that.", ">\n\nSo they point out you’re cultivating a bad habit and blaming other people so you then, blame them? It’s a little spot on don’t you think?", ">\n\nWhen did i blame them for my own actions? Could you quote me? I was just pointing out how weird it was that they made such a strong assumption of my character off a causal comment I left when they themselves were ironically being unnecessarily rude in the process. \nI don't know how you got so lost?", ">\n\n\nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave.\n\nClassic deflection and implication that they’re the one with the problem, not you", ">\n\nFirst its not automatic. I almost never rolled my eyes. Its much easier to control than laughing crying or sneezing. So you just dont make the effort. Its actually a way to express your feeling. You should know that, its your personnality not a human instinctive reaction. \nAnd yes not respecting something is disrespectful. Its not that hard to understand. \nAnyway if i see you.. i dont know having a breakdown after being fired and dumped and start to laugh you'd like that ? \nIf im sad because something good happens to you and show it to you, you would like that ? \nHonestly you are just trying to justify being a bit of a jerk. \nI dont blame you or anything we all are jerks sometime but its what you are doing right now.", ">\n\nI have to refocus my eyes and most of the time blinking doesn’t cut it. I have a lazy eye and when I look at someone for a long time it unfocuses, so moving the muscle is the only way to reset it. If I don’t, people start moving their heads/ bodies trying to focus on my lazy eye. It gets awkward.", ">\n\nThis is where I go to my training as a kid. What others think of you is none of your business.", ">\n\nUnless you have a tick or something like Tourette’s syndrome, then it’s not an involuntary response. Part of living in a society and not being considered rude is managing your body language.\nLet me put it this way. “Rudeness” in itself is a social concept. That means it’s decided by the perception of the masses, what we generally agree upon in terms of our symbols of communication, our customs, our beliefs, our values, etc. For you to say that rolling your eyes isn’t disrespectful is not objectively wrong. But according to the society you live in, it is wrong. In layman’s terms, the hill you’re dying on here is completely arbitrary, neither side will ever be truly correct but as long as you live in a society which feels this way then you will be beholden to it anyways.", ">\n\nTo be fair, if your thinking its stupid or lame, then that is dis-respect. I'd agree with this if it was worded like 'More people need to say what they truly think', but I think you sort of missed the mark, OP.", ">\n\nI am equally annoyed when folks rapidly blink and look away mid conversation or drop their arm dead against their thigh. It’s like you’ve given up an effort to even keep your body vertical and engaged while I’m talking to you.", ">\n\nOP getting downvoted AF & keeps commenting. Gotta love it.", ">\n\nIt is shown as a sign of disrespect and it shows weakness. I can’t imagine Gandhi, the queen of England or Einstein roll their eyes in front of random people. The reason why they were respected is because they didn’t play any superiority game on front of… inferiors or ignorant people. If something is stupid, get the patience and find enough love within yourself to treat the other ones right. \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a child because his question is “stupid”, what parent does it make you ? \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a bad question because you are an expert in a subject, then it is not your modesty that speaks but your ego. For proof : Even if someone you hate said something intelligent, you might want to roll your eyes just to flatter your ego.", ">\n\nIt's seen as disrespectful BECAUSE it's inadvertently telling them you think they're irritating/annoying.", ">\n\nI never roll my eyes? Is that something people do naturally?", ">\n\nAll depends on the context of what is going on.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is not a natural reaction?", ">\n\nNot maintaining basic self control is disrespectful. It's the same reason we don't defecate in public, sneeze on people, or stand in the way of foot traffic.", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s and one of my tics is eye rolling", ">\n\nK", ">\n\nI accidentally roll my eyes at people sometimes when I'm not even trying to", ">\n\nThe sign of a true unpopular opinion: Nobody upvoting it, but everybody commenting to say how they disagree. If you disagree, then give it an upvote. That's the point of this sub.", ">\n\nI think it depends.", ">\n\nThis had to be written by someone under the age of 25", ">\n\nRolling your eyes isn’t natural though. It’s cultural or socially learned if that makes sense. Like if you rolled your eyes at a tribe that is disconnected from society they wouldn’t understand that you’re annoyed. So you cant really compare it to laughing.", ">\n\nI'm kind of curious if this is true though. Are you assuming this, or do you have some kind of study proving this? I'd actually like to see if your hypothesis is true, or if remote tribes also use this facial gesture." ]
> it's a maturity thing, keep rolling your eyes at 30-40, everyone gonna see you like a kid. you gotta control your emotions, there's no need to do a expression when something is stupid or lame, you got a mouth and you respectfully share what's wrong, if the person in the other end is reluctant to stay on the same boat even after you talk about it. then you don't roll your eyes, you gotta say that there's nothing more you can do, and that you don't agree with it, and most likely leave to dodge any sort of problem.	[ "🙄", ">\n\nYou’re grounded now", ">\n\nThe post above was someone getting electrocuted so this reply was very timely", ">\n\nThis news is shocking", ">\n\nIt definitely SPARKED my interest", ">\n\nAll of you guys need to leave, and not come back before learning how to conduct yourselves properly", ">\n\nUhhhh....... electricity", ">\n\nWell no, in the right context it is disrespectful. Rolling your eyes suggests that you're not taking the matter seriously or that you dont care which is a sign of disrespect towards whoever is speaking with you.", ">\n\nBut I can't control what I think. If I said \"man you're stupid and I don't care what you say\" thats disrespectful. I'm actually showing respect by not saying it.", ">\n\nI mean, actions speak louder than words, right?", ">\n\nIts not really an action tho its just an automatic response. Like gasping or yawning.", ">\n\nbullshit.\nSorry, it was an automatic response. Which is bullshit just like yours.", ">\n\nStill not the same thing. And they get on me for false analogies....", ">\n\nYou must be a teenager", ">\n\nLol how many times are you gonna post that. Dont you have an original thought of your own?", ">\n\nBruh I cant believe you make these posts. They're foolish", ">\n\nLaughing at someone can be disrespectful. Don't think so? Try laughing at someone's funeral.", ">\n\nThe disrespect comes from the one who told me a joke and made me laugh.", ">\n\nWhat about if no one said any joke? Because, you know, you are at a funeral.", ">\n\nSo someone's just there randomly laughing at shit? That sounds like a mental illness.", ">\n\nYou have never thought of something funny in your head to make yourself laugh? \nOr hell, maybe you didn't like the person who is buried and decided to laugh at them. You find it funny, so laughing must be appropriate, right?", ">\n\nWhy am I thinking about funny shit at a funeral.", ">\n\nBecause the universe likes to put us in uncomfortable positions sometimes.", ">\n\n“if its stupid or lame, you roll your eyes” - you found the disrespect", ">\n\nIm allowed to think whatever i want and its not disrespectful.", ">\n\nWhen you express contempt for something someone else said, it's disrespect.", ">\n\nWhat if what they said is contemptible?", ">\n\nSome people and comments deserve disrespect, still gonna be disrespect", ">\n\nLaughing, crying, and sneezing are all innate, involuntary reactions to certain types of stimuli. Rolling your eyes is a learned behavior. You can’t compare it to those other automatic responses because it’s not the same thing.", ">\n\nTake my upvote", ">\n\nOP rolled their eyes at someone and got chewed out for it.\nNow they're going online in an attempt to validate themselves.\n🙄", ">\n\nProbably got grounded.", ">\n\nPart of being a mature adult is to have self-control and not acting on every impulse and being respectful of people.", ">\n\n\nPart of being a mature adult\n\nYup but OP is clearly a teenager lol. They complain about being told off for doing chores wrong in another post…", ">\n\nEven a teenager should be able to have the fundamental basics of respect", ">\n\nOh I agree 100%", ">\n\nYou have poor self-control and poor self-awareness but the good news is that you can improve these things.", ">\n\n/r/wrongopinions", ">\n\nI feel like we need a new subreddit r/unpopularforareason", ">\n\nIt’s entire purpose is to be disrespectful. Nobody eyerolls something they respect. But how offensive it is depends on the context and how serious one is being.", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes\n\nYou rn: \"I'm not being disrespectful. I just thought what you said was stupid or lame.\"\n...", ">\n\nSaying its stupid could be disrespectful. A facial response is not.", ">\n\nLiterally every person in this thread agrees that it is.\nThis is your bad habit. Nobody else's responsibility but you.", ">\n\nThey can choose to not fly off the handle at what is just an innate reaction.", ">\n\nSo let me get this straight: you think you deserve to be able to disrespect whoever you like whenever you like but they can't as much as say you're being rude? Grow up.", ">\n\nFound the teenager.", ">\n\nMeh, I agree with that one. If you don't like how someone is doing something then do it yourself. There's a reason I live alone.", ">\n\nIt is a UNIVERSAL sign of disrespect. Globally. Deal with it.", ">\n\nLaughing can be disrespectuful too. If you cannot control your own reactions, well, what can I say, maybe you have not really grown up?", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s so it’s hard to control my own actions sometimes…", ">\n\nThank u I'm trying to explain how autism can make it hard to read not just others facial expressions but also ur own and it seems like no one has thought of the possibility that they acc don't realise it or csnt control it", ">\n\nWould you roll your eyes during a job interview if you thought a question was stupid or irrelevant? Do you think you’d get the job if you did?", ">\n\nPretty sure OP would think they were owed that job and they would think it’s ridiculous if they didn’t get it.\nOP is also a teenager going through their rebel phase though", ">\n\nYou're oddly specific here.", ">\n\nWhat was specific? Or rather oddly specific?", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a good way to fast track yourself to a divorce, if you want one.", ">\n\nI think OP needs the definition of respect before any further comment is made", ">\n\nOh I already know it, and I know it does not mean:\nDon't ever disagree with me\nDon't think bad thoughts about me\nDon't ever correct me when I'm blatantly wrong \nShine my boots with your tongue", ">\n\nSoooo this post isn’t about eye rolling is what I’m getting from this. You’ve got issues to work through with your parents or partner or something", ">\n\nSince when tf was eye rolling involuntary?", ">", ">\n\nYour lack of self control is not a justification for disrespect. I personally dont know anyone who reacts to anything by rolling their eyes. Just be mature and communicate.", ">\n\nAnd what if it's not stupid and someone rolls their eyes? Wouldn't it be disrespectful in that case?", ">\n\nIn the eye rollers opinion then it must have been. But you can't fault someone for thinking its stupid.", ">\n\nSo eyerolling is some kind of exceptional thing that is free from criticism? \nIf one has the freedom to eye roll, then someone else has the freedom to criticize the eye roller right? \nOr is it your opinion that besides that everyone who sees an eye roller has to just stfu", ">\n\nMeh, it is disrespectful. It's a way to be disrespectful without having to say That's the dumbest thing I've heard all month, and everyone else who heard it is also dumber for hearing it as well.", ">\n\nBut I didn't say it that's the point.", ">\n\nJust cuz you don’t use words doesn’t mean it’s not disrespectful. Walking away while someone is talking to you, rolling your eyes, slapping someone, and starting to play a game on your phone while someone is talking to you are all disrespectful. It doesn’t matter that you didn’t say anything, your lack of respect still showed.", ">\n\nespecially the way theyre responding to comments", ">\n\nYeah, a natural reaction if you’ve never learned to manage your emotions as opposed to letting them run your life. I’m not talking about being totally monotone rational, either. You need to learn a balance between rational and emotional…which includes healthy, appropriate, respectful expression of honest feelings. Eye rolling is absolutely disrespectful, belittling, and dismissive.", ">\n\nComments: OP is completely wrong and has attitude issues", ">\n\nWhat sounds like mental illness is you refusing to admit that rolling your eyes is simply not an unconditional response. Whether you want to believe it or not, you are doing it intentionally and you can control it. \nYou’re just to much of a b—— to do so.", ">\n\nSame to you", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a learned reaction. Not natural. I rarely of ever roll my eyes at anything.", ">", ">\n\nJust like raising your middle finger. Or vocalizing the sounds \"fuck you\". Or fingers typing the words fuck you OP. Nothing is disrespectful!", ">\n\nNice try but not the same thing at all. You're talking about thought out actions here. The eye roll is more like a reaction. Its quick, its automatic, no one has to think \"im rolling my eyes now\" it just happens. \nSort of like when telling a lie - no one decides to have their eyes dart around suspiciously, it just happens.", ">\n\nNo. Rolling your eyes is not involuntary. It can be controlled. You have a bad habit that you CAN stop. Much like a child learning not to suck their thumb, or biting your nails.", ">\n\nHow about you start with your hair scratching", ">\n\nYour opinion is a contradiction in itself. And, yeah. I disagree. Rolling your eyes is 100% to show lack of respect, and you have no intentions of showing it, even to reason, by rolling your eyes at something someone could believe is meaningful or important. Even if it is stupid.\nI get your point, we roll our eyes to express how we feel, but it is still a physical snare. You say rolling your eyes isn't disrespectful, while saying it's okay to roll your eyes because something is \" stupid or lame\", which in itself is disrespectful. You sound like a very young person in the middle of a learning moment, and you're trying to react with rebellion. It only shows that you lack maturity and are in need of growth. This might be a time for you to read these comments and reevaluate. There are healthier ways to react to things you disagree with, or lack interest in. If not, you can just accept that you roll your eyes to show lack of respect.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is much more deliberate than laughter, tears, or sneezing. It's a conscious action in response to a judgement you're making.", ">\n\nNah, dude it is disrespectful \nYou just have no self control and by the looks of it you don't want to build some", ">\n\nYour post made me roll my eyes very hard.", ">\n\n“No, officer, my wife - she MADE me hit her!”", ">\n\nIt's a natural reaction for a sooky kid but not an adult, if you do that as an adult you just manchild that wants everything their way", ">\n\npoor OP.... did you get in trouble after you rolled your eyes at something again? did you not prehaps learn from previous interactions? rolling your eyes at something \"stupid or lame\" is an intentional response that is disrespectful to whatever it is. mature people dont act that way.....", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes.\n\nSo it is disrespectful. \n\nIts like throwing pepper in someone's face an expecting them not to sneeze.\n\nNo it’s not. You can easily (edited in) refrain from rolling your eyes, while it’s much more difficult to refrain from sneezing. \nIt’s fine to think whatever you want, but you might want to refrain from rolling your eyes when you’re, say, interacting with your boss; aka someone that can make you unemployed for whatever reason they please.", ">\n\nThis isn't an opinion. It's just flat wrong. \nIt is disrespectful because it is a conscious signifier which clearly communicated that you think that the thing you are rolling your eyes at is not worthy of respect.", ">\n\nYou have to go out of your way to roll your eyes. It is NOT gutteral or instinctual", ">\n\nIf you annoy me, my arm whips out in a natural reaction and slaps you.", ">\n\nSorry, kiddo, it’s 100% disrespectful. Just own the shit and quit trying to lawyer around it.\nI say that after having rolled my eyes so hard at your post, I travelled back in time.", ">\n\nTell that to my family lol you get the belt", ">\n\nThis was made my a 15 year old who just got told off by their mom about rolling their eyes. Then in defense said, “I can’t control it”", ">\n\nMan it's getting so aggressive sometimes here 😂", ">\n\ni certainly hope you are embarrassed about this in a couple years when you grow up.", ">\n\nOP is a habitual eye roller 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄", ">\n\nI wish to God we could block people by age, no more edgy 13yo’s", ">\n\nSomebody just got their ps5 taken away for rolling their eyes", ">\n\nTell me you're 12 without telling me you're 12.", ">\n\nit’s the definition of disrespectful and a sign that you have literally nothing intelligent to say in return. \nwhich is why we outgrow it as adults.", ">\n\nYou can control it. It’s not an “automatic response” unless you’ve taught yourself to do it. I never roll my eyes. It’s just not something I have ever practiced doing. And yes…if I’m saying something too you and you dismiss it with an eye roll…it’s super disrespectful.", ">\n\nrolling your eyes is just as respectful as sticking your tongue out at someone or making a stupid face in reaction to something someone says", ">\n\nIf you can’t control your eye movement, you need to see a neurologist, dude 😆. As it stands, eye rolling isn’t a reflex or a “natural reaction” to anything. Habits aren’t the same as involuntary reactions.\nRolling your eyes at someone is disrespectful. It’s an outward sign that you think something about your interaction with them was stupid or wrong. There’s no one here that will agree with you, and you know that you’re in the vast minority with this opinion because you posted it on this sub. Now learn some humility and accept that your opinion is factually incorrect based on science.", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nAre you like 14 and your mom got you in trouble cause you rolled your eyes at her? Lmao", ">\n\nI’m gonna show your mom this and it’s going to be another week of being grounded, you little shit lol", ">\n\nOmfg 😂", ">\n\nOP I have to ask.\n\n\nHow old are you?\n\n\nHow is your relationship with your parents?\n\n\nHow do you view authority figures in your life?", ">\n\nrolls eyes", ">\n\nIf you say or demand something stupid from me I will probably roll my eyes.", ">\n\nBut it is", ">\n\nJust like rolling your eyes is an innate response, so are other people's responses to you rolling your eyes.", ">\n\nSometimes being respectful requires hiding your subjective opinion on whether something is stupid or lame.", ">\n\nI wouldn’t say eye rolling is as involuntary as laughing or crying tho. It’s more of a choice.", ">\n\nIf someone rolls their eyes then I feel disrespected it’s a natural reaction.", ">\n\ntell me you're a teenager without telling me you're a teenager", ">\n\nI'm rolling my eyes at this post. And I definitely mean it disrespectfully.", ">\n\nLmao this kid had an argument with his parent(s) or teacher and is venting on Reddit.", ">\n\nYou sound like an eye rolling arsehole", ">\n\ni have never had an as a nonvoulentary action, it requires very explicit movement of you eye. this is like saying “when i dont like people, i punch them in the head, thats my natural reaction i cant control it”\ni have never once legitimately rolled my eyes at something, i think you might be an asshole", ">\n\nMe smacking your face is also an innate uncontrollable response to you rolling your eyes. I'm only human. What can I do? 🙄", ">\n\nI disagree. also there are a billion other ways to express something being stupid or lame than rolling ur eyes", ">\n\nStop downvoting, this is ACTUALLY a very unpopular opinion and I love to see it tbh. Voice your disagreement in the comments but don't downvote the post. This post is hilarious.", ">\n\nThis is something you’ve learned to do. It’s entirely in your control if you do it or not.", ">\n\nI once got a detention for rolling my eyes at a teacher in 4th grade.\nI agree with you, though. The only other person I've ever really rolled my eyes at was my mother, and she deserved it, every single time.", ">\n\nI get your point. I absolutely purposefully roll my eyes sometimes and whoever I'm doing it to would be valid for getting mad. \nBut as someone who can't hide any emotion on their face (literally any, I'm the definition of an open book) there have been plenty of times where people blew up at me or laughed because I rolled my eyes when I didn't even realize I had done it. Feel like the people disagreeing with you haven't experienced this problem.", ">\n\nWhat you've done is cultivate a bad habit and then blamed it on everyone else when you repeat your own bad habit unintentionally.\nThis is entirely your fault.", ">\n\nOnly on Reddit would someone so boldly declare something like this to a stranger. I'm on the spectrum so that might have to do with my not being able to hide any emotion (I truly mean that, people can basically read my thoughts just by looking at me, good and bad). \nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave. Consider working on that.", ">\n\nSo they point out you’re cultivating a bad habit and blaming other people so you then, blame them? It’s a little spot on don’t you think?", ">\n\nWhen did i blame them for my own actions? Could you quote me? I was just pointing out how weird it was that they made such a strong assumption of my character off a causal comment I left when they themselves were ironically being unnecessarily rude in the process. \nI don't know how you got so lost?", ">\n\n\nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave.\n\nClassic deflection and implication that they’re the one with the problem, not you", ">\n\nFirst its not automatic. I almost never rolled my eyes. Its much easier to control than laughing crying or sneezing. So you just dont make the effort. Its actually a way to express your feeling. You should know that, its your personnality not a human instinctive reaction. \nAnd yes not respecting something is disrespectful. Its not that hard to understand. \nAnyway if i see you.. i dont know having a breakdown after being fired and dumped and start to laugh you'd like that ? \nIf im sad because something good happens to you and show it to you, you would like that ? \nHonestly you are just trying to justify being a bit of a jerk. \nI dont blame you or anything we all are jerks sometime but its what you are doing right now.", ">\n\nI have to refocus my eyes and most of the time blinking doesn’t cut it. I have a lazy eye and when I look at someone for a long time it unfocuses, so moving the muscle is the only way to reset it. If I don’t, people start moving their heads/ bodies trying to focus on my lazy eye. It gets awkward.", ">\n\nThis is where I go to my training as a kid. What others think of you is none of your business.", ">\n\nUnless you have a tick or something like Tourette’s syndrome, then it’s not an involuntary response. Part of living in a society and not being considered rude is managing your body language.\nLet me put it this way. “Rudeness” in itself is a social concept. That means it’s decided by the perception of the masses, what we generally agree upon in terms of our symbols of communication, our customs, our beliefs, our values, etc. For you to say that rolling your eyes isn’t disrespectful is not objectively wrong. But according to the society you live in, it is wrong. In layman’s terms, the hill you’re dying on here is completely arbitrary, neither side will ever be truly correct but as long as you live in a society which feels this way then you will be beholden to it anyways.", ">\n\nTo be fair, if your thinking its stupid or lame, then that is dis-respect. I'd agree with this if it was worded like 'More people need to say what they truly think', but I think you sort of missed the mark, OP.", ">\n\nI am equally annoyed when folks rapidly blink and look away mid conversation or drop their arm dead against their thigh. It’s like you’ve given up an effort to even keep your body vertical and engaged while I’m talking to you.", ">\n\nOP getting downvoted AF & keeps commenting. Gotta love it.", ">\n\nIt is shown as a sign of disrespect and it shows weakness. I can’t imagine Gandhi, the queen of England or Einstein roll their eyes in front of random people. The reason why they were respected is because they didn’t play any superiority game on front of… inferiors or ignorant people. If something is stupid, get the patience and find enough love within yourself to treat the other ones right. \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a child because his question is “stupid”, what parent does it make you ? \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a bad question because you are an expert in a subject, then it is not your modesty that speaks but your ego. For proof : Even if someone you hate said something intelligent, you might want to roll your eyes just to flatter your ego.", ">\n\nIt's seen as disrespectful BECAUSE it's inadvertently telling them you think they're irritating/annoying.", ">\n\nI never roll my eyes? Is that something people do naturally?", ">\n\nAll depends on the context of what is going on.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is not a natural reaction?", ">\n\nNot maintaining basic self control is disrespectful. It's the same reason we don't defecate in public, sneeze on people, or stand in the way of foot traffic.", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s and one of my tics is eye rolling", ">\n\nK", ">\n\nI accidentally roll my eyes at people sometimes when I'm not even trying to", ">\n\nThe sign of a true unpopular opinion: Nobody upvoting it, but everybody commenting to say how they disagree. If you disagree, then give it an upvote. That's the point of this sub.", ">\n\nI think it depends.", ">\n\nThis had to be written by someone under the age of 25", ">\n\nRolling your eyes isn’t natural though. It’s cultural or socially learned if that makes sense. Like if you rolled your eyes at a tribe that is disconnected from society they wouldn’t understand that you’re annoyed. So you cant really compare it to laughing.", ">\n\nI'm kind of curious if this is true though. Are you assuming this, or do you have some kind of study proving this? I'd actually like to see if your hypothesis is true, or if remote tribes also use this facial gesture.", ">\n\nI’m assuming it. Back in my country Turkey if you rolled your eyes at my grandparents they would be confused and wonder what you were doing and what it meant." ]
> I have a tic where I constantly roll my eyes. I’ve had it since I was little, but never noticed it until years later when I high school teacher yelled at me for disrespect. Apparently my parents took me for evaluation when I was very young and diagnosed Tourette’s but never had any other tics develop. Would have been nice to know 🤦🏼‍♀️ I just apologize now and say it’s a compulsion if people ask. I don’t even know when I’m doing it	[ "🙄", ">\n\nYou’re grounded now", ">\n\nThe post above was someone getting electrocuted so this reply was very timely", ">\n\nThis news is shocking", ">\n\nIt definitely SPARKED my interest", ">\n\nAll of you guys need to leave, and not come back before learning how to conduct yourselves properly", ">\n\nUhhhh....... electricity", ">\n\nWell no, in the right context it is disrespectful. Rolling your eyes suggests that you're not taking the matter seriously or that you dont care which is a sign of disrespect towards whoever is speaking with you.", ">\n\nBut I can't control what I think. If I said \"man you're stupid and I don't care what you say\" thats disrespectful. I'm actually showing respect by not saying it.", ">\n\nI mean, actions speak louder than words, right?", ">\n\nIts not really an action tho its just an automatic response. Like gasping or yawning.", ">\n\nbullshit.\nSorry, it was an automatic response. Which is bullshit just like yours.", ">\n\nStill not the same thing. And they get on me for false analogies....", ">\n\nYou must be a teenager", ">\n\nLol how many times are you gonna post that. Dont you have an original thought of your own?", ">\n\nBruh I cant believe you make these posts. They're foolish", ">\n\nLaughing at someone can be disrespectful. Don't think so? Try laughing at someone's funeral.", ">\n\nThe disrespect comes from the one who told me a joke and made me laugh.", ">\n\nWhat about if no one said any joke? Because, you know, you are at a funeral.", ">\n\nSo someone's just there randomly laughing at shit? That sounds like a mental illness.", ">\n\nYou have never thought of something funny in your head to make yourself laugh? \nOr hell, maybe you didn't like the person who is buried and decided to laugh at them. You find it funny, so laughing must be appropriate, right?", ">\n\nWhy am I thinking about funny shit at a funeral.", ">\n\nBecause the universe likes to put us in uncomfortable positions sometimes.", ">\n\n“if its stupid or lame, you roll your eyes” - you found the disrespect", ">\n\nIm allowed to think whatever i want and its not disrespectful.", ">\n\nWhen you express contempt for something someone else said, it's disrespect.", ">\n\nWhat if what they said is contemptible?", ">\n\nSome people and comments deserve disrespect, still gonna be disrespect", ">\n\nLaughing, crying, and sneezing are all innate, involuntary reactions to certain types of stimuli. Rolling your eyes is a learned behavior. You can’t compare it to those other automatic responses because it’s not the same thing.", ">\n\nTake my upvote", ">\n\nOP rolled their eyes at someone and got chewed out for it.\nNow they're going online in an attempt to validate themselves.\n🙄", ">\n\nProbably got grounded.", ">\n\nPart of being a mature adult is to have self-control and not acting on every impulse and being respectful of people.", ">\n\n\nPart of being a mature adult\n\nYup but OP is clearly a teenager lol. They complain about being told off for doing chores wrong in another post…", ">\n\nEven a teenager should be able to have the fundamental basics of respect", ">\n\nOh I agree 100%", ">\n\nYou have poor self-control and poor self-awareness but the good news is that you can improve these things.", ">\n\n/r/wrongopinions", ">\n\nI feel like we need a new subreddit r/unpopularforareason", ">\n\nIt’s entire purpose is to be disrespectful. Nobody eyerolls something they respect. But how offensive it is depends on the context and how serious one is being.", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes\n\nYou rn: \"I'm not being disrespectful. I just thought what you said was stupid or lame.\"\n...", ">\n\nSaying its stupid could be disrespectful. A facial response is not.", ">\n\nLiterally every person in this thread agrees that it is.\nThis is your bad habit. Nobody else's responsibility but you.", ">\n\nThey can choose to not fly off the handle at what is just an innate reaction.", ">\n\nSo let me get this straight: you think you deserve to be able to disrespect whoever you like whenever you like but they can't as much as say you're being rude? Grow up.", ">\n\nFound the teenager.", ">\n\nMeh, I agree with that one. If you don't like how someone is doing something then do it yourself. There's a reason I live alone.", ">\n\nIt is a UNIVERSAL sign of disrespect. Globally. Deal with it.", ">\n\nLaughing can be disrespectuful too. If you cannot control your own reactions, well, what can I say, maybe you have not really grown up?", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s so it’s hard to control my own actions sometimes…", ">\n\nThank u I'm trying to explain how autism can make it hard to read not just others facial expressions but also ur own and it seems like no one has thought of the possibility that they acc don't realise it or csnt control it", ">\n\nWould you roll your eyes during a job interview if you thought a question was stupid or irrelevant? Do you think you’d get the job if you did?", ">\n\nPretty sure OP would think they were owed that job and they would think it’s ridiculous if they didn’t get it.\nOP is also a teenager going through their rebel phase though", ">\n\nYou're oddly specific here.", ">\n\nWhat was specific? Or rather oddly specific?", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a good way to fast track yourself to a divorce, if you want one.", ">\n\nI think OP needs the definition of respect before any further comment is made", ">\n\nOh I already know it, and I know it does not mean:\nDon't ever disagree with me\nDon't think bad thoughts about me\nDon't ever correct me when I'm blatantly wrong \nShine my boots with your tongue", ">\n\nSoooo this post isn’t about eye rolling is what I’m getting from this. You’ve got issues to work through with your parents or partner or something", ">\n\nSince when tf was eye rolling involuntary?", ">", ">\n\nYour lack of self control is not a justification for disrespect. I personally dont know anyone who reacts to anything by rolling their eyes. Just be mature and communicate.", ">\n\nAnd what if it's not stupid and someone rolls their eyes? Wouldn't it be disrespectful in that case?", ">\n\nIn the eye rollers opinion then it must have been. But you can't fault someone for thinking its stupid.", ">\n\nSo eyerolling is some kind of exceptional thing that is free from criticism? \nIf one has the freedom to eye roll, then someone else has the freedom to criticize the eye roller right? \nOr is it your opinion that besides that everyone who sees an eye roller has to just stfu", ">\n\nMeh, it is disrespectful. It's a way to be disrespectful without having to say That's the dumbest thing I've heard all month, and everyone else who heard it is also dumber for hearing it as well.", ">\n\nBut I didn't say it that's the point.", ">\n\nJust cuz you don’t use words doesn’t mean it’s not disrespectful. Walking away while someone is talking to you, rolling your eyes, slapping someone, and starting to play a game on your phone while someone is talking to you are all disrespectful. It doesn’t matter that you didn’t say anything, your lack of respect still showed.", ">\n\nespecially the way theyre responding to comments", ">\n\nYeah, a natural reaction if you’ve never learned to manage your emotions as opposed to letting them run your life. I’m not talking about being totally monotone rational, either. You need to learn a balance between rational and emotional…which includes healthy, appropriate, respectful expression of honest feelings. Eye rolling is absolutely disrespectful, belittling, and dismissive.", ">\n\nComments: OP is completely wrong and has attitude issues", ">\n\nWhat sounds like mental illness is you refusing to admit that rolling your eyes is simply not an unconditional response. Whether you want to believe it or not, you are doing it intentionally and you can control it. \nYou’re just to much of a b—— to do so.", ">\n\nSame to you", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a learned reaction. Not natural. I rarely of ever roll my eyes at anything.", ">", ">\n\nJust like raising your middle finger. Or vocalizing the sounds \"fuck you\". Or fingers typing the words fuck you OP. Nothing is disrespectful!", ">\n\nNice try but not the same thing at all. You're talking about thought out actions here. The eye roll is more like a reaction. Its quick, its automatic, no one has to think \"im rolling my eyes now\" it just happens. \nSort of like when telling a lie - no one decides to have their eyes dart around suspiciously, it just happens.", ">\n\nNo. Rolling your eyes is not involuntary. It can be controlled. You have a bad habit that you CAN stop. Much like a child learning not to suck their thumb, or biting your nails.", ">\n\nHow about you start with your hair scratching", ">\n\nYour opinion is a contradiction in itself. And, yeah. I disagree. Rolling your eyes is 100% to show lack of respect, and you have no intentions of showing it, even to reason, by rolling your eyes at something someone could believe is meaningful or important. Even if it is stupid.\nI get your point, we roll our eyes to express how we feel, but it is still a physical snare. You say rolling your eyes isn't disrespectful, while saying it's okay to roll your eyes because something is \" stupid or lame\", which in itself is disrespectful. You sound like a very young person in the middle of a learning moment, and you're trying to react with rebellion. It only shows that you lack maturity and are in need of growth. This might be a time for you to read these comments and reevaluate. There are healthier ways to react to things you disagree with, or lack interest in. If not, you can just accept that you roll your eyes to show lack of respect.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is much more deliberate than laughter, tears, or sneezing. It's a conscious action in response to a judgement you're making.", ">\n\nNah, dude it is disrespectful \nYou just have no self control and by the looks of it you don't want to build some", ">\n\nYour post made me roll my eyes very hard.", ">\n\n“No, officer, my wife - she MADE me hit her!”", ">\n\nIt's a natural reaction for a sooky kid but not an adult, if you do that as an adult you just manchild that wants everything their way", ">\n\npoor OP.... did you get in trouble after you rolled your eyes at something again? did you not prehaps learn from previous interactions? rolling your eyes at something \"stupid or lame\" is an intentional response that is disrespectful to whatever it is. mature people dont act that way.....", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes.\n\nSo it is disrespectful. \n\nIts like throwing pepper in someone's face an expecting them not to sneeze.\n\nNo it’s not. You can easily (edited in) refrain from rolling your eyes, while it’s much more difficult to refrain from sneezing. \nIt’s fine to think whatever you want, but you might want to refrain from rolling your eyes when you’re, say, interacting with your boss; aka someone that can make you unemployed for whatever reason they please.", ">\n\nThis isn't an opinion. It's just flat wrong. \nIt is disrespectful because it is a conscious signifier which clearly communicated that you think that the thing you are rolling your eyes at is not worthy of respect.", ">\n\nYou have to go out of your way to roll your eyes. It is NOT gutteral or instinctual", ">\n\nIf you annoy me, my arm whips out in a natural reaction and slaps you.", ">\n\nSorry, kiddo, it’s 100% disrespectful. Just own the shit and quit trying to lawyer around it.\nI say that after having rolled my eyes so hard at your post, I travelled back in time.", ">\n\nTell that to my family lol you get the belt", ">\n\nThis was made my a 15 year old who just got told off by their mom about rolling their eyes. Then in defense said, “I can’t control it”", ">\n\nMan it's getting so aggressive sometimes here 😂", ">\n\ni certainly hope you are embarrassed about this in a couple years when you grow up.", ">\n\nOP is a habitual eye roller 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄", ">\n\nI wish to God we could block people by age, no more edgy 13yo’s", ">\n\nSomebody just got their ps5 taken away for rolling their eyes", ">\n\nTell me you're 12 without telling me you're 12.", ">\n\nit’s the definition of disrespectful and a sign that you have literally nothing intelligent to say in return. \nwhich is why we outgrow it as adults.", ">\n\nYou can control it. It’s not an “automatic response” unless you’ve taught yourself to do it. I never roll my eyes. It’s just not something I have ever practiced doing. And yes…if I’m saying something too you and you dismiss it with an eye roll…it’s super disrespectful.", ">\n\nrolling your eyes is just as respectful as sticking your tongue out at someone or making a stupid face in reaction to something someone says", ">\n\nIf you can’t control your eye movement, you need to see a neurologist, dude 😆. As it stands, eye rolling isn’t a reflex or a “natural reaction” to anything. Habits aren’t the same as involuntary reactions.\nRolling your eyes at someone is disrespectful. It’s an outward sign that you think something about your interaction with them was stupid or wrong. There’s no one here that will agree with you, and you know that you’re in the vast minority with this opinion because you posted it on this sub. Now learn some humility and accept that your opinion is factually incorrect based on science.", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nAre you like 14 and your mom got you in trouble cause you rolled your eyes at her? Lmao", ">\n\nI’m gonna show your mom this and it’s going to be another week of being grounded, you little shit lol", ">\n\nOmfg 😂", ">\n\nOP I have to ask.\n\n\nHow old are you?\n\n\nHow is your relationship with your parents?\n\n\nHow do you view authority figures in your life?", ">\n\nrolls eyes", ">\n\nIf you say or demand something stupid from me I will probably roll my eyes.", ">\n\nBut it is", ">\n\nJust like rolling your eyes is an innate response, so are other people's responses to you rolling your eyes.", ">\n\nSometimes being respectful requires hiding your subjective opinion on whether something is stupid or lame.", ">\n\nI wouldn’t say eye rolling is as involuntary as laughing or crying tho. It’s more of a choice.", ">\n\nIf someone rolls their eyes then I feel disrespected it’s a natural reaction.", ">\n\ntell me you're a teenager without telling me you're a teenager", ">\n\nI'm rolling my eyes at this post. And I definitely mean it disrespectfully.", ">\n\nLmao this kid had an argument with his parent(s) or teacher and is venting on Reddit.", ">\n\nYou sound like an eye rolling arsehole", ">\n\ni have never had an as a nonvoulentary action, it requires very explicit movement of you eye. this is like saying “when i dont like people, i punch them in the head, thats my natural reaction i cant control it”\ni have never once legitimately rolled my eyes at something, i think you might be an asshole", ">\n\nMe smacking your face is also an innate uncontrollable response to you rolling your eyes. I'm only human. What can I do? 🙄", ">\n\nI disagree. also there are a billion other ways to express something being stupid or lame than rolling ur eyes", ">\n\nStop downvoting, this is ACTUALLY a very unpopular opinion and I love to see it tbh. Voice your disagreement in the comments but don't downvote the post. This post is hilarious.", ">\n\nThis is something you’ve learned to do. It’s entirely in your control if you do it or not.", ">\n\nI once got a detention for rolling my eyes at a teacher in 4th grade.\nI agree with you, though. The only other person I've ever really rolled my eyes at was my mother, and she deserved it, every single time.", ">\n\nI get your point. I absolutely purposefully roll my eyes sometimes and whoever I'm doing it to would be valid for getting mad. \nBut as someone who can't hide any emotion on their face (literally any, I'm the definition of an open book) there have been plenty of times where people blew up at me or laughed because I rolled my eyes when I didn't even realize I had done it. Feel like the people disagreeing with you haven't experienced this problem.", ">\n\nWhat you've done is cultivate a bad habit and then blamed it on everyone else when you repeat your own bad habit unintentionally.\nThis is entirely your fault.", ">\n\nOnly on Reddit would someone so boldly declare something like this to a stranger. I'm on the spectrum so that might have to do with my not being able to hide any emotion (I truly mean that, people can basically read my thoughts just by looking at me, good and bad). \nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave. Consider working on that.", ">\n\nSo they point out you’re cultivating a bad habit and blaming other people so you then, blame them? It’s a little spot on don’t you think?", ">\n\nWhen did i blame them for my own actions? Could you quote me? I was just pointing out how weird it was that they made such a strong assumption of my character off a causal comment I left when they themselves were ironically being unnecessarily rude in the process. \nI don't know how you got so lost?", ">\n\n\nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave.\n\nClassic deflection and implication that they’re the one with the problem, not you", ">\n\nFirst its not automatic. I almost never rolled my eyes. Its much easier to control than laughing crying or sneezing. So you just dont make the effort. Its actually a way to express your feeling. You should know that, its your personnality not a human instinctive reaction. \nAnd yes not respecting something is disrespectful. Its not that hard to understand. \nAnyway if i see you.. i dont know having a breakdown after being fired and dumped and start to laugh you'd like that ? \nIf im sad because something good happens to you and show it to you, you would like that ? \nHonestly you are just trying to justify being a bit of a jerk. \nI dont blame you or anything we all are jerks sometime but its what you are doing right now.", ">\n\nI have to refocus my eyes and most of the time blinking doesn’t cut it. I have a lazy eye and when I look at someone for a long time it unfocuses, so moving the muscle is the only way to reset it. If I don’t, people start moving their heads/ bodies trying to focus on my lazy eye. It gets awkward.", ">\n\nThis is where I go to my training as a kid. What others think of you is none of your business.", ">\n\nUnless you have a tick or something like Tourette’s syndrome, then it’s not an involuntary response. Part of living in a society and not being considered rude is managing your body language.\nLet me put it this way. “Rudeness” in itself is a social concept. That means it’s decided by the perception of the masses, what we generally agree upon in terms of our symbols of communication, our customs, our beliefs, our values, etc. For you to say that rolling your eyes isn’t disrespectful is not objectively wrong. But according to the society you live in, it is wrong. In layman’s terms, the hill you’re dying on here is completely arbitrary, neither side will ever be truly correct but as long as you live in a society which feels this way then you will be beholden to it anyways.", ">\n\nTo be fair, if your thinking its stupid or lame, then that is dis-respect. I'd agree with this if it was worded like 'More people need to say what they truly think', but I think you sort of missed the mark, OP.", ">\n\nI am equally annoyed when folks rapidly blink and look away mid conversation or drop their arm dead against their thigh. It’s like you’ve given up an effort to even keep your body vertical and engaged while I’m talking to you.", ">\n\nOP getting downvoted AF & keeps commenting. Gotta love it.", ">\n\nIt is shown as a sign of disrespect and it shows weakness. I can’t imagine Gandhi, the queen of England or Einstein roll their eyes in front of random people. The reason why they were respected is because they didn’t play any superiority game on front of… inferiors or ignorant people. If something is stupid, get the patience and find enough love within yourself to treat the other ones right. \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a child because his question is “stupid”, what parent does it make you ? \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a bad question because you are an expert in a subject, then it is not your modesty that speaks but your ego. For proof : Even if someone you hate said something intelligent, you might want to roll your eyes just to flatter your ego.", ">\n\nIt's seen as disrespectful BECAUSE it's inadvertently telling them you think they're irritating/annoying.", ">\n\nI never roll my eyes? Is that something people do naturally?", ">\n\nAll depends on the context of what is going on.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is not a natural reaction?", ">\n\nNot maintaining basic self control is disrespectful. It's the same reason we don't defecate in public, sneeze on people, or stand in the way of foot traffic.", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s and one of my tics is eye rolling", ">\n\nK", ">\n\nI accidentally roll my eyes at people sometimes when I'm not even trying to", ">\n\nThe sign of a true unpopular opinion: Nobody upvoting it, but everybody commenting to say how they disagree. If you disagree, then give it an upvote. That's the point of this sub.", ">\n\nI think it depends.", ">\n\nThis had to be written by someone under the age of 25", ">\n\nRolling your eyes isn’t natural though. It’s cultural or socially learned if that makes sense. Like if you rolled your eyes at a tribe that is disconnected from society they wouldn’t understand that you’re annoyed. So you cant really compare it to laughing.", ">\n\nI'm kind of curious if this is true though. Are you assuming this, or do you have some kind of study proving this? I'd actually like to see if your hypothesis is true, or if remote tribes also use this facial gesture.", ">\n\nI’m assuming it. Back in my country Turkey if you rolled your eyes at my grandparents they would be confused and wonder what you were doing and what it meant.", ">\n\nit's a maturity thing, keep rolling your eyes at 30-40, everyone gonna see you like a kid. \nyou gotta control your emotions, there's no need to do a expression when something is stupid or lame, you got a mouth and you respectfully share what's wrong, if the person in the other end is reluctant to stay on the same boat even after you talk about it. then you don't roll your eyes, you gotta say that there's nothing more you can do, and that you don't agree with it, and most likely leave to dodge any sort of problem." ]
> Is laughing disrespectful? Because it can be. Just like rolling your eyes can be. There is a time and place for everything	[ "🙄", ">\n\nYou’re grounded now", ">\n\nThe post above was someone getting electrocuted so this reply was very timely", ">\n\nThis news is shocking", ">\n\nIt definitely SPARKED my interest", ">\n\nAll of you guys need to leave, and not come back before learning how to conduct yourselves properly", ">\n\nUhhhh....... electricity", ">\n\nWell no, in the right context it is disrespectful. Rolling your eyes suggests that you're not taking the matter seriously or that you dont care which is a sign of disrespect towards whoever is speaking with you.", ">\n\nBut I can't control what I think. If I said \"man you're stupid and I don't care what you say\" thats disrespectful. I'm actually showing respect by not saying it.", ">\n\nI mean, actions speak louder than words, right?", ">\n\nIts not really an action tho its just an automatic response. Like gasping or yawning.", ">\n\nbullshit.\nSorry, it was an automatic response. Which is bullshit just like yours.", ">\n\nStill not the same thing. And they get on me for false analogies....", ">\n\nYou must be a teenager", ">\n\nLol how many times are you gonna post that. Dont you have an original thought of your own?", ">\n\nBruh I cant believe you make these posts. They're foolish", ">\n\nLaughing at someone can be disrespectful. Don't think so? Try laughing at someone's funeral.", ">\n\nThe disrespect comes from the one who told me a joke and made me laugh.", ">\n\nWhat about if no one said any joke? Because, you know, you are at a funeral.", ">\n\nSo someone's just there randomly laughing at shit? That sounds like a mental illness.", ">\n\nYou have never thought of something funny in your head to make yourself laugh? \nOr hell, maybe you didn't like the person who is buried and decided to laugh at them. You find it funny, so laughing must be appropriate, right?", ">\n\nWhy am I thinking about funny shit at a funeral.", ">\n\nBecause the universe likes to put us in uncomfortable positions sometimes.", ">\n\n“if its stupid or lame, you roll your eyes” - you found the disrespect", ">\n\nIm allowed to think whatever i want and its not disrespectful.", ">\n\nWhen you express contempt for something someone else said, it's disrespect.", ">\n\nWhat if what they said is contemptible?", ">\n\nSome people and comments deserve disrespect, still gonna be disrespect", ">\n\nLaughing, crying, and sneezing are all innate, involuntary reactions to certain types of stimuli. Rolling your eyes is a learned behavior. You can’t compare it to those other automatic responses because it’s not the same thing.", ">\n\nTake my upvote", ">\n\nOP rolled their eyes at someone and got chewed out for it.\nNow they're going online in an attempt to validate themselves.\n🙄", ">\n\nProbably got grounded.", ">\n\nPart of being a mature adult is to have self-control and not acting on every impulse and being respectful of people.", ">\n\n\nPart of being a mature adult\n\nYup but OP is clearly a teenager lol. They complain about being told off for doing chores wrong in another post…", ">\n\nEven a teenager should be able to have the fundamental basics of respect", ">\n\nOh I agree 100%", ">\n\nYou have poor self-control and poor self-awareness but the good news is that you can improve these things.", ">\n\n/r/wrongopinions", ">\n\nI feel like we need a new subreddit r/unpopularforareason", ">\n\nIt’s entire purpose is to be disrespectful. Nobody eyerolls something they respect. But how offensive it is depends on the context and how serious one is being.", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes\n\nYou rn: \"I'm not being disrespectful. I just thought what you said was stupid or lame.\"\n...", ">\n\nSaying its stupid could be disrespectful. A facial response is not.", ">\n\nLiterally every person in this thread agrees that it is.\nThis is your bad habit. Nobody else's responsibility but you.", ">\n\nThey can choose to not fly off the handle at what is just an innate reaction.", ">\n\nSo let me get this straight: you think you deserve to be able to disrespect whoever you like whenever you like but they can't as much as say you're being rude? Grow up.", ">\n\nFound the teenager.", ">\n\nMeh, I agree with that one. If you don't like how someone is doing something then do it yourself. There's a reason I live alone.", ">\n\nIt is a UNIVERSAL sign of disrespect. Globally. Deal with it.", ">\n\nLaughing can be disrespectuful too. If you cannot control your own reactions, well, what can I say, maybe you have not really grown up?", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s so it’s hard to control my own actions sometimes…", ">\n\nThank u I'm trying to explain how autism can make it hard to read not just others facial expressions but also ur own and it seems like no one has thought of the possibility that they acc don't realise it or csnt control it", ">\n\nWould you roll your eyes during a job interview if you thought a question was stupid or irrelevant? Do you think you’d get the job if you did?", ">\n\nPretty sure OP would think they were owed that job and they would think it’s ridiculous if they didn’t get it.\nOP is also a teenager going through their rebel phase though", ">\n\nYou're oddly specific here.", ">\n\nWhat was specific? Or rather oddly specific?", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a good way to fast track yourself to a divorce, if you want one.", ">\n\nI think OP needs the definition of respect before any further comment is made", ">\n\nOh I already know it, and I know it does not mean:\nDon't ever disagree with me\nDon't think bad thoughts about me\nDon't ever correct me when I'm blatantly wrong \nShine my boots with your tongue", ">\n\nSoooo this post isn’t about eye rolling is what I’m getting from this. You’ve got issues to work through with your parents or partner or something", ">\n\nSince when tf was eye rolling involuntary?", ">", ">\n\nYour lack of self control is not a justification for disrespect. I personally dont know anyone who reacts to anything by rolling their eyes. Just be mature and communicate.", ">\n\nAnd what if it's not stupid and someone rolls their eyes? Wouldn't it be disrespectful in that case?", ">\n\nIn the eye rollers opinion then it must have been. But you can't fault someone for thinking its stupid.", ">\n\nSo eyerolling is some kind of exceptional thing that is free from criticism? \nIf one has the freedom to eye roll, then someone else has the freedom to criticize the eye roller right? \nOr is it your opinion that besides that everyone who sees an eye roller has to just stfu", ">\n\nMeh, it is disrespectful. It's a way to be disrespectful without having to say That's the dumbest thing I've heard all month, and everyone else who heard it is also dumber for hearing it as well.", ">\n\nBut I didn't say it that's the point.", ">\n\nJust cuz you don’t use words doesn’t mean it’s not disrespectful. Walking away while someone is talking to you, rolling your eyes, slapping someone, and starting to play a game on your phone while someone is talking to you are all disrespectful. It doesn’t matter that you didn’t say anything, your lack of respect still showed.", ">\n\nespecially the way theyre responding to comments", ">\n\nYeah, a natural reaction if you’ve never learned to manage your emotions as opposed to letting them run your life. I’m not talking about being totally monotone rational, either. You need to learn a balance between rational and emotional…which includes healthy, appropriate, respectful expression of honest feelings. Eye rolling is absolutely disrespectful, belittling, and dismissive.", ">\n\nComments: OP is completely wrong and has attitude issues", ">\n\nWhat sounds like mental illness is you refusing to admit that rolling your eyes is simply not an unconditional response. Whether you want to believe it or not, you are doing it intentionally and you can control it. \nYou’re just to much of a b—— to do so.", ">\n\nSame to you", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a learned reaction. Not natural. I rarely of ever roll my eyes at anything.", ">", ">\n\nJust like raising your middle finger. Or vocalizing the sounds \"fuck you\". Or fingers typing the words fuck you OP. Nothing is disrespectful!", ">\n\nNice try but not the same thing at all. You're talking about thought out actions here. The eye roll is more like a reaction. Its quick, its automatic, no one has to think \"im rolling my eyes now\" it just happens. \nSort of like when telling a lie - no one decides to have their eyes dart around suspiciously, it just happens.", ">\n\nNo. Rolling your eyes is not involuntary. It can be controlled. You have a bad habit that you CAN stop. Much like a child learning not to suck their thumb, or biting your nails.", ">\n\nHow about you start with your hair scratching", ">\n\nYour opinion is a contradiction in itself. And, yeah. I disagree. Rolling your eyes is 100% to show lack of respect, and you have no intentions of showing it, even to reason, by rolling your eyes at something someone could believe is meaningful or important. Even if it is stupid.\nI get your point, we roll our eyes to express how we feel, but it is still a physical snare. You say rolling your eyes isn't disrespectful, while saying it's okay to roll your eyes because something is \" stupid or lame\", which in itself is disrespectful. You sound like a very young person in the middle of a learning moment, and you're trying to react with rebellion. It only shows that you lack maturity and are in need of growth. This might be a time for you to read these comments and reevaluate. There are healthier ways to react to things you disagree with, or lack interest in. If not, you can just accept that you roll your eyes to show lack of respect.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is much more deliberate than laughter, tears, or sneezing. It's a conscious action in response to a judgement you're making.", ">\n\nNah, dude it is disrespectful \nYou just have no self control and by the looks of it you don't want to build some", ">\n\nYour post made me roll my eyes very hard.", ">\n\n“No, officer, my wife - she MADE me hit her!”", ">\n\nIt's a natural reaction for a sooky kid but not an adult, if you do that as an adult you just manchild that wants everything their way", ">\n\npoor OP.... did you get in trouble after you rolled your eyes at something again? did you not prehaps learn from previous interactions? rolling your eyes at something \"stupid or lame\" is an intentional response that is disrespectful to whatever it is. mature people dont act that way.....", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes.\n\nSo it is disrespectful. \n\nIts like throwing pepper in someone's face an expecting them not to sneeze.\n\nNo it’s not. You can easily (edited in) refrain from rolling your eyes, while it’s much more difficult to refrain from sneezing. \nIt’s fine to think whatever you want, but you might want to refrain from rolling your eyes when you’re, say, interacting with your boss; aka someone that can make you unemployed for whatever reason they please.", ">\n\nThis isn't an opinion. It's just flat wrong. \nIt is disrespectful because it is a conscious signifier which clearly communicated that you think that the thing you are rolling your eyes at is not worthy of respect.", ">\n\nYou have to go out of your way to roll your eyes. It is NOT gutteral or instinctual", ">\n\nIf you annoy me, my arm whips out in a natural reaction and slaps you.", ">\n\nSorry, kiddo, it’s 100% disrespectful. Just own the shit and quit trying to lawyer around it.\nI say that after having rolled my eyes so hard at your post, I travelled back in time.", ">\n\nTell that to my family lol you get the belt", ">\n\nThis was made my a 15 year old who just got told off by their mom about rolling their eyes. Then in defense said, “I can’t control it”", ">\n\nMan it's getting so aggressive sometimes here 😂", ">\n\ni certainly hope you are embarrassed about this in a couple years when you grow up.", ">\n\nOP is a habitual eye roller 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄", ">\n\nI wish to God we could block people by age, no more edgy 13yo’s", ">\n\nSomebody just got their ps5 taken away for rolling their eyes", ">\n\nTell me you're 12 without telling me you're 12.", ">\n\nit’s the definition of disrespectful and a sign that you have literally nothing intelligent to say in return. \nwhich is why we outgrow it as adults.", ">\n\nYou can control it. It’s not an “automatic response” unless you’ve taught yourself to do it. I never roll my eyes. It’s just not something I have ever practiced doing. And yes…if I’m saying something too you and you dismiss it with an eye roll…it’s super disrespectful.", ">\n\nrolling your eyes is just as respectful as sticking your tongue out at someone or making a stupid face in reaction to something someone says", ">\n\nIf you can’t control your eye movement, you need to see a neurologist, dude 😆. As it stands, eye rolling isn’t a reflex or a “natural reaction” to anything. Habits aren’t the same as involuntary reactions.\nRolling your eyes at someone is disrespectful. It’s an outward sign that you think something about your interaction with them was stupid or wrong. There’s no one here that will agree with you, and you know that you’re in the vast minority with this opinion because you posted it on this sub. Now learn some humility and accept that your opinion is factually incorrect based on science.", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nAre you like 14 and your mom got you in trouble cause you rolled your eyes at her? Lmao", ">\n\nI’m gonna show your mom this and it’s going to be another week of being grounded, you little shit lol", ">\n\nOmfg 😂", ">\n\nOP I have to ask.\n\n\nHow old are you?\n\n\nHow is your relationship with your parents?\n\n\nHow do you view authority figures in your life?", ">\n\nrolls eyes", ">\n\nIf you say or demand something stupid from me I will probably roll my eyes.", ">\n\nBut it is", ">\n\nJust like rolling your eyes is an innate response, so are other people's responses to you rolling your eyes.", ">\n\nSometimes being respectful requires hiding your subjective opinion on whether something is stupid or lame.", ">\n\nI wouldn’t say eye rolling is as involuntary as laughing or crying tho. It’s more of a choice.", ">\n\nIf someone rolls their eyes then I feel disrespected it’s a natural reaction.", ">\n\ntell me you're a teenager without telling me you're a teenager", ">\n\nI'm rolling my eyes at this post. And I definitely mean it disrespectfully.", ">\n\nLmao this kid had an argument with his parent(s) or teacher and is venting on Reddit.", ">\n\nYou sound like an eye rolling arsehole", ">\n\ni have never had an as a nonvoulentary action, it requires very explicit movement of you eye. this is like saying “when i dont like people, i punch them in the head, thats my natural reaction i cant control it”\ni have never once legitimately rolled my eyes at something, i think you might be an asshole", ">\n\nMe smacking your face is also an innate uncontrollable response to you rolling your eyes. I'm only human. What can I do? 🙄", ">\n\nI disagree. also there are a billion other ways to express something being stupid or lame than rolling ur eyes", ">\n\nStop downvoting, this is ACTUALLY a very unpopular opinion and I love to see it tbh. Voice your disagreement in the comments but don't downvote the post. This post is hilarious.", ">\n\nThis is something you’ve learned to do. It’s entirely in your control if you do it or not.", ">\n\nI once got a detention for rolling my eyes at a teacher in 4th grade.\nI agree with you, though. The only other person I've ever really rolled my eyes at was my mother, and she deserved it, every single time.", ">\n\nI get your point. I absolutely purposefully roll my eyes sometimes and whoever I'm doing it to would be valid for getting mad. \nBut as someone who can't hide any emotion on their face (literally any, I'm the definition of an open book) there have been plenty of times where people blew up at me or laughed because I rolled my eyes when I didn't even realize I had done it. Feel like the people disagreeing with you haven't experienced this problem.", ">\n\nWhat you've done is cultivate a bad habit and then blamed it on everyone else when you repeat your own bad habit unintentionally.\nThis is entirely your fault.", ">\n\nOnly on Reddit would someone so boldly declare something like this to a stranger. I'm on the spectrum so that might have to do with my not being able to hide any emotion (I truly mean that, people can basically read my thoughts just by looking at me, good and bad). \nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave. Consider working on that.", ">\n\nSo they point out you’re cultivating a bad habit and blaming other people so you then, blame them? It’s a little spot on don’t you think?", ">\n\nWhen did i blame them for my own actions? Could you quote me? I was just pointing out how weird it was that they made such a strong assumption of my character off a causal comment I left when they themselves were ironically being unnecessarily rude in the process. \nI don't know how you got so lost?", ">\n\n\nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave.\n\nClassic deflection and implication that they’re the one with the problem, not you", ">\n\nFirst its not automatic. I almost never rolled my eyes. Its much easier to control than laughing crying or sneezing. So you just dont make the effort. Its actually a way to express your feeling. You should know that, its your personnality not a human instinctive reaction. \nAnd yes not respecting something is disrespectful. Its not that hard to understand. \nAnyway if i see you.. i dont know having a breakdown after being fired and dumped and start to laugh you'd like that ? \nIf im sad because something good happens to you and show it to you, you would like that ? \nHonestly you are just trying to justify being a bit of a jerk. \nI dont blame you or anything we all are jerks sometime but its what you are doing right now.", ">\n\nI have to refocus my eyes and most of the time blinking doesn’t cut it. I have a lazy eye and when I look at someone for a long time it unfocuses, so moving the muscle is the only way to reset it. If I don’t, people start moving their heads/ bodies trying to focus on my lazy eye. It gets awkward.", ">\n\nThis is where I go to my training as a kid. What others think of you is none of your business.", ">\n\nUnless you have a tick or something like Tourette’s syndrome, then it’s not an involuntary response. Part of living in a society and not being considered rude is managing your body language.\nLet me put it this way. “Rudeness” in itself is a social concept. That means it’s decided by the perception of the masses, what we generally agree upon in terms of our symbols of communication, our customs, our beliefs, our values, etc. For you to say that rolling your eyes isn’t disrespectful is not objectively wrong. But according to the society you live in, it is wrong. In layman’s terms, the hill you’re dying on here is completely arbitrary, neither side will ever be truly correct but as long as you live in a society which feels this way then you will be beholden to it anyways.", ">\n\nTo be fair, if your thinking its stupid or lame, then that is dis-respect. I'd agree with this if it was worded like 'More people need to say what they truly think', but I think you sort of missed the mark, OP.", ">\n\nI am equally annoyed when folks rapidly blink and look away mid conversation or drop their arm dead against their thigh. It’s like you’ve given up an effort to even keep your body vertical and engaged while I’m talking to you.", ">\n\nOP getting downvoted AF & keeps commenting. Gotta love it.", ">\n\nIt is shown as a sign of disrespect and it shows weakness. I can’t imagine Gandhi, the queen of England or Einstein roll their eyes in front of random people. The reason why they were respected is because they didn’t play any superiority game on front of… inferiors or ignorant people. If something is stupid, get the patience and find enough love within yourself to treat the other ones right. \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a child because his question is “stupid”, what parent does it make you ? \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a bad question because you are an expert in a subject, then it is not your modesty that speaks but your ego. For proof : Even if someone you hate said something intelligent, you might want to roll your eyes just to flatter your ego.", ">\n\nIt's seen as disrespectful BECAUSE it's inadvertently telling them you think they're irritating/annoying.", ">\n\nI never roll my eyes? Is that something people do naturally?", ">\n\nAll depends on the context of what is going on.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is not a natural reaction?", ">\n\nNot maintaining basic self control is disrespectful. It's the same reason we don't defecate in public, sneeze on people, or stand in the way of foot traffic.", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s and one of my tics is eye rolling", ">\n\nK", ">\n\nI accidentally roll my eyes at people sometimes when I'm not even trying to", ">\n\nThe sign of a true unpopular opinion: Nobody upvoting it, but everybody commenting to say how they disagree. If you disagree, then give it an upvote. That's the point of this sub.", ">\n\nI think it depends.", ">\n\nThis had to be written by someone under the age of 25", ">\n\nRolling your eyes isn’t natural though. It’s cultural or socially learned if that makes sense. Like if you rolled your eyes at a tribe that is disconnected from society they wouldn’t understand that you’re annoyed. So you cant really compare it to laughing.", ">\n\nI'm kind of curious if this is true though. Are you assuming this, or do you have some kind of study proving this? I'd actually like to see if your hypothesis is true, or if remote tribes also use this facial gesture.", ">\n\nI’m assuming it. Back in my country Turkey if you rolled your eyes at my grandparents they would be confused and wonder what you were doing and what it meant.", ">\n\nit's a maturity thing, keep rolling your eyes at 30-40, everyone gonna see you like a kid. \nyou gotta control your emotions, there's no need to do a expression when something is stupid or lame, you got a mouth and you respectfully share what's wrong, if the person in the other end is reluctant to stay on the same boat even after you talk about it. then you don't roll your eyes, you gotta say that there's nothing more you can do, and that you don't agree with it, and most likely leave to dodge any sort of problem.", ">\n\nI have a tic where I constantly roll my eyes. I’ve had it since I was little, but never noticed it until years later when I high school teacher yelled at me for disrespect. Apparently my parents took me for evaluation when I was very young and diagnosed Tourette’s but never had any other tics develop. Would have been nice to know 🤦🏼‍♀️ I just apologize now and say it’s a compulsion if people ask. I don’t even know when I’m doing it" ]
> Rolling your eyes is a passive aggressive response. Passive aggression is a tactic used by meek people who are frustrated and don’t have the courage to address a given situation. It’s disrespectful and it lowers your standing in the social hierarchy.	[ "🙄", ">\n\nYou’re grounded now", ">\n\nThe post above was someone getting electrocuted so this reply was very timely", ">\n\nThis news is shocking", ">\n\nIt definitely SPARKED my interest", ">\n\nAll of you guys need to leave, and not come back before learning how to conduct yourselves properly", ">\n\nUhhhh....... electricity", ">\n\nWell no, in the right context it is disrespectful. Rolling your eyes suggests that you're not taking the matter seriously or that you dont care which is a sign of disrespect towards whoever is speaking with you.", ">\n\nBut I can't control what I think. If I said \"man you're stupid and I don't care what you say\" thats disrespectful. I'm actually showing respect by not saying it.", ">\n\nI mean, actions speak louder than words, right?", ">\n\nIts not really an action tho its just an automatic response. Like gasping or yawning.", ">\n\nbullshit.\nSorry, it was an automatic response. Which is bullshit just like yours.", ">\n\nStill not the same thing. And they get on me for false analogies....", ">\n\nYou must be a teenager", ">\n\nLol how many times are you gonna post that. Dont you have an original thought of your own?", ">\n\nBruh I cant believe you make these posts. They're foolish", ">\n\nLaughing at someone can be disrespectful. Don't think so? Try laughing at someone's funeral.", ">\n\nThe disrespect comes from the one who told me a joke and made me laugh.", ">\n\nWhat about if no one said any joke? Because, you know, you are at a funeral.", ">\n\nSo someone's just there randomly laughing at shit? That sounds like a mental illness.", ">\n\nYou have never thought of something funny in your head to make yourself laugh? \nOr hell, maybe you didn't like the person who is buried and decided to laugh at them. You find it funny, so laughing must be appropriate, right?", ">\n\nWhy am I thinking about funny shit at a funeral.", ">\n\nBecause the universe likes to put us in uncomfortable positions sometimes.", ">\n\n“if its stupid or lame, you roll your eyes” - you found the disrespect", ">\n\nIm allowed to think whatever i want and its not disrespectful.", ">\n\nWhen you express contempt for something someone else said, it's disrespect.", ">\n\nWhat if what they said is contemptible?", ">\n\nSome people and comments deserve disrespect, still gonna be disrespect", ">\n\nLaughing, crying, and sneezing are all innate, involuntary reactions to certain types of stimuli. Rolling your eyes is a learned behavior. You can’t compare it to those other automatic responses because it’s not the same thing.", ">\n\nTake my upvote", ">\n\nOP rolled their eyes at someone and got chewed out for it.\nNow they're going online in an attempt to validate themselves.\n🙄", ">\n\nProbably got grounded.", ">\n\nPart of being a mature adult is to have self-control and not acting on every impulse and being respectful of people.", ">\n\n\nPart of being a mature adult\n\nYup but OP is clearly a teenager lol. They complain about being told off for doing chores wrong in another post…", ">\n\nEven a teenager should be able to have the fundamental basics of respect", ">\n\nOh I agree 100%", ">\n\nYou have poor self-control and poor self-awareness but the good news is that you can improve these things.", ">\n\n/r/wrongopinions", ">\n\nI feel like we need a new subreddit r/unpopularforareason", ">\n\nIt’s entire purpose is to be disrespectful. Nobody eyerolls something they respect. But how offensive it is depends on the context and how serious one is being.", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes\n\nYou rn: \"I'm not being disrespectful. I just thought what you said was stupid or lame.\"\n...", ">\n\nSaying its stupid could be disrespectful. A facial response is not.", ">\n\nLiterally every person in this thread agrees that it is.\nThis is your bad habit. Nobody else's responsibility but you.", ">\n\nThey can choose to not fly off the handle at what is just an innate reaction.", ">\n\nSo let me get this straight: you think you deserve to be able to disrespect whoever you like whenever you like but they can't as much as say you're being rude? Grow up.", ">\n\nFound the teenager.", ">\n\nMeh, I agree with that one. If you don't like how someone is doing something then do it yourself. There's a reason I live alone.", ">\n\nIt is a UNIVERSAL sign of disrespect. Globally. Deal with it.", ">\n\nLaughing can be disrespectuful too. If you cannot control your own reactions, well, what can I say, maybe you have not really grown up?", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s so it’s hard to control my own actions sometimes…", ">\n\nThank u I'm trying to explain how autism can make it hard to read not just others facial expressions but also ur own and it seems like no one has thought of the possibility that they acc don't realise it or csnt control it", ">\n\nWould you roll your eyes during a job interview if you thought a question was stupid or irrelevant? Do you think you’d get the job if you did?", ">\n\nPretty sure OP would think they were owed that job and they would think it’s ridiculous if they didn’t get it.\nOP is also a teenager going through their rebel phase though", ">\n\nYou're oddly specific here.", ">\n\nWhat was specific? Or rather oddly specific?", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a good way to fast track yourself to a divorce, if you want one.", ">\n\nI think OP needs the definition of respect before any further comment is made", ">\n\nOh I already know it, and I know it does not mean:\nDon't ever disagree with me\nDon't think bad thoughts about me\nDon't ever correct me when I'm blatantly wrong \nShine my boots with your tongue", ">\n\nSoooo this post isn’t about eye rolling is what I’m getting from this. You’ve got issues to work through with your parents or partner or something", ">\n\nSince when tf was eye rolling involuntary?", ">", ">\n\nYour lack of self control is not a justification for disrespect. I personally dont know anyone who reacts to anything by rolling their eyes. Just be mature and communicate.", ">\n\nAnd what if it's not stupid and someone rolls their eyes? Wouldn't it be disrespectful in that case?", ">\n\nIn the eye rollers opinion then it must have been. But you can't fault someone for thinking its stupid.", ">\n\nSo eyerolling is some kind of exceptional thing that is free from criticism? \nIf one has the freedom to eye roll, then someone else has the freedom to criticize the eye roller right? \nOr is it your opinion that besides that everyone who sees an eye roller has to just stfu", ">\n\nMeh, it is disrespectful. It's a way to be disrespectful without having to say That's the dumbest thing I've heard all month, and everyone else who heard it is also dumber for hearing it as well.", ">\n\nBut I didn't say it that's the point.", ">\n\nJust cuz you don’t use words doesn’t mean it’s not disrespectful. Walking away while someone is talking to you, rolling your eyes, slapping someone, and starting to play a game on your phone while someone is talking to you are all disrespectful. It doesn’t matter that you didn’t say anything, your lack of respect still showed.", ">\n\nespecially the way theyre responding to comments", ">\n\nYeah, a natural reaction if you’ve never learned to manage your emotions as opposed to letting them run your life. I’m not talking about being totally monotone rational, either. You need to learn a balance between rational and emotional…which includes healthy, appropriate, respectful expression of honest feelings. Eye rolling is absolutely disrespectful, belittling, and dismissive.", ">\n\nComments: OP is completely wrong and has attitude issues", ">\n\nWhat sounds like mental illness is you refusing to admit that rolling your eyes is simply not an unconditional response. Whether you want to believe it or not, you are doing it intentionally and you can control it. \nYou’re just to much of a b—— to do so.", ">\n\nSame to you", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a learned reaction. Not natural. I rarely of ever roll my eyes at anything.", ">", ">\n\nJust like raising your middle finger. Or vocalizing the sounds \"fuck you\". Or fingers typing the words fuck you OP. Nothing is disrespectful!", ">\n\nNice try but not the same thing at all. You're talking about thought out actions here. The eye roll is more like a reaction. Its quick, its automatic, no one has to think \"im rolling my eyes now\" it just happens. \nSort of like when telling a lie - no one decides to have their eyes dart around suspiciously, it just happens.", ">\n\nNo. Rolling your eyes is not involuntary. It can be controlled. You have a bad habit that you CAN stop. Much like a child learning not to suck their thumb, or biting your nails.", ">\n\nHow about you start with your hair scratching", ">\n\nYour opinion is a contradiction in itself. And, yeah. I disagree. Rolling your eyes is 100% to show lack of respect, and you have no intentions of showing it, even to reason, by rolling your eyes at something someone could believe is meaningful or important. Even if it is stupid.\nI get your point, we roll our eyes to express how we feel, but it is still a physical snare. You say rolling your eyes isn't disrespectful, while saying it's okay to roll your eyes because something is \" stupid or lame\", which in itself is disrespectful. You sound like a very young person in the middle of a learning moment, and you're trying to react with rebellion. It only shows that you lack maturity and are in need of growth. This might be a time for you to read these comments and reevaluate. There are healthier ways to react to things you disagree with, or lack interest in. If not, you can just accept that you roll your eyes to show lack of respect.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is much more deliberate than laughter, tears, or sneezing. It's a conscious action in response to a judgement you're making.", ">\n\nNah, dude it is disrespectful \nYou just have no self control and by the looks of it you don't want to build some", ">\n\nYour post made me roll my eyes very hard.", ">\n\n“No, officer, my wife - she MADE me hit her!”", ">\n\nIt's a natural reaction for a sooky kid but not an adult, if you do that as an adult you just manchild that wants everything their way", ">\n\npoor OP.... did you get in trouble after you rolled your eyes at something again? did you not prehaps learn from previous interactions? rolling your eyes at something \"stupid or lame\" is an intentional response that is disrespectful to whatever it is. mature people dont act that way.....", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes.\n\nSo it is disrespectful. \n\nIts like throwing pepper in someone's face an expecting them not to sneeze.\n\nNo it’s not. You can easily (edited in) refrain from rolling your eyes, while it’s much more difficult to refrain from sneezing. \nIt’s fine to think whatever you want, but you might want to refrain from rolling your eyes when you’re, say, interacting with your boss; aka someone that can make you unemployed for whatever reason they please.", ">\n\nThis isn't an opinion. It's just flat wrong. \nIt is disrespectful because it is a conscious signifier which clearly communicated that you think that the thing you are rolling your eyes at is not worthy of respect.", ">\n\nYou have to go out of your way to roll your eyes. It is NOT gutteral or instinctual", ">\n\nIf you annoy me, my arm whips out in a natural reaction and slaps you.", ">\n\nSorry, kiddo, it’s 100% disrespectful. Just own the shit and quit trying to lawyer around it.\nI say that after having rolled my eyes so hard at your post, I travelled back in time.", ">\n\nTell that to my family lol you get the belt", ">\n\nThis was made my a 15 year old who just got told off by their mom about rolling their eyes. Then in defense said, “I can’t control it”", ">\n\nMan it's getting so aggressive sometimes here 😂", ">\n\ni certainly hope you are embarrassed about this in a couple years when you grow up.", ">\n\nOP is a habitual eye roller 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄", ">\n\nI wish to God we could block people by age, no more edgy 13yo’s", ">\n\nSomebody just got their ps5 taken away for rolling their eyes", ">\n\nTell me you're 12 without telling me you're 12.", ">\n\nit’s the definition of disrespectful and a sign that you have literally nothing intelligent to say in return. \nwhich is why we outgrow it as adults.", ">\n\nYou can control it. It’s not an “automatic response” unless you’ve taught yourself to do it. I never roll my eyes. It’s just not something I have ever practiced doing. And yes…if I’m saying something too you and you dismiss it with an eye roll…it’s super disrespectful.", ">\n\nrolling your eyes is just as respectful as sticking your tongue out at someone or making a stupid face in reaction to something someone says", ">\n\nIf you can’t control your eye movement, you need to see a neurologist, dude 😆. As it stands, eye rolling isn’t a reflex or a “natural reaction” to anything. Habits aren’t the same as involuntary reactions.\nRolling your eyes at someone is disrespectful. It’s an outward sign that you think something about your interaction with them was stupid or wrong. There’s no one here that will agree with you, and you know that you’re in the vast minority with this opinion because you posted it on this sub. Now learn some humility and accept that your opinion is factually incorrect based on science.", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nAre you like 14 and your mom got you in trouble cause you rolled your eyes at her? Lmao", ">\n\nI’m gonna show your mom this and it’s going to be another week of being grounded, you little shit lol", ">\n\nOmfg 😂", ">\n\nOP I have to ask.\n\n\nHow old are you?\n\n\nHow is your relationship with your parents?\n\n\nHow do you view authority figures in your life?", ">\n\nrolls eyes", ">\n\nIf you say or demand something stupid from me I will probably roll my eyes.", ">\n\nBut it is", ">\n\nJust like rolling your eyes is an innate response, so are other people's responses to you rolling your eyes.", ">\n\nSometimes being respectful requires hiding your subjective opinion on whether something is stupid or lame.", ">\n\nI wouldn’t say eye rolling is as involuntary as laughing or crying tho. It’s more of a choice.", ">\n\nIf someone rolls their eyes then I feel disrespected it’s a natural reaction.", ">\n\ntell me you're a teenager without telling me you're a teenager", ">\n\nI'm rolling my eyes at this post. And I definitely mean it disrespectfully.", ">\n\nLmao this kid had an argument with his parent(s) or teacher and is venting on Reddit.", ">\n\nYou sound like an eye rolling arsehole", ">\n\ni have never had an as a nonvoulentary action, it requires very explicit movement of you eye. this is like saying “when i dont like people, i punch them in the head, thats my natural reaction i cant control it”\ni have never once legitimately rolled my eyes at something, i think you might be an asshole", ">\n\nMe smacking your face is also an innate uncontrollable response to you rolling your eyes. I'm only human. What can I do? 🙄", ">\n\nI disagree. also there are a billion other ways to express something being stupid or lame than rolling ur eyes", ">\n\nStop downvoting, this is ACTUALLY a very unpopular opinion and I love to see it tbh. Voice your disagreement in the comments but don't downvote the post. This post is hilarious.", ">\n\nThis is something you’ve learned to do. It’s entirely in your control if you do it or not.", ">\n\nI once got a detention for rolling my eyes at a teacher in 4th grade.\nI agree with you, though. The only other person I've ever really rolled my eyes at was my mother, and she deserved it, every single time.", ">\n\nI get your point. I absolutely purposefully roll my eyes sometimes and whoever I'm doing it to would be valid for getting mad. \nBut as someone who can't hide any emotion on their face (literally any, I'm the definition of an open book) there have been plenty of times where people blew up at me or laughed because I rolled my eyes when I didn't even realize I had done it. Feel like the people disagreeing with you haven't experienced this problem.", ">\n\nWhat you've done is cultivate a bad habit and then blamed it on everyone else when you repeat your own bad habit unintentionally.\nThis is entirely your fault.", ">\n\nOnly on Reddit would someone so boldly declare something like this to a stranger. I'm on the spectrum so that might have to do with my not being able to hide any emotion (I truly mean that, people can basically read my thoughts just by looking at me, good and bad). \nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave. Consider working on that.", ">\n\nSo they point out you’re cultivating a bad habit and blaming other people so you then, blame them? It’s a little spot on don’t you think?", ">\n\nWhen did i blame them for my own actions? Could you quote me? I was just pointing out how weird it was that they made such a strong assumption of my character off a causal comment I left when they themselves were ironically being unnecessarily rude in the process. \nI don't know how you got so lost?", ">\n\n\nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave.\n\nClassic deflection and implication that they’re the one with the problem, not you", ">\n\nFirst its not automatic. I almost never rolled my eyes. Its much easier to control than laughing crying or sneezing. So you just dont make the effort. Its actually a way to express your feeling. You should know that, its your personnality not a human instinctive reaction. \nAnd yes not respecting something is disrespectful. Its not that hard to understand. \nAnyway if i see you.. i dont know having a breakdown after being fired and dumped and start to laugh you'd like that ? \nIf im sad because something good happens to you and show it to you, you would like that ? \nHonestly you are just trying to justify being a bit of a jerk. \nI dont blame you or anything we all are jerks sometime but its what you are doing right now.", ">\n\nI have to refocus my eyes and most of the time blinking doesn’t cut it. I have a lazy eye and when I look at someone for a long time it unfocuses, so moving the muscle is the only way to reset it. If I don’t, people start moving their heads/ bodies trying to focus on my lazy eye. It gets awkward.", ">\n\nThis is where I go to my training as a kid. What others think of you is none of your business.", ">\n\nUnless you have a tick or something like Tourette’s syndrome, then it’s not an involuntary response. Part of living in a society and not being considered rude is managing your body language.\nLet me put it this way. “Rudeness” in itself is a social concept. That means it’s decided by the perception of the masses, what we generally agree upon in terms of our symbols of communication, our customs, our beliefs, our values, etc. For you to say that rolling your eyes isn’t disrespectful is not objectively wrong. But according to the society you live in, it is wrong. In layman’s terms, the hill you’re dying on here is completely arbitrary, neither side will ever be truly correct but as long as you live in a society which feels this way then you will be beholden to it anyways.", ">\n\nTo be fair, if your thinking its stupid or lame, then that is dis-respect. I'd agree with this if it was worded like 'More people need to say what they truly think', but I think you sort of missed the mark, OP.", ">\n\nI am equally annoyed when folks rapidly blink and look away mid conversation or drop their arm dead against their thigh. It’s like you’ve given up an effort to even keep your body vertical and engaged while I’m talking to you.", ">\n\nOP getting downvoted AF & keeps commenting. Gotta love it.", ">\n\nIt is shown as a sign of disrespect and it shows weakness. I can’t imagine Gandhi, the queen of England or Einstein roll their eyes in front of random people. The reason why they were respected is because they didn’t play any superiority game on front of… inferiors or ignorant people. If something is stupid, get the patience and find enough love within yourself to treat the other ones right. \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a child because his question is “stupid”, what parent does it make you ? \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a bad question because you are an expert in a subject, then it is not your modesty that speaks but your ego. For proof : Even if someone you hate said something intelligent, you might want to roll your eyes just to flatter your ego.", ">\n\nIt's seen as disrespectful BECAUSE it's inadvertently telling them you think they're irritating/annoying.", ">\n\nI never roll my eyes? Is that something people do naturally?", ">\n\nAll depends on the context of what is going on.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is not a natural reaction?", ">\n\nNot maintaining basic self control is disrespectful. It's the same reason we don't defecate in public, sneeze on people, or stand in the way of foot traffic.", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s and one of my tics is eye rolling", ">\n\nK", ">\n\nI accidentally roll my eyes at people sometimes when I'm not even trying to", ">\n\nThe sign of a true unpopular opinion: Nobody upvoting it, but everybody commenting to say how they disagree. If you disagree, then give it an upvote. That's the point of this sub.", ">\n\nI think it depends.", ">\n\nThis had to be written by someone under the age of 25", ">\n\nRolling your eyes isn’t natural though. It’s cultural or socially learned if that makes sense. Like if you rolled your eyes at a tribe that is disconnected from society they wouldn’t understand that you’re annoyed. So you cant really compare it to laughing.", ">\n\nI'm kind of curious if this is true though. Are you assuming this, or do you have some kind of study proving this? I'd actually like to see if your hypothesis is true, or if remote tribes also use this facial gesture.", ">\n\nI’m assuming it. Back in my country Turkey if you rolled your eyes at my grandparents they would be confused and wonder what you were doing and what it meant.", ">\n\nit's a maturity thing, keep rolling your eyes at 30-40, everyone gonna see you like a kid. \nyou gotta control your emotions, there's no need to do a expression when something is stupid or lame, you got a mouth and you respectfully share what's wrong, if the person in the other end is reluctant to stay on the same boat even after you talk about it. then you don't roll your eyes, you gotta say that there's nothing more you can do, and that you don't agree with it, and most likely leave to dodge any sort of problem.", ">\n\nI have a tic where I constantly roll my eyes. I’ve had it since I was little, but never noticed it until years later when I high school teacher yelled at me for disrespect. Apparently my parents took me for evaluation when I was very young and diagnosed Tourette’s but never had any other tics develop. Would have been nice to know 🤦🏼‍♀️ I just apologize now and say it’s a compulsion if people ask. I don’t even know when I’m doing it", ">\n\nIs laughing disrespectful? Because it can be. Just like rolling your eyes can be. There is a time and place for everything" ]
> Get back to me when Disney Dad actively encourages your offspring to roll their eyes at you.	[ "🙄", ">\n\nYou’re grounded now", ">\n\nThe post above was someone getting electrocuted so this reply was very timely", ">\n\nThis news is shocking", ">\n\nIt definitely SPARKED my interest", ">\n\nAll of you guys need to leave, and not come back before learning how to conduct yourselves properly", ">\n\nUhhhh....... electricity", ">\n\nWell no, in the right context it is disrespectful. Rolling your eyes suggests that you're not taking the matter seriously or that you dont care which is a sign of disrespect towards whoever is speaking with you.", ">\n\nBut I can't control what I think. If I said \"man you're stupid and I don't care what you say\" thats disrespectful. I'm actually showing respect by not saying it.", ">\n\nI mean, actions speak louder than words, right?", ">\n\nIts not really an action tho its just an automatic response. Like gasping or yawning.", ">\n\nbullshit.\nSorry, it was an automatic response. Which is bullshit just like yours.", ">\n\nStill not the same thing. And they get on me for false analogies....", ">\n\nYou must be a teenager", ">\n\nLol how many times are you gonna post that. Dont you have an original thought of your own?", ">\n\nBruh I cant believe you make these posts. They're foolish", ">\n\nLaughing at someone can be disrespectful. Don't think so? Try laughing at someone's funeral.", ">\n\nThe disrespect comes from the one who told me a joke and made me laugh.", ">\n\nWhat about if no one said any joke? Because, you know, you are at a funeral.", ">\n\nSo someone's just there randomly laughing at shit? That sounds like a mental illness.", ">\n\nYou have never thought of something funny in your head to make yourself laugh? \nOr hell, maybe you didn't like the person who is buried and decided to laugh at them. You find it funny, so laughing must be appropriate, right?", ">\n\nWhy am I thinking about funny shit at a funeral.", ">\n\nBecause the universe likes to put us in uncomfortable positions sometimes.", ">\n\n“if its stupid or lame, you roll your eyes” - you found the disrespect", ">\n\nIm allowed to think whatever i want and its not disrespectful.", ">\n\nWhen you express contempt for something someone else said, it's disrespect.", ">\n\nWhat if what they said is contemptible?", ">\n\nSome people and comments deserve disrespect, still gonna be disrespect", ">\n\nLaughing, crying, and sneezing are all innate, involuntary reactions to certain types of stimuli. Rolling your eyes is a learned behavior. You can’t compare it to those other automatic responses because it’s not the same thing.", ">\n\nTake my upvote", ">\n\nOP rolled their eyes at someone and got chewed out for it.\nNow they're going online in an attempt to validate themselves.\n🙄", ">\n\nProbably got grounded.", ">\n\nPart of being a mature adult is to have self-control and not acting on every impulse and being respectful of people.", ">\n\n\nPart of being a mature adult\n\nYup but OP is clearly a teenager lol. They complain about being told off for doing chores wrong in another post…", ">\n\nEven a teenager should be able to have the fundamental basics of respect", ">\n\nOh I agree 100%", ">\n\nYou have poor self-control and poor self-awareness but the good news is that you can improve these things.", ">\n\n/r/wrongopinions", ">\n\nI feel like we need a new subreddit r/unpopularforareason", ">\n\nIt’s entire purpose is to be disrespectful. Nobody eyerolls something they respect. But how offensive it is depends on the context and how serious one is being.", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes\n\nYou rn: \"I'm not being disrespectful. I just thought what you said was stupid or lame.\"\n...", ">\n\nSaying its stupid could be disrespectful. A facial response is not.", ">\n\nLiterally every person in this thread agrees that it is.\nThis is your bad habit. Nobody else's responsibility but you.", ">\n\nThey can choose to not fly off the handle at what is just an innate reaction.", ">\n\nSo let me get this straight: you think you deserve to be able to disrespect whoever you like whenever you like but they can't as much as say you're being rude? Grow up.", ">\n\nFound the teenager.", ">\n\nMeh, I agree with that one. If you don't like how someone is doing something then do it yourself. There's a reason I live alone.", ">\n\nIt is a UNIVERSAL sign of disrespect. Globally. Deal with it.", ">\n\nLaughing can be disrespectuful too. If you cannot control your own reactions, well, what can I say, maybe you have not really grown up?", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s so it’s hard to control my own actions sometimes…", ">\n\nThank u I'm trying to explain how autism can make it hard to read not just others facial expressions but also ur own and it seems like no one has thought of the possibility that they acc don't realise it or csnt control it", ">\n\nWould you roll your eyes during a job interview if you thought a question was stupid or irrelevant? Do you think you’d get the job if you did?", ">\n\nPretty sure OP would think they were owed that job and they would think it’s ridiculous if they didn’t get it.\nOP is also a teenager going through their rebel phase though", ">\n\nYou're oddly specific here.", ">\n\nWhat was specific? Or rather oddly specific?", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a good way to fast track yourself to a divorce, if you want one.", ">\n\nI think OP needs the definition of respect before any further comment is made", ">\n\nOh I already know it, and I know it does not mean:\nDon't ever disagree with me\nDon't think bad thoughts about me\nDon't ever correct me when I'm blatantly wrong \nShine my boots with your tongue", ">\n\nSoooo this post isn’t about eye rolling is what I’m getting from this. You’ve got issues to work through with your parents or partner or something", ">\n\nSince when tf was eye rolling involuntary?", ">", ">\n\nYour lack of self control is not a justification for disrespect. I personally dont know anyone who reacts to anything by rolling their eyes. Just be mature and communicate.", ">\n\nAnd what if it's not stupid and someone rolls their eyes? Wouldn't it be disrespectful in that case?", ">\n\nIn the eye rollers opinion then it must have been. But you can't fault someone for thinking its stupid.", ">\n\nSo eyerolling is some kind of exceptional thing that is free from criticism? \nIf one has the freedom to eye roll, then someone else has the freedom to criticize the eye roller right? \nOr is it your opinion that besides that everyone who sees an eye roller has to just stfu", ">\n\nMeh, it is disrespectful. It's a way to be disrespectful without having to say That's the dumbest thing I've heard all month, and everyone else who heard it is also dumber for hearing it as well.", ">\n\nBut I didn't say it that's the point.", ">\n\nJust cuz you don’t use words doesn’t mean it’s not disrespectful. Walking away while someone is talking to you, rolling your eyes, slapping someone, and starting to play a game on your phone while someone is talking to you are all disrespectful. It doesn’t matter that you didn’t say anything, your lack of respect still showed.", ">\n\nespecially the way theyre responding to comments", ">\n\nYeah, a natural reaction if you’ve never learned to manage your emotions as opposed to letting them run your life. I’m not talking about being totally monotone rational, either. You need to learn a balance between rational and emotional…which includes healthy, appropriate, respectful expression of honest feelings. Eye rolling is absolutely disrespectful, belittling, and dismissive.", ">\n\nComments: OP is completely wrong and has attitude issues", ">\n\nWhat sounds like mental illness is you refusing to admit that rolling your eyes is simply not an unconditional response. Whether you want to believe it or not, you are doing it intentionally and you can control it. \nYou’re just to much of a b—— to do so.", ">\n\nSame to you", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a learned reaction. Not natural. I rarely of ever roll my eyes at anything.", ">", ">\n\nJust like raising your middle finger. Or vocalizing the sounds \"fuck you\". Or fingers typing the words fuck you OP. Nothing is disrespectful!", ">\n\nNice try but not the same thing at all. You're talking about thought out actions here. The eye roll is more like a reaction. Its quick, its automatic, no one has to think \"im rolling my eyes now\" it just happens. \nSort of like when telling a lie - no one decides to have their eyes dart around suspiciously, it just happens.", ">\n\nNo. Rolling your eyes is not involuntary. It can be controlled. You have a bad habit that you CAN stop. Much like a child learning not to suck their thumb, or biting your nails.", ">\n\nHow about you start with your hair scratching", ">\n\nYour opinion is a contradiction in itself. And, yeah. I disagree. Rolling your eyes is 100% to show lack of respect, and you have no intentions of showing it, even to reason, by rolling your eyes at something someone could believe is meaningful or important. Even if it is stupid.\nI get your point, we roll our eyes to express how we feel, but it is still a physical snare. You say rolling your eyes isn't disrespectful, while saying it's okay to roll your eyes because something is \" stupid or lame\", which in itself is disrespectful. You sound like a very young person in the middle of a learning moment, and you're trying to react with rebellion. It only shows that you lack maturity and are in need of growth. This might be a time for you to read these comments and reevaluate. There are healthier ways to react to things you disagree with, or lack interest in. If not, you can just accept that you roll your eyes to show lack of respect.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is much more deliberate than laughter, tears, or sneezing. It's a conscious action in response to a judgement you're making.", ">\n\nNah, dude it is disrespectful \nYou just have no self control and by the looks of it you don't want to build some", ">\n\nYour post made me roll my eyes very hard.", ">\n\n“No, officer, my wife - she MADE me hit her!”", ">\n\nIt's a natural reaction for a sooky kid but not an adult, if you do that as an adult you just manchild that wants everything their way", ">\n\npoor OP.... did you get in trouble after you rolled your eyes at something again? did you not prehaps learn from previous interactions? rolling your eyes at something \"stupid or lame\" is an intentional response that is disrespectful to whatever it is. mature people dont act that way.....", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes.\n\nSo it is disrespectful. \n\nIts like throwing pepper in someone's face an expecting them not to sneeze.\n\nNo it’s not. You can easily (edited in) refrain from rolling your eyes, while it’s much more difficult to refrain from sneezing. \nIt’s fine to think whatever you want, but you might want to refrain from rolling your eyes when you’re, say, interacting with your boss; aka someone that can make you unemployed for whatever reason they please.", ">\n\nThis isn't an opinion. It's just flat wrong. \nIt is disrespectful because it is a conscious signifier which clearly communicated that you think that the thing you are rolling your eyes at is not worthy of respect.", ">\n\nYou have to go out of your way to roll your eyes. It is NOT gutteral or instinctual", ">\n\nIf you annoy me, my arm whips out in a natural reaction and slaps you.", ">\n\nSorry, kiddo, it’s 100% disrespectful. Just own the shit and quit trying to lawyer around it.\nI say that after having rolled my eyes so hard at your post, I travelled back in time.", ">\n\nTell that to my family lol you get the belt", ">\n\nThis was made my a 15 year old who just got told off by their mom about rolling their eyes. Then in defense said, “I can’t control it”", ">\n\nMan it's getting so aggressive sometimes here 😂", ">\n\ni certainly hope you are embarrassed about this in a couple years when you grow up.", ">\n\nOP is a habitual eye roller 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄", ">\n\nI wish to God we could block people by age, no more edgy 13yo’s", ">\n\nSomebody just got their ps5 taken away for rolling their eyes", ">\n\nTell me you're 12 without telling me you're 12.", ">\n\nit’s the definition of disrespectful and a sign that you have literally nothing intelligent to say in return. \nwhich is why we outgrow it as adults.", ">\n\nYou can control it. It’s not an “automatic response” unless you’ve taught yourself to do it. I never roll my eyes. It’s just not something I have ever practiced doing. And yes…if I’m saying something too you and you dismiss it with an eye roll…it’s super disrespectful.", ">\n\nrolling your eyes is just as respectful as sticking your tongue out at someone or making a stupid face in reaction to something someone says", ">\n\nIf you can’t control your eye movement, you need to see a neurologist, dude 😆. As it stands, eye rolling isn’t a reflex or a “natural reaction” to anything. Habits aren’t the same as involuntary reactions.\nRolling your eyes at someone is disrespectful. It’s an outward sign that you think something about your interaction with them was stupid or wrong. There’s no one here that will agree with you, and you know that you’re in the vast minority with this opinion because you posted it on this sub. Now learn some humility and accept that your opinion is factually incorrect based on science.", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nAre you like 14 and your mom got you in trouble cause you rolled your eyes at her? Lmao", ">\n\nI’m gonna show your mom this and it’s going to be another week of being grounded, you little shit lol", ">\n\nOmfg 😂", ">\n\nOP I have to ask.\n\n\nHow old are you?\n\n\nHow is your relationship with your parents?\n\n\nHow do you view authority figures in your life?", ">\n\nrolls eyes", ">\n\nIf you say or demand something stupid from me I will probably roll my eyes.", ">\n\nBut it is", ">\n\nJust like rolling your eyes is an innate response, so are other people's responses to you rolling your eyes.", ">\n\nSometimes being respectful requires hiding your subjective opinion on whether something is stupid or lame.", ">\n\nI wouldn’t say eye rolling is as involuntary as laughing or crying tho. It’s more of a choice.", ">\n\nIf someone rolls their eyes then I feel disrespected it’s a natural reaction.", ">\n\ntell me you're a teenager without telling me you're a teenager", ">\n\nI'm rolling my eyes at this post. And I definitely mean it disrespectfully.", ">\n\nLmao this kid had an argument with his parent(s) or teacher and is venting on Reddit.", ">\n\nYou sound like an eye rolling arsehole", ">\n\ni have never had an as a nonvoulentary action, it requires very explicit movement of you eye. this is like saying “when i dont like people, i punch them in the head, thats my natural reaction i cant control it”\ni have never once legitimately rolled my eyes at something, i think you might be an asshole", ">\n\nMe smacking your face is also an innate uncontrollable response to you rolling your eyes. I'm only human. What can I do? 🙄", ">\n\nI disagree. also there are a billion other ways to express something being stupid or lame than rolling ur eyes", ">\n\nStop downvoting, this is ACTUALLY a very unpopular opinion and I love to see it tbh. Voice your disagreement in the comments but don't downvote the post. This post is hilarious.", ">\n\nThis is something you’ve learned to do. It’s entirely in your control if you do it or not.", ">\n\nI once got a detention for rolling my eyes at a teacher in 4th grade.\nI agree with you, though. The only other person I've ever really rolled my eyes at was my mother, and she deserved it, every single time.", ">\n\nI get your point. I absolutely purposefully roll my eyes sometimes and whoever I'm doing it to would be valid for getting mad. \nBut as someone who can't hide any emotion on their face (literally any, I'm the definition of an open book) there have been plenty of times where people blew up at me or laughed because I rolled my eyes when I didn't even realize I had done it. Feel like the people disagreeing with you haven't experienced this problem.", ">\n\nWhat you've done is cultivate a bad habit and then blamed it on everyone else when you repeat your own bad habit unintentionally.\nThis is entirely your fault.", ">\n\nOnly on Reddit would someone so boldly declare something like this to a stranger. I'm on the spectrum so that might have to do with my not being able to hide any emotion (I truly mean that, people can basically read my thoughts just by looking at me, good and bad). \nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave. Consider working on that.", ">\n\nSo they point out you’re cultivating a bad habit and blaming other people so you then, blame them? It’s a little spot on don’t you think?", ">\n\nWhen did i blame them for my own actions? Could you quote me? I was just pointing out how weird it was that they made such a strong assumption of my character off a causal comment I left when they themselves were ironically being unnecessarily rude in the process. \nI don't know how you got so lost?", ">\n\n\nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave.\n\nClassic deflection and implication that they’re the one with the problem, not you", ">\n\nFirst its not automatic. I almost never rolled my eyes. Its much easier to control than laughing crying or sneezing. So you just dont make the effort. Its actually a way to express your feeling. You should know that, its your personnality not a human instinctive reaction. \nAnd yes not respecting something is disrespectful. Its not that hard to understand. \nAnyway if i see you.. i dont know having a breakdown after being fired and dumped and start to laugh you'd like that ? \nIf im sad because something good happens to you and show it to you, you would like that ? \nHonestly you are just trying to justify being a bit of a jerk. \nI dont blame you or anything we all are jerks sometime but its what you are doing right now.", ">\n\nI have to refocus my eyes and most of the time blinking doesn’t cut it. I have a lazy eye and when I look at someone for a long time it unfocuses, so moving the muscle is the only way to reset it. If I don’t, people start moving their heads/ bodies trying to focus on my lazy eye. It gets awkward.", ">\n\nThis is where I go to my training as a kid. What others think of you is none of your business.", ">\n\nUnless you have a tick or something like Tourette’s syndrome, then it’s not an involuntary response. Part of living in a society and not being considered rude is managing your body language.\nLet me put it this way. “Rudeness” in itself is a social concept. That means it’s decided by the perception of the masses, what we generally agree upon in terms of our symbols of communication, our customs, our beliefs, our values, etc. For you to say that rolling your eyes isn’t disrespectful is not objectively wrong. But according to the society you live in, it is wrong. In layman’s terms, the hill you’re dying on here is completely arbitrary, neither side will ever be truly correct but as long as you live in a society which feels this way then you will be beholden to it anyways.", ">\n\nTo be fair, if your thinking its stupid or lame, then that is dis-respect. I'd agree with this if it was worded like 'More people need to say what they truly think', but I think you sort of missed the mark, OP.", ">\n\nI am equally annoyed when folks rapidly blink and look away mid conversation or drop their arm dead against their thigh. It’s like you’ve given up an effort to even keep your body vertical and engaged while I’m talking to you.", ">\n\nOP getting downvoted AF & keeps commenting. Gotta love it.", ">\n\nIt is shown as a sign of disrespect and it shows weakness. I can’t imagine Gandhi, the queen of England or Einstein roll their eyes in front of random people. The reason why they were respected is because they didn’t play any superiority game on front of… inferiors or ignorant people. If something is stupid, get the patience and find enough love within yourself to treat the other ones right. \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a child because his question is “stupid”, what parent does it make you ? \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a bad question because you are an expert in a subject, then it is not your modesty that speaks but your ego. For proof : Even if someone you hate said something intelligent, you might want to roll your eyes just to flatter your ego.", ">\n\nIt's seen as disrespectful BECAUSE it's inadvertently telling them you think they're irritating/annoying.", ">\n\nI never roll my eyes? Is that something people do naturally?", ">\n\nAll depends on the context of what is going on.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is not a natural reaction?", ">\n\nNot maintaining basic self control is disrespectful. It's the same reason we don't defecate in public, sneeze on people, or stand in the way of foot traffic.", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s and one of my tics is eye rolling", ">\n\nK", ">\n\nI accidentally roll my eyes at people sometimes when I'm not even trying to", ">\n\nThe sign of a true unpopular opinion: Nobody upvoting it, but everybody commenting to say how they disagree. If you disagree, then give it an upvote. That's the point of this sub.", ">\n\nI think it depends.", ">\n\nThis had to be written by someone under the age of 25", ">\n\nRolling your eyes isn’t natural though. It’s cultural or socially learned if that makes sense. Like if you rolled your eyes at a tribe that is disconnected from society they wouldn’t understand that you’re annoyed. So you cant really compare it to laughing.", ">\n\nI'm kind of curious if this is true though. Are you assuming this, or do you have some kind of study proving this? I'd actually like to see if your hypothesis is true, or if remote tribes also use this facial gesture.", ">\n\nI’m assuming it. Back in my country Turkey if you rolled your eyes at my grandparents they would be confused and wonder what you were doing and what it meant.", ">\n\nit's a maturity thing, keep rolling your eyes at 30-40, everyone gonna see you like a kid. \nyou gotta control your emotions, there's no need to do a expression when something is stupid or lame, you got a mouth and you respectfully share what's wrong, if the person in the other end is reluctant to stay on the same boat even after you talk about it. then you don't roll your eyes, you gotta say that there's nothing more you can do, and that you don't agree with it, and most likely leave to dodge any sort of problem.", ">\n\nI have a tic where I constantly roll my eyes. I’ve had it since I was little, but never noticed it until years later when I high school teacher yelled at me for disrespect. Apparently my parents took me for evaluation when I was very young and diagnosed Tourette’s but never had any other tics develop. Would have been nice to know 🤦🏼‍♀️ I just apologize now and say it’s a compulsion if people ask. I don’t even know when I’m doing it", ">\n\nIs laughing disrespectful? Because it can be. Just like rolling your eyes can be. There is a time and place for everything", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a passive aggressive response. Passive aggression is a tactic used by meek people who are frustrated and don’t have the courage to address a given situation. It’s disrespectful and it lowers your standing in the social hierarchy." ]
> Yeah it is when I want to be disrespectful to someone I roll my eyes when they make a point. It might be annoying to them, but it also let's them know I don't give a shit about whatever they just said. Now, I would never to it to my boss, or my teachers while I was in college, but when I was a teen I did it all the time because I was an asshole, who didn't care. It's not a natural reaction lmao, it is learned behavior and it can be a bad habit, but it can be unlearned.	[ "🙄", ">\n\nYou’re grounded now", ">\n\nThe post above was someone getting electrocuted so this reply was very timely", ">\n\nThis news is shocking", ">\n\nIt definitely SPARKED my interest", ">\n\nAll of you guys need to leave, and not come back before learning how to conduct yourselves properly", ">\n\nUhhhh....... electricity", ">\n\nWell no, in the right context it is disrespectful. Rolling your eyes suggests that you're not taking the matter seriously or that you dont care which is a sign of disrespect towards whoever is speaking with you.", ">\n\nBut I can't control what I think. If I said \"man you're stupid and I don't care what you say\" thats disrespectful. I'm actually showing respect by not saying it.", ">\n\nI mean, actions speak louder than words, right?", ">\n\nIts not really an action tho its just an automatic response. Like gasping or yawning.", ">\n\nbullshit.\nSorry, it was an automatic response. Which is bullshit just like yours.", ">\n\nStill not the same thing. And they get on me for false analogies....", ">\n\nYou must be a teenager", ">\n\nLol how many times are you gonna post that. Dont you have an original thought of your own?", ">\n\nBruh I cant believe you make these posts. They're foolish", ">\n\nLaughing at someone can be disrespectful. Don't think so? Try laughing at someone's funeral.", ">\n\nThe disrespect comes from the one who told me a joke and made me laugh.", ">\n\nWhat about if no one said any joke? Because, you know, you are at a funeral.", ">\n\nSo someone's just there randomly laughing at shit? That sounds like a mental illness.", ">\n\nYou have never thought of something funny in your head to make yourself laugh? \nOr hell, maybe you didn't like the person who is buried and decided to laugh at them. You find it funny, so laughing must be appropriate, right?", ">\n\nWhy am I thinking about funny shit at a funeral.", ">\n\nBecause the universe likes to put us in uncomfortable positions sometimes.", ">\n\n“if its stupid or lame, you roll your eyes” - you found the disrespect", ">\n\nIm allowed to think whatever i want and its not disrespectful.", ">\n\nWhen you express contempt for something someone else said, it's disrespect.", ">\n\nWhat if what they said is contemptible?", ">\n\nSome people and comments deserve disrespect, still gonna be disrespect", ">\n\nLaughing, crying, and sneezing are all innate, involuntary reactions to certain types of stimuli. Rolling your eyes is a learned behavior. You can’t compare it to those other automatic responses because it’s not the same thing.", ">\n\nTake my upvote", ">\n\nOP rolled their eyes at someone and got chewed out for it.\nNow they're going online in an attempt to validate themselves.\n🙄", ">\n\nProbably got grounded.", ">\n\nPart of being a mature adult is to have self-control and not acting on every impulse and being respectful of people.", ">\n\n\nPart of being a mature adult\n\nYup but OP is clearly a teenager lol. They complain about being told off for doing chores wrong in another post…", ">\n\nEven a teenager should be able to have the fundamental basics of respect", ">\n\nOh I agree 100%", ">\n\nYou have poor self-control and poor self-awareness but the good news is that you can improve these things.", ">\n\n/r/wrongopinions", ">\n\nI feel like we need a new subreddit r/unpopularforareason", ">\n\nIt’s entire purpose is to be disrespectful. Nobody eyerolls something they respect. But how offensive it is depends on the context and how serious one is being.", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes\n\nYou rn: \"I'm not being disrespectful. I just thought what you said was stupid or lame.\"\n...", ">\n\nSaying its stupid could be disrespectful. A facial response is not.", ">\n\nLiterally every person in this thread agrees that it is.\nThis is your bad habit. Nobody else's responsibility but you.", ">\n\nThey can choose to not fly off the handle at what is just an innate reaction.", ">\n\nSo let me get this straight: you think you deserve to be able to disrespect whoever you like whenever you like but they can't as much as say you're being rude? Grow up.", ">\n\nFound the teenager.", ">\n\nMeh, I agree with that one. If you don't like how someone is doing something then do it yourself. There's a reason I live alone.", ">\n\nIt is a UNIVERSAL sign of disrespect. Globally. Deal with it.", ">\n\nLaughing can be disrespectuful too. If you cannot control your own reactions, well, what can I say, maybe you have not really grown up?", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s so it’s hard to control my own actions sometimes…", ">\n\nThank u I'm trying to explain how autism can make it hard to read not just others facial expressions but also ur own and it seems like no one has thought of the possibility that they acc don't realise it or csnt control it", ">\n\nWould you roll your eyes during a job interview if you thought a question was stupid or irrelevant? Do you think you’d get the job if you did?", ">\n\nPretty sure OP would think they were owed that job and they would think it’s ridiculous if they didn’t get it.\nOP is also a teenager going through their rebel phase though", ">\n\nYou're oddly specific here.", ">\n\nWhat was specific? Or rather oddly specific?", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a good way to fast track yourself to a divorce, if you want one.", ">\n\nI think OP needs the definition of respect before any further comment is made", ">\n\nOh I already know it, and I know it does not mean:\nDon't ever disagree with me\nDon't think bad thoughts about me\nDon't ever correct me when I'm blatantly wrong \nShine my boots with your tongue", ">\n\nSoooo this post isn’t about eye rolling is what I’m getting from this. You’ve got issues to work through with your parents or partner or something", ">\n\nSince when tf was eye rolling involuntary?", ">", ">\n\nYour lack of self control is not a justification for disrespect. I personally dont know anyone who reacts to anything by rolling their eyes. Just be mature and communicate.", ">\n\nAnd what if it's not stupid and someone rolls their eyes? Wouldn't it be disrespectful in that case?", ">\n\nIn the eye rollers opinion then it must have been. But you can't fault someone for thinking its stupid.", ">\n\nSo eyerolling is some kind of exceptional thing that is free from criticism? \nIf one has the freedom to eye roll, then someone else has the freedom to criticize the eye roller right? \nOr is it your opinion that besides that everyone who sees an eye roller has to just stfu", ">\n\nMeh, it is disrespectful. It's a way to be disrespectful without having to say That's the dumbest thing I've heard all month, and everyone else who heard it is also dumber for hearing it as well.", ">\n\nBut I didn't say it that's the point.", ">\n\nJust cuz you don’t use words doesn’t mean it’s not disrespectful. Walking away while someone is talking to you, rolling your eyes, slapping someone, and starting to play a game on your phone while someone is talking to you are all disrespectful. It doesn’t matter that you didn’t say anything, your lack of respect still showed.", ">\n\nespecially the way theyre responding to comments", ">\n\nYeah, a natural reaction if you’ve never learned to manage your emotions as opposed to letting them run your life. I’m not talking about being totally monotone rational, either. You need to learn a balance between rational and emotional…which includes healthy, appropriate, respectful expression of honest feelings. Eye rolling is absolutely disrespectful, belittling, and dismissive.", ">\n\nComments: OP is completely wrong and has attitude issues", ">\n\nWhat sounds like mental illness is you refusing to admit that rolling your eyes is simply not an unconditional response. Whether you want to believe it or not, you are doing it intentionally and you can control it. \nYou’re just to much of a b—— to do so.", ">\n\nSame to you", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a learned reaction. Not natural. I rarely of ever roll my eyes at anything.", ">", ">\n\nJust like raising your middle finger. Or vocalizing the sounds \"fuck you\". Or fingers typing the words fuck you OP. Nothing is disrespectful!", ">\n\nNice try but not the same thing at all. You're talking about thought out actions here. The eye roll is more like a reaction. Its quick, its automatic, no one has to think \"im rolling my eyes now\" it just happens. \nSort of like when telling a lie - no one decides to have their eyes dart around suspiciously, it just happens.", ">\n\nNo. Rolling your eyes is not involuntary. It can be controlled. You have a bad habit that you CAN stop. Much like a child learning not to suck their thumb, or biting your nails.", ">\n\nHow about you start with your hair scratching", ">\n\nYour opinion is a contradiction in itself. And, yeah. I disagree. Rolling your eyes is 100% to show lack of respect, and you have no intentions of showing it, even to reason, by rolling your eyes at something someone could believe is meaningful or important. Even if it is stupid.\nI get your point, we roll our eyes to express how we feel, but it is still a physical snare. You say rolling your eyes isn't disrespectful, while saying it's okay to roll your eyes because something is \" stupid or lame\", which in itself is disrespectful. You sound like a very young person in the middle of a learning moment, and you're trying to react with rebellion. It only shows that you lack maturity and are in need of growth. This might be a time for you to read these comments and reevaluate. There are healthier ways to react to things you disagree with, or lack interest in. If not, you can just accept that you roll your eyes to show lack of respect.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is much more deliberate than laughter, tears, or sneezing. It's a conscious action in response to a judgement you're making.", ">\n\nNah, dude it is disrespectful \nYou just have no self control and by the looks of it you don't want to build some", ">\n\nYour post made me roll my eyes very hard.", ">\n\n“No, officer, my wife - she MADE me hit her!”", ">\n\nIt's a natural reaction for a sooky kid but not an adult, if you do that as an adult you just manchild that wants everything their way", ">\n\npoor OP.... did you get in trouble after you rolled your eyes at something again? did you not prehaps learn from previous interactions? rolling your eyes at something \"stupid or lame\" is an intentional response that is disrespectful to whatever it is. mature people dont act that way.....", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes.\n\nSo it is disrespectful. \n\nIts like throwing pepper in someone's face an expecting them not to sneeze.\n\nNo it’s not. You can easily (edited in) refrain from rolling your eyes, while it’s much more difficult to refrain from sneezing. \nIt’s fine to think whatever you want, but you might want to refrain from rolling your eyes when you’re, say, interacting with your boss; aka someone that can make you unemployed for whatever reason they please.", ">\n\nThis isn't an opinion. It's just flat wrong. \nIt is disrespectful because it is a conscious signifier which clearly communicated that you think that the thing you are rolling your eyes at is not worthy of respect.", ">\n\nYou have to go out of your way to roll your eyes. It is NOT gutteral or instinctual", ">\n\nIf you annoy me, my arm whips out in a natural reaction and slaps you.", ">\n\nSorry, kiddo, it’s 100% disrespectful. Just own the shit and quit trying to lawyer around it.\nI say that after having rolled my eyes so hard at your post, I travelled back in time.", ">\n\nTell that to my family lol you get the belt", ">\n\nThis was made my a 15 year old who just got told off by their mom about rolling their eyes. Then in defense said, “I can’t control it”", ">\n\nMan it's getting so aggressive sometimes here 😂", ">\n\ni certainly hope you are embarrassed about this in a couple years when you grow up.", ">\n\nOP is a habitual eye roller 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄", ">\n\nI wish to God we could block people by age, no more edgy 13yo’s", ">\n\nSomebody just got their ps5 taken away for rolling their eyes", ">\n\nTell me you're 12 without telling me you're 12.", ">\n\nit’s the definition of disrespectful and a sign that you have literally nothing intelligent to say in return. \nwhich is why we outgrow it as adults.", ">\n\nYou can control it. It’s not an “automatic response” unless you’ve taught yourself to do it. I never roll my eyes. It’s just not something I have ever practiced doing. And yes…if I’m saying something too you and you dismiss it with an eye roll…it’s super disrespectful.", ">\n\nrolling your eyes is just as respectful as sticking your tongue out at someone or making a stupid face in reaction to something someone says", ">\n\nIf you can’t control your eye movement, you need to see a neurologist, dude 😆. As it stands, eye rolling isn’t a reflex or a “natural reaction” to anything. Habits aren’t the same as involuntary reactions.\nRolling your eyes at someone is disrespectful. It’s an outward sign that you think something about your interaction with them was stupid or wrong. There’s no one here that will agree with you, and you know that you’re in the vast minority with this opinion because you posted it on this sub. Now learn some humility and accept that your opinion is factually incorrect based on science.", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nAre you like 14 and your mom got you in trouble cause you rolled your eyes at her? Lmao", ">\n\nI’m gonna show your mom this and it’s going to be another week of being grounded, you little shit lol", ">\n\nOmfg 😂", ">\n\nOP I have to ask.\n\n\nHow old are you?\n\n\nHow is your relationship with your parents?\n\n\nHow do you view authority figures in your life?", ">\n\nrolls eyes", ">\n\nIf you say or demand something stupid from me I will probably roll my eyes.", ">\n\nBut it is", ">\n\nJust like rolling your eyes is an innate response, so are other people's responses to you rolling your eyes.", ">\n\nSometimes being respectful requires hiding your subjective opinion on whether something is stupid or lame.", ">\n\nI wouldn’t say eye rolling is as involuntary as laughing or crying tho. It’s more of a choice.", ">\n\nIf someone rolls their eyes then I feel disrespected it’s a natural reaction.", ">\n\ntell me you're a teenager without telling me you're a teenager", ">\n\nI'm rolling my eyes at this post. And I definitely mean it disrespectfully.", ">\n\nLmao this kid had an argument with his parent(s) or teacher and is venting on Reddit.", ">\n\nYou sound like an eye rolling arsehole", ">\n\ni have never had an as a nonvoulentary action, it requires very explicit movement of you eye. this is like saying “when i dont like people, i punch them in the head, thats my natural reaction i cant control it”\ni have never once legitimately rolled my eyes at something, i think you might be an asshole", ">\n\nMe smacking your face is also an innate uncontrollable response to you rolling your eyes. I'm only human. What can I do? 🙄", ">\n\nI disagree. also there are a billion other ways to express something being stupid or lame than rolling ur eyes", ">\n\nStop downvoting, this is ACTUALLY a very unpopular opinion and I love to see it tbh. Voice your disagreement in the comments but don't downvote the post. This post is hilarious.", ">\n\nThis is something you’ve learned to do. It’s entirely in your control if you do it or not.", ">\n\nI once got a detention for rolling my eyes at a teacher in 4th grade.\nI agree with you, though. The only other person I've ever really rolled my eyes at was my mother, and she deserved it, every single time.", ">\n\nI get your point. I absolutely purposefully roll my eyes sometimes and whoever I'm doing it to would be valid for getting mad. \nBut as someone who can't hide any emotion on their face (literally any, I'm the definition of an open book) there have been plenty of times where people blew up at me or laughed because I rolled my eyes when I didn't even realize I had done it. Feel like the people disagreeing with you haven't experienced this problem.", ">\n\nWhat you've done is cultivate a bad habit and then blamed it on everyone else when you repeat your own bad habit unintentionally.\nThis is entirely your fault.", ">\n\nOnly on Reddit would someone so boldly declare something like this to a stranger. I'm on the spectrum so that might have to do with my not being able to hide any emotion (I truly mean that, people can basically read my thoughts just by looking at me, good and bad). \nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave. Consider working on that.", ">\n\nSo they point out you’re cultivating a bad habit and blaming other people so you then, blame them? It’s a little spot on don’t you think?", ">\n\nWhen did i blame them for my own actions? Could you quote me? I was just pointing out how weird it was that they made such a strong assumption of my character off a causal comment I left when they themselves were ironically being unnecessarily rude in the process. \nI don't know how you got so lost?", ">\n\n\nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave.\n\nClassic deflection and implication that they’re the one with the problem, not you", ">\n\nFirst its not automatic. I almost never rolled my eyes. Its much easier to control than laughing crying or sneezing. So you just dont make the effort. Its actually a way to express your feeling. You should know that, its your personnality not a human instinctive reaction. \nAnd yes not respecting something is disrespectful. Its not that hard to understand. \nAnyway if i see you.. i dont know having a breakdown after being fired and dumped and start to laugh you'd like that ? \nIf im sad because something good happens to you and show it to you, you would like that ? \nHonestly you are just trying to justify being a bit of a jerk. \nI dont blame you or anything we all are jerks sometime but its what you are doing right now.", ">\n\nI have to refocus my eyes and most of the time blinking doesn’t cut it. I have a lazy eye and when I look at someone for a long time it unfocuses, so moving the muscle is the only way to reset it. If I don’t, people start moving their heads/ bodies trying to focus on my lazy eye. It gets awkward.", ">\n\nThis is where I go to my training as a kid. What others think of you is none of your business.", ">\n\nUnless you have a tick or something like Tourette’s syndrome, then it’s not an involuntary response. Part of living in a society and not being considered rude is managing your body language.\nLet me put it this way. “Rudeness” in itself is a social concept. That means it’s decided by the perception of the masses, what we generally agree upon in terms of our symbols of communication, our customs, our beliefs, our values, etc. For you to say that rolling your eyes isn’t disrespectful is not objectively wrong. But according to the society you live in, it is wrong. In layman’s terms, the hill you’re dying on here is completely arbitrary, neither side will ever be truly correct but as long as you live in a society which feels this way then you will be beholden to it anyways.", ">\n\nTo be fair, if your thinking its stupid or lame, then that is dis-respect. I'd agree with this if it was worded like 'More people need to say what they truly think', but I think you sort of missed the mark, OP.", ">\n\nI am equally annoyed when folks rapidly blink and look away mid conversation or drop their arm dead against their thigh. It’s like you’ve given up an effort to even keep your body vertical and engaged while I’m talking to you.", ">\n\nOP getting downvoted AF & keeps commenting. Gotta love it.", ">\n\nIt is shown as a sign of disrespect and it shows weakness. I can’t imagine Gandhi, the queen of England or Einstein roll their eyes in front of random people. The reason why they were respected is because they didn’t play any superiority game on front of… inferiors or ignorant people. If something is stupid, get the patience and find enough love within yourself to treat the other ones right. \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a child because his question is “stupid”, what parent does it make you ? \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a bad question because you are an expert in a subject, then it is not your modesty that speaks but your ego. For proof : Even if someone you hate said something intelligent, you might want to roll your eyes just to flatter your ego.", ">\n\nIt's seen as disrespectful BECAUSE it's inadvertently telling them you think they're irritating/annoying.", ">\n\nI never roll my eyes? Is that something people do naturally?", ">\n\nAll depends on the context of what is going on.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is not a natural reaction?", ">\n\nNot maintaining basic self control is disrespectful. It's the same reason we don't defecate in public, sneeze on people, or stand in the way of foot traffic.", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s and one of my tics is eye rolling", ">\n\nK", ">\n\nI accidentally roll my eyes at people sometimes when I'm not even trying to", ">\n\nThe sign of a true unpopular opinion: Nobody upvoting it, but everybody commenting to say how they disagree. If you disagree, then give it an upvote. That's the point of this sub.", ">\n\nI think it depends.", ">\n\nThis had to be written by someone under the age of 25", ">\n\nRolling your eyes isn’t natural though. It’s cultural or socially learned if that makes sense. Like if you rolled your eyes at a tribe that is disconnected from society they wouldn’t understand that you’re annoyed. So you cant really compare it to laughing.", ">\n\nI'm kind of curious if this is true though. Are you assuming this, or do you have some kind of study proving this? I'd actually like to see if your hypothesis is true, or if remote tribes also use this facial gesture.", ">\n\nI’m assuming it. Back in my country Turkey if you rolled your eyes at my grandparents they would be confused and wonder what you were doing and what it meant.", ">\n\nit's a maturity thing, keep rolling your eyes at 30-40, everyone gonna see you like a kid. \nyou gotta control your emotions, there's no need to do a expression when something is stupid or lame, you got a mouth and you respectfully share what's wrong, if the person in the other end is reluctant to stay on the same boat even after you talk about it. then you don't roll your eyes, you gotta say that there's nothing more you can do, and that you don't agree with it, and most likely leave to dodge any sort of problem.", ">\n\nI have a tic where I constantly roll my eyes. I’ve had it since I was little, but never noticed it until years later when I high school teacher yelled at me for disrespect. Apparently my parents took me for evaluation when I was very young and diagnosed Tourette’s but never had any other tics develop. Would have been nice to know 🤦🏼‍♀️ I just apologize now and say it’s a compulsion if people ask. I don’t even know when I’m doing it", ">\n\nIs laughing disrespectful? Because it can be. Just like rolling your eyes can be. There is a time and place for everything", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a passive aggressive response. Passive aggression is a tactic used by meek people who are frustrated and don’t have the courage to address a given situation. It’s disrespectful and it lowers your standing in the social hierarchy.", ">\n\nGet back to me when Disney Dad actively encourages your offspring to roll their eyes at you." ]
> Some people can’t control it I know with me sometimes I roll my eyes without meaning too it’s not that I’m trying to be rude it’s just something I didn’t even realize I was doing nor did I mean too	[ "🙄", ">\n\nYou’re grounded now", ">\n\nThe post above was someone getting electrocuted so this reply was very timely", ">\n\nThis news is shocking", ">\n\nIt definitely SPARKED my interest", ">\n\nAll of you guys need to leave, and not come back before learning how to conduct yourselves properly", ">\n\nUhhhh....... electricity", ">\n\nWell no, in the right context it is disrespectful. Rolling your eyes suggests that you're not taking the matter seriously or that you dont care which is a sign of disrespect towards whoever is speaking with you.", ">\n\nBut I can't control what I think. If I said \"man you're stupid and I don't care what you say\" thats disrespectful. I'm actually showing respect by not saying it.", ">\n\nI mean, actions speak louder than words, right?", ">\n\nIts not really an action tho its just an automatic response. Like gasping or yawning.", ">\n\nbullshit.\nSorry, it was an automatic response. Which is bullshit just like yours.", ">\n\nStill not the same thing. And they get on me for false analogies....", ">\n\nYou must be a teenager", ">\n\nLol how many times are you gonna post that. Dont you have an original thought of your own?", ">\n\nBruh I cant believe you make these posts. They're foolish", ">\n\nLaughing at someone can be disrespectful. Don't think so? Try laughing at someone's funeral.", ">\n\nThe disrespect comes from the one who told me a joke and made me laugh.", ">\n\nWhat about if no one said any joke? Because, you know, you are at a funeral.", ">\n\nSo someone's just there randomly laughing at shit? That sounds like a mental illness.", ">\n\nYou have never thought of something funny in your head to make yourself laugh? \nOr hell, maybe you didn't like the person who is buried and decided to laugh at them. You find it funny, so laughing must be appropriate, right?", ">\n\nWhy am I thinking about funny shit at a funeral.", ">\n\nBecause the universe likes to put us in uncomfortable positions sometimes.", ">\n\n“if its stupid or lame, you roll your eyes” - you found the disrespect", ">\n\nIm allowed to think whatever i want and its not disrespectful.", ">\n\nWhen you express contempt for something someone else said, it's disrespect.", ">\n\nWhat if what they said is contemptible?", ">\n\nSome people and comments deserve disrespect, still gonna be disrespect", ">\n\nLaughing, crying, and sneezing are all innate, involuntary reactions to certain types of stimuli. Rolling your eyes is a learned behavior. You can’t compare it to those other automatic responses because it’s not the same thing.", ">\n\nTake my upvote", ">\n\nOP rolled their eyes at someone and got chewed out for it.\nNow they're going online in an attempt to validate themselves.\n🙄", ">\n\nProbably got grounded.", ">\n\nPart of being a mature adult is to have self-control and not acting on every impulse and being respectful of people.", ">\n\n\nPart of being a mature adult\n\nYup but OP is clearly a teenager lol. They complain about being told off for doing chores wrong in another post…", ">\n\nEven a teenager should be able to have the fundamental basics of respect", ">\n\nOh I agree 100%", ">\n\nYou have poor self-control and poor self-awareness but the good news is that you can improve these things.", ">\n\n/r/wrongopinions", ">\n\nI feel like we need a new subreddit r/unpopularforareason", ">\n\nIt’s entire purpose is to be disrespectful. Nobody eyerolls something they respect. But how offensive it is depends on the context and how serious one is being.", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes\n\nYou rn: \"I'm not being disrespectful. I just thought what you said was stupid or lame.\"\n...", ">\n\nSaying its stupid could be disrespectful. A facial response is not.", ">\n\nLiterally every person in this thread agrees that it is.\nThis is your bad habit. Nobody else's responsibility but you.", ">\n\nThey can choose to not fly off the handle at what is just an innate reaction.", ">\n\nSo let me get this straight: you think you deserve to be able to disrespect whoever you like whenever you like but they can't as much as say you're being rude? Grow up.", ">\n\nFound the teenager.", ">\n\nMeh, I agree with that one. If you don't like how someone is doing something then do it yourself. There's a reason I live alone.", ">\n\nIt is a UNIVERSAL sign of disrespect. Globally. Deal with it.", ">\n\nLaughing can be disrespectuful too. If you cannot control your own reactions, well, what can I say, maybe you have not really grown up?", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s so it’s hard to control my own actions sometimes…", ">\n\nThank u I'm trying to explain how autism can make it hard to read not just others facial expressions but also ur own and it seems like no one has thought of the possibility that they acc don't realise it or csnt control it", ">\n\nWould you roll your eyes during a job interview if you thought a question was stupid or irrelevant? Do you think you’d get the job if you did?", ">\n\nPretty sure OP would think they were owed that job and they would think it’s ridiculous if they didn’t get it.\nOP is also a teenager going through their rebel phase though", ">\n\nYou're oddly specific here.", ">\n\nWhat was specific? Or rather oddly specific?", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a good way to fast track yourself to a divorce, if you want one.", ">\n\nI think OP needs the definition of respect before any further comment is made", ">\n\nOh I already know it, and I know it does not mean:\nDon't ever disagree with me\nDon't think bad thoughts about me\nDon't ever correct me when I'm blatantly wrong \nShine my boots with your tongue", ">\n\nSoooo this post isn’t about eye rolling is what I’m getting from this. You’ve got issues to work through with your parents or partner or something", ">\n\nSince when tf was eye rolling involuntary?", ">", ">\n\nYour lack of self control is not a justification for disrespect. I personally dont know anyone who reacts to anything by rolling their eyes. Just be mature and communicate.", ">\n\nAnd what if it's not stupid and someone rolls their eyes? Wouldn't it be disrespectful in that case?", ">\n\nIn the eye rollers opinion then it must have been. But you can't fault someone for thinking its stupid.", ">\n\nSo eyerolling is some kind of exceptional thing that is free from criticism? \nIf one has the freedom to eye roll, then someone else has the freedom to criticize the eye roller right? \nOr is it your opinion that besides that everyone who sees an eye roller has to just stfu", ">\n\nMeh, it is disrespectful. It's a way to be disrespectful without having to say That's the dumbest thing I've heard all month, and everyone else who heard it is also dumber for hearing it as well.", ">\n\nBut I didn't say it that's the point.", ">\n\nJust cuz you don’t use words doesn’t mean it’s not disrespectful. Walking away while someone is talking to you, rolling your eyes, slapping someone, and starting to play a game on your phone while someone is talking to you are all disrespectful. It doesn’t matter that you didn’t say anything, your lack of respect still showed.", ">\n\nespecially the way theyre responding to comments", ">\n\nYeah, a natural reaction if you’ve never learned to manage your emotions as opposed to letting them run your life. I’m not talking about being totally monotone rational, either. You need to learn a balance between rational and emotional…which includes healthy, appropriate, respectful expression of honest feelings. Eye rolling is absolutely disrespectful, belittling, and dismissive.", ">\n\nComments: OP is completely wrong and has attitude issues", ">\n\nWhat sounds like mental illness is you refusing to admit that rolling your eyes is simply not an unconditional response. Whether you want to believe it or not, you are doing it intentionally and you can control it. \nYou’re just to much of a b—— to do so.", ">\n\nSame to you", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a learned reaction. Not natural. I rarely of ever roll my eyes at anything.", ">", ">\n\nJust like raising your middle finger. Or vocalizing the sounds \"fuck you\". Or fingers typing the words fuck you OP. Nothing is disrespectful!", ">\n\nNice try but not the same thing at all. You're talking about thought out actions here. The eye roll is more like a reaction. Its quick, its automatic, no one has to think \"im rolling my eyes now\" it just happens. \nSort of like when telling a lie - no one decides to have their eyes dart around suspiciously, it just happens.", ">\n\nNo. Rolling your eyes is not involuntary. It can be controlled. You have a bad habit that you CAN stop. Much like a child learning not to suck their thumb, or biting your nails.", ">\n\nHow about you start with your hair scratching", ">\n\nYour opinion is a contradiction in itself. And, yeah. I disagree. Rolling your eyes is 100% to show lack of respect, and you have no intentions of showing it, even to reason, by rolling your eyes at something someone could believe is meaningful or important. Even if it is stupid.\nI get your point, we roll our eyes to express how we feel, but it is still a physical snare. You say rolling your eyes isn't disrespectful, while saying it's okay to roll your eyes because something is \" stupid or lame\", which in itself is disrespectful. You sound like a very young person in the middle of a learning moment, and you're trying to react with rebellion. It only shows that you lack maturity and are in need of growth. This might be a time for you to read these comments and reevaluate. There are healthier ways to react to things you disagree with, or lack interest in. If not, you can just accept that you roll your eyes to show lack of respect.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is much more deliberate than laughter, tears, or sneezing. It's a conscious action in response to a judgement you're making.", ">\n\nNah, dude it is disrespectful \nYou just have no self control and by the looks of it you don't want to build some", ">\n\nYour post made me roll my eyes very hard.", ">\n\n“No, officer, my wife - she MADE me hit her!”", ">\n\nIt's a natural reaction for a sooky kid but not an adult, if you do that as an adult you just manchild that wants everything their way", ">\n\npoor OP.... did you get in trouble after you rolled your eyes at something again? did you not prehaps learn from previous interactions? rolling your eyes at something \"stupid or lame\" is an intentional response that is disrespectful to whatever it is. mature people dont act that way.....", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes.\n\nSo it is disrespectful. \n\nIts like throwing pepper in someone's face an expecting them not to sneeze.\n\nNo it’s not. You can easily (edited in) refrain from rolling your eyes, while it’s much more difficult to refrain from sneezing. \nIt’s fine to think whatever you want, but you might want to refrain from rolling your eyes when you’re, say, interacting with your boss; aka someone that can make you unemployed for whatever reason they please.", ">\n\nThis isn't an opinion. It's just flat wrong. \nIt is disrespectful because it is a conscious signifier which clearly communicated that you think that the thing you are rolling your eyes at is not worthy of respect.", ">\n\nYou have to go out of your way to roll your eyes. It is NOT gutteral or instinctual", ">\n\nIf you annoy me, my arm whips out in a natural reaction and slaps you.", ">\n\nSorry, kiddo, it’s 100% disrespectful. Just own the shit and quit trying to lawyer around it.\nI say that after having rolled my eyes so hard at your post, I travelled back in time.", ">\n\nTell that to my family lol you get the belt", ">\n\nThis was made my a 15 year old who just got told off by their mom about rolling their eyes. Then in defense said, “I can’t control it”", ">\n\nMan it's getting so aggressive sometimes here 😂", ">\n\ni certainly hope you are embarrassed about this in a couple years when you grow up.", ">\n\nOP is a habitual eye roller 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄", ">\n\nI wish to God we could block people by age, no more edgy 13yo’s", ">\n\nSomebody just got their ps5 taken away for rolling their eyes", ">\n\nTell me you're 12 without telling me you're 12.", ">\n\nit’s the definition of disrespectful and a sign that you have literally nothing intelligent to say in return. \nwhich is why we outgrow it as adults.", ">\n\nYou can control it. It’s not an “automatic response” unless you’ve taught yourself to do it. I never roll my eyes. It’s just not something I have ever practiced doing. And yes…if I’m saying something too you and you dismiss it with an eye roll…it’s super disrespectful.", ">\n\nrolling your eyes is just as respectful as sticking your tongue out at someone or making a stupid face in reaction to something someone says", ">\n\nIf you can’t control your eye movement, you need to see a neurologist, dude 😆. As it stands, eye rolling isn’t a reflex or a “natural reaction” to anything. Habits aren’t the same as involuntary reactions.\nRolling your eyes at someone is disrespectful. It’s an outward sign that you think something about your interaction with them was stupid or wrong. There’s no one here that will agree with you, and you know that you’re in the vast minority with this opinion because you posted it on this sub. Now learn some humility and accept that your opinion is factually incorrect based on science.", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nAre you like 14 and your mom got you in trouble cause you rolled your eyes at her? Lmao", ">\n\nI’m gonna show your mom this and it’s going to be another week of being grounded, you little shit lol", ">\n\nOmfg 😂", ">\n\nOP I have to ask.\n\n\nHow old are you?\n\n\nHow is your relationship with your parents?\n\n\nHow do you view authority figures in your life?", ">\n\nrolls eyes", ">\n\nIf you say or demand something stupid from me I will probably roll my eyes.", ">\n\nBut it is", ">\n\nJust like rolling your eyes is an innate response, so are other people's responses to you rolling your eyes.", ">\n\nSometimes being respectful requires hiding your subjective opinion on whether something is stupid or lame.", ">\n\nI wouldn’t say eye rolling is as involuntary as laughing or crying tho. It’s more of a choice.", ">\n\nIf someone rolls their eyes then I feel disrespected it’s a natural reaction.", ">\n\ntell me you're a teenager without telling me you're a teenager", ">\n\nI'm rolling my eyes at this post. And I definitely mean it disrespectfully.", ">\n\nLmao this kid had an argument with his parent(s) or teacher and is venting on Reddit.", ">\n\nYou sound like an eye rolling arsehole", ">\n\ni have never had an as a nonvoulentary action, it requires very explicit movement of you eye. this is like saying “when i dont like people, i punch them in the head, thats my natural reaction i cant control it”\ni have never once legitimately rolled my eyes at something, i think you might be an asshole", ">\n\nMe smacking your face is also an innate uncontrollable response to you rolling your eyes. I'm only human. What can I do? 🙄", ">\n\nI disagree. also there are a billion other ways to express something being stupid or lame than rolling ur eyes", ">\n\nStop downvoting, this is ACTUALLY a very unpopular opinion and I love to see it tbh. Voice your disagreement in the comments but don't downvote the post. This post is hilarious.", ">\n\nThis is something you’ve learned to do. It’s entirely in your control if you do it or not.", ">\n\nI once got a detention for rolling my eyes at a teacher in 4th grade.\nI agree with you, though. The only other person I've ever really rolled my eyes at was my mother, and she deserved it, every single time.", ">\n\nI get your point. I absolutely purposefully roll my eyes sometimes and whoever I'm doing it to would be valid for getting mad. \nBut as someone who can't hide any emotion on their face (literally any, I'm the definition of an open book) there have been plenty of times where people blew up at me or laughed because I rolled my eyes when I didn't even realize I had done it. Feel like the people disagreeing with you haven't experienced this problem.", ">\n\nWhat you've done is cultivate a bad habit and then blamed it on everyone else when you repeat your own bad habit unintentionally.\nThis is entirely your fault.", ">\n\nOnly on Reddit would someone so boldly declare something like this to a stranger. I'm on the spectrum so that might have to do with my not being able to hide any emotion (I truly mean that, people can basically read my thoughts just by looking at me, good and bad). \nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave. Consider working on that.", ">\n\nSo they point out you’re cultivating a bad habit and blaming other people so you then, blame them? It’s a little spot on don’t you think?", ">\n\nWhen did i blame them for my own actions? Could you quote me? I was just pointing out how weird it was that they made such a strong assumption of my character off a causal comment I left when they themselves were ironically being unnecessarily rude in the process. \nI don't know how you got so lost?", ">\n\n\nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave.\n\nClassic deflection and implication that they’re the one with the problem, not you", ">\n\nFirst its not automatic. I almost never rolled my eyes. Its much easier to control than laughing crying or sneezing. So you just dont make the effort. Its actually a way to express your feeling. You should know that, its your personnality not a human instinctive reaction. \nAnd yes not respecting something is disrespectful. Its not that hard to understand. \nAnyway if i see you.. i dont know having a breakdown after being fired and dumped and start to laugh you'd like that ? \nIf im sad because something good happens to you and show it to you, you would like that ? \nHonestly you are just trying to justify being a bit of a jerk. \nI dont blame you or anything we all are jerks sometime but its what you are doing right now.", ">\n\nI have to refocus my eyes and most of the time blinking doesn’t cut it. I have a lazy eye and when I look at someone for a long time it unfocuses, so moving the muscle is the only way to reset it. If I don’t, people start moving their heads/ bodies trying to focus on my lazy eye. It gets awkward.", ">\n\nThis is where I go to my training as a kid. What others think of you is none of your business.", ">\n\nUnless you have a tick or something like Tourette’s syndrome, then it’s not an involuntary response. Part of living in a society and not being considered rude is managing your body language.\nLet me put it this way. “Rudeness” in itself is a social concept. That means it’s decided by the perception of the masses, what we generally agree upon in terms of our symbols of communication, our customs, our beliefs, our values, etc. For you to say that rolling your eyes isn’t disrespectful is not objectively wrong. But according to the society you live in, it is wrong. In layman’s terms, the hill you’re dying on here is completely arbitrary, neither side will ever be truly correct but as long as you live in a society which feels this way then you will be beholden to it anyways.", ">\n\nTo be fair, if your thinking its stupid or lame, then that is dis-respect. I'd agree with this if it was worded like 'More people need to say what they truly think', but I think you sort of missed the mark, OP.", ">\n\nI am equally annoyed when folks rapidly blink and look away mid conversation or drop their arm dead against their thigh. It’s like you’ve given up an effort to even keep your body vertical and engaged while I’m talking to you.", ">\n\nOP getting downvoted AF & keeps commenting. Gotta love it.", ">\n\nIt is shown as a sign of disrespect and it shows weakness. I can’t imagine Gandhi, the queen of England or Einstein roll their eyes in front of random people. The reason why they were respected is because they didn’t play any superiority game on front of… inferiors or ignorant people. If something is stupid, get the patience and find enough love within yourself to treat the other ones right. \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a child because his question is “stupid”, what parent does it make you ? \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a bad question because you are an expert in a subject, then it is not your modesty that speaks but your ego. For proof : Even if someone you hate said something intelligent, you might want to roll your eyes just to flatter your ego.", ">\n\nIt's seen as disrespectful BECAUSE it's inadvertently telling them you think they're irritating/annoying.", ">\n\nI never roll my eyes? Is that something people do naturally?", ">\n\nAll depends on the context of what is going on.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is not a natural reaction?", ">\n\nNot maintaining basic self control is disrespectful. It's the same reason we don't defecate in public, sneeze on people, or stand in the way of foot traffic.", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s and one of my tics is eye rolling", ">\n\nK", ">\n\nI accidentally roll my eyes at people sometimes when I'm not even trying to", ">\n\nThe sign of a true unpopular opinion: Nobody upvoting it, but everybody commenting to say how they disagree. If you disagree, then give it an upvote. That's the point of this sub.", ">\n\nI think it depends.", ">\n\nThis had to be written by someone under the age of 25", ">\n\nRolling your eyes isn’t natural though. It’s cultural or socially learned if that makes sense. Like if you rolled your eyes at a tribe that is disconnected from society they wouldn’t understand that you’re annoyed. So you cant really compare it to laughing.", ">\n\nI'm kind of curious if this is true though. Are you assuming this, or do you have some kind of study proving this? I'd actually like to see if your hypothesis is true, or if remote tribes also use this facial gesture.", ">\n\nI’m assuming it. Back in my country Turkey if you rolled your eyes at my grandparents they would be confused and wonder what you were doing and what it meant.", ">\n\nit's a maturity thing, keep rolling your eyes at 30-40, everyone gonna see you like a kid. \nyou gotta control your emotions, there's no need to do a expression when something is stupid or lame, you got a mouth and you respectfully share what's wrong, if the person in the other end is reluctant to stay on the same boat even after you talk about it. then you don't roll your eyes, you gotta say that there's nothing more you can do, and that you don't agree with it, and most likely leave to dodge any sort of problem.", ">\n\nI have a tic where I constantly roll my eyes. I’ve had it since I was little, but never noticed it until years later when I high school teacher yelled at me for disrespect. Apparently my parents took me for evaluation when I was very young and diagnosed Tourette’s but never had any other tics develop. Would have been nice to know 🤦🏼‍♀️ I just apologize now and say it’s a compulsion if people ask. I don’t even know when I’m doing it", ">\n\nIs laughing disrespectful? Because it can be. Just like rolling your eyes can be. There is a time and place for everything", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a passive aggressive response. Passive aggression is a tactic used by meek people who are frustrated and don’t have the courage to address a given situation. It’s disrespectful and it lowers your standing in the social hierarchy.", ">\n\nGet back to me when Disney Dad actively encourages your offspring to roll their eyes at you.", ">\n\nYeah it is when I want to be disrespectful to someone I roll my eyes when they make a point. It might be annoying to them, but it also let's them know I don't give a shit about whatever they just said. Now, I would never to it to my boss, or my teachers while I was in college, but when I was a teen I did it all the time because I was an asshole, who didn't care. \nIt's not a natural reaction lmao, it is learned behavior and it can be a bad habit, but it can be unlearned." ]
> 🙄	[ "🙄", ">\n\nYou’re grounded now", ">\n\nThe post above was someone getting electrocuted so this reply was very timely", ">\n\nThis news is shocking", ">\n\nIt definitely SPARKED my interest", ">\n\nAll of you guys need to leave, and not come back before learning how to conduct yourselves properly", ">\n\nUhhhh....... electricity", ">\n\nWell no, in the right context it is disrespectful. Rolling your eyes suggests that you're not taking the matter seriously or that you dont care which is a sign of disrespect towards whoever is speaking with you.", ">\n\nBut I can't control what I think. If I said \"man you're stupid and I don't care what you say\" thats disrespectful. I'm actually showing respect by not saying it.", ">\n\nI mean, actions speak louder than words, right?", ">\n\nIts not really an action tho its just an automatic response. Like gasping or yawning.", ">\n\nbullshit.\nSorry, it was an automatic response. Which is bullshit just like yours.", ">\n\nStill not the same thing. And they get on me for false analogies....", ">\n\nYou must be a teenager", ">\n\nLol how many times are you gonna post that. Dont you have an original thought of your own?", ">\n\nBruh I cant believe you make these posts. They're foolish", ">\n\nLaughing at someone can be disrespectful. Don't think so? Try laughing at someone's funeral.", ">\n\nThe disrespect comes from the one who told me a joke and made me laugh.", ">\n\nWhat about if no one said any joke? Because, you know, you are at a funeral.", ">\n\nSo someone's just there randomly laughing at shit? That sounds like a mental illness.", ">\n\nYou have never thought of something funny in your head to make yourself laugh? \nOr hell, maybe you didn't like the person who is buried and decided to laugh at them. You find it funny, so laughing must be appropriate, right?", ">\n\nWhy am I thinking about funny shit at a funeral.", ">\n\nBecause the universe likes to put us in uncomfortable positions sometimes.", ">\n\n“if its stupid or lame, you roll your eyes” - you found the disrespect", ">\n\nIm allowed to think whatever i want and its not disrespectful.", ">\n\nWhen you express contempt for something someone else said, it's disrespect.", ">\n\nWhat if what they said is contemptible?", ">\n\nSome people and comments deserve disrespect, still gonna be disrespect", ">\n\nLaughing, crying, and sneezing are all innate, involuntary reactions to certain types of stimuli. Rolling your eyes is a learned behavior. You can’t compare it to those other automatic responses because it’s not the same thing.", ">\n\nTake my upvote", ">\n\nOP rolled their eyes at someone and got chewed out for it.\nNow they're going online in an attempt to validate themselves.\n🙄", ">\n\nProbably got grounded.", ">\n\nPart of being a mature adult is to have self-control and not acting on every impulse and being respectful of people.", ">\n\n\nPart of being a mature adult\n\nYup but OP is clearly a teenager lol. They complain about being told off for doing chores wrong in another post…", ">\n\nEven a teenager should be able to have the fundamental basics of respect", ">\n\nOh I agree 100%", ">\n\nYou have poor self-control and poor self-awareness but the good news is that you can improve these things.", ">\n\n/r/wrongopinions", ">\n\nI feel like we need a new subreddit r/unpopularforareason", ">\n\nIt’s entire purpose is to be disrespectful. Nobody eyerolls something they respect. But how offensive it is depends on the context and how serious one is being.", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes\n\nYou rn: \"I'm not being disrespectful. I just thought what you said was stupid or lame.\"\n...", ">\n\nSaying its stupid could be disrespectful. A facial response is not.", ">\n\nLiterally every person in this thread agrees that it is.\nThis is your bad habit. Nobody else's responsibility but you.", ">\n\nThey can choose to not fly off the handle at what is just an innate reaction.", ">\n\nSo let me get this straight: you think you deserve to be able to disrespect whoever you like whenever you like but they can't as much as say you're being rude? Grow up.", ">\n\nFound the teenager.", ">\n\nMeh, I agree with that one. If you don't like how someone is doing something then do it yourself. There's a reason I live alone.", ">\n\nIt is a UNIVERSAL sign of disrespect. Globally. Deal with it.", ">\n\nLaughing can be disrespectuful too. If you cannot control your own reactions, well, what can I say, maybe you have not really grown up?", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s so it’s hard to control my own actions sometimes…", ">\n\nThank u I'm trying to explain how autism can make it hard to read not just others facial expressions but also ur own and it seems like no one has thought of the possibility that they acc don't realise it or csnt control it", ">\n\nWould you roll your eyes during a job interview if you thought a question was stupid or irrelevant? Do you think you’d get the job if you did?", ">\n\nPretty sure OP would think they were owed that job and they would think it’s ridiculous if they didn’t get it.\nOP is also a teenager going through their rebel phase though", ">\n\nYou're oddly specific here.", ">\n\nWhat was specific? Or rather oddly specific?", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a good way to fast track yourself to a divorce, if you want one.", ">\n\nI think OP needs the definition of respect before any further comment is made", ">\n\nOh I already know it, and I know it does not mean:\nDon't ever disagree with me\nDon't think bad thoughts about me\nDon't ever correct me when I'm blatantly wrong \nShine my boots with your tongue", ">\n\nSoooo this post isn’t about eye rolling is what I’m getting from this. You’ve got issues to work through with your parents or partner or something", ">\n\nSince when tf was eye rolling involuntary?", ">", ">\n\nYour lack of self control is not a justification for disrespect. I personally dont know anyone who reacts to anything by rolling their eyes. Just be mature and communicate.", ">\n\nAnd what if it's not stupid and someone rolls their eyes? Wouldn't it be disrespectful in that case?", ">\n\nIn the eye rollers opinion then it must have been. But you can't fault someone for thinking its stupid.", ">\n\nSo eyerolling is some kind of exceptional thing that is free from criticism? \nIf one has the freedom to eye roll, then someone else has the freedom to criticize the eye roller right? \nOr is it your opinion that besides that everyone who sees an eye roller has to just stfu", ">\n\nMeh, it is disrespectful. It's a way to be disrespectful without having to say That's the dumbest thing I've heard all month, and everyone else who heard it is also dumber for hearing it as well.", ">\n\nBut I didn't say it that's the point.", ">\n\nJust cuz you don’t use words doesn’t mean it’s not disrespectful. Walking away while someone is talking to you, rolling your eyes, slapping someone, and starting to play a game on your phone while someone is talking to you are all disrespectful. It doesn’t matter that you didn’t say anything, your lack of respect still showed.", ">\n\nespecially the way theyre responding to comments", ">\n\nYeah, a natural reaction if you’ve never learned to manage your emotions as opposed to letting them run your life. I’m not talking about being totally monotone rational, either. You need to learn a balance between rational and emotional…which includes healthy, appropriate, respectful expression of honest feelings. Eye rolling is absolutely disrespectful, belittling, and dismissive.", ">\n\nComments: OP is completely wrong and has attitude issues", ">\n\nWhat sounds like mental illness is you refusing to admit that rolling your eyes is simply not an unconditional response. Whether you want to believe it or not, you are doing it intentionally and you can control it. \nYou’re just to much of a b—— to do so.", ">\n\nSame to you", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a learned reaction. Not natural. I rarely of ever roll my eyes at anything.", ">", ">\n\nJust like raising your middle finger. Or vocalizing the sounds \"fuck you\". Or fingers typing the words fuck you OP. Nothing is disrespectful!", ">\n\nNice try but not the same thing at all. You're talking about thought out actions here. The eye roll is more like a reaction. Its quick, its automatic, no one has to think \"im rolling my eyes now\" it just happens. \nSort of like when telling a lie - no one decides to have their eyes dart around suspiciously, it just happens.", ">\n\nNo. Rolling your eyes is not involuntary. It can be controlled. You have a bad habit that you CAN stop. Much like a child learning not to suck their thumb, or biting your nails.", ">\n\nHow about you start with your hair scratching", ">\n\nYour opinion is a contradiction in itself. And, yeah. I disagree. Rolling your eyes is 100% to show lack of respect, and you have no intentions of showing it, even to reason, by rolling your eyes at something someone could believe is meaningful or important. Even if it is stupid.\nI get your point, we roll our eyes to express how we feel, but it is still a physical snare. You say rolling your eyes isn't disrespectful, while saying it's okay to roll your eyes because something is \" stupid or lame\", which in itself is disrespectful. You sound like a very young person in the middle of a learning moment, and you're trying to react with rebellion. It only shows that you lack maturity and are in need of growth. This might be a time for you to read these comments and reevaluate. There are healthier ways to react to things you disagree with, or lack interest in. If not, you can just accept that you roll your eyes to show lack of respect.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is much more deliberate than laughter, tears, or sneezing. It's a conscious action in response to a judgement you're making.", ">\n\nNah, dude it is disrespectful \nYou just have no self control and by the looks of it you don't want to build some", ">\n\nYour post made me roll my eyes very hard.", ">\n\n“No, officer, my wife - she MADE me hit her!”", ">\n\nIt's a natural reaction for a sooky kid but not an adult, if you do that as an adult you just manchild that wants everything their way", ">\n\npoor OP.... did you get in trouble after you rolled your eyes at something again? did you not prehaps learn from previous interactions? rolling your eyes at something \"stupid or lame\" is an intentional response that is disrespectful to whatever it is. mature people dont act that way.....", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes.\n\nSo it is disrespectful. \n\nIts like throwing pepper in someone's face an expecting them not to sneeze.\n\nNo it’s not. You can easily (edited in) refrain from rolling your eyes, while it’s much more difficult to refrain from sneezing. \nIt’s fine to think whatever you want, but you might want to refrain from rolling your eyes when you’re, say, interacting with your boss; aka someone that can make you unemployed for whatever reason they please.", ">\n\nThis isn't an opinion. It's just flat wrong. \nIt is disrespectful because it is a conscious signifier which clearly communicated that you think that the thing you are rolling your eyes at is not worthy of respect.", ">\n\nYou have to go out of your way to roll your eyes. It is NOT gutteral or instinctual", ">\n\nIf you annoy me, my arm whips out in a natural reaction and slaps you.", ">\n\nSorry, kiddo, it’s 100% disrespectful. Just own the shit and quit trying to lawyer around it.\nI say that after having rolled my eyes so hard at your post, I travelled back in time.", ">\n\nTell that to my family lol you get the belt", ">\n\nThis was made my a 15 year old who just got told off by their mom about rolling their eyes. Then in defense said, “I can’t control it”", ">\n\nMan it's getting so aggressive sometimes here 😂", ">\n\ni certainly hope you are embarrassed about this in a couple years when you grow up.", ">\n\nOP is a habitual eye roller 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄", ">\n\nI wish to God we could block people by age, no more edgy 13yo’s", ">\n\nSomebody just got their ps5 taken away for rolling their eyes", ">\n\nTell me you're 12 without telling me you're 12.", ">\n\nit’s the definition of disrespectful and a sign that you have literally nothing intelligent to say in return. \nwhich is why we outgrow it as adults.", ">\n\nYou can control it. It’s not an “automatic response” unless you’ve taught yourself to do it. I never roll my eyes. It’s just not something I have ever practiced doing. And yes…if I’m saying something too you and you dismiss it with an eye roll…it’s super disrespectful.", ">\n\nrolling your eyes is just as respectful as sticking your tongue out at someone or making a stupid face in reaction to something someone says", ">\n\nIf you can’t control your eye movement, you need to see a neurologist, dude 😆. As it stands, eye rolling isn’t a reflex or a “natural reaction” to anything. Habits aren’t the same as involuntary reactions.\nRolling your eyes at someone is disrespectful. It’s an outward sign that you think something about your interaction with them was stupid or wrong. There’s no one here that will agree with you, and you know that you’re in the vast minority with this opinion because you posted it on this sub. Now learn some humility and accept that your opinion is factually incorrect based on science.", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nAre you like 14 and your mom got you in trouble cause you rolled your eyes at her? Lmao", ">\n\nI’m gonna show your mom this and it’s going to be another week of being grounded, you little shit lol", ">\n\nOmfg 😂", ">\n\nOP I have to ask.\n\n\nHow old are you?\n\n\nHow is your relationship with your parents?\n\n\nHow do you view authority figures in your life?", ">\n\nrolls eyes", ">\n\nIf you say or demand something stupid from me I will probably roll my eyes.", ">\n\nBut it is", ">\n\nJust like rolling your eyes is an innate response, so are other people's responses to you rolling your eyes.", ">\n\nSometimes being respectful requires hiding your subjective opinion on whether something is stupid or lame.", ">\n\nI wouldn’t say eye rolling is as involuntary as laughing or crying tho. It’s more of a choice.", ">\n\nIf someone rolls their eyes then I feel disrespected it’s a natural reaction.", ">\n\ntell me you're a teenager without telling me you're a teenager", ">\n\nI'm rolling my eyes at this post. And I definitely mean it disrespectfully.", ">\n\nLmao this kid had an argument with his parent(s) or teacher and is venting on Reddit.", ">\n\nYou sound like an eye rolling arsehole", ">\n\ni have never had an as a nonvoulentary action, it requires very explicit movement of you eye. this is like saying “when i dont like people, i punch them in the head, thats my natural reaction i cant control it”\ni have never once legitimately rolled my eyes at something, i think you might be an asshole", ">\n\nMe smacking your face is also an innate uncontrollable response to you rolling your eyes. I'm only human. What can I do? 🙄", ">\n\nI disagree. also there are a billion other ways to express something being stupid or lame than rolling ur eyes", ">\n\nStop downvoting, this is ACTUALLY a very unpopular opinion and I love to see it tbh. Voice your disagreement in the comments but don't downvote the post. This post is hilarious.", ">\n\nThis is something you’ve learned to do. It’s entirely in your control if you do it or not.", ">\n\nI once got a detention for rolling my eyes at a teacher in 4th grade.\nI agree with you, though. The only other person I've ever really rolled my eyes at was my mother, and she deserved it, every single time.", ">\n\nI get your point. I absolutely purposefully roll my eyes sometimes and whoever I'm doing it to would be valid for getting mad. \nBut as someone who can't hide any emotion on their face (literally any, I'm the definition of an open book) there have been plenty of times where people blew up at me or laughed because I rolled my eyes when I didn't even realize I had done it. Feel like the people disagreeing with you haven't experienced this problem.", ">\n\nWhat you've done is cultivate a bad habit and then blamed it on everyone else when you repeat your own bad habit unintentionally.\nThis is entirely your fault.", ">\n\nOnly on Reddit would someone so boldly declare something like this to a stranger. I'm on the spectrum so that might have to do with my not being able to hide any emotion (I truly mean that, people can basically read my thoughts just by looking at me, good and bad). \nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave. Consider working on that.", ">\n\nSo they point out you’re cultivating a bad habit and blaming other people so you then, blame them? It’s a little spot on don’t you think?", ">\n\nWhen did i blame them for my own actions? Could you quote me? I was just pointing out how weird it was that they made such a strong assumption of my character off a causal comment I left when they themselves were ironically being unnecessarily rude in the process. \nI don't know how you got so lost?", ">\n\n\nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave.\n\nClassic deflection and implication that they’re the one with the problem, not you", ">\n\nFirst its not automatic. I almost never rolled my eyes. Its much easier to control than laughing crying or sneezing. So you just dont make the effort. Its actually a way to express your feeling. You should know that, its your personnality not a human instinctive reaction. \nAnd yes not respecting something is disrespectful. Its not that hard to understand. \nAnyway if i see you.. i dont know having a breakdown after being fired and dumped and start to laugh you'd like that ? \nIf im sad because something good happens to you and show it to you, you would like that ? \nHonestly you are just trying to justify being a bit of a jerk. \nI dont blame you or anything we all are jerks sometime but its what you are doing right now.", ">\n\nI have to refocus my eyes and most of the time blinking doesn’t cut it. I have a lazy eye and when I look at someone for a long time it unfocuses, so moving the muscle is the only way to reset it. If I don’t, people start moving their heads/ bodies trying to focus on my lazy eye. It gets awkward.", ">\n\nThis is where I go to my training as a kid. What others think of you is none of your business.", ">\n\nUnless you have a tick or something like Tourette’s syndrome, then it’s not an involuntary response. Part of living in a society and not being considered rude is managing your body language.\nLet me put it this way. “Rudeness” in itself is a social concept. That means it’s decided by the perception of the masses, what we generally agree upon in terms of our symbols of communication, our customs, our beliefs, our values, etc. For you to say that rolling your eyes isn’t disrespectful is not objectively wrong. But according to the society you live in, it is wrong. In layman’s terms, the hill you’re dying on here is completely arbitrary, neither side will ever be truly correct but as long as you live in a society which feels this way then you will be beholden to it anyways.", ">\n\nTo be fair, if your thinking its stupid or lame, then that is dis-respect. I'd agree with this if it was worded like 'More people need to say what they truly think', but I think you sort of missed the mark, OP.", ">\n\nI am equally annoyed when folks rapidly blink and look away mid conversation or drop their arm dead against their thigh. It’s like you’ve given up an effort to even keep your body vertical and engaged while I’m talking to you.", ">\n\nOP getting downvoted AF & keeps commenting. Gotta love it.", ">\n\nIt is shown as a sign of disrespect and it shows weakness. I can’t imagine Gandhi, the queen of England or Einstein roll their eyes in front of random people. The reason why they were respected is because they didn’t play any superiority game on front of… inferiors or ignorant people. If something is stupid, get the patience and find enough love within yourself to treat the other ones right. \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a child because his question is “stupid”, what parent does it make you ? \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a bad question because you are an expert in a subject, then it is not your modesty that speaks but your ego. For proof : Even if someone you hate said something intelligent, you might want to roll your eyes just to flatter your ego.", ">\n\nIt's seen as disrespectful BECAUSE it's inadvertently telling them you think they're irritating/annoying.", ">\n\nI never roll my eyes? Is that something people do naturally?", ">\n\nAll depends on the context of what is going on.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is not a natural reaction?", ">\n\nNot maintaining basic self control is disrespectful. It's the same reason we don't defecate in public, sneeze on people, or stand in the way of foot traffic.", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s and one of my tics is eye rolling", ">\n\nK", ">\n\nI accidentally roll my eyes at people sometimes when I'm not even trying to", ">\n\nThe sign of a true unpopular opinion: Nobody upvoting it, but everybody commenting to say how they disagree. If you disagree, then give it an upvote. That's the point of this sub.", ">\n\nI think it depends.", ">\n\nThis had to be written by someone under the age of 25", ">\n\nRolling your eyes isn’t natural though. It’s cultural or socially learned if that makes sense. Like if you rolled your eyes at a tribe that is disconnected from society they wouldn’t understand that you’re annoyed. So you cant really compare it to laughing.", ">\n\nI'm kind of curious if this is true though. Are you assuming this, or do you have some kind of study proving this? I'd actually like to see if your hypothesis is true, or if remote tribes also use this facial gesture.", ">\n\nI’m assuming it. Back in my country Turkey if you rolled your eyes at my grandparents they would be confused and wonder what you were doing and what it meant.", ">\n\nit's a maturity thing, keep rolling your eyes at 30-40, everyone gonna see you like a kid. \nyou gotta control your emotions, there's no need to do a expression when something is stupid or lame, you got a mouth and you respectfully share what's wrong, if the person in the other end is reluctant to stay on the same boat even after you talk about it. then you don't roll your eyes, you gotta say that there's nothing more you can do, and that you don't agree with it, and most likely leave to dodge any sort of problem.", ">\n\nI have a tic where I constantly roll my eyes. I’ve had it since I was little, but never noticed it until years later when I high school teacher yelled at me for disrespect. Apparently my parents took me for evaluation when I was very young and diagnosed Tourette’s but never had any other tics develop. Would have been nice to know 🤦🏼‍♀️ I just apologize now and say it’s a compulsion if people ask. I don’t even know when I’m doing it", ">\n\nIs laughing disrespectful? Because it can be. Just like rolling your eyes can be. There is a time and place for everything", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a passive aggressive response. Passive aggression is a tactic used by meek people who are frustrated and don’t have the courage to address a given situation. It’s disrespectful and it lowers your standing in the social hierarchy.", ">\n\nGet back to me when Disney Dad actively encourages your offspring to roll their eyes at you.", ">\n\nYeah it is when I want to be disrespectful to someone I roll my eyes when they make a point. It might be annoying to them, but it also let's them know I don't give a shit about whatever they just said. Now, I would never to it to my boss, or my teachers while I was in college, but when I was a teen I did it all the time because I was an asshole, who didn't care. \nIt's not a natural reaction lmao, it is learned behavior and it can be a bad habit, but it can be unlearned.", ">\n\nSome people can’t control it I know with me sometimes I roll my eyes without meaning too it’s not that I’m trying to be rude it’s just something I didn’t even realize I was doing nor did I mean too" ]
> I have a friend who thinks like you do, which is based on your responses to the comments. He has very poor social skills and is on the autism spectrum	[ "🙄", ">\n\nYou’re grounded now", ">\n\nThe post above was someone getting electrocuted so this reply was very timely", ">\n\nThis news is shocking", ">\n\nIt definitely SPARKED my interest", ">\n\nAll of you guys need to leave, and not come back before learning how to conduct yourselves properly", ">\n\nUhhhh....... electricity", ">\n\nWell no, in the right context it is disrespectful. Rolling your eyes suggests that you're not taking the matter seriously or that you dont care which is a sign of disrespect towards whoever is speaking with you.", ">\n\nBut I can't control what I think. If I said \"man you're stupid and I don't care what you say\" thats disrespectful. I'm actually showing respect by not saying it.", ">\n\nI mean, actions speak louder than words, right?", ">\n\nIts not really an action tho its just an automatic response. Like gasping or yawning.", ">\n\nbullshit.\nSorry, it was an automatic response. Which is bullshit just like yours.", ">\n\nStill not the same thing. And they get on me for false analogies....", ">\n\nYou must be a teenager", ">\n\nLol how many times are you gonna post that. Dont you have an original thought of your own?", ">\n\nBruh I cant believe you make these posts. They're foolish", ">\n\nLaughing at someone can be disrespectful. Don't think so? Try laughing at someone's funeral.", ">\n\nThe disrespect comes from the one who told me a joke and made me laugh.", ">\n\nWhat about if no one said any joke? Because, you know, you are at a funeral.", ">\n\nSo someone's just there randomly laughing at shit? That sounds like a mental illness.", ">\n\nYou have never thought of something funny in your head to make yourself laugh? \nOr hell, maybe you didn't like the person who is buried and decided to laugh at them. You find it funny, so laughing must be appropriate, right?", ">\n\nWhy am I thinking about funny shit at a funeral.", ">\n\nBecause the universe likes to put us in uncomfortable positions sometimes.", ">\n\n“if its stupid or lame, you roll your eyes” - you found the disrespect", ">\n\nIm allowed to think whatever i want and its not disrespectful.", ">\n\nWhen you express contempt for something someone else said, it's disrespect.", ">\n\nWhat if what they said is contemptible?", ">\n\nSome people and comments deserve disrespect, still gonna be disrespect", ">\n\nLaughing, crying, and sneezing are all innate, involuntary reactions to certain types of stimuli. Rolling your eyes is a learned behavior. You can’t compare it to those other automatic responses because it’s not the same thing.", ">\n\nTake my upvote", ">\n\nOP rolled their eyes at someone and got chewed out for it.\nNow they're going online in an attempt to validate themselves.\n🙄", ">\n\nProbably got grounded.", ">\n\nPart of being a mature adult is to have self-control and not acting on every impulse and being respectful of people.", ">\n\n\nPart of being a mature adult\n\nYup but OP is clearly a teenager lol. They complain about being told off for doing chores wrong in another post…", ">\n\nEven a teenager should be able to have the fundamental basics of respect", ">\n\nOh I agree 100%", ">\n\nYou have poor self-control and poor self-awareness but the good news is that you can improve these things.", ">\n\n/r/wrongopinions", ">\n\nI feel like we need a new subreddit r/unpopularforareason", ">\n\nIt’s entire purpose is to be disrespectful. Nobody eyerolls something they respect. But how offensive it is depends on the context and how serious one is being.", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes\n\nYou rn: \"I'm not being disrespectful. I just thought what you said was stupid or lame.\"\n...", ">\n\nSaying its stupid could be disrespectful. A facial response is not.", ">\n\nLiterally every person in this thread agrees that it is.\nThis is your bad habit. Nobody else's responsibility but you.", ">\n\nThey can choose to not fly off the handle at what is just an innate reaction.", ">\n\nSo let me get this straight: you think you deserve to be able to disrespect whoever you like whenever you like but they can't as much as say you're being rude? Grow up.", ">\n\nFound the teenager.", ">\n\nMeh, I agree with that one. If you don't like how someone is doing something then do it yourself. There's a reason I live alone.", ">\n\nIt is a UNIVERSAL sign of disrespect. Globally. Deal with it.", ">\n\nLaughing can be disrespectuful too. If you cannot control your own reactions, well, what can I say, maybe you have not really grown up?", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s so it’s hard to control my own actions sometimes…", ">\n\nThank u I'm trying to explain how autism can make it hard to read not just others facial expressions but also ur own and it seems like no one has thought of the possibility that they acc don't realise it or csnt control it", ">\n\nWould you roll your eyes during a job interview if you thought a question was stupid or irrelevant? Do you think you’d get the job if you did?", ">\n\nPretty sure OP would think they were owed that job and they would think it’s ridiculous if they didn’t get it.\nOP is also a teenager going through their rebel phase though", ">\n\nYou're oddly specific here.", ">\n\nWhat was specific? Or rather oddly specific?", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a good way to fast track yourself to a divorce, if you want one.", ">\n\nI think OP needs the definition of respect before any further comment is made", ">\n\nOh I already know it, and I know it does not mean:\nDon't ever disagree with me\nDon't think bad thoughts about me\nDon't ever correct me when I'm blatantly wrong \nShine my boots with your tongue", ">\n\nSoooo this post isn’t about eye rolling is what I’m getting from this. You’ve got issues to work through with your parents or partner or something", ">\n\nSince when tf was eye rolling involuntary?", ">", ">\n\nYour lack of self control is not a justification for disrespect. I personally dont know anyone who reacts to anything by rolling their eyes. Just be mature and communicate.", ">\n\nAnd what if it's not stupid and someone rolls their eyes? Wouldn't it be disrespectful in that case?", ">\n\nIn the eye rollers opinion then it must have been. But you can't fault someone for thinking its stupid.", ">\n\nSo eyerolling is some kind of exceptional thing that is free from criticism? \nIf one has the freedom to eye roll, then someone else has the freedom to criticize the eye roller right? \nOr is it your opinion that besides that everyone who sees an eye roller has to just stfu", ">\n\nMeh, it is disrespectful. It's a way to be disrespectful without having to say That's the dumbest thing I've heard all month, and everyone else who heard it is also dumber for hearing it as well.", ">\n\nBut I didn't say it that's the point.", ">\n\nJust cuz you don’t use words doesn’t mean it’s not disrespectful. Walking away while someone is talking to you, rolling your eyes, slapping someone, and starting to play a game on your phone while someone is talking to you are all disrespectful. It doesn’t matter that you didn’t say anything, your lack of respect still showed.", ">\n\nespecially the way theyre responding to comments", ">\n\nYeah, a natural reaction if you’ve never learned to manage your emotions as opposed to letting them run your life. I’m not talking about being totally monotone rational, either. You need to learn a balance between rational and emotional…which includes healthy, appropriate, respectful expression of honest feelings. Eye rolling is absolutely disrespectful, belittling, and dismissive.", ">\n\nComments: OP is completely wrong and has attitude issues", ">\n\nWhat sounds like mental illness is you refusing to admit that rolling your eyes is simply not an unconditional response. Whether you want to believe it or not, you are doing it intentionally and you can control it. \nYou’re just to much of a b—— to do so.", ">\n\nSame to you", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a learned reaction. Not natural. I rarely of ever roll my eyes at anything.", ">", ">\n\nJust like raising your middle finger. Or vocalizing the sounds \"fuck you\". Or fingers typing the words fuck you OP. Nothing is disrespectful!", ">\n\nNice try but not the same thing at all. You're talking about thought out actions here. The eye roll is more like a reaction. Its quick, its automatic, no one has to think \"im rolling my eyes now\" it just happens. \nSort of like when telling a lie - no one decides to have their eyes dart around suspiciously, it just happens.", ">\n\nNo. Rolling your eyes is not involuntary. It can be controlled. You have a bad habit that you CAN stop. Much like a child learning not to suck their thumb, or biting your nails.", ">\n\nHow about you start with your hair scratching", ">\n\nYour opinion is a contradiction in itself. And, yeah. I disagree. Rolling your eyes is 100% to show lack of respect, and you have no intentions of showing it, even to reason, by rolling your eyes at something someone could believe is meaningful or important. Even if it is stupid.\nI get your point, we roll our eyes to express how we feel, but it is still a physical snare. You say rolling your eyes isn't disrespectful, while saying it's okay to roll your eyes because something is \" stupid or lame\", which in itself is disrespectful. You sound like a very young person in the middle of a learning moment, and you're trying to react with rebellion. It only shows that you lack maturity and are in need of growth. This might be a time for you to read these comments and reevaluate. There are healthier ways to react to things you disagree with, or lack interest in. If not, you can just accept that you roll your eyes to show lack of respect.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is much more deliberate than laughter, tears, or sneezing. It's a conscious action in response to a judgement you're making.", ">\n\nNah, dude it is disrespectful \nYou just have no self control and by the looks of it you don't want to build some", ">\n\nYour post made me roll my eyes very hard.", ">\n\n“No, officer, my wife - she MADE me hit her!”", ">\n\nIt's a natural reaction for a sooky kid but not an adult, if you do that as an adult you just manchild that wants everything their way", ">\n\npoor OP.... did you get in trouble after you rolled your eyes at something again? did you not prehaps learn from previous interactions? rolling your eyes at something \"stupid or lame\" is an intentional response that is disrespectful to whatever it is. mature people dont act that way.....", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes.\n\nSo it is disrespectful. \n\nIts like throwing pepper in someone's face an expecting them not to sneeze.\n\nNo it’s not. You can easily (edited in) refrain from rolling your eyes, while it’s much more difficult to refrain from sneezing. \nIt’s fine to think whatever you want, but you might want to refrain from rolling your eyes when you’re, say, interacting with your boss; aka someone that can make you unemployed for whatever reason they please.", ">\n\nThis isn't an opinion. It's just flat wrong. \nIt is disrespectful because it is a conscious signifier which clearly communicated that you think that the thing you are rolling your eyes at is not worthy of respect.", ">\n\nYou have to go out of your way to roll your eyes. It is NOT gutteral or instinctual", ">\n\nIf you annoy me, my arm whips out in a natural reaction and slaps you.", ">\n\nSorry, kiddo, it’s 100% disrespectful. Just own the shit and quit trying to lawyer around it.\nI say that after having rolled my eyes so hard at your post, I travelled back in time.", ">\n\nTell that to my family lol you get the belt", ">\n\nThis was made my a 15 year old who just got told off by their mom about rolling their eyes. Then in defense said, “I can’t control it”", ">\n\nMan it's getting so aggressive sometimes here 😂", ">\n\ni certainly hope you are embarrassed about this in a couple years when you grow up.", ">\n\nOP is a habitual eye roller 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄", ">\n\nI wish to God we could block people by age, no more edgy 13yo’s", ">\n\nSomebody just got their ps5 taken away for rolling their eyes", ">\n\nTell me you're 12 without telling me you're 12.", ">\n\nit’s the definition of disrespectful and a sign that you have literally nothing intelligent to say in return. \nwhich is why we outgrow it as adults.", ">\n\nYou can control it. It’s not an “automatic response” unless you’ve taught yourself to do it. I never roll my eyes. It’s just not something I have ever practiced doing. And yes…if I’m saying something too you and you dismiss it with an eye roll…it’s super disrespectful.", ">\n\nrolling your eyes is just as respectful as sticking your tongue out at someone or making a stupid face in reaction to something someone says", ">\n\nIf you can’t control your eye movement, you need to see a neurologist, dude 😆. As it stands, eye rolling isn’t a reflex or a “natural reaction” to anything. Habits aren’t the same as involuntary reactions.\nRolling your eyes at someone is disrespectful. It’s an outward sign that you think something about your interaction with them was stupid or wrong. There’s no one here that will agree with you, and you know that you’re in the vast minority with this opinion because you posted it on this sub. Now learn some humility and accept that your opinion is factually incorrect based on science.", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nAre you like 14 and your mom got you in trouble cause you rolled your eyes at her? Lmao", ">\n\nI’m gonna show your mom this and it’s going to be another week of being grounded, you little shit lol", ">\n\nOmfg 😂", ">\n\nOP I have to ask.\n\n\nHow old are you?\n\n\nHow is your relationship with your parents?\n\n\nHow do you view authority figures in your life?", ">\n\nrolls eyes", ">\n\nIf you say or demand something stupid from me I will probably roll my eyes.", ">\n\nBut it is", ">\n\nJust like rolling your eyes is an innate response, so are other people's responses to you rolling your eyes.", ">\n\nSometimes being respectful requires hiding your subjective opinion on whether something is stupid or lame.", ">\n\nI wouldn’t say eye rolling is as involuntary as laughing or crying tho. It’s more of a choice.", ">\n\nIf someone rolls their eyes then I feel disrespected it’s a natural reaction.", ">\n\ntell me you're a teenager without telling me you're a teenager", ">\n\nI'm rolling my eyes at this post. And I definitely mean it disrespectfully.", ">\n\nLmao this kid had an argument with his parent(s) or teacher and is venting on Reddit.", ">\n\nYou sound like an eye rolling arsehole", ">\n\ni have never had an as a nonvoulentary action, it requires very explicit movement of you eye. this is like saying “when i dont like people, i punch them in the head, thats my natural reaction i cant control it”\ni have never once legitimately rolled my eyes at something, i think you might be an asshole", ">\n\nMe smacking your face is also an innate uncontrollable response to you rolling your eyes. I'm only human. What can I do? 🙄", ">\n\nI disagree. also there are a billion other ways to express something being stupid or lame than rolling ur eyes", ">\n\nStop downvoting, this is ACTUALLY a very unpopular opinion and I love to see it tbh. Voice your disagreement in the comments but don't downvote the post. This post is hilarious.", ">\n\nThis is something you’ve learned to do. It’s entirely in your control if you do it or not.", ">\n\nI once got a detention for rolling my eyes at a teacher in 4th grade.\nI agree with you, though. The only other person I've ever really rolled my eyes at was my mother, and she deserved it, every single time.", ">\n\nI get your point. I absolutely purposefully roll my eyes sometimes and whoever I'm doing it to would be valid for getting mad. \nBut as someone who can't hide any emotion on their face (literally any, I'm the definition of an open book) there have been plenty of times where people blew up at me or laughed because I rolled my eyes when I didn't even realize I had done it. Feel like the people disagreeing with you haven't experienced this problem.", ">\n\nWhat you've done is cultivate a bad habit and then blamed it on everyone else when you repeat your own bad habit unintentionally.\nThis is entirely your fault.", ">\n\nOnly on Reddit would someone so boldly declare something like this to a stranger. I'm on the spectrum so that might have to do with my not being able to hide any emotion (I truly mean that, people can basically read my thoughts just by looking at me, good and bad). \nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave. Consider working on that.", ">\n\nSo they point out you’re cultivating a bad habit and blaming other people so you then, blame them? It’s a little spot on don’t you think?", ">\n\nWhen did i blame them for my own actions? Could you quote me? I was just pointing out how weird it was that they made such a strong assumption of my character off a causal comment I left when they themselves were ironically being unnecessarily rude in the process. \nI don't know how you got so lost?", ">\n\n\nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave.\n\nClassic deflection and implication that they’re the one with the problem, not you", ">\n\nFirst its not automatic. I almost never rolled my eyes. Its much easier to control than laughing crying or sneezing. So you just dont make the effort. Its actually a way to express your feeling. You should know that, its your personnality not a human instinctive reaction. \nAnd yes not respecting something is disrespectful. Its not that hard to understand. \nAnyway if i see you.. i dont know having a breakdown after being fired and dumped and start to laugh you'd like that ? \nIf im sad because something good happens to you and show it to you, you would like that ? \nHonestly you are just trying to justify being a bit of a jerk. \nI dont blame you or anything we all are jerks sometime but its what you are doing right now.", ">\n\nI have to refocus my eyes and most of the time blinking doesn’t cut it. I have a lazy eye and when I look at someone for a long time it unfocuses, so moving the muscle is the only way to reset it. If I don’t, people start moving their heads/ bodies trying to focus on my lazy eye. It gets awkward.", ">\n\nThis is where I go to my training as a kid. What others think of you is none of your business.", ">\n\nUnless you have a tick or something like Tourette’s syndrome, then it’s not an involuntary response. Part of living in a society and not being considered rude is managing your body language.\nLet me put it this way. “Rudeness” in itself is a social concept. That means it’s decided by the perception of the masses, what we generally agree upon in terms of our symbols of communication, our customs, our beliefs, our values, etc. For you to say that rolling your eyes isn’t disrespectful is not objectively wrong. But according to the society you live in, it is wrong. In layman’s terms, the hill you’re dying on here is completely arbitrary, neither side will ever be truly correct but as long as you live in a society which feels this way then you will be beholden to it anyways.", ">\n\nTo be fair, if your thinking its stupid or lame, then that is dis-respect. I'd agree with this if it was worded like 'More people need to say what they truly think', but I think you sort of missed the mark, OP.", ">\n\nI am equally annoyed when folks rapidly blink and look away mid conversation or drop their arm dead against their thigh. It’s like you’ve given up an effort to even keep your body vertical and engaged while I’m talking to you.", ">\n\nOP getting downvoted AF & keeps commenting. Gotta love it.", ">\n\nIt is shown as a sign of disrespect and it shows weakness. I can’t imagine Gandhi, the queen of England or Einstein roll their eyes in front of random people. The reason why they were respected is because they didn’t play any superiority game on front of… inferiors or ignorant people. If something is stupid, get the patience and find enough love within yourself to treat the other ones right. \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a child because his question is “stupid”, what parent does it make you ? \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a bad question because you are an expert in a subject, then it is not your modesty that speaks but your ego. For proof : Even if someone you hate said something intelligent, you might want to roll your eyes just to flatter your ego.", ">\n\nIt's seen as disrespectful BECAUSE it's inadvertently telling them you think they're irritating/annoying.", ">\n\nI never roll my eyes? Is that something people do naturally?", ">\n\nAll depends on the context of what is going on.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is not a natural reaction?", ">\n\nNot maintaining basic self control is disrespectful. It's the same reason we don't defecate in public, sneeze on people, or stand in the way of foot traffic.", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s and one of my tics is eye rolling", ">\n\nK", ">\n\nI accidentally roll my eyes at people sometimes when I'm not even trying to", ">\n\nThe sign of a true unpopular opinion: Nobody upvoting it, but everybody commenting to say how they disagree. If you disagree, then give it an upvote. That's the point of this sub.", ">\n\nI think it depends.", ">\n\nThis had to be written by someone under the age of 25", ">\n\nRolling your eyes isn’t natural though. It’s cultural or socially learned if that makes sense. Like if you rolled your eyes at a tribe that is disconnected from society they wouldn’t understand that you’re annoyed. So you cant really compare it to laughing.", ">\n\nI'm kind of curious if this is true though. Are you assuming this, or do you have some kind of study proving this? I'd actually like to see if your hypothesis is true, or if remote tribes also use this facial gesture.", ">\n\nI’m assuming it. Back in my country Turkey if you rolled your eyes at my grandparents they would be confused and wonder what you were doing and what it meant.", ">\n\nit's a maturity thing, keep rolling your eyes at 30-40, everyone gonna see you like a kid. \nyou gotta control your emotions, there's no need to do a expression when something is stupid or lame, you got a mouth and you respectfully share what's wrong, if the person in the other end is reluctant to stay on the same boat even after you talk about it. then you don't roll your eyes, you gotta say that there's nothing more you can do, and that you don't agree with it, and most likely leave to dodge any sort of problem.", ">\n\nI have a tic where I constantly roll my eyes. I’ve had it since I was little, but never noticed it until years later when I high school teacher yelled at me for disrespect. Apparently my parents took me for evaluation when I was very young and diagnosed Tourette’s but never had any other tics develop. Would have been nice to know 🤦🏼‍♀️ I just apologize now and say it’s a compulsion if people ask. I don’t even know when I’m doing it", ">\n\nIs laughing disrespectful? Because it can be. Just like rolling your eyes can be. There is a time and place for everything", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a passive aggressive response. Passive aggression is a tactic used by meek people who are frustrated and don’t have the courage to address a given situation. It’s disrespectful and it lowers your standing in the social hierarchy.", ">\n\nGet back to me when Disney Dad actively encourages your offspring to roll their eyes at you.", ">\n\nYeah it is when I want to be disrespectful to someone I roll my eyes when they make a point. It might be annoying to them, but it also let's them know I don't give a shit about whatever they just said. Now, I would never to it to my boss, or my teachers while I was in college, but when I was a teen I did it all the time because I was an asshole, who didn't care. \nIt's not a natural reaction lmao, it is learned behavior and it can be a bad habit, but it can be unlearned.", ">\n\nSome people can’t control it I know with me sometimes I roll my eyes without meaning too it’s not that I’m trying to be rude it’s just something I didn’t even realize I was doing nor did I mean too", ">\n\n🙄" ]
> I bet you're lots of fun at parties OP.	[ "🙄", ">\n\nYou’re grounded now", ">\n\nThe post above was someone getting electrocuted so this reply was very timely", ">\n\nThis news is shocking", ">\n\nIt definitely SPARKED my interest", ">\n\nAll of you guys need to leave, and not come back before learning how to conduct yourselves properly", ">\n\nUhhhh....... electricity", ">\n\nWell no, in the right context it is disrespectful. Rolling your eyes suggests that you're not taking the matter seriously or that you dont care which is a sign of disrespect towards whoever is speaking with you.", ">\n\nBut I can't control what I think. If I said \"man you're stupid and I don't care what you say\" thats disrespectful. I'm actually showing respect by not saying it.", ">\n\nI mean, actions speak louder than words, right?", ">\n\nIts not really an action tho its just an automatic response. Like gasping or yawning.", ">\n\nbullshit.\nSorry, it was an automatic response. Which is bullshit just like yours.", ">\n\nStill not the same thing. And they get on me for false analogies....", ">\n\nYou must be a teenager", ">\n\nLol how many times are you gonna post that. Dont you have an original thought of your own?", ">\n\nBruh I cant believe you make these posts. They're foolish", ">\n\nLaughing at someone can be disrespectful. Don't think so? Try laughing at someone's funeral.", ">\n\nThe disrespect comes from the one who told me a joke and made me laugh.", ">\n\nWhat about if no one said any joke? Because, you know, you are at a funeral.", ">\n\nSo someone's just there randomly laughing at shit? That sounds like a mental illness.", ">\n\nYou have never thought of something funny in your head to make yourself laugh? \nOr hell, maybe you didn't like the person who is buried and decided to laugh at them. You find it funny, so laughing must be appropriate, right?", ">\n\nWhy am I thinking about funny shit at a funeral.", ">\n\nBecause the universe likes to put us in uncomfortable positions sometimes.", ">\n\n“if its stupid or lame, you roll your eyes” - you found the disrespect", ">\n\nIm allowed to think whatever i want and its not disrespectful.", ">\n\nWhen you express contempt for something someone else said, it's disrespect.", ">\n\nWhat if what they said is contemptible?", ">\n\nSome people and comments deserve disrespect, still gonna be disrespect", ">\n\nLaughing, crying, and sneezing are all innate, involuntary reactions to certain types of stimuli. Rolling your eyes is a learned behavior. You can’t compare it to those other automatic responses because it’s not the same thing.", ">\n\nTake my upvote", ">\n\nOP rolled their eyes at someone and got chewed out for it.\nNow they're going online in an attempt to validate themselves.\n🙄", ">\n\nProbably got grounded.", ">\n\nPart of being a mature adult is to have self-control and not acting on every impulse and being respectful of people.", ">\n\n\nPart of being a mature adult\n\nYup but OP is clearly a teenager lol. They complain about being told off for doing chores wrong in another post…", ">\n\nEven a teenager should be able to have the fundamental basics of respect", ">\n\nOh I agree 100%", ">\n\nYou have poor self-control and poor self-awareness but the good news is that you can improve these things.", ">\n\n/r/wrongopinions", ">\n\nI feel like we need a new subreddit r/unpopularforareason", ">\n\nIt’s entire purpose is to be disrespectful. Nobody eyerolls something they respect. But how offensive it is depends on the context and how serious one is being.", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes\n\nYou rn: \"I'm not being disrespectful. I just thought what you said was stupid or lame.\"\n...", ">\n\nSaying its stupid could be disrespectful. A facial response is not.", ">\n\nLiterally every person in this thread agrees that it is.\nThis is your bad habit. Nobody else's responsibility but you.", ">\n\nThey can choose to not fly off the handle at what is just an innate reaction.", ">\n\nSo let me get this straight: you think you deserve to be able to disrespect whoever you like whenever you like but they can't as much as say you're being rude? Grow up.", ">\n\nFound the teenager.", ">\n\nMeh, I agree with that one. If you don't like how someone is doing something then do it yourself. There's a reason I live alone.", ">\n\nIt is a UNIVERSAL sign of disrespect. Globally. Deal with it.", ">\n\nLaughing can be disrespectuful too. If you cannot control your own reactions, well, what can I say, maybe you have not really grown up?", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s so it’s hard to control my own actions sometimes…", ">\n\nThank u I'm trying to explain how autism can make it hard to read not just others facial expressions but also ur own and it seems like no one has thought of the possibility that they acc don't realise it or csnt control it", ">\n\nWould you roll your eyes during a job interview if you thought a question was stupid or irrelevant? Do you think you’d get the job if you did?", ">\n\nPretty sure OP would think they were owed that job and they would think it’s ridiculous if they didn’t get it.\nOP is also a teenager going through their rebel phase though", ">\n\nYou're oddly specific here.", ">\n\nWhat was specific? Or rather oddly specific?", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a good way to fast track yourself to a divorce, if you want one.", ">\n\nI think OP needs the definition of respect before any further comment is made", ">\n\nOh I already know it, and I know it does not mean:\nDon't ever disagree with me\nDon't think bad thoughts about me\nDon't ever correct me when I'm blatantly wrong \nShine my boots with your tongue", ">\n\nSoooo this post isn’t about eye rolling is what I’m getting from this. You’ve got issues to work through with your parents or partner or something", ">\n\nSince when tf was eye rolling involuntary?", ">", ">\n\nYour lack of self control is not a justification for disrespect. I personally dont know anyone who reacts to anything by rolling their eyes. Just be mature and communicate.", ">\n\nAnd what if it's not stupid and someone rolls their eyes? Wouldn't it be disrespectful in that case?", ">\n\nIn the eye rollers opinion then it must have been. But you can't fault someone for thinking its stupid.", ">\n\nSo eyerolling is some kind of exceptional thing that is free from criticism? \nIf one has the freedom to eye roll, then someone else has the freedom to criticize the eye roller right? \nOr is it your opinion that besides that everyone who sees an eye roller has to just stfu", ">\n\nMeh, it is disrespectful. It's a way to be disrespectful without having to say That's the dumbest thing I've heard all month, and everyone else who heard it is also dumber for hearing it as well.", ">\n\nBut I didn't say it that's the point.", ">\n\nJust cuz you don’t use words doesn’t mean it’s not disrespectful. Walking away while someone is talking to you, rolling your eyes, slapping someone, and starting to play a game on your phone while someone is talking to you are all disrespectful. It doesn’t matter that you didn’t say anything, your lack of respect still showed.", ">\n\nespecially the way theyre responding to comments", ">\n\nYeah, a natural reaction if you’ve never learned to manage your emotions as opposed to letting them run your life. I’m not talking about being totally monotone rational, either. You need to learn a balance between rational and emotional…which includes healthy, appropriate, respectful expression of honest feelings. Eye rolling is absolutely disrespectful, belittling, and dismissive.", ">\n\nComments: OP is completely wrong and has attitude issues", ">\n\nWhat sounds like mental illness is you refusing to admit that rolling your eyes is simply not an unconditional response. Whether you want to believe it or not, you are doing it intentionally and you can control it. \nYou’re just to much of a b—— to do so.", ">\n\nSame to you", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a learned reaction. Not natural. I rarely of ever roll my eyes at anything.", ">", ">\n\nJust like raising your middle finger. Or vocalizing the sounds \"fuck you\". Or fingers typing the words fuck you OP. Nothing is disrespectful!", ">\n\nNice try but not the same thing at all. You're talking about thought out actions here. The eye roll is more like a reaction. Its quick, its automatic, no one has to think \"im rolling my eyes now\" it just happens. \nSort of like when telling a lie - no one decides to have their eyes dart around suspiciously, it just happens.", ">\n\nNo. Rolling your eyes is not involuntary. It can be controlled. You have a bad habit that you CAN stop. Much like a child learning not to suck their thumb, or biting your nails.", ">\n\nHow about you start with your hair scratching", ">\n\nYour opinion is a contradiction in itself. And, yeah. I disagree. Rolling your eyes is 100% to show lack of respect, and you have no intentions of showing it, even to reason, by rolling your eyes at something someone could believe is meaningful or important. Even if it is stupid.\nI get your point, we roll our eyes to express how we feel, but it is still a physical snare. You say rolling your eyes isn't disrespectful, while saying it's okay to roll your eyes because something is \" stupid or lame\", which in itself is disrespectful. You sound like a very young person in the middle of a learning moment, and you're trying to react with rebellion. It only shows that you lack maturity and are in need of growth. This might be a time for you to read these comments and reevaluate. There are healthier ways to react to things you disagree with, or lack interest in. If not, you can just accept that you roll your eyes to show lack of respect.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is much more deliberate than laughter, tears, or sneezing. It's a conscious action in response to a judgement you're making.", ">\n\nNah, dude it is disrespectful \nYou just have no self control and by the looks of it you don't want to build some", ">\n\nYour post made me roll my eyes very hard.", ">\n\n“No, officer, my wife - she MADE me hit her!”", ">\n\nIt's a natural reaction for a sooky kid but not an adult, if you do that as an adult you just manchild that wants everything their way", ">\n\npoor OP.... did you get in trouble after you rolled your eyes at something again? did you not prehaps learn from previous interactions? rolling your eyes at something \"stupid or lame\" is an intentional response that is disrespectful to whatever it is. mature people dont act that way.....", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes.\n\nSo it is disrespectful. \n\nIts like throwing pepper in someone's face an expecting them not to sneeze.\n\nNo it’s not. You can easily (edited in) refrain from rolling your eyes, while it’s much more difficult to refrain from sneezing. \nIt’s fine to think whatever you want, but you might want to refrain from rolling your eyes when you’re, say, interacting with your boss; aka someone that can make you unemployed for whatever reason they please.", ">\n\nThis isn't an opinion. It's just flat wrong. \nIt is disrespectful because it is a conscious signifier which clearly communicated that you think that the thing you are rolling your eyes at is not worthy of respect.", ">\n\nYou have to go out of your way to roll your eyes. It is NOT gutteral or instinctual", ">\n\nIf you annoy me, my arm whips out in a natural reaction and slaps you.", ">\n\nSorry, kiddo, it’s 100% disrespectful. Just own the shit and quit trying to lawyer around it.\nI say that after having rolled my eyes so hard at your post, I travelled back in time.", ">\n\nTell that to my family lol you get the belt", ">\n\nThis was made my a 15 year old who just got told off by their mom about rolling their eyes. Then in defense said, “I can’t control it”", ">\n\nMan it's getting so aggressive sometimes here 😂", ">\n\ni certainly hope you are embarrassed about this in a couple years when you grow up.", ">\n\nOP is a habitual eye roller 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄", ">\n\nI wish to God we could block people by age, no more edgy 13yo’s", ">\n\nSomebody just got their ps5 taken away for rolling their eyes", ">\n\nTell me you're 12 without telling me you're 12.", ">\n\nit’s the definition of disrespectful and a sign that you have literally nothing intelligent to say in return. \nwhich is why we outgrow it as adults.", ">\n\nYou can control it. It’s not an “automatic response” unless you’ve taught yourself to do it. I never roll my eyes. It’s just not something I have ever practiced doing. And yes…if I’m saying something too you and you dismiss it with an eye roll…it’s super disrespectful.", ">\n\nrolling your eyes is just as respectful as sticking your tongue out at someone or making a stupid face in reaction to something someone says", ">\n\nIf you can’t control your eye movement, you need to see a neurologist, dude 😆. As it stands, eye rolling isn’t a reflex or a “natural reaction” to anything. Habits aren’t the same as involuntary reactions.\nRolling your eyes at someone is disrespectful. It’s an outward sign that you think something about your interaction with them was stupid or wrong. There’s no one here that will agree with you, and you know that you’re in the vast minority with this opinion because you posted it on this sub. Now learn some humility and accept that your opinion is factually incorrect based on science.", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nAre you like 14 and your mom got you in trouble cause you rolled your eyes at her? Lmao", ">\n\nI’m gonna show your mom this and it’s going to be another week of being grounded, you little shit lol", ">\n\nOmfg 😂", ">\n\nOP I have to ask.\n\n\nHow old are you?\n\n\nHow is your relationship with your parents?\n\n\nHow do you view authority figures in your life?", ">\n\nrolls eyes", ">\n\nIf you say or demand something stupid from me I will probably roll my eyes.", ">\n\nBut it is", ">\n\nJust like rolling your eyes is an innate response, so are other people's responses to you rolling your eyes.", ">\n\nSometimes being respectful requires hiding your subjective opinion on whether something is stupid or lame.", ">\n\nI wouldn’t say eye rolling is as involuntary as laughing or crying tho. It’s more of a choice.", ">\n\nIf someone rolls their eyes then I feel disrespected it’s a natural reaction.", ">\n\ntell me you're a teenager without telling me you're a teenager", ">\n\nI'm rolling my eyes at this post. And I definitely mean it disrespectfully.", ">\n\nLmao this kid had an argument with his parent(s) or teacher and is venting on Reddit.", ">\n\nYou sound like an eye rolling arsehole", ">\n\ni have never had an as a nonvoulentary action, it requires very explicit movement of you eye. this is like saying “when i dont like people, i punch them in the head, thats my natural reaction i cant control it”\ni have never once legitimately rolled my eyes at something, i think you might be an asshole", ">\n\nMe smacking your face is also an innate uncontrollable response to you rolling your eyes. I'm only human. What can I do? 🙄", ">\n\nI disagree. also there are a billion other ways to express something being stupid or lame than rolling ur eyes", ">\n\nStop downvoting, this is ACTUALLY a very unpopular opinion and I love to see it tbh. Voice your disagreement in the comments but don't downvote the post. This post is hilarious.", ">\n\nThis is something you’ve learned to do. It’s entirely in your control if you do it or not.", ">\n\nI once got a detention for rolling my eyes at a teacher in 4th grade.\nI agree with you, though. The only other person I've ever really rolled my eyes at was my mother, and she deserved it, every single time.", ">\n\nI get your point. I absolutely purposefully roll my eyes sometimes and whoever I'm doing it to would be valid for getting mad. \nBut as someone who can't hide any emotion on their face (literally any, I'm the definition of an open book) there have been plenty of times where people blew up at me or laughed because I rolled my eyes when I didn't even realize I had done it. Feel like the people disagreeing with you haven't experienced this problem.", ">\n\nWhat you've done is cultivate a bad habit and then blamed it on everyone else when you repeat your own bad habit unintentionally.\nThis is entirely your fault.", ">\n\nOnly on Reddit would someone so boldly declare something like this to a stranger. I'm on the spectrum so that might have to do with my not being able to hide any emotion (I truly mean that, people can basically read my thoughts just by looking at me, good and bad). \nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave. Consider working on that.", ">\n\nSo they point out you’re cultivating a bad habit and blaming other people so you then, blame them? It’s a little spot on don’t you think?", ">\n\nWhen did i blame them for my own actions? Could you quote me? I was just pointing out how weird it was that they made such a strong assumption of my character off a causal comment I left when they themselves were ironically being unnecessarily rude in the process. \nI don't know how you got so lost?", ">\n\n\nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave.\n\nClassic deflection and implication that they’re the one with the problem, not you", ">\n\nFirst its not automatic. I almost never rolled my eyes. Its much easier to control than laughing crying or sneezing. So you just dont make the effort. Its actually a way to express your feeling. You should know that, its your personnality not a human instinctive reaction. \nAnd yes not respecting something is disrespectful. Its not that hard to understand. \nAnyway if i see you.. i dont know having a breakdown after being fired and dumped and start to laugh you'd like that ? \nIf im sad because something good happens to you and show it to you, you would like that ? \nHonestly you are just trying to justify being a bit of a jerk. \nI dont blame you or anything we all are jerks sometime but its what you are doing right now.", ">\n\nI have to refocus my eyes and most of the time blinking doesn’t cut it. I have a lazy eye and when I look at someone for a long time it unfocuses, so moving the muscle is the only way to reset it. If I don’t, people start moving their heads/ bodies trying to focus on my lazy eye. It gets awkward.", ">\n\nThis is where I go to my training as a kid. What others think of you is none of your business.", ">\n\nUnless you have a tick or something like Tourette’s syndrome, then it’s not an involuntary response. Part of living in a society and not being considered rude is managing your body language.\nLet me put it this way. “Rudeness” in itself is a social concept. That means it’s decided by the perception of the masses, what we generally agree upon in terms of our symbols of communication, our customs, our beliefs, our values, etc. For you to say that rolling your eyes isn’t disrespectful is not objectively wrong. But according to the society you live in, it is wrong. In layman’s terms, the hill you’re dying on here is completely arbitrary, neither side will ever be truly correct but as long as you live in a society which feels this way then you will be beholden to it anyways.", ">\n\nTo be fair, if your thinking its stupid or lame, then that is dis-respect. I'd agree with this if it was worded like 'More people need to say what they truly think', but I think you sort of missed the mark, OP.", ">\n\nI am equally annoyed when folks rapidly blink and look away mid conversation or drop their arm dead against their thigh. It’s like you’ve given up an effort to even keep your body vertical and engaged while I’m talking to you.", ">\n\nOP getting downvoted AF & keeps commenting. Gotta love it.", ">\n\nIt is shown as a sign of disrespect and it shows weakness. I can’t imagine Gandhi, the queen of England or Einstein roll their eyes in front of random people. The reason why they were respected is because they didn’t play any superiority game on front of… inferiors or ignorant people. If something is stupid, get the patience and find enough love within yourself to treat the other ones right. \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a child because his question is “stupid”, what parent does it make you ? \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a bad question because you are an expert in a subject, then it is not your modesty that speaks but your ego. For proof : Even if someone you hate said something intelligent, you might want to roll your eyes just to flatter your ego.", ">\n\nIt's seen as disrespectful BECAUSE it's inadvertently telling them you think they're irritating/annoying.", ">\n\nI never roll my eyes? Is that something people do naturally?", ">\n\nAll depends on the context of what is going on.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is not a natural reaction?", ">\n\nNot maintaining basic self control is disrespectful. It's the same reason we don't defecate in public, sneeze on people, or stand in the way of foot traffic.", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s and one of my tics is eye rolling", ">\n\nK", ">\n\nI accidentally roll my eyes at people sometimes when I'm not even trying to", ">\n\nThe sign of a true unpopular opinion: Nobody upvoting it, but everybody commenting to say how they disagree. If you disagree, then give it an upvote. That's the point of this sub.", ">\n\nI think it depends.", ">\n\nThis had to be written by someone under the age of 25", ">\n\nRolling your eyes isn’t natural though. It’s cultural or socially learned if that makes sense. Like if you rolled your eyes at a tribe that is disconnected from society they wouldn’t understand that you’re annoyed. So you cant really compare it to laughing.", ">\n\nI'm kind of curious if this is true though. Are you assuming this, or do you have some kind of study proving this? I'd actually like to see if your hypothesis is true, or if remote tribes also use this facial gesture.", ">\n\nI’m assuming it. Back in my country Turkey if you rolled your eyes at my grandparents they would be confused and wonder what you were doing and what it meant.", ">\n\nit's a maturity thing, keep rolling your eyes at 30-40, everyone gonna see you like a kid. \nyou gotta control your emotions, there's no need to do a expression when something is stupid or lame, you got a mouth and you respectfully share what's wrong, if the person in the other end is reluctant to stay on the same boat even after you talk about it. then you don't roll your eyes, you gotta say that there's nothing more you can do, and that you don't agree with it, and most likely leave to dodge any sort of problem.", ">\n\nI have a tic where I constantly roll my eyes. I’ve had it since I was little, but never noticed it until years later when I high school teacher yelled at me for disrespect. Apparently my parents took me for evaluation when I was very young and diagnosed Tourette’s but never had any other tics develop. Would have been nice to know 🤦🏼‍♀️ I just apologize now and say it’s a compulsion if people ask. I don’t even know when I’m doing it", ">\n\nIs laughing disrespectful? Because it can be. Just like rolling your eyes can be. There is a time and place for everything", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a passive aggressive response. Passive aggression is a tactic used by meek people who are frustrated and don’t have the courage to address a given situation. It’s disrespectful and it lowers your standing in the social hierarchy.", ">\n\nGet back to me when Disney Dad actively encourages your offspring to roll their eyes at you.", ">\n\nYeah it is when I want to be disrespectful to someone I roll my eyes when they make a point. It might be annoying to them, but it also let's them know I don't give a shit about whatever they just said. Now, I would never to it to my boss, or my teachers while I was in college, but when I was a teen I did it all the time because I was an asshole, who didn't care. \nIt's not a natural reaction lmao, it is learned behavior and it can be a bad habit, but it can be unlearned.", ">\n\nSome people can’t control it I know with me sometimes I roll my eyes without meaning too it’s not that I’m trying to be rude it’s just something I didn’t even realize I was doing nor did I mean too", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nI have a friend who thinks like you do, which is based on your responses to the comments. He has very poor social skills and is on the autism spectrum" ]
> I can’t tell if this is farming karma with ridiculous opinions or if this individual just has a really hard time understanding that maybe their parents aren’t always the bad guys.	[ "🙄", ">\n\nYou’re grounded now", ">\n\nThe post above was someone getting electrocuted so this reply was very timely", ">\n\nThis news is shocking", ">\n\nIt definitely SPARKED my interest", ">\n\nAll of you guys need to leave, and not come back before learning how to conduct yourselves properly", ">\n\nUhhhh....... electricity", ">\n\nWell no, in the right context it is disrespectful. Rolling your eyes suggests that you're not taking the matter seriously or that you dont care which is a sign of disrespect towards whoever is speaking with you.", ">\n\nBut I can't control what I think. If I said \"man you're stupid and I don't care what you say\" thats disrespectful. I'm actually showing respect by not saying it.", ">\n\nI mean, actions speak louder than words, right?", ">\n\nIts not really an action tho its just an automatic response. Like gasping or yawning.", ">\n\nbullshit.\nSorry, it was an automatic response. Which is bullshit just like yours.", ">\n\nStill not the same thing. And they get on me for false analogies....", ">\n\nYou must be a teenager", ">\n\nLol how many times are you gonna post that. Dont you have an original thought of your own?", ">\n\nBruh I cant believe you make these posts. They're foolish", ">\n\nLaughing at someone can be disrespectful. Don't think so? Try laughing at someone's funeral.", ">\n\nThe disrespect comes from the one who told me a joke and made me laugh.", ">\n\nWhat about if no one said any joke? Because, you know, you are at a funeral.", ">\n\nSo someone's just there randomly laughing at shit? That sounds like a mental illness.", ">\n\nYou have never thought of something funny in your head to make yourself laugh? \nOr hell, maybe you didn't like the person who is buried and decided to laugh at them. You find it funny, so laughing must be appropriate, right?", ">\n\nWhy am I thinking about funny shit at a funeral.", ">\n\nBecause the universe likes to put us in uncomfortable positions sometimes.", ">\n\n“if its stupid or lame, you roll your eyes” - you found the disrespect", ">\n\nIm allowed to think whatever i want and its not disrespectful.", ">\n\nWhen you express contempt for something someone else said, it's disrespect.", ">\n\nWhat if what they said is contemptible?", ">\n\nSome people and comments deserve disrespect, still gonna be disrespect", ">\n\nLaughing, crying, and sneezing are all innate, involuntary reactions to certain types of stimuli. Rolling your eyes is a learned behavior. You can’t compare it to those other automatic responses because it’s not the same thing.", ">\n\nTake my upvote", ">\n\nOP rolled their eyes at someone and got chewed out for it.\nNow they're going online in an attempt to validate themselves.\n🙄", ">\n\nProbably got grounded.", ">\n\nPart of being a mature adult is to have self-control and not acting on every impulse and being respectful of people.", ">\n\n\nPart of being a mature adult\n\nYup but OP is clearly a teenager lol. They complain about being told off for doing chores wrong in another post…", ">\n\nEven a teenager should be able to have the fundamental basics of respect", ">\n\nOh I agree 100%", ">\n\nYou have poor self-control and poor self-awareness but the good news is that you can improve these things.", ">\n\n/r/wrongopinions", ">\n\nI feel like we need a new subreddit r/unpopularforareason", ">\n\nIt’s entire purpose is to be disrespectful. Nobody eyerolls something they respect. But how offensive it is depends on the context and how serious one is being.", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes\n\nYou rn: \"I'm not being disrespectful. I just thought what you said was stupid or lame.\"\n...", ">\n\nSaying its stupid could be disrespectful. A facial response is not.", ">\n\nLiterally every person in this thread agrees that it is.\nThis is your bad habit. Nobody else's responsibility but you.", ">\n\nThey can choose to not fly off the handle at what is just an innate reaction.", ">\n\nSo let me get this straight: you think you deserve to be able to disrespect whoever you like whenever you like but they can't as much as say you're being rude? Grow up.", ">\n\nFound the teenager.", ">\n\nMeh, I agree with that one. If you don't like how someone is doing something then do it yourself. There's a reason I live alone.", ">\n\nIt is a UNIVERSAL sign of disrespect. Globally. Deal with it.", ">\n\nLaughing can be disrespectuful too. If you cannot control your own reactions, well, what can I say, maybe you have not really grown up?", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s so it’s hard to control my own actions sometimes…", ">\n\nThank u I'm trying to explain how autism can make it hard to read not just others facial expressions but also ur own and it seems like no one has thought of the possibility that they acc don't realise it or csnt control it", ">\n\nWould you roll your eyes during a job interview if you thought a question was stupid or irrelevant? Do you think you’d get the job if you did?", ">\n\nPretty sure OP would think they were owed that job and they would think it’s ridiculous if they didn’t get it.\nOP is also a teenager going through their rebel phase though", ">\n\nYou're oddly specific here.", ">\n\nWhat was specific? Or rather oddly specific?", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a good way to fast track yourself to a divorce, if you want one.", ">\n\nI think OP needs the definition of respect before any further comment is made", ">\n\nOh I already know it, and I know it does not mean:\nDon't ever disagree with me\nDon't think bad thoughts about me\nDon't ever correct me when I'm blatantly wrong \nShine my boots with your tongue", ">\n\nSoooo this post isn’t about eye rolling is what I’m getting from this. You’ve got issues to work through with your parents or partner or something", ">\n\nSince when tf was eye rolling involuntary?", ">", ">\n\nYour lack of self control is not a justification for disrespect. I personally dont know anyone who reacts to anything by rolling their eyes. Just be mature and communicate.", ">\n\nAnd what if it's not stupid and someone rolls their eyes? Wouldn't it be disrespectful in that case?", ">\n\nIn the eye rollers opinion then it must have been. But you can't fault someone for thinking its stupid.", ">\n\nSo eyerolling is some kind of exceptional thing that is free from criticism? \nIf one has the freedom to eye roll, then someone else has the freedom to criticize the eye roller right? \nOr is it your opinion that besides that everyone who sees an eye roller has to just stfu", ">\n\nMeh, it is disrespectful. It's a way to be disrespectful without having to say That's the dumbest thing I've heard all month, and everyone else who heard it is also dumber for hearing it as well.", ">\n\nBut I didn't say it that's the point.", ">\n\nJust cuz you don’t use words doesn’t mean it’s not disrespectful. Walking away while someone is talking to you, rolling your eyes, slapping someone, and starting to play a game on your phone while someone is talking to you are all disrespectful. It doesn’t matter that you didn’t say anything, your lack of respect still showed.", ">\n\nespecially the way theyre responding to comments", ">\n\nYeah, a natural reaction if you’ve never learned to manage your emotions as opposed to letting them run your life. I’m not talking about being totally monotone rational, either. You need to learn a balance between rational and emotional…which includes healthy, appropriate, respectful expression of honest feelings. Eye rolling is absolutely disrespectful, belittling, and dismissive.", ">\n\nComments: OP is completely wrong and has attitude issues", ">\n\nWhat sounds like mental illness is you refusing to admit that rolling your eyes is simply not an unconditional response. Whether you want to believe it or not, you are doing it intentionally and you can control it. \nYou’re just to much of a b—— to do so.", ">\n\nSame to you", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a learned reaction. Not natural. I rarely of ever roll my eyes at anything.", ">", ">\n\nJust like raising your middle finger. Or vocalizing the sounds \"fuck you\". Or fingers typing the words fuck you OP. Nothing is disrespectful!", ">\n\nNice try but not the same thing at all. You're talking about thought out actions here. The eye roll is more like a reaction. Its quick, its automatic, no one has to think \"im rolling my eyes now\" it just happens. \nSort of like when telling a lie - no one decides to have their eyes dart around suspiciously, it just happens.", ">\n\nNo. Rolling your eyes is not involuntary. It can be controlled. You have a bad habit that you CAN stop. Much like a child learning not to suck their thumb, or biting your nails.", ">\n\nHow about you start with your hair scratching", ">\n\nYour opinion is a contradiction in itself. And, yeah. I disagree. Rolling your eyes is 100% to show lack of respect, and you have no intentions of showing it, even to reason, by rolling your eyes at something someone could believe is meaningful or important. Even if it is stupid.\nI get your point, we roll our eyes to express how we feel, but it is still a physical snare. You say rolling your eyes isn't disrespectful, while saying it's okay to roll your eyes because something is \" stupid or lame\", which in itself is disrespectful. You sound like a very young person in the middle of a learning moment, and you're trying to react with rebellion. It only shows that you lack maturity and are in need of growth. This might be a time for you to read these comments and reevaluate. There are healthier ways to react to things you disagree with, or lack interest in. If not, you can just accept that you roll your eyes to show lack of respect.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is much more deliberate than laughter, tears, or sneezing. It's a conscious action in response to a judgement you're making.", ">\n\nNah, dude it is disrespectful \nYou just have no self control and by the looks of it you don't want to build some", ">\n\nYour post made me roll my eyes very hard.", ">\n\n“No, officer, my wife - she MADE me hit her!”", ">\n\nIt's a natural reaction for a sooky kid but not an adult, if you do that as an adult you just manchild that wants everything their way", ">\n\npoor OP.... did you get in trouble after you rolled your eyes at something again? did you not prehaps learn from previous interactions? rolling your eyes at something \"stupid or lame\" is an intentional response that is disrespectful to whatever it is. mature people dont act that way.....", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes.\n\nSo it is disrespectful. \n\nIts like throwing pepper in someone's face an expecting them not to sneeze.\n\nNo it’s not. You can easily (edited in) refrain from rolling your eyes, while it’s much more difficult to refrain from sneezing. \nIt’s fine to think whatever you want, but you might want to refrain from rolling your eyes when you’re, say, interacting with your boss; aka someone that can make you unemployed for whatever reason they please.", ">\n\nThis isn't an opinion. It's just flat wrong. \nIt is disrespectful because it is a conscious signifier which clearly communicated that you think that the thing you are rolling your eyes at is not worthy of respect.", ">\n\nYou have to go out of your way to roll your eyes. It is NOT gutteral or instinctual", ">\n\nIf you annoy me, my arm whips out in a natural reaction and slaps you.", ">\n\nSorry, kiddo, it’s 100% disrespectful. Just own the shit and quit trying to lawyer around it.\nI say that after having rolled my eyes so hard at your post, I travelled back in time.", ">\n\nTell that to my family lol you get the belt", ">\n\nThis was made my a 15 year old who just got told off by their mom about rolling their eyes. Then in defense said, “I can’t control it”", ">\n\nMan it's getting so aggressive sometimes here 😂", ">\n\ni certainly hope you are embarrassed about this in a couple years when you grow up.", ">\n\nOP is a habitual eye roller 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄", ">\n\nI wish to God we could block people by age, no more edgy 13yo’s", ">\n\nSomebody just got their ps5 taken away for rolling their eyes", ">\n\nTell me you're 12 without telling me you're 12.", ">\n\nit’s the definition of disrespectful and a sign that you have literally nothing intelligent to say in return. \nwhich is why we outgrow it as adults.", ">\n\nYou can control it. It’s not an “automatic response” unless you’ve taught yourself to do it. I never roll my eyes. It’s just not something I have ever practiced doing. And yes…if I’m saying something too you and you dismiss it with an eye roll…it’s super disrespectful.", ">\n\nrolling your eyes is just as respectful as sticking your tongue out at someone or making a stupid face in reaction to something someone says", ">\n\nIf you can’t control your eye movement, you need to see a neurologist, dude 😆. As it stands, eye rolling isn’t a reflex or a “natural reaction” to anything. Habits aren’t the same as involuntary reactions.\nRolling your eyes at someone is disrespectful. It’s an outward sign that you think something about your interaction with them was stupid or wrong. There’s no one here that will agree with you, and you know that you’re in the vast minority with this opinion because you posted it on this sub. Now learn some humility and accept that your opinion is factually incorrect based on science.", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nAre you like 14 and your mom got you in trouble cause you rolled your eyes at her? Lmao", ">\n\nI’m gonna show your mom this and it’s going to be another week of being grounded, you little shit lol", ">\n\nOmfg 😂", ">\n\nOP I have to ask.\n\n\nHow old are you?\n\n\nHow is your relationship with your parents?\n\n\nHow do you view authority figures in your life?", ">\n\nrolls eyes", ">\n\nIf you say or demand something stupid from me I will probably roll my eyes.", ">\n\nBut it is", ">\n\nJust like rolling your eyes is an innate response, so are other people's responses to you rolling your eyes.", ">\n\nSometimes being respectful requires hiding your subjective opinion on whether something is stupid or lame.", ">\n\nI wouldn’t say eye rolling is as involuntary as laughing or crying tho. It’s more of a choice.", ">\n\nIf someone rolls their eyes then I feel disrespected it’s a natural reaction.", ">\n\ntell me you're a teenager without telling me you're a teenager", ">\n\nI'm rolling my eyes at this post. And I definitely mean it disrespectfully.", ">\n\nLmao this kid had an argument with his parent(s) or teacher and is venting on Reddit.", ">\n\nYou sound like an eye rolling arsehole", ">\n\ni have never had an as a nonvoulentary action, it requires very explicit movement of you eye. this is like saying “when i dont like people, i punch them in the head, thats my natural reaction i cant control it”\ni have never once legitimately rolled my eyes at something, i think you might be an asshole", ">\n\nMe smacking your face is also an innate uncontrollable response to you rolling your eyes. I'm only human. What can I do? 🙄", ">\n\nI disagree. also there are a billion other ways to express something being stupid or lame than rolling ur eyes", ">\n\nStop downvoting, this is ACTUALLY a very unpopular opinion and I love to see it tbh. Voice your disagreement in the comments but don't downvote the post. This post is hilarious.", ">\n\nThis is something you’ve learned to do. It’s entirely in your control if you do it or not.", ">\n\nI once got a detention for rolling my eyes at a teacher in 4th grade.\nI agree with you, though. The only other person I've ever really rolled my eyes at was my mother, and she deserved it, every single time.", ">\n\nI get your point. I absolutely purposefully roll my eyes sometimes and whoever I'm doing it to would be valid for getting mad. \nBut as someone who can't hide any emotion on their face (literally any, I'm the definition of an open book) there have been plenty of times where people blew up at me or laughed because I rolled my eyes when I didn't even realize I had done it. Feel like the people disagreeing with you haven't experienced this problem.", ">\n\nWhat you've done is cultivate a bad habit and then blamed it on everyone else when you repeat your own bad habit unintentionally.\nThis is entirely your fault.", ">\n\nOnly on Reddit would someone so boldly declare something like this to a stranger. I'm on the spectrum so that might have to do with my not being able to hide any emotion (I truly mean that, people can basically read my thoughts just by looking at me, good and bad). \nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave. Consider working on that.", ">\n\nSo they point out you’re cultivating a bad habit and blaming other people so you then, blame them? It’s a little spot on don’t you think?", ">\n\nWhen did i blame them for my own actions? Could you quote me? I was just pointing out how weird it was that they made such a strong assumption of my character off a causal comment I left when they themselves were ironically being unnecessarily rude in the process. \nI don't know how you got so lost?", ">\n\n\nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave.\n\nClassic deflection and implication that they’re the one with the problem, not you", ">\n\nFirst its not automatic. I almost never rolled my eyes. Its much easier to control than laughing crying or sneezing. So you just dont make the effort. Its actually a way to express your feeling. You should know that, its your personnality not a human instinctive reaction. \nAnd yes not respecting something is disrespectful. Its not that hard to understand. \nAnyway if i see you.. i dont know having a breakdown after being fired and dumped and start to laugh you'd like that ? \nIf im sad because something good happens to you and show it to you, you would like that ? \nHonestly you are just trying to justify being a bit of a jerk. \nI dont blame you or anything we all are jerks sometime but its what you are doing right now.", ">\n\nI have to refocus my eyes and most of the time blinking doesn’t cut it. I have a lazy eye and when I look at someone for a long time it unfocuses, so moving the muscle is the only way to reset it. If I don’t, people start moving their heads/ bodies trying to focus on my lazy eye. It gets awkward.", ">\n\nThis is where I go to my training as a kid. What others think of you is none of your business.", ">\n\nUnless you have a tick or something like Tourette’s syndrome, then it’s not an involuntary response. Part of living in a society and not being considered rude is managing your body language.\nLet me put it this way. “Rudeness” in itself is a social concept. That means it’s decided by the perception of the masses, what we generally agree upon in terms of our symbols of communication, our customs, our beliefs, our values, etc. For you to say that rolling your eyes isn’t disrespectful is not objectively wrong. But according to the society you live in, it is wrong. In layman’s terms, the hill you’re dying on here is completely arbitrary, neither side will ever be truly correct but as long as you live in a society which feels this way then you will be beholden to it anyways.", ">\n\nTo be fair, if your thinking its stupid or lame, then that is dis-respect. I'd agree with this if it was worded like 'More people need to say what they truly think', but I think you sort of missed the mark, OP.", ">\n\nI am equally annoyed when folks rapidly blink and look away mid conversation or drop their arm dead against their thigh. It’s like you’ve given up an effort to even keep your body vertical and engaged while I’m talking to you.", ">\n\nOP getting downvoted AF & keeps commenting. Gotta love it.", ">\n\nIt is shown as a sign of disrespect and it shows weakness. I can’t imagine Gandhi, the queen of England or Einstein roll their eyes in front of random people. The reason why they were respected is because they didn’t play any superiority game on front of… inferiors or ignorant people. If something is stupid, get the patience and find enough love within yourself to treat the other ones right. \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a child because his question is “stupid”, what parent does it make you ? \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a bad question because you are an expert in a subject, then it is not your modesty that speaks but your ego. For proof : Even if someone you hate said something intelligent, you might want to roll your eyes just to flatter your ego.", ">\n\nIt's seen as disrespectful BECAUSE it's inadvertently telling them you think they're irritating/annoying.", ">\n\nI never roll my eyes? Is that something people do naturally?", ">\n\nAll depends on the context of what is going on.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is not a natural reaction?", ">\n\nNot maintaining basic self control is disrespectful. It's the same reason we don't defecate in public, sneeze on people, or stand in the way of foot traffic.", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s and one of my tics is eye rolling", ">\n\nK", ">\n\nI accidentally roll my eyes at people sometimes when I'm not even trying to", ">\n\nThe sign of a true unpopular opinion: Nobody upvoting it, but everybody commenting to say how they disagree. If you disagree, then give it an upvote. That's the point of this sub.", ">\n\nI think it depends.", ">\n\nThis had to be written by someone under the age of 25", ">\n\nRolling your eyes isn’t natural though. It’s cultural or socially learned if that makes sense. Like if you rolled your eyes at a tribe that is disconnected from society they wouldn’t understand that you’re annoyed. So you cant really compare it to laughing.", ">\n\nI'm kind of curious if this is true though. Are you assuming this, or do you have some kind of study proving this? I'd actually like to see if your hypothesis is true, or if remote tribes also use this facial gesture.", ">\n\nI’m assuming it. Back in my country Turkey if you rolled your eyes at my grandparents they would be confused and wonder what you were doing and what it meant.", ">\n\nit's a maturity thing, keep rolling your eyes at 30-40, everyone gonna see you like a kid. \nyou gotta control your emotions, there's no need to do a expression when something is stupid or lame, you got a mouth and you respectfully share what's wrong, if the person in the other end is reluctant to stay on the same boat even after you talk about it. then you don't roll your eyes, you gotta say that there's nothing more you can do, and that you don't agree with it, and most likely leave to dodge any sort of problem.", ">\n\nI have a tic where I constantly roll my eyes. I’ve had it since I was little, but never noticed it until years later when I high school teacher yelled at me for disrespect. Apparently my parents took me for evaluation when I was very young and diagnosed Tourette’s but never had any other tics develop. Would have been nice to know 🤦🏼‍♀️ I just apologize now and say it’s a compulsion if people ask. I don’t even know when I’m doing it", ">\n\nIs laughing disrespectful? Because it can be. Just like rolling your eyes can be. There is a time and place for everything", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a passive aggressive response. Passive aggression is a tactic used by meek people who are frustrated and don’t have the courage to address a given situation. It’s disrespectful and it lowers your standing in the social hierarchy.", ">\n\nGet back to me when Disney Dad actively encourages your offspring to roll their eyes at you.", ">\n\nYeah it is when I want to be disrespectful to someone I roll my eyes when they make a point. It might be annoying to them, but it also let's them know I don't give a shit about whatever they just said. Now, I would never to it to my boss, or my teachers while I was in college, but when I was a teen I did it all the time because I was an asshole, who didn't care. \nIt's not a natural reaction lmao, it is learned behavior and it can be a bad habit, but it can be unlearned.", ">\n\nSome people can’t control it I know with me sometimes I roll my eyes without meaning too it’s not that I’m trying to be rude it’s just something I didn’t even realize I was doing nor did I mean too", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nI have a friend who thinks like you do, which is based on your responses to the comments. He has very poor social skills and is on the autism spectrum", ">\n\nI bet you're lots of fun at parties OP." ]
> Yep, thats definitely an unpopular opinion! Its certainly disrespectful. And most certainly not some sort of involuntary response like a sneeze. It may feel that way to you, because you've done it so much - but there are plenty of people who don't do it. UNLIKE people who don't sneeze at pepper, or cough at dust. Like, you're just plain wrong on this one. Moreover, I think you're trying to justify/rationalize it yourself rather than address it in a healthy way - a marker suggesting you have some narcissistic tendencies.	[ "🙄", ">\n\nYou’re grounded now", ">\n\nThe post above was someone getting electrocuted so this reply was very timely", ">\n\nThis news is shocking", ">\n\nIt definitely SPARKED my interest", ">\n\nAll of you guys need to leave, and not come back before learning how to conduct yourselves properly", ">\n\nUhhhh....... electricity", ">\n\nWell no, in the right context it is disrespectful. Rolling your eyes suggests that you're not taking the matter seriously or that you dont care which is a sign of disrespect towards whoever is speaking with you.", ">\n\nBut I can't control what I think. If I said \"man you're stupid and I don't care what you say\" thats disrespectful. I'm actually showing respect by not saying it.", ">\n\nI mean, actions speak louder than words, right?", ">\n\nIts not really an action tho its just an automatic response. Like gasping or yawning.", ">\n\nbullshit.\nSorry, it was an automatic response. Which is bullshit just like yours.", ">\n\nStill not the same thing. And they get on me for false analogies....", ">\n\nYou must be a teenager", ">\n\nLol how many times are you gonna post that. Dont you have an original thought of your own?", ">\n\nBruh I cant believe you make these posts. They're foolish", ">\n\nLaughing at someone can be disrespectful. Don't think so? Try laughing at someone's funeral.", ">\n\nThe disrespect comes from the one who told me a joke and made me laugh.", ">\n\nWhat about if no one said any joke? Because, you know, you are at a funeral.", ">\n\nSo someone's just there randomly laughing at shit? That sounds like a mental illness.", ">\n\nYou have never thought of something funny in your head to make yourself laugh? \nOr hell, maybe you didn't like the person who is buried and decided to laugh at them. You find it funny, so laughing must be appropriate, right?", ">\n\nWhy am I thinking about funny shit at a funeral.", ">\n\nBecause the universe likes to put us in uncomfortable positions sometimes.", ">\n\n“if its stupid or lame, you roll your eyes” - you found the disrespect", ">\n\nIm allowed to think whatever i want and its not disrespectful.", ">\n\nWhen you express contempt for something someone else said, it's disrespect.", ">\n\nWhat if what they said is contemptible?", ">\n\nSome people and comments deserve disrespect, still gonna be disrespect", ">\n\nLaughing, crying, and sneezing are all innate, involuntary reactions to certain types of stimuli. Rolling your eyes is a learned behavior. You can’t compare it to those other automatic responses because it’s not the same thing.", ">\n\nTake my upvote", ">\n\nOP rolled their eyes at someone and got chewed out for it.\nNow they're going online in an attempt to validate themselves.\n🙄", ">\n\nProbably got grounded.", ">\n\nPart of being a mature adult is to have self-control and not acting on every impulse and being respectful of people.", ">\n\n\nPart of being a mature adult\n\nYup but OP is clearly a teenager lol. They complain about being told off for doing chores wrong in another post…", ">\n\nEven a teenager should be able to have the fundamental basics of respect", ">\n\nOh I agree 100%", ">\n\nYou have poor self-control and poor self-awareness but the good news is that you can improve these things.", ">\n\n/r/wrongopinions", ">\n\nI feel like we need a new subreddit r/unpopularforareason", ">\n\nIt’s entire purpose is to be disrespectful. Nobody eyerolls something they respect. But how offensive it is depends on the context and how serious one is being.", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes\n\nYou rn: \"I'm not being disrespectful. I just thought what you said was stupid or lame.\"\n...", ">\n\nSaying its stupid could be disrespectful. A facial response is not.", ">\n\nLiterally every person in this thread agrees that it is.\nThis is your bad habit. Nobody else's responsibility but you.", ">\n\nThey can choose to not fly off the handle at what is just an innate reaction.", ">\n\nSo let me get this straight: you think you deserve to be able to disrespect whoever you like whenever you like but they can't as much as say you're being rude? Grow up.", ">\n\nFound the teenager.", ">\n\nMeh, I agree with that one. If you don't like how someone is doing something then do it yourself. There's a reason I live alone.", ">\n\nIt is a UNIVERSAL sign of disrespect. Globally. Deal with it.", ">\n\nLaughing can be disrespectuful too. If you cannot control your own reactions, well, what can I say, maybe you have not really grown up?", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s so it’s hard to control my own actions sometimes…", ">\n\nThank u I'm trying to explain how autism can make it hard to read not just others facial expressions but also ur own and it seems like no one has thought of the possibility that they acc don't realise it or csnt control it", ">\n\nWould you roll your eyes during a job interview if you thought a question was stupid or irrelevant? Do you think you’d get the job if you did?", ">\n\nPretty sure OP would think they were owed that job and they would think it’s ridiculous if they didn’t get it.\nOP is also a teenager going through their rebel phase though", ">\n\nYou're oddly specific here.", ">\n\nWhat was specific? Or rather oddly specific?", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a good way to fast track yourself to a divorce, if you want one.", ">\n\nI think OP needs the definition of respect before any further comment is made", ">\n\nOh I already know it, and I know it does not mean:\nDon't ever disagree with me\nDon't think bad thoughts about me\nDon't ever correct me when I'm blatantly wrong \nShine my boots with your tongue", ">\n\nSoooo this post isn’t about eye rolling is what I’m getting from this. You’ve got issues to work through with your parents or partner or something", ">\n\nSince when tf was eye rolling involuntary?", ">", ">\n\nYour lack of self control is not a justification for disrespect. I personally dont know anyone who reacts to anything by rolling their eyes. Just be mature and communicate.", ">\n\nAnd what if it's not stupid and someone rolls their eyes? Wouldn't it be disrespectful in that case?", ">\n\nIn the eye rollers opinion then it must have been. But you can't fault someone for thinking its stupid.", ">\n\nSo eyerolling is some kind of exceptional thing that is free from criticism? \nIf one has the freedom to eye roll, then someone else has the freedom to criticize the eye roller right? \nOr is it your opinion that besides that everyone who sees an eye roller has to just stfu", ">\n\nMeh, it is disrespectful. It's a way to be disrespectful without having to say That's the dumbest thing I've heard all month, and everyone else who heard it is also dumber for hearing it as well.", ">\n\nBut I didn't say it that's the point.", ">\n\nJust cuz you don’t use words doesn’t mean it’s not disrespectful. Walking away while someone is talking to you, rolling your eyes, slapping someone, and starting to play a game on your phone while someone is talking to you are all disrespectful. It doesn’t matter that you didn’t say anything, your lack of respect still showed.", ">\n\nespecially the way theyre responding to comments", ">\n\nYeah, a natural reaction if you’ve never learned to manage your emotions as opposed to letting them run your life. I’m not talking about being totally monotone rational, either. You need to learn a balance between rational and emotional…which includes healthy, appropriate, respectful expression of honest feelings. Eye rolling is absolutely disrespectful, belittling, and dismissive.", ">\n\nComments: OP is completely wrong and has attitude issues", ">\n\nWhat sounds like mental illness is you refusing to admit that rolling your eyes is simply not an unconditional response. Whether you want to believe it or not, you are doing it intentionally and you can control it. \nYou’re just to much of a b—— to do so.", ">\n\nSame to you", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a learned reaction. Not natural. I rarely of ever roll my eyes at anything.", ">", ">\n\nJust like raising your middle finger. Or vocalizing the sounds \"fuck you\". Or fingers typing the words fuck you OP. Nothing is disrespectful!", ">\n\nNice try but not the same thing at all. You're talking about thought out actions here. The eye roll is more like a reaction. Its quick, its automatic, no one has to think \"im rolling my eyes now\" it just happens. \nSort of like when telling a lie - no one decides to have their eyes dart around suspiciously, it just happens.", ">\n\nNo. Rolling your eyes is not involuntary. It can be controlled. You have a bad habit that you CAN stop. Much like a child learning not to suck their thumb, or biting your nails.", ">\n\nHow about you start with your hair scratching", ">\n\nYour opinion is a contradiction in itself. And, yeah. I disagree. Rolling your eyes is 100% to show lack of respect, and you have no intentions of showing it, even to reason, by rolling your eyes at something someone could believe is meaningful or important. Even if it is stupid.\nI get your point, we roll our eyes to express how we feel, but it is still a physical snare. You say rolling your eyes isn't disrespectful, while saying it's okay to roll your eyes because something is \" stupid or lame\", which in itself is disrespectful. You sound like a very young person in the middle of a learning moment, and you're trying to react with rebellion. It only shows that you lack maturity and are in need of growth. This might be a time for you to read these comments and reevaluate. There are healthier ways to react to things you disagree with, or lack interest in. If not, you can just accept that you roll your eyes to show lack of respect.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is much more deliberate than laughter, tears, or sneezing. It's a conscious action in response to a judgement you're making.", ">\n\nNah, dude it is disrespectful \nYou just have no self control and by the looks of it you don't want to build some", ">\n\nYour post made me roll my eyes very hard.", ">\n\n“No, officer, my wife - she MADE me hit her!”", ">\n\nIt's a natural reaction for a sooky kid but not an adult, if you do that as an adult you just manchild that wants everything their way", ">\n\npoor OP.... did you get in trouble after you rolled your eyes at something again? did you not prehaps learn from previous interactions? rolling your eyes at something \"stupid or lame\" is an intentional response that is disrespectful to whatever it is. mature people dont act that way.....", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes.\n\nSo it is disrespectful. \n\nIts like throwing pepper in someone's face an expecting them not to sneeze.\n\nNo it’s not. You can easily (edited in) refrain from rolling your eyes, while it’s much more difficult to refrain from sneezing. \nIt’s fine to think whatever you want, but you might want to refrain from rolling your eyes when you’re, say, interacting with your boss; aka someone that can make you unemployed for whatever reason they please.", ">\n\nThis isn't an opinion. It's just flat wrong. \nIt is disrespectful because it is a conscious signifier which clearly communicated that you think that the thing you are rolling your eyes at is not worthy of respect.", ">\n\nYou have to go out of your way to roll your eyes. It is NOT gutteral or instinctual", ">\n\nIf you annoy me, my arm whips out in a natural reaction and slaps you.", ">\n\nSorry, kiddo, it’s 100% disrespectful. Just own the shit and quit trying to lawyer around it.\nI say that after having rolled my eyes so hard at your post, I travelled back in time.", ">\n\nTell that to my family lol you get the belt", ">\n\nThis was made my a 15 year old who just got told off by their mom about rolling their eyes. Then in defense said, “I can’t control it”", ">\n\nMan it's getting so aggressive sometimes here 😂", ">\n\ni certainly hope you are embarrassed about this in a couple years when you grow up.", ">\n\nOP is a habitual eye roller 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄", ">\n\nI wish to God we could block people by age, no more edgy 13yo’s", ">\n\nSomebody just got their ps5 taken away for rolling their eyes", ">\n\nTell me you're 12 without telling me you're 12.", ">\n\nit’s the definition of disrespectful and a sign that you have literally nothing intelligent to say in return. \nwhich is why we outgrow it as adults.", ">\n\nYou can control it. It’s not an “automatic response” unless you’ve taught yourself to do it. I never roll my eyes. It’s just not something I have ever practiced doing. And yes…if I’m saying something too you and you dismiss it with an eye roll…it’s super disrespectful.", ">\n\nrolling your eyes is just as respectful as sticking your tongue out at someone or making a stupid face in reaction to something someone says", ">\n\nIf you can’t control your eye movement, you need to see a neurologist, dude 😆. As it stands, eye rolling isn’t a reflex or a “natural reaction” to anything. Habits aren’t the same as involuntary reactions.\nRolling your eyes at someone is disrespectful. It’s an outward sign that you think something about your interaction with them was stupid or wrong. There’s no one here that will agree with you, and you know that you’re in the vast minority with this opinion because you posted it on this sub. Now learn some humility and accept that your opinion is factually incorrect based on science.", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nAre you like 14 and your mom got you in trouble cause you rolled your eyes at her? Lmao", ">\n\nI’m gonna show your mom this and it’s going to be another week of being grounded, you little shit lol", ">\n\nOmfg 😂", ">\n\nOP I have to ask.\n\n\nHow old are you?\n\n\nHow is your relationship with your parents?\n\n\nHow do you view authority figures in your life?", ">\n\nrolls eyes", ">\n\nIf you say or demand something stupid from me I will probably roll my eyes.", ">\n\nBut it is", ">\n\nJust like rolling your eyes is an innate response, so are other people's responses to you rolling your eyes.", ">\n\nSometimes being respectful requires hiding your subjective opinion on whether something is stupid or lame.", ">\n\nI wouldn’t say eye rolling is as involuntary as laughing or crying tho. It’s more of a choice.", ">\n\nIf someone rolls their eyes then I feel disrespected it’s a natural reaction.", ">\n\ntell me you're a teenager without telling me you're a teenager", ">\n\nI'm rolling my eyes at this post. And I definitely mean it disrespectfully.", ">\n\nLmao this kid had an argument with his parent(s) or teacher and is venting on Reddit.", ">\n\nYou sound like an eye rolling arsehole", ">\n\ni have never had an as a nonvoulentary action, it requires very explicit movement of you eye. this is like saying “when i dont like people, i punch them in the head, thats my natural reaction i cant control it”\ni have never once legitimately rolled my eyes at something, i think you might be an asshole", ">\n\nMe smacking your face is also an innate uncontrollable response to you rolling your eyes. I'm only human. What can I do? 🙄", ">\n\nI disagree. also there are a billion other ways to express something being stupid or lame than rolling ur eyes", ">\n\nStop downvoting, this is ACTUALLY a very unpopular opinion and I love to see it tbh. Voice your disagreement in the comments but don't downvote the post. This post is hilarious.", ">\n\nThis is something you’ve learned to do. It’s entirely in your control if you do it or not.", ">\n\nI once got a detention for rolling my eyes at a teacher in 4th grade.\nI agree with you, though. The only other person I've ever really rolled my eyes at was my mother, and she deserved it, every single time.", ">\n\nI get your point. I absolutely purposefully roll my eyes sometimes and whoever I'm doing it to would be valid for getting mad. \nBut as someone who can't hide any emotion on their face (literally any, I'm the definition of an open book) there have been plenty of times where people blew up at me or laughed because I rolled my eyes when I didn't even realize I had done it. Feel like the people disagreeing with you haven't experienced this problem.", ">\n\nWhat you've done is cultivate a bad habit and then blamed it on everyone else when you repeat your own bad habit unintentionally.\nThis is entirely your fault.", ">\n\nOnly on Reddit would someone so boldly declare something like this to a stranger. I'm on the spectrum so that might have to do with my not being able to hide any emotion (I truly mean that, people can basically read my thoughts just by looking at me, good and bad). \nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave. Consider working on that.", ">\n\nSo they point out you’re cultivating a bad habit and blaming other people so you then, blame them? It’s a little spot on don’t you think?", ">\n\nWhen did i blame them for my own actions? Could you quote me? I was just pointing out how weird it was that they made such a strong assumption of my character off a causal comment I left when they themselves were ironically being unnecessarily rude in the process. \nI don't know how you got so lost?", ">\n\n\nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave.\n\nClassic deflection and implication that they’re the one with the problem, not you", ">\n\nFirst its not automatic. I almost never rolled my eyes. Its much easier to control than laughing crying or sneezing. So you just dont make the effort. Its actually a way to express your feeling. You should know that, its your personnality not a human instinctive reaction. \nAnd yes not respecting something is disrespectful. Its not that hard to understand. \nAnyway if i see you.. i dont know having a breakdown after being fired and dumped and start to laugh you'd like that ? \nIf im sad because something good happens to you and show it to you, you would like that ? \nHonestly you are just trying to justify being a bit of a jerk. \nI dont blame you or anything we all are jerks sometime but its what you are doing right now.", ">\n\nI have to refocus my eyes and most of the time blinking doesn’t cut it. I have a lazy eye and when I look at someone for a long time it unfocuses, so moving the muscle is the only way to reset it. If I don’t, people start moving their heads/ bodies trying to focus on my lazy eye. It gets awkward.", ">\n\nThis is where I go to my training as a kid. What others think of you is none of your business.", ">\n\nUnless you have a tick or something like Tourette’s syndrome, then it’s not an involuntary response. Part of living in a society and not being considered rude is managing your body language.\nLet me put it this way. “Rudeness” in itself is a social concept. That means it’s decided by the perception of the masses, what we generally agree upon in terms of our symbols of communication, our customs, our beliefs, our values, etc. For you to say that rolling your eyes isn’t disrespectful is not objectively wrong. But according to the society you live in, it is wrong. In layman’s terms, the hill you’re dying on here is completely arbitrary, neither side will ever be truly correct but as long as you live in a society which feels this way then you will be beholden to it anyways.", ">\n\nTo be fair, if your thinking its stupid or lame, then that is dis-respect. I'd agree with this if it was worded like 'More people need to say what they truly think', but I think you sort of missed the mark, OP.", ">\n\nI am equally annoyed when folks rapidly blink and look away mid conversation or drop their arm dead against their thigh. It’s like you’ve given up an effort to even keep your body vertical and engaged while I’m talking to you.", ">\n\nOP getting downvoted AF & keeps commenting. Gotta love it.", ">\n\nIt is shown as a sign of disrespect and it shows weakness. I can’t imagine Gandhi, the queen of England or Einstein roll their eyes in front of random people. The reason why they were respected is because they didn’t play any superiority game on front of… inferiors or ignorant people. If something is stupid, get the patience and find enough love within yourself to treat the other ones right. \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a child because his question is “stupid”, what parent does it make you ? \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a bad question because you are an expert in a subject, then it is not your modesty that speaks but your ego. For proof : Even if someone you hate said something intelligent, you might want to roll your eyes just to flatter your ego.", ">\n\nIt's seen as disrespectful BECAUSE it's inadvertently telling them you think they're irritating/annoying.", ">\n\nI never roll my eyes? Is that something people do naturally?", ">\n\nAll depends on the context of what is going on.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is not a natural reaction?", ">\n\nNot maintaining basic self control is disrespectful. It's the same reason we don't defecate in public, sneeze on people, or stand in the way of foot traffic.", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s and one of my tics is eye rolling", ">\n\nK", ">\n\nI accidentally roll my eyes at people sometimes when I'm not even trying to", ">\n\nThe sign of a true unpopular opinion: Nobody upvoting it, but everybody commenting to say how they disagree. If you disagree, then give it an upvote. That's the point of this sub.", ">\n\nI think it depends.", ">\n\nThis had to be written by someone under the age of 25", ">\n\nRolling your eyes isn’t natural though. It’s cultural or socially learned if that makes sense. Like if you rolled your eyes at a tribe that is disconnected from society they wouldn’t understand that you’re annoyed. So you cant really compare it to laughing.", ">\n\nI'm kind of curious if this is true though. Are you assuming this, or do you have some kind of study proving this? I'd actually like to see if your hypothesis is true, or if remote tribes also use this facial gesture.", ">\n\nI’m assuming it. Back in my country Turkey if you rolled your eyes at my grandparents they would be confused and wonder what you were doing and what it meant.", ">\n\nit's a maturity thing, keep rolling your eyes at 30-40, everyone gonna see you like a kid. \nyou gotta control your emotions, there's no need to do a expression when something is stupid or lame, you got a mouth and you respectfully share what's wrong, if the person in the other end is reluctant to stay on the same boat even after you talk about it. then you don't roll your eyes, you gotta say that there's nothing more you can do, and that you don't agree with it, and most likely leave to dodge any sort of problem.", ">\n\nI have a tic where I constantly roll my eyes. I’ve had it since I was little, but never noticed it until years later when I high school teacher yelled at me for disrespect. Apparently my parents took me for evaluation when I was very young and diagnosed Tourette’s but never had any other tics develop. Would have been nice to know 🤦🏼‍♀️ I just apologize now and say it’s a compulsion if people ask. I don’t even know when I’m doing it", ">\n\nIs laughing disrespectful? Because it can be. Just like rolling your eyes can be. There is a time and place for everything", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a passive aggressive response. Passive aggression is a tactic used by meek people who are frustrated and don’t have the courage to address a given situation. It’s disrespectful and it lowers your standing in the social hierarchy.", ">\n\nGet back to me when Disney Dad actively encourages your offspring to roll their eyes at you.", ">\n\nYeah it is when I want to be disrespectful to someone I roll my eyes when they make a point. It might be annoying to them, but it also let's them know I don't give a shit about whatever they just said. Now, I would never to it to my boss, or my teachers while I was in college, but when I was a teen I did it all the time because I was an asshole, who didn't care. \nIt's not a natural reaction lmao, it is learned behavior and it can be a bad habit, but it can be unlearned.", ">\n\nSome people can’t control it I know with me sometimes I roll my eyes without meaning too it’s not that I’m trying to be rude it’s just something I didn’t even realize I was doing nor did I mean too", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nI have a friend who thinks like you do, which is based on your responses to the comments. He has very poor social skills and is on the autism spectrum", ">\n\nI bet you're lots of fun at parties OP.", ">\n\nI can’t tell if this is farming karma with ridiculous opinions or if this individual just has a really hard time understanding that maybe their parents aren’t always the bad guys." ]
> What a stupid argument, take your upvote	[ "🙄", ">\n\nYou’re grounded now", ">\n\nThe post above was someone getting electrocuted so this reply was very timely", ">\n\nThis news is shocking", ">\n\nIt definitely SPARKED my interest", ">\n\nAll of you guys need to leave, and not come back before learning how to conduct yourselves properly", ">\n\nUhhhh....... electricity", ">\n\nWell no, in the right context it is disrespectful. Rolling your eyes suggests that you're not taking the matter seriously or that you dont care which is a sign of disrespect towards whoever is speaking with you.", ">\n\nBut I can't control what I think. If I said \"man you're stupid and I don't care what you say\" thats disrespectful. I'm actually showing respect by not saying it.", ">\n\nI mean, actions speak louder than words, right?", ">\n\nIts not really an action tho its just an automatic response. Like gasping or yawning.", ">\n\nbullshit.\nSorry, it was an automatic response. Which is bullshit just like yours.", ">\n\nStill not the same thing. And they get on me for false analogies....", ">\n\nYou must be a teenager", ">\n\nLol how many times are you gonna post that. Dont you have an original thought of your own?", ">\n\nBruh I cant believe you make these posts. They're foolish", ">\n\nLaughing at someone can be disrespectful. Don't think so? Try laughing at someone's funeral.", ">\n\nThe disrespect comes from the one who told me a joke and made me laugh.", ">\n\nWhat about if no one said any joke? Because, you know, you are at a funeral.", ">\n\nSo someone's just there randomly laughing at shit? That sounds like a mental illness.", ">\n\nYou have never thought of something funny in your head to make yourself laugh? \nOr hell, maybe you didn't like the person who is buried and decided to laugh at them. You find it funny, so laughing must be appropriate, right?", ">\n\nWhy am I thinking about funny shit at a funeral.", ">\n\nBecause the universe likes to put us in uncomfortable positions sometimes.", ">\n\n“if its stupid or lame, you roll your eyes” - you found the disrespect", ">\n\nIm allowed to think whatever i want and its not disrespectful.", ">\n\nWhen you express contempt for something someone else said, it's disrespect.", ">\n\nWhat if what they said is contemptible?", ">\n\nSome people and comments deserve disrespect, still gonna be disrespect", ">\n\nLaughing, crying, and sneezing are all innate, involuntary reactions to certain types of stimuli. Rolling your eyes is a learned behavior. You can’t compare it to those other automatic responses because it’s not the same thing.", ">\n\nTake my upvote", ">\n\nOP rolled their eyes at someone and got chewed out for it.\nNow they're going online in an attempt to validate themselves.\n🙄", ">\n\nProbably got grounded.", ">\n\nPart of being a mature adult is to have self-control and not acting on every impulse and being respectful of people.", ">\n\n\nPart of being a mature adult\n\nYup but OP is clearly a teenager lol. They complain about being told off for doing chores wrong in another post…", ">\n\nEven a teenager should be able to have the fundamental basics of respect", ">\n\nOh I agree 100%", ">\n\nYou have poor self-control and poor self-awareness but the good news is that you can improve these things.", ">\n\n/r/wrongopinions", ">\n\nI feel like we need a new subreddit r/unpopularforareason", ">\n\nIt’s entire purpose is to be disrespectful. Nobody eyerolls something they respect. But how offensive it is depends on the context and how serious one is being.", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes\n\nYou rn: \"I'm not being disrespectful. I just thought what you said was stupid or lame.\"\n...", ">\n\nSaying its stupid could be disrespectful. A facial response is not.", ">\n\nLiterally every person in this thread agrees that it is.\nThis is your bad habit. Nobody else's responsibility but you.", ">\n\nThey can choose to not fly off the handle at what is just an innate reaction.", ">\n\nSo let me get this straight: you think you deserve to be able to disrespect whoever you like whenever you like but they can't as much as say you're being rude? Grow up.", ">\n\nFound the teenager.", ">\n\nMeh, I agree with that one. If you don't like how someone is doing something then do it yourself. There's a reason I live alone.", ">\n\nIt is a UNIVERSAL sign of disrespect. Globally. Deal with it.", ">\n\nLaughing can be disrespectuful too. If you cannot control your own reactions, well, what can I say, maybe you have not really grown up?", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s so it’s hard to control my own actions sometimes…", ">\n\nThank u I'm trying to explain how autism can make it hard to read not just others facial expressions but also ur own and it seems like no one has thought of the possibility that they acc don't realise it or csnt control it", ">\n\nWould you roll your eyes during a job interview if you thought a question was stupid or irrelevant? Do you think you’d get the job if you did?", ">\n\nPretty sure OP would think they were owed that job and they would think it’s ridiculous if they didn’t get it.\nOP is also a teenager going through their rebel phase though", ">\n\nYou're oddly specific here.", ">\n\nWhat was specific? Or rather oddly specific?", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a good way to fast track yourself to a divorce, if you want one.", ">\n\nI think OP needs the definition of respect before any further comment is made", ">\n\nOh I already know it, and I know it does not mean:\nDon't ever disagree with me\nDon't think bad thoughts about me\nDon't ever correct me when I'm blatantly wrong \nShine my boots with your tongue", ">\n\nSoooo this post isn’t about eye rolling is what I’m getting from this. You’ve got issues to work through with your parents or partner or something", ">\n\nSince when tf was eye rolling involuntary?", ">", ">\n\nYour lack of self control is not a justification for disrespect. I personally dont know anyone who reacts to anything by rolling their eyes. Just be mature and communicate.", ">\n\nAnd what if it's not stupid and someone rolls their eyes? Wouldn't it be disrespectful in that case?", ">\n\nIn the eye rollers opinion then it must have been. But you can't fault someone for thinking its stupid.", ">\n\nSo eyerolling is some kind of exceptional thing that is free from criticism? \nIf one has the freedom to eye roll, then someone else has the freedom to criticize the eye roller right? \nOr is it your opinion that besides that everyone who sees an eye roller has to just stfu", ">\n\nMeh, it is disrespectful. It's a way to be disrespectful without having to say That's the dumbest thing I've heard all month, and everyone else who heard it is also dumber for hearing it as well.", ">\n\nBut I didn't say it that's the point.", ">\n\nJust cuz you don’t use words doesn’t mean it’s not disrespectful. Walking away while someone is talking to you, rolling your eyes, slapping someone, and starting to play a game on your phone while someone is talking to you are all disrespectful. It doesn’t matter that you didn’t say anything, your lack of respect still showed.", ">\n\nespecially the way theyre responding to comments", ">\n\nYeah, a natural reaction if you’ve never learned to manage your emotions as opposed to letting them run your life. I’m not talking about being totally monotone rational, either. You need to learn a balance between rational and emotional…which includes healthy, appropriate, respectful expression of honest feelings. Eye rolling is absolutely disrespectful, belittling, and dismissive.", ">\n\nComments: OP is completely wrong and has attitude issues", ">\n\nWhat sounds like mental illness is you refusing to admit that rolling your eyes is simply not an unconditional response. Whether you want to believe it or not, you are doing it intentionally and you can control it. \nYou’re just to much of a b—— to do so.", ">\n\nSame to you", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a learned reaction. Not natural. I rarely of ever roll my eyes at anything.", ">", ">\n\nJust like raising your middle finger. Or vocalizing the sounds \"fuck you\". Or fingers typing the words fuck you OP. Nothing is disrespectful!", ">\n\nNice try but not the same thing at all. You're talking about thought out actions here. The eye roll is more like a reaction. Its quick, its automatic, no one has to think \"im rolling my eyes now\" it just happens. \nSort of like when telling a lie - no one decides to have their eyes dart around suspiciously, it just happens.", ">\n\nNo. Rolling your eyes is not involuntary. It can be controlled. You have a bad habit that you CAN stop. Much like a child learning not to suck their thumb, or biting your nails.", ">\n\nHow about you start with your hair scratching", ">\n\nYour opinion is a contradiction in itself. And, yeah. I disagree. Rolling your eyes is 100% to show lack of respect, and you have no intentions of showing it, even to reason, by rolling your eyes at something someone could believe is meaningful or important. Even if it is stupid.\nI get your point, we roll our eyes to express how we feel, but it is still a physical snare. You say rolling your eyes isn't disrespectful, while saying it's okay to roll your eyes because something is \" stupid or lame\", which in itself is disrespectful. You sound like a very young person in the middle of a learning moment, and you're trying to react with rebellion. It only shows that you lack maturity and are in need of growth. This might be a time for you to read these comments and reevaluate. There are healthier ways to react to things you disagree with, or lack interest in. If not, you can just accept that you roll your eyes to show lack of respect.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is much more deliberate than laughter, tears, or sneezing. It's a conscious action in response to a judgement you're making.", ">\n\nNah, dude it is disrespectful \nYou just have no self control and by the looks of it you don't want to build some", ">\n\nYour post made me roll my eyes very hard.", ">\n\n“No, officer, my wife - she MADE me hit her!”", ">\n\nIt's a natural reaction for a sooky kid but not an adult, if you do that as an adult you just manchild that wants everything their way", ">\n\npoor OP.... did you get in trouble after you rolled your eyes at something again? did you not prehaps learn from previous interactions? rolling your eyes at something \"stupid or lame\" is an intentional response that is disrespectful to whatever it is. mature people dont act that way.....", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes.\n\nSo it is disrespectful. \n\nIts like throwing pepper in someone's face an expecting them not to sneeze.\n\nNo it’s not. You can easily (edited in) refrain from rolling your eyes, while it’s much more difficult to refrain from sneezing. \nIt’s fine to think whatever you want, but you might want to refrain from rolling your eyes when you’re, say, interacting with your boss; aka someone that can make you unemployed for whatever reason they please.", ">\n\nThis isn't an opinion. It's just flat wrong. \nIt is disrespectful because it is a conscious signifier which clearly communicated that you think that the thing you are rolling your eyes at is not worthy of respect.", ">\n\nYou have to go out of your way to roll your eyes. It is NOT gutteral or instinctual", ">\n\nIf you annoy me, my arm whips out in a natural reaction and slaps you.", ">\n\nSorry, kiddo, it’s 100% disrespectful. Just own the shit and quit trying to lawyer around it.\nI say that after having rolled my eyes so hard at your post, I travelled back in time.", ">\n\nTell that to my family lol you get the belt", ">\n\nThis was made my a 15 year old who just got told off by their mom about rolling their eyes. Then in defense said, “I can’t control it”", ">\n\nMan it's getting so aggressive sometimes here 😂", ">\n\ni certainly hope you are embarrassed about this in a couple years when you grow up.", ">\n\nOP is a habitual eye roller 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄", ">\n\nI wish to God we could block people by age, no more edgy 13yo’s", ">\n\nSomebody just got their ps5 taken away for rolling their eyes", ">\n\nTell me you're 12 without telling me you're 12.", ">\n\nit’s the definition of disrespectful and a sign that you have literally nothing intelligent to say in return. \nwhich is why we outgrow it as adults.", ">\n\nYou can control it. It’s not an “automatic response” unless you’ve taught yourself to do it. I never roll my eyes. It’s just not something I have ever practiced doing. And yes…if I’m saying something too you and you dismiss it with an eye roll…it’s super disrespectful.", ">\n\nrolling your eyes is just as respectful as sticking your tongue out at someone or making a stupid face in reaction to something someone says", ">\n\nIf you can’t control your eye movement, you need to see a neurologist, dude 😆. As it stands, eye rolling isn’t a reflex or a “natural reaction” to anything. Habits aren’t the same as involuntary reactions.\nRolling your eyes at someone is disrespectful. It’s an outward sign that you think something about your interaction with them was stupid or wrong. There’s no one here that will agree with you, and you know that you’re in the vast minority with this opinion because you posted it on this sub. Now learn some humility and accept that your opinion is factually incorrect based on science.", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nAre you like 14 and your mom got you in trouble cause you rolled your eyes at her? Lmao", ">\n\nI’m gonna show your mom this and it’s going to be another week of being grounded, you little shit lol", ">\n\nOmfg 😂", ">\n\nOP I have to ask.\n\n\nHow old are you?\n\n\nHow is your relationship with your parents?\n\n\nHow do you view authority figures in your life?", ">\n\nrolls eyes", ">\n\nIf you say or demand something stupid from me I will probably roll my eyes.", ">\n\nBut it is", ">\n\nJust like rolling your eyes is an innate response, so are other people's responses to you rolling your eyes.", ">\n\nSometimes being respectful requires hiding your subjective opinion on whether something is stupid or lame.", ">\n\nI wouldn’t say eye rolling is as involuntary as laughing or crying tho. It’s more of a choice.", ">\n\nIf someone rolls their eyes then I feel disrespected it’s a natural reaction.", ">\n\ntell me you're a teenager without telling me you're a teenager", ">\n\nI'm rolling my eyes at this post. And I definitely mean it disrespectfully.", ">\n\nLmao this kid had an argument with his parent(s) or teacher and is venting on Reddit.", ">\n\nYou sound like an eye rolling arsehole", ">\n\ni have never had an as a nonvoulentary action, it requires very explicit movement of you eye. this is like saying “when i dont like people, i punch them in the head, thats my natural reaction i cant control it”\ni have never once legitimately rolled my eyes at something, i think you might be an asshole", ">\n\nMe smacking your face is also an innate uncontrollable response to you rolling your eyes. I'm only human. What can I do? 🙄", ">\n\nI disagree. also there are a billion other ways to express something being stupid or lame than rolling ur eyes", ">\n\nStop downvoting, this is ACTUALLY a very unpopular opinion and I love to see it tbh. Voice your disagreement in the comments but don't downvote the post. This post is hilarious.", ">\n\nThis is something you’ve learned to do. It’s entirely in your control if you do it or not.", ">\n\nI once got a detention for rolling my eyes at a teacher in 4th grade.\nI agree with you, though. The only other person I've ever really rolled my eyes at was my mother, and she deserved it, every single time.", ">\n\nI get your point. I absolutely purposefully roll my eyes sometimes and whoever I'm doing it to would be valid for getting mad. \nBut as someone who can't hide any emotion on their face (literally any, I'm the definition of an open book) there have been plenty of times where people blew up at me or laughed because I rolled my eyes when I didn't even realize I had done it. Feel like the people disagreeing with you haven't experienced this problem.", ">\n\nWhat you've done is cultivate a bad habit and then blamed it on everyone else when you repeat your own bad habit unintentionally.\nThis is entirely your fault.", ">\n\nOnly on Reddit would someone so boldly declare something like this to a stranger. I'm on the spectrum so that might have to do with my not being able to hide any emotion (I truly mean that, people can basically read my thoughts just by looking at me, good and bad). \nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave. Consider working on that.", ">\n\nSo they point out you’re cultivating a bad habit and blaming other people so you then, blame them? It’s a little spot on don’t you think?", ">\n\nWhen did i blame them for my own actions? Could you quote me? I was just pointing out how weird it was that they made such a strong assumption of my character off a causal comment I left when they themselves were ironically being unnecessarily rude in the process. \nI don't know how you got so lost?", ">\n\n\nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave.\n\nClassic deflection and implication that they’re the one with the problem, not you", ">\n\nFirst its not automatic. I almost never rolled my eyes. Its much easier to control than laughing crying or sneezing. So you just dont make the effort. Its actually a way to express your feeling. You should know that, its your personnality not a human instinctive reaction. \nAnd yes not respecting something is disrespectful. Its not that hard to understand. \nAnyway if i see you.. i dont know having a breakdown after being fired and dumped and start to laugh you'd like that ? \nIf im sad because something good happens to you and show it to you, you would like that ? \nHonestly you are just trying to justify being a bit of a jerk. \nI dont blame you or anything we all are jerks sometime but its what you are doing right now.", ">\n\nI have to refocus my eyes and most of the time blinking doesn’t cut it. I have a lazy eye and when I look at someone for a long time it unfocuses, so moving the muscle is the only way to reset it. If I don’t, people start moving their heads/ bodies trying to focus on my lazy eye. It gets awkward.", ">\n\nThis is where I go to my training as a kid. What others think of you is none of your business.", ">\n\nUnless you have a tick or something like Tourette’s syndrome, then it’s not an involuntary response. Part of living in a society and not being considered rude is managing your body language.\nLet me put it this way. “Rudeness” in itself is a social concept. That means it’s decided by the perception of the masses, what we generally agree upon in terms of our symbols of communication, our customs, our beliefs, our values, etc. For you to say that rolling your eyes isn’t disrespectful is not objectively wrong. But according to the society you live in, it is wrong. In layman’s terms, the hill you’re dying on here is completely arbitrary, neither side will ever be truly correct but as long as you live in a society which feels this way then you will be beholden to it anyways.", ">\n\nTo be fair, if your thinking its stupid or lame, then that is dis-respect. I'd agree with this if it was worded like 'More people need to say what they truly think', but I think you sort of missed the mark, OP.", ">\n\nI am equally annoyed when folks rapidly blink and look away mid conversation or drop their arm dead against their thigh. It’s like you’ve given up an effort to even keep your body vertical and engaged while I’m talking to you.", ">\n\nOP getting downvoted AF & keeps commenting. Gotta love it.", ">\n\nIt is shown as a sign of disrespect and it shows weakness. I can’t imagine Gandhi, the queen of England or Einstein roll their eyes in front of random people. The reason why they were respected is because they didn’t play any superiority game on front of… inferiors or ignorant people. If something is stupid, get the patience and find enough love within yourself to treat the other ones right. \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a child because his question is “stupid”, what parent does it make you ? \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a bad question because you are an expert in a subject, then it is not your modesty that speaks but your ego. For proof : Even if someone you hate said something intelligent, you might want to roll your eyes just to flatter your ego.", ">\n\nIt's seen as disrespectful BECAUSE it's inadvertently telling them you think they're irritating/annoying.", ">\n\nI never roll my eyes? Is that something people do naturally?", ">\n\nAll depends on the context of what is going on.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is not a natural reaction?", ">\n\nNot maintaining basic self control is disrespectful. It's the same reason we don't defecate in public, sneeze on people, or stand in the way of foot traffic.", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s and one of my tics is eye rolling", ">\n\nK", ">\n\nI accidentally roll my eyes at people sometimes when I'm not even trying to", ">\n\nThe sign of a true unpopular opinion: Nobody upvoting it, but everybody commenting to say how they disagree. If you disagree, then give it an upvote. That's the point of this sub.", ">\n\nI think it depends.", ">\n\nThis had to be written by someone under the age of 25", ">\n\nRolling your eyes isn’t natural though. It’s cultural or socially learned if that makes sense. Like if you rolled your eyes at a tribe that is disconnected from society they wouldn’t understand that you’re annoyed. So you cant really compare it to laughing.", ">\n\nI'm kind of curious if this is true though. Are you assuming this, or do you have some kind of study proving this? I'd actually like to see if your hypothesis is true, or if remote tribes also use this facial gesture.", ">\n\nI’m assuming it. Back in my country Turkey if you rolled your eyes at my grandparents they would be confused and wonder what you were doing and what it meant.", ">\n\nit's a maturity thing, keep rolling your eyes at 30-40, everyone gonna see you like a kid. \nyou gotta control your emotions, there's no need to do a expression when something is stupid or lame, you got a mouth and you respectfully share what's wrong, if the person in the other end is reluctant to stay on the same boat even after you talk about it. then you don't roll your eyes, you gotta say that there's nothing more you can do, and that you don't agree with it, and most likely leave to dodge any sort of problem.", ">\n\nI have a tic where I constantly roll my eyes. I’ve had it since I was little, but never noticed it until years later when I high school teacher yelled at me for disrespect. Apparently my parents took me for evaluation when I was very young and diagnosed Tourette’s but never had any other tics develop. Would have been nice to know 🤦🏼‍♀️ I just apologize now and say it’s a compulsion if people ask. I don’t even know when I’m doing it", ">\n\nIs laughing disrespectful? Because it can be. Just like rolling your eyes can be. There is a time and place for everything", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a passive aggressive response. Passive aggression is a tactic used by meek people who are frustrated and don’t have the courage to address a given situation. It’s disrespectful and it lowers your standing in the social hierarchy.", ">\n\nGet back to me when Disney Dad actively encourages your offspring to roll their eyes at you.", ">\n\nYeah it is when I want to be disrespectful to someone I roll my eyes when they make a point. It might be annoying to them, but it also let's them know I don't give a shit about whatever they just said. Now, I would never to it to my boss, or my teachers while I was in college, but when I was a teen I did it all the time because I was an asshole, who didn't care. \nIt's not a natural reaction lmao, it is learned behavior and it can be a bad habit, but it can be unlearned.", ">\n\nSome people can’t control it I know with me sometimes I roll my eyes without meaning too it’s not that I’m trying to be rude it’s just something I didn’t even realize I was doing nor did I mean too", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nI have a friend who thinks like you do, which is based on your responses to the comments. He has very poor social skills and is on the autism spectrum", ">\n\nI bet you're lots of fun at parties OP.", ">\n\nI can’t tell if this is farming karma with ridiculous opinions or if this individual just has a really hard time understanding that maybe their parents aren’t always the bad guys.", ">\n\nYep, thats definitely an unpopular opinion! \nIts certainly disrespectful. And most certainly not some sort of involuntary response like a sneeze. It may feel that way to you, because you've done it so much - but there are plenty of people who don't do it. UNLIKE people who don't sneeze at pepper, or cough at dust. Like, you're just plain wrong on this one. Moreover, I think you're trying to justify/rationalize it yourself rather than address it in a healthy way - a marker suggesting you have some narcissistic tendencies." ]
> It’s a sign of contempt. The facial expression expert Dr. Eikman could predict how long a barrage would last based on 4 expressions and the frequency used when the couple was interviewed. Eye rolling was one.. in fact you could remove the others and still reasonably predict marriage failures.	[ "🙄", ">\n\nYou’re grounded now", ">\n\nThe post above was someone getting electrocuted so this reply was very timely", ">\n\nThis news is shocking", ">\n\nIt definitely SPARKED my interest", ">\n\nAll of you guys need to leave, and not come back before learning how to conduct yourselves properly", ">\n\nUhhhh....... electricity", ">\n\nWell no, in the right context it is disrespectful. Rolling your eyes suggests that you're not taking the matter seriously or that you dont care which is a sign of disrespect towards whoever is speaking with you.", ">\n\nBut I can't control what I think. If I said \"man you're stupid and I don't care what you say\" thats disrespectful. I'm actually showing respect by not saying it.", ">\n\nI mean, actions speak louder than words, right?", ">\n\nIts not really an action tho its just an automatic response. Like gasping or yawning.", ">\n\nbullshit.\nSorry, it was an automatic response. Which is bullshit just like yours.", ">\n\nStill not the same thing. And they get on me for false analogies....", ">\n\nYou must be a teenager", ">\n\nLol how many times are you gonna post that. Dont you have an original thought of your own?", ">\n\nBruh I cant believe you make these posts. They're foolish", ">\n\nLaughing at someone can be disrespectful. Don't think so? Try laughing at someone's funeral.", ">\n\nThe disrespect comes from the one who told me a joke and made me laugh.", ">\n\nWhat about if no one said any joke? Because, you know, you are at a funeral.", ">\n\nSo someone's just there randomly laughing at shit? That sounds like a mental illness.", ">\n\nYou have never thought of something funny in your head to make yourself laugh? \nOr hell, maybe you didn't like the person who is buried and decided to laugh at them. You find it funny, so laughing must be appropriate, right?", ">\n\nWhy am I thinking about funny shit at a funeral.", ">\n\nBecause the universe likes to put us in uncomfortable positions sometimes.", ">\n\n“if its stupid or lame, you roll your eyes” - you found the disrespect", ">\n\nIm allowed to think whatever i want and its not disrespectful.", ">\n\nWhen you express contempt for something someone else said, it's disrespect.", ">\n\nWhat if what they said is contemptible?", ">\n\nSome people and comments deserve disrespect, still gonna be disrespect", ">\n\nLaughing, crying, and sneezing are all innate, involuntary reactions to certain types of stimuli. Rolling your eyes is a learned behavior. You can’t compare it to those other automatic responses because it’s not the same thing.", ">\n\nTake my upvote", ">\n\nOP rolled their eyes at someone and got chewed out for it.\nNow they're going online in an attempt to validate themselves.\n🙄", ">\n\nProbably got grounded.", ">\n\nPart of being a mature adult is to have self-control and not acting on every impulse and being respectful of people.", ">\n\n\nPart of being a mature adult\n\nYup but OP is clearly a teenager lol. They complain about being told off for doing chores wrong in another post…", ">\n\nEven a teenager should be able to have the fundamental basics of respect", ">\n\nOh I agree 100%", ">\n\nYou have poor self-control and poor self-awareness but the good news is that you can improve these things.", ">\n\n/r/wrongopinions", ">\n\nI feel like we need a new subreddit r/unpopularforareason", ">\n\nIt’s entire purpose is to be disrespectful. Nobody eyerolls something they respect. But how offensive it is depends on the context and how serious one is being.", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes\n\nYou rn: \"I'm not being disrespectful. I just thought what you said was stupid or lame.\"\n...", ">\n\nSaying its stupid could be disrespectful. A facial response is not.", ">\n\nLiterally every person in this thread agrees that it is.\nThis is your bad habit. Nobody else's responsibility but you.", ">\n\nThey can choose to not fly off the handle at what is just an innate reaction.", ">\n\nSo let me get this straight: you think you deserve to be able to disrespect whoever you like whenever you like but they can't as much as say you're being rude? Grow up.", ">\n\nFound the teenager.", ">\n\nMeh, I agree with that one. If you don't like how someone is doing something then do it yourself. There's a reason I live alone.", ">\n\nIt is a UNIVERSAL sign of disrespect. Globally. Deal with it.", ">\n\nLaughing can be disrespectuful too. If you cannot control your own reactions, well, what can I say, maybe you have not really grown up?", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s so it’s hard to control my own actions sometimes…", ">\n\nThank u I'm trying to explain how autism can make it hard to read not just others facial expressions but also ur own and it seems like no one has thought of the possibility that they acc don't realise it or csnt control it", ">\n\nWould you roll your eyes during a job interview if you thought a question was stupid or irrelevant? Do you think you’d get the job if you did?", ">\n\nPretty sure OP would think they were owed that job and they would think it’s ridiculous if they didn’t get it.\nOP is also a teenager going through their rebel phase though", ">\n\nYou're oddly specific here.", ">\n\nWhat was specific? Or rather oddly specific?", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a good way to fast track yourself to a divorce, if you want one.", ">\n\nI think OP needs the definition of respect before any further comment is made", ">\n\nOh I already know it, and I know it does not mean:\nDon't ever disagree with me\nDon't think bad thoughts about me\nDon't ever correct me when I'm blatantly wrong \nShine my boots with your tongue", ">\n\nSoooo this post isn’t about eye rolling is what I’m getting from this. You’ve got issues to work through with your parents or partner or something", ">\n\nSince when tf was eye rolling involuntary?", ">", ">\n\nYour lack of self control is not a justification for disrespect. I personally dont know anyone who reacts to anything by rolling their eyes. Just be mature and communicate.", ">\n\nAnd what if it's not stupid and someone rolls their eyes? Wouldn't it be disrespectful in that case?", ">\n\nIn the eye rollers opinion then it must have been. But you can't fault someone for thinking its stupid.", ">\n\nSo eyerolling is some kind of exceptional thing that is free from criticism? \nIf one has the freedom to eye roll, then someone else has the freedom to criticize the eye roller right? \nOr is it your opinion that besides that everyone who sees an eye roller has to just stfu", ">\n\nMeh, it is disrespectful. It's a way to be disrespectful without having to say That's the dumbest thing I've heard all month, and everyone else who heard it is also dumber for hearing it as well.", ">\n\nBut I didn't say it that's the point.", ">\n\nJust cuz you don’t use words doesn’t mean it’s not disrespectful. Walking away while someone is talking to you, rolling your eyes, slapping someone, and starting to play a game on your phone while someone is talking to you are all disrespectful. It doesn’t matter that you didn’t say anything, your lack of respect still showed.", ">\n\nespecially the way theyre responding to comments", ">\n\nYeah, a natural reaction if you’ve never learned to manage your emotions as opposed to letting them run your life. I’m not talking about being totally monotone rational, either. You need to learn a balance between rational and emotional…which includes healthy, appropriate, respectful expression of honest feelings. Eye rolling is absolutely disrespectful, belittling, and dismissive.", ">\n\nComments: OP is completely wrong and has attitude issues", ">\n\nWhat sounds like mental illness is you refusing to admit that rolling your eyes is simply not an unconditional response. Whether you want to believe it or not, you are doing it intentionally and you can control it. \nYou’re just to much of a b—— to do so.", ">\n\nSame to you", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a learned reaction. Not natural. I rarely of ever roll my eyes at anything.", ">", ">\n\nJust like raising your middle finger. Or vocalizing the sounds \"fuck you\". Or fingers typing the words fuck you OP. Nothing is disrespectful!", ">\n\nNice try but not the same thing at all. You're talking about thought out actions here. The eye roll is more like a reaction. Its quick, its automatic, no one has to think \"im rolling my eyes now\" it just happens. \nSort of like when telling a lie - no one decides to have their eyes dart around suspiciously, it just happens.", ">\n\nNo. Rolling your eyes is not involuntary. It can be controlled. You have a bad habit that you CAN stop. Much like a child learning not to suck their thumb, or biting your nails.", ">\n\nHow about you start with your hair scratching", ">\n\nYour opinion is a contradiction in itself. And, yeah. I disagree. Rolling your eyes is 100% to show lack of respect, and you have no intentions of showing it, even to reason, by rolling your eyes at something someone could believe is meaningful or important. Even if it is stupid.\nI get your point, we roll our eyes to express how we feel, but it is still a physical snare. You say rolling your eyes isn't disrespectful, while saying it's okay to roll your eyes because something is \" stupid or lame\", which in itself is disrespectful. You sound like a very young person in the middle of a learning moment, and you're trying to react with rebellion. It only shows that you lack maturity and are in need of growth. This might be a time for you to read these comments and reevaluate. There are healthier ways to react to things you disagree with, or lack interest in. If not, you can just accept that you roll your eyes to show lack of respect.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is much more deliberate than laughter, tears, or sneezing. It's a conscious action in response to a judgement you're making.", ">\n\nNah, dude it is disrespectful \nYou just have no self control and by the looks of it you don't want to build some", ">\n\nYour post made me roll my eyes very hard.", ">\n\n“No, officer, my wife - she MADE me hit her!”", ">\n\nIt's a natural reaction for a sooky kid but not an adult, if you do that as an adult you just manchild that wants everything their way", ">\n\npoor OP.... did you get in trouble after you rolled your eyes at something again? did you not prehaps learn from previous interactions? rolling your eyes at something \"stupid or lame\" is an intentional response that is disrespectful to whatever it is. mature people dont act that way.....", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes.\n\nSo it is disrespectful. \n\nIts like throwing pepper in someone's face an expecting them not to sneeze.\n\nNo it’s not. You can easily (edited in) refrain from rolling your eyes, while it’s much more difficult to refrain from sneezing. \nIt’s fine to think whatever you want, but you might want to refrain from rolling your eyes when you’re, say, interacting with your boss; aka someone that can make you unemployed for whatever reason they please.", ">\n\nThis isn't an opinion. It's just flat wrong. \nIt is disrespectful because it is a conscious signifier which clearly communicated that you think that the thing you are rolling your eyes at is not worthy of respect.", ">\n\nYou have to go out of your way to roll your eyes. It is NOT gutteral or instinctual", ">\n\nIf you annoy me, my arm whips out in a natural reaction and slaps you.", ">\n\nSorry, kiddo, it’s 100% disrespectful. Just own the shit and quit trying to lawyer around it.\nI say that after having rolled my eyes so hard at your post, I travelled back in time.", ">\n\nTell that to my family lol you get the belt", ">\n\nThis was made my a 15 year old who just got told off by their mom about rolling their eyes. Then in defense said, “I can’t control it”", ">\n\nMan it's getting so aggressive sometimes here 😂", ">\n\ni certainly hope you are embarrassed about this in a couple years when you grow up.", ">\n\nOP is a habitual eye roller 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄", ">\n\nI wish to God we could block people by age, no more edgy 13yo’s", ">\n\nSomebody just got their ps5 taken away for rolling their eyes", ">\n\nTell me you're 12 without telling me you're 12.", ">\n\nit’s the definition of disrespectful and a sign that you have literally nothing intelligent to say in return. \nwhich is why we outgrow it as adults.", ">\n\nYou can control it. It’s not an “automatic response” unless you’ve taught yourself to do it. I never roll my eyes. It’s just not something I have ever practiced doing. And yes…if I’m saying something too you and you dismiss it with an eye roll…it’s super disrespectful.", ">\n\nrolling your eyes is just as respectful as sticking your tongue out at someone or making a stupid face in reaction to something someone says", ">\n\nIf you can’t control your eye movement, you need to see a neurologist, dude 😆. As it stands, eye rolling isn’t a reflex or a “natural reaction” to anything. Habits aren’t the same as involuntary reactions.\nRolling your eyes at someone is disrespectful. It’s an outward sign that you think something about your interaction with them was stupid or wrong. There’s no one here that will agree with you, and you know that you’re in the vast minority with this opinion because you posted it on this sub. Now learn some humility and accept that your opinion is factually incorrect based on science.", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nAre you like 14 and your mom got you in trouble cause you rolled your eyes at her? Lmao", ">\n\nI’m gonna show your mom this and it’s going to be another week of being grounded, you little shit lol", ">\n\nOmfg 😂", ">\n\nOP I have to ask.\n\n\nHow old are you?\n\n\nHow is your relationship with your parents?\n\n\nHow do you view authority figures in your life?", ">\n\nrolls eyes", ">\n\nIf you say or demand something stupid from me I will probably roll my eyes.", ">\n\nBut it is", ">\n\nJust like rolling your eyes is an innate response, so are other people's responses to you rolling your eyes.", ">\n\nSometimes being respectful requires hiding your subjective opinion on whether something is stupid or lame.", ">\n\nI wouldn’t say eye rolling is as involuntary as laughing or crying tho. It’s more of a choice.", ">\n\nIf someone rolls their eyes then I feel disrespected it’s a natural reaction.", ">\n\ntell me you're a teenager without telling me you're a teenager", ">\n\nI'm rolling my eyes at this post. And I definitely mean it disrespectfully.", ">\n\nLmao this kid had an argument with his parent(s) or teacher and is venting on Reddit.", ">\n\nYou sound like an eye rolling arsehole", ">\n\ni have never had an as a nonvoulentary action, it requires very explicit movement of you eye. this is like saying “when i dont like people, i punch them in the head, thats my natural reaction i cant control it”\ni have never once legitimately rolled my eyes at something, i think you might be an asshole", ">\n\nMe smacking your face is also an innate uncontrollable response to you rolling your eyes. I'm only human. What can I do? 🙄", ">\n\nI disagree. also there are a billion other ways to express something being stupid or lame than rolling ur eyes", ">\n\nStop downvoting, this is ACTUALLY a very unpopular opinion and I love to see it tbh. Voice your disagreement in the comments but don't downvote the post. This post is hilarious.", ">\n\nThis is something you’ve learned to do. It’s entirely in your control if you do it or not.", ">\n\nI once got a detention for rolling my eyes at a teacher in 4th grade.\nI agree with you, though. The only other person I've ever really rolled my eyes at was my mother, and she deserved it, every single time.", ">\n\nI get your point. I absolutely purposefully roll my eyes sometimes and whoever I'm doing it to would be valid for getting mad. \nBut as someone who can't hide any emotion on their face (literally any, I'm the definition of an open book) there have been plenty of times where people blew up at me or laughed because I rolled my eyes when I didn't even realize I had done it. Feel like the people disagreeing with you haven't experienced this problem.", ">\n\nWhat you've done is cultivate a bad habit and then blamed it on everyone else when you repeat your own bad habit unintentionally.\nThis is entirely your fault.", ">\n\nOnly on Reddit would someone so boldly declare something like this to a stranger. I'm on the spectrum so that might have to do with my not being able to hide any emotion (I truly mean that, people can basically read my thoughts just by looking at me, good and bad). \nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave. Consider working on that.", ">\n\nSo they point out you’re cultivating a bad habit and blaming other people so you then, blame them? It’s a little spot on don’t you think?", ">\n\nWhen did i blame them for my own actions? Could you quote me? I was just pointing out how weird it was that they made such a strong assumption of my character off a causal comment I left when they themselves were ironically being unnecessarily rude in the process. \nI don't know how you got so lost?", ">\n\n\nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave.\n\nClassic deflection and implication that they’re the one with the problem, not you", ">\n\nFirst its not automatic. I almost never rolled my eyes. Its much easier to control than laughing crying or sneezing. So you just dont make the effort. Its actually a way to express your feeling. You should know that, its your personnality not a human instinctive reaction. \nAnd yes not respecting something is disrespectful. Its not that hard to understand. \nAnyway if i see you.. i dont know having a breakdown after being fired and dumped and start to laugh you'd like that ? \nIf im sad because something good happens to you and show it to you, you would like that ? \nHonestly you are just trying to justify being a bit of a jerk. \nI dont blame you or anything we all are jerks sometime but its what you are doing right now.", ">\n\nI have to refocus my eyes and most of the time blinking doesn’t cut it. I have a lazy eye and when I look at someone for a long time it unfocuses, so moving the muscle is the only way to reset it. If I don’t, people start moving their heads/ bodies trying to focus on my lazy eye. It gets awkward.", ">\n\nThis is where I go to my training as a kid. What others think of you is none of your business.", ">\n\nUnless you have a tick or something like Tourette’s syndrome, then it’s not an involuntary response. Part of living in a society and not being considered rude is managing your body language.\nLet me put it this way. “Rudeness” in itself is a social concept. That means it’s decided by the perception of the masses, what we generally agree upon in terms of our symbols of communication, our customs, our beliefs, our values, etc. For you to say that rolling your eyes isn’t disrespectful is not objectively wrong. But according to the society you live in, it is wrong. In layman’s terms, the hill you’re dying on here is completely arbitrary, neither side will ever be truly correct but as long as you live in a society which feels this way then you will be beholden to it anyways.", ">\n\nTo be fair, if your thinking its stupid or lame, then that is dis-respect. I'd agree with this if it was worded like 'More people need to say what they truly think', but I think you sort of missed the mark, OP.", ">\n\nI am equally annoyed when folks rapidly blink and look away mid conversation or drop their arm dead against their thigh. It’s like you’ve given up an effort to even keep your body vertical and engaged while I’m talking to you.", ">\n\nOP getting downvoted AF & keeps commenting. Gotta love it.", ">\n\nIt is shown as a sign of disrespect and it shows weakness. I can’t imagine Gandhi, the queen of England or Einstein roll their eyes in front of random people. The reason why they were respected is because they didn’t play any superiority game on front of… inferiors or ignorant people. If something is stupid, get the patience and find enough love within yourself to treat the other ones right. \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a child because his question is “stupid”, what parent does it make you ? \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a bad question because you are an expert in a subject, then it is not your modesty that speaks but your ego. For proof : Even if someone you hate said something intelligent, you might want to roll your eyes just to flatter your ego.", ">\n\nIt's seen as disrespectful BECAUSE it's inadvertently telling them you think they're irritating/annoying.", ">\n\nI never roll my eyes? Is that something people do naturally?", ">\n\nAll depends on the context of what is going on.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is not a natural reaction?", ">\n\nNot maintaining basic self control is disrespectful. It's the same reason we don't defecate in public, sneeze on people, or stand in the way of foot traffic.", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s and one of my tics is eye rolling", ">\n\nK", ">\n\nI accidentally roll my eyes at people sometimes when I'm not even trying to", ">\n\nThe sign of a true unpopular opinion: Nobody upvoting it, but everybody commenting to say how they disagree. If you disagree, then give it an upvote. That's the point of this sub.", ">\n\nI think it depends.", ">\n\nThis had to be written by someone under the age of 25", ">\n\nRolling your eyes isn’t natural though. It’s cultural or socially learned if that makes sense. Like if you rolled your eyes at a tribe that is disconnected from society they wouldn’t understand that you’re annoyed. So you cant really compare it to laughing.", ">\n\nI'm kind of curious if this is true though. Are you assuming this, or do you have some kind of study proving this? I'd actually like to see if your hypothesis is true, or if remote tribes also use this facial gesture.", ">\n\nI’m assuming it. Back in my country Turkey if you rolled your eyes at my grandparents they would be confused and wonder what you were doing and what it meant.", ">\n\nit's a maturity thing, keep rolling your eyes at 30-40, everyone gonna see you like a kid. \nyou gotta control your emotions, there's no need to do a expression when something is stupid or lame, you got a mouth and you respectfully share what's wrong, if the person in the other end is reluctant to stay on the same boat even after you talk about it. then you don't roll your eyes, you gotta say that there's nothing more you can do, and that you don't agree with it, and most likely leave to dodge any sort of problem.", ">\n\nI have a tic where I constantly roll my eyes. I’ve had it since I was little, but never noticed it until years later when I high school teacher yelled at me for disrespect. Apparently my parents took me for evaluation when I was very young and diagnosed Tourette’s but never had any other tics develop. Would have been nice to know 🤦🏼‍♀️ I just apologize now and say it’s a compulsion if people ask. I don’t even know when I’m doing it", ">\n\nIs laughing disrespectful? Because it can be. Just like rolling your eyes can be. There is a time and place for everything", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a passive aggressive response. Passive aggression is a tactic used by meek people who are frustrated and don’t have the courage to address a given situation. It’s disrespectful and it lowers your standing in the social hierarchy.", ">\n\nGet back to me when Disney Dad actively encourages your offspring to roll their eyes at you.", ">\n\nYeah it is when I want to be disrespectful to someone I roll my eyes when they make a point. It might be annoying to them, but it also let's them know I don't give a shit about whatever they just said. Now, I would never to it to my boss, or my teachers while I was in college, but when I was a teen I did it all the time because I was an asshole, who didn't care. \nIt's not a natural reaction lmao, it is learned behavior and it can be a bad habit, but it can be unlearned.", ">\n\nSome people can’t control it I know with me sometimes I roll my eyes without meaning too it’s not that I’m trying to be rude it’s just something I didn’t even realize I was doing nor did I mean too", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nI have a friend who thinks like you do, which is based on your responses to the comments. He has very poor social skills and is on the autism spectrum", ">\n\nI bet you're lots of fun at parties OP.", ">\n\nI can’t tell if this is farming karma with ridiculous opinions or if this individual just has a really hard time understanding that maybe their parents aren’t always the bad guys.", ">\n\nYep, thats definitely an unpopular opinion! \nIts certainly disrespectful. And most certainly not some sort of involuntary response like a sneeze. It may feel that way to you, because you've done it so much - but there are plenty of people who don't do it. UNLIKE people who don't sneeze at pepper, or cough at dust. Like, you're just plain wrong on this one. Moreover, I think you're trying to justify/rationalize it yourself rather than address it in a healthy way - a marker suggesting you have some narcissistic tendencies.", ">\n\nWhat a stupid argument, take your upvote" ]
> I wish it wasn’t disrespectful, because as an expressive person I LOVE a good eye roll. But, it has gotten me into trouble. I do it without even knowing it. I hate that I do… I wish sometimes I could be stone cold. Just like a fish. One expression face only. Blank fish eyes staring into nothingness. My favourite mug says, “I can’t help what my face does when you talk”. There is a reason the the mug is meant to be cheeky.	[ "🙄", ">\n\nYou’re grounded now", ">\n\nThe post above was someone getting electrocuted so this reply was very timely", ">\n\nThis news is shocking", ">\n\nIt definitely SPARKED my interest", ">\n\nAll of you guys need to leave, and not come back before learning how to conduct yourselves properly", ">\n\nUhhhh....... electricity", ">\n\nWell no, in the right context it is disrespectful. Rolling your eyes suggests that you're not taking the matter seriously or that you dont care which is a sign of disrespect towards whoever is speaking with you.", ">\n\nBut I can't control what I think. If I said \"man you're stupid and I don't care what you say\" thats disrespectful. I'm actually showing respect by not saying it.", ">\n\nI mean, actions speak louder than words, right?", ">\n\nIts not really an action tho its just an automatic response. Like gasping or yawning.", ">\n\nbullshit.\nSorry, it was an automatic response. Which is bullshit just like yours.", ">\n\nStill not the same thing. And they get on me for false analogies....", ">\n\nYou must be a teenager", ">\n\nLol how many times are you gonna post that. Dont you have an original thought of your own?", ">\n\nBruh I cant believe you make these posts. They're foolish", ">\n\nLaughing at someone can be disrespectful. Don't think so? Try laughing at someone's funeral.", ">\n\nThe disrespect comes from the one who told me a joke and made me laugh.", ">\n\nWhat about if no one said any joke? Because, you know, you are at a funeral.", ">\n\nSo someone's just there randomly laughing at shit? That sounds like a mental illness.", ">\n\nYou have never thought of something funny in your head to make yourself laugh? \nOr hell, maybe you didn't like the person who is buried and decided to laugh at them. You find it funny, so laughing must be appropriate, right?", ">\n\nWhy am I thinking about funny shit at a funeral.", ">\n\nBecause the universe likes to put us in uncomfortable positions sometimes.", ">\n\n“if its stupid or lame, you roll your eyes” - you found the disrespect", ">\n\nIm allowed to think whatever i want and its not disrespectful.", ">\n\nWhen you express contempt for something someone else said, it's disrespect.", ">\n\nWhat if what they said is contemptible?", ">\n\nSome people and comments deserve disrespect, still gonna be disrespect", ">\n\nLaughing, crying, and sneezing are all innate, involuntary reactions to certain types of stimuli. Rolling your eyes is a learned behavior. You can’t compare it to those other automatic responses because it’s not the same thing.", ">\n\nTake my upvote", ">\n\nOP rolled their eyes at someone and got chewed out for it.\nNow they're going online in an attempt to validate themselves.\n🙄", ">\n\nProbably got grounded.", ">\n\nPart of being a mature adult is to have self-control and not acting on every impulse and being respectful of people.", ">\n\n\nPart of being a mature adult\n\nYup but OP is clearly a teenager lol. They complain about being told off for doing chores wrong in another post…", ">\n\nEven a teenager should be able to have the fundamental basics of respect", ">\n\nOh I agree 100%", ">\n\nYou have poor self-control and poor self-awareness but the good news is that you can improve these things.", ">\n\n/r/wrongopinions", ">\n\nI feel like we need a new subreddit r/unpopularforareason", ">\n\nIt’s entire purpose is to be disrespectful. Nobody eyerolls something they respect. But how offensive it is depends on the context and how serious one is being.", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes\n\nYou rn: \"I'm not being disrespectful. I just thought what you said was stupid or lame.\"\n...", ">\n\nSaying its stupid could be disrespectful. A facial response is not.", ">\n\nLiterally every person in this thread agrees that it is.\nThis is your bad habit. Nobody else's responsibility but you.", ">\n\nThey can choose to not fly off the handle at what is just an innate reaction.", ">\n\nSo let me get this straight: you think you deserve to be able to disrespect whoever you like whenever you like but they can't as much as say you're being rude? Grow up.", ">\n\nFound the teenager.", ">\n\nMeh, I agree with that one. If you don't like how someone is doing something then do it yourself. There's a reason I live alone.", ">\n\nIt is a UNIVERSAL sign of disrespect. Globally. Deal with it.", ">\n\nLaughing can be disrespectuful too. If you cannot control your own reactions, well, what can I say, maybe you have not really grown up?", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s so it’s hard to control my own actions sometimes…", ">\n\nThank u I'm trying to explain how autism can make it hard to read not just others facial expressions but also ur own and it seems like no one has thought of the possibility that they acc don't realise it or csnt control it", ">\n\nWould you roll your eyes during a job interview if you thought a question was stupid or irrelevant? Do you think you’d get the job if you did?", ">\n\nPretty sure OP would think they were owed that job and they would think it’s ridiculous if they didn’t get it.\nOP is also a teenager going through their rebel phase though", ">\n\nYou're oddly specific here.", ">\n\nWhat was specific? Or rather oddly specific?", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a good way to fast track yourself to a divorce, if you want one.", ">\n\nI think OP needs the definition of respect before any further comment is made", ">\n\nOh I already know it, and I know it does not mean:\nDon't ever disagree with me\nDon't think bad thoughts about me\nDon't ever correct me when I'm blatantly wrong \nShine my boots with your tongue", ">\n\nSoooo this post isn’t about eye rolling is what I’m getting from this. You’ve got issues to work through with your parents or partner or something", ">\n\nSince when tf was eye rolling involuntary?", ">", ">\n\nYour lack of self control is not a justification for disrespect. I personally dont know anyone who reacts to anything by rolling their eyes. Just be mature and communicate.", ">\n\nAnd what if it's not stupid and someone rolls their eyes? Wouldn't it be disrespectful in that case?", ">\n\nIn the eye rollers opinion then it must have been. But you can't fault someone for thinking its stupid.", ">\n\nSo eyerolling is some kind of exceptional thing that is free from criticism? \nIf one has the freedom to eye roll, then someone else has the freedom to criticize the eye roller right? \nOr is it your opinion that besides that everyone who sees an eye roller has to just stfu", ">\n\nMeh, it is disrespectful. It's a way to be disrespectful without having to say That's the dumbest thing I've heard all month, and everyone else who heard it is also dumber for hearing it as well.", ">\n\nBut I didn't say it that's the point.", ">\n\nJust cuz you don’t use words doesn’t mean it’s not disrespectful. Walking away while someone is talking to you, rolling your eyes, slapping someone, and starting to play a game on your phone while someone is talking to you are all disrespectful. It doesn’t matter that you didn’t say anything, your lack of respect still showed.", ">\n\nespecially the way theyre responding to comments", ">\n\nYeah, a natural reaction if you’ve never learned to manage your emotions as opposed to letting them run your life. I’m not talking about being totally monotone rational, either. You need to learn a balance between rational and emotional…which includes healthy, appropriate, respectful expression of honest feelings. Eye rolling is absolutely disrespectful, belittling, and dismissive.", ">\n\nComments: OP is completely wrong and has attitude issues", ">\n\nWhat sounds like mental illness is you refusing to admit that rolling your eyes is simply not an unconditional response. Whether you want to believe it or not, you are doing it intentionally and you can control it. \nYou’re just to much of a b—— to do so.", ">\n\nSame to you", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a learned reaction. Not natural. I rarely of ever roll my eyes at anything.", ">", ">\n\nJust like raising your middle finger. Or vocalizing the sounds \"fuck you\". Or fingers typing the words fuck you OP. Nothing is disrespectful!", ">\n\nNice try but not the same thing at all. You're talking about thought out actions here. The eye roll is more like a reaction. Its quick, its automatic, no one has to think \"im rolling my eyes now\" it just happens. \nSort of like when telling a lie - no one decides to have their eyes dart around suspiciously, it just happens.", ">\n\nNo. Rolling your eyes is not involuntary. It can be controlled. You have a bad habit that you CAN stop. Much like a child learning not to suck their thumb, or biting your nails.", ">\n\nHow about you start with your hair scratching", ">\n\nYour opinion is a contradiction in itself. And, yeah. I disagree. Rolling your eyes is 100% to show lack of respect, and you have no intentions of showing it, even to reason, by rolling your eyes at something someone could believe is meaningful or important. Even if it is stupid.\nI get your point, we roll our eyes to express how we feel, but it is still a physical snare. You say rolling your eyes isn't disrespectful, while saying it's okay to roll your eyes because something is \" stupid or lame\", which in itself is disrespectful. You sound like a very young person in the middle of a learning moment, and you're trying to react with rebellion. It only shows that you lack maturity and are in need of growth. This might be a time for you to read these comments and reevaluate. There are healthier ways to react to things you disagree with, or lack interest in. If not, you can just accept that you roll your eyes to show lack of respect.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is much more deliberate than laughter, tears, or sneezing. It's a conscious action in response to a judgement you're making.", ">\n\nNah, dude it is disrespectful \nYou just have no self control and by the looks of it you don't want to build some", ">\n\nYour post made me roll my eyes very hard.", ">\n\n“No, officer, my wife - she MADE me hit her!”", ">\n\nIt's a natural reaction for a sooky kid but not an adult, if you do that as an adult you just manchild that wants everything their way", ">\n\npoor OP.... did you get in trouble after you rolled your eyes at something again? did you not prehaps learn from previous interactions? rolling your eyes at something \"stupid or lame\" is an intentional response that is disrespectful to whatever it is. mature people dont act that way.....", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes.\n\nSo it is disrespectful. \n\nIts like throwing pepper in someone's face an expecting them not to sneeze.\n\nNo it’s not. You can easily (edited in) refrain from rolling your eyes, while it’s much more difficult to refrain from sneezing. \nIt’s fine to think whatever you want, but you might want to refrain from rolling your eyes when you’re, say, interacting with your boss; aka someone that can make you unemployed for whatever reason they please.", ">\n\nThis isn't an opinion. It's just flat wrong. \nIt is disrespectful because it is a conscious signifier which clearly communicated that you think that the thing you are rolling your eyes at is not worthy of respect.", ">\n\nYou have to go out of your way to roll your eyes. It is NOT gutteral or instinctual", ">\n\nIf you annoy me, my arm whips out in a natural reaction and slaps you.", ">\n\nSorry, kiddo, it’s 100% disrespectful. Just own the shit and quit trying to lawyer around it.\nI say that after having rolled my eyes so hard at your post, I travelled back in time.", ">\n\nTell that to my family lol you get the belt", ">\n\nThis was made my a 15 year old who just got told off by their mom about rolling their eyes. Then in defense said, “I can’t control it”", ">\n\nMan it's getting so aggressive sometimes here 😂", ">\n\ni certainly hope you are embarrassed about this in a couple years when you grow up.", ">\n\nOP is a habitual eye roller 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄", ">\n\nI wish to God we could block people by age, no more edgy 13yo’s", ">\n\nSomebody just got their ps5 taken away for rolling their eyes", ">\n\nTell me you're 12 without telling me you're 12.", ">\n\nit’s the definition of disrespectful and a sign that you have literally nothing intelligent to say in return. \nwhich is why we outgrow it as adults.", ">\n\nYou can control it. It’s not an “automatic response” unless you’ve taught yourself to do it. I never roll my eyes. It’s just not something I have ever practiced doing. And yes…if I’m saying something too you and you dismiss it with an eye roll…it’s super disrespectful.", ">\n\nrolling your eyes is just as respectful as sticking your tongue out at someone or making a stupid face in reaction to something someone says", ">\n\nIf you can’t control your eye movement, you need to see a neurologist, dude 😆. As it stands, eye rolling isn’t a reflex or a “natural reaction” to anything. Habits aren’t the same as involuntary reactions.\nRolling your eyes at someone is disrespectful. It’s an outward sign that you think something about your interaction with them was stupid or wrong. There’s no one here that will agree with you, and you know that you’re in the vast minority with this opinion because you posted it on this sub. Now learn some humility and accept that your opinion is factually incorrect based on science.", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nAre you like 14 and your mom got you in trouble cause you rolled your eyes at her? Lmao", ">\n\nI’m gonna show your mom this and it’s going to be another week of being grounded, you little shit lol", ">\n\nOmfg 😂", ">\n\nOP I have to ask.\n\n\nHow old are you?\n\n\nHow is your relationship with your parents?\n\n\nHow do you view authority figures in your life?", ">\n\nrolls eyes", ">\n\nIf you say or demand something stupid from me I will probably roll my eyes.", ">\n\nBut it is", ">\n\nJust like rolling your eyes is an innate response, so are other people's responses to you rolling your eyes.", ">\n\nSometimes being respectful requires hiding your subjective opinion on whether something is stupid or lame.", ">\n\nI wouldn’t say eye rolling is as involuntary as laughing or crying tho. It’s more of a choice.", ">\n\nIf someone rolls their eyes then I feel disrespected it’s a natural reaction.", ">\n\ntell me you're a teenager without telling me you're a teenager", ">\n\nI'm rolling my eyes at this post. And I definitely mean it disrespectfully.", ">\n\nLmao this kid had an argument with his parent(s) or teacher and is venting on Reddit.", ">\n\nYou sound like an eye rolling arsehole", ">\n\ni have never had an as a nonvoulentary action, it requires very explicit movement of you eye. this is like saying “when i dont like people, i punch them in the head, thats my natural reaction i cant control it”\ni have never once legitimately rolled my eyes at something, i think you might be an asshole", ">\n\nMe smacking your face is also an innate uncontrollable response to you rolling your eyes. I'm only human. What can I do? 🙄", ">\n\nI disagree. also there are a billion other ways to express something being stupid or lame than rolling ur eyes", ">\n\nStop downvoting, this is ACTUALLY a very unpopular opinion and I love to see it tbh. Voice your disagreement in the comments but don't downvote the post. This post is hilarious.", ">\n\nThis is something you’ve learned to do. It’s entirely in your control if you do it or not.", ">\n\nI once got a detention for rolling my eyes at a teacher in 4th grade.\nI agree with you, though. The only other person I've ever really rolled my eyes at was my mother, and she deserved it, every single time.", ">\n\nI get your point. I absolutely purposefully roll my eyes sometimes and whoever I'm doing it to would be valid for getting mad. \nBut as someone who can't hide any emotion on their face (literally any, I'm the definition of an open book) there have been plenty of times where people blew up at me or laughed because I rolled my eyes when I didn't even realize I had done it. Feel like the people disagreeing with you haven't experienced this problem.", ">\n\nWhat you've done is cultivate a bad habit and then blamed it on everyone else when you repeat your own bad habit unintentionally.\nThis is entirely your fault.", ">\n\nOnly on Reddit would someone so boldly declare something like this to a stranger. I'm on the spectrum so that might have to do with my not being able to hide any emotion (I truly mean that, people can basically read my thoughts just by looking at me, good and bad). \nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave. Consider working on that.", ">\n\nSo they point out you’re cultivating a bad habit and blaming other people so you then, blame them? It’s a little spot on don’t you think?", ">\n\nWhen did i blame them for my own actions? Could you quote me? I was just pointing out how weird it was that they made such a strong assumption of my character off a causal comment I left when they themselves were ironically being unnecessarily rude in the process. \nI don't know how you got so lost?", ">\n\n\nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave.\n\nClassic deflection and implication that they’re the one with the problem, not you", ">\n\nFirst its not automatic. I almost never rolled my eyes. Its much easier to control than laughing crying or sneezing. So you just dont make the effort. Its actually a way to express your feeling. You should know that, its your personnality not a human instinctive reaction. \nAnd yes not respecting something is disrespectful. Its not that hard to understand. \nAnyway if i see you.. i dont know having a breakdown after being fired and dumped and start to laugh you'd like that ? \nIf im sad because something good happens to you and show it to you, you would like that ? \nHonestly you are just trying to justify being a bit of a jerk. \nI dont blame you or anything we all are jerks sometime but its what you are doing right now.", ">\n\nI have to refocus my eyes and most of the time blinking doesn’t cut it. I have a lazy eye and when I look at someone for a long time it unfocuses, so moving the muscle is the only way to reset it. If I don’t, people start moving their heads/ bodies trying to focus on my lazy eye. It gets awkward.", ">\n\nThis is where I go to my training as a kid. What others think of you is none of your business.", ">\n\nUnless you have a tick or something like Tourette’s syndrome, then it’s not an involuntary response. Part of living in a society and not being considered rude is managing your body language.\nLet me put it this way. “Rudeness” in itself is a social concept. That means it’s decided by the perception of the masses, what we generally agree upon in terms of our symbols of communication, our customs, our beliefs, our values, etc. For you to say that rolling your eyes isn’t disrespectful is not objectively wrong. But according to the society you live in, it is wrong. In layman’s terms, the hill you’re dying on here is completely arbitrary, neither side will ever be truly correct but as long as you live in a society which feels this way then you will be beholden to it anyways.", ">\n\nTo be fair, if your thinking its stupid or lame, then that is dis-respect. I'd agree with this if it was worded like 'More people need to say what they truly think', but I think you sort of missed the mark, OP.", ">\n\nI am equally annoyed when folks rapidly blink and look away mid conversation or drop their arm dead against their thigh. It’s like you’ve given up an effort to even keep your body vertical and engaged while I’m talking to you.", ">\n\nOP getting downvoted AF & keeps commenting. Gotta love it.", ">\n\nIt is shown as a sign of disrespect and it shows weakness. I can’t imagine Gandhi, the queen of England or Einstein roll their eyes in front of random people. The reason why they were respected is because they didn’t play any superiority game on front of… inferiors or ignorant people. If something is stupid, get the patience and find enough love within yourself to treat the other ones right. \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a child because his question is “stupid”, what parent does it make you ? \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a bad question because you are an expert in a subject, then it is not your modesty that speaks but your ego. For proof : Even if someone you hate said something intelligent, you might want to roll your eyes just to flatter your ego.", ">\n\nIt's seen as disrespectful BECAUSE it's inadvertently telling them you think they're irritating/annoying.", ">\n\nI never roll my eyes? Is that something people do naturally?", ">\n\nAll depends on the context of what is going on.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is not a natural reaction?", ">\n\nNot maintaining basic self control is disrespectful. It's the same reason we don't defecate in public, sneeze on people, or stand in the way of foot traffic.", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s and one of my tics is eye rolling", ">\n\nK", ">\n\nI accidentally roll my eyes at people sometimes when I'm not even trying to", ">\n\nThe sign of a true unpopular opinion: Nobody upvoting it, but everybody commenting to say how they disagree. If you disagree, then give it an upvote. That's the point of this sub.", ">\n\nI think it depends.", ">\n\nThis had to be written by someone under the age of 25", ">\n\nRolling your eyes isn’t natural though. It’s cultural or socially learned if that makes sense. Like if you rolled your eyes at a tribe that is disconnected from society they wouldn’t understand that you’re annoyed. So you cant really compare it to laughing.", ">\n\nI'm kind of curious if this is true though. Are you assuming this, or do you have some kind of study proving this? I'd actually like to see if your hypothesis is true, or if remote tribes also use this facial gesture.", ">\n\nI’m assuming it. Back in my country Turkey if you rolled your eyes at my grandparents they would be confused and wonder what you were doing and what it meant.", ">\n\nit's a maturity thing, keep rolling your eyes at 30-40, everyone gonna see you like a kid. \nyou gotta control your emotions, there's no need to do a expression when something is stupid or lame, you got a mouth and you respectfully share what's wrong, if the person in the other end is reluctant to stay on the same boat even after you talk about it. then you don't roll your eyes, you gotta say that there's nothing more you can do, and that you don't agree with it, and most likely leave to dodge any sort of problem.", ">\n\nI have a tic where I constantly roll my eyes. I’ve had it since I was little, but never noticed it until years later when I high school teacher yelled at me for disrespect. Apparently my parents took me for evaluation when I was very young and diagnosed Tourette’s but never had any other tics develop. Would have been nice to know 🤦🏼‍♀️ I just apologize now and say it’s a compulsion if people ask. I don’t even know when I’m doing it", ">\n\nIs laughing disrespectful? Because it can be. Just like rolling your eyes can be. There is a time and place for everything", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a passive aggressive response. Passive aggression is a tactic used by meek people who are frustrated and don’t have the courage to address a given situation. It’s disrespectful and it lowers your standing in the social hierarchy.", ">\n\nGet back to me when Disney Dad actively encourages your offspring to roll their eyes at you.", ">\n\nYeah it is when I want to be disrespectful to someone I roll my eyes when they make a point. It might be annoying to them, but it also let's them know I don't give a shit about whatever they just said. Now, I would never to it to my boss, or my teachers while I was in college, but when I was a teen I did it all the time because I was an asshole, who didn't care. \nIt's not a natural reaction lmao, it is learned behavior and it can be a bad habit, but it can be unlearned.", ">\n\nSome people can’t control it I know with me sometimes I roll my eyes without meaning too it’s not that I’m trying to be rude it’s just something I didn’t even realize I was doing nor did I mean too", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nI have a friend who thinks like you do, which is based on your responses to the comments. He has very poor social skills and is on the autism spectrum", ">\n\nI bet you're lots of fun at parties OP.", ">\n\nI can’t tell if this is farming karma with ridiculous opinions or if this individual just has a really hard time understanding that maybe their parents aren’t always the bad guys.", ">\n\nYep, thats definitely an unpopular opinion! \nIts certainly disrespectful. And most certainly not some sort of involuntary response like a sneeze. It may feel that way to you, because you've done it so much - but there are plenty of people who don't do it. UNLIKE people who don't sneeze at pepper, or cough at dust. Like, you're just plain wrong on this one. Moreover, I think you're trying to justify/rationalize it yourself rather than address it in a healthy way - a marker suggesting you have some narcissistic tendencies.", ">\n\nWhat a stupid argument, take your upvote", ">\n\nIt’s a sign of contempt. The facial expression expert Dr. Eikman could predict how long a barrage would last based on 4 expressions and the frequency used when the couple was interviewed. Eye rolling was one.. in fact you could remove the others and still reasonably predict marriage failures." ]
> Seems disrespectful to me because my eyes don't roll on their own, it would be a conscious act.	[ "🙄", ">\n\nYou’re grounded now", ">\n\nThe post above was someone getting electrocuted so this reply was very timely", ">\n\nThis news is shocking", ">\n\nIt definitely SPARKED my interest", ">\n\nAll of you guys need to leave, and not come back before learning how to conduct yourselves properly", ">\n\nUhhhh....... electricity", ">\n\nWell no, in the right context it is disrespectful. Rolling your eyes suggests that you're not taking the matter seriously or that you dont care which is a sign of disrespect towards whoever is speaking with you.", ">\n\nBut I can't control what I think. If I said \"man you're stupid and I don't care what you say\" thats disrespectful. I'm actually showing respect by not saying it.", ">\n\nI mean, actions speak louder than words, right?", ">\n\nIts not really an action tho its just an automatic response. Like gasping or yawning.", ">\n\nbullshit.\nSorry, it was an automatic response. Which is bullshit just like yours.", ">\n\nStill not the same thing. And they get on me for false analogies....", ">\n\nYou must be a teenager", ">\n\nLol how many times are you gonna post that. Dont you have an original thought of your own?", ">\n\nBruh I cant believe you make these posts. They're foolish", ">\n\nLaughing at someone can be disrespectful. Don't think so? Try laughing at someone's funeral.", ">\n\nThe disrespect comes from the one who told me a joke and made me laugh.", ">\n\nWhat about if no one said any joke? Because, you know, you are at a funeral.", ">\n\nSo someone's just there randomly laughing at shit? That sounds like a mental illness.", ">\n\nYou have never thought of something funny in your head to make yourself laugh? \nOr hell, maybe you didn't like the person who is buried and decided to laugh at them. You find it funny, so laughing must be appropriate, right?", ">\n\nWhy am I thinking about funny shit at a funeral.", ">\n\nBecause the universe likes to put us in uncomfortable positions sometimes.", ">\n\n“if its stupid or lame, you roll your eyes” - you found the disrespect", ">\n\nIm allowed to think whatever i want and its not disrespectful.", ">\n\nWhen you express contempt for something someone else said, it's disrespect.", ">\n\nWhat if what they said is contemptible?", ">\n\nSome people and comments deserve disrespect, still gonna be disrespect", ">\n\nLaughing, crying, and sneezing are all innate, involuntary reactions to certain types of stimuli. Rolling your eyes is a learned behavior. You can’t compare it to those other automatic responses because it’s not the same thing.", ">\n\nTake my upvote", ">\n\nOP rolled their eyes at someone and got chewed out for it.\nNow they're going online in an attempt to validate themselves.\n🙄", ">\n\nProbably got grounded.", ">\n\nPart of being a mature adult is to have self-control and not acting on every impulse and being respectful of people.", ">\n\n\nPart of being a mature adult\n\nYup but OP is clearly a teenager lol. They complain about being told off for doing chores wrong in another post…", ">\n\nEven a teenager should be able to have the fundamental basics of respect", ">\n\nOh I agree 100%", ">\n\nYou have poor self-control and poor self-awareness but the good news is that you can improve these things.", ">\n\n/r/wrongopinions", ">\n\nI feel like we need a new subreddit r/unpopularforareason", ">\n\nIt’s entire purpose is to be disrespectful. Nobody eyerolls something they respect. But how offensive it is depends on the context and how serious one is being.", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes\n\nYou rn: \"I'm not being disrespectful. I just thought what you said was stupid or lame.\"\n...", ">\n\nSaying its stupid could be disrespectful. A facial response is not.", ">\n\nLiterally every person in this thread agrees that it is.\nThis is your bad habit. Nobody else's responsibility but you.", ">\n\nThey can choose to not fly off the handle at what is just an innate reaction.", ">\n\nSo let me get this straight: you think you deserve to be able to disrespect whoever you like whenever you like but they can't as much as say you're being rude? Grow up.", ">\n\nFound the teenager.", ">\n\nMeh, I agree with that one. If you don't like how someone is doing something then do it yourself. There's a reason I live alone.", ">\n\nIt is a UNIVERSAL sign of disrespect. Globally. Deal with it.", ">\n\nLaughing can be disrespectuful too. If you cannot control your own reactions, well, what can I say, maybe you have not really grown up?", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s so it’s hard to control my own actions sometimes…", ">\n\nThank u I'm trying to explain how autism can make it hard to read not just others facial expressions but also ur own and it seems like no one has thought of the possibility that they acc don't realise it or csnt control it", ">\n\nWould you roll your eyes during a job interview if you thought a question was stupid or irrelevant? Do you think you’d get the job if you did?", ">\n\nPretty sure OP would think they were owed that job and they would think it’s ridiculous if they didn’t get it.\nOP is also a teenager going through their rebel phase though", ">\n\nYou're oddly specific here.", ">\n\nWhat was specific? Or rather oddly specific?", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a good way to fast track yourself to a divorce, if you want one.", ">\n\nI think OP needs the definition of respect before any further comment is made", ">\n\nOh I already know it, and I know it does not mean:\nDon't ever disagree with me\nDon't think bad thoughts about me\nDon't ever correct me when I'm blatantly wrong \nShine my boots with your tongue", ">\n\nSoooo this post isn’t about eye rolling is what I’m getting from this. You’ve got issues to work through with your parents or partner or something", ">\n\nSince when tf was eye rolling involuntary?", ">", ">\n\nYour lack of self control is not a justification for disrespect. I personally dont know anyone who reacts to anything by rolling their eyes. Just be mature and communicate.", ">\n\nAnd what if it's not stupid and someone rolls their eyes? Wouldn't it be disrespectful in that case?", ">\n\nIn the eye rollers opinion then it must have been. But you can't fault someone for thinking its stupid.", ">\n\nSo eyerolling is some kind of exceptional thing that is free from criticism? \nIf one has the freedom to eye roll, then someone else has the freedom to criticize the eye roller right? \nOr is it your opinion that besides that everyone who sees an eye roller has to just stfu", ">\n\nMeh, it is disrespectful. It's a way to be disrespectful without having to say That's the dumbest thing I've heard all month, and everyone else who heard it is also dumber for hearing it as well.", ">\n\nBut I didn't say it that's the point.", ">\n\nJust cuz you don’t use words doesn’t mean it’s not disrespectful. Walking away while someone is talking to you, rolling your eyes, slapping someone, and starting to play a game on your phone while someone is talking to you are all disrespectful. It doesn’t matter that you didn’t say anything, your lack of respect still showed.", ">\n\nespecially the way theyre responding to comments", ">\n\nYeah, a natural reaction if you’ve never learned to manage your emotions as opposed to letting them run your life. I’m not talking about being totally monotone rational, either. You need to learn a balance between rational and emotional…which includes healthy, appropriate, respectful expression of honest feelings. Eye rolling is absolutely disrespectful, belittling, and dismissive.", ">\n\nComments: OP is completely wrong and has attitude issues", ">\n\nWhat sounds like mental illness is you refusing to admit that rolling your eyes is simply not an unconditional response. Whether you want to believe it or not, you are doing it intentionally and you can control it. \nYou’re just to much of a b—— to do so.", ">\n\nSame to you", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a learned reaction. Not natural. I rarely of ever roll my eyes at anything.", ">", ">\n\nJust like raising your middle finger. Or vocalizing the sounds \"fuck you\". Or fingers typing the words fuck you OP. Nothing is disrespectful!", ">\n\nNice try but not the same thing at all. You're talking about thought out actions here. The eye roll is more like a reaction. Its quick, its automatic, no one has to think \"im rolling my eyes now\" it just happens. \nSort of like when telling a lie - no one decides to have their eyes dart around suspiciously, it just happens.", ">\n\nNo. Rolling your eyes is not involuntary. It can be controlled. You have a bad habit that you CAN stop. Much like a child learning not to suck their thumb, or biting your nails.", ">\n\nHow about you start with your hair scratching", ">\n\nYour opinion is a contradiction in itself. And, yeah. I disagree. Rolling your eyes is 100% to show lack of respect, and you have no intentions of showing it, even to reason, by rolling your eyes at something someone could believe is meaningful or important. Even if it is stupid.\nI get your point, we roll our eyes to express how we feel, but it is still a physical snare. You say rolling your eyes isn't disrespectful, while saying it's okay to roll your eyes because something is \" stupid or lame\", which in itself is disrespectful. You sound like a very young person in the middle of a learning moment, and you're trying to react with rebellion. It only shows that you lack maturity and are in need of growth. This might be a time for you to read these comments and reevaluate. There are healthier ways to react to things you disagree with, or lack interest in. If not, you can just accept that you roll your eyes to show lack of respect.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is much more deliberate than laughter, tears, or sneezing. It's a conscious action in response to a judgement you're making.", ">\n\nNah, dude it is disrespectful \nYou just have no self control and by the looks of it you don't want to build some", ">\n\nYour post made me roll my eyes very hard.", ">\n\n“No, officer, my wife - she MADE me hit her!”", ">\n\nIt's a natural reaction for a sooky kid but not an adult, if you do that as an adult you just manchild that wants everything their way", ">\n\npoor OP.... did you get in trouble after you rolled your eyes at something again? did you not prehaps learn from previous interactions? rolling your eyes at something \"stupid or lame\" is an intentional response that is disrespectful to whatever it is. mature people dont act that way.....", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes.\n\nSo it is disrespectful. \n\nIts like throwing pepper in someone's face an expecting them not to sneeze.\n\nNo it’s not. You can easily (edited in) refrain from rolling your eyes, while it’s much more difficult to refrain from sneezing. \nIt’s fine to think whatever you want, but you might want to refrain from rolling your eyes when you’re, say, interacting with your boss; aka someone that can make you unemployed for whatever reason they please.", ">\n\nThis isn't an opinion. It's just flat wrong. \nIt is disrespectful because it is a conscious signifier which clearly communicated that you think that the thing you are rolling your eyes at is not worthy of respect.", ">\n\nYou have to go out of your way to roll your eyes. It is NOT gutteral or instinctual", ">\n\nIf you annoy me, my arm whips out in a natural reaction and slaps you.", ">\n\nSorry, kiddo, it’s 100% disrespectful. Just own the shit and quit trying to lawyer around it.\nI say that after having rolled my eyes so hard at your post, I travelled back in time.", ">\n\nTell that to my family lol you get the belt", ">\n\nThis was made my a 15 year old who just got told off by their mom about rolling their eyes. Then in defense said, “I can’t control it”", ">\n\nMan it's getting so aggressive sometimes here 😂", ">\n\ni certainly hope you are embarrassed about this in a couple years when you grow up.", ">\n\nOP is a habitual eye roller 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄", ">\n\nI wish to God we could block people by age, no more edgy 13yo’s", ">\n\nSomebody just got their ps5 taken away for rolling their eyes", ">\n\nTell me you're 12 without telling me you're 12.", ">\n\nit’s the definition of disrespectful and a sign that you have literally nothing intelligent to say in return. \nwhich is why we outgrow it as adults.", ">\n\nYou can control it. It’s not an “automatic response” unless you’ve taught yourself to do it. I never roll my eyes. It’s just not something I have ever practiced doing. And yes…if I’m saying something too you and you dismiss it with an eye roll…it’s super disrespectful.", ">\n\nrolling your eyes is just as respectful as sticking your tongue out at someone or making a stupid face in reaction to something someone says", ">\n\nIf you can’t control your eye movement, you need to see a neurologist, dude 😆. As it stands, eye rolling isn’t a reflex or a “natural reaction” to anything. Habits aren’t the same as involuntary reactions.\nRolling your eyes at someone is disrespectful. It’s an outward sign that you think something about your interaction with them was stupid or wrong. There’s no one here that will agree with you, and you know that you’re in the vast minority with this opinion because you posted it on this sub. Now learn some humility and accept that your opinion is factually incorrect based on science.", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nAre you like 14 and your mom got you in trouble cause you rolled your eyes at her? Lmao", ">\n\nI’m gonna show your mom this and it’s going to be another week of being grounded, you little shit lol", ">\n\nOmfg 😂", ">\n\nOP I have to ask.\n\n\nHow old are you?\n\n\nHow is your relationship with your parents?\n\n\nHow do you view authority figures in your life?", ">\n\nrolls eyes", ">\n\nIf you say or demand something stupid from me I will probably roll my eyes.", ">\n\nBut it is", ">\n\nJust like rolling your eyes is an innate response, so are other people's responses to you rolling your eyes.", ">\n\nSometimes being respectful requires hiding your subjective opinion on whether something is stupid or lame.", ">\n\nI wouldn’t say eye rolling is as involuntary as laughing or crying tho. It’s more of a choice.", ">\n\nIf someone rolls their eyes then I feel disrespected it’s a natural reaction.", ">\n\ntell me you're a teenager without telling me you're a teenager", ">\n\nI'm rolling my eyes at this post. And I definitely mean it disrespectfully.", ">\n\nLmao this kid had an argument with his parent(s) or teacher and is venting on Reddit.", ">\n\nYou sound like an eye rolling arsehole", ">\n\ni have never had an as a nonvoulentary action, it requires very explicit movement of you eye. this is like saying “when i dont like people, i punch them in the head, thats my natural reaction i cant control it”\ni have never once legitimately rolled my eyes at something, i think you might be an asshole", ">\n\nMe smacking your face is also an innate uncontrollable response to you rolling your eyes. I'm only human. What can I do? 🙄", ">\n\nI disagree. also there are a billion other ways to express something being stupid or lame than rolling ur eyes", ">\n\nStop downvoting, this is ACTUALLY a very unpopular opinion and I love to see it tbh. Voice your disagreement in the comments but don't downvote the post. This post is hilarious.", ">\n\nThis is something you’ve learned to do. It’s entirely in your control if you do it or not.", ">\n\nI once got a detention for rolling my eyes at a teacher in 4th grade.\nI agree with you, though. The only other person I've ever really rolled my eyes at was my mother, and she deserved it, every single time.", ">\n\nI get your point. I absolutely purposefully roll my eyes sometimes and whoever I'm doing it to would be valid for getting mad. \nBut as someone who can't hide any emotion on their face (literally any, I'm the definition of an open book) there have been plenty of times where people blew up at me or laughed because I rolled my eyes when I didn't even realize I had done it. Feel like the people disagreeing with you haven't experienced this problem.", ">\n\nWhat you've done is cultivate a bad habit and then blamed it on everyone else when you repeat your own bad habit unintentionally.\nThis is entirely your fault.", ">\n\nOnly on Reddit would someone so boldly declare something like this to a stranger. I'm on the spectrum so that might have to do with my not being able to hide any emotion (I truly mean that, people can basically read my thoughts just by looking at me, good and bad). \nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave. Consider working on that.", ">\n\nSo they point out you’re cultivating a bad habit and blaming other people so you then, blame them? It’s a little spot on don’t you think?", ">\n\nWhen did i blame them for my own actions? Could you quote me? I was just pointing out how weird it was that they made such a strong assumption of my character off a causal comment I left when they themselves were ironically being unnecessarily rude in the process. \nI don't know how you got so lost?", ">\n\n\nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave.\n\nClassic deflection and implication that they’re the one with the problem, not you", ">\n\nFirst its not automatic. I almost never rolled my eyes. Its much easier to control than laughing crying or sneezing. So you just dont make the effort. Its actually a way to express your feeling. You should know that, its your personnality not a human instinctive reaction. \nAnd yes not respecting something is disrespectful. Its not that hard to understand. \nAnyway if i see you.. i dont know having a breakdown after being fired and dumped and start to laugh you'd like that ? \nIf im sad because something good happens to you and show it to you, you would like that ? \nHonestly you are just trying to justify being a bit of a jerk. \nI dont blame you or anything we all are jerks sometime but its what you are doing right now.", ">\n\nI have to refocus my eyes and most of the time blinking doesn’t cut it. I have a lazy eye and when I look at someone for a long time it unfocuses, so moving the muscle is the only way to reset it. If I don’t, people start moving their heads/ bodies trying to focus on my lazy eye. It gets awkward.", ">\n\nThis is where I go to my training as a kid. What others think of you is none of your business.", ">\n\nUnless you have a tick or something like Tourette’s syndrome, then it’s not an involuntary response. Part of living in a society and not being considered rude is managing your body language.\nLet me put it this way. “Rudeness” in itself is a social concept. That means it’s decided by the perception of the masses, what we generally agree upon in terms of our symbols of communication, our customs, our beliefs, our values, etc. For you to say that rolling your eyes isn’t disrespectful is not objectively wrong. But according to the society you live in, it is wrong. In layman’s terms, the hill you’re dying on here is completely arbitrary, neither side will ever be truly correct but as long as you live in a society which feels this way then you will be beholden to it anyways.", ">\n\nTo be fair, if your thinking its stupid or lame, then that is dis-respect. I'd agree with this if it was worded like 'More people need to say what they truly think', but I think you sort of missed the mark, OP.", ">\n\nI am equally annoyed when folks rapidly blink and look away mid conversation or drop their arm dead against their thigh. It’s like you’ve given up an effort to even keep your body vertical and engaged while I’m talking to you.", ">\n\nOP getting downvoted AF & keeps commenting. Gotta love it.", ">\n\nIt is shown as a sign of disrespect and it shows weakness. I can’t imagine Gandhi, the queen of England or Einstein roll their eyes in front of random people. The reason why they were respected is because they didn’t play any superiority game on front of… inferiors or ignorant people. If something is stupid, get the patience and find enough love within yourself to treat the other ones right. \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a child because his question is “stupid”, what parent does it make you ? \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a bad question because you are an expert in a subject, then it is not your modesty that speaks but your ego. For proof : Even if someone you hate said something intelligent, you might want to roll your eyes just to flatter your ego.", ">\n\nIt's seen as disrespectful BECAUSE it's inadvertently telling them you think they're irritating/annoying.", ">\n\nI never roll my eyes? Is that something people do naturally?", ">\n\nAll depends on the context of what is going on.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is not a natural reaction?", ">\n\nNot maintaining basic self control is disrespectful. It's the same reason we don't defecate in public, sneeze on people, or stand in the way of foot traffic.", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s and one of my tics is eye rolling", ">\n\nK", ">\n\nI accidentally roll my eyes at people sometimes when I'm not even trying to", ">\n\nThe sign of a true unpopular opinion: Nobody upvoting it, but everybody commenting to say how they disagree. If you disagree, then give it an upvote. That's the point of this sub.", ">\n\nI think it depends.", ">\n\nThis had to be written by someone under the age of 25", ">\n\nRolling your eyes isn’t natural though. It’s cultural or socially learned if that makes sense. Like if you rolled your eyes at a tribe that is disconnected from society they wouldn’t understand that you’re annoyed. So you cant really compare it to laughing.", ">\n\nI'm kind of curious if this is true though. Are you assuming this, or do you have some kind of study proving this? I'd actually like to see if your hypothesis is true, or if remote tribes also use this facial gesture.", ">\n\nI’m assuming it. Back in my country Turkey if you rolled your eyes at my grandparents they would be confused and wonder what you were doing and what it meant.", ">\n\nit's a maturity thing, keep rolling your eyes at 30-40, everyone gonna see you like a kid. \nyou gotta control your emotions, there's no need to do a expression when something is stupid or lame, you got a mouth and you respectfully share what's wrong, if the person in the other end is reluctant to stay on the same boat even after you talk about it. then you don't roll your eyes, you gotta say that there's nothing more you can do, and that you don't agree with it, and most likely leave to dodge any sort of problem.", ">\n\nI have a tic where I constantly roll my eyes. I’ve had it since I was little, but never noticed it until years later when I high school teacher yelled at me for disrespect. Apparently my parents took me for evaluation when I was very young and diagnosed Tourette’s but never had any other tics develop. Would have been nice to know 🤦🏼‍♀️ I just apologize now and say it’s a compulsion if people ask. I don’t even know when I’m doing it", ">\n\nIs laughing disrespectful? Because it can be. Just like rolling your eyes can be. There is a time and place for everything", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a passive aggressive response. Passive aggression is a tactic used by meek people who are frustrated and don’t have the courage to address a given situation. It’s disrespectful and it lowers your standing in the social hierarchy.", ">\n\nGet back to me when Disney Dad actively encourages your offspring to roll their eyes at you.", ">\n\nYeah it is when I want to be disrespectful to someone I roll my eyes when they make a point. It might be annoying to them, but it also let's them know I don't give a shit about whatever they just said. Now, I would never to it to my boss, or my teachers while I was in college, but when I was a teen I did it all the time because I was an asshole, who didn't care. \nIt's not a natural reaction lmao, it is learned behavior and it can be a bad habit, but it can be unlearned.", ">\n\nSome people can’t control it I know with me sometimes I roll my eyes without meaning too it’s not that I’m trying to be rude it’s just something I didn’t even realize I was doing nor did I mean too", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nI have a friend who thinks like you do, which is based on your responses to the comments. He has very poor social skills and is on the autism spectrum", ">\n\nI bet you're lots of fun at parties OP.", ">\n\nI can’t tell if this is farming karma with ridiculous opinions or if this individual just has a really hard time understanding that maybe their parents aren’t always the bad guys.", ">\n\nYep, thats definitely an unpopular opinion! \nIts certainly disrespectful. And most certainly not some sort of involuntary response like a sneeze. It may feel that way to you, because you've done it so much - but there are plenty of people who don't do it. UNLIKE people who don't sneeze at pepper, or cough at dust. Like, you're just plain wrong on this one. Moreover, I think you're trying to justify/rationalize it yourself rather than address it in a healthy way - a marker suggesting you have some narcissistic tendencies.", ">\n\nWhat a stupid argument, take your upvote", ">\n\nIt’s a sign of contempt. The facial expression expert Dr. Eikman could predict how long a barrage would last based on 4 expressions and the frequency used when the couple was interviewed. Eye rolling was one.. in fact you could remove the others and still reasonably predict marriage failures.", ">\n\nI wish it wasn’t disrespectful, because as an expressive person I LOVE a good eye roll. But, it has gotten me into trouble. I do it without even knowing it. I hate that I do… I wish sometimes I could be stone cold. Just like a fish. One expression face only. Blank fish eyes staring into nothingness.\nMy favourite mug says, “I can’t help what my face does when you talk”. There is a reason the the mug is meant to be cheeky." ]
> This is 100% based on the premis that you can’t control your eyes. Rolling your eyes isn’t a natural movement. You control it. Laughing and crying aren’t necessarily controllable.	[ "🙄", ">\n\nYou’re grounded now", ">\n\nThe post above was someone getting electrocuted so this reply was very timely", ">\n\nThis news is shocking", ">\n\nIt definitely SPARKED my interest", ">\n\nAll of you guys need to leave, and not come back before learning how to conduct yourselves properly", ">\n\nUhhhh....... electricity", ">\n\nWell no, in the right context it is disrespectful. Rolling your eyes suggests that you're not taking the matter seriously or that you dont care which is a sign of disrespect towards whoever is speaking with you.", ">\n\nBut I can't control what I think. If I said \"man you're stupid and I don't care what you say\" thats disrespectful. I'm actually showing respect by not saying it.", ">\n\nI mean, actions speak louder than words, right?", ">\n\nIts not really an action tho its just an automatic response. Like gasping or yawning.", ">\n\nbullshit.\nSorry, it was an automatic response. Which is bullshit just like yours.", ">\n\nStill not the same thing. And they get on me for false analogies....", ">\n\nYou must be a teenager", ">\n\nLol how many times are you gonna post that. Dont you have an original thought of your own?", ">\n\nBruh I cant believe you make these posts. They're foolish", ">\n\nLaughing at someone can be disrespectful. Don't think so? Try laughing at someone's funeral.", ">\n\nThe disrespect comes from the one who told me a joke and made me laugh.", ">\n\nWhat about if no one said any joke? Because, you know, you are at a funeral.", ">\n\nSo someone's just there randomly laughing at shit? That sounds like a mental illness.", ">\n\nYou have never thought of something funny in your head to make yourself laugh? \nOr hell, maybe you didn't like the person who is buried and decided to laugh at them. You find it funny, so laughing must be appropriate, right?", ">\n\nWhy am I thinking about funny shit at a funeral.", ">\n\nBecause the universe likes to put us in uncomfortable positions sometimes.", ">\n\n“if its stupid or lame, you roll your eyes” - you found the disrespect", ">\n\nIm allowed to think whatever i want and its not disrespectful.", ">\n\nWhen you express contempt for something someone else said, it's disrespect.", ">\n\nWhat if what they said is contemptible?", ">\n\nSome people and comments deserve disrespect, still gonna be disrespect", ">\n\nLaughing, crying, and sneezing are all innate, involuntary reactions to certain types of stimuli. Rolling your eyes is a learned behavior. You can’t compare it to those other automatic responses because it’s not the same thing.", ">\n\nTake my upvote", ">\n\nOP rolled their eyes at someone and got chewed out for it.\nNow they're going online in an attempt to validate themselves.\n🙄", ">\n\nProbably got grounded.", ">\n\nPart of being a mature adult is to have self-control and not acting on every impulse and being respectful of people.", ">\n\n\nPart of being a mature adult\n\nYup but OP is clearly a teenager lol. They complain about being told off for doing chores wrong in another post…", ">\n\nEven a teenager should be able to have the fundamental basics of respect", ">\n\nOh I agree 100%", ">\n\nYou have poor self-control and poor self-awareness but the good news is that you can improve these things.", ">\n\n/r/wrongopinions", ">\n\nI feel like we need a new subreddit r/unpopularforareason", ">\n\nIt’s entire purpose is to be disrespectful. Nobody eyerolls something they respect. But how offensive it is depends on the context and how serious one is being.", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes\n\nYou rn: \"I'm not being disrespectful. I just thought what you said was stupid or lame.\"\n...", ">\n\nSaying its stupid could be disrespectful. A facial response is not.", ">\n\nLiterally every person in this thread agrees that it is.\nThis is your bad habit. Nobody else's responsibility but you.", ">\n\nThey can choose to not fly off the handle at what is just an innate reaction.", ">\n\nSo let me get this straight: you think you deserve to be able to disrespect whoever you like whenever you like but they can't as much as say you're being rude? Grow up.", ">\n\nFound the teenager.", ">\n\nMeh, I agree with that one. If you don't like how someone is doing something then do it yourself. There's a reason I live alone.", ">\n\nIt is a UNIVERSAL sign of disrespect. Globally. Deal with it.", ">\n\nLaughing can be disrespectuful too. If you cannot control your own reactions, well, what can I say, maybe you have not really grown up?", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s so it’s hard to control my own actions sometimes…", ">\n\nThank u I'm trying to explain how autism can make it hard to read not just others facial expressions but also ur own and it seems like no one has thought of the possibility that they acc don't realise it or csnt control it", ">\n\nWould you roll your eyes during a job interview if you thought a question was stupid or irrelevant? Do you think you’d get the job if you did?", ">\n\nPretty sure OP would think they were owed that job and they would think it’s ridiculous if they didn’t get it.\nOP is also a teenager going through their rebel phase though", ">\n\nYou're oddly specific here.", ">\n\nWhat was specific? Or rather oddly specific?", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a good way to fast track yourself to a divorce, if you want one.", ">\n\nI think OP needs the definition of respect before any further comment is made", ">\n\nOh I already know it, and I know it does not mean:\nDon't ever disagree with me\nDon't think bad thoughts about me\nDon't ever correct me when I'm blatantly wrong \nShine my boots with your tongue", ">\n\nSoooo this post isn’t about eye rolling is what I’m getting from this. You’ve got issues to work through with your parents or partner or something", ">\n\nSince when tf was eye rolling involuntary?", ">", ">\n\nYour lack of self control is not a justification for disrespect. I personally dont know anyone who reacts to anything by rolling their eyes. Just be mature and communicate.", ">\n\nAnd what if it's not stupid and someone rolls their eyes? Wouldn't it be disrespectful in that case?", ">\n\nIn the eye rollers opinion then it must have been. But you can't fault someone for thinking its stupid.", ">\n\nSo eyerolling is some kind of exceptional thing that is free from criticism? \nIf one has the freedom to eye roll, then someone else has the freedom to criticize the eye roller right? \nOr is it your opinion that besides that everyone who sees an eye roller has to just stfu", ">\n\nMeh, it is disrespectful. It's a way to be disrespectful without having to say That's the dumbest thing I've heard all month, and everyone else who heard it is also dumber for hearing it as well.", ">\n\nBut I didn't say it that's the point.", ">\n\nJust cuz you don’t use words doesn’t mean it’s not disrespectful. Walking away while someone is talking to you, rolling your eyes, slapping someone, and starting to play a game on your phone while someone is talking to you are all disrespectful. It doesn’t matter that you didn’t say anything, your lack of respect still showed.", ">\n\nespecially the way theyre responding to comments", ">\n\nYeah, a natural reaction if you’ve never learned to manage your emotions as opposed to letting them run your life. I’m not talking about being totally monotone rational, either. You need to learn a balance between rational and emotional…which includes healthy, appropriate, respectful expression of honest feelings. Eye rolling is absolutely disrespectful, belittling, and dismissive.", ">\n\nComments: OP is completely wrong and has attitude issues", ">\n\nWhat sounds like mental illness is you refusing to admit that rolling your eyes is simply not an unconditional response. Whether you want to believe it or not, you are doing it intentionally and you can control it. \nYou’re just to much of a b—— to do so.", ">\n\nSame to you", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a learned reaction. Not natural. I rarely of ever roll my eyes at anything.", ">", ">\n\nJust like raising your middle finger. Or vocalizing the sounds \"fuck you\". Or fingers typing the words fuck you OP. Nothing is disrespectful!", ">\n\nNice try but not the same thing at all. You're talking about thought out actions here. The eye roll is more like a reaction. Its quick, its automatic, no one has to think \"im rolling my eyes now\" it just happens. \nSort of like when telling a lie - no one decides to have their eyes dart around suspiciously, it just happens.", ">\n\nNo. Rolling your eyes is not involuntary. It can be controlled. You have a bad habit that you CAN stop. Much like a child learning not to suck their thumb, or biting your nails.", ">\n\nHow about you start with your hair scratching", ">\n\nYour opinion is a contradiction in itself. And, yeah. I disagree. Rolling your eyes is 100% to show lack of respect, and you have no intentions of showing it, even to reason, by rolling your eyes at something someone could believe is meaningful or important. Even if it is stupid.\nI get your point, we roll our eyes to express how we feel, but it is still a physical snare. You say rolling your eyes isn't disrespectful, while saying it's okay to roll your eyes because something is \" stupid or lame\", which in itself is disrespectful. You sound like a very young person in the middle of a learning moment, and you're trying to react with rebellion. It only shows that you lack maturity and are in need of growth. This might be a time for you to read these comments and reevaluate. There are healthier ways to react to things you disagree with, or lack interest in. If not, you can just accept that you roll your eyes to show lack of respect.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is much more deliberate than laughter, tears, or sneezing. It's a conscious action in response to a judgement you're making.", ">\n\nNah, dude it is disrespectful \nYou just have no self control and by the looks of it you don't want to build some", ">\n\nYour post made me roll my eyes very hard.", ">\n\n“No, officer, my wife - she MADE me hit her!”", ">\n\nIt's a natural reaction for a sooky kid but not an adult, if you do that as an adult you just manchild that wants everything their way", ">\n\npoor OP.... did you get in trouble after you rolled your eyes at something again? did you not prehaps learn from previous interactions? rolling your eyes at something \"stupid or lame\" is an intentional response that is disrespectful to whatever it is. mature people dont act that way.....", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes.\n\nSo it is disrespectful. \n\nIts like throwing pepper in someone's face an expecting them not to sneeze.\n\nNo it’s not. You can easily (edited in) refrain from rolling your eyes, while it’s much more difficult to refrain from sneezing. \nIt’s fine to think whatever you want, but you might want to refrain from rolling your eyes when you’re, say, interacting with your boss; aka someone that can make you unemployed for whatever reason they please.", ">\n\nThis isn't an opinion. It's just flat wrong. \nIt is disrespectful because it is a conscious signifier which clearly communicated that you think that the thing you are rolling your eyes at is not worthy of respect.", ">\n\nYou have to go out of your way to roll your eyes. It is NOT gutteral or instinctual", ">\n\nIf you annoy me, my arm whips out in a natural reaction and slaps you.", ">\n\nSorry, kiddo, it’s 100% disrespectful. Just own the shit and quit trying to lawyer around it.\nI say that after having rolled my eyes so hard at your post, I travelled back in time.", ">\n\nTell that to my family lol you get the belt", ">\n\nThis was made my a 15 year old who just got told off by their mom about rolling their eyes. Then in defense said, “I can’t control it”", ">\n\nMan it's getting so aggressive sometimes here 😂", ">\n\ni certainly hope you are embarrassed about this in a couple years when you grow up.", ">\n\nOP is a habitual eye roller 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄", ">\n\nI wish to God we could block people by age, no more edgy 13yo’s", ">\n\nSomebody just got their ps5 taken away for rolling their eyes", ">\n\nTell me you're 12 without telling me you're 12.", ">\n\nit’s the definition of disrespectful and a sign that you have literally nothing intelligent to say in return. \nwhich is why we outgrow it as adults.", ">\n\nYou can control it. It’s not an “automatic response” unless you’ve taught yourself to do it. I never roll my eyes. It’s just not something I have ever practiced doing. And yes…if I’m saying something too you and you dismiss it with an eye roll…it’s super disrespectful.", ">\n\nrolling your eyes is just as respectful as sticking your tongue out at someone or making a stupid face in reaction to something someone says", ">\n\nIf you can’t control your eye movement, you need to see a neurologist, dude 😆. As it stands, eye rolling isn’t a reflex or a “natural reaction” to anything. Habits aren’t the same as involuntary reactions.\nRolling your eyes at someone is disrespectful. It’s an outward sign that you think something about your interaction with them was stupid or wrong. There’s no one here that will agree with you, and you know that you’re in the vast minority with this opinion because you posted it on this sub. Now learn some humility and accept that your opinion is factually incorrect based on science.", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nAre you like 14 and your mom got you in trouble cause you rolled your eyes at her? Lmao", ">\n\nI’m gonna show your mom this and it’s going to be another week of being grounded, you little shit lol", ">\n\nOmfg 😂", ">\n\nOP I have to ask.\n\n\nHow old are you?\n\n\nHow is your relationship with your parents?\n\n\nHow do you view authority figures in your life?", ">\n\nrolls eyes", ">\n\nIf you say or demand something stupid from me I will probably roll my eyes.", ">\n\nBut it is", ">\n\nJust like rolling your eyes is an innate response, so are other people's responses to you rolling your eyes.", ">\n\nSometimes being respectful requires hiding your subjective opinion on whether something is stupid or lame.", ">\n\nI wouldn’t say eye rolling is as involuntary as laughing or crying tho. It’s more of a choice.", ">\n\nIf someone rolls their eyes then I feel disrespected it’s a natural reaction.", ">\n\ntell me you're a teenager without telling me you're a teenager", ">\n\nI'm rolling my eyes at this post. And I definitely mean it disrespectfully.", ">\n\nLmao this kid had an argument with his parent(s) or teacher and is venting on Reddit.", ">\n\nYou sound like an eye rolling arsehole", ">\n\ni have never had an as a nonvoulentary action, it requires very explicit movement of you eye. this is like saying “when i dont like people, i punch them in the head, thats my natural reaction i cant control it”\ni have never once legitimately rolled my eyes at something, i think you might be an asshole", ">\n\nMe smacking your face is also an innate uncontrollable response to you rolling your eyes. I'm only human. What can I do? 🙄", ">\n\nI disagree. also there are a billion other ways to express something being stupid or lame than rolling ur eyes", ">\n\nStop downvoting, this is ACTUALLY a very unpopular opinion and I love to see it tbh. Voice your disagreement in the comments but don't downvote the post. This post is hilarious.", ">\n\nThis is something you’ve learned to do. It’s entirely in your control if you do it or not.", ">\n\nI once got a detention for rolling my eyes at a teacher in 4th grade.\nI agree with you, though. The only other person I've ever really rolled my eyes at was my mother, and she deserved it, every single time.", ">\n\nI get your point. I absolutely purposefully roll my eyes sometimes and whoever I'm doing it to would be valid for getting mad. \nBut as someone who can't hide any emotion on their face (literally any, I'm the definition of an open book) there have been plenty of times where people blew up at me or laughed because I rolled my eyes when I didn't even realize I had done it. Feel like the people disagreeing with you haven't experienced this problem.", ">\n\nWhat you've done is cultivate a bad habit and then blamed it on everyone else when you repeat your own bad habit unintentionally.\nThis is entirely your fault.", ">\n\nOnly on Reddit would someone so boldly declare something like this to a stranger. I'm on the spectrum so that might have to do with my not being able to hide any emotion (I truly mean that, people can basically read my thoughts just by looking at me, good and bad). \nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave. Consider working on that.", ">\n\nSo they point out you’re cultivating a bad habit and blaming other people so you then, blame them? It’s a little spot on don’t you think?", ">\n\nWhen did i blame them for my own actions? Could you quote me? I was just pointing out how weird it was that they made such a strong assumption of my character off a causal comment I left when they themselves were ironically being unnecessarily rude in the process. \nI don't know how you got so lost?", ">\n\n\nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave.\n\nClassic deflection and implication that they’re the one with the problem, not you", ">\n\nFirst its not automatic. I almost never rolled my eyes. Its much easier to control than laughing crying or sneezing. So you just dont make the effort. Its actually a way to express your feeling. You should know that, its your personnality not a human instinctive reaction. \nAnd yes not respecting something is disrespectful. Its not that hard to understand. \nAnyway if i see you.. i dont know having a breakdown after being fired and dumped and start to laugh you'd like that ? \nIf im sad because something good happens to you and show it to you, you would like that ? \nHonestly you are just trying to justify being a bit of a jerk. \nI dont blame you or anything we all are jerks sometime but its what you are doing right now.", ">\n\nI have to refocus my eyes and most of the time blinking doesn’t cut it. I have a lazy eye and when I look at someone for a long time it unfocuses, so moving the muscle is the only way to reset it. If I don’t, people start moving their heads/ bodies trying to focus on my lazy eye. It gets awkward.", ">\n\nThis is where I go to my training as a kid. What others think of you is none of your business.", ">\n\nUnless you have a tick or something like Tourette’s syndrome, then it’s not an involuntary response. Part of living in a society and not being considered rude is managing your body language.\nLet me put it this way. “Rudeness” in itself is a social concept. That means it’s decided by the perception of the masses, what we generally agree upon in terms of our symbols of communication, our customs, our beliefs, our values, etc. For you to say that rolling your eyes isn’t disrespectful is not objectively wrong. But according to the society you live in, it is wrong. In layman’s terms, the hill you’re dying on here is completely arbitrary, neither side will ever be truly correct but as long as you live in a society which feels this way then you will be beholden to it anyways.", ">\n\nTo be fair, if your thinking its stupid or lame, then that is dis-respect. I'd agree with this if it was worded like 'More people need to say what they truly think', but I think you sort of missed the mark, OP.", ">\n\nI am equally annoyed when folks rapidly blink and look away mid conversation or drop their arm dead against their thigh. It’s like you’ve given up an effort to even keep your body vertical and engaged while I’m talking to you.", ">\n\nOP getting downvoted AF & keeps commenting. Gotta love it.", ">\n\nIt is shown as a sign of disrespect and it shows weakness. I can’t imagine Gandhi, the queen of England or Einstein roll their eyes in front of random people. The reason why they were respected is because they didn’t play any superiority game on front of… inferiors or ignorant people. If something is stupid, get the patience and find enough love within yourself to treat the other ones right. \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a child because his question is “stupid”, what parent does it make you ? \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a bad question because you are an expert in a subject, then it is not your modesty that speaks but your ego. For proof : Even if someone you hate said something intelligent, you might want to roll your eyes just to flatter your ego.", ">\n\nIt's seen as disrespectful BECAUSE it's inadvertently telling them you think they're irritating/annoying.", ">\n\nI never roll my eyes? Is that something people do naturally?", ">\n\nAll depends on the context of what is going on.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is not a natural reaction?", ">\n\nNot maintaining basic self control is disrespectful. It's the same reason we don't defecate in public, sneeze on people, or stand in the way of foot traffic.", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s and one of my tics is eye rolling", ">\n\nK", ">\n\nI accidentally roll my eyes at people sometimes when I'm not even trying to", ">\n\nThe sign of a true unpopular opinion: Nobody upvoting it, but everybody commenting to say how they disagree. If you disagree, then give it an upvote. That's the point of this sub.", ">\n\nI think it depends.", ">\n\nThis had to be written by someone under the age of 25", ">\n\nRolling your eyes isn’t natural though. It’s cultural or socially learned if that makes sense. Like if you rolled your eyes at a tribe that is disconnected from society they wouldn’t understand that you’re annoyed. So you cant really compare it to laughing.", ">\n\nI'm kind of curious if this is true though. Are you assuming this, or do you have some kind of study proving this? I'd actually like to see if your hypothesis is true, or if remote tribes also use this facial gesture.", ">\n\nI’m assuming it. Back in my country Turkey if you rolled your eyes at my grandparents they would be confused and wonder what you were doing and what it meant.", ">\n\nit's a maturity thing, keep rolling your eyes at 30-40, everyone gonna see you like a kid. \nyou gotta control your emotions, there's no need to do a expression when something is stupid or lame, you got a mouth and you respectfully share what's wrong, if the person in the other end is reluctant to stay on the same boat even after you talk about it. then you don't roll your eyes, you gotta say that there's nothing more you can do, and that you don't agree with it, and most likely leave to dodge any sort of problem.", ">\n\nI have a tic where I constantly roll my eyes. I’ve had it since I was little, but never noticed it until years later when I high school teacher yelled at me for disrespect. Apparently my parents took me for evaluation when I was very young and diagnosed Tourette’s but never had any other tics develop. Would have been nice to know 🤦🏼‍♀️ I just apologize now and say it’s a compulsion if people ask. I don’t even know when I’m doing it", ">\n\nIs laughing disrespectful? Because it can be. Just like rolling your eyes can be. There is a time and place for everything", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a passive aggressive response. Passive aggression is a tactic used by meek people who are frustrated and don’t have the courage to address a given situation. It’s disrespectful and it lowers your standing in the social hierarchy.", ">\n\nGet back to me when Disney Dad actively encourages your offspring to roll their eyes at you.", ">\n\nYeah it is when I want to be disrespectful to someone I roll my eyes when they make a point. It might be annoying to them, but it also let's them know I don't give a shit about whatever they just said. Now, I would never to it to my boss, or my teachers while I was in college, but when I was a teen I did it all the time because I was an asshole, who didn't care. \nIt's not a natural reaction lmao, it is learned behavior and it can be a bad habit, but it can be unlearned.", ">\n\nSome people can’t control it I know with me sometimes I roll my eyes without meaning too it’s not that I’m trying to be rude it’s just something I didn’t even realize I was doing nor did I mean too", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nI have a friend who thinks like you do, which is based on your responses to the comments. He has very poor social skills and is on the autism spectrum", ">\n\nI bet you're lots of fun at parties OP.", ">\n\nI can’t tell if this is farming karma with ridiculous opinions or if this individual just has a really hard time understanding that maybe their parents aren’t always the bad guys.", ">\n\nYep, thats definitely an unpopular opinion! \nIts certainly disrespectful. And most certainly not some sort of involuntary response like a sneeze. It may feel that way to you, because you've done it so much - but there are plenty of people who don't do it. UNLIKE people who don't sneeze at pepper, or cough at dust. Like, you're just plain wrong on this one. Moreover, I think you're trying to justify/rationalize it yourself rather than address it in a healthy way - a marker suggesting you have some narcissistic tendencies.", ">\n\nWhat a stupid argument, take your upvote", ">\n\nIt’s a sign of contempt. The facial expression expert Dr. Eikman could predict how long a barrage would last based on 4 expressions and the frequency used when the couple was interviewed. Eye rolling was one.. in fact you could remove the others and still reasonably predict marriage failures.", ">\n\nI wish it wasn’t disrespectful, because as an expressive person I LOVE a good eye roll. But, it has gotten me into trouble. I do it without even knowing it. I hate that I do… I wish sometimes I could be stone cold. Just like a fish. One expression face only. Blank fish eyes staring into nothingness.\nMy favourite mug says, “I can’t help what my face does when you talk”. There is a reason the the mug is meant to be cheeky.", ">\n\nSeems disrespectful to me because my eyes don't roll on their own, it would be a conscious act." ]
> In addition to this: finding something somebody said stupid isnt disrespectful - makin fun in an exaggerated way, call em out in a mean way, or think everything they're gonna say next is bs is the disrespectful part.	[ "🙄", ">\n\nYou’re grounded now", ">\n\nThe post above was someone getting electrocuted so this reply was very timely", ">\n\nThis news is shocking", ">\n\nIt definitely SPARKED my interest", ">\n\nAll of you guys need to leave, and not come back before learning how to conduct yourselves properly", ">\n\nUhhhh....... electricity", ">\n\nWell no, in the right context it is disrespectful. Rolling your eyes suggests that you're not taking the matter seriously or that you dont care which is a sign of disrespect towards whoever is speaking with you.", ">\n\nBut I can't control what I think. If I said \"man you're stupid and I don't care what you say\" thats disrespectful. I'm actually showing respect by not saying it.", ">\n\nI mean, actions speak louder than words, right?", ">\n\nIts not really an action tho its just an automatic response. Like gasping or yawning.", ">\n\nbullshit.\nSorry, it was an automatic response. Which is bullshit just like yours.", ">\n\nStill not the same thing. And they get on me for false analogies....", ">\n\nYou must be a teenager", ">\n\nLol how many times are you gonna post that. Dont you have an original thought of your own?", ">\n\nBruh I cant believe you make these posts. They're foolish", ">\n\nLaughing at someone can be disrespectful. Don't think so? Try laughing at someone's funeral.", ">\n\nThe disrespect comes from the one who told me a joke and made me laugh.", ">\n\nWhat about if no one said any joke? Because, you know, you are at a funeral.", ">\n\nSo someone's just there randomly laughing at shit? That sounds like a mental illness.", ">\n\nYou have never thought of something funny in your head to make yourself laugh? \nOr hell, maybe you didn't like the person who is buried and decided to laugh at them. You find it funny, so laughing must be appropriate, right?", ">\n\nWhy am I thinking about funny shit at a funeral.", ">\n\nBecause the universe likes to put us in uncomfortable positions sometimes.", ">\n\n“if its stupid or lame, you roll your eyes” - you found the disrespect", ">\n\nIm allowed to think whatever i want and its not disrespectful.", ">\n\nWhen you express contempt for something someone else said, it's disrespect.", ">\n\nWhat if what they said is contemptible?", ">\n\nSome people and comments deserve disrespect, still gonna be disrespect", ">\n\nLaughing, crying, and sneezing are all innate, involuntary reactions to certain types of stimuli. Rolling your eyes is a learned behavior. You can’t compare it to those other automatic responses because it’s not the same thing.", ">\n\nTake my upvote", ">\n\nOP rolled their eyes at someone and got chewed out for it.\nNow they're going online in an attempt to validate themselves.\n🙄", ">\n\nProbably got grounded.", ">\n\nPart of being a mature adult is to have self-control and not acting on every impulse and being respectful of people.", ">\n\n\nPart of being a mature adult\n\nYup but OP is clearly a teenager lol. They complain about being told off for doing chores wrong in another post…", ">\n\nEven a teenager should be able to have the fundamental basics of respect", ">\n\nOh I agree 100%", ">\n\nYou have poor self-control and poor self-awareness but the good news is that you can improve these things.", ">\n\n/r/wrongopinions", ">\n\nI feel like we need a new subreddit r/unpopularforareason", ">\n\nIt’s entire purpose is to be disrespectful. Nobody eyerolls something they respect. But how offensive it is depends on the context and how serious one is being.", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes\n\nYou rn: \"I'm not being disrespectful. I just thought what you said was stupid or lame.\"\n...", ">\n\nSaying its stupid could be disrespectful. A facial response is not.", ">\n\nLiterally every person in this thread agrees that it is.\nThis is your bad habit. Nobody else's responsibility but you.", ">\n\nThey can choose to not fly off the handle at what is just an innate reaction.", ">\n\nSo let me get this straight: you think you deserve to be able to disrespect whoever you like whenever you like but they can't as much as say you're being rude? Grow up.", ">\n\nFound the teenager.", ">\n\nMeh, I agree with that one. If you don't like how someone is doing something then do it yourself. There's a reason I live alone.", ">\n\nIt is a UNIVERSAL sign of disrespect. Globally. Deal with it.", ">\n\nLaughing can be disrespectuful too. If you cannot control your own reactions, well, what can I say, maybe you have not really grown up?", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s so it’s hard to control my own actions sometimes…", ">\n\nThank u I'm trying to explain how autism can make it hard to read not just others facial expressions but also ur own and it seems like no one has thought of the possibility that they acc don't realise it or csnt control it", ">\n\nWould you roll your eyes during a job interview if you thought a question was stupid or irrelevant? Do you think you’d get the job if you did?", ">\n\nPretty sure OP would think they were owed that job and they would think it’s ridiculous if they didn’t get it.\nOP is also a teenager going through their rebel phase though", ">\n\nYou're oddly specific here.", ">\n\nWhat was specific? Or rather oddly specific?", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a good way to fast track yourself to a divorce, if you want one.", ">\n\nI think OP needs the definition of respect before any further comment is made", ">\n\nOh I already know it, and I know it does not mean:\nDon't ever disagree with me\nDon't think bad thoughts about me\nDon't ever correct me when I'm blatantly wrong \nShine my boots with your tongue", ">\n\nSoooo this post isn’t about eye rolling is what I’m getting from this. You’ve got issues to work through with your parents or partner or something", ">\n\nSince when tf was eye rolling involuntary?", ">", ">\n\nYour lack of self control is not a justification for disrespect. I personally dont know anyone who reacts to anything by rolling their eyes. Just be mature and communicate.", ">\n\nAnd what if it's not stupid and someone rolls their eyes? Wouldn't it be disrespectful in that case?", ">\n\nIn the eye rollers opinion then it must have been. But you can't fault someone for thinking its stupid.", ">\n\nSo eyerolling is some kind of exceptional thing that is free from criticism? \nIf one has the freedom to eye roll, then someone else has the freedom to criticize the eye roller right? \nOr is it your opinion that besides that everyone who sees an eye roller has to just stfu", ">\n\nMeh, it is disrespectful. It's a way to be disrespectful without having to say That's the dumbest thing I've heard all month, and everyone else who heard it is also dumber for hearing it as well.", ">\n\nBut I didn't say it that's the point.", ">\n\nJust cuz you don’t use words doesn’t mean it’s not disrespectful. Walking away while someone is talking to you, rolling your eyes, slapping someone, and starting to play a game on your phone while someone is talking to you are all disrespectful. It doesn’t matter that you didn’t say anything, your lack of respect still showed.", ">\n\nespecially the way theyre responding to comments", ">\n\nYeah, a natural reaction if you’ve never learned to manage your emotions as opposed to letting them run your life. I’m not talking about being totally monotone rational, either. You need to learn a balance between rational and emotional…which includes healthy, appropriate, respectful expression of honest feelings. Eye rolling is absolutely disrespectful, belittling, and dismissive.", ">\n\nComments: OP is completely wrong and has attitude issues", ">\n\nWhat sounds like mental illness is you refusing to admit that rolling your eyes is simply not an unconditional response. Whether you want to believe it or not, you are doing it intentionally and you can control it. \nYou’re just to much of a b—— to do so.", ">\n\nSame to you", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a learned reaction. Not natural. I rarely of ever roll my eyes at anything.", ">", ">\n\nJust like raising your middle finger. Or vocalizing the sounds \"fuck you\". Or fingers typing the words fuck you OP. Nothing is disrespectful!", ">\n\nNice try but not the same thing at all. You're talking about thought out actions here. The eye roll is more like a reaction. Its quick, its automatic, no one has to think \"im rolling my eyes now\" it just happens. \nSort of like when telling a lie - no one decides to have their eyes dart around suspiciously, it just happens.", ">\n\nNo. Rolling your eyes is not involuntary. It can be controlled. You have a bad habit that you CAN stop. Much like a child learning not to suck their thumb, or biting your nails.", ">\n\nHow about you start with your hair scratching", ">\n\nYour opinion is a contradiction in itself. And, yeah. I disagree. Rolling your eyes is 100% to show lack of respect, and you have no intentions of showing it, even to reason, by rolling your eyes at something someone could believe is meaningful or important. Even if it is stupid.\nI get your point, we roll our eyes to express how we feel, but it is still a physical snare. You say rolling your eyes isn't disrespectful, while saying it's okay to roll your eyes because something is \" stupid or lame\", which in itself is disrespectful. You sound like a very young person in the middle of a learning moment, and you're trying to react with rebellion. It only shows that you lack maturity and are in need of growth. This might be a time for you to read these comments and reevaluate. There are healthier ways to react to things you disagree with, or lack interest in. If not, you can just accept that you roll your eyes to show lack of respect.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is much more deliberate than laughter, tears, or sneezing. It's a conscious action in response to a judgement you're making.", ">\n\nNah, dude it is disrespectful \nYou just have no self control and by the looks of it you don't want to build some", ">\n\nYour post made me roll my eyes very hard.", ">\n\n“No, officer, my wife - she MADE me hit her!”", ">\n\nIt's a natural reaction for a sooky kid but not an adult, if you do that as an adult you just manchild that wants everything their way", ">\n\npoor OP.... did you get in trouble after you rolled your eyes at something again? did you not prehaps learn from previous interactions? rolling your eyes at something \"stupid or lame\" is an intentional response that is disrespectful to whatever it is. mature people dont act that way.....", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes.\n\nSo it is disrespectful. \n\nIts like throwing pepper in someone's face an expecting them not to sneeze.\n\nNo it’s not. You can easily (edited in) refrain from rolling your eyes, while it’s much more difficult to refrain from sneezing. \nIt’s fine to think whatever you want, but you might want to refrain from rolling your eyes when you’re, say, interacting with your boss; aka someone that can make you unemployed for whatever reason they please.", ">\n\nThis isn't an opinion. It's just flat wrong. \nIt is disrespectful because it is a conscious signifier which clearly communicated that you think that the thing you are rolling your eyes at is not worthy of respect.", ">\n\nYou have to go out of your way to roll your eyes. It is NOT gutteral or instinctual", ">\n\nIf you annoy me, my arm whips out in a natural reaction and slaps you.", ">\n\nSorry, kiddo, it’s 100% disrespectful. Just own the shit and quit trying to lawyer around it.\nI say that after having rolled my eyes so hard at your post, I travelled back in time.", ">\n\nTell that to my family lol you get the belt", ">\n\nThis was made my a 15 year old who just got told off by their mom about rolling their eyes. Then in defense said, “I can’t control it”", ">\n\nMan it's getting so aggressive sometimes here 😂", ">\n\ni certainly hope you are embarrassed about this in a couple years when you grow up.", ">\n\nOP is a habitual eye roller 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄", ">\n\nI wish to God we could block people by age, no more edgy 13yo’s", ">\n\nSomebody just got their ps5 taken away for rolling their eyes", ">\n\nTell me you're 12 without telling me you're 12.", ">\n\nit’s the definition of disrespectful and a sign that you have literally nothing intelligent to say in return. \nwhich is why we outgrow it as adults.", ">\n\nYou can control it. It’s not an “automatic response” unless you’ve taught yourself to do it. I never roll my eyes. It’s just not something I have ever practiced doing. And yes…if I’m saying something too you and you dismiss it with an eye roll…it’s super disrespectful.", ">\n\nrolling your eyes is just as respectful as sticking your tongue out at someone or making a stupid face in reaction to something someone says", ">\n\nIf you can’t control your eye movement, you need to see a neurologist, dude 😆. As it stands, eye rolling isn’t a reflex or a “natural reaction” to anything. Habits aren’t the same as involuntary reactions.\nRolling your eyes at someone is disrespectful. It’s an outward sign that you think something about your interaction with them was stupid or wrong. There’s no one here that will agree with you, and you know that you’re in the vast minority with this opinion because you posted it on this sub. Now learn some humility and accept that your opinion is factually incorrect based on science.", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nAre you like 14 and your mom got you in trouble cause you rolled your eyes at her? Lmao", ">\n\nI’m gonna show your mom this and it’s going to be another week of being grounded, you little shit lol", ">\n\nOmfg 😂", ">\n\nOP I have to ask.\n\n\nHow old are you?\n\n\nHow is your relationship with your parents?\n\n\nHow do you view authority figures in your life?", ">\n\nrolls eyes", ">\n\nIf you say or demand something stupid from me I will probably roll my eyes.", ">\n\nBut it is", ">\n\nJust like rolling your eyes is an innate response, so are other people's responses to you rolling your eyes.", ">\n\nSometimes being respectful requires hiding your subjective opinion on whether something is stupid or lame.", ">\n\nI wouldn’t say eye rolling is as involuntary as laughing or crying tho. It’s more of a choice.", ">\n\nIf someone rolls their eyes then I feel disrespected it’s a natural reaction.", ">\n\ntell me you're a teenager without telling me you're a teenager", ">\n\nI'm rolling my eyes at this post. And I definitely mean it disrespectfully.", ">\n\nLmao this kid had an argument with his parent(s) or teacher and is venting on Reddit.", ">\n\nYou sound like an eye rolling arsehole", ">\n\ni have never had an as a nonvoulentary action, it requires very explicit movement of you eye. this is like saying “when i dont like people, i punch them in the head, thats my natural reaction i cant control it”\ni have never once legitimately rolled my eyes at something, i think you might be an asshole", ">\n\nMe smacking your face is also an innate uncontrollable response to you rolling your eyes. I'm only human. What can I do? 🙄", ">\n\nI disagree. also there are a billion other ways to express something being stupid or lame than rolling ur eyes", ">\n\nStop downvoting, this is ACTUALLY a very unpopular opinion and I love to see it tbh. Voice your disagreement in the comments but don't downvote the post. This post is hilarious.", ">\n\nThis is something you’ve learned to do. It’s entirely in your control if you do it or not.", ">\n\nI once got a detention for rolling my eyes at a teacher in 4th grade.\nI agree with you, though. The only other person I've ever really rolled my eyes at was my mother, and she deserved it, every single time.", ">\n\nI get your point. I absolutely purposefully roll my eyes sometimes and whoever I'm doing it to would be valid for getting mad. \nBut as someone who can't hide any emotion on their face (literally any, I'm the definition of an open book) there have been plenty of times where people blew up at me or laughed because I rolled my eyes when I didn't even realize I had done it. Feel like the people disagreeing with you haven't experienced this problem.", ">\n\nWhat you've done is cultivate a bad habit and then blamed it on everyone else when you repeat your own bad habit unintentionally.\nThis is entirely your fault.", ">\n\nOnly on Reddit would someone so boldly declare something like this to a stranger. I'm on the spectrum so that might have to do with my not being able to hide any emotion (I truly mean that, people can basically read my thoughts just by looking at me, good and bad). \nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave. Consider working on that.", ">\n\nSo they point out you’re cultivating a bad habit and blaming other people so you then, blame them? It’s a little spot on don’t you think?", ">\n\nWhen did i blame them for my own actions? Could you quote me? I was just pointing out how weird it was that they made such a strong assumption of my character off a causal comment I left when they themselves were ironically being unnecessarily rude in the process. \nI don't know how you got so lost?", ">\n\n\nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave.\n\nClassic deflection and implication that they’re the one with the problem, not you", ">\n\nFirst its not automatic. I almost never rolled my eyes. Its much easier to control than laughing crying or sneezing. So you just dont make the effort. Its actually a way to express your feeling. You should know that, its your personnality not a human instinctive reaction. \nAnd yes not respecting something is disrespectful. Its not that hard to understand. \nAnyway if i see you.. i dont know having a breakdown after being fired and dumped and start to laugh you'd like that ? \nIf im sad because something good happens to you and show it to you, you would like that ? \nHonestly you are just trying to justify being a bit of a jerk. \nI dont blame you or anything we all are jerks sometime but its what you are doing right now.", ">\n\nI have to refocus my eyes and most of the time blinking doesn’t cut it. I have a lazy eye and when I look at someone for a long time it unfocuses, so moving the muscle is the only way to reset it. If I don’t, people start moving their heads/ bodies trying to focus on my lazy eye. It gets awkward.", ">\n\nThis is where I go to my training as a kid. What others think of you is none of your business.", ">\n\nUnless you have a tick or something like Tourette’s syndrome, then it’s not an involuntary response. Part of living in a society and not being considered rude is managing your body language.\nLet me put it this way. “Rudeness” in itself is a social concept. That means it’s decided by the perception of the masses, what we generally agree upon in terms of our symbols of communication, our customs, our beliefs, our values, etc. For you to say that rolling your eyes isn’t disrespectful is not objectively wrong. But according to the society you live in, it is wrong. In layman’s terms, the hill you’re dying on here is completely arbitrary, neither side will ever be truly correct but as long as you live in a society which feels this way then you will be beholden to it anyways.", ">\n\nTo be fair, if your thinking its stupid or lame, then that is dis-respect. I'd agree with this if it was worded like 'More people need to say what they truly think', but I think you sort of missed the mark, OP.", ">\n\nI am equally annoyed when folks rapidly blink and look away mid conversation or drop their arm dead against their thigh. It’s like you’ve given up an effort to even keep your body vertical and engaged while I’m talking to you.", ">\n\nOP getting downvoted AF & keeps commenting. Gotta love it.", ">\n\nIt is shown as a sign of disrespect and it shows weakness. I can’t imagine Gandhi, the queen of England or Einstein roll their eyes in front of random people. The reason why they were respected is because they didn’t play any superiority game on front of… inferiors or ignorant people. If something is stupid, get the patience and find enough love within yourself to treat the other ones right. \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a child because his question is “stupid”, what parent does it make you ? \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a bad question because you are an expert in a subject, then it is not your modesty that speaks but your ego. For proof : Even if someone you hate said something intelligent, you might want to roll your eyes just to flatter your ego.", ">\n\nIt's seen as disrespectful BECAUSE it's inadvertently telling them you think they're irritating/annoying.", ">\n\nI never roll my eyes? Is that something people do naturally?", ">\n\nAll depends on the context of what is going on.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is not a natural reaction?", ">\n\nNot maintaining basic self control is disrespectful. It's the same reason we don't defecate in public, sneeze on people, or stand in the way of foot traffic.", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s and one of my tics is eye rolling", ">\n\nK", ">\n\nI accidentally roll my eyes at people sometimes when I'm not even trying to", ">\n\nThe sign of a true unpopular opinion: Nobody upvoting it, but everybody commenting to say how they disagree. If you disagree, then give it an upvote. That's the point of this sub.", ">\n\nI think it depends.", ">\n\nThis had to be written by someone under the age of 25", ">\n\nRolling your eyes isn’t natural though. It’s cultural or socially learned if that makes sense. Like if you rolled your eyes at a tribe that is disconnected from society they wouldn’t understand that you’re annoyed. So you cant really compare it to laughing.", ">\n\nI'm kind of curious if this is true though. Are you assuming this, or do you have some kind of study proving this? I'd actually like to see if your hypothesis is true, or if remote tribes also use this facial gesture.", ">\n\nI’m assuming it. Back in my country Turkey if you rolled your eyes at my grandparents they would be confused and wonder what you were doing and what it meant.", ">\n\nit's a maturity thing, keep rolling your eyes at 30-40, everyone gonna see you like a kid. \nyou gotta control your emotions, there's no need to do a expression when something is stupid or lame, you got a mouth and you respectfully share what's wrong, if the person in the other end is reluctant to stay on the same boat even after you talk about it. then you don't roll your eyes, you gotta say that there's nothing more you can do, and that you don't agree with it, and most likely leave to dodge any sort of problem.", ">\n\nI have a tic where I constantly roll my eyes. I’ve had it since I was little, but never noticed it until years later when I high school teacher yelled at me for disrespect. Apparently my parents took me for evaluation when I was very young and diagnosed Tourette’s but never had any other tics develop. Would have been nice to know 🤦🏼‍♀️ I just apologize now and say it’s a compulsion if people ask. I don’t even know when I’m doing it", ">\n\nIs laughing disrespectful? Because it can be. Just like rolling your eyes can be. There is a time and place for everything", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a passive aggressive response. Passive aggression is a tactic used by meek people who are frustrated and don’t have the courage to address a given situation. It’s disrespectful and it lowers your standing in the social hierarchy.", ">\n\nGet back to me when Disney Dad actively encourages your offspring to roll their eyes at you.", ">\n\nYeah it is when I want to be disrespectful to someone I roll my eyes when they make a point. It might be annoying to them, but it also let's them know I don't give a shit about whatever they just said. Now, I would never to it to my boss, or my teachers while I was in college, but when I was a teen I did it all the time because I was an asshole, who didn't care. \nIt's not a natural reaction lmao, it is learned behavior and it can be a bad habit, but it can be unlearned.", ">\n\nSome people can’t control it I know with me sometimes I roll my eyes without meaning too it’s not that I’m trying to be rude it’s just something I didn’t even realize I was doing nor did I mean too", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nI have a friend who thinks like you do, which is based on your responses to the comments. He has very poor social skills and is on the autism spectrum", ">\n\nI bet you're lots of fun at parties OP.", ">\n\nI can’t tell if this is farming karma with ridiculous opinions or if this individual just has a really hard time understanding that maybe their parents aren’t always the bad guys.", ">\n\nYep, thats definitely an unpopular opinion! \nIts certainly disrespectful. And most certainly not some sort of involuntary response like a sneeze. It may feel that way to you, because you've done it so much - but there are plenty of people who don't do it. UNLIKE people who don't sneeze at pepper, or cough at dust. Like, you're just plain wrong on this one. Moreover, I think you're trying to justify/rationalize it yourself rather than address it in a healthy way - a marker suggesting you have some narcissistic tendencies.", ">\n\nWhat a stupid argument, take your upvote", ">\n\nIt’s a sign of contempt. The facial expression expert Dr. Eikman could predict how long a barrage would last based on 4 expressions and the frequency used when the couple was interviewed. Eye rolling was one.. in fact you could remove the others and still reasonably predict marriage failures.", ">\n\nI wish it wasn’t disrespectful, because as an expressive person I LOVE a good eye roll. But, it has gotten me into trouble. I do it without even knowing it. I hate that I do… I wish sometimes I could be stone cold. Just like a fish. One expression face only. Blank fish eyes staring into nothingness.\nMy favourite mug says, “I can’t help what my face does when you talk”. There is a reason the the mug is meant to be cheeky.", ">\n\nSeems disrespectful to me because my eyes don't roll on their own, it would be a conscious act.", ">\n\nThis is 100% based on the premis that you can’t control your eyes. Rolling your eyes isn’t a natural movement. You control it.\nLaughing and crying aren’t necessarily controllable." ]
> So your reaction is because you think someone is stupid, but thinking they are stupid isn't disrespectful?	[ "🙄", ">\n\nYou’re grounded now", ">\n\nThe post above was someone getting electrocuted so this reply was very timely", ">\n\nThis news is shocking", ">\n\nIt definitely SPARKED my interest", ">\n\nAll of you guys need to leave, and not come back before learning how to conduct yourselves properly", ">\n\nUhhhh....... electricity", ">\n\nWell no, in the right context it is disrespectful. Rolling your eyes suggests that you're not taking the matter seriously or that you dont care which is a sign of disrespect towards whoever is speaking with you.", ">\n\nBut I can't control what I think. If I said \"man you're stupid and I don't care what you say\" thats disrespectful. I'm actually showing respect by not saying it.", ">\n\nI mean, actions speak louder than words, right?", ">\n\nIts not really an action tho its just an automatic response. Like gasping or yawning.", ">\n\nbullshit.\nSorry, it was an automatic response. Which is bullshit just like yours.", ">\n\nStill not the same thing. And they get on me for false analogies....", ">\n\nYou must be a teenager", ">\n\nLol how many times are you gonna post that. Dont you have an original thought of your own?", ">\n\nBruh I cant believe you make these posts. They're foolish", ">\n\nLaughing at someone can be disrespectful. Don't think so? Try laughing at someone's funeral.", ">\n\nThe disrespect comes from the one who told me a joke and made me laugh.", ">\n\nWhat about if no one said any joke? Because, you know, you are at a funeral.", ">\n\nSo someone's just there randomly laughing at shit? That sounds like a mental illness.", ">\n\nYou have never thought of something funny in your head to make yourself laugh? \nOr hell, maybe you didn't like the person who is buried and decided to laugh at them. You find it funny, so laughing must be appropriate, right?", ">\n\nWhy am I thinking about funny shit at a funeral.", ">\n\nBecause the universe likes to put us in uncomfortable positions sometimes.", ">\n\n“if its stupid or lame, you roll your eyes” - you found the disrespect", ">\n\nIm allowed to think whatever i want and its not disrespectful.", ">\n\nWhen you express contempt for something someone else said, it's disrespect.", ">\n\nWhat if what they said is contemptible?", ">\n\nSome people and comments deserve disrespect, still gonna be disrespect", ">\n\nLaughing, crying, and sneezing are all innate, involuntary reactions to certain types of stimuli. Rolling your eyes is a learned behavior. You can’t compare it to those other automatic responses because it’s not the same thing.", ">\n\nTake my upvote", ">\n\nOP rolled their eyes at someone and got chewed out for it.\nNow they're going online in an attempt to validate themselves.\n🙄", ">\n\nProbably got grounded.", ">\n\nPart of being a mature adult is to have self-control and not acting on every impulse and being respectful of people.", ">\n\n\nPart of being a mature adult\n\nYup but OP is clearly a teenager lol. They complain about being told off for doing chores wrong in another post…", ">\n\nEven a teenager should be able to have the fundamental basics of respect", ">\n\nOh I agree 100%", ">\n\nYou have poor self-control and poor self-awareness but the good news is that you can improve these things.", ">\n\n/r/wrongopinions", ">\n\nI feel like we need a new subreddit r/unpopularforareason", ">\n\nIt’s entire purpose is to be disrespectful. Nobody eyerolls something they respect. But how offensive it is depends on the context and how serious one is being.", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes\n\nYou rn: \"I'm not being disrespectful. I just thought what you said was stupid or lame.\"\n...", ">\n\nSaying its stupid could be disrespectful. A facial response is not.", ">\n\nLiterally every person in this thread agrees that it is.\nThis is your bad habit. Nobody else's responsibility but you.", ">\n\nThey can choose to not fly off the handle at what is just an innate reaction.", ">\n\nSo let me get this straight: you think you deserve to be able to disrespect whoever you like whenever you like but they can't as much as say you're being rude? Grow up.", ">\n\nFound the teenager.", ">\n\nMeh, I agree with that one. If you don't like how someone is doing something then do it yourself. There's a reason I live alone.", ">\n\nIt is a UNIVERSAL sign of disrespect. Globally. Deal with it.", ">\n\nLaughing can be disrespectuful too. If you cannot control your own reactions, well, what can I say, maybe you have not really grown up?", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s so it’s hard to control my own actions sometimes…", ">\n\nThank u I'm trying to explain how autism can make it hard to read not just others facial expressions but also ur own and it seems like no one has thought of the possibility that they acc don't realise it or csnt control it", ">\n\nWould you roll your eyes during a job interview if you thought a question was stupid or irrelevant? Do you think you’d get the job if you did?", ">\n\nPretty sure OP would think they were owed that job and they would think it’s ridiculous if they didn’t get it.\nOP is also a teenager going through their rebel phase though", ">\n\nYou're oddly specific here.", ">\n\nWhat was specific? Or rather oddly specific?", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a good way to fast track yourself to a divorce, if you want one.", ">\n\nI think OP needs the definition of respect before any further comment is made", ">\n\nOh I already know it, and I know it does not mean:\nDon't ever disagree with me\nDon't think bad thoughts about me\nDon't ever correct me when I'm blatantly wrong \nShine my boots with your tongue", ">\n\nSoooo this post isn’t about eye rolling is what I’m getting from this. You’ve got issues to work through with your parents or partner or something", ">\n\nSince when tf was eye rolling involuntary?", ">", ">\n\nYour lack of self control is not a justification for disrespect. I personally dont know anyone who reacts to anything by rolling their eyes. Just be mature and communicate.", ">\n\nAnd what if it's not stupid and someone rolls their eyes? Wouldn't it be disrespectful in that case?", ">\n\nIn the eye rollers opinion then it must have been. But you can't fault someone for thinking its stupid.", ">\n\nSo eyerolling is some kind of exceptional thing that is free from criticism? \nIf one has the freedom to eye roll, then someone else has the freedom to criticize the eye roller right? \nOr is it your opinion that besides that everyone who sees an eye roller has to just stfu", ">\n\nMeh, it is disrespectful. It's a way to be disrespectful without having to say That's the dumbest thing I've heard all month, and everyone else who heard it is also dumber for hearing it as well.", ">\n\nBut I didn't say it that's the point.", ">\n\nJust cuz you don’t use words doesn’t mean it’s not disrespectful. Walking away while someone is talking to you, rolling your eyes, slapping someone, and starting to play a game on your phone while someone is talking to you are all disrespectful. It doesn’t matter that you didn’t say anything, your lack of respect still showed.", ">\n\nespecially the way theyre responding to comments", ">\n\nYeah, a natural reaction if you’ve never learned to manage your emotions as opposed to letting them run your life. I’m not talking about being totally monotone rational, either. You need to learn a balance between rational and emotional…which includes healthy, appropriate, respectful expression of honest feelings. Eye rolling is absolutely disrespectful, belittling, and dismissive.", ">\n\nComments: OP is completely wrong and has attitude issues", ">\n\nWhat sounds like mental illness is you refusing to admit that rolling your eyes is simply not an unconditional response. Whether you want to believe it or not, you are doing it intentionally and you can control it. \nYou’re just to much of a b—— to do so.", ">\n\nSame to you", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a learned reaction. Not natural. I rarely of ever roll my eyes at anything.", ">", ">\n\nJust like raising your middle finger. Or vocalizing the sounds \"fuck you\". Or fingers typing the words fuck you OP. Nothing is disrespectful!", ">\n\nNice try but not the same thing at all. You're talking about thought out actions here. The eye roll is more like a reaction. Its quick, its automatic, no one has to think \"im rolling my eyes now\" it just happens. \nSort of like when telling a lie - no one decides to have their eyes dart around suspiciously, it just happens.", ">\n\nNo. Rolling your eyes is not involuntary. It can be controlled. You have a bad habit that you CAN stop. Much like a child learning not to suck their thumb, or biting your nails.", ">\n\nHow about you start with your hair scratching", ">\n\nYour opinion is a contradiction in itself. And, yeah. I disagree. Rolling your eyes is 100% to show lack of respect, and you have no intentions of showing it, even to reason, by rolling your eyes at something someone could believe is meaningful or important. Even if it is stupid.\nI get your point, we roll our eyes to express how we feel, but it is still a physical snare. You say rolling your eyes isn't disrespectful, while saying it's okay to roll your eyes because something is \" stupid or lame\", which in itself is disrespectful. You sound like a very young person in the middle of a learning moment, and you're trying to react with rebellion. It only shows that you lack maturity and are in need of growth. This might be a time for you to read these comments and reevaluate. There are healthier ways to react to things you disagree with, or lack interest in. If not, you can just accept that you roll your eyes to show lack of respect.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is much more deliberate than laughter, tears, or sneezing. It's a conscious action in response to a judgement you're making.", ">\n\nNah, dude it is disrespectful \nYou just have no self control and by the looks of it you don't want to build some", ">\n\nYour post made me roll my eyes very hard.", ">\n\n“No, officer, my wife - she MADE me hit her!”", ">\n\nIt's a natural reaction for a sooky kid but not an adult, if you do that as an adult you just manchild that wants everything their way", ">\n\npoor OP.... did you get in trouble after you rolled your eyes at something again? did you not prehaps learn from previous interactions? rolling your eyes at something \"stupid or lame\" is an intentional response that is disrespectful to whatever it is. mature people dont act that way.....", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes.\n\nSo it is disrespectful. \n\nIts like throwing pepper in someone's face an expecting them not to sneeze.\n\nNo it’s not. You can easily (edited in) refrain from rolling your eyes, while it’s much more difficult to refrain from sneezing. \nIt’s fine to think whatever you want, but you might want to refrain from rolling your eyes when you’re, say, interacting with your boss; aka someone that can make you unemployed for whatever reason they please.", ">\n\nThis isn't an opinion. It's just flat wrong. \nIt is disrespectful because it is a conscious signifier which clearly communicated that you think that the thing you are rolling your eyes at is not worthy of respect.", ">\n\nYou have to go out of your way to roll your eyes. It is NOT gutteral or instinctual", ">\n\nIf you annoy me, my arm whips out in a natural reaction and slaps you.", ">\n\nSorry, kiddo, it’s 100% disrespectful. Just own the shit and quit trying to lawyer around it.\nI say that after having rolled my eyes so hard at your post, I travelled back in time.", ">\n\nTell that to my family lol you get the belt", ">\n\nThis was made my a 15 year old who just got told off by their mom about rolling their eyes. Then in defense said, “I can’t control it”", ">\n\nMan it's getting so aggressive sometimes here 😂", ">\n\ni certainly hope you are embarrassed about this in a couple years when you grow up.", ">\n\nOP is a habitual eye roller 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄", ">\n\nI wish to God we could block people by age, no more edgy 13yo’s", ">\n\nSomebody just got their ps5 taken away for rolling their eyes", ">\n\nTell me you're 12 without telling me you're 12.", ">\n\nit’s the definition of disrespectful and a sign that you have literally nothing intelligent to say in return. \nwhich is why we outgrow it as adults.", ">\n\nYou can control it. It’s not an “automatic response” unless you’ve taught yourself to do it. I never roll my eyes. It’s just not something I have ever practiced doing. And yes…if I’m saying something too you and you dismiss it with an eye roll…it’s super disrespectful.", ">\n\nrolling your eyes is just as respectful as sticking your tongue out at someone or making a stupid face in reaction to something someone says", ">\n\nIf you can’t control your eye movement, you need to see a neurologist, dude 😆. As it stands, eye rolling isn’t a reflex or a “natural reaction” to anything. Habits aren’t the same as involuntary reactions.\nRolling your eyes at someone is disrespectful. It’s an outward sign that you think something about your interaction with them was stupid or wrong. There’s no one here that will agree with you, and you know that you’re in the vast minority with this opinion because you posted it on this sub. Now learn some humility and accept that your opinion is factually incorrect based on science.", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nAre you like 14 and your mom got you in trouble cause you rolled your eyes at her? Lmao", ">\n\nI’m gonna show your mom this and it’s going to be another week of being grounded, you little shit lol", ">\n\nOmfg 😂", ">\n\nOP I have to ask.\n\n\nHow old are you?\n\n\nHow is your relationship with your parents?\n\n\nHow do you view authority figures in your life?", ">\n\nrolls eyes", ">\n\nIf you say or demand something stupid from me I will probably roll my eyes.", ">\n\nBut it is", ">\n\nJust like rolling your eyes is an innate response, so are other people's responses to you rolling your eyes.", ">\n\nSometimes being respectful requires hiding your subjective opinion on whether something is stupid or lame.", ">\n\nI wouldn’t say eye rolling is as involuntary as laughing or crying tho. It’s more of a choice.", ">\n\nIf someone rolls their eyes then I feel disrespected it’s a natural reaction.", ">\n\ntell me you're a teenager without telling me you're a teenager", ">\n\nI'm rolling my eyes at this post. And I definitely mean it disrespectfully.", ">\n\nLmao this kid had an argument with his parent(s) or teacher and is venting on Reddit.", ">\n\nYou sound like an eye rolling arsehole", ">\n\ni have never had an as a nonvoulentary action, it requires very explicit movement of you eye. this is like saying “when i dont like people, i punch them in the head, thats my natural reaction i cant control it”\ni have never once legitimately rolled my eyes at something, i think you might be an asshole", ">\n\nMe smacking your face is also an innate uncontrollable response to you rolling your eyes. I'm only human. What can I do? 🙄", ">\n\nI disagree. also there are a billion other ways to express something being stupid or lame than rolling ur eyes", ">\n\nStop downvoting, this is ACTUALLY a very unpopular opinion and I love to see it tbh. Voice your disagreement in the comments but don't downvote the post. This post is hilarious.", ">\n\nThis is something you’ve learned to do. It’s entirely in your control if you do it or not.", ">\n\nI once got a detention for rolling my eyes at a teacher in 4th grade.\nI agree with you, though. The only other person I've ever really rolled my eyes at was my mother, and she deserved it, every single time.", ">\n\nI get your point. I absolutely purposefully roll my eyes sometimes and whoever I'm doing it to would be valid for getting mad. \nBut as someone who can't hide any emotion on their face (literally any, I'm the definition of an open book) there have been plenty of times where people blew up at me or laughed because I rolled my eyes when I didn't even realize I had done it. Feel like the people disagreeing with you haven't experienced this problem.", ">\n\nWhat you've done is cultivate a bad habit and then blamed it on everyone else when you repeat your own bad habit unintentionally.\nThis is entirely your fault.", ">\n\nOnly on Reddit would someone so boldly declare something like this to a stranger. I'm on the spectrum so that might have to do with my not being able to hide any emotion (I truly mean that, people can basically read my thoughts just by looking at me, good and bad). \nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave. Consider working on that.", ">\n\nSo they point out you’re cultivating a bad habit and blaming other people so you then, blame them? It’s a little spot on don’t you think?", ">\n\nWhen did i blame them for my own actions? Could you quote me? I was just pointing out how weird it was that they made such a strong assumption of my character off a causal comment I left when they themselves were ironically being unnecessarily rude in the process. \nI don't know how you got so lost?", ">\n\n\nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave.\n\nClassic deflection and implication that they’re the one with the problem, not you", ">\n\nFirst its not automatic. I almost never rolled my eyes. Its much easier to control than laughing crying or sneezing. So you just dont make the effort. Its actually a way to express your feeling. You should know that, its your personnality not a human instinctive reaction. \nAnd yes not respecting something is disrespectful. Its not that hard to understand. \nAnyway if i see you.. i dont know having a breakdown after being fired and dumped and start to laugh you'd like that ? \nIf im sad because something good happens to you and show it to you, you would like that ? \nHonestly you are just trying to justify being a bit of a jerk. \nI dont blame you or anything we all are jerks sometime but its what you are doing right now.", ">\n\nI have to refocus my eyes and most of the time blinking doesn’t cut it. I have a lazy eye and when I look at someone for a long time it unfocuses, so moving the muscle is the only way to reset it. If I don’t, people start moving their heads/ bodies trying to focus on my lazy eye. It gets awkward.", ">\n\nThis is where I go to my training as a kid. What others think of you is none of your business.", ">\n\nUnless you have a tick or something like Tourette’s syndrome, then it’s not an involuntary response. Part of living in a society and not being considered rude is managing your body language.\nLet me put it this way. “Rudeness” in itself is a social concept. That means it’s decided by the perception of the masses, what we generally agree upon in terms of our symbols of communication, our customs, our beliefs, our values, etc. For you to say that rolling your eyes isn’t disrespectful is not objectively wrong. But according to the society you live in, it is wrong. In layman’s terms, the hill you’re dying on here is completely arbitrary, neither side will ever be truly correct but as long as you live in a society which feels this way then you will be beholden to it anyways.", ">\n\nTo be fair, if your thinking its stupid or lame, then that is dis-respect. I'd agree with this if it was worded like 'More people need to say what they truly think', but I think you sort of missed the mark, OP.", ">\n\nI am equally annoyed when folks rapidly blink and look away mid conversation or drop their arm dead against their thigh. It’s like you’ve given up an effort to even keep your body vertical and engaged while I’m talking to you.", ">\n\nOP getting downvoted AF & keeps commenting. Gotta love it.", ">\n\nIt is shown as a sign of disrespect and it shows weakness. I can’t imagine Gandhi, the queen of England or Einstein roll their eyes in front of random people. The reason why they were respected is because they didn’t play any superiority game on front of… inferiors or ignorant people. If something is stupid, get the patience and find enough love within yourself to treat the other ones right. \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a child because his question is “stupid”, what parent does it make you ? \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a bad question because you are an expert in a subject, then it is not your modesty that speaks but your ego. For proof : Even if someone you hate said something intelligent, you might want to roll your eyes just to flatter your ego.", ">\n\nIt's seen as disrespectful BECAUSE it's inadvertently telling them you think they're irritating/annoying.", ">\n\nI never roll my eyes? Is that something people do naturally?", ">\n\nAll depends on the context of what is going on.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is not a natural reaction?", ">\n\nNot maintaining basic self control is disrespectful. It's the same reason we don't defecate in public, sneeze on people, or stand in the way of foot traffic.", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s and one of my tics is eye rolling", ">\n\nK", ">\n\nI accidentally roll my eyes at people sometimes when I'm not even trying to", ">\n\nThe sign of a true unpopular opinion: Nobody upvoting it, but everybody commenting to say how they disagree. If you disagree, then give it an upvote. That's the point of this sub.", ">\n\nI think it depends.", ">\n\nThis had to be written by someone under the age of 25", ">\n\nRolling your eyes isn’t natural though. It’s cultural or socially learned if that makes sense. Like if you rolled your eyes at a tribe that is disconnected from society they wouldn’t understand that you’re annoyed. So you cant really compare it to laughing.", ">\n\nI'm kind of curious if this is true though. Are you assuming this, or do you have some kind of study proving this? I'd actually like to see if your hypothesis is true, or if remote tribes also use this facial gesture.", ">\n\nI’m assuming it. Back in my country Turkey if you rolled your eyes at my grandparents they would be confused and wonder what you were doing and what it meant.", ">\n\nit's a maturity thing, keep rolling your eyes at 30-40, everyone gonna see you like a kid. \nyou gotta control your emotions, there's no need to do a expression when something is stupid or lame, you got a mouth and you respectfully share what's wrong, if the person in the other end is reluctant to stay on the same boat even after you talk about it. then you don't roll your eyes, you gotta say that there's nothing more you can do, and that you don't agree with it, and most likely leave to dodge any sort of problem.", ">\n\nI have a tic where I constantly roll my eyes. I’ve had it since I was little, but never noticed it until years later when I high school teacher yelled at me for disrespect. Apparently my parents took me for evaluation when I was very young and diagnosed Tourette’s but never had any other tics develop. Would have been nice to know 🤦🏼‍♀️ I just apologize now and say it’s a compulsion if people ask. I don’t even know when I’m doing it", ">\n\nIs laughing disrespectful? Because it can be. Just like rolling your eyes can be. There is a time and place for everything", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a passive aggressive response. Passive aggression is a tactic used by meek people who are frustrated and don’t have the courage to address a given situation. It’s disrespectful and it lowers your standing in the social hierarchy.", ">\n\nGet back to me when Disney Dad actively encourages your offspring to roll their eyes at you.", ">\n\nYeah it is when I want to be disrespectful to someone I roll my eyes when they make a point. It might be annoying to them, but it also let's them know I don't give a shit about whatever they just said. Now, I would never to it to my boss, or my teachers while I was in college, but when I was a teen I did it all the time because I was an asshole, who didn't care. \nIt's not a natural reaction lmao, it is learned behavior and it can be a bad habit, but it can be unlearned.", ">\n\nSome people can’t control it I know with me sometimes I roll my eyes without meaning too it’s not that I’m trying to be rude it’s just something I didn’t even realize I was doing nor did I mean too", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nI have a friend who thinks like you do, which is based on your responses to the comments. He has very poor social skills and is on the autism spectrum", ">\n\nI bet you're lots of fun at parties OP.", ">\n\nI can’t tell if this is farming karma with ridiculous opinions or if this individual just has a really hard time understanding that maybe their parents aren’t always the bad guys.", ">\n\nYep, thats definitely an unpopular opinion! \nIts certainly disrespectful. And most certainly not some sort of involuntary response like a sneeze. It may feel that way to you, because you've done it so much - but there are plenty of people who don't do it. UNLIKE people who don't sneeze at pepper, or cough at dust. Like, you're just plain wrong on this one. Moreover, I think you're trying to justify/rationalize it yourself rather than address it in a healthy way - a marker suggesting you have some narcissistic tendencies.", ">\n\nWhat a stupid argument, take your upvote", ">\n\nIt’s a sign of contempt. The facial expression expert Dr. Eikman could predict how long a barrage would last based on 4 expressions and the frequency used when the couple was interviewed. Eye rolling was one.. in fact you could remove the others and still reasonably predict marriage failures.", ">\n\nI wish it wasn’t disrespectful, because as an expressive person I LOVE a good eye roll. But, it has gotten me into trouble. I do it without even knowing it. I hate that I do… I wish sometimes I could be stone cold. Just like a fish. One expression face only. Blank fish eyes staring into nothingness.\nMy favourite mug says, “I can’t help what my face does when you talk”. There is a reason the the mug is meant to be cheeky.", ">\n\nSeems disrespectful to me because my eyes don't roll on their own, it would be a conscious act.", ">\n\nThis is 100% based on the premis that you can’t control your eyes. Rolling your eyes isn’t a natural movement. You control it.\nLaughing and crying aren’t necessarily controllable.", ">\n\nIn addition to this:\nfinding something somebody said stupid isnt disrespectful - makin fun in an exaggerated way, call em out in a mean way, or think everything they're gonna say next is bs is the disrespectful part." ]
> This, i agree with	[ "🙄", ">\n\nYou’re grounded now", ">\n\nThe post above was someone getting electrocuted so this reply was very timely", ">\n\nThis news is shocking", ">\n\nIt definitely SPARKED my interest", ">\n\nAll of you guys need to leave, and not come back before learning how to conduct yourselves properly", ">\n\nUhhhh....... electricity", ">\n\nWell no, in the right context it is disrespectful. Rolling your eyes suggests that you're not taking the matter seriously or that you dont care which is a sign of disrespect towards whoever is speaking with you.", ">\n\nBut I can't control what I think. If I said \"man you're stupid and I don't care what you say\" thats disrespectful. I'm actually showing respect by not saying it.", ">\n\nI mean, actions speak louder than words, right?", ">\n\nIts not really an action tho its just an automatic response. Like gasping or yawning.", ">\n\nbullshit.\nSorry, it was an automatic response. Which is bullshit just like yours.", ">\n\nStill not the same thing. And they get on me for false analogies....", ">\n\nYou must be a teenager", ">\n\nLol how many times are you gonna post that. Dont you have an original thought of your own?", ">\n\nBruh I cant believe you make these posts. They're foolish", ">\n\nLaughing at someone can be disrespectful. Don't think so? Try laughing at someone's funeral.", ">\n\nThe disrespect comes from the one who told me a joke and made me laugh.", ">\n\nWhat about if no one said any joke? Because, you know, you are at a funeral.", ">\n\nSo someone's just there randomly laughing at shit? That sounds like a mental illness.", ">\n\nYou have never thought of something funny in your head to make yourself laugh? \nOr hell, maybe you didn't like the person who is buried and decided to laugh at them. You find it funny, so laughing must be appropriate, right?", ">\n\nWhy am I thinking about funny shit at a funeral.", ">\n\nBecause the universe likes to put us in uncomfortable positions sometimes.", ">\n\n“if its stupid or lame, you roll your eyes” - you found the disrespect", ">\n\nIm allowed to think whatever i want and its not disrespectful.", ">\n\nWhen you express contempt for something someone else said, it's disrespect.", ">\n\nWhat if what they said is contemptible?", ">\n\nSome people and comments deserve disrespect, still gonna be disrespect", ">\n\nLaughing, crying, and sneezing are all innate, involuntary reactions to certain types of stimuli. Rolling your eyes is a learned behavior. You can’t compare it to those other automatic responses because it’s not the same thing.", ">\n\nTake my upvote", ">\n\nOP rolled their eyes at someone and got chewed out for it.\nNow they're going online in an attempt to validate themselves.\n🙄", ">\n\nProbably got grounded.", ">\n\nPart of being a mature adult is to have self-control and not acting on every impulse and being respectful of people.", ">\n\n\nPart of being a mature adult\n\nYup but OP is clearly a teenager lol. They complain about being told off for doing chores wrong in another post…", ">\n\nEven a teenager should be able to have the fundamental basics of respect", ">\n\nOh I agree 100%", ">\n\nYou have poor self-control and poor self-awareness but the good news is that you can improve these things.", ">\n\n/r/wrongopinions", ">\n\nI feel like we need a new subreddit r/unpopularforareason", ">\n\nIt’s entire purpose is to be disrespectful. Nobody eyerolls something they respect. But how offensive it is depends on the context and how serious one is being.", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes\n\nYou rn: \"I'm not being disrespectful. I just thought what you said was stupid or lame.\"\n...", ">\n\nSaying its stupid could be disrespectful. A facial response is not.", ">\n\nLiterally every person in this thread agrees that it is.\nThis is your bad habit. Nobody else's responsibility but you.", ">\n\nThey can choose to not fly off the handle at what is just an innate reaction.", ">\n\nSo let me get this straight: you think you deserve to be able to disrespect whoever you like whenever you like but they can't as much as say you're being rude? Grow up.", ">\n\nFound the teenager.", ">\n\nMeh, I agree with that one. If you don't like how someone is doing something then do it yourself. There's a reason I live alone.", ">\n\nIt is a UNIVERSAL sign of disrespect. Globally. Deal with it.", ">\n\nLaughing can be disrespectuful too. If you cannot control your own reactions, well, what can I say, maybe you have not really grown up?", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s so it’s hard to control my own actions sometimes…", ">\n\nThank u I'm trying to explain how autism can make it hard to read not just others facial expressions but also ur own and it seems like no one has thought of the possibility that they acc don't realise it or csnt control it", ">\n\nWould you roll your eyes during a job interview if you thought a question was stupid or irrelevant? Do you think you’d get the job if you did?", ">\n\nPretty sure OP would think they were owed that job and they would think it’s ridiculous if they didn’t get it.\nOP is also a teenager going through their rebel phase though", ">\n\nYou're oddly specific here.", ">\n\nWhat was specific? Or rather oddly specific?", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a good way to fast track yourself to a divorce, if you want one.", ">\n\nI think OP needs the definition of respect before any further comment is made", ">\n\nOh I already know it, and I know it does not mean:\nDon't ever disagree with me\nDon't think bad thoughts about me\nDon't ever correct me when I'm blatantly wrong \nShine my boots with your tongue", ">\n\nSoooo this post isn’t about eye rolling is what I’m getting from this. You’ve got issues to work through with your parents or partner or something", ">\n\nSince when tf was eye rolling involuntary?", ">", ">\n\nYour lack of self control is not a justification for disrespect. I personally dont know anyone who reacts to anything by rolling their eyes. Just be mature and communicate.", ">\n\nAnd what if it's not stupid and someone rolls their eyes? Wouldn't it be disrespectful in that case?", ">\n\nIn the eye rollers opinion then it must have been. But you can't fault someone for thinking its stupid.", ">\n\nSo eyerolling is some kind of exceptional thing that is free from criticism? \nIf one has the freedom to eye roll, then someone else has the freedom to criticize the eye roller right? \nOr is it your opinion that besides that everyone who sees an eye roller has to just stfu", ">\n\nMeh, it is disrespectful. It's a way to be disrespectful without having to say That's the dumbest thing I've heard all month, and everyone else who heard it is also dumber for hearing it as well.", ">\n\nBut I didn't say it that's the point.", ">\n\nJust cuz you don’t use words doesn’t mean it’s not disrespectful. Walking away while someone is talking to you, rolling your eyes, slapping someone, and starting to play a game on your phone while someone is talking to you are all disrespectful. It doesn’t matter that you didn’t say anything, your lack of respect still showed.", ">\n\nespecially the way theyre responding to comments", ">\n\nYeah, a natural reaction if you’ve never learned to manage your emotions as opposed to letting them run your life. I’m not talking about being totally monotone rational, either. You need to learn a balance between rational and emotional…which includes healthy, appropriate, respectful expression of honest feelings. Eye rolling is absolutely disrespectful, belittling, and dismissive.", ">\n\nComments: OP is completely wrong and has attitude issues", ">\n\nWhat sounds like mental illness is you refusing to admit that rolling your eyes is simply not an unconditional response. Whether you want to believe it or not, you are doing it intentionally and you can control it. \nYou’re just to much of a b—— to do so.", ">\n\nSame to you", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a learned reaction. Not natural. I rarely of ever roll my eyes at anything.", ">", ">\n\nJust like raising your middle finger. Or vocalizing the sounds \"fuck you\". Or fingers typing the words fuck you OP. Nothing is disrespectful!", ">\n\nNice try but not the same thing at all. You're talking about thought out actions here. The eye roll is more like a reaction. Its quick, its automatic, no one has to think \"im rolling my eyes now\" it just happens. \nSort of like when telling a lie - no one decides to have their eyes dart around suspiciously, it just happens.", ">\n\nNo. Rolling your eyes is not involuntary. It can be controlled. You have a bad habit that you CAN stop. Much like a child learning not to suck their thumb, or biting your nails.", ">\n\nHow about you start with your hair scratching", ">\n\nYour opinion is a contradiction in itself. And, yeah. I disagree. Rolling your eyes is 100% to show lack of respect, and you have no intentions of showing it, even to reason, by rolling your eyes at something someone could believe is meaningful or important. Even if it is stupid.\nI get your point, we roll our eyes to express how we feel, but it is still a physical snare. You say rolling your eyes isn't disrespectful, while saying it's okay to roll your eyes because something is \" stupid or lame\", which in itself is disrespectful. You sound like a very young person in the middle of a learning moment, and you're trying to react with rebellion. It only shows that you lack maturity and are in need of growth. This might be a time for you to read these comments and reevaluate. There are healthier ways to react to things you disagree with, or lack interest in. If not, you can just accept that you roll your eyes to show lack of respect.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is much more deliberate than laughter, tears, or sneezing. It's a conscious action in response to a judgement you're making.", ">\n\nNah, dude it is disrespectful \nYou just have no self control and by the looks of it you don't want to build some", ">\n\nYour post made me roll my eyes very hard.", ">\n\n“No, officer, my wife - she MADE me hit her!”", ">\n\nIt's a natural reaction for a sooky kid but not an adult, if you do that as an adult you just manchild that wants everything their way", ">\n\npoor OP.... did you get in trouble after you rolled your eyes at something again? did you not prehaps learn from previous interactions? rolling your eyes at something \"stupid or lame\" is an intentional response that is disrespectful to whatever it is. mature people dont act that way.....", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes.\n\nSo it is disrespectful. \n\nIts like throwing pepper in someone's face an expecting them not to sneeze.\n\nNo it’s not. You can easily (edited in) refrain from rolling your eyes, while it’s much more difficult to refrain from sneezing. \nIt’s fine to think whatever you want, but you might want to refrain from rolling your eyes when you’re, say, interacting with your boss; aka someone that can make you unemployed for whatever reason they please.", ">\n\nThis isn't an opinion. It's just flat wrong. \nIt is disrespectful because it is a conscious signifier which clearly communicated that you think that the thing you are rolling your eyes at is not worthy of respect.", ">\n\nYou have to go out of your way to roll your eyes. It is NOT gutteral or instinctual", ">\n\nIf you annoy me, my arm whips out in a natural reaction and slaps you.", ">\n\nSorry, kiddo, it’s 100% disrespectful. Just own the shit and quit trying to lawyer around it.\nI say that after having rolled my eyes so hard at your post, I travelled back in time.", ">\n\nTell that to my family lol you get the belt", ">\n\nThis was made my a 15 year old who just got told off by their mom about rolling their eyes. Then in defense said, “I can’t control it”", ">\n\nMan it's getting so aggressive sometimes here 😂", ">\n\ni certainly hope you are embarrassed about this in a couple years when you grow up.", ">\n\nOP is a habitual eye roller 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄", ">\n\nI wish to God we could block people by age, no more edgy 13yo’s", ">\n\nSomebody just got their ps5 taken away for rolling their eyes", ">\n\nTell me you're 12 without telling me you're 12.", ">\n\nit’s the definition of disrespectful and a sign that you have literally nothing intelligent to say in return. \nwhich is why we outgrow it as adults.", ">\n\nYou can control it. It’s not an “automatic response” unless you’ve taught yourself to do it. I never roll my eyes. It’s just not something I have ever practiced doing. And yes…if I’m saying something too you and you dismiss it with an eye roll…it’s super disrespectful.", ">\n\nrolling your eyes is just as respectful as sticking your tongue out at someone or making a stupid face in reaction to something someone says", ">\n\nIf you can’t control your eye movement, you need to see a neurologist, dude 😆. As it stands, eye rolling isn’t a reflex or a “natural reaction” to anything. Habits aren’t the same as involuntary reactions.\nRolling your eyes at someone is disrespectful. It’s an outward sign that you think something about your interaction with them was stupid or wrong. There’s no one here that will agree with you, and you know that you’re in the vast minority with this opinion because you posted it on this sub. Now learn some humility and accept that your opinion is factually incorrect based on science.", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nAre you like 14 and your mom got you in trouble cause you rolled your eyes at her? Lmao", ">\n\nI’m gonna show your mom this and it’s going to be another week of being grounded, you little shit lol", ">\n\nOmfg 😂", ">\n\nOP I have to ask.\n\n\nHow old are you?\n\n\nHow is your relationship with your parents?\n\n\nHow do you view authority figures in your life?", ">\n\nrolls eyes", ">\n\nIf you say or demand something stupid from me I will probably roll my eyes.", ">\n\nBut it is", ">\n\nJust like rolling your eyes is an innate response, so are other people's responses to you rolling your eyes.", ">\n\nSometimes being respectful requires hiding your subjective opinion on whether something is stupid or lame.", ">\n\nI wouldn’t say eye rolling is as involuntary as laughing or crying tho. It’s more of a choice.", ">\n\nIf someone rolls their eyes then I feel disrespected it’s a natural reaction.", ">\n\ntell me you're a teenager without telling me you're a teenager", ">\n\nI'm rolling my eyes at this post. And I definitely mean it disrespectfully.", ">\n\nLmao this kid had an argument with his parent(s) or teacher and is venting on Reddit.", ">\n\nYou sound like an eye rolling arsehole", ">\n\ni have never had an as a nonvoulentary action, it requires very explicit movement of you eye. this is like saying “when i dont like people, i punch them in the head, thats my natural reaction i cant control it”\ni have never once legitimately rolled my eyes at something, i think you might be an asshole", ">\n\nMe smacking your face is also an innate uncontrollable response to you rolling your eyes. I'm only human. What can I do? 🙄", ">\n\nI disagree. also there are a billion other ways to express something being stupid or lame than rolling ur eyes", ">\n\nStop downvoting, this is ACTUALLY a very unpopular opinion and I love to see it tbh. Voice your disagreement in the comments but don't downvote the post. This post is hilarious.", ">\n\nThis is something you’ve learned to do. It’s entirely in your control if you do it or not.", ">\n\nI once got a detention for rolling my eyes at a teacher in 4th grade.\nI agree with you, though. The only other person I've ever really rolled my eyes at was my mother, and she deserved it, every single time.", ">\n\nI get your point. I absolutely purposefully roll my eyes sometimes and whoever I'm doing it to would be valid for getting mad. \nBut as someone who can't hide any emotion on their face (literally any, I'm the definition of an open book) there have been plenty of times where people blew up at me or laughed because I rolled my eyes when I didn't even realize I had done it. Feel like the people disagreeing with you haven't experienced this problem.", ">\n\nWhat you've done is cultivate a bad habit and then blamed it on everyone else when you repeat your own bad habit unintentionally.\nThis is entirely your fault.", ">\n\nOnly on Reddit would someone so boldly declare something like this to a stranger. I'm on the spectrum so that might have to do with my not being able to hide any emotion (I truly mean that, people can basically read my thoughts just by looking at me, good and bad). \nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave. Consider working on that.", ">\n\nSo they point out you’re cultivating a bad habit and blaming other people so you then, blame them? It’s a little spot on don’t you think?", ">\n\nWhen did i blame them for my own actions? Could you quote me? I was just pointing out how weird it was that they made such a strong assumption of my character off a causal comment I left when they themselves were ironically being unnecessarily rude in the process. \nI don't know how you got so lost?", ">\n\n\nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave.\n\nClassic deflection and implication that they’re the one with the problem, not you", ">\n\nFirst its not automatic. I almost never rolled my eyes. Its much easier to control than laughing crying or sneezing. So you just dont make the effort. Its actually a way to express your feeling. You should know that, its your personnality not a human instinctive reaction. \nAnd yes not respecting something is disrespectful. Its not that hard to understand. \nAnyway if i see you.. i dont know having a breakdown after being fired and dumped and start to laugh you'd like that ? \nIf im sad because something good happens to you and show it to you, you would like that ? \nHonestly you are just trying to justify being a bit of a jerk. \nI dont blame you or anything we all are jerks sometime but its what you are doing right now.", ">\n\nI have to refocus my eyes and most of the time blinking doesn’t cut it. I have a lazy eye and when I look at someone for a long time it unfocuses, so moving the muscle is the only way to reset it. If I don’t, people start moving their heads/ bodies trying to focus on my lazy eye. It gets awkward.", ">\n\nThis is where I go to my training as a kid. What others think of you is none of your business.", ">\n\nUnless you have a tick or something like Tourette’s syndrome, then it’s not an involuntary response. Part of living in a society and not being considered rude is managing your body language.\nLet me put it this way. “Rudeness” in itself is a social concept. That means it’s decided by the perception of the masses, what we generally agree upon in terms of our symbols of communication, our customs, our beliefs, our values, etc. For you to say that rolling your eyes isn’t disrespectful is not objectively wrong. But according to the society you live in, it is wrong. In layman’s terms, the hill you’re dying on here is completely arbitrary, neither side will ever be truly correct but as long as you live in a society which feels this way then you will be beholden to it anyways.", ">\n\nTo be fair, if your thinking its stupid or lame, then that is dis-respect. I'd agree with this if it was worded like 'More people need to say what they truly think', but I think you sort of missed the mark, OP.", ">\n\nI am equally annoyed when folks rapidly blink and look away mid conversation or drop their arm dead against their thigh. It’s like you’ve given up an effort to even keep your body vertical and engaged while I’m talking to you.", ">\n\nOP getting downvoted AF & keeps commenting. Gotta love it.", ">\n\nIt is shown as a sign of disrespect and it shows weakness. I can’t imagine Gandhi, the queen of England or Einstein roll their eyes in front of random people. The reason why they were respected is because they didn’t play any superiority game on front of… inferiors or ignorant people. If something is stupid, get the patience and find enough love within yourself to treat the other ones right. \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a child because his question is “stupid”, what parent does it make you ? \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a bad question because you are an expert in a subject, then it is not your modesty that speaks but your ego. For proof : Even if someone you hate said something intelligent, you might want to roll your eyes just to flatter your ego.", ">\n\nIt's seen as disrespectful BECAUSE it's inadvertently telling them you think they're irritating/annoying.", ">\n\nI never roll my eyes? Is that something people do naturally?", ">\n\nAll depends on the context of what is going on.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is not a natural reaction?", ">\n\nNot maintaining basic self control is disrespectful. It's the same reason we don't defecate in public, sneeze on people, or stand in the way of foot traffic.", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s and one of my tics is eye rolling", ">\n\nK", ">\n\nI accidentally roll my eyes at people sometimes when I'm not even trying to", ">\n\nThe sign of a true unpopular opinion: Nobody upvoting it, but everybody commenting to say how they disagree. If you disagree, then give it an upvote. That's the point of this sub.", ">\n\nI think it depends.", ">\n\nThis had to be written by someone under the age of 25", ">\n\nRolling your eyes isn’t natural though. It’s cultural or socially learned if that makes sense. Like if you rolled your eyes at a tribe that is disconnected from society they wouldn’t understand that you’re annoyed. So you cant really compare it to laughing.", ">\n\nI'm kind of curious if this is true though. Are you assuming this, or do you have some kind of study proving this? I'd actually like to see if your hypothesis is true, or if remote tribes also use this facial gesture.", ">\n\nI’m assuming it. Back in my country Turkey if you rolled your eyes at my grandparents they would be confused and wonder what you were doing and what it meant.", ">\n\nit's a maturity thing, keep rolling your eyes at 30-40, everyone gonna see you like a kid. \nyou gotta control your emotions, there's no need to do a expression when something is stupid or lame, you got a mouth and you respectfully share what's wrong, if the person in the other end is reluctant to stay on the same boat even after you talk about it. then you don't roll your eyes, you gotta say that there's nothing more you can do, and that you don't agree with it, and most likely leave to dodge any sort of problem.", ">\n\nI have a tic where I constantly roll my eyes. I’ve had it since I was little, but never noticed it until years later when I high school teacher yelled at me for disrespect. Apparently my parents took me for evaluation when I was very young and diagnosed Tourette’s but never had any other tics develop. Would have been nice to know 🤦🏼‍♀️ I just apologize now and say it’s a compulsion if people ask. I don’t even know when I’m doing it", ">\n\nIs laughing disrespectful? Because it can be. Just like rolling your eyes can be. There is a time and place for everything", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a passive aggressive response. Passive aggression is a tactic used by meek people who are frustrated and don’t have the courage to address a given situation. It’s disrespectful and it lowers your standing in the social hierarchy.", ">\n\nGet back to me when Disney Dad actively encourages your offspring to roll their eyes at you.", ">\n\nYeah it is when I want to be disrespectful to someone I roll my eyes when they make a point. It might be annoying to them, but it also let's them know I don't give a shit about whatever they just said. Now, I would never to it to my boss, or my teachers while I was in college, but when I was a teen I did it all the time because I was an asshole, who didn't care. \nIt's not a natural reaction lmao, it is learned behavior and it can be a bad habit, but it can be unlearned.", ">\n\nSome people can’t control it I know with me sometimes I roll my eyes without meaning too it’s not that I’m trying to be rude it’s just something I didn’t even realize I was doing nor did I mean too", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nI have a friend who thinks like you do, which is based on your responses to the comments. He has very poor social skills and is on the autism spectrum", ">\n\nI bet you're lots of fun at parties OP.", ">\n\nI can’t tell if this is farming karma with ridiculous opinions or if this individual just has a really hard time understanding that maybe their parents aren’t always the bad guys.", ">\n\nYep, thats definitely an unpopular opinion! \nIts certainly disrespectful. And most certainly not some sort of involuntary response like a sneeze. It may feel that way to you, because you've done it so much - but there are plenty of people who don't do it. UNLIKE people who don't sneeze at pepper, or cough at dust. Like, you're just plain wrong on this one. Moreover, I think you're trying to justify/rationalize it yourself rather than address it in a healthy way - a marker suggesting you have some narcissistic tendencies.", ">\n\nWhat a stupid argument, take your upvote", ">\n\nIt’s a sign of contempt. The facial expression expert Dr. Eikman could predict how long a barrage would last based on 4 expressions and the frequency used when the couple was interviewed. Eye rolling was one.. in fact you could remove the others and still reasonably predict marriage failures.", ">\n\nI wish it wasn’t disrespectful, because as an expressive person I LOVE a good eye roll. But, it has gotten me into trouble. I do it without even knowing it. I hate that I do… I wish sometimes I could be stone cold. Just like a fish. One expression face only. Blank fish eyes staring into nothingness.\nMy favourite mug says, “I can’t help what my face does when you talk”. There is a reason the the mug is meant to be cheeky.", ">\n\nSeems disrespectful to me because my eyes don't roll on their own, it would be a conscious act.", ">\n\nThis is 100% based on the premis that you can’t control your eyes. Rolling your eyes isn’t a natural movement. You control it.\nLaughing and crying aren’t necessarily controllable.", ">\n\nIn addition to this:\nfinding something somebody said stupid isnt disrespectful - makin fun in an exaggerated way, call em out in a mean way, or think everything they're gonna say next is bs is the disrespectful part.", ">\n\nSo your reaction is because you think someone is stupid, but thinking they are stupid isn't disrespectful?" ]
> Guess my mom didn't get the memo.	[ "🙄", ">\n\nYou’re grounded now", ">\n\nThe post above was someone getting electrocuted so this reply was very timely", ">\n\nThis news is shocking", ">\n\nIt definitely SPARKED my interest", ">\n\nAll of you guys need to leave, and not come back before learning how to conduct yourselves properly", ">\n\nUhhhh....... electricity", ">\n\nWell no, in the right context it is disrespectful. Rolling your eyes suggests that you're not taking the matter seriously or that you dont care which is a sign of disrespect towards whoever is speaking with you.", ">\n\nBut I can't control what I think. If I said \"man you're stupid and I don't care what you say\" thats disrespectful. I'm actually showing respect by not saying it.", ">\n\nI mean, actions speak louder than words, right?", ">\n\nIts not really an action tho its just an automatic response. Like gasping or yawning.", ">\n\nbullshit.\nSorry, it was an automatic response. Which is bullshit just like yours.", ">\n\nStill not the same thing. And they get on me for false analogies....", ">\n\nYou must be a teenager", ">\n\nLol how many times are you gonna post that. Dont you have an original thought of your own?", ">\n\nBruh I cant believe you make these posts. They're foolish", ">\n\nLaughing at someone can be disrespectful. Don't think so? Try laughing at someone's funeral.", ">\n\nThe disrespect comes from the one who told me a joke and made me laugh.", ">\n\nWhat about if no one said any joke? Because, you know, you are at a funeral.", ">\n\nSo someone's just there randomly laughing at shit? That sounds like a mental illness.", ">\n\nYou have never thought of something funny in your head to make yourself laugh? \nOr hell, maybe you didn't like the person who is buried and decided to laugh at them. You find it funny, so laughing must be appropriate, right?", ">\n\nWhy am I thinking about funny shit at a funeral.", ">\n\nBecause the universe likes to put us in uncomfortable positions sometimes.", ">\n\n“if its stupid or lame, you roll your eyes” - you found the disrespect", ">\n\nIm allowed to think whatever i want and its not disrespectful.", ">\n\nWhen you express contempt for something someone else said, it's disrespect.", ">\n\nWhat if what they said is contemptible?", ">\n\nSome people and comments deserve disrespect, still gonna be disrespect", ">\n\nLaughing, crying, and sneezing are all innate, involuntary reactions to certain types of stimuli. Rolling your eyes is a learned behavior. You can’t compare it to those other automatic responses because it’s not the same thing.", ">\n\nTake my upvote", ">\n\nOP rolled their eyes at someone and got chewed out for it.\nNow they're going online in an attempt to validate themselves.\n🙄", ">\n\nProbably got grounded.", ">\n\nPart of being a mature adult is to have self-control and not acting on every impulse and being respectful of people.", ">\n\n\nPart of being a mature adult\n\nYup but OP is clearly a teenager lol. They complain about being told off for doing chores wrong in another post…", ">\n\nEven a teenager should be able to have the fundamental basics of respect", ">\n\nOh I agree 100%", ">\n\nYou have poor self-control and poor self-awareness but the good news is that you can improve these things.", ">\n\n/r/wrongopinions", ">\n\nI feel like we need a new subreddit r/unpopularforareason", ">\n\nIt’s entire purpose is to be disrespectful. Nobody eyerolls something they respect. But how offensive it is depends on the context and how serious one is being.", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes\n\nYou rn: \"I'm not being disrespectful. I just thought what you said was stupid or lame.\"\n...", ">\n\nSaying its stupid could be disrespectful. A facial response is not.", ">\n\nLiterally every person in this thread agrees that it is.\nThis is your bad habit. Nobody else's responsibility but you.", ">\n\nThey can choose to not fly off the handle at what is just an innate reaction.", ">\n\nSo let me get this straight: you think you deserve to be able to disrespect whoever you like whenever you like but they can't as much as say you're being rude? Grow up.", ">\n\nFound the teenager.", ">\n\nMeh, I agree with that one. If you don't like how someone is doing something then do it yourself. There's a reason I live alone.", ">\n\nIt is a UNIVERSAL sign of disrespect. Globally. Deal with it.", ">\n\nLaughing can be disrespectuful too. If you cannot control your own reactions, well, what can I say, maybe you have not really grown up?", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s so it’s hard to control my own actions sometimes…", ">\n\nThank u I'm trying to explain how autism can make it hard to read not just others facial expressions but also ur own and it seems like no one has thought of the possibility that they acc don't realise it or csnt control it", ">\n\nWould you roll your eyes during a job interview if you thought a question was stupid or irrelevant? Do you think you’d get the job if you did?", ">\n\nPretty sure OP would think they were owed that job and they would think it’s ridiculous if they didn’t get it.\nOP is also a teenager going through their rebel phase though", ">\n\nYou're oddly specific here.", ">\n\nWhat was specific? Or rather oddly specific?", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a good way to fast track yourself to a divorce, if you want one.", ">\n\nI think OP needs the definition of respect before any further comment is made", ">\n\nOh I already know it, and I know it does not mean:\nDon't ever disagree with me\nDon't think bad thoughts about me\nDon't ever correct me when I'm blatantly wrong \nShine my boots with your tongue", ">\n\nSoooo this post isn’t about eye rolling is what I’m getting from this. You’ve got issues to work through with your parents or partner or something", ">\n\nSince when tf was eye rolling involuntary?", ">", ">\n\nYour lack of self control is not a justification for disrespect. I personally dont know anyone who reacts to anything by rolling their eyes. Just be mature and communicate.", ">\n\nAnd what if it's not stupid and someone rolls their eyes? Wouldn't it be disrespectful in that case?", ">\n\nIn the eye rollers opinion then it must have been. But you can't fault someone for thinking its stupid.", ">\n\nSo eyerolling is some kind of exceptional thing that is free from criticism? \nIf one has the freedom to eye roll, then someone else has the freedom to criticize the eye roller right? \nOr is it your opinion that besides that everyone who sees an eye roller has to just stfu", ">\n\nMeh, it is disrespectful. It's a way to be disrespectful without having to say That's the dumbest thing I've heard all month, and everyone else who heard it is also dumber for hearing it as well.", ">\n\nBut I didn't say it that's the point.", ">\n\nJust cuz you don’t use words doesn’t mean it’s not disrespectful. Walking away while someone is talking to you, rolling your eyes, slapping someone, and starting to play a game on your phone while someone is talking to you are all disrespectful. It doesn’t matter that you didn’t say anything, your lack of respect still showed.", ">\n\nespecially the way theyre responding to comments", ">\n\nYeah, a natural reaction if you’ve never learned to manage your emotions as opposed to letting them run your life. I’m not talking about being totally monotone rational, either. You need to learn a balance between rational and emotional…which includes healthy, appropriate, respectful expression of honest feelings. Eye rolling is absolutely disrespectful, belittling, and dismissive.", ">\n\nComments: OP is completely wrong and has attitude issues", ">\n\nWhat sounds like mental illness is you refusing to admit that rolling your eyes is simply not an unconditional response. Whether you want to believe it or not, you are doing it intentionally and you can control it. \nYou’re just to much of a b—— to do so.", ">\n\nSame to you", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a learned reaction. Not natural. I rarely of ever roll my eyes at anything.", ">", ">\n\nJust like raising your middle finger. Or vocalizing the sounds \"fuck you\". Or fingers typing the words fuck you OP. Nothing is disrespectful!", ">\n\nNice try but not the same thing at all. You're talking about thought out actions here. The eye roll is more like a reaction. Its quick, its automatic, no one has to think \"im rolling my eyes now\" it just happens. \nSort of like when telling a lie - no one decides to have their eyes dart around suspiciously, it just happens.", ">\n\nNo. Rolling your eyes is not involuntary. It can be controlled. You have a bad habit that you CAN stop. Much like a child learning not to suck their thumb, or biting your nails.", ">\n\nHow about you start with your hair scratching", ">\n\nYour opinion is a contradiction in itself. And, yeah. I disagree. Rolling your eyes is 100% to show lack of respect, and you have no intentions of showing it, even to reason, by rolling your eyes at something someone could believe is meaningful or important. Even if it is stupid.\nI get your point, we roll our eyes to express how we feel, but it is still a physical snare. You say rolling your eyes isn't disrespectful, while saying it's okay to roll your eyes because something is \" stupid or lame\", which in itself is disrespectful. You sound like a very young person in the middle of a learning moment, and you're trying to react with rebellion. It only shows that you lack maturity and are in need of growth. This might be a time for you to read these comments and reevaluate. There are healthier ways to react to things you disagree with, or lack interest in. If not, you can just accept that you roll your eyes to show lack of respect.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is much more deliberate than laughter, tears, or sneezing. It's a conscious action in response to a judgement you're making.", ">\n\nNah, dude it is disrespectful \nYou just have no self control and by the looks of it you don't want to build some", ">\n\nYour post made me roll my eyes very hard.", ">\n\n“No, officer, my wife - she MADE me hit her!”", ">\n\nIt's a natural reaction for a sooky kid but not an adult, if you do that as an adult you just manchild that wants everything their way", ">\n\npoor OP.... did you get in trouble after you rolled your eyes at something again? did you not prehaps learn from previous interactions? rolling your eyes at something \"stupid or lame\" is an intentional response that is disrespectful to whatever it is. mature people dont act that way.....", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes.\n\nSo it is disrespectful. \n\nIts like throwing pepper in someone's face an expecting them not to sneeze.\n\nNo it’s not. You can easily (edited in) refrain from rolling your eyes, while it’s much more difficult to refrain from sneezing. \nIt’s fine to think whatever you want, but you might want to refrain from rolling your eyes when you’re, say, interacting with your boss; aka someone that can make you unemployed for whatever reason they please.", ">\n\nThis isn't an opinion. It's just flat wrong. \nIt is disrespectful because it is a conscious signifier which clearly communicated that you think that the thing you are rolling your eyes at is not worthy of respect.", ">\n\nYou have to go out of your way to roll your eyes. It is NOT gutteral or instinctual", ">\n\nIf you annoy me, my arm whips out in a natural reaction and slaps you.", ">\n\nSorry, kiddo, it’s 100% disrespectful. Just own the shit and quit trying to lawyer around it.\nI say that after having rolled my eyes so hard at your post, I travelled back in time.", ">\n\nTell that to my family lol you get the belt", ">\n\nThis was made my a 15 year old who just got told off by their mom about rolling their eyes. Then in defense said, “I can’t control it”", ">\n\nMan it's getting so aggressive sometimes here 😂", ">\n\ni certainly hope you are embarrassed about this in a couple years when you grow up.", ">\n\nOP is a habitual eye roller 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄", ">\n\nI wish to God we could block people by age, no more edgy 13yo’s", ">\n\nSomebody just got their ps5 taken away for rolling their eyes", ">\n\nTell me you're 12 without telling me you're 12.", ">\n\nit’s the definition of disrespectful and a sign that you have literally nothing intelligent to say in return. \nwhich is why we outgrow it as adults.", ">\n\nYou can control it. It’s not an “automatic response” unless you’ve taught yourself to do it. I never roll my eyes. It’s just not something I have ever practiced doing. And yes…if I’m saying something too you and you dismiss it with an eye roll…it’s super disrespectful.", ">\n\nrolling your eyes is just as respectful as sticking your tongue out at someone or making a stupid face in reaction to something someone says", ">\n\nIf you can’t control your eye movement, you need to see a neurologist, dude 😆. As it stands, eye rolling isn’t a reflex or a “natural reaction” to anything. Habits aren’t the same as involuntary reactions.\nRolling your eyes at someone is disrespectful. It’s an outward sign that you think something about your interaction with them was stupid or wrong. There’s no one here that will agree with you, and you know that you’re in the vast minority with this opinion because you posted it on this sub. Now learn some humility and accept that your opinion is factually incorrect based on science.", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nAre you like 14 and your mom got you in trouble cause you rolled your eyes at her? Lmao", ">\n\nI’m gonna show your mom this and it’s going to be another week of being grounded, you little shit lol", ">\n\nOmfg 😂", ">\n\nOP I have to ask.\n\n\nHow old are you?\n\n\nHow is your relationship with your parents?\n\n\nHow do you view authority figures in your life?", ">\n\nrolls eyes", ">\n\nIf you say or demand something stupid from me I will probably roll my eyes.", ">\n\nBut it is", ">\n\nJust like rolling your eyes is an innate response, so are other people's responses to you rolling your eyes.", ">\n\nSometimes being respectful requires hiding your subjective opinion on whether something is stupid or lame.", ">\n\nI wouldn’t say eye rolling is as involuntary as laughing or crying tho. It’s more of a choice.", ">\n\nIf someone rolls their eyes then I feel disrespected it’s a natural reaction.", ">\n\ntell me you're a teenager without telling me you're a teenager", ">\n\nI'm rolling my eyes at this post. And I definitely mean it disrespectfully.", ">\n\nLmao this kid had an argument with his parent(s) or teacher and is venting on Reddit.", ">\n\nYou sound like an eye rolling arsehole", ">\n\ni have never had an as a nonvoulentary action, it requires very explicit movement of you eye. this is like saying “when i dont like people, i punch them in the head, thats my natural reaction i cant control it”\ni have never once legitimately rolled my eyes at something, i think you might be an asshole", ">\n\nMe smacking your face is also an innate uncontrollable response to you rolling your eyes. I'm only human. What can I do? 🙄", ">\n\nI disagree. also there are a billion other ways to express something being stupid or lame than rolling ur eyes", ">\n\nStop downvoting, this is ACTUALLY a very unpopular opinion and I love to see it tbh. Voice your disagreement in the comments but don't downvote the post. This post is hilarious.", ">\n\nThis is something you’ve learned to do. It’s entirely in your control if you do it or not.", ">\n\nI once got a detention for rolling my eyes at a teacher in 4th grade.\nI agree with you, though. The only other person I've ever really rolled my eyes at was my mother, and she deserved it, every single time.", ">\n\nI get your point. I absolutely purposefully roll my eyes sometimes and whoever I'm doing it to would be valid for getting mad. \nBut as someone who can't hide any emotion on their face (literally any, I'm the definition of an open book) there have been plenty of times where people blew up at me or laughed because I rolled my eyes when I didn't even realize I had done it. Feel like the people disagreeing with you haven't experienced this problem.", ">\n\nWhat you've done is cultivate a bad habit and then blamed it on everyone else when you repeat your own bad habit unintentionally.\nThis is entirely your fault.", ">\n\nOnly on Reddit would someone so boldly declare something like this to a stranger. I'm on the spectrum so that might have to do with my not being able to hide any emotion (I truly mean that, people can basically read my thoughts just by looking at me, good and bad). \nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave. Consider working on that.", ">\n\nSo they point out you’re cultivating a bad habit and blaming other people so you then, blame them? It’s a little spot on don’t you think?", ">\n\nWhen did i blame them for my own actions? Could you quote me? I was just pointing out how weird it was that they made such a strong assumption of my character off a causal comment I left when they themselves were ironically being unnecessarily rude in the process. \nI don't know how you got so lost?", ">\n\n\nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave.\n\nClassic deflection and implication that they’re the one with the problem, not you", ">\n\nFirst its not automatic. I almost never rolled my eyes. Its much easier to control than laughing crying or sneezing. So you just dont make the effort. Its actually a way to express your feeling. You should know that, its your personnality not a human instinctive reaction. \nAnd yes not respecting something is disrespectful. Its not that hard to understand. \nAnyway if i see you.. i dont know having a breakdown after being fired and dumped and start to laugh you'd like that ? \nIf im sad because something good happens to you and show it to you, you would like that ? \nHonestly you are just trying to justify being a bit of a jerk. \nI dont blame you or anything we all are jerks sometime but its what you are doing right now.", ">\n\nI have to refocus my eyes and most of the time blinking doesn’t cut it. I have a lazy eye and when I look at someone for a long time it unfocuses, so moving the muscle is the only way to reset it. If I don’t, people start moving their heads/ bodies trying to focus on my lazy eye. It gets awkward.", ">\n\nThis is where I go to my training as a kid. What others think of you is none of your business.", ">\n\nUnless you have a tick or something like Tourette’s syndrome, then it’s not an involuntary response. Part of living in a society and not being considered rude is managing your body language.\nLet me put it this way. “Rudeness” in itself is a social concept. That means it’s decided by the perception of the masses, what we generally agree upon in terms of our symbols of communication, our customs, our beliefs, our values, etc. For you to say that rolling your eyes isn’t disrespectful is not objectively wrong. But according to the society you live in, it is wrong. In layman’s terms, the hill you’re dying on here is completely arbitrary, neither side will ever be truly correct but as long as you live in a society which feels this way then you will be beholden to it anyways.", ">\n\nTo be fair, if your thinking its stupid or lame, then that is dis-respect. I'd agree with this if it was worded like 'More people need to say what they truly think', but I think you sort of missed the mark, OP.", ">\n\nI am equally annoyed when folks rapidly blink and look away mid conversation or drop their arm dead against their thigh. It’s like you’ve given up an effort to even keep your body vertical and engaged while I’m talking to you.", ">\n\nOP getting downvoted AF & keeps commenting. Gotta love it.", ">\n\nIt is shown as a sign of disrespect and it shows weakness. I can’t imagine Gandhi, the queen of England or Einstein roll their eyes in front of random people. The reason why they were respected is because they didn’t play any superiority game on front of… inferiors or ignorant people. If something is stupid, get the patience and find enough love within yourself to treat the other ones right. \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a child because his question is “stupid”, what parent does it make you ? \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a bad question because you are an expert in a subject, then it is not your modesty that speaks but your ego. For proof : Even if someone you hate said something intelligent, you might want to roll your eyes just to flatter your ego.", ">\n\nIt's seen as disrespectful BECAUSE it's inadvertently telling them you think they're irritating/annoying.", ">\n\nI never roll my eyes? Is that something people do naturally?", ">\n\nAll depends on the context of what is going on.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is not a natural reaction?", ">\n\nNot maintaining basic self control is disrespectful. It's the same reason we don't defecate in public, sneeze on people, or stand in the way of foot traffic.", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s and one of my tics is eye rolling", ">\n\nK", ">\n\nI accidentally roll my eyes at people sometimes when I'm not even trying to", ">\n\nThe sign of a true unpopular opinion: Nobody upvoting it, but everybody commenting to say how they disagree. If you disagree, then give it an upvote. That's the point of this sub.", ">\n\nI think it depends.", ">\n\nThis had to be written by someone under the age of 25", ">\n\nRolling your eyes isn’t natural though. It’s cultural or socially learned if that makes sense. Like if you rolled your eyes at a tribe that is disconnected from society they wouldn’t understand that you’re annoyed. So you cant really compare it to laughing.", ">\n\nI'm kind of curious if this is true though. Are you assuming this, or do you have some kind of study proving this? I'd actually like to see if your hypothesis is true, or if remote tribes also use this facial gesture.", ">\n\nI’m assuming it. Back in my country Turkey if you rolled your eyes at my grandparents they would be confused and wonder what you were doing and what it meant.", ">\n\nit's a maturity thing, keep rolling your eyes at 30-40, everyone gonna see you like a kid. \nyou gotta control your emotions, there's no need to do a expression when something is stupid or lame, you got a mouth and you respectfully share what's wrong, if the person in the other end is reluctant to stay on the same boat even after you talk about it. then you don't roll your eyes, you gotta say that there's nothing more you can do, and that you don't agree with it, and most likely leave to dodge any sort of problem.", ">\n\nI have a tic where I constantly roll my eyes. I’ve had it since I was little, but never noticed it until years later when I high school teacher yelled at me for disrespect. Apparently my parents took me for evaluation when I was very young and diagnosed Tourette’s but never had any other tics develop. Would have been nice to know 🤦🏼‍♀️ I just apologize now and say it’s a compulsion if people ask. I don’t even know when I’m doing it", ">\n\nIs laughing disrespectful? Because it can be. Just like rolling your eyes can be. There is a time and place for everything", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a passive aggressive response. Passive aggression is a tactic used by meek people who are frustrated and don’t have the courage to address a given situation. It’s disrespectful and it lowers your standing in the social hierarchy.", ">\n\nGet back to me when Disney Dad actively encourages your offspring to roll their eyes at you.", ">\n\nYeah it is when I want to be disrespectful to someone I roll my eyes when they make a point. It might be annoying to them, but it also let's them know I don't give a shit about whatever they just said. Now, I would never to it to my boss, or my teachers while I was in college, but when I was a teen I did it all the time because I was an asshole, who didn't care. \nIt's not a natural reaction lmao, it is learned behavior and it can be a bad habit, but it can be unlearned.", ">\n\nSome people can’t control it I know with me sometimes I roll my eyes without meaning too it’s not that I’m trying to be rude it’s just something I didn’t even realize I was doing nor did I mean too", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nI have a friend who thinks like you do, which is based on your responses to the comments. He has very poor social skills and is on the autism spectrum", ">\n\nI bet you're lots of fun at parties OP.", ">\n\nI can’t tell if this is farming karma with ridiculous opinions or if this individual just has a really hard time understanding that maybe their parents aren’t always the bad guys.", ">\n\nYep, thats definitely an unpopular opinion! \nIts certainly disrespectful. And most certainly not some sort of involuntary response like a sneeze. It may feel that way to you, because you've done it so much - but there are plenty of people who don't do it. UNLIKE people who don't sneeze at pepper, or cough at dust. Like, you're just plain wrong on this one. Moreover, I think you're trying to justify/rationalize it yourself rather than address it in a healthy way - a marker suggesting you have some narcissistic tendencies.", ">\n\nWhat a stupid argument, take your upvote", ">\n\nIt’s a sign of contempt. The facial expression expert Dr. Eikman could predict how long a barrage would last based on 4 expressions and the frequency used when the couple was interviewed. Eye rolling was one.. in fact you could remove the others and still reasonably predict marriage failures.", ">\n\nI wish it wasn’t disrespectful, because as an expressive person I LOVE a good eye roll. But, it has gotten me into trouble. I do it without even knowing it. I hate that I do… I wish sometimes I could be stone cold. Just like a fish. One expression face only. Blank fish eyes staring into nothingness.\nMy favourite mug says, “I can’t help what my face does when you talk”. There is a reason the the mug is meant to be cheeky.", ">\n\nSeems disrespectful to me because my eyes don't roll on their own, it would be a conscious act.", ">\n\nThis is 100% based on the premis that you can’t control your eyes. Rolling your eyes isn’t a natural movement. You control it.\nLaughing and crying aren’t necessarily controllable.", ">\n\nIn addition to this:\nfinding something somebody said stupid isnt disrespectful - makin fun in an exaggerated way, call em out in a mean way, or think everything they're gonna say next is bs is the disrespectful part.", ">\n\nSo your reaction is because you think someone is stupid, but thinking they are stupid isn't disrespectful?", ">\n\nThis, i agree with" ]
> I don't think rolling your eyes is natural. I did wrong all the way up until last year. Thought you were supposed to make your eyes go in a circular motion 😂	[ "🙄", ">\n\nYou’re grounded now", ">\n\nThe post above was someone getting electrocuted so this reply was very timely", ">\n\nThis news is shocking", ">\n\nIt definitely SPARKED my interest", ">\n\nAll of you guys need to leave, and not come back before learning how to conduct yourselves properly", ">\n\nUhhhh....... electricity", ">\n\nWell no, in the right context it is disrespectful. Rolling your eyes suggests that you're not taking the matter seriously or that you dont care which is a sign of disrespect towards whoever is speaking with you.", ">\n\nBut I can't control what I think. If I said \"man you're stupid and I don't care what you say\" thats disrespectful. I'm actually showing respect by not saying it.", ">\n\nI mean, actions speak louder than words, right?", ">\n\nIts not really an action tho its just an automatic response. Like gasping or yawning.", ">\n\nbullshit.\nSorry, it was an automatic response. Which is bullshit just like yours.", ">\n\nStill not the same thing. And they get on me for false analogies....", ">\n\nYou must be a teenager", ">\n\nLol how many times are you gonna post that. Dont you have an original thought of your own?", ">\n\nBruh I cant believe you make these posts. They're foolish", ">\n\nLaughing at someone can be disrespectful. Don't think so? Try laughing at someone's funeral.", ">\n\nThe disrespect comes from the one who told me a joke and made me laugh.", ">\n\nWhat about if no one said any joke? Because, you know, you are at a funeral.", ">\n\nSo someone's just there randomly laughing at shit? That sounds like a mental illness.", ">\n\nYou have never thought of something funny in your head to make yourself laugh? \nOr hell, maybe you didn't like the person who is buried and decided to laugh at them. You find it funny, so laughing must be appropriate, right?", ">\n\nWhy am I thinking about funny shit at a funeral.", ">\n\nBecause the universe likes to put us in uncomfortable positions sometimes.", ">\n\n“if its stupid or lame, you roll your eyes” - you found the disrespect", ">\n\nIm allowed to think whatever i want and its not disrespectful.", ">\n\nWhen you express contempt for something someone else said, it's disrespect.", ">\n\nWhat if what they said is contemptible?", ">\n\nSome people and comments deserve disrespect, still gonna be disrespect", ">\n\nLaughing, crying, and sneezing are all innate, involuntary reactions to certain types of stimuli. Rolling your eyes is a learned behavior. You can’t compare it to those other automatic responses because it’s not the same thing.", ">\n\nTake my upvote", ">\n\nOP rolled their eyes at someone and got chewed out for it.\nNow they're going online in an attempt to validate themselves.\n🙄", ">\n\nProbably got grounded.", ">\n\nPart of being a mature adult is to have self-control and not acting on every impulse and being respectful of people.", ">\n\n\nPart of being a mature adult\n\nYup but OP is clearly a teenager lol. They complain about being told off for doing chores wrong in another post…", ">\n\nEven a teenager should be able to have the fundamental basics of respect", ">\n\nOh I agree 100%", ">\n\nYou have poor self-control and poor self-awareness but the good news is that you can improve these things.", ">\n\n/r/wrongopinions", ">\n\nI feel like we need a new subreddit r/unpopularforareason", ">\n\nIt’s entire purpose is to be disrespectful. Nobody eyerolls something they respect. But how offensive it is depends on the context and how serious one is being.", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes\n\nYou rn: \"I'm not being disrespectful. I just thought what you said was stupid or lame.\"\n...", ">\n\nSaying its stupid could be disrespectful. A facial response is not.", ">\n\nLiterally every person in this thread agrees that it is.\nThis is your bad habit. Nobody else's responsibility but you.", ">\n\nThey can choose to not fly off the handle at what is just an innate reaction.", ">\n\nSo let me get this straight: you think you deserve to be able to disrespect whoever you like whenever you like but they can't as much as say you're being rude? Grow up.", ">\n\nFound the teenager.", ">\n\nMeh, I agree with that one. If you don't like how someone is doing something then do it yourself. There's a reason I live alone.", ">\n\nIt is a UNIVERSAL sign of disrespect. Globally. Deal with it.", ">\n\nLaughing can be disrespectuful too. If you cannot control your own reactions, well, what can I say, maybe you have not really grown up?", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s so it’s hard to control my own actions sometimes…", ">\n\nThank u I'm trying to explain how autism can make it hard to read not just others facial expressions but also ur own and it seems like no one has thought of the possibility that they acc don't realise it or csnt control it", ">\n\nWould you roll your eyes during a job interview if you thought a question was stupid or irrelevant? Do you think you’d get the job if you did?", ">\n\nPretty sure OP would think they were owed that job and they would think it’s ridiculous if they didn’t get it.\nOP is also a teenager going through their rebel phase though", ">\n\nYou're oddly specific here.", ">\n\nWhat was specific? Or rather oddly specific?", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a good way to fast track yourself to a divorce, if you want one.", ">\n\nI think OP needs the definition of respect before any further comment is made", ">\n\nOh I already know it, and I know it does not mean:\nDon't ever disagree with me\nDon't think bad thoughts about me\nDon't ever correct me when I'm blatantly wrong \nShine my boots with your tongue", ">\n\nSoooo this post isn’t about eye rolling is what I’m getting from this. You’ve got issues to work through with your parents or partner or something", ">\n\nSince when tf was eye rolling involuntary?", ">", ">\n\nYour lack of self control is not a justification for disrespect. I personally dont know anyone who reacts to anything by rolling their eyes. Just be mature and communicate.", ">\n\nAnd what if it's not stupid and someone rolls their eyes? Wouldn't it be disrespectful in that case?", ">\n\nIn the eye rollers opinion then it must have been. But you can't fault someone for thinking its stupid.", ">\n\nSo eyerolling is some kind of exceptional thing that is free from criticism? \nIf one has the freedom to eye roll, then someone else has the freedom to criticize the eye roller right? \nOr is it your opinion that besides that everyone who sees an eye roller has to just stfu", ">\n\nMeh, it is disrespectful. It's a way to be disrespectful without having to say That's the dumbest thing I've heard all month, and everyone else who heard it is also dumber for hearing it as well.", ">\n\nBut I didn't say it that's the point.", ">\n\nJust cuz you don’t use words doesn’t mean it’s not disrespectful. Walking away while someone is talking to you, rolling your eyes, slapping someone, and starting to play a game on your phone while someone is talking to you are all disrespectful. It doesn’t matter that you didn’t say anything, your lack of respect still showed.", ">\n\nespecially the way theyre responding to comments", ">\n\nYeah, a natural reaction if you’ve never learned to manage your emotions as opposed to letting them run your life. I’m not talking about being totally monotone rational, either. You need to learn a balance between rational and emotional…which includes healthy, appropriate, respectful expression of honest feelings. Eye rolling is absolutely disrespectful, belittling, and dismissive.", ">\n\nComments: OP is completely wrong and has attitude issues", ">\n\nWhat sounds like mental illness is you refusing to admit that rolling your eyes is simply not an unconditional response. Whether you want to believe it or not, you are doing it intentionally and you can control it. \nYou’re just to much of a b—— to do so.", ">\n\nSame to you", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a learned reaction. Not natural. I rarely of ever roll my eyes at anything.", ">", ">\n\nJust like raising your middle finger. Or vocalizing the sounds \"fuck you\". Or fingers typing the words fuck you OP. Nothing is disrespectful!", ">\n\nNice try but not the same thing at all. You're talking about thought out actions here. The eye roll is more like a reaction. Its quick, its automatic, no one has to think \"im rolling my eyes now\" it just happens. \nSort of like when telling a lie - no one decides to have their eyes dart around suspiciously, it just happens.", ">\n\nNo. Rolling your eyes is not involuntary. It can be controlled. You have a bad habit that you CAN stop. Much like a child learning not to suck their thumb, or biting your nails.", ">\n\nHow about you start with your hair scratching", ">\n\nYour opinion is a contradiction in itself. And, yeah. I disagree. Rolling your eyes is 100% to show lack of respect, and you have no intentions of showing it, even to reason, by rolling your eyes at something someone could believe is meaningful or important. Even if it is stupid.\nI get your point, we roll our eyes to express how we feel, but it is still a physical snare. You say rolling your eyes isn't disrespectful, while saying it's okay to roll your eyes because something is \" stupid or lame\", which in itself is disrespectful. You sound like a very young person in the middle of a learning moment, and you're trying to react with rebellion. It only shows that you lack maturity and are in need of growth. This might be a time for you to read these comments and reevaluate. There are healthier ways to react to things you disagree with, or lack interest in. If not, you can just accept that you roll your eyes to show lack of respect.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is much more deliberate than laughter, tears, or sneezing. It's a conscious action in response to a judgement you're making.", ">\n\nNah, dude it is disrespectful \nYou just have no self control and by the looks of it you don't want to build some", ">\n\nYour post made me roll my eyes very hard.", ">\n\n“No, officer, my wife - she MADE me hit her!”", ">\n\nIt's a natural reaction for a sooky kid but not an adult, if you do that as an adult you just manchild that wants everything their way", ">\n\npoor OP.... did you get in trouble after you rolled your eyes at something again? did you not prehaps learn from previous interactions? rolling your eyes at something \"stupid or lame\" is an intentional response that is disrespectful to whatever it is. mature people dont act that way.....", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes.\n\nSo it is disrespectful. \n\nIts like throwing pepper in someone's face an expecting them not to sneeze.\n\nNo it’s not. You can easily (edited in) refrain from rolling your eyes, while it’s much more difficult to refrain from sneezing. \nIt’s fine to think whatever you want, but you might want to refrain from rolling your eyes when you’re, say, interacting with your boss; aka someone that can make you unemployed for whatever reason they please.", ">\n\nThis isn't an opinion. It's just flat wrong. \nIt is disrespectful because it is a conscious signifier which clearly communicated that you think that the thing you are rolling your eyes at is not worthy of respect.", ">\n\nYou have to go out of your way to roll your eyes. It is NOT gutteral or instinctual", ">\n\nIf you annoy me, my arm whips out in a natural reaction and slaps you.", ">\n\nSorry, kiddo, it’s 100% disrespectful. Just own the shit and quit trying to lawyer around it.\nI say that after having rolled my eyes so hard at your post, I travelled back in time.", ">\n\nTell that to my family lol you get the belt", ">\n\nThis was made my a 15 year old who just got told off by their mom about rolling their eyes. Then in defense said, “I can’t control it”", ">\n\nMan it's getting so aggressive sometimes here 😂", ">\n\ni certainly hope you are embarrassed about this in a couple years when you grow up.", ">\n\nOP is a habitual eye roller 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄", ">\n\nI wish to God we could block people by age, no more edgy 13yo’s", ">\n\nSomebody just got their ps5 taken away for rolling their eyes", ">\n\nTell me you're 12 without telling me you're 12.", ">\n\nit’s the definition of disrespectful and a sign that you have literally nothing intelligent to say in return. \nwhich is why we outgrow it as adults.", ">\n\nYou can control it. It’s not an “automatic response” unless you’ve taught yourself to do it. I never roll my eyes. It’s just not something I have ever practiced doing. And yes…if I’m saying something too you and you dismiss it with an eye roll…it’s super disrespectful.", ">\n\nrolling your eyes is just as respectful as sticking your tongue out at someone or making a stupid face in reaction to something someone says", ">\n\nIf you can’t control your eye movement, you need to see a neurologist, dude 😆. As it stands, eye rolling isn’t a reflex or a “natural reaction” to anything. Habits aren’t the same as involuntary reactions.\nRolling your eyes at someone is disrespectful. It’s an outward sign that you think something about your interaction with them was stupid or wrong. There’s no one here that will agree with you, and you know that you’re in the vast minority with this opinion because you posted it on this sub. Now learn some humility and accept that your opinion is factually incorrect based on science.", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nAre you like 14 and your mom got you in trouble cause you rolled your eyes at her? Lmao", ">\n\nI’m gonna show your mom this and it’s going to be another week of being grounded, you little shit lol", ">\n\nOmfg 😂", ">\n\nOP I have to ask.\n\n\nHow old are you?\n\n\nHow is your relationship with your parents?\n\n\nHow do you view authority figures in your life?", ">\n\nrolls eyes", ">\n\nIf you say or demand something stupid from me I will probably roll my eyes.", ">\n\nBut it is", ">\n\nJust like rolling your eyes is an innate response, so are other people's responses to you rolling your eyes.", ">\n\nSometimes being respectful requires hiding your subjective opinion on whether something is stupid or lame.", ">\n\nI wouldn’t say eye rolling is as involuntary as laughing or crying tho. It’s more of a choice.", ">\n\nIf someone rolls their eyes then I feel disrespected it’s a natural reaction.", ">\n\ntell me you're a teenager without telling me you're a teenager", ">\n\nI'm rolling my eyes at this post. And I definitely mean it disrespectfully.", ">\n\nLmao this kid had an argument with his parent(s) or teacher and is venting on Reddit.", ">\n\nYou sound like an eye rolling arsehole", ">\n\ni have never had an as a nonvoulentary action, it requires very explicit movement of you eye. this is like saying “when i dont like people, i punch them in the head, thats my natural reaction i cant control it”\ni have never once legitimately rolled my eyes at something, i think you might be an asshole", ">\n\nMe smacking your face is also an innate uncontrollable response to you rolling your eyes. I'm only human. What can I do? 🙄", ">\n\nI disagree. also there are a billion other ways to express something being stupid or lame than rolling ur eyes", ">\n\nStop downvoting, this is ACTUALLY a very unpopular opinion and I love to see it tbh. Voice your disagreement in the comments but don't downvote the post. This post is hilarious.", ">\n\nThis is something you’ve learned to do. It’s entirely in your control if you do it or not.", ">\n\nI once got a detention for rolling my eyes at a teacher in 4th grade.\nI agree with you, though. The only other person I've ever really rolled my eyes at was my mother, and she deserved it, every single time.", ">\n\nI get your point. I absolutely purposefully roll my eyes sometimes and whoever I'm doing it to would be valid for getting mad. \nBut as someone who can't hide any emotion on their face (literally any, I'm the definition of an open book) there have been plenty of times where people blew up at me or laughed because I rolled my eyes when I didn't even realize I had done it. Feel like the people disagreeing with you haven't experienced this problem.", ">\n\nWhat you've done is cultivate a bad habit and then blamed it on everyone else when you repeat your own bad habit unintentionally.\nThis is entirely your fault.", ">\n\nOnly on Reddit would someone so boldly declare something like this to a stranger. I'm on the spectrum so that might have to do with my not being able to hide any emotion (I truly mean that, people can basically read my thoughts just by looking at me, good and bad). \nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave. Consider working on that.", ">\n\nSo they point out you’re cultivating a bad habit and blaming other people so you then, blame them? It’s a little spot on don’t you think?", ">\n\nWhen did i blame them for my own actions? Could you quote me? I was just pointing out how weird it was that they made such a strong assumption of my character off a causal comment I left when they themselves were ironically being unnecessarily rude in the process. \nI don't know how you got so lost?", ">\n\n\nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave.\n\nClassic deflection and implication that they’re the one with the problem, not you", ">\n\nFirst its not automatic. I almost never rolled my eyes. Its much easier to control than laughing crying or sneezing. So you just dont make the effort. Its actually a way to express your feeling. You should know that, its your personnality not a human instinctive reaction. \nAnd yes not respecting something is disrespectful. Its not that hard to understand. \nAnyway if i see you.. i dont know having a breakdown after being fired and dumped and start to laugh you'd like that ? \nIf im sad because something good happens to you and show it to you, you would like that ? \nHonestly you are just trying to justify being a bit of a jerk. \nI dont blame you or anything we all are jerks sometime but its what you are doing right now.", ">\n\nI have to refocus my eyes and most of the time blinking doesn’t cut it. I have a lazy eye and when I look at someone for a long time it unfocuses, so moving the muscle is the only way to reset it. If I don’t, people start moving their heads/ bodies trying to focus on my lazy eye. It gets awkward.", ">\n\nThis is where I go to my training as a kid. What others think of you is none of your business.", ">\n\nUnless you have a tick or something like Tourette’s syndrome, then it’s not an involuntary response. Part of living in a society and not being considered rude is managing your body language.\nLet me put it this way. “Rudeness” in itself is a social concept. That means it’s decided by the perception of the masses, what we generally agree upon in terms of our symbols of communication, our customs, our beliefs, our values, etc. For you to say that rolling your eyes isn’t disrespectful is not objectively wrong. But according to the society you live in, it is wrong. In layman’s terms, the hill you’re dying on here is completely arbitrary, neither side will ever be truly correct but as long as you live in a society which feels this way then you will be beholden to it anyways.", ">\n\nTo be fair, if your thinking its stupid or lame, then that is dis-respect. I'd agree with this if it was worded like 'More people need to say what they truly think', but I think you sort of missed the mark, OP.", ">\n\nI am equally annoyed when folks rapidly blink and look away mid conversation or drop their arm dead against their thigh. It’s like you’ve given up an effort to even keep your body vertical and engaged while I’m talking to you.", ">\n\nOP getting downvoted AF & keeps commenting. Gotta love it.", ">\n\nIt is shown as a sign of disrespect and it shows weakness. I can’t imagine Gandhi, the queen of England or Einstein roll their eyes in front of random people. The reason why they were respected is because they didn’t play any superiority game on front of… inferiors or ignorant people. If something is stupid, get the patience and find enough love within yourself to treat the other ones right. \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a child because his question is “stupid”, what parent does it make you ? \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a bad question because you are an expert in a subject, then it is not your modesty that speaks but your ego. For proof : Even if someone you hate said something intelligent, you might want to roll your eyes just to flatter your ego.", ">\n\nIt's seen as disrespectful BECAUSE it's inadvertently telling them you think they're irritating/annoying.", ">\n\nI never roll my eyes? Is that something people do naturally?", ">\n\nAll depends on the context of what is going on.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is not a natural reaction?", ">\n\nNot maintaining basic self control is disrespectful. It's the same reason we don't defecate in public, sneeze on people, or stand in the way of foot traffic.", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s and one of my tics is eye rolling", ">\n\nK", ">\n\nI accidentally roll my eyes at people sometimes when I'm not even trying to", ">\n\nThe sign of a true unpopular opinion: Nobody upvoting it, but everybody commenting to say how they disagree. If you disagree, then give it an upvote. That's the point of this sub.", ">\n\nI think it depends.", ">\n\nThis had to be written by someone under the age of 25", ">\n\nRolling your eyes isn’t natural though. It’s cultural or socially learned if that makes sense. Like if you rolled your eyes at a tribe that is disconnected from society they wouldn’t understand that you’re annoyed. So you cant really compare it to laughing.", ">\n\nI'm kind of curious if this is true though. Are you assuming this, or do you have some kind of study proving this? I'd actually like to see if your hypothesis is true, or if remote tribes also use this facial gesture.", ">\n\nI’m assuming it. Back in my country Turkey if you rolled your eyes at my grandparents they would be confused and wonder what you were doing and what it meant.", ">\n\nit's a maturity thing, keep rolling your eyes at 30-40, everyone gonna see you like a kid. \nyou gotta control your emotions, there's no need to do a expression when something is stupid or lame, you got a mouth and you respectfully share what's wrong, if the person in the other end is reluctant to stay on the same boat even after you talk about it. then you don't roll your eyes, you gotta say that there's nothing more you can do, and that you don't agree with it, and most likely leave to dodge any sort of problem.", ">\n\nI have a tic where I constantly roll my eyes. I’ve had it since I was little, but never noticed it until years later when I high school teacher yelled at me for disrespect. Apparently my parents took me for evaluation when I was very young and diagnosed Tourette’s but never had any other tics develop. Would have been nice to know 🤦🏼‍♀️ I just apologize now and say it’s a compulsion if people ask. I don’t even know when I’m doing it", ">\n\nIs laughing disrespectful? Because it can be. Just like rolling your eyes can be. There is a time and place for everything", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a passive aggressive response. Passive aggression is a tactic used by meek people who are frustrated and don’t have the courage to address a given situation. It’s disrespectful and it lowers your standing in the social hierarchy.", ">\n\nGet back to me when Disney Dad actively encourages your offspring to roll their eyes at you.", ">\n\nYeah it is when I want to be disrespectful to someone I roll my eyes when they make a point. It might be annoying to them, but it also let's them know I don't give a shit about whatever they just said. Now, I would never to it to my boss, or my teachers while I was in college, but when I was a teen I did it all the time because I was an asshole, who didn't care. \nIt's not a natural reaction lmao, it is learned behavior and it can be a bad habit, but it can be unlearned.", ">\n\nSome people can’t control it I know with me sometimes I roll my eyes without meaning too it’s not that I’m trying to be rude it’s just something I didn’t even realize I was doing nor did I mean too", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nI have a friend who thinks like you do, which is based on your responses to the comments. He has very poor social skills and is on the autism spectrum", ">\n\nI bet you're lots of fun at parties OP.", ">\n\nI can’t tell if this is farming karma with ridiculous opinions or if this individual just has a really hard time understanding that maybe their parents aren’t always the bad guys.", ">\n\nYep, thats definitely an unpopular opinion! \nIts certainly disrespectful. And most certainly not some sort of involuntary response like a sneeze. It may feel that way to you, because you've done it so much - but there are plenty of people who don't do it. UNLIKE people who don't sneeze at pepper, or cough at dust. Like, you're just plain wrong on this one. Moreover, I think you're trying to justify/rationalize it yourself rather than address it in a healthy way - a marker suggesting you have some narcissistic tendencies.", ">\n\nWhat a stupid argument, take your upvote", ">\n\nIt’s a sign of contempt. The facial expression expert Dr. Eikman could predict how long a barrage would last based on 4 expressions and the frequency used when the couple was interviewed. Eye rolling was one.. in fact you could remove the others and still reasonably predict marriage failures.", ">\n\nI wish it wasn’t disrespectful, because as an expressive person I LOVE a good eye roll. But, it has gotten me into trouble. I do it without even knowing it. I hate that I do… I wish sometimes I could be stone cold. Just like a fish. One expression face only. Blank fish eyes staring into nothingness.\nMy favourite mug says, “I can’t help what my face does when you talk”. There is a reason the the mug is meant to be cheeky.", ">\n\nSeems disrespectful to me because my eyes don't roll on their own, it would be a conscious act.", ">\n\nThis is 100% based on the premis that you can’t control your eyes. Rolling your eyes isn’t a natural movement. You control it.\nLaughing and crying aren’t necessarily controllable.", ">\n\nIn addition to this:\nfinding something somebody said stupid isnt disrespectful - makin fun in an exaggerated way, call em out in a mean way, or think everything they're gonna say next is bs is the disrespectful part.", ">\n\nSo your reaction is because you think someone is stupid, but thinking they are stupid isn't disrespectful?", ">\n\nThis, i agree with", ">\n\nGuess my mom didn't get the memo." ]
> Fr. I may be able to control what I say…but my face will always show how I feel😂can’t help it and I’m tired of fake apologizing for it.	[ "🙄", ">\n\nYou’re grounded now", ">\n\nThe post above was someone getting electrocuted so this reply was very timely", ">\n\nThis news is shocking", ">\n\nIt definitely SPARKED my interest", ">\n\nAll of you guys need to leave, and not come back before learning how to conduct yourselves properly", ">\n\nUhhhh....... electricity", ">\n\nWell no, in the right context it is disrespectful. Rolling your eyes suggests that you're not taking the matter seriously or that you dont care which is a sign of disrespect towards whoever is speaking with you.", ">\n\nBut I can't control what I think. If I said \"man you're stupid and I don't care what you say\" thats disrespectful. I'm actually showing respect by not saying it.", ">\n\nI mean, actions speak louder than words, right?", ">\n\nIts not really an action tho its just an automatic response. Like gasping or yawning.", ">\n\nbullshit.\nSorry, it was an automatic response. Which is bullshit just like yours.", ">\n\nStill not the same thing. And they get on me for false analogies....", ">\n\nYou must be a teenager", ">\n\nLol how many times are you gonna post that. Dont you have an original thought of your own?", ">\n\nBruh I cant believe you make these posts. They're foolish", ">\n\nLaughing at someone can be disrespectful. Don't think so? Try laughing at someone's funeral.", ">\n\nThe disrespect comes from the one who told me a joke and made me laugh.", ">\n\nWhat about if no one said any joke? Because, you know, you are at a funeral.", ">\n\nSo someone's just there randomly laughing at shit? That sounds like a mental illness.", ">\n\nYou have never thought of something funny in your head to make yourself laugh? \nOr hell, maybe you didn't like the person who is buried and decided to laugh at them. You find it funny, so laughing must be appropriate, right?", ">\n\nWhy am I thinking about funny shit at a funeral.", ">\n\nBecause the universe likes to put us in uncomfortable positions sometimes.", ">\n\n“if its stupid or lame, you roll your eyes” - you found the disrespect", ">\n\nIm allowed to think whatever i want and its not disrespectful.", ">\n\nWhen you express contempt for something someone else said, it's disrespect.", ">\n\nWhat if what they said is contemptible?", ">\n\nSome people and comments deserve disrespect, still gonna be disrespect", ">\n\nLaughing, crying, and sneezing are all innate, involuntary reactions to certain types of stimuli. Rolling your eyes is a learned behavior. You can’t compare it to those other automatic responses because it’s not the same thing.", ">\n\nTake my upvote", ">\n\nOP rolled their eyes at someone and got chewed out for it.\nNow they're going online in an attempt to validate themselves.\n🙄", ">\n\nProbably got grounded.", ">\n\nPart of being a mature adult is to have self-control and not acting on every impulse and being respectful of people.", ">\n\n\nPart of being a mature adult\n\nYup but OP is clearly a teenager lol. They complain about being told off for doing chores wrong in another post…", ">\n\nEven a teenager should be able to have the fundamental basics of respect", ">\n\nOh I agree 100%", ">\n\nYou have poor self-control and poor self-awareness but the good news is that you can improve these things.", ">\n\n/r/wrongopinions", ">\n\nI feel like we need a new subreddit r/unpopularforareason", ">\n\nIt’s entire purpose is to be disrespectful. Nobody eyerolls something they respect. But how offensive it is depends on the context and how serious one is being.", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes\n\nYou rn: \"I'm not being disrespectful. I just thought what you said was stupid or lame.\"\n...", ">\n\nSaying its stupid could be disrespectful. A facial response is not.", ">\n\nLiterally every person in this thread agrees that it is.\nThis is your bad habit. Nobody else's responsibility but you.", ">\n\nThey can choose to not fly off the handle at what is just an innate reaction.", ">\n\nSo let me get this straight: you think you deserve to be able to disrespect whoever you like whenever you like but they can't as much as say you're being rude? Grow up.", ">\n\nFound the teenager.", ">\n\nMeh, I agree with that one. If you don't like how someone is doing something then do it yourself. There's a reason I live alone.", ">\n\nIt is a UNIVERSAL sign of disrespect. Globally. Deal with it.", ">\n\nLaughing can be disrespectuful too. If you cannot control your own reactions, well, what can I say, maybe you have not really grown up?", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s so it’s hard to control my own actions sometimes…", ">\n\nThank u I'm trying to explain how autism can make it hard to read not just others facial expressions but also ur own and it seems like no one has thought of the possibility that they acc don't realise it or csnt control it", ">\n\nWould you roll your eyes during a job interview if you thought a question was stupid or irrelevant? Do you think you’d get the job if you did?", ">\n\nPretty sure OP would think they were owed that job and they would think it’s ridiculous if they didn’t get it.\nOP is also a teenager going through their rebel phase though", ">\n\nYou're oddly specific here.", ">\n\nWhat was specific? Or rather oddly specific?", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a good way to fast track yourself to a divorce, if you want one.", ">\n\nI think OP needs the definition of respect before any further comment is made", ">\n\nOh I already know it, and I know it does not mean:\nDon't ever disagree with me\nDon't think bad thoughts about me\nDon't ever correct me when I'm blatantly wrong \nShine my boots with your tongue", ">\n\nSoooo this post isn’t about eye rolling is what I’m getting from this. You’ve got issues to work through with your parents or partner or something", ">\n\nSince when tf was eye rolling involuntary?", ">", ">\n\nYour lack of self control is not a justification for disrespect. I personally dont know anyone who reacts to anything by rolling their eyes. Just be mature and communicate.", ">\n\nAnd what if it's not stupid and someone rolls their eyes? Wouldn't it be disrespectful in that case?", ">\n\nIn the eye rollers opinion then it must have been. But you can't fault someone for thinking its stupid.", ">\n\nSo eyerolling is some kind of exceptional thing that is free from criticism? \nIf one has the freedom to eye roll, then someone else has the freedom to criticize the eye roller right? \nOr is it your opinion that besides that everyone who sees an eye roller has to just stfu", ">\n\nMeh, it is disrespectful. It's a way to be disrespectful without having to say That's the dumbest thing I've heard all month, and everyone else who heard it is also dumber for hearing it as well.", ">\n\nBut I didn't say it that's the point.", ">\n\nJust cuz you don’t use words doesn’t mean it’s not disrespectful. Walking away while someone is talking to you, rolling your eyes, slapping someone, and starting to play a game on your phone while someone is talking to you are all disrespectful. It doesn’t matter that you didn’t say anything, your lack of respect still showed.", ">\n\nespecially the way theyre responding to comments", ">\n\nYeah, a natural reaction if you’ve never learned to manage your emotions as opposed to letting them run your life. I’m not talking about being totally monotone rational, either. You need to learn a balance between rational and emotional…which includes healthy, appropriate, respectful expression of honest feelings. Eye rolling is absolutely disrespectful, belittling, and dismissive.", ">\n\nComments: OP is completely wrong and has attitude issues", ">\n\nWhat sounds like mental illness is you refusing to admit that rolling your eyes is simply not an unconditional response. Whether you want to believe it or not, you are doing it intentionally and you can control it. \nYou’re just to much of a b—— to do so.", ">\n\nSame to you", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a learned reaction. Not natural. I rarely of ever roll my eyes at anything.", ">", ">\n\nJust like raising your middle finger. Or vocalizing the sounds \"fuck you\". Or fingers typing the words fuck you OP. Nothing is disrespectful!", ">\n\nNice try but not the same thing at all. You're talking about thought out actions here. The eye roll is more like a reaction. Its quick, its automatic, no one has to think \"im rolling my eyes now\" it just happens. \nSort of like when telling a lie - no one decides to have their eyes dart around suspiciously, it just happens.", ">\n\nNo. Rolling your eyes is not involuntary. It can be controlled. You have a bad habit that you CAN stop. Much like a child learning not to suck their thumb, or biting your nails.", ">\n\nHow about you start with your hair scratching", ">\n\nYour opinion is a contradiction in itself. And, yeah. I disagree. Rolling your eyes is 100% to show lack of respect, and you have no intentions of showing it, even to reason, by rolling your eyes at something someone could believe is meaningful or important. Even if it is stupid.\nI get your point, we roll our eyes to express how we feel, but it is still a physical snare. You say rolling your eyes isn't disrespectful, while saying it's okay to roll your eyes because something is \" stupid or lame\", which in itself is disrespectful. You sound like a very young person in the middle of a learning moment, and you're trying to react with rebellion. It only shows that you lack maturity and are in need of growth. This might be a time for you to read these comments and reevaluate. There are healthier ways to react to things you disagree with, or lack interest in. If not, you can just accept that you roll your eyes to show lack of respect.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is much more deliberate than laughter, tears, or sneezing. It's a conscious action in response to a judgement you're making.", ">\n\nNah, dude it is disrespectful \nYou just have no self control and by the looks of it you don't want to build some", ">\n\nYour post made me roll my eyes very hard.", ">\n\n“No, officer, my wife - she MADE me hit her!”", ">\n\nIt's a natural reaction for a sooky kid but not an adult, if you do that as an adult you just manchild that wants everything their way", ">\n\npoor OP.... did you get in trouble after you rolled your eyes at something again? did you not prehaps learn from previous interactions? rolling your eyes at something \"stupid or lame\" is an intentional response that is disrespectful to whatever it is. mature people dont act that way.....", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes.\n\nSo it is disrespectful. \n\nIts like throwing pepper in someone's face an expecting them not to sneeze.\n\nNo it’s not. You can easily (edited in) refrain from rolling your eyes, while it’s much more difficult to refrain from sneezing. \nIt’s fine to think whatever you want, but you might want to refrain from rolling your eyes when you’re, say, interacting with your boss; aka someone that can make you unemployed for whatever reason they please.", ">\n\nThis isn't an opinion. It's just flat wrong. \nIt is disrespectful because it is a conscious signifier which clearly communicated that you think that the thing you are rolling your eyes at is not worthy of respect.", ">\n\nYou have to go out of your way to roll your eyes. It is NOT gutteral or instinctual", ">\n\nIf you annoy me, my arm whips out in a natural reaction and slaps you.", ">\n\nSorry, kiddo, it’s 100% disrespectful. Just own the shit and quit trying to lawyer around it.\nI say that after having rolled my eyes so hard at your post, I travelled back in time.", ">\n\nTell that to my family lol you get the belt", ">\n\nThis was made my a 15 year old who just got told off by their mom about rolling their eyes. Then in defense said, “I can’t control it”", ">\n\nMan it's getting so aggressive sometimes here 😂", ">\n\ni certainly hope you are embarrassed about this in a couple years when you grow up.", ">\n\nOP is a habitual eye roller 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄", ">\n\nI wish to God we could block people by age, no more edgy 13yo’s", ">\n\nSomebody just got their ps5 taken away for rolling their eyes", ">\n\nTell me you're 12 without telling me you're 12.", ">\n\nit’s the definition of disrespectful and a sign that you have literally nothing intelligent to say in return. \nwhich is why we outgrow it as adults.", ">\n\nYou can control it. It’s not an “automatic response” unless you’ve taught yourself to do it. I never roll my eyes. It’s just not something I have ever practiced doing. And yes…if I’m saying something too you and you dismiss it with an eye roll…it’s super disrespectful.", ">\n\nrolling your eyes is just as respectful as sticking your tongue out at someone or making a stupid face in reaction to something someone says", ">\n\nIf you can’t control your eye movement, you need to see a neurologist, dude 😆. As it stands, eye rolling isn’t a reflex or a “natural reaction” to anything. Habits aren’t the same as involuntary reactions.\nRolling your eyes at someone is disrespectful. It’s an outward sign that you think something about your interaction with them was stupid or wrong. There’s no one here that will agree with you, and you know that you’re in the vast minority with this opinion because you posted it on this sub. Now learn some humility and accept that your opinion is factually incorrect based on science.", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nAre you like 14 and your mom got you in trouble cause you rolled your eyes at her? Lmao", ">\n\nI’m gonna show your mom this and it’s going to be another week of being grounded, you little shit lol", ">\n\nOmfg 😂", ">\n\nOP I have to ask.\n\n\nHow old are you?\n\n\nHow is your relationship with your parents?\n\n\nHow do you view authority figures in your life?", ">\n\nrolls eyes", ">\n\nIf you say or demand something stupid from me I will probably roll my eyes.", ">\n\nBut it is", ">\n\nJust like rolling your eyes is an innate response, so are other people's responses to you rolling your eyes.", ">\n\nSometimes being respectful requires hiding your subjective opinion on whether something is stupid or lame.", ">\n\nI wouldn’t say eye rolling is as involuntary as laughing or crying tho. It’s more of a choice.", ">\n\nIf someone rolls their eyes then I feel disrespected it’s a natural reaction.", ">\n\ntell me you're a teenager without telling me you're a teenager", ">\n\nI'm rolling my eyes at this post. And I definitely mean it disrespectfully.", ">\n\nLmao this kid had an argument with his parent(s) or teacher and is venting on Reddit.", ">\n\nYou sound like an eye rolling arsehole", ">\n\ni have never had an as a nonvoulentary action, it requires very explicit movement of you eye. this is like saying “when i dont like people, i punch them in the head, thats my natural reaction i cant control it”\ni have never once legitimately rolled my eyes at something, i think you might be an asshole", ">\n\nMe smacking your face is also an innate uncontrollable response to you rolling your eyes. I'm only human. What can I do? 🙄", ">\n\nI disagree. also there are a billion other ways to express something being stupid or lame than rolling ur eyes", ">\n\nStop downvoting, this is ACTUALLY a very unpopular opinion and I love to see it tbh. Voice your disagreement in the comments but don't downvote the post. This post is hilarious.", ">\n\nThis is something you’ve learned to do. It’s entirely in your control if you do it or not.", ">\n\nI once got a detention for rolling my eyes at a teacher in 4th grade.\nI agree with you, though. The only other person I've ever really rolled my eyes at was my mother, and she deserved it, every single time.", ">\n\nI get your point. I absolutely purposefully roll my eyes sometimes and whoever I'm doing it to would be valid for getting mad. \nBut as someone who can't hide any emotion on their face (literally any, I'm the definition of an open book) there have been plenty of times where people blew up at me or laughed because I rolled my eyes when I didn't even realize I had done it. Feel like the people disagreeing with you haven't experienced this problem.", ">\n\nWhat you've done is cultivate a bad habit and then blamed it on everyone else when you repeat your own bad habit unintentionally.\nThis is entirely your fault.", ">\n\nOnly on Reddit would someone so boldly declare something like this to a stranger. I'm on the spectrum so that might have to do with my not being able to hide any emotion (I truly mean that, people can basically read my thoughts just by looking at me, good and bad). \nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave. Consider working on that.", ">\n\nSo they point out you’re cultivating a bad habit and blaming other people so you then, blame them? It’s a little spot on don’t you think?", ">\n\nWhen did i blame them for my own actions? Could you quote me? I was just pointing out how weird it was that they made such a strong assumption of my character off a causal comment I left when they themselves were ironically being unnecessarily rude in the process. \nI don't know how you got so lost?", ">\n\n\nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave.\n\nClassic deflection and implication that they’re the one with the problem, not you", ">\n\nFirst its not automatic. I almost never rolled my eyes. Its much easier to control than laughing crying or sneezing. So you just dont make the effort. Its actually a way to express your feeling. You should know that, its your personnality not a human instinctive reaction. \nAnd yes not respecting something is disrespectful. Its not that hard to understand. \nAnyway if i see you.. i dont know having a breakdown after being fired and dumped and start to laugh you'd like that ? \nIf im sad because something good happens to you and show it to you, you would like that ? \nHonestly you are just trying to justify being a bit of a jerk. \nI dont blame you or anything we all are jerks sometime but its what you are doing right now.", ">\n\nI have to refocus my eyes and most of the time blinking doesn’t cut it. I have a lazy eye and when I look at someone for a long time it unfocuses, so moving the muscle is the only way to reset it. If I don’t, people start moving their heads/ bodies trying to focus on my lazy eye. It gets awkward.", ">\n\nThis is where I go to my training as a kid. What others think of you is none of your business.", ">\n\nUnless you have a tick or something like Tourette’s syndrome, then it’s not an involuntary response. Part of living in a society and not being considered rude is managing your body language.\nLet me put it this way. “Rudeness” in itself is a social concept. That means it’s decided by the perception of the masses, what we generally agree upon in terms of our symbols of communication, our customs, our beliefs, our values, etc. For you to say that rolling your eyes isn’t disrespectful is not objectively wrong. But according to the society you live in, it is wrong. In layman’s terms, the hill you’re dying on here is completely arbitrary, neither side will ever be truly correct but as long as you live in a society which feels this way then you will be beholden to it anyways.", ">\n\nTo be fair, if your thinking its stupid or lame, then that is dis-respect. I'd agree with this if it was worded like 'More people need to say what they truly think', but I think you sort of missed the mark, OP.", ">\n\nI am equally annoyed when folks rapidly blink and look away mid conversation or drop their arm dead against their thigh. It’s like you’ve given up an effort to even keep your body vertical and engaged while I’m talking to you.", ">\n\nOP getting downvoted AF & keeps commenting. Gotta love it.", ">\n\nIt is shown as a sign of disrespect and it shows weakness. I can’t imagine Gandhi, the queen of England or Einstein roll their eyes in front of random people. The reason why they were respected is because they didn’t play any superiority game on front of… inferiors or ignorant people. If something is stupid, get the patience and find enough love within yourself to treat the other ones right. \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a child because his question is “stupid”, what parent does it make you ? \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a bad question because you are an expert in a subject, then it is not your modesty that speaks but your ego. For proof : Even if someone you hate said something intelligent, you might want to roll your eyes just to flatter your ego.", ">\n\nIt's seen as disrespectful BECAUSE it's inadvertently telling them you think they're irritating/annoying.", ">\n\nI never roll my eyes? Is that something people do naturally?", ">\n\nAll depends on the context of what is going on.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is not a natural reaction?", ">\n\nNot maintaining basic self control is disrespectful. It's the same reason we don't defecate in public, sneeze on people, or stand in the way of foot traffic.", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s and one of my tics is eye rolling", ">\n\nK", ">\n\nI accidentally roll my eyes at people sometimes when I'm not even trying to", ">\n\nThe sign of a true unpopular opinion: Nobody upvoting it, but everybody commenting to say how they disagree. If you disagree, then give it an upvote. That's the point of this sub.", ">\n\nI think it depends.", ">\n\nThis had to be written by someone under the age of 25", ">\n\nRolling your eyes isn’t natural though. It’s cultural or socially learned if that makes sense. Like if you rolled your eyes at a tribe that is disconnected from society they wouldn’t understand that you’re annoyed. So you cant really compare it to laughing.", ">\n\nI'm kind of curious if this is true though. Are you assuming this, or do you have some kind of study proving this? I'd actually like to see if your hypothesis is true, or if remote tribes also use this facial gesture.", ">\n\nI’m assuming it. Back in my country Turkey if you rolled your eyes at my grandparents they would be confused and wonder what you were doing and what it meant.", ">\n\nit's a maturity thing, keep rolling your eyes at 30-40, everyone gonna see you like a kid. \nyou gotta control your emotions, there's no need to do a expression when something is stupid or lame, you got a mouth and you respectfully share what's wrong, if the person in the other end is reluctant to stay on the same boat even after you talk about it. then you don't roll your eyes, you gotta say that there's nothing more you can do, and that you don't agree with it, and most likely leave to dodge any sort of problem.", ">\n\nI have a tic where I constantly roll my eyes. I’ve had it since I was little, but never noticed it until years later when I high school teacher yelled at me for disrespect. Apparently my parents took me for evaluation when I was very young and diagnosed Tourette’s but never had any other tics develop. Would have been nice to know 🤦🏼‍♀️ I just apologize now and say it’s a compulsion if people ask. I don’t even know when I’m doing it", ">\n\nIs laughing disrespectful? Because it can be. Just like rolling your eyes can be. There is a time and place for everything", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a passive aggressive response. Passive aggression is a tactic used by meek people who are frustrated and don’t have the courage to address a given situation. It’s disrespectful and it lowers your standing in the social hierarchy.", ">\n\nGet back to me when Disney Dad actively encourages your offspring to roll their eyes at you.", ">\n\nYeah it is when I want to be disrespectful to someone I roll my eyes when they make a point. It might be annoying to them, but it also let's them know I don't give a shit about whatever they just said. Now, I would never to it to my boss, or my teachers while I was in college, but when I was a teen I did it all the time because I was an asshole, who didn't care. \nIt's not a natural reaction lmao, it is learned behavior and it can be a bad habit, but it can be unlearned.", ">\n\nSome people can’t control it I know with me sometimes I roll my eyes without meaning too it’s not that I’m trying to be rude it’s just something I didn’t even realize I was doing nor did I mean too", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nI have a friend who thinks like you do, which is based on your responses to the comments. He has very poor social skills and is on the autism spectrum", ">\n\nI bet you're lots of fun at parties OP.", ">\n\nI can’t tell if this is farming karma with ridiculous opinions or if this individual just has a really hard time understanding that maybe their parents aren’t always the bad guys.", ">\n\nYep, thats definitely an unpopular opinion! \nIts certainly disrespectful. And most certainly not some sort of involuntary response like a sneeze. It may feel that way to you, because you've done it so much - but there are plenty of people who don't do it. UNLIKE people who don't sneeze at pepper, or cough at dust. Like, you're just plain wrong on this one. Moreover, I think you're trying to justify/rationalize it yourself rather than address it in a healthy way - a marker suggesting you have some narcissistic tendencies.", ">\n\nWhat a stupid argument, take your upvote", ">\n\nIt’s a sign of contempt. The facial expression expert Dr. Eikman could predict how long a barrage would last based on 4 expressions and the frequency used when the couple was interviewed. Eye rolling was one.. in fact you could remove the others and still reasonably predict marriage failures.", ">\n\nI wish it wasn’t disrespectful, because as an expressive person I LOVE a good eye roll. But, it has gotten me into trouble. I do it without even knowing it. I hate that I do… I wish sometimes I could be stone cold. Just like a fish. One expression face only. Blank fish eyes staring into nothingness.\nMy favourite mug says, “I can’t help what my face does when you talk”. There is a reason the the mug is meant to be cheeky.", ">\n\nSeems disrespectful to me because my eyes don't roll on their own, it would be a conscious act.", ">\n\nThis is 100% based on the premis that you can’t control your eyes. Rolling your eyes isn’t a natural movement. You control it.\nLaughing and crying aren’t necessarily controllable.", ">\n\nIn addition to this:\nfinding something somebody said stupid isnt disrespectful - makin fun in an exaggerated way, call em out in a mean way, or think everything they're gonna say next is bs is the disrespectful part.", ">\n\nSo your reaction is because you think someone is stupid, but thinking they are stupid isn't disrespectful?", ">\n\nThis, i agree with", ">\n\nGuess my mom didn't get the memo.", ">\n\nI don't think rolling your eyes is natural. I did wrong all the way up until last year. Thought you were supposed to make your eyes go in a circular motion 😂" ]
> I don’t think rolling your eyes is a natural reaction the same way crying and laughing are. The only times I’ve rolled my eyes are when I intended to.	[ "🙄", ">\n\nYou’re grounded now", ">\n\nThe post above was someone getting electrocuted so this reply was very timely", ">\n\nThis news is shocking", ">\n\nIt definitely SPARKED my interest", ">\n\nAll of you guys need to leave, and not come back before learning how to conduct yourselves properly", ">\n\nUhhhh....... electricity", ">\n\nWell no, in the right context it is disrespectful. Rolling your eyes suggests that you're not taking the matter seriously or that you dont care which is a sign of disrespect towards whoever is speaking with you.", ">\n\nBut I can't control what I think. If I said \"man you're stupid and I don't care what you say\" thats disrespectful. I'm actually showing respect by not saying it.", ">\n\nI mean, actions speak louder than words, right?", ">\n\nIts not really an action tho its just an automatic response. Like gasping or yawning.", ">\n\nbullshit.\nSorry, it was an automatic response. Which is bullshit just like yours.", ">\n\nStill not the same thing. And they get on me for false analogies....", ">\n\nYou must be a teenager", ">\n\nLol how many times are you gonna post that. Dont you have an original thought of your own?", ">\n\nBruh I cant believe you make these posts. They're foolish", ">\n\nLaughing at someone can be disrespectful. Don't think so? Try laughing at someone's funeral.", ">\n\nThe disrespect comes from the one who told me a joke and made me laugh.", ">\n\nWhat about if no one said any joke? Because, you know, you are at a funeral.", ">\n\nSo someone's just there randomly laughing at shit? That sounds like a mental illness.", ">\n\nYou have never thought of something funny in your head to make yourself laugh? \nOr hell, maybe you didn't like the person who is buried and decided to laugh at them. You find it funny, so laughing must be appropriate, right?", ">\n\nWhy am I thinking about funny shit at a funeral.", ">\n\nBecause the universe likes to put us in uncomfortable positions sometimes.", ">\n\n“if its stupid or lame, you roll your eyes” - you found the disrespect", ">\n\nIm allowed to think whatever i want and its not disrespectful.", ">\n\nWhen you express contempt for something someone else said, it's disrespect.", ">\n\nWhat if what they said is contemptible?", ">\n\nSome people and comments deserve disrespect, still gonna be disrespect", ">\n\nLaughing, crying, and sneezing are all innate, involuntary reactions to certain types of stimuli. Rolling your eyes is a learned behavior. You can’t compare it to those other automatic responses because it’s not the same thing.", ">\n\nTake my upvote", ">\n\nOP rolled their eyes at someone and got chewed out for it.\nNow they're going online in an attempt to validate themselves.\n🙄", ">\n\nProbably got grounded.", ">\n\nPart of being a mature adult is to have self-control and not acting on every impulse and being respectful of people.", ">\n\n\nPart of being a mature adult\n\nYup but OP is clearly a teenager lol. They complain about being told off for doing chores wrong in another post…", ">\n\nEven a teenager should be able to have the fundamental basics of respect", ">\n\nOh I agree 100%", ">\n\nYou have poor self-control and poor self-awareness but the good news is that you can improve these things.", ">\n\n/r/wrongopinions", ">\n\nI feel like we need a new subreddit r/unpopularforareason", ">\n\nIt’s entire purpose is to be disrespectful. Nobody eyerolls something they respect. But how offensive it is depends on the context and how serious one is being.", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes\n\nYou rn: \"I'm not being disrespectful. I just thought what you said was stupid or lame.\"\n...", ">\n\nSaying its stupid could be disrespectful. A facial response is not.", ">\n\nLiterally every person in this thread agrees that it is.\nThis is your bad habit. Nobody else's responsibility but you.", ">\n\nThey can choose to not fly off the handle at what is just an innate reaction.", ">\n\nSo let me get this straight: you think you deserve to be able to disrespect whoever you like whenever you like but they can't as much as say you're being rude? Grow up.", ">\n\nFound the teenager.", ">\n\nMeh, I agree with that one. If you don't like how someone is doing something then do it yourself. There's a reason I live alone.", ">\n\nIt is a UNIVERSAL sign of disrespect. Globally. Deal with it.", ">\n\nLaughing can be disrespectuful too. If you cannot control your own reactions, well, what can I say, maybe you have not really grown up?", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s so it’s hard to control my own actions sometimes…", ">\n\nThank u I'm trying to explain how autism can make it hard to read not just others facial expressions but also ur own and it seems like no one has thought of the possibility that they acc don't realise it or csnt control it", ">\n\nWould you roll your eyes during a job interview if you thought a question was stupid or irrelevant? Do you think you’d get the job if you did?", ">\n\nPretty sure OP would think they were owed that job and they would think it’s ridiculous if they didn’t get it.\nOP is also a teenager going through their rebel phase though", ">\n\nYou're oddly specific here.", ">\n\nWhat was specific? Or rather oddly specific?", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a good way to fast track yourself to a divorce, if you want one.", ">\n\nI think OP needs the definition of respect before any further comment is made", ">\n\nOh I already know it, and I know it does not mean:\nDon't ever disagree with me\nDon't think bad thoughts about me\nDon't ever correct me when I'm blatantly wrong \nShine my boots with your tongue", ">\n\nSoooo this post isn’t about eye rolling is what I’m getting from this. You’ve got issues to work through with your parents or partner or something", ">\n\nSince when tf was eye rolling involuntary?", ">", ">\n\nYour lack of self control is not a justification for disrespect. I personally dont know anyone who reacts to anything by rolling their eyes. Just be mature and communicate.", ">\n\nAnd what if it's not stupid and someone rolls their eyes? Wouldn't it be disrespectful in that case?", ">\n\nIn the eye rollers opinion then it must have been. But you can't fault someone for thinking its stupid.", ">\n\nSo eyerolling is some kind of exceptional thing that is free from criticism? \nIf one has the freedom to eye roll, then someone else has the freedom to criticize the eye roller right? \nOr is it your opinion that besides that everyone who sees an eye roller has to just stfu", ">\n\nMeh, it is disrespectful. It's a way to be disrespectful without having to say That's the dumbest thing I've heard all month, and everyone else who heard it is also dumber for hearing it as well.", ">\n\nBut I didn't say it that's the point.", ">\n\nJust cuz you don’t use words doesn’t mean it’s not disrespectful. Walking away while someone is talking to you, rolling your eyes, slapping someone, and starting to play a game on your phone while someone is talking to you are all disrespectful. It doesn’t matter that you didn’t say anything, your lack of respect still showed.", ">\n\nespecially the way theyre responding to comments", ">\n\nYeah, a natural reaction if you’ve never learned to manage your emotions as opposed to letting them run your life. I’m not talking about being totally monotone rational, either. You need to learn a balance between rational and emotional…which includes healthy, appropriate, respectful expression of honest feelings. Eye rolling is absolutely disrespectful, belittling, and dismissive.", ">\n\nComments: OP is completely wrong and has attitude issues", ">\n\nWhat sounds like mental illness is you refusing to admit that rolling your eyes is simply not an unconditional response. Whether you want to believe it or not, you are doing it intentionally and you can control it. \nYou’re just to much of a b—— to do so.", ">\n\nSame to you", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a learned reaction. Not natural. I rarely of ever roll my eyes at anything.", ">", ">\n\nJust like raising your middle finger. Or vocalizing the sounds \"fuck you\". Or fingers typing the words fuck you OP. Nothing is disrespectful!", ">\n\nNice try but not the same thing at all. You're talking about thought out actions here. The eye roll is more like a reaction. Its quick, its automatic, no one has to think \"im rolling my eyes now\" it just happens. \nSort of like when telling a lie - no one decides to have their eyes dart around suspiciously, it just happens.", ">\n\nNo. Rolling your eyes is not involuntary. It can be controlled. You have a bad habit that you CAN stop. Much like a child learning not to suck their thumb, or biting your nails.", ">\n\nHow about you start with your hair scratching", ">\n\nYour opinion is a contradiction in itself. And, yeah. I disagree. Rolling your eyes is 100% to show lack of respect, and you have no intentions of showing it, even to reason, by rolling your eyes at something someone could believe is meaningful or important. Even if it is stupid.\nI get your point, we roll our eyes to express how we feel, but it is still a physical snare. You say rolling your eyes isn't disrespectful, while saying it's okay to roll your eyes because something is \" stupid or lame\", which in itself is disrespectful. You sound like a very young person in the middle of a learning moment, and you're trying to react with rebellion. It only shows that you lack maturity and are in need of growth. This might be a time for you to read these comments and reevaluate. There are healthier ways to react to things you disagree with, or lack interest in. If not, you can just accept that you roll your eyes to show lack of respect.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is much more deliberate than laughter, tears, or sneezing. It's a conscious action in response to a judgement you're making.", ">\n\nNah, dude it is disrespectful \nYou just have no self control and by the looks of it you don't want to build some", ">\n\nYour post made me roll my eyes very hard.", ">\n\n“No, officer, my wife - she MADE me hit her!”", ">\n\nIt's a natural reaction for a sooky kid but not an adult, if you do that as an adult you just manchild that wants everything their way", ">\n\npoor OP.... did you get in trouble after you rolled your eyes at something again? did you not prehaps learn from previous interactions? rolling your eyes at something \"stupid or lame\" is an intentional response that is disrespectful to whatever it is. mature people dont act that way.....", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes.\n\nSo it is disrespectful. \n\nIts like throwing pepper in someone's face an expecting them not to sneeze.\n\nNo it’s not. You can easily (edited in) refrain from rolling your eyes, while it’s much more difficult to refrain from sneezing. \nIt’s fine to think whatever you want, but you might want to refrain from rolling your eyes when you’re, say, interacting with your boss; aka someone that can make you unemployed for whatever reason they please.", ">\n\nThis isn't an opinion. It's just flat wrong. \nIt is disrespectful because it is a conscious signifier which clearly communicated that you think that the thing you are rolling your eyes at is not worthy of respect.", ">\n\nYou have to go out of your way to roll your eyes. It is NOT gutteral or instinctual", ">\n\nIf you annoy me, my arm whips out in a natural reaction and slaps you.", ">\n\nSorry, kiddo, it’s 100% disrespectful. Just own the shit and quit trying to lawyer around it.\nI say that after having rolled my eyes so hard at your post, I travelled back in time.", ">\n\nTell that to my family lol you get the belt", ">\n\nThis was made my a 15 year old who just got told off by their mom about rolling their eyes. Then in defense said, “I can’t control it”", ">\n\nMan it's getting so aggressive sometimes here 😂", ">\n\ni certainly hope you are embarrassed about this in a couple years when you grow up.", ">\n\nOP is a habitual eye roller 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄", ">\n\nI wish to God we could block people by age, no more edgy 13yo’s", ">\n\nSomebody just got their ps5 taken away for rolling their eyes", ">\n\nTell me you're 12 without telling me you're 12.", ">\n\nit’s the definition of disrespectful and a sign that you have literally nothing intelligent to say in return. \nwhich is why we outgrow it as adults.", ">\n\nYou can control it. It’s not an “automatic response” unless you’ve taught yourself to do it. I never roll my eyes. It’s just not something I have ever practiced doing. And yes…if I’m saying something too you and you dismiss it with an eye roll…it’s super disrespectful.", ">\n\nrolling your eyes is just as respectful as sticking your tongue out at someone or making a stupid face in reaction to something someone says", ">\n\nIf you can’t control your eye movement, you need to see a neurologist, dude 😆. As it stands, eye rolling isn’t a reflex or a “natural reaction” to anything. Habits aren’t the same as involuntary reactions.\nRolling your eyes at someone is disrespectful. It’s an outward sign that you think something about your interaction with them was stupid or wrong. There’s no one here that will agree with you, and you know that you’re in the vast minority with this opinion because you posted it on this sub. Now learn some humility and accept that your opinion is factually incorrect based on science.", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nAre you like 14 and your mom got you in trouble cause you rolled your eyes at her? Lmao", ">\n\nI’m gonna show your mom this and it’s going to be another week of being grounded, you little shit lol", ">\n\nOmfg 😂", ">\n\nOP I have to ask.\n\n\nHow old are you?\n\n\nHow is your relationship with your parents?\n\n\nHow do you view authority figures in your life?", ">\n\nrolls eyes", ">\n\nIf you say or demand something stupid from me I will probably roll my eyes.", ">\n\nBut it is", ">\n\nJust like rolling your eyes is an innate response, so are other people's responses to you rolling your eyes.", ">\n\nSometimes being respectful requires hiding your subjective opinion on whether something is stupid or lame.", ">\n\nI wouldn’t say eye rolling is as involuntary as laughing or crying tho. It’s more of a choice.", ">\n\nIf someone rolls their eyes then I feel disrespected it’s a natural reaction.", ">\n\ntell me you're a teenager without telling me you're a teenager", ">\n\nI'm rolling my eyes at this post. And I definitely mean it disrespectfully.", ">\n\nLmao this kid had an argument with his parent(s) or teacher and is venting on Reddit.", ">\n\nYou sound like an eye rolling arsehole", ">\n\ni have never had an as a nonvoulentary action, it requires very explicit movement of you eye. this is like saying “when i dont like people, i punch them in the head, thats my natural reaction i cant control it”\ni have never once legitimately rolled my eyes at something, i think you might be an asshole", ">\n\nMe smacking your face is also an innate uncontrollable response to you rolling your eyes. I'm only human. What can I do? 🙄", ">\n\nI disagree. also there are a billion other ways to express something being stupid or lame than rolling ur eyes", ">\n\nStop downvoting, this is ACTUALLY a very unpopular opinion and I love to see it tbh. Voice your disagreement in the comments but don't downvote the post. This post is hilarious.", ">\n\nThis is something you’ve learned to do. It’s entirely in your control if you do it or not.", ">\n\nI once got a detention for rolling my eyes at a teacher in 4th grade.\nI agree with you, though. The only other person I've ever really rolled my eyes at was my mother, and she deserved it, every single time.", ">\n\nI get your point. I absolutely purposefully roll my eyes sometimes and whoever I'm doing it to would be valid for getting mad. \nBut as someone who can't hide any emotion on their face (literally any, I'm the definition of an open book) there have been plenty of times where people blew up at me or laughed because I rolled my eyes when I didn't even realize I had done it. Feel like the people disagreeing with you haven't experienced this problem.", ">\n\nWhat you've done is cultivate a bad habit and then blamed it on everyone else when you repeat your own bad habit unintentionally.\nThis is entirely your fault.", ">\n\nOnly on Reddit would someone so boldly declare something like this to a stranger. I'm on the spectrum so that might have to do with my not being able to hide any emotion (I truly mean that, people can basically read my thoughts just by looking at me, good and bad). \nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave. Consider working on that.", ">\n\nSo they point out you’re cultivating a bad habit and blaming other people so you then, blame them? It’s a little spot on don’t you think?", ">\n\nWhen did i blame them for my own actions? Could you quote me? I was just pointing out how weird it was that they made such a strong assumption of my character off a causal comment I left when they themselves were ironically being unnecessarily rude in the process. \nI don't know how you got so lost?", ">\n\n\nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave.\n\nClassic deflection and implication that they’re the one with the problem, not you", ">\n\nFirst its not automatic. I almost never rolled my eyes. Its much easier to control than laughing crying or sneezing. So you just dont make the effort. Its actually a way to express your feeling. You should know that, its your personnality not a human instinctive reaction. \nAnd yes not respecting something is disrespectful. Its not that hard to understand. \nAnyway if i see you.. i dont know having a breakdown after being fired and dumped and start to laugh you'd like that ? \nIf im sad because something good happens to you and show it to you, you would like that ? \nHonestly you are just trying to justify being a bit of a jerk. \nI dont blame you or anything we all are jerks sometime but its what you are doing right now.", ">\n\nI have to refocus my eyes and most of the time blinking doesn’t cut it. I have a lazy eye and when I look at someone for a long time it unfocuses, so moving the muscle is the only way to reset it. If I don’t, people start moving their heads/ bodies trying to focus on my lazy eye. It gets awkward.", ">\n\nThis is where I go to my training as a kid. What others think of you is none of your business.", ">\n\nUnless you have a tick or something like Tourette’s syndrome, then it’s not an involuntary response. Part of living in a society and not being considered rude is managing your body language.\nLet me put it this way. “Rudeness” in itself is a social concept. That means it’s decided by the perception of the masses, what we generally agree upon in terms of our symbols of communication, our customs, our beliefs, our values, etc. For you to say that rolling your eyes isn’t disrespectful is not objectively wrong. But according to the society you live in, it is wrong. In layman’s terms, the hill you’re dying on here is completely arbitrary, neither side will ever be truly correct but as long as you live in a society which feels this way then you will be beholden to it anyways.", ">\n\nTo be fair, if your thinking its stupid or lame, then that is dis-respect. I'd agree with this if it was worded like 'More people need to say what they truly think', but I think you sort of missed the mark, OP.", ">\n\nI am equally annoyed when folks rapidly blink and look away mid conversation or drop their arm dead against their thigh. It’s like you’ve given up an effort to even keep your body vertical and engaged while I’m talking to you.", ">\n\nOP getting downvoted AF & keeps commenting. Gotta love it.", ">\n\nIt is shown as a sign of disrespect and it shows weakness. I can’t imagine Gandhi, the queen of England or Einstein roll their eyes in front of random people. The reason why they were respected is because they didn’t play any superiority game on front of… inferiors or ignorant people. If something is stupid, get the patience and find enough love within yourself to treat the other ones right. \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a child because his question is “stupid”, what parent does it make you ? \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a bad question because you are an expert in a subject, then it is not your modesty that speaks but your ego. For proof : Even if someone you hate said something intelligent, you might want to roll your eyes just to flatter your ego.", ">\n\nIt's seen as disrespectful BECAUSE it's inadvertently telling them you think they're irritating/annoying.", ">\n\nI never roll my eyes? Is that something people do naturally?", ">\n\nAll depends on the context of what is going on.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is not a natural reaction?", ">\n\nNot maintaining basic self control is disrespectful. It's the same reason we don't defecate in public, sneeze on people, or stand in the way of foot traffic.", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s and one of my tics is eye rolling", ">\n\nK", ">\n\nI accidentally roll my eyes at people sometimes when I'm not even trying to", ">\n\nThe sign of a true unpopular opinion: Nobody upvoting it, but everybody commenting to say how they disagree. If you disagree, then give it an upvote. That's the point of this sub.", ">\n\nI think it depends.", ">\n\nThis had to be written by someone under the age of 25", ">\n\nRolling your eyes isn’t natural though. It’s cultural or socially learned if that makes sense. Like if you rolled your eyes at a tribe that is disconnected from society they wouldn’t understand that you’re annoyed. So you cant really compare it to laughing.", ">\n\nI'm kind of curious if this is true though. Are you assuming this, or do you have some kind of study proving this? I'd actually like to see if your hypothesis is true, or if remote tribes also use this facial gesture.", ">\n\nI’m assuming it. Back in my country Turkey if you rolled your eyes at my grandparents they would be confused and wonder what you were doing and what it meant.", ">\n\nit's a maturity thing, keep rolling your eyes at 30-40, everyone gonna see you like a kid. \nyou gotta control your emotions, there's no need to do a expression when something is stupid or lame, you got a mouth and you respectfully share what's wrong, if the person in the other end is reluctant to stay on the same boat even after you talk about it. then you don't roll your eyes, you gotta say that there's nothing more you can do, and that you don't agree with it, and most likely leave to dodge any sort of problem.", ">\n\nI have a tic where I constantly roll my eyes. I’ve had it since I was little, but never noticed it until years later when I high school teacher yelled at me for disrespect. Apparently my parents took me for evaluation when I was very young and diagnosed Tourette’s but never had any other tics develop. Would have been nice to know 🤦🏼‍♀️ I just apologize now and say it’s a compulsion if people ask. I don’t even know when I’m doing it", ">\n\nIs laughing disrespectful? Because it can be. Just like rolling your eyes can be. There is a time and place for everything", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a passive aggressive response. Passive aggression is a tactic used by meek people who are frustrated and don’t have the courage to address a given situation. It’s disrespectful and it lowers your standing in the social hierarchy.", ">\n\nGet back to me when Disney Dad actively encourages your offspring to roll their eyes at you.", ">\n\nYeah it is when I want to be disrespectful to someone I roll my eyes when they make a point. It might be annoying to them, but it also let's them know I don't give a shit about whatever they just said. Now, I would never to it to my boss, or my teachers while I was in college, but when I was a teen I did it all the time because I was an asshole, who didn't care. \nIt's not a natural reaction lmao, it is learned behavior and it can be a bad habit, but it can be unlearned.", ">\n\nSome people can’t control it I know with me sometimes I roll my eyes without meaning too it’s not that I’m trying to be rude it’s just something I didn’t even realize I was doing nor did I mean too", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nI have a friend who thinks like you do, which is based on your responses to the comments. He has very poor social skills and is on the autism spectrum", ">\n\nI bet you're lots of fun at parties OP.", ">\n\nI can’t tell if this is farming karma with ridiculous opinions or if this individual just has a really hard time understanding that maybe their parents aren’t always the bad guys.", ">\n\nYep, thats definitely an unpopular opinion! \nIts certainly disrespectful. And most certainly not some sort of involuntary response like a sneeze. It may feel that way to you, because you've done it so much - but there are plenty of people who don't do it. UNLIKE people who don't sneeze at pepper, or cough at dust. Like, you're just plain wrong on this one. Moreover, I think you're trying to justify/rationalize it yourself rather than address it in a healthy way - a marker suggesting you have some narcissistic tendencies.", ">\n\nWhat a stupid argument, take your upvote", ">\n\nIt’s a sign of contempt. The facial expression expert Dr. Eikman could predict how long a barrage would last based on 4 expressions and the frequency used when the couple was interviewed. Eye rolling was one.. in fact you could remove the others and still reasonably predict marriage failures.", ">\n\nI wish it wasn’t disrespectful, because as an expressive person I LOVE a good eye roll. But, it has gotten me into trouble. I do it without even knowing it. I hate that I do… I wish sometimes I could be stone cold. Just like a fish. One expression face only. Blank fish eyes staring into nothingness.\nMy favourite mug says, “I can’t help what my face does when you talk”. There is a reason the the mug is meant to be cheeky.", ">\n\nSeems disrespectful to me because my eyes don't roll on their own, it would be a conscious act.", ">\n\nThis is 100% based on the premis that you can’t control your eyes. Rolling your eyes isn’t a natural movement. You control it.\nLaughing and crying aren’t necessarily controllable.", ">\n\nIn addition to this:\nfinding something somebody said stupid isnt disrespectful - makin fun in an exaggerated way, call em out in a mean way, or think everything they're gonna say next is bs is the disrespectful part.", ">\n\nSo your reaction is because you think someone is stupid, but thinking they are stupid isn't disrespectful?", ">\n\nThis, i agree with", ">\n\nGuess my mom didn't get the memo.", ">\n\nI don't think rolling your eyes is natural. I did wrong all the way up until last year. Thought you were supposed to make your eyes go in a circular motion 😂", ">\n\nFr. I may be able to control what I say…but my face will always show how I feel😂can’t help it and I’m tired of fake apologizing for it." ]
> When my dad was/is drunk and angry he does it. Disrespectful and does not feel nice.	[ "🙄", ">\n\nYou’re grounded now", ">\n\nThe post above was someone getting electrocuted so this reply was very timely", ">\n\nThis news is shocking", ">\n\nIt definitely SPARKED my interest", ">\n\nAll of you guys need to leave, and not come back before learning how to conduct yourselves properly", ">\n\nUhhhh....... electricity", ">\n\nWell no, in the right context it is disrespectful. Rolling your eyes suggests that you're not taking the matter seriously or that you dont care which is a sign of disrespect towards whoever is speaking with you.", ">\n\nBut I can't control what I think. If I said \"man you're stupid and I don't care what you say\" thats disrespectful. I'm actually showing respect by not saying it.", ">\n\nI mean, actions speak louder than words, right?", ">\n\nIts not really an action tho its just an automatic response. Like gasping or yawning.", ">\n\nbullshit.\nSorry, it was an automatic response. Which is bullshit just like yours.", ">\n\nStill not the same thing. And they get on me for false analogies....", ">\n\nYou must be a teenager", ">\n\nLol how many times are you gonna post that. Dont you have an original thought of your own?", ">\n\nBruh I cant believe you make these posts. They're foolish", ">\n\nLaughing at someone can be disrespectful. Don't think so? Try laughing at someone's funeral.", ">\n\nThe disrespect comes from the one who told me a joke and made me laugh.", ">\n\nWhat about if no one said any joke? Because, you know, you are at a funeral.", ">\n\nSo someone's just there randomly laughing at shit? That sounds like a mental illness.", ">\n\nYou have never thought of something funny in your head to make yourself laugh? \nOr hell, maybe you didn't like the person who is buried and decided to laugh at them. You find it funny, so laughing must be appropriate, right?", ">\n\nWhy am I thinking about funny shit at a funeral.", ">\n\nBecause the universe likes to put us in uncomfortable positions sometimes.", ">\n\n“if its stupid or lame, you roll your eyes” - you found the disrespect", ">\n\nIm allowed to think whatever i want and its not disrespectful.", ">\n\nWhen you express contempt for something someone else said, it's disrespect.", ">\n\nWhat if what they said is contemptible?", ">\n\nSome people and comments deserve disrespect, still gonna be disrespect", ">\n\nLaughing, crying, and sneezing are all innate, involuntary reactions to certain types of stimuli. Rolling your eyes is a learned behavior. You can’t compare it to those other automatic responses because it’s not the same thing.", ">\n\nTake my upvote", ">\n\nOP rolled their eyes at someone and got chewed out for it.\nNow they're going online in an attempt to validate themselves.\n🙄", ">\n\nProbably got grounded.", ">\n\nPart of being a mature adult is to have self-control and not acting on every impulse and being respectful of people.", ">\n\n\nPart of being a mature adult\n\nYup but OP is clearly a teenager lol. They complain about being told off for doing chores wrong in another post…", ">\n\nEven a teenager should be able to have the fundamental basics of respect", ">\n\nOh I agree 100%", ">\n\nYou have poor self-control and poor self-awareness but the good news is that you can improve these things.", ">\n\n/r/wrongopinions", ">\n\nI feel like we need a new subreddit r/unpopularforareason", ">\n\nIt’s entire purpose is to be disrespectful. Nobody eyerolls something they respect. But how offensive it is depends on the context and how serious one is being.", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes\n\nYou rn: \"I'm not being disrespectful. I just thought what you said was stupid or lame.\"\n...", ">\n\nSaying its stupid could be disrespectful. A facial response is not.", ">\n\nLiterally every person in this thread agrees that it is.\nThis is your bad habit. Nobody else's responsibility but you.", ">\n\nThey can choose to not fly off the handle at what is just an innate reaction.", ">\n\nSo let me get this straight: you think you deserve to be able to disrespect whoever you like whenever you like but they can't as much as say you're being rude? Grow up.", ">\n\nFound the teenager.", ">\n\nMeh, I agree with that one. If you don't like how someone is doing something then do it yourself. There's a reason I live alone.", ">\n\nIt is a UNIVERSAL sign of disrespect. Globally. Deal with it.", ">\n\nLaughing can be disrespectuful too. If you cannot control your own reactions, well, what can I say, maybe you have not really grown up?", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s so it’s hard to control my own actions sometimes…", ">\n\nThank u I'm trying to explain how autism can make it hard to read not just others facial expressions but also ur own and it seems like no one has thought of the possibility that they acc don't realise it or csnt control it", ">\n\nWould you roll your eyes during a job interview if you thought a question was stupid or irrelevant? Do you think you’d get the job if you did?", ">\n\nPretty sure OP would think they were owed that job and they would think it’s ridiculous if they didn’t get it.\nOP is also a teenager going through their rebel phase though", ">\n\nYou're oddly specific here.", ">\n\nWhat was specific? Or rather oddly specific?", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a good way to fast track yourself to a divorce, if you want one.", ">\n\nI think OP needs the definition of respect before any further comment is made", ">\n\nOh I already know it, and I know it does not mean:\nDon't ever disagree with me\nDon't think bad thoughts about me\nDon't ever correct me when I'm blatantly wrong \nShine my boots with your tongue", ">\n\nSoooo this post isn’t about eye rolling is what I’m getting from this. You’ve got issues to work through with your parents or partner or something", ">\n\nSince when tf was eye rolling involuntary?", ">", ">\n\nYour lack of self control is not a justification for disrespect. I personally dont know anyone who reacts to anything by rolling their eyes. Just be mature and communicate.", ">\n\nAnd what if it's not stupid and someone rolls their eyes? Wouldn't it be disrespectful in that case?", ">\n\nIn the eye rollers opinion then it must have been. But you can't fault someone for thinking its stupid.", ">\n\nSo eyerolling is some kind of exceptional thing that is free from criticism? \nIf one has the freedom to eye roll, then someone else has the freedom to criticize the eye roller right? \nOr is it your opinion that besides that everyone who sees an eye roller has to just stfu", ">\n\nMeh, it is disrespectful. It's a way to be disrespectful without having to say That's the dumbest thing I've heard all month, and everyone else who heard it is also dumber for hearing it as well.", ">\n\nBut I didn't say it that's the point.", ">\n\nJust cuz you don’t use words doesn’t mean it’s not disrespectful. Walking away while someone is talking to you, rolling your eyes, slapping someone, and starting to play a game on your phone while someone is talking to you are all disrespectful. It doesn’t matter that you didn’t say anything, your lack of respect still showed.", ">\n\nespecially the way theyre responding to comments", ">\n\nYeah, a natural reaction if you’ve never learned to manage your emotions as opposed to letting them run your life. I’m not talking about being totally monotone rational, either. You need to learn a balance between rational and emotional…which includes healthy, appropriate, respectful expression of honest feelings. Eye rolling is absolutely disrespectful, belittling, and dismissive.", ">\n\nComments: OP is completely wrong and has attitude issues", ">\n\nWhat sounds like mental illness is you refusing to admit that rolling your eyes is simply not an unconditional response. Whether you want to believe it or not, you are doing it intentionally and you can control it. \nYou’re just to much of a b—— to do so.", ">\n\nSame to you", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a learned reaction. Not natural. I rarely of ever roll my eyes at anything.", ">", ">\n\nJust like raising your middle finger. Or vocalizing the sounds \"fuck you\". Or fingers typing the words fuck you OP. Nothing is disrespectful!", ">\n\nNice try but not the same thing at all. You're talking about thought out actions here. The eye roll is more like a reaction. Its quick, its automatic, no one has to think \"im rolling my eyes now\" it just happens. \nSort of like when telling a lie - no one decides to have their eyes dart around suspiciously, it just happens.", ">\n\nNo. Rolling your eyes is not involuntary. It can be controlled. You have a bad habit that you CAN stop. Much like a child learning not to suck their thumb, or biting your nails.", ">\n\nHow about you start with your hair scratching", ">\n\nYour opinion is a contradiction in itself. And, yeah. I disagree. Rolling your eyes is 100% to show lack of respect, and you have no intentions of showing it, even to reason, by rolling your eyes at something someone could believe is meaningful or important. Even if it is stupid.\nI get your point, we roll our eyes to express how we feel, but it is still a physical snare. You say rolling your eyes isn't disrespectful, while saying it's okay to roll your eyes because something is \" stupid or lame\", which in itself is disrespectful. You sound like a very young person in the middle of a learning moment, and you're trying to react with rebellion. It only shows that you lack maturity and are in need of growth. This might be a time for you to read these comments and reevaluate. There are healthier ways to react to things you disagree with, or lack interest in. If not, you can just accept that you roll your eyes to show lack of respect.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is much more deliberate than laughter, tears, or sneezing. It's a conscious action in response to a judgement you're making.", ">\n\nNah, dude it is disrespectful \nYou just have no self control and by the looks of it you don't want to build some", ">\n\nYour post made me roll my eyes very hard.", ">\n\n“No, officer, my wife - she MADE me hit her!”", ">\n\nIt's a natural reaction for a sooky kid but not an adult, if you do that as an adult you just manchild that wants everything their way", ">\n\npoor OP.... did you get in trouble after you rolled your eyes at something again? did you not prehaps learn from previous interactions? rolling your eyes at something \"stupid or lame\" is an intentional response that is disrespectful to whatever it is. mature people dont act that way.....", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes.\n\nSo it is disrespectful. \n\nIts like throwing pepper in someone's face an expecting them not to sneeze.\n\nNo it’s not. You can easily (edited in) refrain from rolling your eyes, while it’s much more difficult to refrain from sneezing. \nIt’s fine to think whatever you want, but you might want to refrain from rolling your eyes when you’re, say, interacting with your boss; aka someone that can make you unemployed for whatever reason they please.", ">\n\nThis isn't an opinion. It's just flat wrong. \nIt is disrespectful because it is a conscious signifier which clearly communicated that you think that the thing you are rolling your eyes at is not worthy of respect.", ">\n\nYou have to go out of your way to roll your eyes. It is NOT gutteral or instinctual", ">\n\nIf you annoy me, my arm whips out in a natural reaction and slaps you.", ">\n\nSorry, kiddo, it’s 100% disrespectful. Just own the shit and quit trying to lawyer around it.\nI say that after having rolled my eyes so hard at your post, I travelled back in time.", ">\n\nTell that to my family lol you get the belt", ">\n\nThis was made my a 15 year old who just got told off by their mom about rolling their eyes. Then in defense said, “I can’t control it”", ">\n\nMan it's getting so aggressive sometimes here 😂", ">\n\ni certainly hope you are embarrassed about this in a couple years when you grow up.", ">\n\nOP is a habitual eye roller 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄", ">\n\nI wish to God we could block people by age, no more edgy 13yo’s", ">\n\nSomebody just got their ps5 taken away for rolling their eyes", ">\n\nTell me you're 12 without telling me you're 12.", ">\n\nit’s the definition of disrespectful and a sign that you have literally nothing intelligent to say in return. \nwhich is why we outgrow it as adults.", ">\n\nYou can control it. It’s not an “automatic response” unless you’ve taught yourself to do it. I never roll my eyes. It’s just not something I have ever practiced doing. And yes…if I’m saying something too you and you dismiss it with an eye roll…it’s super disrespectful.", ">\n\nrolling your eyes is just as respectful as sticking your tongue out at someone or making a stupid face in reaction to something someone says", ">\n\nIf you can’t control your eye movement, you need to see a neurologist, dude 😆. As it stands, eye rolling isn’t a reflex or a “natural reaction” to anything. Habits aren’t the same as involuntary reactions.\nRolling your eyes at someone is disrespectful. It’s an outward sign that you think something about your interaction with them was stupid or wrong. There’s no one here that will agree with you, and you know that you’re in the vast minority with this opinion because you posted it on this sub. Now learn some humility and accept that your opinion is factually incorrect based on science.", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nAre you like 14 and your mom got you in trouble cause you rolled your eyes at her? Lmao", ">\n\nI’m gonna show your mom this and it’s going to be another week of being grounded, you little shit lol", ">\n\nOmfg 😂", ">\n\nOP I have to ask.\n\n\nHow old are you?\n\n\nHow is your relationship with your parents?\n\n\nHow do you view authority figures in your life?", ">\n\nrolls eyes", ">\n\nIf you say or demand something stupid from me I will probably roll my eyes.", ">\n\nBut it is", ">\n\nJust like rolling your eyes is an innate response, so are other people's responses to you rolling your eyes.", ">\n\nSometimes being respectful requires hiding your subjective opinion on whether something is stupid or lame.", ">\n\nI wouldn’t say eye rolling is as involuntary as laughing or crying tho. It’s more of a choice.", ">\n\nIf someone rolls their eyes then I feel disrespected it’s a natural reaction.", ">\n\ntell me you're a teenager without telling me you're a teenager", ">\n\nI'm rolling my eyes at this post. And I definitely mean it disrespectfully.", ">\n\nLmao this kid had an argument with his parent(s) or teacher and is venting on Reddit.", ">\n\nYou sound like an eye rolling arsehole", ">\n\ni have never had an as a nonvoulentary action, it requires very explicit movement of you eye. this is like saying “when i dont like people, i punch them in the head, thats my natural reaction i cant control it”\ni have never once legitimately rolled my eyes at something, i think you might be an asshole", ">\n\nMe smacking your face is also an innate uncontrollable response to you rolling your eyes. I'm only human. What can I do? 🙄", ">\n\nI disagree. also there are a billion other ways to express something being stupid or lame than rolling ur eyes", ">\n\nStop downvoting, this is ACTUALLY a very unpopular opinion and I love to see it tbh. Voice your disagreement in the comments but don't downvote the post. This post is hilarious.", ">\n\nThis is something you’ve learned to do. It’s entirely in your control if you do it or not.", ">\n\nI once got a detention for rolling my eyes at a teacher in 4th grade.\nI agree with you, though. The only other person I've ever really rolled my eyes at was my mother, and she deserved it, every single time.", ">\n\nI get your point. I absolutely purposefully roll my eyes sometimes and whoever I'm doing it to would be valid for getting mad. \nBut as someone who can't hide any emotion on their face (literally any, I'm the definition of an open book) there have been plenty of times where people blew up at me or laughed because I rolled my eyes when I didn't even realize I had done it. Feel like the people disagreeing with you haven't experienced this problem.", ">\n\nWhat you've done is cultivate a bad habit and then blamed it on everyone else when you repeat your own bad habit unintentionally.\nThis is entirely your fault.", ">\n\nOnly on Reddit would someone so boldly declare something like this to a stranger. I'm on the spectrum so that might have to do with my not being able to hide any emotion (I truly mean that, people can basically read my thoughts just by looking at me, good and bad). \nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave. Consider working on that.", ">\n\nSo they point out you’re cultivating a bad habit and blaming other people so you then, blame them? It’s a little spot on don’t you think?", ">\n\nWhen did i blame them for my own actions? Could you quote me? I was just pointing out how weird it was that they made such a strong assumption of my character off a causal comment I left when they themselves were ironically being unnecessarily rude in the process. \nI don't know how you got so lost?", ">\n\n\nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave.\n\nClassic deflection and implication that they’re the one with the problem, not you", ">\n\nFirst its not automatic. I almost never rolled my eyes. Its much easier to control than laughing crying or sneezing. So you just dont make the effort. Its actually a way to express your feeling. You should know that, its your personnality not a human instinctive reaction. \nAnd yes not respecting something is disrespectful. Its not that hard to understand. \nAnyway if i see you.. i dont know having a breakdown after being fired and dumped and start to laugh you'd like that ? \nIf im sad because something good happens to you and show it to you, you would like that ? \nHonestly you are just trying to justify being a bit of a jerk. \nI dont blame you or anything we all are jerks sometime but its what you are doing right now.", ">\n\nI have to refocus my eyes and most of the time blinking doesn’t cut it. I have a lazy eye and when I look at someone for a long time it unfocuses, so moving the muscle is the only way to reset it. If I don’t, people start moving their heads/ bodies trying to focus on my lazy eye. It gets awkward.", ">\n\nThis is where I go to my training as a kid. What others think of you is none of your business.", ">\n\nUnless you have a tick or something like Tourette’s syndrome, then it’s not an involuntary response. Part of living in a society and not being considered rude is managing your body language.\nLet me put it this way. “Rudeness” in itself is a social concept. That means it’s decided by the perception of the masses, what we generally agree upon in terms of our symbols of communication, our customs, our beliefs, our values, etc. For you to say that rolling your eyes isn’t disrespectful is not objectively wrong. But according to the society you live in, it is wrong. In layman’s terms, the hill you’re dying on here is completely arbitrary, neither side will ever be truly correct but as long as you live in a society which feels this way then you will be beholden to it anyways.", ">\n\nTo be fair, if your thinking its stupid or lame, then that is dis-respect. I'd agree with this if it was worded like 'More people need to say what they truly think', but I think you sort of missed the mark, OP.", ">\n\nI am equally annoyed when folks rapidly blink and look away mid conversation or drop their arm dead against their thigh. It’s like you’ve given up an effort to even keep your body vertical and engaged while I’m talking to you.", ">\n\nOP getting downvoted AF & keeps commenting. Gotta love it.", ">\n\nIt is shown as a sign of disrespect and it shows weakness. I can’t imagine Gandhi, the queen of England or Einstein roll their eyes in front of random people. The reason why they were respected is because they didn’t play any superiority game on front of… inferiors or ignorant people. If something is stupid, get the patience and find enough love within yourself to treat the other ones right. \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a child because his question is “stupid”, what parent does it make you ? \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a bad question because you are an expert in a subject, then it is not your modesty that speaks but your ego. For proof : Even if someone you hate said something intelligent, you might want to roll your eyes just to flatter your ego.", ">\n\nIt's seen as disrespectful BECAUSE it's inadvertently telling them you think they're irritating/annoying.", ">\n\nI never roll my eyes? Is that something people do naturally?", ">\n\nAll depends on the context of what is going on.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is not a natural reaction?", ">\n\nNot maintaining basic self control is disrespectful. It's the same reason we don't defecate in public, sneeze on people, or stand in the way of foot traffic.", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s and one of my tics is eye rolling", ">\n\nK", ">\n\nI accidentally roll my eyes at people sometimes when I'm not even trying to", ">\n\nThe sign of a true unpopular opinion: Nobody upvoting it, but everybody commenting to say how they disagree. If you disagree, then give it an upvote. That's the point of this sub.", ">\n\nI think it depends.", ">\n\nThis had to be written by someone under the age of 25", ">\n\nRolling your eyes isn’t natural though. It’s cultural or socially learned if that makes sense. Like if you rolled your eyes at a tribe that is disconnected from society they wouldn’t understand that you’re annoyed. So you cant really compare it to laughing.", ">\n\nI'm kind of curious if this is true though. Are you assuming this, or do you have some kind of study proving this? I'd actually like to see if your hypothesis is true, or if remote tribes also use this facial gesture.", ">\n\nI’m assuming it. Back in my country Turkey if you rolled your eyes at my grandparents they would be confused and wonder what you were doing and what it meant.", ">\n\nit's a maturity thing, keep rolling your eyes at 30-40, everyone gonna see you like a kid. \nyou gotta control your emotions, there's no need to do a expression when something is stupid or lame, you got a mouth and you respectfully share what's wrong, if the person in the other end is reluctant to stay on the same boat even after you talk about it. then you don't roll your eyes, you gotta say that there's nothing more you can do, and that you don't agree with it, and most likely leave to dodge any sort of problem.", ">\n\nI have a tic where I constantly roll my eyes. I’ve had it since I was little, but never noticed it until years later when I high school teacher yelled at me for disrespect. Apparently my parents took me for evaluation when I was very young and diagnosed Tourette’s but never had any other tics develop. Would have been nice to know 🤦🏼‍♀️ I just apologize now and say it’s a compulsion if people ask. I don’t even know when I’m doing it", ">\n\nIs laughing disrespectful? Because it can be. Just like rolling your eyes can be. There is a time and place for everything", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a passive aggressive response. Passive aggression is a tactic used by meek people who are frustrated and don’t have the courage to address a given situation. It’s disrespectful and it lowers your standing in the social hierarchy.", ">\n\nGet back to me when Disney Dad actively encourages your offspring to roll their eyes at you.", ">\n\nYeah it is when I want to be disrespectful to someone I roll my eyes when they make a point. It might be annoying to them, but it also let's them know I don't give a shit about whatever they just said. Now, I would never to it to my boss, or my teachers while I was in college, but when I was a teen I did it all the time because I was an asshole, who didn't care. \nIt's not a natural reaction lmao, it is learned behavior and it can be a bad habit, but it can be unlearned.", ">\n\nSome people can’t control it I know with me sometimes I roll my eyes without meaning too it’s not that I’m trying to be rude it’s just something I didn’t even realize I was doing nor did I mean too", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nI have a friend who thinks like you do, which is based on your responses to the comments. He has very poor social skills and is on the autism spectrum", ">\n\nI bet you're lots of fun at parties OP.", ">\n\nI can’t tell if this is farming karma with ridiculous opinions or if this individual just has a really hard time understanding that maybe their parents aren’t always the bad guys.", ">\n\nYep, thats definitely an unpopular opinion! \nIts certainly disrespectful. And most certainly not some sort of involuntary response like a sneeze. It may feel that way to you, because you've done it so much - but there are plenty of people who don't do it. UNLIKE people who don't sneeze at pepper, or cough at dust. Like, you're just plain wrong on this one. Moreover, I think you're trying to justify/rationalize it yourself rather than address it in a healthy way - a marker suggesting you have some narcissistic tendencies.", ">\n\nWhat a stupid argument, take your upvote", ">\n\nIt’s a sign of contempt. The facial expression expert Dr. Eikman could predict how long a barrage would last based on 4 expressions and the frequency used when the couple was interviewed. Eye rolling was one.. in fact you could remove the others and still reasonably predict marriage failures.", ">\n\nI wish it wasn’t disrespectful, because as an expressive person I LOVE a good eye roll. But, it has gotten me into trouble. I do it without even knowing it. I hate that I do… I wish sometimes I could be stone cold. Just like a fish. One expression face only. Blank fish eyes staring into nothingness.\nMy favourite mug says, “I can’t help what my face does when you talk”. There is a reason the the mug is meant to be cheeky.", ">\n\nSeems disrespectful to me because my eyes don't roll on their own, it would be a conscious act.", ">\n\nThis is 100% based on the premis that you can’t control your eyes. Rolling your eyes isn’t a natural movement. You control it.\nLaughing and crying aren’t necessarily controllable.", ">\n\nIn addition to this:\nfinding something somebody said stupid isnt disrespectful - makin fun in an exaggerated way, call em out in a mean way, or think everything they're gonna say next is bs is the disrespectful part.", ">\n\nSo your reaction is because you think someone is stupid, but thinking they are stupid isn't disrespectful?", ">\n\nThis, i agree with", ">\n\nGuess my mom didn't get the memo.", ">\n\nI don't think rolling your eyes is natural. I did wrong all the way up until last year. Thought you were supposed to make your eyes go in a circular motion 😂", ">\n\nFr. I may be able to control what I say…but my face will always show how I feel😂can’t help it and I’m tired of fake apologizing for it.", ">\n\nI don’t think rolling your eyes is a natural reaction the same way crying and laughing are. The only times I’ve rolled my eyes are when I intended to." ]
> 🙄	[ "🙄", ">\n\nYou’re grounded now", ">\n\nThe post above was someone getting electrocuted so this reply was very timely", ">\n\nThis news is shocking", ">\n\nIt definitely SPARKED my interest", ">\n\nAll of you guys need to leave, and not come back before learning how to conduct yourselves properly", ">\n\nUhhhh....... electricity", ">\n\nWell no, in the right context it is disrespectful. Rolling your eyes suggests that you're not taking the matter seriously or that you dont care which is a sign of disrespect towards whoever is speaking with you.", ">\n\nBut I can't control what I think. If I said \"man you're stupid and I don't care what you say\" thats disrespectful. I'm actually showing respect by not saying it.", ">\n\nI mean, actions speak louder than words, right?", ">\n\nIts not really an action tho its just an automatic response. Like gasping or yawning.", ">\n\nbullshit.\nSorry, it was an automatic response. Which is bullshit just like yours.", ">\n\nStill not the same thing. And they get on me for false analogies....", ">\n\nYou must be a teenager", ">\n\nLol how many times are you gonna post that. Dont you have an original thought of your own?", ">\n\nBruh I cant believe you make these posts. They're foolish", ">\n\nLaughing at someone can be disrespectful. Don't think so? Try laughing at someone's funeral.", ">\n\nThe disrespect comes from the one who told me a joke and made me laugh.", ">\n\nWhat about if no one said any joke? Because, you know, you are at a funeral.", ">\n\nSo someone's just there randomly laughing at shit? That sounds like a mental illness.", ">\n\nYou have never thought of something funny in your head to make yourself laugh? \nOr hell, maybe you didn't like the person who is buried and decided to laugh at them. You find it funny, so laughing must be appropriate, right?", ">\n\nWhy am I thinking about funny shit at a funeral.", ">\n\nBecause the universe likes to put us in uncomfortable positions sometimes.", ">\n\n“if its stupid or lame, you roll your eyes” - you found the disrespect", ">\n\nIm allowed to think whatever i want and its not disrespectful.", ">\n\nWhen you express contempt for something someone else said, it's disrespect.", ">\n\nWhat if what they said is contemptible?", ">\n\nSome people and comments deserve disrespect, still gonna be disrespect", ">\n\nLaughing, crying, and sneezing are all innate, involuntary reactions to certain types of stimuli. Rolling your eyes is a learned behavior. You can’t compare it to those other automatic responses because it’s not the same thing.", ">\n\nTake my upvote", ">\n\nOP rolled their eyes at someone and got chewed out for it.\nNow they're going online in an attempt to validate themselves.\n🙄", ">\n\nProbably got grounded.", ">\n\nPart of being a mature adult is to have self-control and not acting on every impulse and being respectful of people.", ">\n\n\nPart of being a mature adult\n\nYup but OP is clearly a teenager lol. They complain about being told off for doing chores wrong in another post…", ">\n\nEven a teenager should be able to have the fundamental basics of respect", ">\n\nOh I agree 100%", ">\n\nYou have poor self-control and poor self-awareness but the good news is that you can improve these things.", ">\n\n/r/wrongopinions", ">\n\nI feel like we need a new subreddit r/unpopularforareason", ">\n\nIt’s entire purpose is to be disrespectful. Nobody eyerolls something they respect. But how offensive it is depends on the context and how serious one is being.", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes\n\nYou rn: \"I'm not being disrespectful. I just thought what you said was stupid or lame.\"\n...", ">\n\nSaying its stupid could be disrespectful. A facial response is not.", ">\n\nLiterally every person in this thread agrees that it is.\nThis is your bad habit. Nobody else's responsibility but you.", ">\n\nThey can choose to not fly off the handle at what is just an innate reaction.", ">\n\nSo let me get this straight: you think you deserve to be able to disrespect whoever you like whenever you like but they can't as much as say you're being rude? Grow up.", ">\n\nFound the teenager.", ">\n\nMeh, I agree with that one. If you don't like how someone is doing something then do it yourself. There's a reason I live alone.", ">\n\nIt is a UNIVERSAL sign of disrespect. Globally. Deal with it.", ">\n\nLaughing can be disrespectuful too. If you cannot control your own reactions, well, what can I say, maybe you have not really grown up?", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s so it’s hard to control my own actions sometimes…", ">\n\nThank u I'm trying to explain how autism can make it hard to read not just others facial expressions but also ur own and it seems like no one has thought of the possibility that they acc don't realise it or csnt control it", ">\n\nWould you roll your eyes during a job interview if you thought a question was stupid or irrelevant? Do you think you’d get the job if you did?", ">\n\nPretty sure OP would think they were owed that job and they would think it’s ridiculous if they didn’t get it.\nOP is also a teenager going through their rebel phase though", ">\n\nYou're oddly specific here.", ">\n\nWhat was specific? Or rather oddly specific?", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a good way to fast track yourself to a divorce, if you want one.", ">\n\nI think OP needs the definition of respect before any further comment is made", ">\n\nOh I already know it, and I know it does not mean:\nDon't ever disagree with me\nDon't think bad thoughts about me\nDon't ever correct me when I'm blatantly wrong \nShine my boots with your tongue", ">\n\nSoooo this post isn’t about eye rolling is what I’m getting from this. You’ve got issues to work through with your parents or partner or something", ">\n\nSince when tf was eye rolling involuntary?", ">", ">\n\nYour lack of self control is not a justification for disrespect. I personally dont know anyone who reacts to anything by rolling their eyes. Just be mature and communicate.", ">\n\nAnd what if it's not stupid and someone rolls their eyes? Wouldn't it be disrespectful in that case?", ">\n\nIn the eye rollers opinion then it must have been. But you can't fault someone for thinking its stupid.", ">\n\nSo eyerolling is some kind of exceptional thing that is free from criticism? \nIf one has the freedom to eye roll, then someone else has the freedom to criticize the eye roller right? \nOr is it your opinion that besides that everyone who sees an eye roller has to just stfu", ">\n\nMeh, it is disrespectful. It's a way to be disrespectful without having to say That's the dumbest thing I've heard all month, and everyone else who heard it is also dumber for hearing it as well.", ">\n\nBut I didn't say it that's the point.", ">\n\nJust cuz you don’t use words doesn’t mean it’s not disrespectful. Walking away while someone is talking to you, rolling your eyes, slapping someone, and starting to play a game on your phone while someone is talking to you are all disrespectful. It doesn’t matter that you didn’t say anything, your lack of respect still showed.", ">\n\nespecially the way theyre responding to comments", ">\n\nYeah, a natural reaction if you’ve never learned to manage your emotions as opposed to letting them run your life. I’m not talking about being totally monotone rational, either. You need to learn a balance between rational and emotional…which includes healthy, appropriate, respectful expression of honest feelings. Eye rolling is absolutely disrespectful, belittling, and dismissive.", ">\n\nComments: OP is completely wrong and has attitude issues", ">\n\nWhat sounds like mental illness is you refusing to admit that rolling your eyes is simply not an unconditional response. Whether you want to believe it or not, you are doing it intentionally and you can control it. \nYou’re just to much of a b—— to do so.", ">\n\nSame to you", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a learned reaction. Not natural. I rarely of ever roll my eyes at anything.", ">", ">\n\nJust like raising your middle finger. Or vocalizing the sounds \"fuck you\". Or fingers typing the words fuck you OP. Nothing is disrespectful!", ">\n\nNice try but not the same thing at all. You're talking about thought out actions here. The eye roll is more like a reaction. Its quick, its automatic, no one has to think \"im rolling my eyes now\" it just happens. \nSort of like when telling a lie - no one decides to have their eyes dart around suspiciously, it just happens.", ">\n\nNo. Rolling your eyes is not involuntary. It can be controlled. You have a bad habit that you CAN stop. Much like a child learning not to suck their thumb, or biting your nails.", ">\n\nHow about you start with your hair scratching", ">\n\nYour opinion is a contradiction in itself. And, yeah. I disagree. Rolling your eyes is 100% to show lack of respect, and you have no intentions of showing it, even to reason, by rolling your eyes at something someone could believe is meaningful or important. Even if it is stupid.\nI get your point, we roll our eyes to express how we feel, but it is still a physical snare. You say rolling your eyes isn't disrespectful, while saying it's okay to roll your eyes because something is \" stupid or lame\", which in itself is disrespectful. You sound like a very young person in the middle of a learning moment, and you're trying to react with rebellion. It only shows that you lack maturity and are in need of growth. This might be a time for you to read these comments and reevaluate. There are healthier ways to react to things you disagree with, or lack interest in. If not, you can just accept that you roll your eyes to show lack of respect.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is much more deliberate than laughter, tears, or sneezing. It's a conscious action in response to a judgement you're making.", ">\n\nNah, dude it is disrespectful \nYou just have no self control and by the looks of it you don't want to build some", ">\n\nYour post made me roll my eyes very hard.", ">\n\n“No, officer, my wife - she MADE me hit her!”", ">\n\nIt's a natural reaction for a sooky kid but not an adult, if you do that as an adult you just manchild that wants everything their way", ">\n\npoor OP.... did you get in trouble after you rolled your eyes at something again? did you not prehaps learn from previous interactions? rolling your eyes at something \"stupid or lame\" is an intentional response that is disrespectful to whatever it is. mature people dont act that way.....", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes.\n\nSo it is disrespectful. \n\nIts like throwing pepper in someone's face an expecting them not to sneeze.\n\nNo it’s not. You can easily (edited in) refrain from rolling your eyes, while it’s much more difficult to refrain from sneezing. \nIt’s fine to think whatever you want, but you might want to refrain from rolling your eyes when you’re, say, interacting with your boss; aka someone that can make you unemployed for whatever reason they please.", ">\n\nThis isn't an opinion. It's just flat wrong. \nIt is disrespectful because it is a conscious signifier which clearly communicated that you think that the thing you are rolling your eyes at is not worthy of respect.", ">\n\nYou have to go out of your way to roll your eyes. It is NOT gutteral or instinctual", ">\n\nIf you annoy me, my arm whips out in a natural reaction and slaps you.", ">\n\nSorry, kiddo, it’s 100% disrespectful. Just own the shit and quit trying to lawyer around it.\nI say that after having rolled my eyes so hard at your post, I travelled back in time.", ">\n\nTell that to my family lol you get the belt", ">\n\nThis was made my a 15 year old who just got told off by their mom about rolling their eyes. Then in defense said, “I can’t control it”", ">\n\nMan it's getting so aggressive sometimes here 😂", ">\n\ni certainly hope you are embarrassed about this in a couple years when you grow up.", ">\n\nOP is a habitual eye roller 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄", ">\n\nI wish to God we could block people by age, no more edgy 13yo’s", ">\n\nSomebody just got their ps5 taken away for rolling their eyes", ">\n\nTell me you're 12 without telling me you're 12.", ">\n\nit’s the definition of disrespectful and a sign that you have literally nothing intelligent to say in return. \nwhich is why we outgrow it as adults.", ">\n\nYou can control it. It’s not an “automatic response” unless you’ve taught yourself to do it. I never roll my eyes. It’s just not something I have ever practiced doing. And yes…if I’m saying something too you and you dismiss it with an eye roll…it’s super disrespectful.", ">\n\nrolling your eyes is just as respectful as sticking your tongue out at someone or making a stupid face in reaction to something someone says", ">\n\nIf you can’t control your eye movement, you need to see a neurologist, dude 😆. As it stands, eye rolling isn’t a reflex or a “natural reaction” to anything. Habits aren’t the same as involuntary reactions.\nRolling your eyes at someone is disrespectful. It’s an outward sign that you think something about your interaction with them was stupid or wrong. There’s no one here that will agree with you, and you know that you’re in the vast minority with this opinion because you posted it on this sub. Now learn some humility and accept that your opinion is factually incorrect based on science.", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nAre you like 14 and your mom got you in trouble cause you rolled your eyes at her? Lmao", ">\n\nI’m gonna show your mom this and it’s going to be another week of being grounded, you little shit lol", ">\n\nOmfg 😂", ">\n\nOP I have to ask.\n\n\nHow old are you?\n\n\nHow is your relationship with your parents?\n\n\nHow do you view authority figures in your life?", ">\n\nrolls eyes", ">\n\nIf you say or demand something stupid from me I will probably roll my eyes.", ">\n\nBut it is", ">\n\nJust like rolling your eyes is an innate response, so are other people's responses to you rolling your eyes.", ">\n\nSometimes being respectful requires hiding your subjective opinion on whether something is stupid or lame.", ">\n\nI wouldn’t say eye rolling is as involuntary as laughing or crying tho. It’s more of a choice.", ">\n\nIf someone rolls their eyes then I feel disrespected it’s a natural reaction.", ">\n\ntell me you're a teenager without telling me you're a teenager", ">\n\nI'm rolling my eyes at this post. And I definitely mean it disrespectfully.", ">\n\nLmao this kid had an argument with his parent(s) or teacher and is venting on Reddit.", ">\n\nYou sound like an eye rolling arsehole", ">\n\ni have never had an as a nonvoulentary action, it requires very explicit movement of you eye. this is like saying “when i dont like people, i punch them in the head, thats my natural reaction i cant control it”\ni have never once legitimately rolled my eyes at something, i think you might be an asshole", ">\n\nMe smacking your face is also an innate uncontrollable response to you rolling your eyes. I'm only human. What can I do? 🙄", ">\n\nI disagree. also there are a billion other ways to express something being stupid or lame than rolling ur eyes", ">\n\nStop downvoting, this is ACTUALLY a very unpopular opinion and I love to see it tbh. Voice your disagreement in the comments but don't downvote the post. This post is hilarious.", ">\n\nThis is something you’ve learned to do. It’s entirely in your control if you do it or not.", ">\n\nI once got a detention for rolling my eyes at a teacher in 4th grade.\nI agree with you, though. The only other person I've ever really rolled my eyes at was my mother, and she deserved it, every single time.", ">\n\nI get your point. I absolutely purposefully roll my eyes sometimes and whoever I'm doing it to would be valid for getting mad. \nBut as someone who can't hide any emotion on their face (literally any, I'm the definition of an open book) there have been plenty of times where people blew up at me or laughed because I rolled my eyes when I didn't even realize I had done it. Feel like the people disagreeing with you haven't experienced this problem.", ">\n\nWhat you've done is cultivate a bad habit and then blamed it on everyone else when you repeat your own bad habit unintentionally.\nThis is entirely your fault.", ">\n\nOnly on Reddit would someone so boldly declare something like this to a stranger. I'm on the spectrum so that might have to do with my not being able to hide any emotion (I truly mean that, people can basically read my thoughts just by looking at me, good and bad). \nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave. Consider working on that.", ">\n\nSo they point out you’re cultivating a bad habit and blaming other people so you then, blame them? It’s a little spot on don’t you think?", ">\n\nWhen did i blame them for my own actions? Could you quote me? I was just pointing out how weird it was that they made such a strong assumption of my character off a causal comment I left when they themselves were ironically being unnecessarily rude in the process. \nI don't know how you got so lost?", ">\n\n\nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave.\n\nClassic deflection and implication that they’re the one with the problem, not you", ">\n\nFirst its not automatic. I almost never rolled my eyes. Its much easier to control than laughing crying or sneezing. So you just dont make the effort. Its actually a way to express your feeling. You should know that, its your personnality not a human instinctive reaction. \nAnd yes not respecting something is disrespectful. Its not that hard to understand. \nAnyway if i see you.. i dont know having a breakdown after being fired and dumped and start to laugh you'd like that ? \nIf im sad because something good happens to you and show it to you, you would like that ? \nHonestly you are just trying to justify being a bit of a jerk. \nI dont blame you or anything we all are jerks sometime but its what you are doing right now.", ">\n\nI have to refocus my eyes and most of the time blinking doesn’t cut it. I have a lazy eye and when I look at someone for a long time it unfocuses, so moving the muscle is the only way to reset it. If I don’t, people start moving their heads/ bodies trying to focus on my lazy eye. It gets awkward.", ">\n\nThis is where I go to my training as a kid. What others think of you is none of your business.", ">\n\nUnless you have a tick or something like Tourette’s syndrome, then it’s not an involuntary response. Part of living in a society and not being considered rude is managing your body language.\nLet me put it this way. “Rudeness” in itself is a social concept. That means it’s decided by the perception of the masses, what we generally agree upon in terms of our symbols of communication, our customs, our beliefs, our values, etc. For you to say that rolling your eyes isn’t disrespectful is not objectively wrong. But according to the society you live in, it is wrong. In layman’s terms, the hill you’re dying on here is completely arbitrary, neither side will ever be truly correct but as long as you live in a society which feels this way then you will be beholden to it anyways.", ">\n\nTo be fair, if your thinking its stupid or lame, then that is dis-respect. I'd agree with this if it was worded like 'More people need to say what they truly think', but I think you sort of missed the mark, OP.", ">\n\nI am equally annoyed when folks rapidly blink and look away mid conversation or drop their arm dead against their thigh. It’s like you’ve given up an effort to even keep your body vertical and engaged while I’m talking to you.", ">\n\nOP getting downvoted AF & keeps commenting. Gotta love it.", ">\n\nIt is shown as a sign of disrespect and it shows weakness. I can’t imagine Gandhi, the queen of England or Einstein roll their eyes in front of random people. The reason why they were respected is because they didn’t play any superiority game on front of… inferiors or ignorant people. If something is stupid, get the patience and find enough love within yourself to treat the other ones right. \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a child because his question is “stupid”, what parent does it make you ? \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a bad question because you are an expert in a subject, then it is not your modesty that speaks but your ego. For proof : Even if someone you hate said something intelligent, you might want to roll your eyes just to flatter your ego.", ">\n\nIt's seen as disrespectful BECAUSE it's inadvertently telling them you think they're irritating/annoying.", ">\n\nI never roll my eyes? Is that something people do naturally?", ">\n\nAll depends on the context of what is going on.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is not a natural reaction?", ">\n\nNot maintaining basic self control is disrespectful. It's the same reason we don't defecate in public, sneeze on people, or stand in the way of foot traffic.", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s and one of my tics is eye rolling", ">\n\nK", ">\n\nI accidentally roll my eyes at people sometimes when I'm not even trying to", ">\n\nThe sign of a true unpopular opinion: Nobody upvoting it, but everybody commenting to say how they disagree. If you disagree, then give it an upvote. That's the point of this sub.", ">\n\nI think it depends.", ">\n\nThis had to be written by someone under the age of 25", ">\n\nRolling your eyes isn’t natural though. It’s cultural or socially learned if that makes sense. Like if you rolled your eyes at a tribe that is disconnected from society they wouldn’t understand that you’re annoyed. So you cant really compare it to laughing.", ">\n\nI'm kind of curious if this is true though. Are you assuming this, or do you have some kind of study proving this? I'd actually like to see if your hypothesis is true, or if remote tribes also use this facial gesture.", ">\n\nI’m assuming it. Back in my country Turkey if you rolled your eyes at my grandparents they would be confused and wonder what you were doing and what it meant.", ">\n\nit's a maturity thing, keep rolling your eyes at 30-40, everyone gonna see you like a kid. \nyou gotta control your emotions, there's no need to do a expression when something is stupid or lame, you got a mouth and you respectfully share what's wrong, if the person in the other end is reluctant to stay on the same boat even after you talk about it. then you don't roll your eyes, you gotta say that there's nothing more you can do, and that you don't agree with it, and most likely leave to dodge any sort of problem.", ">\n\nI have a tic where I constantly roll my eyes. I’ve had it since I was little, but never noticed it until years later when I high school teacher yelled at me for disrespect. Apparently my parents took me for evaluation when I was very young and diagnosed Tourette’s but never had any other tics develop. Would have been nice to know 🤦🏼‍♀️ I just apologize now and say it’s a compulsion if people ask. I don’t even know when I’m doing it", ">\n\nIs laughing disrespectful? Because it can be. Just like rolling your eyes can be. There is a time and place for everything", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a passive aggressive response. Passive aggression is a tactic used by meek people who are frustrated and don’t have the courage to address a given situation. It’s disrespectful and it lowers your standing in the social hierarchy.", ">\n\nGet back to me when Disney Dad actively encourages your offspring to roll their eyes at you.", ">\n\nYeah it is when I want to be disrespectful to someone I roll my eyes when they make a point. It might be annoying to them, but it also let's them know I don't give a shit about whatever they just said. Now, I would never to it to my boss, or my teachers while I was in college, but when I was a teen I did it all the time because I was an asshole, who didn't care. \nIt's not a natural reaction lmao, it is learned behavior and it can be a bad habit, but it can be unlearned.", ">\n\nSome people can’t control it I know with me sometimes I roll my eyes without meaning too it’s not that I’m trying to be rude it’s just something I didn’t even realize I was doing nor did I mean too", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nI have a friend who thinks like you do, which is based on your responses to the comments. He has very poor social skills and is on the autism spectrum", ">\n\nI bet you're lots of fun at parties OP.", ">\n\nI can’t tell if this is farming karma with ridiculous opinions or if this individual just has a really hard time understanding that maybe their parents aren’t always the bad guys.", ">\n\nYep, thats definitely an unpopular opinion! \nIts certainly disrespectful. And most certainly not some sort of involuntary response like a sneeze. It may feel that way to you, because you've done it so much - but there are plenty of people who don't do it. UNLIKE people who don't sneeze at pepper, or cough at dust. Like, you're just plain wrong on this one. Moreover, I think you're trying to justify/rationalize it yourself rather than address it in a healthy way - a marker suggesting you have some narcissistic tendencies.", ">\n\nWhat a stupid argument, take your upvote", ">\n\nIt’s a sign of contempt. The facial expression expert Dr. Eikman could predict how long a barrage would last based on 4 expressions and the frequency used when the couple was interviewed. Eye rolling was one.. in fact you could remove the others and still reasonably predict marriage failures.", ">\n\nI wish it wasn’t disrespectful, because as an expressive person I LOVE a good eye roll. But, it has gotten me into trouble. I do it without even knowing it. I hate that I do… I wish sometimes I could be stone cold. Just like a fish. One expression face only. Blank fish eyes staring into nothingness.\nMy favourite mug says, “I can’t help what my face does when you talk”. There is a reason the the mug is meant to be cheeky.", ">\n\nSeems disrespectful to me because my eyes don't roll on their own, it would be a conscious act.", ">\n\nThis is 100% based on the premis that you can’t control your eyes. Rolling your eyes isn’t a natural movement. You control it.\nLaughing and crying aren’t necessarily controllable.", ">\n\nIn addition to this:\nfinding something somebody said stupid isnt disrespectful - makin fun in an exaggerated way, call em out in a mean way, or think everything they're gonna say next is bs is the disrespectful part.", ">\n\nSo your reaction is because you think someone is stupid, but thinking they are stupid isn't disrespectful?", ">\n\nThis, i agree with", ">\n\nGuess my mom didn't get the memo.", ">\n\nI don't think rolling your eyes is natural. I did wrong all the way up until last year. Thought you were supposed to make your eyes go in a circular motion 😂", ">\n\nFr. I may be able to control what I say…but my face will always show how I feel😂can’t help it and I’m tired of fake apologizing for it.", ">\n\nI don’t think rolling your eyes is a natural reaction the same way crying and laughing are. The only times I’ve rolled my eyes are when I intended to.", ">\n\nWhen my dad was/is drunk and angry he does it. Disrespectful and does not feel nice." ]
> Lol go to your room	[ "🙄", ">\n\nYou’re grounded now", ">\n\nThe post above was someone getting electrocuted so this reply was very timely", ">\n\nThis news is shocking", ">\n\nIt definitely SPARKED my interest", ">\n\nAll of you guys need to leave, and not come back before learning how to conduct yourselves properly", ">\n\nUhhhh....... electricity", ">\n\nWell no, in the right context it is disrespectful. Rolling your eyes suggests that you're not taking the matter seriously or that you dont care which is a sign of disrespect towards whoever is speaking with you.", ">\n\nBut I can't control what I think. If I said \"man you're stupid and I don't care what you say\" thats disrespectful. I'm actually showing respect by not saying it.", ">\n\nI mean, actions speak louder than words, right?", ">\n\nIts not really an action tho its just an automatic response. Like gasping or yawning.", ">\n\nbullshit.\nSorry, it was an automatic response. Which is bullshit just like yours.", ">\n\nStill not the same thing. And they get on me for false analogies....", ">\n\nYou must be a teenager", ">\n\nLol how many times are you gonna post that. Dont you have an original thought of your own?", ">\n\nBruh I cant believe you make these posts. They're foolish", ">\n\nLaughing at someone can be disrespectful. Don't think so? Try laughing at someone's funeral.", ">\n\nThe disrespect comes from the one who told me a joke and made me laugh.", ">\n\nWhat about if no one said any joke? Because, you know, you are at a funeral.", ">\n\nSo someone's just there randomly laughing at shit? That sounds like a mental illness.", ">\n\nYou have never thought of something funny in your head to make yourself laugh? \nOr hell, maybe you didn't like the person who is buried and decided to laugh at them. You find it funny, so laughing must be appropriate, right?", ">\n\nWhy am I thinking about funny shit at a funeral.", ">\n\nBecause the universe likes to put us in uncomfortable positions sometimes.", ">\n\n“if its stupid or lame, you roll your eyes” - you found the disrespect", ">\n\nIm allowed to think whatever i want and its not disrespectful.", ">\n\nWhen you express contempt for something someone else said, it's disrespect.", ">\n\nWhat if what they said is contemptible?", ">\n\nSome people and comments deserve disrespect, still gonna be disrespect", ">\n\nLaughing, crying, and sneezing are all innate, involuntary reactions to certain types of stimuli. Rolling your eyes is a learned behavior. You can’t compare it to those other automatic responses because it’s not the same thing.", ">\n\nTake my upvote", ">\n\nOP rolled their eyes at someone and got chewed out for it.\nNow they're going online in an attempt to validate themselves.\n🙄", ">\n\nProbably got grounded.", ">\n\nPart of being a mature adult is to have self-control and not acting on every impulse and being respectful of people.", ">\n\n\nPart of being a mature adult\n\nYup but OP is clearly a teenager lol. They complain about being told off for doing chores wrong in another post…", ">\n\nEven a teenager should be able to have the fundamental basics of respect", ">\n\nOh I agree 100%", ">\n\nYou have poor self-control and poor self-awareness but the good news is that you can improve these things.", ">\n\n/r/wrongopinions", ">\n\nI feel like we need a new subreddit r/unpopularforareason", ">\n\nIt’s entire purpose is to be disrespectful. Nobody eyerolls something they respect. But how offensive it is depends on the context and how serious one is being.", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes\n\nYou rn: \"I'm not being disrespectful. I just thought what you said was stupid or lame.\"\n...", ">\n\nSaying its stupid could be disrespectful. A facial response is not.", ">\n\nLiterally every person in this thread agrees that it is.\nThis is your bad habit. Nobody else's responsibility but you.", ">\n\nThey can choose to not fly off the handle at what is just an innate reaction.", ">\n\nSo let me get this straight: you think you deserve to be able to disrespect whoever you like whenever you like but they can't as much as say you're being rude? Grow up.", ">\n\nFound the teenager.", ">\n\nMeh, I agree with that one. If you don't like how someone is doing something then do it yourself. There's a reason I live alone.", ">\n\nIt is a UNIVERSAL sign of disrespect. Globally. Deal with it.", ">\n\nLaughing can be disrespectuful too. If you cannot control your own reactions, well, what can I say, maybe you have not really grown up?", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s so it’s hard to control my own actions sometimes…", ">\n\nThank u I'm trying to explain how autism can make it hard to read not just others facial expressions but also ur own and it seems like no one has thought of the possibility that they acc don't realise it or csnt control it", ">\n\nWould you roll your eyes during a job interview if you thought a question was stupid or irrelevant? Do you think you’d get the job if you did?", ">\n\nPretty sure OP would think they were owed that job and they would think it’s ridiculous if they didn’t get it.\nOP is also a teenager going through their rebel phase though", ">\n\nYou're oddly specific here.", ">\n\nWhat was specific? Or rather oddly specific?", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a good way to fast track yourself to a divorce, if you want one.", ">\n\nI think OP needs the definition of respect before any further comment is made", ">\n\nOh I already know it, and I know it does not mean:\nDon't ever disagree with me\nDon't think bad thoughts about me\nDon't ever correct me when I'm blatantly wrong \nShine my boots with your tongue", ">\n\nSoooo this post isn’t about eye rolling is what I’m getting from this. You’ve got issues to work through with your parents or partner or something", ">\n\nSince when tf was eye rolling involuntary?", ">", ">\n\nYour lack of self control is not a justification for disrespect. I personally dont know anyone who reacts to anything by rolling their eyes. Just be mature and communicate.", ">\n\nAnd what if it's not stupid and someone rolls their eyes? Wouldn't it be disrespectful in that case?", ">\n\nIn the eye rollers opinion then it must have been. But you can't fault someone for thinking its stupid.", ">\n\nSo eyerolling is some kind of exceptional thing that is free from criticism? \nIf one has the freedom to eye roll, then someone else has the freedom to criticize the eye roller right? \nOr is it your opinion that besides that everyone who sees an eye roller has to just stfu", ">\n\nMeh, it is disrespectful. It's a way to be disrespectful without having to say That's the dumbest thing I've heard all month, and everyone else who heard it is also dumber for hearing it as well.", ">\n\nBut I didn't say it that's the point.", ">\n\nJust cuz you don’t use words doesn’t mean it’s not disrespectful. Walking away while someone is talking to you, rolling your eyes, slapping someone, and starting to play a game on your phone while someone is talking to you are all disrespectful. It doesn’t matter that you didn’t say anything, your lack of respect still showed.", ">\n\nespecially the way theyre responding to comments", ">\n\nYeah, a natural reaction if you’ve never learned to manage your emotions as opposed to letting them run your life. I’m not talking about being totally monotone rational, either. You need to learn a balance between rational and emotional…which includes healthy, appropriate, respectful expression of honest feelings. Eye rolling is absolutely disrespectful, belittling, and dismissive.", ">\n\nComments: OP is completely wrong and has attitude issues", ">\n\nWhat sounds like mental illness is you refusing to admit that rolling your eyes is simply not an unconditional response. Whether you want to believe it or not, you are doing it intentionally and you can control it. \nYou’re just to much of a b—— to do so.", ">\n\nSame to you", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a learned reaction. Not natural. I rarely of ever roll my eyes at anything.", ">", ">\n\nJust like raising your middle finger. Or vocalizing the sounds \"fuck you\". Or fingers typing the words fuck you OP. Nothing is disrespectful!", ">\n\nNice try but not the same thing at all. You're talking about thought out actions here. The eye roll is more like a reaction. Its quick, its automatic, no one has to think \"im rolling my eyes now\" it just happens. \nSort of like when telling a lie - no one decides to have their eyes dart around suspiciously, it just happens.", ">\n\nNo. Rolling your eyes is not involuntary. It can be controlled. You have a bad habit that you CAN stop. Much like a child learning not to suck their thumb, or biting your nails.", ">\n\nHow about you start with your hair scratching", ">\n\nYour opinion is a contradiction in itself. And, yeah. I disagree. Rolling your eyes is 100% to show lack of respect, and you have no intentions of showing it, even to reason, by rolling your eyes at something someone could believe is meaningful or important. Even if it is stupid.\nI get your point, we roll our eyes to express how we feel, but it is still a physical snare. You say rolling your eyes isn't disrespectful, while saying it's okay to roll your eyes because something is \" stupid or lame\", which in itself is disrespectful. You sound like a very young person in the middle of a learning moment, and you're trying to react with rebellion. It only shows that you lack maturity and are in need of growth. This might be a time for you to read these comments and reevaluate. There are healthier ways to react to things you disagree with, or lack interest in. If not, you can just accept that you roll your eyes to show lack of respect.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is much more deliberate than laughter, tears, or sneezing. It's a conscious action in response to a judgement you're making.", ">\n\nNah, dude it is disrespectful \nYou just have no self control and by the looks of it you don't want to build some", ">\n\nYour post made me roll my eyes very hard.", ">\n\n“No, officer, my wife - she MADE me hit her!”", ">\n\nIt's a natural reaction for a sooky kid but not an adult, if you do that as an adult you just manchild that wants everything their way", ">\n\npoor OP.... did you get in trouble after you rolled your eyes at something again? did you not prehaps learn from previous interactions? rolling your eyes at something \"stupid or lame\" is an intentional response that is disrespectful to whatever it is. mature people dont act that way.....", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes.\n\nSo it is disrespectful. \n\nIts like throwing pepper in someone's face an expecting them not to sneeze.\n\nNo it’s not. You can easily (edited in) refrain from rolling your eyes, while it’s much more difficult to refrain from sneezing. \nIt’s fine to think whatever you want, but you might want to refrain from rolling your eyes when you’re, say, interacting with your boss; aka someone that can make you unemployed for whatever reason they please.", ">\n\nThis isn't an opinion. It's just flat wrong. \nIt is disrespectful because it is a conscious signifier which clearly communicated that you think that the thing you are rolling your eyes at is not worthy of respect.", ">\n\nYou have to go out of your way to roll your eyes. It is NOT gutteral or instinctual", ">\n\nIf you annoy me, my arm whips out in a natural reaction and slaps you.", ">\n\nSorry, kiddo, it’s 100% disrespectful. Just own the shit and quit trying to lawyer around it.\nI say that after having rolled my eyes so hard at your post, I travelled back in time.", ">\n\nTell that to my family lol you get the belt", ">\n\nThis was made my a 15 year old who just got told off by their mom about rolling their eyes. Then in defense said, “I can’t control it”", ">\n\nMan it's getting so aggressive sometimes here 😂", ">\n\ni certainly hope you are embarrassed about this in a couple years when you grow up.", ">\n\nOP is a habitual eye roller 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄", ">\n\nI wish to God we could block people by age, no more edgy 13yo’s", ">\n\nSomebody just got their ps5 taken away for rolling their eyes", ">\n\nTell me you're 12 without telling me you're 12.", ">\n\nit’s the definition of disrespectful and a sign that you have literally nothing intelligent to say in return. \nwhich is why we outgrow it as adults.", ">\n\nYou can control it. It’s not an “automatic response” unless you’ve taught yourself to do it. I never roll my eyes. It’s just not something I have ever practiced doing. And yes…if I’m saying something too you and you dismiss it with an eye roll…it’s super disrespectful.", ">\n\nrolling your eyes is just as respectful as sticking your tongue out at someone or making a stupid face in reaction to something someone says", ">\n\nIf you can’t control your eye movement, you need to see a neurologist, dude 😆. As it stands, eye rolling isn’t a reflex or a “natural reaction” to anything. Habits aren’t the same as involuntary reactions.\nRolling your eyes at someone is disrespectful. It’s an outward sign that you think something about your interaction with them was stupid or wrong. There’s no one here that will agree with you, and you know that you’re in the vast minority with this opinion because you posted it on this sub. Now learn some humility and accept that your opinion is factually incorrect based on science.", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nAre you like 14 and your mom got you in trouble cause you rolled your eyes at her? Lmao", ">\n\nI’m gonna show your mom this and it’s going to be another week of being grounded, you little shit lol", ">\n\nOmfg 😂", ">\n\nOP I have to ask.\n\n\nHow old are you?\n\n\nHow is your relationship with your parents?\n\n\nHow do you view authority figures in your life?", ">\n\nrolls eyes", ">\n\nIf you say or demand something stupid from me I will probably roll my eyes.", ">\n\nBut it is", ">\n\nJust like rolling your eyes is an innate response, so are other people's responses to you rolling your eyes.", ">\n\nSometimes being respectful requires hiding your subjective opinion on whether something is stupid or lame.", ">\n\nI wouldn’t say eye rolling is as involuntary as laughing or crying tho. It’s more of a choice.", ">\n\nIf someone rolls their eyes then I feel disrespected it’s a natural reaction.", ">\n\ntell me you're a teenager without telling me you're a teenager", ">\n\nI'm rolling my eyes at this post. And I definitely mean it disrespectfully.", ">\n\nLmao this kid had an argument with his parent(s) or teacher and is venting on Reddit.", ">\n\nYou sound like an eye rolling arsehole", ">\n\ni have never had an as a nonvoulentary action, it requires very explicit movement of you eye. this is like saying “when i dont like people, i punch them in the head, thats my natural reaction i cant control it”\ni have never once legitimately rolled my eyes at something, i think you might be an asshole", ">\n\nMe smacking your face is also an innate uncontrollable response to you rolling your eyes. I'm only human. What can I do? 🙄", ">\n\nI disagree. also there are a billion other ways to express something being stupid or lame than rolling ur eyes", ">\n\nStop downvoting, this is ACTUALLY a very unpopular opinion and I love to see it tbh. Voice your disagreement in the comments but don't downvote the post. This post is hilarious.", ">\n\nThis is something you’ve learned to do. It’s entirely in your control if you do it or not.", ">\n\nI once got a detention for rolling my eyes at a teacher in 4th grade.\nI agree with you, though. The only other person I've ever really rolled my eyes at was my mother, and she deserved it, every single time.", ">\n\nI get your point. I absolutely purposefully roll my eyes sometimes and whoever I'm doing it to would be valid for getting mad. \nBut as someone who can't hide any emotion on their face (literally any, I'm the definition of an open book) there have been plenty of times where people blew up at me or laughed because I rolled my eyes when I didn't even realize I had done it. Feel like the people disagreeing with you haven't experienced this problem.", ">\n\nWhat you've done is cultivate a bad habit and then blamed it on everyone else when you repeat your own bad habit unintentionally.\nThis is entirely your fault.", ">\n\nOnly on Reddit would someone so boldly declare something like this to a stranger. I'm on the spectrum so that might have to do with my not being able to hide any emotion (I truly mean that, people can basically read my thoughts just by looking at me, good and bad). \nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave. Consider working on that.", ">\n\nSo they point out you’re cultivating a bad habit and blaming other people so you then, blame them? It’s a little spot on don’t you think?", ">\n\nWhen did i blame them for my own actions? Could you quote me? I was just pointing out how weird it was that they made such a strong assumption of my character off a causal comment I left when they themselves were ironically being unnecessarily rude in the process. \nI don't know how you got so lost?", ">\n\n\nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave.\n\nClassic deflection and implication that they’re the one with the problem, not you", ">\n\nFirst its not automatic. I almost never rolled my eyes. Its much easier to control than laughing crying or sneezing. So you just dont make the effort. Its actually a way to express your feeling. You should know that, its your personnality not a human instinctive reaction. \nAnd yes not respecting something is disrespectful. Its not that hard to understand. \nAnyway if i see you.. i dont know having a breakdown after being fired and dumped and start to laugh you'd like that ? \nIf im sad because something good happens to you and show it to you, you would like that ? \nHonestly you are just trying to justify being a bit of a jerk. \nI dont blame you or anything we all are jerks sometime but its what you are doing right now.", ">\n\nI have to refocus my eyes and most of the time blinking doesn’t cut it. I have a lazy eye and when I look at someone for a long time it unfocuses, so moving the muscle is the only way to reset it. If I don’t, people start moving their heads/ bodies trying to focus on my lazy eye. It gets awkward.", ">\n\nThis is where I go to my training as a kid. What others think of you is none of your business.", ">\n\nUnless you have a tick or something like Tourette’s syndrome, then it’s not an involuntary response. Part of living in a society and not being considered rude is managing your body language.\nLet me put it this way. “Rudeness” in itself is a social concept. That means it’s decided by the perception of the masses, what we generally agree upon in terms of our symbols of communication, our customs, our beliefs, our values, etc. For you to say that rolling your eyes isn’t disrespectful is not objectively wrong. But according to the society you live in, it is wrong. In layman’s terms, the hill you’re dying on here is completely arbitrary, neither side will ever be truly correct but as long as you live in a society which feels this way then you will be beholden to it anyways.", ">\n\nTo be fair, if your thinking its stupid or lame, then that is dis-respect. I'd agree with this if it was worded like 'More people need to say what they truly think', but I think you sort of missed the mark, OP.", ">\n\nI am equally annoyed when folks rapidly blink and look away mid conversation or drop their arm dead against their thigh. It’s like you’ve given up an effort to even keep your body vertical and engaged while I’m talking to you.", ">\n\nOP getting downvoted AF & keeps commenting. Gotta love it.", ">\n\nIt is shown as a sign of disrespect and it shows weakness. I can’t imagine Gandhi, the queen of England or Einstein roll their eyes in front of random people. The reason why they were respected is because they didn’t play any superiority game on front of… inferiors or ignorant people. If something is stupid, get the patience and find enough love within yourself to treat the other ones right. \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a child because his question is “stupid”, what parent does it make you ? \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a bad question because you are an expert in a subject, then it is not your modesty that speaks but your ego. For proof : Even if someone you hate said something intelligent, you might want to roll your eyes just to flatter your ego.", ">\n\nIt's seen as disrespectful BECAUSE it's inadvertently telling them you think they're irritating/annoying.", ">\n\nI never roll my eyes? Is that something people do naturally?", ">\n\nAll depends on the context of what is going on.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is not a natural reaction?", ">\n\nNot maintaining basic self control is disrespectful. It's the same reason we don't defecate in public, sneeze on people, or stand in the way of foot traffic.", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s and one of my tics is eye rolling", ">\n\nK", ">\n\nI accidentally roll my eyes at people sometimes when I'm not even trying to", ">\n\nThe sign of a true unpopular opinion: Nobody upvoting it, but everybody commenting to say how they disagree. If you disagree, then give it an upvote. That's the point of this sub.", ">\n\nI think it depends.", ">\n\nThis had to be written by someone under the age of 25", ">\n\nRolling your eyes isn’t natural though. It’s cultural or socially learned if that makes sense. Like if you rolled your eyes at a tribe that is disconnected from society they wouldn’t understand that you’re annoyed. So you cant really compare it to laughing.", ">\n\nI'm kind of curious if this is true though. Are you assuming this, or do you have some kind of study proving this? I'd actually like to see if your hypothesis is true, or if remote tribes also use this facial gesture.", ">\n\nI’m assuming it. Back in my country Turkey if you rolled your eyes at my grandparents they would be confused and wonder what you were doing and what it meant.", ">\n\nit's a maturity thing, keep rolling your eyes at 30-40, everyone gonna see you like a kid. \nyou gotta control your emotions, there's no need to do a expression when something is stupid or lame, you got a mouth and you respectfully share what's wrong, if the person in the other end is reluctant to stay on the same boat even after you talk about it. then you don't roll your eyes, you gotta say that there's nothing more you can do, and that you don't agree with it, and most likely leave to dodge any sort of problem.", ">\n\nI have a tic where I constantly roll my eyes. I’ve had it since I was little, but never noticed it until years later when I high school teacher yelled at me for disrespect. Apparently my parents took me for evaluation when I was very young and diagnosed Tourette’s but never had any other tics develop. Would have been nice to know 🤦🏼‍♀️ I just apologize now and say it’s a compulsion if people ask. I don’t even know when I’m doing it", ">\n\nIs laughing disrespectful? Because it can be. Just like rolling your eyes can be. There is a time and place for everything", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a passive aggressive response. Passive aggression is a tactic used by meek people who are frustrated and don’t have the courage to address a given situation. It’s disrespectful and it lowers your standing in the social hierarchy.", ">\n\nGet back to me when Disney Dad actively encourages your offspring to roll their eyes at you.", ">\n\nYeah it is when I want to be disrespectful to someone I roll my eyes when they make a point. It might be annoying to them, but it also let's them know I don't give a shit about whatever they just said. Now, I would never to it to my boss, or my teachers while I was in college, but when I was a teen I did it all the time because I was an asshole, who didn't care. \nIt's not a natural reaction lmao, it is learned behavior and it can be a bad habit, but it can be unlearned.", ">\n\nSome people can’t control it I know with me sometimes I roll my eyes without meaning too it’s not that I’m trying to be rude it’s just something I didn’t even realize I was doing nor did I mean too", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nI have a friend who thinks like you do, which is based on your responses to the comments. He has very poor social skills and is on the autism spectrum", ">\n\nI bet you're lots of fun at parties OP.", ">\n\nI can’t tell if this is farming karma with ridiculous opinions or if this individual just has a really hard time understanding that maybe their parents aren’t always the bad guys.", ">\n\nYep, thats definitely an unpopular opinion! \nIts certainly disrespectful. And most certainly not some sort of involuntary response like a sneeze. It may feel that way to you, because you've done it so much - but there are plenty of people who don't do it. UNLIKE people who don't sneeze at pepper, or cough at dust. Like, you're just plain wrong on this one. Moreover, I think you're trying to justify/rationalize it yourself rather than address it in a healthy way - a marker suggesting you have some narcissistic tendencies.", ">\n\nWhat a stupid argument, take your upvote", ">\n\nIt’s a sign of contempt. The facial expression expert Dr. Eikman could predict how long a barrage would last based on 4 expressions and the frequency used when the couple was interviewed. Eye rolling was one.. in fact you could remove the others and still reasonably predict marriage failures.", ">\n\nI wish it wasn’t disrespectful, because as an expressive person I LOVE a good eye roll. But, it has gotten me into trouble. I do it without even knowing it. I hate that I do… I wish sometimes I could be stone cold. Just like a fish. One expression face only. Blank fish eyes staring into nothingness.\nMy favourite mug says, “I can’t help what my face does when you talk”. There is a reason the the mug is meant to be cheeky.", ">\n\nSeems disrespectful to me because my eyes don't roll on their own, it would be a conscious act.", ">\n\nThis is 100% based on the premis that you can’t control your eyes. Rolling your eyes isn’t a natural movement. You control it.\nLaughing and crying aren’t necessarily controllable.", ">\n\nIn addition to this:\nfinding something somebody said stupid isnt disrespectful - makin fun in an exaggerated way, call em out in a mean way, or think everything they're gonna say next is bs is the disrespectful part.", ">\n\nSo your reaction is because you think someone is stupid, but thinking they are stupid isn't disrespectful?", ">\n\nThis, i agree with", ">\n\nGuess my mom didn't get the memo.", ">\n\nI don't think rolling your eyes is natural. I did wrong all the way up until last year. Thought you were supposed to make your eyes go in a circular motion 😂", ">\n\nFr. I may be able to control what I say…but my face will always show how I feel😂can’t help it and I’m tired of fake apologizing for it.", ">\n\nI don’t think rolling your eyes is a natural reaction the same way crying and laughing are. The only times I’ve rolled my eyes are when I intended to.", ">\n\nWhen my dad was/is drunk and angry he does it. Disrespectful and does not feel nice.", ">\n\n🙄" ]
> What a dingbat. lol	[ "🙄", ">\n\nYou’re grounded now", ">\n\nThe post above was someone getting electrocuted so this reply was very timely", ">\n\nThis news is shocking", ">\n\nIt definitely SPARKED my interest", ">\n\nAll of you guys need to leave, and not come back before learning how to conduct yourselves properly", ">\n\nUhhhh....... electricity", ">\n\nWell no, in the right context it is disrespectful. Rolling your eyes suggests that you're not taking the matter seriously or that you dont care which is a sign of disrespect towards whoever is speaking with you.", ">\n\nBut I can't control what I think. If I said \"man you're stupid and I don't care what you say\" thats disrespectful. I'm actually showing respect by not saying it.", ">\n\nI mean, actions speak louder than words, right?", ">\n\nIts not really an action tho its just an automatic response. Like gasping or yawning.", ">\n\nbullshit.\nSorry, it was an automatic response. Which is bullshit just like yours.", ">\n\nStill not the same thing. And they get on me for false analogies....", ">\n\nYou must be a teenager", ">\n\nLol how many times are you gonna post that. Dont you have an original thought of your own?", ">\n\nBruh I cant believe you make these posts. They're foolish", ">\n\nLaughing at someone can be disrespectful. Don't think so? Try laughing at someone's funeral.", ">\n\nThe disrespect comes from the one who told me a joke and made me laugh.", ">\n\nWhat about if no one said any joke? Because, you know, you are at a funeral.", ">\n\nSo someone's just there randomly laughing at shit? That sounds like a mental illness.", ">\n\nYou have never thought of something funny in your head to make yourself laugh? \nOr hell, maybe you didn't like the person who is buried and decided to laugh at them. You find it funny, so laughing must be appropriate, right?", ">\n\nWhy am I thinking about funny shit at a funeral.", ">\n\nBecause the universe likes to put us in uncomfortable positions sometimes.", ">\n\n“if its stupid or lame, you roll your eyes” - you found the disrespect", ">\n\nIm allowed to think whatever i want and its not disrespectful.", ">\n\nWhen you express contempt for something someone else said, it's disrespect.", ">\n\nWhat if what they said is contemptible?", ">\n\nSome people and comments deserve disrespect, still gonna be disrespect", ">\n\nLaughing, crying, and sneezing are all innate, involuntary reactions to certain types of stimuli. Rolling your eyes is a learned behavior. You can’t compare it to those other automatic responses because it’s not the same thing.", ">\n\nTake my upvote", ">\n\nOP rolled their eyes at someone and got chewed out for it.\nNow they're going online in an attempt to validate themselves.\n🙄", ">\n\nProbably got grounded.", ">\n\nPart of being a mature adult is to have self-control and not acting on every impulse and being respectful of people.", ">\n\n\nPart of being a mature adult\n\nYup but OP is clearly a teenager lol. They complain about being told off for doing chores wrong in another post…", ">\n\nEven a teenager should be able to have the fundamental basics of respect", ">\n\nOh I agree 100%", ">\n\nYou have poor self-control and poor self-awareness but the good news is that you can improve these things.", ">\n\n/r/wrongopinions", ">\n\nI feel like we need a new subreddit r/unpopularforareason", ">\n\nIt’s entire purpose is to be disrespectful. Nobody eyerolls something they respect. But how offensive it is depends on the context and how serious one is being.", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes\n\nYou rn: \"I'm not being disrespectful. I just thought what you said was stupid or lame.\"\n...", ">\n\nSaying its stupid could be disrespectful. A facial response is not.", ">\n\nLiterally every person in this thread agrees that it is.\nThis is your bad habit. Nobody else's responsibility but you.", ">\n\nThey can choose to not fly off the handle at what is just an innate reaction.", ">\n\nSo let me get this straight: you think you deserve to be able to disrespect whoever you like whenever you like but they can't as much as say you're being rude? Grow up.", ">\n\nFound the teenager.", ">\n\nMeh, I agree with that one. If you don't like how someone is doing something then do it yourself. There's a reason I live alone.", ">\n\nIt is a UNIVERSAL sign of disrespect. Globally. Deal with it.", ">\n\nLaughing can be disrespectuful too. If you cannot control your own reactions, well, what can I say, maybe you have not really grown up?", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s so it’s hard to control my own actions sometimes…", ">\n\nThank u I'm trying to explain how autism can make it hard to read not just others facial expressions but also ur own and it seems like no one has thought of the possibility that they acc don't realise it or csnt control it", ">\n\nWould you roll your eyes during a job interview if you thought a question was stupid or irrelevant? Do you think you’d get the job if you did?", ">\n\nPretty sure OP would think they were owed that job and they would think it’s ridiculous if they didn’t get it.\nOP is also a teenager going through their rebel phase though", ">\n\nYou're oddly specific here.", ">\n\nWhat was specific? Or rather oddly specific?", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a good way to fast track yourself to a divorce, if you want one.", ">\n\nI think OP needs the definition of respect before any further comment is made", ">\n\nOh I already know it, and I know it does not mean:\nDon't ever disagree with me\nDon't think bad thoughts about me\nDon't ever correct me when I'm blatantly wrong \nShine my boots with your tongue", ">\n\nSoooo this post isn’t about eye rolling is what I’m getting from this. You’ve got issues to work through with your parents or partner or something", ">\n\nSince when tf was eye rolling involuntary?", ">", ">\n\nYour lack of self control is not a justification for disrespect. I personally dont know anyone who reacts to anything by rolling their eyes. Just be mature and communicate.", ">\n\nAnd what if it's not stupid and someone rolls their eyes? Wouldn't it be disrespectful in that case?", ">\n\nIn the eye rollers opinion then it must have been. But you can't fault someone for thinking its stupid.", ">\n\nSo eyerolling is some kind of exceptional thing that is free from criticism? \nIf one has the freedom to eye roll, then someone else has the freedom to criticize the eye roller right? \nOr is it your opinion that besides that everyone who sees an eye roller has to just stfu", ">\n\nMeh, it is disrespectful. It's a way to be disrespectful without having to say That's the dumbest thing I've heard all month, and everyone else who heard it is also dumber for hearing it as well.", ">\n\nBut I didn't say it that's the point.", ">\n\nJust cuz you don’t use words doesn’t mean it’s not disrespectful. Walking away while someone is talking to you, rolling your eyes, slapping someone, and starting to play a game on your phone while someone is talking to you are all disrespectful. It doesn’t matter that you didn’t say anything, your lack of respect still showed.", ">\n\nespecially the way theyre responding to comments", ">\n\nYeah, a natural reaction if you’ve never learned to manage your emotions as opposed to letting them run your life. I’m not talking about being totally monotone rational, either. You need to learn a balance between rational and emotional…which includes healthy, appropriate, respectful expression of honest feelings. Eye rolling is absolutely disrespectful, belittling, and dismissive.", ">\n\nComments: OP is completely wrong and has attitude issues", ">\n\nWhat sounds like mental illness is you refusing to admit that rolling your eyes is simply not an unconditional response. Whether you want to believe it or not, you are doing it intentionally and you can control it. \nYou’re just to much of a b—— to do so.", ">\n\nSame to you", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a learned reaction. Not natural. I rarely of ever roll my eyes at anything.", ">", ">\n\nJust like raising your middle finger. Or vocalizing the sounds \"fuck you\". Or fingers typing the words fuck you OP. Nothing is disrespectful!", ">\n\nNice try but not the same thing at all. You're talking about thought out actions here. The eye roll is more like a reaction. Its quick, its automatic, no one has to think \"im rolling my eyes now\" it just happens. \nSort of like when telling a lie - no one decides to have their eyes dart around suspiciously, it just happens.", ">\n\nNo. Rolling your eyes is not involuntary. It can be controlled. You have a bad habit that you CAN stop. Much like a child learning not to suck their thumb, or biting your nails.", ">\n\nHow about you start with your hair scratching", ">\n\nYour opinion is a contradiction in itself. And, yeah. I disagree. Rolling your eyes is 100% to show lack of respect, and you have no intentions of showing it, even to reason, by rolling your eyes at something someone could believe is meaningful or important. Even if it is stupid.\nI get your point, we roll our eyes to express how we feel, but it is still a physical snare. You say rolling your eyes isn't disrespectful, while saying it's okay to roll your eyes because something is \" stupid or lame\", which in itself is disrespectful. You sound like a very young person in the middle of a learning moment, and you're trying to react with rebellion. It only shows that you lack maturity and are in need of growth. This might be a time for you to read these comments and reevaluate. There are healthier ways to react to things you disagree with, or lack interest in. If not, you can just accept that you roll your eyes to show lack of respect.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is much more deliberate than laughter, tears, or sneezing. It's a conscious action in response to a judgement you're making.", ">\n\nNah, dude it is disrespectful \nYou just have no self control and by the looks of it you don't want to build some", ">\n\nYour post made me roll my eyes very hard.", ">\n\n“No, officer, my wife - she MADE me hit her!”", ">\n\nIt's a natural reaction for a sooky kid but not an adult, if you do that as an adult you just manchild that wants everything their way", ">\n\npoor OP.... did you get in trouble after you rolled your eyes at something again? did you not prehaps learn from previous interactions? rolling your eyes at something \"stupid or lame\" is an intentional response that is disrespectful to whatever it is. mature people dont act that way.....", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes.\n\nSo it is disrespectful. \n\nIts like throwing pepper in someone's face an expecting them not to sneeze.\n\nNo it’s not. You can easily (edited in) refrain from rolling your eyes, while it’s much more difficult to refrain from sneezing. \nIt’s fine to think whatever you want, but you might want to refrain from rolling your eyes when you’re, say, interacting with your boss; aka someone that can make you unemployed for whatever reason they please.", ">\n\nThis isn't an opinion. It's just flat wrong. \nIt is disrespectful because it is a conscious signifier which clearly communicated that you think that the thing you are rolling your eyes at is not worthy of respect.", ">\n\nYou have to go out of your way to roll your eyes. It is NOT gutteral or instinctual", ">\n\nIf you annoy me, my arm whips out in a natural reaction and slaps you.", ">\n\nSorry, kiddo, it’s 100% disrespectful. Just own the shit and quit trying to lawyer around it.\nI say that after having rolled my eyes so hard at your post, I travelled back in time.", ">\n\nTell that to my family lol you get the belt", ">\n\nThis was made my a 15 year old who just got told off by their mom about rolling their eyes. Then in defense said, “I can’t control it”", ">\n\nMan it's getting so aggressive sometimes here 😂", ">\n\ni certainly hope you are embarrassed about this in a couple years when you grow up.", ">\n\nOP is a habitual eye roller 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄", ">\n\nI wish to God we could block people by age, no more edgy 13yo’s", ">\n\nSomebody just got their ps5 taken away for rolling their eyes", ">\n\nTell me you're 12 without telling me you're 12.", ">\n\nit’s the definition of disrespectful and a sign that you have literally nothing intelligent to say in return. \nwhich is why we outgrow it as adults.", ">\n\nYou can control it. It’s not an “automatic response” unless you’ve taught yourself to do it. I never roll my eyes. It’s just not something I have ever practiced doing. And yes…if I’m saying something too you and you dismiss it with an eye roll…it’s super disrespectful.", ">\n\nrolling your eyes is just as respectful as sticking your tongue out at someone or making a stupid face in reaction to something someone says", ">\n\nIf you can’t control your eye movement, you need to see a neurologist, dude 😆. As it stands, eye rolling isn’t a reflex or a “natural reaction” to anything. Habits aren’t the same as involuntary reactions.\nRolling your eyes at someone is disrespectful. It’s an outward sign that you think something about your interaction with them was stupid or wrong. There’s no one here that will agree with you, and you know that you’re in the vast minority with this opinion because you posted it on this sub. Now learn some humility and accept that your opinion is factually incorrect based on science.", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nAre you like 14 and your mom got you in trouble cause you rolled your eyes at her? Lmao", ">\n\nI’m gonna show your mom this and it’s going to be another week of being grounded, you little shit lol", ">\n\nOmfg 😂", ">\n\nOP I have to ask.\n\n\nHow old are you?\n\n\nHow is your relationship with your parents?\n\n\nHow do you view authority figures in your life?", ">\n\nrolls eyes", ">\n\nIf you say or demand something stupid from me I will probably roll my eyes.", ">\n\nBut it is", ">\n\nJust like rolling your eyes is an innate response, so are other people's responses to you rolling your eyes.", ">\n\nSometimes being respectful requires hiding your subjective opinion on whether something is stupid or lame.", ">\n\nI wouldn’t say eye rolling is as involuntary as laughing or crying tho. It’s more of a choice.", ">\n\nIf someone rolls their eyes then I feel disrespected it’s a natural reaction.", ">\n\ntell me you're a teenager without telling me you're a teenager", ">\n\nI'm rolling my eyes at this post. And I definitely mean it disrespectfully.", ">\n\nLmao this kid had an argument with his parent(s) or teacher and is venting on Reddit.", ">\n\nYou sound like an eye rolling arsehole", ">\n\ni have never had an as a nonvoulentary action, it requires very explicit movement of you eye. this is like saying “when i dont like people, i punch them in the head, thats my natural reaction i cant control it”\ni have never once legitimately rolled my eyes at something, i think you might be an asshole", ">\n\nMe smacking your face is also an innate uncontrollable response to you rolling your eyes. I'm only human. What can I do? 🙄", ">\n\nI disagree. also there are a billion other ways to express something being stupid or lame than rolling ur eyes", ">\n\nStop downvoting, this is ACTUALLY a very unpopular opinion and I love to see it tbh. Voice your disagreement in the comments but don't downvote the post. This post is hilarious.", ">\n\nThis is something you’ve learned to do. It’s entirely in your control if you do it or not.", ">\n\nI once got a detention for rolling my eyes at a teacher in 4th grade.\nI agree with you, though. The only other person I've ever really rolled my eyes at was my mother, and she deserved it, every single time.", ">\n\nI get your point. I absolutely purposefully roll my eyes sometimes and whoever I'm doing it to would be valid for getting mad. \nBut as someone who can't hide any emotion on their face (literally any, I'm the definition of an open book) there have been plenty of times where people blew up at me or laughed because I rolled my eyes when I didn't even realize I had done it. Feel like the people disagreeing with you haven't experienced this problem.", ">\n\nWhat you've done is cultivate a bad habit and then blamed it on everyone else when you repeat your own bad habit unintentionally.\nThis is entirely your fault.", ">\n\nOnly on Reddit would someone so boldly declare something like this to a stranger. I'm on the spectrum so that might have to do with my not being able to hide any emotion (I truly mean that, people can basically read my thoughts just by looking at me, good and bad). \nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave. Consider working on that.", ">\n\nSo they point out you’re cultivating a bad habit and blaming other people so you then, blame them? It’s a little spot on don’t you think?", ">\n\nWhen did i blame them for my own actions? Could you quote me? I was just pointing out how weird it was that they made such a strong assumption of my character off a causal comment I left when they themselves were ironically being unnecessarily rude in the process. \nI don't know how you got so lost?", ">\n\n\nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave.\n\nClassic deflection and implication that they’re the one with the problem, not you", ">\n\nFirst its not automatic. I almost never rolled my eyes. Its much easier to control than laughing crying or sneezing. So you just dont make the effort. Its actually a way to express your feeling. You should know that, its your personnality not a human instinctive reaction. \nAnd yes not respecting something is disrespectful. Its not that hard to understand. \nAnyway if i see you.. i dont know having a breakdown after being fired and dumped and start to laugh you'd like that ? \nIf im sad because something good happens to you and show it to you, you would like that ? \nHonestly you are just trying to justify being a bit of a jerk. \nI dont blame you or anything we all are jerks sometime but its what you are doing right now.", ">\n\nI have to refocus my eyes and most of the time blinking doesn’t cut it. I have a lazy eye and when I look at someone for a long time it unfocuses, so moving the muscle is the only way to reset it. If I don’t, people start moving their heads/ bodies trying to focus on my lazy eye. It gets awkward.", ">\n\nThis is where I go to my training as a kid. What others think of you is none of your business.", ">\n\nUnless you have a tick or something like Tourette’s syndrome, then it’s not an involuntary response. Part of living in a society and not being considered rude is managing your body language.\nLet me put it this way. “Rudeness” in itself is a social concept. That means it’s decided by the perception of the masses, what we generally agree upon in terms of our symbols of communication, our customs, our beliefs, our values, etc. For you to say that rolling your eyes isn’t disrespectful is not objectively wrong. But according to the society you live in, it is wrong. In layman’s terms, the hill you’re dying on here is completely arbitrary, neither side will ever be truly correct but as long as you live in a society which feels this way then you will be beholden to it anyways.", ">\n\nTo be fair, if your thinking its stupid or lame, then that is dis-respect. I'd agree with this if it was worded like 'More people need to say what they truly think', but I think you sort of missed the mark, OP.", ">\n\nI am equally annoyed when folks rapidly blink and look away mid conversation or drop their arm dead against their thigh. It’s like you’ve given up an effort to even keep your body vertical and engaged while I’m talking to you.", ">\n\nOP getting downvoted AF & keeps commenting. Gotta love it.", ">\n\nIt is shown as a sign of disrespect and it shows weakness. I can’t imagine Gandhi, the queen of England or Einstein roll their eyes in front of random people. The reason why they were respected is because they didn’t play any superiority game on front of… inferiors or ignorant people. If something is stupid, get the patience and find enough love within yourself to treat the other ones right. \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a child because his question is “stupid”, what parent does it make you ? \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a bad question because you are an expert in a subject, then it is not your modesty that speaks but your ego. For proof : Even if someone you hate said something intelligent, you might want to roll your eyes just to flatter your ego.", ">\n\nIt's seen as disrespectful BECAUSE it's inadvertently telling them you think they're irritating/annoying.", ">\n\nI never roll my eyes? Is that something people do naturally?", ">\n\nAll depends on the context of what is going on.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is not a natural reaction?", ">\n\nNot maintaining basic self control is disrespectful. It's the same reason we don't defecate in public, sneeze on people, or stand in the way of foot traffic.", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s and one of my tics is eye rolling", ">\n\nK", ">\n\nI accidentally roll my eyes at people sometimes when I'm not even trying to", ">\n\nThe sign of a true unpopular opinion: Nobody upvoting it, but everybody commenting to say how they disagree. If you disagree, then give it an upvote. That's the point of this sub.", ">\n\nI think it depends.", ">\n\nThis had to be written by someone under the age of 25", ">\n\nRolling your eyes isn’t natural though. It’s cultural or socially learned if that makes sense. Like if you rolled your eyes at a tribe that is disconnected from society they wouldn’t understand that you’re annoyed. So you cant really compare it to laughing.", ">\n\nI'm kind of curious if this is true though. Are you assuming this, or do you have some kind of study proving this? I'd actually like to see if your hypothesis is true, or if remote tribes also use this facial gesture.", ">\n\nI’m assuming it. Back in my country Turkey if you rolled your eyes at my grandparents they would be confused and wonder what you were doing and what it meant.", ">\n\nit's a maturity thing, keep rolling your eyes at 30-40, everyone gonna see you like a kid. \nyou gotta control your emotions, there's no need to do a expression when something is stupid or lame, you got a mouth and you respectfully share what's wrong, if the person in the other end is reluctant to stay on the same boat even after you talk about it. then you don't roll your eyes, you gotta say that there's nothing more you can do, and that you don't agree with it, and most likely leave to dodge any sort of problem.", ">\n\nI have a tic where I constantly roll my eyes. I’ve had it since I was little, but never noticed it until years later when I high school teacher yelled at me for disrespect. Apparently my parents took me for evaluation when I was very young and diagnosed Tourette’s but never had any other tics develop. Would have been nice to know 🤦🏼‍♀️ I just apologize now and say it’s a compulsion if people ask. I don’t even know when I’m doing it", ">\n\nIs laughing disrespectful? Because it can be. Just like rolling your eyes can be. There is a time and place for everything", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a passive aggressive response. Passive aggression is a tactic used by meek people who are frustrated and don’t have the courage to address a given situation. It’s disrespectful and it lowers your standing in the social hierarchy.", ">\n\nGet back to me when Disney Dad actively encourages your offspring to roll their eyes at you.", ">\n\nYeah it is when I want to be disrespectful to someone I roll my eyes when they make a point. It might be annoying to them, but it also let's them know I don't give a shit about whatever they just said. Now, I would never to it to my boss, or my teachers while I was in college, but when I was a teen I did it all the time because I was an asshole, who didn't care. \nIt's not a natural reaction lmao, it is learned behavior and it can be a bad habit, but it can be unlearned.", ">\n\nSome people can’t control it I know with me sometimes I roll my eyes without meaning too it’s not that I’m trying to be rude it’s just something I didn’t even realize I was doing nor did I mean too", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nI have a friend who thinks like you do, which is based on your responses to the comments. He has very poor social skills and is on the autism spectrum", ">\n\nI bet you're lots of fun at parties OP.", ">\n\nI can’t tell if this is farming karma with ridiculous opinions or if this individual just has a really hard time understanding that maybe their parents aren’t always the bad guys.", ">\n\nYep, thats definitely an unpopular opinion! \nIts certainly disrespectful. And most certainly not some sort of involuntary response like a sneeze. It may feel that way to you, because you've done it so much - but there are plenty of people who don't do it. UNLIKE people who don't sneeze at pepper, or cough at dust. Like, you're just plain wrong on this one. Moreover, I think you're trying to justify/rationalize it yourself rather than address it in a healthy way - a marker suggesting you have some narcissistic tendencies.", ">\n\nWhat a stupid argument, take your upvote", ">\n\nIt’s a sign of contempt. The facial expression expert Dr. Eikman could predict how long a barrage would last based on 4 expressions and the frequency used when the couple was interviewed. Eye rolling was one.. in fact you could remove the others and still reasonably predict marriage failures.", ">\n\nI wish it wasn’t disrespectful, because as an expressive person I LOVE a good eye roll. But, it has gotten me into trouble. I do it without even knowing it. I hate that I do… I wish sometimes I could be stone cold. Just like a fish. One expression face only. Blank fish eyes staring into nothingness.\nMy favourite mug says, “I can’t help what my face does when you talk”. There is a reason the the mug is meant to be cheeky.", ">\n\nSeems disrespectful to me because my eyes don't roll on their own, it would be a conscious act.", ">\n\nThis is 100% based on the premis that you can’t control your eyes. Rolling your eyes isn’t a natural movement. You control it.\nLaughing and crying aren’t necessarily controllable.", ">\n\nIn addition to this:\nfinding something somebody said stupid isnt disrespectful - makin fun in an exaggerated way, call em out in a mean way, or think everything they're gonna say next is bs is the disrespectful part.", ">\n\nSo your reaction is because you think someone is stupid, but thinking they are stupid isn't disrespectful?", ">\n\nThis, i agree with", ">\n\nGuess my mom didn't get the memo.", ">\n\nI don't think rolling your eyes is natural. I did wrong all the way up until last year. Thought you were supposed to make your eyes go in a circular motion 😂", ">\n\nFr. I may be able to control what I say…but my face will always show how I feel😂can’t help it and I’m tired of fake apologizing for it.", ">\n\nI don’t think rolling your eyes is a natural reaction the same way crying and laughing are. The only times I’ve rolled my eyes are when I intended to.", ">\n\nWhen my dad was/is drunk and angry he does it. Disrespectful and does not feel nice.", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nLol go to your room" ]
> Nah it's kinda rude. Hardly the worst thing ever though. Sometimes though, people roll their eyes to actually think about what they are going to say, though; it's an important thing to distinguish.	[ "🙄", ">\n\nYou’re grounded now", ">\n\nThe post above was someone getting electrocuted so this reply was very timely", ">\n\nThis news is shocking", ">\n\nIt definitely SPARKED my interest", ">\n\nAll of you guys need to leave, and not come back before learning how to conduct yourselves properly", ">\n\nUhhhh....... electricity", ">\n\nWell no, in the right context it is disrespectful. Rolling your eyes suggests that you're not taking the matter seriously or that you dont care which is a sign of disrespect towards whoever is speaking with you.", ">\n\nBut I can't control what I think. If I said \"man you're stupid and I don't care what you say\" thats disrespectful. I'm actually showing respect by not saying it.", ">\n\nI mean, actions speak louder than words, right?", ">\n\nIts not really an action tho its just an automatic response. Like gasping or yawning.", ">\n\nbullshit.\nSorry, it was an automatic response. Which is bullshit just like yours.", ">\n\nStill not the same thing. And they get on me for false analogies....", ">\n\nYou must be a teenager", ">\n\nLol how many times are you gonna post that. Dont you have an original thought of your own?", ">\n\nBruh I cant believe you make these posts. They're foolish", ">\n\nLaughing at someone can be disrespectful. Don't think so? Try laughing at someone's funeral.", ">\n\nThe disrespect comes from the one who told me a joke and made me laugh.", ">\n\nWhat about if no one said any joke? Because, you know, you are at a funeral.", ">\n\nSo someone's just there randomly laughing at shit? That sounds like a mental illness.", ">\n\nYou have never thought of something funny in your head to make yourself laugh? \nOr hell, maybe you didn't like the person who is buried and decided to laugh at them. You find it funny, so laughing must be appropriate, right?", ">\n\nWhy am I thinking about funny shit at a funeral.", ">\n\nBecause the universe likes to put us in uncomfortable positions sometimes.", ">\n\n“if its stupid or lame, you roll your eyes” - you found the disrespect", ">\n\nIm allowed to think whatever i want and its not disrespectful.", ">\n\nWhen you express contempt for something someone else said, it's disrespect.", ">\n\nWhat if what they said is contemptible?", ">\n\nSome people and comments deserve disrespect, still gonna be disrespect", ">\n\nLaughing, crying, and sneezing are all innate, involuntary reactions to certain types of stimuli. Rolling your eyes is a learned behavior. You can’t compare it to those other automatic responses because it’s not the same thing.", ">\n\nTake my upvote", ">\n\nOP rolled their eyes at someone and got chewed out for it.\nNow they're going online in an attempt to validate themselves.\n🙄", ">\n\nProbably got grounded.", ">\n\nPart of being a mature adult is to have self-control and not acting on every impulse and being respectful of people.", ">\n\n\nPart of being a mature adult\n\nYup but OP is clearly a teenager lol. They complain about being told off for doing chores wrong in another post…", ">\n\nEven a teenager should be able to have the fundamental basics of respect", ">\n\nOh I agree 100%", ">\n\nYou have poor self-control and poor self-awareness but the good news is that you can improve these things.", ">\n\n/r/wrongopinions", ">\n\nI feel like we need a new subreddit r/unpopularforareason", ">\n\nIt’s entire purpose is to be disrespectful. Nobody eyerolls something they respect. But how offensive it is depends on the context and how serious one is being.", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes\n\nYou rn: \"I'm not being disrespectful. I just thought what you said was stupid or lame.\"\n...", ">\n\nSaying its stupid could be disrespectful. A facial response is not.", ">\n\nLiterally every person in this thread agrees that it is.\nThis is your bad habit. Nobody else's responsibility but you.", ">\n\nThey can choose to not fly off the handle at what is just an innate reaction.", ">\n\nSo let me get this straight: you think you deserve to be able to disrespect whoever you like whenever you like but they can't as much as say you're being rude? Grow up.", ">\n\nFound the teenager.", ">\n\nMeh, I agree with that one. If you don't like how someone is doing something then do it yourself. There's a reason I live alone.", ">\n\nIt is a UNIVERSAL sign of disrespect. Globally. Deal with it.", ">\n\nLaughing can be disrespectuful too. If you cannot control your own reactions, well, what can I say, maybe you have not really grown up?", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s so it’s hard to control my own actions sometimes…", ">\n\nThank u I'm trying to explain how autism can make it hard to read not just others facial expressions but also ur own and it seems like no one has thought of the possibility that they acc don't realise it or csnt control it", ">\n\nWould you roll your eyes during a job interview if you thought a question was stupid or irrelevant? Do you think you’d get the job if you did?", ">\n\nPretty sure OP would think they were owed that job and they would think it’s ridiculous if they didn’t get it.\nOP is also a teenager going through their rebel phase though", ">\n\nYou're oddly specific here.", ">\n\nWhat was specific? Or rather oddly specific?", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a good way to fast track yourself to a divorce, if you want one.", ">\n\nI think OP needs the definition of respect before any further comment is made", ">\n\nOh I already know it, and I know it does not mean:\nDon't ever disagree with me\nDon't think bad thoughts about me\nDon't ever correct me when I'm blatantly wrong \nShine my boots with your tongue", ">\n\nSoooo this post isn’t about eye rolling is what I’m getting from this. You’ve got issues to work through with your parents or partner or something", ">\n\nSince when tf was eye rolling involuntary?", ">", ">\n\nYour lack of self control is not a justification for disrespect. I personally dont know anyone who reacts to anything by rolling their eyes. Just be mature and communicate.", ">\n\nAnd what if it's not stupid and someone rolls their eyes? Wouldn't it be disrespectful in that case?", ">\n\nIn the eye rollers opinion then it must have been. But you can't fault someone for thinking its stupid.", ">\n\nSo eyerolling is some kind of exceptional thing that is free from criticism? \nIf one has the freedom to eye roll, then someone else has the freedom to criticize the eye roller right? \nOr is it your opinion that besides that everyone who sees an eye roller has to just stfu", ">\n\nMeh, it is disrespectful. It's a way to be disrespectful without having to say That's the dumbest thing I've heard all month, and everyone else who heard it is also dumber for hearing it as well.", ">\n\nBut I didn't say it that's the point.", ">\n\nJust cuz you don’t use words doesn’t mean it’s not disrespectful. Walking away while someone is talking to you, rolling your eyes, slapping someone, and starting to play a game on your phone while someone is talking to you are all disrespectful. It doesn’t matter that you didn’t say anything, your lack of respect still showed.", ">\n\nespecially the way theyre responding to comments", ">\n\nYeah, a natural reaction if you’ve never learned to manage your emotions as opposed to letting them run your life. I’m not talking about being totally monotone rational, either. You need to learn a balance between rational and emotional…which includes healthy, appropriate, respectful expression of honest feelings. Eye rolling is absolutely disrespectful, belittling, and dismissive.", ">\n\nComments: OP is completely wrong and has attitude issues", ">\n\nWhat sounds like mental illness is you refusing to admit that rolling your eyes is simply not an unconditional response. Whether you want to believe it or not, you are doing it intentionally and you can control it. \nYou’re just to much of a b—— to do so.", ">\n\nSame to you", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a learned reaction. Not natural. I rarely of ever roll my eyes at anything.", ">", ">\n\nJust like raising your middle finger. Or vocalizing the sounds \"fuck you\". Or fingers typing the words fuck you OP. Nothing is disrespectful!", ">\n\nNice try but not the same thing at all. You're talking about thought out actions here. The eye roll is more like a reaction. Its quick, its automatic, no one has to think \"im rolling my eyes now\" it just happens. \nSort of like when telling a lie - no one decides to have their eyes dart around suspiciously, it just happens.", ">\n\nNo. Rolling your eyes is not involuntary. It can be controlled. You have a bad habit that you CAN stop. Much like a child learning not to suck their thumb, or biting your nails.", ">\n\nHow about you start with your hair scratching", ">\n\nYour opinion is a contradiction in itself. And, yeah. I disagree. Rolling your eyes is 100% to show lack of respect, and you have no intentions of showing it, even to reason, by rolling your eyes at something someone could believe is meaningful or important. Even if it is stupid.\nI get your point, we roll our eyes to express how we feel, but it is still a physical snare. You say rolling your eyes isn't disrespectful, while saying it's okay to roll your eyes because something is \" stupid or lame\", which in itself is disrespectful. You sound like a very young person in the middle of a learning moment, and you're trying to react with rebellion. It only shows that you lack maturity and are in need of growth. This might be a time for you to read these comments and reevaluate. There are healthier ways to react to things you disagree with, or lack interest in. If not, you can just accept that you roll your eyes to show lack of respect.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is much more deliberate than laughter, tears, or sneezing. It's a conscious action in response to a judgement you're making.", ">\n\nNah, dude it is disrespectful \nYou just have no self control and by the looks of it you don't want to build some", ">\n\nYour post made me roll my eyes very hard.", ">\n\n“No, officer, my wife - she MADE me hit her!”", ">\n\nIt's a natural reaction for a sooky kid but not an adult, if you do that as an adult you just manchild that wants everything their way", ">\n\npoor OP.... did you get in trouble after you rolled your eyes at something again? did you not prehaps learn from previous interactions? rolling your eyes at something \"stupid or lame\" is an intentional response that is disrespectful to whatever it is. mature people dont act that way.....", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes.\n\nSo it is disrespectful. \n\nIts like throwing pepper in someone's face an expecting them not to sneeze.\n\nNo it’s not. You can easily (edited in) refrain from rolling your eyes, while it’s much more difficult to refrain from sneezing. \nIt’s fine to think whatever you want, but you might want to refrain from rolling your eyes when you’re, say, interacting with your boss; aka someone that can make you unemployed for whatever reason they please.", ">\n\nThis isn't an opinion. It's just flat wrong. \nIt is disrespectful because it is a conscious signifier which clearly communicated that you think that the thing you are rolling your eyes at is not worthy of respect.", ">\n\nYou have to go out of your way to roll your eyes. It is NOT gutteral or instinctual", ">\n\nIf you annoy me, my arm whips out in a natural reaction and slaps you.", ">\n\nSorry, kiddo, it’s 100% disrespectful. Just own the shit and quit trying to lawyer around it.\nI say that after having rolled my eyes so hard at your post, I travelled back in time.", ">\n\nTell that to my family lol you get the belt", ">\n\nThis was made my a 15 year old who just got told off by their mom about rolling their eyes. Then in defense said, “I can’t control it”", ">\n\nMan it's getting so aggressive sometimes here 😂", ">\n\ni certainly hope you are embarrassed about this in a couple years when you grow up.", ">\n\nOP is a habitual eye roller 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄", ">\n\nI wish to God we could block people by age, no more edgy 13yo’s", ">\n\nSomebody just got their ps5 taken away for rolling their eyes", ">\n\nTell me you're 12 without telling me you're 12.", ">\n\nit’s the definition of disrespectful and a sign that you have literally nothing intelligent to say in return. \nwhich is why we outgrow it as adults.", ">\n\nYou can control it. It’s not an “automatic response” unless you’ve taught yourself to do it. I never roll my eyes. It’s just not something I have ever practiced doing. And yes…if I’m saying something too you and you dismiss it with an eye roll…it’s super disrespectful.", ">\n\nrolling your eyes is just as respectful as sticking your tongue out at someone or making a stupid face in reaction to something someone says", ">\n\nIf you can’t control your eye movement, you need to see a neurologist, dude 😆. As it stands, eye rolling isn’t a reflex or a “natural reaction” to anything. Habits aren’t the same as involuntary reactions.\nRolling your eyes at someone is disrespectful. It’s an outward sign that you think something about your interaction with them was stupid or wrong. There’s no one here that will agree with you, and you know that you’re in the vast minority with this opinion because you posted it on this sub. Now learn some humility and accept that your opinion is factually incorrect based on science.", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nAre you like 14 and your mom got you in trouble cause you rolled your eyes at her? Lmao", ">\n\nI’m gonna show your mom this and it’s going to be another week of being grounded, you little shit lol", ">\n\nOmfg 😂", ">\n\nOP I have to ask.\n\n\nHow old are you?\n\n\nHow is your relationship with your parents?\n\n\nHow do you view authority figures in your life?", ">\n\nrolls eyes", ">\n\nIf you say or demand something stupid from me I will probably roll my eyes.", ">\n\nBut it is", ">\n\nJust like rolling your eyes is an innate response, so are other people's responses to you rolling your eyes.", ">\n\nSometimes being respectful requires hiding your subjective opinion on whether something is stupid or lame.", ">\n\nI wouldn’t say eye rolling is as involuntary as laughing or crying tho. It’s more of a choice.", ">\n\nIf someone rolls their eyes then I feel disrespected it’s a natural reaction.", ">\n\ntell me you're a teenager without telling me you're a teenager", ">\n\nI'm rolling my eyes at this post. And I definitely mean it disrespectfully.", ">\n\nLmao this kid had an argument with his parent(s) or teacher and is venting on Reddit.", ">\n\nYou sound like an eye rolling arsehole", ">\n\ni have never had an as a nonvoulentary action, it requires very explicit movement of you eye. this is like saying “when i dont like people, i punch them in the head, thats my natural reaction i cant control it”\ni have never once legitimately rolled my eyes at something, i think you might be an asshole", ">\n\nMe smacking your face is also an innate uncontrollable response to you rolling your eyes. I'm only human. What can I do? 🙄", ">\n\nI disagree. also there are a billion other ways to express something being stupid or lame than rolling ur eyes", ">\n\nStop downvoting, this is ACTUALLY a very unpopular opinion and I love to see it tbh. Voice your disagreement in the comments but don't downvote the post. This post is hilarious.", ">\n\nThis is something you’ve learned to do. It’s entirely in your control if you do it or not.", ">\n\nI once got a detention for rolling my eyes at a teacher in 4th grade.\nI agree with you, though. The only other person I've ever really rolled my eyes at was my mother, and she deserved it, every single time.", ">\n\nI get your point. I absolutely purposefully roll my eyes sometimes and whoever I'm doing it to would be valid for getting mad. \nBut as someone who can't hide any emotion on their face (literally any, I'm the definition of an open book) there have been plenty of times where people blew up at me or laughed because I rolled my eyes when I didn't even realize I had done it. Feel like the people disagreeing with you haven't experienced this problem.", ">\n\nWhat you've done is cultivate a bad habit and then blamed it on everyone else when you repeat your own bad habit unintentionally.\nThis is entirely your fault.", ">\n\nOnly on Reddit would someone so boldly declare something like this to a stranger. I'm on the spectrum so that might have to do with my not being able to hide any emotion (I truly mean that, people can basically read my thoughts just by looking at me, good and bad). \nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave. Consider working on that.", ">\n\nSo they point out you’re cultivating a bad habit and blaming other people so you then, blame them? It’s a little spot on don’t you think?", ">\n\nWhen did i blame them for my own actions? Could you quote me? I was just pointing out how weird it was that they made such a strong assumption of my character off a causal comment I left when they themselves were ironically being unnecessarily rude in the process. \nI don't know how you got so lost?", ">\n\n\nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave.\n\nClassic deflection and implication that they’re the one with the problem, not you", ">\n\nFirst its not automatic. I almost never rolled my eyes. Its much easier to control than laughing crying or sneezing. So you just dont make the effort. Its actually a way to express your feeling. You should know that, its your personnality not a human instinctive reaction. \nAnd yes not respecting something is disrespectful. Its not that hard to understand. \nAnyway if i see you.. i dont know having a breakdown after being fired and dumped and start to laugh you'd like that ? \nIf im sad because something good happens to you and show it to you, you would like that ? \nHonestly you are just trying to justify being a bit of a jerk. \nI dont blame you or anything we all are jerks sometime but its what you are doing right now.", ">\n\nI have to refocus my eyes and most of the time blinking doesn’t cut it. I have a lazy eye and when I look at someone for a long time it unfocuses, so moving the muscle is the only way to reset it. If I don’t, people start moving their heads/ bodies trying to focus on my lazy eye. It gets awkward.", ">\n\nThis is where I go to my training as a kid. What others think of you is none of your business.", ">\n\nUnless you have a tick or something like Tourette’s syndrome, then it’s not an involuntary response. Part of living in a society and not being considered rude is managing your body language.\nLet me put it this way. “Rudeness” in itself is a social concept. That means it’s decided by the perception of the masses, what we generally agree upon in terms of our symbols of communication, our customs, our beliefs, our values, etc. For you to say that rolling your eyes isn’t disrespectful is not objectively wrong. But according to the society you live in, it is wrong. In layman’s terms, the hill you’re dying on here is completely arbitrary, neither side will ever be truly correct but as long as you live in a society which feels this way then you will be beholden to it anyways.", ">\n\nTo be fair, if your thinking its stupid or lame, then that is dis-respect. I'd agree with this if it was worded like 'More people need to say what they truly think', but I think you sort of missed the mark, OP.", ">\n\nI am equally annoyed when folks rapidly blink and look away mid conversation or drop their arm dead against their thigh. It’s like you’ve given up an effort to even keep your body vertical and engaged while I’m talking to you.", ">\n\nOP getting downvoted AF & keeps commenting. Gotta love it.", ">\n\nIt is shown as a sign of disrespect and it shows weakness. I can’t imagine Gandhi, the queen of England or Einstein roll their eyes in front of random people. The reason why they were respected is because they didn’t play any superiority game on front of… inferiors or ignorant people. If something is stupid, get the patience and find enough love within yourself to treat the other ones right. \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a child because his question is “stupid”, what parent does it make you ? \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a bad question because you are an expert in a subject, then it is not your modesty that speaks but your ego. For proof : Even if someone you hate said something intelligent, you might want to roll your eyes just to flatter your ego.", ">\n\nIt's seen as disrespectful BECAUSE it's inadvertently telling them you think they're irritating/annoying.", ">\n\nI never roll my eyes? Is that something people do naturally?", ">\n\nAll depends on the context of what is going on.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is not a natural reaction?", ">\n\nNot maintaining basic self control is disrespectful. It's the same reason we don't defecate in public, sneeze on people, or stand in the way of foot traffic.", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s and one of my tics is eye rolling", ">\n\nK", ">\n\nI accidentally roll my eyes at people sometimes when I'm not even trying to", ">\n\nThe sign of a true unpopular opinion: Nobody upvoting it, but everybody commenting to say how they disagree. If you disagree, then give it an upvote. That's the point of this sub.", ">\n\nI think it depends.", ">\n\nThis had to be written by someone under the age of 25", ">\n\nRolling your eyes isn’t natural though. It’s cultural or socially learned if that makes sense. Like if you rolled your eyes at a tribe that is disconnected from society they wouldn’t understand that you’re annoyed. So you cant really compare it to laughing.", ">\n\nI'm kind of curious if this is true though. Are you assuming this, or do you have some kind of study proving this? I'd actually like to see if your hypothesis is true, or if remote tribes also use this facial gesture.", ">\n\nI’m assuming it. Back in my country Turkey if you rolled your eyes at my grandparents they would be confused and wonder what you were doing and what it meant.", ">\n\nit's a maturity thing, keep rolling your eyes at 30-40, everyone gonna see you like a kid. \nyou gotta control your emotions, there's no need to do a expression when something is stupid or lame, you got a mouth and you respectfully share what's wrong, if the person in the other end is reluctant to stay on the same boat even after you talk about it. then you don't roll your eyes, you gotta say that there's nothing more you can do, and that you don't agree with it, and most likely leave to dodge any sort of problem.", ">\n\nI have a tic where I constantly roll my eyes. I’ve had it since I was little, but never noticed it until years later when I high school teacher yelled at me for disrespect. Apparently my parents took me for evaluation when I was very young and diagnosed Tourette’s but never had any other tics develop. Would have been nice to know 🤦🏼‍♀️ I just apologize now and say it’s a compulsion if people ask. I don’t even know when I’m doing it", ">\n\nIs laughing disrespectful? Because it can be. Just like rolling your eyes can be. There is a time and place for everything", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a passive aggressive response. Passive aggression is a tactic used by meek people who are frustrated and don’t have the courage to address a given situation. It’s disrespectful and it lowers your standing in the social hierarchy.", ">\n\nGet back to me when Disney Dad actively encourages your offspring to roll their eyes at you.", ">\n\nYeah it is when I want to be disrespectful to someone I roll my eyes when they make a point. It might be annoying to them, but it also let's them know I don't give a shit about whatever they just said. Now, I would never to it to my boss, or my teachers while I was in college, but when I was a teen I did it all the time because I was an asshole, who didn't care. \nIt's not a natural reaction lmao, it is learned behavior and it can be a bad habit, but it can be unlearned.", ">\n\nSome people can’t control it I know with me sometimes I roll my eyes without meaning too it’s not that I’m trying to be rude it’s just something I didn’t even realize I was doing nor did I mean too", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nI have a friend who thinks like you do, which is based on your responses to the comments. He has very poor social skills and is on the autism spectrum", ">\n\nI bet you're lots of fun at parties OP.", ">\n\nI can’t tell if this is farming karma with ridiculous opinions or if this individual just has a really hard time understanding that maybe their parents aren’t always the bad guys.", ">\n\nYep, thats definitely an unpopular opinion! \nIts certainly disrespectful. And most certainly not some sort of involuntary response like a sneeze. It may feel that way to you, because you've done it so much - but there are plenty of people who don't do it. UNLIKE people who don't sneeze at pepper, or cough at dust. Like, you're just plain wrong on this one. Moreover, I think you're trying to justify/rationalize it yourself rather than address it in a healthy way - a marker suggesting you have some narcissistic tendencies.", ">\n\nWhat a stupid argument, take your upvote", ">\n\nIt’s a sign of contempt. The facial expression expert Dr. Eikman could predict how long a barrage would last based on 4 expressions and the frequency used when the couple was interviewed. Eye rolling was one.. in fact you could remove the others and still reasonably predict marriage failures.", ">\n\nI wish it wasn’t disrespectful, because as an expressive person I LOVE a good eye roll. But, it has gotten me into trouble. I do it without even knowing it. I hate that I do… I wish sometimes I could be stone cold. Just like a fish. One expression face only. Blank fish eyes staring into nothingness.\nMy favourite mug says, “I can’t help what my face does when you talk”. There is a reason the the mug is meant to be cheeky.", ">\n\nSeems disrespectful to me because my eyes don't roll on their own, it would be a conscious act.", ">\n\nThis is 100% based on the premis that you can’t control your eyes. Rolling your eyes isn’t a natural movement. You control it.\nLaughing and crying aren’t necessarily controllable.", ">\n\nIn addition to this:\nfinding something somebody said stupid isnt disrespectful - makin fun in an exaggerated way, call em out in a mean way, or think everything they're gonna say next is bs is the disrespectful part.", ">\n\nSo your reaction is because you think someone is stupid, but thinking they are stupid isn't disrespectful?", ">\n\nThis, i agree with", ">\n\nGuess my mom didn't get the memo.", ">\n\nI don't think rolling your eyes is natural. I did wrong all the way up until last year. Thought you were supposed to make your eyes go in a circular motion 😂", ">\n\nFr. I may be able to control what I say…but my face will always show how I feel😂can’t help it and I’m tired of fake apologizing for it.", ">\n\nI don’t think rolling your eyes is a natural reaction the same way crying and laughing are. The only times I’ve rolled my eyes are when I intended to.", ">\n\nWhen my dad was/is drunk and angry he does it. Disrespectful and does not feel nice.", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nLol go to your room", ">\n\nWhat a dingbat. lol" ]
> I mean, its entire function as an expression is disrespect. that's literally the whole point of rolling your eyes. Natural instinct or not, it still implies disrespect.	[ "🙄", ">\n\nYou’re grounded now", ">\n\nThe post above was someone getting electrocuted so this reply was very timely", ">\n\nThis news is shocking", ">\n\nIt definitely SPARKED my interest", ">\n\nAll of you guys need to leave, and not come back before learning how to conduct yourselves properly", ">\n\nUhhhh....... electricity", ">\n\nWell no, in the right context it is disrespectful. Rolling your eyes suggests that you're not taking the matter seriously or that you dont care which is a sign of disrespect towards whoever is speaking with you.", ">\n\nBut I can't control what I think. If I said \"man you're stupid and I don't care what you say\" thats disrespectful. I'm actually showing respect by not saying it.", ">\n\nI mean, actions speak louder than words, right?", ">\n\nIts not really an action tho its just an automatic response. Like gasping or yawning.", ">\n\nbullshit.\nSorry, it was an automatic response. Which is bullshit just like yours.", ">\n\nStill not the same thing. And they get on me for false analogies....", ">\n\nYou must be a teenager", ">\n\nLol how many times are you gonna post that. Dont you have an original thought of your own?", ">\n\nBruh I cant believe you make these posts. They're foolish", ">\n\nLaughing at someone can be disrespectful. Don't think so? Try laughing at someone's funeral.", ">\n\nThe disrespect comes from the one who told me a joke and made me laugh.", ">\n\nWhat about if no one said any joke? Because, you know, you are at a funeral.", ">\n\nSo someone's just there randomly laughing at shit? That sounds like a mental illness.", ">\n\nYou have never thought of something funny in your head to make yourself laugh? \nOr hell, maybe you didn't like the person who is buried and decided to laugh at them. You find it funny, so laughing must be appropriate, right?", ">\n\nWhy am I thinking about funny shit at a funeral.", ">\n\nBecause the universe likes to put us in uncomfortable positions sometimes.", ">\n\n“if its stupid or lame, you roll your eyes” - you found the disrespect", ">\n\nIm allowed to think whatever i want and its not disrespectful.", ">\n\nWhen you express contempt for something someone else said, it's disrespect.", ">\n\nWhat if what they said is contemptible?", ">\n\nSome people and comments deserve disrespect, still gonna be disrespect", ">\n\nLaughing, crying, and sneezing are all innate, involuntary reactions to certain types of stimuli. Rolling your eyes is a learned behavior. You can’t compare it to those other automatic responses because it’s not the same thing.", ">\n\nTake my upvote", ">\n\nOP rolled their eyes at someone and got chewed out for it.\nNow they're going online in an attempt to validate themselves.\n🙄", ">\n\nProbably got grounded.", ">\n\nPart of being a mature adult is to have self-control and not acting on every impulse and being respectful of people.", ">\n\n\nPart of being a mature adult\n\nYup but OP is clearly a teenager lol. They complain about being told off for doing chores wrong in another post…", ">\n\nEven a teenager should be able to have the fundamental basics of respect", ">\n\nOh I agree 100%", ">\n\nYou have poor self-control and poor self-awareness but the good news is that you can improve these things.", ">\n\n/r/wrongopinions", ">\n\nI feel like we need a new subreddit r/unpopularforareason", ">\n\nIt’s entire purpose is to be disrespectful. Nobody eyerolls something they respect. But how offensive it is depends on the context and how serious one is being.", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes\n\nYou rn: \"I'm not being disrespectful. I just thought what you said was stupid or lame.\"\n...", ">\n\nSaying its stupid could be disrespectful. A facial response is not.", ">\n\nLiterally every person in this thread agrees that it is.\nThis is your bad habit. Nobody else's responsibility but you.", ">\n\nThey can choose to not fly off the handle at what is just an innate reaction.", ">\n\nSo let me get this straight: you think you deserve to be able to disrespect whoever you like whenever you like but they can't as much as say you're being rude? Grow up.", ">\n\nFound the teenager.", ">\n\nMeh, I agree with that one. If you don't like how someone is doing something then do it yourself. There's a reason I live alone.", ">\n\nIt is a UNIVERSAL sign of disrespect. Globally. Deal with it.", ">\n\nLaughing can be disrespectuful too. If you cannot control your own reactions, well, what can I say, maybe you have not really grown up?", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s so it’s hard to control my own actions sometimes…", ">\n\nThank u I'm trying to explain how autism can make it hard to read not just others facial expressions but also ur own and it seems like no one has thought of the possibility that they acc don't realise it or csnt control it", ">\n\nWould you roll your eyes during a job interview if you thought a question was stupid or irrelevant? Do you think you’d get the job if you did?", ">\n\nPretty sure OP would think they were owed that job and they would think it’s ridiculous if they didn’t get it.\nOP is also a teenager going through their rebel phase though", ">\n\nYou're oddly specific here.", ">\n\nWhat was specific? Or rather oddly specific?", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a good way to fast track yourself to a divorce, if you want one.", ">\n\nI think OP needs the definition of respect before any further comment is made", ">\n\nOh I already know it, and I know it does not mean:\nDon't ever disagree with me\nDon't think bad thoughts about me\nDon't ever correct me when I'm blatantly wrong \nShine my boots with your tongue", ">\n\nSoooo this post isn’t about eye rolling is what I’m getting from this. You’ve got issues to work through with your parents or partner or something", ">\n\nSince when tf was eye rolling involuntary?", ">", ">\n\nYour lack of self control is not a justification for disrespect. I personally dont know anyone who reacts to anything by rolling their eyes. Just be mature and communicate.", ">\n\nAnd what if it's not stupid and someone rolls their eyes? Wouldn't it be disrespectful in that case?", ">\n\nIn the eye rollers opinion then it must have been. But you can't fault someone for thinking its stupid.", ">\n\nSo eyerolling is some kind of exceptional thing that is free from criticism? \nIf one has the freedom to eye roll, then someone else has the freedom to criticize the eye roller right? \nOr is it your opinion that besides that everyone who sees an eye roller has to just stfu", ">\n\nMeh, it is disrespectful. It's a way to be disrespectful without having to say That's the dumbest thing I've heard all month, and everyone else who heard it is also dumber for hearing it as well.", ">\n\nBut I didn't say it that's the point.", ">\n\nJust cuz you don’t use words doesn’t mean it’s not disrespectful. Walking away while someone is talking to you, rolling your eyes, slapping someone, and starting to play a game on your phone while someone is talking to you are all disrespectful. It doesn’t matter that you didn’t say anything, your lack of respect still showed.", ">\n\nespecially the way theyre responding to comments", ">\n\nYeah, a natural reaction if you’ve never learned to manage your emotions as opposed to letting them run your life. I’m not talking about being totally monotone rational, either. You need to learn a balance between rational and emotional…which includes healthy, appropriate, respectful expression of honest feelings. Eye rolling is absolutely disrespectful, belittling, and dismissive.", ">\n\nComments: OP is completely wrong and has attitude issues", ">\n\nWhat sounds like mental illness is you refusing to admit that rolling your eyes is simply not an unconditional response. Whether you want to believe it or not, you are doing it intentionally and you can control it. \nYou’re just to much of a b—— to do so.", ">\n\nSame to you", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a learned reaction. Not natural. I rarely of ever roll my eyes at anything.", ">", ">\n\nJust like raising your middle finger. Or vocalizing the sounds \"fuck you\". Or fingers typing the words fuck you OP. Nothing is disrespectful!", ">\n\nNice try but not the same thing at all. You're talking about thought out actions here. The eye roll is more like a reaction. Its quick, its automatic, no one has to think \"im rolling my eyes now\" it just happens. \nSort of like when telling a lie - no one decides to have their eyes dart around suspiciously, it just happens.", ">\n\nNo. Rolling your eyes is not involuntary. It can be controlled. You have a bad habit that you CAN stop. Much like a child learning not to suck their thumb, or biting your nails.", ">\n\nHow about you start with your hair scratching", ">\n\nYour opinion is a contradiction in itself. And, yeah. I disagree. Rolling your eyes is 100% to show lack of respect, and you have no intentions of showing it, even to reason, by rolling your eyes at something someone could believe is meaningful or important. Even if it is stupid.\nI get your point, we roll our eyes to express how we feel, but it is still a physical snare. You say rolling your eyes isn't disrespectful, while saying it's okay to roll your eyes because something is \" stupid or lame\", which in itself is disrespectful. You sound like a very young person in the middle of a learning moment, and you're trying to react with rebellion. It only shows that you lack maturity and are in need of growth. This might be a time for you to read these comments and reevaluate. There are healthier ways to react to things you disagree with, or lack interest in. If not, you can just accept that you roll your eyes to show lack of respect.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is much more deliberate than laughter, tears, or sneezing. It's a conscious action in response to a judgement you're making.", ">\n\nNah, dude it is disrespectful \nYou just have no self control and by the looks of it you don't want to build some", ">\n\nYour post made me roll my eyes very hard.", ">\n\n“No, officer, my wife - she MADE me hit her!”", ">\n\nIt's a natural reaction for a sooky kid but not an adult, if you do that as an adult you just manchild that wants everything their way", ">\n\npoor OP.... did you get in trouble after you rolled your eyes at something again? did you not prehaps learn from previous interactions? rolling your eyes at something \"stupid or lame\" is an intentional response that is disrespectful to whatever it is. mature people dont act that way.....", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes.\n\nSo it is disrespectful. \n\nIts like throwing pepper in someone's face an expecting them not to sneeze.\n\nNo it’s not. You can easily (edited in) refrain from rolling your eyes, while it’s much more difficult to refrain from sneezing. \nIt’s fine to think whatever you want, but you might want to refrain from rolling your eyes when you’re, say, interacting with your boss; aka someone that can make you unemployed for whatever reason they please.", ">\n\nThis isn't an opinion. It's just flat wrong. \nIt is disrespectful because it is a conscious signifier which clearly communicated that you think that the thing you are rolling your eyes at is not worthy of respect.", ">\n\nYou have to go out of your way to roll your eyes. It is NOT gutteral or instinctual", ">\n\nIf you annoy me, my arm whips out in a natural reaction and slaps you.", ">\n\nSorry, kiddo, it’s 100% disrespectful. Just own the shit and quit trying to lawyer around it.\nI say that after having rolled my eyes so hard at your post, I travelled back in time.", ">\n\nTell that to my family lol you get the belt", ">\n\nThis was made my a 15 year old who just got told off by their mom about rolling their eyes. Then in defense said, “I can’t control it”", ">\n\nMan it's getting so aggressive sometimes here 😂", ">\n\ni certainly hope you are embarrassed about this in a couple years when you grow up.", ">\n\nOP is a habitual eye roller 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄", ">\n\nI wish to God we could block people by age, no more edgy 13yo’s", ">\n\nSomebody just got their ps5 taken away for rolling their eyes", ">\n\nTell me you're 12 without telling me you're 12.", ">\n\nit’s the definition of disrespectful and a sign that you have literally nothing intelligent to say in return. \nwhich is why we outgrow it as adults.", ">\n\nYou can control it. It’s not an “automatic response” unless you’ve taught yourself to do it. I never roll my eyes. It’s just not something I have ever practiced doing. And yes…if I’m saying something too you and you dismiss it with an eye roll…it’s super disrespectful.", ">\n\nrolling your eyes is just as respectful as sticking your tongue out at someone or making a stupid face in reaction to something someone says", ">\n\nIf you can’t control your eye movement, you need to see a neurologist, dude 😆. As it stands, eye rolling isn’t a reflex or a “natural reaction” to anything. Habits aren’t the same as involuntary reactions.\nRolling your eyes at someone is disrespectful. It’s an outward sign that you think something about your interaction with them was stupid or wrong. There’s no one here that will agree with you, and you know that you’re in the vast minority with this opinion because you posted it on this sub. Now learn some humility and accept that your opinion is factually incorrect based on science.", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nAre you like 14 and your mom got you in trouble cause you rolled your eyes at her? Lmao", ">\n\nI’m gonna show your mom this and it’s going to be another week of being grounded, you little shit lol", ">\n\nOmfg 😂", ">\n\nOP I have to ask.\n\n\nHow old are you?\n\n\nHow is your relationship with your parents?\n\n\nHow do you view authority figures in your life?", ">\n\nrolls eyes", ">\n\nIf you say or demand something stupid from me I will probably roll my eyes.", ">\n\nBut it is", ">\n\nJust like rolling your eyes is an innate response, so are other people's responses to you rolling your eyes.", ">\n\nSometimes being respectful requires hiding your subjective opinion on whether something is stupid or lame.", ">\n\nI wouldn’t say eye rolling is as involuntary as laughing or crying tho. It’s more of a choice.", ">\n\nIf someone rolls their eyes then I feel disrespected it’s a natural reaction.", ">\n\ntell me you're a teenager without telling me you're a teenager", ">\n\nI'm rolling my eyes at this post. And I definitely mean it disrespectfully.", ">\n\nLmao this kid had an argument with his parent(s) or teacher and is venting on Reddit.", ">\n\nYou sound like an eye rolling arsehole", ">\n\ni have never had an as a nonvoulentary action, it requires very explicit movement of you eye. this is like saying “when i dont like people, i punch them in the head, thats my natural reaction i cant control it”\ni have never once legitimately rolled my eyes at something, i think you might be an asshole", ">\n\nMe smacking your face is also an innate uncontrollable response to you rolling your eyes. I'm only human. What can I do? 🙄", ">\n\nI disagree. also there are a billion other ways to express something being stupid or lame than rolling ur eyes", ">\n\nStop downvoting, this is ACTUALLY a very unpopular opinion and I love to see it tbh. Voice your disagreement in the comments but don't downvote the post. This post is hilarious.", ">\n\nThis is something you’ve learned to do. It’s entirely in your control if you do it or not.", ">\n\nI once got a detention for rolling my eyes at a teacher in 4th grade.\nI agree with you, though. The only other person I've ever really rolled my eyes at was my mother, and she deserved it, every single time.", ">\n\nI get your point. I absolutely purposefully roll my eyes sometimes and whoever I'm doing it to would be valid for getting mad. \nBut as someone who can't hide any emotion on their face (literally any, I'm the definition of an open book) there have been plenty of times where people blew up at me or laughed because I rolled my eyes when I didn't even realize I had done it. Feel like the people disagreeing with you haven't experienced this problem.", ">\n\nWhat you've done is cultivate a bad habit and then blamed it on everyone else when you repeat your own bad habit unintentionally.\nThis is entirely your fault.", ">\n\nOnly on Reddit would someone so boldly declare something like this to a stranger. I'm on the spectrum so that might have to do with my not being able to hide any emotion (I truly mean that, people can basically read my thoughts just by looking at me, good and bad). \nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave. Consider working on that.", ">\n\nSo they point out you’re cultivating a bad habit and blaming other people so you then, blame them? It’s a little spot on don’t you think?", ">\n\nWhen did i blame them for my own actions? Could you quote me? I was just pointing out how weird it was that they made such a strong assumption of my character off a causal comment I left when they themselves were ironically being unnecessarily rude in the process. \nI don't know how you got so lost?", ">\n\n\nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave.\n\nClassic deflection and implication that they’re the one with the problem, not you", ">\n\nFirst its not automatic. I almost never rolled my eyes. Its much easier to control than laughing crying or sneezing. So you just dont make the effort. Its actually a way to express your feeling. You should know that, its your personnality not a human instinctive reaction. \nAnd yes not respecting something is disrespectful. Its not that hard to understand. \nAnyway if i see you.. i dont know having a breakdown after being fired and dumped and start to laugh you'd like that ? \nIf im sad because something good happens to you and show it to you, you would like that ? \nHonestly you are just trying to justify being a bit of a jerk. \nI dont blame you or anything we all are jerks sometime but its what you are doing right now.", ">\n\nI have to refocus my eyes and most of the time blinking doesn’t cut it. I have a lazy eye and when I look at someone for a long time it unfocuses, so moving the muscle is the only way to reset it. If I don’t, people start moving their heads/ bodies trying to focus on my lazy eye. It gets awkward.", ">\n\nThis is where I go to my training as a kid. What others think of you is none of your business.", ">\n\nUnless you have a tick or something like Tourette’s syndrome, then it’s not an involuntary response. Part of living in a society and not being considered rude is managing your body language.\nLet me put it this way. “Rudeness” in itself is a social concept. That means it’s decided by the perception of the masses, what we generally agree upon in terms of our symbols of communication, our customs, our beliefs, our values, etc. For you to say that rolling your eyes isn’t disrespectful is not objectively wrong. But according to the society you live in, it is wrong. In layman’s terms, the hill you’re dying on here is completely arbitrary, neither side will ever be truly correct but as long as you live in a society which feels this way then you will be beholden to it anyways.", ">\n\nTo be fair, if your thinking its stupid or lame, then that is dis-respect. I'd agree with this if it was worded like 'More people need to say what they truly think', but I think you sort of missed the mark, OP.", ">\n\nI am equally annoyed when folks rapidly blink and look away mid conversation or drop their arm dead against their thigh. It’s like you’ve given up an effort to even keep your body vertical and engaged while I’m talking to you.", ">\n\nOP getting downvoted AF & keeps commenting. Gotta love it.", ">\n\nIt is shown as a sign of disrespect and it shows weakness. I can’t imagine Gandhi, the queen of England or Einstein roll their eyes in front of random people. The reason why they were respected is because they didn’t play any superiority game on front of… inferiors or ignorant people. If something is stupid, get the patience and find enough love within yourself to treat the other ones right. \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a child because his question is “stupid”, what parent does it make you ? \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a bad question because you are an expert in a subject, then it is not your modesty that speaks but your ego. For proof : Even if someone you hate said something intelligent, you might want to roll your eyes just to flatter your ego.", ">\n\nIt's seen as disrespectful BECAUSE it's inadvertently telling them you think they're irritating/annoying.", ">\n\nI never roll my eyes? Is that something people do naturally?", ">\n\nAll depends on the context of what is going on.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is not a natural reaction?", ">\n\nNot maintaining basic self control is disrespectful. It's the same reason we don't defecate in public, sneeze on people, or stand in the way of foot traffic.", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s and one of my tics is eye rolling", ">\n\nK", ">\n\nI accidentally roll my eyes at people sometimes when I'm not even trying to", ">\n\nThe sign of a true unpopular opinion: Nobody upvoting it, but everybody commenting to say how they disagree. If you disagree, then give it an upvote. That's the point of this sub.", ">\n\nI think it depends.", ">\n\nThis had to be written by someone under the age of 25", ">\n\nRolling your eyes isn’t natural though. It’s cultural or socially learned if that makes sense. Like if you rolled your eyes at a tribe that is disconnected from society they wouldn’t understand that you’re annoyed. So you cant really compare it to laughing.", ">\n\nI'm kind of curious if this is true though. Are you assuming this, or do you have some kind of study proving this? I'd actually like to see if your hypothesis is true, or if remote tribes also use this facial gesture.", ">\n\nI’m assuming it. Back in my country Turkey if you rolled your eyes at my grandparents they would be confused and wonder what you were doing and what it meant.", ">\n\nit's a maturity thing, keep rolling your eyes at 30-40, everyone gonna see you like a kid. \nyou gotta control your emotions, there's no need to do a expression when something is stupid or lame, you got a mouth and you respectfully share what's wrong, if the person in the other end is reluctant to stay on the same boat even after you talk about it. then you don't roll your eyes, you gotta say that there's nothing more you can do, and that you don't agree with it, and most likely leave to dodge any sort of problem.", ">\n\nI have a tic where I constantly roll my eyes. I’ve had it since I was little, but never noticed it until years later when I high school teacher yelled at me for disrespect. Apparently my parents took me for evaluation when I was very young and diagnosed Tourette’s but never had any other tics develop. Would have been nice to know 🤦🏼‍♀️ I just apologize now and say it’s a compulsion if people ask. I don’t even know when I’m doing it", ">\n\nIs laughing disrespectful? Because it can be. Just like rolling your eyes can be. There is a time and place for everything", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a passive aggressive response. Passive aggression is a tactic used by meek people who are frustrated and don’t have the courage to address a given situation. It’s disrespectful and it lowers your standing in the social hierarchy.", ">\n\nGet back to me when Disney Dad actively encourages your offspring to roll their eyes at you.", ">\n\nYeah it is when I want to be disrespectful to someone I roll my eyes when they make a point. It might be annoying to them, but it also let's them know I don't give a shit about whatever they just said. Now, I would never to it to my boss, or my teachers while I was in college, but when I was a teen I did it all the time because I was an asshole, who didn't care. \nIt's not a natural reaction lmao, it is learned behavior and it can be a bad habit, but it can be unlearned.", ">\n\nSome people can’t control it I know with me sometimes I roll my eyes without meaning too it’s not that I’m trying to be rude it’s just something I didn’t even realize I was doing nor did I mean too", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nI have a friend who thinks like you do, which is based on your responses to the comments. He has very poor social skills and is on the autism spectrum", ">\n\nI bet you're lots of fun at parties OP.", ">\n\nI can’t tell if this is farming karma with ridiculous opinions or if this individual just has a really hard time understanding that maybe their parents aren’t always the bad guys.", ">\n\nYep, thats definitely an unpopular opinion! \nIts certainly disrespectful. And most certainly not some sort of involuntary response like a sneeze. It may feel that way to you, because you've done it so much - but there are plenty of people who don't do it. UNLIKE people who don't sneeze at pepper, or cough at dust. Like, you're just plain wrong on this one. Moreover, I think you're trying to justify/rationalize it yourself rather than address it in a healthy way - a marker suggesting you have some narcissistic tendencies.", ">\n\nWhat a stupid argument, take your upvote", ">\n\nIt’s a sign of contempt. The facial expression expert Dr. Eikman could predict how long a barrage would last based on 4 expressions and the frequency used when the couple was interviewed. Eye rolling was one.. in fact you could remove the others and still reasonably predict marriage failures.", ">\n\nI wish it wasn’t disrespectful, because as an expressive person I LOVE a good eye roll. But, it has gotten me into trouble. I do it without even knowing it. I hate that I do… I wish sometimes I could be stone cold. Just like a fish. One expression face only. Blank fish eyes staring into nothingness.\nMy favourite mug says, “I can’t help what my face does when you talk”. There is a reason the the mug is meant to be cheeky.", ">\n\nSeems disrespectful to me because my eyes don't roll on their own, it would be a conscious act.", ">\n\nThis is 100% based on the premis that you can’t control your eyes. Rolling your eyes isn’t a natural movement. You control it.\nLaughing and crying aren’t necessarily controllable.", ">\n\nIn addition to this:\nfinding something somebody said stupid isnt disrespectful - makin fun in an exaggerated way, call em out in a mean way, or think everything they're gonna say next is bs is the disrespectful part.", ">\n\nSo your reaction is because you think someone is stupid, but thinking they are stupid isn't disrespectful?", ">\n\nThis, i agree with", ">\n\nGuess my mom didn't get the memo.", ">\n\nI don't think rolling your eyes is natural. I did wrong all the way up until last year. Thought you were supposed to make your eyes go in a circular motion 😂", ">\n\nFr. I may be able to control what I say…but my face will always show how I feel😂can’t help it and I’m tired of fake apologizing for it.", ">\n\nI don’t think rolling your eyes is a natural reaction the same way crying and laughing are. The only times I’ve rolled my eyes are when I intended to.", ">\n\nWhen my dad was/is drunk and angry he does it. Disrespectful and does not feel nice.", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nLol go to your room", ">\n\nWhat a dingbat. lol", ">\n\nNah it's kinda rude. Hardly the worst thing ever though. Sometimes though, people roll their eyes to actually think about what they are going to say, though; it's an important thing to distinguish." ]
> I used to roll my eyes often because I have bad eyeshit, and doing it relieved eye strain. I couldn't tell you the amount of times this got me in shit.	[ "🙄", ">\n\nYou’re grounded now", ">\n\nThe post above was someone getting electrocuted so this reply was very timely", ">\n\nThis news is shocking", ">\n\nIt definitely SPARKED my interest", ">\n\nAll of you guys need to leave, and not come back before learning how to conduct yourselves properly", ">\n\nUhhhh....... electricity", ">\n\nWell no, in the right context it is disrespectful. Rolling your eyes suggests that you're not taking the matter seriously or that you dont care which is a sign of disrespect towards whoever is speaking with you.", ">\n\nBut I can't control what I think. If I said \"man you're stupid and I don't care what you say\" thats disrespectful. I'm actually showing respect by not saying it.", ">\n\nI mean, actions speak louder than words, right?", ">\n\nIts not really an action tho its just an automatic response. Like gasping or yawning.", ">\n\nbullshit.\nSorry, it was an automatic response. Which is bullshit just like yours.", ">\n\nStill not the same thing. And they get on me for false analogies....", ">\n\nYou must be a teenager", ">\n\nLol how many times are you gonna post that. Dont you have an original thought of your own?", ">\n\nBruh I cant believe you make these posts. They're foolish", ">\n\nLaughing at someone can be disrespectful. Don't think so? Try laughing at someone's funeral.", ">\n\nThe disrespect comes from the one who told me a joke and made me laugh.", ">\n\nWhat about if no one said any joke? Because, you know, you are at a funeral.", ">\n\nSo someone's just there randomly laughing at shit? That sounds like a mental illness.", ">\n\nYou have never thought of something funny in your head to make yourself laugh? \nOr hell, maybe you didn't like the person who is buried and decided to laugh at them. You find it funny, so laughing must be appropriate, right?", ">\n\nWhy am I thinking about funny shit at a funeral.", ">\n\nBecause the universe likes to put us in uncomfortable positions sometimes.", ">\n\n“if its stupid or lame, you roll your eyes” - you found the disrespect", ">\n\nIm allowed to think whatever i want and its not disrespectful.", ">\n\nWhen you express contempt for something someone else said, it's disrespect.", ">\n\nWhat if what they said is contemptible?", ">\n\nSome people and comments deserve disrespect, still gonna be disrespect", ">\n\nLaughing, crying, and sneezing are all innate, involuntary reactions to certain types of stimuli. Rolling your eyes is a learned behavior. You can’t compare it to those other automatic responses because it’s not the same thing.", ">\n\nTake my upvote", ">\n\nOP rolled their eyes at someone and got chewed out for it.\nNow they're going online in an attempt to validate themselves.\n🙄", ">\n\nProbably got grounded.", ">\n\nPart of being a mature adult is to have self-control and not acting on every impulse and being respectful of people.", ">\n\n\nPart of being a mature adult\n\nYup but OP is clearly a teenager lol. They complain about being told off for doing chores wrong in another post…", ">\n\nEven a teenager should be able to have the fundamental basics of respect", ">\n\nOh I agree 100%", ">\n\nYou have poor self-control and poor self-awareness but the good news is that you can improve these things.", ">\n\n/r/wrongopinions", ">\n\nI feel like we need a new subreddit r/unpopularforareason", ">\n\nIt’s entire purpose is to be disrespectful. Nobody eyerolls something they respect. But how offensive it is depends on the context and how serious one is being.", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes\n\nYou rn: \"I'm not being disrespectful. I just thought what you said was stupid or lame.\"\n...", ">\n\nSaying its stupid could be disrespectful. A facial response is not.", ">\n\nLiterally every person in this thread agrees that it is.\nThis is your bad habit. Nobody else's responsibility but you.", ">\n\nThey can choose to not fly off the handle at what is just an innate reaction.", ">\n\nSo let me get this straight: you think you deserve to be able to disrespect whoever you like whenever you like but they can't as much as say you're being rude? Grow up.", ">\n\nFound the teenager.", ">\n\nMeh, I agree with that one. If you don't like how someone is doing something then do it yourself. There's a reason I live alone.", ">\n\nIt is a UNIVERSAL sign of disrespect. Globally. Deal with it.", ">\n\nLaughing can be disrespectuful too. If you cannot control your own reactions, well, what can I say, maybe you have not really grown up?", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s so it’s hard to control my own actions sometimes…", ">\n\nThank u I'm trying to explain how autism can make it hard to read not just others facial expressions but also ur own and it seems like no one has thought of the possibility that they acc don't realise it or csnt control it", ">\n\nWould you roll your eyes during a job interview if you thought a question was stupid or irrelevant? Do you think you’d get the job if you did?", ">\n\nPretty sure OP would think they were owed that job and they would think it’s ridiculous if they didn’t get it.\nOP is also a teenager going through their rebel phase though", ">\n\nYou're oddly specific here.", ">\n\nWhat was specific? Or rather oddly specific?", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a good way to fast track yourself to a divorce, if you want one.", ">\n\nI think OP needs the definition of respect before any further comment is made", ">\n\nOh I already know it, and I know it does not mean:\nDon't ever disagree with me\nDon't think bad thoughts about me\nDon't ever correct me when I'm blatantly wrong \nShine my boots with your tongue", ">\n\nSoooo this post isn’t about eye rolling is what I’m getting from this. You’ve got issues to work through with your parents or partner or something", ">\n\nSince when tf was eye rolling involuntary?", ">", ">\n\nYour lack of self control is not a justification for disrespect. I personally dont know anyone who reacts to anything by rolling their eyes. Just be mature and communicate.", ">\n\nAnd what if it's not stupid and someone rolls their eyes? Wouldn't it be disrespectful in that case?", ">\n\nIn the eye rollers opinion then it must have been. But you can't fault someone for thinking its stupid.", ">\n\nSo eyerolling is some kind of exceptional thing that is free from criticism? \nIf one has the freedom to eye roll, then someone else has the freedom to criticize the eye roller right? \nOr is it your opinion that besides that everyone who sees an eye roller has to just stfu", ">\n\nMeh, it is disrespectful. It's a way to be disrespectful without having to say That's the dumbest thing I've heard all month, and everyone else who heard it is also dumber for hearing it as well.", ">\n\nBut I didn't say it that's the point.", ">\n\nJust cuz you don’t use words doesn’t mean it’s not disrespectful. Walking away while someone is talking to you, rolling your eyes, slapping someone, and starting to play a game on your phone while someone is talking to you are all disrespectful. It doesn’t matter that you didn’t say anything, your lack of respect still showed.", ">\n\nespecially the way theyre responding to comments", ">\n\nYeah, a natural reaction if you’ve never learned to manage your emotions as opposed to letting them run your life. I’m not talking about being totally monotone rational, either. You need to learn a balance between rational and emotional…which includes healthy, appropriate, respectful expression of honest feelings. Eye rolling is absolutely disrespectful, belittling, and dismissive.", ">\n\nComments: OP is completely wrong and has attitude issues", ">\n\nWhat sounds like mental illness is you refusing to admit that rolling your eyes is simply not an unconditional response. Whether you want to believe it or not, you are doing it intentionally and you can control it. \nYou’re just to much of a b—— to do so.", ">\n\nSame to you", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a learned reaction. Not natural. I rarely of ever roll my eyes at anything.", ">", ">\n\nJust like raising your middle finger. Or vocalizing the sounds \"fuck you\". Or fingers typing the words fuck you OP. Nothing is disrespectful!", ">\n\nNice try but not the same thing at all. You're talking about thought out actions here. The eye roll is more like a reaction. Its quick, its automatic, no one has to think \"im rolling my eyes now\" it just happens. \nSort of like when telling a lie - no one decides to have their eyes dart around suspiciously, it just happens.", ">\n\nNo. Rolling your eyes is not involuntary. It can be controlled. You have a bad habit that you CAN stop. Much like a child learning not to suck their thumb, or biting your nails.", ">\n\nHow about you start with your hair scratching", ">\n\nYour opinion is a contradiction in itself. And, yeah. I disagree. Rolling your eyes is 100% to show lack of respect, and you have no intentions of showing it, even to reason, by rolling your eyes at something someone could believe is meaningful or important. Even if it is stupid.\nI get your point, we roll our eyes to express how we feel, but it is still a physical snare. You say rolling your eyes isn't disrespectful, while saying it's okay to roll your eyes because something is \" stupid or lame\", which in itself is disrespectful. You sound like a very young person in the middle of a learning moment, and you're trying to react with rebellion. It only shows that you lack maturity and are in need of growth. This might be a time for you to read these comments and reevaluate. There are healthier ways to react to things you disagree with, or lack interest in. If not, you can just accept that you roll your eyes to show lack of respect.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is much more deliberate than laughter, tears, or sneezing. It's a conscious action in response to a judgement you're making.", ">\n\nNah, dude it is disrespectful \nYou just have no self control and by the looks of it you don't want to build some", ">\n\nYour post made me roll my eyes very hard.", ">\n\n“No, officer, my wife - she MADE me hit her!”", ">\n\nIt's a natural reaction for a sooky kid but not an adult, if you do that as an adult you just manchild that wants everything their way", ">\n\npoor OP.... did you get in trouble after you rolled your eyes at something again? did you not prehaps learn from previous interactions? rolling your eyes at something \"stupid or lame\" is an intentional response that is disrespectful to whatever it is. mature people dont act that way.....", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes.\n\nSo it is disrespectful. \n\nIts like throwing pepper in someone's face an expecting them not to sneeze.\n\nNo it’s not. You can easily (edited in) refrain from rolling your eyes, while it’s much more difficult to refrain from sneezing. \nIt’s fine to think whatever you want, but you might want to refrain from rolling your eyes when you’re, say, interacting with your boss; aka someone that can make you unemployed for whatever reason they please.", ">\n\nThis isn't an opinion. It's just flat wrong. \nIt is disrespectful because it is a conscious signifier which clearly communicated that you think that the thing you are rolling your eyes at is not worthy of respect.", ">\n\nYou have to go out of your way to roll your eyes. It is NOT gutteral or instinctual", ">\n\nIf you annoy me, my arm whips out in a natural reaction and slaps you.", ">\n\nSorry, kiddo, it’s 100% disrespectful. Just own the shit and quit trying to lawyer around it.\nI say that after having rolled my eyes so hard at your post, I travelled back in time.", ">\n\nTell that to my family lol you get the belt", ">\n\nThis was made my a 15 year old who just got told off by their mom about rolling their eyes. Then in defense said, “I can’t control it”", ">\n\nMan it's getting so aggressive sometimes here 😂", ">\n\ni certainly hope you are embarrassed about this in a couple years when you grow up.", ">\n\nOP is a habitual eye roller 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄", ">\n\nI wish to God we could block people by age, no more edgy 13yo’s", ">\n\nSomebody just got their ps5 taken away for rolling their eyes", ">\n\nTell me you're 12 without telling me you're 12.", ">\n\nit’s the definition of disrespectful and a sign that you have literally nothing intelligent to say in return. \nwhich is why we outgrow it as adults.", ">\n\nYou can control it. It’s not an “automatic response” unless you’ve taught yourself to do it. I never roll my eyes. It’s just not something I have ever practiced doing. And yes…if I’m saying something too you and you dismiss it with an eye roll…it’s super disrespectful.", ">\n\nrolling your eyes is just as respectful as sticking your tongue out at someone or making a stupid face in reaction to something someone says", ">\n\nIf you can’t control your eye movement, you need to see a neurologist, dude 😆. As it stands, eye rolling isn’t a reflex or a “natural reaction” to anything. Habits aren’t the same as involuntary reactions.\nRolling your eyes at someone is disrespectful. It’s an outward sign that you think something about your interaction with them was stupid or wrong. There’s no one here that will agree with you, and you know that you’re in the vast minority with this opinion because you posted it on this sub. Now learn some humility and accept that your opinion is factually incorrect based on science.", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nAre you like 14 and your mom got you in trouble cause you rolled your eyes at her? Lmao", ">\n\nI’m gonna show your mom this and it’s going to be another week of being grounded, you little shit lol", ">\n\nOmfg 😂", ">\n\nOP I have to ask.\n\n\nHow old are you?\n\n\nHow is your relationship with your parents?\n\n\nHow do you view authority figures in your life?", ">\n\nrolls eyes", ">\n\nIf you say or demand something stupid from me I will probably roll my eyes.", ">\n\nBut it is", ">\n\nJust like rolling your eyes is an innate response, so are other people's responses to you rolling your eyes.", ">\n\nSometimes being respectful requires hiding your subjective opinion on whether something is stupid or lame.", ">\n\nI wouldn’t say eye rolling is as involuntary as laughing or crying tho. It’s more of a choice.", ">\n\nIf someone rolls their eyes then I feel disrespected it’s a natural reaction.", ">\n\ntell me you're a teenager without telling me you're a teenager", ">\n\nI'm rolling my eyes at this post. And I definitely mean it disrespectfully.", ">\n\nLmao this kid had an argument with his parent(s) or teacher and is venting on Reddit.", ">\n\nYou sound like an eye rolling arsehole", ">\n\ni have never had an as a nonvoulentary action, it requires very explicit movement of you eye. this is like saying “when i dont like people, i punch them in the head, thats my natural reaction i cant control it”\ni have never once legitimately rolled my eyes at something, i think you might be an asshole", ">\n\nMe smacking your face is also an innate uncontrollable response to you rolling your eyes. I'm only human. What can I do? 🙄", ">\n\nI disagree. also there are a billion other ways to express something being stupid or lame than rolling ur eyes", ">\n\nStop downvoting, this is ACTUALLY a very unpopular opinion and I love to see it tbh. Voice your disagreement in the comments but don't downvote the post. This post is hilarious.", ">\n\nThis is something you’ve learned to do. It’s entirely in your control if you do it or not.", ">\n\nI once got a detention for rolling my eyes at a teacher in 4th grade.\nI agree with you, though. The only other person I've ever really rolled my eyes at was my mother, and she deserved it, every single time.", ">\n\nI get your point. I absolutely purposefully roll my eyes sometimes and whoever I'm doing it to would be valid for getting mad. \nBut as someone who can't hide any emotion on their face (literally any, I'm the definition of an open book) there have been plenty of times where people blew up at me or laughed because I rolled my eyes when I didn't even realize I had done it. Feel like the people disagreeing with you haven't experienced this problem.", ">\n\nWhat you've done is cultivate a bad habit and then blamed it on everyone else when you repeat your own bad habit unintentionally.\nThis is entirely your fault.", ">\n\nOnly on Reddit would someone so boldly declare something like this to a stranger. I'm on the spectrum so that might have to do with my not being able to hide any emotion (I truly mean that, people can basically read my thoughts just by looking at me, good and bad). \nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave. Consider working on that.", ">\n\nSo they point out you’re cultivating a bad habit and blaming other people so you then, blame them? It’s a little spot on don’t you think?", ">\n\nWhen did i blame them for my own actions? Could you quote me? I was just pointing out how weird it was that they made such a strong assumption of my character off a causal comment I left when they themselves were ironically being unnecessarily rude in the process. \nI don't know how you got so lost?", ">\n\n\nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave.\n\nClassic deflection and implication that they’re the one with the problem, not you", ">\n\nFirst its not automatic. I almost never rolled my eyes. Its much easier to control than laughing crying or sneezing. So you just dont make the effort. Its actually a way to express your feeling. You should know that, its your personnality not a human instinctive reaction. \nAnd yes not respecting something is disrespectful. Its not that hard to understand. \nAnyway if i see you.. i dont know having a breakdown after being fired and dumped and start to laugh you'd like that ? \nIf im sad because something good happens to you and show it to you, you would like that ? \nHonestly you are just trying to justify being a bit of a jerk. \nI dont blame you or anything we all are jerks sometime but its what you are doing right now.", ">\n\nI have to refocus my eyes and most of the time blinking doesn’t cut it. I have a lazy eye and when I look at someone for a long time it unfocuses, so moving the muscle is the only way to reset it. If I don’t, people start moving their heads/ bodies trying to focus on my lazy eye. It gets awkward.", ">\n\nThis is where I go to my training as a kid. What others think of you is none of your business.", ">\n\nUnless you have a tick or something like Tourette’s syndrome, then it’s not an involuntary response. Part of living in a society and not being considered rude is managing your body language.\nLet me put it this way. “Rudeness” in itself is a social concept. That means it’s decided by the perception of the masses, what we generally agree upon in terms of our symbols of communication, our customs, our beliefs, our values, etc. For you to say that rolling your eyes isn’t disrespectful is not objectively wrong. But according to the society you live in, it is wrong. In layman’s terms, the hill you’re dying on here is completely arbitrary, neither side will ever be truly correct but as long as you live in a society which feels this way then you will be beholden to it anyways.", ">\n\nTo be fair, if your thinking its stupid or lame, then that is dis-respect. I'd agree with this if it was worded like 'More people need to say what they truly think', but I think you sort of missed the mark, OP.", ">\n\nI am equally annoyed when folks rapidly blink and look away mid conversation or drop their arm dead against their thigh. It’s like you’ve given up an effort to even keep your body vertical and engaged while I’m talking to you.", ">\n\nOP getting downvoted AF & keeps commenting. Gotta love it.", ">\n\nIt is shown as a sign of disrespect and it shows weakness. I can’t imagine Gandhi, the queen of England or Einstein roll their eyes in front of random people. The reason why they were respected is because they didn’t play any superiority game on front of… inferiors or ignorant people. If something is stupid, get the patience and find enough love within yourself to treat the other ones right. \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a child because his question is “stupid”, what parent does it make you ? \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a bad question because you are an expert in a subject, then it is not your modesty that speaks but your ego. For proof : Even if someone you hate said something intelligent, you might want to roll your eyes just to flatter your ego.", ">\n\nIt's seen as disrespectful BECAUSE it's inadvertently telling them you think they're irritating/annoying.", ">\n\nI never roll my eyes? Is that something people do naturally?", ">\n\nAll depends on the context of what is going on.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is not a natural reaction?", ">\n\nNot maintaining basic self control is disrespectful. It's the same reason we don't defecate in public, sneeze on people, or stand in the way of foot traffic.", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s and one of my tics is eye rolling", ">\n\nK", ">\n\nI accidentally roll my eyes at people sometimes when I'm not even trying to", ">\n\nThe sign of a true unpopular opinion: Nobody upvoting it, but everybody commenting to say how they disagree. If you disagree, then give it an upvote. That's the point of this sub.", ">\n\nI think it depends.", ">\n\nThis had to be written by someone under the age of 25", ">\n\nRolling your eyes isn’t natural though. It’s cultural or socially learned if that makes sense. Like if you rolled your eyes at a tribe that is disconnected from society they wouldn’t understand that you’re annoyed. So you cant really compare it to laughing.", ">\n\nI'm kind of curious if this is true though. Are you assuming this, or do you have some kind of study proving this? I'd actually like to see if your hypothesis is true, or if remote tribes also use this facial gesture.", ">\n\nI’m assuming it. Back in my country Turkey if you rolled your eyes at my grandparents they would be confused and wonder what you were doing and what it meant.", ">\n\nit's a maturity thing, keep rolling your eyes at 30-40, everyone gonna see you like a kid. \nyou gotta control your emotions, there's no need to do a expression when something is stupid or lame, you got a mouth and you respectfully share what's wrong, if the person in the other end is reluctant to stay on the same boat even after you talk about it. then you don't roll your eyes, you gotta say that there's nothing more you can do, and that you don't agree with it, and most likely leave to dodge any sort of problem.", ">\n\nI have a tic where I constantly roll my eyes. I’ve had it since I was little, but never noticed it until years later when I high school teacher yelled at me for disrespect. Apparently my parents took me for evaluation when I was very young and diagnosed Tourette’s but never had any other tics develop. Would have been nice to know 🤦🏼‍♀️ I just apologize now and say it’s a compulsion if people ask. I don’t even know when I’m doing it", ">\n\nIs laughing disrespectful? Because it can be. Just like rolling your eyes can be. There is a time and place for everything", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a passive aggressive response. Passive aggression is a tactic used by meek people who are frustrated and don’t have the courage to address a given situation. It’s disrespectful and it lowers your standing in the social hierarchy.", ">\n\nGet back to me when Disney Dad actively encourages your offspring to roll their eyes at you.", ">\n\nYeah it is when I want to be disrespectful to someone I roll my eyes when they make a point. It might be annoying to them, but it also let's them know I don't give a shit about whatever they just said. Now, I would never to it to my boss, or my teachers while I was in college, but when I was a teen I did it all the time because I was an asshole, who didn't care. \nIt's not a natural reaction lmao, it is learned behavior and it can be a bad habit, but it can be unlearned.", ">\n\nSome people can’t control it I know with me sometimes I roll my eyes without meaning too it’s not that I’m trying to be rude it’s just something I didn’t even realize I was doing nor did I mean too", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nI have a friend who thinks like you do, which is based on your responses to the comments. He has very poor social skills and is on the autism spectrum", ">\n\nI bet you're lots of fun at parties OP.", ">\n\nI can’t tell if this is farming karma with ridiculous opinions or if this individual just has a really hard time understanding that maybe their parents aren’t always the bad guys.", ">\n\nYep, thats definitely an unpopular opinion! \nIts certainly disrespectful. And most certainly not some sort of involuntary response like a sneeze. It may feel that way to you, because you've done it so much - but there are plenty of people who don't do it. UNLIKE people who don't sneeze at pepper, or cough at dust. Like, you're just plain wrong on this one. Moreover, I think you're trying to justify/rationalize it yourself rather than address it in a healthy way - a marker suggesting you have some narcissistic tendencies.", ">\n\nWhat a stupid argument, take your upvote", ">\n\nIt’s a sign of contempt. The facial expression expert Dr. Eikman could predict how long a barrage would last based on 4 expressions and the frequency used when the couple was interviewed. Eye rolling was one.. in fact you could remove the others and still reasonably predict marriage failures.", ">\n\nI wish it wasn’t disrespectful, because as an expressive person I LOVE a good eye roll. But, it has gotten me into trouble. I do it without even knowing it. I hate that I do… I wish sometimes I could be stone cold. Just like a fish. One expression face only. Blank fish eyes staring into nothingness.\nMy favourite mug says, “I can’t help what my face does when you talk”. There is a reason the the mug is meant to be cheeky.", ">\n\nSeems disrespectful to me because my eyes don't roll on their own, it would be a conscious act.", ">\n\nThis is 100% based on the premis that you can’t control your eyes. Rolling your eyes isn’t a natural movement. You control it.\nLaughing and crying aren’t necessarily controllable.", ">\n\nIn addition to this:\nfinding something somebody said stupid isnt disrespectful - makin fun in an exaggerated way, call em out in a mean way, or think everything they're gonna say next is bs is the disrespectful part.", ">\n\nSo your reaction is because you think someone is stupid, but thinking they are stupid isn't disrespectful?", ">\n\nThis, i agree with", ">\n\nGuess my mom didn't get the memo.", ">\n\nI don't think rolling your eyes is natural. I did wrong all the way up until last year. Thought you were supposed to make your eyes go in a circular motion 😂", ">\n\nFr. I may be able to control what I say…but my face will always show how I feel😂can’t help it and I’m tired of fake apologizing for it.", ">\n\nI don’t think rolling your eyes is a natural reaction the same way crying and laughing are. The only times I’ve rolled my eyes are when I intended to.", ">\n\nWhen my dad was/is drunk and angry he does it. Disrespectful and does not feel nice.", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nLol go to your room", ">\n\nWhat a dingbat. lol", ">\n\nNah it's kinda rude. Hardly the worst thing ever though. Sometimes though, people roll their eyes to actually think about what they are going to say, though; it's an important thing to distinguish.", ">\n\nI mean, its entire function as an expression is disrespect. that's literally the whole point of rolling your eyes. Natural instinct or not, it still implies disrespect." ]
> Laughing, crying… both can be controlled to an extent. Eye rolls can 100% be controlled. They aren’t a reflex. If they are in your case you should seek medical attention	[ "🙄", ">\n\nYou’re grounded now", ">\n\nThe post above was someone getting electrocuted so this reply was very timely", ">\n\nThis news is shocking", ">\n\nIt definitely SPARKED my interest", ">\n\nAll of you guys need to leave, and not come back before learning how to conduct yourselves properly", ">\n\nUhhhh....... electricity", ">\n\nWell no, in the right context it is disrespectful. Rolling your eyes suggests that you're not taking the matter seriously or that you dont care which is a sign of disrespect towards whoever is speaking with you.", ">\n\nBut I can't control what I think. If I said \"man you're stupid and I don't care what you say\" thats disrespectful. I'm actually showing respect by not saying it.", ">\n\nI mean, actions speak louder than words, right?", ">\n\nIts not really an action tho its just an automatic response. Like gasping or yawning.", ">\n\nbullshit.\nSorry, it was an automatic response. Which is bullshit just like yours.", ">\n\nStill not the same thing. And they get on me for false analogies....", ">\n\nYou must be a teenager", ">\n\nLol how many times are you gonna post that. Dont you have an original thought of your own?", ">\n\nBruh I cant believe you make these posts. They're foolish", ">\n\nLaughing at someone can be disrespectful. Don't think so? Try laughing at someone's funeral.", ">\n\nThe disrespect comes from the one who told me a joke and made me laugh.", ">\n\nWhat about if no one said any joke? Because, you know, you are at a funeral.", ">\n\nSo someone's just there randomly laughing at shit? That sounds like a mental illness.", ">\n\nYou have never thought of something funny in your head to make yourself laugh? \nOr hell, maybe you didn't like the person who is buried and decided to laugh at them. You find it funny, so laughing must be appropriate, right?", ">\n\nWhy am I thinking about funny shit at a funeral.", ">\n\nBecause the universe likes to put us in uncomfortable positions sometimes.", ">\n\n“if its stupid or lame, you roll your eyes” - you found the disrespect", ">\n\nIm allowed to think whatever i want and its not disrespectful.", ">\n\nWhen you express contempt for something someone else said, it's disrespect.", ">\n\nWhat if what they said is contemptible?", ">\n\nSome people and comments deserve disrespect, still gonna be disrespect", ">\n\nLaughing, crying, and sneezing are all innate, involuntary reactions to certain types of stimuli. Rolling your eyes is a learned behavior. You can’t compare it to those other automatic responses because it’s not the same thing.", ">\n\nTake my upvote", ">\n\nOP rolled their eyes at someone and got chewed out for it.\nNow they're going online in an attempt to validate themselves.\n🙄", ">\n\nProbably got grounded.", ">\n\nPart of being a mature adult is to have self-control and not acting on every impulse and being respectful of people.", ">\n\n\nPart of being a mature adult\n\nYup but OP is clearly a teenager lol. They complain about being told off for doing chores wrong in another post…", ">\n\nEven a teenager should be able to have the fundamental basics of respect", ">\n\nOh I agree 100%", ">\n\nYou have poor self-control and poor self-awareness but the good news is that you can improve these things.", ">\n\n/r/wrongopinions", ">\n\nI feel like we need a new subreddit r/unpopularforareason", ">\n\nIt’s entire purpose is to be disrespectful. Nobody eyerolls something they respect. But how offensive it is depends on the context and how serious one is being.", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes\n\nYou rn: \"I'm not being disrespectful. I just thought what you said was stupid or lame.\"\n...", ">\n\nSaying its stupid could be disrespectful. A facial response is not.", ">\n\nLiterally every person in this thread agrees that it is.\nThis is your bad habit. Nobody else's responsibility but you.", ">\n\nThey can choose to not fly off the handle at what is just an innate reaction.", ">\n\nSo let me get this straight: you think you deserve to be able to disrespect whoever you like whenever you like but they can't as much as say you're being rude? Grow up.", ">\n\nFound the teenager.", ">\n\nMeh, I agree with that one. If you don't like how someone is doing something then do it yourself. There's a reason I live alone.", ">\n\nIt is a UNIVERSAL sign of disrespect. Globally. Deal with it.", ">\n\nLaughing can be disrespectuful too. If you cannot control your own reactions, well, what can I say, maybe you have not really grown up?", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s so it’s hard to control my own actions sometimes…", ">\n\nThank u I'm trying to explain how autism can make it hard to read not just others facial expressions but also ur own and it seems like no one has thought of the possibility that they acc don't realise it or csnt control it", ">\n\nWould you roll your eyes during a job interview if you thought a question was stupid or irrelevant? Do you think you’d get the job if you did?", ">\n\nPretty sure OP would think they were owed that job and they would think it’s ridiculous if they didn’t get it.\nOP is also a teenager going through their rebel phase though", ">\n\nYou're oddly specific here.", ">\n\nWhat was specific? Or rather oddly specific?", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a good way to fast track yourself to a divorce, if you want one.", ">\n\nI think OP needs the definition of respect before any further comment is made", ">\n\nOh I already know it, and I know it does not mean:\nDon't ever disagree with me\nDon't think bad thoughts about me\nDon't ever correct me when I'm blatantly wrong \nShine my boots with your tongue", ">\n\nSoooo this post isn’t about eye rolling is what I’m getting from this. You’ve got issues to work through with your parents or partner or something", ">\n\nSince when tf was eye rolling involuntary?", ">", ">\n\nYour lack of self control is not a justification for disrespect. I personally dont know anyone who reacts to anything by rolling their eyes. Just be mature and communicate.", ">\n\nAnd what if it's not stupid and someone rolls their eyes? Wouldn't it be disrespectful in that case?", ">\n\nIn the eye rollers opinion then it must have been. But you can't fault someone for thinking its stupid.", ">\n\nSo eyerolling is some kind of exceptional thing that is free from criticism? \nIf one has the freedom to eye roll, then someone else has the freedom to criticize the eye roller right? \nOr is it your opinion that besides that everyone who sees an eye roller has to just stfu", ">\n\nMeh, it is disrespectful. It's a way to be disrespectful without having to say That's the dumbest thing I've heard all month, and everyone else who heard it is also dumber for hearing it as well.", ">\n\nBut I didn't say it that's the point.", ">\n\nJust cuz you don’t use words doesn’t mean it’s not disrespectful. Walking away while someone is talking to you, rolling your eyes, slapping someone, and starting to play a game on your phone while someone is talking to you are all disrespectful. It doesn’t matter that you didn’t say anything, your lack of respect still showed.", ">\n\nespecially the way theyre responding to comments", ">\n\nYeah, a natural reaction if you’ve never learned to manage your emotions as opposed to letting them run your life. I’m not talking about being totally monotone rational, either. You need to learn a balance between rational and emotional…which includes healthy, appropriate, respectful expression of honest feelings. Eye rolling is absolutely disrespectful, belittling, and dismissive.", ">\n\nComments: OP is completely wrong and has attitude issues", ">\n\nWhat sounds like mental illness is you refusing to admit that rolling your eyes is simply not an unconditional response. Whether you want to believe it or not, you are doing it intentionally and you can control it. \nYou’re just to much of a b—— to do so.", ">\n\nSame to you", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a learned reaction. Not natural. I rarely of ever roll my eyes at anything.", ">", ">\n\nJust like raising your middle finger. Or vocalizing the sounds \"fuck you\". Or fingers typing the words fuck you OP. Nothing is disrespectful!", ">\n\nNice try but not the same thing at all. You're talking about thought out actions here. The eye roll is more like a reaction. Its quick, its automatic, no one has to think \"im rolling my eyes now\" it just happens. \nSort of like when telling a lie - no one decides to have their eyes dart around suspiciously, it just happens.", ">\n\nNo. Rolling your eyes is not involuntary. It can be controlled. You have a bad habit that you CAN stop. Much like a child learning not to suck their thumb, or biting your nails.", ">\n\nHow about you start with your hair scratching", ">\n\nYour opinion is a contradiction in itself. And, yeah. I disagree. Rolling your eyes is 100% to show lack of respect, and you have no intentions of showing it, even to reason, by rolling your eyes at something someone could believe is meaningful or important. Even if it is stupid.\nI get your point, we roll our eyes to express how we feel, but it is still a physical snare. You say rolling your eyes isn't disrespectful, while saying it's okay to roll your eyes because something is \" stupid or lame\", which in itself is disrespectful. You sound like a very young person in the middle of a learning moment, and you're trying to react with rebellion. It only shows that you lack maturity and are in need of growth. This might be a time for you to read these comments and reevaluate. There are healthier ways to react to things you disagree with, or lack interest in. If not, you can just accept that you roll your eyes to show lack of respect.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is much more deliberate than laughter, tears, or sneezing. It's a conscious action in response to a judgement you're making.", ">\n\nNah, dude it is disrespectful \nYou just have no self control and by the looks of it you don't want to build some", ">\n\nYour post made me roll my eyes very hard.", ">\n\n“No, officer, my wife - she MADE me hit her!”", ">\n\nIt's a natural reaction for a sooky kid but not an adult, if you do that as an adult you just manchild that wants everything their way", ">\n\npoor OP.... did you get in trouble after you rolled your eyes at something again? did you not prehaps learn from previous interactions? rolling your eyes at something \"stupid or lame\" is an intentional response that is disrespectful to whatever it is. mature people dont act that way.....", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes.\n\nSo it is disrespectful. \n\nIts like throwing pepper in someone's face an expecting them not to sneeze.\n\nNo it’s not. You can easily (edited in) refrain from rolling your eyes, while it’s much more difficult to refrain from sneezing. \nIt’s fine to think whatever you want, but you might want to refrain from rolling your eyes when you’re, say, interacting with your boss; aka someone that can make you unemployed for whatever reason they please.", ">\n\nThis isn't an opinion. It's just flat wrong. \nIt is disrespectful because it is a conscious signifier which clearly communicated that you think that the thing you are rolling your eyes at is not worthy of respect.", ">\n\nYou have to go out of your way to roll your eyes. It is NOT gutteral or instinctual", ">\n\nIf you annoy me, my arm whips out in a natural reaction and slaps you.", ">\n\nSorry, kiddo, it’s 100% disrespectful. Just own the shit and quit trying to lawyer around it.\nI say that after having rolled my eyes so hard at your post, I travelled back in time.", ">\n\nTell that to my family lol you get the belt", ">\n\nThis was made my a 15 year old who just got told off by their mom about rolling their eyes. Then in defense said, “I can’t control it”", ">\n\nMan it's getting so aggressive sometimes here 😂", ">\n\ni certainly hope you are embarrassed about this in a couple years when you grow up.", ">\n\nOP is a habitual eye roller 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄", ">\n\nI wish to God we could block people by age, no more edgy 13yo’s", ">\n\nSomebody just got their ps5 taken away for rolling their eyes", ">\n\nTell me you're 12 without telling me you're 12.", ">\n\nit’s the definition of disrespectful and a sign that you have literally nothing intelligent to say in return. \nwhich is why we outgrow it as adults.", ">\n\nYou can control it. It’s not an “automatic response” unless you’ve taught yourself to do it. I never roll my eyes. It’s just not something I have ever practiced doing. And yes…if I’m saying something too you and you dismiss it with an eye roll…it’s super disrespectful.", ">\n\nrolling your eyes is just as respectful as sticking your tongue out at someone or making a stupid face in reaction to something someone says", ">\n\nIf you can’t control your eye movement, you need to see a neurologist, dude 😆. As it stands, eye rolling isn’t a reflex or a “natural reaction” to anything. Habits aren’t the same as involuntary reactions.\nRolling your eyes at someone is disrespectful. It’s an outward sign that you think something about your interaction with them was stupid or wrong. There’s no one here that will agree with you, and you know that you’re in the vast minority with this opinion because you posted it on this sub. Now learn some humility and accept that your opinion is factually incorrect based on science.", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nAre you like 14 and your mom got you in trouble cause you rolled your eyes at her? Lmao", ">\n\nI’m gonna show your mom this and it’s going to be another week of being grounded, you little shit lol", ">\n\nOmfg 😂", ">\n\nOP I have to ask.\n\n\nHow old are you?\n\n\nHow is your relationship with your parents?\n\n\nHow do you view authority figures in your life?", ">\n\nrolls eyes", ">\n\nIf you say or demand something stupid from me I will probably roll my eyes.", ">\n\nBut it is", ">\n\nJust like rolling your eyes is an innate response, so are other people's responses to you rolling your eyes.", ">\n\nSometimes being respectful requires hiding your subjective opinion on whether something is stupid or lame.", ">\n\nI wouldn’t say eye rolling is as involuntary as laughing or crying tho. It’s more of a choice.", ">\n\nIf someone rolls their eyes then I feel disrespected it’s a natural reaction.", ">\n\ntell me you're a teenager without telling me you're a teenager", ">\n\nI'm rolling my eyes at this post. And I definitely mean it disrespectfully.", ">\n\nLmao this kid had an argument with his parent(s) or teacher and is venting on Reddit.", ">\n\nYou sound like an eye rolling arsehole", ">\n\ni have never had an as a nonvoulentary action, it requires very explicit movement of you eye. this is like saying “when i dont like people, i punch them in the head, thats my natural reaction i cant control it”\ni have never once legitimately rolled my eyes at something, i think you might be an asshole", ">\n\nMe smacking your face is also an innate uncontrollable response to you rolling your eyes. I'm only human. What can I do? 🙄", ">\n\nI disagree. also there are a billion other ways to express something being stupid or lame than rolling ur eyes", ">\n\nStop downvoting, this is ACTUALLY a very unpopular opinion and I love to see it tbh. Voice your disagreement in the comments but don't downvote the post. This post is hilarious.", ">\n\nThis is something you’ve learned to do. It’s entirely in your control if you do it or not.", ">\n\nI once got a detention for rolling my eyes at a teacher in 4th grade.\nI agree with you, though. The only other person I've ever really rolled my eyes at was my mother, and she deserved it, every single time.", ">\n\nI get your point. I absolutely purposefully roll my eyes sometimes and whoever I'm doing it to would be valid for getting mad. \nBut as someone who can't hide any emotion on their face (literally any, I'm the definition of an open book) there have been plenty of times where people blew up at me or laughed because I rolled my eyes when I didn't even realize I had done it. Feel like the people disagreeing with you haven't experienced this problem.", ">\n\nWhat you've done is cultivate a bad habit and then blamed it on everyone else when you repeat your own bad habit unintentionally.\nThis is entirely your fault.", ">\n\nOnly on Reddit would someone so boldly declare something like this to a stranger. I'm on the spectrum so that might have to do with my not being able to hide any emotion (I truly mean that, people can basically read my thoughts just by looking at me, good and bad). \nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave. Consider working on that.", ">\n\nSo they point out you’re cultivating a bad habit and blaming other people so you then, blame them? It’s a little spot on don’t you think?", ">\n\nWhen did i blame them for my own actions? Could you quote me? I was just pointing out how weird it was that they made such a strong assumption of my character off a causal comment I left when they themselves were ironically being unnecessarily rude in the process. \nI don't know how you got so lost?", ">\n\n\nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave.\n\nClassic deflection and implication that they’re the one with the problem, not you", ">\n\nFirst its not automatic. I almost never rolled my eyes. Its much easier to control than laughing crying or sneezing. So you just dont make the effort. Its actually a way to express your feeling. You should know that, its your personnality not a human instinctive reaction. \nAnd yes not respecting something is disrespectful. Its not that hard to understand. \nAnyway if i see you.. i dont know having a breakdown after being fired and dumped and start to laugh you'd like that ? \nIf im sad because something good happens to you and show it to you, you would like that ? \nHonestly you are just trying to justify being a bit of a jerk. \nI dont blame you or anything we all are jerks sometime but its what you are doing right now.", ">\n\nI have to refocus my eyes and most of the time blinking doesn’t cut it. I have a lazy eye and when I look at someone for a long time it unfocuses, so moving the muscle is the only way to reset it. If I don’t, people start moving their heads/ bodies trying to focus on my lazy eye. It gets awkward.", ">\n\nThis is where I go to my training as a kid. What others think of you is none of your business.", ">\n\nUnless you have a tick or something like Tourette’s syndrome, then it’s not an involuntary response. Part of living in a society and not being considered rude is managing your body language.\nLet me put it this way. “Rudeness” in itself is a social concept. That means it’s decided by the perception of the masses, what we generally agree upon in terms of our symbols of communication, our customs, our beliefs, our values, etc. For you to say that rolling your eyes isn’t disrespectful is not objectively wrong. But according to the society you live in, it is wrong. In layman’s terms, the hill you’re dying on here is completely arbitrary, neither side will ever be truly correct but as long as you live in a society which feels this way then you will be beholden to it anyways.", ">\n\nTo be fair, if your thinking its stupid or lame, then that is dis-respect. I'd agree with this if it was worded like 'More people need to say what they truly think', but I think you sort of missed the mark, OP.", ">\n\nI am equally annoyed when folks rapidly blink and look away mid conversation or drop their arm dead against their thigh. It’s like you’ve given up an effort to even keep your body vertical and engaged while I’m talking to you.", ">\n\nOP getting downvoted AF & keeps commenting. Gotta love it.", ">\n\nIt is shown as a sign of disrespect and it shows weakness. I can’t imagine Gandhi, the queen of England or Einstein roll their eyes in front of random people. The reason why they were respected is because they didn’t play any superiority game on front of… inferiors or ignorant people. If something is stupid, get the patience and find enough love within yourself to treat the other ones right. \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a child because his question is “stupid”, what parent does it make you ? \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a bad question because you are an expert in a subject, then it is not your modesty that speaks but your ego. For proof : Even if someone you hate said something intelligent, you might want to roll your eyes just to flatter your ego.", ">\n\nIt's seen as disrespectful BECAUSE it's inadvertently telling them you think they're irritating/annoying.", ">\n\nI never roll my eyes? Is that something people do naturally?", ">\n\nAll depends on the context of what is going on.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is not a natural reaction?", ">\n\nNot maintaining basic self control is disrespectful. It's the same reason we don't defecate in public, sneeze on people, or stand in the way of foot traffic.", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s and one of my tics is eye rolling", ">\n\nK", ">\n\nI accidentally roll my eyes at people sometimes when I'm not even trying to", ">\n\nThe sign of a true unpopular opinion: Nobody upvoting it, but everybody commenting to say how they disagree. If you disagree, then give it an upvote. That's the point of this sub.", ">\n\nI think it depends.", ">\n\nThis had to be written by someone under the age of 25", ">\n\nRolling your eyes isn’t natural though. It’s cultural or socially learned if that makes sense. Like if you rolled your eyes at a tribe that is disconnected from society they wouldn’t understand that you’re annoyed. So you cant really compare it to laughing.", ">\n\nI'm kind of curious if this is true though. Are you assuming this, or do you have some kind of study proving this? I'd actually like to see if your hypothesis is true, or if remote tribes also use this facial gesture.", ">\n\nI’m assuming it. Back in my country Turkey if you rolled your eyes at my grandparents they would be confused and wonder what you were doing and what it meant.", ">\n\nit's a maturity thing, keep rolling your eyes at 30-40, everyone gonna see you like a kid. \nyou gotta control your emotions, there's no need to do a expression when something is stupid or lame, you got a mouth and you respectfully share what's wrong, if the person in the other end is reluctant to stay on the same boat even after you talk about it. then you don't roll your eyes, you gotta say that there's nothing more you can do, and that you don't agree with it, and most likely leave to dodge any sort of problem.", ">\n\nI have a tic where I constantly roll my eyes. I’ve had it since I was little, but never noticed it until years later when I high school teacher yelled at me for disrespect. Apparently my parents took me for evaluation when I was very young and diagnosed Tourette’s but never had any other tics develop. Would have been nice to know 🤦🏼‍♀️ I just apologize now and say it’s a compulsion if people ask. I don’t even know when I’m doing it", ">\n\nIs laughing disrespectful? Because it can be. Just like rolling your eyes can be. There is a time and place for everything", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a passive aggressive response. Passive aggression is a tactic used by meek people who are frustrated and don’t have the courage to address a given situation. It’s disrespectful and it lowers your standing in the social hierarchy.", ">\n\nGet back to me when Disney Dad actively encourages your offspring to roll their eyes at you.", ">\n\nYeah it is when I want to be disrespectful to someone I roll my eyes when they make a point. It might be annoying to them, but it also let's them know I don't give a shit about whatever they just said. Now, I would never to it to my boss, or my teachers while I was in college, but when I was a teen I did it all the time because I was an asshole, who didn't care. \nIt's not a natural reaction lmao, it is learned behavior and it can be a bad habit, but it can be unlearned.", ">\n\nSome people can’t control it I know with me sometimes I roll my eyes without meaning too it’s not that I’m trying to be rude it’s just something I didn’t even realize I was doing nor did I mean too", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nI have a friend who thinks like you do, which is based on your responses to the comments. He has very poor social skills and is on the autism spectrum", ">\n\nI bet you're lots of fun at parties OP.", ">\n\nI can’t tell if this is farming karma with ridiculous opinions or if this individual just has a really hard time understanding that maybe their parents aren’t always the bad guys.", ">\n\nYep, thats definitely an unpopular opinion! \nIts certainly disrespectful. And most certainly not some sort of involuntary response like a sneeze. It may feel that way to you, because you've done it so much - but there are plenty of people who don't do it. UNLIKE people who don't sneeze at pepper, or cough at dust. Like, you're just plain wrong on this one. Moreover, I think you're trying to justify/rationalize it yourself rather than address it in a healthy way - a marker suggesting you have some narcissistic tendencies.", ">\n\nWhat a stupid argument, take your upvote", ">\n\nIt’s a sign of contempt. The facial expression expert Dr. Eikman could predict how long a barrage would last based on 4 expressions and the frequency used when the couple was interviewed. Eye rolling was one.. in fact you could remove the others and still reasonably predict marriage failures.", ">\n\nI wish it wasn’t disrespectful, because as an expressive person I LOVE a good eye roll. But, it has gotten me into trouble. I do it without even knowing it. I hate that I do… I wish sometimes I could be stone cold. Just like a fish. One expression face only. Blank fish eyes staring into nothingness.\nMy favourite mug says, “I can’t help what my face does when you talk”. There is a reason the the mug is meant to be cheeky.", ">\n\nSeems disrespectful to me because my eyes don't roll on their own, it would be a conscious act.", ">\n\nThis is 100% based on the premis that you can’t control your eyes. Rolling your eyes isn’t a natural movement. You control it.\nLaughing and crying aren’t necessarily controllable.", ">\n\nIn addition to this:\nfinding something somebody said stupid isnt disrespectful - makin fun in an exaggerated way, call em out in a mean way, or think everything they're gonna say next is bs is the disrespectful part.", ">\n\nSo your reaction is because you think someone is stupid, but thinking they are stupid isn't disrespectful?", ">\n\nThis, i agree with", ">\n\nGuess my mom didn't get the memo.", ">\n\nI don't think rolling your eyes is natural. I did wrong all the way up until last year. Thought you were supposed to make your eyes go in a circular motion 😂", ">\n\nFr. I may be able to control what I say…but my face will always show how I feel😂can’t help it and I’m tired of fake apologizing for it.", ">\n\nI don’t think rolling your eyes is a natural reaction the same way crying and laughing are. The only times I’ve rolled my eyes are when I intended to.", ">\n\nWhen my dad was/is drunk and angry he does it. Disrespectful and does not feel nice.", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nLol go to your room", ">\n\nWhat a dingbat. lol", ">\n\nNah it's kinda rude. Hardly the worst thing ever though. Sometimes though, people roll their eyes to actually think about what they are going to say, though; it's an important thing to distinguish.", ">\n\nI mean, its entire function as an expression is disrespect. that's literally the whole point of rolling your eyes. Natural instinct or not, it still implies disrespect.", ">\n\nI used to roll my eyes often because I have bad eyeshit, and doing it relieved eye strain. I couldn't tell you the amount of times this got me in shit." ]
> If you roll your eyes as an involuntary reaction. Please see a doctor	[ "🙄", ">\n\nYou’re grounded now", ">\n\nThe post above was someone getting electrocuted so this reply was very timely", ">\n\nThis news is shocking", ">\n\nIt definitely SPARKED my interest", ">\n\nAll of you guys need to leave, and not come back before learning how to conduct yourselves properly", ">\n\nUhhhh....... electricity", ">\n\nWell no, in the right context it is disrespectful. Rolling your eyes suggests that you're not taking the matter seriously or that you dont care which is a sign of disrespect towards whoever is speaking with you.", ">\n\nBut I can't control what I think. If I said \"man you're stupid and I don't care what you say\" thats disrespectful. I'm actually showing respect by not saying it.", ">\n\nI mean, actions speak louder than words, right?", ">\n\nIts not really an action tho its just an automatic response. Like gasping or yawning.", ">\n\nbullshit.\nSorry, it was an automatic response. Which is bullshit just like yours.", ">\n\nStill not the same thing. And they get on me for false analogies....", ">\n\nYou must be a teenager", ">\n\nLol how many times are you gonna post that. Dont you have an original thought of your own?", ">\n\nBruh I cant believe you make these posts. They're foolish", ">\n\nLaughing at someone can be disrespectful. Don't think so? Try laughing at someone's funeral.", ">\n\nThe disrespect comes from the one who told me a joke and made me laugh.", ">\n\nWhat about if no one said any joke? Because, you know, you are at a funeral.", ">\n\nSo someone's just there randomly laughing at shit? That sounds like a mental illness.", ">\n\nYou have never thought of something funny in your head to make yourself laugh? \nOr hell, maybe you didn't like the person who is buried and decided to laugh at them. You find it funny, so laughing must be appropriate, right?", ">\n\nWhy am I thinking about funny shit at a funeral.", ">\n\nBecause the universe likes to put us in uncomfortable positions sometimes.", ">\n\n“if its stupid or lame, you roll your eyes” - you found the disrespect", ">\n\nIm allowed to think whatever i want and its not disrespectful.", ">\n\nWhen you express contempt for something someone else said, it's disrespect.", ">\n\nWhat if what they said is contemptible?", ">\n\nSome people and comments deserve disrespect, still gonna be disrespect", ">\n\nLaughing, crying, and sneezing are all innate, involuntary reactions to certain types of stimuli. Rolling your eyes is a learned behavior. You can’t compare it to those other automatic responses because it’s not the same thing.", ">\n\nTake my upvote", ">\n\nOP rolled their eyes at someone and got chewed out for it.\nNow they're going online in an attempt to validate themselves.\n🙄", ">\n\nProbably got grounded.", ">\n\nPart of being a mature adult is to have self-control and not acting on every impulse and being respectful of people.", ">\n\n\nPart of being a mature adult\n\nYup but OP is clearly a teenager lol. They complain about being told off for doing chores wrong in another post…", ">\n\nEven a teenager should be able to have the fundamental basics of respect", ">\n\nOh I agree 100%", ">\n\nYou have poor self-control and poor self-awareness but the good news is that you can improve these things.", ">\n\n/r/wrongopinions", ">\n\nI feel like we need a new subreddit r/unpopularforareason", ">\n\nIt’s entire purpose is to be disrespectful. Nobody eyerolls something they respect. But how offensive it is depends on the context and how serious one is being.", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes\n\nYou rn: \"I'm not being disrespectful. I just thought what you said was stupid or lame.\"\n...", ">\n\nSaying its stupid could be disrespectful. A facial response is not.", ">\n\nLiterally every person in this thread agrees that it is.\nThis is your bad habit. Nobody else's responsibility but you.", ">\n\nThey can choose to not fly off the handle at what is just an innate reaction.", ">\n\nSo let me get this straight: you think you deserve to be able to disrespect whoever you like whenever you like but they can't as much as say you're being rude? Grow up.", ">\n\nFound the teenager.", ">\n\nMeh, I agree with that one. If you don't like how someone is doing something then do it yourself. There's a reason I live alone.", ">\n\nIt is a UNIVERSAL sign of disrespect. Globally. Deal with it.", ">\n\nLaughing can be disrespectuful too. If you cannot control your own reactions, well, what can I say, maybe you have not really grown up?", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s so it’s hard to control my own actions sometimes…", ">\n\nThank u I'm trying to explain how autism can make it hard to read not just others facial expressions but also ur own and it seems like no one has thought of the possibility that they acc don't realise it or csnt control it", ">\n\nWould you roll your eyes during a job interview if you thought a question was stupid or irrelevant? Do you think you’d get the job if you did?", ">\n\nPretty sure OP would think they were owed that job and they would think it’s ridiculous if they didn’t get it.\nOP is also a teenager going through their rebel phase though", ">\n\nYou're oddly specific here.", ">\n\nWhat was specific? Or rather oddly specific?", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a good way to fast track yourself to a divorce, if you want one.", ">\n\nI think OP needs the definition of respect before any further comment is made", ">\n\nOh I already know it, and I know it does not mean:\nDon't ever disagree with me\nDon't think bad thoughts about me\nDon't ever correct me when I'm blatantly wrong \nShine my boots with your tongue", ">\n\nSoooo this post isn’t about eye rolling is what I’m getting from this. You’ve got issues to work through with your parents or partner or something", ">\n\nSince when tf was eye rolling involuntary?", ">", ">\n\nYour lack of self control is not a justification for disrespect. I personally dont know anyone who reacts to anything by rolling their eyes. Just be mature and communicate.", ">\n\nAnd what if it's not stupid and someone rolls their eyes? Wouldn't it be disrespectful in that case?", ">\n\nIn the eye rollers opinion then it must have been. But you can't fault someone for thinking its stupid.", ">\n\nSo eyerolling is some kind of exceptional thing that is free from criticism? \nIf one has the freedom to eye roll, then someone else has the freedom to criticize the eye roller right? \nOr is it your opinion that besides that everyone who sees an eye roller has to just stfu", ">\n\nMeh, it is disrespectful. It's a way to be disrespectful without having to say That's the dumbest thing I've heard all month, and everyone else who heard it is also dumber for hearing it as well.", ">\n\nBut I didn't say it that's the point.", ">\n\nJust cuz you don’t use words doesn’t mean it’s not disrespectful. Walking away while someone is talking to you, rolling your eyes, slapping someone, and starting to play a game on your phone while someone is talking to you are all disrespectful. It doesn’t matter that you didn’t say anything, your lack of respect still showed.", ">\n\nespecially the way theyre responding to comments", ">\n\nYeah, a natural reaction if you’ve never learned to manage your emotions as opposed to letting them run your life. I’m not talking about being totally monotone rational, either. You need to learn a balance between rational and emotional…which includes healthy, appropriate, respectful expression of honest feelings. Eye rolling is absolutely disrespectful, belittling, and dismissive.", ">\n\nComments: OP is completely wrong and has attitude issues", ">\n\nWhat sounds like mental illness is you refusing to admit that rolling your eyes is simply not an unconditional response. Whether you want to believe it or not, you are doing it intentionally and you can control it. \nYou’re just to much of a b—— to do so.", ">\n\nSame to you", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a learned reaction. Not natural. I rarely of ever roll my eyes at anything.", ">", ">\n\nJust like raising your middle finger. Or vocalizing the sounds \"fuck you\". Or fingers typing the words fuck you OP. Nothing is disrespectful!", ">\n\nNice try but not the same thing at all. You're talking about thought out actions here. The eye roll is more like a reaction. Its quick, its automatic, no one has to think \"im rolling my eyes now\" it just happens. \nSort of like when telling a lie - no one decides to have their eyes dart around suspiciously, it just happens.", ">\n\nNo. Rolling your eyes is not involuntary. It can be controlled. You have a bad habit that you CAN stop. Much like a child learning not to suck their thumb, or biting your nails.", ">\n\nHow about you start with your hair scratching", ">\n\nYour opinion is a contradiction in itself. And, yeah. I disagree. Rolling your eyes is 100% to show lack of respect, and you have no intentions of showing it, even to reason, by rolling your eyes at something someone could believe is meaningful or important. Even if it is stupid.\nI get your point, we roll our eyes to express how we feel, but it is still a physical snare. You say rolling your eyes isn't disrespectful, while saying it's okay to roll your eyes because something is \" stupid or lame\", which in itself is disrespectful. You sound like a very young person in the middle of a learning moment, and you're trying to react with rebellion. It only shows that you lack maturity and are in need of growth. This might be a time for you to read these comments and reevaluate. There are healthier ways to react to things you disagree with, or lack interest in. If not, you can just accept that you roll your eyes to show lack of respect.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is much more deliberate than laughter, tears, or sneezing. It's a conscious action in response to a judgement you're making.", ">\n\nNah, dude it is disrespectful \nYou just have no self control and by the looks of it you don't want to build some", ">\n\nYour post made me roll my eyes very hard.", ">\n\n“No, officer, my wife - she MADE me hit her!”", ">\n\nIt's a natural reaction for a sooky kid but not an adult, if you do that as an adult you just manchild that wants everything their way", ">\n\npoor OP.... did you get in trouble after you rolled your eyes at something again? did you not prehaps learn from previous interactions? rolling your eyes at something \"stupid or lame\" is an intentional response that is disrespectful to whatever it is. mature people dont act that way.....", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes.\n\nSo it is disrespectful. \n\nIts like throwing pepper in someone's face an expecting them not to sneeze.\n\nNo it’s not. You can easily (edited in) refrain from rolling your eyes, while it’s much more difficult to refrain from sneezing. \nIt’s fine to think whatever you want, but you might want to refrain from rolling your eyes when you’re, say, interacting with your boss; aka someone that can make you unemployed for whatever reason they please.", ">\n\nThis isn't an opinion. It's just flat wrong. \nIt is disrespectful because it is a conscious signifier which clearly communicated that you think that the thing you are rolling your eyes at is not worthy of respect.", ">\n\nYou have to go out of your way to roll your eyes. It is NOT gutteral or instinctual", ">\n\nIf you annoy me, my arm whips out in a natural reaction and slaps you.", ">\n\nSorry, kiddo, it’s 100% disrespectful. Just own the shit and quit trying to lawyer around it.\nI say that after having rolled my eyes so hard at your post, I travelled back in time.", ">\n\nTell that to my family lol you get the belt", ">\n\nThis was made my a 15 year old who just got told off by their mom about rolling their eyes. Then in defense said, “I can’t control it”", ">\n\nMan it's getting so aggressive sometimes here 😂", ">\n\ni certainly hope you are embarrassed about this in a couple years when you grow up.", ">\n\nOP is a habitual eye roller 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄", ">\n\nI wish to God we could block people by age, no more edgy 13yo’s", ">\n\nSomebody just got their ps5 taken away for rolling their eyes", ">\n\nTell me you're 12 without telling me you're 12.", ">\n\nit’s the definition of disrespectful and a sign that you have literally nothing intelligent to say in return. \nwhich is why we outgrow it as adults.", ">\n\nYou can control it. It’s not an “automatic response” unless you’ve taught yourself to do it. I never roll my eyes. It’s just not something I have ever practiced doing. And yes…if I’m saying something too you and you dismiss it with an eye roll…it’s super disrespectful.", ">\n\nrolling your eyes is just as respectful as sticking your tongue out at someone or making a stupid face in reaction to something someone says", ">\n\nIf you can’t control your eye movement, you need to see a neurologist, dude 😆. As it stands, eye rolling isn’t a reflex or a “natural reaction” to anything. Habits aren’t the same as involuntary reactions.\nRolling your eyes at someone is disrespectful. It’s an outward sign that you think something about your interaction with them was stupid or wrong. There’s no one here that will agree with you, and you know that you’re in the vast minority with this opinion because you posted it on this sub. Now learn some humility and accept that your opinion is factually incorrect based on science.", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nAre you like 14 and your mom got you in trouble cause you rolled your eyes at her? Lmao", ">\n\nI’m gonna show your mom this and it’s going to be another week of being grounded, you little shit lol", ">\n\nOmfg 😂", ">\n\nOP I have to ask.\n\n\nHow old are you?\n\n\nHow is your relationship with your parents?\n\n\nHow do you view authority figures in your life?", ">\n\nrolls eyes", ">\n\nIf you say or demand something stupid from me I will probably roll my eyes.", ">\n\nBut it is", ">\n\nJust like rolling your eyes is an innate response, so are other people's responses to you rolling your eyes.", ">\n\nSometimes being respectful requires hiding your subjective opinion on whether something is stupid or lame.", ">\n\nI wouldn’t say eye rolling is as involuntary as laughing or crying tho. It’s more of a choice.", ">\n\nIf someone rolls their eyes then I feel disrespected it’s a natural reaction.", ">\n\ntell me you're a teenager without telling me you're a teenager", ">\n\nI'm rolling my eyes at this post. And I definitely mean it disrespectfully.", ">\n\nLmao this kid had an argument with his parent(s) or teacher and is venting on Reddit.", ">\n\nYou sound like an eye rolling arsehole", ">\n\ni have never had an as a nonvoulentary action, it requires very explicit movement of you eye. this is like saying “when i dont like people, i punch them in the head, thats my natural reaction i cant control it”\ni have never once legitimately rolled my eyes at something, i think you might be an asshole", ">\n\nMe smacking your face is also an innate uncontrollable response to you rolling your eyes. I'm only human. What can I do? 🙄", ">\n\nI disagree. also there are a billion other ways to express something being stupid or lame than rolling ur eyes", ">\n\nStop downvoting, this is ACTUALLY a very unpopular opinion and I love to see it tbh. Voice your disagreement in the comments but don't downvote the post. This post is hilarious.", ">\n\nThis is something you’ve learned to do. It’s entirely in your control if you do it or not.", ">\n\nI once got a detention for rolling my eyes at a teacher in 4th grade.\nI agree with you, though. The only other person I've ever really rolled my eyes at was my mother, and she deserved it, every single time.", ">\n\nI get your point. I absolutely purposefully roll my eyes sometimes and whoever I'm doing it to would be valid for getting mad. \nBut as someone who can't hide any emotion on their face (literally any, I'm the definition of an open book) there have been plenty of times where people blew up at me or laughed because I rolled my eyes when I didn't even realize I had done it. Feel like the people disagreeing with you haven't experienced this problem.", ">\n\nWhat you've done is cultivate a bad habit and then blamed it on everyone else when you repeat your own bad habit unintentionally.\nThis is entirely your fault.", ">\n\nOnly on Reddit would someone so boldly declare something like this to a stranger. I'm on the spectrum so that might have to do with my not being able to hide any emotion (I truly mean that, people can basically read my thoughts just by looking at me, good and bad). \nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave. Consider working on that.", ">\n\nSo they point out you’re cultivating a bad habit and blaming other people so you then, blame them? It’s a little spot on don’t you think?", ">\n\nWhen did i blame them for my own actions? Could you quote me? I was just pointing out how weird it was that they made such a strong assumption of my character off a causal comment I left when they themselves were ironically being unnecessarily rude in the process. \nI don't know how you got so lost?", ">\n\n\nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave.\n\nClassic deflection and implication that they’re the one with the problem, not you", ">\n\nFirst its not automatic. I almost never rolled my eyes. Its much easier to control than laughing crying or sneezing. So you just dont make the effort. Its actually a way to express your feeling. You should know that, its your personnality not a human instinctive reaction. \nAnd yes not respecting something is disrespectful. Its not that hard to understand. \nAnyway if i see you.. i dont know having a breakdown after being fired and dumped and start to laugh you'd like that ? \nIf im sad because something good happens to you and show it to you, you would like that ? \nHonestly you are just trying to justify being a bit of a jerk. \nI dont blame you or anything we all are jerks sometime but its what you are doing right now.", ">\n\nI have to refocus my eyes and most of the time blinking doesn’t cut it. I have a lazy eye and when I look at someone for a long time it unfocuses, so moving the muscle is the only way to reset it. If I don’t, people start moving their heads/ bodies trying to focus on my lazy eye. It gets awkward.", ">\n\nThis is where I go to my training as a kid. What others think of you is none of your business.", ">\n\nUnless you have a tick or something like Tourette’s syndrome, then it’s not an involuntary response. Part of living in a society and not being considered rude is managing your body language.\nLet me put it this way. “Rudeness” in itself is a social concept. That means it’s decided by the perception of the masses, what we generally agree upon in terms of our symbols of communication, our customs, our beliefs, our values, etc. For you to say that rolling your eyes isn’t disrespectful is not objectively wrong. But according to the society you live in, it is wrong. In layman’s terms, the hill you’re dying on here is completely arbitrary, neither side will ever be truly correct but as long as you live in a society which feels this way then you will be beholden to it anyways.", ">\n\nTo be fair, if your thinking its stupid or lame, then that is dis-respect. I'd agree with this if it was worded like 'More people need to say what they truly think', but I think you sort of missed the mark, OP.", ">\n\nI am equally annoyed when folks rapidly blink and look away mid conversation or drop their arm dead against their thigh. It’s like you’ve given up an effort to even keep your body vertical and engaged while I’m talking to you.", ">\n\nOP getting downvoted AF & keeps commenting. Gotta love it.", ">\n\nIt is shown as a sign of disrespect and it shows weakness. I can’t imagine Gandhi, the queen of England or Einstein roll their eyes in front of random people. The reason why they were respected is because they didn’t play any superiority game on front of… inferiors or ignorant people. If something is stupid, get the patience and find enough love within yourself to treat the other ones right. \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a child because his question is “stupid”, what parent does it make you ? \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a bad question because you are an expert in a subject, then it is not your modesty that speaks but your ego. For proof : Even if someone you hate said something intelligent, you might want to roll your eyes just to flatter your ego.", ">\n\nIt's seen as disrespectful BECAUSE it's inadvertently telling them you think they're irritating/annoying.", ">\n\nI never roll my eyes? Is that something people do naturally?", ">\n\nAll depends on the context of what is going on.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is not a natural reaction?", ">\n\nNot maintaining basic self control is disrespectful. It's the same reason we don't defecate in public, sneeze on people, or stand in the way of foot traffic.", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s and one of my tics is eye rolling", ">\n\nK", ">\n\nI accidentally roll my eyes at people sometimes when I'm not even trying to", ">\n\nThe sign of a true unpopular opinion: Nobody upvoting it, but everybody commenting to say how they disagree. If you disagree, then give it an upvote. That's the point of this sub.", ">\n\nI think it depends.", ">\n\nThis had to be written by someone under the age of 25", ">\n\nRolling your eyes isn’t natural though. It’s cultural or socially learned if that makes sense. Like if you rolled your eyes at a tribe that is disconnected from society they wouldn’t understand that you’re annoyed. So you cant really compare it to laughing.", ">\n\nI'm kind of curious if this is true though. Are you assuming this, or do you have some kind of study proving this? I'd actually like to see if your hypothesis is true, or if remote tribes also use this facial gesture.", ">\n\nI’m assuming it. Back in my country Turkey if you rolled your eyes at my grandparents they would be confused and wonder what you were doing and what it meant.", ">\n\nit's a maturity thing, keep rolling your eyes at 30-40, everyone gonna see you like a kid. \nyou gotta control your emotions, there's no need to do a expression when something is stupid or lame, you got a mouth and you respectfully share what's wrong, if the person in the other end is reluctant to stay on the same boat even after you talk about it. then you don't roll your eyes, you gotta say that there's nothing more you can do, and that you don't agree with it, and most likely leave to dodge any sort of problem.", ">\n\nI have a tic where I constantly roll my eyes. I’ve had it since I was little, but never noticed it until years later when I high school teacher yelled at me for disrespect. Apparently my parents took me for evaluation when I was very young and diagnosed Tourette’s but never had any other tics develop. Would have been nice to know 🤦🏼‍♀️ I just apologize now and say it’s a compulsion if people ask. I don’t even know when I’m doing it", ">\n\nIs laughing disrespectful? Because it can be. Just like rolling your eyes can be. There is a time and place for everything", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a passive aggressive response. Passive aggression is a tactic used by meek people who are frustrated and don’t have the courage to address a given situation. It’s disrespectful and it lowers your standing in the social hierarchy.", ">\n\nGet back to me when Disney Dad actively encourages your offspring to roll their eyes at you.", ">\n\nYeah it is when I want to be disrespectful to someone I roll my eyes when they make a point. It might be annoying to them, but it also let's them know I don't give a shit about whatever they just said. Now, I would never to it to my boss, or my teachers while I was in college, but when I was a teen I did it all the time because I was an asshole, who didn't care. \nIt's not a natural reaction lmao, it is learned behavior and it can be a bad habit, but it can be unlearned.", ">\n\nSome people can’t control it I know with me sometimes I roll my eyes without meaning too it’s not that I’m trying to be rude it’s just something I didn’t even realize I was doing nor did I mean too", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nI have a friend who thinks like you do, which is based on your responses to the comments. He has very poor social skills and is on the autism spectrum", ">\n\nI bet you're lots of fun at parties OP.", ">\n\nI can’t tell if this is farming karma with ridiculous opinions or if this individual just has a really hard time understanding that maybe their parents aren’t always the bad guys.", ">\n\nYep, thats definitely an unpopular opinion! \nIts certainly disrespectful. And most certainly not some sort of involuntary response like a sneeze. It may feel that way to you, because you've done it so much - but there are plenty of people who don't do it. UNLIKE people who don't sneeze at pepper, or cough at dust. Like, you're just plain wrong on this one. Moreover, I think you're trying to justify/rationalize it yourself rather than address it in a healthy way - a marker suggesting you have some narcissistic tendencies.", ">\n\nWhat a stupid argument, take your upvote", ">\n\nIt’s a sign of contempt. The facial expression expert Dr. Eikman could predict how long a barrage would last based on 4 expressions and the frequency used when the couple was interviewed. Eye rolling was one.. in fact you could remove the others and still reasonably predict marriage failures.", ">\n\nI wish it wasn’t disrespectful, because as an expressive person I LOVE a good eye roll. But, it has gotten me into trouble. I do it without even knowing it. I hate that I do… I wish sometimes I could be stone cold. Just like a fish. One expression face only. Blank fish eyes staring into nothingness.\nMy favourite mug says, “I can’t help what my face does when you talk”. There is a reason the the mug is meant to be cheeky.", ">\n\nSeems disrespectful to me because my eyes don't roll on their own, it would be a conscious act.", ">\n\nThis is 100% based on the premis that you can’t control your eyes. Rolling your eyes isn’t a natural movement. You control it.\nLaughing and crying aren’t necessarily controllable.", ">\n\nIn addition to this:\nfinding something somebody said stupid isnt disrespectful - makin fun in an exaggerated way, call em out in a mean way, or think everything they're gonna say next is bs is the disrespectful part.", ">\n\nSo your reaction is because you think someone is stupid, but thinking they are stupid isn't disrespectful?", ">\n\nThis, i agree with", ">\n\nGuess my mom didn't get the memo.", ">\n\nI don't think rolling your eyes is natural. I did wrong all the way up until last year. Thought you were supposed to make your eyes go in a circular motion 😂", ">\n\nFr. I may be able to control what I say…but my face will always show how I feel😂can’t help it and I’m tired of fake apologizing for it.", ">\n\nI don’t think rolling your eyes is a natural reaction the same way crying and laughing are. The only times I’ve rolled my eyes are when I intended to.", ">\n\nWhen my dad was/is drunk and angry he does it. Disrespectful and does not feel nice.", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nLol go to your room", ">\n\nWhat a dingbat. lol", ">\n\nNah it's kinda rude. Hardly the worst thing ever though. Sometimes though, people roll their eyes to actually think about what they are going to say, though; it's an important thing to distinguish.", ">\n\nI mean, its entire function as an expression is disrespect. that's literally the whole point of rolling your eyes. Natural instinct or not, it still implies disrespect.", ">\n\nI used to roll my eyes often because I have bad eyeshit, and doing it relieved eye strain. I couldn't tell you the amount of times this got me in shit.", ">\n\nLaughing, crying… both can be controlled to an extent. Eye rolls can 100% be controlled. They aren’t a reflex. If they are in your case you should seek medical attention" ]
> your right this is an unpopular opinion but for a good fucking reason you have no soldi ground to stand on in any argument on this	[ "🙄", ">\n\nYou’re grounded now", ">\n\nThe post above was someone getting electrocuted so this reply was very timely", ">\n\nThis news is shocking", ">\n\nIt definitely SPARKED my interest", ">\n\nAll of you guys need to leave, and not come back before learning how to conduct yourselves properly", ">\n\nUhhhh....... electricity", ">\n\nWell no, in the right context it is disrespectful. Rolling your eyes suggests that you're not taking the matter seriously or that you dont care which is a sign of disrespect towards whoever is speaking with you.", ">\n\nBut I can't control what I think. If I said \"man you're stupid and I don't care what you say\" thats disrespectful. I'm actually showing respect by not saying it.", ">\n\nI mean, actions speak louder than words, right?", ">\n\nIts not really an action tho its just an automatic response. Like gasping or yawning.", ">\n\nbullshit.\nSorry, it was an automatic response. Which is bullshit just like yours.", ">\n\nStill not the same thing. And they get on me for false analogies....", ">\n\nYou must be a teenager", ">\n\nLol how many times are you gonna post that. Dont you have an original thought of your own?", ">\n\nBruh I cant believe you make these posts. They're foolish", ">\n\nLaughing at someone can be disrespectful. Don't think so? Try laughing at someone's funeral.", ">\n\nThe disrespect comes from the one who told me a joke and made me laugh.", ">\n\nWhat about if no one said any joke? Because, you know, you are at a funeral.", ">\n\nSo someone's just there randomly laughing at shit? That sounds like a mental illness.", ">\n\nYou have never thought of something funny in your head to make yourself laugh? \nOr hell, maybe you didn't like the person who is buried and decided to laugh at them. You find it funny, so laughing must be appropriate, right?", ">\n\nWhy am I thinking about funny shit at a funeral.", ">\n\nBecause the universe likes to put us in uncomfortable positions sometimes.", ">\n\n“if its stupid or lame, you roll your eyes” - you found the disrespect", ">\n\nIm allowed to think whatever i want and its not disrespectful.", ">\n\nWhen you express contempt for something someone else said, it's disrespect.", ">\n\nWhat if what they said is contemptible?", ">\n\nSome people and comments deserve disrespect, still gonna be disrespect", ">\n\nLaughing, crying, and sneezing are all innate, involuntary reactions to certain types of stimuli. Rolling your eyes is a learned behavior. You can’t compare it to those other automatic responses because it’s not the same thing.", ">\n\nTake my upvote", ">\n\nOP rolled their eyes at someone and got chewed out for it.\nNow they're going online in an attempt to validate themselves.\n🙄", ">\n\nProbably got grounded.", ">\n\nPart of being a mature adult is to have self-control and not acting on every impulse and being respectful of people.", ">\n\n\nPart of being a mature adult\n\nYup but OP is clearly a teenager lol. They complain about being told off for doing chores wrong in another post…", ">\n\nEven a teenager should be able to have the fundamental basics of respect", ">\n\nOh I agree 100%", ">\n\nYou have poor self-control and poor self-awareness but the good news is that you can improve these things.", ">\n\n/r/wrongopinions", ">\n\nI feel like we need a new subreddit r/unpopularforareason", ">\n\nIt’s entire purpose is to be disrespectful. Nobody eyerolls something they respect. But how offensive it is depends on the context and how serious one is being.", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes\n\nYou rn: \"I'm not being disrespectful. I just thought what you said was stupid or lame.\"\n...", ">\n\nSaying its stupid could be disrespectful. A facial response is not.", ">\n\nLiterally every person in this thread agrees that it is.\nThis is your bad habit. Nobody else's responsibility but you.", ">\n\nThey can choose to not fly off the handle at what is just an innate reaction.", ">\n\nSo let me get this straight: you think you deserve to be able to disrespect whoever you like whenever you like but they can't as much as say you're being rude? Grow up.", ">\n\nFound the teenager.", ">\n\nMeh, I agree with that one. If you don't like how someone is doing something then do it yourself. There's a reason I live alone.", ">\n\nIt is a UNIVERSAL sign of disrespect. Globally. Deal with it.", ">\n\nLaughing can be disrespectuful too. If you cannot control your own reactions, well, what can I say, maybe you have not really grown up?", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s so it’s hard to control my own actions sometimes…", ">\n\nThank u I'm trying to explain how autism can make it hard to read not just others facial expressions but also ur own and it seems like no one has thought of the possibility that they acc don't realise it or csnt control it", ">\n\nWould you roll your eyes during a job interview if you thought a question was stupid or irrelevant? Do you think you’d get the job if you did?", ">\n\nPretty sure OP would think they were owed that job and they would think it’s ridiculous if they didn’t get it.\nOP is also a teenager going through their rebel phase though", ">\n\nYou're oddly specific here.", ">\n\nWhat was specific? Or rather oddly specific?", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a good way to fast track yourself to a divorce, if you want one.", ">\n\nI think OP needs the definition of respect before any further comment is made", ">\n\nOh I already know it, and I know it does not mean:\nDon't ever disagree with me\nDon't think bad thoughts about me\nDon't ever correct me when I'm blatantly wrong \nShine my boots with your tongue", ">\n\nSoooo this post isn’t about eye rolling is what I’m getting from this. You’ve got issues to work through with your parents or partner or something", ">\n\nSince when tf was eye rolling involuntary?", ">", ">\n\nYour lack of self control is not a justification for disrespect. I personally dont know anyone who reacts to anything by rolling their eyes. Just be mature and communicate.", ">\n\nAnd what if it's not stupid and someone rolls their eyes? Wouldn't it be disrespectful in that case?", ">\n\nIn the eye rollers opinion then it must have been. But you can't fault someone for thinking its stupid.", ">\n\nSo eyerolling is some kind of exceptional thing that is free from criticism? \nIf one has the freedom to eye roll, then someone else has the freedom to criticize the eye roller right? \nOr is it your opinion that besides that everyone who sees an eye roller has to just stfu", ">\n\nMeh, it is disrespectful. It's a way to be disrespectful without having to say That's the dumbest thing I've heard all month, and everyone else who heard it is also dumber for hearing it as well.", ">\n\nBut I didn't say it that's the point.", ">\n\nJust cuz you don’t use words doesn’t mean it’s not disrespectful. Walking away while someone is talking to you, rolling your eyes, slapping someone, and starting to play a game on your phone while someone is talking to you are all disrespectful. It doesn’t matter that you didn’t say anything, your lack of respect still showed.", ">\n\nespecially the way theyre responding to comments", ">\n\nYeah, a natural reaction if you’ve never learned to manage your emotions as opposed to letting them run your life. I’m not talking about being totally monotone rational, either. You need to learn a balance between rational and emotional…which includes healthy, appropriate, respectful expression of honest feelings. Eye rolling is absolutely disrespectful, belittling, and dismissive.", ">\n\nComments: OP is completely wrong and has attitude issues", ">\n\nWhat sounds like mental illness is you refusing to admit that rolling your eyes is simply not an unconditional response. Whether you want to believe it or not, you are doing it intentionally and you can control it. \nYou’re just to much of a b—— to do so.", ">\n\nSame to you", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a learned reaction. Not natural. I rarely of ever roll my eyes at anything.", ">", ">\n\nJust like raising your middle finger. Or vocalizing the sounds \"fuck you\". Or fingers typing the words fuck you OP. Nothing is disrespectful!", ">\n\nNice try but not the same thing at all. You're talking about thought out actions here. The eye roll is more like a reaction. Its quick, its automatic, no one has to think \"im rolling my eyes now\" it just happens. \nSort of like when telling a lie - no one decides to have their eyes dart around suspiciously, it just happens.", ">\n\nNo. Rolling your eyes is not involuntary. It can be controlled. You have a bad habit that you CAN stop. Much like a child learning not to suck their thumb, or biting your nails.", ">\n\nHow about you start with your hair scratching", ">\n\nYour opinion is a contradiction in itself. And, yeah. I disagree. Rolling your eyes is 100% to show lack of respect, and you have no intentions of showing it, even to reason, by rolling your eyes at something someone could believe is meaningful or important. Even if it is stupid.\nI get your point, we roll our eyes to express how we feel, but it is still a physical snare. You say rolling your eyes isn't disrespectful, while saying it's okay to roll your eyes because something is \" stupid or lame\", which in itself is disrespectful. You sound like a very young person in the middle of a learning moment, and you're trying to react with rebellion. It only shows that you lack maturity and are in need of growth. This might be a time for you to read these comments and reevaluate. There are healthier ways to react to things you disagree with, or lack interest in. If not, you can just accept that you roll your eyes to show lack of respect.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is much more deliberate than laughter, tears, or sneezing. It's a conscious action in response to a judgement you're making.", ">\n\nNah, dude it is disrespectful \nYou just have no self control and by the looks of it you don't want to build some", ">\n\nYour post made me roll my eyes very hard.", ">\n\n“No, officer, my wife - she MADE me hit her!”", ">\n\nIt's a natural reaction for a sooky kid but not an adult, if you do that as an adult you just manchild that wants everything their way", ">\n\npoor OP.... did you get in trouble after you rolled your eyes at something again? did you not prehaps learn from previous interactions? rolling your eyes at something \"stupid or lame\" is an intentional response that is disrespectful to whatever it is. mature people dont act that way.....", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes.\n\nSo it is disrespectful. \n\nIts like throwing pepper in someone's face an expecting them not to sneeze.\n\nNo it’s not. You can easily (edited in) refrain from rolling your eyes, while it’s much more difficult to refrain from sneezing. \nIt’s fine to think whatever you want, but you might want to refrain from rolling your eyes when you’re, say, interacting with your boss; aka someone that can make you unemployed for whatever reason they please.", ">\n\nThis isn't an opinion. It's just flat wrong. \nIt is disrespectful because it is a conscious signifier which clearly communicated that you think that the thing you are rolling your eyes at is not worthy of respect.", ">\n\nYou have to go out of your way to roll your eyes. It is NOT gutteral or instinctual", ">\n\nIf you annoy me, my arm whips out in a natural reaction and slaps you.", ">\n\nSorry, kiddo, it’s 100% disrespectful. Just own the shit and quit trying to lawyer around it.\nI say that after having rolled my eyes so hard at your post, I travelled back in time.", ">\n\nTell that to my family lol you get the belt", ">\n\nThis was made my a 15 year old who just got told off by their mom about rolling their eyes. Then in defense said, “I can’t control it”", ">\n\nMan it's getting so aggressive sometimes here 😂", ">\n\ni certainly hope you are embarrassed about this in a couple years when you grow up.", ">\n\nOP is a habitual eye roller 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄", ">\n\nI wish to God we could block people by age, no more edgy 13yo’s", ">\n\nSomebody just got their ps5 taken away for rolling their eyes", ">\n\nTell me you're 12 without telling me you're 12.", ">\n\nit’s the definition of disrespectful and a sign that you have literally nothing intelligent to say in return. \nwhich is why we outgrow it as adults.", ">\n\nYou can control it. It’s not an “automatic response” unless you’ve taught yourself to do it. I never roll my eyes. It’s just not something I have ever practiced doing. And yes…if I’m saying something too you and you dismiss it with an eye roll…it’s super disrespectful.", ">\n\nrolling your eyes is just as respectful as sticking your tongue out at someone or making a stupid face in reaction to something someone says", ">\n\nIf you can’t control your eye movement, you need to see a neurologist, dude 😆. As it stands, eye rolling isn’t a reflex or a “natural reaction” to anything. Habits aren’t the same as involuntary reactions.\nRolling your eyes at someone is disrespectful. It’s an outward sign that you think something about your interaction with them was stupid or wrong. There’s no one here that will agree with you, and you know that you’re in the vast minority with this opinion because you posted it on this sub. Now learn some humility and accept that your opinion is factually incorrect based on science.", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nAre you like 14 and your mom got you in trouble cause you rolled your eyes at her? Lmao", ">\n\nI’m gonna show your mom this and it’s going to be another week of being grounded, you little shit lol", ">\n\nOmfg 😂", ">\n\nOP I have to ask.\n\n\nHow old are you?\n\n\nHow is your relationship with your parents?\n\n\nHow do you view authority figures in your life?", ">\n\nrolls eyes", ">\n\nIf you say or demand something stupid from me I will probably roll my eyes.", ">\n\nBut it is", ">\n\nJust like rolling your eyes is an innate response, so are other people's responses to you rolling your eyes.", ">\n\nSometimes being respectful requires hiding your subjective opinion on whether something is stupid or lame.", ">\n\nI wouldn’t say eye rolling is as involuntary as laughing or crying tho. It’s more of a choice.", ">\n\nIf someone rolls their eyes then I feel disrespected it’s a natural reaction.", ">\n\ntell me you're a teenager without telling me you're a teenager", ">\n\nI'm rolling my eyes at this post. And I definitely mean it disrespectfully.", ">\n\nLmao this kid had an argument with his parent(s) or teacher and is venting on Reddit.", ">\n\nYou sound like an eye rolling arsehole", ">\n\ni have never had an as a nonvoulentary action, it requires very explicit movement of you eye. this is like saying “when i dont like people, i punch them in the head, thats my natural reaction i cant control it”\ni have never once legitimately rolled my eyes at something, i think you might be an asshole", ">\n\nMe smacking your face is also an innate uncontrollable response to you rolling your eyes. I'm only human. What can I do? 🙄", ">\n\nI disagree. also there are a billion other ways to express something being stupid or lame than rolling ur eyes", ">\n\nStop downvoting, this is ACTUALLY a very unpopular opinion and I love to see it tbh. Voice your disagreement in the comments but don't downvote the post. This post is hilarious.", ">\n\nThis is something you’ve learned to do. It’s entirely in your control if you do it or not.", ">\n\nI once got a detention for rolling my eyes at a teacher in 4th grade.\nI agree with you, though. The only other person I've ever really rolled my eyes at was my mother, and she deserved it, every single time.", ">\n\nI get your point. I absolutely purposefully roll my eyes sometimes and whoever I'm doing it to would be valid for getting mad. \nBut as someone who can't hide any emotion on their face (literally any, I'm the definition of an open book) there have been plenty of times where people blew up at me or laughed because I rolled my eyes when I didn't even realize I had done it. Feel like the people disagreeing with you haven't experienced this problem.", ">\n\nWhat you've done is cultivate a bad habit and then blamed it on everyone else when you repeat your own bad habit unintentionally.\nThis is entirely your fault.", ">\n\nOnly on Reddit would someone so boldly declare something like this to a stranger. I'm on the spectrum so that might have to do with my not being able to hide any emotion (I truly mean that, people can basically read my thoughts just by looking at me, good and bad). \nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave. Consider working on that.", ">\n\nSo they point out you’re cultivating a bad habit and blaming other people so you then, blame them? It’s a little spot on don’t you think?", ">\n\nWhen did i blame them for my own actions? Could you quote me? I was just pointing out how weird it was that they made such a strong assumption of my character off a causal comment I left when they themselves were ironically being unnecessarily rude in the process. \nI don't know how you got so lost?", ">\n\n\nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave.\n\nClassic deflection and implication that they’re the one with the problem, not you", ">\n\nFirst its not automatic. I almost never rolled my eyes. Its much easier to control than laughing crying or sneezing. So you just dont make the effort. Its actually a way to express your feeling. You should know that, its your personnality not a human instinctive reaction. \nAnd yes not respecting something is disrespectful. Its not that hard to understand. \nAnyway if i see you.. i dont know having a breakdown after being fired and dumped and start to laugh you'd like that ? \nIf im sad because something good happens to you and show it to you, you would like that ? \nHonestly you are just trying to justify being a bit of a jerk. \nI dont blame you or anything we all are jerks sometime but its what you are doing right now.", ">\n\nI have to refocus my eyes and most of the time blinking doesn’t cut it. I have a lazy eye and when I look at someone for a long time it unfocuses, so moving the muscle is the only way to reset it. If I don’t, people start moving their heads/ bodies trying to focus on my lazy eye. It gets awkward.", ">\n\nThis is where I go to my training as a kid. What others think of you is none of your business.", ">\n\nUnless you have a tick or something like Tourette’s syndrome, then it’s not an involuntary response. Part of living in a society and not being considered rude is managing your body language.\nLet me put it this way. “Rudeness” in itself is a social concept. That means it’s decided by the perception of the masses, what we generally agree upon in terms of our symbols of communication, our customs, our beliefs, our values, etc. For you to say that rolling your eyes isn’t disrespectful is not objectively wrong. But according to the society you live in, it is wrong. In layman’s terms, the hill you’re dying on here is completely arbitrary, neither side will ever be truly correct but as long as you live in a society which feels this way then you will be beholden to it anyways.", ">\n\nTo be fair, if your thinking its stupid or lame, then that is dis-respect. I'd agree with this if it was worded like 'More people need to say what they truly think', but I think you sort of missed the mark, OP.", ">\n\nI am equally annoyed when folks rapidly blink and look away mid conversation or drop their arm dead against their thigh. It’s like you’ve given up an effort to even keep your body vertical and engaged while I’m talking to you.", ">\n\nOP getting downvoted AF & keeps commenting. Gotta love it.", ">\n\nIt is shown as a sign of disrespect and it shows weakness. I can’t imagine Gandhi, the queen of England or Einstein roll their eyes in front of random people. The reason why they were respected is because they didn’t play any superiority game on front of… inferiors or ignorant people. If something is stupid, get the patience and find enough love within yourself to treat the other ones right. \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a child because his question is “stupid”, what parent does it make you ? \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a bad question because you are an expert in a subject, then it is not your modesty that speaks but your ego. For proof : Even if someone you hate said something intelligent, you might want to roll your eyes just to flatter your ego.", ">\n\nIt's seen as disrespectful BECAUSE it's inadvertently telling them you think they're irritating/annoying.", ">\n\nI never roll my eyes? Is that something people do naturally?", ">\n\nAll depends on the context of what is going on.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is not a natural reaction?", ">\n\nNot maintaining basic self control is disrespectful. It's the same reason we don't defecate in public, sneeze on people, or stand in the way of foot traffic.", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s and one of my tics is eye rolling", ">\n\nK", ">\n\nI accidentally roll my eyes at people sometimes when I'm not even trying to", ">\n\nThe sign of a true unpopular opinion: Nobody upvoting it, but everybody commenting to say how they disagree. If you disagree, then give it an upvote. That's the point of this sub.", ">\n\nI think it depends.", ">\n\nThis had to be written by someone under the age of 25", ">\n\nRolling your eyes isn’t natural though. It’s cultural or socially learned if that makes sense. Like if you rolled your eyes at a tribe that is disconnected from society they wouldn’t understand that you’re annoyed. So you cant really compare it to laughing.", ">\n\nI'm kind of curious if this is true though. Are you assuming this, or do you have some kind of study proving this? I'd actually like to see if your hypothesis is true, or if remote tribes also use this facial gesture.", ">\n\nI’m assuming it. Back in my country Turkey if you rolled your eyes at my grandparents they would be confused and wonder what you were doing and what it meant.", ">\n\nit's a maturity thing, keep rolling your eyes at 30-40, everyone gonna see you like a kid. \nyou gotta control your emotions, there's no need to do a expression when something is stupid or lame, you got a mouth and you respectfully share what's wrong, if the person in the other end is reluctant to stay on the same boat even after you talk about it. then you don't roll your eyes, you gotta say that there's nothing more you can do, and that you don't agree with it, and most likely leave to dodge any sort of problem.", ">\n\nI have a tic where I constantly roll my eyes. I’ve had it since I was little, but never noticed it until years later when I high school teacher yelled at me for disrespect. Apparently my parents took me for evaluation when I was very young and diagnosed Tourette’s but never had any other tics develop. Would have been nice to know 🤦🏼‍♀️ I just apologize now and say it’s a compulsion if people ask. I don’t even know when I’m doing it", ">\n\nIs laughing disrespectful? Because it can be. Just like rolling your eyes can be. There is a time and place for everything", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a passive aggressive response. Passive aggression is a tactic used by meek people who are frustrated and don’t have the courage to address a given situation. It’s disrespectful and it lowers your standing in the social hierarchy.", ">\n\nGet back to me when Disney Dad actively encourages your offspring to roll their eyes at you.", ">\n\nYeah it is when I want to be disrespectful to someone I roll my eyes when they make a point. It might be annoying to them, but it also let's them know I don't give a shit about whatever they just said. Now, I would never to it to my boss, or my teachers while I was in college, but when I was a teen I did it all the time because I was an asshole, who didn't care. \nIt's not a natural reaction lmao, it is learned behavior and it can be a bad habit, but it can be unlearned.", ">\n\nSome people can’t control it I know with me sometimes I roll my eyes without meaning too it’s not that I’m trying to be rude it’s just something I didn’t even realize I was doing nor did I mean too", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nI have a friend who thinks like you do, which is based on your responses to the comments. He has very poor social skills and is on the autism spectrum", ">\n\nI bet you're lots of fun at parties OP.", ">\n\nI can’t tell if this is farming karma with ridiculous opinions or if this individual just has a really hard time understanding that maybe their parents aren’t always the bad guys.", ">\n\nYep, thats definitely an unpopular opinion! \nIts certainly disrespectful. And most certainly not some sort of involuntary response like a sneeze. It may feel that way to you, because you've done it so much - but there are plenty of people who don't do it. UNLIKE people who don't sneeze at pepper, or cough at dust. Like, you're just plain wrong on this one. Moreover, I think you're trying to justify/rationalize it yourself rather than address it in a healthy way - a marker suggesting you have some narcissistic tendencies.", ">\n\nWhat a stupid argument, take your upvote", ">\n\nIt’s a sign of contempt. The facial expression expert Dr. Eikman could predict how long a barrage would last based on 4 expressions and the frequency used when the couple was interviewed. Eye rolling was one.. in fact you could remove the others and still reasonably predict marriage failures.", ">\n\nI wish it wasn’t disrespectful, because as an expressive person I LOVE a good eye roll. But, it has gotten me into trouble. I do it without even knowing it. I hate that I do… I wish sometimes I could be stone cold. Just like a fish. One expression face only. Blank fish eyes staring into nothingness.\nMy favourite mug says, “I can’t help what my face does when you talk”. There is a reason the the mug is meant to be cheeky.", ">\n\nSeems disrespectful to me because my eyes don't roll on their own, it would be a conscious act.", ">\n\nThis is 100% based on the premis that you can’t control your eyes. Rolling your eyes isn’t a natural movement. You control it.\nLaughing and crying aren’t necessarily controllable.", ">\n\nIn addition to this:\nfinding something somebody said stupid isnt disrespectful - makin fun in an exaggerated way, call em out in a mean way, or think everything they're gonna say next is bs is the disrespectful part.", ">\n\nSo your reaction is because you think someone is stupid, but thinking they are stupid isn't disrespectful?", ">\n\nThis, i agree with", ">\n\nGuess my mom didn't get the memo.", ">\n\nI don't think rolling your eyes is natural. I did wrong all the way up until last year. Thought you were supposed to make your eyes go in a circular motion 😂", ">\n\nFr. I may be able to control what I say…but my face will always show how I feel😂can’t help it and I’m tired of fake apologizing for it.", ">\n\nI don’t think rolling your eyes is a natural reaction the same way crying and laughing are. The only times I’ve rolled my eyes are when I intended to.", ">\n\nWhen my dad was/is drunk and angry he does it. Disrespectful and does not feel nice.", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nLol go to your room", ">\n\nWhat a dingbat. lol", ">\n\nNah it's kinda rude. Hardly the worst thing ever though. Sometimes though, people roll their eyes to actually think about what they are going to say, though; it's an important thing to distinguish.", ">\n\nI mean, its entire function as an expression is disrespect. that's literally the whole point of rolling your eyes. Natural instinct or not, it still implies disrespect.", ">\n\nI used to roll my eyes often because I have bad eyeshit, and doing it relieved eye strain. I couldn't tell you the amount of times this got me in shit.", ">\n\nLaughing, crying… both can be controlled to an extent. Eye rolls can 100% be controlled. They aren’t a reflex. If they are in your case you should seek medical attention", ">\n\nIf you roll your eyes as an involuntary reaction. Please see a doctor" ]
> Op- "just because it means something disrespectful doesn't mean I should get yelled for choosing to roll my eyes."	[ "🙄", ">\n\nYou’re grounded now", ">\n\nThe post above was someone getting electrocuted so this reply was very timely", ">\n\nThis news is shocking", ">\n\nIt definitely SPARKED my interest", ">\n\nAll of you guys need to leave, and not come back before learning how to conduct yourselves properly", ">\n\nUhhhh....... electricity", ">\n\nWell no, in the right context it is disrespectful. Rolling your eyes suggests that you're not taking the matter seriously or that you dont care which is a sign of disrespect towards whoever is speaking with you.", ">\n\nBut I can't control what I think. If I said \"man you're stupid and I don't care what you say\" thats disrespectful. I'm actually showing respect by not saying it.", ">\n\nI mean, actions speak louder than words, right?", ">\n\nIts not really an action tho its just an automatic response. Like gasping or yawning.", ">\n\nbullshit.\nSorry, it was an automatic response. Which is bullshit just like yours.", ">\n\nStill not the same thing. And they get on me for false analogies....", ">\n\nYou must be a teenager", ">\n\nLol how many times are you gonna post that. Dont you have an original thought of your own?", ">\n\nBruh I cant believe you make these posts. They're foolish", ">\n\nLaughing at someone can be disrespectful. Don't think so? Try laughing at someone's funeral.", ">\n\nThe disrespect comes from the one who told me a joke and made me laugh.", ">\n\nWhat about if no one said any joke? Because, you know, you are at a funeral.", ">\n\nSo someone's just there randomly laughing at shit? That sounds like a mental illness.", ">\n\nYou have never thought of something funny in your head to make yourself laugh? \nOr hell, maybe you didn't like the person who is buried and decided to laugh at them. You find it funny, so laughing must be appropriate, right?", ">\n\nWhy am I thinking about funny shit at a funeral.", ">\n\nBecause the universe likes to put us in uncomfortable positions sometimes.", ">\n\n“if its stupid or lame, you roll your eyes” - you found the disrespect", ">\n\nIm allowed to think whatever i want and its not disrespectful.", ">\n\nWhen you express contempt for something someone else said, it's disrespect.", ">\n\nWhat if what they said is contemptible?", ">\n\nSome people and comments deserve disrespect, still gonna be disrespect", ">\n\nLaughing, crying, and sneezing are all innate, involuntary reactions to certain types of stimuli. Rolling your eyes is a learned behavior. You can’t compare it to those other automatic responses because it’s not the same thing.", ">\n\nTake my upvote", ">\n\nOP rolled their eyes at someone and got chewed out for it.\nNow they're going online in an attempt to validate themselves.\n🙄", ">\n\nProbably got grounded.", ">\n\nPart of being a mature adult is to have self-control and not acting on every impulse and being respectful of people.", ">\n\n\nPart of being a mature adult\n\nYup but OP is clearly a teenager lol. They complain about being told off for doing chores wrong in another post…", ">\n\nEven a teenager should be able to have the fundamental basics of respect", ">\n\nOh I agree 100%", ">\n\nYou have poor self-control and poor self-awareness but the good news is that you can improve these things.", ">\n\n/r/wrongopinions", ">\n\nI feel like we need a new subreddit r/unpopularforareason", ">\n\nIt’s entire purpose is to be disrespectful. Nobody eyerolls something they respect. But how offensive it is depends on the context and how serious one is being.", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes\n\nYou rn: \"I'm not being disrespectful. I just thought what you said was stupid or lame.\"\n...", ">\n\nSaying its stupid could be disrespectful. A facial response is not.", ">\n\nLiterally every person in this thread agrees that it is.\nThis is your bad habit. Nobody else's responsibility but you.", ">\n\nThey can choose to not fly off the handle at what is just an innate reaction.", ">\n\nSo let me get this straight: you think you deserve to be able to disrespect whoever you like whenever you like but they can't as much as say you're being rude? Grow up.", ">\n\nFound the teenager.", ">\n\nMeh, I agree with that one. If you don't like how someone is doing something then do it yourself. There's a reason I live alone.", ">\n\nIt is a UNIVERSAL sign of disrespect. Globally. Deal with it.", ">\n\nLaughing can be disrespectuful too. If you cannot control your own reactions, well, what can I say, maybe you have not really grown up?", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s so it’s hard to control my own actions sometimes…", ">\n\nThank u I'm trying to explain how autism can make it hard to read not just others facial expressions but also ur own and it seems like no one has thought of the possibility that they acc don't realise it or csnt control it", ">\n\nWould you roll your eyes during a job interview if you thought a question was stupid or irrelevant? Do you think you’d get the job if you did?", ">\n\nPretty sure OP would think they were owed that job and they would think it’s ridiculous if they didn’t get it.\nOP is also a teenager going through their rebel phase though", ">\n\nYou're oddly specific here.", ">\n\nWhat was specific? Or rather oddly specific?", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a good way to fast track yourself to a divorce, if you want one.", ">\n\nI think OP needs the definition of respect before any further comment is made", ">\n\nOh I already know it, and I know it does not mean:\nDon't ever disagree with me\nDon't think bad thoughts about me\nDon't ever correct me when I'm blatantly wrong \nShine my boots with your tongue", ">\n\nSoooo this post isn’t about eye rolling is what I’m getting from this. You’ve got issues to work through with your parents or partner or something", ">\n\nSince when tf was eye rolling involuntary?", ">", ">\n\nYour lack of self control is not a justification for disrespect. I personally dont know anyone who reacts to anything by rolling their eyes. Just be mature and communicate.", ">\n\nAnd what if it's not stupid and someone rolls their eyes? Wouldn't it be disrespectful in that case?", ">\n\nIn the eye rollers opinion then it must have been. But you can't fault someone for thinking its stupid.", ">\n\nSo eyerolling is some kind of exceptional thing that is free from criticism? \nIf one has the freedom to eye roll, then someone else has the freedom to criticize the eye roller right? \nOr is it your opinion that besides that everyone who sees an eye roller has to just stfu", ">\n\nMeh, it is disrespectful. It's a way to be disrespectful without having to say That's the dumbest thing I've heard all month, and everyone else who heard it is also dumber for hearing it as well.", ">\n\nBut I didn't say it that's the point.", ">\n\nJust cuz you don’t use words doesn’t mean it’s not disrespectful. Walking away while someone is talking to you, rolling your eyes, slapping someone, and starting to play a game on your phone while someone is talking to you are all disrespectful. It doesn’t matter that you didn’t say anything, your lack of respect still showed.", ">\n\nespecially the way theyre responding to comments", ">\n\nYeah, a natural reaction if you’ve never learned to manage your emotions as opposed to letting them run your life. I’m not talking about being totally monotone rational, either. You need to learn a balance between rational and emotional…which includes healthy, appropriate, respectful expression of honest feelings. Eye rolling is absolutely disrespectful, belittling, and dismissive.", ">\n\nComments: OP is completely wrong and has attitude issues", ">\n\nWhat sounds like mental illness is you refusing to admit that rolling your eyes is simply not an unconditional response. Whether you want to believe it or not, you are doing it intentionally and you can control it. \nYou’re just to much of a b—— to do so.", ">\n\nSame to you", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a learned reaction. Not natural. I rarely of ever roll my eyes at anything.", ">", ">\n\nJust like raising your middle finger. Or vocalizing the sounds \"fuck you\". Or fingers typing the words fuck you OP. Nothing is disrespectful!", ">\n\nNice try but not the same thing at all. You're talking about thought out actions here. The eye roll is more like a reaction. Its quick, its automatic, no one has to think \"im rolling my eyes now\" it just happens. \nSort of like when telling a lie - no one decides to have their eyes dart around suspiciously, it just happens.", ">\n\nNo. Rolling your eyes is not involuntary. It can be controlled. You have a bad habit that you CAN stop. Much like a child learning not to suck their thumb, or biting your nails.", ">\n\nHow about you start with your hair scratching", ">\n\nYour opinion is a contradiction in itself. And, yeah. I disagree. Rolling your eyes is 100% to show lack of respect, and you have no intentions of showing it, even to reason, by rolling your eyes at something someone could believe is meaningful or important. Even if it is stupid.\nI get your point, we roll our eyes to express how we feel, but it is still a physical snare. You say rolling your eyes isn't disrespectful, while saying it's okay to roll your eyes because something is \" stupid or lame\", which in itself is disrespectful. You sound like a very young person in the middle of a learning moment, and you're trying to react with rebellion. It only shows that you lack maturity and are in need of growth. This might be a time for you to read these comments and reevaluate. There are healthier ways to react to things you disagree with, or lack interest in. If not, you can just accept that you roll your eyes to show lack of respect.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is much more deliberate than laughter, tears, or sneezing. It's a conscious action in response to a judgement you're making.", ">\n\nNah, dude it is disrespectful \nYou just have no self control and by the looks of it you don't want to build some", ">\n\nYour post made me roll my eyes very hard.", ">\n\n“No, officer, my wife - she MADE me hit her!”", ">\n\nIt's a natural reaction for a sooky kid but not an adult, if you do that as an adult you just manchild that wants everything their way", ">\n\npoor OP.... did you get in trouble after you rolled your eyes at something again? did you not prehaps learn from previous interactions? rolling your eyes at something \"stupid or lame\" is an intentional response that is disrespectful to whatever it is. mature people dont act that way.....", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes.\n\nSo it is disrespectful. \n\nIts like throwing pepper in someone's face an expecting them not to sneeze.\n\nNo it’s not. You can easily (edited in) refrain from rolling your eyes, while it’s much more difficult to refrain from sneezing. \nIt’s fine to think whatever you want, but you might want to refrain from rolling your eyes when you’re, say, interacting with your boss; aka someone that can make you unemployed for whatever reason they please.", ">\n\nThis isn't an opinion. It's just flat wrong. \nIt is disrespectful because it is a conscious signifier which clearly communicated that you think that the thing you are rolling your eyes at is not worthy of respect.", ">\n\nYou have to go out of your way to roll your eyes. It is NOT gutteral or instinctual", ">\n\nIf you annoy me, my arm whips out in a natural reaction and slaps you.", ">\n\nSorry, kiddo, it’s 100% disrespectful. Just own the shit and quit trying to lawyer around it.\nI say that after having rolled my eyes so hard at your post, I travelled back in time.", ">\n\nTell that to my family lol you get the belt", ">\n\nThis was made my a 15 year old who just got told off by their mom about rolling their eyes. Then in defense said, “I can’t control it”", ">\n\nMan it's getting so aggressive sometimes here 😂", ">\n\ni certainly hope you are embarrassed about this in a couple years when you grow up.", ">\n\nOP is a habitual eye roller 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄", ">\n\nI wish to God we could block people by age, no more edgy 13yo’s", ">\n\nSomebody just got their ps5 taken away for rolling their eyes", ">\n\nTell me you're 12 without telling me you're 12.", ">\n\nit’s the definition of disrespectful and a sign that you have literally nothing intelligent to say in return. \nwhich is why we outgrow it as adults.", ">\n\nYou can control it. It’s not an “automatic response” unless you’ve taught yourself to do it. I never roll my eyes. It’s just not something I have ever practiced doing. And yes…if I’m saying something too you and you dismiss it with an eye roll…it’s super disrespectful.", ">\n\nrolling your eyes is just as respectful as sticking your tongue out at someone or making a stupid face in reaction to something someone says", ">\n\nIf you can’t control your eye movement, you need to see a neurologist, dude 😆. As it stands, eye rolling isn’t a reflex or a “natural reaction” to anything. Habits aren’t the same as involuntary reactions.\nRolling your eyes at someone is disrespectful. It’s an outward sign that you think something about your interaction with them was stupid or wrong. There’s no one here that will agree with you, and you know that you’re in the vast minority with this opinion because you posted it on this sub. Now learn some humility and accept that your opinion is factually incorrect based on science.", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nAre you like 14 and your mom got you in trouble cause you rolled your eyes at her? Lmao", ">\n\nI’m gonna show your mom this and it’s going to be another week of being grounded, you little shit lol", ">\n\nOmfg 😂", ">\n\nOP I have to ask.\n\n\nHow old are you?\n\n\nHow is your relationship with your parents?\n\n\nHow do you view authority figures in your life?", ">\n\nrolls eyes", ">\n\nIf you say or demand something stupid from me I will probably roll my eyes.", ">\n\nBut it is", ">\n\nJust like rolling your eyes is an innate response, so are other people's responses to you rolling your eyes.", ">\n\nSometimes being respectful requires hiding your subjective opinion on whether something is stupid or lame.", ">\n\nI wouldn’t say eye rolling is as involuntary as laughing or crying tho. It’s more of a choice.", ">\n\nIf someone rolls their eyes then I feel disrespected it’s a natural reaction.", ">\n\ntell me you're a teenager without telling me you're a teenager", ">\n\nI'm rolling my eyes at this post. And I definitely mean it disrespectfully.", ">\n\nLmao this kid had an argument with his parent(s) or teacher and is venting on Reddit.", ">\n\nYou sound like an eye rolling arsehole", ">\n\ni have never had an as a nonvoulentary action, it requires very explicit movement of you eye. this is like saying “when i dont like people, i punch them in the head, thats my natural reaction i cant control it”\ni have never once legitimately rolled my eyes at something, i think you might be an asshole", ">\n\nMe smacking your face is also an innate uncontrollable response to you rolling your eyes. I'm only human. What can I do? 🙄", ">\n\nI disagree. also there are a billion other ways to express something being stupid or lame than rolling ur eyes", ">\n\nStop downvoting, this is ACTUALLY a very unpopular opinion and I love to see it tbh. Voice your disagreement in the comments but don't downvote the post. This post is hilarious.", ">\n\nThis is something you’ve learned to do. It’s entirely in your control if you do it or not.", ">\n\nI once got a detention for rolling my eyes at a teacher in 4th grade.\nI agree with you, though. The only other person I've ever really rolled my eyes at was my mother, and she deserved it, every single time.", ">\n\nI get your point. I absolutely purposefully roll my eyes sometimes and whoever I'm doing it to would be valid for getting mad. \nBut as someone who can't hide any emotion on their face (literally any, I'm the definition of an open book) there have been plenty of times where people blew up at me or laughed because I rolled my eyes when I didn't even realize I had done it. Feel like the people disagreeing with you haven't experienced this problem.", ">\n\nWhat you've done is cultivate a bad habit and then blamed it on everyone else when you repeat your own bad habit unintentionally.\nThis is entirely your fault.", ">\n\nOnly on Reddit would someone so boldly declare something like this to a stranger. I'm on the spectrum so that might have to do with my not being able to hide any emotion (I truly mean that, people can basically read my thoughts just by looking at me, good and bad). \nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave. Consider working on that.", ">\n\nSo they point out you’re cultivating a bad habit and blaming other people so you then, blame them? It’s a little spot on don’t you think?", ">\n\nWhen did i blame them for my own actions? Could you quote me? I was just pointing out how weird it was that they made such a strong assumption of my character off a causal comment I left when they themselves were ironically being unnecessarily rude in the process. \nI don't know how you got so lost?", ">\n\n\nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave.\n\nClassic deflection and implication that they’re the one with the problem, not you", ">\n\nFirst its not automatic. I almost never rolled my eyes. Its much easier to control than laughing crying or sneezing. So you just dont make the effort. Its actually a way to express your feeling. You should know that, its your personnality not a human instinctive reaction. \nAnd yes not respecting something is disrespectful. Its not that hard to understand. \nAnyway if i see you.. i dont know having a breakdown after being fired and dumped and start to laugh you'd like that ? \nIf im sad because something good happens to you and show it to you, you would like that ? \nHonestly you are just trying to justify being a bit of a jerk. \nI dont blame you or anything we all are jerks sometime but its what you are doing right now.", ">\n\nI have to refocus my eyes and most of the time blinking doesn’t cut it. I have a lazy eye and when I look at someone for a long time it unfocuses, so moving the muscle is the only way to reset it. If I don’t, people start moving their heads/ bodies trying to focus on my lazy eye. It gets awkward.", ">\n\nThis is where I go to my training as a kid. What others think of you is none of your business.", ">\n\nUnless you have a tick or something like Tourette’s syndrome, then it’s not an involuntary response. Part of living in a society and not being considered rude is managing your body language.\nLet me put it this way. “Rudeness” in itself is a social concept. That means it’s decided by the perception of the masses, what we generally agree upon in terms of our symbols of communication, our customs, our beliefs, our values, etc. For you to say that rolling your eyes isn’t disrespectful is not objectively wrong. But according to the society you live in, it is wrong. In layman’s terms, the hill you’re dying on here is completely arbitrary, neither side will ever be truly correct but as long as you live in a society which feels this way then you will be beholden to it anyways.", ">\n\nTo be fair, if your thinking its stupid or lame, then that is dis-respect. I'd agree with this if it was worded like 'More people need to say what they truly think', but I think you sort of missed the mark, OP.", ">\n\nI am equally annoyed when folks rapidly blink and look away mid conversation or drop their arm dead against their thigh. It’s like you’ve given up an effort to even keep your body vertical and engaged while I’m talking to you.", ">\n\nOP getting downvoted AF & keeps commenting. Gotta love it.", ">\n\nIt is shown as a sign of disrespect and it shows weakness. I can’t imagine Gandhi, the queen of England or Einstein roll their eyes in front of random people. The reason why they were respected is because they didn’t play any superiority game on front of… inferiors or ignorant people. If something is stupid, get the patience and find enough love within yourself to treat the other ones right. \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a child because his question is “stupid”, what parent does it make you ? \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a bad question because you are an expert in a subject, then it is not your modesty that speaks but your ego. For proof : Even if someone you hate said something intelligent, you might want to roll your eyes just to flatter your ego.", ">\n\nIt's seen as disrespectful BECAUSE it's inadvertently telling them you think they're irritating/annoying.", ">\n\nI never roll my eyes? Is that something people do naturally?", ">\n\nAll depends on the context of what is going on.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is not a natural reaction?", ">\n\nNot maintaining basic self control is disrespectful. It's the same reason we don't defecate in public, sneeze on people, or stand in the way of foot traffic.", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s and one of my tics is eye rolling", ">\n\nK", ">\n\nI accidentally roll my eyes at people sometimes when I'm not even trying to", ">\n\nThe sign of a true unpopular opinion: Nobody upvoting it, but everybody commenting to say how they disagree. If you disagree, then give it an upvote. That's the point of this sub.", ">\n\nI think it depends.", ">\n\nThis had to be written by someone under the age of 25", ">\n\nRolling your eyes isn’t natural though. It’s cultural or socially learned if that makes sense. Like if you rolled your eyes at a tribe that is disconnected from society they wouldn’t understand that you’re annoyed. So you cant really compare it to laughing.", ">\n\nI'm kind of curious if this is true though. Are you assuming this, or do you have some kind of study proving this? I'd actually like to see if your hypothesis is true, or if remote tribes also use this facial gesture.", ">\n\nI’m assuming it. Back in my country Turkey if you rolled your eyes at my grandparents they would be confused and wonder what you were doing and what it meant.", ">\n\nit's a maturity thing, keep rolling your eyes at 30-40, everyone gonna see you like a kid. \nyou gotta control your emotions, there's no need to do a expression when something is stupid or lame, you got a mouth and you respectfully share what's wrong, if the person in the other end is reluctant to stay on the same boat even after you talk about it. then you don't roll your eyes, you gotta say that there's nothing more you can do, and that you don't agree with it, and most likely leave to dodge any sort of problem.", ">\n\nI have a tic where I constantly roll my eyes. I’ve had it since I was little, but never noticed it until years later when I high school teacher yelled at me for disrespect. Apparently my parents took me for evaluation when I was very young and diagnosed Tourette’s but never had any other tics develop. Would have been nice to know 🤦🏼‍♀️ I just apologize now and say it’s a compulsion if people ask. I don’t even know when I’m doing it", ">\n\nIs laughing disrespectful? Because it can be. Just like rolling your eyes can be. There is a time and place for everything", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a passive aggressive response. Passive aggression is a tactic used by meek people who are frustrated and don’t have the courage to address a given situation. It’s disrespectful and it lowers your standing in the social hierarchy.", ">\n\nGet back to me when Disney Dad actively encourages your offspring to roll their eyes at you.", ">\n\nYeah it is when I want to be disrespectful to someone I roll my eyes when they make a point. It might be annoying to them, but it also let's them know I don't give a shit about whatever they just said. Now, I would never to it to my boss, or my teachers while I was in college, but when I was a teen I did it all the time because I was an asshole, who didn't care. \nIt's not a natural reaction lmao, it is learned behavior and it can be a bad habit, but it can be unlearned.", ">\n\nSome people can’t control it I know with me sometimes I roll my eyes without meaning too it’s not that I’m trying to be rude it’s just something I didn’t even realize I was doing nor did I mean too", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nI have a friend who thinks like you do, which is based on your responses to the comments. He has very poor social skills and is on the autism spectrum", ">\n\nI bet you're lots of fun at parties OP.", ">\n\nI can’t tell if this is farming karma with ridiculous opinions or if this individual just has a really hard time understanding that maybe their parents aren’t always the bad guys.", ">\n\nYep, thats definitely an unpopular opinion! \nIts certainly disrespectful. And most certainly not some sort of involuntary response like a sneeze. It may feel that way to you, because you've done it so much - but there are plenty of people who don't do it. UNLIKE people who don't sneeze at pepper, or cough at dust. Like, you're just plain wrong on this one. Moreover, I think you're trying to justify/rationalize it yourself rather than address it in a healthy way - a marker suggesting you have some narcissistic tendencies.", ">\n\nWhat a stupid argument, take your upvote", ">\n\nIt’s a sign of contempt. The facial expression expert Dr. Eikman could predict how long a barrage would last based on 4 expressions and the frequency used when the couple was interviewed. Eye rolling was one.. in fact you could remove the others and still reasonably predict marriage failures.", ">\n\nI wish it wasn’t disrespectful, because as an expressive person I LOVE a good eye roll. But, it has gotten me into trouble. I do it without even knowing it. I hate that I do… I wish sometimes I could be stone cold. Just like a fish. One expression face only. Blank fish eyes staring into nothingness.\nMy favourite mug says, “I can’t help what my face does when you talk”. There is a reason the the mug is meant to be cheeky.", ">\n\nSeems disrespectful to me because my eyes don't roll on their own, it would be a conscious act.", ">\n\nThis is 100% based on the premis that you can’t control your eyes. Rolling your eyes isn’t a natural movement. You control it.\nLaughing and crying aren’t necessarily controllable.", ">\n\nIn addition to this:\nfinding something somebody said stupid isnt disrespectful - makin fun in an exaggerated way, call em out in a mean way, or think everything they're gonna say next is bs is the disrespectful part.", ">\n\nSo your reaction is because you think someone is stupid, but thinking they are stupid isn't disrespectful?", ">\n\nThis, i agree with", ">\n\nGuess my mom didn't get the memo.", ">\n\nI don't think rolling your eyes is natural. I did wrong all the way up until last year. Thought you were supposed to make your eyes go in a circular motion 😂", ">\n\nFr. I may be able to control what I say…but my face will always show how I feel😂can’t help it and I’m tired of fake apologizing for it.", ">\n\nI don’t think rolling your eyes is a natural reaction the same way crying and laughing are. The only times I’ve rolled my eyes are when I intended to.", ">\n\nWhen my dad was/is drunk and angry he does it. Disrespectful and does not feel nice.", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nLol go to your room", ">\n\nWhat a dingbat. lol", ">\n\nNah it's kinda rude. Hardly the worst thing ever though. Sometimes though, people roll their eyes to actually think about what they are going to say, though; it's an important thing to distinguish.", ">\n\nI mean, its entire function as an expression is disrespect. that's literally the whole point of rolling your eyes. Natural instinct or not, it still implies disrespect.", ">\n\nI used to roll my eyes often because I have bad eyeshit, and doing it relieved eye strain. I couldn't tell you the amount of times this got me in shit.", ">\n\nLaughing, crying… both can be controlled to an extent. Eye rolls can 100% be controlled. They aren’t a reflex. If they are in your case you should seek medical attention", ">\n\nIf you roll your eyes as an involuntary reaction. Please see a doctor", ">\n\nyour right this is an unpopular opinion but for a good fucking reason you have no soldi ground to stand on in any argument on this" ]
> Maybe if your 10 and don't understand social cues. Context is a big part tho, if it's you and your friends goofing off, maybe it's tolerable to bash one another. If it's parents trying to have a serious convo and your just an idiot about it, then it's a problem.	[ "🙄", ">\n\nYou’re grounded now", ">\n\nThe post above was someone getting electrocuted so this reply was very timely", ">\n\nThis news is shocking", ">\n\nIt definitely SPARKED my interest", ">\n\nAll of you guys need to leave, and not come back before learning how to conduct yourselves properly", ">\n\nUhhhh....... electricity", ">\n\nWell no, in the right context it is disrespectful. Rolling your eyes suggests that you're not taking the matter seriously or that you dont care which is a sign of disrespect towards whoever is speaking with you.", ">\n\nBut I can't control what I think. If I said \"man you're stupid and I don't care what you say\" thats disrespectful. I'm actually showing respect by not saying it.", ">\n\nI mean, actions speak louder than words, right?", ">\n\nIts not really an action tho its just an automatic response. Like gasping or yawning.", ">\n\nbullshit.\nSorry, it was an automatic response. Which is bullshit just like yours.", ">\n\nStill not the same thing. And they get on me for false analogies....", ">\n\nYou must be a teenager", ">\n\nLol how many times are you gonna post that. Dont you have an original thought of your own?", ">\n\nBruh I cant believe you make these posts. They're foolish", ">\n\nLaughing at someone can be disrespectful. Don't think so? Try laughing at someone's funeral.", ">\n\nThe disrespect comes from the one who told me a joke and made me laugh.", ">\n\nWhat about if no one said any joke? Because, you know, you are at a funeral.", ">\n\nSo someone's just there randomly laughing at shit? That sounds like a mental illness.", ">\n\nYou have never thought of something funny in your head to make yourself laugh? \nOr hell, maybe you didn't like the person who is buried and decided to laugh at them. You find it funny, so laughing must be appropriate, right?", ">\n\nWhy am I thinking about funny shit at a funeral.", ">\n\nBecause the universe likes to put us in uncomfortable positions sometimes.", ">\n\n“if its stupid or lame, you roll your eyes” - you found the disrespect", ">\n\nIm allowed to think whatever i want and its not disrespectful.", ">\n\nWhen you express contempt for something someone else said, it's disrespect.", ">\n\nWhat if what they said is contemptible?", ">\n\nSome people and comments deserve disrespect, still gonna be disrespect", ">\n\nLaughing, crying, and sneezing are all innate, involuntary reactions to certain types of stimuli. Rolling your eyes is a learned behavior. You can’t compare it to those other automatic responses because it’s not the same thing.", ">\n\nTake my upvote", ">\n\nOP rolled their eyes at someone and got chewed out for it.\nNow they're going online in an attempt to validate themselves.\n🙄", ">\n\nProbably got grounded.", ">\n\nPart of being a mature adult is to have self-control and not acting on every impulse and being respectful of people.", ">\n\n\nPart of being a mature adult\n\nYup but OP is clearly a teenager lol. They complain about being told off for doing chores wrong in another post…", ">\n\nEven a teenager should be able to have the fundamental basics of respect", ">\n\nOh I agree 100%", ">\n\nYou have poor self-control and poor self-awareness but the good news is that you can improve these things.", ">\n\n/r/wrongopinions", ">\n\nI feel like we need a new subreddit r/unpopularforareason", ">\n\nIt’s entire purpose is to be disrespectful. Nobody eyerolls something they respect. But how offensive it is depends on the context and how serious one is being.", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes\n\nYou rn: \"I'm not being disrespectful. I just thought what you said was stupid or lame.\"\n...", ">\n\nSaying its stupid could be disrespectful. A facial response is not.", ">\n\nLiterally every person in this thread agrees that it is.\nThis is your bad habit. Nobody else's responsibility but you.", ">\n\nThey can choose to not fly off the handle at what is just an innate reaction.", ">\n\nSo let me get this straight: you think you deserve to be able to disrespect whoever you like whenever you like but they can't as much as say you're being rude? Grow up.", ">\n\nFound the teenager.", ">\n\nMeh, I agree with that one. If you don't like how someone is doing something then do it yourself. There's a reason I live alone.", ">\n\nIt is a UNIVERSAL sign of disrespect. Globally. Deal with it.", ">\n\nLaughing can be disrespectuful too. If you cannot control your own reactions, well, what can I say, maybe you have not really grown up?", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s so it’s hard to control my own actions sometimes…", ">\n\nThank u I'm trying to explain how autism can make it hard to read not just others facial expressions but also ur own and it seems like no one has thought of the possibility that they acc don't realise it or csnt control it", ">\n\nWould you roll your eyes during a job interview if you thought a question was stupid or irrelevant? Do you think you’d get the job if you did?", ">\n\nPretty sure OP would think they were owed that job and they would think it’s ridiculous if they didn’t get it.\nOP is also a teenager going through their rebel phase though", ">\n\nYou're oddly specific here.", ">\n\nWhat was specific? Or rather oddly specific?", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a good way to fast track yourself to a divorce, if you want one.", ">\n\nI think OP needs the definition of respect before any further comment is made", ">\n\nOh I already know it, and I know it does not mean:\nDon't ever disagree with me\nDon't think bad thoughts about me\nDon't ever correct me when I'm blatantly wrong \nShine my boots with your tongue", ">\n\nSoooo this post isn’t about eye rolling is what I’m getting from this. You’ve got issues to work through with your parents or partner or something", ">\n\nSince when tf was eye rolling involuntary?", ">", ">\n\nYour lack of self control is not a justification for disrespect. I personally dont know anyone who reacts to anything by rolling their eyes. Just be mature and communicate.", ">\n\nAnd what if it's not stupid and someone rolls their eyes? Wouldn't it be disrespectful in that case?", ">\n\nIn the eye rollers opinion then it must have been. But you can't fault someone for thinking its stupid.", ">\n\nSo eyerolling is some kind of exceptional thing that is free from criticism? \nIf one has the freedom to eye roll, then someone else has the freedom to criticize the eye roller right? \nOr is it your opinion that besides that everyone who sees an eye roller has to just stfu", ">\n\nMeh, it is disrespectful. It's a way to be disrespectful without having to say That's the dumbest thing I've heard all month, and everyone else who heard it is also dumber for hearing it as well.", ">\n\nBut I didn't say it that's the point.", ">\n\nJust cuz you don’t use words doesn’t mean it’s not disrespectful. Walking away while someone is talking to you, rolling your eyes, slapping someone, and starting to play a game on your phone while someone is talking to you are all disrespectful. It doesn’t matter that you didn’t say anything, your lack of respect still showed.", ">\n\nespecially the way theyre responding to comments", ">\n\nYeah, a natural reaction if you’ve never learned to manage your emotions as opposed to letting them run your life. I’m not talking about being totally monotone rational, either. You need to learn a balance between rational and emotional…which includes healthy, appropriate, respectful expression of honest feelings. Eye rolling is absolutely disrespectful, belittling, and dismissive.", ">\n\nComments: OP is completely wrong and has attitude issues", ">\n\nWhat sounds like mental illness is you refusing to admit that rolling your eyes is simply not an unconditional response. Whether you want to believe it or not, you are doing it intentionally and you can control it. \nYou’re just to much of a b—— to do so.", ">\n\nSame to you", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a learned reaction. Not natural. I rarely of ever roll my eyes at anything.", ">", ">\n\nJust like raising your middle finger. Or vocalizing the sounds \"fuck you\". Or fingers typing the words fuck you OP. Nothing is disrespectful!", ">\n\nNice try but not the same thing at all. You're talking about thought out actions here. The eye roll is more like a reaction. Its quick, its automatic, no one has to think \"im rolling my eyes now\" it just happens. \nSort of like when telling a lie - no one decides to have their eyes dart around suspiciously, it just happens.", ">\n\nNo. Rolling your eyes is not involuntary. It can be controlled. You have a bad habit that you CAN stop. Much like a child learning not to suck their thumb, or biting your nails.", ">\n\nHow about you start with your hair scratching", ">\n\nYour opinion is a contradiction in itself. And, yeah. I disagree. Rolling your eyes is 100% to show lack of respect, and you have no intentions of showing it, even to reason, by rolling your eyes at something someone could believe is meaningful or important. Even if it is stupid.\nI get your point, we roll our eyes to express how we feel, but it is still a physical snare. You say rolling your eyes isn't disrespectful, while saying it's okay to roll your eyes because something is \" stupid or lame\", which in itself is disrespectful. You sound like a very young person in the middle of a learning moment, and you're trying to react with rebellion. It only shows that you lack maturity and are in need of growth. This might be a time for you to read these comments and reevaluate. There are healthier ways to react to things you disagree with, or lack interest in. If not, you can just accept that you roll your eyes to show lack of respect.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is much more deliberate than laughter, tears, or sneezing. It's a conscious action in response to a judgement you're making.", ">\n\nNah, dude it is disrespectful \nYou just have no self control and by the looks of it you don't want to build some", ">\n\nYour post made me roll my eyes very hard.", ">\n\n“No, officer, my wife - she MADE me hit her!”", ">\n\nIt's a natural reaction for a sooky kid but not an adult, if you do that as an adult you just manchild that wants everything their way", ">\n\npoor OP.... did you get in trouble after you rolled your eyes at something again? did you not prehaps learn from previous interactions? rolling your eyes at something \"stupid or lame\" is an intentional response that is disrespectful to whatever it is. mature people dont act that way.....", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes.\n\nSo it is disrespectful. \n\nIts like throwing pepper in someone's face an expecting them not to sneeze.\n\nNo it’s not. You can easily (edited in) refrain from rolling your eyes, while it’s much more difficult to refrain from sneezing. \nIt’s fine to think whatever you want, but you might want to refrain from rolling your eyes when you’re, say, interacting with your boss; aka someone that can make you unemployed for whatever reason they please.", ">\n\nThis isn't an opinion. It's just flat wrong. \nIt is disrespectful because it is a conscious signifier which clearly communicated that you think that the thing you are rolling your eyes at is not worthy of respect.", ">\n\nYou have to go out of your way to roll your eyes. It is NOT gutteral or instinctual", ">\n\nIf you annoy me, my arm whips out in a natural reaction and slaps you.", ">\n\nSorry, kiddo, it’s 100% disrespectful. Just own the shit and quit trying to lawyer around it.\nI say that after having rolled my eyes so hard at your post, I travelled back in time.", ">\n\nTell that to my family lol you get the belt", ">\n\nThis was made my a 15 year old who just got told off by their mom about rolling their eyes. Then in defense said, “I can’t control it”", ">\n\nMan it's getting so aggressive sometimes here 😂", ">\n\ni certainly hope you are embarrassed about this in a couple years when you grow up.", ">\n\nOP is a habitual eye roller 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄", ">\n\nI wish to God we could block people by age, no more edgy 13yo’s", ">\n\nSomebody just got their ps5 taken away for rolling their eyes", ">\n\nTell me you're 12 without telling me you're 12.", ">\n\nit’s the definition of disrespectful and a sign that you have literally nothing intelligent to say in return. \nwhich is why we outgrow it as adults.", ">\n\nYou can control it. It’s not an “automatic response” unless you’ve taught yourself to do it. I never roll my eyes. It’s just not something I have ever practiced doing. And yes…if I’m saying something too you and you dismiss it with an eye roll…it’s super disrespectful.", ">\n\nrolling your eyes is just as respectful as sticking your tongue out at someone or making a stupid face in reaction to something someone says", ">\n\nIf you can’t control your eye movement, you need to see a neurologist, dude 😆. As it stands, eye rolling isn’t a reflex or a “natural reaction” to anything. Habits aren’t the same as involuntary reactions.\nRolling your eyes at someone is disrespectful. It’s an outward sign that you think something about your interaction with them was stupid or wrong. There’s no one here that will agree with you, and you know that you’re in the vast minority with this opinion because you posted it on this sub. Now learn some humility and accept that your opinion is factually incorrect based on science.", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nAre you like 14 and your mom got you in trouble cause you rolled your eyes at her? Lmao", ">\n\nI’m gonna show your mom this and it’s going to be another week of being grounded, you little shit lol", ">\n\nOmfg 😂", ">\n\nOP I have to ask.\n\n\nHow old are you?\n\n\nHow is your relationship with your parents?\n\n\nHow do you view authority figures in your life?", ">\n\nrolls eyes", ">\n\nIf you say or demand something stupid from me I will probably roll my eyes.", ">\n\nBut it is", ">\n\nJust like rolling your eyes is an innate response, so are other people's responses to you rolling your eyes.", ">\n\nSometimes being respectful requires hiding your subjective opinion on whether something is stupid or lame.", ">\n\nI wouldn’t say eye rolling is as involuntary as laughing or crying tho. It’s more of a choice.", ">\n\nIf someone rolls their eyes then I feel disrespected it’s a natural reaction.", ">\n\ntell me you're a teenager without telling me you're a teenager", ">\n\nI'm rolling my eyes at this post. And I definitely mean it disrespectfully.", ">\n\nLmao this kid had an argument with his parent(s) or teacher and is venting on Reddit.", ">\n\nYou sound like an eye rolling arsehole", ">\n\ni have never had an as a nonvoulentary action, it requires very explicit movement of you eye. this is like saying “when i dont like people, i punch them in the head, thats my natural reaction i cant control it”\ni have never once legitimately rolled my eyes at something, i think you might be an asshole", ">\n\nMe smacking your face is also an innate uncontrollable response to you rolling your eyes. I'm only human. What can I do? 🙄", ">\n\nI disagree. also there are a billion other ways to express something being stupid or lame than rolling ur eyes", ">\n\nStop downvoting, this is ACTUALLY a very unpopular opinion and I love to see it tbh. Voice your disagreement in the comments but don't downvote the post. This post is hilarious.", ">\n\nThis is something you’ve learned to do. It’s entirely in your control if you do it or not.", ">\n\nI once got a detention for rolling my eyes at a teacher in 4th grade.\nI agree with you, though. The only other person I've ever really rolled my eyes at was my mother, and she deserved it, every single time.", ">\n\nI get your point. I absolutely purposefully roll my eyes sometimes and whoever I'm doing it to would be valid for getting mad. \nBut as someone who can't hide any emotion on their face (literally any, I'm the definition of an open book) there have been plenty of times where people blew up at me or laughed because I rolled my eyes when I didn't even realize I had done it. Feel like the people disagreeing with you haven't experienced this problem.", ">\n\nWhat you've done is cultivate a bad habit and then blamed it on everyone else when you repeat your own bad habit unintentionally.\nThis is entirely your fault.", ">\n\nOnly on Reddit would someone so boldly declare something like this to a stranger. I'm on the spectrum so that might have to do with my not being able to hide any emotion (I truly mean that, people can basically read my thoughts just by looking at me, good and bad). \nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave. Consider working on that.", ">\n\nSo they point out you’re cultivating a bad habit and blaming other people so you then, blame them? It’s a little spot on don’t you think?", ">\n\nWhen did i blame them for my own actions? Could you quote me? I was just pointing out how weird it was that they made such a strong assumption of my character off a causal comment I left when they themselves were ironically being unnecessarily rude in the process. \nI don't know how you got so lost?", ">\n\n\nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave.\n\nClassic deflection and implication that they’re the one with the problem, not you", ">\n\nFirst its not automatic. I almost never rolled my eyes. Its much easier to control than laughing crying or sneezing. So you just dont make the effort. Its actually a way to express your feeling. You should know that, its your personnality not a human instinctive reaction. \nAnd yes not respecting something is disrespectful. Its not that hard to understand. \nAnyway if i see you.. i dont know having a breakdown after being fired and dumped and start to laugh you'd like that ? \nIf im sad because something good happens to you and show it to you, you would like that ? \nHonestly you are just trying to justify being a bit of a jerk. \nI dont blame you or anything we all are jerks sometime but its what you are doing right now.", ">\n\nI have to refocus my eyes and most of the time blinking doesn’t cut it. I have a lazy eye and when I look at someone for a long time it unfocuses, so moving the muscle is the only way to reset it. If I don’t, people start moving their heads/ bodies trying to focus on my lazy eye. It gets awkward.", ">\n\nThis is where I go to my training as a kid. What others think of you is none of your business.", ">\n\nUnless you have a tick or something like Tourette’s syndrome, then it’s not an involuntary response. Part of living in a society and not being considered rude is managing your body language.\nLet me put it this way. “Rudeness” in itself is a social concept. That means it’s decided by the perception of the masses, what we generally agree upon in terms of our symbols of communication, our customs, our beliefs, our values, etc. For you to say that rolling your eyes isn’t disrespectful is not objectively wrong. But according to the society you live in, it is wrong. In layman’s terms, the hill you’re dying on here is completely arbitrary, neither side will ever be truly correct but as long as you live in a society which feels this way then you will be beholden to it anyways.", ">\n\nTo be fair, if your thinking its stupid or lame, then that is dis-respect. I'd agree with this if it was worded like 'More people need to say what they truly think', but I think you sort of missed the mark, OP.", ">\n\nI am equally annoyed when folks rapidly blink and look away mid conversation or drop their arm dead against their thigh. It’s like you’ve given up an effort to even keep your body vertical and engaged while I’m talking to you.", ">\n\nOP getting downvoted AF & keeps commenting. Gotta love it.", ">\n\nIt is shown as a sign of disrespect and it shows weakness. I can’t imagine Gandhi, the queen of England or Einstein roll their eyes in front of random people. The reason why they were respected is because they didn’t play any superiority game on front of… inferiors or ignorant people. If something is stupid, get the patience and find enough love within yourself to treat the other ones right. \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a child because his question is “stupid”, what parent does it make you ? \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a bad question because you are an expert in a subject, then it is not your modesty that speaks but your ego. For proof : Even if someone you hate said something intelligent, you might want to roll your eyes just to flatter your ego.", ">\n\nIt's seen as disrespectful BECAUSE it's inadvertently telling them you think they're irritating/annoying.", ">\n\nI never roll my eyes? Is that something people do naturally?", ">\n\nAll depends on the context of what is going on.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is not a natural reaction?", ">\n\nNot maintaining basic self control is disrespectful. It's the same reason we don't defecate in public, sneeze on people, or stand in the way of foot traffic.", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s and one of my tics is eye rolling", ">\n\nK", ">\n\nI accidentally roll my eyes at people sometimes when I'm not even trying to", ">\n\nThe sign of a true unpopular opinion: Nobody upvoting it, but everybody commenting to say how they disagree. If you disagree, then give it an upvote. That's the point of this sub.", ">\n\nI think it depends.", ">\n\nThis had to be written by someone under the age of 25", ">\n\nRolling your eyes isn’t natural though. It’s cultural or socially learned if that makes sense. Like if you rolled your eyes at a tribe that is disconnected from society they wouldn’t understand that you’re annoyed. So you cant really compare it to laughing.", ">\n\nI'm kind of curious if this is true though. Are you assuming this, or do you have some kind of study proving this? I'd actually like to see if your hypothesis is true, or if remote tribes also use this facial gesture.", ">\n\nI’m assuming it. Back in my country Turkey if you rolled your eyes at my grandparents they would be confused and wonder what you were doing and what it meant.", ">\n\nit's a maturity thing, keep rolling your eyes at 30-40, everyone gonna see you like a kid. \nyou gotta control your emotions, there's no need to do a expression when something is stupid or lame, you got a mouth and you respectfully share what's wrong, if the person in the other end is reluctant to stay on the same boat even after you talk about it. then you don't roll your eyes, you gotta say that there's nothing more you can do, and that you don't agree with it, and most likely leave to dodge any sort of problem.", ">\n\nI have a tic where I constantly roll my eyes. I’ve had it since I was little, but never noticed it until years later when I high school teacher yelled at me for disrespect. Apparently my parents took me for evaluation when I was very young and diagnosed Tourette’s but never had any other tics develop. Would have been nice to know 🤦🏼‍♀️ I just apologize now and say it’s a compulsion if people ask. I don’t even know when I’m doing it", ">\n\nIs laughing disrespectful? Because it can be. Just like rolling your eyes can be. There is a time and place for everything", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a passive aggressive response. Passive aggression is a tactic used by meek people who are frustrated and don’t have the courage to address a given situation. It’s disrespectful and it lowers your standing in the social hierarchy.", ">\n\nGet back to me when Disney Dad actively encourages your offspring to roll their eyes at you.", ">\n\nYeah it is when I want to be disrespectful to someone I roll my eyes when they make a point. It might be annoying to them, but it also let's them know I don't give a shit about whatever they just said. Now, I would never to it to my boss, or my teachers while I was in college, but when I was a teen I did it all the time because I was an asshole, who didn't care. \nIt's not a natural reaction lmao, it is learned behavior and it can be a bad habit, but it can be unlearned.", ">\n\nSome people can’t control it I know with me sometimes I roll my eyes without meaning too it’s not that I’m trying to be rude it’s just something I didn’t even realize I was doing nor did I mean too", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nI have a friend who thinks like you do, which is based on your responses to the comments. He has very poor social skills and is on the autism spectrum", ">\n\nI bet you're lots of fun at parties OP.", ">\n\nI can’t tell if this is farming karma with ridiculous opinions or if this individual just has a really hard time understanding that maybe their parents aren’t always the bad guys.", ">\n\nYep, thats definitely an unpopular opinion! \nIts certainly disrespectful. And most certainly not some sort of involuntary response like a sneeze. It may feel that way to you, because you've done it so much - but there are plenty of people who don't do it. UNLIKE people who don't sneeze at pepper, or cough at dust. Like, you're just plain wrong on this one. Moreover, I think you're trying to justify/rationalize it yourself rather than address it in a healthy way - a marker suggesting you have some narcissistic tendencies.", ">\n\nWhat a stupid argument, take your upvote", ">\n\nIt’s a sign of contempt. The facial expression expert Dr. Eikman could predict how long a barrage would last based on 4 expressions and the frequency used when the couple was interviewed. Eye rolling was one.. in fact you could remove the others and still reasonably predict marriage failures.", ">\n\nI wish it wasn’t disrespectful, because as an expressive person I LOVE a good eye roll. But, it has gotten me into trouble. I do it without even knowing it. I hate that I do… I wish sometimes I could be stone cold. Just like a fish. One expression face only. Blank fish eyes staring into nothingness.\nMy favourite mug says, “I can’t help what my face does when you talk”. There is a reason the the mug is meant to be cheeky.", ">\n\nSeems disrespectful to me because my eyes don't roll on their own, it would be a conscious act.", ">\n\nThis is 100% based on the premis that you can’t control your eyes. Rolling your eyes isn’t a natural movement. You control it.\nLaughing and crying aren’t necessarily controllable.", ">\n\nIn addition to this:\nfinding something somebody said stupid isnt disrespectful - makin fun in an exaggerated way, call em out in a mean way, or think everything they're gonna say next is bs is the disrespectful part.", ">\n\nSo your reaction is because you think someone is stupid, but thinking they are stupid isn't disrespectful?", ">\n\nThis, i agree with", ">\n\nGuess my mom didn't get the memo.", ">\n\nI don't think rolling your eyes is natural. I did wrong all the way up until last year. Thought you were supposed to make your eyes go in a circular motion 😂", ">\n\nFr. I may be able to control what I say…but my face will always show how I feel😂can’t help it and I’m tired of fake apologizing for it.", ">\n\nI don’t think rolling your eyes is a natural reaction the same way crying and laughing are. The only times I’ve rolled my eyes are when I intended to.", ">\n\nWhen my dad was/is drunk and angry he does it. Disrespectful and does not feel nice.", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nLol go to your room", ">\n\nWhat a dingbat. lol", ">\n\nNah it's kinda rude. Hardly the worst thing ever though. Sometimes though, people roll their eyes to actually think about what they are going to say, though; it's an important thing to distinguish.", ">\n\nI mean, its entire function as an expression is disrespect. that's literally the whole point of rolling your eyes. Natural instinct or not, it still implies disrespect.", ">\n\nI used to roll my eyes often because I have bad eyeshit, and doing it relieved eye strain. I couldn't tell you the amount of times this got me in shit.", ">\n\nLaughing, crying… both can be controlled to an extent. Eye rolls can 100% be controlled. They aren’t a reflex. If they are in your case you should seek medical attention", ">\n\nIf you roll your eyes as an involuntary reaction. Please see a doctor", ">\n\nyour right this is an unpopular opinion but for a good fucking reason you have no soldi ground to stand on in any argument on this", ">\n\nOp- \"just because it means something disrespectful doesn't mean I should get yelled for choosing to roll my eyes.\"" ]
> what's popular isn't always right what's right isn't always popular your opinion and the sub checkout OP, good job!	[ "🙄", ">\n\nYou’re grounded now", ">\n\nThe post above was someone getting electrocuted so this reply was very timely", ">\n\nThis news is shocking", ">\n\nIt definitely SPARKED my interest", ">\n\nAll of you guys need to leave, and not come back before learning how to conduct yourselves properly", ">\n\nUhhhh....... electricity", ">\n\nWell no, in the right context it is disrespectful. Rolling your eyes suggests that you're not taking the matter seriously or that you dont care which is a sign of disrespect towards whoever is speaking with you.", ">\n\nBut I can't control what I think. If I said \"man you're stupid and I don't care what you say\" thats disrespectful. I'm actually showing respect by not saying it.", ">\n\nI mean, actions speak louder than words, right?", ">\n\nIts not really an action tho its just an automatic response. Like gasping or yawning.", ">\n\nbullshit.\nSorry, it was an automatic response. Which is bullshit just like yours.", ">\n\nStill not the same thing. And they get on me for false analogies....", ">\n\nYou must be a teenager", ">\n\nLol how many times are you gonna post that. Dont you have an original thought of your own?", ">\n\nBruh I cant believe you make these posts. They're foolish", ">\n\nLaughing at someone can be disrespectful. Don't think so? Try laughing at someone's funeral.", ">\n\nThe disrespect comes from the one who told me a joke and made me laugh.", ">\n\nWhat about if no one said any joke? Because, you know, you are at a funeral.", ">\n\nSo someone's just there randomly laughing at shit? That sounds like a mental illness.", ">\n\nYou have never thought of something funny in your head to make yourself laugh? \nOr hell, maybe you didn't like the person who is buried and decided to laugh at them. You find it funny, so laughing must be appropriate, right?", ">\n\nWhy am I thinking about funny shit at a funeral.", ">\n\nBecause the universe likes to put us in uncomfortable positions sometimes.", ">\n\n“if its stupid or lame, you roll your eyes” - you found the disrespect", ">\n\nIm allowed to think whatever i want and its not disrespectful.", ">\n\nWhen you express contempt for something someone else said, it's disrespect.", ">\n\nWhat if what they said is contemptible?", ">\n\nSome people and comments deserve disrespect, still gonna be disrespect", ">\n\nLaughing, crying, and sneezing are all innate, involuntary reactions to certain types of stimuli. Rolling your eyes is a learned behavior. You can’t compare it to those other automatic responses because it’s not the same thing.", ">\n\nTake my upvote", ">\n\nOP rolled their eyes at someone and got chewed out for it.\nNow they're going online in an attempt to validate themselves.\n🙄", ">\n\nProbably got grounded.", ">\n\nPart of being a mature adult is to have self-control and not acting on every impulse and being respectful of people.", ">\n\n\nPart of being a mature adult\n\nYup but OP is clearly a teenager lol. They complain about being told off for doing chores wrong in another post…", ">\n\nEven a teenager should be able to have the fundamental basics of respect", ">\n\nOh I agree 100%", ">\n\nYou have poor self-control and poor self-awareness but the good news is that you can improve these things.", ">\n\n/r/wrongopinions", ">\n\nI feel like we need a new subreddit r/unpopularforareason", ">\n\nIt’s entire purpose is to be disrespectful. Nobody eyerolls something they respect. But how offensive it is depends on the context and how serious one is being.", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes\n\nYou rn: \"I'm not being disrespectful. I just thought what you said was stupid or lame.\"\n...", ">\n\nSaying its stupid could be disrespectful. A facial response is not.", ">\n\nLiterally every person in this thread agrees that it is.\nThis is your bad habit. Nobody else's responsibility but you.", ">\n\nThey can choose to not fly off the handle at what is just an innate reaction.", ">\n\nSo let me get this straight: you think you deserve to be able to disrespect whoever you like whenever you like but they can't as much as say you're being rude? Grow up.", ">\n\nFound the teenager.", ">\n\nMeh, I agree with that one. If you don't like how someone is doing something then do it yourself. There's a reason I live alone.", ">\n\nIt is a UNIVERSAL sign of disrespect. Globally. Deal with it.", ">\n\nLaughing can be disrespectuful too. If you cannot control your own reactions, well, what can I say, maybe you have not really grown up?", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s so it’s hard to control my own actions sometimes…", ">\n\nThank u I'm trying to explain how autism can make it hard to read not just others facial expressions but also ur own and it seems like no one has thought of the possibility that they acc don't realise it or csnt control it", ">\n\nWould you roll your eyes during a job interview if you thought a question was stupid or irrelevant? Do you think you’d get the job if you did?", ">\n\nPretty sure OP would think they were owed that job and they would think it’s ridiculous if they didn’t get it.\nOP is also a teenager going through their rebel phase though", ">\n\nYou're oddly specific here.", ">\n\nWhat was specific? Or rather oddly specific?", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a good way to fast track yourself to a divorce, if you want one.", ">\n\nI think OP needs the definition of respect before any further comment is made", ">\n\nOh I already know it, and I know it does not mean:\nDon't ever disagree with me\nDon't think bad thoughts about me\nDon't ever correct me when I'm blatantly wrong \nShine my boots with your tongue", ">\n\nSoooo this post isn’t about eye rolling is what I’m getting from this. You’ve got issues to work through with your parents or partner or something", ">\n\nSince when tf was eye rolling involuntary?", ">", ">\n\nYour lack of self control is not a justification for disrespect. I personally dont know anyone who reacts to anything by rolling their eyes. Just be mature and communicate.", ">\n\nAnd what if it's not stupid and someone rolls their eyes? Wouldn't it be disrespectful in that case?", ">\n\nIn the eye rollers opinion then it must have been. But you can't fault someone for thinking its stupid.", ">\n\nSo eyerolling is some kind of exceptional thing that is free from criticism? \nIf one has the freedom to eye roll, then someone else has the freedom to criticize the eye roller right? \nOr is it your opinion that besides that everyone who sees an eye roller has to just stfu", ">\n\nMeh, it is disrespectful. It's a way to be disrespectful without having to say That's the dumbest thing I've heard all month, and everyone else who heard it is also dumber for hearing it as well.", ">\n\nBut I didn't say it that's the point.", ">\n\nJust cuz you don’t use words doesn’t mean it’s not disrespectful. Walking away while someone is talking to you, rolling your eyes, slapping someone, and starting to play a game on your phone while someone is talking to you are all disrespectful. It doesn’t matter that you didn’t say anything, your lack of respect still showed.", ">\n\nespecially the way theyre responding to comments", ">\n\nYeah, a natural reaction if you’ve never learned to manage your emotions as opposed to letting them run your life. I’m not talking about being totally monotone rational, either. You need to learn a balance between rational and emotional…which includes healthy, appropriate, respectful expression of honest feelings. Eye rolling is absolutely disrespectful, belittling, and dismissive.", ">\n\nComments: OP is completely wrong and has attitude issues", ">\n\nWhat sounds like mental illness is you refusing to admit that rolling your eyes is simply not an unconditional response. Whether you want to believe it or not, you are doing it intentionally and you can control it. \nYou’re just to much of a b—— to do so.", ">\n\nSame to you", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a learned reaction. Not natural. I rarely of ever roll my eyes at anything.", ">", ">\n\nJust like raising your middle finger. Or vocalizing the sounds \"fuck you\". Or fingers typing the words fuck you OP. Nothing is disrespectful!", ">\n\nNice try but not the same thing at all. You're talking about thought out actions here. The eye roll is more like a reaction. Its quick, its automatic, no one has to think \"im rolling my eyes now\" it just happens. \nSort of like when telling a lie - no one decides to have their eyes dart around suspiciously, it just happens.", ">\n\nNo. Rolling your eyes is not involuntary. It can be controlled. You have a bad habit that you CAN stop. Much like a child learning not to suck their thumb, or biting your nails.", ">\n\nHow about you start with your hair scratching", ">\n\nYour opinion is a contradiction in itself. And, yeah. I disagree. Rolling your eyes is 100% to show lack of respect, and you have no intentions of showing it, even to reason, by rolling your eyes at something someone could believe is meaningful or important. Even if it is stupid.\nI get your point, we roll our eyes to express how we feel, but it is still a physical snare. You say rolling your eyes isn't disrespectful, while saying it's okay to roll your eyes because something is \" stupid or lame\", which in itself is disrespectful. You sound like a very young person in the middle of a learning moment, and you're trying to react with rebellion. It only shows that you lack maturity and are in need of growth. This might be a time for you to read these comments and reevaluate. There are healthier ways to react to things you disagree with, or lack interest in. If not, you can just accept that you roll your eyes to show lack of respect.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is much more deliberate than laughter, tears, or sneezing. It's a conscious action in response to a judgement you're making.", ">\n\nNah, dude it is disrespectful \nYou just have no self control and by the looks of it you don't want to build some", ">\n\nYour post made me roll my eyes very hard.", ">\n\n“No, officer, my wife - she MADE me hit her!”", ">\n\nIt's a natural reaction for a sooky kid but not an adult, if you do that as an adult you just manchild that wants everything their way", ">\n\npoor OP.... did you get in trouble after you rolled your eyes at something again? did you not prehaps learn from previous interactions? rolling your eyes at something \"stupid or lame\" is an intentional response that is disrespectful to whatever it is. mature people dont act that way.....", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes.\n\nSo it is disrespectful. \n\nIts like throwing pepper in someone's face an expecting them not to sneeze.\n\nNo it’s not. You can easily (edited in) refrain from rolling your eyes, while it’s much more difficult to refrain from sneezing. \nIt’s fine to think whatever you want, but you might want to refrain from rolling your eyes when you’re, say, interacting with your boss; aka someone that can make you unemployed for whatever reason they please.", ">\n\nThis isn't an opinion. It's just flat wrong. \nIt is disrespectful because it is a conscious signifier which clearly communicated that you think that the thing you are rolling your eyes at is not worthy of respect.", ">\n\nYou have to go out of your way to roll your eyes. It is NOT gutteral or instinctual", ">\n\nIf you annoy me, my arm whips out in a natural reaction and slaps you.", ">\n\nSorry, kiddo, it’s 100% disrespectful. Just own the shit and quit trying to lawyer around it.\nI say that after having rolled my eyes so hard at your post, I travelled back in time.", ">\n\nTell that to my family lol you get the belt", ">\n\nThis was made my a 15 year old who just got told off by their mom about rolling their eyes. Then in defense said, “I can’t control it”", ">\n\nMan it's getting so aggressive sometimes here 😂", ">\n\ni certainly hope you are embarrassed about this in a couple years when you grow up.", ">\n\nOP is a habitual eye roller 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄", ">\n\nI wish to God we could block people by age, no more edgy 13yo’s", ">\n\nSomebody just got their ps5 taken away for rolling their eyes", ">\n\nTell me you're 12 without telling me you're 12.", ">\n\nit’s the definition of disrespectful and a sign that you have literally nothing intelligent to say in return. \nwhich is why we outgrow it as adults.", ">\n\nYou can control it. It’s not an “automatic response” unless you’ve taught yourself to do it. I never roll my eyes. It’s just not something I have ever practiced doing. And yes…if I’m saying something too you and you dismiss it with an eye roll…it’s super disrespectful.", ">\n\nrolling your eyes is just as respectful as sticking your tongue out at someone or making a stupid face in reaction to something someone says", ">\n\nIf you can’t control your eye movement, you need to see a neurologist, dude 😆. As it stands, eye rolling isn’t a reflex or a “natural reaction” to anything. Habits aren’t the same as involuntary reactions.\nRolling your eyes at someone is disrespectful. It’s an outward sign that you think something about your interaction with them was stupid or wrong. There’s no one here that will agree with you, and you know that you’re in the vast minority with this opinion because you posted it on this sub. Now learn some humility and accept that your opinion is factually incorrect based on science.", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nAre you like 14 and your mom got you in trouble cause you rolled your eyes at her? Lmao", ">\n\nI’m gonna show your mom this and it’s going to be another week of being grounded, you little shit lol", ">\n\nOmfg 😂", ">\n\nOP I have to ask.\n\n\nHow old are you?\n\n\nHow is your relationship with your parents?\n\n\nHow do you view authority figures in your life?", ">\n\nrolls eyes", ">\n\nIf you say or demand something stupid from me I will probably roll my eyes.", ">\n\nBut it is", ">\n\nJust like rolling your eyes is an innate response, so are other people's responses to you rolling your eyes.", ">\n\nSometimes being respectful requires hiding your subjective opinion on whether something is stupid or lame.", ">\n\nI wouldn’t say eye rolling is as involuntary as laughing or crying tho. It’s more of a choice.", ">\n\nIf someone rolls their eyes then I feel disrespected it’s a natural reaction.", ">\n\ntell me you're a teenager without telling me you're a teenager", ">\n\nI'm rolling my eyes at this post. And I definitely mean it disrespectfully.", ">\n\nLmao this kid had an argument with his parent(s) or teacher and is venting on Reddit.", ">\n\nYou sound like an eye rolling arsehole", ">\n\ni have never had an as a nonvoulentary action, it requires very explicit movement of you eye. this is like saying “when i dont like people, i punch them in the head, thats my natural reaction i cant control it”\ni have never once legitimately rolled my eyes at something, i think you might be an asshole", ">\n\nMe smacking your face is also an innate uncontrollable response to you rolling your eyes. I'm only human. What can I do? 🙄", ">\n\nI disagree. also there are a billion other ways to express something being stupid or lame than rolling ur eyes", ">\n\nStop downvoting, this is ACTUALLY a very unpopular opinion and I love to see it tbh. Voice your disagreement in the comments but don't downvote the post. This post is hilarious.", ">\n\nThis is something you’ve learned to do. It’s entirely in your control if you do it or not.", ">\n\nI once got a detention for rolling my eyes at a teacher in 4th grade.\nI agree with you, though. The only other person I've ever really rolled my eyes at was my mother, and she deserved it, every single time.", ">\n\nI get your point. I absolutely purposefully roll my eyes sometimes and whoever I'm doing it to would be valid for getting mad. \nBut as someone who can't hide any emotion on their face (literally any, I'm the definition of an open book) there have been plenty of times where people blew up at me or laughed because I rolled my eyes when I didn't even realize I had done it. Feel like the people disagreeing with you haven't experienced this problem.", ">\n\nWhat you've done is cultivate a bad habit and then blamed it on everyone else when you repeat your own bad habit unintentionally.\nThis is entirely your fault.", ">\n\nOnly on Reddit would someone so boldly declare something like this to a stranger. I'm on the spectrum so that might have to do with my not being able to hide any emotion (I truly mean that, people can basically read my thoughts just by looking at me, good and bad). \nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave. Consider working on that.", ">\n\nSo they point out you’re cultivating a bad habit and blaming other people so you then, blame them? It’s a little spot on don’t you think?", ">\n\nWhen did i blame them for my own actions? Could you quote me? I was just pointing out how weird it was that they made such a strong assumption of my character off a causal comment I left when they themselves were ironically being unnecessarily rude in the process. \nI don't know how you got so lost?", ">\n\n\nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave.\n\nClassic deflection and implication that they’re the one with the problem, not you", ">\n\nFirst its not automatic. I almost never rolled my eyes. Its much easier to control than laughing crying or sneezing. So you just dont make the effort. Its actually a way to express your feeling. You should know that, its your personnality not a human instinctive reaction. \nAnd yes not respecting something is disrespectful. Its not that hard to understand. \nAnyway if i see you.. i dont know having a breakdown after being fired and dumped and start to laugh you'd like that ? \nIf im sad because something good happens to you and show it to you, you would like that ? \nHonestly you are just trying to justify being a bit of a jerk. \nI dont blame you or anything we all are jerks sometime but its what you are doing right now.", ">\n\nI have to refocus my eyes and most of the time blinking doesn’t cut it. I have a lazy eye and when I look at someone for a long time it unfocuses, so moving the muscle is the only way to reset it. If I don’t, people start moving their heads/ bodies trying to focus on my lazy eye. It gets awkward.", ">\n\nThis is where I go to my training as a kid. What others think of you is none of your business.", ">\n\nUnless you have a tick or something like Tourette’s syndrome, then it’s not an involuntary response. Part of living in a society and not being considered rude is managing your body language.\nLet me put it this way. “Rudeness” in itself is a social concept. That means it’s decided by the perception of the masses, what we generally agree upon in terms of our symbols of communication, our customs, our beliefs, our values, etc. For you to say that rolling your eyes isn’t disrespectful is not objectively wrong. But according to the society you live in, it is wrong. In layman’s terms, the hill you’re dying on here is completely arbitrary, neither side will ever be truly correct but as long as you live in a society which feels this way then you will be beholden to it anyways.", ">\n\nTo be fair, if your thinking its stupid or lame, then that is dis-respect. I'd agree with this if it was worded like 'More people need to say what they truly think', but I think you sort of missed the mark, OP.", ">\n\nI am equally annoyed when folks rapidly blink and look away mid conversation or drop their arm dead against their thigh. It’s like you’ve given up an effort to even keep your body vertical and engaged while I’m talking to you.", ">\n\nOP getting downvoted AF & keeps commenting. Gotta love it.", ">\n\nIt is shown as a sign of disrespect and it shows weakness. I can’t imagine Gandhi, the queen of England or Einstein roll their eyes in front of random people. The reason why they were respected is because they didn’t play any superiority game on front of… inferiors or ignorant people. If something is stupid, get the patience and find enough love within yourself to treat the other ones right. \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a child because his question is “stupid”, what parent does it make you ? \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a bad question because you are an expert in a subject, then it is not your modesty that speaks but your ego. For proof : Even if someone you hate said something intelligent, you might want to roll your eyes just to flatter your ego.", ">\n\nIt's seen as disrespectful BECAUSE it's inadvertently telling them you think they're irritating/annoying.", ">\n\nI never roll my eyes? Is that something people do naturally?", ">\n\nAll depends on the context of what is going on.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is not a natural reaction?", ">\n\nNot maintaining basic self control is disrespectful. It's the same reason we don't defecate in public, sneeze on people, or stand in the way of foot traffic.", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s and one of my tics is eye rolling", ">\n\nK", ">\n\nI accidentally roll my eyes at people sometimes when I'm not even trying to", ">\n\nThe sign of a true unpopular opinion: Nobody upvoting it, but everybody commenting to say how they disagree. If you disagree, then give it an upvote. That's the point of this sub.", ">\n\nI think it depends.", ">\n\nThis had to be written by someone under the age of 25", ">\n\nRolling your eyes isn’t natural though. It’s cultural or socially learned if that makes sense. Like if you rolled your eyes at a tribe that is disconnected from society they wouldn’t understand that you’re annoyed. So you cant really compare it to laughing.", ">\n\nI'm kind of curious if this is true though. Are you assuming this, or do you have some kind of study proving this? I'd actually like to see if your hypothesis is true, or if remote tribes also use this facial gesture.", ">\n\nI’m assuming it. Back in my country Turkey if you rolled your eyes at my grandparents they would be confused and wonder what you were doing and what it meant.", ">\n\nit's a maturity thing, keep rolling your eyes at 30-40, everyone gonna see you like a kid. \nyou gotta control your emotions, there's no need to do a expression when something is stupid or lame, you got a mouth and you respectfully share what's wrong, if the person in the other end is reluctant to stay on the same boat even after you talk about it. then you don't roll your eyes, you gotta say that there's nothing more you can do, and that you don't agree with it, and most likely leave to dodge any sort of problem.", ">\n\nI have a tic where I constantly roll my eyes. I’ve had it since I was little, but never noticed it until years later when I high school teacher yelled at me for disrespect. Apparently my parents took me for evaluation when I was very young and diagnosed Tourette’s but never had any other tics develop. Would have been nice to know 🤦🏼‍♀️ I just apologize now and say it’s a compulsion if people ask. I don’t even know when I’m doing it", ">\n\nIs laughing disrespectful? Because it can be. Just like rolling your eyes can be. There is a time and place for everything", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a passive aggressive response. Passive aggression is a tactic used by meek people who are frustrated and don’t have the courage to address a given situation. It’s disrespectful and it lowers your standing in the social hierarchy.", ">\n\nGet back to me when Disney Dad actively encourages your offspring to roll their eyes at you.", ">\n\nYeah it is when I want to be disrespectful to someone I roll my eyes when they make a point. It might be annoying to them, but it also let's them know I don't give a shit about whatever they just said. Now, I would never to it to my boss, or my teachers while I was in college, but when I was a teen I did it all the time because I was an asshole, who didn't care. \nIt's not a natural reaction lmao, it is learned behavior and it can be a bad habit, but it can be unlearned.", ">\n\nSome people can’t control it I know with me sometimes I roll my eyes without meaning too it’s not that I’m trying to be rude it’s just something I didn’t even realize I was doing nor did I mean too", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nI have a friend who thinks like you do, which is based on your responses to the comments. He has very poor social skills and is on the autism spectrum", ">\n\nI bet you're lots of fun at parties OP.", ">\n\nI can’t tell if this is farming karma with ridiculous opinions or if this individual just has a really hard time understanding that maybe their parents aren’t always the bad guys.", ">\n\nYep, thats definitely an unpopular opinion! \nIts certainly disrespectful. And most certainly not some sort of involuntary response like a sneeze. It may feel that way to you, because you've done it so much - but there are plenty of people who don't do it. UNLIKE people who don't sneeze at pepper, or cough at dust. Like, you're just plain wrong on this one. Moreover, I think you're trying to justify/rationalize it yourself rather than address it in a healthy way - a marker suggesting you have some narcissistic tendencies.", ">\n\nWhat a stupid argument, take your upvote", ">\n\nIt’s a sign of contempt. The facial expression expert Dr. Eikman could predict how long a barrage would last based on 4 expressions and the frequency used when the couple was interviewed. Eye rolling was one.. in fact you could remove the others and still reasonably predict marriage failures.", ">\n\nI wish it wasn’t disrespectful, because as an expressive person I LOVE a good eye roll. But, it has gotten me into trouble. I do it without even knowing it. I hate that I do… I wish sometimes I could be stone cold. Just like a fish. One expression face only. Blank fish eyes staring into nothingness.\nMy favourite mug says, “I can’t help what my face does when you talk”. There is a reason the the mug is meant to be cheeky.", ">\n\nSeems disrespectful to me because my eyes don't roll on their own, it would be a conscious act.", ">\n\nThis is 100% based on the premis that you can’t control your eyes. Rolling your eyes isn’t a natural movement. You control it.\nLaughing and crying aren’t necessarily controllable.", ">\n\nIn addition to this:\nfinding something somebody said stupid isnt disrespectful - makin fun in an exaggerated way, call em out in a mean way, or think everything they're gonna say next is bs is the disrespectful part.", ">\n\nSo your reaction is because you think someone is stupid, but thinking they are stupid isn't disrespectful?", ">\n\nThis, i agree with", ">\n\nGuess my mom didn't get the memo.", ">\n\nI don't think rolling your eyes is natural. I did wrong all the way up until last year. Thought you were supposed to make your eyes go in a circular motion 😂", ">\n\nFr. I may be able to control what I say…but my face will always show how I feel😂can’t help it and I’m tired of fake apologizing for it.", ">\n\nI don’t think rolling your eyes is a natural reaction the same way crying and laughing are. The only times I’ve rolled my eyes are when I intended to.", ">\n\nWhen my dad was/is drunk and angry he does it. Disrespectful and does not feel nice.", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nLol go to your room", ">\n\nWhat a dingbat. lol", ">\n\nNah it's kinda rude. Hardly the worst thing ever though. Sometimes though, people roll their eyes to actually think about what they are going to say, though; it's an important thing to distinguish.", ">\n\nI mean, its entire function as an expression is disrespect. that's literally the whole point of rolling your eyes. Natural instinct or not, it still implies disrespect.", ">\n\nI used to roll my eyes often because I have bad eyeshit, and doing it relieved eye strain. I couldn't tell you the amount of times this got me in shit.", ">\n\nLaughing, crying… both can be controlled to an extent. Eye rolls can 100% be controlled. They aren’t a reflex. If they are in your case you should seek medical attention", ">\n\nIf you roll your eyes as an involuntary reaction. Please see a doctor", ">\n\nyour right this is an unpopular opinion but for a good fucking reason you have no soldi ground to stand on in any argument on this", ">\n\nOp- \"just because it means something disrespectful doesn't mean I should get yelled for choosing to roll my eyes.\"", ">\n\nMaybe if your 10 and don't understand social cues. Context is a big part tho, if it's you and your friends goofing off, maybe it's tolerable to bash one another. If it's parents trying to have a serious convo and your just an idiot about it, then it's a problem." ]
> I agree it’s a pretty natural reaction when people or a given situation is unreasonable. The other options are usually to laugh or get angry. It’s even funnier when Karen’s get mad at it. Keeping a poker face at times just isn’t possible. I feel redeemed when someone being a unreasonable jackass and they get upset by my 🙄. Most people say nothing and I think accept it anyway.	[ "🙄", ">\n\nYou’re grounded now", ">\n\nThe post above was someone getting electrocuted so this reply was very timely", ">\n\nThis news is shocking", ">\n\nIt definitely SPARKED my interest", ">\n\nAll of you guys need to leave, and not come back before learning how to conduct yourselves properly", ">\n\nUhhhh....... electricity", ">\n\nWell no, in the right context it is disrespectful. Rolling your eyes suggests that you're not taking the matter seriously or that you dont care which is a sign of disrespect towards whoever is speaking with you.", ">\n\nBut I can't control what I think. If I said \"man you're stupid and I don't care what you say\" thats disrespectful. I'm actually showing respect by not saying it.", ">\n\nI mean, actions speak louder than words, right?", ">\n\nIts not really an action tho its just an automatic response. Like gasping or yawning.", ">\n\nbullshit.\nSorry, it was an automatic response. Which is bullshit just like yours.", ">\n\nStill not the same thing. And they get on me for false analogies....", ">\n\nYou must be a teenager", ">\n\nLol how many times are you gonna post that. Dont you have an original thought of your own?", ">\n\nBruh I cant believe you make these posts. They're foolish", ">\n\nLaughing at someone can be disrespectful. Don't think so? Try laughing at someone's funeral.", ">\n\nThe disrespect comes from the one who told me a joke and made me laugh.", ">\n\nWhat about if no one said any joke? Because, you know, you are at a funeral.", ">\n\nSo someone's just there randomly laughing at shit? That sounds like a mental illness.", ">\n\nYou have never thought of something funny in your head to make yourself laugh? \nOr hell, maybe you didn't like the person who is buried and decided to laugh at them. You find it funny, so laughing must be appropriate, right?", ">\n\nWhy am I thinking about funny shit at a funeral.", ">\n\nBecause the universe likes to put us in uncomfortable positions sometimes.", ">\n\n“if its stupid or lame, you roll your eyes” - you found the disrespect", ">\n\nIm allowed to think whatever i want and its not disrespectful.", ">\n\nWhen you express contempt for something someone else said, it's disrespect.", ">\n\nWhat if what they said is contemptible?", ">\n\nSome people and comments deserve disrespect, still gonna be disrespect", ">\n\nLaughing, crying, and sneezing are all innate, involuntary reactions to certain types of stimuli. Rolling your eyes is a learned behavior. You can’t compare it to those other automatic responses because it’s not the same thing.", ">\n\nTake my upvote", ">\n\nOP rolled their eyes at someone and got chewed out for it.\nNow they're going online in an attempt to validate themselves.\n🙄", ">\n\nProbably got grounded.", ">\n\nPart of being a mature adult is to have self-control and not acting on every impulse and being respectful of people.", ">\n\n\nPart of being a mature adult\n\nYup but OP is clearly a teenager lol. They complain about being told off for doing chores wrong in another post…", ">\n\nEven a teenager should be able to have the fundamental basics of respect", ">\n\nOh I agree 100%", ">\n\nYou have poor self-control and poor self-awareness but the good news is that you can improve these things.", ">\n\n/r/wrongopinions", ">\n\nI feel like we need a new subreddit r/unpopularforareason", ">\n\nIt’s entire purpose is to be disrespectful. Nobody eyerolls something they respect. But how offensive it is depends on the context and how serious one is being.", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes\n\nYou rn: \"I'm not being disrespectful. I just thought what you said was stupid or lame.\"\n...", ">\n\nSaying its stupid could be disrespectful. A facial response is not.", ">\n\nLiterally every person in this thread agrees that it is.\nThis is your bad habit. Nobody else's responsibility but you.", ">\n\nThey can choose to not fly off the handle at what is just an innate reaction.", ">\n\nSo let me get this straight: you think you deserve to be able to disrespect whoever you like whenever you like but they can't as much as say you're being rude? Grow up.", ">\n\nFound the teenager.", ">\n\nMeh, I agree with that one. If you don't like how someone is doing something then do it yourself. There's a reason I live alone.", ">\n\nIt is a UNIVERSAL sign of disrespect. Globally. Deal with it.", ">\n\nLaughing can be disrespectuful too. If you cannot control your own reactions, well, what can I say, maybe you have not really grown up?", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s so it’s hard to control my own actions sometimes…", ">\n\nThank u I'm trying to explain how autism can make it hard to read not just others facial expressions but also ur own and it seems like no one has thought of the possibility that they acc don't realise it or csnt control it", ">\n\nWould you roll your eyes during a job interview if you thought a question was stupid or irrelevant? Do you think you’d get the job if you did?", ">\n\nPretty sure OP would think they were owed that job and they would think it’s ridiculous if they didn’t get it.\nOP is also a teenager going through their rebel phase though", ">\n\nYou're oddly specific here.", ">\n\nWhat was specific? Or rather oddly specific?", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a good way to fast track yourself to a divorce, if you want one.", ">\n\nI think OP needs the definition of respect before any further comment is made", ">\n\nOh I already know it, and I know it does not mean:\nDon't ever disagree with me\nDon't think bad thoughts about me\nDon't ever correct me when I'm blatantly wrong \nShine my boots with your tongue", ">\n\nSoooo this post isn’t about eye rolling is what I’m getting from this. You’ve got issues to work through with your parents or partner or something", ">\n\nSince when tf was eye rolling involuntary?", ">", ">\n\nYour lack of self control is not a justification for disrespect. I personally dont know anyone who reacts to anything by rolling their eyes. Just be mature and communicate.", ">\n\nAnd what if it's not stupid and someone rolls their eyes? Wouldn't it be disrespectful in that case?", ">\n\nIn the eye rollers opinion then it must have been. But you can't fault someone for thinking its stupid.", ">\n\nSo eyerolling is some kind of exceptional thing that is free from criticism? \nIf one has the freedom to eye roll, then someone else has the freedom to criticize the eye roller right? \nOr is it your opinion that besides that everyone who sees an eye roller has to just stfu", ">\n\nMeh, it is disrespectful. It's a way to be disrespectful without having to say That's the dumbest thing I've heard all month, and everyone else who heard it is also dumber for hearing it as well.", ">\n\nBut I didn't say it that's the point.", ">\n\nJust cuz you don’t use words doesn’t mean it’s not disrespectful. Walking away while someone is talking to you, rolling your eyes, slapping someone, and starting to play a game on your phone while someone is talking to you are all disrespectful. It doesn’t matter that you didn’t say anything, your lack of respect still showed.", ">\n\nespecially the way theyre responding to comments", ">\n\nYeah, a natural reaction if you’ve never learned to manage your emotions as opposed to letting them run your life. I’m not talking about being totally monotone rational, either. You need to learn a balance between rational and emotional…which includes healthy, appropriate, respectful expression of honest feelings. Eye rolling is absolutely disrespectful, belittling, and dismissive.", ">\n\nComments: OP is completely wrong and has attitude issues", ">\n\nWhat sounds like mental illness is you refusing to admit that rolling your eyes is simply not an unconditional response. Whether you want to believe it or not, you are doing it intentionally and you can control it. \nYou’re just to much of a b—— to do so.", ">\n\nSame to you", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a learned reaction. Not natural. I rarely of ever roll my eyes at anything.", ">", ">\n\nJust like raising your middle finger. Or vocalizing the sounds \"fuck you\". Or fingers typing the words fuck you OP. Nothing is disrespectful!", ">\n\nNice try but not the same thing at all. You're talking about thought out actions here. The eye roll is more like a reaction. Its quick, its automatic, no one has to think \"im rolling my eyes now\" it just happens. \nSort of like when telling a lie - no one decides to have their eyes dart around suspiciously, it just happens.", ">\n\nNo. Rolling your eyes is not involuntary. It can be controlled. You have a bad habit that you CAN stop. Much like a child learning not to suck their thumb, or biting your nails.", ">\n\nHow about you start with your hair scratching", ">\n\nYour opinion is a contradiction in itself. And, yeah. I disagree. Rolling your eyes is 100% to show lack of respect, and you have no intentions of showing it, even to reason, by rolling your eyes at something someone could believe is meaningful or important. Even if it is stupid.\nI get your point, we roll our eyes to express how we feel, but it is still a physical snare. You say rolling your eyes isn't disrespectful, while saying it's okay to roll your eyes because something is \" stupid or lame\", which in itself is disrespectful. You sound like a very young person in the middle of a learning moment, and you're trying to react with rebellion. It only shows that you lack maturity and are in need of growth. This might be a time for you to read these comments and reevaluate. There are healthier ways to react to things you disagree with, or lack interest in. If not, you can just accept that you roll your eyes to show lack of respect.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is much more deliberate than laughter, tears, or sneezing. It's a conscious action in response to a judgement you're making.", ">\n\nNah, dude it is disrespectful \nYou just have no self control and by the looks of it you don't want to build some", ">\n\nYour post made me roll my eyes very hard.", ">\n\n“No, officer, my wife - she MADE me hit her!”", ">\n\nIt's a natural reaction for a sooky kid but not an adult, if you do that as an adult you just manchild that wants everything their way", ">\n\npoor OP.... did you get in trouble after you rolled your eyes at something again? did you not prehaps learn from previous interactions? rolling your eyes at something \"stupid or lame\" is an intentional response that is disrespectful to whatever it is. mature people dont act that way.....", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes.\n\nSo it is disrespectful. \n\nIts like throwing pepper in someone's face an expecting them not to sneeze.\n\nNo it’s not. You can easily (edited in) refrain from rolling your eyes, while it’s much more difficult to refrain from sneezing. \nIt’s fine to think whatever you want, but you might want to refrain from rolling your eyes when you’re, say, interacting with your boss; aka someone that can make you unemployed for whatever reason they please.", ">\n\nThis isn't an opinion. It's just flat wrong. \nIt is disrespectful because it is a conscious signifier which clearly communicated that you think that the thing you are rolling your eyes at is not worthy of respect.", ">\n\nYou have to go out of your way to roll your eyes. It is NOT gutteral or instinctual", ">\n\nIf you annoy me, my arm whips out in a natural reaction and slaps you.", ">\n\nSorry, kiddo, it’s 100% disrespectful. Just own the shit and quit trying to lawyer around it.\nI say that after having rolled my eyes so hard at your post, I travelled back in time.", ">\n\nTell that to my family lol you get the belt", ">\n\nThis was made my a 15 year old who just got told off by their mom about rolling their eyes. Then in defense said, “I can’t control it”", ">\n\nMan it's getting so aggressive sometimes here 😂", ">\n\ni certainly hope you are embarrassed about this in a couple years when you grow up.", ">\n\nOP is a habitual eye roller 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄", ">\n\nI wish to God we could block people by age, no more edgy 13yo’s", ">\n\nSomebody just got their ps5 taken away for rolling their eyes", ">\n\nTell me you're 12 without telling me you're 12.", ">\n\nit’s the definition of disrespectful and a sign that you have literally nothing intelligent to say in return. \nwhich is why we outgrow it as adults.", ">\n\nYou can control it. It’s not an “automatic response” unless you’ve taught yourself to do it. I never roll my eyes. It’s just not something I have ever practiced doing. And yes…if I’m saying something too you and you dismiss it with an eye roll…it’s super disrespectful.", ">\n\nrolling your eyes is just as respectful as sticking your tongue out at someone or making a stupid face in reaction to something someone says", ">\n\nIf you can’t control your eye movement, you need to see a neurologist, dude 😆. As it stands, eye rolling isn’t a reflex or a “natural reaction” to anything. Habits aren’t the same as involuntary reactions.\nRolling your eyes at someone is disrespectful. It’s an outward sign that you think something about your interaction with them was stupid or wrong. There’s no one here that will agree with you, and you know that you’re in the vast minority with this opinion because you posted it on this sub. Now learn some humility and accept that your opinion is factually incorrect based on science.", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nAre you like 14 and your mom got you in trouble cause you rolled your eyes at her? Lmao", ">\n\nI’m gonna show your mom this and it’s going to be another week of being grounded, you little shit lol", ">\n\nOmfg 😂", ">\n\nOP I have to ask.\n\n\nHow old are you?\n\n\nHow is your relationship with your parents?\n\n\nHow do you view authority figures in your life?", ">\n\nrolls eyes", ">\n\nIf you say or demand something stupid from me I will probably roll my eyes.", ">\n\nBut it is", ">\n\nJust like rolling your eyes is an innate response, so are other people's responses to you rolling your eyes.", ">\n\nSometimes being respectful requires hiding your subjective opinion on whether something is stupid or lame.", ">\n\nI wouldn’t say eye rolling is as involuntary as laughing or crying tho. It’s more of a choice.", ">\n\nIf someone rolls their eyes then I feel disrespected it’s a natural reaction.", ">\n\ntell me you're a teenager without telling me you're a teenager", ">\n\nI'm rolling my eyes at this post. And I definitely mean it disrespectfully.", ">\n\nLmao this kid had an argument with his parent(s) or teacher and is venting on Reddit.", ">\n\nYou sound like an eye rolling arsehole", ">\n\ni have never had an as a nonvoulentary action, it requires very explicit movement of you eye. this is like saying “when i dont like people, i punch them in the head, thats my natural reaction i cant control it”\ni have never once legitimately rolled my eyes at something, i think you might be an asshole", ">\n\nMe smacking your face is also an innate uncontrollable response to you rolling your eyes. I'm only human. What can I do? 🙄", ">\n\nI disagree. also there are a billion other ways to express something being stupid or lame than rolling ur eyes", ">\n\nStop downvoting, this is ACTUALLY a very unpopular opinion and I love to see it tbh. Voice your disagreement in the comments but don't downvote the post. This post is hilarious.", ">\n\nThis is something you’ve learned to do. It’s entirely in your control if you do it or not.", ">\n\nI once got a detention for rolling my eyes at a teacher in 4th grade.\nI agree with you, though. The only other person I've ever really rolled my eyes at was my mother, and she deserved it, every single time.", ">\n\nI get your point. I absolutely purposefully roll my eyes sometimes and whoever I'm doing it to would be valid for getting mad. \nBut as someone who can't hide any emotion on their face (literally any, I'm the definition of an open book) there have been plenty of times where people blew up at me or laughed because I rolled my eyes when I didn't even realize I had done it. Feel like the people disagreeing with you haven't experienced this problem.", ">\n\nWhat you've done is cultivate a bad habit and then blamed it on everyone else when you repeat your own bad habit unintentionally.\nThis is entirely your fault.", ">\n\nOnly on Reddit would someone so boldly declare something like this to a stranger. I'm on the spectrum so that might have to do with my not being able to hide any emotion (I truly mean that, people can basically read my thoughts just by looking at me, good and bad). \nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave. Consider working on that.", ">\n\nSo they point out you’re cultivating a bad habit and blaming other people so you then, blame them? It’s a little spot on don’t you think?", ">\n\nWhen did i blame them for my own actions? Could you quote me? I was just pointing out how weird it was that they made such a strong assumption of my character off a causal comment I left when they themselves were ironically being unnecessarily rude in the process. \nI don't know how you got so lost?", ">\n\n\nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave.\n\nClassic deflection and implication that they’re the one with the problem, not you", ">\n\nFirst its not automatic. I almost never rolled my eyes. Its much easier to control than laughing crying or sneezing. So you just dont make the effort. Its actually a way to express your feeling. You should know that, its your personnality not a human instinctive reaction. \nAnd yes not respecting something is disrespectful. Its not that hard to understand. \nAnyway if i see you.. i dont know having a breakdown after being fired and dumped and start to laugh you'd like that ? \nIf im sad because something good happens to you and show it to you, you would like that ? \nHonestly you are just trying to justify being a bit of a jerk. \nI dont blame you or anything we all are jerks sometime but its what you are doing right now.", ">\n\nI have to refocus my eyes and most of the time blinking doesn’t cut it. I have a lazy eye and when I look at someone for a long time it unfocuses, so moving the muscle is the only way to reset it. If I don’t, people start moving their heads/ bodies trying to focus on my lazy eye. It gets awkward.", ">\n\nThis is where I go to my training as a kid. What others think of you is none of your business.", ">\n\nUnless you have a tick or something like Tourette’s syndrome, then it’s not an involuntary response. Part of living in a society and not being considered rude is managing your body language.\nLet me put it this way. “Rudeness” in itself is a social concept. That means it’s decided by the perception of the masses, what we generally agree upon in terms of our symbols of communication, our customs, our beliefs, our values, etc. For you to say that rolling your eyes isn’t disrespectful is not objectively wrong. But according to the society you live in, it is wrong. In layman’s terms, the hill you’re dying on here is completely arbitrary, neither side will ever be truly correct but as long as you live in a society which feels this way then you will be beholden to it anyways.", ">\n\nTo be fair, if your thinking its stupid or lame, then that is dis-respect. I'd agree with this if it was worded like 'More people need to say what they truly think', but I think you sort of missed the mark, OP.", ">\n\nI am equally annoyed when folks rapidly blink and look away mid conversation or drop their arm dead against their thigh. It’s like you’ve given up an effort to even keep your body vertical and engaged while I’m talking to you.", ">\n\nOP getting downvoted AF & keeps commenting. Gotta love it.", ">\n\nIt is shown as a sign of disrespect and it shows weakness. I can’t imagine Gandhi, the queen of England or Einstein roll their eyes in front of random people. The reason why they were respected is because they didn’t play any superiority game on front of… inferiors or ignorant people. If something is stupid, get the patience and find enough love within yourself to treat the other ones right. \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a child because his question is “stupid”, what parent does it make you ? \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a bad question because you are an expert in a subject, then it is not your modesty that speaks but your ego. For proof : Even if someone you hate said something intelligent, you might want to roll your eyes just to flatter your ego.", ">\n\nIt's seen as disrespectful BECAUSE it's inadvertently telling them you think they're irritating/annoying.", ">\n\nI never roll my eyes? Is that something people do naturally?", ">\n\nAll depends on the context of what is going on.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is not a natural reaction?", ">\n\nNot maintaining basic self control is disrespectful. It's the same reason we don't defecate in public, sneeze on people, or stand in the way of foot traffic.", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s and one of my tics is eye rolling", ">\n\nK", ">\n\nI accidentally roll my eyes at people sometimes when I'm not even trying to", ">\n\nThe sign of a true unpopular opinion: Nobody upvoting it, but everybody commenting to say how they disagree. If you disagree, then give it an upvote. That's the point of this sub.", ">\n\nI think it depends.", ">\n\nThis had to be written by someone under the age of 25", ">\n\nRolling your eyes isn’t natural though. It’s cultural or socially learned if that makes sense. Like if you rolled your eyes at a tribe that is disconnected from society they wouldn’t understand that you’re annoyed. So you cant really compare it to laughing.", ">\n\nI'm kind of curious if this is true though. Are you assuming this, or do you have some kind of study proving this? I'd actually like to see if your hypothesis is true, or if remote tribes also use this facial gesture.", ">\n\nI’m assuming it. Back in my country Turkey if you rolled your eyes at my grandparents they would be confused and wonder what you were doing and what it meant.", ">\n\nit's a maturity thing, keep rolling your eyes at 30-40, everyone gonna see you like a kid. \nyou gotta control your emotions, there's no need to do a expression when something is stupid or lame, you got a mouth and you respectfully share what's wrong, if the person in the other end is reluctant to stay on the same boat even after you talk about it. then you don't roll your eyes, you gotta say that there's nothing more you can do, and that you don't agree with it, and most likely leave to dodge any sort of problem.", ">\n\nI have a tic where I constantly roll my eyes. I’ve had it since I was little, but never noticed it until years later when I high school teacher yelled at me for disrespect. Apparently my parents took me for evaluation when I was very young and diagnosed Tourette’s but never had any other tics develop. Would have been nice to know 🤦🏼‍♀️ I just apologize now and say it’s a compulsion if people ask. I don’t even know when I’m doing it", ">\n\nIs laughing disrespectful? Because it can be. Just like rolling your eyes can be. There is a time and place for everything", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a passive aggressive response. Passive aggression is a tactic used by meek people who are frustrated and don’t have the courage to address a given situation. It’s disrespectful and it lowers your standing in the social hierarchy.", ">\n\nGet back to me when Disney Dad actively encourages your offspring to roll their eyes at you.", ">\n\nYeah it is when I want to be disrespectful to someone I roll my eyes when they make a point. It might be annoying to them, but it also let's them know I don't give a shit about whatever they just said. Now, I would never to it to my boss, or my teachers while I was in college, but when I was a teen I did it all the time because I was an asshole, who didn't care. \nIt's not a natural reaction lmao, it is learned behavior and it can be a bad habit, but it can be unlearned.", ">\n\nSome people can’t control it I know with me sometimes I roll my eyes without meaning too it’s not that I’m trying to be rude it’s just something I didn’t even realize I was doing nor did I mean too", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nI have a friend who thinks like you do, which is based on your responses to the comments. He has very poor social skills and is on the autism spectrum", ">\n\nI bet you're lots of fun at parties OP.", ">\n\nI can’t tell if this is farming karma with ridiculous opinions or if this individual just has a really hard time understanding that maybe their parents aren’t always the bad guys.", ">\n\nYep, thats definitely an unpopular opinion! \nIts certainly disrespectful. And most certainly not some sort of involuntary response like a sneeze. It may feel that way to you, because you've done it so much - but there are plenty of people who don't do it. UNLIKE people who don't sneeze at pepper, or cough at dust. Like, you're just plain wrong on this one. Moreover, I think you're trying to justify/rationalize it yourself rather than address it in a healthy way - a marker suggesting you have some narcissistic tendencies.", ">\n\nWhat a stupid argument, take your upvote", ">\n\nIt’s a sign of contempt. The facial expression expert Dr. Eikman could predict how long a barrage would last based on 4 expressions and the frequency used when the couple was interviewed. Eye rolling was one.. in fact you could remove the others and still reasonably predict marriage failures.", ">\n\nI wish it wasn’t disrespectful, because as an expressive person I LOVE a good eye roll. But, it has gotten me into trouble. I do it without even knowing it. I hate that I do… I wish sometimes I could be stone cold. Just like a fish. One expression face only. Blank fish eyes staring into nothingness.\nMy favourite mug says, “I can’t help what my face does when you talk”. There is a reason the the mug is meant to be cheeky.", ">\n\nSeems disrespectful to me because my eyes don't roll on their own, it would be a conscious act.", ">\n\nThis is 100% based on the premis that you can’t control your eyes. Rolling your eyes isn’t a natural movement. You control it.\nLaughing and crying aren’t necessarily controllable.", ">\n\nIn addition to this:\nfinding something somebody said stupid isnt disrespectful - makin fun in an exaggerated way, call em out in a mean way, or think everything they're gonna say next is bs is the disrespectful part.", ">\n\nSo your reaction is because you think someone is stupid, but thinking they are stupid isn't disrespectful?", ">\n\nThis, i agree with", ">\n\nGuess my mom didn't get the memo.", ">\n\nI don't think rolling your eyes is natural. I did wrong all the way up until last year. Thought you were supposed to make your eyes go in a circular motion 😂", ">\n\nFr. I may be able to control what I say…but my face will always show how I feel😂can’t help it and I’m tired of fake apologizing for it.", ">\n\nI don’t think rolling your eyes is a natural reaction the same way crying and laughing are. The only times I’ve rolled my eyes are when I intended to.", ">\n\nWhen my dad was/is drunk and angry he does it. Disrespectful and does not feel nice.", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nLol go to your room", ">\n\nWhat a dingbat. lol", ">\n\nNah it's kinda rude. Hardly the worst thing ever though. Sometimes though, people roll their eyes to actually think about what they are going to say, though; it's an important thing to distinguish.", ">\n\nI mean, its entire function as an expression is disrespect. that's literally the whole point of rolling your eyes. Natural instinct or not, it still implies disrespect.", ">\n\nI used to roll my eyes often because I have bad eyeshit, and doing it relieved eye strain. I couldn't tell you the amount of times this got me in shit.", ">\n\nLaughing, crying… both can be controlled to an extent. Eye rolls can 100% be controlled. They aren’t a reflex. If they are in your case you should seek medical attention", ">\n\nIf you roll your eyes as an involuntary reaction. Please see a doctor", ">\n\nyour right this is an unpopular opinion but for a good fucking reason you have no soldi ground to stand on in any argument on this", ">\n\nOp- \"just because it means something disrespectful doesn't mean I should get yelled for choosing to roll my eyes.\"", ">\n\nMaybe if your 10 and don't understand social cues. Context is a big part tho, if it's you and your friends goofing off, maybe it's tolerable to bash one another. If it's parents trying to have a serious convo and your just an idiot about it, then it's a problem.", ">\n\nwhat's popular isn't always right\nwhat's right isn't always popular\nyour opinion and the sub checkout OP, good job!" ]
>	[ "🙄", ">\n\nYou’re grounded now", ">\n\nThe post above was someone getting electrocuted so this reply was very timely", ">\n\nThis news is shocking", ">\n\nIt definitely SPARKED my interest", ">\n\nAll of you guys need to leave, and not come back before learning how to conduct yourselves properly", ">\n\nUhhhh....... electricity", ">\n\nWell no, in the right context it is disrespectful. Rolling your eyes suggests that you're not taking the matter seriously or that you dont care which is a sign of disrespect towards whoever is speaking with you.", ">\n\nBut I can't control what I think. If I said \"man you're stupid and I don't care what you say\" thats disrespectful. I'm actually showing respect by not saying it.", ">\n\nI mean, actions speak louder than words, right?", ">\n\nIts not really an action tho its just an automatic response. Like gasping or yawning.", ">\n\nbullshit.\nSorry, it was an automatic response. Which is bullshit just like yours.", ">\n\nStill not the same thing. And they get on me for false analogies....", ">\n\nYou must be a teenager", ">\n\nLol how many times are you gonna post that. Dont you have an original thought of your own?", ">\n\nBruh I cant believe you make these posts. They're foolish", ">\n\nLaughing at someone can be disrespectful. Don't think so? Try laughing at someone's funeral.", ">\n\nThe disrespect comes from the one who told me a joke and made me laugh.", ">\n\nWhat about if no one said any joke? Because, you know, you are at a funeral.", ">\n\nSo someone's just there randomly laughing at shit? That sounds like a mental illness.", ">\n\nYou have never thought of something funny in your head to make yourself laugh? \nOr hell, maybe you didn't like the person who is buried and decided to laugh at them. You find it funny, so laughing must be appropriate, right?", ">\n\nWhy am I thinking about funny shit at a funeral.", ">\n\nBecause the universe likes to put us in uncomfortable positions sometimes.", ">\n\n“if its stupid or lame, you roll your eyes” - you found the disrespect", ">\n\nIm allowed to think whatever i want and its not disrespectful.", ">\n\nWhen you express contempt for something someone else said, it's disrespect.", ">\n\nWhat if what they said is contemptible?", ">\n\nSome people and comments deserve disrespect, still gonna be disrespect", ">\n\nLaughing, crying, and sneezing are all innate, involuntary reactions to certain types of stimuli. Rolling your eyes is a learned behavior. You can’t compare it to those other automatic responses because it’s not the same thing.", ">\n\nTake my upvote", ">\n\nOP rolled their eyes at someone and got chewed out for it.\nNow they're going online in an attempt to validate themselves.\n🙄", ">\n\nProbably got grounded.", ">\n\nPart of being a mature adult is to have self-control and not acting on every impulse and being respectful of people.", ">\n\n\nPart of being a mature adult\n\nYup but OP is clearly a teenager lol. They complain about being told off for doing chores wrong in another post…", ">\n\nEven a teenager should be able to have the fundamental basics of respect", ">\n\nOh I agree 100%", ">\n\nYou have poor self-control and poor self-awareness but the good news is that you can improve these things.", ">\n\n/r/wrongopinions", ">\n\nI feel like we need a new subreddit r/unpopularforareason", ">\n\nIt’s entire purpose is to be disrespectful. Nobody eyerolls something they respect. But how offensive it is depends on the context and how serious one is being.", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes\n\nYou rn: \"I'm not being disrespectful. I just thought what you said was stupid or lame.\"\n...", ">\n\nSaying its stupid could be disrespectful. A facial response is not.", ">\n\nLiterally every person in this thread agrees that it is.\nThis is your bad habit. Nobody else's responsibility but you.", ">\n\nThey can choose to not fly off the handle at what is just an innate reaction.", ">\n\nSo let me get this straight: you think you deserve to be able to disrespect whoever you like whenever you like but they can't as much as say you're being rude? Grow up.", ">\n\nFound the teenager.", ">\n\nMeh, I agree with that one. If you don't like how someone is doing something then do it yourself. There's a reason I live alone.", ">\n\nIt is a UNIVERSAL sign of disrespect. Globally. Deal with it.", ">\n\nLaughing can be disrespectuful too. If you cannot control your own reactions, well, what can I say, maybe you have not really grown up?", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s so it’s hard to control my own actions sometimes…", ">\n\nThank u I'm trying to explain how autism can make it hard to read not just others facial expressions but also ur own and it seems like no one has thought of the possibility that they acc don't realise it or csnt control it", ">\n\nWould you roll your eyes during a job interview if you thought a question was stupid or irrelevant? Do you think you’d get the job if you did?", ">\n\nPretty sure OP would think they were owed that job and they would think it’s ridiculous if they didn’t get it.\nOP is also a teenager going through their rebel phase though", ">\n\nYou're oddly specific here.", ">\n\nWhat was specific? Or rather oddly specific?", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a good way to fast track yourself to a divorce, if you want one.", ">\n\nI think OP needs the definition of respect before any further comment is made", ">\n\nOh I already know it, and I know it does not mean:\nDon't ever disagree with me\nDon't think bad thoughts about me\nDon't ever correct me when I'm blatantly wrong \nShine my boots with your tongue", ">\n\nSoooo this post isn’t about eye rolling is what I’m getting from this. You’ve got issues to work through with your parents or partner or something", ">\n\nSince when tf was eye rolling involuntary?", ">", ">\n\nYour lack of self control is not a justification for disrespect. I personally dont know anyone who reacts to anything by rolling their eyes. Just be mature and communicate.", ">\n\nAnd what if it's not stupid and someone rolls their eyes? Wouldn't it be disrespectful in that case?", ">\n\nIn the eye rollers opinion then it must have been. But you can't fault someone for thinking its stupid.", ">\n\nSo eyerolling is some kind of exceptional thing that is free from criticism? \nIf one has the freedom to eye roll, then someone else has the freedom to criticize the eye roller right? \nOr is it your opinion that besides that everyone who sees an eye roller has to just stfu", ">\n\nMeh, it is disrespectful. It's a way to be disrespectful without having to say That's the dumbest thing I've heard all month, and everyone else who heard it is also dumber for hearing it as well.", ">\n\nBut I didn't say it that's the point.", ">\n\nJust cuz you don’t use words doesn’t mean it’s not disrespectful. Walking away while someone is talking to you, rolling your eyes, slapping someone, and starting to play a game on your phone while someone is talking to you are all disrespectful. It doesn’t matter that you didn’t say anything, your lack of respect still showed.", ">\n\nespecially the way theyre responding to comments", ">\n\nYeah, a natural reaction if you’ve never learned to manage your emotions as opposed to letting them run your life. I’m not talking about being totally monotone rational, either. You need to learn a balance between rational and emotional…which includes healthy, appropriate, respectful expression of honest feelings. Eye rolling is absolutely disrespectful, belittling, and dismissive.", ">\n\nComments: OP is completely wrong and has attitude issues", ">\n\nWhat sounds like mental illness is you refusing to admit that rolling your eyes is simply not an unconditional response. Whether you want to believe it or not, you are doing it intentionally and you can control it. \nYou’re just to much of a b—— to do so.", ">\n\nSame to you", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a learned reaction. Not natural. I rarely of ever roll my eyes at anything.", ">", ">\n\nJust like raising your middle finger. Or vocalizing the sounds \"fuck you\". Or fingers typing the words fuck you OP. Nothing is disrespectful!", ">\n\nNice try but not the same thing at all. You're talking about thought out actions here. The eye roll is more like a reaction. Its quick, its automatic, no one has to think \"im rolling my eyes now\" it just happens. \nSort of like when telling a lie - no one decides to have their eyes dart around suspiciously, it just happens.", ">\n\nNo. Rolling your eyes is not involuntary. It can be controlled. You have a bad habit that you CAN stop. Much like a child learning not to suck their thumb, or biting your nails.", ">\n\nHow about you start with your hair scratching", ">\n\nYour opinion is a contradiction in itself. And, yeah. I disagree. Rolling your eyes is 100% to show lack of respect, and you have no intentions of showing it, even to reason, by rolling your eyes at something someone could believe is meaningful or important. Even if it is stupid.\nI get your point, we roll our eyes to express how we feel, but it is still a physical snare. You say rolling your eyes isn't disrespectful, while saying it's okay to roll your eyes because something is \" stupid or lame\", which in itself is disrespectful. You sound like a very young person in the middle of a learning moment, and you're trying to react with rebellion. It only shows that you lack maturity and are in need of growth. This might be a time for you to read these comments and reevaluate. There are healthier ways to react to things you disagree with, or lack interest in. If not, you can just accept that you roll your eyes to show lack of respect.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is much more deliberate than laughter, tears, or sneezing. It's a conscious action in response to a judgement you're making.", ">\n\nNah, dude it is disrespectful \nYou just have no self control and by the looks of it you don't want to build some", ">\n\nYour post made me roll my eyes very hard.", ">\n\n“No, officer, my wife - she MADE me hit her!”", ">\n\nIt's a natural reaction for a sooky kid but not an adult, if you do that as an adult you just manchild that wants everything their way", ">\n\npoor OP.... did you get in trouble after you rolled your eyes at something again? did you not prehaps learn from previous interactions? rolling your eyes at something \"stupid or lame\" is an intentional response that is disrespectful to whatever it is. mature people dont act that way.....", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes.\n\nSo it is disrespectful. \n\nIts like throwing pepper in someone's face an expecting them not to sneeze.\n\nNo it’s not. You can easily (edited in) refrain from rolling your eyes, while it’s much more difficult to refrain from sneezing. \nIt’s fine to think whatever you want, but you might want to refrain from rolling your eyes when you’re, say, interacting with your boss; aka someone that can make you unemployed for whatever reason they please.", ">\n\nThis isn't an opinion. It's just flat wrong. \nIt is disrespectful because it is a conscious signifier which clearly communicated that you think that the thing you are rolling your eyes at is not worthy of respect.", ">\n\nYou have to go out of your way to roll your eyes. It is NOT gutteral or instinctual", ">\n\nIf you annoy me, my arm whips out in a natural reaction and slaps you.", ">\n\nSorry, kiddo, it’s 100% disrespectful. Just own the shit and quit trying to lawyer around it.\nI say that after having rolled my eyes so hard at your post, I travelled back in time.", ">\n\nTell that to my family lol you get the belt", ">\n\nThis was made my a 15 year old who just got told off by their mom about rolling their eyes. Then in defense said, “I can’t control it”", ">\n\nMan it's getting so aggressive sometimes here 😂", ">\n\ni certainly hope you are embarrassed about this in a couple years when you grow up.", ">\n\nOP is a habitual eye roller 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄", ">\n\nI wish to God we could block people by age, no more edgy 13yo’s", ">\n\nSomebody just got their ps5 taken away for rolling their eyes", ">\n\nTell me you're 12 without telling me you're 12.", ">\n\nit’s the definition of disrespectful and a sign that you have literally nothing intelligent to say in return. \nwhich is why we outgrow it as adults.", ">\n\nYou can control it. It’s not an “automatic response” unless you’ve taught yourself to do it. I never roll my eyes. It’s just not something I have ever practiced doing. And yes…if I’m saying something too you and you dismiss it with an eye roll…it’s super disrespectful.", ">\n\nrolling your eyes is just as respectful as sticking your tongue out at someone or making a stupid face in reaction to something someone says", ">\n\nIf you can’t control your eye movement, you need to see a neurologist, dude 😆. As it stands, eye rolling isn’t a reflex or a “natural reaction” to anything. Habits aren’t the same as involuntary reactions.\nRolling your eyes at someone is disrespectful. It’s an outward sign that you think something about your interaction with them was stupid or wrong. There’s no one here that will agree with you, and you know that you’re in the vast minority with this opinion because you posted it on this sub. Now learn some humility and accept that your opinion is factually incorrect based on science.", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nAre you like 14 and your mom got you in trouble cause you rolled your eyes at her? Lmao", ">\n\nI’m gonna show your mom this and it’s going to be another week of being grounded, you little shit lol", ">\n\nOmfg 😂", ">\n\nOP I have to ask.\n\n\nHow old are you?\n\n\nHow is your relationship with your parents?\n\n\nHow do you view authority figures in your life?", ">\n\nrolls eyes", ">\n\nIf you say or demand something stupid from me I will probably roll my eyes.", ">\n\nBut it is", ">\n\nJust like rolling your eyes is an innate response, so are other people's responses to you rolling your eyes.", ">\n\nSometimes being respectful requires hiding your subjective opinion on whether something is stupid or lame.", ">\n\nI wouldn’t say eye rolling is as involuntary as laughing or crying tho. It’s more of a choice.", ">\n\nIf someone rolls their eyes then I feel disrespected it’s a natural reaction.", ">\n\ntell me you're a teenager without telling me you're a teenager", ">\n\nI'm rolling my eyes at this post. And I definitely mean it disrespectfully.", ">\n\nLmao this kid had an argument with his parent(s) or teacher and is venting on Reddit.", ">\n\nYou sound like an eye rolling arsehole", ">\n\ni have never had an as a nonvoulentary action, it requires very explicit movement of you eye. this is like saying “when i dont like people, i punch them in the head, thats my natural reaction i cant control it”\ni have never once legitimately rolled my eyes at something, i think you might be an asshole", ">\n\nMe smacking your face is also an innate uncontrollable response to you rolling your eyes. I'm only human. What can I do? 🙄", ">\n\nI disagree. also there are a billion other ways to express something being stupid or lame than rolling ur eyes", ">\n\nStop downvoting, this is ACTUALLY a very unpopular opinion and I love to see it tbh. Voice your disagreement in the comments but don't downvote the post. This post is hilarious.", ">\n\nThis is something you’ve learned to do. It’s entirely in your control if you do it or not.", ">\n\nI once got a detention for rolling my eyes at a teacher in 4th grade.\nI agree with you, though. The only other person I've ever really rolled my eyes at was my mother, and she deserved it, every single time.", ">\n\nI get your point. I absolutely purposefully roll my eyes sometimes and whoever I'm doing it to would be valid for getting mad. \nBut as someone who can't hide any emotion on their face (literally any, I'm the definition of an open book) there have been plenty of times where people blew up at me or laughed because I rolled my eyes when I didn't even realize I had done it. Feel like the people disagreeing with you haven't experienced this problem.", ">\n\nWhat you've done is cultivate a bad habit and then blamed it on everyone else when you repeat your own bad habit unintentionally.\nThis is entirely your fault.", ">\n\nOnly on Reddit would someone so boldly declare something like this to a stranger. I'm on the spectrum so that might have to do with my not being able to hide any emotion (I truly mean that, people can basically read my thoughts just by looking at me, good and bad). \nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave. Consider working on that.", ">\n\nSo they point out you’re cultivating a bad habit and blaming other people so you then, blame them? It’s a little spot on don’t you think?", ">\n\nWhen did i blame them for my own actions? Could you quote me? I was just pointing out how weird it was that they made such a strong assumption of my character off a causal comment I left when they themselves were ironically being unnecessarily rude in the process. \nI don't know how you got so lost?", ">\n\n\nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave.\n\nClassic deflection and implication that they’re the one with the problem, not you", ">\n\nFirst its not automatic. I almost never rolled my eyes. Its much easier to control than laughing crying or sneezing. So you just dont make the effort. Its actually a way to express your feeling. You should know that, its your personnality not a human instinctive reaction. \nAnd yes not respecting something is disrespectful. Its not that hard to understand. \nAnyway if i see you.. i dont know having a breakdown after being fired and dumped and start to laugh you'd like that ? \nIf im sad because something good happens to you and show it to you, you would like that ? \nHonestly you are just trying to justify being a bit of a jerk. \nI dont blame you or anything we all are jerks sometime but its what you are doing right now.", ">\n\nI have to refocus my eyes and most of the time blinking doesn’t cut it. I have a lazy eye and when I look at someone for a long time it unfocuses, so moving the muscle is the only way to reset it. If I don’t, people start moving their heads/ bodies trying to focus on my lazy eye. It gets awkward.", ">\n\nThis is where I go to my training as a kid. What others think of you is none of your business.", ">\n\nUnless you have a tick or something like Tourette’s syndrome, then it’s not an involuntary response. Part of living in a society and not being considered rude is managing your body language.\nLet me put it this way. “Rudeness” in itself is a social concept. That means it’s decided by the perception of the masses, what we generally agree upon in terms of our symbols of communication, our customs, our beliefs, our values, etc. For you to say that rolling your eyes isn’t disrespectful is not objectively wrong. But according to the society you live in, it is wrong. In layman’s terms, the hill you’re dying on here is completely arbitrary, neither side will ever be truly correct but as long as you live in a society which feels this way then you will be beholden to it anyways.", ">\n\nTo be fair, if your thinking its stupid or lame, then that is dis-respect. I'd agree with this if it was worded like 'More people need to say what they truly think', but I think you sort of missed the mark, OP.", ">\n\nI am equally annoyed when folks rapidly blink and look away mid conversation or drop their arm dead against their thigh. It’s like you’ve given up an effort to even keep your body vertical and engaged while I’m talking to you.", ">\n\nOP getting downvoted AF & keeps commenting. Gotta love it.", ">\n\nIt is shown as a sign of disrespect and it shows weakness. I can’t imagine Gandhi, the queen of England or Einstein roll their eyes in front of random people. The reason why they were respected is because they didn’t play any superiority game on front of… inferiors or ignorant people. If something is stupid, get the patience and find enough love within yourself to treat the other ones right. \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a child because his question is “stupid”, what parent does it make you ? \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a bad question because you are an expert in a subject, then it is not your modesty that speaks but your ego. For proof : Even if someone you hate said something intelligent, you might want to roll your eyes just to flatter your ego.", ">\n\nIt's seen as disrespectful BECAUSE it's inadvertently telling them you think they're irritating/annoying.", ">\n\nI never roll my eyes? Is that something people do naturally?", ">\n\nAll depends on the context of what is going on.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is not a natural reaction?", ">\n\nNot maintaining basic self control is disrespectful. It's the same reason we don't defecate in public, sneeze on people, or stand in the way of foot traffic.", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s and one of my tics is eye rolling", ">\n\nK", ">\n\nI accidentally roll my eyes at people sometimes when I'm not even trying to", ">\n\nThe sign of a true unpopular opinion: Nobody upvoting it, but everybody commenting to say how they disagree. If you disagree, then give it an upvote. That's the point of this sub.", ">\n\nI think it depends.", ">\n\nThis had to be written by someone under the age of 25", ">\n\nRolling your eyes isn’t natural though. It’s cultural or socially learned if that makes sense. Like if you rolled your eyes at a tribe that is disconnected from society they wouldn’t understand that you’re annoyed. So you cant really compare it to laughing.", ">\n\nI'm kind of curious if this is true though. Are you assuming this, or do you have some kind of study proving this? I'd actually like to see if your hypothesis is true, or if remote tribes also use this facial gesture.", ">\n\nI’m assuming it. Back in my country Turkey if you rolled your eyes at my grandparents they would be confused and wonder what you were doing and what it meant.", ">\n\nit's a maturity thing, keep rolling your eyes at 30-40, everyone gonna see you like a kid. \nyou gotta control your emotions, there's no need to do a expression when something is stupid or lame, you got a mouth and you respectfully share what's wrong, if the person in the other end is reluctant to stay on the same boat even after you talk about it. then you don't roll your eyes, you gotta say that there's nothing more you can do, and that you don't agree with it, and most likely leave to dodge any sort of problem.", ">\n\nI have a tic where I constantly roll my eyes. I’ve had it since I was little, but never noticed it until years later when I high school teacher yelled at me for disrespect. Apparently my parents took me for evaluation when I was very young and diagnosed Tourette’s but never had any other tics develop. Would have been nice to know 🤦🏼‍♀️ I just apologize now and say it’s a compulsion if people ask. I don’t even know when I’m doing it", ">\n\nIs laughing disrespectful? Because it can be. Just like rolling your eyes can be. There is a time and place for everything", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a passive aggressive response. Passive aggression is a tactic used by meek people who are frustrated and don’t have the courage to address a given situation. It’s disrespectful and it lowers your standing in the social hierarchy.", ">\n\nGet back to me when Disney Dad actively encourages your offspring to roll their eyes at you.", ">\n\nYeah it is when I want to be disrespectful to someone I roll my eyes when they make a point. It might be annoying to them, but it also let's them know I don't give a shit about whatever they just said. Now, I would never to it to my boss, or my teachers while I was in college, but when I was a teen I did it all the time because I was an asshole, who didn't care. \nIt's not a natural reaction lmao, it is learned behavior and it can be a bad habit, but it can be unlearned.", ">\n\nSome people can’t control it I know with me sometimes I roll my eyes without meaning too it’s not that I’m trying to be rude it’s just something I didn’t even realize I was doing nor did I mean too", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nI have a friend who thinks like you do, which is based on your responses to the comments. He has very poor social skills and is on the autism spectrum", ">\n\nI bet you're lots of fun at parties OP.", ">\n\nI can’t tell if this is farming karma with ridiculous opinions or if this individual just has a really hard time understanding that maybe their parents aren’t always the bad guys.", ">\n\nYep, thats definitely an unpopular opinion! \nIts certainly disrespectful. And most certainly not some sort of involuntary response like a sneeze. It may feel that way to you, because you've done it so much - but there are plenty of people who don't do it. UNLIKE people who don't sneeze at pepper, or cough at dust. Like, you're just plain wrong on this one. Moreover, I think you're trying to justify/rationalize it yourself rather than address it in a healthy way - a marker suggesting you have some narcissistic tendencies.", ">\n\nWhat a stupid argument, take your upvote", ">\n\nIt’s a sign of contempt. The facial expression expert Dr. Eikman could predict how long a barrage would last based on 4 expressions and the frequency used when the couple was interviewed. Eye rolling was one.. in fact you could remove the others and still reasonably predict marriage failures.", ">\n\nI wish it wasn’t disrespectful, because as an expressive person I LOVE a good eye roll. But, it has gotten me into trouble. I do it without even knowing it. I hate that I do… I wish sometimes I could be stone cold. Just like a fish. One expression face only. Blank fish eyes staring into nothingness.\nMy favourite mug says, “I can’t help what my face does when you talk”. There is a reason the the mug is meant to be cheeky.", ">\n\nSeems disrespectful to me because my eyes don't roll on their own, it would be a conscious act.", ">\n\nThis is 100% based on the premis that you can’t control your eyes. Rolling your eyes isn’t a natural movement. You control it.\nLaughing and crying aren’t necessarily controllable.", ">\n\nIn addition to this:\nfinding something somebody said stupid isnt disrespectful - makin fun in an exaggerated way, call em out in a mean way, or think everything they're gonna say next is bs is the disrespectful part.", ">\n\nSo your reaction is because you think someone is stupid, but thinking they are stupid isn't disrespectful?", ">\n\nThis, i agree with", ">\n\nGuess my mom didn't get the memo.", ">\n\nI don't think rolling your eyes is natural. I did wrong all the way up until last year. Thought you were supposed to make your eyes go in a circular motion 😂", ">\n\nFr. I may be able to control what I say…but my face will always show how I feel😂can’t help it and I’m tired of fake apologizing for it.", ">\n\nI don’t think rolling your eyes is a natural reaction the same way crying and laughing are. The only times I’ve rolled my eyes are when I intended to.", ">\n\nWhen my dad was/is drunk and angry he does it. Disrespectful and does not feel nice.", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nLol go to your room", ">\n\nWhat a dingbat. lol", ">\n\nNah it's kinda rude. Hardly the worst thing ever though. Sometimes though, people roll their eyes to actually think about what they are going to say, though; it's an important thing to distinguish.", ">\n\nI mean, its entire function as an expression is disrespect. that's literally the whole point of rolling your eyes. Natural instinct or not, it still implies disrespect.", ">\n\nI used to roll my eyes often because I have bad eyeshit, and doing it relieved eye strain. I couldn't tell you the amount of times this got me in shit.", ">\n\nLaughing, crying… both can be controlled to an extent. Eye rolls can 100% be controlled. They aren’t a reflex. If they are in your case you should seek medical attention", ">\n\nIf you roll your eyes as an involuntary reaction. Please see a doctor", ">\n\nyour right this is an unpopular opinion but for a good fucking reason you have no soldi ground to stand on in any argument on this", ">\n\nOp- \"just because it means something disrespectful doesn't mean I should get yelled for choosing to roll my eyes.\"", ">\n\nMaybe if your 10 and don't understand social cues. Context is a big part tho, if it's you and your friends goofing off, maybe it's tolerable to bash one another. If it's parents trying to have a serious convo and your just an idiot about it, then it's a problem.", ">\n\nwhat's popular isn't always right\nwhat's right isn't always popular\nyour opinion and the sub checkout OP, good job!", ">\n\nI agree it’s a pretty natural reaction when people or a given situation is unreasonable. The other options are usually to laugh or get angry. It’s even funnier when Karen’s get mad at it. Keeping a poker face at times just isn’t possible. I feel redeemed when someone being a unreasonable jackass and they get upset by my 🙄. Most people say nothing and I think accept it anyway." ]
> You’ve convinced me	[ "🙄", ">\n\nYou’re grounded now", ">\n\nThe post above was someone getting electrocuted so this reply was very timely", ">\n\nThis news is shocking", ">\n\nIt definitely SPARKED my interest", ">\n\nAll of you guys need to leave, and not come back before learning how to conduct yourselves properly", ">\n\nUhhhh....... electricity", ">\n\nWell no, in the right context it is disrespectful. Rolling your eyes suggests that you're not taking the matter seriously or that you dont care which is a sign of disrespect towards whoever is speaking with you.", ">\n\nBut I can't control what I think. If I said \"man you're stupid and I don't care what you say\" thats disrespectful. I'm actually showing respect by not saying it.", ">\n\nI mean, actions speak louder than words, right?", ">\n\nIts not really an action tho its just an automatic response. Like gasping or yawning.", ">\n\nbullshit.\nSorry, it was an automatic response. Which is bullshit just like yours.", ">\n\nStill not the same thing. And they get on me for false analogies....", ">\n\nYou must be a teenager", ">\n\nLol how many times are you gonna post that. Dont you have an original thought of your own?", ">\n\nBruh I cant believe you make these posts. They're foolish", ">\n\nLaughing at someone can be disrespectful. Don't think so? Try laughing at someone's funeral.", ">\n\nThe disrespect comes from the one who told me a joke and made me laugh.", ">\n\nWhat about if no one said any joke? Because, you know, you are at a funeral.", ">\n\nSo someone's just there randomly laughing at shit? That sounds like a mental illness.", ">\n\nYou have never thought of something funny in your head to make yourself laugh? \nOr hell, maybe you didn't like the person who is buried and decided to laugh at them. You find it funny, so laughing must be appropriate, right?", ">\n\nWhy am I thinking about funny shit at a funeral.", ">\n\nBecause the universe likes to put us in uncomfortable positions sometimes.", ">\n\n“if its stupid or lame, you roll your eyes” - you found the disrespect", ">\n\nIm allowed to think whatever i want and its not disrespectful.", ">\n\nWhen you express contempt for something someone else said, it's disrespect.", ">\n\nWhat if what they said is contemptible?", ">\n\nSome people and comments deserve disrespect, still gonna be disrespect", ">\n\nLaughing, crying, and sneezing are all innate, involuntary reactions to certain types of stimuli. Rolling your eyes is a learned behavior. You can’t compare it to those other automatic responses because it’s not the same thing.", ">\n\nTake my upvote", ">\n\nOP rolled their eyes at someone and got chewed out for it.\nNow they're going online in an attempt to validate themselves.\n🙄", ">\n\nProbably got grounded.", ">\n\nPart of being a mature adult is to have self-control and not acting on every impulse and being respectful of people.", ">\n\n\nPart of being a mature adult\n\nYup but OP is clearly a teenager lol. They complain about being told off for doing chores wrong in another post…", ">\n\nEven a teenager should be able to have the fundamental basics of respect", ">\n\nOh I agree 100%", ">\n\nYou have poor self-control and poor self-awareness but the good news is that you can improve these things.", ">\n\n/r/wrongopinions", ">\n\nI feel like we need a new subreddit r/unpopularforareason", ">\n\nIt’s entire purpose is to be disrespectful. Nobody eyerolls something they respect. But how offensive it is depends on the context and how serious one is being.", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes\n\nYou rn: \"I'm not being disrespectful. I just thought what you said was stupid or lame.\"\n...", ">\n\nSaying its stupid could be disrespectful. A facial response is not.", ">\n\nLiterally every person in this thread agrees that it is.\nThis is your bad habit. Nobody else's responsibility but you.", ">\n\nThey can choose to not fly off the handle at what is just an innate reaction.", ">\n\nSo let me get this straight: you think you deserve to be able to disrespect whoever you like whenever you like but they can't as much as say you're being rude? Grow up.", ">\n\nFound the teenager.", ">\n\nMeh, I agree with that one. If you don't like how someone is doing something then do it yourself. There's a reason I live alone.", ">\n\nIt is a UNIVERSAL sign of disrespect. Globally. Deal with it.", ">\n\nLaughing can be disrespectuful too. If you cannot control your own reactions, well, what can I say, maybe you have not really grown up?", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s so it’s hard to control my own actions sometimes…", ">\n\nThank u I'm trying to explain how autism can make it hard to read not just others facial expressions but also ur own and it seems like no one has thought of the possibility that they acc don't realise it or csnt control it", ">\n\nWould you roll your eyes during a job interview if you thought a question was stupid or irrelevant? Do you think you’d get the job if you did?", ">\n\nPretty sure OP would think they were owed that job and they would think it’s ridiculous if they didn’t get it.\nOP is also a teenager going through their rebel phase though", ">\n\nYou're oddly specific here.", ">\n\nWhat was specific? Or rather oddly specific?", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a good way to fast track yourself to a divorce, if you want one.", ">\n\nI think OP needs the definition of respect before any further comment is made", ">\n\nOh I already know it, and I know it does not mean:\nDon't ever disagree with me\nDon't think bad thoughts about me\nDon't ever correct me when I'm blatantly wrong \nShine my boots with your tongue", ">\n\nSoooo this post isn’t about eye rolling is what I’m getting from this. You’ve got issues to work through with your parents or partner or something", ">\n\nSince when tf was eye rolling involuntary?", ">", ">\n\nYour lack of self control is not a justification for disrespect. I personally dont know anyone who reacts to anything by rolling their eyes. Just be mature and communicate.", ">\n\nAnd what if it's not stupid and someone rolls their eyes? Wouldn't it be disrespectful in that case?", ">\n\nIn the eye rollers opinion then it must have been. But you can't fault someone for thinking its stupid.", ">\n\nSo eyerolling is some kind of exceptional thing that is free from criticism? \nIf one has the freedom to eye roll, then someone else has the freedom to criticize the eye roller right? \nOr is it your opinion that besides that everyone who sees an eye roller has to just stfu", ">\n\nMeh, it is disrespectful. It's a way to be disrespectful without having to say That's the dumbest thing I've heard all month, and everyone else who heard it is also dumber for hearing it as well.", ">\n\nBut I didn't say it that's the point.", ">\n\nJust cuz you don’t use words doesn’t mean it’s not disrespectful. Walking away while someone is talking to you, rolling your eyes, slapping someone, and starting to play a game on your phone while someone is talking to you are all disrespectful. It doesn’t matter that you didn’t say anything, your lack of respect still showed.", ">\n\nespecially the way theyre responding to comments", ">\n\nYeah, a natural reaction if you’ve never learned to manage your emotions as opposed to letting them run your life. I’m not talking about being totally monotone rational, either. You need to learn a balance between rational and emotional…which includes healthy, appropriate, respectful expression of honest feelings. Eye rolling is absolutely disrespectful, belittling, and dismissive.", ">\n\nComments: OP is completely wrong and has attitude issues", ">\n\nWhat sounds like mental illness is you refusing to admit that rolling your eyes is simply not an unconditional response. Whether you want to believe it or not, you are doing it intentionally and you can control it. \nYou’re just to much of a b—— to do so.", ">\n\nSame to you", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a learned reaction. Not natural. I rarely of ever roll my eyes at anything.", ">", ">\n\nJust like raising your middle finger. Or vocalizing the sounds \"fuck you\". Or fingers typing the words fuck you OP. Nothing is disrespectful!", ">\n\nNice try but not the same thing at all. You're talking about thought out actions here. The eye roll is more like a reaction. Its quick, its automatic, no one has to think \"im rolling my eyes now\" it just happens. \nSort of like when telling a lie - no one decides to have their eyes dart around suspiciously, it just happens.", ">\n\nNo. Rolling your eyes is not involuntary. It can be controlled. You have a bad habit that you CAN stop. Much like a child learning not to suck their thumb, or biting your nails.", ">\n\nHow about you start with your hair scratching", ">\n\nYour opinion is a contradiction in itself. And, yeah. I disagree. Rolling your eyes is 100% to show lack of respect, and you have no intentions of showing it, even to reason, by rolling your eyes at something someone could believe is meaningful or important. Even if it is stupid.\nI get your point, we roll our eyes to express how we feel, but it is still a physical snare. You say rolling your eyes isn't disrespectful, while saying it's okay to roll your eyes because something is \" stupid or lame\", which in itself is disrespectful. You sound like a very young person in the middle of a learning moment, and you're trying to react with rebellion. It only shows that you lack maturity and are in need of growth. This might be a time for you to read these comments and reevaluate. There are healthier ways to react to things you disagree with, or lack interest in. If not, you can just accept that you roll your eyes to show lack of respect.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is much more deliberate than laughter, tears, or sneezing. It's a conscious action in response to a judgement you're making.", ">\n\nNah, dude it is disrespectful \nYou just have no self control and by the looks of it you don't want to build some", ">\n\nYour post made me roll my eyes very hard.", ">\n\n“No, officer, my wife - she MADE me hit her!”", ">\n\nIt's a natural reaction for a sooky kid but not an adult, if you do that as an adult you just manchild that wants everything their way", ">\n\npoor OP.... did you get in trouble after you rolled your eyes at something again? did you not prehaps learn from previous interactions? rolling your eyes at something \"stupid or lame\" is an intentional response that is disrespectful to whatever it is. mature people dont act that way.....", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes.\n\nSo it is disrespectful. \n\nIts like throwing pepper in someone's face an expecting them not to sneeze.\n\nNo it’s not. You can easily (edited in) refrain from rolling your eyes, while it’s much more difficult to refrain from sneezing. \nIt’s fine to think whatever you want, but you might want to refrain from rolling your eyes when you’re, say, interacting with your boss; aka someone that can make you unemployed for whatever reason they please.", ">\n\nThis isn't an opinion. It's just flat wrong. \nIt is disrespectful because it is a conscious signifier which clearly communicated that you think that the thing you are rolling your eyes at is not worthy of respect.", ">\n\nYou have to go out of your way to roll your eyes. It is NOT gutteral or instinctual", ">\n\nIf you annoy me, my arm whips out in a natural reaction and slaps you.", ">\n\nSorry, kiddo, it’s 100% disrespectful. Just own the shit and quit trying to lawyer around it.\nI say that after having rolled my eyes so hard at your post, I travelled back in time.", ">\n\nTell that to my family lol you get the belt", ">\n\nThis was made my a 15 year old who just got told off by their mom about rolling their eyes. Then in defense said, “I can’t control it”", ">\n\nMan it's getting so aggressive sometimes here 😂", ">\n\ni certainly hope you are embarrassed about this in a couple years when you grow up.", ">\n\nOP is a habitual eye roller 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄", ">\n\nI wish to God we could block people by age, no more edgy 13yo’s", ">\n\nSomebody just got their ps5 taken away for rolling their eyes", ">\n\nTell me you're 12 without telling me you're 12.", ">\n\nit’s the definition of disrespectful and a sign that you have literally nothing intelligent to say in return. \nwhich is why we outgrow it as adults.", ">\n\nYou can control it. It’s not an “automatic response” unless you’ve taught yourself to do it. I never roll my eyes. It’s just not something I have ever practiced doing. And yes…if I’m saying something too you and you dismiss it with an eye roll…it’s super disrespectful.", ">\n\nrolling your eyes is just as respectful as sticking your tongue out at someone or making a stupid face in reaction to something someone says", ">\n\nIf you can’t control your eye movement, you need to see a neurologist, dude 😆. As it stands, eye rolling isn’t a reflex or a “natural reaction” to anything. Habits aren’t the same as involuntary reactions.\nRolling your eyes at someone is disrespectful. It’s an outward sign that you think something about your interaction with them was stupid or wrong. There’s no one here that will agree with you, and you know that you’re in the vast minority with this opinion because you posted it on this sub. Now learn some humility and accept that your opinion is factually incorrect based on science.", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nAre you like 14 and your mom got you in trouble cause you rolled your eyes at her? Lmao", ">\n\nI’m gonna show your mom this and it’s going to be another week of being grounded, you little shit lol", ">\n\nOmfg 😂", ">\n\nOP I have to ask.\n\n\nHow old are you?\n\n\nHow is your relationship with your parents?\n\n\nHow do you view authority figures in your life?", ">\n\nrolls eyes", ">\n\nIf you say or demand something stupid from me I will probably roll my eyes.", ">\n\nBut it is", ">\n\nJust like rolling your eyes is an innate response, so are other people's responses to you rolling your eyes.", ">\n\nSometimes being respectful requires hiding your subjective opinion on whether something is stupid or lame.", ">\n\nI wouldn’t say eye rolling is as involuntary as laughing or crying tho. It’s more of a choice.", ">\n\nIf someone rolls their eyes then I feel disrespected it’s a natural reaction.", ">\n\ntell me you're a teenager without telling me you're a teenager", ">\n\nI'm rolling my eyes at this post. And I definitely mean it disrespectfully.", ">\n\nLmao this kid had an argument with his parent(s) or teacher and is venting on Reddit.", ">\n\nYou sound like an eye rolling arsehole", ">\n\ni have never had an as a nonvoulentary action, it requires very explicit movement of you eye. this is like saying “when i dont like people, i punch them in the head, thats my natural reaction i cant control it”\ni have never once legitimately rolled my eyes at something, i think you might be an asshole", ">\n\nMe smacking your face is also an innate uncontrollable response to you rolling your eyes. I'm only human. What can I do? 🙄", ">\n\nI disagree. also there are a billion other ways to express something being stupid or lame than rolling ur eyes", ">\n\nStop downvoting, this is ACTUALLY a very unpopular opinion and I love to see it tbh. Voice your disagreement in the comments but don't downvote the post. This post is hilarious.", ">\n\nThis is something you’ve learned to do. It’s entirely in your control if you do it or not.", ">\n\nI once got a detention for rolling my eyes at a teacher in 4th grade.\nI agree with you, though. The only other person I've ever really rolled my eyes at was my mother, and she deserved it, every single time.", ">\n\nI get your point. I absolutely purposefully roll my eyes sometimes and whoever I'm doing it to would be valid for getting mad. \nBut as someone who can't hide any emotion on their face (literally any, I'm the definition of an open book) there have been plenty of times where people blew up at me or laughed because I rolled my eyes when I didn't even realize I had done it. Feel like the people disagreeing with you haven't experienced this problem.", ">\n\nWhat you've done is cultivate a bad habit and then blamed it on everyone else when you repeat your own bad habit unintentionally.\nThis is entirely your fault.", ">\n\nOnly on Reddit would someone so boldly declare something like this to a stranger. I'm on the spectrum so that might have to do with my not being able to hide any emotion (I truly mean that, people can basically read my thoughts just by looking at me, good and bad). \nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave. Consider working on that.", ">\n\nSo they point out you’re cultivating a bad habit and blaming other people so you then, blame them? It’s a little spot on don’t you think?", ">\n\nWhen did i blame them for my own actions? Could you quote me? I was just pointing out how weird it was that they made such a strong assumption of my character off a causal comment I left when they themselves were ironically being unnecessarily rude in the process. \nI don't know how you got so lost?", ">\n\n\nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave.\n\nClassic deflection and implication that they’re the one with the problem, not you", ">\n\nFirst its not automatic. I almost never rolled my eyes. Its much easier to control than laughing crying or sneezing. So you just dont make the effort. Its actually a way to express your feeling. You should know that, its your personnality not a human instinctive reaction. \nAnd yes not respecting something is disrespectful. Its not that hard to understand. \nAnyway if i see you.. i dont know having a breakdown after being fired and dumped and start to laugh you'd like that ? \nIf im sad because something good happens to you and show it to you, you would like that ? \nHonestly you are just trying to justify being a bit of a jerk. \nI dont blame you or anything we all are jerks sometime but its what you are doing right now.", ">\n\nI have to refocus my eyes and most of the time blinking doesn’t cut it. I have a lazy eye and when I look at someone for a long time it unfocuses, so moving the muscle is the only way to reset it. If I don’t, people start moving their heads/ bodies trying to focus on my lazy eye. It gets awkward.", ">\n\nThis is where I go to my training as a kid. What others think of you is none of your business.", ">\n\nUnless you have a tick or something like Tourette’s syndrome, then it’s not an involuntary response. Part of living in a society and not being considered rude is managing your body language.\nLet me put it this way. “Rudeness” in itself is a social concept. That means it’s decided by the perception of the masses, what we generally agree upon in terms of our symbols of communication, our customs, our beliefs, our values, etc. For you to say that rolling your eyes isn’t disrespectful is not objectively wrong. But according to the society you live in, it is wrong. In layman’s terms, the hill you’re dying on here is completely arbitrary, neither side will ever be truly correct but as long as you live in a society which feels this way then you will be beholden to it anyways.", ">\n\nTo be fair, if your thinking its stupid or lame, then that is dis-respect. I'd agree with this if it was worded like 'More people need to say what they truly think', but I think you sort of missed the mark, OP.", ">\n\nI am equally annoyed when folks rapidly blink and look away mid conversation or drop their arm dead against their thigh. It’s like you’ve given up an effort to even keep your body vertical and engaged while I’m talking to you.", ">\n\nOP getting downvoted AF & keeps commenting. Gotta love it.", ">\n\nIt is shown as a sign of disrespect and it shows weakness. I can’t imagine Gandhi, the queen of England or Einstein roll their eyes in front of random people. The reason why they were respected is because they didn’t play any superiority game on front of… inferiors or ignorant people. If something is stupid, get the patience and find enough love within yourself to treat the other ones right. \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a child because his question is “stupid”, what parent does it make you ? \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a bad question because you are an expert in a subject, then it is not your modesty that speaks but your ego. For proof : Even if someone you hate said something intelligent, you might want to roll your eyes just to flatter your ego.", ">\n\nIt's seen as disrespectful BECAUSE it's inadvertently telling them you think they're irritating/annoying.", ">\n\nI never roll my eyes? Is that something people do naturally?", ">\n\nAll depends on the context of what is going on.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is not a natural reaction?", ">\n\nNot maintaining basic self control is disrespectful. It's the same reason we don't defecate in public, sneeze on people, or stand in the way of foot traffic.", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s and one of my tics is eye rolling", ">\n\nK", ">\n\nI accidentally roll my eyes at people sometimes when I'm not even trying to", ">\n\nThe sign of a true unpopular opinion: Nobody upvoting it, but everybody commenting to say how they disagree. If you disagree, then give it an upvote. That's the point of this sub.", ">\n\nI think it depends.", ">\n\nThis had to be written by someone under the age of 25", ">\n\nRolling your eyes isn’t natural though. It’s cultural or socially learned if that makes sense. Like if you rolled your eyes at a tribe that is disconnected from society they wouldn’t understand that you’re annoyed. So you cant really compare it to laughing.", ">\n\nI'm kind of curious if this is true though. Are you assuming this, or do you have some kind of study proving this? I'd actually like to see if your hypothesis is true, or if remote tribes also use this facial gesture.", ">\n\nI’m assuming it. Back in my country Turkey if you rolled your eyes at my grandparents they would be confused and wonder what you were doing and what it meant.", ">\n\nit's a maturity thing, keep rolling your eyes at 30-40, everyone gonna see you like a kid. \nyou gotta control your emotions, there's no need to do a expression when something is stupid or lame, you got a mouth and you respectfully share what's wrong, if the person in the other end is reluctant to stay on the same boat even after you talk about it. then you don't roll your eyes, you gotta say that there's nothing more you can do, and that you don't agree with it, and most likely leave to dodge any sort of problem.", ">\n\nI have a tic where I constantly roll my eyes. I’ve had it since I was little, but never noticed it until years later when I high school teacher yelled at me for disrespect. Apparently my parents took me for evaluation when I was very young and diagnosed Tourette’s but never had any other tics develop. Would have been nice to know 🤦🏼‍♀️ I just apologize now and say it’s a compulsion if people ask. I don’t even know when I’m doing it", ">\n\nIs laughing disrespectful? Because it can be. Just like rolling your eyes can be. There is a time and place for everything", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a passive aggressive response. Passive aggression is a tactic used by meek people who are frustrated and don’t have the courage to address a given situation. It’s disrespectful and it lowers your standing in the social hierarchy.", ">\n\nGet back to me when Disney Dad actively encourages your offspring to roll their eyes at you.", ">\n\nYeah it is when I want to be disrespectful to someone I roll my eyes when they make a point. It might be annoying to them, but it also let's them know I don't give a shit about whatever they just said. Now, I would never to it to my boss, or my teachers while I was in college, but when I was a teen I did it all the time because I was an asshole, who didn't care. \nIt's not a natural reaction lmao, it is learned behavior and it can be a bad habit, but it can be unlearned.", ">\n\nSome people can’t control it I know with me sometimes I roll my eyes without meaning too it’s not that I’m trying to be rude it’s just something I didn’t even realize I was doing nor did I mean too", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nI have a friend who thinks like you do, which is based on your responses to the comments. He has very poor social skills and is on the autism spectrum", ">\n\nI bet you're lots of fun at parties OP.", ">\n\nI can’t tell if this is farming karma with ridiculous opinions or if this individual just has a really hard time understanding that maybe their parents aren’t always the bad guys.", ">\n\nYep, thats definitely an unpopular opinion! \nIts certainly disrespectful. And most certainly not some sort of involuntary response like a sneeze. It may feel that way to you, because you've done it so much - but there are plenty of people who don't do it. UNLIKE people who don't sneeze at pepper, or cough at dust. Like, you're just plain wrong on this one. Moreover, I think you're trying to justify/rationalize it yourself rather than address it in a healthy way - a marker suggesting you have some narcissistic tendencies.", ">\n\nWhat a stupid argument, take your upvote", ">\n\nIt’s a sign of contempt. The facial expression expert Dr. Eikman could predict how long a barrage would last based on 4 expressions and the frequency used when the couple was interviewed. Eye rolling was one.. in fact you could remove the others and still reasonably predict marriage failures.", ">\n\nI wish it wasn’t disrespectful, because as an expressive person I LOVE a good eye roll. But, it has gotten me into trouble. I do it without even knowing it. I hate that I do… I wish sometimes I could be stone cold. Just like a fish. One expression face only. Blank fish eyes staring into nothingness.\nMy favourite mug says, “I can’t help what my face does when you talk”. There is a reason the the mug is meant to be cheeky.", ">\n\nSeems disrespectful to me because my eyes don't roll on their own, it would be a conscious act.", ">\n\nThis is 100% based on the premis that you can’t control your eyes. Rolling your eyes isn’t a natural movement. You control it.\nLaughing and crying aren’t necessarily controllable.", ">\n\nIn addition to this:\nfinding something somebody said stupid isnt disrespectful - makin fun in an exaggerated way, call em out in a mean way, or think everything they're gonna say next is bs is the disrespectful part.", ">\n\nSo your reaction is because you think someone is stupid, but thinking they are stupid isn't disrespectful?", ">\n\nThis, i agree with", ">\n\nGuess my mom didn't get the memo.", ">\n\nI don't think rolling your eyes is natural. I did wrong all the way up until last year. Thought you were supposed to make your eyes go in a circular motion 😂", ">\n\nFr. I may be able to control what I say…but my face will always show how I feel😂can’t help it and I’m tired of fake apologizing for it.", ">\n\nI don’t think rolling your eyes is a natural reaction the same way crying and laughing are. The only times I’ve rolled my eyes are when I intended to.", ">\n\nWhen my dad was/is drunk and angry he does it. Disrespectful and does not feel nice.", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nLol go to your room", ">\n\nWhat a dingbat. lol", ">\n\nNah it's kinda rude. Hardly the worst thing ever though. Sometimes though, people roll their eyes to actually think about what they are going to say, though; it's an important thing to distinguish.", ">\n\nI mean, its entire function as an expression is disrespect. that's literally the whole point of rolling your eyes. Natural instinct or not, it still implies disrespect.", ">\n\nI used to roll my eyes often because I have bad eyeshit, and doing it relieved eye strain. I couldn't tell you the amount of times this got me in shit.", ">\n\nLaughing, crying… both can be controlled to an extent. Eye rolls can 100% be controlled. They aren’t a reflex. If they are in your case you should seek medical attention", ">\n\nIf you roll your eyes as an involuntary reaction. Please see a doctor", ">\n\nyour right this is an unpopular opinion but for a good fucking reason you have no soldi ground to stand on in any argument on this", ">\n\nOp- \"just because it means something disrespectful doesn't mean I should get yelled for choosing to roll my eyes.\"", ">\n\nMaybe if your 10 and don't understand social cues. Context is a big part tho, if it's you and your friends goofing off, maybe it's tolerable to bash one another. If it's parents trying to have a serious convo and your just an idiot about it, then it's a problem.", ">\n\nwhat's popular isn't always right\nwhat's right isn't always popular\nyour opinion and the sub checkout OP, good job!", ">\n\nI agree it’s a pretty natural reaction when people or a given situation is unreasonable. The other options are usually to laugh or get angry. It’s even funnier when Karen’s get mad at it. Keeping a poker face at times just isn’t possible. I feel redeemed when someone being a unreasonable jackass and they get upset by my 🙄. Most people say nothing and I think accept it anyway.", ">" ]
> nah it's making e an active effort to use body language to convey your sentiment	[ "🙄", ">\n\nYou’re grounded now", ">\n\nThe post above was someone getting electrocuted so this reply was very timely", ">\n\nThis news is shocking", ">\n\nIt definitely SPARKED my interest", ">\n\nAll of you guys need to leave, and not come back before learning how to conduct yourselves properly", ">\n\nUhhhh....... electricity", ">\n\nWell no, in the right context it is disrespectful. Rolling your eyes suggests that you're not taking the matter seriously or that you dont care which is a sign of disrespect towards whoever is speaking with you.", ">\n\nBut I can't control what I think. If I said \"man you're stupid and I don't care what you say\" thats disrespectful. I'm actually showing respect by not saying it.", ">\n\nI mean, actions speak louder than words, right?", ">\n\nIts not really an action tho its just an automatic response. Like gasping or yawning.", ">\n\nbullshit.\nSorry, it was an automatic response. Which is bullshit just like yours.", ">\n\nStill not the same thing. And they get on me for false analogies....", ">\n\nYou must be a teenager", ">\n\nLol how many times are you gonna post that. Dont you have an original thought of your own?", ">\n\nBruh I cant believe you make these posts. They're foolish", ">\n\nLaughing at someone can be disrespectful. Don't think so? Try laughing at someone's funeral.", ">\n\nThe disrespect comes from the one who told me a joke and made me laugh.", ">\n\nWhat about if no one said any joke? Because, you know, you are at a funeral.", ">\n\nSo someone's just there randomly laughing at shit? That sounds like a mental illness.", ">\n\nYou have never thought of something funny in your head to make yourself laugh? \nOr hell, maybe you didn't like the person who is buried and decided to laugh at them. You find it funny, so laughing must be appropriate, right?", ">\n\nWhy am I thinking about funny shit at a funeral.", ">\n\nBecause the universe likes to put us in uncomfortable positions sometimes.", ">\n\n“if its stupid or lame, you roll your eyes” - you found the disrespect", ">\n\nIm allowed to think whatever i want and its not disrespectful.", ">\n\nWhen you express contempt for something someone else said, it's disrespect.", ">\n\nWhat if what they said is contemptible?", ">\n\nSome people and comments deserve disrespect, still gonna be disrespect", ">\n\nLaughing, crying, and sneezing are all innate, involuntary reactions to certain types of stimuli. Rolling your eyes is a learned behavior. You can’t compare it to those other automatic responses because it’s not the same thing.", ">\n\nTake my upvote", ">\n\nOP rolled their eyes at someone and got chewed out for it.\nNow they're going online in an attempt to validate themselves.\n🙄", ">\n\nProbably got grounded.", ">\n\nPart of being a mature adult is to have self-control and not acting on every impulse and being respectful of people.", ">\n\n\nPart of being a mature adult\n\nYup but OP is clearly a teenager lol. They complain about being told off for doing chores wrong in another post…", ">\n\nEven a teenager should be able to have the fundamental basics of respect", ">\n\nOh I agree 100%", ">\n\nYou have poor self-control and poor self-awareness but the good news is that you can improve these things.", ">\n\n/r/wrongopinions", ">\n\nI feel like we need a new subreddit r/unpopularforareason", ">\n\nIt’s entire purpose is to be disrespectful. Nobody eyerolls something they respect. But how offensive it is depends on the context and how serious one is being.", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes\n\nYou rn: \"I'm not being disrespectful. I just thought what you said was stupid or lame.\"\n...", ">\n\nSaying its stupid could be disrespectful. A facial response is not.", ">\n\nLiterally every person in this thread agrees that it is.\nThis is your bad habit. Nobody else's responsibility but you.", ">\n\nThey can choose to not fly off the handle at what is just an innate reaction.", ">\n\nSo let me get this straight: you think you deserve to be able to disrespect whoever you like whenever you like but they can't as much as say you're being rude? Grow up.", ">\n\nFound the teenager.", ">\n\nMeh, I agree with that one. If you don't like how someone is doing something then do it yourself. There's a reason I live alone.", ">\n\nIt is a UNIVERSAL sign of disrespect. Globally. Deal with it.", ">\n\nLaughing can be disrespectuful too. If you cannot control your own reactions, well, what can I say, maybe you have not really grown up?", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s so it’s hard to control my own actions sometimes…", ">\n\nThank u I'm trying to explain how autism can make it hard to read not just others facial expressions but also ur own and it seems like no one has thought of the possibility that they acc don't realise it or csnt control it", ">\n\nWould you roll your eyes during a job interview if you thought a question was stupid or irrelevant? Do you think you’d get the job if you did?", ">\n\nPretty sure OP would think they were owed that job and they would think it’s ridiculous if they didn’t get it.\nOP is also a teenager going through their rebel phase though", ">\n\nYou're oddly specific here.", ">\n\nWhat was specific? Or rather oddly specific?", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a good way to fast track yourself to a divorce, if you want one.", ">\n\nI think OP needs the definition of respect before any further comment is made", ">\n\nOh I already know it, and I know it does not mean:\nDon't ever disagree with me\nDon't think bad thoughts about me\nDon't ever correct me when I'm blatantly wrong \nShine my boots with your tongue", ">\n\nSoooo this post isn’t about eye rolling is what I’m getting from this. You’ve got issues to work through with your parents or partner or something", ">\n\nSince when tf was eye rolling involuntary?", ">", ">\n\nYour lack of self control is not a justification for disrespect. I personally dont know anyone who reacts to anything by rolling their eyes. Just be mature and communicate.", ">\n\nAnd what if it's not stupid and someone rolls their eyes? Wouldn't it be disrespectful in that case?", ">\n\nIn the eye rollers opinion then it must have been. But you can't fault someone for thinking its stupid.", ">\n\nSo eyerolling is some kind of exceptional thing that is free from criticism? \nIf one has the freedom to eye roll, then someone else has the freedom to criticize the eye roller right? \nOr is it your opinion that besides that everyone who sees an eye roller has to just stfu", ">\n\nMeh, it is disrespectful. It's a way to be disrespectful without having to say That's the dumbest thing I've heard all month, and everyone else who heard it is also dumber for hearing it as well.", ">\n\nBut I didn't say it that's the point.", ">\n\nJust cuz you don’t use words doesn’t mean it’s not disrespectful. Walking away while someone is talking to you, rolling your eyes, slapping someone, and starting to play a game on your phone while someone is talking to you are all disrespectful. It doesn’t matter that you didn’t say anything, your lack of respect still showed.", ">\n\nespecially the way theyre responding to comments", ">\n\nYeah, a natural reaction if you’ve never learned to manage your emotions as opposed to letting them run your life. I’m not talking about being totally monotone rational, either. You need to learn a balance between rational and emotional…which includes healthy, appropriate, respectful expression of honest feelings. Eye rolling is absolutely disrespectful, belittling, and dismissive.", ">\n\nComments: OP is completely wrong and has attitude issues", ">\n\nWhat sounds like mental illness is you refusing to admit that rolling your eyes is simply not an unconditional response. Whether you want to believe it or not, you are doing it intentionally and you can control it. \nYou’re just to much of a b—— to do so.", ">\n\nSame to you", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a learned reaction. Not natural. I rarely of ever roll my eyes at anything.", ">", ">\n\nJust like raising your middle finger. Or vocalizing the sounds \"fuck you\". Or fingers typing the words fuck you OP. Nothing is disrespectful!", ">\n\nNice try but not the same thing at all. You're talking about thought out actions here. The eye roll is more like a reaction. Its quick, its automatic, no one has to think \"im rolling my eyes now\" it just happens. \nSort of like when telling a lie - no one decides to have their eyes dart around suspiciously, it just happens.", ">\n\nNo. Rolling your eyes is not involuntary. It can be controlled. You have a bad habit that you CAN stop. Much like a child learning not to suck their thumb, or biting your nails.", ">\n\nHow about you start with your hair scratching", ">\n\nYour opinion is a contradiction in itself. And, yeah. I disagree. Rolling your eyes is 100% to show lack of respect, and you have no intentions of showing it, even to reason, by rolling your eyes at something someone could believe is meaningful or important. Even if it is stupid.\nI get your point, we roll our eyes to express how we feel, but it is still a physical snare. You say rolling your eyes isn't disrespectful, while saying it's okay to roll your eyes because something is \" stupid or lame\", which in itself is disrespectful. You sound like a very young person in the middle of a learning moment, and you're trying to react with rebellion. It only shows that you lack maturity and are in need of growth. This might be a time for you to read these comments and reevaluate. There are healthier ways to react to things you disagree with, or lack interest in. If not, you can just accept that you roll your eyes to show lack of respect.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is much more deliberate than laughter, tears, or sneezing. It's a conscious action in response to a judgement you're making.", ">\n\nNah, dude it is disrespectful \nYou just have no self control and by the looks of it you don't want to build some", ">\n\nYour post made me roll my eyes very hard.", ">\n\n“No, officer, my wife - she MADE me hit her!”", ">\n\nIt's a natural reaction for a sooky kid but not an adult, if you do that as an adult you just manchild that wants everything their way", ">\n\npoor OP.... did you get in trouble after you rolled your eyes at something again? did you not prehaps learn from previous interactions? rolling your eyes at something \"stupid or lame\" is an intentional response that is disrespectful to whatever it is. mature people dont act that way.....", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes.\n\nSo it is disrespectful. \n\nIts like throwing pepper in someone's face an expecting them not to sneeze.\n\nNo it’s not. You can easily (edited in) refrain from rolling your eyes, while it’s much more difficult to refrain from sneezing. \nIt’s fine to think whatever you want, but you might want to refrain from rolling your eyes when you’re, say, interacting with your boss; aka someone that can make you unemployed for whatever reason they please.", ">\n\nThis isn't an opinion. It's just flat wrong. \nIt is disrespectful because it is a conscious signifier which clearly communicated that you think that the thing you are rolling your eyes at is not worthy of respect.", ">\n\nYou have to go out of your way to roll your eyes. It is NOT gutteral or instinctual", ">\n\nIf you annoy me, my arm whips out in a natural reaction and slaps you.", ">\n\nSorry, kiddo, it’s 100% disrespectful. Just own the shit and quit trying to lawyer around it.\nI say that after having rolled my eyes so hard at your post, I travelled back in time.", ">\n\nTell that to my family lol you get the belt", ">\n\nThis was made my a 15 year old who just got told off by their mom about rolling their eyes. Then in defense said, “I can’t control it”", ">\n\nMan it's getting so aggressive sometimes here 😂", ">\n\ni certainly hope you are embarrassed about this in a couple years when you grow up.", ">\n\nOP is a habitual eye roller 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄", ">\n\nI wish to God we could block people by age, no more edgy 13yo’s", ">\n\nSomebody just got their ps5 taken away for rolling their eyes", ">\n\nTell me you're 12 without telling me you're 12.", ">\n\nit’s the definition of disrespectful and a sign that you have literally nothing intelligent to say in return. \nwhich is why we outgrow it as adults.", ">\n\nYou can control it. It’s not an “automatic response” unless you’ve taught yourself to do it. I never roll my eyes. It’s just not something I have ever practiced doing. And yes…if I’m saying something too you and you dismiss it with an eye roll…it’s super disrespectful.", ">\n\nrolling your eyes is just as respectful as sticking your tongue out at someone or making a stupid face in reaction to something someone says", ">\n\nIf you can’t control your eye movement, you need to see a neurologist, dude 😆. As it stands, eye rolling isn’t a reflex or a “natural reaction” to anything. Habits aren’t the same as involuntary reactions.\nRolling your eyes at someone is disrespectful. It’s an outward sign that you think something about your interaction with them was stupid or wrong. There’s no one here that will agree with you, and you know that you’re in the vast minority with this opinion because you posted it on this sub. Now learn some humility and accept that your opinion is factually incorrect based on science.", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nAre you like 14 and your mom got you in trouble cause you rolled your eyes at her? Lmao", ">\n\nI’m gonna show your mom this and it’s going to be another week of being grounded, you little shit lol", ">\n\nOmfg 😂", ">\n\nOP I have to ask.\n\n\nHow old are you?\n\n\nHow is your relationship with your parents?\n\n\nHow do you view authority figures in your life?", ">\n\nrolls eyes", ">\n\nIf you say or demand something stupid from me I will probably roll my eyes.", ">\n\nBut it is", ">\n\nJust like rolling your eyes is an innate response, so are other people's responses to you rolling your eyes.", ">\n\nSometimes being respectful requires hiding your subjective opinion on whether something is stupid or lame.", ">\n\nI wouldn’t say eye rolling is as involuntary as laughing or crying tho. It’s more of a choice.", ">\n\nIf someone rolls their eyes then I feel disrespected it’s a natural reaction.", ">\n\ntell me you're a teenager without telling me you're a teenager", ">\n\nI'm rolling my eyes at this post. And I definitely mean it disrespectfully.", ">\n\nLmao this kid had an argument with his parent(s) or teacher and is venting on Reddit.", ">\n\nYou sound like an eye rolling arsehole", ">\n\ni have never had an as a nonvoulentary action, it requires very explicit movement of you eye. this is like saying “when i dont like people, i punch them in the head, thats my natural reaction i cant control it”\ni have never once legitimately rolled my eyes at something, i think you might be an asshole", ">\n\nMe smacking your face is also an innate uncontrollable response to you rolling your eyes. I'm only human. What can I do? 🙄", ">\n\nI disagree. also there are a billion other ways to express something being stupid or lame than rolling ur eyes", ">\n\nStop downvoting, this is ACTUALLY a very unpopular opinion and I love to see it tbh. Voice your disagreement in the comments but don't downvote the post. This post is hilarious.", ">\n\nThis is something you’ve learned to do. It’s entirely in your control if you do it or not.", ">\n\nI once got a detention for rolling my eyes at a teacher in 4th grade.\nI agree with you, though. The only other person I've ever really rolled my eyes at was my mother, and she deserved it, every single time.", ">\n\nI get your point. I absolutely purposefully roll my eyes sometimes and whoever I'm doing it to would be valid for getting mad. \nBut as someone who can't hide any emotion on their face (literally any, I'm the definition of an open book) there have been plenty of times where people blew up at me or laughed because I rolled my eyes when I didn't even realize I had done it. Feel like the people disagreeing with you haven't experienced this problem.", ">\n\nWhat you've done is cultivate a bad habit and then blamed it on everyone else when you repeat your own bad habit unintentionally.\nThis is entirely your fault.", ">\n\nOnly on Reddit would someone so boldly declare something like this to a stranger. I'm on the spectrum so that might have to do with my not being able to hide any emotion (I truly mean that, people can basically read my thoughts just by looking at me, good and bad). \nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave. Consider working on that.", ">\n\nSo they point out you’re cultivating a bad habit and blaming other people so you then, blame them? It’s a little spot on don’t you think?", ">\n\nWhen did i blame them for my own actions? Could you quote me? I was just pointing out how weird it was that they made such a strong assumption of my character off a causal comment I left when they themselves were ironically being unnecessarily rude in the process. \nI don't know how you got so lost?", ">\n\n\nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave.\n\nClassic deflection and implication that they’re the one with the problem, not you", ">\n\nFirst its not automatic. I almost never rolled my eyes. Its much easier to control than laughing crying or sneezing. So you just dont make the effort. Its actually a way to express your feeling. You should know that, its your personnality not a human instinctive reaction. \nAnd yes not respecting something is disrespectful. Its not that hard to understand. \nAnyway if i see you.. i dont know having a breakdown after being fired and dumped and start to laugh you'd like that ? \nIf im sad because something good happens to you and show it to you, you would like that ? \nHonestly you are just trying to justify being a bit of a jerk. \nI dont blame you or anything we all are jerks sometime but its what you are doing right now.", ">\n\nI have to refocus my eyes and most of the time blinking doesn’t cut it. I have a lazy eye and when I look at someone for a long time it unfocuses, so moving the muscle is the only way to reset it. If I don’t, people start moving their heads/ bodies trying to focus on my lazy eye. It gets awkward.", ">\n\nThis is where I go to my training as a kid. What others think of you is none of your business.", ">\n\nUnless you have a tick or something like Tourette’s syndrome, then it’s not an involuntary response. Part of living in a society and not being considered rude is managing your body language.\nLet me put it this way. “Rudeness” in itself is a social concept. That means it’s decided by the perception of the masses, what we generally agree upon in terms of our symbols of communication, our customs, our beliefs, our values, etc. For you to say that rolling your eyes isn’t disrespectful is not objectively wrong. But according to the society you live in, it is wrong. In layman’s terms, the hill you’re dying on here is completely arbitrary, neither side will ever be truly correct but as long as you live in a society which feels this way then you will be beholden to it anyways.", ">\n\nTo be fair, if your thinking its stupid or lame, then that is dis-respect. I'd agree with this if it was worded like 'More people need to say what they truly think', but I think you sort of missed the mark, OP.", ">\n\nI am equally annoyed when folks rapidly blink and look away mid conversation or drop their arm dead against their thigh. It’s like you’ve given up an effort to even keep your body vertical and engaged while I’m talking to you.", ">\n\nOP getting downvoted AF & keeps commenting. Gotta love it.", ">\n\nIt is shown as a sign of disrespect and it shows weakness. I can’t imagine Gandhi, the queen of England or Einstein roll their eyes in front of random people. The reason why they were respected is because they didn’t play any superiority game on front of… inferiors or ignorant people. If something is stupid, get the patience and find enough love within yourself to treat the other ones right. \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a child because his question is “stupid”, what parent does it make you ? \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a bad question because you are an expert in a subject, then it is not your modesty that speaks but your ego. For proof : Even if someone you hate said something intelligent, you might want to roll your eyes just to flatter your ego.", ">\n\nIt's seen as disrespectful BECAUSE it's inadvertently telling them you think they're irritating/annoying.", ">\n\nI never roll my eyes? Is that something people do naturally?", ">\n\nAll depends on the context of what is going on.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is not a natural reaction?", ">\n\nNot maintaining basic self control is disrespectful. It's the same reason we don't defecate in public, sneeze on people, or stand in the way of foot traffic.", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s and one of my tics is eye rolling", ">\n\nK", ">\n\nI accidentally roll my eyes at people sometimes when I'm not even trying to", ">\n\nThe sign of a true unpopular opinion: Nobody upvoting it, but everybody commenting to say how they disagree. If you disagree, then give it an upvote. That's the point of this sub.", ">\n\nI think it depends.", ">\n\nThis had to be written by someone under the age of 25", ">\n\nRolling your eyes isn’t natural though. It’s cultural or socially learned if that makes sense. Like if you rolled your eyes at a tribe that is disconnected from society they wouldn’t understand that you’re annoyed. So you cant really compare it to laughing.", ">\n\nI'm kind of curious if this is true though. Are you assuming this, or do you have some kind of study proving this? I'd actually like to see if your hypothesis is true, or if remote tribes also use this facial gesture.", ">\n\nI’m assuming it. Back in my country Turkey if you rolled your eyes at my grandparents they would be confused and wonder what you were doing and what it meant.", ">\n\nit's a maturity thing, keep rolling your eyes at 30-40, everyone gonna see you like a kid. \nyou gotta control your emotions, there's no need to do a expression when something is stupid or lame, you got a mouth and you respectfully share what's wrong, if the person in the other end is reluctant to stay on the same boat even after you talk about it. then you don't roll your eyes, you gotta say that there's nothing more you can do, and that you don't agree with it, and most likely leave to dodge any sort of problem.", ">\n\nI have a tic where I constantly roll my eyes. I’ve had it since I was little, but never noticed it until years later when I high school teacher yelled at me for disrespect. Apparently my parents took me for evaluation when I was very young and diagnosed Tourette’s but never had any other tics develop. Would have been nice to know 🤦🏼‍♀️ I just apologize now and say it’s a compulsion if people ask. I don’t even know when I’m doing it", ">\n\nIs laughing disrespectful? Because it can be. Just like rolling your eyes can be. There is a time and place for everything", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a passive aggressive response. Passive aggression is a tactic used by meek people who are frustrated and don’t have the courage to address a given situation. It’s disrespectful and it lowers your standing in the social hierarchy.", ">\n\nGet back to me when Disney Dad actively encourages your offspring to roll their eyes at you.", ">\n\nYeah it is when I want to be disrespectful to someone I roll my eyes when they make a point. It might be annoying to them, but it also let's them know I don't give a shit about whatever they just said. Now, I would never to it to my boss, or my teachers while I was in college, but when I was a teen I did it all the time because I was an asshole, who didn't care. \nIt's not a natural reaction lmao, it is learned behavior and it can be a bad habit, but it can be unlearned.", ">\n\nSome people can’t control it I know with me sometimes I roll my eyes without meaning too it’s not that I’m trying to be rude it’s just something I didn’t even realize I was doing nor did I mean too", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nI have a friend who thinks like you do, which is based on your responses to the comments. He has very poor social skills and is on the autism spectrum", ">\n\nI bet you're lots of fun at parties OP.", ">\n\nI can’t tell if this is farming karma with ridiculous opinions or if this individual just has a really hard time understanding that maybe their parents aren’t always the bad guys.", ">\n\nYep, thats definitely an unpopular opinion! \nIts certainly disrespectful. And most certainly not some sort of involuntary response like a sneeze. It may feel that way to you, because you've done it so much - but there are plenty of people who don't do it. UNLIKE people who don't sneeze at pepper, or cough at dust. Like, you're just plain wrong on this one. Moreover, I think you're trying to justify/rationalize it yourself rather than address it in a healthy way - a marker suggesting you have some narcissistic tendencies.", ">\n\nWhat a stupid argument, take your upvote", ">\n\nIt’s a sign of contempt. The facial expression expert Dr. Eikman could predict how long a barrage would last based on 4 expressions and the frequency used when the couple was interviewed. Eye rolling was one.. in fact you could remove the others and still reasonably predict marriage failures.", ">\n\nI wish it wasn’t disrespectful, because as an expressive person I LOVE a good eye roll. But, it has gotten me into trouble. I do it without even knowing it. I hate that I do… I wish sometimes I could be stone cold. Just like a fish. One expression face only. Blank fish eyes staring into nothingness.\nMy favourite mug says, “I can’t help what my face does when you talk”. There is a reason the the mug is meant to be cheeky.", ">\n\nSeems disrespectful to me because my eyes don't roll on their own, it would be a conscious act.", ">\n\nThis is 100% based on the premis that you can’t control your eyes. Rolling your eyes isn’t a natural movement. You control it.\nLaughing and crying aren’t necessarily controllable.", ">\n\nIn addition to this:\nfinding something somebody said stupid isnt disrespectful - makin fun in an exaggerated way, call em out in a mean way, or think everything they're gonna say next is bs is the disrespectful part.", ">\n\nSo your reaction is because you think someone is stupid, but thinking they are stupid isn't disrespectful?", ">\n\nThis, i agree with", ">\n\nGuess my mom didn't get the memo.", ">\n\nI don't think rolling your eyes is natural. I did wrong all the way up until last year. Thought you were supposed to make your eyes go in a circular motion 😂", ">\n\nFr. I may be able to control what I say…but my face will always show how I feel😂can’t help it and I’m tired of fake apologizing for it.", ">\n\nI don’t think rolling your eyes is a natural reaction the same way crying and laughing are. The only times I’ve rolled my eyes are when I intended to.", ">\n\nWhen my dad was/is drunk and angry he does it. Disrespectful and does not feel nice.", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nLol go to your room", ">\n\nWhat a dingbat. lol", ">\n\nNah it's kinda rude. Hardly the worst thing ever though. Sometimes though, people roll their eyes to actually think about what they are going to say, though; it's an important thing to distinguish.", ">\n\nI mean, its entire function as an expression is disrespect. that's literally the whole point of rolling your eyes. Natural instinct or not, it still implies disrespect.", ">\n\nI used to roll my eyes often because I have bad eyeshit, and doing it relieved eye strain. I couldn't tell you the amount of times this got me in shit.", ">\n\nLaughing, crying… both can be controlled to an extent. Eye rolls can 100% be controlled. They aren’t a reflex. If they are in your case you should seek medical attention", ">\n\nIf you roll your eyes as an involuntary reaction. Please see a doctor", ">\n\nyour right this is an unpopular opinion but for a good fucking reason you have no soldi ground to stand on in any argument on this", ">\n\nOp- \"just because it means something disrespectful doesn't mean I should get yelled for choosing to roll my eyes.\"", ">\n\nMaybe if your 10 and don't understand social cues. Context is a big part tho, if it's you and your friends goofing off, maybe it's tolerable to bash one another. If it's parents trying to have a serious convo and your just an idiot about it, then it's a problem.", ">\n\nwhat's popular isn't always right\nwhat's right isn't always popular\nyour opinion and the sub checkout OP, good job!", ">\n\nI agree it’s a pretty natural reaction when people or a given situation is unreasonable. The other options are usually to laugh or get angry. It’s even funnier when Karen’s get mad at it. Keeping a poker face at times just isn’t possible. I feel redeemed when someone being a unreasonable jackass and they get upset by my 🙄. Most people say nothing and I think accept it anyway.", ">", ">\n\nYou’ve convinced me" ]
> This reminds me of when I coached third grade volleyball and I told a girl not to roll her eyes and she said “I was born like that. I can’t help it.”	[ "🙄", ">\n\nYou’re grounded now", ">\n\nThe post above was someone getting electrocuted so this reply was very timely", ">\n\nThis news is shocking", ">\n\nIt definitely SPARKED my interest", ">\n\nAll of you guys need to leave, and not come back before learning how to conduct yourselves properly", ">\n\nUhhhh....... electricity", ">\n\nWell no, in the right context it is disrespectful. Rolling your eyes suggests that you're not taking the matter seriously or that you dont care which is a sign of disrespect towards whoever is speaking with you.", ">\n\nBut I can't control what I think. If I said \"man you're stupid and I don't care what you say\" thats disrespectful. I'm actually showing respect by not saying it.", ">\n\nI mean, actions speak louder than words, right?", ">\n\nIts not really an action tho its just an automatic response. Like gasping or yawning.", ">\n\nbullshit.\nSorry, it was an automatic response. Which is bullshit just like yours.", ">\n\nStill not the same thing. And they get on me for false analogies....", ">\n\nYou must be a teenager", ">\n\nLol how many times are you gonna post that. Dont you have an original thought of your own?", ">\n\nBruh I cant believe you make these posts. They're foolish", ">\n\nLaughing at someone can be disrespectful. Don't think so? Try laughing at someone's funeral.", ">\n\nThe disrespect comes from the one who told me a joke and made me laugh.", ">\n\nWhat about if no one said any joke? Because, you know, you are at a funeral.", ">\n\nSo someone's just there randomly laughing at shit? That sounds like a mental illness.", ">\n\nYou have never thought of something funny in your head to make yourself laugh? \nOr hell, maybe you didn't like the person who is buried and decided to laugh at them. You find it funny, so laughing must be appropriate, right?", ">\n\nWhy am I thinking about funny shit at a funeral.", ">\n\nBecause the universe likes to put us in uncomfortable positions sometimes.", ">\n\n“if its stupid or lame, you roll your eyes” - you found the disrespect", ">\n\nIm allowed to think whatever i want and its not disrespectful.", ">\n\nWhen you express contempt for something someone else said, it's disrespect.", ">\n\nWhat if what they said is contemptible?", ">\n\nSome people and comments deserve disrespect, still gonna be disrespect", ">\n\nLaughing, crying, and sneezing are all innate, involuntary reactions to certain types of stimuli. Rolling your eyes is a learned behavior. You can’t compare it to those other automatic responses because it’s not the same thing.", ">\n\nTake my upvote", ">\n\nOP rolled their eyes at someone and got chewed out for it.\nNow they're going online in an attempt to validate themselves.\n🙄", ">\n\nProbably got grounded.", ">\n\nPart of being a mature adult is to have self-control and not acting on every impulse and being respectful of people.", ">\n\n\nPart of being a mature adult\n\nYup but OP is clearly a teenager lol. They complain about being told off for doing chores wrong in another post…", ">\n\nEven a teenager should be able to have the fundamental basics of respect", ">\n\nOh I agree 100%", ">\n\nYou have poor self-control and poor self-awareness but the good news is that you can improve these things.", ">\n\n/r/wrongopinions", ">\n\nI feel like we need a new subreddit r/unpopularforareason", ">\n\nIt’s entire purpose is to be disrespectful. Nobody eyerolls something they respect. But how offensive it is depends on the context and how serious one is being.", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes\n\nYou rn: \"I'm not being disrespectful. I just thought what you said was stupid or lame.\"\n...", ">\n\nSaying its stupid could be disrespectful. A facial response is not.", ">\n\nLiterally every person in this thread agrees that it is.\nThis is your bad habit. Nobody else's responsibility but you.", ">\n\nThey can choose to not fly off the handle at what is just an innate reaction.", ">\n\nSo let me get this straight: you think you deserve to be able to disrespect whoever you like whenever you like but they can't as much as say you're being rude? Grow up.", ">\n\nFound the teenager.", ">\n\nMeh, I agree with that one. If you don't like how someone is doing something then do it yourself. There's a reason I live alone.", ">\n\nIt is a UNIVERSAL sign of disrespect. Globally. Deal with it.", ">\n\nLaughing can be disrespectuful too. If you cannot control your own reactions, well, what can I say, maybe you have not really grown up?", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s so it’s hard to control my own actions sometimes…", ">\n\nThank u I'm trying to explain how autism can make it hard to read not just others facial expressions but also ur own and it seems like no one has thought of the possibility that they acc don't realise it or csnt control it", ">\n\nWould you roll your eyes during a job interview if you thought a question was stupid or irrelevant? Do you think you’d get the job if you did?", ">\n\nPretty sure OP would think they were owed that job and they would think it’s ridiculous if they didn’t get it.\nOP is also a teenager going through their rebel phase though", ">\n\nYou're oddly specific here.", ">\n\nWhat was specific? Or rather oddly specific?", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a good way to fast track yourself to a divorce, if you want one.", ">\n\nI think OP needs the definition of respect before any further comment is made", ">\n\nOh I already know it, and I know it does not mean:\nDon't ever disagree with me\nDon't think bad thoughts about me\nDon't ever correct me when I'm blatantly wrong \nShine my boots with your tongue", ">\n\nSoooo this post isn’t about eye rolling is what I’m getting from this. You’ve got issues to work through with your parents or partner or something", ">\n\nSince when tf was eye rolling involuntary?", ">", ">\n\nYour lack of self control is not a justification for disrespect. I personally dont know anyone who reacts to anything by rolling their eyes. Just be mature and communicate.", ">\n\nAnd what if it's not stupid and someone rolls their eyes? Wouldn't it be disrespectful in that case?", ">\n\nIn the eye rollers opinion then it must have been. But you can't fault someone for thinking its stupid.", ">\n\nSo eyerolling is some kind of exceptional thing that is free from criticism? \nIf one has the freedom to eye roll, then someone else has the freedom to criticize the eye roller right? \nOr is it your opinion that besides that everyone who sees an eye roller has to just stfu", ">\n\nMeh, it is disrespectful. It's a way to be disrespectful without having to say That's the dumbest thing I've heard all month, and everyone else who heard it is also dumber for hearing it as well.", ">\n\nBut I didn't say it that's the point.", ">\n\nJust cuz you don’t use words doesn’t mean it’s not disrespectful. Walking away while someone is talking to you, rolling your eyes, slapping someone, and starting to play a game on your phone while someone is talking to you are all disrespectful. It doesn’t matter that you didn’t say anything, your lack of respect still showed.", ">\n\nespecially the way theyre responding to comments", ">\n\nYeah, a natural reaction if you’ve never learned to manage your emotions as opposed to letting them run your life. I’m not talking about being totally monotone rational, either. You need to learn a balance between rational and emotional…which includes healthy, appropriate, respectful expression of honest feelings. Eye rolling is absolutely disrespectful, belittling, and dismissive.", ">\n\nComments: OP is completely wrong and has attitude issues", ">\n\nWhat sounds like mental illness is you refusing to admit that rolling your eyes is simply not an unconditional response. Whether you want to believe it or not, you are doing it intentionally and you can control it. \nYou’re just to much of a b—— to do so.", ">\n\nSame to you", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a learned reaction. Not natural. I rarely of ever roll my eyes at anything.", ">", ">\n\nJust like raising your middle finger. Or vocalizing the sounds \"fuck you\". Or fingers typing the words fuck you OP. Nothing is disrespectful!", ">\n\nNice try but not the same thing at all. You're talking about thought out actions here. The eye roll is more like a reaction. Its quick, its automatic, no one has to think \"im rolling my eyes now\" it just happens. \nSort of like when telling a lie - no one decides to have their eyes dart around suspiciously, it just happens.", ">\n\nNo. Rolling your eyes is not involuntary. It can be controlled. You have a bad habit that you CAN stop. Much like a child learning not to suck their thumb, or biting your nails.", ">\n\nHow about you start with your hair scratching", ">\n\nYour opinion is a contradiction in itself. And, yeah. I disagree. Rolling your eyes is 100% to show lack of respect, and you have no intentions of showing it, even to reason, by rolling your eyes at something someone could believe is meaningful or important. Even if it is stupid.\nI get your point, we roll our eyes to express how we feel, but it is still a physical snare. You say rolling your eyes isn't disrespectful, while saying it's okay to roll your eyes because something is \" stupid or lame\", which in itself is disrespectful. You sound like a very young person in the middle of a learning moment, and you're trying to react with rebellion. It only shows that you lack maturity and are in need of growth. This might be a time for you to read these comments and reevaluate. There are healthier ways to react to things you disagree with, or lack interest in. If not, you can just accept that you roll your eyes to show lack of respect.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is much more deliberate than laughter, tears, or sneezing. It's a conscious action in response to a judgement you're making.", ">\n\nNah, dude it is disrespectful \nYou just have no self control and by the looks of it you don't want to build some", ">\n\nYour post made me roll my eyes very hard.", ">\n\n“No, officer, my wife - she MADE me hit her!”", ">\n\nIt's a natural reaction for a sooky kid but not an adult, if you do that as an adult you just manchild that wants everything their way", ">\n\npoor OP.... did you get in trouble after you rolled your eyes at something again? did you not prehaps learn from previous interactions? rolling your eyes at something \"stupid or lame\" is an intentional response that is disrespectful to whatever it is. mature people dont act that way.....", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes.\n\nSo it is disrespectful. \n\nIts like throwing pepper in someone's face an expecting them not to sneeze.\n\nNo it’s not. You can easily (edited in) refrain from rolling your eyes, while it’s much more difficult to refrain from sneezing. \nIt’s fine to think whatever you want, but you might want to refrain from rolling your eyes when you’re, say, interacting with your boss; aka someone that can make you unemployed for whatever reason they please.", ">\n\nThis isn't an opinion. It's just flat wrong. \nIt is disrespectful because it is a conscious signifier which clearly communicated that you think that the thing you are rolling your eyes at is not worthy of respect.", ">\n\nYou have to go out of your way to roll your eyes. It is NOT gutteral or instinctual", ">\n\nIf you annoy me, my arm whips out in a natural reaction and slaps you.", ">\n\nSorry, kiddo, it’s 100% disrespectful. Just own the shit and quit trying to lawyer around it.\nI say that after having rolled my eyes so hard at your post, I travelled back in time.", ">\n\nTell that to my family lol you get the belt", ">\n\nThis was made my a 15 year old who just got told off by their mom about rolling their eyes. Then in defense said, “I can’t control it”", ">\n\nMan it's getting so aggressive sometimes here 😂", ">\n\ni certainly hope you are embarrassed about this in a couple years when you grow up.", ">\n\nOP is a habitual eye roller 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄", ">\n\nI wish to God we could block people by age, no more edgy 13yo’s", ">\n\nSomebody just got their ps5 taken away for rolling their eyes", ">\n\nTell me you're 12 without telling me you're 12.", ">\n\nit’s the definition of disrespectful and a sign that you have literally nothing intelligent to say in return. \nwhich is why we outgrow it as adults.", ">\n\nYou can control it. It’s not an “automatic response” unless you’ve taught yourself to do it. I never roll my eyes. It’s just not something I have ever practiced doing. And yes…if I’m saying something too you and you dismiss it with an eye roll…it’s super disrespectful.", ">\n\nrolling your eyes is just as respectful as sticking your tongue out at someone or making a stupid face in reaction to something someone says", ">\n\nIf you can’t control your eye movement, you need to see a neurologist, dude 😆. As it stands, eye rolling isn’t a reflex or a “natural reaction” to anything. Habits aren’t the same as involuntary reactions.\nRolling your eyes at someone is disrespectful. It’s an outward sign that you think something about your interaction with them was stupid or wrong. There’s no one here that will agree with you, and you know that you’re in the vast minority with this opinion because you posted it on this sub. Now learn some humility and accept that your opinion is factually incorrect based on science.", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nAre you like 14 and your mom got you in trouble cause you rolled your eyes at her? Lmao", ">\n\nI’m gonna show your mom this and it’s going to be another week of being grounded, you little shit lol", ">\n\nOmfg 😂", ">\n\nOP I have to ask.\n\n\nHow old are you?\n\n\nHow is your relationship with your parents?\n\n\nHow do you view authority figures in your life?", ">\n\nrolls eyes", ">\n\nIf you say or demand something stupid from me I will probably roll my eyes.", ">\n\nBut it is", ">\n\nJust like rolling your eyes is an innate response, so are other people's responses to you rolling your eyes.", ">\n\nSometimes being respectful requires hiding your subjective opinion on whether something is stupid or lame.", ">\n\nI wouldn’t say eye rolling is as involuntary as laughing or crying tho. It’s more of a choice.", ">\n\nIf someone rolls their eyes then I feel disrespected it’s a natural reaction.", ">\n\ntell me you're a teenager without telling me you're a teenager", ">\n\nI'm rolling my eyes at this post. And I definitely mean it disrespectfully.", ">\n\nLmao this kid had an argument with his parent(s) or teacher and is venting on Reddit.", ">\n\nYou sound like an eye rolling arsehole", ">\n\ni have never had an as a nonvoulentary action, it requires very explicit movement of you eye. this is like saying “when i dont like people, i punch them in the head, thats my natural reaction i cant control it”\ni have never once legitimately rolled my eyes at something, i think you might be an asshole", ">\n\nMe smacking your face is also an innate uncontrollable response to you rolling your eyes. I'm only human. What can I do? 🙄", ">\n\nI disagree. also there are a billion other ways to express something being stupid or lame than rolling ur eyes", ">\n\nStop downvoting, this is ACTUALLY a very unpopular opinion and I love to see it tbh. Voice your disagreement in the comments but don't downvote the post. This post is hilarious.", ">\n\nThis is something you’ve learned to do. It’s entirely in your control if you do it or not.", ">\n\nI once got a detention for rolling my eyes at a teacher in 4th grade.\nI agree with you, though. The only other person I've ever really rolled my eyes at was my mother, and she deserved it, every single time.", ">\n\nI get your point. I absolutely purposefully roll my eyes sometimes and whoever I'm doing it to would be valid for getting mad. \nBut as someone who can't hide any emotion on their face (literally any, I'm the definition of an open book) there have been plenty of times where people blew up at me or laughed because I rolled my eyes when I didn't even realize I had done it. Feel like the people disagreeing with you haven't experienced this problem.", ">\n\nWhat you've done is cultivate a bad habit and then blamed it on everyone else when you repeat your own bad habit unintentionally.\nThis is entirely your fault.", ">\n\nOnly on Reddit would someone so boldly declare something like this to a stranger. I'm on the spectrum so that might have to do with my not being able to hide any emotion (I truly mean that, people can basically read my thoughts just by looking at me, good and bad). \nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave. Consider working on that.", ">\n\nSo they point out you’re cultivating a bad habit and blaming other people so you then, blame them? It’s a little spot on don’t you think?", ">\n\nWhen did i blame them for my own actions? Could you quote me? I was just pointing out how weird it was that they made such a strong assumption of my character off a causal comment I left when they themselves were ironically being unnecessarily rude in the process. \nI don't know how you got so lost?", ">\n\n\nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave.\n\nClassic deflection and implication that they’re the one with the problem, not you", ">\n\nFirst its not automatic. I almost never rolled my eyes. Its much easier to control than laughing crying or sneezing. So you just dont make the effort. Its actually a way to express your feeling. You should know that, its your personnality not a human instinctive reaction. \nAnd yes not respecting something is disrespectful. Its not that hard to understand. \nAnyway if i see you.. i dont know having a breakdown after being fired and dumped and start to laugh you'd like that ? \nIf im sad because something good happens to you and show it to you, you would like that ? \nHonestly you are just trying to justify being a bit of a jerk. \nI dont blame you or anything we all are jerks sometime but its what you are doing right now.", ">\n\nI have to refocus my eyes and most of the time blinking doesn’t cut it. I have a lazy eye and when I look at someone for a long time it unfocuses, so moving the muscle is the only way to reset it. If I don’t, people start moving their heads/ bodies trying to focus on my lazy eye. It gets awkward.", ">\n\nThis is where I go to my training as a kid. What others think of you is none of your business.", ">\n\nUnless you have a tick or something like Tourette’s syndrome, then it’s not an involuntary response. Part of living in a society and not being considered rude is managing your body language.\nLet me put it this way. “Rudeness” in itself is a social concept. That means it’s decided by the perception of the masses, what we generally agree upon in terms of our symbols of communication, our customs, our beliefs, our values, etc. For you to say that rolling your eyes isn’t disrespectful is not objectively wrong. But according to the society you live in, it is wrong. In layman’s terms, the hill you’re dying on here is completely arbitrary, neither side will ever be truly correct but as long as you live in a society which feels this way then you will be beholden to it anyways.", ">\n\nTo be fair, if your thinking its stupid or lame, then that is dis-respect. I'd agree with this if it was worded like 'More people need to say what they truly think', but I think you sort of missed the mark, OP.", ">\n\nI am equally annoyed when folks rapidly blink and look away mid conversation or drop their arm dead against their thigh. It’s like you’ve given up an effort to even keep your body vertical and engaged while I’m talking to you.", ">\n\nOP getting downvoted AF & keeps commenting. Gotta love it.", ">\n\nIt is shown as a sign of disrespect and it shows weakness. I can’t imagine Gandhi, the queen of England or Einstein roll their eyes in front of random people. The reason why they were respected is because they didn’t play any superiority game on front of… inferiors or ignorant people. If something is stupid, get the patience and find enough love within yourself to treat the other ones right. \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a child because his question is “stupid”, what parent does it make you ? \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a bad question because you are an expert in a subject, then it is not your modesty that speaks but your ego. For proof : Even if someone you hate said something intelligent, you might want to roll your eyes just to flatter your ego.", ">\n\nIt's seen as disrespectful BECAUSE it's inadvertently telling them you think they're irritating/annoying.", ">\n\nI never roll my eyes? Is that something people do naturally?", ">\n\nAll depends on the context of what is going on.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is not a natural reaction?", ">\n\nNot maintaining basic self control is disrespectful. It's the same reason we don't defecate in public, sneeze on people, or stand in the way of foot traffic.", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s and one of my tics is eye rolling", ">\n\nK", ">\n\nI accidentally roll my eyes at people sometimes when I'm not even trying to", ">\n\nThe sign of a true unpopular opinion: Nobody upvoting it, but everybody commenting to say how they disagree. If you disagree, then give it an upvote. That's the point of this sub.", ">\n\nI think it depends.", ">\n\nThis had to be written by someone under the age of 25", ">\n\nRolling your eyes isn’t natural though. It’s cultural or socially learned if that makes sense. Like if you rolled your eyes at a tribe that is disconnected from society they wouldn’t understand that you’re annoyed. So you cant really compare it to laughing.", ">\n\nI'm kind of curious if this is true though. Are you assuming this, or do you have some kind of study proving this? I'd actually like to see if your hypothesis is true, or if remote tribes also use this facial gesture.", ">\n\nI’m assuming it. Back in my country Turkey if you rolled your eyes at my grandparents they would be confused and wonder what you were doing and what it meant.", ">\n\nit's a maturity thing, keep rolling your eyes at 30-40, everyone gonna see you like a kid. \nyou gotta control your emotions, there's no need to do a expression when something is stupid or lame, you got a mouth and you respectfully share what's wrong, if the person in the other end is reluctant to stay on the same boat even after you talk about it. then you don't roll your eyes, you gotta say that there's nothing more you can do, and that you don't agree with it, and most likely leave to dodge any sort of problem.", ">\n\nI have a tic where I constantly roll my eyes. I’ve had it since I was little, but never noticed it until years later when I high school teacher yelled at me for disrespect. Apparently my parents took me for evaluation when I was very young and diagnosed Tourette’s but never had any other tics develop. Would have been nice to know 🤦🏼‍♀️ I just apologize now and say it’s a compulsion if people ask. I don’t even know when I’m doing it", ">\n\nIs laughing disrespectful? Because it can be. Just like rolling your eyes can be. There is a time and place for everything", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a passive aggressive response. Passive aggression is a tactic used by meek people who are frustrated and don’t have the courage to address a given situation. It’s disrespectful and it lowers your standing in the social hierarchy.", ">\n\nGet back to me when Disney Dad actively encourages your offspring to roll their eyes at you.", ">\n\nYeah it is when I want to be disrespectful to someone I roll my eyes when they make a point. It might be annoying to them, but it also let's them know I don't give a shit about whatever they just said. Now, I would never to it to my boss, or my teachers while I was in college, but when I was a teen I did it all the time because I was an asshole, who didn't care. \nIt's not a natural reaction lmao, it is learned behavior and it can be a bad habit, but it can be unlearned.", ">\n\nSome people can’t control it I know with me sometimes I roll my eyes without meaning too it’s not that I’m trying to be rude it’s just something I didn’t even realize I was doing nor did I mean too", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nI have a friend who thinks like you do, which is based on your responses to the comments. He has very poor social skills and is on the autism spectrum", ">\n\nI bet you're lots of fun at parties OP.", ">\n\nI can’t tell if this is farming karma with ridiculous opinions or if this individual just has a really hard time understanding that maybe their parents aren’t always the bad guys.", ">\n\nYep, thats definitely an unpopular opinion! \nIts certainly disrespectful. And most certainly not some sort of involuntary response like a sneeze. It may feel that way to you, because you've done it so much - but there are plenty of people who don't do it. UNLIKE people who don't sneeze at pepper, or cough at dust. Like, you're just plain wrong on this one. Moreover, I think you're trying to justify/rationalize it yourself rather than address it in a healthy way - a marker suggesting you have some narcissistic tendencies.", ">\n\nWhat a stupid argument, take your upvote", ">\n\nIt’s a sign of contempt. The facial expression expert Dr. Eikman could predict how long a barrage would last based on 4 expressions and the frequency used when the couple was interviewed. Eye rolling was one.. in fact you could remove the others and still reasonably predict marriage failures.", ">\n\nI wish it wasn’t disrespectful, because as an expressive person I LOVE a good eye roll. But, it has gotten me into trouble. I do it without even knowing it. I hate that I do… I wish sometimes I could be stone cold. Just like a fish. One expression face only. Blank fish eyes staring into nothingness.\nMy favourite mug says, “I can’t help what my face does when you talk”. There is a reason the the mug is meant to be cheeky.", ">\n\nSeems disrespectful to me because my eyes don't roll on their own, it would be a conscious act.", ">\n\nThis is 100% based on the premis that you can’t control your eyes. Rolling your eyes isn’t a natural movement. You control it.\nLaughing and crying aren’t necessarily controllable.", ">\n\nIn addition to this:\nfinding something somebody said stupid isnt disrespectful - makin fun in an exaggerated way, call em out in a mean way, or think everything they're gonna say next is bs is the disrespectful part.", ">\n\nSo your reaction is because you think someone is stupid, but thinking they are stupid isn't disrespectful?", ">\n\nThis, i agree with", ">\n\nGuess my mom didn't get the memo.", ">\n\nI don't think rolling your eyes is natural. I did wrong all the way up until last year. Thought you were supposed to make your eyes go in a circular motion 😂", ">\n\nFr. I may be able to control what I say…but my face will always show how I feel😂can’t help it and I’m tired of fake apologizing for it.", ">\n\nI don’t think rolling your eyes is a natural reaction the same way crying and laughing are. The only times I’ve rolled my eyes are when I intended to.", ">\n\nWhen my dad was/is drunk and angry he does it. Disrespectful and does not feel nice.", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nLol go to your room", ">\n\nWhat a dingbat. lol", ">\n\nNah it's kinda rude. Hardly the worst thing ever though. Sometimes though, people roll their eyes to actually think about what they are going to say, though; it's an important thing to distinguish.", ">\n\nI mean, its entire function as an expression is disrespect. that's literally the whole point of rolling your eyes. Natural instinct or not, it still implies disrespect.", ">\n\nI used to roll my eyes often because I have bad eyeshit, and doing it relieved eye strain. I couldn't tell you the amount of times this got me in shit.", ">\n\nLaughing, crying… both can be controlled to an extent. Eye rolls can 100% be controlled. They aren’t a reflex. If they are in your case you should seek medical attention", ">\n\nIf you roll your eyes as an involuntary reaction. Please see a doctor", ">\n\nyour right this is an unpopular opinion but for a good fucking reason you have no soldi ground to stand on in any argument on this", ">\n\nOp- \"just because it means something disrespectful doesn't mean I should get yelled for choosing to roll my eyes.\"", ">\n\nMaybe if your 10 and don't understand social cues. Context is a big part tho, if it's you and your friends goofing off, maybe it's tolerable to bash one another. If it's parents trying to have a serious convo and your just an idiot about it, then it's a problem.", ">\n\nwhat's popular isn't always right\nwhat's right isn't always popular\nyour opinion and the sub checkout OP, good job!", ">\n\nI agree it’s a pretty natural reaction when people or a given situation is unreasonable. The other options are usually to laugh or get angry. It’s even funnier when Karen’s get mad at it. Keeping a poker face at times just isn’t possible. I feel redeemed when someone being a unreasonable jackass and they get upset by my 🙄. Most people say nothing and I think accept it anyway.", ">", ">\n\nYou’ve convinced me", ">\n\nnah it's making e an active effort to use body language to convey your sentiment" ]
> i would say the same thing.	[ "🙄", ">\n\nYou’re grounded now", ">\n\nThe post above was someone getting electrocuted so this reply was very timely", ">\n\nThis news is shocking", ">\n\nIt definitely SPARKED my interest", ">\n\nAll of you guys need to leave, and not come back before learning how to conduct yourselves properly", ">\n\nUhhhh....... electricity", ">\n\nWell no, in the right context it is disrespectful. Rolling your eyes suggests that you're not taking the matter seriously or that you dont care which is a sign of disrespect towards whoever is speaking with you.", ">\n\nBut I can't control what I think. If I said \"man you're stupid and I don't care what you say\" thats disrespectful. I'm actually showing respect by not saying it.", ">\n\nI mean, actions speak louder than words, right?", ">\n\nIts not really an action tho its just an automatic response. Like gasping or yawning.", ">\n\nbullshit.\nSorry, it was an automatic response. Which is bullshit just like yours.", ">\n\nStill not the same thing. And they get on me for false analogies....", ">\n\nYou must be a teenager", ">\n\nLol how many times are you gonna post that. Dont you have an original thought of your own?", ">\n\nBruh I cant believe you make these posts. They're foolish", ">\n\nLaughing at someone can be disrespectful. Don't think so? Try laughing at someone's funeral.", ">\n\nThe disrespect comes from the one who told me a joke and made me laugh.", ">\n\nWhat about if no one said any joke? Because, you know, you are at a funeral.", ">\n\nSo someone's just there randomly laughing at shit? That sounds like a mental illness.", ">\n\nYou have never thought of something funny in your head to make yourself laugh? \nOr hell, maybe you didn't like the person who is buried and decided to laugh at them. You find it funny, so laughing must be appropriate, right?", ">\n\nWhy am I thinking about funny shit at a funeral.", ">\n\nBecause the universe likes to put us in uncomfortable positions sometimes.", ">\n\n“if its stupid or lame, you roll your eyes” - you found the disrespect", ">\n\nIm allowed to think whatever i want and its not disrespectful.", ">\n\nWhen you express contempt for something someone else said, it's disrespect.", ">\n\nWhat if what they said is contemptible?", ">\n\nSome people and comments deserve disrespect, still gonna be disrespect", ">\n\nLaughing, crying, and sneezing are all innate, involuntary reactions to certain types of stimuli. Rolling your eyes is a learned behavior. You can’t compare it to those other automatic responses because it’s not the same thing.", ">\n\nTake my upvote", ">\n\nOP rolled their eyes at someone and got chewed out for it.\nNow they're going online in an attempt to validate themselves.\n🙄", ">\n\nProbably got grounded.", ">\n\nPart of being a mature adult is to have self-control and not acting on every impulse and being respectful of people.", ">\n\n\nPart of being a mature adult\n\nYup but OP is clearly a teenager lol. They complain about being told off for doing chores wrong in another post…", ">\n\nEven a teenager should be able to have the fundamental basics of respect", ">\n\nOh I agree 100%", ">\n\nYou have poor self-control and poor self-awareness but the good news is that you can improve these things.", ">\n\n/r/wrongopinions", ">\n\nI feel like we need a new subreddit r/unpopularforareason", ">\n\nIt’s entire purpose is to be disrespectful. Nobody eyerolls something they respect. But how offensive it is depends on the context and how serious one is being.", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes\n\nYou rn: \"I'm not being disrespectful. I just thought what you said was stupid or lame.\"\n...", ">\n\nSaying its stupid could be disrespectful. A facial response is not.", ">\n\nLiterally every person in this thread agrees that it is.\nThis is your bad habit. Nobody else's responsibility but you.", ">\n\nThey can choose to not fly off the handle at what is just an innate reaction.", ">\n\nSo let me get this straight: you think you deserve to be able to disrespect whoever you like whenever you like but they can't as much as say you're being rude? Grow up.", ">\n\nFound the teenager.", ">\n\nMeh, I agree with that one. If you don't like how someone is doing something then do it yourself. There's a reason I live alone.", ">\n\nIt is a UNIVERSAL sign of disrespect. Globally. Deal with it.", ">\n\nLaughing can be disrespectuful too. If you cannot control your own reactions, well, what can I say, maybe you have not really grown up?", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s so it’s hard to control my own actions sometimes…", ">\n\nThank u I'm trying to explain how autism can make it hard to read not just others facial expressions but also ur own and it seems like no one has thought of the possibility that they acc don't realise it or csnt control it", ">\n\nWould you roll your eyes during a job interview if you thought a question was stupid or irrelevant? Do you think you’d get the job if you did?", ">\n\nPretty sure OP would think they were owed that job and they would think it’s ridiculous if they didn’t get it.\nOP is also a teenager going through their rebel phase though", ">\n\nYou're oddly specific here.", ">\n\nWhat was specific? Or rather oddly specific?", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a good way to fast track yourself to a divorce, if you want one.", ">\n\nI think OP needs the definition of respect before any further comment is made", ">\n\nOh I already know it, and I know it does not mean:\nDon't ever disagree with me\nDon't think bad thoughts about me\nDon't ever correct me when I'm blatantly wrong \nShine my boots with your tongue", ">\n\nSoooo this post isn’t about eye rolling is what I’m getting from this. You’ve got issues to work through with your parents or partner or something", ">\n\nSince when tf was eye rolling involuntary?", ">", ">\n\nYour lack of self control is not a justification for disrespect. I personally dont know anyone who reacts to anything by rolling their eyes. Just be mature and communicate.", ">\n\nAnd what if it's not stupid and someone rolls their eyes? Wouldn't it be disrespectful in that case?", ">\n\nIn the eye rollers opinion then it must have been. But you can't fault someone for thinking its stupid.", ">\n\nSo eyerolling is some kind of exceptional thing that is free from criticism? \nIf one has the freedom to eye roll, then someone else has the freedom to criticize the eye roller right? \nOr is it your opinion that besides that everyone who sees an eye roller has to just stfu", ">\n\nMeh, it is disrespectful. It's a way to be disrespectful without having to say That's the dumbest thing I've heard all month, and everyone else who heard it is also dumber for hearing it as well.", ">\n\nBut I didn't say it that's the point.", ">\n\nJust cuz you don’t use words doesn’t mean it’s not disrespectful. Walking away while someone is talking to you, rolling your eyes, slapping someone, and starting to play a game on your phone while someone is talking to you are all disrespectful. It doesn’t matter that you didn’t say anything, your lack of respect still showed.", ">\n\nespecially the way theyre responding to comments", ">\n\nYeah, a natural reaction if you’ve never learned to manage your emotions as opposed to letting them run your life. I’m not talking about being totally monotone rational, either. You need to learn a balance between rational and emotional…which includes healthy, appropriate, respectful expression of honest feelings. Eye rolling is absolutely disrespectful, belittling, and dismissive.", ">\n\nComments: OP is completely wrong and has attitude issues", ">\n\nWhat sounds like mental illness is you refusing to admit that rolling your eyes is simply not an unconditional response. Whether you want to believe it or not, you are doing it intentionally and you can control it. \nYou’re just to much of a b—— to do so.", ">\n\nSame to you", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a learned reaction. Not natural. I rarely of ever roll my eyes at anything.", ">", ">\n\nJust like raising your middle finger. Or vocalizing the sounds \"fuck you\". Or fingers typing the words fuck you OP. Nothing is disrespectful!", ">\n\nNice try but not the same thing at all. You're talking about thought out actions here. The eye roll is more like a reaction. Its quick, its automatic, no one has to think \"im rolling my eyes now\" it just happens. \nSort of like when telling a lie - no one decides to have their eyes dart around suspiciously, it just happens.", ">\n\nNo. Rolling your eyes is not involuntary. It can be controlled. You have a bad habit that you CAN stop. Much like a child learning not to suck their thumb, or biting your nails.", ">\n\nHow about you start with your hair scratching", ">\n\nYour opinion is a contradiction in itself. And, yeah. I disagree. Rolling your eyes is 100% to show lack of respect, and you have no intentions of showing it, even to reason, by rolling your eyes at something someone could believe is meaningful or important. Even if it is stupid.\nI get your point, we roll our eyes to express how we feel, but it is still a physical snare. You say rolling your eyes isn't disrespectful, while saying it's okay to roll your eyes because something is \" stupid or lame\", which in itself is disrespectful. You sound like a very young person in the middle of a learning moment, and you're trying to react with rebellion. It only shows that you lack maturity and are in need of growth. This might be a time for you to read these comments and reevaluate. There are healthier ways to react to things you disagree with, or lack interest in. If not, you can just accept that you roll your eyes to show lack of respect.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is much more deliberate than laughter, tears, or sneezing. It's a conscious action in response to a judgement you're making.", ">\n\nNah, dude it is disrespectful \nYou just have no self control and by the looks of it you don't want to build some", ">\n\nYour post made me roll my eyes very hard.", ">\n\n“No, officer, my wife - she MADE me hit her!”", ">\n\nIt's a natural reaction for a sooky kid but not an adult, if you do that as an adult you just manchild that wants everything their way", ">\n\npoor OP.... did you get in trouble after you rolled your eyes at something again? did you not prehaps learn from previous interactions? rolling your eyes at something \"stupid or lame\" is an intentional response that is disrespectful to whatever it is. mature people dont act that way.....", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes.\n\nSo it is disrespectful. \n\nIts like throwing pepper in someone's face an expecting them not to sneeze.\n\nNo it’s not. You can easily (edited in) refrain from rolling your eyes, while it’s much more difficult to refrain from sneezing. \nIt’s fine to think whatever you want, but you might want to refrain from rolling your eyes when you’re, say, interacting with your boss; aka someone that can make you unemployed for whatever reason they please.", ">\n\nThis isn't an opinion. It's just flat wrong. \nIt is disrespectful because it is a conscious signifier which clearly communicated that you think that the thing you are rolling your eyes at is not worthy of respect.", ">\n\nYou have to go out of your way to roll your eyes. It is NOT gutteral or instinctual", ">\n\nIf you annoy me, my arm whips out in a natural reaction and slaps you.", ">\n\nSorry, kiddo, it’s 100% disrespectful. Just own the shit and quit trying to lawyer around it.\nI say that after having rolled my eyes so hard at your post, I travelled back in time.", ">\n\nTell that to my family lol you get the belt", ">\n\nThis was made my a 15 year old who just got told off by their mom about rolling their eyes. Then in defense said, “I can’t control it”", ">\n\nMan it's getting so aggressive sometimes here 😂", ">\n\ni certainly hope you are embarrassed about this in a couple years when you grow up.", ">\n\nOP is a habitual eye roller 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄", ">\n\nI wish to God we could block people by age, no more edgy 13yo’s", ">\n\nSomebody just got their ps5 taken away for rolling their eyes", ">\n\nTell me you're 12 without telling me you're 12.", ">\n\nit’s the definition of disrespectful and a sign that you have literally nothing intelligent to say in return. \nwhich is why we outgrow it as adults.", ">\n\nYou can control it. It’s not an “automatic response” unless you’ve taught yourself to do it. I never roll my eyes. It’s just not something I have ever practiced doing. And yes…if I’m saying something too you and you dismiss it with an eye roll…it’s super disrespectful.", ">\n\nrolling your eyes is just as respectful as sticking your tongue out at someone or making a stupid face in reaction to something someone says", ">\n\nIf you can’t control your eye movement, you need to see a neurologist, dude 😆. As it stands, eye rolling isn’t a reflex or a “natural reaction” to anything. Habits aren’t the same as involuntary reactions.\nRolling your eyes at someone is disrespectful. It’s an outward sign that you think something about your interaction with them was stupid or wrong. There’s no one here that will agree with you, and you know that you’re in the vast minority with this opinion because you posted it on this sub. Now learn some humility and accept that your opinion is factually incorrect based on science.", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nAre you like 14 and your mom got you in trouble cause you rolled your eyes at her? Lmao", ">\n\nI’m gonna show your mom this and it’s going to be another week of being grounded, you little shit lol", ">\n\nOmfg 😂", ">\n\nOP I have to ask.\n\n\nHow old are you?\n\n\nHow is your relationship with your parents?\n\n\nHow do you view authority figures in your life?", ">\n\nrolls eyes", ">\n\nIf you say or demand something stupid from me I will probably roll my eyes.", ">\n\nBut it is", ">\n\nJust like rolling your eyes is an innate response, so are other people's responses to you rolling your eyes.", ">\n\nSometimes being respectful requires hiding your subjective opinion on whether something is stupid or lame.", ">\n\nI wouldn’t say eye rolling is as involuntary as laughing or crying tho. It’s more of a choice.", ">\n\nIf someone rolls their eyes then I feel disrespected it’s a natural reaction.", ">\n\ntell me you're a teenager without telling me you're a teenager", ">\n\nI'm rolling my eyes at this post. And I definitely mean it disrespectfully.", ">\n\nLmao this kid had an argument with his parent(s) or teacher and is venting on Reddit.", ">\n\nYou sound like an eye rolling arsehole", ">\n\ni have never had an as a nonvoulentary action, it requires very explicit movement of you eye. this is like saying “when i dont like people, i punch them in the head, thats my natural reaction i cant control it”\ni have never once legitimately rolled my eyes at something, i think you might be an asshole", ">\n\nMe smacking your face is also an innate uncontrollable response to you rolling your eyes. I'm only human. What can I do? 🙄", ">\n\nI disagree. also there are a billion other ways to express something being stupid or lame than rolling ur eyes", ">\n\nStop downvoting, this is ACTUALLY a very unpopular opinion and I love to see it tbh. Voice your disagreement in the comments but don't downvote the post. This post is hilarious.", ">\n\nThis is something you’ve learned to do. It’s entirely in your control if you do it or not.", ">\n\nI once got a detention for rolling my eyes at a teacher in 4th grade.\nI agree with you, though. The only other person I've ever really rolled my eyes at was my mother, and she deserved it, every single time.", ">\n\nI get your point. I absolutely purposefully roll my eyes sometimes and whoever I'm doing it to would be valid for getting mad. \nBut as someone who can't hide any emotion on their face (literally any, I'm the definition of an open book) there have been plenty of times where people blew up at me or laughed because I rolled my eyes when I didn't even realize I had done it. Feel like the people disagreeing with you haven't experienced this problem.", ">\n\nWhat you've done is cultivate a bad habit and then blamed it on everyone else when you repeat your own bad habit unintentionally.\nThis is entirely your fault.", ">\n\nOnly on Reddit would someone so boldly declare something like this to a stranger. I'm on the spectrum so that might have to do with my not being able to hide any emotion (I truly mean that, people can basically read my thoughts just by looking at me, good and bad). \nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave. Consider working on that.", ">\n\nSo they point out you’re cultivating a bad habit and blaming other people so you then, blame them? It’s a little spot on don’t you think?", ">\n\nWhen did i blame them for my own actions? Could you quote me? I was just pointing out how weird it was that they made such a strong assumption of my character off a causal comment I left when they themselves were ironically being unnecessarily rude in the process. \nI don't know how you got so lost?", ">\n\n\nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave.\n\nClassic deflection and implication that they’re the one with the problem, not you", ">\n\nFirst its not automatic. I almost never rolled my eyes. Its much easier to control than laughing crying or sneezing. So you just dont make the effort. Its actually a way to express your feeling. You should know that, its your personnality not a human instinctive reaction. \nAnd yes not respecting something is disrespectful. Its not that hard to understand. \nAnyway if i see you.. i dont know having a breakdown after being fired and dumped and start to laugh you'd like that ? \nIf im sad because something good happens to you and show it to you, you would like that ? \nHonestly you are just trying to justify being a bit of a jerk. \nI dont blame you or anything we all are jerks sometime but its what you are doing right now.", ">\n\nI have to refocus my eyes and most of the time blinking doesn’t cut it. I have a lazy eye and when I look at someone for a long time it unfocuses, so moving the muscle is the only way to reset it. If I don’t, people start moving their heads/ bodies trying to focus on my lazy eye. It gets awkward.", ">\n\nThis is where I go to my training as a kid. What others think of you is none of your business.", ">\n\nUnless you have a tick or something like Tourette’s syndrome, then it’s not an involuntary response. Part of living in a society and not being considered rude is managing your body language.\nLet me put it this way. “Rudeness” in itself is a social concept. That means it’s decided by the perception of the masses, what we generally agree upon in terms of our symbols of communication, our customs, our beliefs, our values, etc. For you to say that rolling your eyes isn’t disrespectful is not objectively wrong. But according to the society you live in, it is wrong. In layman’s terms, the hill you’re dying on here is completely arbitrary, neither side will ever be truly correct but as long as you live in a society which feels this way then you will be beholden to it anyways.", ">\n\nTo be fair, if your thinking its stupid or lame, then that is dis-respect. I'd agree with this if it was worded like 'More people need to say what they truly think', but I think you sort of missed the mark, OP.", ">\n\nI am equally annoyed when folks rapidly blink and look away mid conversation or drop their arm dead against their thigh. It’s like you’ve given up an effort to even keep your body vertical and engaged while I’m talking to you.", ">\n\nOP getting downvoted AF & keeps commenting. Gotta love it.", ">\n\nIt is shown as a sign of disrespect and it shows weakness. I can’t imagine Gandhi, the queen of England or Einstein roll their eyes in front of random people. The reason why they were respected is because they didn’t play any superiority game on front of… inferiors or ignorant people. If something is stupid, get the patience and find enough love within yourself to treat the other ones right. \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a child because his question is “stupid”, what parent does it make you ? \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a bad question because you are an expert in a subject, then it is not your modesty that speaks but your ego. For proof : Even if someone you hate said something intelligent, you might want to roll your eyes just to flatter your ego.", ">\n\nIt's seen as disrespectful BECAUSE it's inadvertently telling them you think they're irritating/annoying.", ">\n\nI never roll my eyes? Is that something people do naturally?", ">\n\nAll depends on the context of what is going on.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is not a natural reaction?", ">\n\nNot maintaining basic self control is disrespectful. It's the same reason we don't defecate in public, sneeze on people, or stand in the way of foot traffic.", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s and one of my tics is eye rolling", ">\n\nK", ">\n\nI accidentally roll my eyes at people sometimes when I'm not even trying to", ">\n\nThe sign of a true unpopular opinion: Nobody upvoting it, but everybody commenting to say how they disagree. If you disagree, then give it an upvote. That's the point of this sub.", ">\n\nI think it depends.", ">\n\nThis had to be written by someone under the age of 25", ">\n\nRolling your eyes isn’t natural though. It’s cultural or socially learned if that makes sense. Like if you rolled your eyes at a tribe that is disconnected from society they wouldn’t understand that you’re annoyed. So you cant really compare it to laughing.", ">\n\nI'm kind of curious if this is true though. Are you assuming this, or do you have some kind of study proving this? I'd actually like to see if your hypothesis is true, or if remote tribes also use this facial gesture.", ">\n\nI’m assuming it. Back in my country Turkey if you rolled your eyes at my grandparents they would be confused and wonder what you were doing and what it meant.", ">\n\nit's a maturity thing, keep rolling your eyes at 30-40, everyone gonna see you like a kid. \nyou gotta control your emotions, there's no need to do a expression when something is stupid or lame, you got a mouth and you respectfully share what's wrong, if the person in the other end is reluctant to stay on the same boat even after you talk about it. then you don't roll your eyes, you gotta say that there's nothing more you can do, and that you don't agree with it, and most likely leave to dodge any sort of problem.", ">\n\nI have a tic where I constantly roll my eyes. I’ve had it since I was little, but never noticed it until years later when I high school teacher yelled at me for disrespect. Apparently my parents took me for evaluation when I was very young and diagnosed Tourette’s but never had any other tics develop. Would have been nice to know 🤦🏼‍♀️ I just apologize now and say it’s a compulsion if people ask. I don’t even know when I’m doing it", ">\n\nIs laughing disrespectful? Because it can be. Just like rolling your eyes can be. There is a time and place for everything", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a passive aggressive response. Passive aggression is a tactic used by meek people who are frustrated and don’t have the courage to address a given situation. It’s disrespectful and it lowers your standing in the social hierarchy.", ">\n\nGet back to me when Disney Dad actively encourages your offspring to roll their eyes at you.", ">\n\nYeah it is when I want to be disrespectful to someone I roll my eyes when they make a point. It might be annoying to them, but it also let's them know I don't give a shit about whatever they just said. Now, I would never to it to my boss, or my teachers while I was in college, but when I was a teen I did it all the time because I was an asshole, who didn't care. \nIt's not a natural reaction lmao, it is learned behavior and it can be a bad habit, but it can be unlearned.", ">\n\nSome people can’t control it I know with me sometimes I roll my eyes without meaning too it’s not that I’m trying to be rude it’s just something I didn’t even realize I was doing nor did I mean too", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nI have a friend who thinks like you do, which is based on your responses to the comments. He has very poor social skills and is on the autism spectrum", ">\n\nI bet you're lots of fun at parties OP.", ">\n\nI can’t tell if this is farming karma with ridiculous opinions or if this individual just has a really hard time understanding that maybe their parents aren’t always the bad guys.", ">\n\nYep, thats definitely an unpopular opinion! \nIts certainly disrespectful. And most certainly not some sort of involuntary response like a sneeze. It may feel that way to you, because you've done it so much - but there are plenty of people who don't do it. UNLIKE people who don't sneeze at pepper, or cough at dust. Like, you're just plain wrong on this one. Moreover, I think you're trying to justify/rationalize it yourself rather than address it in a healthy way - a marker suggesting you have some narcissistic tendencies.", ">\n\nWhat a stupid argument, take your upvote", ">\n\nIt’s a sign of contempt. The facial expression expert Dr. Eikman could predict how long a barrage would last based on 4 expressions and the frequency used when the couple was interviewed. Eye rolling was one.. in fact you could remove the others and still reasonably predict marriage failures.", ">\n\nI wish it wasn’t disrespectful, because as an expressive person I LOVE a good eye roll. But, it has gotten me into trouble. I do it without even knowing it. I hate that I do… I wish sometimes I could be stone cold. Just like a fish. One expression face only. Blank fish eyes staring into nothingness.\nMy favourite mug says, “I can’t help what my face does when you talk”. There is a reason the the mug is meant to be cheeky.", ">\n\nSeems disrespectful to me because my eyes don't roll on their own, it would be a conscious act.", ">\n\nThis is 100% based on the premis that you can’t control your eyes. Rolling your eyes isn’t a natural movement. You control it.\nLaughing and crying aren’t necessarily controllable.", ">\n\nIn addition to this:\nfinding something somebody said stupid isnt disrespectful - makin fun in an exaggerated way, call em out in a mean way, or think everything they're gonna say next is bs is the disrespectful part.", ">\n\nSo your reaction is because you think someone is stupid, but thinking they are stupid isn't disrespectful?", ">\n\nThis, i agree with", ">\n\nGuess my mom didn't get the memo.", ">\n\nI don't think rolling your eyes is natural. I did wrong all the way up until last year. Thought you were supposed to make your eyes go in a circular motion 😂", ">\n\nFr. I may be able to control what I say…but my face will always show how I feel😂can’t help it and I’m tired of fake apologizing for it.", ">\n\nI don’t think rolling your eyes is a natural reaction the same way crying and laughing are. The only times I’ve rolled my eyes are when I intended to.", ">\n\nWhen my dad was/is drunk and angry he does it. Disrespectful and does not feel nice.", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nLol go to your room", ">\n\nWhat a dingbat. lol", ">\n\nNah it's kinda rude. Hardly the worst thing ever though. Sometimes though, people roll their eyes to actually think about what they are going to say, though; it's an important thing to distinguish.", ">\n\nI mean, its entire function as an expression is disrespect. that's literally the whole point of rolling your eyes. Natural instinct or not, it still implies disrespect.", ">\n\nI used to roll my eyes often because I have bad eyeshit, and doing it relieved eye strain. I couldn't tell you the amount of times this got me in shit.", ">\n\nLaughing, crying… both can be controlled to an extent. Eye rolls can 100% be controlled. They aren’t a reflex. If they are in your case you should seek medical attention", ">\n\nIf you roll your eyes as an involuntary reaction. Please see a doctor", ">\n\nyour right this is an unpopular opinion but for a good fucking reason you have no soldi ground to stand on in any argument on this", ">\n\nOp- \"just because it means something disrespectful doesn't mean I should get yelled for choosing to roll my eyes.\"", ">\n\nMaybe if your 10 and don't understand social cues. Context is a big part tho, if it's you and your friends goofing off, maybe it's tolerable to bash one another. If it's parents trying to have a serious convo and your just an idiot about it, then it's a problem.", ">\n\nwhat's popular isn't always right\nwhat's right isn't always popular\nyour opinion and the sub checkout OP, good job!", ">\n\nI agree it’s a pretty natural reaction when people or a given situation is unreasonable. The other options are usually to laugh or get angry. It’s even funnier when Karen’s get mad at it. Keeping a poker face at times just isn’t possible. I feel redeemed when someone being a unreasonable jackass and they get upset by my 🙄. Most people say nothing and I think accept it anyway.", ">", ">\n\nYou’ve convinced me", ">\n\nnah it's making e an active effort to use body language to convey your sentiment", ">\n\nThis reminds me of when I coached third grade volleyball and I told a girl not to roll her eyes and she said “I was born like that. I can’t help it.”" ]
> Is an eye roll just looking up quickly in an exasperated manner or is it moving your view line around a cone?	[ "🙄", ">\n\nYou’re grounded now", ">\n\nThe post above was someone getting electrocuted so this reply was very timely", ">\n\nThis news is shocking", ">\n\nIt definitely SPARKED my interest", ">\n\nAll of you guys need to leave, and not come back before learning how to conduct yourselves properly", ">\n\nUhhhh....... electricity", ">\n\nWell no, in the right context it is disrespectful. Rolling your eyes suggests that you're not taking the matter seriously or that you dont care which is a sign of disrespect towards whoever is speaking with you.", ">\n\nBut I can't control what I think. If I said \"man you're stupid and I don't care what you say\" thats disrespectful. I'm actually showing respect by not saying it.", ">\n\nI mean, actions speak louder than words, right?", ">\n\nIts not really an action tho its just an automatic response. Like gasping or yawning.", ">\n\nbullshit.\nSorry, it was an automatic response. Which is bullshit just like yours.", ">\n\nStill not the same thing. And they get on me for false analogies....", ">\n\nYou must be a teenager", ">\n\nLol how many times are you gonna post that. Dont you have an original thought of your own?", ">\n\nBruh I cant believe you make these posts. They're foolish", ">\n\nLaughing at someone can be disrespectful. Don't think so? Try laughing at someone's funeral.", ">\n\nThe disrespect comes from the one who told me a joke and made me laugh.", ">\n\nWhat about if no one said any joke? Because, you know, you are at a funeral.", ">\n\nSo someone's just there randomly laughing at shit? That sounds like a mental illness.", ">\n\nYou have never thought of something funny in your head to make yourself laugh? \nOr hell, maybe you didn't like the person who is buried and decided to laugh at them. You find it funny, so laughing must be appropriate, right?", ">\n\nWhy am I thinking about funny shit at a funeral.", ">\n\nBecause the universe likes to put us in uncomfortable positions sometimes.", ">\n\n“if its stupid or lame, you roll your eyes” - you found the disrespect", ">\n\nIm allowed to think whatever i want and its not disrespectful.", ">\n\nWhen you express contempt for something someone else said, it's disrespect.", ">\n\nWhat if what they said is contemptible?", ">\n\nSome people and comments deserve disrespect, still gonna be disrespect", ">\n\nLaughing, crying, and sneezing are all innate, involuntary reactions to certain types of stimuli. Rolling your eyes is a learned behavior. You can’t compare it to those other automatic responses because it’s not the same thing.", ">\n\nTake my upvote", ">\n\nOP rolled their eyes at someone and got chewed out for it.\nNow they're going online in an attempt to validate themselves.\n🙄", ">\n\nProbably got grounded.", ">\n\nPart of being a mature adult is to have self-control and not acting on every impulse and being respectful of people.", ">\n\n\nPart of being a mature adult\n\nYup but OP is clearly a teenager lol. They complain about being told off for doing chores wrong in another post…", ">\n\nEven a teenager should be able to have the fundamental basics of respect", ">\n\nOh I agree 100%", ">\n\nYou have poor self-control and poor self-awareness but the good news is that you can improve these things.", ">\n\n/r/wrongopinions", ">\n\nI feel like we need a new subreddit r/unpopularforareason", ">\n\nIt’s entire purpose is to be disrespectful. Nobody eyerolls something they respect. But how offensive it is depends on the context and how serious one is being.", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes\n\nYou rn: \"I'm not being disrespectful. I just thought what you said was stupid or lame.\"\n...", ">\n\nSaying its stupid could be disrespectful. A facial response is not.", ">\n\nLiterally every person in this thread agrees that it is.\nThis is your bad habit. Nobody else's responsibility but you.", ">\n\nThey can choose to not fly off the handle at what is just an innate reaction.", ">\n\nSo let me get this straight: you think you deserve to be able to disrespect whoever you like whenever you like but they can't as much as say you're being rude? Grow up.", ">\n\nFound the teenager.", ">\n\nMeh, I agree with that one. If you don't like how someone is doing something then do it yourself. There's a reason I live alone.", ">\n\nIt is a UNIVERSAL sign of disrespect. Globally. Deal with it.", ">\n\nLaughing can be disrespectuful too. If you cannot control your own reactions, well, what can I say, maybe you have not really grown up?", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s so it’s hard to control my own actions sometimes…", ">\n\nThank u I'm trying to explain how autism can make it hard to read not just others facial expressions but also ur own and it seems like no one has thought of the possibility that they acc don't realise it or csnt control it", ">\n\nWould you roll your eyes during a job interview if you thought a question was stupid or irrelevant? Do you think you’d get the job if you did?", ">\n\nPretty sure OP would think they were owed that job and they would think it’s ridiculous if they didn’t get it.\nOP is also a teenager going through their rebel phase though", ">\n\nYou're oddly specific here.", ">\n\nWhat was specific? Or rather oddly specific?", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a good way to fast track yourself to a divorce, if you want one.", ">\n\nI think OP needs the definition of respect before any further comment is made", ">\n\nOh I already know it, and I know it does not mean:\nDon't ever disagree with me\nDon't think bad thoughts about me\nDon't ever correct me when I'm blatantly wrong \nShine my boots with your tongue", ">\n\nSoooo this post isn’t about eye rolling is what I’m getting from this. You’ve got issues to work through with your parents or partner or something", ">\n\nSince when tf was eye rolling involuntary?", ">", ">\n\nYour lack of self control is not a justification for disrespect. I personally dont know anyone who reacts to anything by rolling their eyes. Just be mature and communicate.", ">\n\nAnd what if it's not stupid and someone rolls their eyes? Wouldn't it be disrespectful in that case?", ">\n\nIn the eye rollers opinion then it must have been. But you can't fault someone for thinking its stupid.", ">\n\nSo eyerolling is some kind of exceptional thing that is free from criticism? \nIf one has the freedom to eye roll, then someone else has the freedom to criticize the eye roller right? \nOr is it your opinion that besides that everyone who sees an eye roller has to just stfu", ">\n\nMeh, it is disrespectful. It's a way to be disrespectful without having to say That's the dumbest thing I've heard all month, and everyone else who heard it is also dumber for hearing it as well.", ">\n\nBut I didn't say it that's the point.", ">\n\nJust cuz you don’t use words doesn’t mean it’s not disrespectful. Walking away while someone is talking to you, rolling your eyes, slapping someone, and starting to play a game on your phone while someone is talking to you are all disrespectful. It doesn’t matter that you didn’t say anything, your lack of respect still showed.", ">\n\nespecially the way theyre responding to comments", ">\n\nYeah, a natural reaction if you’ve never learned to manage your emotions as opposed to letting them run your life. I’m not talking about being totally monotone rational, either. You need to learn a balance between rational and emotional…which includes healthy, appropriate, respectful expression of honest feelings. Eye rolling is absolutely disrespectful, belittling, and dismissive.", ">\n\nComments: OP is completely wrong and has attitude issues", ">\n\nWhat sounds like mental illness is you refusing to admit that rolling your eyes is simply not an unconditional response. Whether you want to believe it or not, you are doing it intentionally and you can control it. \nYou’re just to much of a b—— to do so.", ">\n\nSame to you", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a learned reaction. Not natural. I rarely of ever roll my eyes at anything.", ">", ">\n\nJust like raising your middle finger. Or vocalizing the sounds \"fuck you\". Or fingers typing the words fuck you OP. Nothing is disrespectful!", ">\n\nNice try but not the same thing at all. You're talking about thought out actions here. The eye roll is more like a reaction. Its quick, its automatic, no one has to think \"im rolling my eyes now\" it just happens. \nSort of like when telling a lie - no one decides to have their eyes dart around suspiciously, it just happens.", ">\n\nNo. Rolling your eyes is not involuntary. It can be controlled. You have a bad habit that you CAN stop. Much like a child learning not to suck their thumb, or biting your nails.", ">\n\nHow about you start with your hair scratching", ">\n\nYour opinion is a contradiction in itself. And, yeah. I disagree. Rolling your eyes is 100% to show lack of respect, and you have no intentions of showing it, even to reason, by rolling your eyes at something someone could believe is meaningful or important. Even if it is stupid.\nI get your point, we roll our eyes to express how we feel, but it is still a physical snare. You say rolling your eyes isn't disrespectful, while saying it's okay to roll your eyes because something is \" stupid or lame\", which in itself is disrespectful. You sound like a very young person in the middle of a learning moment, and you're trying to react with rebellion. It only shows that you lack maturity and are in need of growth. This might be a time for you to read these comments and reevaluate. There are healthier ways to react to things you disagree with, or lack interest in. If not, you can just accept that you roll your eyes to show lack of respect.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is much more deliberate than laughter, tears, or sneezing. It's a conscious action in response to a judgement you're making.", ">\n\nNah, dude it is disrespectful \nYou just have no self control and by the looks of it you don't want to build some", ">\n\nYour post made me roll my eyes very hard.", ">\n\n“No, officer, my wife - she MADE me hit her!”", ">\n\nIt's a natural reaction for a sooky kid but not an adult, if you do that as an adult you just manchild that wants everything their way", ">\n\npoor OP.... did you get in trouble after you rolled your eyes at something again? did you not prehaps learn from previous interactions? rolling your eyes at something \"stupid or lame\" is an intentional response that is disrespectful to whatever it is. mature people dont act that way.....", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes.\n\nSo it is disrespectful. \n\nIts like throwing pepper in someone's face an expecting them not to sneeze.\n\nNo it’s not. You can easily (edited in) refrain from rolling your eyes, while it’s much more difficult to refrain from sneezing. \nIt’s fine to think whatever you want, but you might want to refrain from rolling your eyes when you’re, say, interacting with your boss; aka someone that can make you unemployed for whatever reason they please.", ">\n\nThis isn't an opinion. It's just flat wrong. \nIt is disrespectful because it is a conscious signifier which clearly communicated that you think that the thing you are rolling your eyes at is not worthy of respect.", ">\n\nYou have to go out of your way to roll your eyes. It is NOT gutteral or instinctual", ">\n\nIf you annoy me, my arm whips out in a natural reaction and slaps you.", ">\n\nSorry, kiddo, it’s 100% disrespectful. Just own the shit and quit trying to lawyer around it.\nI say that after having rolled my eyes so hard at your post, I travelled back in time.", ">\n\nTell that to my family lol you get the belt", ">\n\nThis was made my a 15 year old who just got told off by their mom about rolling their eyes. Then in defense said, “I can’t control it”", ">\n\nMan it's getting so aggressive sometimes here 😂", ">\n\ni certainly hope you are embarrassed about this in a couple years when you grow up.", ">\n\nOP is a habitual eye roller 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄", ">\n\nI wish to God we could block people by age, no more edgy 13yo’s", ">\n\nSomebody just got their ps5 taken away for rolling their eyes", ">\n\nTell me you're 12 without telling me you're 12.", ">\n\nit’s the definition of disrespectful and a sign that you have literally nothing intelligent to say in return. \nwhich is why we outgrow it as adults.", ">\n\nYou can control it. It’s not an “automatic response” unless you’ve taught yourself to do it. I never roll my eyes. It’s just not something I have ever practiced doing. And yes…if I’m saying something too you and you dismiss it with an eye roll…it’s super disrespectful.", ">\n\nrolling your eyes is just as respectful as sticking your tongue out at someone or making a stupid face in reaction to something someone says", ">\n\nIf you can’t control your eye movement, you need to see a neurologist, dude 😆. As it stands, eye rolling isn’t a reflex or a “natural reaction” to anything. Habits aren’t the same as involuntary reactions.\nRolling your eyes at someone is disrespectful. It’s an outward sign that you think something about your interaction with them was stupid or wrong. There’s no one here that will agree with you, and you know that you’re in the vast minority with this opinion because you posted it on this sub. Now learn some humility and accept that your opinion is factually incorrect based on science.", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nAre you like 14 and your mom got you in trouble cause you rolled your eyes at her? Lmao", ">\n\nI’m gonna show your mom this and it’s going to be another week of being grounded, you little shit lol", ">\n\nOmfg 😂", ">\n\nOP I have to ask.\n\n\nHow old are you?\n\n\nHow is your relationship with your parents?\n\n\nHow do you view authority figures in your life?", ">\n\nrolls eyes", ">\n\nIf you say or demand something stupid from me I will probably roll my eyes.", ">\n\nBut it is", ">\n\nJust like rolling your eyes is an innate response, so are other people's responses to you rolling your eyes.", ">\n\nSometimes being respectful requires hiding your subjective opinion on whether something is stupid or lame.", ">\n\nI wouldn’t say eye rolling is as involuntary as laughing or crying tho. It’s more of a choice.", ">\n\nIf someone rolls their eyes then I feel disrespected it’s a natural reaction.", ">\n\ntell me you're a teenager without telling me you're a teenager", ">\n\nI'm rolling my eyes at this post. And I definitely mean it disrespectfully.", ">\n\nLmao this kid had an argument with his parent(s) or teacher and is venting on Reddit.", ">\n\nYou sound like an eye rolling arsehole", ">\n\ni have never had an as a nonvoulentary action, it requires very explicit movement of you eye. this is like saying “when i dont like people, i punch them in the head, thats my natural reaction i cant control it”\ni have never once legitimately rolled my eyes at something, i think you might be an asshole", ">\n\nMe smacking your face is also an innate uncontrollable response to you rolling your eyes. I'm only human. What can I do? 🙄", ">\n\nI disagree. also there are a billion other ways to express something being stupid or lame than rolling ur eyes", ">\n\nStop downvoting, this is ACTUALLY a very unpopular opinion and I love to see it tbh. Voice your disagreement in the comments but don't downvote the post. This post is hilarious.", ">\n\nThis is something you’ve learned to do. It’s entirely in your control if you do it or not.", ">\n\nI once got a detention for rolling my eyes at a teacher in 4th grade.\nI agree with you, though. The only other person I've ever really rolled my eyes at was my mother, and she deserved it, every single time.", ">\n\nI get your point. I absolutely purposefully roll my eyes sometimes and whoever I'm doing it to would be valid for getting mad. \nBut as someone who can't hide any emotion on their face (literally any, I'm the definition of an open book) there have been plenty of times where people blew up at me or laughed because I rolled my eyes when I didn't even realize I had done it. Feel like the people disagreeing with you haven't experienced this problem.", ">\n\nWhat you've done is cultivate a bad habit and then blamed it on everyone else when you repeat your own bad habit unintentionally.\nThis is entirely your fault.", ">\n\nOnly on Reddit would someone so boldly declare something like this to a stranger. I'm on the spectrum so that might have to do with my not being able to hide any emotion (I truly mean that, people can basically read my thoughts just by looking at me, good and bad). \nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave. Consider working on that.", ">\n\nSo they point out you’re cultivating a bad habit and blaming other people so you then, blame them? It’s a little spot on don’t you think?", ">\n\nWhen did i blame them for my own actions? Could you quote me? I was just pointing out how weird it was that they made such a strong assumption of my character off a causal comment I left when they themselves were ironically being unnecessarily rude in the process. \nI don't know how you got so lost?", ">\n\n\nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave.\n\nClassic deflection and implication that they’re the one with the problem, not you", ">\n\nFirst its not automatic. I almost never rolled my eyes. Its much easier to control than laughing crying or sneezing. So you just dont make the effort. Its actually a way to express your feeling. You should know that, its your personnality not a human instinctive reaction. \nAnd yes not respecting something is disrespectful. Its not that hard to understand. \nAnyway if i see you.. i dont know having a breakdown after being fired and dumped and start to laugh you'd like that ? \nIf im sad because something good happens to you and show it to you, you would like that ? \nHonestly you are just trying to justify being a bit of a jerk. \nI dont blame you or anything we all are jerks sometime but its what you are doing right now.", ">\n\nI have to refocus my eyes and most of the time blinking doesn’t cut it. I have a lazy eye and when I look at someone for a long time it unfocuses, so moving the muscle is the only way to reset it. If I don’t, people start moving their heads/ bodies trying to focus on my lazy eye. It gets awkward.", ">\n\nThis is where I go to my training as a kid. What others think of you is none of your business.", ">\n\nUnless you have a tick or something like Tourette’s syndrome, then it’s not an involuntary response. Part of living in a society and not being considered rude is managing your body language.\nLet me put it this way. “Rudeness” in itself is a social concept. That means it’s decided by the perception of the masses, what we generally agree upon in terms of our symbols of communication, our customs, our beliefs, our values, etc. For you to say that rolling your eyes isn’t disrespectful is not objectively wrong. But according to the society you live in, it is wrong. In layman’s terms, the hill you’re dying on here is completely arbitrary, neither side will ever be truly correct but as long as you live in a society which feels this way then you will be beholden to it anyways.", ">\n\nTo be fair, if your thinking its stupid or lame, then that is dis-respect. I'd agree with this if it was worded like 'More people need to say what they truly think', but I think you sort of missed the mark, OP.", ">\n\nI am equally annoyed when folks rapidly blink and look away mid conversation or drop their arm dead against their thigh. It’s like you’ve given up an effort to even keep your body vertical and engaged while I’m talking to you.", ">\n\nOP getting downvoted AF & keeps commenting. Gotta love it.", ">\n\nIt is shown as a sign of disrespect and it shows weakness. I can’t imagine Gandhi, the queen of England or Einstein roll their eyes in front of random people. The reason why they were respected is because they didn’t play any superiority game on front of… inferiors or ignorant people. If something is stupid, get the patience and find enough love within yourself to treat the other ones right. \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a child because his question is “stupid”, what parent does it make you ? \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a bad question because you are an expert in a subject, then it is not your modesty that speaks but your ego. For proof : Even if someone you hate said something intelligent, you might want to roll your eyes just to flatter your ego.", ">\n\nIt's seen as disrespectful BECAUSE it's inadvertently telling them you think they're irritating/annoying.", ">\n\nI never roll my eyes? Is that something people do naturally?", ">\n\nAll depends on the context of what is going on.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is not a natural reaction?", ">\n\nNot maintaining basic self control is disrespectful. It's the same reason we don't defecate in public, sneeze on people, or stand in the way of foot traffic.", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s and one of my tics is eye rolling", ">\n\nK", ">\n\nI accidentally roll my eyes at people sometimes when I'm not even trying to", ">\n\nThe sign of a true unpopular opinion: Nobody upvoting it, but everybody commenting to say how they disagree. If you disagree, then give it an upvote. That's the point of this sub.", ">\n\nI think it depends.", ">\n\nThis had to be written by someone under the age of 25", ">\n\nRolling your eyes isn’t natural though. It’s cultural or socially learned if that makes sense. Like if you rolled your eyes at a tribe that is disconnected from society they wouldn’t understand that you’re annoyed. So you cant really compare it to laughing.", ">\n\nI'm kind of curious if this is true though. Are you assuming this, or do you have some kind of study proving this? I'd actually like to see if your hypothesis is true, or if remote tribes also use this facial gesture.", ">\n\nI’m assuming it. Back in my country Turkey if you rolled your eyes at my grandparents they would be confused and wonder what you were doing and what it meant.", ">\n\nit's a maturity thing, keep rolling your eyes at 30-40, everyone gonna see you like a kid. \nyou gotta control your emotions, there's no need to do a expression when something is stupid or lame, you got a mouth and you respectfully share what's wrong, if the person in the other end is reluctant to stay on the same boat even after you talk about it. then you don't roll your eyes, you gotta say that there's nothing more you can do, and that you don't agree with it, and most likely leave to dodge any sort of problem.", ">\n\nI have a tic where I constantly roll my eyes. I’ve had it since I was little, but never noticed it until years later when I high school teacher yelled at me for disrespect. Apparently my parents took me for evaluation when I was very young and diagnosed Tourette’s but never had any other tics develop. Would have been nice to know 🤦🏼‍♀️ I just apologize now and say it’s a compulsion if people ask. I don’t even know when I’m doing it", ">\n\nIs laughing disrespectful? Because it can be. Just like rolling your eyes can be. There is a time and place for everything", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a passive aggressive response. Passive aggression is a tactic used by meek people who are frustrated and don’t have the courage to address a given situation. It’s disrespectful and it lowers your standing in the social hierarchy.", ">\n\nGet back to me when Disney Dad actively encourages your offspring to roll their eyes at you.", ">\n\nYeah it is when I want to be disrespectful to someone I roll my eyes when they make a point. It might be annoying to them, but it also let's them know I don't give a shit about whatever they just said. Now, I would never to it to my boss, or my teachers while I was in college, but when I was a teen I did it all the time because I was an asshole, who didn't care. \nIt's not a natural reaction lmao, it is learned behavior and it can be a bad habit, but it can be unlearned.", ">\n\nSome people can’t control it I know with me sometimes I roll my eyes without meaning too it’s not that I’m trying to be rude it’s just something I didn’t even realize I was doing nor did I mean too", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nI have a friend who thinks like you do, which is based on your responses to the comments. He has very poor social skills and is on the autism spectrum", ">\n\nI bet you're lots of fun at parties OP.", ">\n\nI can’t tell if this is farming karma with ridiculous opinions or if this individual just has a really hard time understanding that maybe their parents aren’t always the bad guys.", ">\n\nYep, thats definitely an unpopular opinion! \nIts certainly disrespectful. And most certainly not some sort of involuntary response like a sneeze. It may feel that way to you, because you've done it so much - but there are plenty of people who don't do it. UNLIKE people who don't sneeze at pepper, or cough at dust. Like, you're just plain wrong on this one. Moreover, I think you're trying to justify/rationalize it yourself rather than address it in a healthy way - a marker suggesting you have some narcissistic tendencies.", ">\n\nWhat a stupid argument, take your upvote", ">\n\nIt’s a sign of contempt. The facial expression expert Dr. Eikman could predict how long a barrage would last based on 4 expressions and the frequency used when the couple was interviewed. Eye rolling was one.. in fact you could remove the others and still reasonably predict marriage failures.", ">\n\nI wish it wasn’t disrespectful, because as an expressive person I LOVE a good eye roll. But, it has gotten me into trouble. I do it without even knowing it. I hate that I do… I wish sometimes I could be stone cold. Just like a fish. One expression face only. Blank fish eyes staring into nothingness.\nMy favourite mug says, “I can’t help what my face does when you talk”. There is a reason the the mug is meant to be cheeky.", ">\n\nSeems disrespectful to me because my eyes don't roll on their own, it would be a conscious act.", ">\n\nThis is 100% based on the premis that you can’t control your eyes. Rolling your eyes isn’t a natural movement. You control it.\nLaughing and crying aren’t necessarily controllable.", ">\n\nIn addition to this:\nfinding something somebody said stupid isnt disrespectful - makin fun in an exaggerated way, call em out in a mean way, or think everything they're gonna say next is bs is the disrespectful part.", ">\n\nSo your reaction is because you think someone is stupid, but thinking they are stupid isn't disrespectful?", ">\n\nThis, i agree with", ">\n\nGuess my mom didn't get the memo.", ">\n\nI don't think rolling your eyes is natural. I did wrong all the way up until last year. Thought you were supposed to make your eyes go in a circular motion 😂", ">\n\nFr. I may be able to control what I say…but my face will always show how I feel😂can’t help it and I’m tired of fake apologizing for it.", ">\n\nI don’t think rolling your eyes is a natural reaction the same way crying and laughing are. The only times I’ve rolled my eyes are when I intended to.", ">\n\nWhen my dad was/is drunk and angry he does it. Disrespectful and does not feel nice.", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nLol go to your room", ">\n\nWhat a dingbat. lol", ">\n\nNah it's kinda rude. Hardly the worst thing ever though. Sometimes though, people roll their eyes to actually think about what they are going to say, though; it's an important thing to distinguish.", ">\n\nI mean, its entire function as an expression is disrespect. that's literally the whole point of rolling your eyes. Natural instinct or not, it still implies disrespect.", ">\n\nI used to roll my eyes often because I have bad eyeshit, and doing it relieved eye strain. I couldn't tell you the amount of times this got me in shit.", ">\n\nLaughing, crying… both can be controlled to an extent. Eye rolls can 100% be controlled. They aren’t a reflex. If they are in your case you should seek medical attention", ">\n\nIf you roll your eyes as an involuntary reaction. Please see a doctor", ">\n\nyour right this is an unpopular opinion but for a good fucking reason you have no soldi ground to stand on in any argument on this", ">\n\nOp- \"just because it means something disrespectful doesn't mean I should get yelled for choosing to roll my eyes.\"", ">\n\nMaybe if your 10 and don't understand social cues. Context is a big part tho, if it's you and your friends goofing off, maybe it's tolerable to bash one another. If it's parents trying to have a serious convo and your just an idiot about it, then it's a problem.", ">\n\nwhat's popular isn't always right\nwhat's right isn't always popular\nyour opinion and the sub checkout OP, good job!", ">\n\nI agree it’s a pretty natural reaction when people or a given situation is unreasonable. The other options are usually to laugh or get angry. It’s even funnier when Karen’s get mad at it. Keeping a poker face at times just isn’t possible. I feel redeemed when someone being a unreasonable jackass and they get upset by my 🙄. Most people say nothing and I think accept it anyway.", ">", ">\n\nYou’ve convinced me", ">\n\nnah it's making e an active effort to use body language to convey your sentiment", ">\n\nThis reminds me of when I coached third grade volleyball and I told a girl not to roll her eyes and she said “I was born like that. I can’t help it.”", ">\n\ni would say the same thing." ]
> wow an actual unpopular opinion. i don’t agree with it but good on you for actually having one on this sub.	[ "🙄", ">\n\nYou’re grounded now", ">\n\nThe post above was someone getting electrocuted so this reply was very timely", ">\n\nThis news is shocking", ">\n\nIt definitely SPARKED my interest", ">\n\nAll of you guys need to leave, and not come back before learning how to conduct yourselves properly", ">\n\nUhhhh....... electricity", ">\n\nWell no, in the right context it is disrespectful. Rolling your eyes suggests that you're not taking the matter seriously or that you dont care which is a sign of disrespect towards whoever is speaking with you.", ">\n\nBut I can't control what I think. If I said \"man you're stupid and I don't care what you say\" thats disrespectful. I'm actually showing respect by not saying it.", ">\n\nI mean, actions speak louder than words, right?", ">\n\nIts not really an action tho its just an automatic response. Like gasping or yawning.", ">\n\nbullshit.\nSorry, it was an automatic response. Which is bullshit just like yours.", ">\n\nStill not the same thing. And they get on me for false analogies....", ">\n\nYou must be a teenager", ">\n\nLol how many times are you gonna post that. Dont you have an original thought of your own?", ">\n\nBruh I cant believe you make these posts. They're foolish", ">\n\nLaughing at someone can be disrespectful. Don't think so? Try laughing at someone's funeral.", ">\n\nThe disrespect comes from the one who told me a joke and made me laugh.", ">\n\nWhat about if no one said any joke? Because, you know, you are at a funeral.", ">\n\nSo someone's just there randomly laughing at shit? That sounds like a mental illness.", ">\n\nYou have never thought of something funny in your head to make yourself laugh? \nOr hell, maybe you didn't like the person who is buried and decided to laugh at them. You find it funny, so laughing must be appropriate, right?", ">\n\nWhy am I thinking about funny shit at a funeral.", ">\n\nBecause the universe likes to put us in uncomfortable positions sometimes.", ">\n\n“if its stupid or lame, you roll your eyes” - you found the disrespect", ">\n\nIm allowed to think whatever i want and its not disrespectful.", ">\n\nWhen you express contempt for something someone else said, it's disrespect.", ">\n\nWhat if what they said is contemptible?", ">\n\nSome people and comments deserve disrespect, still gonna be disrespect", ">\n\nLaughing, crying, and sneezing are all innate, involuntary reactions to certain types of stimuli. Rolling your eyes is a learned behavior. You can’t compare it to those other automatic responses because it’s not the same thing.", ">\n\nTake my upvote", ">\n\nOP rolled their eyes at someone and got chewed out for it.\nNow they're going online in an attempt to validate themselves.\n🙄", ">\n\nProbably got grounded.", ">\n\nPart of being a mature adult is to have self-control and not acting on every impulse and being respectful of people.", ">\n\n\nPart of being a mature adult\n\nYup but OP is clearly a teenager lol. They complain about being told off for doing chores wrong in another post…", ">\n\nEven a teenager should be able to have the fundamental basics of respect", ">\n\nOh I agree 100%", ">\n\nYou have poor self-control and poor self-awareness but the good news is that you can improve these things.", ">\n\n/r/wrongopinions", ">\n\nI feel like we need a new subreddit r/unpopularforareason", ">\n\nIt’s entire purpose is to be disrespectful. Nobody eyerolls something they respect. But how offensive it is depends on the context and how serious one is being.", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes\n\nYou rn: \"I'm not being disrespectful. I just thought what you said was stupid or lame.\"\n...", ">\n\nSaying its stupid could be disrespectful. A facial response is not.", ">\n\nLiterally every person in this thread agrees that it is.\nThis is your bad habit. Nobody else's responsibility but you.", ">\n\nThey can choose to not fly off the handle at what is just an innate reaction.", ">\n\nSo let me get this straight: you think you deserve to be able to disrespect whoever you like whenever you like but they can't as much as say you're being rude? Grow up.", ">\n\nFound the teenager.", ">\n\nMeh, I agree with that one. If you don't like how someone is doing something then do it yourself. There's a reason I live alone.", ">\n\nIt is a UNIVERSAL sign of disrespect. Globally. Deal with it.", ">\n\nLaughing can be disrespectuful too. If you cannot control your own reactions, well, what can I say, maybe you have not really grown up?", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s so it’s hard to control my own actions sometimes…", ">\n\nThank u I'm trying to explain how autism can make it hard to read not just others facial expressions but also ur own and it seems like no one has thought of the possibility that they acc don't realise it or csnt control it", ">\n\nWould you roll your eyes during a job interview if you thought a question was stupid or irrelevant? Do you think you’d get the job if you did?", ">\n\nPretty sure OP would think they were owed that job and they would think it’s ridiculous if they didn’t get it.\nOP is also a teenager going through their rebel phase though", ">\n\nYou're oddly specific here.", ">\n\nWhat was specific? Or rather oddly specific?", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a good way to fast track yourself to a divorce, if you want one.", ">\n\nI think OP needs the definition of respect before any further comment is made", ">\n\nOh I already know it, and I know it does not mean:\nDon't ever disagree with me\nDon't think bad thoughts about me\nDon't ever correct me when I'm blatantly wrong \nShine my boots with your tongue", ">\n\nSoooo this post isn’t about eye rolling is what I’m getting from this. You’ve got issues to work through with your parents or partner or something", ">\n\nSince when tf was eye rolling involuntary?", ">", ">\n\nYour lack of self control is not a justification for disrespect. I personally dont know anyone who reacts to anything by rolling their eyes. Just be mature and communicate.", ">\n\nAnd what if it's not stupid and someone rolls their eyes? Wouldn't it be disrespectful in that case?", ">\n\nIn the eye rollers opinion then it must have been. But you can't fault someone for thinking its stupid.", ">\n\nSo eyerolling is some kind of exceptional thing that is free from criticism? \nIf one has the freedom to eye roll, then someone else has the freedom to criticize the eye roller right? \nOr is it your opinion that besides that everyone who sees an eye roller has to just stfu", ">\n\nMeh, it is disrespectful. It's a way to be disrespectful without having to say That's the dumbest thing I've heard all month, and everyone else who heard it is also dumber for hearing it as well.", ">\n\nBut I didn't say it that's the point.", ">\n\nJust cuz you don’t use words doesn’t mean it’s not disrespectful. Walking away while someone is talking to you, rolling your eyes, slapping someone, and starting to play a game on your phone while someone is talking to you are all disrespectful. It doesn’t matter that you didn’t say anything, your lack of respect still showed.", ">\n\nespecially the way theyre responding to comments", ">\n\nYeah, a natural reaction if you’ve never learned to manage your emotions as opposed to letting them run your life. I’m not talking about being totally monotone rational, either. You need to learn a balance between rational and emotional…which includes healthy, appropriate, respectful expression of honest feelings. Eye rolling is absolutely disrespectful, belittling, and dismissive.", ">\n\nComments: OP is completely wrong and has attitude issues", ">\n\nWhat sounds like mental illness is you refusing to admit that rolling your eyes is simply not an unconditional response. Whether you want to believe it or not, you are doing it intentionally and you can control it. \nYou’re just to much of a b—— to do so.", ">\n\nSame to you", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a learned reaction. Not natural. I rarely of ever roll my eyes at anything.", ">", ">\n\nJust like raising your middle finger. Or vocalizing the sounds \"fuck you\". Or fingers typing the words fuck you OP. Nothing is disrespectful!", ">\n\nNice try but not the same thing at all. You're talking about thought out actions here. The eye roll is more like a reaction. Its quick, its automatic, no one has to think \"im rolling my eyes now\" it just happens. \nSort of like when telling a lie - no one decides to have their eyes dart around suspiciously, it just happens.", ">\n\nNo. Rolling your eyes is not involuntary. It can be controlled. You have a bad habit that you CAN stop. Much like a child learning not to suck their thumb, or biting your nails.", ">\n\nHow about you start with your hair scratching", ">\n\nYour opinion is a contradiction in itself. And, yeah. I disagree. Rolling your eyes is 100% to show lack of respect, and you have no intentions of showing it, even to reason, by rolling your eyes at something someone could believe is meaningful or important. Even if it is stupid.\nI get your point, we roll our eyes to express how we feel, but it is still a physical snare. You say rolling your eyes isn't disrespectful, while saying it's okay to roll your eyes because something is \" stupid or lame\", which in itself is disrespectful. You sound like a very young person in the middle of a learning moment, and you're trying to react with rebellion. It only shows that you lack maturity and are in need of growth. This might be a time for you to read these comments and reevaluate. There are healthier ways to react to things you disagree with, or lack interest in. If not, you can just accept that you roll your eyes to show lack of respect.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is much more deliberate than laughter, tears, or sneezing. It's a conscious action in response to a judgement you're making.", ">\n\nNah, dude it is disrespectful \nYou just have no self control and by the looks of it you don't want to build some", ">\n\nYour post made me roll my eyes very hard.", ">\n\n“No, officer, my wife - she MADE me hit her!”", ">\n\nIt's a natural reaction for a sooky kid but not an adult, if you do that as an adult you just manchild that wants everything their way", ">\n\npoor OP.... did you get in trouble after you rolled your eyes at something again? did you not prehaps learn from previous interactions? rolling your eyes at something \"stupid or lame\" is an intentional response that is disrespectful to whatever it is. mature people dont act that way.....", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes.\n\nSo it is disrespectful. \n\nIts like throwing pepper in someone's face an expecting them not to sneeze.\n\nNo it’s not. You can easily (edited in) refrain from rolling your eyes, while it’s much more difficult to refrain from sneezing. \nIt’s fine to think whatever you want, but you might want to refrain from rolling your eyes when you’re, say, interacting with your boss; aka someone that can make you unemployed for whatever reason they please.", ">\n\nThis isn't an opinion. It's just flat wrong. \nIt is disrespectful because it is a conscious signifier which clearly communicated that you think that the thing you are rolling your eyes at is not worthy of respect.", ">\n\nYou have to go out of your way to roll your eyes. It is NOT gutteral or instinctual", ">\n\nIf you annoy me, my arm whips out in a natural reaction and slaps you.", ">\n\nSorry, kiddo, it’s 100% disrespectful. Just own the shit and quit trying to lawyer around it.\nI say that after having rolled my eyes so hard at your post, I travelled back in time.", ">\n\nTell that to my family lol you get the belt", ">\n\nThis was made my a 15 year old who just got told off by their mom about rolling their eyes. Then in defense said, “I can’t control it”", ">\n\nMan it's getting so aggressive sometimes here 😂", ">\n\ni certainly hope you are embarrassed about this in a couple years when you grow up.", ">\n\nOP is a habitual eye roller 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄", ">\n\nI wish to God we could block people by age, no more edgy 13yo’s", ">\n\nSomebody just got their ps5 taken away for rolling their eyes", ">\n\nTell me you're 12 without telling me you're 12.", ">\n\nit’s the definition of disrespectful and a sign that you have literally nothing intelligent to say in return. \nwhich is why we outgrow it as adults.", ">\n\nYou can control it. It’s not an “automatic response” unless you’ve taught yourself to do it. I never roll my eyes. It’s just not something I have ever practiced doing. And yes…if I’m saying something too you and you dismiss it with an eye roll…it’s super disrespectful.", ">\n\nrolling your eyes is just as respectful as sticking your tongue out at someone or making a stupid face in reaction to something someone says", ">\n\nIf you can’t control your eye movement, you need to see a neurologist, dude 😆. As it stands, eye rolling isn’t a reflex or a “natural reaction” to anything. Habits aren’t the same as involuntary reactions.\nRolling your eyes at someone is disrespectful. It’s an outward sign that you think something about your interaction with them was stupid or wrong. There’s no one here that will agree with you, and you know that you’re in the vast minority with this opinion because you posted it on this sub. Now learn some humility and accept that your opinion is factually incorrect based on science.", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nAre you like 14 and your mom got you in trouble cause you rolled your eyes at her? Lmao", ">\n\nI’m gonna show your mom this and it’s going to be another week of being grounded, you little shit lol", ">\n\nOmfg 😂", ">\n\nOP I have to ask.\n\n\nHow old are you?\n\n\nHow is your relationship with your parents?\n\n\nHow do you view authority figures in your life?", ">\n\nrolls eyes", ">\n\nIf you say or demand something stupid from me I will probably roll my eyes.", ">\n\nBut it is", ">\n\nJust like rolling your eyes is an innate response, so are other people's responses to you rolling your eyes.", ">\n\nSometimes being respectful requires hiding your subjective opinion on whether something is stupid or lame.", ">\n\nI wouldn’t say eye rolling is as involuntary as laughing or crying tho. It’s more of a choice.", ">\n\nIf someone rolls their eyes then I feel disrespected it’s a natural reaction.", ">\n\ntell me you're a teenager without telling me you're a teenager", ">\n\nI'm rolling my eyes at this post. And I definitely mean it disrespectfully.", ">\n\nLmao this kid had an argument with his parent(s) or teacher and is venting on Reddit.", ">\n\nYou sound like an eye rolling arsehole", ">\n\ni have never had an as a nonvoulentary action, it requires very explicit movement of you eye. this is like saying “when i dont like people, i punch them in the head, thats my natural reaction i cant control it”\ni have never once legitimately rolled my eyes at something, i think you might be an asshole", ">\n\nMe smacking your face is also an innate uncontrollable response to you rolling your eyes. I'm only human. What can I do? 🙄", ">\n\nI disagree. also there are a billion other ways to express something being stupid or lame than rolling ur eyes", ">\n\nStop downvoting, this is ACTUALLY a very unpopular opinion and I love to see it tbh. Voice your disagreement in the comments but don't downvote the post. This post is hilarious.", ">\n\nThis is something you’ve learned to do. It’s entirely in your control if you do it or not.", ">\n\nI once got a detention for rolling my eyes at a teacher in 4th grade.\nI agree with you, though. The only other person I've ever really rolled my eyes at was my mother, and she deserved it, every single time.", ">\n\nI get your point. I absolutely purposefully roll my eyes sometimes and whoever I'm doing it to would be valid for getting mad. \nBut as someone who can't hide any emotion on their face (literally any, I'm the definition of an open book) there have been plenty of times where people blew up at me or laughed because I rolled my eyes when I didn't even realize I had done it. Feel like the people disagreeing with you haven't experienced this problem.", ">\n\nWhat you've done is cultivate a bad habit and then blamed it on everyone else when you repeat your own bad habit unintentionally.\nThis is entirely your fault.", ">\n\nOnly on Reddit would someone so boldly declare something like this to a stranger. I'm on the spectrum so that might have to do with my not being able to hide any emotion (I truly mean that, people can basically read my thoughts just by looking at me, good and bad). \nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave. Consider working on that.", ">\n\nSo they point out you’re cultivating a bad habit and blaming other people so you then, blame them? It’s a little spot on don’t you think?", ">\n\nWhen did i blame them for my own actions? Could you quote me? I was just pointing out how weird it was that they made such a strong assumption of my character off a causal comment I left when they themselves were ironically being unnecessarily rude in the process. \nI don't know how you got so lost?", ">\n\n\nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave.\n\nClassic deflection and implication that they’re the one with the problem, not you", ">\n\nFirst its not automatic. I almost never rolled my eyes. Its much easier to control than laughing crying or sneezing. So you just dont make the effort. Its actually a way to express your feeling. You should know that, its your personnality not a human instinctive reaction. \nAnd yes not respecting something is disrespectful. Its not that hard to understand. \nAnyway if i see you.. i dont know having a breakdown after being fired and dumped and start to laugh you'd like that ? \nIf im sad because something good happens to you and show it to you, you would like that ? \nHonestly you are just trying to justify being a bit of a jerk. \nI dont blame you or anything we all are jerks sometime but its what you are doing right now.", ">\n\nI have to refocus my eyes and most of the time blinking doesn’t cut it. I have a lazy eye and when I look at someone for a long time it unfocuses, so moving the muscle is the only way to reset it. If I don’t, people start moving their heads/ bodies trying to focus on my lazy eye. It gets awkward.", ">\n\nThis is where I go to my training as a kid. What others think of you is none of your business.", ">\n\nUnless you have a tick or something like Tourette’s syndrome, then it’s not an involuntary response. Part of living in a society and not being considered rude is managing your body language.\nLet me put it this way. “Rudeness” in itself is a social concept. That means it’s decided by the perception of the masses, what we generally agree upon in terms of our symbols of communication, our customs, our beliefs, our values, etc. For you to say that rolling your eyes isn’t disrespectful is not objectively wrong. But according to the society you live in, it is wrong. In layman’s terms, the hill you’re dying on here is completely arbitrary, neither side will ever be truly correct but as long as you live in a society which feels this way then you will be beholden to it anyways.", ">\n\nTo be fair, if your thinking its stupid or lame, then that is dis-respect. I'd agree with this if it was worded like 'More people need to say what they truly think', but I think you sort of missed the mark, OP.", ">\n\nI am equally annoyed when folks rapidly blink and look away mid conversation or drop their arm dead against their thigh. It’s like you’ve given up an effort to even keep your body vertical and engaged while I’m talking to you.", ">\n\nOP getting downvoted AF & keeps commenting. Gotta love it.", ">\n\nIt is shown as a sign of disrespect and it shows weakness. I can’t imagine Gandhi, the queen of England or Einstein roll their eyes in front of random people. The reason why they were respected is because they didn’t play any superiority game on front of… inferiors or ignorant people. If something is stupid, get the patience and find enough love within yourself to treat the other ones right. \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a child because his question is “stupid”, what parent does it make you ? \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a bad question because you are an expert in a subject, then it is not your modesty that speaks but your ego. For proof : Even if someone you hate said something intelligent, you might want to roll your eyes just to flatter your ego.", ">\n\nIt's seen as disrespectful BECAUSE it's inadvertently telling them you think they're irritating/annoying.", ">\n\nI never roll my eyes? Is that something people do naturally?", ">\n\nAll depends on the context of what is going on.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is not a natural reaction?", ">\n\nNot maintaining basic self control is disrespectful. It's the same reason we don't defecate in public, sneeze on people, or stand in the way of foot traffic.", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s and one of my tics is eye rolling", ">\n\nK", ">\n\nI accidentally roll my eyes at people sometimes when I'm not even trying to", ">\n\nThe sign of a true unpopular opinion: Nobody upvoting it, but everybody commenting to say how they disagree. If you disagree, then give it an upvote. That's the point of this sub.", ">\n\nI think it depends.", ">\n\nThis had to be written by someone under the age of 25", ">\n\nRolling your eyes isn’t natural though. It’s cultural or socially learned if that makes sense. Like if you rolled your eyes at a tribe that is disconnected from society they wouldn’t understand that you’re annoyed. So you cant really compare it to laughing.", ">\n\nI'm kind of curious if this is true though. Are you assuming this, or do you have some kind of study proving this? I'd actually like to see if your hypothesis is true, or if remote tribes also use this facial gesture.", ">\n\nI’m assuming it. Back in my country Turkey if you rolled your eyes at my grandparents they would be confused and wonder what you were doing and what it meant.", ">\n\nit's a maturity thing, keep rolling your eyes at 30-40, everyone gonna see you like a kid. \nyou gotta control your emotions, there's no need to do a expression when something is stupid or lame, you got a mouth and you respectfully share what's wrong, if the person in the other end is reluctant to stay on the same boat even after you talk about it. then you don't roll your eyes, you gotta say that there's nothing more you can do, and that you don't agree with it, and most likely leave to dodge any sort of problem.", ">\n\nI have a tic where I constantly roll my eyes. I’ve had it since I was little, but never noticed it until years later when I high school teacher yelled at me for disrespect. Apparently my parents took me for evaluation when I was very young and diagnosed Tourette’s but never had any other tics develop. Would have been nice to know 🤦🏼‍♀️ I just apologize now and say it’s a compulsion if people ask. I don’t even know when I’m doing it", ">\n\nIs laughing disrespectful? Because it can be. Just like rolling your eyes can be. There is a time and place for everything", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a passive aggressive response. Passive aggression is a tactic used by meek people who are frustrated and don’t have the courage to address a given situation. It’s disrespectful and it lowers your standing in the social hierarchy.", ">\n\nGet back to me when Disney Dad actively encourages your offspring to roll their eyes at you.", ">\n\nYeah it is when I want to be disrespectful to someone I roll my eyes when they make a point. It might be annoying to them, but it also let's them know I don't give a shit about whatever they just said. Now, I would never to it to my boss, or my teachers while I was in college, but when I was a teen I did it all the time because I was an asshole, who didn't care. \nIt's not a natural reaction lmao, it is learned behavior and it can be a bad habit, but it can be unlearned.", ">\n\nSome people can’t control it I know with me sometimes I roll my eyes without meaning too it’s not that I’m trying to be rude it’s just something I didn’t even realize I was doing nor did I mean too", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nI have a friend who thinks like you do, which is based on your responses to the comments. He has very poor social skills and is on the autism spectrum", ">\n\nI bet you're lots of fun at parties OP.", ">\n\nI can’t tell if this is farming karma with ridiculous opinions or if this individual just has a really hard time understanding that maybe their parents aren’t always the bad guys.", ">\n\nYep, thats definitely an unpopular opinion! \nIts certainly disrespectful. And most certainly not some sort of involuntary response like a sneeze. It may feel that way to you, because you've done it so much - but there are plenty of people who don't do it. UNLIKE people who don't sneeze at pepper, or cough at dust. Like, you're just plain wrong on this one. Moreover, I think you're trying to justify/rationalize it yourself rather than address it in a healthy way - a marker suggesting you have some narcissistic tendencies.", ">\n\nWhat a stupid argument, take your upvote", ">\n\nIt’s a sign of contempt. The facial expression expert Dr. Eikman could predict how long a barrage would last based on 4 expressions and the frequency used when the couple was interviewed. Eye rolling was one.. in fact you could remove the others and still reasonably predict marriage failures.", ">\n\nI wish it wasn’t disrespectful, because as an expressive person I LOVE a good eye roll. But, it has gotten me into trouble. I do it without even knowing it. I hate that I do… I wish sometimes I could be stone cold. Just like a fish. One expression face only. Blank fish eyes staring into nothingness.\nMy favourite mug says, “I can’t help what my face does when you talk”. There is a reason the the mug is meant to be cheeky.", ">\n\nSeems disrespectful to me because my eyes don't roll on their own, it would be a conscious act.", ">\n\nThis is 100% based on the premis that you can’t control your eyes. Rolling your eyes isn’t a natural movement. You control it.\nLaughing and crying aren’t necessarily controllable.", ">\n\nIn addition to this:\nfinding something somebody said stupid isnt disrespectful - makin fun in an exaggerated way, call em out in a mean way, or think everything they're gonna say next is bs is the disrespectful part.", ">\n\nSo your reaction is because you think someone is stupid, but thinking they are stupid isn't disrespectful?", ">\n\nThis, i agree with", ">\n\nGuess my mom didn't get the memo.", ">\n\nI don't think rolling your eyes is natural. I did wrong all the way up until last year. Thought you were supposed to make your eyes go in a circular motion 😂", ">\n\nFr. I may be able to control what I say…but my face will always show how I feel😂can’t help it and I’m tired of fake apologizing for it.", ">\n\nI don’t think rolling your eyes is a natural reaction the same way crying and laughing are. The only times I’ve rolled my eyes are when I intended to.", ">\n\nWhen my dad was/is drunk and angry he does it. Disrespectful and does not feel nice.", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nLol go to your room", ">\n\nWhat a dingbat. lol", ">\n\nNah it's kinda rude. Hardly the worst thing ever though. Sometimes though, people roll their eyes to actually think about what they are going to say, though; it's an important thing to distinguish.", ">\n\nI mean, its entire function as an expression is disrespect. that's literally the whole point of rolling your eyes. Natural instinct or not, it still implies disrespect.", ">\n\nI used to roll my eyes often because I have bad eyeshit, and doing it relieved eye strain. I couldn't tell you the amount of times this got me in shit.", ">\n\nLaughing, crying… both can be controlled to an extent. Eye rolls can 100% be controlled. They aren’t a reflex. If they are in your case you should seek medical attention", ">\n\nIf you roll your eyes as an involuntary reaction. Please see a doctor", ">\n\nyour right this is an unpopular opinion but for a good fucking reason you have no soldi ground to stand on in any argument on this", ">\n\nOp- \"just because it means something disrespectful doesn't mean I should get yelled for choosing to roll my eyes.\"", ">\n\nMaybe if your 10 and don't understand social cues. Context is a big part tho, if it's you and your friends goofing off, maybe it's tolerable to bash one another. If it's parents trying to have a serious convo and your just an idiot about it, then it's a problem.", ">\n\nwhat's popular isn't always right\nwhat's right isn't always popular\nyour opinion and the sub checkout OP, good job!", ">\n\nI agree it’s a pretty natural reaction when people or a given situation is unreasonable. The other options are usually to laugh or get angry. It’s even funnier when Karen’s get mad at it. Keeping a poker face at times just isn’t possible. I feel redeemed when someone being a unreasonable jackass and they get upset by my 🙄. Most people say nothing and I think accept it anyway.", ">", ">\n\nYou’ve convinced me", ">\n\nnah it's making e an active effort to use body language to convey your sentiment", ">\n\nThis reminds me of when I coached third grade volleyball and I told a girl not to roll her eyes and she said “I was born like that. I can’t help it.”", ">\n\ni would say the same thing.", ">\n\nIs an eye roll just looking up quickly in an exasperated manner or is it moving your view line around a cone?" ]
> It is a reaction that takes thought and voluntary physicality to perform. If you chose to roll your eyes you are saying to someone that you think less of them or their opinion. It is like shaking your head from side to side, or like wagging your finger from side to side, it is a reaction you can make but it is your choice to do so. There is no environmental reason to roll your eyes: -When lightning strikes, you jump, you don't roll your eyes. -When you have pepper thrown in your face, you blink and might sneeze, you don't roll your eyes. -When you eat something really disgusting, you gag or vomit, you don't roll your eyes. -When you get punched hard in the face, you cry, you don't roll your eyes. You could roll your eyes at any of these events. BUT that is a SARCASTIC response. Not a natural or normal response to an event. You're just a loser who's trying to justify their shitty behaviour. Grow up and stop rolling your eyes, I personally haven't done that since I was a child.	[ "🙄", ">\n\nYou’re grounded now", ">\n\nThe post above was someone getting electrocuted so this reply was very timely", ">\n\nThis news is shocking", ">\n\nIt definitely SPARKED my interest", ">\n\nAll of you guys need to leave, and not come back before learning how to conduct yourselves properly", ">\n\nUhhhh....... electricity", ">\n\nWell no, in the right context it is disrespectful. Rolling your eyes suggests that you're not taking the matter seriously or that you dont care which is a sign of disrespect towards whoever is speaking with you.", ">\n\nBut I can't control what I think. If I said \"man you're stupid and I don't care what you say\" thats disrespectful. I'm actually showing respect by not saying it.", ">\n\nI mean, actions speak louder than words, right?", ">\n\nIts not really an action tho its just an automatic response. Like gasping or yawning.", ">\n\nbullshit.\nSorry, it was an automatic response. Which is bullshit just like yours.", ">\n\nStill not the same thing. And they get on me for false analogies....", ">\n\nYou must be a teenager", ">\n\nLol how many times are you gonna post that. Dont you have an original thought of your own?", ">\n\nBruh I cant believe you make these posts. They're foolish", ">\n\nLaughing at someone can be disrespectful. Don't think so? Try laughing at someone's funeral.", ">\n\nThe disrespect comes from the one who told me a joke and made me laugh.", ">\n\nWhat about if no one said any joke? Because, you know, you are at a funeral.", ">\n\nSo someone's just there randomly laughing at shit? That sounds like a mental illness.", ">\n\nYou have never thought of something funny in your head to make yourself laugh? \nOr hell, maybe you didn't like the person who is buried and decided to laugh at them. You find it funny, so laughing must be appropriate, right?", ">\n\nWhy am I thinking about funny shit at a funeral.", ">\n\nBecause the universe likes to put us in uncomfortable positions sometimes.", ">\n\n“if its stupid or lame, you roll your eyes” - you found the disrespect", ">\n\nIm allowed to think whatever i want and its not disrespectful.", ">\n\nWhen you express contempt for something someone else said, it's disrespect.", ">\n\nWhat if what they said is contemptible?", ">\n\nSome people and comments deserve disrespect, still gonna be disrespect", ">\n\nLaughing, crying, and sneezing are all innate, involuntary reactions to certain types of stimuli. Rolling your eyes is a learned behavior. You can’t compare it to those other automatic responses because it’s not the same thing.", ">\n\nTake my upvote", ">\n\nOP rolled their eyes at someone and got chewed out for it.\nNow they're going online in an attempt to validate themselves.\n🙄", ">\n\nProbably got grounded.", ">\n\nPart of being a mature adult is to have self-control and not acting on every impulse and being respectful of people.", ">\n\n\nPart of being a mature adult\n\nYup but OP is clearly a teenager lol. They complain about being told off for doing chores wrong in another post…", ">\n\nEven a teenager should be able to have the fundamental basics of respect", ">\n\nOh I agree 100%", ">\n\nYou have poor self-control and poor self-awareness but the good news is that you can improve these things.", ">\n\n/r/wrongopinions", ">\n\nI feel like we need a new subreddit r/unpopularforareason", ">\n\nIt’s entire purpose is to be disrespectful. Nobody eyerolls something they respect. But how offensive it is depends on the context and how serious one is being.", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes\n\nYou rn: \"I'm not being disrespectful. I just thought what you said was stupid or lame.\"\n...", ">\n\nSaying its stupid could be disrespectful. A facial response is not.", ">\n\nLiterally every person in this thread agrees that it is.\nThis is your bad habit. Nobody else's responsibility but you.", ">\n\nThey can choose to not fly off the handle at what is just an innate reaction.", ">\n\nSo let me get this straight: you think you deserve to be able to disrespect whoever you like whenever you like but they can't as much as say you're being rude? Grow up.", ">\n\nFound the teenager.", ">\n\nMeh, I agree with that one. If you don't like how someone is doing something then do it yourself. There's a reason I live alone.", ">\n\nIt is a UNIVERSAL sign of disrespect. Globally. Deal with it.", ">\n\nLaughing can be disrespectuful too. If you cannot control your own reactions, well, what can I say, maybe you have not really grown up?", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s so it’s hard to control my own actions sometimes…", ">\n\nThank u I'm trying to explain how autism can make it hard to read not just others facial expressions but also ur own and it seems like no one has thought of the possibility that they acc don't realise it or csnt control it", ">\n\nWould you roll your eyes during a job interview if you thought a question was stupid or irrelevant? Do you think you’d get the job if you did?", ">\n\nPretty sure OP would think they were owed that job and they would think it’s ridiculous if they didn’t get it.\nOP is also a teenager going through their rebel phase though", ">\n\nYou're oddly specific here.", ">\n\nWhat was specific? Or rather oddly specific?", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a good way to fast track yourself to a divorce, if you want one.", ">\n\nI think OP needs the definition of respect before any further comment is made", ">\n\nOh I already know it, and I know it does not mean:\nDon't ever disagree with me\nDon't think bad thoughts about me\nDon't ever correct me when I'm blatantly wrong \nShine my boots with your tongue", ">\n\nSoooo this post isn’t about eye rolling is what I’m getting from this. You’ve got issues to work through with your parents or partner or something", ">\n\nSince when tf was eye rolling involuntary?", ">", ">\n\nYour lack of self control is not a justification for disrespect. I personally dont know anyone who reacts to anything by rolling their eyes. Just be mature and communicate.", ">\n\nAnd what if it's not stupid and someone rolls their eyes? Wouldn't it be disrespectful in that case?", ">\n\nIn the eye rollers opinion then it must have been. But you can't fault someone for thinking its stupid.", ">\n\nSo eyerolling is some kind of exceptional thing that is free from criticism? \nIf one has the freedom to eye roll, then someone else has the freedom to criticize the eye roller right? \nOr is it your opinion that besides that everyone who sees an eye roller has to just stfu", ">\n\nMeh, it is disrespectful. It's a way to be disrespectful without having to say That's the dumbest thing I've heard all month, and everyone else who heard it is also dumber for hearing it as well.", ">\n\nBut I didn't say it that's the point.", ">\n\nJust cuz you don’t use words doesn’t mean it’s not disrespectful. Walking away while someone is talking to you, rolling your eyes, slapping someone, and starting to play a game on your phone while someone is talking to you are all disrespectful. It doesn’t matter that you didn’t say anything, your lack of respect still showed.", ">\n\nespecially the way theyre responding to comments", ">\n\nYeah, a natural reaction if you’ve never learned to manage your emotions as opposed to letting them run your life. I’m not talking about being totally monotone rational, either. You need to learn a balance between rational and emotional…which includes healthy, appropriate, respectful expression of honest feelings. Eye rolling is absolutely disrespectful, belittling, and dismissive.", ">\n\nComments: OP is completely wrong and has attitude issues", ">\n\nWhat sounds like mental illness is you refusing to admit that rolling your eyes is simply not an unconditional response. Whether you want to believe it or not, you are doing it intentionally and you can control it. \nYou’re just to much of a b—— to do so.", ">\n\nSame to you", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a learned reaction. Not natural. I rarely of ever roll my eyes at anything.", ">", ">\n\nJust like raising your middle finger. Or vocalizing the sounds \"fuck you\". Or fingers typing the words fuck you OP. Nothing is disrespectful!", ">\n\nNice try but not the same thing at all. You're talking about thought out actions here. The eye roll is more like a reaction. Its quick, its automatic, no one has to think \"im rolling my eyes now\" it just happens. \nSort of like when telling a lie - no one decides to have their eyes dart around suspiciously, it just happens.", ">\n\nNo. Rolling your eyes is not involuntary. It can be controlled. You have a bad habit that you CAN stop. Much like a child learning not to suck their thumb, or biting your nails.", ">\n\nHow about you start with your hair scratching", ">\n\nYour opinion is a contradiction in itself. And, yeah. I disagree. Rolling your eyes is 100% to show lack of respect, and you have no intentions of showing it, even to reason, by rolling your eyes at something someone could believe is meaningful or important. Even if it is stupid.\nI get your point, we roll our eyes to express how we feel, but it is still a physical snare. You say rolling your eyes isn't disrespectful, while saying it's okay to roll your eyes because something is \" stupid or lame\", which in itself is disrespectful. You sound like a very young person in the middle of a learning moment, and you're trying to react with rebellion. It only shows that you lack maturity and are in need of growth. This might be a time for you to read these comments and reevaluate. There are healthier ways to react to things you disagree with, or lack interest in. If not, you can just accept that you roll your eyes to show lack of respect.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is much more deliberate than laughter, tears, or sneezing. It's a conscious action in response to a judgement you're making.", ">\n\nNah, dude it is disrespectful \nYou just have no self control and by the looks of it you don't want to build some", ">\n\nYour post made me roll my eyes very hard.", ">\n\n“No, officer, my wife - she MADE me hit her!”", ">\n\nIt's a natural reaction for a sooky kid but not an adult, if you do that as an adult you just manchild that wants everything their way", ">\n\npoor OP.... did you get in trouble after you rolled your eyes at something again? did you not prehaps learn from previous interactions? rolling your eyes at something \"stupid or lame\" is an intentional response that is disrespectful to whatever it is. mature people dont act that way.....", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes.\n\nSo it is disrespectful. \n\nIts like throwing pepper in someone's face an expecting them not to sneeze.\n\nNo it’s not. You can easily (edited in) refrain from rolling your eyes, while it’s much more difficult to refrain from sneezing. \nIt’s fine to think whatever you want, but you might want to refrain from rolling your eyes when you’re, say, interacting with your boss; aka someone that can make you unemployed for whatever reason they please.", ">\n\nThis isn't an opinion. It's just flat wrong. \nIt is disrespectful because it is a conscious signifier which clearly communicated that you think that the thing you are rolling your eyes at is not worthy of respect.", ">\n\nYou have to go out of your way to roll your eyes. It is NOT gutteral or instinctual", ">\n\nIf you annoy me, my arm whips out in a natural reaction and slaps you.", ">\n\nSorry, kiddo, it’s 100% disrespectful. Just own the shit and quit trying to lawyer around it.\nI say that after having rolled my eyes so hard at your post, I travelled back in time.", ">\n\nTell that to my family lol you get the belt", ">\n\nThis was made my a 15 year old who just got told off by their mom about rolling their eyes. Then in defense said, “I can’t control it”", ">\n\nMan it's getting so aggressive sometimes here 😂", ">\n\ni certainly hope you are embarrassed about this in a couple years when you grow up.", ">\n\nOP is a habitual eye roller 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄", ">\n\nI wish to God we could block people by age, no more edgy 13yo’s", ">\n\nSomebody just got their ps5 taken away for rolling their eyes", ">\n\nTell me you're 12 without telling me you're 12.", ">\n\nit’s the definition of disrespectful and a sign that you have literally nothing intelligent to say in return. \nwhich is why we outgrow it as adults.", ">\n\nYou can control it. It’s not an “automatic response” unless you’ve taught yourself to do it. I never roll my eyes. It’s just not something I have ever practiced doing. And yes…if I’m saying something too you and you dismiss it with an eye roll…it’s super disrespectful.", ">\n\nrolling your eyes is just as respectful as sticking your tongue out at someone or making a stupid face in reaction to something someone says", ">\n\nIf you can’t control your eye movement, you need to see a neurologist, dude 😆. As it stands, eye rolling isn’t a reflex or a “natural reaction” to anything. Habits aren’t the same as involuntary reactions.\nRolling your eyes at someone is disrespectful. It’s an outward sign that you think something about your interaction with them was stupid or wrong. There’s no one here that will agree with you, and you know that you’re in the vast minority with this opinion because you posted it on this sub. Now learn some humility and accept that your opinion is factually incorrect based on science.", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nAre you like 14 and your mom got you in trouble cause you rolled your eyes at her? Lmao", ">\n\nI’m gonna show your mom this and it’s going to be another week of being grounded, you little shit lol", ">\n\nOmfg 😂", ">\n\nOP I have to ask.\n\n\nHow old are you?\n\n\nHow is your relationship with your parents?\n\n\nHow do you view authority figures in your life?", ">\n\nrolls eyes", ">\n\nIf you say or demand something stupid from me I will probably roll my eyes.", ">\n\nBut it is", ">\n\nJust like rolling your eyes is an innate response, so are other people's responses to you rolling your eyes.", ">\n\nSometimes being respectful requires hiding your subjective opinion on whether something is stupid or lame.", ">\n\nI wouldn’t say eye rolling is as involuntary as laughing or crying tho. It’s more of a choice.", ">\n\nIf someone rolls their eyes then I feel disrespected it’s a natural reaction.", ">\n\ntell me you're a teenager without telling me you're a teenager", ">\n\nI'm rolling my eyes at this post. And I definitely mean it disrespectfully.", ">\n\nLmao this kid had an argument with his parent(s) or teacher and is venting on Reddit.", ">\n\nYou sound like an eye rolling arsehole", ">\n\ni have never had an as a nonvoulentary action, it requires very explicit movement of you eye. this is like saying “when i dont like people, i punch them in the head, thats my natural reaction i cant control it”\ni have never once legitimately rolled my eyes at something, i think you might be an asshole", ">\n\nMe smacking your face is also an innate uncontrollable response to you rolling your eyes. I'm only human. What can I do? 🙄", ">\n\nI disagree. also there are a billion other ways to express something being stupid or lame than rolling ur eyes", ">\n\nStop downvoting, this is ACTUALLY a very unpopular opinion and I love to see it tbh. Voice your disagreement in the comments but don't downvote the post. This post is hilarious.", ">\n\nThis is something you’ve learned to do. It’s entirely in your control if you do it or not.", ">\n\nI once got a detention for rolling my eyes at a teacher in 4th grade.\nI agree with you, though. The only other person I've ever really rolled my eyes at was my mother, and she deserved it, every single time.", ">\n\nI get your point. I absolutely purposefully roll my eyes sometimes and whoever I'm doing it to would be valid for getting mad. \nBut as someone who can't hide any emotion on their face (literally any, I'm the definition of an open book) there have been plenty of times where people blew up at me or laughed because I rolled my eyes when I didn't even realize I had done it. Feel like the people disagreeing with you haven't experienced this problem.", ">\n\nWhat you've done is cultivate a bad habit and then blamed it on everyone else when you repeat your own bad habit unintentionally.\nThis is entirely your fault.", ">\n\nOnly on Reddit would someone so boldly declare something like this to a stranger. I'm on the spectrum so that might have to do with my not being able to hide any emotion (I truly mean that, people can basically read my thoughts just by looking at me, good and bad). \nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave. Consider working on that.", ">\n\nSo they point out you’re cultivating a bad habit and blaming other people so you then, blame them? It’s a little spot on don’t you think?", ">\n\nWhen did i blame them for my own actions? Could you quote me? I was just pointing out how weird it was that they made such a strong assumption of my character off a causal comment I left when they themselves were ironically being unnecessarily rude in the process. \nI don't know how you got so lost?", ">\n\n\nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave.\n\nClassic deflection and implication that they’re the one with the problem, not you", ">\n\nFirst its not automatic. I almost never rolled my eyes. Its much easier to control than laughing crying or sneezing. So you just dont make the effort. Its actually a way to express your feeling. You should know that, its your personnality not a human instinctive reaction. \nAnd yes not respecting something is disrespectful. Its not that hard to understand. \nAnyway if i see you.. i dont know having a breakdown after being fired and dumped and start to laugh you'd like that ? \nIf im sad because something good happens to you and show it to you, you would like that ? \nHonestly you are just trying to justify being a bit of a jerk. \nI dont blame you or anything we all are jerks sometime but its what you are doing right now.", ">\n\nI have to refocus my eyes and most of the time blinking doesn’t cut it. I have a lazy eye and when I look at someone for a long time it unfocuses, so moving the muscle is the only way to reset it. If I don’t, people start moving their heads/ bodies trying to focus on my lazy eye. It gets awkward.", ">\n\nThis is where I go to my training as a kid. What others think of you is none of your business.", ">\n\nUnless you have a tick or something like Tourette’s syndrome, then it’s not an involuntary response. Part of living in a society and not being considered rude is managing your body language.\nLet me put it this way. “Rudeness” in itself is a social concept. That means it’s decided by the perception of the masses, what we generally agree upon in terms of our symbols of communication, our customs, our beliefs, our values, etc. For you to say that rolling your eyes isn’t disrespectful is not objectively wrong. But according to the society you live in, it is wrong. In layman’s terms, the hill you’re dying on here is completely arbitrary, neither side will ever be truly correct but as long as you live in a society which feels this way then you will be beholden to it anyways.", ">\n\nTo be fair, if your thinking its stupid or lame, then that is dis-respect. I'd agree with this if it was worded like 'More people need to say what they truly think', but I think you sort of missed the mark, OP.", ">\n\nI am equally annoyed when folks rapidly blink and look away mid conversation or drop their arm dead against their thigh. It’s like you’ve given up an effort to even keep your body vertical and engaged while I’m talking to you.", ">\n\nOP getting downvoted AF & keeps commenting. Gotta love it.", ">\n\nIt is shown as a sign of disrespect and it shows weakness. I can’t imagine Gandhi, the queen of England or Einstein roll their eyes in front of random people. The reason why they were respected is because they didn’t play any superiority game on front of… inferiors or ignorant people. If something is stupid, get the patience and find enough love within yourself to treat the other ones right. \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a child because his question is “stupid”, what parent does it make you ? \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a bad question because you are an expert in a subject, then it is not your modesty that speaks but your ego. For proof : Even if someone you hate said something intelligent, you might want to roll your eyes just to flatter your ego.", ">\n\nIt's seen as disrespectful BECAUSE it's inadvertently telling them you think they're irritating/annoying.", ">\n\nI never roll my eyes? Is that something people do naturally?", ">\n\nAll depends on the context of what is going on.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is not a natural reaction?", ">\n\nNot maintaining basic self control is disrespectful. It's the same reason we don't defecate in public, sneeze on people, or stand in the way of foot traffic.", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s and one of my tics is eye rolling", ">\n\nK", ">\n\nI accidentally roll my eyes at people sometimes when I'm not even trying to", ">\n\nThe sign of a true unpopular opinion: Nobody upvoting it, but everybody commenting to say how they disagree. If you disagree, then give it an upvote. That's the point of this sub.", ">\n\nI think it depends.", ">\n\nThis had to be written by someone under the age of 25", ">\n\nRolling your eyes isn’t natural though. It’s cultural or socially learned if that makes sense. Like if you rolled your eyes at a tribe that is disconnected from society they wouldn’t understand that you’re annoyed. So you cant really compare it to laughing.", ">\n\nI'm kind of curious if this is true though. Are you assuming this, or do you have some kind of study proving this? I'd actually like to see if your hypothesis is true, or if remote tribes also use this facial gesture.", ">\n\nI’m assuming it. Back in my country Turkey if you rolled your eyes at my grandparents they would be confused and wonder what you were doing and what it meant.", ">\n\nit's a maturity thing, keep rolling your eyes at 30-40, everyone gonna see you like a kid. \nyou gotta control your emotions, there's no need to do a expression when something is stupid or lame, you got a mouth and you respectfully share what's wrong, if the person in the other end is reluctant to stay on the same boat even after you talk about it. then you don't roll your eyes, you gotta say that there's nothing more you can do, and that you don't agree with it, and most likely leave to dodge any sort of problem.", ">\n\nI have a tic where I constantly roll my eyes. I’ve had it since I was little, but never noticed it until years later when I high school teacher yelled at me for disrespect. Apparently my parents took me for evaluation when I was very young and diagnosed Tourette’s but never had any other tics develop. Would have been nice to know 🤦🏼‍♀️ I just apologize now and say it’s a compulsion if people ask. I don’t even know when I’m doing it", ">\n\nIs laughing disrespectful? Because it can be. Just like rolling your eyes can be. There is a time and place for everything", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a passive aggressive response. Passive aggression is a tactic used by meek people who are frustrated and don’t have the courage to address a given situation. It’s disrespectful and it lowers your standing in the social hierarchy.", ">\n\nGet back to me when Disney Dad actively encourages your offspring to roll their eyes at you.", ">\n\nYeah it is when I want to be disrespectful to someone I roll my eyes when they make a point. It might be annoying to them, but it also let's them know I don't give a shit about whatever they just said. Now, I would never to it to my boss, or my teachers while I was in college, but when I was a teen I did it all the time because I was an asshole, who didn't care. \nIt's not a natural reaction lmao, it is learned behavior and it can be a bad habit, but it can be unlearned.", ">\n\nSome people can’t control it I know with me sometimes I roll my eyes without meaning too it’s not that I’m trying to be rude it’s just something I didn’t even realize I was doing nor did I mean too", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nI have a friend who thinks like you do, which is based on your responses to the comments. He has very poor social skills and is on the autism spectrum", ">\n\nI bet you're lots of fun at parties OP.", ">\n\nI can’t tell if this is farming karma with ridiculous opinions or if this individual just has a really hard time understanding that maybe their parents aren’t always the bad guys.", ">\n\nYep, thats definitely an unpopular opinion! \nIts certainly disrespectful. And most certainly not some sort of involuntary response like a sneeze. It may feel that way to you, because you've done it so much - but there are plenty of people who don't do it. UNLIKE people who don't sneeze at pepper, or cough at dust. Like, you're just plain wrong on this one. Moreover, I think you're trying to justify/rationalize it yourself rather than address it in a healthy way - a marker suggesting you have some narcissistic tendencies.", ">\n\nWhat a stupid argument, take your upvote", ">\n\nIt’s a sign of contempt. The facial expression expert Dr. Eikman could predict how long a barrage would last based on 4 expressions and the frequency used when the couple was interviewed. Eye rolling was one.. in fact you could remove the others and still reasonably predict marriage failures.", ">\n\nI wish it wasn’t disrespectful, because as an expressive person I LOVE a good eye roll. But, it has gotten me into trouble. I do it without even knowing it. I hate that I do… I wish sometimes I could be stone cold. Just like a fish. One expression face only. Blank fish eyes staring into nothingness.\nMy favourite mug says, “I can’t help what my face does when you talk”. There is a reason the the mug is meant to be cheeky.", ">\n\nSeems disrespectful to me because my eyes don't roll on their own, it would be a conscious act.", ">\n\nThis is 100% based on the premis that you can’t control your eyes. Rolling your eyes isn’t a natural movement. You control it.\nLaughing and crying aren’t necessarily controllable.", ">\n\nIn addition to this:\nfinding something somebody said stupid isnt disrespectful - makin fun in an exaggerated way, call em out in a mean way, or think everything they're gonna say next is bs is the disrespectful part.", ">\n\nSo your reaction is because you think someone is stupid, but thinking they are stupid isn't disrespectful?", ">\n\nThis, i agree with", ">\n\nGuess my mom didn't get the memo.", ">\n\nI don't think rolling your eyes is natural. I did wrong all the way up until last year. Thought you were supposed to make your eyes go in a circular motion 😂", ">\n\nFr. I may be able to control what I say…but my face will always show how I feel😂can’t help it and I’m tired of fake apologizing for it.", ">\n\nI don’t think rolling your eyes is a natural reaction the same way crying and laughing are. The only times I’ve rolled my eyes are when I intended to.", ">\n\nWhen my dad was/is drunk and angry he does it. Disrespectful and does not feel nice.", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nLol go to your room", ">\n\nWhat a dingbat. lol", ">\n\nNah it's kinda rude. Hardly the worst thing ever though. Sometimes though, people roll their eyes to actually think about what they are going to say, though; it's an important thing to distinguish.", ">\n\nI mean, its entire function as an expression is disrespect. that's literally the whole point of rolling your eyes. Natural instinct or not, it still implies disrespect.", ">\n\nI used to roll my eyes often because I have bad eyeshit, and doing it relieved eye strain. I couldn't tell you the amount of times this got me in shit.", ">\n\nLaughing, crying… both can be controlled to an extent. Eye rolls can 100% be controlled. They aren’t a reflex. If they are in your case you should seek medical attention", ">\n\nIf you roll your eyes as an involuntary reaction. Please see a doctor", ">\n\nyour right this is an unpopular opinion but for a good fucking reason you have no soldi ground to stand on in any argument on this", ">\n\nOp- \"just because it means something disrespectful doesn't mean I should get yelled for choosing to roll my eyes.\"", ">\n\nMaybe if your 10 and don't understand social cues. Context is a big part tho, if it's you and your friends goofing off, maybe it's tolerable to bash one another. If it's parents trying to have a serious convo and your just an idiot about it, then it's a problem.", ">\n\nwhat's popular isn't always right\nwhat's right isn't always popular\nyour opinion and the sub checkout OP, good job!", ">\n\nI agree it’s a pretty natural reaction when people or a given situation is unreasonable. The other options are usually to laugh or get angry. It’s even funnier when Karen’s get mad at it. Keeping a poker face at times just isn’t possible. I feel redeemed when someone being a unreasonable jackass and they get upset by my 🙄. Most people say nothing and I think accept it anyway.", ">", ">\n\nYou’ve convinced me", ">\n\nnah it's making e an active effort to use body language to convey your sentiment", ">\n\nThis reminds me of when I coached third grade volleyball and I told a girl not to roll her eyes and she said “I was born like that. I can’t help it.”", ">\n\ni would say the same thing.", ">\n\nIs an eye roll just looking up quickly in an exasperated manner or is it moving your view line around a cone?", ">\n\nwow an actual unpopular opinion. i don’t agree with it but good on you for actually having one on this sub." ]
> I might be reading this entirely wrong, but are you maybe a teenager who is being told, repeatedly, that your number 1 duty is to respect your parents? Because I was that teenager, and it sucked. No, I wasn't perfect, but you know who else wasn't perfect? My asshole father, and my mother who refused to stand up to his abuse. But the thing is, when you are a kid, you only know what you've seen and experienced. You don't have a lot of context in life. I was told so many times that God required that I obey and respect my dad at all times, and in every way, and that it didn't matter how horrible he was, my God-ordained duty didn't change. I didn't know how wrong that whole framework was, so I would twist myself into these strange logical pretzels to convince myself that it was OK when I would stand up for myself or my sibling, instead of realizing that the entire framework was wrong. Here's an idea for you to chew on: rolling your eyes at someone is disrespectful and maybe that's not that big a deal. If someone is being an asshole, or abusive, maybe your level of respect isn't at all the central problem. Another thought: you can be 100% right, and still suffer abuse. It's not fair, and it's not right, but it might be good to spend some time thinking about what battles are worth fighting and which ones aren't. It's not fair to ask a kid to be the mature one in a situation like this, but it might be something you need to work on for your own mental or physical safety. Remember that you will get away from this person. It sucks so fucking much but it does end. Stay strong.	[ "🙄", ">\n\nYou’re grounded now", ">\n\nThe post above was someone getting electrocuted so this reply was very timely", ">\n\nThis news is shocking", ">\n\nIt definitely SPARKED my interest", ">\n\nAll of you guys need to leave, and not come back before learning how to conduct yourselves properly", ">\n\nUhhhh....... electricity", ">\n\nWell no, in the right context it is disrespectful. Rolling your eyes suggests that you're not taking the matter seriously or that you dont care which is a sign of disrespect towards whoever is speaking with you.", ">\n\nBut I can't control what I think. If I said \"man you're stupid and I don't care what you say\" thats disrespectful. I'm actually showing respect by not saying it.", ">\n\nI mean, actions speak louder than words, right?", ">\n\nIts not really an action tho its just an automatic response. Like gasping or yawning.", ">\n\nbullshit.\nSorry, it was an automatic response. Which is bullshit just like yours.", ">\n\nStill not the same thing. And they get on me for false analogies....", ">\n\nYou must be a teenager", ">\n\nLol how many times are you gonna post that. Dont you have an original thought of your own?", ">\n\nBruh I cant believe you make these posts. They're foolish", ">\n\nLaughing at someone can be disrespectful. Don't think so? Try laughing at someone's funeral.", ">\n\nThe disrespect comes from the one who told me a joke and made me laugh.", ">\n\nWhat about if no one said any joke? Because, you know, you are at a funeral.", ">\n\nSo someone's just there randomly laughing at shit? That sounds like a mental illness.", ">\n\nYou have never thought of something funny in your head to make yourself laugh? \nOr hell, maybe you didn't like the person who is buried and decided to laugh at them. You find it funny, so laughing must be appropriate, right?", ">\n\nWhy am I thinking about funny shit at a funeral.", ">\n\nBecause the universe likes to put us in uncomfortable positions sometimes.", ">\n\n“if its stupid or lame, you roll your eyes” - you found the disrespect", ">\n\nIm allowed to think whatever i want and its not disrespectful.", ">\n\nWhen you express contempt for something someone else said, it's disrespect.", ">\n\nWhat if what they said is contemptible?", ">\n\nSome people and comments deserve disrespect, still gonna be disrespect", ">\n\nLaughing, crying, and sneezing are all innate, involuntary reactions to certain types of stimuli. Rolling your eyes is a learned behavior. You can’t compare it to those other automatic responses because it’s not the same thing.", ">\n\nTake my upvote", ">\n\nOP rolled their eyes at someone and got chewed out for it.\nNow they're going online in an attempt to validate themselves.\n🙄", ">\n\nProbably got grounded.", ">\n\nPart of being a mature adult is to have self-control and not acting on every impulse and being respectful of people.", ">\n\n\nPart of being a mature adult\n\nYup but OP is clearly a teenager lol. They complain about being told off for doing chores wrong in another post…", ">\n\nEven a teenager should be able to have the fundamental basics of respect", ">\n\nOh I agree 100%", ">\n\nYou have poor self-control and poor self-awareness but the good news is that you can improve these things.", ">\n\n/r/wrongopinions", ">\n\nI feel like we need a new subreddit r/unpopularforareason", ">\n\nIt’s entire purpose is to be disrespectful. Nobody eyerolls something they respect. But how offensive it is depends on the context and how serious one is being.", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes\n\nYou rn: \"I'm not being disrespectful. I just thought what you said was stupid or lame.\"\n...", ">\n\nSaying its stupid could be disrespectful. A facial response is not.", ">\n\nLiterally every person in this thread agrees that it is.\nThis is your bad habit. Nobody else's responsibility but you.", ">\n\nThey can choose to not fly off the handle at what is just an innate reaction.", ">\n\nSo let me get this straight: you think you deserve to be able to disrespect whoever you like whenever you like but they can't as much as say you're being rude? Grow up.", ">\n\nFound the teenager.", ">\n\nMeh, I agree with that one. If you don't like how someone is doing something then do it yourself. There's a reason I live alone.", ">\n\nIt is a UNIVERSAL sign of disrespect. Globally. Deal with it.", ">\n\nLaughing can be disrespectuful too. If you cannot control your own reactions, well, what can I say, maybe you have not really grown up?", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s so it’s hard to control my own actions sometimes…", ">\n\nThank u I'm trying to explain how autism can make it hard to read not just others facial expressions but also ur own and it seems like no one has thought of the possibility that they acc don't realise it or csnt control it", ">\n\nWould you roll your eyes during a job interview if you thought a question was stupid or irrelevant? Do you think you’d get the job if you did?", ">\n\nPretty sure OP would think they were owed that job and they would think it’s ridiculous if they didn’t get it.\nOP is also a teenager going through their rebel phase though", ">\n\nYou're oddly specific here.", ">\n\nWhat was specific? Or rather oddly specific?", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a good way to fast track yourself to a divorce, if you want one.", ">\n\nI think OP needs the definition of respect before any further comment is made", ">\n\nOh I already know it, and I know it does not mean:\nDon't ever disagree with me\nDon't think bad thoughts about me\nDon't ever correct me when I'm blatantly wrong \nShine my boots with your tongue", ">\n\nSoooo this post isn’t about eye rolling is what I’m getting from this. You’ve got issues to work through with your parents or partner or something", ">\n\nSince when tf was eye rolling involuntary?", ">", ">\n\nYour lack of self control is not a justification for disrespect. I personally dont know anyone who reacts to anything by rolling their eyes. Just be mature and communicate.", ">\n\nAnd what if it's not stupid and someone rolls their eyes? Wouldn't it be disrespectful in that case?", ">\n\nIn the eye rollers opinion then it must have been. But you can't fault someone for thinking its stupid.", ">\n\nSo eyerolling is some kind of exceptional thing that is free from criticism? \nIf one has the freedom to eye roll, then someone else has the freedom to criticize the eye roller right? \nOr is it your opinion that besides that everyone who sees an eye roller has to just stfu", ">\n\nMeh, it is disrespectful. It's a way to be disrespectful without having to say That's the dumbest thing I've heard all month, and everyone else who heard it is also dumber for hearing it as well.", ">\n\nBut I didn't say it that's the point.", ">\n\nJust cuz you don’t use words doesn’t mean it’s not disrespectful. Walking away while someone is talking to you, rolling your eyes, slapping someone, and starting to play a game on your phone while someone is talking to you are all disrespectful. It doesn’t matter that you didn’t say anything, your lack of respect still showed.", ">\n\nespecially the way theyre responding to comments", ">\n\nYeah, a natural reaction if you’ve never learned to manage your emotions as opposed to letting them run your life. I’m not talking about being totally monotone rational, either. You need to learn a balance between rational and emotional…which includes healthy, appropriate, respectful expression of honest feelings. Eye rolling is absolutely disrespectful, belittling, and dismissive.", ">\n\nComments: OP is completely wrong and has attitude issues", ">\n\nWhat sounds like mental illness is you refusing to admit that rolling your eyes is simply not an unconditional response. Whether you want to believe it or not, you are doing it intentionally and you can control it. \nYou’re just to much of a b—— to do so.", ">\n\nSame to you", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a learned reaction. Not natural. I rarely of ever roll my eyes at anything.", ">", ">\n\nJust like raising your middle finger. Or vocalizing the sounds \"fuck you\". Or fingers typing the words fuck you OP. Nothing is disrespectful!", ">\n\nNice try but not the same thing at all. You're talking about thought out actions here. The eye roll is more like a reaction. Its quick, its automatic, no one has to think \"im rolling my eyes now\" it just happens. \nSort of like when telling a lie - no one decides to have their eyes dart around suspiciously, it just happens.", ">\n\nNo. Rolling your eyes is not involuntary. It can be controlled. You have a bad habit that you CAN stop. Much like a child learning not to suck their thumb, or biting your nails.", ">\n\nHow about you start with your hair scratching", ">\n\nYour opinion is a contradiction in itself. And, yeah. I disagree. Rolling your eyes is 100% to show lack of respect, and you have no intentions of showing it, even to reason, by rolling your eyes at something someone could believe is meaningful or important. Even if it is stupid.\nI get your point, we roll our eyes to express how we feel, but it is still a physical snare. You say rolling your eyes isn't disrespectful, while saying it's okay to roll your eyes because something is \" stupid or lame\", which in itself is disrespectful. You sound like a very young person in the middle of a learning moment, and you're trying to react with rebellion. It only shows that you lack maturity and are in need of growth. This might be a time for you to read these comments and reevaluate. There are healthier ways to react to things you disagree with, or lack interest in. If not, you can just accept that you roll your eyes to show lack of respect.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is much more deliberate than laughter, tears, or sneezing. It's a conscious action in response to a judgement you're making.", ">\n\nNah, dude it is disrespectful \nYou just have no self control and by the looks of it you don't want to build some", ">\n\nYour post made me roll my eyes very hard.", ">\n\n“No, officer, my wife - she MADE me hit her!”", ">\n\nIt's a natural reaction for a sooky kid but not an adult, if you do that as an adult you just manchild that wants everything their way", ">\n\npoor OP.... did you get in trouble after you rolled your eyes at something again? did you not prehaps learn from previous interactions? rolling your eyes at something \"stupid or lame\" is an intentional response that is disrespectful to whatever it is. mature people dont act that way.....", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes.\n\nSo it is disrespectful. \n\nIts like throwing pepper in someone's face an expecting them not to sneeze.\n\nNo it’s not. You can easily (edited in) refrain from rolling your eyes, while it’s much more difficult to refrain from sneezing. \nIt’s fine to think whatever you want, but you might want to refrain from rolling your eyes when you’re, say, interacting with your boss; aka someone that can make you unemployed for whatever reason they please.", ">\n\nThis isn't an opinion. It's just flat wrong. \nIt is disrespectful because it is a conscious signifier which clearly communicated that you think that the thing you are rolling your eyes at is not worthy of respect.", ">\n\nYou have to go out of your way to roll your eyes. It is NOT gutteral or instinctual", ">\n\nIf you annoy me, my arm whips out in a natural reaction and slaps you.", ">\n\nSorry, kiddo, it’s 100% disrespectful. Just own the shit and quit trying to lawyer around it.\nI say that after having rolled my eyes so hard at your post, I travelled back in time.", ">\n\nTell that to my family lol you get the belt", ">\n\nThis was made my a 15 year old who just got told off by their mom about rolling their eyes. Then in defense said, “I can’t control it”", ">\n\nMan it's getting so aggressive sometimes here 😂", ">\n\ni certainly hope you are embarrassed about this in a couple years when you grow up.", ">\n\nOP is a habitual eye roller 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄", ">\n\nI wish to God we could block people by age, no more edgy 13yo’s", ">\n\nSomebody just got their ps5 taken away for rolling their eyes", ">\n\nTell me you're 12 without telling me you're 12.", ">\n\nit’s the definition of disrespectful and a sign that you have literally nothing intelligent to say in return. \nwhich is why we outgrow it as adults.", ">\n\nYou can control it. It’s not an “automatic response” unless you’ve taught yourself to do it. I never roll my eyes. It’s just not something I have ever practiced doing. And yes…if I’m saying something too you and you dismiss it with an eye roll…it’s super disrespectful.", ">\n\nrolling your eyes is just as respectful as sticking your tongue out at someone or making a stupid face in reaction to something someone says", ">\n\nIf you can’t control your eye movement, you need to see a neurologist, dude 😆. As it stands, eye rolling isn’t a reflex or a “natural reaction” to anything. Habits aren’t the same as involuntary reactions.\nRolling your eyes at someone is disrespectful. It’s an outward sign that you think something about your interaction with them was stupid or wrong. There’s no one here that will agree with you, and you know that you’re in the vast minority with this opinion because you posted it on this sub. Now learn some humility and accept that your opinion is factually incorrect based on science.", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nAre you like 14 and your mom got you in trouble cause you rolled your eyes at her? Lmao", ">\n\nI’m gonna show your mom this and it’s going to be another week of being grounded, you little shit lol", ">\n\nOmfg 😂", ">\n\nOP I have to ask.\n\n\nHow old are you?\n\n\nHow is your relationship with your parents?\n\n\nHow do you view authority figures in your life?", ">\n\nrolls eyes", ">\n\nIf you say or demand something stupid from me I will probably roll my eyes.", ">\n\nBut it is", ">\n\nJust like rolling your eyes is an innate response, so are other people's responses to you rolling your eyes.", ">\n\nSometimes being respectful requires hiding your subjective opinion on whether something is stupid or lame.", ">\n\nI wouldn’t say eye rolling is as involuntary as laughing or crying tho. It’s more of a choice.", ">\n\nIf someone rolls their eyes then I feel disrespected it’s a natural reaction.", ">\n\ntell me you're a teenager without telling me you're a teenager", ">\n\nI'm rolling my eyes at this post. And I definitely mean it disrespectfully.", ">\n\nLmao this kid had an argument with his parent(s) or teacher and is venting on Reddit.", ">\n\nYou sound like an eye rolling arsehole", ">\n\ni have never had an as a nonvoulentary action, it requires very explicit movement of you eye. this is like saying “when i dont like people, i punch them in the head, thats my natural reaction i cant control it”\ni have never once legitimately rolled my eyes at something, i think you might be an asshole", ">\n\nMe smacking your face is also an innate uncontrollable response to you rolling your eyes. I'm only human. What can I do? 🙄", ">\n\nI disagree. also there are a billion other ways to express something being stupid or lame than rolling ur eyes", ">\n\nStop downvoting, this is ACTUALLY a very unpopular opinion and I love to see it tbh. Voice your disagreement in the comments but don't downvote the post. This post is hilarious.", ">\n\nThis is something you’ve learned to do. It’s entirely in your control if you do it or not.", ">\n\nI once got a detention for rolling my eyes at a teacher in 4th grade.\nI agree with you, though. The only other person I've ever really rolled my eyes at was my mother, and she deserved it, every single time.", ">\n\nI get your point. I absolutely purposefully roll my eyes sometimes and whoever I'm doing it to would be valid for getting mad. \nBut as someone who can't hide any emotion on their face (literally any, I'm the definition of an open book) there have been plenty of times where people blew up at me or laughed because I rolled my eyes when I didn't even realize I had done it. Feel like the people disagreeing with you haven't experienced this problem.", ">\n\nWhat you've done is cultivate a bad habit and then blamed it on everyone else when you repeat your own bad habit unintentionally.\nThis is entirely your fault.", ">\n\nOnly on Reddit would someone so boldly declare something like this to a stranger. I'm on the spectrum so that might have to do with my not being able to hide any emotion (I truly mean that, people can basically read my thoughts just by looking at me, good and bad). \nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave. Consider working on that.", ">\n\nSo they point out you’re cultivating a bad habit and blaming other people so you then, blame them? It’s a little spot on don’t you think?", ">\n\nWhen did i blame them for my own actions? Could you quote me? I was just pointing out how weird it was that they made such a strong assumption of my character off a causal comment I left when they themselves were ironically being unnecessarily rude in the process. \nI don't know how you got so lost?", ">\n\n\nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave.\n\nClassic deflection and implication that they’re the one with the problem, not you", ">\n\nFirst its not automatic. I almost never rolled my eyes. Its much easier to control than laughing crying or sneezing. So you just dont make the effort. Its actually a way to express your feeling. You should know that, its your personnality not a human instinctive reaction. \nAnd yes not respecting something is disrespectful. Its not that hard to understand. \nAnyway if i see you.. i dont know having a breakdown after being fired and dumped and start to laugh you'd like that ? \nIf im sad because something good happens to you and show it to you, you would like that ? \nHonestly you are just trying to justify being a bit of a jerk. \nI dont blame you or anything we all are jerks sometime but its what you are doing right now.", ">\n\nI have to refocus my eyes and most of the time blinking doesn’t cut it. I have a lazy eye and when I look at someone for a long time it unfocuses, so moving the muscle is the only way to reset it. If I don’t, people start moving their heads/ bodies trying to focus on my lazy eye. It gets awkward.", ">\n\nThis is where I go to my training as a kid. What others think of you is none of your business.", ">\n\nUnless you have a tick or something like Tourette’s syndrome, then it’s not an involuntary response. Part of living in a society and not being considered rude is managing your body language.\nLet me put it this way. “Rudeness” in itself is a social concept. That means it’s decided by the perception of the masses, what we generally agree upon in terms of our symbols of communication, our customs, our beliefs, our values, etc. For you to say that rolling your eyes isn’t disrespectful is not objectively wrong. But according to the society you live in, it is wrong. In layman’s terms, the hill you’re dying on here is completely arbitrary, neither side will ever be truly correct but as long as you live in a society which feels this way then you will be beholden to it anyways.", ">\n\nTo be fair, if your thinking its stupid or lame, then that is dis-respect. I'd agree with this if it was worded like 'More people need to say what they truly think', but I think you sort of missed the mark, OP.", ">\n\nI am equally annoyed when folks rapidly blink and look away mid conversation or drop their arm dead against their thigh. It’s like you’ve given up an effort to even keep your body vertical and engaged while I’m talking to you.", ">\n\nOP getting downvoted AF & keeps commenting. Gotta love it.", ">\n\nIt is shown as a sign of disrespect and it shows weakness. I can’t imagine Gandhi, the queen of England or Einstein roll their eyes in front of random people. The reason why they were respected is because they didn’t play any superiority game on front of… inferiors or ignorant people. If something is stupid, get the patience and find enough love within yourself to treat the other ones right. \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a child because his question is “stupid”, what parent does it make you ? \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a bad question because you are an expert in a subject, then it is not your modesty that speaks but your ego. For proof : Even if someone you hate said something intelligent, you might want to roll your eyes just to flatter your ego.", ">\n\nIt's seen as disrespectful BECAUSE it's inadvertently telling them you think they're irritating/annoying.", ">\n\nI never roll my eyes? Is that something people do naturally?", ">\n\nAll depends on the context of what is going on.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is not a natural reaction?", ">\n\nNot maintaining basic self control is disrespectful. It's the same reason we don't defecate in public, sneeze on people, or stand in the way of foot traffic.", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s and one of my tics is eye rolling", ">\n\nK", ">\n\nI accidentally roll my eyes at people sometimes when I'm not even trying to", ">\n\nThe sign of a true unpopular opinion: Nobody upvoting it, but everybody commenting to say how they disagree. If you disagree, then give it an upvote. That's the point of this sub.", ">\n\nI think it depends.", ">\n\nThis had to be written by someone under the age of 25", ">\n\nRolling your eyes isn’t natural though. It’s cultural or socially learned if that makes sense. Like if you rolled your eyes at a tribe that is disconnected from society they wouldn’t understand that you’re annoyed. So you cant really compare it to laughing.", ">\n\nI'm kind of curious if this is true though. Are you assuming this, or do you have some kind of study proving this? I'd actually like to see if your hypothesis is true, or if remote tribes also use this facial gesture.", ">\n\nI’m assuming it. Back in my country Turkey if you rolled your eyes at my grandparents they would be confused and wonder what you were doing and what it meant.", ">\n\nit's a maturity thing, keep rolling your eyes at 30-40, everyone gonna see you like a kid. \nyou gotta control your emotions, there's no need to do a expression when something is stupid or lame, you got a mouth and you respectfully share what's wrong, if the person in the other end is reluctant to stay on the same boat even after you talk about it. then you don't roll your eyes, you gotta say that there's nothing more you can do, and that you don't agree with it, and most likely leave to dodge any sort of problem.", ">\n\nI have a tic where I constantly roll my eyes. I’ve had it since I was little, but never noticed it until years later when I high school teacher yelled at me for disrespect. Apparently my parents took me for evaluation when I was very young and diagnosed Tourette’s but never had any other tics develop. Would have been nice to know 🤦🏼‍♀️ I just apologize now and say it’s a compulsion if people ask. I don’t even know when I’m doing it", ">\n\nIs laughing disrespectful? Because it can be. Just like rolling your eyes can be. There is a time and place for everything", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a passive aggressive response. Passive aggression is a tactic used by meek people who are frustrated and don’t have the courage to address a given situation. It’s disrespectful and it lowers your standing in the social hierarchy.", ">\n\nGet back to me when Disney Dad actively encourages your offspring to roll their eyes at you.", ">\n\nYeah it is when I want to be disrespectful to someone I roll my eyes when they make a point. It might be annoying to them, but it also let's them know I don't give a shit about whatever they just said. Now, I would never to it to my boss, or my teachers while I was in college, but when I was a teen I did it all the time because I was an asshole, who didn't care. \nIt's not a natural reaction lmao, it is learned behavior and it can be a bad habit, but it can be unlearned.", ">\n\nSome people can’t control it I know with me sometimes I roll my eyes without meaning too it’s not that I’m trying to be rude it’s just something I didn’t even realize I was doing nor did I mean too", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nI have a friend who thinks like you do, which is based on your responses to the comments. He has very poor social skills and is on the autism spectrum", ">\n\nI bet you're lots of fun at parties OP.", ">\n\nI can’t tell if this is farming karma with ridiculous opinions or if this individual just has a really hard time understanding that maybe their parents aren’t always the bad guys.", ">\n\nYep, thats definitely an unpopular opinion! \nIts certainly disrespectful. And most certainly not some sort of involuntary response like a sneeze. It may feel that way to you, because you've done it so much - but there are plenty of people who don't do it. UNLIKE people who don't sneeze at pepper, or cough at dust. Like, you're just plain wrong on this one. Moreover, I think you're trying to justify/rationalize it yourself rather than address it in a healthy way - a marker suggesting you have some narcissistic tendencies.", ">\n\nWhat a stupid argument, take your upvote", ">\n\nIt’s a sign of contempt. The facial expression expert Dr. Eikman could predict how long a barrage would last based on 4 expressions and the frequency used when the couple was interviewed. Eye rolling was one.. in fact you could remove the others and still reasonably predict marriage failures.", ">\n\nI wish it wasn’t disrespectful, because as an expressive person I LOVE a good eye roll. But, it has gotten me into trouble. I do it without even knowing it. I hate that I do… I wish sometimes I could be stone cold. Just like a fish. One expression face only. Blank fish eyes staring into nothingness.\nMy favourite mug says, “I can’t help what my face does when you talk”. There is a reason the the mug is meant to be cheeky.", ">\n\nSeems disrespectful to me because my eyes don't roll on their own, it would be a conscious act.", ">\n\nThis is 100% based on the premis that you can’t control your eyes. Rolling your eyes isn’t a natural movement. You control it.\nLaughing and crying aren’t necessarily controllable.", ">\n\nIn addition to this:\nfinding something somebody said stupid isnt disrespectful - makin fun in an exaggerated way, call em out in a mean way, or think everything they're gonna say next is bs is the disrespectful part.", ">\n\nSo your reaction is because you think someone is stupid, but thinking they are stupid isn't disrespectful?", ">\n\nThis, i agree with", ">\n\nGuess my mom didn't get the memo.", ">\n\nI don't think rolling your eyes is natural. I did wrong all the way up until last year. Thought you were supposed to make your eyes go in a circular motion 😂", ">\n\nFr. I may be able to control what I say…but my face will always show how I feel😂can’t help it and I’m tired of fake apologizing for it.", ">\n\nI don’t think rolling your eyes is a natural reaction the same way crying and laughing are. The only times I’ve rolled my eyes are when I intended to.", ">\n\nWhen my dad was/is drunk and angry he does it. Disrespectful and does not feel nice.", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nLol go to your room", ">\n\nWhat a dingbat. lol", ">\n\nNah it's kinda rude. Hardly the worst thing ever though. Sometimes though, people roll their eyes to actually think about what they are going to say, though; it's an important thing to distinguish.", ">\n\nI mean, its entire function as an expression is disrespect. that's literally the whole point of rolling your eyes. Natural instinct or not, it still implies disrespect.", ">\n\nI used to roll my eyes often because I have bad eyeshit, and doing it relieved eye strain. I couldn't tell you the amount of times this got me in shit.", ">\n\nLaughing, crying… both can be controlled to an extent. Eye rolls can 100% be controlled. They aren’t a reflex. If they are in your case you should seek medical attention", ">\n\nIf you roll your eyes as an involuntary reaction. Please see a doctor", ">\n\nyour right this is an unpopular opinion but for a good fucking reason you have no soldi ground to stand on in any argument on this", ">\n\nOp- \"just because it means something disrespectful doesn't mean I should get yelled for choosing to roll my eyes.\"", ">\n\nMaybe if your 10 and don't understand social cues. Context is a big part tho, if it's you and your friends goofing off, maybe it's tolerable to bash one another. If it's parents trying to have a serious convo and your just an idiot about it, then it's a problem.", ">\n\nwhat's popular isn't always right\nwhat's right isn't always popular\nyour opinion and the sub checkout OP, good job!", ">\n\nI agree it’s a pretty natural reaction when people or a given situation is unreasonable. The other options are usually to laugh or get angry. It’s even funnier when Karen’s get mad at it. Keeping a poker face at times just isn’t possible. I feel redeemed when someone being a unreasonable jackass and they get upset by my 🙄. Most people say nothing and I think accept it anyway.", ">", ">\n\nYou’ve convinced me", ">\n\nnah it's making e an active effort to use body language to convey your sentiment", ">\n\nThis reminds me of when I coached third grade volleyball and I told a girl not to roll her eyes and she said “I was born like that. I can’t help it.”", ">\n\ni would say the same thing.", ">\n\nIs an eye roll just looking up quickly in an exasperated manner or is it moving your view line around a cone?", ">\n\nwow an actual unpopular opinion. i don’t agree with it but good on you for actually having one on this sub.", ">\n\nIt is a reaction that takes thought and voluntary physicality to perform. \nIf you chose to roll your eyes you are saying to someone that you think less of them or their opinion. It is like shaking your head from side to side, or like wagging your finger from side to side, it is a reaction you can make but it is your choice to do so. \nThere is no environmental reason to roll your eyes:\n-When lightning strikes, you jump, you don't roll your eyes. \n-When you have pepper thrown in your face, you blink and might sneeze, you don't roll your eyes. \n-When you eat something really disgusting, you gag or vomit, you don't roll your eyes. \n-When you get punched hard in the face, you cry, you don't roll your eyes. \nYou could roll your eyes at any of these events. BUT that is a SARCASTIC response. Not a natural or normal response to an event. \nYou're just a loser who's trying to justify their shitty behaviour. Grow up and stop rolling your eyes, I personally haven't done that since I was a child." ]
> After finishing your geometry hw try learning how to control your actions. You’re either a 14 year old girl or you act like one 😂	[ "🙄", ">\n\nYou’re grounded now", ">\n\nThe post above was someone getting electrocuted so this reply was very timely", ">\n\nThis news is shocking", ">\n\nIt definitely SPARKED my interest", ">\n\nAll of you guys need to leave, and not come back before learning how to conduct yourselves properly", ">\n\nUhhhh....... electricity", ">\n\nWell no, in the right context it is disrespectful. Rolling your eyes suggests that you're not taking the matter seriously or that you dont care which is a sign of disrespect towards whoever is speaking with you.", ">\n\nBut I can't control what I think. If I said \"man you're stupid and I don't care what you say\" thats disrespectful. I'm actually showing respect by not saying it.", ">\n\nI mean, actions speak louder than words, right?", ">\n\nIts not really an action tho its just an automatic response. Like gasping or yawning.", ">\n\nbullshit.\nSorry, it was an automatic response. Which is bullshit just like yours.", ">\n\nStill not the same thing. And they get on me for false analogies....", ">\n\nYou must be a teenager", ">\n\nLol how many times are you gonna post that. Dont you have an original thought of your own?", ">\n\nBruh I cant believe you make these posts. They're foolish", ">\n\nLaughing at someone can be disrespectful. Don't think so? Try laughing at someone's funeral.", ">\n\nThe disrespect comes from the one who told me a joke and made me laugh.", ">\n\nWhat about if no one said any joke? Because, you know, you are at a funeral.", ">\n\nSo someone's just there randomly laughing at shit? That sounds like a mental illness.", ">\n\nYou have never thought of something funny in your head to make yourself laugh? \nOr hell, maybe you didn't like the person who is buried and decided to laugh at them. You find it funny, so laughing must be appropriate, right?", ">\n\nWhy am I thinking about funny shit at a funeral.", ">\n\nBecause the universe likes to put us in uncomfortable positions sometimes.", ">\n\n“if its stupid or lame, you roll your eyes” - you found the disrespect", ">\n\nIm allowed to think whatever i want and its not disrespectful.", ">\n\nWhen you express contempt for something someone else said, it's disrespect.", ">\n\nWhat if what they said is contemptible?", ">\n\nSome people and comments deserve disrespect, still gonna be disrespect", ">\n\nLaughing, crying, and sneezing are all innate, involuntary reactions to certain types of stimuli. Rolling your eyes is a learned behavior. You can’t compare it to those other automatic responses because it’s not the same thing.", ">\n\nTake my upvote", ">\n\nOP rolled their eyes at someone and got chewed out for it.\nNow they're going online in an attempt to validate themselves.\n🙄", ">\n\nProbably got grounded.", ">\n\nPart of being a mature adult is to have self-control and not acting on every impulse and being respectful of people.", ">\n\n\nPart of being a mature adult\n\nYup but OP is clearly a teenager lol. They complain about being told off for doing chores wrong in another post…", ">\n\nEven a teenager should be able to have the fundamental basics of respect", ">\n\nOh I agree 100%", ">\n\nYou have poor self-control and poor self-awareness but the good news is that you can improve these things.", ">\n\n/r/wrongopinions", ">\n\nI feel like we need a new subreddit r/unpopularforareason", ">\n\nIt’s entire purpose is to be disrespectful. Nobody eyerolls something they respect. But how offensive it is depends on the context and how serious one is being.", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes\n\nYou rn: \"I'm not being disrespectful. I just thought what you said was stupid or lame.\"\n...", ">\n\nSaying its stupid could be disrespectful. A facial response is not.", ">\n\nLiterally every person in this thread agrees that it is.\nThis is your bad habit. Nobody else's responsibility but you.", ">\n\nThey can choose to not fly off the handle at what is just an innate reaction.", ">\n\nSo let me get this straight: you think you deserve to be able to disrespect whoever you like whenever you like but they can't as much as say you're being rude? Grow up.", ">\n\nFound the teenager.", ">\n\nMeh, I agree with that one. If you don't like how someone is doing something then do it yourself. There's a reason I live alone.", ">\n\nIt is a UNIVERSAL sign of disrespect. Globally. Deal with it.", ">\n\nLaughing can be disrespectuful too. If you cannot control your own reactions, well, what can I say, maybe you have not really grown up?", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s so it’s hard to control my own actions sometimes…", ">\n\nThank u I'm trying to explain how autism can make it hard to read not just others facial expressions but also ur own and it seems like no one has thought of the possibility that they acc don't realise it or csnt control it", ">\n\nWould you roll your eyes during a job interview if you thought a question was stupid or irrelevant? Do you think you’d get the job if you did?", ">\n\nPretty sure OP would think they were owed that job and they would think it’s ridiculous if they didn’t get it.\nOP is also a teenager going through their rebel phase though", ">\n\nYou're oddly specific here.", ">\n\nWhat was specific? Or rather oddly specific?", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a good way to fast track yourself to a divorce, if you want one.", ">\n\nI think OP needs the definition of respect before any further comment is made", ">\n\nOh I already know it, and I know it does not mean:\nDon't ever disagree with me\nDon't think bad thoughts about me\nDon't ever correct me when I'm blatantly wrong \nShine my boots with your tongue", ">\n\nSoooo this post isn’t about eye rolling is what I’m getting from this. You’ve got issues to work through with your parents or partner or something", ">\n\nSince when tf was eye rolling involuntary?", ">", ">\n\nYour lack of self control is not a justification for disrespect. I personally dont know anyone who reacts to anything by rolling their eyes. Just be mature and communicate.", ">\n\nAnd what if it's not stupid and someone rolls their eyes? Wouldn't it be disrespectful in that case?", ">\n\nIn the eye rollers opinion then it must have been. But you can't fault someone for thinking its stupid.", ">\n\nSo eyerolling is some kind of exceptional thing that is free from criticism? \nIf one has the freedom to eye roll, then someone else has the freedom to criticize the eye roller right? \nOr is it your opinion that besides that everyone who sees an eye roller has to just stfu", ">\n\nMeh, it is disrespectful. It's a way to be disrespectful without having to say That's the dumbest thing I've heard all month, and everyone else who heard it is also dumber for hearing it as well.", ">\n\nBut I didn't say it that's the point.", ">\n\nJust cuz you don’t use words doesn’t mean it’s not disrespectful. Walking away while someone is talking to you, rolling your eyes, slapping someone, and starting to play a game on your phone while someone is talking to you are all disrespectful. It doesn’t matter that you didn’t say anything, your lack of respect still showed.", ">\n\nespecially the way theyre responding to comments", ">\n\nYeah, a natural reaction if you’ve never learned to manage your emotions as opposed to letting them run your life. I’m not talking about being totally monotone rational, either. You need to learn a balance between rational and emotional…which includes healthy, appropriate, respectful expression of honest feelings. Eye rolling is absolutely disrespectful, belittling, and dismissive.", ">\n\nComments: OP is completely wrong and has attitude issues", ">\n\nWhat sounds like mental illness is you refusing to admit that rolling your eyes is simply not an unconditional response. Whether you want to believe it or not, you are doing it intentionally and you can control it. \nYou’re just to much of a b—— to do so.", ">\n\nSame to you", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a learned reaction. Not natural. I rarely of ever roll my eyes at anything.", ">", ">\n\nJust like raising your middle finger. Or vocalizing the sounds \"fuck you\". Or fingers typing the words fuck you OP. Nothing is disrespectful!", ">\n\nNice try but not the same thing at all. You're talking about thought out actions here. The eye roll is more like a reaction. Its quick, its automatic, no one has to think \"im rolling my eyes now\" it just happens. \nSort of like when telling a lie - no one decides to have their eyes dart around suspiciously, it just happens.", ">\n\nNo. Rolling your eyes is not involuntary. It can be controlled. You have a bad habit that you CAN stop. Much like a child learning not to suck their thumb, or biting your nails.", ">\n\nHow about you start with your hair scratching", ">\n\nYour opinion is a contradiction in itself. And, yeah. I disagree. Rolling your eyes is 100% to show lack of respect, and you have no intentions of showing it, even to reason, by rolling your eyes at something someone could believe is meaningful or important. Even if it is stupid.\nI get your point, we roll our eyes to express how we feel, but it is still a physical snare. You say rolling your eyes isn't disrespectful, while saying it's okay to roll your eyes because something is \" stupid or lame\", which in itself is disrespectful. You sound like a very young person in the middle of a learning moment, and you're trying to react with rebellion. It only shows that you lack maturity and are in need of growth. This might be a time for you to read these comments and reevaluate. There are healthier ways to react to things you disagree with, or lack interest in. If not, you can just accept that you roll your eyes to show lack of respect.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is much more deliberate than laughter, tears, or sneezing. It's a conscious action in response to a judgement you're making.", ">\n\nNah, dude it is disrespectful \nYou just have no self control and by the looks of it you don't want to build some", ">\n\nYour post made me roll my eyes very hard.", ">\n\n“No, officer, my wife - she MADE me hit her!”", ">\n\nIt's a natural reaction for a sooky kid but not an adult, if you do that as an adult you just manchild that wants everything their way", ">\n\npoor OP.... did you get in trouble after you rolled your eyes at something again? did you not prehaps learn from previous interactions? rolling your eyes at something \"stupid or lame\" is an intentional response that is disrespectful to whatever it is. mature people dont act that way.....", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes.\n\nSo it is disrespectful. \n\nIts like throwing pepper in someone's face an expecting them not to sneeze.\n\nNo it’s not. You can easily (edited in) refrain from rolling your eyes, while it’s much more difficult to refrain from sneezing. \nIt’s fine to think whatever you want, but you might want to refrain from rolling your eyes when you’re, say, interacting with your boss; aka someone that can make you unemployed for whatever reason they please.", ">\n\nThis isn't an opinion. It's just flat wrong. \nIt is disrespectful because it is a conscious signifier which clearly communicated that you think that the thing you are rolling your eyes at is not worthy of respect.", ">\n\nYou have to go out of your way to roll your eyes. It is NOT gutteral or instinctual", ">\n\nIf you annoy me, my arm whips out in a natural reaction and slaps you.", ">\n\nSorry, kiddo, it’s 100% disrespectful. Just own the shit and quit trying to lawyer around it.\nI say that after having rolled my eyes so hard at your post, I travelled back in time.", ">\n\nTell that to my family lol you get the belt", ">\n\nThis was made my a 15 year old who just got told off by their mom about rolling their eyes. Then in defense said, “I can’t control it”", ">\n\nMan it's getting so aggressive sometimes here 😂", ">\n\ni certainly hope you are embarrassed about this in a couple years when you grow up.", ">\n\nOP is a habitual eye roller 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄", ">\n\nI wish to God we could block people by age, no more edgy 13yo’s", ">\n\nSomebody just got their ps5 taken away for rolling their eyes", ">\n\nTell me you're 12 without telling me you're 12.", ">\n\nit’s the definition of disrespectful and a sign that you have literally nothing intelligent to say in return. \nwhich is why we outgrow it as adults.", ">\n\nYou can control it. It’s not an “automatic response” unless you’ve taught yourself to do it. I never roll my eyes. It’s just not something I have ever practiced doing. And yes…if I’m saying something too you and you dismiss it with an eye roll…it’s super disrespectful.", ">\n\nrolling your eyes is just as respectful as sticking your tongue out at someone or making a stupid face in reaction to something someone says", ">\n\nIf you can’t control your eye movement, you need to see a neurologist, dude 😆. As it stands, eye rolling isn’t a reflex or a “natural reaction” to anything. Habits aren’t the same as involuntary reactions.\nRolling your eyes at someone is disrespectful. It’s an outward sign that you think something about your interaction with them was stupid or wrong. There’s no one here that will agree with you, and you know that you’re in the vast minority with this opinion because you posted it on this sub. Now learn some humility and accept that your opinion is factually incorrect based on science.", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nAre you like 14 and your mom got you in trouble cause you rolled your eyes at her? Lmao", ">\n\nI’m gonna show your mom this and it’s going to be another week of being grounded, you little shit lol", ">\n\nOmfg 😂", ">\n\nOP I have to ask.\n\n\nHow old are you?\n\n\nHow is your relationship with your parents?\n\n\nHow do you view authority figures in your life?", ">\n\nrolls eyes", ">\n\nIf you say or demand something stupid from me I will probably roll my eyes.", ">\n\nBut it is", ">\n\nJust like rolling your eyes is an innate response, so are other people's responses to you rolling your eyes.", ">\n\nSometimes being respectful requires hiding your subjective opinion on whether something is stupid or lame.", ">\n\nI wouldn’t say eye rolling is as involuntary as laughing or crying tho. It’s more of a choice.", ">\n\nIf someone rolls their eyes then I feel disrespected it’s a natural reaction.", ">\n\ntell me you're a teenager without telling me you're a teenager", ">\n\nI'm rolling my eyes at this post. And I definitely mean it disrespectfully.", ">\n\nLmao this kid had an argument with his parent(s) or teacher and is venting on Reddit.", ">\n\nYou sound like an eye rolling arsehole", ">\n\ni have never had an as a nonvoulentary action, it requires very explicit movement of you eye. this is like saying “when i dont like people, i punch them in the head, thats my natural reaction i cant control it”\ni have never once legitimately rolled my eyes at something, i think you might be an asshole", ">\n\nMe smacking your face is also an innate uncontrollable response to you rolling your eyes. I'm only human. What can I do? 🙄", ">\n\nI disagree. also there are a billion other ways to express something being stupid or lame than rolling ur eyes", ">\n\nStop downvoting, this is ACTUALLY a very unpopular opinion and I love to see it tbh. Voice your disagreement in the comments but don't downvote the post. This post is hilarious.", ">\n\nThis is something you’ve learned to do. It’s entirely in your control if you do it or not.", ">\n\nI once got a detention for rolling my eyes at a teacher in 4th grade.\nI agree with you, though. The only other person I've ever really rolled my eyes at was my mother, and she deserved it, every single time.", ">\n\nI get your point. I absolutely purposefully roll my eyes sometimes and whoever I'm doing it to would be valid for getting mad. \nBut as someone who can't hide any emotion on their face (literally any, I'm the definition of an open book) there have been plenty of times where people blew up at me or laughed because I rolled my eyes when I didn't even realize I had done it. Feel like the people disagreeing with you haven't experienced this problem.", ">\n\nWhat you've done is cultivate a bad habit and then blamed it on everyone else when you repeat your own bad habit unintentionally.\nThis is entirely your fault.", ">\n\nOnly on Reddit would someone so boldly declare something like this to a stranger. I'm on the spectrum so that might have to do with my not being able to hide any emotion (I truly mean that, people can basically read my thoughts just by looking at me, good and bad). \nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave. Consider working on that.", ">\n\nSo they point out you’re cultivating a bad habit and blaming other people so you then, blame them? It’s a little spot on don’t you think?", ">\n\nWhen did i blame them for my own actions? Could you quote me? I was just pointing out how weird it was that they made such a strong assumption of my character off a causal comment I left when they themselves were ironically being unnecessarily rude in the process. \nI don't know how you got so lost?", ">\n\n\nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave.\n\nClassic deflection and implication that they’re the one with the problem, not you", ">\n\nFirst its not automatic. I almost never rolled my eyes. Its much easier to control than laughing crying or sneezing. So you just dont make the effort. Its actually a way to express your feeling. You should know that, its your personnality not a human instinctive reaction. \nAnd yes not respecting something is disrespectful. Its not that hard to understand. \nAnyway if i see you.. i dont know having a breakdown after being fired and dumped and start to laugh you'd like that ? \nIf im sad because something good happens to you and show it to you, you would like that ? \nHonestly you are just trying to justify being a bit of a jerk. \nI dont blame you or anything we all are jerks sometime but its what you are doing right now.", ">\n\nI have to refocus my eyes and most of the time blinking doesn’t cut it. I have a lazy eye and when I look at someone for a long time it unfocuses, so moving the muscle is the only way to reset it. If I don’t, people start moving their heads/ bodies trying to focus on my lazy eye. It gets awkward.", ">\n\nThis is where I go to my training as a kid. What others think of you is none of your business.", ">\n\nUnless you have a tick or something like Tourette’s syndrome, then it’s not an involuntary response. Part of living in a society and not being considered rude is managing your body language.\nLet me put it this way. “Rudeness” in itself is a social concept. That means it’s decided by the perception of the masses, what we generally agree upon in terms of our symbols of communication, our customs, our beliefs, our values, etc. For you to say that rolling your eyes isn’t disrespectful is not objectively wrong. But according to the society you live in, it is wrong. In layman’s terms, the hill you’re dying on here is completely arbitrary, neither side will ever be truly correct but as long as you live in a society which feels this way then you will be beholden to it anyways.", ">\n\nTo be fair, if your thinking its stupid or lame, then that is dis-respect. I'd agree with this if it was worded like 'More people need to say what they truly think', but I think you sort of missed the mark, OP.", ">\n\nI am equally annoyed when folks rapidly blink and look away mid conversation or drop their arm dead against their thigh. It’s like you’ve given up an effort to even keep your body vertical and engaged while I’m talking to you.", ">\n\nOP getting downvoted AF & keeps commenting. Gotta love it.", ">\n\nIt is shown as a sign of disrespect and it shows weakness. I can’t imagine Gandhi, the queen of England or Einstein roll their eyes in front of random people. The reason why they were respected is because they didn’t play any superiority game on front of… inferiors or ignorant people. If something is stupid, get the patience and find enough love within yourself to treat the other ones right. \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a child because his question is “stupid”, what parent does it make you ? \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a bad question because you are an expert in a subject, then it is not your modesty that speaks but your ego. For proof : Even if someone you hate said something intelligent, you might want to roll your eyes just to flatter your ego.", ">\n\nIt's seen as disrespectful BECAUSE it's inadvertently telling them you think they're irritating/annoying.", ">\n\nI never roll my eyes? Is that something people do naturally?", ">\n\nAll depends on the context of what is going on.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is not a natural reaction?", ">\n\nNot maintaining basic self control is disrespectful. It's the same reason we don't defecate in public, sneeze on people, or stand in the way of foot traffic.", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s and one of my tics is eye rolling", ">\n\nK", ">\n\nI accidentally roll my eyes at people sometimes when I'm not even trying to", ">\n\nThe sign of a true unpopular opinion: Nobody upvoting it, but everybody commenting to say how they disagree. If you disagree, then give it an upvote. That's the point of this sub.", ">\n\nI think it depends.", ">\n\nThis had to be written by someone under the age of 25", ">\n\nRolling your eyes isn’t natural though. It’s cultural or socially learned if that makes sense. Like if you rolled your eyes at a tribe that is disconnected from society they wouldn’t understand that you’re annoyed. So you cant really compare it to laughing.", ">\n\nI'm kind of curious if this is true though. Are you assuming this, or do you have some kind of study proving this? I'd actually like to see if your hypothesis is true, or if remote tribes also use this facial gesture.", ">\n\nI’m assuming it. Back in my country Turkey if you rolled your eyes at my grandparents they would be confused and wonder what you were doing and what it meant.", ">\n\nit's a maturity thing, keep rolling your eyes at 30-40, everyone gonna see you like a kid. \nyou gotta control your emotions, there's no need to do a expression when something is stupid or lame, you got a mouth and you respectfully share what's wrong, if the person in the other end is reluctant to stay on the same boat even after you talk about it. then you don't roll your eyes, you gotta say that there's nothing more you can do, and that you don't agree with it, and most likely leave to dodge any sort of problem.", ">\n\nI have a tic where I constantly roll my eyes. I’ve had it since I was little, but never noticed it until years later when I high school teacher yelled at me for disrespect. Apparently my parents took me for evaluation when I was very young and diagnosed Tourette’s but never had any other tics develop. Would have been nice to know 🤦🏼‍♀️ I just apologize now and say it’s a compulsion if people ask. I don’t even know when I’m doing it", ">\n\nIs laughing disrespectful? Because it can be. Just like rolling your eyes can be. There is a time and place for everything", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a passive aggressive response. Passive aggression is a tactic used by meek people who are frustrated and don’t have the courage to address a given situation. It’s disrespectful and it lowers your standing in the social hierarchy.", ">\n\nGet back to me when Disney Dad actively encourages your offspring to roll their eyes at you.", ">\n\nYeah it is when I want to be disrespectful to someone I roll my eyes when they make a point. It might be annoying to them, but it also let's them know I don't give a shit about whatever they just said. Now, I would never to it to my boss, or my teachers while I was in college, but when I was a teen I did it all the time because I was an asshole, who didn't care. \nIt's not a natural reaction lmao, it is learned behavior and it can be a bad habit, but it can be unlearned.", ">\n\nSome people can’t control it I know with me sometimes I roll my eyes without meaning too it’s not that I’m trying to be rude it’s just something I didn’t even realize I was doing nor did I mean too", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nI have a friend who thinks like you do, which is based on your responses to the comments. He has very poor social skills and is on the autism spectrum", ">\n\nI bet you're lots of fun at parties OP.", ">\n\nI can’t tell if this is farming karma with ridiculous opinions or if this individual just has a really hard time understanding that maybe their parents aren’t always the bad guys.", ">\n\nYep, thats definitely an unpopular opinion! \nIts certainly disrespectful. And most certainly not some sort of involuntary response like a sneeze. It may feel that way to you, because you've done it so much - but there are plenty of people who don't do it. UNLIKE people who don't sneeze at pepper, or cough at dust. Like, you're just plain wrong on this one. Moreover, I think you're trying to justify/rationalize it yourself rather than address it in a healthy way - a marker suggesting you have some narcissistic tendencies.", ">\n\nWhat a stupid argument, take your upvote", ">\n\nIt’s a sign of contempt. The facial expression expert Dr. Eikman could predict how long a barrage would last based on 4 expressions and the frequency used when the couple was interviewed. Eye rolling was one.. in fact you could remove the others and still reasonably predict marriage failures.", ">\n\nI wish it wasn’t disrespectful, because as an expressive person I LOVE a good eye roll. But, it has gotten me into trouble. I do it without even knowing it. I hate that I do… I wish sometimes I could be stone cold. Just like a fish. One expression face only. Blank fish eyes staring into nothingness.\nMy favourite mug says, “I can’t help what my face does when you talk”. There is a reason the the mug is meant to be cheeky.", ">\n\nSeems disrespectful to me because my eyes don't roll on their own, it would be a conscious act.", ">\n\nThis is 100% based on the premis that you can’t control your eyes. Rolling your eyes isn’t a natural movement. You control it.\nLaughing and crying aren’t necessarily controllable.", ">\n\nIn addition to this:\nfinding something somebody said stupid isnt disrespectful - makin fun in an exaggerated way, call em out in a mean way, or think everything they're gonna say next is bs is the disrespectful part.", ">\n\nSo your reaction is because you think someone is stupid, but thinking they are stupid isn't disrespectful?", ">\n\nThis, i agree with", ">\n\nGuess my mom didn't get the memo.", ">\n\nI don't think rolling your eyes is natural. I did wrong all the way up until last year. Thought you were supposed to make your eyes go in a circular motion 😂", ">\n\nFr. I may be able to control what I say…but my face will always show how I feel😂can’t help it and I’m tired of fake apologizing for it.", ">\n\nI don’t think rolling your eyes is a natural reaction the same way crying and laughing are. The only times I’ve rolled my eyes are when I intended to.", ">\n\nWhen my dad was/is drunk and angry he does it. Disrespectful and does not feel nice.", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nLol go to your room", ">\n\nWhat a dingbat. lol", ">\n\nNah it's kinda rude. Hardly the worst thing ever though. Sometimes though, people roll their eyes to actually think about what they are going to say, though; it's an important thing to distinguish.", ">\n\nI mean, its entire function as an expression is disrespect. that's literally the whole point of rolling your eyes. Natural instinct or not, it still implies disrespect.", ">\n\nI used to roll my eyes often because I have bad eyeshit, and doing it relieved eye strain. I couldn't tell you the amount of times this got me in shit.", ">\n\nLaughing, crying… both can be controlled to an extent. Eye rolls can 100% be controlled. They aren’t a reflex. If they are in your case you should seek medical attention", ">\n\nIf you roll your eyes as an involuntary reaction. Please see a doctor", ">\n\nyour right this is an unpopular opinion but for a good fucking reason you have no soldi ground to stand on in any argument on this", ">\n\nOp- \"just because it means something disrespectful doesn't mean I should get yelled for choosing to roll my eyes.\"", ">\n\nMaybe if your 10 and don't understand social cues. Context is a big part tho, if it's you and your friends goofing off, maybe it's tolerable to bash one another. If it's parents trying to have a serious convo and your just an idiot about it, then it's a problem.", ">\n\nwhat's popular isn't always right\nwhat's right isn't always popular\nyour opinion and the sub checkout OP, good job!", ">\n\nI agree it’s a pretty natural reaction when people or a given situation is unreasonable. The other options are usually to laugh or get angry. It’s even funnier when Karen’s get mad at it. Keeping a poker face at times just isn’t possible. I feel redeemed when someone being a unreasonable jackass and they get upset by my 🙄. Most people say nothing and I think accept it anyway.", ">", ">\n\nYou’ve convinced me", ">\n\nnah it's making e an active effort to use body language to convey your sentiment", ">\n\nThis reminds me of when I coached third grade volleyball and I told a girl not to roll her eyes and she said “I was born like that. I can’t help it.”", ">\n\ni would say the same thing.", ">\n\nIs an eye roll just looking up quickly in an exasperated manner or is it moving your view line around a cone?", ">\n\nwow an actual unpopular opinion. i don’t agree with it but good on you for actually having one on this sub.", ">\n\nIt is a reaction that takes thought and voluntary physicality to perform. \nIf you chose to roll your eyes you are saying to someone that you think less of them or their opinion. It is like shaking your head from side to side, or like wagging your finger from side to side, it is a reaction you can make but it is your choice to do so. \nThere is no environmental reason to roll your eyes:\n-When lightning strikes, you jump, you don't roll your eyes. \n-When you have pepper thrown in your face, you blink and might sneeze, you don't roll your eyes. \n-When you eat something really disgusting, you gag or vomit, you don't roll your eyes. \n-When you get punched hard in the face, you cry, you don't roll your eyes. \nYou could roll your eyes at any of these events. BUT that is a SARCASTIC response. Not a natural or normal response to an event. \nYou're just a loser who's trying to justify their shitty behaviour. Grow up and stop rolling your eyes, I personally haven't done that since I was a child.", ">\n\nI might be reading this entirely wrong, but are you maybe a teenager who is being told, repeatedly, that your number 1 duty is to respect your parents? \nBecause I was that teenager, and it sucked. No, I wasn't perfect, but you know who else wasn't perfect? My asshole father, and my mother who refused to stand up to his abuse. \nBut the thing is, when you are a kid, you only know what you've seen and experienced. You don't have a lot of context in life. I was told so many times that God required that I obey and respect my dad at all times, and in every way, and that it didn't matter how horrible he was, my God-ordained duty didn't change. I didn't know how wrong that whole framework was, so I would twist myself into these strange logical pretzels to convince myself that it was OK when I would stand up for myself or my sibling, instead of realizing that the entire framework was wrong.\nHere's an idea for you to chew on: rolling your eyes at someone is disrespectful and maybe that's not that big a deal. If someone is being an asshole, or abusive, maybe your level of respect isn't at all the central problem. \nAnother thought: you can be 100% right, and still suffer abuse. It's not fair, and it's not right, but it might be good to spend some time thinking about what battles are worth fighting and which ones aren't. It's not fair to ask a kid to be the mature one in a situation like this, but it might be something you need to work on for your own mental or physical safety. \nRemember that you will get away from this person. It sucks so fucking much but it does end. Stay strong." ]
> An eye-roll is a learned response, not a natural one. Dramatically breaking eye contact is always disrespectful.	[ "🙄", ">\n\nYou’re grounded now", ">\n\nThe post above was someone getting electrocuted so this reply was very timely", ">\n\nThis news is shocking", ">\n\nIt definitely SPARKED my interest", ">\n\nAll of you guys need to leave, and not come back before learning how to conduct yourselves properly", ">\n\nUhhhh....... electricity", ">\n\nWell no, in the right context it is disrespectful. Rolling your eyes suggests that you're not taking the matter seriously or that you dont care which is a sign of disrespect towards whoever is speaking with you.", ">\n\nBut I can't control what I think. If I said \"man you're stupid and I don't care what you say\" thats disrespectful. I'm actually showing respect by not saying it.", ">\n\nI mean, actions speak louder than words, right?", ">\n\nIts not really an action tho its just an automatic response. Like gasping or yawning.", ">\n\nbullshit.\nSorry, it was an automatic response. Which is bullshit just like yours.", ">\n\nStill not the same thing. And they get on me for false analogies....", ">\n\nYou must be a teenager", ">\n\nLol how many times are you gonna post that. Dont you have an original thought of your own?", ">\n\nBruh I cant believe you make these posts. They're foolish", ">\n\nLaughing at someone can be disrespectful. Don't think so? Try laughing at someone's funeral.", ">\n\nThe disrespect comes from the one who told me a joke and made me laugh.", ">\n\nWhat about if no one said any joke? Because, you know, you are at a funeral.", ">\n\nSo someone's just there randomly laughing at shit? That sounds like a mental illness.", ">\n\nYou have never thought of something funny in your head to make yourself laugh? \nOr hell, maybe you didn't like the person who is buried and decided to laugh at them. You find it funny, so laughing must be appropriate, right?", ">\n\nWhy am I thinking about funny shit at a funeral.", ">\n\nBecause the universe likes to put us in uncomfortable positions sometimes.", ">\n\n“if its stupid or lame, you roll your eyes” - you found the disrespect", ">\n\nIm allowed to think whatever i want and its not disrespectful.", ">\n\nWhen you express contempt for something someone else said, it's disrespect.", ">\n\nWhat if what they said is contemptible?", ">\n\nSome people and comments deserve disrespect, still gonna be disrespect", ">\n\nLaughing, crying, and sneezing are all innate, involuntary reactions to certain types of stimuli. Rolling your eyes is a learned behavior. You can’t compare it to those other automatic responses because it’s not the same thing.", ">\n\nTake my upvote", ">\n\nOP rolled their eyes at someone and got chewed out for it.\nNow they're going online in an attempt to validate themselves.\n🙄", ">\n\nProbably got grounded.", ">\n\nPart of being a mature adult is to have self-control and not acting on every impulse and being respectful of people.", ">\n\n\nPart of being a mature adult\n\nYup but OP is clearly a teenager lol. They complain about being told off for doing chores wrong in another post…", ">\n\nEven a teenager should be able to have the fundamental basics of respect", ">\n\nOh I agree 100%", ">\n\nYou have poor self-control and poor self-awareness but the good news is that you can improve these things.", ">\n\n/r/wrongopinions", ">\n\nI feel like we need a new subreddit r/unpopularforareason", ">\n\nIt’s entire purpose is to be disrespectful. Nobody eyerolls something they respect. But how offensive it is depends on the context and how serious one is being.", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes\n\nYou rn: \"I'm not being disrespectful. I just thought what you said was stupid or lame.\"\n...", ">\n\nSaying its stupid could be disrespectful. A facial response is not.", ">\n\nLiterally every person in this thread agrees that it is.\nThis is your bad habit. Nobody else's responsibility but you.", ">\n\nThey can choose to not fly off the handle at what is just an innate reaction.", ">\n\nSo let me get this straight: you think you deserve to be able to disrespect whoever you like whenever you like but they can't as much as say you're being rude? Grow up.", ">\n\nFound the teenager.", ">\n\nMeh, I agree with that one. If you don't like how someone is doing something then do it yourself. There's a reason I live alone.", ">\n\nIt is a UNIVERSAL sign of disrespect. Globally. Deal with it.", ">\n\nLaughing can be disrespectuful too. If you cannot control your own reactions, well, what can I say, maybe you have not really grown up?", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s so it’s hard to control my own actions sometimes…", ">\n\nThank u I'm trying to explain how autism can make it hard to read not just others facial expressions but also ur own and it seems like no one has thought of the possibility that they acc don't realise it or csnt control it", ">\n\nWould you roll your eyes during a job interview if you thought a question was stupid or irrelevant? Do you think you’d get the job if you did?", ">\n\nPretty sure OP would think they were owed that job and they would think it’s ridiculous if they didn’t get it.\nOP is also a teenager going through their rebel phase though", ">\n\nYou're oddly specific here.", ">\n\nWhat was specific? Or rather oddly specific?", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a good way to fast track yourself to a divorce, if you want one.", ">\n\nI think OP needs the definition of respect before any further comment is made", ">\n\nOh I already know it, and I know it does not mean:\nDon't ever disagree with me\nDon't think bad thoughts about me\nDon't ever correct me when I'm blatantly wrong \nShine my boots with your tongue", ">\n\nSoooo this post isn’t about eye rolling is what I’m getting from this. You’ve got issues to work through with your parents or partner or something", ">\n\nSince when tf was eye rolling involuntary?", ">", ">\n\nYour lack of self control is not a justification for disrespect. I personally dont know anyone who reacts to anything by rolling their eyes. Just be mature and communicate.", ">\n\nAnd what if it's not stupid and someone rolls their eyes? Wouldn't it be disrespectful in that case?", ">\n\nIn the eye rollers opinion then it must have been. But you can't fault someone for thinking its stupid.", ">\n\nSo eyerolling is some kind of exceptional thing that is free from criticism? \nIf one has the freedom to eye roll, then someone else has the freedom to criticize the eye roller right? \nOr is it your opinion that besides that everyone who sees an eye roller has to just stfu", ">\n\nMeh, it is disrespectful. It's a way to be disrespectful without having to say That's the dumbest thing I've heard all month, and everyone else who heard it is also dumber for hearing it as well.", ">\n\nBut I didn't say it that's the point.", ">\n\nJust cuz you don’t use words doesn’t mean it’s not disrespectful. Walking away while someone is talking to you, rolling your eyes, slapping someone, and starting to play a game on your phone while someone is talking to you are all disrespectful. It doesn’t matter that you didn’t say anything, your lack of respect still showed.", ">\n\nespecially the way theyre responding to comments", ">\n\nYeah, a natural reaction if you’ve never learned to manage your emotions as opposed to letting them run your life. I’m not talking about being totally monotone rational, either. You need to learn a balance between rational and emotional…which includes healthy, appropriate, respectful expression of honest feelings. Eye rolling is absolutely disrespectful, belittling, and dismissive.", ">\n\nComments: OP is completely wrong and has attitude issues", ">\n\nWhat sounds like mental illness is you refusing to admit that rolling your eyes is simply not an unconditional response. Whether you want to believe it or not, you are doing it intentionally and you can control it. \nYou’re just to much of a b—— to do so.", ">\n\nSame to you", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a learned reaction. Not natural. I rarely of ever roll my eyes at anything.", ">", ">\n\nJust like raising your middle finger. Or vocalizing the sounds \"fuck you\". Or fingers typing the words fuck you OP. Nothing is disrespectful!", ">\n\nNice try but not the same thing at all. You're talking about thought out actions here. The eye roll is more like a reaction. Its quick, its automatic, no one has to think \"im rolling my eyes now\" it just happens. \nSort of like when telling a lie - no one decides to have their eyes dart around suspiciously, it just happens.", ">\n\nNo. Rolling your eyes is not involuntary. It can be controlled. You have a bad habit that you CAN stop. Much like a child learning not to suck their thumb, or biting your nails.", ">\n\nHow about you start with your hair scratching", ">\n\nYour opinion is a contradiction in itself. And, yeah. I disagree. Rolling your eyes is 100% to show lack of respect, and you have no intentions of showing it, even to reason, by rolling your eyes at something someone could believe is meaningful or important. Even if it is stupid.\nI get your point, we roll our eyes to express how we feel, but it is still a physical snare. You say rolling your eyes isn't disrespectful, while saying it's okay to roll your eyes because something is \" stupid or lame\", which in itself is disrespectful. You sound like a very young person in the middle of a learning moment, and you're trying to react with rebellion. It only shows that you lack maturity and are in need of growth. This might be a time for you to read these comments and reevaluate. There are healthier ways to react to things you disagree with, or lack interest in. If not, you can just accept that you roll your eyes to show lack of respect.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is much more deliberate than laughter, tears, or sneezing. It's a conscious action in response to a judgement you're making.", ">\n\nNah, dude it is disrespectful \nYou just have no self control and by the looks of it you don't want to build some", ">\n\nYour post made me roll my eyes very hard.", ">\n\n“No, officer, my wife - she MADE me hit her!”", ">\n\nIt's a natural reaction for a sooky kid but not an adult, if you do that as an adult you just manchild that wants everything their way", ">\n\npoor OP.... did you get in trouble after you rolled your eyes at something again? did you not prehaps learn from previous interactions? rolling your eyes at something \"stupid or lame\" is an intentional response that is disrespectful to whatever it is. mature people dont act that way.....", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes.\n\nSo it is disrespectful. \n\nIts like throwing pepper in someone's face an expecting them not to sneeze.\n\nNo it’s not. You can easily (edited in) refrain from rolling your eyes, while it’s much more difficult to refrain from sneezing. \nIt’s fine to think whatever you want, but you might want to refrain from rolling your eyes when you’re, say, interacting with your boss; aka someone that can make you unemployed for whatever reason they please.", ">\n\nThis isn't an opinion. It's just flat wrong. \nIt is disrespectful because it is a conscious signifier which clearly communicated that you think that the thing you are rolling your eyes at is not worthy of respect.", ">\n\nYou have to go out of your way to roll your eyes. It is NOT gutteral or instinctual", ">\n\nIf you annoy me, my arm whips out in a natural reaction and slaps you.", ">\n\nSorry, kiddo, it’s 100% disrespectful. Just own the shit and quit trying to lawyer around it.\nI say that after having rolled my eyes so hard at your post, I travelled back in time.", ">\n\nTell that to my family lol you get the belt", ">\n\nThis was made my a 15 year old who just got told off by their mom about rolling their eyes. Then in defense said, “I can’t control it”", ">\n\nMan it's getting so aggressive sometimes here 😂", ">\n\ni certainly hope you are embarrassed about this in a couple years when you grow up.", ">\n\nOP is a habitual eye roller 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄", ">\n\nI wish to God we could block people by age, no more edgy 13yo’s", ">\n\nSomebody just got their ps5 taken away for rolling their eyes", ">\n\nTell me you're 12 without telling me you're 12.", ">\n\nit’s the definition of disrespectful and a sign that you have literally nothing intelligent to say in return. \nwhich is why we outgrow it as adults.", ">\n\nYou can control it. It’s not an “automatic response” unless you’ve taught yourself to do it. I never roll my eyes. It’s just not something I have ever practiced doing. And yes…if I’m saying something too you and you dismiss it with an eye roll…it’s super disrespectful.", ">\n\nrolling your eyes is just as respectful as sticking your tongue out at someone or making a stupid face in reaction to something someone says", ">\n\nIf you can’t control your eye movement, you need to see a neurologist, dude 😆. As it stands, eye rolling isn’t a reflex or a “natural reaction” to anything. Habits aren’t the same as involuntary reactions.\nRolling your eyes at someone is disrespectful. It’s an outward sign that you think something about your interaction with them was stupid or wrong. There’s no one here that will agree with you, and you know that you’re in the vast minority with this opinion because you posted it on this sub. Now learn some humility and accept that your opinion is factually incorrect based on science.", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nAre you like 14 and your mom got you in trouble cause you rolled your eyes at her? Lmao", ">\n\nI’m gonna show your mom this and it’s going to be another week of being grounded, you little shit lol", ">\n\nOmfg 😂", ">\n\nOP I have to ask.\n\n\nHow old are you?\n\n\nHow is your relationship with your parents?\n\n\nHow do you view authority figures in your life?", ">\n\nrolls eyes", ">\n\nIf you say or demand something stupid from me I will probably roll my eyes.", ">\n\nBut it is", ">\n\nJust like rolling your eyes is an innate response, so are other people's responses to you rolling your eyes.", ">\n\nSometimes being respectful requires hiding your subjective opinion on whether something is stupid or lame.", ">\n\nI wouldn’t say eye rolling is as involuntary as laughing or crying tho. It’s more of a choice.", ">\n\nIf someone rolls their eyes then I feel disrespected it’s a natural reaction.", ">\n\ntell me you're a teenager without telling me you're a teenager", ">\n\nI'm rolling my eyes at this post. And I definitely mean it disrespectfully.", ">\n\nLmao this kid had an argument with his parent(s) or teacher and is venting on Reddit.", ">\n\nYou sound like an eye rolling arsehole", ">\n\ni have never had an as a nonvoulentary action, it requires very explicit movement of you eye. this is like saying “when i dont like people, i punch them in the head, thats my natural reaction i cant control it”\ni have never once legitimately rolled my eyes at something, i think you might be an asshole", ">\n\nMe smacking your face is also an innate uncontrollable response to you rolling your eyes. I'm only human. What can I do? 🙄", ">\n\nI disagree. also there are a billion other ways to express something being stupid or lame than rolling ur eyes", ">\n\nStop downvoting, this is ACTUALLY a very unpopular opinion and I love to see it tbh. Voice your disagreement in the comments but don't downvote the post. This post is hilarious.", ">\n\nThis is something you’ve learned to do. It’s entirely in your control if you do it or not.", ">\n\nI once got a detention for rolling my eyes at a teacher in 4th grade.\nI agree with you, though. The only other person I've ever really rolled my eyes at was my mother, and she deserved it, every single time.", ">\n\nI get your point. I absolutely purposefully roll my eyes sometimes and whoever I'm doing it to would be valid for getting mad. \nBut as someone who can't hide any emotion on their face (literally any, I'm the definition of an open book) there have been plenty of times where people blew up at me or laughed because I rolled my eyes when I didn't even realize I had done it. Feel like the people disagreeing with you haven't experienced this problem.", ">\n\nWhat you've done is cultivate a bad habit and then blamed it on everyone else when you repeat your own bad habit unintentionally.\nThis is entirely your fault.", ">\n\nOnly on Reddit would someone so boldly declare something like this to a stranger. I'm on the spectrum so that might have to do with my not being able to hide any emotion (I truly mean that, people can basically read my thoughts just by looking at me, good and bad). \nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave. Consider working on that.", ">\n\nSo they point out you’re cultivating a bad habit and blaming other people so you then, blame them? It’s a little spot on don’t you think?", ">\n\nWhen did i blame them for my own actions? Could you quote me? I was just pointing out how weird it was that they made such a strong assumption of my character off a causal comment I left when they themselves were ironically being unnecessarily rude in the process. \nI don't know how you got so lost?", ">\n\n\nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave.\n\nClassic deflection and implication that they’re the one with the problem, not you", ">\n\nFirst its not automatic. I almost never rolled my eyes. Its much easier to control than laughing crying or sneezing. So you just dont make the effort. Its actually a way to express your feeling. You should know that, its your personnality not a human instinctive reaction. \nAnd yes not respecting something is disrespectful. Its not that hard to understand. \nAnyway if i see you.. i dont know having a breakdown after being fired and dumped and start to laugh you'd like that ? \nIf im sad because something good happens to you and show it to you, you would like that ? \nHonestly you are just trying to justify being a bit of a jerk. \nI dont blame you or anything we all are jerks sometime but its what you are doing right now.", ">\n\nI have to refocus my eyes and most of the time blinking doesn’t cut it. I have a lazy eye and when I look at someone for a long time it unfocuses, so moving the muscle is the only way to reset it. If I don’t, people start moving their heads/ bodies trying to focus on my lazy eye. It gets awkward.", ">\n\nThis is where I go to my training as a kid. What others think of you is none of your business.", ">\n\nUnless you have a tick or something like Tourette’s syndrome, then it’s not an involuntary response. Part of living in a society and not being considered rude is managing your body language.\nLet me put it this way. “Rudeness” in itself is a social concept. That means it’s decided by the perception of the masses, what we generally agree upon in terms of our symbols of communication, our customs, our beliefs, our values, etc. For you to say that rolling your eyes isn’t disrespectful is not objectively wrong. But according to the society you live in, it is wrong. In layman’s terms, the hill you’re dying on here is completely arbitrary, neither side will ever be truly correct but as long as you live in a society which feels this way then you will be beholden to it anyways.", ">\n\nTo be fair, if your thinking its stupid or lame, then that is dis-respect. I'd agree with this if it was worded like 'More people need to say what they truly think', but I think you sort of missed the mark, OP.", ">\n\nI am equally annoyed when folks rapidly blink and look away mid conversation or drop their arm dead against their thigh. It’s like you’ve given up an effort to even keep your body vertical and engaged while I’m talking to you.", ">\n\nOP getting downvoted AF & keeps commenting. Gotta love it.", ">\n\nIt is shown as a sign of disrespect and it shows weakness. I can’t imagine Gandhi, the queen of England or Einstein roll their eyes in front of random people. The reason why they were respected is because they didn’t play any superiority game on front of… inferiors or ignorant people. If something is stupid, get the patience and find enough love within yourself to treat the other ones right. \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a child because his question is “stupid”, what parent does it make you ? \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a bad question because you are an expert in a subject, then it is not your modesty that speaks but your ego. For proof : Even if someone you hate said something intelligent, you might want to roll your eyes just to flatter your ego.", ">\n\nIt's seen as disrespectful BECAUSE it's inadvertently telling them you think they're irritating/annoying.", ">\n\nI never roll my eyes? Is that something people do naturally?", ">\n\nAll depends on the context of what is going on.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is not a natural reaction?", ">\n\nNot maintaining basic self control is disrespectful. It's the same reason we don't defecate in public, sneeze on people, or stand in the way of foot traffic.", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s and one of my tics is eye rolling", ">\n\nK", ">\n\nI accidentally roll my eyes at people sometimes when I'm not even trying to", ">\n\nThe sign of a true unpopular opinion: Nobody upvoting it, but everybody commenting to say how they disagree. If you disagree, then give it an upvote. That's the point of this sub.", ">\n\nI think it depends.", ">\n\nThis had to be written by someone under the age of 25", ">\n\nRolling your eyes isn’t natural though. It’s cultural or socially learned if that makes sense. Like if you rolled your eyes at a tribe that is disconnected from society they wouldn’t understand that you’re annoyed. So you cant really compare it to laughing.", ">\n\nI'm kind of curious if this is true though. Are you assuming this, or do you have some kind of study proving this? I'd actually like to see if your hypothesis is true, or if remote tribes also use this facial gesture.", ">\n\nI’m assuming it. Back in my country Turkey if you rolled your eyes at my grandparents they would be confused and wonder what you were doing and what it meant.", ">\n\nit's a maturity thing, keep rolling your eyes at 30-40, everyone gonna see you like a kid. \nyou gotta control your emotions, there's no need to do a expression when something is stupid or lame, you got a mouth and you respectfully share what's wrong, if the person in the other end is reluctant to stay on the same boat even after you talk about it. then you don't roll your eyes, you gotta say that there's nothing more you can do, and that you don't agree with it, and most likely leave to dodge any sort of problem.", ">\n\nI have a tic where I constantly roll my eyes. I’ve had it since I was little, but never noticed it until years later when I high school teacher yelled at me for disrespect. Apparently my parents took me for evaluation when I was very young and diagnosed Tourette’s but never had any other tics develop. Would have been nice to know 🤦🏼‍♀️ I just apologize now and say it’s a compulsion if people ask. I don’t even know when I’m doing it", ">\n\nIs laughing disrespectful? Because it can be. Just like rolling your eyes can be. There is a time and place for everything", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a passive aggressive response. Passive aggression is a tactic used by meek people who are frustrated and don’t have the courage to address a given situation. It’s disrespectful and it lowers your standing in the social hierarchy.", ">\n\nGet back to me when Disney Dad actively encourages your offspring to roll their eyes at you.", ">\n\nYeah it is when I want to be disrespectful to someone I roll my eyes when they make a point. It might be annoying to them, but it also let's them know I don't give a shit about whatever they just said. Now, I would never to it to my boss, or my teachers while I was in college, but when I was a teen I did it all the time because I was an asshole, who didn't care. \nIt's not a natural reaction lmao, it is learned behavior and it can be a bad habit, but it can be unlearned.", ">\n\nSome people can’t control it I know with me sometimes I roll my eyes without meaning too it’s not that I’m trying to be rude it’s just something I didn’t even realize I was doing nor did I mean too", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nI have a friend who thinks like you do, which is based on your responses to the comments. He has very poor social skills and is on the autism spectrum", ">\n\nI bet you're lots of fun at parties OP.", ">\n\nI can’t tell if this is farming karma with ridiculous opinions or if this individual just has a really hard time understanding that maybe their parents aren’t always the bad guys.", ">\n\nYep, thats definitely an unpopular opinion! \nIts certainly disrespectful. And most certainly not some sort of involuntary response like a sneeze. It may feel that way to you, because you've done it so much - but there are plenty of people who don't do it. UNLIKE people who don't sneeze at pepper, or cough at dust. Like, you're just plain wrong on this one. Moreover, I think you're trying to justify/rationalize it yourself rather than address it in a healthy way - a marker suggesting you have some narcissistic tendencies.", ">\n\nWhat a stupid argument, take your upvote", ">\n\nIt’s a sign of contempt. The facial expression expert Dr. Eikman could predict how long a barrage would last based on 4 expressions and the frequency used when the couple was interviewed. Eye rolling was one.. in fact you could remove the others and still reasonably predict marriage failures.", ">\n\nI wish it wasn’t disrespectful, because as an expressive person I LOVE a good eye roll. But, it has gotten me into trouble. I do it without even knowing it. I hate that I do… I wish sometimes I could be stone cold. Just like a fish. One expression face only. Blank fish eyes staring into nothingness.\nMy favourite mug says, “I can’t help what my face does when you talk”. There is a reason the the mug is meant to be cheeky.", ">\n\nSeems disrespectful to me because my eyes don't roll on their own, it would be a conscious act.", ">\n\nThis is 100% based on the premis that you can’t control your eyes. Rolling your eyes isn’t a natural movement. You control it.\nLaughing and crying aren’t necessarily controllable.", ">\n\nIn addition to this:\nfinding something somebody said stupid isnt disrespectful - makin fun in an exaggerated way, call em out in a mean way, or think everything they're gonna say next is bs is the disrespectful part.", ">\n\nSo your reaction is because you think someone is stupid, but thinking they are stupid isn't disrespectful?", ">\n\nThis, i agree with", ">\n\nGuess my mom didn't get the memo.", ">\n\nI don't think rolling your eyes is natural. I did wrong all the way up until last year. Thought you were supposed to make your eyes go in a circular motion 😂", ">\n\nFr. I may be able to control what I say…but my face will always show how I feel😂can’t help it and I’m tired of fake apologizing for it.", ">\n\nI don’t think rolling your eyes is a natural reaction the same way crying and laughing are. The only times I’ve rolled my eyes are when I intended to.", ">\n\nWhen my dad was/is drunk and angry he does it. Disrespectful and does not feel nice.", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nLol go to your room", ">\n\nWhat a dingbat. lol", ">\n\nNah it's kinda rude. Hardly the worst thing ever though. Sometimes though, people roll their eyes to actually think about what they are going to say, though; it's an important thing to distinguish.", ">\n\nI mean, its entire function as an expression is disrespect. that's literally the whole point of rolling your eyes. Natural instinct or not, it still implies disrespect.", ">\n\nI used to roll my eyes often because I have bad eyeshit, and doing it relieved eye strain. I couldn't tell you the amount of times this got me in shit.", ">\n\nLaughing, crying… both can be controlled to an extent. Eye rolls can 100% be controlled. They aren’t a reflex. If they are in your case you should seek medical attention", ">\n\nIf you roll your eyes as an involuntary reaction. Please see a doctor", ">\n\nyour right this is an unpopular opinion but for a good fucking reason you have no soldi ground to stand on in any argument on this", ">\n\nOp- \"just because it means something disrespectful doesn't mean I should get yelled for choosing to roll my eyes.\"", ">\n\nMaybe if your 10 and don't understand social cues. Context is a big part tho, if it's you and your friends goofing off, maybe it's tolerable to bash one another. If it's parents trying to have a serious convo and your just an idiot about it, then it's a problem.", ">\n\nwhat's popular isn't always right\nwhat's right isn't always popular\nyour opinion and the sub checkout OP, good job!", ">\n\nI agree it’s a pretty natural reaction when people or a given situation is unreasonable. The other options are usually to laugh or get angry. It’s even funnier when Karen’s get mad at it. Keeping a poker face at times just isn’t possible. I feel redeemed when someone being a unreasonable jackass and they get upset by my 🙄. Most people say nothing and I think accept it anyway.", ">", ">\n\nYou’ve convinced me", ">\n\nnah it's making e an active effort to use body language to convey your sentiment", ">\n\nThis reminds me of when I coached third grade volleyball and I told a girl not to roll her eyes and she said “I was born like that. I can’t help it.”", ">\n\ni would say the same thing.", ">\n\nIs an eye roll just looking up quickly in an exasperated manner or is it moving your view line around a cone?", ">\n\nwow an actual unpopular opinion. i don’t agree with it but good on you for actually having one on this sub.", ">\n\nIt is a reaction that takes thought and voluntary physicality to perform. \nIf you chose to roll your eyes you are saying to someone that you think less of them or their opinion. It is like shaking your head from side to side, or like wagging your finger from side to side, it is a reaction you can make but it is your choice to do so. \nThere is no environmental reason to roll your eyes:\n-When lightning strikes, you jump, you don't roll your eyes. \n-When you have pepper thrown in your face, you blink and might sneeze, you don't roll your eyes. \n-When you eat something really disgusting, you gag or vomit, you don't roll your eyes. \n-When you get punched hard in the face, you cry, you don't roll your eyes. \nYou could roll your eyes at any of these events. BUT that is a SARCASTIC response. Not a natural or normal response to an event. \nYou're just a loser who's trying to justify their shitty behaviour. Grow up and stop rolling your eyes, I personally haven't done that since I was a child.", ">\n\nI might be reading this entirely wrong, but are you maybe a teenager who is being told, repeatedly, that your number 1 duty is to respect your parents? \nBecause I was that teenager, and it sucked. No, I wasn't perfect, but you know who else wasn't perfect? My asshole father, and my mother who refused to stand up to his abuse. \nBut the thing is, when you are a kid, you only know what you've seen and experienced. You don't have a lot of context in life. I was told so many times that God required that I obey and respect my dad at all times, and in every way, and that it didn't matter how horrible he was, my God-ordained duty didn't change. I didn't know how wrong that whole framework was, so I would twist myself into these strange logical pretzels to convince myself that it was OK when I would stand up for myself or my sibling, instead of realizing that the entire framework was wrong.\nHere's an idea for you to chew on: rolling your eyes at someone is disrespectful and maybe that's not that big a deal. If someone is being an asshole, or abusive, maybe your level of respect isn't at all the central problem. \nAnother thought: you can be 100% right, and still suffer abuse. It's not fair, and it's not right, but it might be good to spend some time thinking about what battles are worth fighting and which ones aren't. It's not fair to ask a kid to be the mature one in a situation like this, but it might be something you need to work on for your own mental or physical safety. \nRemember that you will get away from this person. It sucks so fucking much but it does end. Stay strong.", ">\n\nAfter finishing your geometry hw try learning how to control your actions. You’re either a 14 year old girl or you act like one 😂" ]
> It is. Wdym?	[ "🙄", ">\n\nYou’re grounded now", ">\n\nThe post above was someone getting electrocuted so this reply was very timely", ">\n\nThis news is shocking", ">\n\nIt definitely SPARKED my interest", ">\n\nAll of you guys need to leave, and not come back before learning how to conduct yourselves properly", ">\n\nUhhhh....... electricity", ">\n\nWell no, in the right context it is disrespectful. Rolling your eyes suggests that you're not taking the matter seriously or that you dont care which is a sign of disrespect towards whoever is speaking with you.", ">\n\nBut I can't control what I think. If I said \"man you're stupid and I don't care what you say\" thats disrespectful. I'm actually showing respect by not saying it.", ">\n\nI mean, actions speak louder than words, right?", ">\n\nIts not really an action tho its just an automatic response. Like gasping or yawning.", ">\n\nbullshit.\nSorry, it was an automatic response. Which is bullshit just like yours.", ">\n\nStill not the same thing. And they get on me for false analogies....", ">\n\nYou must be a teenager", ">\n\nLol how many times are you gonna post that. Dont you have an original thought of your own?", ">\n\nBruh I cant believe you make these posts. They're foolish", ">\n\nLaughing at someone can be disrespectful. Don't think so? Try laughing at someone's funeral.", ">\n\nThe disrespect comes from the one who told me a joke and made me laugh.", ">\n\nWhat about if no one said any joke? Because, you know, you are at a funeral.", ">\n\nSo someone's just there randomly laughing at shit? That sounds like a mental illness.", ">\n\nYou have never thought of something funny in your head to make yourself laugh? \nOr hell, maybe you didn't like the person who is buried and decided to laugh at them. You find it funny, so laughing must be appropriate, right?", ">\n\nWhy am I thinking about funny shit at a funeral.", ">\n\nBecause the universe likes to put us in uncomfortable positions sometimes.", ">\n\n“if its stupid or lame, you roll your eyes” - you found the disrespect", ">\n\nIm allowed to think whatever i want and its not disrespectful.", ">\n\nWhen you express contempt for something someone else said, it's disrespect.", ">\n\nWhat if what they said is contemptible?", ">\n\nSome people and comments deserve disrespect, still gonna be disrespect", ">\n\nLaughing, crying, and sneezing are all innate, involuntary reactions to certain types of stimuli. Rolling your eyes is a learned behavior. You can’t compare it to those other automatic responses because it’s not the same thing.", ">\n\nTake my upvote", ">\n\nOP rolled their eyes at someone and got chewed out for it.\nNow they're going online in an attempt to validate themselves.\n🙄", ">\n\nProbably got grounded.", ">\n\nPart of being a mature adult is to have self-control and not acting on every impulse and being respectful of people.", ">\n\n\nPart of being a mature adult\n\nYup but OP is clearly a teenager lol. They complain about being told off for doing chores wrong in another post…", ">\n\nEven a teenager should be able to have the fundamental basics of respect", ">\n\nOh I agree 100%", ">\n\nYou have poor self-control and poor self-awareness but the good news is that you can improve these things.", ">\n\n/r/wrongopinions", ">\n\nI feel like we need a new subreddit r/unpopularforareason", ">\n\nIt’s entire purpose is to be disrespectful. Nobody eyerolls something they respect. But how offensive it is depends on the context and how serious one is being.", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes\n\nYou rn: \"I'm not being disrespectful. I just thought what you said was stupid or lame.\"\n...", ">\n\nSaying its stupid could be disrespectful. A facial response is not.", ">\n\nLiterally every person in this thread agrees that it is.\nThis is your bad habit. Nobody else's responsibility but you.", ">\n\nThey can choose to not fly off the handle at what is just an innate reaction.", ">\n\nSo let me get this straight: you think you deserve to be able to disrespect whoever you like whenever you like but they can't as much as say you're being rude? Grow up.", ">\n\nFound the teenager.", ">\n\nMeh, I agree with that one. If you don't like how someone is doing something then do it yourself. There's a reason I live alone.", ">\n\nIt is a UNIVERSAL sign of disrespect. Globally. Deal with it.", ">\n\nLaughing can be disrespectuful too. If you cannot control your own reactions, well, what can I say, maybe you have not really grown up?", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s so it’s hard to control my own actions sometimes…", ">\n\nThank u I'm trying to explain how autism can make it hard to read not just others facial expressions but also ur own and it seems like no one has thought of the possibility that they acc don't realise it or csnt control it", ">\n\nWould you roll your eyes during a job interview if you thought a question was stupid or irrelevant? Do you think you’d get the job if you did?", ">\n\nPretty sure OP would think they were owed that job and they would think it’s ridiculous if they didn’t get it.\nOP is also a teenager going through their rebel phase though", ">\n\nYou're oddly specific here.", ">\n\nWhat was specific? Or rather oddly specific?", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a good way to fast track yourself to a divorce, if you want one.", ">\n\nI think OP needs the definition of respect before any further comment is made", ">\n\nOh I already know it, and I know it does not mean:\nDon't ever disagree with me\nDon't think bad thoughts about me\nDon't ever correct me when I'm blatantly wrong \nShine my boots with your tongue", ">\n\nSoooo this post isn’t about eye rolling is what I’m getting from this. You’ve got issues to work through with your parents or partner or something", ">\n\nSince when tf was eye rolling involuntary?", ">", ">\n\nYour lack of self control is not a justification for disrespect. I personally dont know anyone who reacts to anything by rolling their eyes. Just be mature and communicate.", ">\n\nAnd what if it's not stupid and someone rolls their eyes? Wouldn't it be disrespectful in that case?", ">\n\nIn the eye rollers opinion then it must have been. But you can't fault someone for thinking its stupid.", ">\n\nSo eyerolling is some kind of exceptional thing that is free from criticism? \nIf one has the freedom to eye roll, then someone else has the freedom to criticize the eye roller right? \nOr is it your opinion that besides that everyone who sees an eye roller has to just stfu", ">\n\nMeh, it is disrespectful. It's a way to be disrespectful without having to say That's the dumbest thing I've heard all month, and everyone else who heard it is also dumber for hearing it as well.", ">\n\nBut I didn't say it that's the point.", ">\n\nJust cuz you don’t use words doesn’t mean it’s not disrespectful. Walking away while someone is talking to you, rolling your eyes, slapping someone, and starting to play a game on your phone while someone is talking to you are all disrespectful. It doesn’t matter that you didn’t say anything, your lack of respect still showed.", ">\n\nespecially the way theyre responding to comments", ">\n\nYeah, a natural reaction if you’ve never learned to manage your emotions as opposed to letting them run your life. I’m not talking about being totally monotone rational, either. You need to learn a balance between rational and emotional…which includes healthy, appropriate, respectful expression of honest feelings. Eye rolling is absolutely disrespectful, belittling, and dismissive.", ">\n\nComments: OP is completely wrong and has attitude issues", ">\n\nWhat sounds like mental illness is you refusing to admit that rolling your eyes is simply not an unconditional response. Whether you want to believe it or not, you are doing it intentionally and you can control it. \nYou’re just to much of a b—— to do so.", ">\n\nSame to you", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a learned reaction. Not natural. I rarely of ever roll my eyes at anything.", ">", ">\n\nJust like raising your middle finger. Or vocalizing the sounds \"fuck you\". Or fingers typing the words fuck you OP. Nothing is disrespectful!", ">\n\nNice try but not the same thing at all. You're talking about thought out actions here. The eye roll is more like a reaction. Its quick, its automatic, no one has to think \"im rolling my eyes now\" it just happens. \nSort of like when telling a lie - no one decides to have their eyes dart around suspiciously, it just happens.", ">\n\nNo. Rolling your eyes is not involuntary. It can be controlled. You have a bad habit that you CAN stop. Much like a child learning not to suck their thumb, or biting your nails.", ">\n\nHow about you start with your hair scratching", ">\n\nYour opinion is a contradiction in itself. And, yeah. I disagree. Rolling your eyes is 100% to show lack of respect, and you have no intentions of showing it, even to reason, by rolling your eyes at something someone could believe is meaningful or important. Even if it is stupid.\nI get your point, we roll our eyes to express how we feel, but it is still a physical snare. You say rolling your eyes isn't disrespectful, while saying it's okay to roll your eyes because something is \" stupid or lame\", which in itself is disrespectful. You sound like a very young person in the middle of a learning moment, and you're trying to react with rebellion. It only shows that you lack maturity and are in need of growth. This might be a time for you to read these comments and reevaluate. There are healthier ways to react to things you disagree with, or lack interest in. If not, you can just accept that you roll your eyes to show lack of respect.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is much more deliberate than laughter, tears, or sneezing. It's a conscious action in response to a judgement you're making.", ">\n\nNah, dude it is disrespectful \nYou just have no self control and by the looks of it you don't want to build some", ">\n\nYour post made me roll my eyes very hard.", ">\n\n“No, officer, my wife - she MADE me hit her!”", ">\n\nIt's a natural reaction for a sooky kid but not an adult, if you do that as an adult you just manchild that wants everything their way", ">\n\npoor OP.... did you get in trouble after you rolled your eyes at something again? did you not prehaps learn from previous interactions? rolling your eyes at something \"stupid or lame\" is an intentional response that is disrespectful to whatever it is. mature people dont act that way.....", ">\n\n\nIf its stupid or lame you roll your eyes.\n\nSo it is disrespectful. \n\nIts like throwing pepper in someone's face an expecting them not to sneeze.\n\nNo it’s not. You can easily (edited in) refrain from rolling your eyes, while it’s much more difficult to refrain from sneezing. \nIt’s fine to think whatever you want, but you might want to refrain from rolling your eyes when you’re, say, interacting with your boss; aka someone that can make you unemployed for whatever reason they please.", ">\n\nThis isn't an opinion. It's just flat wrong. \nIt is disrespectful because it is a conscious signifier which clearly communicated that you think that the thing you are rolling your eyes at is not worthy of respect.", ">\n\nYou have to go out of your way to roll your eyes. It is NOT gutteral or instinctual", ">\n\nIf you annoy me, my arm whips out in a natural reaction and slaps you.", ">\n\nSorry, kiddo, it’s 100% disrespectful. Just own the shit and quit trying to lawyer around it.\nI say that after having rolled my eyes so hard at your post, I travelled back in time.", ">\n\nTell that to my family lol you get the belt", ">\n\nThis was made my a 15 year old who just got told off by their mom about rolling their eyes. Then in defense said, “I can’t control it”", ">\n\nMan it's getting so aggressive sometimes here 😂", ">\n\ni certainly hope you are embarrassed about this in a couple years when you grow up.", ">\n\nOP is a habitual eye roller 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄", ">\n\nI wish to God we could block people by age, no more edgy 13yo’s", ">\n\nSomebody just got their ps5 taken away for rolling their eyes", ">\n\nTell me you're 12 without telling me you're 12.", ">\n\nit’s the definition of disrespectful and a sign that you have literally nothing intelligent to say in return. \nwhich is why we outgrow it as adults.", ">\n\nYou can control it. It’s not an “automatic response” unless you’ve taught yourself to do it. I never roll my eyes. It’s just not something I have ever practiced doing. And yes…if I’m saying something too you and you dismiss it with an eye roll…it’s super disrespectful.", ">\n\nrolling your eyes is just as respectful as sticking your tongue out at someone or making a stupid face in reaction to something someone says", ">\n\nIf you can’t control your eye movement, you need to see a neurologist, dude 😆. As it stands, eye rolling isn’t a reflex or a “natural reaction” to anything. Habits aren’t the same as involuntary reactions.\nRolling your eyes at someone is disrespectful. It’s an outward sign that you think something about your interaction with them was stupid or wrong. There’s no one here that will agree with you, and you know that you’re in the vast minority with this opinion because you posted it on this sub. Now learn some humility and accept that your opinion is factually incorrect based on science.", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nAre you like 14 and your mom got you in trouble cause you rolled your eyes at her? Lmao", ">\n\nI’m gonna show your mom this and it’s going to be another week of being grounded, you little shit lol", ">\n\nOmfg 😂", ">\n\nOP I have to ask.\n\n\nHow old are you?\n\n\nHow is your relationship with your parents?\n\n\nHow do you view authority figures in your life?", ">\n\nrolls eyes", ">\n\nIf you say or demand something stupid from me I will probably roll my eyes.", ">\n\nBut it is", ">\n\nJust like rolling your eyes is an innate response, so are other people's responses to you rolling your eyes.", ">\n\nSometimes being respectful requires hiding your subjective opinion on whether something is stupid or lame.", ">\n\nI wouldn’t say eye rolling is as involuntary as laughing or crying tho. It’s more of a choice.", ">\n\nIf someone rolls their eyes then I feel disrespected it’s a natural reaction.", ">\n\ntell me you're a teenager without telling me you're a teenager", ">\n\nI'm rolling my eyes at this post. And I definitely mean it disrespectfully.", ">\n\nLmao this kid had an argument with his parent(s) or teacher and is venting on Reddit.", ">\n\nYou sound like an eye rolling arsehole", ">\n\ni have never had an as a nonvoulentary action, it requires very explicit movement of you eye. this is like saying “when i dont like people, i punch them in the head, thats my natural reaction i cant control it”\ni have never once legitimately rolled my eyes at something, i think you might be an asshole", ">\n\nMe smacking your face is also an innate uncontrollable response to you rolling your eyes. I'm only human. What can I do? 🙄", ">\n\nI disagree. also there are a billion other ways to express something being stupid or lame than rolling ur eyes", ">\n\nStop downvoting, this is ACTUALLY a very unpopular opinion and I love to see it tbh. Voice your disagreement in the comments but don't downvote the post. This post is hilarious.", ">\n\nThis is something you’ve learned to do. It’s entirely in your control if you do it or not.", ">\n\nI once got a detention for rolling my eyes at a teacher in 4th grade.\nI agree with you, though. The only other person I've ever really rolled my eyes at was my mother, and she deserved it, every single time.", ">\n\nI get your point. I absolutely purposefully roll my eyes sometimes and whoever I'm doing it to would be valid for getting mad. \nBut as someone who can't hide any emotion on their face (literally any, I'm the definition of an open book) there have been plenty of times where people blew up at me or laughed because I rolled my eyes when I didn't even realize I had done it. Feel like the people disagreeing with you haven't experienced this problem.", ">\n\nWhat you've done is cultivate a bad habit and then blamed it on everyone else when you repeat your own bad habit unintentionally.\nThis is entirely your fault.", ">\n\nOnly on Reddit would someone so boldly declare something like this to a stranger. I'm on the spectrum so that might have to do with my not being able to hide any emotion (I truly mean that, people can basically read my thoughts just by looking at me, good and bad). \nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave. Consider working on that.", ">\n\nSo they point out you’re cultivating a bad habit and blaming other people so you then, blame them? It’s a little spot on don’t you think?", ">\n\nWhen did i blame them for my own actions? Could you quote me? I was just pointing out how weird it was that they made such a strong assumption of my character off a causal comment I left when they themselves were ironically being unnecessarily rude in the process. \nI don't know how you got so lost?", ">\n\n\nI think you've purposefully developed a bad habit of being rude to strangers based on assumptions you've made on causal comments they leave.\n\nClassic deflection and implication that they’re the one with the problem, not you", ">\n\nFirst its not automatic. I almost never rolled my eyes. Its much easier to control than laughing crying or sneezing. So you just dont make the effort. Its actually a way to express your feeling. You should know that, its your personnality not a human instinctive reaction. \nAnd yes not respecting something is disrespectful. Its not that hard to understand. \nAnyway if i see you.. i dont know having a breakdown after being fired and dumped and start to laugh you'd like that ? \nIf im sad because something good happens to you and show it to you, you would like that ? \nHonestly you are just trying to justify being a bit of a jerk. \nI dont blame you or anything we all are jerks sometime but its what you are doing right now.", ">\n\nI have to refocus my eyes and most of the time blinking doesn’t cut it. I have a lazy eye and when I look at someone for a long time it unfocuses, so moving the muscle is the only way to reset it. If I don’t, people start moving their heads/ bodies trying to focus on my lazy eye. It gets awkward.", ">\n\nThis is where I go to my training as a kid. What others think of you is none of your business.", ">\n\nUnless you have a tick or something like Tourette’s syndrome, then it’s not an involuntary response. Part of living in a society and not being considered rude is managing your body language.\nLet me put it this way. “Rudeness” in itself is a social concept. That means it’s decided by the perception of the masses, what we generally agree upon in terms of our symbols of communication, our customs, our beliefs, our values, etc. For you to say that rolling your eyes isn’t disrespectful is not objectively wrong. But according to the society you live in, it is wrong. In layman’s terms, the hill you’re dying on here is completely arbitrary, neither side will ever be truly correct but as long as you live in a society which feels this way then you will be beholden to it anyways.", ">\n\nTo be fair, if your thinking its stupid or lame, then that is dis-respect. I'd agree with this if it was worded like 'More people need to say what they truly think', but I think you sort of missed the mark, OP.", ">\n\nI am equally annoyed when folks rapidly blink and look away mid conversation or drop their arm dead against their thigh. It’s like you’ve given up an effort to even keep your body vertical and engaged while I’m talking to you.", ">\n\nOP getting downvoted AF & keeps commenting. Gotta love it.", ">\n\nIt is shown as a sign of disrespect and it shows weakness. I can’t imagine Gandhi, the queen of England or Einstein roll their eyes in front of random people. The reason why they were respected is because they didn’t play any superiority game on front of… inferiors or ignorant people. If something is stupid, get the patience and find enough love within yourself to treat the other ones right. \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a child because his question is “stupid”, what parent does it make you ? \nIf you roll your eyes in front of a bad question because you are an expert in a subject, then it is not your modesty that speaks but your ego. For proof : Even if someone you hate said something intelligent, you might want to roll your eyes just to flatter your ego.", ">\n\nIt's seen as disrespectful BECAUSE it's inadvertently telling them you think they're irritating/annoying.", ">\n\nI never roll my eyes? Is that something people do naturally?", ">\n\nAll depends on the context of what is going on.", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is not a natural reaction?", ">\n\nNot maintaining basic self control is disrespectful. It's the same reason we don't defecate in public, sneeze on people, or stand in the way of foot traffic.", ">\n\nI have Tourette’s and one of my tics is eye rolling", ">\n\nK", ">\n\nI accidentally roll my eyes at people sometimes when I'm not even trying to", ">\n\nThe sign of a true unpopular opinion: Nobody upvoting it, but everybody commenting to say how they disagree. If you disagree, then give it an upvote. That's the point of this sub.", ">\n\nI think it depends.", ">\n\nThis had to be written by someone under the age of 25", ">\n\nRolling your eyes isn’t natural though. It’s cultural or socially learned if that makes sense. Like if you rolled your eyes at a tribe that is disconnected from society they wouldn’t understand that you’re annoyed. So you cant really compare it to laughing.", ">\n\nI'm kind of curious if this is true though. Are you assuming this, or do you have some kind of study proving this? I'd actually like to see if your hypothesis is true, or if remote tribes also use this facial gesture.", ">\n\nI’m assuming it. Back in my country Turkey if you rolled your eyes at my grandparents they would be confused and wonder what you were doing and what it meant.", ">\n\nit's a maturity thing, keep rolling your eyes at 30-40, everyone gonna see you like a kid. \nyou gotta control your emotions, there's no need to do a expression when something is stupid or lame, you got a mouth and you respectfully share what's wrong, if the person in the other end is reluctant to stay on the same boat even after you talk about it. then you don't roll your eyes, you gotta say that there's nothing more you can do, and that you don't agree with it, and most likely leave to dodge any sort of problem.", ">\n\nI have a tic where I constantly roll my eyes. I’ve had it since I was little, but never noticed it until years later when I high school teacher yelled at me for disrespect. Apparently my parents took me for evaluation when I was very young and diagnosed Tourette’s but never had any other tics develop. Would have been nice to know 🤦🏼‍♀️ I just apologize now and say it’s a compulsion if people ask. I don’t even know when I’m doing it", ">\n\nIs laughing disrespectful? Because it can be. Just like rolling your eyes can be. There is a time and place for everything", ">\n\nRolling your eyes is a passive aggressive response. Passive aggression is a tactic used by meek people who are frustrated and don’t have the courage to address a given situation. It’s disrespectful and it lowers your standing in the social hierarchy.", ">\n\nGet back to me when Disney Dad actively encourages your offspring to roll their eyes at you.", ">\n\nYeah it is when I want to be disrespectful to someone I roll my eyes when they make a point. It might be annoying to them, but it also let's them know I don't give a shit about whatever they just said. Now, I would never to it to my boss, or my teachers while I was in college, but when I was a teen I did it all the time because I was an asshole, who didn't care. \nIt's not a natural reaction lmao, it is learned behavior and it can be a bad habit, but it can be unlearned.", ">\n\nSome people can’t control it I know with me sometimes I roll my eyes without meaning too it’s not that I’m trying to be rude it’s just something I didn’t even realize I was doing nor did I mean too", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nI have a friend who thinks like you do, which is based on your responses to the comments. He has very poor social skills and is on the autism spectrum", ">\n\nI bet you're lots of fun at parties OP.", ">\n\nI can’t tell if this is farming karma with ridiculous opinions or if this individual just has a really hard time understanding that maybe their parents aren’t always the bad guys.", ">\n\nYep, thats definitely an unpopular opinion! \nIts certainly disrespectful. And most certainly not some sort of involuntary response like a sneeze. It may feel that way to you, because you've done it so much - but there are plenty of people who don't do it. UNLIKE people who don't sneeze at pepper, or cough at dust. Like, you're just plain wrong on this one. Moreover, I think you're trying to justify/rationalize it yourself rather than address it in a healthy way - a marker suggesting you have some narcissistic tendencies.", ">\n\nWhat a stupid argument, take your upvote", ">\n\nIt’s a sign of contempt. The facial expression expert Dr. Eikman could predict how long a barrage would last based on 4 expressions and the frequency used when the couple was interviewed. Eye rolling was one.. in fact you could remove the others and still reasonably predict marriage failures.", ">\n\nI wish it wasn’t disrespectful, because as an expressive person I LOVE a good eye roll. But, it has gotten me into trouble. I do it without even knowing it. I hate that I do… I wish sometimes I could be stone cold. Just like a fish. One expression face only. Blank fish eyes staring into nothingness.\nMy favourite mug says, “I can’t help what my face does when you talk”. There is a reason the the mug is meant to be cheeky.", ">\n\nSeems disrespectful to me because my eyes don't roll on their own, it would be a conscious act.", ">\n\nThis is 100% based on the premis that you can’t control your eyes. Rolling your eyes isn’t a natural movement. You control it.\nLaughing and crying aren’t necessarily controllable.", ">\n\nIn addition to this:\nfinding something somebody said stupid isnt disrespectful - makin fun in an exaggerated way, call em out in a mean way, or think everything they're gonna say next is bs is the disrespectful part.", ">\n\nSo your reaction is because you think someone is stupid, but thinking they are stupid isn't disrespectful?", ">\n\nThis, i agree with", ">\n\nGuess my mom didn't get the memo.", ">\n\nI don't think rolling your eyes is natural. I did wrong all the way up until last year. Thought you were supposed to make your eyes go in a circular motion 😂", ">\n\nFr. I may be able to control what I say…but my face will always show how I feel😂can’t help it and I’m tired of fake apologizing for it.", ">\n\nI don’t think rolling your eyes is a natural reaction the same way crying and laughing are. The only times I’ve rolled my eyes are when I intended to.", ">\n\nWhen my dad was/is drunk and angry he does it. Disrespectful and does not feel nice.", ">\n\n🙄", ">\n\nLol go to your room", ">\n\nWhat a dingbat. lol", ">\n\nNah it's kinda rude. Hardly the worst thing ever though. Sometimes though, people roll their eyes to actually think about what they are going to say, though; it's an important thing to distinguish.", ">\n\nI mean, its entire function as an expression is disrespect. that's literally the whole point of rolling your eyes. Natural instinct or not, it still implies disrespect.", ">\n\nI used to roll my eyes often because I have bad eyeshit, and doing it relieved eye strain. I couldn't tell you the amount of times this got me in shit.", ">\n\nLaughing, crying… both can be controlled to an extent. Eye rolls can 100% be controlled. They aren’t a reflex. If they are in your case you should seek medical attention", ">\n\nIf you roll your eyes as an involuntary reaction. Please see a doctor", ">\n\nyour right this is an unpopular opinion but for a good fucking reason you have no soldi ground to stand on in any argument on this", ">\n\nOp- \"just because it means something disrespectful doesn't mean I should get yelled for choosing to roll my eyes.\"", ">\n\nMaybe if your 10 and don't understand social cues. Context is a big part tho, if it's you and your friends goofing off, maybe it's tolerable to bash one another. If it's parents trying to have a serious convo and your just an idiot about it, then it's a problem.", ">\n\nwhat's popular isn't always right\nwhat's right isn't always popular\nyour opinion and the sub checkout OP, good job!", ">\n\nI agree it’s a pretty natural reaction when people or a given situation is unreasonable. The other options are usually to laugh or get angry. It’s even funnier when Karen’s get mad at it. Keeping a poker face at times just isn’t possible. I feel redeemed when someone being a unreasonable jackass and they get upset by my 🙄. Most people say nothing and I think accept it anyway.", ">", ">\n\nYou’ve convinced me", ">\n\nnah it's making e an active effort to use body language to convey your sentiment", ">\n\nThis reminds me of when I coached third grade volleyball and I told a girl not to roll her eyes and she said “I was born like that. I can’t help it.”", ">\n\ni would say the same thing.", ">\n\nIs an eye roll just looking up quickly in an exasperated manner or is it moving your view line around a cone?", ">\n\nwow an actual unpopular opinion. i don’t agree with it but good on you for actually having one on this sub.", ">\n\nIt is a reaction that takes thought and voluntary physicality to perform. \nIf you chose to roll your eyes you are saying to someone that you think less of them or their opinion. It is like shaking your head from side to side, or like wagging your finger from side to side, it is a reaction you can make but it is your choice to do so. \nThere is no environmental reason to roll your eyes:\n-When lightning strikes, you jump, you don't roll your eyes. \n-When you have pepper thrown in your face, you blink and might sneeze, you don't roll your eyes. \n-When you eat something really disgusting, you gag or vomit, you don't roll your eyes. \n-When you get punched hard in the face, you cry, you don't roll your eyes. \nYou could roll your eyes at any of these events. BUT that is a SARCASTIC response. Not a natural or normal response to an event. \nYou're just a loser who's trying to justify their shitty behaviour. Grow up and stop rolling your eyes, I personally haven't done that since I was a child.", ">\n\nI might be reading this entirely wrong, but are you maybe a teenager who is being told, repeatedly, that your number 1 duty is to respect your parents? \nBecause I was that teenager, and it sucked. No, I wasn't perfect, but you know who else wasn't perfect? My asshole father, and my mother who refused to stand up to his abuse. \nBut the thing is, when you are a kid, you only know what you've seen and experienced. You don't have a lot of context in life. I was told so many times that God required that I obey and respect my dad at all times, and in every way, and that it didn't matter how horrible he was, my God-ordained duty didn't change. I didn't know how wrong that whole framework was, so I would twist myself into these strange logical pretzels to convince myself that it was OK when I would stand up for myself or my sibling, instead of realizing that the entire framework was wrong.\nHere's an idea for you to chew on: rolling your eyes at someone is disrespectful and maybe that's not that big a deal. If someone is being an asshole, or abusive, maybe your level of respect isn't at all the central problem. \nAnother thought: you can be 100% right, and still suffer abuse. It's not fair, and it's not right, but it might be good to spend some time thinking about what battles are worth fighting and which ones aren't. It's not fair to ask a kid to be the mature one in a situation like this, but it might be something you need to work on for your own mental or physical safety. \nRemember that you will get away from this person. It sucks so fucking much but it does end. Stay strong.", ">\n\nAfter finishing your geometry hw try learning how to control your actions. You’re either a 14 year old girl or you act like one 😂", ">\n\nAn eye-roll is a learned response, not a natural one. Dramatically breaking eye contact is always disrespectful." ]

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